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When John Adams and others wrote in the Declaration of Independence about “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness,” they were talking about the enlargement of the human experience through the life of the mind and the life of the spirit. by David McCullough

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JOHN ADAMS

When John Adams and others wrote in the Declaration of Independence about “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness,” what they meant by “happiness” wasn’t longer vacations or more material goods. They were talking about the enlargement of the human experience through the life of the mind and the life of the spirit.

I THINK THAT WE NEED HISTORY as much as we need bread or water or love. To make the point, I want to discuss a single human being and why we should know him. And the first thing I want to say about him is that he is an example of the transforming miracle of education. When he and others wrote in the Declaration of Independence about “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness,” what they meant by “happiness” wasn’t longer vacations or more material goods. They were talking about the enlargement of the human experience through the life of the mind and the life of the spirit. And they knew that the system of government they were setting up wouldn’t work if the people weren’t educated. “If a nation expects to be ignorant and free, in a state of civilization,” Jefferson wrote, “it expects what never was and never will be.”

John Adams was born into a poor farm family. He is often imagined as a rich Boston blueblood. He was none of those. His one great advantage, or break, was a scholarship to college—to Harvard College, which at that time had all of four buildings and a faculty of seven. Adams entered Harvard when he was 15 and discovered books. After that, he later recalled, “I read forever.”

At a young age, he began to keep a diary—it was about the size of the palm of your hand, and his handwriting so small you need a magnifying glass to read it—with the idea that by reckoning day-by-day his moral assets and liabilities, he could improve himself: “Oh! that I could wear

out of my mind every mean and base affectation, conquer my natural pride and conceit,” he wrote. His natural pride and conceit would be among the things his critics would throw at him for the rest of his life. What’s so interesting here is that he recognized this himself so early.

On July 21, 1756, at the age of 20, he wrote this memorable entry: I am resolved to rise with the sun and to study Scriptures on Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday mornings, and to study some Latin author the other three mornings. Noons and nights I intend to read English authors…I will rouse up my mind and fix my attention. I will stand collected within myself and think upon what I read and what I see. I will strive with all my soul to be something more than persons who have had less advantages than myself. But the next morning he slept until seven, and in a one-line entry the following week he wrote: “A very rainy day. Dreamed away the time.” There was so much that he wanted to know and do, and he would have moments when he thought life was passing him by: “I have no books, no time, no friends. I must therefore be contented to live and die an ignorant, obscure fellow.”

Adams went to Harvard with the implicit understanding that he would become a minister, but he was never really drawn to that calling. In August 1756, he signed a contract with a young Worcester attorney to stay under his inspection (as they put it) for two years. The day after, inspired by a sermon he had heard and also perhaps by a feeling of relief over his decision, he walked

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outside and recounted that the night sky was an “amazing concave of Heaven sprinkled and glittering with stars” that threw him “into a kind of transport,” such that he knew such wonders to be gifts of God. “But all the provisions that [God] has [made] for the gratifications of our senses,” he continued,are much inferior to the provision, the wonderful provision, that He has made for the gratification of our nobler powers of intelligence and reason. He has given us reason to find out the truth, and the real design and true end of our existence.

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Adams quickly rose in his profession and took an interest in politics. By the time he became president in 1796, he had served a multitude of duties for his country. He had been one of those who explained the philosophy and principles of the American Revolution to the people of the time through what he wrote in newspapers. He had defended the hated British soldiers who were arrested and put on trial after the so-called Boston Massacre, when nobody else would defend them. Asked to do so, and knowing that it might destroy his political career, he thought it his duty in a society governed by law. And it

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didn’t hurt his career one bit because people saw that he was a man of conviction. He had served brilliantly in the Continental Congress. Among other accomplishments, he was the man who put the name of George Washington in nomination to become the commanderin-chief of the Continental Army; he chose Thomas Jefferson to write the Declaration of Independence; later on he would put John Marshall on the Supreme Court. If he had done nothing but these three things, he would be someone we should know.

Adams more than anyone got the Continental Congress to vote for the Declaration. We have no records of what he said. Deliberations took place behind closed doors, out of fear of spies in Philadelphia. Keep in mind that only about a third of the country supported the Revolution. Another third was opposed—the Loyalists or Tories, who saw themselves as the true patriots because they were standing by their King. The remaining third, in the human way, were waiting to see who won. But Adams got the Congress to vote for the Declaration and many wrote about it afterwards. If you’ve seen the musical 1776, you’ll remember that he is the central character. That’s as it should be. And there are many people in it singing, “Why don’t you be quiet, John Adams?” or “Why are you so obnoxious, John Adams?” When I was working on my biography, I tried to find out who called him obnoxious, and I found only one—Adams himself. He wrote to a friend many years later that he must have been rather obnoxious back then, but that he felt he had to make it happen.

