April 2017

FROM THE BISHOP:

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Easter What do you say when …

THE HEART OF A FRIEND SAYS THEIR PRAYERS OUR FAITH ARE NOT BEING ANSWERED?

CULTURE:

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BISHOP EARL BOYEA

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EASTER – THE HEART OF OUR FAITH

APRIL THIS YEAR HAS TWO WEEKS OF LENT (including Holy Week) and two weeks of Easter time. What can one say to combine all this?! And yet, this is the heart of our faith. As you know, every Sunday we proclaim the Creed. It begins with a short part on God the Father, then there is a very long part on God the Son, then a short part on God the Holy Spirit, and a final short part on our belief in the Church and the presence of the action of God through her.

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That second part is the heart of all this! It is all about Jesus. Yes, he went about doing many good things, being merciful, working miracles, comforting the afflicted and afflicting the comfortable, as they say. Yet, that is not the heart of it all. Yes, he went about preaching, mostly of God’s love and mercy, but also issuing challenges to us, especially to move from sin to holiness. But that is not the heart of it all. Many holy saints have done these things and we are grateful to God for them.

No, the heart is the suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, his ascension back to the Father and his expected return in glory at the end of the world. That is what makes the difference. That is what we believe. And when we believe it, this grace changes everything in our lives.

Many find this too difficult to believe. A good man, a holy man, a miracle worker, a wonderful preacher – these are all things that most people can accept about Jesus. But that he is the Son of God, that he is God, come in our flesh, that he is God who died for us to free us from sin and show us the Father’s incredible love for us, that he destroyed death and the power of Satan in our world – these are things that can be tough to believe, to really believe.

And if we believe this, then we know that this God has a claim on us, for we have been purchased by this God at a great cost. We can no longer live for ourselves but only for the one who has loved us this much. Once this knowing grace has penetrated our minds and hearts, then the power of the Holy Spirit aids us in turning away from darkness and toward the light. And what is more, we want to make that turn, because that light is pure love.

My sisters and brothers, a blessed Lent and Easter! May this April be a wonderful month of deeper faith for all of you.

The heart is the suffering, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, his ascension back to the Father and his expected return in glory at the end of the world.

That is what makes the difference.

That is what we believe.”

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FROM THE EDITOR

The Liturgies of Holy Week LEAD US INTO EASTER

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OU MAY RECALL THAT IN LAST MONTH’S COLUMN, I encouraged all of us to enter into the time of Lent as an opportunity to respond to God’s grace and undertake some spiritual spring cleaning. I hope your Lenten journey has gone well thus far and that your house is in better spiritual order, so to speak.

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As we make our way to the conclusion of the season of Lent, I encourage you to take another step to make the celebration of the approaching season of Easter all the more fruitful. I encourage you to set aside the time to attend the liturgies of Holy Week as a way of entering more deeply into the great joys of Easter. The liturgies FATHER of Holy Week, especially those of the Triduum – the “Three Days” of DWIGHT EZOP Holy Thursday, Good Friday and Easter Vigil – help us to better unis the editor of derstand the depth of Christ’s love and sacrifice for us, and the great FAITH Magazine beauty of the mystery of his resurrection at Easter. and pastor of There are two liturgies on Holy Thursday that help lead us toward St. Mary Parish, Easter. The first is the Chrism Mass, which is normally celebrated Charlotte and at St. Mary Cathedral in Lansing on Holy Thursday morning. This St. Ann Church, beautiful celebration gathers folks from around our diocese at our Bellevue “mother church” for a Mass which focuses on the blessing and Email: editor@ consecration of the holy oils that are to be used in our sacramenFAITHpub.com. tal celebrations in the year ahead. In the context of this Mass, the priests of our diocese also renew their priestly commitment to live in prayerful service to the people of our diocese.

Holy Thursday evening sees the celebration of the Evening Mass of the Lord’s Supper. This Mass helps us to focus on the mystery of selfless service and the eternal gift of the Eucharist that was given to us by Jesus in the Last Supper. The night concludes with an opportunity for quiet Eucharistic Adoration before everyone departs in silence in preparation for Good Friday.

Good Friday is a day of quiet reflection. The praying of the Stations of the Cross might be offered in addition to the celebration of the Liturgy of the Lord’s Passion.

These somber liturgies place the mystery of Christ’s cross at the center of our focus.

We recall how a weapon of terror becomes the Tree of Life. Following the reception of Communion, we depart in silence to spend time reflecting on the depth and power of Christ’s love for each of us.

Holy Saturday marks a time of quiet Easter preparation in our homes and in our parish churches. Many parishes offer the blessing of Easter food – the great variety of delicious foods and baked goods that will form the centerpiece of our family meals on Easter Sunday. The day culminates in the celebration of the Easter Vigil. This liturgy is the highlight of our Christian year, as we tell the story of salvation and welcome our catechumens and candidates through the sacraments of initiation.

It is one thing for me to write about these liturgies. It is entirely more for all of us to experience them in our parish communities. In order for this to happen, make sure to be deliberate in setting aside the time to do so. Know that these liturgies may be a little longer than a “normal” Sunday Mass. They also provide a wonderful blend of music, words and actions that help us to truly understand and celebrate the depth and beauty of our faith.

If you have never participated in any of the liturgies of the Triduum, make a promise to take advantage of the opportunity to do so this year, and each year ahead. You won’t regret it and it will make the beauty of the Easter Season all the more beautiful and meaningful. And so our journey in FAITH continues.

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DISCIPLESHIP

For personal reflection or small group discussion Spiritual Fitness

• Sister Ann asks us to follow Peter, John and Mary Magdalene as they react to the events of Jesus’ Passion and resurrection. Take time to write down your own thoughts and offer them as a prayer of thanksgiving for Jesus’ gift of himself for you.

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• Have you ever felt your prayers were not answered?

Did you try to surrender your will to God, rather than giving up hope?

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• Carol and Lela never stopped praying together, studying spiritual writing and attending events together throughout Lela’s journey back to the Church. Have you developed friendships through your spiritual life? How does this type of bond, where you simply “know God together,” differ from other friendships?

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• What have you learned about refugees from Syria from the story shared by Ahmad and Manal? Can you think of ways to promote greater understanding of, and welcome for, those seeking asylum in our country?

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He says: ‘We need to use more effective discipline.’

She says: ‘Timeouts are fine.’ What do they do?

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S hould we try shaming for our disobedient son?

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YOUR LIFE MARRIAGE MATTERS

HE SAYS:

We need to use more effective discipline Our daughter is 5 and she’s developing quite a temper. There are toys thrown and doors slammed in anger. I think we need to crack down on this behavior early, and punish her when she misbehaves. I believe we need to take away toys and TV. Sara wants to stick with timeouts, but I think they are ineffective. We’re fighting about this all the time.

SHE SAYS:

Timeouts are fine

SARA AND ERIC BOTH HAVE GOOD APPROACHES to discipline, but their failure WHAT DO to agree is probably confusing their daughter.

THEY DO? Inconsistent discipline almost never works.

The goal is to come up with an approach that effectively combines both styles of discipline.

Timeouts are a classic disciplinary technique, but they have to be done right. Timeouts for a set amount of time, like one minute for each year of the child’s age, can seem arbitrary. It’s much better to tell a child who is having a temper tantrum that he or she needs to stay in timeout until he or she is able to calm down. Then, letting a child out of timeout is a reward for the ability to regain self-control.

Timeouts are often combined with “time in,” like the conversations that Sara is having with their daughter. If children are 6

misbehaving because they’re not getting enough love and attention, sometimes calm and meaningful interaction will help. It’s also good for parents to explain why they’re imposing discipline. But since their daughter is only 5, explanations won’t help that much.

If their daughter is throwing toys and slamming doors, the misbehavior has reached a point where it could hurt someone and stronger measures need to be taken. Taking away privileges, as Eric wants, is a stricter form of discipline. But it will only work if it relates to their

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Eric and I definitely don’t see eye-to-eye on discipline for our daughter. I know she misbehaves, but I think that’s best handled with timeouts and conversation. Eric always wants to be much harsher and for much longer periods of time. I’m afraid our daughter is going to start seeing him as the "bad cop." And I’m tired of fighting about this.

daughter’s specific misbehavior.

