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Welcome to our 2023 parties issue! Children’s parties are always memorable - usually for the right reasons! There are so many ways to celebrate, and hopefully you will get some ideas from our pages devoted to parties.
It’s a lovely time of year to be outside, so our Get Outdoors! page and our What’s On guide are packed full of inspiration to get out into the fresh air with the family. Amazingly, we are not far off the end of another school year, so, if you are looking ahead to the summer holidays, you will love our article on travelling with grandparents and will also find our holiday clubs directory useful to fill in the gaps over the long summer break.
As always, we have some great-quality articles on education, including how handwriting affects self-esteem, and we go to Leighton Park School in Reading to Meet the Head.
I hope you enjoy the May/June 2023 issue!
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Odds Farm Park, near Beaconsfield, has teamed up with Families Thames Valley West to offer one lucky reader a family day pass (2 adults and 2 children) to visit the children’s activity farm.
The visitor attraction is one of only 29 farms in the country approved by the Rare Breeds Trust, a conservation charity working for the survival of the UK’s rare breeds of farm animals and equines. Visitors to the 35 acre farm can see over 16 rare breeds on site that are classed as ‘priority’ or ‘at risk’ including three Middle White pigs, ten Bagot goats and an Exmoor Pony. The farm’s own Tamworth pig is now so critically endangered it is considered as rare as the Giant Panda or the Sumatran Tiger.
To be in with a chance of winning this fabulous family prize worth over £75, simply answer the following question: How many Bagot goats does Odds Farm Park have?
Email your answer to editor@familiestvw.co.uk quoting ‘Odds Farm Park’. The closing date for entry is 31st May 2023.
For more information, call 01628 520188, visit www.oddsfarm. co.uk, or like and follow @OddsFarmPark on Facebook and Instagram for all the latest news and updates.
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There’s something rumbling under the rug. What could it be? Is it an alien, a tiger or a monster? Never fear – Dr. Hubbub has arrived to investigate, but he needs your help!
Join us on this interactive adventure to discover who is hiding under the rug, and how we can make them welcome in our world.
Writer and director, Helen Eastman returns to Reading Rep Theatre after sell-out successes with Alby the Penguin Saves Christmas and Alby the Penguin Saves the World.
Tickets are £5 and perfect for 4–7-year-olds and their families.
Catch it at Reading Rep for a limited run from 31 May to 3 June, after touring Reading schools and libraries. The tour performance is perfect for younger children aged 18 months to 3 years; see more details on Reading Rep’s website.
Find out more and book your tickets at www.readingrep.com/therumble-under-the-rug
Girls will be granted equal access to all school sports as part of a package of measures unveiled by the government following a campaign by the Lionesses after their historic Euro 2022 win.
Schools will be told they must deliver a minimum of two hours of PE each week and that girls and boys should be able to play the same sports in lessons and extra-curricular clubs, where wanted. The government said the measures would be backed by over £600 million in funding over the next two academic years, specifically designed to help improve the quality of PE and sports in primary schools.
Leah Williamson, the England captain, greeted the announcement –on International Women’s Day – by saying: ‘this is the legacy that we want to live much longer than us as a team’.
More info: https://bit.ly/UKGovSchoolSports
Congratulations to Charlene Muzambi, who won family tickets to The Little Welly in Henley from our March/April 2023 issue!
A generation ago, seventy percent of us walked to school – now it’s less than half. Walk to School Week was started to encourage more kids to get out of the car and walk to school.
Walk to School Week is held from 15 to 19 May and is organised by the UK charity Living Streets to celebrate the health and wellbeing benefits of walking.
Families will be encouraged to walk, cycle, scoot or ‘Park and Stride’ to see the big differences that can come from small steps - from healthier and happier children to fewer cars outside the school gates.
Free interactive wall charts and stickers are available to download. Schools can also obtain classroom packs to help teach children about the benefits of being active, with daily reward stickers and special rewards for those who travelled actively every day.
More info at www.livingstreets.org.uk/walk-to-school
As a high level gymnast herself and having worked in traditional gymnastics clubs for many years, Courtney Hows (28) has learnt a lot about the sport. From this experience she has gone on to develop a brand new type of children’s gymnastics at a learning centre in Winnersh: an intimate, bright, warm, clean and colourful space, with fantastic facilities for children and parents alike.
Courtney says, “Over the years I have spoken to a lot of parents, and all they really want is a happy healthy, confident child and we do exactly that, by encouraging kids to just be kids! We give ALL children the same respect, no matter what their innate ability, and that builds happy, confident young people, who feel safe and engaged in this amazing sport. This why our classes are designed to be small, so our trained instructors can help your child on a more individual level.”
www.esprit-kids.co.uk
Bereavement benefits have been extended to apply to unmarried couples with dependent children, opening up the payment to thousands more families.
From 9 February, the eligibility criteria for Bereavement Support Payment and Widowed Parent’s Allowance have been extended to include co-habiting parents, not just married couples. The benefits are intended to help parents with the financial impact of losing a partner.
It means that more children who lose a parent will be equally supported, no matter the legal relationship status of their parents.
The Bereavement Support Payment of almost £10,000 will benefit unmarried parents going forward and will retrospectively apply to many unmarried parents who were bereaved between 2018 and now.
Summer term is here and there’s no better time for your child to try Perform. Packed with self-esteem boosting activities, Perform weekly classes round off the academic year with a fun and relaxed focus on developing confidence, communication, coordination and concentration. Using a mix of drama, dance and singing, these high-energy classes for all abilities are designed to allow even the most reticent children to shine.
This term, 4-7s will be setting sail on the Jammy Dodger for an adventure with the Mermaids & Pirates. Meanwhile, 7-12s will enjoy a laugh-out-loud adaptation of Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream in The Dream. The curriculum has an emphasis on fun with free apps and videos to watch at home.
Classes are for all abilities, and every child is welcome to try a free class in Crowthorne, Goring, Henley, Newbury, Reading, Twyford or Wokingham. Just visit www.perform.org.uk/try, call 020 7255 9120 or email enquiries@perform.org.uk
Perform fun continues into the summer holidays with Wizard of Oz holiday courses in Wokingham - don’t miss the Perform in the Park summer festival of children’s theatre. Visit performinthepark.uk to book.
To make a retrospective claim, parents must act by 9 February 2024. More info: https://bit.ly/BenefitsGovUK
Open days may need pre-booking. Please check before visiting.
Cheam School, Headley, Newbury, RG19 8LD 01635 268242 cheamschool.com
Saturday 20 May, 10am–12:30pm
Crosfields School, Shinfield Road, Reading, RG2 9BL 0118 987 1810/crosfields.com
Wed 17 May 9:30am (early years stay and play session)
Kidmore End Primary School, Chalkhouse Green Road, Reading, RG4 9AU 0118 357 3149 kidmore-end.co.uk
Thursday 29 June, 9:30–11am
Leighton Park School, Reading, RG2 7ED 0118 987 9609 leightonpark.com
Friday 12 May, 9am (open morning)
Friday 16 June, 9am (open morning)
Luckley House School, Wokingham, RG40 3EU 0118 978 4175 luckleyhouseschool.org
Tuesday 6 June (year 5 taster day)
Thursday 15 June (open evening)
Queen Anne’s School, Henley Road, Caversham, Reading, RG4 6DX 0118 918 7300 / qas.org.uk
Saturday 20 May, 9:30am (open morning)
Reddam House, Bearwood Road, Sindlesham, Wokingham, RG41 5BG 0118 974 8300 reddamhouse.org.uk
Saturday 13 May
St Joseph’s College, Upper Redlands Road, Reading, RG1 5JT 0118 966 1000 / sjcr.org.uk
Thursday 4 May, 9:30am –11:15am (pre-reception–year 6 with stay and play)
Thursday 11 May, 9:30am11:15am (years 7-10)
Monday 26 June (year 5 day)
Tuesday 27 June (year 5 day)
The Oratory Prep School, Goring Heath, RG8 7SF 0118 984 4511 oratoryprep.co.uk
Saturday 20 May
Thursday March 2nd is celebrated up and down the country as ‘World Book Day’.
For Dolphin School, this is a particularly special occasion for Year 6 students, who come off timetable for the day to act as Young Reporters: the day starts bright and early with a 7.30 ‘breakfast briefing’ with the morning papers and BBC News 24 over orange juice and croissants; the children then work in teams to research the day’s news and compile a front page of their chosen stories; they finish by presenting a Newsround-style broadcast ‘live’ to an audience of peers and parents.