Answering the Call Adams never failed to answer the call of his country to serve, and he was called upon again and again, always to the detriment of his livelihood and often with risk to his life. He was asked to go to France during the Revolution, and set sail with his 10-year-old son, John Quincy, in the dead of winter. British cruisers were lying off the coast of Massachusetts, just waiting for someone like Adams to make a run for it to try to obtain French war support. Had he been captured, he would have been taken to England, to the Tower of London, and hanged. Keep in mind that everybody who signed the Declaration was putting his head in a noose. When our Founders pledged their lives, their fortunes and their sacred honor, that wasn’t just rhetoric. Keep in mind, too, that they were up against the greatest military power on earth and had very little military experience. They had no money—there wasn’t a bank in all of America in 1776. And no colonial people had

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ever successfully revolted against the mother country. Everything was against them.

Adams and his son took a boat out to the frigate Boston on February 13, 1777, from a place called Houghs Neck, near Braintree. I went with my own son to that point on February 13 at about the same time, just at dusk. It was about 28 degrees, whereas I think it was 24 or 25 degrees in 1777. We got out of a nice warm car to walk down to the shore wearing good down coats and we stood there with those big, green rollers coming in and the clouds looking

very ominous and the wind blowing, and we were freezing. We thought to ourselves, how in the world did they have the courage to do it? Adams had never set foot on a ship before. The crossing would take weeks, perhaps months, if they made it. And as it turned out, everything that could have gone wrong went wrong. They were hit by a hurricane. They encountered an enemy ship and fought a battle. They were becalmed for a long period. But they eventually made it. Adams served in France for about a year, then was called home. Returning, he wrote the Constitution of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts—the

oldest written constitution still in use anywhere in the world today—which is a rough sketch of our national Constitution ten years later. It was complete with a bill of rights and with a paragraph unlike anything in any previous constitution. Listen to it, and remember that it was written in wartime, and by a man who was the first of his family to have an education:

Wisdom and knowledge, as well as virtue, diffused generally among the body of the people being necessary for the preservation of their rights and liberties; and as these depend on spreading the opportunities and advantages of education in various parts of the country, and among the different orders of the people, it shall be the duty of legislators and magistrates in all future periods of this commonwealth to cherish the interests of literature and the sciences…

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Many people today are saying that we should be teaching morals in our schools. They could find support in the closing line of this section of the Commonwealth Constitution, which speaks of the necessity “to countenance and inculcate the principles of humanity and general benevolence, public and private charity, industry and frugality, honesty and punctuality in their dealings, sincerity, good humor, and all social affections, and generous sentiments among the people.” Again, if Adams had done nothing but write this remarkable document, he would be someone whose character would deserve our attention. And no sooner had he finished it than he was called upon again to go to France.

No Simpler Times

Let me say a word about Abigail Adams. She probably had better political sense than her husband, and was a better judge of people. And she loved politics. There is a wonderful scene in the White House after Adams had been defeated for re-election by Jefferson. Jefferson was invited to come over and have dinner, as were many members of the Senate and the House. He sat at the table beside Abigail, asking “Who’s that man over there?” and “Who’s this one over here?” And she told him everything about them—where they came from, what their constituency was, what their interests were. She was as bright as can be and had a backbone of iron. She probably didn’t weigh 100 pounds, standing only about five feet one. I think she’s one of the greatest Americans of all time. And you can discover her, too, in her marvelous correspondence with her husband during his long absences.

Something I always like to emphasize is that there never was a simpler past. We hear often,

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Continued from page 12 “Oh, that was a simpler time,” but it’s always wrong. Imagine Abigail’s life. Up in the morning at about 5 to light the fireplace that served as the kitchen, call to the children to come down, cook the breakfast, tend the stock, try to keep the farm solvent during the whole war with her husband gone and with inflation and with shortages of everything. Schools were closed, so she had to educate the children at home. Her day didn’t end until 9 or 10 at night when the children would go upstairs to their bedrooms, where it could be so cold that the water in the bowls that they used to wash their faces was iced over. And then she would sit down at the kitchen table with a single candle and write some of the greatest letters ever written by any American.