For example, in addition to timeouts and time in, when their daughter throws a toy, Sara and Eric can take the toy away for at least a day. As for door slamming, they can put a towel on the top of the door to stop it from closing or remove the door altogether.

Finding out why their daughter is misbehaving also matters a lot. Is she having a difficult time adjusting to school? Has something changed in the home environment?

Do her temper tantrums result in her getting what she wants, even if she also gets disciplined? Disciplining children is difficult, but take heart! “Train children in the right way, and when old, they will not stray.” (Prv 22:6)

Dr. Manuel P. Santos and Karee Santos are co-authors of The Four Keys to Everlasting Love: How Your Catholic Marriage Can Bring You Joy for a Lifetime (Ave Maria Press, 2016).

Note: Nothing in this column is meant to provide psychological or medical diagnosis, treatment or opinion.

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Should we try shaming for our DISOBEDIENT SON? Q

OUR SON IS CONSTANTLY DISOBEYING US. The last straw was this week when he gave some friends a ride even though we’ve expressly forbidden it. Grounding hasn't worked, lectures haven’t worked — I’m thinking of having him stand on a corner with a sign the way I’ve seen on Facebook. Is this effective? Is it accountability or shaming?

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Our fourth-grade uniforms included bow ties. When a girl forgot her tie, Sister provided a boy’s tie. Most of us had just one uniform; those with more money had an extra tie stashed in their desks, but they weren’t allowed to share. Shame permeated my day the morning I forgot my tie. I was so distraught after school that my mother bought a spare tie. As a widow driving three kids to school before going to work, she thought our chaotic mornings played a role.

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I DON’T HAVE ANY FRIENDS AT WORK Q

person. How can I make connections with people and turn my co-workers into friends?

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It’s good that you want to feel connected to people at work. But, at the same time, be realistic about the nature of work and the nature of friendship.

Work is a place where we get things done, where we join our talents and efforts with other people to accomplish things — to produce goods or services. And we get paid to do so.

The friendship to expect at work is one of utility. The basis of relationship is our common projects, common workspaces and common hours. Aristotle calls it the friendship of utility.

His second kind of friendship is one of pleasure — when people experience mutual enjoyment and, perhaps, passion, like that of lovers. The exclusiveness of pleasure-based friendship can actually be counterproductive in the workplace.

Aristotle cites virtue as the magnet for the most elevated friendship — when good people help each grow in goodness. This is the essence of Christian friendship, for instance.

So what’s the right friendship fit in the workplace? Utility. Do your work really well. Be courteous, productive, punctual, diligent and cooperative. People will naturally connect with you and vice versa.

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now, and I haven’t made any friends

yet. I feel like no one cares about me as a

Think carefully about the desired outcome before shaming your son.

What is a logical consequence? Motor vehicle accidents are the leading cause of death for U.S. adolescents. Distracted driving and driving with other teens increase the risk of a crash. The logical consequence is losing driving privileges; choose an amount of time that you will actually enforce, such as two to four weeks. He can ride a bike, use public transportation or be chauffeured by you. Set up a plan for future success by downloading a Parent-Teen Driving Agreement from the CDC, modifying it as needed. Include consequences for breaking the rules.

Address other aspects of disobedience.

Since your son constantly disobeys, schedule a time to discuss expectations. An activity that you see as a moral transgression may be perceived by your son as a personal preference.

Many teens view cleaning their rooms this way.

Emphasize key aspects of behavior that need to be changed, but be flexible. Once again, decide the consequences for breaking the rules.

Rather than turning to Facebook, look to Scripture for insights: “For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.” (Prv 2:6)

I’ve been at my job for a few months

is the executive director of the Spitzer Center for Ethical Leadership.

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WHEN YOUR FIANCÉ ISN’T CATHOLIC …

WEDDING BELLS ARE RINGING. Birds are singing. It’s time to plan the details surrounding the day you say YES to the love of your life. But what do you do when one side of the family is not particularly fond of the Catholic Church? Here are a few suggestions that might make it a little easier on everyone.

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Remember: Your wedding day is the beautifully adorned doorway that blesses the long road of marriage ahead. Prayerfully prepare your relationship for marriage throughout the planning process, and God will bless the details and the attitudes around them.

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LECTIO DIVINA Praying through the year with Scripture

Gospel for Easter Sunday:

On the first day of the week, Mary of Magdala came to the tomb early in the morning, while it was still dark, and saw the stone removed from the tomb. So she ran and went to Simon Peter and to the other disciple whom Jesus loved, and told them, "They have taken the Lord from the tomb, and we don't know where they put him." So Peter and the other disciple went out and came to the tomb. They both ran, but the other disciple ran faster than Peter and arrived at the tomb first; he bent down and saw the burial cloths there, but did not go in. When Simon Peter arrived after him, he went into the tomb and saw the burial cloths there, and the cloth that had covered his head, not with the burial cloths but rolled up in a separate place. Then the other disciple also went in, the one who had arrived at the tomb first, and he saw and believed. For they did not yet understand the Scripture that he had to rise from the dead. (Jn 20:1-9) First, let’s make sure we understand what is going on in this passage. John the Evangelist wants to make sure we don’t miss the blessings, and especially the increase of faith, that God wants to give us through these spirit-filled words. The grace from this passage can actually touch your mind and heart and bring about a genuine increase of faith, confidence and courage.

So read carefully and ponder.

Setting the scene. The disciples, both men and women, have gone through a traumatic experience beyond description.

They watched the one to whom they have dedicated their

is a renowned author and a member of the Servants of God’s Love. @srannshieldssgl lives be falsely accused, scourged, beaten and then thrown on wood planks and nailed to a cross.

Let’s think about this from a human perspective for a moment. What it would be like if this were your earthly father or brother or son whom you dearly love? You have to stand there and witness the torture and be utterly helpless to change the situation. These are the circumstances under which they take Jesus from the cross, bury him and go home because of the coming Sabbath.

Mary Magdalene discovers the empty tomb. Yet early the next morning, Mary Magdalene rises and goes directly to the tomb to weep and to mourn the loss of the one who had saved her from death and told her she was forgiven.

When Mary arrives, she sees the stone has been removed.

Who moved it? How could this have been done? And what has happened to his body? So Mary Magdalene runs to Simon Peter and to John.

Peter and John arrive. Peter and John hear her lament and begin to run toward the tomb. When Peter arrives, he bends down and sees two things: that the burial cloths were in one pile and then, in a separate place, was folded the cloth that covered Jesus’ head. There is no indication about what Peter and John said to one another – the questions; the puzzlement. Perhaps nothing needed to be spoken. Scripture tells us only that John saw and believed.

While they did not yet fully understand the Scripture, this passage tells us that John believed – something unexplainable had happened and John, perhaps, sensed more deeply – this missing body and the circumstances around it were further signs that Jesus was the Messiah.

Look at the whole scene here. Follow how Peter, John and Mary Magdalene react and respond through the Gospel account of that incredible week. See how each of them through the passing hours came to recognize that Jesus is risen from the dead.

Jesus is the Son of God! He lives, and his death makes it possible for me to live with him through all eternity. May you and I become his followers more closely, his disciples more deeply.

Take some time each day in this Easter Week to ponder God’s love for you – that he literally laid down his life for you so that you can live forever with him in heaven. May our faith and our hope increase!

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What does it really mean to be

FATHER JOE: Q DEAR After a disaster, I hear

people who were saved talking about how they were ‘blessed.’ Does that mean the people who died were not?

Should we be using that word that way?

BLESSED?

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Church history is full of stories about beautiful and holy men and women who suffered outrageous physical and emotional pain but who considered themselves blessed, because they were sharing in the sufferings of Jesus.

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This is a tough question, because the answer more or less depends on the person's intent when they say it. Let me share with you an incorrect way to use the word “blessed” and then an understanding of it.

Some people use the word blessed to indicate comfort, financial success, etc. This is simply wrong. Having our desires met does not mean we have been favored by God in some special way. Despite what some televangelists would tell you, God does not reward faith with worldly goods or even health.

Church history is full of stories about beautiful and holy men and women who suffered outrageous physical and emotional pain but who considered themselves blessed, because they were sharing in the sufferings of Jesus. Many saints lived in poverty but felt blessed because they were poor, as Jesus was poor. In answer to those televangelists, I can assure you there is no rational or true standard that would look at the life Jesus lived and call it financially successful.

