Families Thames Valley West March/April 2022 by Families Magazine

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Tidy bedrooms and school performance Nurturing emotional intelligence through play Tackling childhood fears • Great local family walks

Issue 117 March/April 2022

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In this issue... 4-5

News and Views

Education News

Meet the Head: Reddam House

Does spelling matter?

Tidy bedrooms and school performance

Making more space at home

How to talk about racial discrimination

Unique UK animal encounters

Edit or’s Welcome... Spring is here, and there’s lots to look forward to over the next couple of months. We live in a part of the world which is both lively and scenic, and this is reﬂected in some of the activities in this issue. There is something for everyone in the selection of local walks in the Get Outdoors! section, in rural and urban settings, and some great ideas for family trips on the What’s On pages.

16-17 Get outdoors! 18-19 Craft and puzzles for

children 20

Local indoor play centres

21-23 Clubs and classes 24

How much food should my child eat?

Top apps for parents / Updating your Will

Tackling childhood fears

Nurturing emotional intelligence through play

My children have been helping me test indoor play venues for this issue – “You have the best job, Mum!” – for days when the weather is less kind but getting out of the house is a necessity.

As usual, there are plenty of articles to cover diverse aspects of parenting. Particularly interesting and relevant for me were the ones about the importance (or not) of spelling and the link between tidy

bedrooms and schoolwork. I hope you feel inspired and supported by the wisdom of our contributors and that there are lots of sunny days ahead!

Lesley x.

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NEWS AND VIEWS

Let your kids go wild, get messy and have a ‘Best Day Ever!’ The Little Welly returns to Henley-On-Thames Get ready for a whole dollop of outdoor, crazy fun as The Little Welly – the UK’s largest obstacle course for children - returns on the 11th and 12th June. Specially created for kids, The Little Welly obstacle course has more than 30 challenges over the 3 or 5km routes. They include a huge water slide, foam pit and, of course, mud! The course is reimagined every year to challenge kids (and their parents!) in a fun, unique and safe environment with a cool medal at the end. But there’s so much more to enjoy: the Little Welly Festival Village has something for all the family, including inﬂatables, the climbing wall, trampolines, caving and hamster balls. There’s live music throughout the day and a full schedule of entertainers in the Show Tent. www.thelittlewelly.co.uk

The Girl of Ink and Stars The Watermill Theatre in Newbury has a reputation for producing highquality youth theatre productions that are both enthralling and entertaining, and this year is no exception! This spring The Watermill Youth Ensemble will take to the stage to perform a brand-new adaptation of The Girl of Ink and Stars by Kiran Millwood Hargrave, a gripping tale of adventure, myth, and ﬁnding the way home, perfect for ages 8+. Performances are also available in British Sign Language and Audio Described, making the production accessible to more families. The Watermill Youth Ensemble is made up of young people aged 11+ who take part in one of The Watermill’s regular weekly groups (see the Clubs and Classes directory), including participants from specialist access groups for young people who are home educated, have autism, are deaf or have a hearing impairment, or may be experiencing additional complications in their lives. Visit www.watermill.org.uk for more.

Why children fight Covid better UK scientists have revealed why children are much less likely to become ill with Covid. They found children had a stronger immune response than adults in their airways, which rapidly triggered in-built natural defences to fight the virus. Researchers at University College London said their study revealed that children had an innate immune system that is better able to recognise dangerous viruses or bacteria automatically. Meanwhile, adults have a more adaptive immune system that contains memory type cells which have been trained through past exposure to respond to a particular threat. Dr Yoshida, an author of the study, said: ‘Because Sars-CoV-2 is a new virus, it isn't something that the adaptive immune system of adults has learned to respond to. The innate immune system of children is more flexible and better able to respond to new threats.’ More at www.sanger.ac.uk/news

Pre-schoolers ﬂock back to group activities After more than a year of social distancing and spending time on screens, the number of UK pre-schoolers joining organised group activities has risen by ten percent, according to a new study from Childwise, a leading specialist in research with children. Twenty six percent of parents surveyed said their pre-schooler had participated in group activities this year, up from sixteen percent in 2019. Swimming is the most popular activity, with thirty seven percent of parents taking their pre-schoolers to the pool on a regular basis. This is followed by dance classes (twenty two percent in general and thirty one percent among three and four-year-old girls) and group music lessons (fourteen percent). On average, UK kids are now participating in 1.4 activities, up from 1.2 activities pre-Covid. More info: www.childwise.co.uk/ 4 • Bracknell • Henley • Reading • West Berkshire • Wokingham

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Pressurising picky eaters doesn’t work While picky eating is part of the norm for developing toddlers, when it extends into the school years, it takes a toll on all involved. New research from Australian universities has found that a range of factors contributed to a child's likelihood of being a fussy eater. The study found that pressuring a child to eat, offering rewards for eating and very strict parenting all negatively inﬂuenced fussy eaters. Whereas a more relaxed parenting style, eating together as a family and involving a child in the preparation of food all reduced the likelihood of fussy eating.

Easter Camps with Camp Beaumont With the Easter holidays just around the corner, and the dilemma of childcare approaching, Camp Beaumont, the UK’s most experienced day camp provider, is on hand to provide your child with a fun-ﬁlled adventure at over 35 locations across London and the South-East.

Lead researcher Laine Chilman said ‘Eating together as a family, with siblings and having a single meal at a regular time all helped reduce food fussiness. As did getting the fussy child involved in the meal, either by helping to choose the menu, or helping to prepare the meal.’ More at www.sciencedaily.com/releases

With over 50 activities each week, not only can your child sharpen up their social skills, but they can pursue new interests, develop new talents and unleash their creative side. Activities range from Aqua Olympics to Movie Maker to Superhero Academy, and each activity programme is tailored by age group, including a nursery-style Playtime Programme for 34 year olds, a unique Magic Programme for 5-7 year olds, a thrilling Active Programme for 8-11 year olds and an exclusive club style Teens Programme for 12-16 year olds. Camp Beaumont’s award-winning multi-activity Easter camps take place from 28th March to 22nd April 2022. Childcare vouchers are accepted and all bookings are ﬂexible with their COVID ﬂexible booking promise. If there are any changes to the government guidance, you can change the date hassle-free or receive a full refund. To book, visit www.campbeaumont.co.uk or call 01604 851 0000.

A wild experience Ever fancied feeding a meerkat, grooming a pony or even tickling a tapir? At Beale Wildlife Park near Reading, both adults and children can now enjoy animal experiences. These unique opportunities allow you to go behindthe-scenes with our experienced animals team, learn all about some of your favourite species and get hands-on with feeding. The experiences, which can be booked now and will be available from Easter, start at just £15 per person.

Beale Wildlife Park is a great day out for all the family with 160 wildlife species from all over the world, beautiful gardens, a train, cafes and play areas. There’s a packed programme of activities across the school holidays, including trails, keeper talks, crafts, meet the bugs and pond dipping. Keep up-to-date at bealepark.org.uk and via Facebook and Instagram.

Live your best story Becoming a mother can reshape our whole identity. Our self-belief and conﬁdence take a massive knock, we spend lots of time worrying and feeling guilty, our perspectives on life change and we can lose a sense of freedom as we put others ﬁrst. This can sometimes leave us feeling overwhelmed, confused, and frustrated. If you’re a mum feeling like this and wondering ‘what’s next for my career?’, it’s an opportunity to re-evaluate what matters to you most and

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EDUCATION NEWS

Stacey Copeland explains to St Andrew’s why “Gender should never be a barrier to potential” St Andrew’s welcomed former England football player and boxer Stacey Copeland, and old pupil, Eva, to host an assembly and sessions on gender equality. Stacey made history as the ﬁrst British woman to win a Commonwealth title for boxing in 2018, and as an amateur boxer, won a European silver medal. Deeply passionate about making a positive impact through sport, Stacey founded charity, Pave The Way in 2017, to challenge gender stereotypes, and make a difference. Eva, now at Bradﬁeld College, led a presentation on respect, inclusion, diversity and equality during Year 8 at St Andrew’s, prompting the foundation of a committee called RIDE. Stacey said: “It was such a pleasure to visit St Andrew's. Pupils were so enthusiastic and asked lots of questions about equality and inclusion, and are clearly inspired by the RIDE initiative. I am looking forward to seeing how Eva and the team continue to make a difference.” To visit St Andrew’s for an Individual Tour, please contact Director of Admissions, Jane Taylor, taylorj@standrewspangbourne.co.uk.

School tests don’t affect wellbeing Primary school tests do not seem to have a signiﬁcant effect on the wellbeing and happiness of children, a study has found. Research conducted by University College London suggested that there was little difference in levels of wellbeing and happiness reported by children, regardless of whether they took Key Stage 2 tests or not. Children in Year 6 in England who took SATs tests did not experience any signiﬁcant change in how they felt about themselves, their family lives and their school in the weeks surrounding

the tests, the study discovered. Researchers say that there does not seem to be sufficient evidence to support getting rid of SATs tests ‘on wellbeing grounds,’ in spite of calls from both parents and teachers to scrap the compulsory assessments. The research also found that there was no evidence to show that pupils who were happier or more self-conﬁdent in the build-up to the tests achieved higher scores. More at www.york.ac.uk/news-and-events

Open days Brockhurst and Marlston House Schools: Saturday 5th March, 10:30am-12:30pm Hermitage, Newbury, RG18 9UL 01635 200293, www.brockmarl.org.uk

Luckley House School: Wednesday 23rd March, morning Luckley Road, Wokingham, RG40 3EU 0118 978 4175, www.luckleyhouseschool.org

Cheam School: Friday 4th March, 10am-12pm Headley, Newbury RG19 8LD 01635 268242, www.cheamschool.com

Meadowbrook School: The School offers private tours all academic year. Malt Hill, Warﬁeld RG42 6JQ 01344 890869, www.meadowbrook.uk

Kidmore End Primary School: Wednesday 27th April, 9:30am-11am Chalkhouse Green Road, Kidmore End, Reading, RG4 9AU 0118 357 3149, www.kidmore-end.co.uk

Queen Anne’s School: Friday 4th March, 9:30am-12pm Henley Road, Caversham, Berkshire, RG4 6DX 0118 918 7300, www.qas.org.uk

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Meet THE head

When did you become Principal at Reddam House, and what did you do before that? I joined Reddam House at the start of September 2021. In 2017 I was appointed Deputy Head of Bedales in Hampshire, where I held three Deputy posts, Staff & Co-Curricular, Academic, and most recently Pastoral. How is Reddam House different from other schools? Reddam House differs from other schools by empowering students to fulﬁl their potential through learning, excellence, and a focus on individuality. We are part of Inspired, the leading global premium group of schools who offer excellence to over 55,000 students worldwide. From exchange programmes to exclusive camps, to leadership conferences and shared learning experiences, Inspired offers a range of enriching global opportunities which give students a chance to travel, meet peers from other countries and become a part of our vibrant international community. How do you create a home from home atmosphere for children that board at Reddam House? Reddam House boarding has a very nurturing family atmosphere which ensures students feel at home from day 1. There are dedicated boarding staff who live alongside the children and provide daily support, we get to know our boarders, support them, we push them outside of their comfort zones, we give focus and direction without restricting their ability to grow and develop in their own individual way. The community is incredibly supportive, and we offer trips and activities every weekend. We do not have lessons or sports matches at the