In one plaintive letter, she writes: “Posterity who are to reap the blessings will scarcely be able to conceive the hardships and sufferings of their ancestors.” And we don’t. We don’t know what they went through—epidemics of smallpox or dysentery, which could take the lives of hundreds of people just in the little town of Quincy, Massachusetts. It was

by no means a simpler time. They had to worry about things that we don’t even think about any more, and suffer discomforts and inconveniences of a kind that we never even imagine. We have little idea of how tough they were. Imagine John Adams setting off in the middle of winter to ride nearly 400 miles on horseback to get to Congress. Try riding even 40 miles sometime. John and Abigail were separated, in all, more than ten years because of his service to the country.

Much is written about Adams’ vice presidency under Washington, and about his presidency. But his diplomatic duties were as important as anything else he did. Primarily, he got the Dutch to give us massive loans, which really saved our Revolution—we would probably have lost the war with England had it not been for Holland. He went to the Netherlands on his own, knowing nobody. He didn’t speak Dutch. He didn’t have authorization from Congress because he was out of touch with Congress. But he succeeded. He once said that if anything were written on his tombstone, it should be that he was the man who got the Dutch to provide the loans to win the war. Yet this fact is little known or understood by most Americans.

Later on, Adams would say the same thing about being the president who kept us out of war with France. His presidency is often associated with the war frenzy that led to the Alien and Sedition Acts, which Adams signed and which would always stand, appropriately, as a black mark against him. Adams was not a great president. But he was a very good one and I think he should be judged as more presidents should be judged—not just by what he did, but what he didn’t do. He didn’t go to war with France. Had he done so, he would have been re-elected, and he knew it. As it was, the 1800 election was extremely close. A change in about 300 votes in New York City would have re-elected him. And let us not forget that one of the most important turning points in our country, even in the world, was that election, because there was a peaceful transition, following a bitter election, from one party to another. It was not contested by armed opposition, which was the historical norm. Adams went home to Quincy—having traveled more in the service of his country than any other American of that time—and never went anywhere ever again, although he lived for 25 more years.

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An open concept great room with views from every window! A gourmet kitchen with an island snack bar, pantry, walk up bar and beverage center with a built-in dinette opening to the hearth room and a cozy sitting area. The deck off kitchen overlooks your private, manicured Estate! The main suite has a private 3-season room, a gas fireplace, crown moldings, and a spa-like bath to die for! An entertainers dream! Plus a theater room, rec room, wine cellar, and game roomm!

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DESIGNERS FROM COAST TO COAST are cooking up fresh ideas for kitchen upgrades. This year’s hottest trends bring numerous fresh aesthetic approaches while functionality also plays a leading role in top design ideas.

If you are planning a kitchen upgrade, take inspiration from these on-trend elements spotted by the design experts at Wellborn Cabinet: Unique Tile

In recent years, backsplash tile has taken a more prominent role in kitchen design and has continued to grow in popularity to the point where tile is now a full-stop focal point. From eye-catching colors and patterns to texture that brings new dimension, kitchen tile can make a big statement. In fact, bold tile is not just limited to the backsplash. Patterned tile is an on-trend option for adding character to your flooring and dressing up commonly under-designed spaces like the window jamb with a practical material, like tile, that is easy to clean and maintain.

Multiple Appliances

Function is front and center in residential kitchen design this year, and homeowners’ growing demands to go big on appliances is proof. From double ovens to extra dishwashers, homeowners are committing to more useful features. There are even some kitchens that boast two refrigerators, which may be a nod to the way grocery shopping habits shifted during the pandemic, with fewer, but larger, trips to the store.

Walk-Through Pantries

Whether you are capitalizing on the mystique of a “hidden” room or attracted to the idea of a more seamless aesthetic, a walk-through pantry can be a stunning and functional solution. With a walk-through pantry, you can add extra space

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to an existing pantry to create a better flow to your floor plan. Available in a variety of widths and heights, Wellborn Cabinet’s Walk-Through Pantry blends naturally into the rest of your cabinetry to create visual continuity. Integrated magnetic door catches add stability and keep doorways securely closed.

Wood Finishes

After years of painted cabinets and woodwork dominating kitchen design, wood grain finishes are making a comeback. The look is cozy and inviting, and with a wide span of stain options, it is equally possible to take the look ultra-modern or veer toward a more traditional style. Outside of cabinetry, there is plenty of room to incorporate the warmth of wood, such as butcher-block counters or exposed beams.