Here they are, hard at work, reporting on our ‘local interest’ story – a World Book Day costume catwalk with the rest of the school.
www.dolphinschool.com
The Acorn Centre at St Joseph’s College, Upper Redlands Road, Reading offers competitively priced, year-round care for 3–4 year olds in a safe, stimulating environment. The children receive exceptional nurturing from experienced staff. The ratio is one member of staff to every four pupils and there are two teachers who are supported by Early Years Practitioners and apprentices.
Lunch is prepared freshly on site and daily meat-free options are always on the menu. We would love to show you around and if you would like more information or to arrange a visit, please contact admissions@sjcr.org.uk or visit www.sjcr.org.uk
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This issue we caught up with Mr Matthew Judd at Leighton Park School in Reading. Leighton Park sits in a wonderful green space near the centre of town and has a long history.
When did you start at Leighton Park, and what did you do before?
I have been at LP since 2018; I’ve always known I wanted to work in education, ever since I was a fundraiser as a student for education charities. I attended a state comprehensive but have only ever taught in independent schools. As a consequence, I never lose sight of the benefit of private education; the commitment to music (which I adore) drama, sport, trips and all realms of cocurricular.
I previously taught at schools quite different to Leighton Park; that is the joy of this job for me. I have been Principal of a Sixth Form College and latterly was Head of the Prep and Pre Prep, as well as Second Master of Haberdashers’ Aske Boys.
Can you tell us a little about the history of the school?
Leighton Park was founded as a Quaker school in 1890. One of the founders was George Cadbury, so we have a fondness for chocolate – our Year 7s even design their own chocolate bars as one of our interdisciplinary projects. Fast forward 130 years, and we welcome students of all faiths and none, but the gentle, forwardthinking Quaker values still inform everything we do.
What makes Leighton Park unique?
We’re not alone in being a values-led school, but we distinguish ourselves by giving our Quaker values currency and purpose. This follows a long history of Quakers living out their values. Amnesty International, Oxfam and Greenpeace were all formed, in part, by Quakers, and famous Quaker businesses like Cadbury and Rowntree became successful due to their forward-looking approach of treating employees and suppliers fairly.
We also give our values purpose through our award-winning STEAM (Science,
with joy to see them realise their talents and create stunning performances.
How is Leighton Park responding to the environmental crisis?
Sustainability is one of our values, so we have some exciting initiatives. You can get a glimpse of some of the activity from this documentary that our students made following their trip to COP26 in Glasgow: https://youtu.be/Qt0iLGmVgtI
Technology, Engineering, Arts and Maths) programme. Our aim is to give our students the skills to be future changemakers, so our academic focus is on critical thinking, creative problemsolving and project-based learning.
The school has attractive buildings and beautiful green spaces; do you have a favourite place at Leighton Park?
The School grounds are a wonderful haven of beauty and tranquillity. Perhaps you will permit me two favourites? We have a stunning Victorian building designed by Alfred Waterhouse, who also designed the Natural History Museum in London. We are currently redeveloping this grand old building to become our new Sixth Form Study Centre and School Library. It will be filled with inspiring learning spaces and the latest learning technology, combined with the elegant proportions and architectural features of a period property.
Our Music and Media Centre is also fabulous, only opening its doors in 2019. Over half of our students study a musical instrument with one of our 25 instrumentalist teachers, and it fills me
We’re very fortunate to have the University of Reading across the road from us, one of the leading centres of climate change research in the UK. We are working with them on significant advocacy and education programmes, including joining their Climate Change Conference in March. Our Year 7s attended a Climate Summit at Green Park, with the Rt Hon Sir Alok Sharma on 17th March and won first place for their ideas around flexitarian diets.
Is there a famous person you would particularly like to meet?
I’ve always wanted to meet Alan Bennett for the singular reason that in The History Boys play he wrote the words for his fictional headmaster; ‘We’re low in the league. I want to see us up there with Manchester Grammar, Haberdashers’ Aske’s, Leighton Park…or is that an open prison!’ In one line he cited two schools I have led, and another in which I long ago declined a job. ‘Alan, how did you know?!’.
Do you have a favourite sport to watch or play?
Anything with LP pupils – I particularly enjoy seeing the newly developing coeducational sport on offer in schools.
What changes are expected at the school over the next five years?
We will continue to nurture students of real character and confidence, with a determined desire to change the world. Our new Sixth Form Study Centre and School Library will open in 2024, after which we will turn our attention to building a new sports centre. We have been given the go ahead for modest growth to our school roll, so that more students can benefit from a Leighton Park education.
An important focus for us is our partnerships programme, and we will continue to strengthen ties that enrich our vibrant learning environment, provide our students with exceptional opportunities and help us to work collaboratively to achieve shared goals.
For more information, visit www. leightonpark.com, call 0118 987 9608 or e-mail admissions@leightonpark.com
It is known that children who have good handwriting do better in school and enjoy it more. And the opposite is also true: those who struggle with handwriting are often at a disadvantage in the high-paced classroom setting. According to the Dyspraxia Foundation, children with poor handwriting are usually aware of their difficulty and their untidy handwriting can make them feel uncomfortable and isolated. Commonly, children feel depressed and frustrated as a direct result of poor writing skills.
Handwriting activates a specific part of the brain which helps establish and build the neural patterns needed for learning and memory. Studies show that children who spend time working on handwriting produce clearer and more coherent communication, along with better thought and organisation skills.
As the majority of our examinations are still handwritten, handwriting forms an integral part of our education system. Students who are unable to write legibly and articulately find themselves at a severe disadvantage. Once these skills are taught there is an enormous difference in confidence and selfesteem.
With at least ten to fifteen percent of children in the classroom suffering from poor self-confidence, teachers need watch out for early problems with their pupils’ handwriting. Simply having their writing labelled as messy or lazy by adults can contribute to a child’s low self-esteem and anxiety. This may lead children to believe that they are unintelligent and incapable of writing correctly and discourage them, continuing the downward spiral.
Unfortunately, the problem of anxiety-related handwriting problems cannot simply be overcome by using a computer. As a child grows older, there will always be everyday circumstances in which handwriting is needed. Furthermore, handwriting helps the flow of ideas and thoughts in a way which keyboarding doesn’t, so it is fundamental that children are taught to write legibly.
Although handwriting is an integral requirement of the National Curriculum, many schools are unable to dedicate to it the time required due to the huge demand of core subjects. In addition, there are many different styles and programmes being used with too many confusing elements.
With the correct time and teaching, children can master handwriting, thereby raising their confidence and self-esteem and embedding it into adulthood.
Catherine and Lisa are co-founders of Emparenting (www.emparenting.co.uk), supporting children, parents and families with insights, skills and tools to nurture the development and well-being of the next generation.
Essential for handwriting, motor development is divided into gross and fine motor skills. Gross skills involve large muscle movements such as crawling, walking, running and swimming. Fine motor skills require smaller muscles: grasping, object manipulation and drawing.
Well-developed gross and fine motor skills are essential to a child’s readiness to write. Early years activities prepare them for the dexterity and co-ordination they will need in the classroom and it’s never too soon to start the journey.
Practising gross motor skills is the first step towards two-handed tasks such as holding down paper with one hand while writing with the other. Fun activities teach small bodies! Examples include monkey bars, hopscotch, throwing and catching balls, dancing, running and swimming.
Fine motor skills are necessary for handwriting so a child can control the pencil in forming letters and use the correct pressure on the pen and the paper. This is where hand and finger activities come in. Consider these: threading beads, cutting paper, construction play, baking, finger painting and playdough.
Handwriting requirements are part of the statutory assessments for Writing at the end of Key Stages 1 and 2.
Young children move through a series of stages as they are learning to write. These reflect a child’s growing knowledge of the conventions of literacy, including letters, sounds and spacing of words within sentences:
Pre-writing - gross and fine motor movements; Pencil grip and posture; Lower case cursive letter formation; Upper case (capital) letter formation; Joining letters together; Refining letter positioning and spacing; Fluency and speed.
It should be noted that although these are the National Curriculum requirements, very few schools include regular handwriting as part of the curriculum. Supporting your child’s handwriting at home will give their skills and confidence a big boost that they will take with them into the classroom.
CPA (concrete, pictorial, abstract) is a maths teaching approach that has grown in popularity in recent years. It involves using tangible objects for children to add, subtract, multiply or divide. They then progress to using pictorial representations of the objects and ultimately, abstract symbols. This way of learning is one of the foundations of Singaporean maths, now being adopted in the UK.
Concrete
The tangible, ‘handling’ stage uses physical objects to solve problems. For example:
There are four buttons in the pot. Stanley has two buttons in his hand. How many buttons are there altogether?