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Rick Cross Reddam House This issue we meet Rick Cross, Head of Reddam House, which is set in 125 acres of wood and parkland and housed in a magnificent mansion building in Sindlesham, near Wokingham. He tells us about himself and what makes Reddam House special. weekend, so students enjoy a full weekend to unwind, enjoy being with friends and catch up on work. We are an international community bringing together boarders from over 30 different countries, and it’s a real pleasure to be part of their daily lives. What inspired you to become a teacher and, later, a headteacher? I worked in the financial and IT sector of London, recruiting software developers for large banks. I soon realised my passion was for learning so switched to teaching, landing my first job at Alleyn’s School in Dulwich. I moved into senior management with a move to The Perse in Cambridge, and later Bedales. I became a Head, because I enjoy working with people and improving schools. I’ve been lucky in that I have had many different opportunities in my career, and when the opportunity came to lead Reddam House, I jumped at the chance. What do you like doing in your free time? I recently completed the UK Ironman, and between 25th March – 4th April, I am competing in the Marathon Des Sables. This is a 250+km, self-sufficient ultra-marathon in the Sahara Desert, billed as the ‘Toughest Footrace on Earth’. I enjoy sports of all kinds, and then relaxing with either friends and family, or a good book. My background is in History and Politics, so I tend to grab the political stuff first. Are there any changes planned at Reddam House for the next few years and beyond? Absolutely. We have recently completed phase 1 of a new boarding house, with phase 2 starting soon. We also hope to start building a new sports hall soon. There are lots of plans to

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develop our Reddam Events programme, showcasing the incredible talent within Reddam, and bringing experiences in to entertain and inform our community. In what ways do you encourage older pupils to lead and inspire younger pupils? Reddam House has an established programme of student voice and student leadership. The school is split into four sections (Early Learning School, Junior, Middle and Senior) and each one has its version of school council which we call judiciaries. These groups collaborate with each other, and with the school leadership team to bring the school forward. We also have the Combined Cadet Force (CCF) and the Duke of Edinburgh programme, another example of how students lead and inspire younger students. We don’t have prefects, but the oldest students in the school are expected to lead our community, helping with some duties such as junior prep. How do you involve parents and carers in children’s education? I passionately believe parents and carers need to work together with school. Every child has a tutor, who is the principal contact with the school, and they are supported by a Head of Year and Head of School. We also work very closely with the parent body via Year group reps, who feed into our PFA. The Senior Team meet with the PFA twice a term, mainly to discuss their principle aims of FUN and FUNDraising, but they can bring other matters up too. My door is always open to parents if they want to come and see me.

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EDUCATION

Does spelling matter? By Jemma Zoe Smith

At a time when autocorrect is everywhere and very few situations call for handwriting, the question being debated is: does spelling matter?

s a dyslexic tutor, my answer does not ﬁt squarely on one side of the fence. Spelling is a recognised core skill which helps with reading, processing and pronunciation. That said, should anyone be penalised for having important and novel ideas, simply because they struggle to write them down?

words. For many, their ideas for stories, articles and debates stay locked in their heads, never written down for fear of over-zealous correction. We might be missing out on some amazing works - after all, Jane Austen is known for spelling scissors as ‘scissars’ and sofa as ‘sopha’. And her novels are considered literary classics!

In UK primary schools, children are given regular spelling tests, and spelling is tested at each stage of pupils’ lives. 11+ exams, SATs, GCSEs, and even some job interviews require a writing task without spellcheck. So yes, spelling must matter because it is tested at so many points in the UK (although not so much in the USA). Fail to master spelling, and it is harder to make it to top universities or careers.

So does spelling matter? Sort of. But it shouldn’t get in the way of encouraging people to write. My solution? Spend longer on proofreading, a skill that can help beyond the classroom. And, on that note, I’m off to proofread this article.

Indeed, poor spelling skills can also impede you in love! In 2016 a survey of over ﬁve thousand people on online dating site Match.com found that over a third judged whether a potential date was suitable by their grasp of grammar. It can also impact business ratings, with a BBC article in 2011 stating that ‘a single spelling mistake can cut online sales in half.’ While spell checking tools can be used, they raise a new issue. When spellcheck corrects a word, it can also change the word to one different than intended, creating hundreds of ‘funniest autocorrect’ articles online but also leaving governments red faced as ‘peace’ turns to ‘peach’ in press releases. But let’s not come down too hard on spelling lest it discourage children from writing. I have seen students go from enthusiastic to disengaged learners after seeing their work returned with red rings around the misspelled

Learning to proofread While grammar and autocorrect tools can support writing, I believe there is a missing skill: proofreading. Something that I often work on with students is ‘hearing their inside voice’ reading their work. Being able to spot mistakes can help students to notice patterns in their own writing, identify grammar errors and lead them to understand hidden meanings in texts. The process of proofreading encourages children to slow down and consider making changes to their work, such as upgrading a word like ‘big’ to ‘enormous,’ allowing them to explore and use more advanced vocabulary. To produce crisp, clear copy, proofreading is the ﬁnal part of the writing process and is as important as creating and revising text in producing crisp, clear copy. Proofreading is a skill that many of us will need in the world of work, when sending emails and writing presentations. For the best, proofreading can be a job in its own right.

www.twinkl.co.uk for age-banded proofreading packs and worksheets www.portlandproof.com for free online games. What about new skill sets? Across the pond in the USA, spelling has been phased out of the school curriculum, in the same way as handwriting. Spelling errors don’t count against students on the essay portion of the SAT, according to the College Board which administers the exam. With online learning forcing many students onto laptops over the last two years, some schools in the UK are now following the USA and allowing laptops in lessons. So is spelling becoming less important? Certainly schools are no longer purely about the ‘three Rs’ of writing, reading and arithmetic (why did only one of those start with an R?) Indeed, many UK schools are now including wellbeing, computing and even BTECs in agriculture instead of GCSEs like history. So what skills are becoming more important? Coding is already a highly valued skill and is destined to become even more important in the future. Look into www.mama.codes. Equally, success for our children is likely to require strong critical thinking and communication skills. You can encourage this at home with www.kidcoach.app.

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EDUCATION By Usha Patel

Tidy bedrooms and school performance

he instruction ‘Tidy your room!’ is the bane of most children’s lives. But there’s so much more to keeping bedrooms tidy than maintaining a positive environment. In fact, the very act of regular tidying can actually help children in other areas of their life too, including at school. It’s all part of building certain processes and routines that are important to their overall development. Nurturing a sense of tidiness By the age of four, children can usually hold just one notion in their active memory, for instance, immediate instructions such as picking up certain toys or doing one tidying job. Young children often struggle with being given too much to do all at once simply because their active memory is quickly drained. However, by the time they are sixteen, they can hold six or even seven notions in their active memory at a time.

If you want your child to more easily absorb a sequence of instructions, you can try habit stacking, with tidying their bedroom a perfect example of how to nurture it. Habit stacking is achieved by linking an existing habit with a new one you want to create. How a tidy bedroom can help with working memory How easily can your child ﬁnd something in their bedroom? To recall where a particular item is, children ﬁrst need to retrieve the information from their long-term memory storage and bring it forward to their active thinking. The more items they have to put away, the more working memory is used to remember where each one is located. Working memory is a critical cognitive function for everyday activities from learning to reading, remembering spellings, maths and

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mathematical tasks. By encouraging your child to start small and create the tidying habit and then retrieve the items, you are exercising that same part of the brain. It’s impossible to overstate just how important working memory is in every aspect of your child’s life. In fact, Dr Tracy Packiam Alloway states it is a more significant indicator of academic success than IQ. So, there’s no need to feel like you are being a nag when you ask your child to tidy their room; it really is good for them. There’s a direct line from toybox to brainbox - just don’t expect them to thank you for it yet! Habit stacking to improve bedroom tidying Beds take up a large portion of any bedroom, and having a made-up bed can contribute to a ninety percent tidier room if your child's room is tiny. Using a habit stack to instruct your child to make their bed could be worded like this: After your feet touch the floor in the morning, plump up your pillow and pull the cover straight to make your bed. After making your bed, head straight to the bathroom. A room tidying habit stack might sound like this: Pick up your cars and put them in the blue crate. Then sit your soft toys next to each other on the shelf. Habit stacking becomes a routine that can be easily adapted and made more complex with age. It creates a series of sequential steps that leave no gaps for distraction. Importantly, it does not drain active memory. If you want to find out more, Habit Stacking creator Dr BJ Fogg’s book Tiny Habits is an excellent guide to the science of behaviour change.

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Tips for improving tidying and working memory Introduce and start using habit stacking from a young age. Celebrate the implementation of each new habit with plenty of praise and encouragement. Comment on how much better your child’s room looks and how pleased you are with their efforts; Dr BJ Fogg says happiness helps behaviour change! Creating and ingraining a new habit usually takes around twenty-one days. Once the habit is in place, add another and keep going. Gradually build the chain of habits to achieve the right result. Exercise your four-year-old child’s working memory by asking them to retrieve one item. Build up to four items by age nine and seven by age sixteen. Every child develops at their own pace. Bear this in mind and support or reduce when needed at every stage. When you deem them old enough, explain the science behind what they are learning and how clever they are making their brains!

Usha Patel (www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk)

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Making more space at home By Jo Behari Do you remember when you bought that perfect family home? The one that had plenty of space for a nursery and a swing set in the garden? Now, a few years down the line when you’ve added toddler toys, prams, additional siblings and working from home into the mix, you suddenly you feel like the old lady in A Squash and a Squeeze. So how can you create more space? There are many options but they can be a minefield. The first thing to consider is how to create more space with what you already have. Can you move some rooms around, convert a basement or loft? Perhaps you have overly large rooms that can be carved up with partition walls to create more functional spaces. Or maybe you are one of the many people searching on the internet for ‘house extension’? This search term hit an all-time high in 2020, and it’s no surprise if families are getting under each other’s feet. First, consider your options depending on your type of home. Loft Conversion. These are the most straightforward extensions and often the least disruptive, as most of the work can be completed in the loft and roof space before breaking through to fit the stairs. Rear single storey extension. This is a simple extension that would take your ground floor area into the garden. Great option if you want to extend your living and kitchen space and do not need any increase in bedroom space. Double storey extension. Like a rear single storey but double height. Great way to get an extra bedroom as well as additional living space downstairs. Side return extension. These are typically done on a terrace-style familiesonline.co.uk

property where the side inﬁll at the back is extended, which could allow you to create a kitchen/diner. Sometimes these can be extended with a single storey rear to incorporate a living space as well. Mansard roof. This is a box that is put onto a terrace house roof to create another room at the top of the house. For many of these extensions you will require planning permission, which means submitting plans for your extension to your local authority for approval, prior to starting building work. As mundane as this may seem, it is a crucial part of the process. You may have heard of the term ‘Permitted Development.’ This means you can build up to a certain size without applying for planning permission. Each local authority has its own regulations on this, so it is worth doing your research with your local authority. If you do not qualify for permitted development, you will need to submit plans to your local authority planning department. It is not essential to have these drawn up by an architect, but the more detail you can provide, the higher chance of your case being granted. Many building ﬁrms offer a planning submission process and can complete drawings and submission for you, but there will be an additional charge for this service. Also note there is a charge from the local authority too. The entire process takes a minimum of six weeks, often longer.

