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ANALYSIS

Priyanka, THE SAVING ‘FACE’ OF CONGRESS?

TRAVEL

Spoilt For Choice in Zimbabwe

INTERVIEW SPECIAL

EXCLUSIVE

AAMIR KHAN “Jainism has amazing thoughts on Forgiveness”

Bhanumathi Narasimhan, Art of Living

Falu’s Bazaar of Grammys, 2019 fame Rajdeep Sardesai & Sagarika Ghose Mona Khandhar, IAS ‘Baadshah’ The King of Rap

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“Jainism has some amazing thoughts on forgiveness” A rare, relaxed Aamir Khan opens up in a chat with Sneha about his newly acquired interest in Jain philosophy, the debacle of Thugs Of Hindostan, and his first marriage.

EVENTS 16 1 4th ‘FEELINGS’ – PRIDE OF INDIA AWARDS, 2019 An eventful evening that brought together many NRIs for well-deserved honours and more...

20 V IBRANT EVENTS AT A MAMMOTH LEVEL PM Modi unveils the Vibrant Gujarat Summit and the Ahmedabad Shopping Festival at the Sabarmati river front.

INTERVIEWS 58 I n the musical world of ‘Falu’s Bazaar’ Her young son’s enquiry about his roots prompted Falguni Shah to make music that brought her a Grammy nomination this year! Khyati Shah caught up with the music sensation whose album is making waves in the US. 22 D evelopment in India’s villages Sudhir S. Raval talks to Ms Mona Khandhar, Commissioner of Rural Development in Gujarat.

26 “ Spirituality is the Technology of the Consciousness” Ms Bhanumathi Narasimhan, Director of Women Empowerment & Child Welfare programs, Art of Living Foundation, interacts with Rachna Virdi, emphasizing the need for spiritual wisdom in the modern world.

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34 “ We Are Free Only When We Respect Each Other’s Freedom” Well known author and journalist, Sagarika Ghose talks about her latest book ‘Why I am a Liberal’, with Kalrav Joshi, at the Gujarat Literature Fest.

38 “ Books are silent gamechangers!”

Prominent ‘newsman’ Rajdeep Sardesai spoke in detail with Sultan Patel about the need for a ‘Literary Resurgence’.

62 KING OF RAP Nivedita Jayaram Pawar in conversation with the prolific and talented ‘Baadshah’.

80 “I always like to add my

own twist to the recipe”

Celebrity chef Rakhee Vaswani talks to Abid Mohammed of her passion for food and her professional journey up until now.

ANALYSIS 30 T he Saving ‘Face’ of the Congress?

Professor Sarvesh Pratap Singh unravels the politics behind Priyanka Gandhi’s appointment as Congress General Secretary, Eastern UP.

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FEATURES 44 I CONIC WEDDINGS OF THE SEASON Rachna Virdi and Pooja Singh pick up some stardust left behind in the wake of five swish celeb weddings that were on the radar recently.

50 N o limit to Dreaming Big Rahul Ramugade a swimming champion and Paralympic goldmedallist, spoke to Feelings of the challenges faced by a differently-abled person.

54 I N FOR THE LONG RUN Arati Desai takes a look at the Marathon culture that has taken over many Indian cities, motivating people to take up the challenge and have fun in the process.

72 J awa Returns As the iconic Jawa that held an entire generation in sway returns to Indian roads, Adil Marawala is itching to saddle up.

BUSINESS WISE 76 T he Recipe For A Dish called Success Successful restaurateur-duo Sundar & Deepti Sarma share their experience

88 66 in the F&B space, for all who harbour dreams of opening their own cafe someday.

HEALTH & FITNESS 86 EAT SMART, BREATHE EASY Saanchi Nayak says it is imperative to focus on a nutritious diet if we must keep our lungs healthy.

BEAUTY 75 Cosmetology, Beauty and the Modern Woman Feelings caught up with Arizona based cosmetologist, Amy Prajapati, to know more about the evolving concept and craft of looking beautiful.

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TRAVELOGUE

12 S HOPPING Your fix of window shopping!

88 WILD AS CAN BE Nivedita Jayaram Pawar finds Zimbabwe not just safe but also one of the friendliest and most spectacular countries on the African continent.

66 F ASHION Pastels are the colours to be seen in, this season.

BOOK REVIEW 96 AN INSPIRING AND HONEST MEMOIR Gita Chauhan reviews the bestseller ‘Becoming’ by Michelle Obama.

84 R ECIPES Celebrity chef Rakhee Vaswani shares her favourite teatime recipes.

94 F ORTUNE TELLER Your horoscope for this month by Bejan Daruwalla 98 B OLDWORDS #thetweettalk

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Nivedita Jayaram Pawar, Pooja Singh, Rachna Virdi,

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Editor’s Note Dear Reader, Picture a man running on a treadmill, while juggling several balls sounds stressful, right? Well, life for many of us seems to have become just that. We would rather run than walk, and if we can run, then why not race? As more and more people succumb to such a lifestyle, stress in a natural outcome. Fortunately, India provides a plethora of ways in which one can counter or at least prepare oneself to deal with the many balls life throws at us, while not losing our cool. Our rich spiritual heritage is the key to not only Nirvaana for those seeking it, but has much for those who are passionately involved in living life as it is. Read the lovely interview with Art of Living’s Bhanumathi Narasimhan, who also happens to be Sri Sri Ravishankar’s sister, for more on the subject We are also thrilled to bring you a rare and revealing interview with Aamir Khan, who among other things, talks about his growing interest in Jainism, especially the value given to ‘forgiveness’ in the ancient religion.

Thought-provoking interviews with the powerhouse couple - Rajdeep Sardesai and Sagarika Ghose, and the unique story of Falguni Shah, who is the only Indian to be nominated for a Grammy this year, are other treats, apart from a balanced overview of Priyanka Gandhi’s official entry into politics.

Have you ever thought of participating in a marathon? Toyed with the idea of opening your own restaurant? Or turned your head and looked with longing when you heard the thrumming of an old classic bike?

If yes, then it is time you turned the pages of this issue.

And, while doing the juggling act, remember to Keep Calm and Carry On!

Atul Shah Editor and Publisher

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The designs are meticulously crafted with gorgeous interlaced golden thread and strokes of diamond. There are earrings in plain weave, cocktail rings in twill and bracelets in entwined weave.

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out now New launches

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Price: Rs990 Available at: https://ohriaayurveda.com/

Natural and Chemical Free SoulTree is the only Indian brand to offer certified, natural personal care and beauty products. All the products use authentic Ayurvedic recipes and honestly sourced natural, organic ingredients. In a world full of chemically aided makeovers, SoulTree chooses the path of nurture.

Available at www.soultree.in and all leading stores

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out now New launches

Cold Extracted Delight Second Nature uses a process of cold extraction which gently extracts the pulp from the fruits and vegetables along with the natural soluble fibres. This gets done in a controlled environment to ensure long lasting retention of natural taste, flavour and nutrients.

Available on https://getsecondnature.com and all leading e-commerce platforms

Superfood InnerBeing Wellness launched its millet based breakfast and snack mixes along with a range of super grains like Quinoa, Foxtail Millet and Ragi Multi-mix. The innovative snack mixes such as Millet and Cinnamon Cookie Mix, Millet Pizza Base Mix and Nut & Millet Cake Mix give new age snacking a healthier twist.

Price: Rs 95 to Rs 325 Available on all leading e-commerce platforms

Healthy Breakfast These protein bars are crunchy, chewy, fruity and delicious - great as part of an on-the-go breakfast. Stacked with antioxidants, omega 3’s and fiber, they are made from 100% natural ingredients and are free of preservatives and artificial flavours.

Price: Rs 765 for 3 boxes of 18 bars Available at all leading stores

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Cracker Time!

At All Heart, ingredients are carefully selected to create food that has great taste and real nutrition. These crackers are made of 100% real seeds including chia seeds, flax seeds and sesame seeds.

Price: Rs 145 onwards Available at www.allheart.co.in

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Premium, carefully crafted coffee capsules & machines that make coffee indulgence fun & convenient!

Retro Collection A premium leather accessories brand with a distinctive weathered look, vintage appeal and contemporary designs inspired by the concept of ‘Leather Being a Timeless Companion’.

POR Available on www.kompanero.in and Kompanero outlets in Delhi and Mumbai

Wireless Network An award-winning wireless sound system with a focus on unique, immersive acoustic experiences. The Core has a built-in, adaptive wireless network that enables users to connect between two and eight units to create a multi-room system at home with the press of a single button – no wires or wifi required.

POR Available across all leading stores

Redefining Workspaces Burosys is a new age, modern and contemporary furniture making company that creates innovative products to make your work life easy. One such product is the Smart Side Table which has an inbuilt wireless charger, cooler drawer and bluetooth speaker. A one of its kind technology, it can be used in your office as well as in the bedroom.

Price: Rs 2,20,000 Available at info@burosys.com or 1800-121-100-100

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14th ‘FEELINGS’ –

PRIDE OF INDIA AWARDS, 2019 An eventful evening that brought together many NRIs for well-deserved honours and more...

On January 11, 2019, a salubrious Friday evening, the Feelings’ 14th Pride of India Awards took off on a fantastic note at the Grand Tulip Hotel in Baroda.

The presence of several distinguished guests and excitement among the awardees filled the atmosphere with a shared sense of warmth and bonhomie.

The much-awaited, annual event where several prominent personalities from the Indian diaspora are invited and felicitated for their valuable contributions in their fields, is a result of “true feelings” for Mr. Atul Shah, CMD and Editor of the two Feelings magazines.

“It gives me much solace and satisfaction, for I believe true patriotism lies in the here and now”, observed a beaming Atulbhai. “These awards not only recognise the outstanding contributions of our countrymen, but also inspire the next generation to reach for the stars,” he elaborated.

Ghazal maestro Pankaj Udhas was

the ‘cynosure’ of the evening and he spoke with inimitable frankness. A proud Gujarati himself, he said he was happy to see that Gujaratis are striding forward in every field, keeping up with the changing times. Speaking candidly about his professional journey which saw many ups and downs, especially due to lack of a godfather, he quoted famous Urdu poet Ahmed Faraz’s couplet on going on with determination, without worrying about the destination.

Among other prominent NRIs, Rahul Shukla caught special attention with his personal story of rising from employee to entrepreneurship. Praising his lovely wife, Meenu, he gave her all the credit for his success. That he now owns the company he once worked for in US. It is now a bigger profit making venture than before speaks volumes about his business acumen. Mr. Shukla said this feat was only possible because of Meenu who believed that 6000 USD was enough to buy a 6 million USD company!

Jagdish Trivedi, popular Gujarati

Lighting of the ceremonial lamp

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humorist was at his witty best as he entertained the crowd inexorably. Much to the amusement of the audience, he cited an incident where one young boy dyed his hair white when he saw all the adults dyeing theirs black. On being asked why, he promptly replied, “Well, there has to be at least one senior guy in the group to advise us, isn’t it?”.

Later in the evening, the girl with a golden voice - Kinjal Dave sang ‘Gujarati Lehri Lala’, winning rounds of applause from the spectators who sang along. All along, two lovely ladies - Neha Mehta of Taarak Mehta fame and Hemali Sejpal perfected their emcee roles, bringing the guests closer with their apt introductions of those present at the gala function.