In this problem, the children might first count out actual buttons before moving on to non-related objects such as counters to represent the buttons. Of course, almost anything can be used to help a child master this stage from pencils to plastic pots, to counting beans and coins. You don’t need to spend money on concrete resources to support learning at home.
Pictorial
Next, learners move on to making their own representations. Returning to the example in the paragraph above, the buttons could be drawn as four circles on one part of the paper and two more on another part, representing the pot and the hand. Children can then count each small circle and get the same answer as they would have done with the buttons.
Building or drawing a model makes it easier for children to grasp
more difficult concepts, particularly when working with fractions. It enables learners to see how much of a ‘whole one’ has been shaded in and visualise the problem more clearly.
Abstract
This is where children use abstract symbols to solve maths problems.
Brooke has ten sweets and Millie has twelve sweets. How many sweets do they have altogether?
Children at the abstract stage would be able to solve the problem by writing it out as 10 + 12 = 22.
Before moving onto this stage, children need a secure understanding of mathematical vocabulary; eg ‘altogether’, ‘add’ and ‘plus’ all mean that the numbers are increasing.
Although CPA has three distinct stages, it is always useful to revisit the previous stages to ensure that learners have a full grasp of each concept.
Jemma
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Isobel, who is 10, recommends trying Escape Hunt, Reading! If your child would like to write a review of 100-200 words of a great local place, e-mail it to us at editor@familiestvw.co.uk
Kings Walk, Reading, RG1 2HG reading@escapehunt.com
Do you like birthdays or do you like puzzles? Great you love both! Well, if you love both then you will love Escape Rooms!
Last year, when I discovered an Egyptian themed escape room in Nottingham, I loved it! It was so fun! It was extraordinary because it was my first one. At first, I had no idea where we were going so I went in and well I don’t want to spoil it but we had to find so many things.
We had to find star constellations, a staff with a snake head on it and diamonds for its eyes.
For the 2nd time, I went for a pirate themed escape room, in Reading for my birthday. This one had 3 rooms. My favourite part was when we found the treasure with the knives because I enjoyed figuring out how to use the knives to open another room. So, I hope you try one!
Bracknell, RG12 2BH
I first heard the name of this park when I overheard two mums talking about it whilst at another park with my children, and I made a mental note to check it out myself.
My son and I visited just before the park burst into life for its spring/summer season, so we weren’t able to see everything in action. Nevertheless, we enjoyed the medium-sized playground and went for a wander in the copse, looking through the fence at the enticing (but not yet open) crazy golf course, and we had a snack in the friendly café.
There is definitely plenty to do at this park when everything is open, and it seemed like a great place to meet up with friends. There is a splash park for children to cool off on really hot days, and twice a month you can take a train ride on a miniature train (listings are in the What’s On guide). Over in the corner of the field we spotted a zip wire, and there were young people in action on basketball courts behind the café.
Please get in touch with any recommendations for local parks; we would love to visit them! editor@familiestvw.co.uk
This summer, why not get involved in National Children’s Gardening week?
Happening from 25 May to 2 June, in the ‘warm’ half term at the end of May means that pretty much throughout the UK, children can plant all their favourite plants with less fear of weather damage or the need for complicated protective growing.
Exciting new Playbarn! 300m2 of Indoor Play & Party Rooms. Coming Summer 2023.
BUCKLEBURYFARM.CO.UK . 01189 714 002
READING, BERKSHIRE, RG7 6RR
As well as simply good outdoor fun, gardening has been shown to have many benefits to health and wellbeing including being more physically active and feeling happier and more connected with the natural world.
There are many ways to get involved with National Children’s Gardening Week, from DIY activities at home to attending an event at local garden centres.
www.childrensgardeningweek.co.uk
Families spoke to Vese Aghoghovbia, the founder and creator of Philly & Friends, an empowering and award-winning children’s lifestyle and toy brand.
What inspired you to create this brand?
Becoming a parent in 2017 opened my eyes to the inequality in play. I realised how little representation was in the playroom and on the bookshelf at the time. I wanted to write a ‘love letter’ to my little girl to tell her how precious she is and give her the gift of representation because you have to be the change you want to see.
When I wrote Who Do I See in the Mirror? I didn’t realise then that I was writing a love letter to many children worldwide and creating a brand they would eventually fall in love with. This little idea for a simple children’s book has grown into a much-loved, award-winning children’s brand with giving back embedded in its DNA.
Tell us about your first book
Who Do I See in the Mirror? is a simple yet powerful book about a girl who goes on a journey to discover what makes her truly special. It ends with the strong message that what is on the inside matters most. It is a very affirming book that encourages our little ones to love who they are on the inside and the outside. According to the judges at Junior Design Awards, ‘it is a great library staple for all children’.
How did your vision for the brand develop?
When I first wrote Who Do I See in the Mirror? I thought my next step would be to publish a series of educational and empowering books. However, as the business grew it became clear it was a lot more than that. We work very closely with our community and respond to their requests in line with our brand vision and mission. We are adding a drop of colour to the playroom and the bookshelf, providing a solution to the growing demand for diversity in play.
How has creating Philly & Friends impacted you as a mother and what do your children think of what you do?
My kids love helping me prepare packages for customers. My daughter says I’m a doll maker but also an engineer and a mum. I love that she gets to see what I do.
The other day, someone asked her what she would love to do and she said ‘all the jobs in the world!’ That made me chuckle but also made me proud to know that she doesn’t feel limited in what she can become.
What is your favourite Philly & Friends product and what are your children’s favourites?
I can’t pick one. I love them all but Who Do I See in the Mirror? will always have a special place in my heart because it kickstarted this journey. My kids have influenced every single product and I’ve seen them love each one at different stages. My daughter has gone from reading her book every night to sleeping with her Philly dolls and now she’s giving me suggestions on the next few products.
What’s been the hardest part of your journey with the brand so far?
Self-publishing. I had to teach myself everything, figure out each step and self-fund the project.
Self-publishing is not for the faint-hearted and requires significant financial, mental and physical investment. You are the writer, marketer, producer, salesperson, logistics, supply chain manager; everything. There were many times I wanted to give up but I am glad I didn’t because the feedback, support and
appreciation for the book have been nothing short of amazing. What advice would you give other parents embarking on a similar path to you?
Don’t hold yourself back, you can do it. Plan, brainstorm, research. There’s a world of information on Google and it’s all free. Find someone who is doing something similar and ask them lots of questions.
Where next for Philly & Friends?
The future of diversity in play depends on small inclusive children’s brands growing and becoming successful. In the next five years, I hope that our books and toys will be in the homes of every little boy and girl.
Philly & Friends has a range of books, wall art, dolls, jigsaws and peg sets designed to instil confidence and self-love through the power of representation. Find them at www.phillyandfriends.com
There are loads of amazing party providers in the area. Here is a selection to inspire you!
BilinguaSing Reading and Wokingham bilinguasing.com/parties
Looking for a party with a difference? BilinguaSing offers a party tailored to your child with the magic sensory fun (and more!) from our classes.
Bulmershe Gymnastics Club bulmershegc.co.uk/parties
This is a fully equipped facility with a professional gymnastics floor, plus apparatus, beams, bars and a sunken trampoline. There is lots to experience including a bouncy castle, games and lots of fun.
Party invitations are a thrill for children, less so for presentbuying parents! However, fun does not have to be expensive. Here are some great gift ideas that will delight the recipients without breaking the bank.
The present box
Buying gifts throughout the year (during the sales or ad-hoc promotions) and setting them aside saves money and avoids the last-minute panic shopping dash. Great gifts to keep an eye out for are the mini Orchard Toys games (www.orchardtoys. com), which are usually not gender specific, cater for a broad age range and retail at £5.35. Look out for craft or gardening kits, books and outdoor games such as skipping ropes, hula hoops, goalie gloves or frisbees, which have lasting play value.
Multi-packs
Multi-packs can be divided up to create gift sets, which can be very cost effective. Mix and match the items to suit the age and interests of the birthday child. For younger kids, a bundle of ten books (The Works usually sell ten books for £10), a party pack of bubbles or a bumper pack of assorted playdough make a great gift.
Savvy shopping
High street discount shops all stock very well priced toys, craft items and books. There are also some good resources online such as www.poundtoy.com and The Entertainer (www.thetoyshop.com).
Presents that get children outdoors or being creative are always a win; something like a magnifying glass and a bug identification book (which come in under £10), ‘scavenger hunt’ type cards, a kite, pavement chalks or a gardening or craft kit.