You will need to adhere to building regulations on most extension projects, even those that come under Permitted Development. This is to ensure the work meets

the regulations and safety codes. Again, it is worth checking with your local authority and factoring the cost into your job.

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How to talk about racial discrimination By Suzanne Brown

Building articulate children Children who have the verbal ability to cope with wordplay will be less likely to be browbeaten by hurtful ‘jokes’ of a racial (or other) nature. Build the articulation of younger children with stories and role play and use regular family discussions for older children.

‘I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the colour of their skin but by the content of their character.’ Martin Luther King Jr. All parents dream of a world where their children are treated fairly, free of the various discriminations which exist. But how do we achieve this? When and how? The 'when’ is easy. Start early! Scientiﬁc studies show that children have formed lifelong attitudes about skin colour by the time they reach pre-school age.

occasions such as Black History Month and different cultural events and festivals is fantastic. However, children are more likely to pick up and imitate the attitude they see you display towards others on a daily basis.

The 'how' is trickier but there are many ways to approach this sensitive topic. Some parents may avoid talking about racial discrimination out of concern that they will say the wrong thing and make things worse. However, if these issues are never broached, we risk making race a taboo subject.

Use resources There is a wealth of TV programmes, ﬁlms, YouTube videos, racially diverse toys and books to help explain matters in an age-appropriate way. To see our resource list, visit www.bit.ly/FamiliesResources

Teach kindness From babyhood we can teach our children to be givers and receivers of kind words and actions. When kindness is second nature from a young age it helps avoid situations in which discrimination arises. Teach justice Another starting point for young children is to explore what they think is fair and unfair. Then, at a pace suitable for your child’s level, pace and comprehension, gradually expand discussions to incorporate an understanding of racial justice. Model good behaviour Remember, children are always watching, listening and learning from us, particularly from our sub-conscious actions. Observing special

What if you suspect racism at school? If your child believes a racist incident occurred at school, ﬁrstly praise them for reporting it to you. Calmly gather all the facts, reassuring your child as they go along. Try not to show your own upset or anger. Work in partnership with your child’s school for the best outcome. Discrimination is something to be tackled in small but meaningful daily steps. It’s our little everyday actions, as well as our skill and diplomacy in dealing with bigger issues, which convince children of our integrity. Resilience and self-acceptance No matter who your child is and whatever their ethnicity, it is likely that at some stage in life they will be marked out as ‘different.’ Find ways from a young age to build up their resilience and self-acceptance.

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Teach children to make the best of themselves In our house we like to call it building their ‘superpowers,' - whatever makes your child special to those who know them: kindness, sense of humour, patience, loyalty, sporting/artistic/musical talent, a happy smile etc. Help them to celebrate these superpowers so they are regularly reminded that they (and others) are valued for more than their appearance alone. There are many books written for children of all ages which will help them embrace their own individualities and welcome the differences in others.

Building identity Pride in their ethnicity Whatever your child’s ethnic origin, they should wear it as a badge of honour, because that’s what it is. There is so much richness in everybody’s cultural background: language, cuisine, festivals, religion, traditional dress, songs, country ﬂags, family stories passed down from previous generations. Your child’s genuine pride in their own roots will shine through to all who meet them and help create a strong armour against any negativity they may face.

Stories There is an abundance of stories from around the world - everything from nursery rhymes to traditional fairy tales and novels. Can your child draw parallels between the characters in the books and themselves? The less children see different cultures as ‘other’ to themselves, the better. There is more that unites us than divides us. We all belong to one race: the human race! Finally, don't feel you need to be an expert on racial discrimination. The important thing is that our children see we are open to talk and willing to learn.

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Unique UK animal encounters From the truly wild to the more domestic, there are so many animal experiences to be enjoyed here in the UK. Whether you dream of taking you and your family strolling with alpacas or heading out into the deep blue sea, these animal encounters will create lasting memories.

Spot badgers in Dorset Possibly one of the most elusive of all British wildlife, wild badgers are often difficult to ﬁnd despite their size. For an opportunity to glimpse one of these creatures, head to Dorset’s Old Henley Farm where guests can sit and view in two spacious hides. Visit www.badgerwatchdorset. co.uk Stay: Shepherd’s Hut, Blandford Forum

Walk alpacas in East Sussex

Herd sheep in the Lake District

Watch beavers in Cornwall

A stroll through the British countryside with an alpaca friend in tow is certain to put a smile on your face! Alpaca walking at Spring Farm Alpacas in East Sussex will take you through beautiful countryside, where you can spot a wide range of wildlife the farm has encouraged. Visit www.springfarmalpacas. co.uk

If you’re keen to get stuck into life on the farm, look no further than the truly unique Lake District Sheepdog Experience. Designed for absolute beginners, just one session will see you guiding your ﬂock around a small course all with assistance of your trusty sheepdog. Visit www.bit.ly/lakesheepdog

After four hundred years of extinction in the UK, beavers are making a comeback thanks to the Cornwall Beaver Project. These chubbycheeked rodents in Cornwall have been reintroduced into a secure area of woodland and can be viewed on weekly beaver walks. Visit www.cornwallwildlifetrust.org.uk

Stay: Winster Fields, Windermere

Stay: 2 Pencoose Barns, Truro

Stay: Gun Hill Cottage, Heathﬁeld

Go whale watching in Scotland

Kayak with seals in Pembrokeshire

Spy red squirrels in the Yorkshire Dales

See wild boars in the Forest of Dean

Whale watching may be on your bucket list for an exotic country but it is achievable here in the UK. Off the mainland of Scotland, near the islands of Tiree, Coll and Mull, you can see Minke whale along with dolphins and porpoises.

The Pembrokeshire coast is home to one of the largest breeding Atlantic seal colonies in the world. Glimpse these inquisitive creatures and their pups up close. Mayberry Kayaking are so conﬁdent you will see them that they even offer a ‘seal guarantee’ during certain months. Visit www.bit.ly/mayberryseals

The endangered red squirrel is a rare ﬁnd but can be easily found in Yorkshire’s Widdale Squirrel Reserve, one of the last strongholds. With a special viewing area for the public, you will be sure to get the perfect vantage point to spot these bushy tailed beauties. Visit www.bit.ly/yorkshiresquirrels

Wild boars had largely disappeared from the UK until an unsanctioned release from a farm in the Rosson-Wye area. Many now roam the Wye Valley. If you are lucky enough to spot one on your visit, stay still and keep your distance they are not as friendly as their domesticated counterparts.

Stay: Maerdy Lodge, Haverfordwest

Stay: Mary’s Cottage, Hawes

Stay: Danby Lodge, Coleford

Stay: Tirlaggan Studio, Oban

Gun Hill Cottage, Heathfield

Tirlaggan Studio, Oban

Compiled by Yonder (www.yonder.com), a new travel brand that offers responsible and nature rich stays and experiences. All properties referred to in the article can be found on their website.

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GET OUTDOORS!

Enjoy the great outdoors with the children! There is always something different to see, and it’s happy, healthy time spent together. Here are a few local suggestions of outdoor places to visit.

National Trust walks Greys Court, Rotherﬁeld Greys, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 4PG, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/greyscourt/features/explore-the-estateat-greys-court This is a National Trust property with a two-mile walk in its grounds. The walk is easily followed as it’s waymarked by red arrows. You can ask at visitor reception where to start. You’ll walk through woodland with beech leaves clinging on to branches, ancient gnarled oaks and cherry trees. Look out for veteran trees with broken branches and holes where birds, squirrels and dormice might be nesting. You’ll walk rolling Chiltern hills with restful views and farmland with grazing animals, so please

keep dogs on leads. Head back to Greys Court for a hot chocolate or lunch in the Cow Shed tea room. Simons Wood, Finchampstead, Wokingham, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/runnyme de/trails/simons-wood-centenarywalk-at-runnymede This is a 1.3-mile walk along welldeﬁned paths, which are suitable for buggies. The walk winds through tall trees that feel like a big exciting forest to children, with the reassurance to parents of wide paths and a well way-marked route. The green trail arrows lead you through to Heath Pool, a big pond covered with lily pads and a small island in the middle colonised by ducks and geese.

There’s a boardwalk over an area of lowland heath – an important habitat where you might hear nightjars or Dartford warblers. Basildon Park, Lower Basildon, Reading, RG8 9NR, www.nationaltrust.org/basildonpark This is a traditional country house with extensive parkland. It has four, well-marked trails, ranging from 0.5 to 3 miles in length, along easy terrain. As you weave in and out of the woodland on the parkland walks at Basildon Park, you get regular views back to the elegant Palladian façade of the house. You can get a decent walk in the 400 acres of

Geocaching

Lardon Chase (National Trust car park): Grid reference SU583806, www.nationaltrust.org.uk/basildon -park/trails/streatleys-chalkgrasslands-and-countryside-trail This is quite a challenging 7-mile walk with beautiful views over Streatley and the Goring Gap. It takes in three adjacent areas of National Trust land: Lardon Chase, the Holies and Lough Down. Parts of the area were once used as a motorbike scrambling course, but the habitat has gradually been restored, and now it forms one of the largest remaining areas of chalk grassland in the country.

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parkland, but genuinely feel like you’re strolling in the grounds.

addictive trying to ﬁnd the hidden “treasure” wherever you go. You can start with a free account to get a feel for geocaching and to see if it suits you.

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The Green Giant Trail Jennett’s Park, Bracknell, www.juliamorrisonphotography.co.uk/green-giant-trail My children and I recently explored this little wooded area in the midst of an urban setting and found some friendly giants in it!

The Packhorse Woodcote Road, Chazey Heath, Mapledurham, Reading, RG4 7UD www.alltrails.com/trail/england/oxfordshire/the-packhorse-and-chazeyheath-walk If you fancy a walk which ﬁnishes at a family-friendly pub, this is a nice one to try. It is 3.3 miles long so only suitable for children that can walk that far. It is a circular walk, starting from the Packhorse pub, which has a large car park.