Glittering photo-sessions, expressions of gratitude and a sumptuous dinner in the open lawns brought to an end the over three-hour long, wonderful evening, full of shared laughter and bonding.

The Prestigious ‘Jin Ratna’ Award went to Mr. Sanjay Kothari for his outstanding services to the Jain Community. Mr. Kothari has been trustee of several Jain Federations and is the winner of the Mahavir Animal Lover Award.

Mr. Rameshwar Kabra was awarded the ‘Golden Achievement’ award for his extraordinary achievements in Commerce and Industry. His son,Tribhuvan Kabra, received the award from Harshad Patel and Devanshi Shah, Financial Consultant, Feelings. Eminent personalities, Ex-Justice Pradeep Bhatt (President, Income Tax Appellate Tribunals), and Uday Shah are also seen.

Ms. Kinjal Dave, who has taken Gujarati music industry by storm and is known for her famous concerts both inland and overseas receives the ‘Pride of India’ Award in the Music category, from Dr. Jagdish Trivedi. Deepti Dedhia of Feelings is also seen sharing the stage.

Mr. Munjal Thakkar a prominent hotelier in Vadodara, receives the coveted trophy in the Young Achiever category from Jagdish Trivedi and Atul Shah.

Mr. Madhu Rye Thaker is being felicitated by Harshad Patel (Ex-Mayor, Brent UK) for his outstanding contribution to Literature in the NRI category. Also sharing the dais are a beaming Dr. Raeesh Maniar and Vijay Rohit, Editor Feelings (Gujarati Edition).

Ghazal Maestro, Mr. Pankaj Udhas is seen here receiving his trophy in the Music category from Ex-Justice Pradeep Bhatt (President, Income Tax Appellate Tribunals) and Atul Shah.

Mr. Paresh Rughani, a chartered accountant by profession, receives recognition in the NRI (UK) category from Kantibhai Kapasi and Atul Shah, CMD-Feelings.

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Mr. Raman Rama is being accorded the award for Outstanding NRI (USA). Mr. Rama is seen here with Atul Shah and Ghevarchand Bohra.

Mr. Rahul Shukla, an entrepreneur, receives the award for the Most Outstanding NRI (USA), from Ex-Justice Pradeep Bhatt (President, Income Tax Appellate Tribunals), and Atul Shah.

The Feelings ‘Pride of India’ Award is being accorded to Dr. Ajit Kothari in NRI (USA) category for his extraordinary services in the medical field, by Ghevarchand Bohra, Founder, Venus Group of Industries and Atul Shah.

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Dr. Raeesh Maniar is being accredited by Harshad Patel, Former Mayor (Brent, UK) in the Literature category for his tireless contributions to various publications, the music world and child psychology. Also seen here is Deepti Dedhia, Executive Director, Feelings.

Speaker of Gujarat Legislative Assembly Mr. Rajendra Trivedi is being welcomed by Mr. Atul Shah, flanked by Mr. Deepak Shah on right.

Mrs. Gujarat & the Face of Femina, Dr. Neelima Sompura sung religious shlokas and enlightened the atmosphere.

The anchoring duo - Neha Mehta (Tarak Mehta fame) and Hemali Sejpal conducted the program, in their inimitable styles.

The man with a Midas touch, Dr. Jashubhai Patel, flanked by his wife is being felicitated by Ex-Justice Pradeep Bhatt (President, Income Tax Appellate Tribunals), with the Pride of India award for his unparalleled contribution to medical services, in the realm of spine and pain management in USA.

Dr. Atul Goyal is being awarded for his Medical Services (National) by Ghevarchand Bohra, Founder, Venus Group of Industries and Atul Shah, CMDFeelings. Dr Goyal is the Head of Neurology Department in KEM Hospital and Sheth GS Medical College, Mumbai.

The ‘Dynamic Lady’ Award, 2019, went to Hemali for her tireless coaching sessions in Dancing, Theatre and Bollywood films. Hemali is seen receiving the award from Kiran Jain (social worker) and Atul Shah.

Mr. Dharmessh Mehta is being awarded by Ex-Justice Pradeep Bhatt (President, Income Tax Appellate Tribunals), and Atul Shah, in the Entertainment (Bollywood) category for his significant performances in Films and Drama.

Dr. I.K. Vijaliwala is being honoured along with his better half, by Jagdish Trivedi, Mr. Umesh of Everest Group and Atul Shah. Apart from his pathbreaking work in the medical field, Dr, Vijaliwala has 27 books to his credit.

Jigar Patel (International Tax & Investment Consultant) was announced as the ‘Young Achiever’ in the tax planning and academic domain. A delighted Jigar is being recognized by Kantibhai Kapasi of Kapasi Handicrafts and Atul Shah.

This program was a resounding success because of the committed, logistical efforts of: Tushar Parikh, for the sound system, Harshad Jhatakiya for the photography and videography, Nakul for the LED, Nitesh Purohit of Foodstuff, and Kapasi Handicrafts who provided the mementos. The credit also goes to our valued sponsors who contributed immensely to the event. They include Reliance Industries Ltd, KYB Conmat P. Ltd, Inox Leisure Ltd, Chandan Mouth Freshners, Rentio Foods P. Ltd., Badshah Masala, Fortune Inn Promenade, Everest Dignity, Orbit 99, Trivaa, VLCC, Shreedhar Group, Hotel Aum Regency, VTV News, Red Fm, Spark Today News, Priya Advertising, Jhatakia Studio and Gajanand Masalas. This program was a resounding

success because of the committed, logistical efforts of: Tushar Parikh, for the sound system, Harshad Jhatakiya for the photography and videography, Nakul for the LED, Nitesh Purohit of Foodstuff, and Kapasi Handicrafts who provided the mementos. The credit also goes to our valued sponsors who contributed immensely to the event. They include Reliance Industries Ltd, KYB Conmat P. Ltd, Inox Leisure Ltd, Chandan Mouth Freshners, Rentio Foods P. Ltd., Badshah Masala, Fortune Inn Promenade, Everest Dignity, Orbit 99, Trivaa, VLCC, Shreedhar Group, Hotel Aum Regency, VTV News, Red Fm, Spark Today News, Priya Advertising, Jhatakia Studio and Gajanand Masalas.

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Prime Minister, Narendra Modi inaugurating the Ahmedabad Shopping Festival, delivering the keynote address and visiting a stall.

vibrant EVENTS AT A MAMMOTH LEVEL

PM Modi cut the ribbon of three day Vibrant Gujarat Summit and the Ahmedabad Shopping Festival on January 17. Conceptualised by him in 2013, when he was CM of the State, the summit aimed to establish Gujarat as the preferred investment destination in the country. This year, in his speech on the opening day of the summit, he reinforced the idea, saying that he wanted India to be in the list of the top 50 countries for ease of doing business, by next year.

With 15 partner countries and 11 partner organisations, the almost two-week long summit was attended by all frontline businessmen and industrialists of the country and abroad, including ministers from European countries, Australia, Asia, America, the African continent, Denmark, Czech Republic and Malta.

Since its initiation nine years back, the biennial summit has been invoking

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in last four years, which is the best after 1991”.

investments in large proportions in terms of FDI (Foreign Direct Investments) and providing employment opportunities in the State and outside.

The Prime Minister announced that India is now fully charged and waiting with arms wide open to invite FDIs of different measures, by taking all possible steps to cut down any bureaucratic tangles.

Modi’s new Mantra from this summit onwards is ‘Reform, Perform, Transform’, apt for India which is emerging as the most powerful Asian economy in the world. “India from here and now, is on and unstoppable”, Modi observed confidently. He further spoke about the “national GDP being in the realm of 7.5

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Scores of concrete agreements and gentlemen’s promises were made by leading corporate houses worth 4.25 lakh crores, including Mukesh Ambani’s Reliance Group which vowed 3 lakh crores, Gautam Adani’s group promised 55,000 crores in the upcoming five years, Torrent declared an investment of 10,000 crores and Aditya Birla group of industries - 15,000 crores of investments. Besides, Suzuki, Japan will set up their third manufacturing plant in the State.

Several announcements were made at this trade show which was held on two lakh sq mt area of an exhibition ground.

Pandit DeenDayal Petroleum University is set to be upgraded with a record investment of 150 crores to meet all

emerging priorities and challenges in the energy sector.

The Chairman of the Birla Group mentioned how Ultratech Cement, a company under the Aditya Birla Group had a role to play in the construction of the 182 mt. Statue of Unity, India’s pride.

The momentous summit apart, Modi inaugurated the huge Ahmedabad Shopping Festival, which showcased different art and craft products at reasonable rates. While going over the products in different pavilions, Mr. Modi stopped to purchase a khadi silk jacket worth three thousand rupees, flashing his own Rupay ATM card - a master stroke as he promoted khadi specifically and also cashless transactions.

The event received huge public support not only on the first day but also on successive days, as people trickled in

The grand shopping event included more than 15,000 shopkeepers, sellers and manufacturers and offered discounts of up to 60 per cent. There was a prize for shoppers every minute, the worth of which totalled Rs 10 crore over the 12 days! Spectators also enjoyed cultural shows and hoped to win the daily bumper prize which included cars and jewellery.

continuously with avid interest in purchasing items of their preference. “This is a wonderful way to encourage local products and craftsmanship, unlike in urban settings where mall-culture has taken over all else”, one prospective customer was heard voicing his opinion.

Skeptics have their own doubts but the Summit seems to have set an upbeat tone for business and employment opportunities on a much larger scale. n Sultan Akhtar Patel

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DEVELOPMENT IN INDIA’S VILLAGES The fact that Gujarat is a progressive state is bandied around everywhere. To find out what the progress translated to at the grassroots, Sudhir S. Raval talks to Ms Mona Khandhar, Commissioner of Rural Development in the State

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ural Development is the process of improving the quality of life and economic well-being of people living in rural areas, often in relatively isolated and sparsely populated areas. To this end, the government of Gujarat is implementing many welfare schemes under the leadership of Ms. Mona Khandhar, who is currently Commissioner of Rural Development and

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Secretary to government of Gujarat in the Panchayat, Rural Housing & Rural Development Department. A competent bureaucrat with a varied portfolio of having worked across sectors, she is of the 1996 batch, Gujarat cadre.

Sudhir S. Raval gets an overview of the rural development initiatives taken under her, by the state government.

A lot of schemes are being implemented under the Rural development department. What is the main focus?

Rural development is a priority for the government and at the state level we have schemes supportive to the Centre’s rural development program. Our main focus is on rural housing, while next is skilling and employment, developing basic industry and the service sector in rural economy. Of course, the Swachha Bharat Mission (Gramin) is also equally important. Under the river rejuvenation program, we are working towards rivers that have water available for a longer period, so those residing in the catchment area are able to use it for agriculture and drinking.

We also resolve contamination issues in the rivers. We have also developed a platform called GST SAHELI, and are the official GST Suvidha Provider, registered with the GUJAN SERVICE TAX NETWORK, which is the ICT Platform of Central and State Government for GST Implementation. This initiative especially assists our Self-help groups, Co-operatives and SMEs to smoothly transit into the GST regime from the earlier VAT or excise regime.

What are your flagship programs or those which have an effective mass impact?

The flagship program is rural housing which has also generated a lot of employment in the rural areas.