Children are often inundated with toys on their birthdays, so a fun t-shirt or some funky socks can work well, especially if you can find something featuring their favourite superhero or TV character. These can be very reasonably priced in high street chains and most supermarkets and parents will be pleased you’ve bought their child something to wear.
Club together
Club together with other parents in the class and buy one larger toy, voucher or experience. The birthday child will get a much bigger present and it will have cost you each less.
Creative gift-wrapping can zing up the contents and it doesn’t have to cost a thing. Use pages from an old magazine or street map, leftover wallpaper or personalise a brown paper bag with lots of colour.
For more birthday party tips, read Tamsin’s blog at www.icecreamandjelly.com or Insta @icecreamandjelly_uk
Bucklebury Farm Park buckleburyfarm.co.uk/parties-atthe-farm
From a choice of activities on the farm to special events, such as laser tag in the woods.
Coral Reef Waterworld everyoneactive.com/centre/ coral-reef-waterworld Party includes a 2-hour session in the pool during public opening.
Diddi Dance Reading and Wokingham diddidance.com/parties
Enjoy up to an hour of great activities including dancing games, action songs, hoops, dancing ribbons, bubbles, balloons, bells and lots of fun.
Esprit Kids esprit-kids.co.uk/parties
Unique gymnastics parties that children will remember for years!
Hygge Igloo hyggeiglooevents.co.uk Specialists in hiring luxury garden igloos and indoor sleepover teepees.
Master Builders Club masterbuildersclub.co.uk/parties 90-minute story-led Workshop, 1000’s of LEGO® Bricks and Minifigures, Brick Building Challenges and Games, Brick Gifts for Party Bags, Free Building and Fun (guaranteed)!
Mr Magic Hat
mrmagichat.co.uk
Steve, AKA Mr Magic Hat, is an experienced magician who provides magical entertainment in Berkshire and the surrounding areas.
Odds Farm Park oddsfarm.co.uk/childrens-parties
As well as having access included to the Indoor Playbarn, the Undercover Animal Barn and our Outdoor Adventure Play Spaces, your group will be able to enjoy a celebratory meal in one of our stylish, fully air-conditioned and heated party rooms.
Summer Barn facebook.com/Summer-Barn
Summer Barn is a hidden gem that is situated within 18 acres of outstanding natural beauty in the Chiltern Downs. Exclusive use for your party group, bring along your own food and dine alfresco on our stunning outside gallery surrounded by breathtaking beautiful countryside, stunning woods and our friendly animals, or dine inside Summer Barn lit by fairylight!
The Look Out bracknell-forest.gov.uk/leisureservices/look-out-discoverycentre/birthday-parties
A birthday present for the birthday child and over an hour exploring in the exhibition.
By Tamsin Ryan
With everyone trying to watch their pennies and be kinder to our planet, an upcycled party is very on trend! And once you put your mind to it, you’ll be surprised by how much you can do with what you already have at home.
Second hand plates, cups and cutlery from a local charity shop, car boot sale or online marketplace are simple options. Sets can be stored to use each year or you can sell them on afterwards and most likely make your money back. Or take them back to the charity shop; think of it as a donation to a good cause. For the centrepiece, a cake stand is super-easy to make with an upturned teacup, a plate and superglue.
There really is no need to ever buy new again - look to places such as Facebook and Vinted. Buying second hand is not only better for the planet, it’s so much cheaper and also saves you hours making your own costumes from scratch.
How about gifting a pre-loved present? So many toys are played with once and then left to gather dust. Check out Preloved Presents range of wrapping paper and gift tags at https://bit.ly/prelovedp which makes it easier and more acceptable to gift pre-owned presents, to be loved again and again.
There are so many things you can find around the house that you can use for wrapping gifts: magazine pages, old maps, pieces of sample wallpaper, your kids’ paintings or leftover packing paper. If you’re a dab hand with a sewing machine you could make a fabric drawstring bag from leftover fabric scraps. Alternatively, reuse an old pillowcase or wrap with a piece of fabric, like the Japanese art of Furoshiki.
Make time to make things. Here are some ideas to get you started: scrunchies made from leftover fabric; painted rocks or shells found on the beach; bracelets made from beads from your local scrap store or crayons made from all your kids’ broken ones.
Old bed sheets work well refashioned into tablecloths. They can be painted, tie-dyed or appliquéd to tailor them to the party theme and it’s a great activity to get the kids involved in! If you have a tablecloth you can use, make placemats or a runner from scrap fabrics to match the theme of your party.
tailor made party for your child.
Operating in Berkshire, Hampshire and surrounding area, Hygge Sleepovers are aimed at children between the ages of 6-11. Our cosy themed teepees create a truly magical setting for your child and their friends to enjoy.
We can organise as much or as little as you want including invitations, balloons, cakes and entertainment. Our themes include Football, Gaming, Movie Night, Pretty and Pink, Princess, Jungle Mania and Spa. Our beautiful lace wigwam sleeping two is perfect for a Best Friend’s sleepover or Wedding Corner. Our optional extras really do add the icing on the cake, providing a total sleepover experience with midnight treat jars and breakfast boxes.
Our aim is to help you create lasting memories. Prices from £90.
For more information contact Tina on 0777 5796214, visit www.hyggeiglooevents.co.uk/hygge-sleepover or via our social media pages... www.facebook.com/hyggeiglooevents or www.instagram.com/hyggeigloo
Has your LEGO® Fan got something to celebrate? Would they love to build with their friends in a room filled with LEGO®?
Master Builders Club will provide an immersive and engaging experience for every guest. With 1000’s of bricks, pieces and Minifigures we will transform your party venue into a world of creativity. Our experienced staff love LEGO® play and have been providing memorable events since 2016. Parents often comment on how calm Master Builders Club parties feel and how wonderful it is to see all of the guests involved and engaged.
With brick gifts for party bags, all the popular LEGO® themes and an extensive collection of LEGO®, Master Builders Club can provide an experience that your LEGO® fan will never forget.
We do parties for DUPLO® fans too! All of the above but with bigger bricks for smaller hands!
For more information, e-mail: info@masterbuildersclub.co.uk or visit www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk
When we have non-stop days, it’s easy to lapse into ‘one-waystreet parenting.’ That’s where as the more powerful grownup, you tell your child how to behave. But parenting becomes so much easier when it’s a two-way transaction and you make a conscious effort to listen to what your child has to say as well.
As they grow, children are in a constant process of learning to recognise and describe their needs and emotions. However, with their developing vocabulary they can’t always clearly articulate their big feelings so they don’t always feel heard.
Children who don’t feel heard often act out how they feel. There could be angry tantrums, strops, defiance or attention-seeking behaviour to force you to pay attention. Sadly, this behaviour has the opposite effect.
The good news is that just one simple shift can transform your relationship with your child. Next time your child explodes, understand they are struggling with giant feelings. Rather than thinking about how to discipline them, observe their behaviour with curiosity, followed by empathy.
For example, we grown-ups tend to hear repeated requests for the things kids want as whingeing or nagging. Rather than ignoring them, show them you heard them the first time by looking at them, getting down on their level if they are still little, repeating what they have just said and giving them a response that works in that moment, even if it’s an explanation for why you are saying ‘no’.
Of course, you can’t be expected to drop everything, every time or give kids whatever they want.
Keep some phrases in your back pocket like: ‘I know it’s hard to
wait. I’ll be there soon,’ or ‘I heard you calling me. Give me five minutes while you finish your Lego house.’ Even if it’s not the answer they want to hear, they will ease off once they know the message has got through. Just make sure you stick to your word. This kind of listening is not about giving in or letting them have their own way. It’s about remembering that children are on a steep learning curve towards naming and managing feelings that continues well into their teenage years.
Tanith Carey is co-author, with Dr Angharad Rudkin, of What’s My Child Thinking: Practical Child Psychology for Modern Parents. The book includes many topics including the best ways to communicate with children. Published by DK books and available from www.bookshop.org
Name emotions: Experience shows that the more words you use to name their emotions, the more accurate children will be when describing them.
Be interested in what they love: Be curious about what your child has to say, even if you’ve heard the same dinosaur fact one hundred times. If you say: ‘Tell me more,’ your child will open up to you at other times too. If you feel yourself getting bored, go on an adventure to find new facts to fascinate them.
Calm your nervous system: When you feel angry or irritated when dealing with your child, whatever you are doing, take a few deep breaths to slow yourself back to empathy mode so you can listen to what they are trying to say.
Limit your phone use: Put away your phone during the special one-on-one times with your child, whether it’s bath times, mealtimes or story time. When they don’t have to compete to be heard they can relax into being with you.