Ideal for younger children (aged 37), the trail takes you around Tarman’s Copse to discover the green giants and explorer discs (we missed a few!) You can then continue on to the trail in Wykery

Copse, along a boardwalk through the woods, where you might see some trolls! It's a nice, short walk for younger children (with easy paths for pushchairs if necessary), and the carved giants are lovely. When we’d ﬁnished, there was also a playground nearby to try!

The walking route performs a simple loop around this southern section of the Chilterns Area of Natural Beauty, including a short stretch of the Chiltern Way, with chance to enjoy small belts of woodland, open ﬁelds and village lanes.

Curious About local trails Curious About Henley-onThames, www.curiousabout.co.uk/henleyo nthames Starts: St Mary's Church, Hart Street, Henley on Thames, RG9 2AT (Until 26th March 2022) Curious About Reading, www.curiousabout.co.uk/reading Starts: Riverside Museum, Blake's Lock, Reading, Berkshire, RG1 3DH (Until 26th March 2022) Have fun (re-)discovering Henleyon-Thames or Reading, spotting things you've never noticed before, with two quirky treasure hunt style heritage walks - a safe, fun and affordable way to get some fresh air with your household, whilst staying close to home.

Curious About Henley and Curious About Reading visit not just the obvious places, but some unusual ones too, with hidden treasures to discover. Suitable for all ages, the walks take 1-2 hours each and are wheelchair and buggy friendly. Each 16 page booklet contains two walks, a brief history of Henley or Reading, a detailed map with two walking routes marked on, and a series of directions and clues (hints as to where to ﬁnd the answer, and the answers can be found towards the end of the booklet). You'll also ﬁnd ideas for things to see on the way, pictures to identify and some interesting snippets about the people and events that have shaped Henley or Reading.

Spring Events at the Nature Discovery Centre Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU

Join us for family fun this spring at the NDC! Grab your wellies and visit us over the school holidays for some Easter-themed activities. Take part in our Easter family trail and see if you can reunite mother fox with her missing fox cubs. We also offer popular monthly sessions such as Nature Tots (18mo-4 years), Young Rangers (8-12) and Teen Rangers (13-17), so there’s something for everyone. Check out our website for upcoming dates.

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Make an Easter bird’s nest! Spring is springing and the birds are nesting. So why not take the time to get crafty with the kids and help them make their own bird’s nest for Easter. Once you have gathered all of the pieces, you can put together your bird’s nest in no time. Your child will love developing new skills as they explore making, sticking and creating. Once the nest is complete, why not go on a walk and enjoy the sights and sounds of spring and see if you can spot birds’ nests in the trees? You will need: • • •

Paper plate Brown paper squares Brown shredded paper

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Feathers Wiggling eyes Bird cut outs (see below)

Instructions:

Step 1:

Step 3:

Step 5:

Step 6:

Cut the paper plate in half. With one half, cut out a semicircle.

Add the brown shredded paper to the half with the semi-circle cut out.

Then cut out the blue and yellow circles with the bird beaks in them and stick into the nest.

Add the wiggly eyes and feathers to the birds.

Step 2:

Step 4:

Cover both halves in brown paper.

Stick the two pieces together, the half with the shredded paper on it on top of the other (so it makes a nest).

And, ta da, your nest is complete!

With thanks to Karen Allen, co-owner of Kidzplay Playbox for this craft activity. Kidzplay Playbox produces creative playboxes which are guaranteed to be fun and contain high quality, engaging activities. Visit www.kidzplay.co.uk for playboxes delivered to your door.

CHILDREN’S ACTIVITIES

SPRING ANAGRAM

EASTER MAZE

Unscramble the letters to ﬁnd springtime things!

The Easter Bunny needs to make a delivery but he’s dropped an egg. Can you help him ﬁnd it?

1. L S O M O B S

2. G S R P N I

R S E F W O L

3. T A E E S R

G S E G

4. G R B S D I N O

5. H S S I E N U N

When you’ve ﬁnished, unscramble the circled letters to spell a special message! Answers: 1. Blossom 2. Spring Flowers 3. Easter Eggs 4. Birdsong 5. Sunshine. Message is: Get some fresh air

PICTURE CROSSWORD Can you solve the picture clues and put them in the crossword? 2

1 2 3

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It’s a rainy Saturday afternoon, and the children are full of energy… Let’s go to an indoor play centre! This is a familiar scenario with a great solution for children to get exercise in a large space that isn’t affected by the temperamental British climate. I recently visited three local indoor play venues with my children, all of which they loved.

Jungle Mania Headley Park Nine, 4 Headley Road East, Woodley, Reading, RG5 4SQ, jungle-mania.co.uk As the name suggests, this is a junglethemed soft play centre, complete with a gorilla, a treehouse (or is it a spaceship?!) on one side and, my favourite, a trampoline in the trees. The all-important ball pit and slides are all within the jungle canopy in a yellow,

brown and green colour scheme. What I really like about this place is that it retains its friendly, down-to-earth feeling, despite being part of a chain.

and the offer of a free meal with the 3pm session (providing you order before 3:45pm on weekdays in term time) is a very welcoming touch.

The under-3s area is in the former loading bay, which makes me smile; it has a great selection of ride-on and bouncy toys. There is plenty of empty space, meaning that visitors don’t feel crammed in during crowded periods,

Prices: Under 1: £2.50 1-3: £6.95 4-10: £7.95 Adults: £2.00 Parties: From £12.95/child The treehouse / spaceship!

Monkey Mates Old Forest Road, Wokingham, RG41 1JA, monkeymates.co.uk This soft play centre also has an outdoor playground, and children can move between the two areas, making it very unique and versatile. It is lots of fun but also really quirky, with a funny little gift shop that sells an eclectic assortment of toys, ranging from England ﬂags to squeezy bananas. In

addition, the sweets counter and gumball machines near the entrance desk give something of the feel of a traditional sweet shop. Seating is mainly around the “cage” over the equipment, which has every combination of slide: small, large and helter skelter! My children loved the super-fast slide with a bumper at the bottom in particular. The children’s

lunch box selection in safari cars was also a hit, and I was impressed with the cleanliness of the place. Prices: Under 1: 1-2: 3+: Adults: Parties:

£1.75 £5.75 £6.75, £1.50 £9.95/child

Walking in the cage

Watercolour Arts and Play Café 48 Market Place, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2AG, watercolourcafe.co.uk Located right in the centre of Henley, this is ﬁrst and foremost a café, which also has a lovely play area at the end of it. It is extremely popular with families of young children, and there were buggies parked in every nook and cranny on the day we visited, amid the buzz of conversations of parents

catching up with other parents. The bright yellow and sky-blue décor and the chunky, wooden play equipment are totally different from typical indoor play places, and it all felt very safe. During the week the café also runs free classes in the mornings for children, and the food is home-cooked and delicious… And check out the cute, mini-toilet, especially for little people!

This is clearly the place for young families in the Henley area! Prices: £3.50/child for the play area (ages 0-6) Parties available (contact info@watercolourcafe.co.uk for more information)

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Clubs and classes directory Regular clubs, classes and activities give your child a chance to develop new skills and make new friends, and there is lots to choose from. For more clubs and classes in your area, check out familiesonline.co.uk. Please get in touch if you would like to be included in our directory: editor@familiestvw.co.uk Developmental classes

Master Builders Club Brick Building Workshops for Children Master Builders Club is a LEGO® & DUPLO® lover's paradise! Our weekend and holiday workshops, after school clubs, birthday parties and nursery/primary school events are designed to provide children with an exciting and captivating experience. We provide 1000’s of LEGO® or DUPLO® bricks in a calm and supportive environment along with the imaginative stimulus to transform a room into a world of creativity. If you are passionate about providing engaging and stimulating play opportunities that nurture your child's mind, then Master Builders Club is for you! To book your brick building fan a place or to ﬁnd out more about our events, visit: www.masterbuildersclub.co.uk

BilinguaSing Wokingham and Bracknell French, Spanish and Italian classes from age 0-11 in the Wokingham and Bracknell area. We run fun sensory music classes for babies and toddlers with the added bonus of a second language! You don't need to know any languages to take part, but as our songs are in English as well, I guarantee you'll be singing along in no time! We offer one-off trial classes as well as bookings by the term. We also run classes in private nurseries and lunch clubs for primary school aged children. Please contact Cari Weston at cari@bilinguasing.com or call 07729261018 for more information

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The Academy of Magic Created by Radek Hoffman, an international magician with 15 years of experience in the art of magic. The Academy of Magic shares Radek’s enthusiasm for entertainment and performance with young magicians through weekly online lessons. Fun and exciting after school clubs instil conﬁdence, nurtures selfesteem and helps to develop children’s social skills. Visit radekhoffman.com for more information or to sign up for a free trial session. Suitable for children aged 8+.

Gymnastics, sport and swimming Bulmershe Gymnastics Club Based at a purpose-built gym in Woodley, run gymnastics classes for all ages including Leap Frogs for walkers to ﬁve years lead by qualiﬁed coaches. bulmershegymnastics.co.uk GR Swimming Schools Uniquely structured, safe, FUN, swimming lessons from 3 years old. Lessons include continual assessment and lane progression. There is a maximum of 6 children per class. We are currently looking for a private indoor, heated pool, 1 or 2 weekday mornings, for much needed community baby & toddler classes in the Newbury / Hungerford area! jo@swimlessons.co.uk swimlessons.co.uk Reading Swimming Club Formed in 1885, the club offers a structured learn to swim programme, squad training for all ages and competition opportunities from within the club, up through to county, regional and national level. We are keen to welcome new members of all ages and abilities. Please contact readingswimclub.org or email info@readingswimclub.org

Henley Youth Choir Non-Auditioned Youth Choir. Rehearsals every Thursday in Term Time: 5.306.15pm for Juniors (7-11yrs), 6.15-7.00pm for Seniors (12-17yrs). Location: the D:Two Community Centre in the centre of Henley-on-Thames. Parking nearby. Join Henley Youth Choir for the Summer Term starting Thursday 28th April! Costs: £50 for the term (10 weeks) Contact Fi Harding on 07947 658252 or email ﬁ.harding@sky.com, and come for a free trial session! Drama and dance

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Artemis Cheer Artemis Cheer: Ages 4-adult, regional and national champions in 2019 and 2021! Training in Pinewood Gym and free holiday training sessions. Artemis Street and Commercial dance: Age 4-adult. Training in Great Hollands, Bracknell, taught by England Dance Team coach. Technique class with IDTA exams, junior and senior crews Artemis College: Full-time, free training. Ofsted registered - we accept childcare vouchers. Free two-week tryout in all classes! Contact info: www.bracknellcheer.co.uk 01344 429403 Registration@artemisstudios.co.uk

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artemis STUDIOS for ambitious young performers

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Artemis Studios Mini & Junior: Artemis Little Actors - ages 4-7, Artemis Junior Theatre Company ages 7-12. Teen: Artemis Medusa Musical Theatre Company - ages 13-23, Artemis Medusa Pro - ages 13-23 - Screen acting and producing, Artemis College – full-time, free vocational training sixth form. Holidays: Low-cost and free holiday classes for children, free three-week summer intensives with qualiﬁcations for teens. Ofsted registered - we accept childcare vouchers. Free two-week tryout in all classes! Contact info: www.artemis-studios.co.uk 01344 429403 Registration@artemisstudios.co.uk

Diddi Dance - Reading and Wokingham Funky pre-school dance classes around Reading & Wokingham for children aged 1.5 - 5. Specialist toddler dance programme exploring 16 different dance styles. Using action songs, dancing games, fun exercises, hoops and dance ribbons to our own, unique, funky pop songs. For more info or to book a FREE trial, contact Bethany Bianga at bethany.bianga@diddidance.com or call 07584 281174.