Under the Pradhan Mantri Awas Yojana (Gramin), we have adopted a couple of unique strategies. Firstly, we want to mainstream the beneficiary, so we are building houses in a way that are built in that particular region.

If their houses look different from the rest, then they will separate from the community. Our emphasis is on stronger structures and using better, local building materials. The latter ensures a lower cost and the money can then be spent on making slightly bigger houses. So we have developed about 41 typologies, which has been done transparently, by a professional agency called HunnarShala.

The agency consists of committed engineers, who are working with the rural community especially in Kutch.

They have studied the regional housing technologies in the area. Gujarat has been divided into five regions and for each region, more than five typologies have been designed. The beneficiaries have been sensitized and our engineers have also been trained for this purpose.

How did you arrive at these typologies?

These typologies have been assessed by a panel consisting of IIT-Jodhpur, SEPT University and a reputed consultant called BMS. This helped us in quality-control and mainstreaming of beneficiaries.

There on, we demonstrated these typologies to the beneficiaries, who got hands on experience

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on how to construct the houses. While our trained staff supported them, we ensured that the beneficiaries themselves manage the construction. We conducted extensive training of rural masons in our typologies and also helped them get good quality, local building material. We developed PMAY Colonies wherever it was possible which means plots at one location, with additional facilities of roads, street lights, electricity and a gas connection.

Examples of these can be found at Nandasan village in Mehsana District, Chhota Udepur, Kutch and even in Aravalli District.

What is response of the rural people at large?

We have got a lot of appreciation, especially for the PMAY colonies. The river rejuvenation program is also getting a lot of support and there are requests for more such work. It is truly a program for the people and they are cooperating with us very well.

It is for the first time in the country that rejuvenation of rivers has been taken up on such a large scale. In the first phase we took up 36 river tributaries. In the second, which began from September, we have taken up another 56 tributaries. So, in all 92 river tributaries are being revived. We have tried to cover all the districts. Everything has been planned after consulting people who are involved from the very beginning.

We did a river rejuvenation program in Karprada, a tribal area in Valsad. Even though they had good rainfall, the water used to run off the hilly area. Now they are able to conserve water and instead of raising just one one crop, they raised three! Similarly, in Sabarkantha district, their drinking water problem and irrigation problem, both got resolved because of the river rejuvenation program - it is paying a very rich dividend.

As for the GST Saheli, it is working very well for the co-operatives and for the MSMEs. In fact, the Ministry of MSMEs, GOI has signed a MOU with us to scale up the platform for MSMEs in the entire country. Reputed cooperatives at both state and national level, such as

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National Dairy Development Board, AMUL, i.e. GCMMF, Gujarat State Co-operative Bank, Gujarat State Agricultural Marketing Board, have all signed MOUs with us to use the platform for a smooth transition.

GST Saheli is the only platform which is available in Gujarati, Hindi and English. Everywhere else it is only available in English. In addition, we provide this at a very concessional rate and in a very easy manner for we have kept the data entry very simple. All GST returns are auto generated, which makes it the easiest possible solution for all.

What are the challenges involved in dealing with other departments and how do you address them?

You are right on the coordination part of it. For our programs like Rurban and Mission Antyoday, we need to coordinate with a number of departments like education, health, and women and child department.

Even for MNREGA and river rejuvenation, we need to coordinate with departments like irrigation, forest and environment department and water supply department. Same for the Swachh Bharat mission. In some cases we also need to coordinate with the urban development department. Generally most of them are co-operative.

However the issues arise for a department like rural development, where the issues are small and many in number. Manpower is one of the biggest problems since a lot of it is outsourced for us. Though we engage good agencies, their personnel need to be renewed every 11 months. If there is any delay in

success stories to its credit.

Speaking of the Skilling program, we faced many irregularities two years ago.

More than 50% of the agencies had to be cancelled and the program could not function for one year. Then we changed the entire strategy, and decided to involve industries/prospective employers right from the beginning. This ensured employment and the quality of training. It took some time as we had several rounds of meetings with the industry. Now we have 48 reputed “Harvard University gave me great agencies working with us. Where earlier exposure, not only in terms of courses and we could employ only 2000 beneficiaries, classes available but also when it came to today there are 10,000. From being 18th or 19th at the national level, today we world-class faculty.� are at number 4. Some of our practices processing their renewals, it can hamper the work. to expedite and ensure good quality We have to put in place a system so this is done very skilling have been adopted by the Ministry of Rural smoothly. Then there is the payment of salaries to Development, Government of India. It is something we outsourced employees. We have to ensure that the have been awarded for too. concerned agency opens all the accounts required for that. This is a very big challenge and a lot of you are a Mason fellow and an MPA in administrative work is involved everywhere. It has to International Finance and Economics from be institutionalized!

Harvard University. How does it help you in your work?

What are the memorable moments when Harvard University gave me great exposure, not only you felt a sense of achievement in your in terms of courses and classes available but also bureaucratic tenure? when it came to world-class faculty. I was like a child It is difficult to single out one, because there are in a big toy shop, wondering which toy I should pick many actually. One has to be when rural Gujarat was up. My masters was in International Economics and declared open-defecation free, by our President on International Finance. I learnt a lot about international 2nd October, 2017, at Porbandar. We felt very satisfied trade, macroeconomics and other related issues like when in consecutive surveys conducted by World public-private partnerships and energy exploration.

Bank, a third party agency, our state performed very well. Another proud moment I remember was when Apart from academics I also gathered soft skills our Prime Minister dedicated 1,15,551 houses to rural in communication, negotiation and leadership. beneficiaries. He directly addressed the beneficiaries My colleagues were the likes of central bankers, in an open forum with the background being their new diplomats, policy makers and ministers, so just being houses. The event was covered by the national media in their company enriched my world-view, training me and the results were there for all to see. for almost any contingency in not only my profession, but also my life. n Also, when we signed the MOU with the Ministry of MSME and with the cooperatives, in the presence of the Chief Minister, it was another feather in the cap for us. The river rejuvenation program too has many (Sudhir S. Raval is a senior journalist and columnist.)

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“Spirituality is the Technology of the Consciousness�

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ife comes to us as a gift, a very charming gift, but we seldom open it. It’s all about opening and being open,” affirms Bhanumathi Narasimhan, the younger sister of Gurudev Sri Sri Ravi Shankar and Director of Women Empowerment & Child Welfare programs of the Art of Living Foundation.

Trained in her younger days as a Carnatic singer, the 60 year old has inspired many people through her melodious voice in which she has rendered sacred chants and soulful bhajans through several albums.

She holds a Masters Degree in Sanskrit Literature from Bangalore University and has authored two books, Tejasvini and Lalitha that expound the spiritual significance and mystical meaning behind popular Hindu scriptures and practices.

Walking the path of spirituality, Bhanumathi didi (as she is fondly called) leads the women welfare and child-care initiatives of the Art of Living Foundation.

She is also a meditation teacher; her workshops have brought an experience of deep inner peace to thousands worldwide. From a small, free school with 30 children of construction workers, her Gift-a-Smile project now supports 435 schools with over 58,904 underprivileged children. Being the chairperson of the International Women’s Conference (IWC) held every year, her vision is to make a global connection of responsible women to catalyse positive transformation in society.

A master at balancing her roles to perfection, she says, “My mother continues to be a great source of inspiration for me. She taught me by her example how to take responsibility for one’s own life. My grandmother taught me to see the smoother and happier side of life. My aunt taught me the value of independence. My husband taught me the value of freedom, my children and grandchildren, the value of innocence, my father, friendliness, and my brother, love and compassion towards all of humanity. My guru has taught me to combine all these values

appropriately and move on joyfully in the journey called life. When you have the right guidance, your life is an ocean of contentment.”

Here are some excerpts from an interview with her: You presented the International Women’s Conference (IWC) with the key message, ‘Life is a mystical journey’. As the chairperson of the IWC, what is your vision for making a positive transformation in society?

The journey of life takes mysterious turns at anytime.

Every experience teaches us something new. Our efforts have predominantly been to demystify the experiences life throws at us. Spirituality is the dimension that enhances the mysticism. The conference threw light on the wisdom that life has offered us, wherein we shared what we have gained for the betterment of humanity.

How would you define spirituality?

Spirituality is integral and inseparable; it is the basis, the core and the essence of our way of life. To me, spirituality is having a caring and sharing attitude.

It is living a life of values, of service to humanity, of spreading happiness. It is about the ability to see the beauty in little things – the light reflecting from dewdrops, butterflies jumping from one flower to another, woodpecker tapping on the window sill, the rushing sound of water as it slides over the tiled rooftops or the gurgling sound of a child’s laughter.

When we enjoy every aspect of creation on this planet, life becomes a celebration.

Is there a need for more women religious leaders in the world?

Certainly. Women are innately sensitive and capable of gluing the differences between people of diverse perspectives. A mother does this all the time at home.

Women should come to the forefront in all spheres, not just religion, to take responsibility for a better society.

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businessman, etc. When this is clear, there is a sense of belonging and we are able to actually celebrate the differences.

Then there is harmony in diversity.

How do you explain the role of spirituality in a materialistic world?

Spirituality and materialism are not in conflict with each other. Spirituality is having an attitude of sharing, giving and compassion. Friendliness, creativity, innovation, intuition, ethics, valour, visionary leadership, etc. are all spiritual qualities that help you progress in the material world too.

How does spirituality help in self-healing?

Healing can happen only from the space of the Self. Meditation puts you there and connects you to the depth of your being, the source of infinite energy that is within. When you take a dip in that field, you emerge refreshed, rejuvenated and healed.

How does meditation help one in life?

Meditation and having a Master in your life is the secret to experiencing deep inner peace.

Do you think superficial differences such as diversity, religion and caste are undermining humanity?

Humanity is not undermined by diversity. It is undermined when people forget that their higher identity is first as a human being and then as a Hindu, Christian, Muslim, or Indian, American or lawyer,

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How should one deal with anger, hatred, negativity and fanaticism?

First, recognise that anger, hatred and negativity are not your nature. They are like a passing cloud. When you meditate and are established in the depth of your being, you can just pierce through this cloud like the rays of the sun.

Does spirituality also help in reducing crime?

Yes, because lack of spirituality and human values is the root cause of crime. Spirituality relieves the stresses that clog one’s perception of reality. We have conducted programs for thousands of prisoners across the world who now say that if they had this knowledge before, they would have never ended up in prisons!

Like Gurudev says, inside every culprit is a victim crying for help!

“Spirituality should be a part of everything, not just an industry. When that happens, ethics and values will find a strong foundation in every facet of life.�

How can one create a positive and stressfree world to live in?

The intention itself is the most important thing and the answer lies is the path. From time to time, we can come up with different ways to spread happiness around us. But one thing that is essential is that we ourselves must be a storehouse of positivity from within, for which meditation and spirituality are essential.

What makes India a spiritually-enriched nation?

It’s the tradition of several Masters who have preserved this ancient wisdom and presented it back to the world based on the need of the hour.

Is spirituality evolving into an industry now?

The Spiritual Master is the one who guides on this seemingly pathless path. Spirituality should be a part of everything, not just an industry. When that happens, ethics and values will find a strong foundation in every facet of life.

You conducted a meditation program in which people from different locations participated via webcast. Can you tell something about this interesting amalgamation of spirituality and technology?

Technology has made our nation the global village but spirituality is what can turn it into a global family.