Green, Blue and Earth Tones

Jewel-inspired hues had their moment, but this season’s color scheme is more about subtle shades that meld with neutrals for lighter, brighter spaces that feel airier and more spacious. Greens, in particular, pair well with an array of wood finishes, whether cabinetry, countertops or furnishings. Integrating greens, blues and other nature-inspired colors allows you to bring earthy serenity to a bustling and busy room, and this motif lends itself well to a design that creates a cohesive connection with adjacent outdoor living space.

Clever Storage Solutions

The kitchen is a busy place prone to clutter, and this season you will find multiple examples of practical solutions showing up in showcase kitchens. The features that can make your kitchen chores easier and neater come in all shapes and sizes. For example, discreet knife blocks tucked into drawers, drawer dividers for maximum customization and sliders that make it easy to empty the trash and recycling bins.

Marble Countertops

Marble is not necessarily a new trend, but this year’s attention is on slabs of marble with eye-catching veins that make counters really pop. For a fresh take on marble, forgo the typical white, gray or black styles in favor of color. Standout gold veining or even full slabs with stunning greens, blues and reds can make a statement. If budget is an issue, or you are worried about too much of a good thing, consider using a bold slab on a smaller space, like the island, rather than outfitting the entire kitchen. Find more on-trend ideas to upgrade your kitchen at Wellborn.com.

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Continued from page 18 subject is going to stay at home his final 25 years, you wonder how you are going to sustain the rest of the book. But there are all kinds of surprises in life, and to me the great surprise of the last part of Adams’ life is that in many ways it’s the most interesting. It’s at this point that the inward journey begins. He suffers as he has never suffered before. He loses not only Abigail, but their beloved daughter of the same name. Those who say that people then lived in a simpler time should imagine their daughter having a mastectomy in a bedroom of their house with no anesthetic. Adams lost his wife and daughter, he lost a son to alcoholism, he lost his teeth and hair, he lost friends, he lost all of his power, his prestige, his influence. But he kept going. In fact, curiously, having in many ways been seen as a pessimist, he became increasingly an optimist. It’s in this last part of his life especially that you feel his real fiber.

John Adams, a farm boy, became the most widely and deeply read of any American of that bookish time—more so even than Jefferson. At the age of 80, he launched into a 16-volume history of France in French, which he had taught himself on his Atlantic crossings. And he pours out his innermost feelings to a few remaining friends and to some of his family, including John Quincy. Let me read you two excerpts. The first deals with his growing sense of wonder:

I never delighted much in contemplating commas and colons, or in spelling or measuring syllables; but now? If I attempt to look at these little objects, I find my imagination, in spite of all my exertions, roaming in the Milky Way, among the nebulae, those mighty orbs, and stupendous orbits of suns, planets, satellites, and comets, which compose the incomprehensible universe; and if I do not sink into nothing in my own estimation, I feel an irresistible impulse to fall on my knees, in adoration of the power that moves, the wisdom that directs, the benevolence that sanctifies this wonderful whole.

One of the few things that Adams had left that he adored in his last years were his fruit trees. But then came one March night a terrible ice storm, and he woke up the next morning to see all of his trees shattered. This could have broken him, but it didn’t. Listen to what he wrote:

A rain had fallen from some warmer region in the skies when the cold here below was intense to an extreme. Every drop was frozen wherever it fell in the trees, and clung to the limbs and sprigs as if it had been fastened by hooks of steel.

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Privacy & Serenity on LAKE NAGAWICKA

If you would like more information on this property, contact Eric Marshall at 262-719-4975. or April Kumlien at 414-216-7005 of The Marshall Team of First Weber Realtors.® 262-719-4975.

NESTLED IN A PICTURE-PERFECT setting on the shore of Nagawicka, this is serene waterfront living. Although you feel a million miles from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, this 3-bedroom, 3-bath home is located close to downtown Delafield with great restaurants, shopping, etc.

Natural light and tall ceilings enhance the sense of space to this 2,760-square-feet lakefront gem. To the right of the entry is the formal living room with double doors leading to a formal dining room. The kitchen opens to the family room where a fireplace creates a cozy ambience on cool evenings.

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The earth was never more universally covered with snow, and the rain had frozen upon a crust on the surface which shone with the brightness of burnished silver. The icicles on every sprig glowed in all the luster of diamonds. Every tree was a chandelier of cut glass. I have seen a queen of France with 18 millions of livres of diamonds upon her person and I declare that all the charms of her face and figure added to all the glitter of her jewels did not make an impression on me equal to that presented by every shrub. The whole world was glittering with precious stones.