JG Dance Classes from 2.5 years to 18 years for all abilities in Ballet, Jazz, Tap, Singing, Acrobatics & Drama. Twice Yearly Theatre Performances. FREE TRIAL LESSON Saturday Theatre College (Twyford) RAD Ballet, ISTD modern & Tap LAMDA singing & Drama. Grades to Vocational Exams. Classes on Tuesday – Woodley, Wednesday-Bourne-End, Thursday – Tilehurst & Twyford, Saturday- Sonning Common, Kidmore End & Basingstoke 01491 572000 info@jgdance.co.uk WWW.JGDANCE.CO.UK

Progress Youth Theatre Workshops for ages 7-18 involving theatre games, improvisation and skills development, leading to a stage production every year.

Perform confidence-boosting weekly classes Conﬁdence building fun for 4-7s and 7-12s. A unique mix of drama games, dance and singing specially designed to boost conﬁdence, communication, concentration and coordination. Visit www.perform.org.uk/try to book a FREE class. Use code TVW310322 for a £40 discount when you book before 31st March. Venues: Newbury, Twyford, Caversham, Earley, Wokingham, Winnersh, Crowthorne, Henley-on-Thames and Goring. Contact: T: 020 7255 9120 / enquiries@perform.org.uk www.perform.org.uk Steppin Out Stars of Tomorrow COVID secure, fun, energetic theatre classes for 3½ to 18yrs. Dance, drama, singing, tap, street dance, pop styles and musical theatre. Regular award-winning classes in Wokingham and Woodley, plus summer schools. Call Shelley on 07970 034 488, or email shelley@steppinoutstars.co.uk, steppinoutstars.co.uk Watermill Youth Theatre The Watermill Theatre in Newbury is one of the most successful regional producing theatres in the country. Our weekly classes are designed to develop creativity, teach fundamental performance skills and enhance individuality. Classes are fully accessible to all young people, regardless of need or ability. A range of groups suitable for young people aged 4-25 years. Call Matty Green on 01635 570934 or email outreach@watermill.org.uk for more information, or visit their website www.watermill.org.uk

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Stageability Award-winning after-school drama classes for kids who love to ACT! Burghﬁeld, Tilehurst, Lower Earley, Mortimer and Wokingham. High-energy classes mean that students never get bored, can't wait to get to class and develop conﬁdence, creativity and focus.

Little Muddy Boots Little Muddy Boots is an established unique garden and nature club, which inspires outdoor play, hands on learning and time spent as a family making memories. Termly sessions are available alongside PAYG Saturday clubs and Forest School holiday sessions.

Free trial class and a Pay-As-You-Go option for infants. Ages 5+ Full listing of available classes, prices and venues at: https://stageability.class4kids.co.uk Come and join the fun!

Suitable for children aged 1 - 6 years old (siblings welcome). Little Muddy Boots is based at sites located across Berkshire.

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Hypnobirthing classes, Antenatal education, Bespoke birth preparation coaching, Birth trauma recovery therapy Preparation is key when it comes to maximising the likelihood of a positive birth experience. Marvel at your body's amazing abilities, get informed about your options, learn skills to enable you to make the right choices for you, develop a practice of gorgeous relaxation techniques, and get your partner trained up to be the best support on the day. You deserve to feel conﬁdent and calm about this super exciting journey to meeting your baby. Contact Sarah Collison on 07740349946 or email sarah.happybirths@gmail.com, and see www.happybirths.net for positive birth stories and testimonials from working with Sarah.

Perform classes will build your child’s conﬁdence Perform puts children’s social development at the heart of their weekly sessions for 4-7s and 7-12s. Using performing arts-based games and inspiring activities, their classes are designed to boost conﬁdence, build concentration, develop communication skills and hone coordination – and are brimming with fun and laughter too.

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Run by professionally-trained actors, dancers and singers, classes are kept small to ensure individual attention, with regular progress reports provided. Fantastic termly resources – such as free apps, music downloads and dance videos - support each theme, meaning the fun continues at home. But don’t just take Perform’s word for it, see what parents say by visiting www.perform.org.uk

The Crowthorne Methodist Church Hall, 10 Dukes Ride, Crowthorne, RG45 6LT

The beaming smile you see when Annabelle ﬁnishes a class is so wonderful to see. She has grown in conﬁdence and thoroughly enjoys it. – Katie Pashley Children can join at any point during the term and will still take part in the end-of-term performance. Classes are for all abilities; children just need to arrive ready to have the best fun of the week!

(Age 4-7: Fridays at 4pm, Saturdays at 9:30am and 2pm, age 7-12: Fridays at 5:05pm, Saturdays at 11:15am) Winnersh Community Centre, New Road, Sindlesham, Wokingham, RG40 1XS (Age 4-7: Mondays at 3:45pm, age 7-12: Mondays at 4:50pm)

Local Perform classes available: Twyford Youth Centre, 3 Loddon Road, Twyford, RG10 9JA (Age 4-7: Saturdays at 9:30am, Wednesdays at 4pm, age 7-12: Wednesdays at 5:05pm, Saturdays at 11:15pm)

(Age 4-7: Fridays at 4pm, age 7-12: Fridays at 5:05pm) St. Nicolas Church Hall, Sutcliffe Avenue, Earley, Reading, RG6 7JN (Age 4-7: Wednesdays at 4pm, age 7-12: Wednesdays at 5:05pm)

St. John The Evangelist, St. John’s Road, Newbury, RG14 7PY

Goring Village Hall, High Street, Goring-onThames, RG8 9AG

(Age 4-7: Saturdays at 9:30am, Fridays at 4pm, age 7-12: Saturdays at 11:15am, Fridays at 5:05pm)

(Age 4-7: Mondays at 4pm, age 7-12: Mondays at 5:05pm)

St. Andrew’s Hall, Albert Road, Caversham, Reading, RG4 7AW

Henley Town Hall, Elizabeth Hall 2, Market Place, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2AQ

(Age 4-7: Saturdays at 9:30am and 11:15am, age 7-12: Saturdays at 2pm)

(Age 4-7: Fridays at 4pm, age 7-12: Fridays at 5:05pm)

Book a no-obligation FREE trial class to get started at perform.org.uk/try. Families readers receive a £40 discount when booking before 31st March, just quote TVW310322. Contact: T: 020 7255 9120 / enquiries@perform.org.uk | perform.org.uk/try

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HEALTH

How much food should my child eat? Do you know how much energy your child needs each day? And how much they are actually getting? Although you usually don't have to monitor how much energy your child is receiving from what they eat, it can be helpful to monitor this for a few days and compare it to their actual energy needs. Perhaps you are concerned because your child is a fussy eater and you think they may not be eating enough. Or you may worry that your child eats more than their body needs. Understanding how much food your child actually needs might help you worry a little less. It might also help you avoid overfeeding your child; it's common for parents to overestimate how much food their children need to get the right amount of energy and underestimate what they are actually taking in from the food they are eating. Monitoring energy consumption is usually a temporary strategy to help

provide you with more information about your child's eating habits. Most of the time, if your child is eating enough wholesome foods, fruits, vegetables, whole grains, dairy protein and healthy fats and getting enough physical activity, you don't need to pay attention to calories at all The amount of energy (or calories) that food and drink contains is measured in both kilojoules (kJ) and kilocalories (kcal). The UK government’s Scientiﬁc Advisory Committee on Nutrition estimates the average daily energy requirements for children, but these ﬁgures are only a guide. Children may need more or less than these estimates depending on a number of factors, including how physically active they are. It is important to remember that while the amount of energy your child needs is important, they should also eat a healthy, balanced diet.

Calories in food The energy content of many shopbought foods is stated under the Energy heading on the packaging as part of the nutrition label. It’s often given in kcals, which is short for kilocalories and also in kJ, which is short for kilojoules. A kilocalorie is another word for what's commonly called a calorie, so 1,000 calories will be written as 1,000kcals. The label will usually tell you how many calories are contained in 100 grams or 100 millilitres of the food or

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drink, so you can compare the calorie content of different products. A word on snacking It’s obviously not great if your child is eating little healthy food and getting most of their energy from unhealthy or sugary snacks. Public Health England advises parents that sticking to 2 packaged snacks max a day and keeping them at under 100 calories (kcals) or 418 kilojoules (kJs) is really important for children. And you’ll be surprised at how high the energy intake is on some common snacks.

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Top apps every parent needs It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the number of apps available in the App Store, and you’d be forgiven for wondering how many of them are really truly worthwhile. When it comes to parenting though, getting good apps can really save time if you’re looking to keep the children entertained, connect with other like-minded parents, research childcare options or seek guidance on how to make family life just that little bit easier.

Mush (www.letsmush.com) The number one social app for mums to ﬁnd friends who live nearby with kids the same age, arrange to meet up and get advice from parenting experts and fellow mums.

The Wonder Weeks (www.bit.ly/WonderWeeksApp) A week-by-week guide to your baby’s development right through from pregnancy to after birth, showing how you can support and stimulate your little one.

Family Locator (https://family-locator.com) When older children or teenagers are out and about, keep track of their location with this app which keeps your family secure and connected, for extra peace of mind. CBeebies (www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies) This staple app on any parent’s phone or tablet offers both educational games as well as classic cartoons, for when you just need a break!

Here are some recommendations:

Allrecipes Dinner Spinner (https://armagazine.com/3Icg2jT) A handy bank of recipes and cooking inspiration which helps solve the ‘what can I make for dinner?’ question and keeps little bellies satisﬁed every evening.

By Ari Last

Bubble (www.joinbubble.com) The UK’s biggest on-demand childcare platform, with over 100,000 users and 5-star Trustpilot rating. Parents use the Bubble app to ﬁnd, book and pay local sitters or nannies who come recommended from their friends and other parents in their area.

Sound Sleeper (www.soundsleeperapp.com) Help your baby get off to sleep with this app’s collection of calming sounds. Kidday (www.kidday.com) The easiest way to store your child’s photographs in one place, as well as share albums with friends and family.

OLIO (www.olioex.com) Here you can give away unwanted kids’ items to those in the local area, allowing you to help out a neighbour and reduce waste. You can also use the app to look for anything you might happen to need and save some pennies.