Spirituality is the technology of the consciousness. We are happy to use technology as a medium to connect with people across the world and meditate together.

Why do people turn to spirituality in old age?

With age maturity dawns, at least that is what is expected. And a mature mind, a refined mind, naturally turns to spirituality. But one does not have to wait to become old for this wisdom to dawn. The sooner the better! n (Narasimhan lives in Bengaluru and travels all over the world to spread the message of meditation and service. She is married with two sons, daughters-inlaw and grandchildren.)

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The Saving ‘Face’ of

the Congress?

Pictures of Priyanka Gandhi’s first day in office can already be seen online – as shades of her grandmother’s determination and her father’s dimpled smile flit across her face, she reflects a confidence that comes from her family’s long innings in Indian politics. Professor Sarvesh Pratap Singh unravels the politics behind her appointment as Congress General Secretary, Eastern UP

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o, Priyanka Gandhi has finally jumped into the fray, or so it seems. The Congress Party will soon unleash celebrations of her formal arrival in politics, at all levels of party cadres, functionalities and associates. In fact street dances to the beat of the trumpeters have already begun, heralding her as ‘Durga Incarnate’ - a saviour who has been unjustifiably held back by the ‘family’, thereby resulting in the all-time low Party fortunes.

Sonia Gandhi is being profusely thanked in the Party hoardings for her kindness in ‘releasing’ this long awaited saviour!

This development throws open a lot many probing questions - Is Priyanka actually a new entrant in political arena, and whether assigning a nomenclature to her hitherto ‘de facto’ authority will translate into a turnaround in the political fortunes of the party and the family; Also, whether the timing

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Sonia Gandhi in her parliamentary election in Bellary in Karnataka. After that, since 2004 she has been a regular face, both on and offstage - in the family’s boroughs at Amethi and Raebareli, managing the election campaign and strategy of her mother and brother and also state assembly elections falling under these two parliamentary seats, singlehandedly.

2009 onwards, her involvement crossed the boundaries of these family confines and she was seen effectively controlling party decisions and interests, whenever she wished to do so, though her appearances were not for public consumption.

Rahul’s authority, who was by the chosen heir apparent of the family, was not to be diluted and thus Priyanka stayed in the shadows, but her power and authority was no less than her brother’s. Such was her influence and acceptance in political circles that she is the one credited with saving the 2017 state assembly electoral alliance of Samajvadi Party and the Congress, when the understanding between the two had fallen apart. She literally burnt the midnight oil in Amethi and Raebareli in the elections held in 2012 , 2014 and 2017. And now this hailing of her much awaited and delayed ‘Incarnation’!

of her entry will not lead to a dilution of Brand Rahul which actually started clicking of late following a series of Congress successes in bye-elections and three state assembly polls! This is like releasing a bull after a rocking horse, which Rahul has actually been in over a decade of his tireless labour despite herculean efforts by the family to create some semblance of political equity in him.

To address the first question – Is she a fresh face lending a surprise element to rattle the present political dispensation? The Congress may find inconvenient, but this needs to be assessed on the basis of some facts which the media frenzy seems to have drowned. She is neither a new face for the electorate of this country, nor an inexperienced hand in politics. It’s only a formal announcement in the garb of a launch. It was in 1999 that she made her first political entry when she actively campaigned for

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Even if this theory of a formal broad-based launch and the build-up around her is bought, one may certainly like to enquire about her impact and achievements in Amethi and Raebareli, the two constituencies where her entire repertoire of skills have been employed and put to test for over a decade now. In the 2012 state assembly elections, Congress lost all 5 seats of Raebareli and Amethi. Rahul’s Amethi in fact turned saffron, giving 4 out of 5 seats to BJP in that year itself! In 2017, Congress was humbled by returning to only 2 seats despite being in alliance with the Samajwadi Party. Needless to mention that in this ‘rout’, Priyanka was the star campaigner in both the constituencies and had addressed over 400 street corner meetings (nukkad sabhas)! Also to be remembered is the close shave that Rahul had from the ‘outsider’, Smriti Irani, in the 2014 Lok Sabha polls. His victory margin had come down to less than 1/3rd in comparison to the 2009 hustings.

One may be inclined to do a SWOT on Priyanka,

given the kind of hype that is the vote share sunk to being built around her entry. Her lowest ever, 6.3 percent! strength is indeed the charisma She must also be fully that she effectively wields to her conscious of the tough advantage, and this will certainly turf she will soon treading be a pull factor for the crowd. This upon, squeezed between coupled with the family name a resourceful, aggressive and the strength of the oldest BJP and formidable SP-BSP national political party backing combination. How difficult her, may add to her advantage, if this task of resurrection is effectively capitalised upon. She going to be is reflected in is also a good communicator, her first statement, after the best in her family at least. formally assuming office Her weakness, though, is little “Mushkil kaam hai, koshish understanding and capacity to karungi (the task is difficult, cope with the rapidly changing I will try)”. dynamics of Indian politics.

Regional and secular aspirations So, is it the hope that one have risen only from the ashes of invests in a talisman, or the Congress and a challenge to the nervousness of a ‘do her leadership and the party will and die’ situation? It is finally come from the ideologies probably the latter, a panic “Mushkil kaam hai, currently in compatible alliance! reaction amidst the worst She has come out in the open at a koshish karungi (the task is political circumstances which time when the anti-congress era is threaten the existence of difficult, I will try)” gone – it has in fact shifted to the the Party and more critically combined opposition of the BJP. If the survival of the family she is able to reverse the decay in as a political entity of any her party and help Rahul make Congress the largest consequence. anti-BJP party once again, a great opportunity will be up for grabs! Needless to mention that her biggest Having taken the plunge, however, what can be threat comes from within the family, Robert Vadra, the possible road map for Priyanka towards an will haunt her at every juncture. effective revival plan? She can tackle the two rival combinations only by cutting into their vote Now the biggest of the riddles – How is Congress banks. Her target will be 19% of upper caste votes, surmising that what Priyanka could not achieve in particularly about 9% Brahmins, who traditionally Amethi and Rae Bareli, she will in larger area of voted for the Congress but later decisively switched eastern UP and the whole State as her activities over to BJP in the wake of the Mandir movement. expand gradually? The family surely knows the risk On her radar will also be the party’s once loyal vote involved in throwing their last trump card, if it is one, banks of Muslims(18%) and SC,STs (22%) who are at a time when the stakes are too high and political now majorly with the SP-BSP alliance. backstabbing at its worst!

Indeed, her charisma and Gandhi-Nehru lineage has Priyanka too is aware that in 2007 the Party won been assigned a herculean task. n only 22 assembly seats which marginally increased to 28 in 2012, but the next state elections in 2017 (Professor Singh is Head of Department of History, saw them plummeting to a pathetic 7 seats and Christ Church College, Kanpur.)

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Sagarika Ghose and Rajdeep Sardesai get together

for the love of the written word Rajdeep Sardesai is a senior journalist, Indian news anchor and author.

His book, ‘2014:The election that changed India’ is a national bestseller.

Born in Ahmedabad, he is a Padma Shri awardee.

Sagarika Ghose is one of India’s most noted journalists and the author of two novels, The Gin Drinkers and Blind Faith and the acclaimed biography of Indira Gandhi, Indira: India’s Most Powerful Prime Minister.

She is currently the consulting editor of the Times of India.

“We Are Free Only When We Respect Each Other’s Freedom” ‘Why I Am A Liberal’ is Sagarika Ghose’s recent, impassioned book on why India needs to return to Gandhian liberalism. In a relaxed conversation with Kalrav Joshi, at the Gujarat Literature Festival, she discusses the nuances of freedom and why it should mean a lot to all of us Tell us a bit about your craft of writing and what inspires the writer in you?

Talking about the craft of writing, I am first a voracious reader. I love the written word and have no less than a dozen favourite authors. Also, as an only child of my parents, books have been my companions forever.

This enduring romance with the literary world is what makes me explore and experiment with different forms of writing. A very disciplined writer whether it is fiction or non-fiction, I have always been an early riser. We

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have a phrase in Bengali ‘Misti Sokaal’, i.e., the sweet, early morning. And that particular time is deeply inspiring for me - the dewy, sweet, pink dawn. I think dawn with its changing colours of the sky is God’s gift to the writer. It’s when thoughts come to the mind. I find I am very influenced by the weather: be it cloudy, rainy or wintery and frosty. Over the years, I have learnt to channelize different forms of inspiration into the written word.

A nationalistic flavour seems to be dominating the world, with a rise in ethnocentrism and a backlash towards pluralism. What makes you a proud liberal and who is a liberal, according to you?

The reason why my publisher pushed me to write this book is precisely because what we understand by liberal values is being discredited and abused today. A liberal is seen as a weak, negative person with double standards. I think a lot of that has to do with the kind of mistakes liberals have made over the years. We are now witnessing a rise in populist nationalism, not just in India, but all over the world. In the 1930’s, they said that the enemy of democracy is ‘communism’, in 1940’s, the enemy was ‘fascism’, today, the enemy of democracy is ‘democracy’.

Because it is through the democratic process that you are getting leaders who are turning their back on the true meaning of democracy, liberty, rule of law, on liberal democratic norms and becoming electoral autocrats. There is a centralization of power and of corporate power. We have oligarchies in politics and oligarchies in economics. Both according to me are against liberal values. In the book, I try to own a liberal ideology for India. Liberalism is not just about white men and women but we also have the home grown ideology propounded by Gandhi, Ram Mohan Roy and the real Hindus (because Hinduism is a doctorate in liberalism). To infuse more meaning into liberal values, we must realise the mistakes that liberals have made.

In the book I actually apologise for what liberals have done in the past years which has led us into this current situation.

Has there been a truly liberal period in India?

According to me, Gandhi is the father of Indian Liberalism. The Gandhian movement consisted of many who were liberal in their outlook. In 1991, during the liberalisation of the Indian economy, India saw some liberal movement. The Vajpayee government was interested in fostering individual liberty, which can also be seen as a positive. So, there have been individual, liberal politicians but I don’t think there has been a whole period as such in the Indian context.

That is why we all need to work and understand the concept of individual freedom and liberty.

At a time when liberals are labelled as those with double standards or those who only believe in equality but do nothing, what can we learn from Gandhi?

First, nonviolence and second, his deep mistrust and skepticism about an all-powerful centralized government or a Big State. The idea that even without 100 per cent agreement there can still be love, friendship and cooperation, that anyone who does not tick all the boxes does not need to be shot!

When I started writing this book, I was simultaneously also writing a biography of Indira Gandhi. Now, Indira Gandhi was a very charming and seductive person.

She pretended to be secular, progressive and liberal, but was deeply illiberal. And that is what laid the ground for a kind of illiberal liberalism. For example, Gandhi was a great believer in prohibition and celibacy after marriage, but he never used the agency of state to push forward his personal beliefs. Unfortunately, Indira Gandhi did. That idea has been adopted today by those pushing their version of Hindutva Nationalism. I believe the problem began with the emergency and the manner in which Mrs Gandhi used the State’s power to crush individual liberty.

We can return to Gandhian liberalism by re-energising civil organisations. Gandhi believed the State is only supposed to provide health, education and security.

What to eat, wear, write or read, whom to love, these are individual choices and must be left to the individual.

Why it is so important to recognise and protect individual liberty?