Listen more than you talk: Once children can be clear about what’s bothering them, often responding with just a nod, an ‘I see’ or ‘That sounds tough’ is enough. Resist the temptation to offer judgement or criticism, even if you think it sounds constructive. It’s often what you don’t say rather than what you do which makes you the best sounding board.
Set aside time: Spend regular unhurried time just doing the things they like to do. These ‘emotional deposits’ remind tweens that you like as well as love them and they will be more likely to listen to you at other times.
Validate feelings: Simply try to accept and understand how they feel, even if that feels uncomfortable for you. For example, your tween contains their behaviour all day at school. So when they come from school and moan, remember that most of the time you don’t need to do anything except listen. You could ask: ‘Do you need to vent, or do you want suggestions? Either is fine.’
There is nothing quite like a holiday spent with grandparents to create surprising and special memories that will last a lifetime. Who knows what we will all discover along the way? Will granny get the hang of TikTok? Maybe the kids will find out what a ‘real’ camera looks like or perhaps we’ll all just learn more about each other. The most important thing though is to have fun and enjoy spending time together. Here are some ways to make it happen:
Are you thinking about a villa, apartment or hotel? Small or big resort? Grandparents may not want to spend all their time with the grandchildren and vice-versa so some degree of separate space might be a wise idea. You should also consider access; somewhere with lots of steps neither suits buggies nor anyone who is a bit wobbly on their feet.
Involve everyone in the planning by asking for their input and ideas. They’ll appreciate the opportunity to share their experiences and knowledge. Sure, there’ll be compromises along the way but sharing the planning helps set expectations and ensures everyone feels more involved in the holiday.
If you are self-catering, who will shop, cook and wash up? Are other options available? It’s worth thinking ahead about fussy eaters, as well as people who need to eat dinner earlier or get up late for breakfast. Planning now can save a lot of awkward negotiation when you’re there.
Choose some ideas that will suit everyone’s interests and abilities. A water park might be the best day ever for the kids, while exploring the nearby town or drinking rum cocktails at the beach might be more appealing to parents and grandparents. If you have something special in mind that works for everyone, it might be worth choosing your holiday destination around it.
With more adults around, child-free date nights or even days out may be possible but don’t assume this will just happen. Discuss expectations around this. And if the grandparents are left in charge for a few hours, accept that their style may not match your own exactly - it’s their holiday too. Rather than setting rigid ground rules and let them do it their own way; after all, you didn’t turn out so badly!
Plan an adventure day; take a scenic hike or cycle ride or perhaps a kayak. Trying something new is all part of a holiday. If you choose carefully, even with different physical abilities and interests, it can work for everyone. Building in an element of challenge and heading out of your comfort zone together can create a sense of shared purpose and provide a real highlight.
It’s important that everyone is able to have some alone time during the holiday so think about the possibility of me-time for each person. Not everyone feels social all the time so consider the needs of the introverts in the group. Expectations and excitement may run high ahead of the holiday so talking to your kids about quiet-time or afternoon siestas before you go can help things run more smoothly.
Document your holiday; everyone can get involved in this. Remember photos weren’t always just for posting on social media! Maybe you can create a photobook or even go old school and frame some group shots. It will give everyone something to look back on in the years to come and help keep those memories alive.
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BilinguaSing
French, Spanish and Italian classes from age 0-11. Fun sensory music classes with the added bonus of a second language! Trial slots available, as well as sibling discounts. Classes in Wokingham, Bracknell, Theale, Caversham and other Berkshire locations Monday-Friday. Contact Cari Weston at cari@bilinguasing. com or call 07729261018 for more information.
Master Builders Club Brick Building
Workshops for Children
Master Builders Club is a LEGO® & DUPLO® lovers paradise! Our weekend and holiday workshops, after school clubs, birthday parties and nursery/primary school events are designed to provide children with an exciting and captivating experience.
We provide 1000’s of LEGO® or DUPLO® bricks in a calm and supportive environment along with the imaginative stimulus to transform a room into a world of creativity.
If you are passionate about providing engaging and stimulating play opportunities that nurture your child’s mind, then Master Builders Club is for you! To book your brick building fan a place or to find out more about our events, visit the webite.
www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk
Based at a purpose-built gym in Woodley. Gymnastics classes for all ages including Leap Frogs for walkers to five years lead by qualified coaches.
www.bulmershegymnastics.co.uk
Based in Winnersh, classes are designed to be small, so our trained instructors can help your child on a more individual level. A fun, exciting way to teach children, keep them fit, improve their self-esteem and develop skills that will last a lifetime.
www.esprit-kids.co.uk
GR Swimming Schools
Uniquely structured, safe, FUN, swimming lessons from 3 years old. Lessons include continual assessment and lane progression. There is a maximum of 6 children per class. We are currently looking for a private indoor, heated pool, 1 or 2 weekday mornings, for much needed community baby & toddler classes in the Newbury/Hungerford area. jo@swimlessons.co.uk swimlessons.co.uk
Artemis Studios
Bracknell-based children’s performing arts and education charity. We run outstanding term-time and holiday classes in musical theatre, cheerleading with gymnastics and hip hop. We offer a two-week free tryout for all term time classes all year around - you can book online and start next week! www.artemis-studios.co.uk
Parties and gatherings are an important part of many plays: from masquerade balls in Romeo and Juliet to garden parties in the Importance of Being Earnest. This Summer, Progress Youth Theatre is celebrating its 73rd Birthday.
We are very proud of our long history of growing a passion for theatre in our young people, stimulating their imagination, and helping to develop their enthusiasm and confidence to ask questions about the world around them.
In August, to celebrate this long history, we will be getting our Summer party vibes with the return of our Summer Sessions - Youth Theatre Workshops for ages 7-18. Including a Play-ina-Week workshop series, audition masterclasses and one day workshops.
For more information or to sign up visit progresstheatre. co.uk/youth-theatre. Alternatively you can arrange a free taster session for one of our regular youth theatre sessions by emailing youthliaison@progresstheatre.co.uk
Perform drama, dance and singing classes
Confidence-building weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s, designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination. Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE trial class in Twyford, Newbury, Reading,Wokingham, Winnersh, Crowthorne, Goring, Henley.
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Workshops for ages 7-18 involving theatre games, improvisation and skills development, leading to a stage production every year. We are an Arts Award Supporter and also offer LAMDA courses. Classes held at Progress Theatre, Reading.
Email us to book a FREE taster session.
youthgroup@progresstheatre.co.uk progresstheatre.co.uk/youth-theatre
Steppin Out Stars of Tomorrow
COVID secure, fun, energetic theatre classes for 3½ to 18yrs. Dance, drama, singing, tap, street dance, pop styles and musical theatre. Regular award-winning classes in Wokingham and Woodley, plus summer schools. Call Shelley on 07970 034 488, or email shelley@ steppinoutstars.co.uk
www.steppinoutstars.co.uk
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View our website for Crash Course details! swimlessons.co.uk
Uniquely structured, safe, FUN! Lessons from 3 yrs. Continual assessment and lane progression. Max 6 children per class.
Adult beginner swimming lessons
Rookie lifeguard support Duke of Edinburgh Award
We are an Independent family run swim school — not a franchise *Every child is different, every child is equal*
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T: 07853 194327
give their self-esteem a boost by being brave enough to try a new piece of equipment or by making a new friend.
The playground gives them options. They don’t have to do anything they don’t want to but if they choose to act, it’s almost certain they will experience a benefit.
Playground play is also great for developing problem-solving skills, increasing creativity and encouraging critical thinking. Do too many children want to play in the castle? They can work together to create a game and solve the problem. Does everyone want to go on the slide? Well, they can queue and wait their turn, right?
Family Corner (www.familycorner.co.uk) is the family arm of the Early Years Alliance (www.eyalliance.org.uk). The charity provides expert-written articles on all aspects of child development including health, behaviour, communication and fun activities.
As a parent or carer of young children, you’ve no doubt spent many hours sitting or standing in a playground watching your child play or pushing them on a swing. As well as being great for getting kids playing outside, playgrounds also have a range of developmental benefits - not just physical and social but cognitive and emotional too.
Unexpected physical benefits
Playgrounds provide children with the opportunity to develop their complete physical selves:
Swings and climbing frames develop advanced balancing skills and improve their equilibrium for surer footedness.
Climbing and running benefit muscle development and weight management.
Exposing children to daylight helps stabilise their circadian rhythms which can improve sleep patterns.
Playing outside exposes youngsters to more organic bacteria and microbes, which can help build a more robust immune system and an advanced microbiome.