Ari Last is a parenting guru and founder of childcare app Bubble. For more information, visit www.joinbubble.com

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threats and ensure it passes down to your children and future generations. • Inheritance Tax; let’s face it, we all want to ensure that our children receive as much as possible. With a Will and associated services, the tax burden could legally be reduced, leaving your loved ones in a more secure state. • You might have taken out life insurance; we can help ensure that should this be claimed, it can be done so in the most tax efficient way possible. Getting your Will and estate planning in order might seem onerous, but a good estate planner will make the process understandable and straightforward. Put your mind at rest and start preparing your Will today! David Robinson is Director of Templar Estate Planning, and can be contacted on 0118 948 4381 or via info@templarestateplanning.co.uk for initial free advice or even just a chat about your Will and estate planning.

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EARLY YEARS By Tanith Carey

Tackling childhood fears During the pandemic, levels of anxiety among adults have risen sharply and some of this worry has been contagious for kids. So how do we help children manage their own feelings when the world feels uncertain for grown-ups too? Firstly, remember that children take their cues from you. This means noticing when you feel overwhelmed. Visualise a sliding scale in your mind with notches from one to ten. When the scale starts to move towards seven or eight, take deliberate steps to process your own worries, maybe talking them through with another adult, so you can stay calm and rational around your child. This isn’t hiding anything from them. It’s putting on your own oxygen mask so you can reassure them they are safe within the world of their home. If your child seems worried by something about Covid they have heard outside the home, ask what they’ve heard. From around age 4 or 5, young children engage in ‘magical thinking’ in which they believe they are the centre of the world. In order to try and make sense of how the world works, they also tend to link events that aren’t linked, meaning that they often leap to the wrong conclusions. For example, if a grandparent gets Covid, they

may, for example, assume it’s down to them not washing their hands when they come home from school. Asking your children about their fears allows you to tackle their concerns directly. You can help them feel more in control by telling them they are part of a big team winning the war on the virus and helping by wearing masks and washing their hands. Explain: ‘Lots of people have caught this germ, but for most, it's been like a really bad cold.’ Talk too about how clever scientists have come up with vaccines and millions of grownups, from health care staff to teachers, are still working hard to look after them. Help them get the virus in perspective too. Explain that there are good germs in our bodies as well as bad ones, how their immune system works and how to look after it. While young children tend not to worry about death as something that happens to them, they may worry about who will look after

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them if you or your co-parent dies. If this is a concern that surfaces, tell your child that everyone dies eventually but you don’t expect it to happen for a long time and by then they will be grown-up. Facing and talking about their fears doesn’t mean they will become persistent. In fact, they are more likely to keep coming back when children feel alone with them, not heard or unable to express them. If you do lose a loved one, give clear, open honest answers because younger children don’t understand death is ﬁnal. Avoid phrases such as ‘gone to sleep’ or ‘we’ve lost them.’ Explain simply the reason that their loved one is no longer here is that their body stopped working. It can also be helpful to give kids tangible ways of mourning: going through family photos, making a keepsake box, releasing a balloon with the person’s name on or planting a tree. I’m scared of the dark Fear of the dark at bedtime affects about half of children up to the age

of ﬁve. When a room goes black, children can feel ‘trapped’ by the darkness around them. By helping kids name their worries, they will feel more in charge. Summarise and talk about what they are saying, so they know you have heard and understood. To make lights-out seem less scary, offer your child a nightlight which will cast a warm glow around them without interrupting their sleep. Will bad people hurt us? By the time children are ﬁve or six, they may overhear talk about crime or terror attacks and worry that ‘bad people' may want to hurt them or the people they love. While you may feel it’s too soon to tackle such a big subject, they are really asking if they are safe with you right now. Acknowledge their concerns and how scary this must feel. Explain that serious crimes and big news incidents are rare and they are safe at home.

Tanith Carey is author of What’s My Child Thinking: Practical Child Psychology for Modern Parents with clinical child psychologist Dr Angharad Rudkin, published by DK books. Fears and anxieties are some of the one hundred scenarios faced with children aged two to seven that are tackled in this book.

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Nurturing emotional intelligence through play

long or be over-planned. Make it spontaneous and funny. Some of my children’s favourite games can involve me simply looking surprised or pretending to sleep on the sofa!

When my daughter was in her ﬁrst year at nursery her favourite game was pretending to say goodbye to me. ‘Bye Mama, I’ve got to go. I’ll see you later.’ ‘Oh no! You’re not going...’ I’d say after her, ‘I don’t want you to go!’ The more I sighed ‘Don’t go,’ the more she’d giggle and run off. Thus reassured, we were ready for our day. These little moments of play helped my daughter process her separation from me at nursery from a space of safety and connection.

By Dr Anne Lane

or a child, life can be full of emotional demands; from the strains of separation from you, to new friendships, periods of uncertainty and family changes. As a parent and psychologist, one of the most effective and fun ways I have found to help children navigate experiences and the difficult emotions that come with these is through this process of play. Simple, giggly, repetitive play helps children develop a resilience and familiarity with situations which can dispel tension and anxiety.

more comfortable making suggestions and changing things, allowing their understanding of situations to develop. They’re the boss, they call the shots and decide how a situation goes. From this place of safety, they revisit difficult experiences without feeling vulnerable or uncertain. In role playing and playing out different scenarios with them, your child comes to know you as someone who can understand and relate to their experience. They feel steady and secure.

How does play work? Play is serious work for your child. The process of role-playing real scenarios allows them to reﬂect on their reactions and beliefs about a situation. They can steady their emotions and become more nuanced and agile in their reactions. The most important aspect of play is that it feels safe. In the real world, things are unpredictable. People can be abrupt and cross and make your child feel vulnerable and uncertain. But in the world of play, they get to switch things around and feel empowered. They can explore and try different things. The play scenario can be ridiculous, funny and amusing, and tense and tight emotions soften and ease. Against this background of safety and security, your child can become

Top tips for playing When you play with your child, focus less on conversation and more on acting things out and exploring. This focus away from language allows your child to relax and connect. Follow the laughter. When your child is laughing they are releasing fear and tension, enveloped in happiness with you. Silliness, smiles and laughter are great indicators that play is working. Let your child take the lead. If you can, get down to their level. Prioritise your child feeling in control. If your child seems uncertain or pulls back, then slow down, change things around. Let them be the boss. Be careful with tickling. Although a lot of children love tickling, the feeling of being tickled can be

Dr Anne Lane is a clinical psychologist and author. Her new book Nurture Your Child’s Emotional Intelligence: 5 Steps to Help Your Child Cope with Big Emotional and Build Resilience is out now.

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overwhelming and intense. Instead, prioritise play which creates real engagement and collaboration, as well as laughter. Play doesn’t have to be big, take

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Using play to work through difficult emotions Role reversals are a fantastic way to help children feel safe and more in control around an area of anxiety. You might role play being worried about something (for example, a teddy bear or a falling leaf). Your child gets to reflect on what it feels like to be anxious and to calm you. Easing resistance or struggle: does your child become frustrated and resistant even around small things like brushing teeth or dressing? Playing in a way that brings on giggles melts away these tired, stuck emotions. I’ve often pretended to scrub the floor and a child’s legs etc with the toothbrush. When they start giggling and the mood softens, you can say: ‘Here you go, let’s get those teeth brushed.’ Play can also help your child notice and reflect on a behaviour. If your child is being mean to another, play ‘shaking out the meanies.’ The behaviour gets named but without shaming a child, tension shifts, and a more collaborative, open way of relating replaces the power play.

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What’s On March/April 2022 ONGOING EVENTS AT LOCAL LIBRARIES Rhymetimes at Reading libraries: Battle library – Friday, 10am and 11:15am Caversham library – Tuesday, 10:15am Central library – Thursday, 10:15am and 11:15am Palmer Park library – Thursday, 10:30am Southcote library – Thursday, 9:30am Tilehurst library – Monday, 10:30am Whitley library – Thursday, 11am www.reading.gov.uk/leisure/libraries/rh ymetimes/ These popular, rhymetime sessions introduce babies and children to language, rhyme and taking part in a fun way. Numbers are limited, so booking is essential. Free entry. Rhymetime at Sonning Common Library sonningcommonprimary.co.uk/commu nity/library On the ﬁrst and third Mondays of the month for under 3s at 10am. Children’s storytime at Sonning Common Library sonningcommonprimary.co.uk/commu nity/library Saturdays at 10am. Rhymetime at Theale Library For children aged 0-2 years. Wednesdays, 11:00-11:30am (term time only) For more information please contact: 01189 303207 thealelibrary@westberks.gov.uk

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Duplo play sessions at Theale Library for toddlers and preschoolers An informal session to have fun with Duplo. Younger siblings welcome. Mondays 1:30pm - 3:00pm, all year round. Wednesdays 10:45am - 12:15pm during half term and holidays. For more information, please contact the library: 01189 303207 thealelibrary@westberks.gov.uk Lego club at Burghﬁeld Common Library Free drop-in event, all materials provided. For children over 5 years. First Friday of the month, 4:15pm – 5:30pm For more information, please contact 01189 833632 burghﬁeldlibrary@westberks.gov.uk BEALE PARK Lower Basildon, Pangbourne, Reading, RG8 9NW, bealepark.org.uk There’s a packed programme of activities across the Easter holidays, including trails, keeper talks, meet the bugs and pond dipping. Animal experiences – which start at just £15 to feed the lemurs or meerkats – will be offered from 8th April. Keep upto-date at bealepark.org.uk and via Facebook and Instagram. REGAL KIDS’ CLUB Regal Picturehouse, 2 Boroma Way, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BZ Every Saturday morning Regal Picturehouse shows a mix of children's classics and recent releases. March titles include Where the Wild Things Are for World Book Day, Encanto for International Women’s Day, Spirited Away & Howl’s Moving Castle. Tickets £3 (children and adults)

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MARCH 1-13 March BRILLIANT BIRDS Basildon Park, Lower Basildon, Reading RG8 9NR, nationaltrust.org/basildon-park This children's trail is themed around the birds at Basildon Park. See if you can swoop like a red kite, spot a robin or hear birdsong along your walk. Trails are £2 each from Visitor Reception, with a prize once you've finished. 3 March BLAZE’S BUDDIES West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, booking.westberks.gov.uk/heritage_events This month’s session theme is Otters and will include a short action poem about Blaze followed by a story. We will discover some fun facts about Otters along with a craft activity. We’ll end with a sing-along and a hunt to find the museum dragon. Free entry 11am 5 March FAMILY JAM WITH READIPOP Readipop Studios, 15 Trafford Road, Reading, RG1 8JP A family music session for kids and adults to experience and learn to play together. No previous music experience is necessary, just be prepared to give it a go! £3 per family 10am 5 March BASIL BRUSH’S FAMILY FUN SHOW Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Fresh from appearances on CBBC’s Crackerjack, Britain's most loveable fox takes you on a journey of laughs, storytelling and song in a show for all the family. £12 | £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 2:30pm 5 March SPONTANEOUS POTTER KIDZ Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com Grab your wands, don your house robes, and apparate yourselves to the box office! A very magical improv show awaits... Age guide: 8+ Tickets: £13/£15 4pm 5 and 6 March READING BRICK SHOW Rivermead Leisure Centre, Richfield Avenue, Reading RG1 8EQ, readingbrickshow.com The LEGO® show will spark imagination, promote creativity and inspire everyone who walks through the doors. Featuring many interactive games and building opportunities. 10am 5-27 March (weekends) WOODLEY FESTIVAL OF MUSIC AND ARTS 2022 Most events are at The Oakwood Centre, Headley Road, Woodley, Berkshire, RG5 4JZ, woodleyfestival.org.uk Many local schools encourage their pupils to enter the wide variety of speech and drama, vocal, instrumental and piano classes, and the well-supported choir classes are always particularly popular with the audience. 6 March READING CHILDREN'S BOOK GROUP Fourbears Books, 20 Prospect Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 8JG, fourbearsbooks.uk The shortlist for this year’s FCBG Children’s Book Award is announced on 28th February. Come and explore the books and vote for your favourites. We'll