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authoritarian rulers - military rule (Pakistan and Bangladesh), a period of authoritarianism (Sri Lanka) and monarchy (Bhutan). Democracy has not been organic in India. It was created in 1947 by our founding fathers. In many countries, one cannot see certain films, cannot read and write or wear what one wants. There are restrictions in the public domain too. So, do we want to live in a free society or a society which is increasingly policed and subject to moral, social and economic policing, is a question to think about.

It is only when I respect your freedom that I have freedom. If I don’t, then there will come a time when somebody will not respect my freedom. We are free only when we respect each other’s freedom.

When my individual liberty is in collision with your individual liberty, where and how are we heading towards creating this idea of individual liberty?

That’s a very good question. The first step is to create awareness about what is individual liberty and what is liberalism. Liberals believe that a free individual is the greatest catalyst of change in society. Each of us wants to be in a situation where we have liberty to eat, worship, dress, read, write and think what we want.

But, increasingly, post-independence governments have tended to be the enemies of individual liberties, because of political and vote bank considerations.

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For example, the bans on books, plays, and various other forms of free expression.

It is not someone’s freedom to ban a session because that does not fit into the framework of constitutional morality. Then they are pursuing their power of censorship.

Let the session happen and have counter arguments. My freedom is not to shut your freedom. If I write a book today and you don’t like it, you have the freedom to write another book and have counter arguments.

So, it is not about who shuts who up. It is about having ‘Vaad’ and ‘Vivad’. But all this has to happen within the framework of non-violence.

So, how can awareness about the real meaning of individual liberty be created?

Keep talking and discussing why liberty is important.

It is something which we all need to fight and strive for, keeping in mind the constitutional framework of morality. n (Kalrav Joshi is a 2nd year student of Journalism and Mass Communication. at MS University, Vadodara.)

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“BOOKS ARE SILENT GAME-CHANGERS!” In Vadodara for the three day literary jamboree - the Gujarat Literature Festival, prominent ‘newsman’ Rajdeep Sardesai spoke in detail with Sultan Patel about the need for a ‘Literary Resurgence’

How successful, according to you, is such a literary fest in creating interest, passion and enthusiasm for the ‘written word’ among people at large?

Well, situations help. A sacrifice of time, effort, money and of course good management is needed to sensitize people towards literature and consequently to change human lives. With such a huge population, we need these clarion calls of publicity to be heard far and wide. In current times when most of our efforts are made based on the ‘profit or loss’ of a particular venture, this kind of a program becomes even more difficult. But, yes, human assembly to get any concept going definitely helps, when done consistently and with focus.

Mobile phones seem to have replaced books in the hands of people today. How is an event like this supposed to draw crowds in such a scenario, let alone change lives?

Of course, mobiles and other devices have damaged print media substantially. But then we have to be innovative in finding ways and means in our outreach.

We ought to take this adverse situation not as a setback but as a challenge. One way is to create a happening environment that speaks of the genuine issues of people and draws them to books which they can identify with. With human interaction and this give-and-take of ideas, literature can cement severed

ties and rid us of unhealthy thinking, at least to an extent.

Even though this is the Gujarat Literature Festival, it has no language limitations, making it all-inclusive. Can Literature help to unite, especially today when ‘groupism’ tendencies are at their peak.

Frankly, real literature does not have a fragmentary attitude. A true literary temper is that which binds and strives towards an ‘ism-less’ society. For this to happen, literature has to be objective rather than ideological. We need real ‘drumbeating’ to change human lives through literature, so such events should

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“I always say, it’s better to sell books, than beer.” actually increase in frequency. For real social, political, economic change to happen novels must revolutionize human psychology itself.

Tell us a bit about your experience here in the Lit fest I just attended a Screenwriters session before this, where we spoke on Gujarati and Marathi films. There are some beautiful films in Marathi with topical stories showcasing excellent acting acumen. I don’t know much about Gujarati films. But through this medium too, we can spark a love for literature among people, for the best films are those which tell the best stories.

I always say, it is better to sell books than beer. Books are silent game changers.

The author seems to be more glorified than the books at such literary events.

Does this lead to a decline in the quality of literature?

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books also need marketing. So, even though the author is magnified compared to the title of his book, eventually it his honesty between the book’s covers that will provide real food for thought.

Your thoughts on regional literature?

Literature works within the parameters of its own region and circumstances. More or less, we depend on our predecessors who incidentally got this chance before us. So there is a certain amount of dependency on them for sure. But with time literature creates its own language and paradigms. Different human thoughts, habits and customs provide a wide and differing canvas for authors. n

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“Jainism has some amazing thoughts on forgiveness” A rare, relaxed Aamir Khan opens up in a chat with Sneha about his newly acquired interest in Jain philosophy, the debacle of Thugs Of Hindostan, and his first marriage

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ver the perfectionist, Aamir Khan takes his responsibilities very seriously, whether it’s looking forward to launch his son, Junaid, in the movies or his latest production, Rubaru Roshni, a documentary which succeeded in touching the audience’s heart when it was premiered on Star TV network on Republic Day. A delightful session reveals some lesser known facets of one of the country’s most bankable stars…

How did Rubaru Roshni happen and what was your reaction to the script?

There is no script to it. Svati told me her idea was to make a film on forgiveness, and she wanted to depict true stories which demonstrate the idea. She told me the three stories which she had been following in the newspapers, though she hadn’t started her research or met them.

I felt it is a very important concept. Human beings, not just in India but everywhere in the world have forgotten the power of forgiveness. We have forgotten how healing forgiveness can be. I feel it is very important for us to talk about it, so that it comes back into people’s consciousness. If I forgive, I will be the first to heal. One can never go into the past and rectify something that has already happened. The past is not in our hands, but the future is.

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I have been reading up on Jainism recently and it is having a deep impact on me. It has some amazing thoughts on forgiveness, non-violence, to only use what you really need and anekantvad. The last means that if somebody has a totally opposing view to yours and you are fully convinced in your view, you should still keep a window open, thinking the other person might be right, while recognizing that he or she has a right to opposing your thoughts.

How did the title Rubaru Roshni come about?

Actually there is a poem by Rumi, from which we got the English title - When The Light Comes In - from the line, ‘The wound is where the light enters’. We were very happy with that thought which basically signifies enlightenment. For the Hindi title, I thought of Rubaru Roshni which means coming face-to-face with light. It’s a slightly different meaning, yet quite similar.

How much creative input was there from your side?

These are true stories, so I don’t have any contribution in the scripting because there is no script, as such.

But when I saw the cut, I did have some suggestions.

Other than that, not much.

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“I am a team player. So, if my director has gone wrong, I have too. I don’t mind failing with my director on his or her instinct.”

Who is Svati?

Svati knows me since 1984. She is married to Satya [director Satyajit Bhatkal]. Satya and I were in school together. Reena, my first wife and I got married secretly. We had three witnesses for that civil marriage. One was Satya, the second was Svati and the third was Anand, Satya’s cousin.

Our marriage was the most economical marriage. It took me 50 paise to go to Bandra station on the 211 route bus. I then went to Bandra East on the [railway foot] overbridge to reach the Griha Nirman Bhavan, where the office of the marriage registrar is. So, my marriage cost less than ten rupees. Nobody knew; only five people were there.

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Have you ever held grudges against anyone?

I remember I had fought with Juhi [Chawla]. For seven years I didn’t talk to her. We fought during the making of Ishq (1997) and I was so upset. It was a petty issue.

[But] I wouldn’t even sit near her on the sets. If she sat near me, I would go and sit far away. I wouldn’t even say hello and bye. I only used to speak to her during shots for professional reasons.

How did you both become friends again?

She came to know through the media that Reena and I had divorced. We were not in touch. She called me out of the blue and said she wants to meet me.

At the time I wasn’t meeting anyone. I used to stay alone. She came to meet me and inquired about our

have too. I don’t mind failing with my director on his or her instinct.

But you were the one blamed, what do you have to say about that?

The audience came to the theatre because of me. So I do have a responsibility towards the audience. To that audience I feel personally and fully responsible.

Will you continue to skip award shows?

Film awards have lost their value for me. I believe it is lovely to have an evening where members of the creative community come together and celebrate one another’s work. I understand their emotion, which is very beautiful. I would like to be a part of that emotion.

But there are times when there is some strange person on the jury who has no idea about filmmaking.

Is that person going to judge if I am a good actor?

Where is the value in that? If Dilip Kumar tells me I am a good actor, I would stand up. Or if Raj Kapoor or Lata Mangeshkar say that, I have value for that.

decision. I told her the reasons and she said, ‘Why are you separating? You shouldn’t.’

I was happy that she had reached out to me. Though we were not talking, we were still very fond of each other. In a troubled time she immediately came to me.

She knew I wouldn’t pick up the phone but she still tried. And I also felt I should reciprocate.

Talking about forgiveness, have you forgiven Victor [Vijay Krishna Acharya] for Thugs Of Hindostan?

I don’t think I need to forgive him. I feel all directors with whom I work are good and their intentions are good, too. All of us want to make a great film.

Sometimes, it doesn’t happen. Filmmaking is difficult.

I am a team player. So, if my director has gone wrong, I

Is it true that you are soon going to launch your son Junaid?

I have seen his work and am quite happy with it. He has completed a two-year training in theatre at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in LA. Then he did plays for a year in LA. He will make his acting debut when we get the right kind of story. He will have to pass the test too, to be in the film. I feel he should be playing characters, not heroes. There is a difference.

For example, in Dil Hai Ke Manta Nahin (1991), I am Raghu Jaitley, in Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikandar (1992) I am Sanjay Lal, in Lagaan (2001) I am Bhuvan, in Rang De Basanti (2006) I am DJ. My audience identifies me with my character’s name.

People are eager to know about your next film, could you tell us something about it.

Actually, I will only know the answer to this in a month’s time. I haven’t 100% zeroed in on anyone.

This time I have quite a few stories.

I am enjoying life, so I have gained weight. From 1st February, my diet and workout will begin, as I start preparing for the next film. n

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Iconic Weddings of the Season ‘Tis the season of weddings, or should we say celebrity weddings, and how! Rachna Virdi and Pooja Singh pick up some star-dust left behind in the wake of five swish celeb weddings that were on the radar recently

Pictures courtesy Instagram and people magazine

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s we waited and watched some of the fairy tale weddings that flooded the media recently, the popular quote ‘Marriages are made in heaven’ seemed antiquated. For here we almost saw heaven on earth complete with the regalia, grandeur and other paraphernalia that most big, fat Indian weddings aspire to. Picture-perfect, the glamourous couples took the plunge and said “I do”, setting major wedding goals for future couples in the audience!

All these weddings – whether it was of Isha Ambani and Anand Piramal or Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh or Priyanka Chopra and Nick Jonas, looked heavenly and took the spectators and media by storm. The sheer opulence, magnificence, joie di vivre and larger than life celebrations are still the talk of the nation (read world).

What also stole the show was the beautiful haute couture and wedding finesse adorned by the lovely couples. We sneaked into their wedding albums to bring you a frameby-frame preview of their wedding diaries.

DEEPIKA PADUKONE & RANVEER SINGH Deepika and Ranveer acted in four blockbuster movies together but right after watching their sizzling chemistry during Ram-Leela, rumours of the two dating began doing rounds with fans rooting for the couple. By the time Padmaavat adorned the silver screen, their romance had blossomed and when Deepika was shooting Happy New Year in Dubai, Ranveer dropped by to meet her on the set.