So, if being blessed is not about our circumstances, what is it about? It’s about our attitude, our spiritual state. For example, when my mother died, a number of people came up to me at the funeral to say, “Don’t cry – your mother is with our Lord in heaven.” My response: “I’m not crying for her, I’m crying for me.

Because I’ll miss my mother.”

knowledge transcends any pain we may be experiencing. Or, it may be that we are in a place that we are simply striving to fully understand and embrace that conviction. It is then that we are blessed.

When you are feeling overwhelmed with grief or pain, you might want to turn to St. Paul’s Letter to the Romans, and his mighty words ringing down through the centuries: For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

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Often, when folks say they’ve Now, don’t get me wrong – I been “blessed,” they really mean also felt blessed in that moment, circumstances have occurred because I do know my mother that make them happy. Back is in heaven, and I know that I to the experience of disaster: am loved by Jesus – and that Certainly, the person he was with me in that who was spared is moment. Remember, blessed, but so is tears are not the result the person who lost of a lack of faith but an Don’t confuse everything. They may abundance of love. happy and not be happy – because In the New Testament, blessed – I earthly happiness means when you see Jesus say would suggest our circumstances the word “blessed” in prompted an emotion. your English translation, that when Don’t confuse happy he is using the word you and I and blessed – I would eudaemonia. This is from say that we suggest that when the Greek for “good” are blessed, you and I say that we and “spirit” and is often are blessed, we should translated as meaning we should be referring to our “human flourishing.” be referring inner state. That is, we Jesus is saying that to our inner should be referring people of good spirit state.” to our conviction that are blessed. There are we are loved by God, long and complicated and that, whatever our discussions about this circumstances or situations, we in Greek philosophy as well that are confident that Christ will bring talk about blessings coming with victory. We know we are loved virtue. If you’ve got a few days to and saved by Christ and that this spare, you can find out more!

FATHER JOE KRUPP

is a former comedy writer who is now a Catholic priest. @Joeinblack

This has given me strength and comfort in adversity – I hope it does for you. Enjoy another day in God’s presence.

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YOUR FAITH THEOLOGY 101

given by God to prayer: ‘yes,’ ‘not yet’ and ‘I have a better idea.’”

You will notice “no” is not an option.

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What do you say when …

When our prayer is not answered immediately, perseverance and persistence are required. One way of understanding prayer is to think of each prayer as a seed. The Gospel of Mark teaches us that the fruits of prayer may not be realized instantly. The seed first produces the blade, then the ear and finally the ripe wheat in the ear, all typically out of the sight and control of the farmer who planted the seed.

In addition, the parable of the sower might be helpful. (Mt 13) Sometimes, in order for our prayer to be fruitful, we need to sow it, taking care to water and tend to it, all the while trusting that the seed will grow of its own accord and on its own timeline.

If we instead try to force this growth, we will succeed only in preventing it altogether. If we sow our prayer only to then “dig it up” incessantly with worry and doubt, it will never take root. Nor does it serve us to enthusiastically look for any signs that point to our prayer being answered only to give up hope at the first sign of delay.

A FRIEND SAYS THEIR PRAYERS ARE NOT BEING ANSWERED? In 2017, Theology 101 is focusing on the topic of evangelization. Specifically, the task is to offer some ways of approaching various questions Catholics may encounter from co-workers, family and friends regarding the practice of the faith. Of course, we must remember that nothing can replace the power of witnessing to the Good News through our own actions and words, combined with our willingness to accompany others on their faith journey.

THE QUESTION: What do I say when a friend tells me they have prayed and prayed for something, but their prayers were not answered? Now they are giving up on God.

THE THREE RESPONSES A few years ago, a homilist gave a short reflection on his own experience of prayer: “Prayer may be about our needs, but it should never be about our wants. Prayer is an honest conversation in communion with God. It is simply receiving God’s gift of love. The answer to our prayers becomes the life we lead for God, for there are only three responses 12

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I HAVE A BETTER IDEA When our prayer seems to have gone unanswered, we are called to consider that God may have a better idea. This calls for our discernment and, ultimately, our surrender.

After celebrating the Last Supper, Jesus went to Gethsemane to pray. Matthew’s Gospel tells us that he began to feel sorrow and distress and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from me.” (26:39) Of course, we know the cup he was referring to was the Passion of the cross.

Three different times, Jesus repeated his prayer.

Luke’s Gospel says that Jesus “was in such agony and he prayed so fervently that his sweat became like drops of blood falling on the ground.” (22:44) Yet, Jesus’ prayer went seemingly unanswered as

How can you help your friend at this difficult time? Accompany him or her along every step of the spiritual journey. Pray with your friend. Encourage your friend to be persistent in prayer, and demonstrate your trust in God’s faithfulness. We must show up to prayer, even more so amid distraction and dryness, with a humble and honest heart that pleads with the Father for our needs, but says, with Jesus, “not my will, but your will be done.”

FOR FURTHER REFLECTION Consider prayerfully reading the following passage from the Book of Exodus (3:7-8): But the Lord said, “I have witnessed the affliction of my people in Egypt and have heard their cry of complaint against their slave drivers, so I know well what they are suffering. Therefore, I have come down to rescue them from the hands of the Egyptians and lead them out of that land into a good and spacious land, a land flowing with milk and honey.”

REFLECTION QUESTION: We know that the Israelites had been slaves for a long time at this point. We also know that even after the Lord

A. Pope John Paul I B. Pope Benedict XVI C. Pope Clement X D. Pope St. John XXIII

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Which pope said the following?

In the vision of the Book of Revelation … we see that in front of God’s throne an angel is holding a golden censer in his hand into which he continues to put grains of incense, that is our prayer, whose sweet fragrance is offered together with the prayers that rise to God (cf. Rv 8:1-4). It is a symbolism that tells us how all our prayers — with every possible limitation, effort, poverty, dryness and imperfection they may have — are so to speak purified and reach God’s heart. In other words we can be sure that there is no such thing as superfluous or useless prayers; no prayer is wasted. And prayers are answered, even if the answer is sometimes mysterious, for God is Love and infinite Mercy.

Answer: (B) Pope Benedict XVI in his General

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the cup of his death did not in fact pass.

Of course, that Jesus asked to be spared from the cross is not the whole story. He indeed asked for what he desired, but that desire was subordinated to the Father’s will. In the same way, the Gospels encourage us to ask ourselves about the conformity of our prayer to the desire of the When our Spirit, especially when we are tempted to stop praying beprayer is not cause we think our prayers have answered not been answered. immediately, In the spiritual classic perseverance Trustful Surrender to Divine Providence, St. Claude de la Coand lombière puts it this way: “Christ persistence promised on behalf of his Father are required.” that he would give us everything, even the very smallest things. But he laid down an order to be observed in all that we ask, and if we do not obey this rule we are unlikely to obtain anything. He tells us in St. Matthew: ‘Seek first the kingdom of God and his justice and all these things shall be given to you besides.’”

DOUG CULP

is the CAO and secretary for pastoral life for the Diocese of Lexington, Ky. He holds an MA in theology from Catholic Theological Union in Chicago.

delivered them from Egypt, they spent another 40 years in the desert before entering the Promised Land. Along the way, there was grumbling, backsliding, idolatry and doubt as their prayers and God’s promise were unfulfilled.

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Given all this, what does this story have to teach us about the nature of answered prayer?

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How might this passage help you support a friend who is struggling in his or her faith because of unanswered prayers?

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FOR ABBY AND MITCHELL,

FaithFest ‘SHOWS EVERYONE HOW COOL THE CATHOLIC CHURCH IS’

F YOU THINK OF A SUMMER MUSIC FESTIVAL and what most summer music festivals involve, FaithFest with the Christian music, sacraments, and surrounded by the beauty of the retreat center, was absolutely counter-cultural in all of the best ways,” Mitchell Feldpausch explains.

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Mitchell and Abby Feldpausch attended the inaugural FaithFest in June of 2016 and took their daughters Nora, Zaylie, and Lucia (now ages three, two, and one). The couple looks forward to attending FaithFest 2017 with an additional family member – the baby they are expecting this spring. “A lot of our friends were going last year and bringing their kids, so that made it easier and was a great chance for the kids to enjoy their friends and for us to gather together,” Mitchell says.