The emotional and cognitive benefits
Anxiety, self-esteem and introversion are all common issues faced by children. A playground gives them a safe space in which to confront those feelings without judgement or expectation.
They can choose to play with the other kids in the castle or observe and learn how they can socialise before taking the first brave steps. Similarly, they can play by themselves on the swings or slides to reduce their anxiety as they don’t need any help from others to accomplish that (though the kit is designed to encourage engagement and communication). Finally, they can
When your child is new to a setting or you’re on holiday and want your kids to make new friends quickly, you encourage them to visit the playground, right? This is because playgrounds are designed to encourage engagement and collaboration and to facilitate independent play.
For example, the castle and climbing frames result in children making up imaginative role-play games together where the setting becomes a fantasy world. Competition often breaks out on the swings to see who can go the highest and kids also take turns on the slide and wait patiently for the next go. They need a buddy to sit on the other end of the seesaw. Before they know it, they have a new friend.
As for the educational benefits of playgrounds, it’s all about learning to be brave and patient and experiencing things like excitement, fear and nervousness for the first time. Many play parks also have pieces of kit specifically designed for educational purposes like big magnifiers, storybook corners and sensory play kits.
The long summer break is on the horizon and holiday clubs can be an excellent way for children to make the most of this time. Here are a few great local holiday clubs for this summer.
Apollo Sports
31 July–18 August
kiddiplan.com
Some of the sports that we will be doing include archery, fencing, gymnastics, football, tag rugby, hockey, basketball, arts & crafts and parachute games!
Artemis Summer Theatre Camps
24 July–25 August
artemis-studios.co.uk
Fun and creative musical theatre activities with a medal at the end of each week! 9:30am–4:30pm
Jubilee Jets School Holiday Club
29 July–30 August
jubileejets.co.uk
We have a huge variety of activities from baking and crafting to indoor and outdoor team games and creative play which ignites imaginations, for ages 5-11!
Kennylands Gymnastics CIC
24 July–1 September
kennylandsgymnastics.co.uk
3-hour sessions or full days available for school-aged children. Enjoy the sport with our wonderful coaching team in a fantastic facility!
Life 101
27–28 July (Resilience) and
15–16 August (Confidence and Leadership)
life-101.co.uk
Resilience course for ages 8-13:
Overcome life’s challenges and be your best self!
Confidence and Leadership course for ages 8-13 will help to build your child’s confidence, develop the skills they need to express themselves and to collaborate with those around them.
Master Builders Club masterbuildersclub.co.uk
LEGO® workshops at various locations around Berkshire and Oxfordshire.
Perform
Across July and August perform.org.uk/wizard
Perform are off to see the wizard this July and August, as they sing and dance their way down the yellow brick road in their Wizard of Oz holiday courses. For ages 4-10 years in Wokingham.
Reading Rep Theatre
31 July–4 August, 10am–5pm readingrep.com
This summer work with professional West End stars from the shows Motown, Newsies, Sister Act and Matilda. Then perform on Reading Rep’s main stage. For ages 9-16.
South Hill Park Summer Project
7–11 August southhillpark.org.uk/shp-events/ summer-project-23
Participants aged 6–11yrs will learn new skills, build confidence and form new friendships as they work towards staging a musical theatre showcase performance at the end of the week. Ages 6-11.
StageAbility Summer Drama Camp
7–12 August, 10am–3pm stageability.class4kids.co.uk/ camps
Come and join the fun as we rehearse a comedy musical written especially for summer camp and promising lots of laughs, great songs and loads of parts! £120 if booked before the end of June. Ages 5-12.
Steppin Out Stars of Tomorrow Summer School ‘23
31 July–4 August steppinoutstars.co.uk
‘We are all in this together!’ –based on the popular High School Musical. Full performance at the end of the week. Ages 3-17.
St. Joseph’s Holiday Club July and August sjcr.org.uk/for-our-community/ holiday-club
A range of engaging activities for all children from Pre-Reception to Year 8. Half-day sessions also available. 8am-6pm.
Ultimate Activity Camps ultimateactivity.co.uk
We deliver outstanding summer activity day camps through a fantastic range of exciting activities whether these be in the art room, the sports hall, playing fields or in the woods for 4-14-year-olds.
Summer day camps provide fun, safe and nurturing spaces for children. Not just useful childcare for working parents, there are many benefits for children too. Consider these:
Learning new skills
Summer camps offer a variety of activities that allow children to explore new interests and develop talents they didn’t know they had or take an existing talent to a new level.
Promoting physical activity
Many day camps provide a wide range of physical activities including sports, outdoor activities and games. This helps to promote a healthy lifestyle and develop a lifelong love of physical activity.
Developing independence and self-confidence
Being in a setting that isn’t home or school and where there are no parents can give children a sense of independence. They learn how to take care of themselves, make their own decisions and solve problems on their own.
Taking on new challenges and trying new things gives them confidence in their abilities.
Fostering creativity
Creative juices flow when children experience theatre arts, dance, music, writing, arts and crafts. These all help to stimulate their imagination and expressive thinking.
Leaving technology behind
As fantastic as the online world can be, it is always great to expose children to the joys of a good old-fashioned kick about and team games in the fresh air. Who knows, they may even enjoy it MORE than gazing at a screen!
In a whole new supervised peer group, children learn to work together, communicate effectively and develop a sense of community.
There’s much to be gained too if they are learning and playing alongside children from different backgrounds, cultures or abilities from their usual circles, as this is an opportunity to appreciate difference. Kids will also build friendships outside their established school network.
Enjoying the outdoors
Climbing trees, changing a bike wheel or building an outdoor camp can give your child a whole new set of skills while enjoying adventures they might not otherwise experience.
Nurturing leadership and teamwork
By encouraging teamwork, co-operation, empathy and selfconfidence, summer day camps will help your child develop emotional intelligence.
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Public trips on the Kennet & Avon Canal Trust’s tripboat Jubilee (Sat, Sun and Thu)
Newbury Wharf, Wharf House, Wharf Street, Newbury RG14 5AP jubilee.katrust.org.uk
A 75-minute relaxing trip through historic Newbury with plenty of interest to see as we rise up Newbury lock and cruise through the swingbridge at West Mills on to Northcroft and back. Adults £8, Children (2-15) £5, under 2 are free but must have a ticket. 12pm/2pm
1 May Wokingham May Fayre
Elms Field, Denmark Street and Market Place, Wokingham, wokinghamlions.org.uk
There will be a funfair, petting zoo, picnic areas, circus performers and children’s rides, as well as a full calendar of stage performances throughout the day.
1 May South Stoke May Fayre 2023 South Stoke Primary School, Reading, RG8 0JS southstokeschool.org/news-andevents
We are entertained by Morris Dancers, the Goring and Streatley concert band, and each year features an additional band with past performances from old school pupils. 12–5pm
1 May
Bluey and Bingo come to 4 Kingdoms
4 Kingdoms Adventure Park, Newbury Road, Headley, RG19 8JY 4-kingdoms.co.uk
Bluey joins us at 4 Kingdoms
Adventure Farm. Come and meet him. 10am–4:30pm
1 May Jousting Tournament
Blenheim Palace, Woodstock, OX20 1PP blenheimpalace.com/whats-on Visitors will have the chance to enjoy old English traditions including archery and falconry. 10am–3pm
1 May, 11 June
Jocks Lane Miniature Railway
Running Day
Jocks Lane Park, Bracknell, RG12 2BH, bracknellrailwaysociety.co.uk Miniature steam train rides. £1 per ride. 1–4pm
3-7 May
Long Live the King! West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS booking.westberks.gov.uk/ heritage_events
Drop into the Museum to make a mini Union flag or design and colour a crown to display in celebration of the coronation. Free. 10am-4pm
6 May–4 Jun
Reading Children’s Festival 2023
The festival gets off to an actionpacked start with a royal themed Forbury Fiesta on Saturday 6 May, where there will be something for everyone to get involved with on the day. Head down to the Forbury Gardens from 12pm to join in the fun!