Deepika too flew down to Barcelona to spend quality time with Ranveer. As the ‘DeepVeer’ hashtag began trending the world over, they escaped from the paparazzi and amid heavy rumours, decided to get married in a supposedly ‘private destination’ at Lake Como in Italy. The two actors tied the knot twice - in lavish Konkani and North Indian wedding ceremonies, before returning to India and hosting several receptions here. The love between them couldn’t be missed in any of the wedding clicks that were released later on their official social media accounts. .

While everything from the décor to clothes, music and the food looked divine, the colour coordinated dressing themes of the couple truly stood out.

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Deepika Padukone wore stunning outfits designed by some of the most-coveted designers in India - Sabyasachi and Abu Jani Sandeep Khosla, and the couple donned several glamorous numbers for photoshoots that the nation swooned over.

The couple officiated their wedding via a joint statement: “With the blessings of our families, it gives us immense joy in sharing that our wedding is set to take place on the 14th and 15th November, 2018. We thank you for all the love you have showered upon us over the years and seek your blessings as we embark on this incredible journey of love, loyalty, friendship and togetherness.”

DESIGNER-SPEAK Abu Jani-Sandeep Khosla stated, “We are thrilled to have created this ensemble for Deepika. Her beauty and grace are ethereal and she chose Chikan, which is our ultimate love.

Her appreciation for finesse and elegance made it her choice too. Ivory and gold do her and the occasion full justice. She looked an absolute dream in it.”

THE KONKANI WEDDING Couture: The Konkani wedding had a white and gold theme with Deepika looking stunning in a traditional Konkani red and gold Kanjeevaram silk sari sourced by her mother from Angadi Galleria. Ranveer wore a traditional veshti, kurta and angavastram.

Jewellery: The temple jewellery with traditional jhumkas, maangtika and necklaces lent a perfect South Indian touch to the glowing bride.

THE SINDHI WEDDING Couture: For the Anand Karaj, the Sindhi ceremony, Deepika adorned a vibrant, traditional red and gold handstitched and embroidered traditional lehenga. Ranveer was dressed in a hand-knitted red sherwani with intricate brocade work and a leheria safa.

Jewellery: Adorning the traditional maang tika, nathni, chuda and kaliras, Deepika made a gorgeous style statement as an Indian bride.

THE RECEPTION Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh’s reception

ensemble in chikankari ivory and gold was also a picture of ethereal romance. Chikankari is designer duo Abu Jani-Sandeep Khosla’s hallmark and when it came to Deepika’s wedding reception in Mumbai, it is what the new bride’s heart apparently craved to wear.

Couture: Deepika was dressed in a breathtakingly beautiful chiffon chikankari ensemble in ivory with a trail and styled with a demi-sari and sumptuous chadar as a head dupatta. Hand embroidered by the women artisans of Lucknow, the intricate thread embroidery looked beautiful with millions of sequins, Swarovski crystals and gold zardozi embroidery enhancing and embellishing it to perfection. The demi sari and chadar had dramatic zardozi lace borders at the edges. The sari was teamed with a gold zardozi, resham and crystal blouse featuring a deep neck and delicate floral motifs with bugle bead and pearl tassels that offset the pristine chikankari to perfection.

Jewellery: Deepika wore a divine multi-tiered floral necklace in rose cuts and gold and oversized geometric disc earrings with pearls, gold and polkis from Fine Jewels, by Saboo jewellery collection.

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ISHA AMBANI & ANAND PIRAMAL Perhaps the most expensive wedding that was publicized the world over, was of Isha Ambani, daughter of India’s biggest business tycoon Mukesh Ambani and Anand Piramal, son of business magnate and Piramal Enterprise chief, Ajay Piramal. Anand had proposed to Isha in a temple in Mahabaleshwar after which they posted a few pictures together on social media.

The grandest and plushest wedding celebration of the season, started with Ann-Seva followed by pre-wedding festivities such as Sangeet, Maha Aarti, Grah Shanti and Dandiya. Thee engagement was in Udaipur and finally the wedding ceremony was held at the Ambani residence, Antilia in Mumbai.

There was no dearth of mega stars and celebrities who came to wish the couple - Bollywood’s three Khans – Shahrukh, Aamir and Salman joined the celebrations, none other than international sensation, Beyonce

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performed at one of the wedding events, and guests were seen rubbing shoulders with former first lady of USA, Hillary Clinton who also graced the occasion.

PRE-WEDDING FESTIVITIES Couture: Isha looked drop-dead gorgeous and elegant in a fuchsia pink heavily embellished lehenga designed by fashion designer Manish Malhotra. She paired it with fine jewels and light make-up. On another occasion in Udaipur, she wore a gold embellished lehenga by Manish Malhotra.

THE WEDDING Couture: For the wedding rituals held in Mumbai, Isha looked like an iconic dazzling bride dressed in designer duo Abu Jani-Sandeep Khosla’s creation. The 16-panelled ghaghra was in two shades of off white, each panel was hand embroidered with Mughal jaali, and floral panels alternating in the finest zardosi, vasli, mukaish and nakshi work, highlighted with crystals and sequins.

The red bridal hue in zardozi borders gave an ethereal and traditional look to the ensemble. The wedding lehenga was teamed with mother Nita Ambani’s wedding sari which was draped along with the outfit.

Jewellery: Isha’s wedding ensemble was beautifully accessorised with a heavy choker neckpiece adorned with precious stones, and a nath and mangtikka.

THE RECEPTION The wedding reception had Isha looking absolutely adorable and mesmerising in a traditional bespoke velvet lehenga from Kolkata couturier Sabyasachi Mukherjee’s zardozi revival series. The lehenga was embellished with silver, dabka and bullion work and accessorised well with a diamond cut necklace and tear drop earrings.

PRIYANKA CHOPRA AND NICK JONAS The couple’s story was rather romantic as Priyanka and Nick did not directly interact in the beginning but had spoken to each other on Twitter DMs. It was not until the MET Gala that happened the following year, that they met and sparks flew. Rumours about the couple started flying as they were later spotted by shutterbugs in LA, holding hands while coming out of a restaurant.

Their romance became official when Nick proposed to Priyanka on her birthday and the wedding plans began in full swing. Their wedding date set for December 1, the couple was seen going out dates in India. The December wedding was a dreamy affair with a blend of two beautiful cultures as they exchanged vows in a Christian and Hindu ceremony.

Priyanka wore a gown for the western wedding ceremony designed personally by legendary, international luxury designer Ralph Lauren (he has only designed wedding gowns for his family members, in the past). The veil of this wedding dress made the event look nothing less than a fairytale. For the main wedding, Priyanka wore a stunning Sabyasachi gown, that reportedly took months to make.

They married in the presence of their close friends and family at Umaid Bhawan Palace in Rajasthan.

The Jodhpur wedding of Priyanka and Nick was conceptualised, visualised and crafted by couturiers Abu Jani Sandeep Khosla. This included all the three occasions

held at Jodhpur’s Umaid Bhawan Palace – Mehendi, Sangeet and Wedding.

MEHENDI The Mehendi function was fabulously folksy in spirit. The theme for the event was an ode to the host city, Jodhpur.

The poolside of Umaid Bhawan turned into a sea of blues, yellows and whites and there was a distinct joie de vivre and playfulness in the air.

Couture: Priyanka was dressed a multi coloured organdie outfit and Nick wore an aqua bakhiya kurta created by the designer duo.

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DESIGNER SPEAK Abu Jani and Sandeep Khosla stated, “We see Priyanka and Nick as the ultimate love story. A love that brings together different worlds and cultures and creates a new universe. Designing their wedding has been a privilege. It’s been about melding tradition and modernity to create a unique celebration. One that rejoices in beauty and romance.”

Jewellery: Priyanka’s jewellery designed by AKSK for Saboo was an exceptional heirloom piece of the finest rubies collected over generations.

SANGEET The Sangeet held at the lawns of the Umaid Bhawan Palace was a night most royal with millions of fairy lights flooding the grounds to create an enchanted wonderland.

It was as if the sky and earth danced as one to celebrate this union.

Couture: Dressed in a hand embroidered and sequinned sari in gold and silver hues, Priyanka exuded glamour at its most luminescent.

Jewellery: The sequinned sari was complemented by a delicate yet opulent necklace Heaven’s Rain Line, featuring a cascade of pear-shaped diamonds suspended from a row of marquise diamonds. The masterpiece was crafted by AJSK for Saboo.

For the groom: Nick Jonas looked princely in an open midnight blue sherwani with silk thread detailing. Nick’s elder brother Joe Jonas wore a black bandh gala with hand embroidered dragon motif. His wife Sophie Turner looked exquisite as she danced in a red rechi ghagra at the Sangeet.

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THE RED WEDDING Following their White Wedding, the inter-faith couple solemnised their union with a Hindu ceremony. The Umaid Bhawan Palace was ablaze with the majesty of the red and gold infused décor, lit up in golden light. The mandap was a traditional, four-pillared, covered structure constructed from solid brass; the design was inspired by Art Deco. There was a huge 5-foot-tall and 12 ft. wide floral installation of vermillion and pink peonies. The installation so quintessentially represented ‘Priyanka and Nick’ and was an ode to their love that has transcended borders.

Couture: For the traditional Indian wedding, Priyanka looked stunning in a custom red traditional lehenga with hand embroidered and hand cut organza flowers, French knots in silk floss, delicate Siam red crystals and threadwork embroidery. The modern masterpiece was designed by none other than Kolkata-based fashion designer Sabyasachi Mukherjee.

Jewellery: Priyanka’s jewellery was an ode to the resplendence of the Mughal dynasty. It was crafted with uncut diamonds, emeralds and Japanese cultured pearls in 22 carat gold.

For the groom: Nick was dressed in a hand-quilted silk sherwani with a hand embroidered chikan dupatta and chanderi tissue safa designed by Sabyasachi. The rose cut kalgi and syndicate diamond necklace were from the Sabyasachi Heritage collection.

KAPIL SHARMA & GINNI CHATRATH THE WEDDING Comedy superstar Kapil Sharma recently tied the knot with Ginni Chatrath in Jalandhar. For the uninitiated, Ginni is Kapil Sharma’s longtime girlfriend. The wedding celebrations spanning four days kickstarted with Akhand Path and Mata Ka Jagran followed by chooda ceremony and other wedding rituals such as Sangeet and Mehendi ceremony. The traditional Punjabi wedding took place in the lavish five star, Grand Cabbana Resort in Jalandhar. The bride and groom totally complemented each other in their wedding finery.

Kapil looked dashing in a green brocade sherwani and pagdi teamed with mule shoes. Heavily accessorised with jewellery, he held a traditional Sikh kirpan in his hand. Ginni looked like a resplendent Punjabi bride adorning a red and gold lehenga. The following day the couple got married in a Anand Karaj ceremony as per Sikh rituals.

THE RECEPTION The grand reception of Kapil and Ginni held in Amritsar was attended by the who’s who of Bollywood and the TV industry. Kapil was dressed in a burgundy bandhgala outfit and Ginni looked stunning in a pastel pink and green lehenga.

SAINA NEHWAL & PARUPALLI KASHYAP Tennis superstar Saina Nehwal too recently tied the knot with her childhood sweetheart Parupalli Kashyap in a private ceremony.