“Actually, at first we considered going without the girls,” Abby recalls, “but quickly decided to take them along and we are glad we did.

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We will often have the TV off and music on in our house, so the girls are familiar with Christian music.

Mitchell plays the guitar, and music is a central part of our prayer life and faith life, so to have these musicians coming locally to this large Catholic event was a big draw for us.”

Abby continues: “I loved that it was outdoors – the girls were able to enjoy the beautiful day, listen to the music and dance. We also brought our nephew and niece, they were 13 and 11. It was fun to watch them take it in – they really enjoyed it.”

Mitchell agrees that while music was what drew them to the event, the fact that it was more than

simply a concert will bring them back this year. “We knew Matt Maher and the other musicians would be a good show, but we also knew the whole event would be family-friendly, that the kids would like not only the music but all the extra activities as well. It was exciting to have a large-scale event like this right here in our diocese.”

The size and scale of the event served as affirmation to Mitchell, Abby and their girls. “Gathering that many people with Christ being the reason to come together was very inspiring. It was a neat opportunity for fellowship,” Abby notes. “Mass with Matt Maher playing music and Bishop Boyea celebrating was awesome. Anytime you have that number of people at Mass it is definitely powerful.

The reverence was beautiful and moving. We are so blessed to have

a gathering of this scale within our own diocese.”

“For sure,” Mitchell agrees, “celebrating Mass with that number of people is awesome, and I think it really is cool when that is the actual apex of what is going on.

You are in pretty good company with the priests and religious there, and just being there, in community with everyone, was wonderful. You feel like you are part of something huge. And you are.”

“There were a lot of people taking the chance to go to confession and adoration throughout the day,” Abby recalls, “which was so cool. I think this type of casual, welcoming setting offers some people who might not normally walk into their church and go to confession, the opportunity to take advantage of it here. Music might be what draws people to the day, but once you’re there, so much more offered.”

Music after the vigil Mass wrapped up a grace-filled day. “By the end of the night we brought the kids to the front of stage, right up on the rails to listen to the music.

Once it started to get dark everyone got out their glow sticks, and then the fireworks were so fun at the

end. It was neat, the kids really liked it,” Mitchell notes.

As far as what they look forward to this year, Abby says “the community of it. Your faith isn’t just personal, but there’s truly a community here and this sharing of faith and sacraments and time together is powerful. There was a great turnout last year, but I definitely think it’s going to be something that will just grow.”

Mitchell adds, “Yes, we are looking forward to more of the same, having a similar experience.

It’s an experience we look back on fondly. We are excited to see Sanctus Real and the rest of the musical lineup, and just to come together as community. For us, it’s a shot in the arm to get moving and get excited about things, to do a little bit more in our faith and to be more deliberate. When people start to get more comfortable in their faith they start to gain confidence and get out there are do some of these things, which ultimately helps build each other up and provides great witness to our faith.

The simple act of gathering can be a great witness. We can show everyone how cool the Catholic Church really is.”

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Fest 2016, their eyes light up and smiles stream from their faces. The love! The music! The setting! The joy!

Cliff recalls a moment from their experience: “After the fireworks, the crowds cleared out. It was about 11:30 and we went down to the main road to wait for our hotel shuttle with another couple. As we stood there, a car pulled up and the driver turned off the engine. He rolled down his window, leaned out and began talking to our little group.

“The man said, ‘I’ve got a couple of odd gifts for you.’

He then handed us two ice cream bars and two bottles of water for us to share. That was when I realized this random, generous stranger was Jason Gray! He had already performed in the hot sun all day and now he was back giving us gifts.

“What a great way to end the night! But that’s what the entire day at FaithFest was like. Amazing love and kindness from strangers gathered to be blessed by the music, the environment and each other!"

“Come to FaithFest this summer to visit the Lord in a whole different way. He is truly present there,” Julia exclaims. “Experience it for yourself!”

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arol Demshuk and Lela Vandenberg spoke at the diocesan assembly in Lansing in October 2016. They shared the story of Carol, a parishioner at St. James in Mason, accompanying Lela on her return to the Catholic Church. Carol followed the lead of the Holy Spirit in praying for Lela’s spiritual growth, in letting her love for Jesus in the Eucharist be her witness, in giving timely invitations to Mass and suggestions to look at Scripture – and in accompanying her through life as her friend and prayer partner.

Here is the dialogue Lela and Carol presented at the assembly.

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Lela: I was raised in a good Catholic family and had 12 years of Catholic school. I went to college and, though I wanted to be a good person, I decided I didn’t need God anymore to help me. I was proud, independent and liberated. You can guess — it was the '60s.

Over time, I began to feel an emptiness inside, and kept up a futile search for ways to fill it. The last night of my three-year Peace Corps service in Rwanda (where I met and married my husband of almost 39 years), I stood under the stars and said, “God, if you’re real, I want to know you.”

We returned to the States and attended grad school at MSU. Through the witness of another grad student, I eventually became a Protestant, and, through the Holy Spirit and his grace, kept growing in my love for God.

I KNEW SHE ALREADY LOVED GOD VERY MUCH, AND I RESPECTED WHO SHE WAS AS A PERSON OF GOD. I REALLY DIDN’T PRAY FOR HER TO BE CATHOLIC, BUT I DID PRAY FOR GOD TO KEEP DRAWING HER CLOSER.”

Carol: We met each other in a prayer group with people of different Christian faiths. Over the years, our friendship grew. We prayed together, attended conferences and studied spiritual writings. Lela was so good to me. She helped me come to under18

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stand and accept the unconditional love that Jesus has for me. Our different faith backgrounds were never an issue for us.

Lela: One thing I really appreciated about Carol is that I never felt she was trying to convince me to become Catholic. If she had, in my pride, I know I would have backed away. She was just my spiritual friend. We simply knew God together.

I belonged to a Vineyard church (a charismatic, non-Pentecostal church). Even though Carol didn’t try to convince me to become Catholic, I really wanted her to join me at the Vineyard.

Carol: Lela mentioned that her pastor was preaching an interesting series and maybe I should come.

I did, and I enjoyed being there. The sermons were excellent, but I felt an emptiness there. An essence was missing.

Lela: I said, “Carol, you obviously like it here, why don’t you just join?” And she said, “It’s the Eucharist, I could never leave the Eucharist.” That surprised me and got me pondering …

Carol: At one point, I said, “You might want to look at John 6,” and she did. That’s where Jesus says: “Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink

his blood, you do not have life within you … For my flesh is true food and my blood is true drink.” (53-55) She said, “I just don’t think I can believe that.” This is the crux of the miracle — it wasn’t me, it wasn’t her, it was God graciously working in her!

We were sharing life and sharing our mutual love of God. I knew she already loved God very much, and I respected who she was as a person of God. I really didn’t pray for her to be Catholic, but I did pray for God to keep drawing her closer.

Lela: Then, in 2013, we took a year-long ecumenical course called "Spiritual Foundations" at the Dominican Center in Grand Rapids. During that year, we read a lot about saints and mystics, and I also began having weekly spiritual conversations with my Catholic sister, Nancy Rowland. The next year, in 2014, Carol and I both began a two-year course in spiritual direction, which led us deeper into the saints and mysticism of the Catholic Church. I chose St. Thérèse of Lisieux as my special spiritual giant. I even began praying to her, something no good Protestant should do!

Carol: Silent retreats were required annually as part of our courses. We went together to one at the Augustine Center near Petoskey, and stopped at the Cross in the Woods at Indian River on our way home. We went into the gift shop and Lela bought a rosary. I was shocked! What is happening? I should have known …

Lela: I had started visiting churches and attending Mass at Carol’s invitation. I began longing for the Eucharist, but knew I couldn’t be Catholic if I couldn’t also love and accept Mary, so I thought I would try saying the rosary and see what might happen.

Carol: I noticed a shift happening toward Catholicism. Lela began to talk about her hunger for the Eucharist, and I suggested she talk to Father John Byers at Immaculate Heart of Mary in Lansing, a parish near her home that she had visited and liked a lot.

Lela: Father John was very helpful and answered a lot of my questions. But I then learned that I would need to get an annulment from a short marriage I’d had in my 20s. At first, I thought, “That’s it, I can’t do this and I love my Vineyard church anyway.” But, Father John had said he’d help me, so I went back and we did all the paperwork and submitted it just after Easter in 2015.