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also be celebrating World Book Day. Suitable for ages 5-11. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but prebooking essential via 0118 948 1747 or info@fourbearsbooks.uk 10am-11am 6 March HENLEY YOUTH FESTIVAL: MUSIC MAKERS Rupert House School, 90 Bell Street, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2BN, hyf.org.uk Years 1-6 10am – 3pm 6 March LONDON RHYMES Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com An eclectic, high energy musical experience for families with children aged 0 to 7 led by Rosie and a band of amazing live musicians. £6.50 10:30am 6 March BABY AND CHILDREN’S MARKET Meadway Sports Centre, Conwy Close, Tilehurst, Reading, RG30 4BZ, babyandchildrensmarket.co.uk Stalls bursting with top quality LIKE NEW and NEW baby & children's items from birth to 10 yrs. Plus a small selection of unique businesses in the baby & children's industry showcasing and selling their products & services all under one roof! £1.50 / free entry for children 1:30pm 12 March HENLEY YOUTH FESTIVAL: HYF RUN Henley Rugby Club, Dry Leas, Marlow Road, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 2JA, hyf.org.uk Years reception – 6 8:30am – 12:30pm 12 March HENLEY YOUTH FESTIVAL: JUNIOR VARIETY Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, hyf.org.uk Years 1-5 2pm

26 March FAMILY FUN – MOTHER’S DAY SPECIAL: LAVENDER EYE PILLOWS Creativ.Spaces, 2b Southview Business Park, Marsack Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 5AF, madebytamalia.co.uk You will learn how to make a no-sew lavender pillow, then personalise it with a choice of printing and painting techniques and embellishments. £25 11am / 1:30pm

APRIL 1-2 April NEWBURY YOUNGSTERS: HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com Wildcats everywhere! This up-beat throwback to the ins and outs of high school drama is a nostalgic romp for young and old alike!

26 and 27 March YOUTH AND COMMUNITY DANCE GALAS South Hill Park, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark.org.uk Youth groups, community groups, schools and special guest professional dancers come together to present an evening of dance entertainment for families and dance enthusiasts alike. Tickets £12 / £14 7pm

2 April FAMILY JAM WITH READIPOP Readipop Studios, 15 Trafford Road, Reading, RG1 8JP A family music session for kids and adults to experience and learn to play together. No previous music experience is necessary, just be prepared to give it a go! £3 per family 10am

30 March – 5 April WIZARDING WORLD WAND INSTALLATION The Oracle Shopping Centre, Minster Street, Reading, RG1 2AG, fantasticbeasts.co.uk Standing 15 feet tall and set within concrete bases, the nine wands – bringing to life those belonging to some of the favourite characters in the Harry Potter and Fantastic Beasts ﬁlms – will illuminate each evening, performing a light show to the thrilling music from the Fantastic Beasts and Harry Potter ﬁlms.

3 April GREEN PARK CHALLENGE Madejski Stadium, Junction 11 M4, Reading, RG2 0FL, readinghalfmarathon.com/pages/greenpark-challenge The Green Park Challenge is a fun run which is estimated to be just under 3km and is open to all the family. Children must be at least 4 years old. £16 8:30am 3 April READING CHILDREN'S BOOK GROUP Fourbears Books, 20 Prospect Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 8JG, fourbearsbooks.uk Come and make a hat for Easter. We'll be sharing stories about hats and everyone will receive a seasonal treat from our sorting hat. Suitable for ages 5-8. All children must be accompanied by an adult. All children must be accompanied by an adult. Free but pre-booking essential via 0118 948 1747 or info@fourbearsbooks.uk 10am-11am

31 March – 2 April THE GIRL OF INK AND STARS Watermill Theatre, Bagnor, Newbury RG20 8AE, watermill.org.uk Inspired by her cartographer father, Isabella longs to follow in his footsteps and explore her island home of Joya. But when her best friend goes missing, her dreams of adventure come true sooner than she thinks. Tickets from £13, concessions – all performances (£7/£6.50).

12-13 March HENLEY YOUTH FESTIVAL: ART AND FILM EXHIBITION Thames Room, River and Rowing Museum, Mill Meadows, Henley On Thames RG9 1BF, hyf.org.uk All years 11am – 4:30pm (Saturday) / 11am – 2:30pm (Sunday)

A SOUTH HILL PARK PRODUCTION

18 March FULL MOON PADDLE Dinton Pastures Country Park, Davis Street, Reading, RG10 0TH, dinton-pastures.co.uk See the lake come to life on this Springwatch paddle on stand-up paddleboards or sit-ontops. Age 8+ £25 per person 8pm-10pm 20 March I SPY WITH MY LITTLE EYE South Hill Park, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark.org.uk Molly and Bingo the puppy are having a birthday party, and best of all, you’re invited. There’ll be a terriﬁc treasure hunt, sensational sing-along songs and lots of games to play, including Molly’s favourite game, I Spy With My Little Eye. It’s going to the best party ever. £11. 20 March BILL! Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk Through The Wardrobe: Children’s Theatre Company Presents…..’Bill!’ A comic look at the life & times of William Shakespeare. Age recommendation: 6+ Tickets: £9 / £11 12:30pm / 5:30pm 21 and 24 March NATURE TOTS Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Fun in Nature, organised activities and run by a friendly welcoming face. For children aged 18 months – 4 years £7 per child (supervisory adults free) 10am / 10:30am / 11am

BASED ON THE DREAMWORKS ANIMATION MOTION PICTURE AND THE BOOK BY WILLIAM STEIG

Book and Lyrics by David Lindsay-Abaire

Music by Jeanine Tesori

Originally produced on Broadway by DreamWorks Theatricals and Neal Street Productions

Georgie Banks as Princess Fiona

Brad Clapson as Shrek

Poppy Ridell as Donkey

Ashleigh Wells as Lord Farquaad

This amateur production is presented by arrangement with Music Theatre International (Europe) All authorised performance materials are also supplied by MTI Europe www.mtishows.co.uk

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WHAT’S ON MARCH/APRIL 2022 3 April FAMILY ACRO YOGA Learning Centre, Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com Learn the art of taking flight on another person’s feet! Together we'll have fun, learn some new skills and make some memories. £8 10:30am/1pm 5 April READING HAVE A GO EVENING Reading Music Centre, Stoneham Court, 100 Cockney Hill, Tilehurst, Reading, RG30 4EZ, berkshiremaestros.org.uk A fantastic FREE event this term for children and families to try as many different instruments as they'd like and a chance to chat to our teachers at our music centre. Everyone welcome and no appointment necessary. Sign up on the night to get 10% off your first term of lessons! 5pm – 7pm 6 April BRACKNELL HAVE A GO EVENING Bracknell Music Centre, Ranelagh School, Ranelagh Drive, Bracknell, RG12 9DA, berkshiremaestros.org.uk A fantastic FREE event this term for children and families to try as many different instruments as they'd like and a chance to chat to our teachers at our music centre. Everyone welcome and no appointment necessary. Sign up on the night to get 10% off your first term of lessons! 3pm – 5:30pm 6-18 April ALBY THE PENGUIN SAVES THE WORLD Reading Rep Theatre, Kings Road, Reading, RG1 4LY, readingrep.com Alby the Penguin Saves the World is a magical and meaningful adventure, for kids aged 3-6. Wherever Alby goes, adventure is not far behind, and he quickly finds himself on a mission to help save his friends (and the world), before it’s too late! £12 7 April BLAZE’S BUDDIES West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, booking.westberks.gov.uk/heritage_events

This month’s session theme is Springtime and will include a short action poem about Blaze followed by a story. We will discover some fun facts about Springtime along with a craft activity. We’ll end with a sing-along and a hunt to ﬁnd the museum dragon. Free entry 11am 8 and 9 April MORGAN WEST: UNBELIEVABLE SCIENCE South Street Arts Centre, 21 South Street, Reading, RG1 4AU, whatsonreading.com Morgan & West present captivating chemistry, phenomenal physics, and bonkers biology in this fun for all the family science extravaganza! For ages 7+ and their families. £14.50 / £13.50 South Street members 8 and 9 April COSXPO 2022 University of Reading, RG6 6UR, cosxpo.com Glue guns and sewing machines at the ready? Round 3 of CosXPo is coming in 2022! Set a date for the UK's best event focusing solely on the art of cosplay and mastering your crafting skills. Tickets from £15 8-25 April EASTER ADVENTURES IN NATURE Greys Court, Henley-on-Thames RG9 4PG, nationaltrust.org.uk/greys-court With colourful spring bulbs blooming, the gardens and estate to explore, Greys Court makes a lovely setting for a family Easter trail. Trails are £3 each, with a chocolate, or chocolate alternative, prize when you've ﬁnished. 9 April EASTER FAMILY FUN: EGG DECORATING Creativ.Spaces, 2b Southview Business Park, Marsack Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 5AF, madebytamalia.co.uk Have some Easter fun decorating blown eggs to hang in your home and keep as a keepsake for years to come. £25 11am / 1:30pm 9 April NICK COPE – SPRING 2022 Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com