Adams died, as many of you know, the same day Jefferson died. Jefferson had been his closest friend, then his political rival, then his political enemy. After twelve years of neither speaking to each other, Adams initiated the first letter of what was to be one of the great reconciliations in our history. The correspondence between these former presidents lasted until their deaths, and is some of the most wonderful letters in the English language. And then they died on the same day, each in his own bed, surrounded by his books. And it wasn’t just any day. It was

the 4th of July, 50 years after the Declaration of Independence. People at the time saw it as the clearest sign imaginable that the hand of God was involved with the destiny of the United Statesand who could blame them?

Citizen and Leader

Adams said once, “I am but an ordinary man. The times alone have destined me to fame.” But don’t believe that for a minute. Certainly they were the most interesting times imaginable. But he was an extraordinary man. His faith in God and the hereafter remained unshaken. His fundamental creed he had reduced to a single sentence: “He who loves the Workman and his work and does what he can to preserve and improve it, shall be accepted of Him.” His confidence in the future of his country was, in the final years of his life, greater than ever. Human nature had not changed, however, for all the improvements his generation had brought about. Nor would it, he was sure. Nor did he love life any less for its pain and uncertainties. Once, in a letter to his old friend Francis van der Kemp in the Netherlands, he’d written: “Griefs upon griefs! Disappointments upon disappointments. What then? This is a gay, merry old world, notwithstanding.” It could have been his epitaph. n

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The Sell It Now Store& Gerlach Auctions

NOVEMBER IS KNOWN for Thanksgiving celebrations, Fall clothing and the start of Winter weather. Our friends at The Sell It Now Store and Gerlach Auctions have been busy with auctions and sales of a number of amazing and unique items.

The Sell It Now Store sells classic Corvettes to Norton and Harley Davidson motorcycles, Fender and Gibson guitars, McIntosh and Marantz stereo systems, vintage Wurlitzer jukeboxes and more to a worldwide audience via brokering and auction. They have a global customer base and are unique to this type of business model.

Gerlach Companies, Inc. is the oldest family-run auction and appraisal company in the State of Wisconsin. They have had a number of successful auctions last month. Founded in 1941, Gerlach Companies has conducted thousands of auctions and appraisals of all types, with an amazing reputation in the Industrial and Commercial industry. Gerlach Companies is also accredited with the American Society of Appraisers.

Gerlach Auctions and the Sell It Now Store specialize in large auctions with items that run the range from collectible to industrial commercial. Both are industry leaders in their respective markets. How do you get started? Contact Mike Boerschinger at Sell It Now Store or Mike Gerlach at Gerlach Auctions for a no obligation appointment. They will meet with you to assess your collectible or industrial items, collections, business assets or real estate. They look forward to working with you. References are also available upon request. n

Sell It Now Store 2315 Badger Drive, Unit 1 Waukesha, WI 53188 414-727-0600 www.sellitnowstore.com

Gerlach Companies, Inc. 139 E. Capital Drive, Suite 4 Hartland, WI 53029 262-367-4950 www.gerlachauctions.com

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River’s End Gallery

This beautiful fused glass star ornament is created by Suz Mole. She is from North Carolina and spent several decades traveling extensively in many countries which has influenced her glass art. The River’s End Gallery has many different ornaments, such as, angels, cardinals, holiday trees and more. Come to the gallery Wednesday – Saturday.  River’s End Gallery, 380 W. Main St., Waukesha, www.RiversEndGallery.com, 262-780-1191.

Oriental Rug Gallery

New colors imposed on ancient Persian designs are the focal point for our new 2022 collection of high-end Hand-knotted rugs.  Colors never-seen-before in iconic rugs that have been favorites of designers and art collectors alike. Our new collection contains some of the most decorative and unusual rugs ever woven; all with organic hand-spun wool and all-natural dyes. Whether you’re in the market or just love rugs–stop in to see, feel, and marvel at these true works of art. Stop by or call to make an appointment to view this collection. Oriental Rug Gallery, 11005 West Bluemound Road, Wauwatosa. 414-727-0007. www.OrientalRug-Gallery.com.

The Garment Shop

The Holidays are around the corner at the Garment Shop,Cambridge, with great in-store specials. Featured is the latest in summer fashions from Charlie B.® The Garment Shop, unique specialty shop for women. 125 W. Main St., Cambridge, WI 53523. 608-423-3740.

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If you would like more information on this property, contact Renee Kasper of First Weber Realtors.® at 414-573-9009.