THE WEDDING Unlike the big fat weddings of the season, this one was a low-key and simple wedding ceremony conducted at home and attended by family and close friends. Saina looked radiant in a pastel blue and pink floral lehenga with a blue shimmery blouse and sheer dupatta designed

by Vaishali Agarwal. It was complemented with a gold choker and jhumkas. Parupalli looked dapper in an asymmetric pink kurta and Nehru jacket teamed with white pants.

THE RECEPTION At the grand reception hosted in Hyderabad, the couple looked colour-coordinated and made-for-each-other.

Saina wore an ornate indigo blue velvet lehenga designed by Sabyasachi Mukherjee. It was accessorised with an uncut diamond bridal choker set and maangtika from Sabyasachi Heritage jewellery collection. Parupalli was dressed in a dark blue sherwani paired with a side dupatta and accessorised with an uncut pearl necklace.n

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“No limit to

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n 2015, the Indian government decided to officially call those with a physical or mental disability ‘Divyang’, which means ‘divine-bodied’ in Hindi. Most Divyangs, if one speaks to them, do not expect sympathy from others, only support and equality. Several of them today set an example of their strong will and determination for the world to see, but in spaces that are not geared to their needs, they are working doubly hard to achieve the same recognition.

28-year-old Rahul Ramugade is one of them. Affected by polio when he was just about two, his body is not functional from waist down. But today, he proudly shows us the several medals he has won in national level swimming competitions. Defying adversity, he also plays cricket and basketball, inspiring even those who are blessed with fully functional limbs, with his positive attitude.

Defeating adversity Until Rahul was eight years old, his parents went to every doctor for help and tried all therapies possible before slowly losing hope. “While getting my polio vaccination something went wrong, maybe an adverse

reaction, and everything below my waist ceased to function,” reveals Rahul.

However, Rahul was not someone who would sit back and be slowed down by the curveball life had thrown at him. He began schooling in a school for the specially abled, but from 5th onwards studied in a normal school. In the special school he had enrolled for swimming lessons and enjoyed them, unaware that the activity would become an integral part of his life someday. He is now one of the most admired para-swimmers in the State as he won his first Gold and Bronze in Freestyle, at the first Maharashtra State Paralympics Games in March, 2015. He later went on to win a Gold in backstroke, a Bronze in breaststroke and a Bronze in Freestyle at the 9th State-Level Aquatic Championship in 2015. His recent achievement is three Gold medals at the 11th State Paralympic Aquatic Championship in April 2017.

A self-taught champion Rahul took swimming seriously and entered a competition after a colleague at his first job

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“I got associated with NGOs and companies who worked towards hiring people like us, but there is always some struggle, especially in travelling to work.” encouraged and pushed him towards it, “My colleague, who was also wheelchair bound, motivated me.” Rahul, who got no formal training feels however, that more support is needed from the government towards such competitions and other issues faced by the differently-abled. While Rahul is one of the lucky ones in having found a ‘good enough’ job, “Getting a job itself to fulfil financial needs is still quite difficult. I got associated with NGOs and companies who worked towards hiring people like us, but there is always some struggle, especially in travelling to work,” he says.

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Fighting for Rights Not a lot of pools in India are accessible to the differently abled. “We have no facilities designed for us, be it the changing rooms or the toilets. All the champions who participate in the Paralympics and Para Championships have to go through a lot of inconvenience –both physically and financially,” he says.

For a person with disability, travelling is a big challenge in India. To overcome this problem and be more independent, Rahul rides a modified bike on which he has completed more than 36,000 kms, and also uses a skateboard in his day-to-day life.

Against all odds, he completed the 5 km marathon in Mumbai within 52 mins in 2018, and a 6 kms marathon in Pune within 46 mins, on his wheelchair.

Apart from cricket and swimming, Rahul plays wheelchair Tennis and Badminton and has tried his hand at scuba diving, wall climbing and even participated in an event of Paramotoring!

Next on his agenda is skydiving. Ever optimistic, he declares, “It is all about looking at the world differently. I have got another lease of life and know that there is no limit to dreaming big”. n

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Arati Desai takes a look at the Marathon culture that has taken over many Indian cities, motivating people to take up the challenge and have fun in the process

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ome winter and the great races begin in many cities of India. What was earlier a purely western phenomenon has captured the Indian athlete and even non-athlete, as one finds marathons and runs being organised in almost every major cosmopolitan city across the country. Now with over 27 full marathons to choose from, everyone from serious athletes to students and homemakers are taking on the challenge – some as part of their already healthy lifestyle and others just to jog things up a little in their otherwise mundane routines.

The origin of the marathon actually is based on tale of a Greek soldier Pheidippides, who ran approximately 25 miles from near Marathon in Greece to Athens in 490 B.C, to announce the defeat of the Persians to the citizens of Athens. After delivering the message he died immediately. But the story actually has more to it. It began a few days earlier when the Persians arrived at Marathon. It is said that Pheidippides was sent to Sparta to ask for help. So he actually ran 150 miles in two days and thereafter ran the last 25 miles from the battlefield to Athens, most probably in full armour. This is more likely the reason for his death.

Every year in September, a Spartathlon covering 246 kilometers from Athens to Sparta takes place to commemorate Pheidippides’ run.

The modern Olympics organized the first official race from the Marathon Bridge to the Olympic Stadium in Athens covering a distance of approximately 24.85 miles in 1896. This inspired the first Boston marathon which was held on 19th April 1897 with a total of 15 runners of which a New York businessman John J. McDermott, stood first with a timing of 2:55:10.There is an interesting story as to how the distance for the marathon came to be 26.2 miles. Over the years till 1908, the length of the marathon in the Olympics wavered a bit. But in the 1908 London Olympics, the route was from Windsor castle to White City Stadium which was 26 miles. In order to allow the runners to pass the royal family box inside the stadium, the organizer decided to add an additional 385 yards.

Thus came to being the distance of 26.2 miles. Yet it took an additional 13 years for this mileage to

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become the official marathon distance. The New York Marathon is considered one of the largest marathons in the world. In the 2016 edition, a total of 51,388 runners crossed the finishing line, an amazing percentage out of the 51,995 people who started.

The growing consciousness about fitness and good health has led to umpteen runs across the globe, glorifying the marathon trend. From what began as mere participation, over a period of time, several people have taken up the challenge of marathon running on a daily basis. Various runs and marathons are organized to support causes like health, education or sports for the differently abled.

Corporates take up social causes and encourage their employees to participate.

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indoor gyms to continue their training. The Pinkathon is India’s largest woman-run which includes categories of 3km, 5km and 10km runs and also a half marathon in some cities. This run is organized in several cities of India promoting awareness for breast cancer and women’s health and well being. In the Hyderabad Heritage run, athletes participate in short fun runs passing the cities heritage sites. The Mumbai Marathon is probably on the list of every serious runner. Held on the 3rd Sunday of January every year, it covers the scenic Bandra- Worli Sea Link in its half and full marathons. The 2018 edition of the Mumbai marathon saw over 44,000 enthusiastic runners including senior citizens and physically disabled participants. One of the toughest Indian marathons is probably the Ladakh Marathon. It consists of 4 races of which the Khardungla Challenge (5370m) is the world’s highest Ultra Marathon.

“Running for well-being, not events, should be the main motivation” – Sameer Gaikwad (seasoned marathoner) many exceptions. Strengthening in the gym regularly also helps a lot and is something many runners tend not to pay attention too.”

While for the less competitive, running is primarily about having fun and attaining personal goals, the spirited nature of the sport allows one to witness the amazing speeds at which world class runners complete the race. Technology has a role to play in the promotion of serious running, with several free apps like Strava and Runtastic transforming the walker into a timed runner.

Health is a top priority for runners believes Sameer Gaikwad, a running expert, who has completed several marathons and is passionate about fitness and running. A mentor to several runners, Sameer helps them to achieve their goals with his expert advice. For those above 40, who are considering running, he says, “Runners over 40 are vulnerable.

It’s always a good idea to keep checking your vitals.

More often than not, endurance activities fast track your symptoms, if any, and one should be able to notice them and take remedial action. Running for well-being, not events should be the main motivation.”

As a newbie runner, I have not reached the half marathon mark as yet, but for me running is all about being able to do something challenging while enjoying it in the process. Training for a marathon is a must do whether you are going to run 5km or a full marathon. Having run two half-marathons this year, passionate runner Radha Shah shares the secret of her successful runs,” I trained over a period of 6 to 7 months with 3 days of running every week, without

All in all, a great sense of community and camaraderie prevails when people come out to run as one, be it for the medal, for the fun or for a cause.

With citizens of ‘marathoning’ cities turning up in huge numbers on the streets, to cheer and applaud their city’s runners, the sport has certainly outrun all others in its ability to bring together people of all walks of life, including those who may never have played another sport before! n

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In the musical world of

‘Falu’s Bazaar’ Her young son’s enquiry about his roots prompted Falguni Shah to make music that put his doubts to rest. Little did she know that it would bring her a Grammy nomination! Khyati Shah caught up with the music sensation as her album makes waves in the US

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alguni Shah faced all the usual immigrant issues when she shifted to the US years ago, from Dahod in Gujarat. Surviving the culture shock, she went on to learn western music while holding on to her Indian music learnings. Her four year old son, Nishaad, was dealing with his own struggles as he noticed how different his American school was, from his Indian home, whether it was the food or the language. When he asked his mother

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why their food was yellow or why it was so spicy, she thought of telling him in the best way she knew – through songs.

This was the beginning of Falguni’s Grammy nominated album, Falu’s Bazaar.

“My dream is to have him draw the best from both cultures and I have tried to teach him this through my Album, in a funny and elevating way,” says Falu, who is

trained in Indian classical music too. Apart from helping Nishad connect with his roots, Falguni also wanted to create some age-appropriate songs for him and this album aims to fulfil that dream too.

Falguni’s musical career took turn after she tied the knot with Gaurav Shah of the band, Karyshma. In 2007, she forayed into the music world with her maiden venture ‘Falu’ followed by ‘Foras Road’ in 2013, which was named after the red-light district of Mumbai. The latter with its Indie tunes was also shortlisted for the Grammy Award. During her career she has collaborated with many artists including Philip Glass, A.R. Rahman and Danny Blume. A Grammy award winner himself, Blume says, “Falu’s Bazaar is a revelation.”

Though the album is meant for children, it is music with all its complexities, “I don’t believe in dumbing down music or lyrics for children, to make it easily understood,” reveals Falguni, as she tells us more about herself: Your album, ‘Falu’s Bazaar’ was nominated for the Grammy’s this year in the category of Children’s Music. Tell us a bit about your musical journey.

I remember learning music from the time I was three years old. From a little girl born and raised in India to being nominated for a Grammy here in the US, it has been a long and beautiful road with its own ups and downs. With both, my mom and grandma being singers, music was in my breath from the very beginning.

Smt. Kaumudi Munshi was my first guru, followed by Uday Mazumdar, Ustad Sultan Khan and Smt. Kishori Amonkar. There were times during my childhood when I practiced for 16 hours a day! I drowned myself in learning all forms of Indian music - classical, folk and semi-classical. I learnt Western music when I came to NYC, specifically the craft of song writing, piano and guitar after which I formed my band called ‘Falu’.

We released three albums, Falu, Foras Road, and Falu’s Bazaar – the last is the album nominated for the Grammy!