Carol: All during this process I was thinking, “She’s going for an annulment!” It was at this point that my prayer changed to hope and expectation. I

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could only say, “Your will be done, God.” Even then, I never applied any pressure or became like a cheerleader urging her on. I was just happy to witness God’s work in her. It was amazing.

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Lela: In Holy Week of 2016, the annulment came through on Tuesday, and I received the sacrament of reconciliation. On Wednesday, I received the Eucharist and my marriage was blessed in matrimony! I had come home!

Carol: I had the great privilege of being a witness to her marriage vows. We attended the Good Friday service together and it was an overwhelming joy for both of us to receive the Eucharist together.

Our joy continues over and over.

CALLED BY NAME

The diocesan assembly Called by Name was called by Bishop Earl Boyea to engage issues surrounding the return of non-practicing Catholics to the Church. Lela and Carol’s story illustrates the four pillars of evangelization: prayer, with the Holy Spirit as the principal agent in the process; witness, through example; invite, into everyday life and faith; and accompany, through every step of the way. Lela and Carol will be the first to say that being good friends and sharing life and faith in Jesus facilitated Lela’s return.

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We are grateful to be safe here

SYRIANS AHMAD AND MANAL BUILDING NEW LIFE IN MICHIGAN

BY NANCY ROSEBUSH SCHERTZING | PHOTOGRAPHY BY TOM GENNARA

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HMAD AND MANAL DABOUL are peaceful people. Grateful to be safe in the U.S., they shake their heads at the tragic circumstances that sent their beloved Syria into its current chaos and destruction.

house for their families and told us to come live with them.

There was nothing left for us in Syria, so we agreed.

“When they released her, the hospital gave Manal a report saying she needed medical assistance. We took this with us as we traveled by bus to the Jordanian border. After waiting about seven hours, the Syrian government gave us permission to leave. We took a taxi across the border and waited four hours for permission to enter Jordan." Finally, “To talk about my city, Damascus,” Manal says through they were let in. interpreter Aya Turki, “we were living in peace. Friends and “We moved into the house with my brothers and their neighbors always in peace. Shia or Suni never made any families. Twenty-seven of us in three bedrooms!” Ahmad difference. Our faith is a peaceful religion, but people of all laughs. faiths lived side by side.”

Manal interjects, “It was all love! We supported each other.”

“We are a peaceful people,” Ahmad agrees. “I don’t deny “For three and a half years, we lived there. I worked as there are good people and bad people, but Islam teaches that a welder. Manal stayed at home with our children and got if you kill anyone, it is like you have killed all humanity. That stronger. is what the Prophet says.

“We arrived in America last summer with the help of St. “One day in Dar’aa, a small town 70 miles south of Vincent Catholic Charities’ Refugee Services. They helped us Damascus, kids from school started a protest like the Arab rent a townhouse for our family and enroll the children in Spring they had seen in Tunisia. nearby schools. Our oldest daughter, Raghad, is 12. Ranim, “The Army took the kids and tortured them. When their our second daughter, is 11. And our son, Yasser, is 7. He does families protested to get their children back, everything especially well in English.” just exploded. After that, the Free Army Manal smiles ruefully, “Sometimes he started and other countries stepped in.” even corrects his mother and helps his “We arrived in America Ahmad shakes his head. father with English!” Her expression Manal continues, “We had a home in reveals a mixture of pride blushed with last summer with the Damascus very near my parents’ house. exasperation. “I studied English through help of St. Vincent My brothers and sisters lived there with my schooling, but when we first came, Catholic Charities’ them, so we were all very close. it was hard to understand. I am taking Refugee Services.

“One day in the early summer of 2012, classes at Lansing Community College, They helped us rent a we woke up and could hear bombs going and now I’m better.” townhouse for our family off in the downtown. I was about three “I am planning to go to LCC for and enroll the children in months pregnant, and we gathered our English, too,” Ahmad adds. “And nearby schools” children to wait it out. They were young – American customers at my work help me 8, 7 and 2 years old.” with pronunciations. Refugee Services “It was the worst day of my life,” helped me get a job at the Halal Market, Ahmad says, shaking his head. “We had only been there and now I’m famous there!” He laughs. “Christian or about 10 minutes when suddenly our whole area was Muslim, all the people I’ve met are wonderful.” covered in black smoke. I looked out of the room, and saw “Refugee Services also helped me get therapy to recover that our kitchen was just gone. A missile tore through the from my stroke,” Manal adds, “and now I can walk with a opposite corner of our house from where we were huddled. brace and a cane! My therapists treat me like family. They It wiped away our kitchen and went on to our neighbor’s give me courage to push myself. When I do it, they are houses. In seconds, everything was changed.” so happy! Like family they celebrate with me. They are Manal continues, “It blew out all the doors and windows wonderful people who have helped me make great progress.” of our house. We had been spared from flying debris, but “We are grateful to be safe here,” Ahmad smiles, “but we the shock and terror stole my voice. As I stood looking at the also miss our family and life in Syria.” space where my kitchen had been, I felt my left arm growing “For me, all my heart, I want the war heavy and I collapsed. I was having a stroke. to end,” Ahmad concludes. “We hope LEARN MORE “Somehow, they got me to the hospital, where I stayed for 18 someday Syria will be as it was in the days. During my stay, I lost the baby and my ability to walk. days before the revolution. I sometimes TO LEARN “My family took our children and moved about 10 miles think about what might have been if MORE ABOUT ST. VINCENT south of Damascus to Sahnaya. While I was in the hospital, both sides apologized at the start. Now CATHOLIC my family went back to our home to see if anything was left. destruction is all that’s left.”

CHARITIES They brought nothing back.”

Thanks to St. Vincent Catholic REFUGEE Ahmad picks up the story. “My parents had died long Charities, the Daboul family can watch SERVICES, VISIT before the fighting, but four of my brothers and three sisters in safety as they pray for peace and THEIR WEBSITE AT STVCC.ORG. lived in Jordan. Two of my brothers rented a three-bedroom healing in their homeland.

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Bernard Reilly, Judith and Charles Filice

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CAMPAIGN BROUGHT PARISH TOGETHER

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OR 73 YEARS, Charles Filice has called St. Mary Cathedral his home.

And, his love for the parish is why he and his wife, Judith, agreed to assist with the diocesan-wide Witness to Hope campaign within the parish.

The couple, along with Karol and Lance Lynch, were co-chairs of the campaign at the cathedral, and their role was to educate and engage parishioners through hosting question-and-answer receptions. The co-chairs also spoke to the congregation during the campaign’s kickoff.

“It was very hard to decline anything Msgr. Bernard Reilly asked,” Judith Filice says, laughing. Msgr. Reilly is the rector at St. Mary Cathedral.

During the receptions, parishioners had their questions and concerns answered. They learned that the campaign is a shared responsibility as it “gives parishioners the opportunity to not only help their individual parish, but to partner with all the other parishes in the diocese to help foster a strong and faith-filled future for the Diocese of Lansing,” Charles says.

The Filices were given a general outline about the campaign, which appealed to Charles because it was not a “high-pressure sell.”

“It wasn’t a guilt-inflicting approach. It was kind of a soft sell through explanation of what the purpose of the campaign was and how the funds will be used,” he says.

In addition to campaign funds being allocated throughout the diocese for faith programs, what intrigued Judith was that the campaign also supports the diocesan priests’ well-being and “our brothers and sisters in Flint.” She also highlighted that the parish at St. Mary Cathedral will finally be able to address building maintenance issues.

“While (the maintenance issues) may not be very dramatic or colorful, they need to be taken care of,” she says, adding that the physical structure of the diocesan churches, especially the cathedral, need to be cared for, and the campaign assists with that.

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From left, Msgr. Bernard Reilly, Karol Lynch, Sister Joan Meerschaert and Lance Lynch recognize meeting the St. Mary Cathedral Parish goal. The Lynches were co-chairs of the campaign with Judith and Charles Filice.

the stained glass windows, and she said she finds them to be helpful in her spiritual reflections. The outer frames of the windows are slated to be preserved with the campaign funds.

“When I first heard the requirements and the needs of the physical structure of the cathedral, it was clear to me that was something we had to address,” she says.

The Filices and the Lynches approached the campaign as directed – with a soft touch.