7 May
Berkshire Young Farmers’ Country Fayre
Newbury Showground, Hermitage, Thatcham, RG18 9QZ berksyfc.org.uk/welcometo-berkshire-young-farmers/ berkshire-country-fayre
Enjoy countryside activities, demonstrations, machinery, trade
stands, craft stalls & food fayre, plus a competitions to enjoy. 9am–5pm
7 May
Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books Caversham, Reading, RG4 8JG fourbearsbooks.co.uk/event-details
Join us on the coronation weekend to find out about and celebrate a host of inspirational leaders from the past and present. Suitable for ages 5-8. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Saturday 6th May. 10am-11am
7 May
Hats Off to the King Garden Party
The Flowing Spring, Henley Road, Playhatch, Reading, RG4 9RB theflowingspringpub.co.uk
We’ll have hot and cold food, an outside bar, a hat contest and loads of live music going into the evening. Free. From 1pm
7 May
King’s Coronation Tribute Festival in Reading Abbey Ruins Abbey Ruins Reading, Chestnut Walk, Reading, RG1 3HW whatsonreading.com
The top UK tribute bands come together for a day in the sun to celebrate the King’s Coronation in one of Reading’s most prestigious heritage sites. Live Paw Patrol meet and greet. 12–6:30pm
7 May
Public Running Day
Prospect Park Railway, Reading, RG30 2BE, rsme.uk Miniature train rides. 60p per ride. 12–3:30pm
7 May Woodley’s Coronation Picnic in the Park Woodford Park, Haddon Drive, Reading, RG5 4LY, Woodley.gov.uk The celebration will include live music on a stage, live entertainment, live circus skills and FREE ice cream (first 300 people)! Free entry. 2–5pm
10-14 May
Reading Walks Festival visit-reading.com/whats-on/ seasonal-events/reading-walksfestival
Reading Walks Festival is as much about telling the stories of Reading as walking for its own pleasure, so
you don’t need to be a seasoned hiker to take part and you’ll find that our volunteer guides have lots to share with you along the way.
13 May
Young Rangers
Thatcham Discovery Centre, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre
A wildlife club for 8– 1 year olds who love nature and wildlife. £7. 2pm
13 May
Razzamataz Theatre Showcase
Parkway Shopping Centre, Newbury, RG14 1AY, newburyspringfestival.org.uk/ event/razzamataz-theatre-school
A free showcase performance from classic musical theatre to funky street dance. Part of the Newbury Spring Festival. 1pm
13 May
Dick and Dom in Da Bungalow Live
The Hexagon, Reading, RG1 7UA whatsonreading.com
Expect the unexpected as the legendary Creamy Muck Muck game returns and with appearances from Diddy Dick and Dom, and D.I Harry Batt, no member of the audience is safe! £29. 7:30pm
14 May
The Mikado Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD newburyspringfestival.org.uk/ event/the-mikado
A stylish, highly successful production of this Gilbert and Sullivan masterpiece. Part of the Newbury Spring Festival. 3pm
14 May
Steps Ahead Show
Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ Arlington-arts.com
Dancers of Steps Ahead aged 5-18 showcase their talents! 4pm/ 6:45pm
15 and 18 May
Nature Tots
Thatcham Discovery Centre, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Your tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. £7. 10am
17–20 May
The Wind in the Willows
The Hexagon, Queen’s Walk, Reading, RG1 7UA, whatsonreading.com
Packed full of toe-tapping tunes and plenty of humour, this is a feel-good show you won’t want to miss.
18–30 May
Gifford’s Circus
Blenheim Palace, Woodstock, OX20 1PP
blenheimpalace.com/whats-on
The village green circus travels the lengths of the UK to bring you a magical show bursting with excitement.
20 May Monkey Puzzle: stories set to music
Corn Exchange Newbury, Newbury, RG14 5BD, newburyspringfestival. org.uk/event/monkey-puzzle
Part of the Newbury Spring Festival. 10am/11:30am
20 May
The Greatest Magician
Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP kentontheatre.co.uk
This astonishing, enigmatic, five star-rated magic show will leave you aching from laughter and dizzy in disbelief. £24.50. 7:30pm
21 May
Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books
Caversham, Reading, RG4 8JG fourbearsbooks.co.uk/event-details
Come and meet the Mayor of Reading, Rachel Eden, to hear about her work and celebrate a host of inspirational leaders from all walks of life. Ages 9-11. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free
but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Saturday 20th May. 10am-11am
21 May & 18 Jun
Train Rides
Pinewood Miniature Railway, Pinewood Leisure Centre, Wokingham, RG40 3AQ, pinewoodrailway.co.uk
Visit our railway and ride on steam and diesel trains. 1:30–4pm
27 May
Wokingham Children’s Fun Day Langborough Recreation Ground, Wokingham, RG40 2BN wokingham-tc.gov.uk/ourevents
Small fairground rides, visiting farm animals, face painting and more. Free entry. 10am–4pm
27 May–4 Jun
Pop Up Play Village
Wellington Country Park, Odiham Road, Riseley, RG7 1SP wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk
Head to our activity tent and get stuck in with the Farm Supermarket and Cafe and sensory play trays, perfect for our younger visitors. 9:30am–5:30pm
27 May–4 Jun
Odds Farm Park’s 30 Birthday
Celebrations
Odds Farm Park, Wooburn Common, High Wycombe, HP10 0LX, oddsfarm.co.uk
Visitors will be able to see sheep shearing demonstrations and have the opportunity for hands-on kid goat bottle feeding.
27 May–4 Jun
Dinosaur Invasion
4 Kingdoms Adventure Park, Headley, RG19 8JY 4-kingdoms.co.uk
What could be better than spending
the a day in the May half term with over 120 dinosaurs? 10am–4:30pm
28 May
Roald Dahl and the Imagination Seekers
Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD cornexchangenew.com
All around the world Roald Dahlʼs words are disappearing, not only from books but children’s minds too! Now only a secret organisation known as the Ancient Guild of TaleTenders can save the storiesand they need your help... 11am/2pm
28 and 29 May
Shaw House Open Days
Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse
Join us for the Shaw House Open Days where you will have the opportunity to access many areas of the House which are not normally open to the public, including the ‘Forbidden Corridor’ on the second floor and the basement tunnel running along the length of the House. Free entry. 11am–4pm
29 May
Jocks Lane Miniature Railway running day Jocks Lane Park, Binfield Road, Bracknell, RG12 2BH bracknellrailwaysociety.co.uk Miniature steam train rides. £1 per ride. 1–4pm
29 May–2 Jun
Animal Farm Week
Wellington Country Park, Odiham Road, Riseley, RG7 1SP wellingtoncountrypark.co.uk
Join us for Animal Farm week as we celebrate our resident animals. 9:30am–5:30pm
29 May–2 Jun
River Trips from Caversham Caversham Pier, Thameside Promenade, Reading, RG1 8BD thamesrivercruise.co.uk
Get out on the river, take the air and enjoy freedom.
30 May
Mushroom Kingdom Chaos
Woodcote Village Hall, Woodcote, RG8 0QY masterbuildersclub.co.uk
Join everyone’s favourite video game character on an epic adventure through Mushroom Kingdom. There will be villains to defeat and a Princess to rescue as we build our own track, power up and navigate a fantasy world that is full of surprises. 9:30–11:30am
30 May
Mushroom Kingdom Chaos
Sonning Common Village Hall, Sonning Common, RG4 9SL masterbuildersclub.co.uk
Join everyone’s favourite video game character on an epic adventure through Mushroom Kingdom. There will be villains to defeat and a Princess to rescue as we build our own track, power up and navigate a fantasy world that is full of surprises. 2:30–4:30pm
30 May–2 Jun
Create and Make
Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com
Your little one will get to work with professional practitioners to explore the creative arts, develop new skills and make new friends. 10am–4pm
30 May–2 Jun
Half Term Art Club
The Base, Greenham Business Park, Greenham, RG19 6AB, thebasegreenham.co.uk
Join The Base Greenham’s art club to experiment with different art techniques and creative projects!
31 May
Mushroom Kingdom Chaos
Badgemore Primary School, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2HL masterbuildersclub.co.uk
Join everyone’s favourite video game character on an epic adventure through Mushroom Kingdom. There will be villains to defeat and a Princess to rescue as we build our own track, power up and navigate a fantasy world that is full of surprises. 9:30–11:30am
31 May
Family Activity Day: Beautiful butterflies
Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR westberkshireheritage.org/shawhouse
Decorate a wooden butterfly with paint pens and tissue paper. Then varnish with glue (decoupage) as the Victorians would have done. £2.50 10am–3pm
31 May
Magical Honey
Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Join Maya’s world of Magical Honey with dance, magic, storytelling and live music. £10-£12. 11:30am/2pm
31 May
Mushroom Kingdom Chaos
The Heights Primary School, Caversham, Reading, RG4 7LB masterbuildersclub.co.uk
Join everyone’s favourite video game
character on an epic adventure through Mushroom Kingdom. There will be villains to defeat and a Princess to rescue as we build our own track, power up and navigate a fantasy world that is full of surprises. 2:30–4:30pm
31 May–3 Jun
The Rumble Under the Rug Reading Rep Theatre, King’s Road, Reading, RG1 4LY, readingrep.com
Join us on this interactive adventure to discover who is hiding under the rug, and how we can make them welcome in our world. £5. 10am/1pm
3 Jun
John Hegley: I AM A Poetato South Street Arts Centre, Reading, RG1 4QU, whatsonreading.com Be prepared to laugh and hark, here in Berkshire. 2pm
3 Jun
Young Rangers
Thatcham Discovery Centre, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, bbowt. org.uk/explore/visitor-centres/ nature-discovery-centre
A wildlife club for 8–11 year olds who love nature and wildlife. £7. 2pm
4 Jun
9 Jun–6 Aug
Kurt Jackson: River
The Base,Greenham Business Park, Greenham, RG19 6AB, thebasegreenham.co.uk
Leading British contemporary artist Kurt Jackson brings this new exhibition to The Base Greenham this summer. Under-18s are free!