Join Nick Cope, star of CBeebies’ Popcast, for his interactive music sessions with songs about everything from counting to how plants grow. Age guide: 8 and under £10 10:30am 9 April THE WIND IN THE WILLOWS Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk Pack your picnics and join Ratty, Mole, Badger, and the fantastically irrepressible Toad as they embark on the adventure of a lifetime culminating in a colourful battle to save Toad Hall from the mischievous weasels! Tickets: £13.50 / £11.50 1:30pm/5pm 9-24 April EASTER TRAIL AT TUMBLESTONE HOLLOW Stonor Park, Henley-on-Thames, RG9 6HF, stonor.com Follow the trail around Tumblestone Hollow and the Gardens at Stonor, exploring and playing as you go along. Solve the puzzle and bring it back the to Visitor Centre to receive a treat. 10 April KIDS GO WILD! Braziers Park, Braziers Lane, Ipsden OX10 6AN, braziers.org.uk A monthly fun-filled Forest School session led by qualified Forest School leader Charlotte Alchin in 55 acres of meadows and woodland. Suitable for all ages and whatever the weather – dress accordingly, as you may get mucky! £10 per child or £20 per family 10am-12:30pm 11 April FAMILY FUN – NATIONAL PET DAY: PAINT A PET PORTRAIT Creativ.Spaces, 2b Southview Business Park, Marsack Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 5AF, madebytamalia.co.uk On this special day of National Pet Day, let’s share the love we have for our fluffy (or scaly, feathery) friends, with the ones around us. Bring your kids, friends, family and even your pooch, kitty, bunny (whatever your pet) – is welcome too! £25 5:30pm – 7:30pm 11-14 April FAMILY EASTER TRAIL: FIND THE FOX CUBS Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre A springtime adventure around the lake, follow the trail and help mother fox find her missing cubs to earn an Easter treat! Suitable for families with children aged 4-11 years. £4 per child. Supervisory adults free 10am – 2pm 11-18 April SHREK THE MUSICAL South Hill Park, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark.org.uk Everyone’s favourite ogre is back this Easter in South Hill Park’s hilarious stage spectacle, based on the Oscar-winning smash hit film and outrageous Broadway musical. Suitable for all ages Family tickets: £20 per person (up to 6 people, max 2 adults). 12, 13, 21 and 22 April CRAFTY KIDS EGGCITING EASTER Creativ.Spaces, 2b Southview Business Park, Marsack Street, Caversham, Reading, RG4 5AF, madebytamalia.co.uk This 2-hour arts and crafts session is great fun for all children, with tailored craft activities according to the season and the ages attending. These crafts are ideally suited to children aged 5-11 years. £20 10am 12 April FAMILY CONCERTINI with YolanDa Brown Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Don’t miss this amazing opportunity to join world renowned saxophonist, star of Cbeebies YolanDa’s Band Jam and multi MOBO award winner YolanDa Brown for an inspirational Concertini exploring a fusion of Reggae, Jazz and Soul. £12, £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 11:30am/2pm 12- April ART DAZE Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood

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Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Use an array of materials and techniques from painting to sculpture, junk modelling to printing. Suitable for ages 8-14. £120 11am 12-14 April DINOSAUR WORLD LIVE Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com Dare to experience the dangers and delights of Dinosaur World Live in this roarsome interactive show for all the family. 1:30pm/4pm 12, 14 and 20 April SING 2 Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Can-do koala Buster Moon and his all-star cast of animal performers prepare to launch their most dazzling stage extravaganza yet. There’s just one hitch - they first have to persuade the world’s most reclusive rock star to join them… £9 | £7 under 16s Family & Friends (4 people) £28 13 April FAMILY ACTIVITY MORNING: Marvellous Masks Shaw House, Church Road, Newbury, RG14 2DR, booking.westberks.gov.uk/ heritage_events Decorate a spring and Easter themed wooden mask with a selection of stickers, gems, ribbon and pens. £2 10am / 11am / 12pm 13 April SLIME BY THE HERD South Street Arts Centre, 21 South Street, Reading, RG1 4AU, whatsonreading.com Slug and Caterpillar are starving, and the only leaf left in the garden is just out of reach. Slug thinks they should work together. Age guide: 2-5 years and their families. £9.50 11am and 2pm 13 and 14 April EASTER WORKSHOP – SUPERHERO ACADEMY Spencers Wood Village Hall, Basingstoke Road, Spencers Wood, RG7 1AP, stageability.class4kids.co.uk/camps Children will invent their own superhero and explore their new super powers in this fun, interactive drama workshop for boys and girls. Ages 5-11. 13 and 14 April JACK AND THE BEANSTALK Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm This classic fairytale now gets the Lyngo treatment so expect lots of surprises and beautiful images as Patrick Lynch (from Cbeebies) tells the gripping story of Jack who sells his cow for 5 magic beans and finds himself in the land above the clouds. £12, £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 11:30am/2pm 14 April MESSY MUSEUM MORNING: Let there be light! West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, booking.westberks.gov.uk/heritage_events Make your own Roman oil lamp out of airdrying clay and then decorate it. £2 10am / 11am / 12pm 15 April EXPLORE WORKSHOPS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Messy craft / circus skills / street dance / magical art / magic / Little Wrigglers / steel pan drumming From £4.50 15 April EASTER FEST Newbury town centre, visitnewbury.org.uk Brought to you by Visit Newbury and the organisers of Newbury Artisan Market, the Victorian Christmas Fayre and seasonal Food & Drink Festivals, LSD Promotions! 10am 16 April FIREMAN SAM LIVE The Hexagon, Queens Walk, Reading, RG1 7UA, whatsonreading.com When all of his friends go away, Norman Price decides to find adventure in Pontypandy and become the star of a visiting circus. But with a tiger on the loose and faulty lights, the adventure soon turns to danger. Tickets £17.50 / £16.50 under 16s

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WHAT’S ON MARCH/APRIL 2022 16 April FAMILY FUN DAY The Swan, Station Road, Thatcham, RG19 4QL, swanpubthatcham.co.uk Games, rides, food and loads of fun for both big and small people to enjoy! Open from 12pm 17 and 18 April EASTER BUNNY EGG HUNT The Swan, Station Road, Thatcham, RG19 4QL, swanpubthatcham.co.uk Join the Easter Bunny for a wonderful Easter party and chocolate egg hunt!! Pre-booking is essential for this event. £5 per child 2pm 19 April MOVIE IN THE HALL: HOP Shaw House, Church Road, Newbury, Berkshire, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org E.B., the Easter Bunny's teenage son, heads to Hollywood, determined to become a drummer in a rock 'n' roll band. Tickets: £5 / £3 10:30am 19 and 20 April THE AMAZING BUBBLE MAN Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Louis Pearl has been thrilling audiences around the world for over 30 years with the art, magic, science and fun of bubbles. £12, £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 11:30am/2pm 19 and 20 April ARTS AND CRAFTS SESSION Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Join Jess Thompson for half an hour of print making fun - making bubble collagraph prints from recycled materials. Suitable for ages 48 years. £4 1:30pm 19-21 April PLAY IN THREE DAYS WORKSHOP Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Create a play from scratch in just three days! Explore different elements of theatre such as acting and script writing before performing your masterpiece at the end of the course. Suitable for ages 8-14. £180 11am – 4pm

20 April FAMILY ACTIVITY MORNING: Bright Birds Shaw House, Church Road, Newbury, Berkshire, RG14 2DR, westberkshireheritage.org Decorate a ceramic bird hanging decoration with permanent markers to design and colour in its plumage. £2 10am / 11am / 12pm

22 April GROOVE INTO THE WOODS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm Family favourite Groove Baby arrives with an exciting, jazz and funk fuelled show especially for 3- 7s and their grown-ups! £12 | £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 11:30am/2pm

20 April LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD Arlington Arts Centre, Snelsmore Common, Newbury, BRK RG14 3BQ, Arlington-arts.com A wolf in granny's clothing knows all about what fun dressing-up can be and in Little Red Riding Hood our magical wardrobe opens its doors to a fantastic display of gorgeous garments 11am

22 and 23 April ALICE’S ADVENTURES IN WONDERLAND Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk dk productions are excited to be back at The Kenton Theatre as we follow Alice and drop down the rabbit hole to a magical place in Wonderland. You would be ‘mad’ to miss it. Tickets: Adult £19, Concessions £16, Family Price £64 1pm/4pm

20 April FAMILY MINIBEAST SAFARI Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Come ﬁnd out what creatures are hiding at the Nature Discovery Centre this spring! This workshop is suitable for children aged 8-12. £5 per child 10am / 1pm 21 April THE NOT SO UGLY SISTERS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 4PF, Norden.farm A brand new musical re-telling of Cinderella from the perspective of the ‘Not So’ Ugly Sisters, reimagined for the stage in this magical adventure for the whole family by Wrongsemble. £12 | £10 under 16s Family and Friends (4 people) £40 11:30am/2pm 22 April MESSY MUSEUM MORNING: Face It! West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, booking.westberks.gov.uk/heritage_events Make a face out of air-drying clay using a replica Roman face jug as inspiration. £2 10am / 11am / 12pm

22-24 April CHARLOTTE’S WEB Corn Exchange Newbury, Market Place, Newbury, RG14 5BD, cornexchangenew.com The Corn Exchange's Infant and Junior Youth Theatre presents Charlotte’s Web, a poignant, humorous story of a pig, a spider and a little girl. Tickets: £15 / £12.50 1pm/6pm

homemade cake at the Activity Centre. Age 4+ £35 per person 10:30am-12:30pm / 1:30pm-3:30pm 23 April 1, 2 STEP DANCE ACADEMY: Celebrating 15 Years South Hill Park, Ringmead, Bracknell, RG12 7PA, southhillpark.org.uk 1, 2 Step Dance Academy presents their biennial showcase of dance in an entertaining show suitable for all ages. As part of this year’s 15th anniversary show our dancers will explore a variety of dance styles with fabulous costumes and creative choreography as we revisit our shows through the years. Tickets £16 / £18 3pm 25 and 28 April NATURE TOTS Thatcham Discovery Centre, Muddy Lane, Lower Way, Thatcham, RG19 3FU, www.bbowt.org.uk/explore/visitorcentres/nature-discovery-centre Fun in Nature, organised activities and run by a friendly welcoming face. For children aged 18 months – 4 years £7 per child (supervisory adults free) 10am / 10:30am / 11am

23 April DROP-IN FAMILY CRAFT West Berkshire Museum, The Wharf, Newbury, RG14 5AS, booking.westberks.gov.uk/heritage_events Pop into the Museum to decorate a pennant with your own design which will form part of the bunting decorating the Museum for the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee weekend! Your personalised design will join other pennants decorated by West Berkshire schools. Free Drop in between 10am – 4pm

27 April NEWBURY HAVE A GO EVENING Newbury Music Centre, St Bartholomew's School, Andover Road, Newbury RG14 6JP, berkshiremaestros.org.uk A fantastic FREE event this term for children and families to try as many different instruments as they'd like and a chance to chat to our teachers at our music centre. Everyone welcome and no appointment necessary. Sign up on the night to get 10% off your ﬁrst term of lessons! 4:30pm6:30pm

23 April SPRINGWATCH PADDLE Dinton Pastures Country Park, Davis Street, Reading, RG10 0TH, dinton-pastures.co.uk Look out for our waterfowl chicks like ducklings, cygnets and goslings and our beautiful colourful dragonﬂies. Finish the paddle with a nice warm drink and slice of

28-30 April THE WIZARD OF OZ Kenton Theatre, New Street, Henley-onThames, RG9 2BP, kentontheatre.co.uk When a tornado rips through Kansas, Dorothy and her dog, Toto, are whisked away in their house to the magical land of Oz. Tickets £20, concessions £18

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