“The idea was to have people give from generosity as opposed to some sense of obligation. I think we achieved that, and it united people for a common goal,” Charles says.

Prior to the receptions, Charles says he would see other parishioners at Mass or events; however, he did not necessarily know everyone’s name. The campaign gave people the chance to not only fund the mission, but to engage with one another.

The capital campaign is a common goal, a common goal that unites the people.

Aside from how the funds will assist the parish and the diocese, Judith added that she appreciated that the campaign period was short.

“You have this initial drive … to gather people together in community, but it doesn’t stretch out for an exceptionally long period of time, and I think that can be an advantage to something like this,” she says.

“Money was involved, but it was something that was solicited in a benign way, and also people saw the purpose for it. I think that’s very important that people actually respond to the need and did very generously in our experience,” she says.

“Witness to Hope involved a lot of soul searching and a lot of consideration,” Charles adds.

Because the campaign “was not guilt ridden,” Charles says people could contribute through prayer or volunteering. Without the pressure, it gave people the opportunity to learn the purpose of the campaign – to get everyone involved. – CARI ANN DELAMIELLEURE-SCOTT

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OR MORE THAN 100 YEARS, St. Mary Cathedral has served as the center of the Catholic Church for the Diocese of Lansing, but its rich history dates back to before it was even named a cathedral.

“A cathedral gets its name surprisingly enough from a piece of furniture – the cathedra, the chair. The chair is symbolic of the teaching authority of the Church and the bishop that sits in the chair. And, so, thinking about Rome as the center for the Church around the world … the cathedral – if you will – is the center for the other parishes in the diocese, and that happens really in every diocese,” explains Msgr. Bernard Reilly, rector of St. Mary Cathedral.

What is unique about St. Mary Cathedral is that it was, and remains, a parish. The building itself dates back to when the church was consecrated in 1913, and in 1937, St. Mary Church became the cathedral for the Diocese of Lansing.

“St. Mary Parish was the first parish in the city back in 1866, so we just finished celebrating the 150th jubilee of the parish last year, and in 2013, we celebrated the centennial of this building, the cathedral, which is the third church that has been in existence for the parish,” Msgr. Reilly explains.

Being the center of the Church within the diocese, activities that take place there include ordinations – for the

smaller ordination Masses – the Chrism Mass and regional confirmation services. During the Year of Mercy, the cathedral was the only site designated with a Door of Mercy where plenary indulgences could be gained, and people came by the busloads. “Some were scheduled visits, and some were individuals who would come and stop in and ask, “Where’s the door?”

The diocese provided a new Holy Door for the Year of Mercy, and it was a beautiful addition.

At more than 100 years old, the building isn't immune to creaks and cracks. As a result of a successful response to the parish’s goal for the diocesan-wide Witness to Hope campaign, the infrastructure will see improvements in the future, such as fixing water damage from a leaking roof, attending to the window frames along the outside of the building, and replacing the 20- to 25-year-old carpet.

The windows, Msgr. Reilly says, are “priceless treasures,” and additional external protection is needed to protect those treasurers for “at least another 100 years. I hope they last that long and that the next generation will see the treasures that these windows are,” he remarks.

Msgr. Reilly says the funds will also address how they can protect the entryways. “Right now, the first effort is our interior space and making contact with some artisans … people who can do this properly and show tenderness for the building because it is one of the older buildings in town.”

The congregation consists of 750 households, but those households have a large impact on the diocese because their parish resides within the cathedral.

St. Mary “We’ve all been asked to stretch a little will receive bit with this and realize the role that we funds from have, not only for the parish itself, but the greater our involvement in the diocese. There diocesan-wide are probably people out there who don’t campaign realize that we are a parish just like they under the belong to. … We’re self-sustaining; we category of have a budget and have to meet the “supporting budget just like every other parish, or our shared draw on our reserves if we go overboard ministry” somewhere,” he explains. because of the In addition to the money the catheimportance of dral raised as part of its parish-wide the cathedral contribution to Witness to Hope, St. to the whole Mary will receive funds from the greater diocese. diocesan-wide campaign under the category of “supporting our shared ministry” because of the importance of the cathedral to the whole diocese. Shared funds from the diocesan campaign will be used to update the heating system, install air conditioning and update the sound system.

St. Mary Cathedral is our shared treasure, and the funds from Witness to Hope will help to preserve and pass down this treasure to future generations.

– CARI ANN DELAMIELLEURE-SCOTT

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CULTURE

These little gems are not only a great way to teach younger kids about the Resurrection, they are a quick and delicious sweet roll to make for any Easter gathering.

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Y DAUGHTER ONCE ASKED ME, “Mom, what is the best thing that’s

ever happened to you?” I immediately answered with what most parents would say, “Well, of course, the day you were born!”

T. Gennara

I often ponder that miraculous event that took place in my life.

Of all the events of my life, the birth of my children remains the most powerful and beautiful in my memory. But of course, as Christians, we know even something as miraculous as childbirth actually pales in comparison to the single most important event in human history; something that has happened to all of us and the most important truth and proof of our Christianity — Christ’s resurrection. It is that which has given us “a new birth into a living hope.” (1 Pt 1:3) But, of course, at her young age, I could have never expected my daughter to grasp the significance of Christ’s resurrection, right? Surely a reference to her own birth is a safer and more understandable response.

I’m certain it makes more sense to wait for her to be a bit older before I bore her sincere question with some heavy response about human salvation.

Or does it?

MICHELLE DIFRANCO It should never be too early to make the realiis a designer and ty of our Christian inheritance known to children. the busy mom of I know that we are better able to grasp theology three children. as our minds develop into adulthood, but children are smarter than we think. With the right tools and delivery, we can start them toward a better understanding of the most important, and beautiful, part of our life — our relationship with God. One such way is to bake “resurrection rolls.” I wish I would’ve known about these when my daughter was much younger. These little gems are not only a great way to teach younger kids about the resurrection, but also a quick and delicious sweet roll to make for any Easter gathering. How delicious? Well they aren't going to be “the best thing that ever happened to you,” but they will rank highly on your list of Easter treats — and they certainly reference well the best thing that ever did happen to all of us!

Resurrection rolls • 1 (10 ounce) can refrigerated crescent rolls • Package of large marshmallows • ¼ cup butter, melted • ¼ cup sugar • 1 tablespoon ground cinnamon SYMBOLISM Marshmallow – Body of Jesus Butter – Oils used in burial Sugar and cinnamon – Spices used in burial Dough triangle – Cloth used to wrap Jesus Baked roll with empty center – Empty tomb Preheat oven to 375 Whi le baki degrees. Prepare a ng, r ead Luke baking sheet with non23:5 056, 2 stick cooking spray or 4:1-1 2 parchment paper. You may also use a cupcake tin.

Separate dough into eight triangles and set aside. Combine sugar and cinnamon in a small bowl and set aside.

Dip each marshmallow into bowl of melted butter and roll in cinnamon-sugar. Place on each dough triangle. Pinch dough around marshmallow, sealing all edges. Make sure to seal well to prevent marshmallow from leaking.

Brush tops of dough balls with remaining butter and dip in cinnamon-sugar. Place roll with the sugar side up on baking sheet (or in muffin pan).

Bake for 13-15 minutes. The marshmallow melts into the dough and the result is the appearance of an empty tomb upon breaking one in half. Best when served warm.

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MORE THAN 500 ATTEND MEN’S CONFERENCE The Man Event, the men’s conference sponsored by the Diocese of Lansing, was held on Feb. 25 at Our Lady of Fatima in Michigan Center. More than 500 men attended the day-long event, which featured Dr. James Keating as keynote speaker. Bishop Earl Boyea celebrated Mass, and music was provided by Brian Flynn. The talks were deep and inspiring, the company was great and the roasted pig for lunch was excellent. It was a true man event!

One participant remarked: “I want to tell you how impressed my sons and I were by the whole event. Each of the talks by Deacon Keating and Father Tim MacDonald were worth the time invested, but it was also gratifying to be in the company of 500 men of like mind and spirit.”

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Deb Amato, director of the Department of Evangelization and Lay Formation for the Diocese of Lansing, has been named to the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops' (USCCB) National Advisory Council.

Deb reflected on her appointment: “First, let me say that the bishop’s confidence in me is humbling. He nominated me for this role back in November and then the Bishops’ committee made the final selections.