Lake Country Living AT ITS FINEST

GORGEOUS, CUSTOM-BUILT home in the prestigious Valley Road Farms near quaint downtown Delafield and all the area has to offer. Prepare to check every box on this 4-bedroom, 4.5-bath Colonial with a 4.5-car garage and 6,000 total square-feet.

Meticulously cared for, it is dressed for entertaining indoors and out. Beautiful custom maple millwork throughout highlighted by tons of natural light; a gourmet kitchen with server’s pantry; two-story great room; main level primary en-suite and a stately office.

Spacious bedrooms; amazing mudroom; and an expansive finished lower level-to name a few. Lower level with a wet bar, theater room, an enormous rec room area for even more entertaining–or add a 5th bedroom! Move the party outside onto the huge deck and into the sunny back yard. n

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ARE YOU SEARCHING for the peace that passeth understanding? The peace that the Nazarene carpenter told his disciples he was leaving with them? The peace that he designated as “my peace”? He differentiated between the peace the world gives and “my peace,” the peace he was giving them. You may remember that he comforted them with those loving words, “Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”

And that word “afraid” should remind you at once of God’s promise as found in the book of Isaiah. “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.” If we would find peace, we must take that promise literally and rest in it. We can rest in it with assurance if we will but remember Paul’s comforting words to Timothy whom he loved dearly: “For God hath not given us

the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love and of a sound mind.”

If you are earnestly searching for peace, then you must accept these promises, not alone with your mind but with your whole being. An intellectual acceptance is variable. It is too subject to change. An emotional acceptance has no enduring value. Like most emotional reactions it lacks permanency. The only practical acceptance is a spiritual one because when the Spirit within takes possession of our entire being, our personal world is awakened to the power of spiritual truth. Then, as realization sets in, spiritual peace automatically results.

Our problems would be solved much more quickly if we could but accustom ourselves to turning immediately within, as Jesus did, and be content to permit Him to “do the works.” Of our own selves, we can do nothing. Neither could the Nazarene carpenter. He admitted it openly:

“Of mine own self I can do nothing. The Father within doeth the works.” Humanly, we are incapable of finding anything that approaches lasting peace. Yet peace cannot possibly escape us if we turn within for it to the source of our being, and let it pour forth.

Peace lies in our accepting the Omnipresence and Omnipotence of God as the only law governing our lives. However, and again I emphasize, mere intellectual acceptance is not sufficient. It is open to argument. We must live in obedience to that law by making it the dominating force of our existence.

We must learn to live and move and have our being in God, in Spirit, in the Father within, He who will perfect that which concerneth us. Then will we be under the constant government of Omnipresence and Omnipotence. Then will we have attained the peace that passeth understanding. n

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LAKE KEESUS Recently remodeled and freshly staged. This amazing 3,700-sq.-ft. Lake Home is well designed and extremely well built with sculptured Lannon Stone walls and real hard wood floors. Set on a sloping lot with over 90 ft. of lake frontage this wonderful home features spectacular lake views and includes 4 bedrooms and 3.5 baths with 2 fireplaces, a gourmet kitchen with granite counters and high-end stainless steel appliances, a huge private main bedroom suite and a finished walk-out lower level with family room, game room and bar room. Enjoy water skiing, wake boarding, kayaking, fireworks, pontooning and all that lake living has to offer from this incredible home and property. Lake Keesus has that Northern Wisconsin Woods feel and is one of only 3 spring fed lakes in the state $1,350,000

MIDDLE GENESEE Conveniently located south of Aurora Hospital, this amazing home sits on 2 large private lots with manicured lawn and over 200 ft. of sand bottomed lake frontage. This 3,300-sq.-ft. one story home has been lovingly maintained and is in move in condition. Beautiful great room features a stone fireplace, polished American Red Elm hardwood floors and ceiling to match. Tremendous lake views. The kitchen is awesome with huge counter, stainless steel appli ances and pantry. A screened in porch is just off the hearth room and is an ideal place to unwind. A large family room and a 4.5 car garage with loft complete the package.

DELAFIELD Stunning all brick, 6,000-sq.-ft. 4-bedroom, 6-bath Executive Tudor with in ground pool and heated 4.5-car garage. Some of the many features: a white kitchen with granite counters and top of the line appliances. Kitchen flows nicely into great room with stone natural fireplace. Gorgeous built-ins, custom moldings and exquisite detail through out. Charming primary bedroom suite with completely remodeled spa-like bath. The lower level is the perfect get away for the kids with a huge game room, theater room, exercise room and studio. Yard is amazing with gorgeous in-ground pool.

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