10 Jun
Dinosaur Adventure Live Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com
2 Jun
Messy Museum Day: Lucky dip! West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, westberkshireheritage.org/westberkshire-museum
Choose a ceramic item (the choice is subject to availability on the day) to decorate with paint pens, and then take it home to use or display. £2.50 10am–3pm
2 Jun The Not So Grimm Twins
Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Roll up one and all, to hear the fabulous Grimm Brother’s fairytales like never before. £10-£12. 11:30am & 2pm
3 Jun
PACT Family Disco
Hemdean House School, Reading, RG4 7SD, register.enthuse.com/ps/ event/PACTdisco2023
Bring your dancing shoes and your best outfit as Crazy Times Disco plays tunes to get you dancing. £5 for children aged 2-11. 2pm
Ultimate Activity Camps (UAC) provide an inspiring programme of over 40 stimulating and outstanding activities during the school holidays for children aged 4-14 to enjoy at some of the UK’s leading independent schools.
The award-winning camps are delivered by qualified and motivating staff and UAC are hoping to soon expand into even more beautiful schools with exceptional facilities and an abundance of space.
During the coming summer holidays, Ultimate Activity Camps will be running locally in LVS in Ascot, Reading Blue Coat School in Sonning, Crosfields School in Reading and St. Gabriel’s School in Newbury. Children will be able to enjoy a range of over 40 sports, games and craft activities each week. Parents can take the stress out of childcare and join an outstanding school holiday club.
Special discount for summer dates: save £20 per week or £4 per day when you book before Tuesday 6 June. Visit www.ultimateactivity.co.uk for more information.
A Visit from the Mermaid Princess and her Prince Shaw House, Newbury, RG14 2DR westberkshireheritage.org/whatson We invite you to join us for an enchanting royal visit from the Mermaid Princess and her Prince. The royal couple will delight young audiences with a fun sing-a-long, themed games and story time. £7 per child, one accompanying adult free. 10am/11:45am/1:30pm
4 Jun
Nick Cope Family Music Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com if you haven’t heard his songs or seen his shows before come and find out what you’re missing. 11am
4 Jun Public Running Day Prospect Park Railway, 82 Bath Road, Reading, RG30 2BE, rsme.uk Miniature train rides. 60p per ride. 12pm–3:30pm
Join our intrepid rangers on a quest to recover the data crystal, restore power to the island and save the dinosaurs! From £16.25. 2pm/4:30pm
10 Jun
Reading Water Fest 2023
Forbury Gardens, Reading Abbey Ruins, Chestnut Walk and Riverside Walk, Reading
The event will consist of live entertainment, children’s activities and refreshments, water activities, narrow boats, craft and charity stalls. 11am – 5pm
10 Jun
ACE Dance Showcase 2023 Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com
ACE Dance Studios brings together aspiring and creative young and contemporary dancers from across Berkshire and the South of England. 7:30pm
10 and 11 Jun
Reading Brick Show Loddon Valley Leisure Centre, Lower Earley, Reading, RG6 4GD, readingbrickshow.com
It will be one of the largest LEGO®
Odds Farm Park, near Beaconsfield, will be getting the party started this May half term (27 May– 4 June) as it celebrates its 30th birthday.
The rare breeds farm park first opened its doors to the public in 1993 and is now gearing up for a week-long party throughout May half term.
Louise Winslow, assistant general manager, said: “We can’t wait to get the party started in half term. We also have a jampacked programme of party fun for our guests including silly shows, games, arts and crafts and special party celebrations to mark our milestone 30th birthday.”
In addition to a busy line-up of birthday celebrations, visitors can continue all the usual fun at Odds Farm with acres of outdoor adventure play, the tractor and trailer ride, H2Odds water play, Marmalade’s Mini Rover rides, giant Indoor Playbarn and a full schedule of animal activities.
www.oddsfarm.co.uk
shows in the UK and will bring together fantastic LEGO® models made by the most talented builders, alongside lots of fun games and activities for all ages. 10am–5pm
10-18 Jun
Luke Gerram’s Gaia Concert Hall, Blagrave Street, Reading, RG1 1QH whatsonreading.com
Measuring seven metres in diameter and suspended inside Reading’s historic Concert Hall, Gaia features high-resolution NASA imagery of the Earth’s surface. Adults £2, under 14s with an accompanying adult free.
11 Jun
Whitley Carnival
John Madejski Academy, 125 Hartland Road, Reading, RG2 8AF whatsonreading.com
Two parades winding through the streets of Whitley, followed by a Fun Day. From 12pm.
11 Jun
Reading Children’s Book Group at Fourbears Books
Caversham, Reading, RG4 8JG, fourbearsbooks.co.uk/event-details
Sail away in some stories that will take you on new adventures as part of our National Share a Story Month celebrations. Suitable for ages 5-8. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential by 4pm on Sat 10 June. 10am-11am
11 and 18 Jun
Razzamataz: It’s Showtime! Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com
Come along and join our Razz students as we take you on a journey through the worlds of commercial
pop and music theatre. 1pm/7pm
12 and 15 Jun
Nature Tots
Thatcham Discovery Centre, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre
Your tots can take part in outdoor nature play, stories, trails and crafts. £7. 10am
17 and 18 Jun
Father’s Day
4 Kingdoms Adventure Park, Headley, RG19 8JY 4-kingdoms.co.uk
Free entry to all dads on this day. 10am–4:30pm
18 Jun
The Princess and the Pea Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BP kentontheatre.co.uk
The Princess and the Pea receives a makeover from HCT. It’s a traditional tale, but newly told. Adults: £15, children: £12. 1pm/5pm
24 Jun
Cirque - The Greatest Show
The Hexagon, Reading, RG1 7UA, whatsonreading.com
Escape with us for a night like no other, where we take you into a world where the very best of musical theatre meets jaw-dropping circus spectacular. 1pm/6pm
24 and 25 Jun
Dream On Shinfield Players Theatre, Reading, RG2 9DF, shinfieldplayers.org.uk
A magical romp version of A Midsummer Night’s Dream with mischievous fairies, misguided humans and misunderstood actors leading you through the story.
25 Jun
Reading Buses Open Day
Great Knollys Street, Reading, RG1 7HH, reading-buses.co.uk
The biggest and most popular event on our calendar returns for 2023!
25 Jun
Mog the Forgetful Cat pre-show workshop
Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com
Make and decorate a beautiful cat mask and take it along to the show with you! £3. 10am/1pm
25 Jun
Mog the Forgetful Cat
Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com
Join Mog and the Thomas family, on a journey through one year in the life of a really remarkable cat, as she catches a burglar, gatecrashes a cat show, goes to the V.E.T. and gets to eat lots of eggs. £16.25. 11am /2pm
25 Jun
Jocks Lane Miniature Railway running day
Jocks Lane Park, Bracknell, RG12 2BH, bracknellrailwaysociety.co.uk Miniature steam train rides. £1 per ride. 1–4pm
25 Jun
ACE: Kids
Arlington Arts Centre, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com
This show enables all the wonderful ACE:Kids to showcase their talent, to an audience of dedicated family and friends! It’s fun and bright throughout - definitely one for all the family! 3pm
25 Jun
East Reading Festival
Palmer Park, Reading, RG6 1LE, whatsonreading.com
With a music stage, a spokenword/poetry stage, a funfair, food from around the world and a wide variety of community, charity and commercial stalls, there is something for everyone at East Reading Festival. Free entry. 12–6pm
30 Jun
Swifts in Newbury
West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, westberkshireheritage.org
A walk and a talk by local bird expert, Ailsa Claybourn, about these amazing birds who are disappearing from our skies, and how we can help
six-week festival includes four musicals, two of which are original productions, with shows running daily. Tickets from £14.50