The National Advisory Council is described as 'the Church in miniature' because it is meant to represent the broad diversity within the Catholic Church.

The approximately 55 members of the Advisory Council offer a response to the many different reports, documents and issues that may come before the USCCB. This gives the Administrative Committee of the USCCB an additional dimension of the faith experience of U.S. Catholics, which can help them to shape policy and direction for the Catholic Church in the United States. We meet twice a year about two months prior to the USCCB’s meetings. I am looking forward to my four-year appointment, most especially because I think faithful Catholics sharing our experience with our bishops aids them in being the good shepherds that God calls them to be.”

BISHOP BOYEA BLESSES NEW CATHOLIC CHARITIES FACILITY IN JACKSON

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Catholic Charities of Jackson, Lenawee and Hillsdale Counties held an open house at its new location in Jackson, and Bishop Earl Boyea conducted a service that included blessing the new location.

He thanked the contributors, volunteers and community partners working with the agency, and said, “We become our best selves when we give ourselves away. For those who believe, this is our way to become Jesus Christ to others.”

The consolidation from two older facilities into one new location has allowed the organization to expand its human services to area clients, including on-site foster care and adoption services.

“We are excited to be able to improve client services through significantly updated facilities, better accessibility and a comfortable environment more conducive to outpatient counseling and group therapy,” said Sue Lewis, executive director.

PAT O’HEARN, DIRECTOR OF DEVELOPMENT FOR THE DIOCESE, RETIRING

Livingston County Catholic Charities (LCCC) announced, with great appreciation, that it has received a grant in the amount of $3,000 from the Gannett Foundation for wiring and technology needs for the expansion of LCCC’s Foster Family Care and Adoption programs.

Due to the growth in the program and the needs of the community, LCCC is leasing an additional 3,000 square feet of office space in the same complex as its main agency office to house the Foster Family Care and Adoption programs. The Gannett Foundation grant will be used to purchase equipment and services needed to outfit the vacant office space for computer and phone systems.

After 10 years of service to the diocese as director of development, Pat O’Hearn is retiring. Under Pat’s tenure, the DSA achieved its goals every year. Pat has brought professionalism and class to our diocesan efforts. She ran campaigns for priest retirement homes, started the golf outing for seminarians, coordinated Lansing’s first local chapter of Legatus and helped kick off the first-ever capital campaign. We thank Pat for her years of excellent service to our diocese.

RACHEL MATERO

LIVINGSTON COUNTY CATHOLIC CHARITIES RECEIVES GRANT FROM THE GANNETT FOUNDATION

LEFT TO RIGHT: Bishop Boyea giving the opening prayer Bridgette Carr, founding director of the University of Michigan Human Trafficking Law Clinic, speaks to attendees on myths and misconceptions about human trafficking.

MICHIGAN CATHOLIC CONFERENCE HOSTS HUMAN TRAFFICKING CONFERENCE On Feb. 11, the Michigan Catholic Conference hosted “From Darkness to Light: Human Trafficking and Our Response” at Lansing Catholic High School. This day-long conference, which was attended by about 300 people, focused on such topics as addressing human trafficking

in the health care setting and prevention initiatives, and highlighted organizations that work to combat this crime. It also provided ways for individuals to get involved in awareness efforts.

Bishop Earl Boyea began the conference with prayer. One of the keynote speakers was Bridgette Carr, founding director of the University of Michigan Human Trafficking Law Clinic.

Afternoon panel: Sister Barbara Cline, FSE; Meredith Reese, vice president of treatment programs at Vista Maria; Special Agent Jeremy Ashcroft of the FBI; Kelly Carter, assistant attorney general; and Jay Kommareddi, chair of the Michigan Human Trafficking Health Advisory Board.

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MARRIAGE MATTERS OF JACKSON, MARRIAGEMATTERSJACKSON.COM or 517.796.5116

THINGS TO DO April 20, 1-6 p.m., Open House at St. Mary Star of the Sea Elementary School, 116 E. Wesley, Jackson: offering your family an affordable, faith-based education in a safe, secure downtown location, featuring small class sizes and adjacent child care. Enrolling now pre-K-grade 6.

Families of all faiths are welcome. For information, call 517.784.8811 or visit jcsstmary.org.

April 20, 8 a.m.-4:30 p.m., St. Michael Parish, Grand Ledge will have its spring rummage and bake sale in the Fellowship Hall located in the church’s basement. For information, call the parish office at 517.627.8493.

April 20, 9 a.m.-4:30 p.m., and April 21, 9 a.m.-noon, Holy Spirit Catholic Church, Brighton will have a rummage sale. For information, contact the parish office at 810.231.9199.

April 21, 6-8:30 p.m., the New Life Center, Lansing will host “Called to Mercy,” its first annual benefit dinner, at Eagle Eye Banquet Center, 1501 Chandler Rd., Bath, featuring pro-life speaker Dr. Alveda King, niece of the late Dr. Martin

BUILD A BETTER MARRIAGE

• Mondays, 6-8 p.m., HUB Activity Center, 1300 S. Hillsdale Rd., Hillsdale.

• Mondays, 6-8 p.m., United Way Center, 536 N. Jackson St., Jackson.

• Tuesdays, 6-8 p.m., Centre, Meeting Rm. B, 1800 W. U.S. Hwy. 223,Adrian.

• Tuesdays, 6-8 p.m., Northwest Community Schools Administration Office, 6900 Rives Junction Rd., Jackson.

ATTEND A CATHOLIC ENGAGED ENCOUNTER RETREAT

PLAY GOLF TO BENEFIT LANSING CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL

APRIL CAFÉ EVENTS July 17-21, Private Directed Retreat at Weber Retreat Center in Adrian. Come away for a few days to peacefully reflect and rest in God’s presence. There will be time and space for solitude and personal prayer.

Each participant will meet daily with a spiritual director to explore and share your journey.

Register early, as directors can accompany only five people per retreat. Janene Ternes is a spiritual director who received her training through the Ignatian Spiritual Direction Program and is a supervisor for the program. Register at weber. adriandominicans.org or 517.266.4000.

Every Tuesday, 7:30 p.m., St. Agnes, Fowlerville has His Merciful Heart Prayer Group. On the first and third Thursdays of each month, 7-8:30 p.m., Men’s Bible Study occurs in Higgins Hall. For information, call the parish office at 517.223.8684.

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“Building Better Marriages” weekly workshops are ongoing; drop-ins are welcome and no pre-registration is required. An MMJ facilitator explores a new topic each week in a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere.

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Luther King, and Pastor Walter Hoye, who speaks on the impact of “Abortion in Black America” and the “Role of Men Meeting the Physical and Spiritual Needs of Women.” To attend, register online at newlifecenterlansing.org.

April 22, 5-7 p.m., Steak and Song at St. Thomas Aquinas School’s gym in East Lansing. Enjoy a steak dinner and musical entertainment from the music ministry. Tickets are $12 in advance for adults and $15 at the door. Children’s tickets are $7. Tickets available March 31 at the parish office. FMI: 517.351.7215.

April 22-23, Catholic Engaged Encounter Retreat is a Christian marriage preparation ministry based on Catholic teachings and values, emphasizing the relationship of the couples in terms of their sacramental commitment. Deadline to register is April 8. For information, call Sue and Wayne Fransted at 810.588.4181, email info@lansingcee.org or visit lansingcee.org.

April 22, 9 a.m.-4 p.m., St. Casimir Catholic Church, 815 Sparrow Ave., Lansing, will have a prom dress giveaway with more than 500 dresses available on a first-come, first-served basis. Come pick out that special dress for your prom.

For information, contact the parish office at 517.482.1346.

April 26, 3 p.m., Catholic Charities' annual awards banquet honoring its dedicated volunteers will be at Our Lady of Guadalupe, 2317 Coldwater Rd., Flint, in Juan Diego Hall. Volunteers who want to attend should RSVP to the North End Soup Kitchen at 810.785.6911.

April 27, 6:30-8:30 p.m., Shared Pregnancy Women's Center is hosting its annual fundraiser open house at the Grand Ledge Opera

House, 121 South Bridge St., that includes a silent auction, children's activities, ice cream sundaes and a short award ceremony. All proceeds from the silent auction will be used to help moms and babies in the Lansing area. For more information, call 517.484.1882 or sharedpregnancy.org.

April 29, 8:30-10 a.m., St. Michael Parish, Grand Ledge will have its next women’s breakfast; topic will be “Let go — Let God.” To register, please call the parish office at 517.627.8493.

May 8, 33rd annual Fr. Mac Scholarship Dinner: Keynote Speaker Matthew Leonard, internationally known Catholic author and speaker; Community Service Award recipient Father Steve Mattson. For information, contact Colleen Murray at 517.267.2109 or colleen.murray@ lansingcatholic.org or Paula Wilcox at 517.267.2121 or paula.wilcox@ lansingcatholic.org.

May 14-15, St. Joseph Catholic Church, St. Johns, Parish Retreat, presented by Father Chris Altar with the Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception and the director of the Association of the Marian Helpers, who have the mission of spreading the message of divine mercy.

May 21, 5 p.m.-midnight, Holy Family School, Grand Blanc’s auction at Genesys Conference and Banquet Center, 805 Health Park Blvd., Grand Blanc. Cost is $40 per person. Tickets can be purchased at Holy Family School or hfsgb.org.

June 16, 10 a.m., shotgun start, Lansing Catholic High School’s 29th annual Cougar Classic at Forest Akers West-MSU; player fee is $135.

Directly benefits 500 students at its high school. Be sure to register early.

For information, contact Colleen Murray at 517.267.2109 orcolleen. murray@lansingcatholic.org or

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RETREAT CENTERS ST. FRANCIS RETREAT CENTER, DEWITT, STFRANCIS.WS or 866.669.8321 • April 8, an RCIA Retreat specifically for those coming into the Church at Easter. Sponsors are encouraged to attend with their candidates. Online registration is $45 from March 8 to April 1, and $55 after April 1.

• April 26, 9 a.m.-3:30 p.m., “Divine Mercy Touching My Soul.” Through Scripture, the saints and Pope Francis, you will get in touch with God’s greatest gift for you. Retreat director is Tony Sperendi. Cost is $30.

WEBER RETREAT AND CONFERENCE CENTER, ADRIAN, WEBER.ADRIANDOMINICANS.ORG or 517.266.4000 • April 9-13, Holy Week Retreat “See What Love …,” Sunday, 6:30 p.m.Thursday, 1 p.m. It offers an opportunity to reflect on key moments and movements in your life and the life of Jesus. Participants will have opportunities for quiet reflection, guided meditations, participation in liturgies and attending daily conferences.

Paula Wilcox at 517.267.2121 or paula. wilcox@lansingcatholic.org.

June 19-24, an icon painting workshop will be held at St. Thomas Aquinas, 955 Alton Rd., East Lansing.

Beginners will complete an icon and receive basic theoretical/practical knowledge for their spiritual and artistic journey. This workshop is filling fast. If you are interested in attending, register now by emailing

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contact@inconclasses.org.

June 23-26, Father Prabhu Lakra, parochial vicar of St. Joseph, Howell, will have a four-day pilgrimage to the churches and shrines of Illinois and Wisconsin, including roundtrip travel by luxury motor coach, daily Mass and a Catholic Corporate Travel Service tour manager. For information or to register, call Val at 313.565.8888, ext. 185.

CATHOLIC CHARITIES CATHOLIC CHARITIES OF JACKSON, LENAWEE AND HILLSDALE COUNTIES, CATHOLICCHARITIESJLHC.ORG, JACKSON: 517.782.2551, ADRIAN/HILLSDALE: 517.263.2191 • Visit the new Jackson location at 3425 Francis St. The Personal Need and Linen Closet will continue to operate at 4070 S. Mechanic St., with donations accepted at the Francis Street office during the week. All services in Lenawee and Hillsdale counties will remain the same.

CATHOLIC CHARITIES OF SHIAWASSEE AND GENESEE COUNTIES 810.232.9950 FLINT or 989.723.8239 SHIAWASSEE • Calling all Easter bunnies: If you would like to give an Easter basket to children who have Easter dinner at the North End Soup Kitchen, baskets filled with candy/small toys can be dropped off at 735 E. Stewart Ave., Flint, Mon.-Sat. from 9 a.m.-5 p.m., or call 810.785.6911 to possibly schedule a pickup.

• Looking for work? We can help: job resource board, monthly employment seminars, interview clothing and accessories, work clothes. The Work Ready Room is open Tuesdays and Thursdays from 9:30 a.m. to noon, by referral only. Contact your caseworker for a referral. For more information, call 810.232.9950, ext. 143.

CATHOLIC SOCIAL SERVICES OF WASHTENAW COUNTY, CSSWASHTENAW.ORG or 734.971.9781 • If you are interested in becoming a foster or adoptive parent, you are encouraged to attend the foster care and waiting child adoption orientation meetings held each month on Tuesdays and Thursdays at CSSW, 4925 Packard Rd., Ann Arbor. For information and questions about foster care, call 734.971.9781, ext. 448.

MAKE A PILGRIMAGE TO THE CHURCHES AND SHRINES OF ILLINOIS AND WISCONSIN

CHARISMATIC RENEWAL CONFERENCE IN MICHIGAN Catholics from around the country and the world came together in February to celebrate 50 years of the charismatic renewal in the Catholic Church.

Michigan Catholics held a conference on Feb. 17-19 at the Eastern Michigan University Convocation Center in Ypsilanti.

Archibisop Allen Vigneron of the Archdiocese of Detroit presided at Mass, and Bishop Boyea concelebrated. Speakers included David Mangan and Dr. Ralph Martin, leaders of the charismatic renewal in Michigan.

LIVINGSTON COUNTY CATHOLIC CHARITIES, LIVINGSTONCATHOLICCHARITIES.ORG or 517.545.5944 • Share your talents at Be Our Guest Adult Day: Do you enjoy playing cards, bingo, word games, art projects, baking, gardening, sing-a-longs and much more? We may be what you are looking for. Join us at our supervised senior center, Be Our Guest Adult Day (BOGADS). BOGADS has volunteer opportunities. We offer scheduling flexibility with a commitment up to two to four hours a month. To learn how you can become a volunteer, contact Suzi or Katie at 517.546.9910 or suzi@livingstoncatholiccharities.org.

ST. VINCENT CATHOLIC CHARITIES, STVCC.ORG or 517.323.4734 • April 1-30, St. Vincent Catholic Charities’ fourth annual “Spring into Giving” campaign drive is for household needs. This campaign is vital for maintaining STVCC Refugee Services’ housing furniture and supplies inventory. For each refugee arrival, it provides fully furnished housing for each person or family. Most common needs: pots and pans, cooking utensils, dishes, bowls and cutlery, twin and double sheets, towels, cleaning supplies and tools. These can be gently used, or gift cards accepted from local stores where these items may be purchased. To learn more about “Spring into Giving,” visit stvcc.org/spring-into-giving/.

• If you or a loved one has an immigration need, STVCC recommends meeting with an immigration law attorney before beginning any application. It has two full-time immigration law attorneys who provide a wide spectrum of immigration legal services, such as family reunification, adjustment of status, citizenship, asylum and removal defense to community members from across Michigan, regardless of immigration status. The expertise of its attorneys is available to the public without referral and services are offered on a sliding scale fee basis.

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Speaking to a group of students on Feb. 17 at Roma Tre University in Rome, the Holy Father said, “It is necessary to tone it down a bit, to talk less and listen more.” He was speaking of remedies for violence in the world today, and suggested that people need to open their hearts and minds, and truly listen to other’s opinions and ideas. There needs to be dialogue. The tendency to “depersonalize” others is a contributing factor to violence in our world today, he theorized. Pope Francis told the students: “Where there is no dialogue, there is violence.”

THE LAW OF LOVE CONQUERS THE LAW OF VENGEANCE

During his Angelus address on Feb. 19, Pope Francis reflected on the Gospel of Matthew in which Jesus responds to the saying “An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth,” with the words, “When someone strikes you on your right cheek, turn the other one as well.” He said, “Christ shows the path of true justice, through the law of love that overcomes that of retaliation.” The Holy Father went on to say that Jesus is teaching us the difference between justice and vengeance: “We are allowed to ask for justice; it is our duty to practice justice. On the other hand, we are forbidden to revenge ourselves or to encourage vengeance in any way, insofar as it is an expression of hatred or of violence.”

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