What inspires the musician in you?

I get inspired by a lot of things, but nature, children, birds, water and trees always inspire me to write music.

“From a little girl born and raised in India to being nominated for a Grammy here in the US, it has been a long and beautiful road with its own ups and downs.”

My family totally supports me, for which I will always be grateful.

As an Indian, how do you feel on being nominated for the most famous global award in your field?

I am so proud to be an Indian. I think India has offered me so much wisdom and knowledge. India has a rich musical heritage and culture and I feel tremendously grateful that I am able to draw from all these elements and combine it with my learnings in America. The music world is highly competitive in US and to make a name is not just a result of dreaming but draining oneself - day-in and day-out. I have faced rejection many a time, both in US and India, but I looked at it as a ‘learning curve’ each time. In my current phase of life, I can rejoice with my family, whose contribution to my journey is second to none”.

Today, I’m tremendously honoured and humbled by this nomination.

How do you manage the multi-roles of a wife, mother, music teacher and a professional artist?

Striking a balance between all my responsibilities is super hard and something I am learning every day. As

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“Be authentic and never give up. �

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a wife, I aspire to be a best friend and a ‘rock’ for my husband. It becomes challenging when career demands come into play.

Being a teacher is always an exercise in putting yourself in the other person’s shoes - I have to fully tune into a students’ level, assess his/her needs and how he/she would benefit from what I am teaching.

As a professional artist the pressure is to make sure I inspire people around me and that I’m in sync with people I create music with. I also feel that the music we make always needs to be bigger than one’s self, and that is not always easy. As for the challenges of being a mother, my nature is to give a hundred percent of myself to my child, and I’m mostly falling short of that. But, I also realize that it’s just as powerful for my son to see his mother working hard to fulfil her dreams, and that being a role model is as equally important as the time we do get, to spend together.

What are your future plans?

I plan to turn my music into a tool that can support causes related to social justice. I’m already doing something like that at Carnegie Hall where we work

with inmates in maximum security prisons and help them develop alternate ways to deal with anger or violence - songwriting has proved to be an incredible outlet for them. We have also collaborated and created custom-written lullabies with female inmates to help create stronger bonds between them and their children.

Your favourite things to do apart from music?

Playing with my son, Nishad, in the park, watching movies, going out on long drives and listening to music in my car, reading, spending time with nature and trees and most importantly - with my family.

Your message for other artists?

Be authentic and never give up. n

(Khyati Shah is our special correspondent based in Atlanta, US. You can reach her at khyatishah88@ gmail.com, for any US-specific query, suggestion or contribution)

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interview

King of Rap Nivedita Jayaram Pawar in conversation with the prolific and talented ‘Baadshah’ Rapper Baadshah who has been churning out party anthems with catchy lyrics is also a sharp businessman, building his larger-than-life stage persona into a brand that now extends to apparel, content production, hospitality and TV. In a candid interview, the ‘hit machine’ reveals his creative process, the pressures of creating hit after hit, and why he’s called ‘Baadshah’.

What’s your current state of mind?

Chaotic and excited. There is so much to do and so little time.

That’s nice. Tell us how and when did Aditya Prateek Singh Sisodia become Baadshah?

I am a big SRK fan, and around the time when I was looking for a stage name for myself, the movie ‘Baadshah’ had released. I thought why not take this name.

But, you were studying to become a civil engineer. How did music happen?

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exposed to western rappers midway through school and then experienced UK’s desi culture which was really amazing. Hearing western beats come together with folk sounds was incredible. It was a mix of all these experiences that made me take music-making seriously.

Then what made you take a detour towards Civil Engineering?

It was my parents’ wish that I become a civil engineer.

So I did. I was always a musician who also happens to be a civil engineer. Initially it was tough explaining to my parents that I wanted to be a rapper. They didn’t even understand what a rapper meant. So I showed them a video worth 50 cents. That backfired (laughs). But, when they saw that I could make a living with rapping they came around. The turning point was when I came home in a BMW, bought with my hard earned money.

No party or club night is complete without Saturday Saturday, DJ Wale Babu, Kar Gayee Chul or Abhi Toh Party Shuru Hui Hai. How do you create such hits?

It’s really just a moment when you crack that hook or

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beat that transforms a song. My song making process is very non-technical. I constantly keep my ears open to general conversations to crack wordplay for my lyrics. I record beats that come to me on my phone. And then I go on to my portable workstation and put it all together. Most importantly I treat myself as an audience and give an objective hearing to the song.

What’s your formula for a hit song?

And how do you know that you are on to creating one?

People are so depressed these days that they are always complaining and whining. I just want to give them those three minutes of joy when they can dance and forget everything else. When I finish composing a song, I have a bunch of people I play it for. These include my sister, close friends and my cousins. They are my harshest critics and my first audience.

How do you deal with the pressure of creating hit after hit?

It is a huge pressure when I sit on my system to make the song. But it doesn’t matter after a point.

I just end up making what I want to. Sometimes it works, sometimes it just ends up in the recycle bin.

Describe the current music scene?

Where is it headed?

It is amazingly dynamic. The digital revolution is changing the way we consume music. Platforms like OTT (content providers that distribute streaming media as a standalone product directly to viewers over the Internet) are making people much more aware and open to new sounds.

Music makers are going out of their comfort zones to generate new sounds. So these are definitely interesting times for music.

“It is a huge pressure when I sit on my system to make the song. But it doesn’t matter after a point. I just end up making what I want to. Sometimes it works, sometimes it just ends up in the recycle bin.”

You have also launched your own Streetwear fashion brand called Badfit? Who inspires your personal sense of style?

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access to this through Badfit. My brand Badfit stands for the philosophy that it’s all right to not fit in all the time.

It’s about standing out in the crowd and making your own mark. For years I was told that Rap is not the thing

to do and I won’t get anywhere with it. Today I stand on top of my game only because I pursued what I wanted to, straight from my heart.

What are your other passions apart from music?

Film-making. My first self-produced Punjabi movie ‘Do Dooni Panj’ just released last month. Also, I have just finished my first ever music based web-content called Lockdown that is out now.

What do you think of the current trend of ‘diss-tapes’ (referring to the verbal war between Eminem and Machine Gun Kelly) That’s just how the hip-hop industry works in the West. The dynamics work very differently there and I wouldn’t comment on it. It’s definitely bringing out a lot of music, though.

Rappers are hardly accorded the respect they deserve. Does that bother you?

No. I think the scenario has changed completely. Rap has become a very integral part of the mainstream Indian music industry. Both the industry and audiences have embraced it with a lot of love. It’s just the song writer’s responsibility to keep working on bringing new sounds and evolving, instead of falling into a set-pattern.

You have created record breaking singles with Diljit Dosanjh, Gippy Grewal and Raftaar. Who’s been the most fun to collaborate with?

Sunidhi Ma’am (Sunidhi Chauhan) on the song Aashiq Awaara for my Album O.N.E. It has been an honour to have her on the song and she changed the song around.

Collaborating with Lisa Mishra on the song Right Up There was a great experience too. She is a mad and talented artist and definitely one to watch out for. Also, Aastha Gill has always been my main man – I know when I get into the studio with her, we are making a super hit.

Lastly can you tell us what ‘Kar gayee chull’ means?

(Laughs) ‘Chull’ is a very Delhi-NCR kind of word. It means to tease. n

The things I never leave home without.

My phone and perfume.

Confessions of a foodie I am a huge foodie. I like everything that’s made with love, but I can never resist desserts.

On my playlist right now Travis Scott. Also I can never get enough of 90’s retro Bollywood.

A musician I’d love to collaborate with Kumar Sanu. I love the whole era of his music.

Favorite piece of clothing Plain black t-shirts.

Most embarrassing moment I was recently on #NoFilter with Neha Dhupia.

And every Rap that she asked me to do, I forgot.

My music icons Jay Z, Gurdas Maan and Kumar Sanu.

The biggest luxury for me Time spent with my family.

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Pastel

Trends Pastels are the colours of this season

CHIFFON

Off-white volume dress Rs. 7,500

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Sleeveless midi-jacket with cut-outs Rs. 5,500

BROCADE SILK

Baby blue, sleeveless midi jacket with glass baguette tassels Rs. 5,500

CHANDERI SILK

Powder blue shirt with funnel cuffs Rs. 3,500

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RAW SILK

Chalk blue bomber blouse with pearls, glass beads and long baguettes Rs. 9,500

NEOPRENE

White high-waist trousers Rs. 4,800

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RAW SILK

Bustier with a cluster of pearls, cut danas and crystals, with a tasseled shoulder strap RS. 13,500

ORGANZA, GEORGETTE

Sage lehenga with pleated georgette inserts and hand cut organza flowers RS. 16,500

ORGANZA

Lavender one shoulder blouse Rs. 5,250

NET

Lavender and pearl lehenga Rs. 14,500

ORGANZA

Lavender scalloped dupatta with silver beaded work Rs. 9,500

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RAW SILK

Rose window lehenga - mother of pearls, glass cut danas, long glass baguettes, mircro pearls and silk threadwork Rs. 35,500 White fish scale bustier Rs. 8,500 Baby blue bomber jacket blouse with feathers Rs. 9,500

CHANDERI SILK Sage Sari trousers Rs. 12,500

RAW SILK

Pearl and Swarovski crystal clustered bustier Rs. 15,500

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RAW SILK

Lavender half sleeve blouse with concentrated pearl work Rs. 15,500

RAW SILK

Panelled lehenga with pearls Rs. 14,500

CHIFFON

Blush pink duapatta with cut danas, pearls and Swarovski crystals Rs. 9,500

See the whole collection at www.uamumbai.com

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Feature

Jawa Returns As the iconic Jawa that held an entire generation in sway returns to Indian roads, Adil Marawala is itching to saddle up

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o some, love walks into their life on two legs. And then there are those for whom love rides in on chrome spoked wheels with a familiar ‘firing’ of twin exhaust pipes. Love can play elusive games, as it did with us - kids in the 80’s. One of our earliest infatuations, apart from the kindergarten schoolteacher, were our ‘rebel’ uncles’ bud-budding Jawa and Yezdi motorbikes, which announced themselves from a mile away, turning people’s heads and tuning their ears in rapt attention. It was the first promise we made to ourselves, “This is the first thing I am going to buy from my salary”. Sadly, our muse rode out into oblivion, leaving us to a sedentary 100-cc existence.

But as time ticks into the second decade of the twenty first century, the phoenix rises from its ashes, kindles the embers of desire back in our hearts and fills our ears with the sweet rhythm of a raw, yet refined twin spark engine once again.

Yes, the Jawa is back, old folks and new! And it’s here to woo us in two enticing avatars. 2019 will see two models of Jawa motorcycles hit the road, gunning heavy on the nostalgia of retro style meeting the flare of future biking.

Fitted with all the right bells and whistles from the iconic 50’s motor craft, the new Jawas will make you relive treasured memories and tease you to kick-start more new ones.

The Jawa-Jawa, or the original Jawa, seems to be just what you have dreamed of. It has all the ruggedness of form, build and looks of the classic Jawa.

Oodles of chrome, an in-yourface ‘Java’ logo resting on the wide curvy fuel tank, a pillion seat as spacious as an Italian sofa, a uni body headlamp with an integrated instrument console and gravel hugging wide tyres – are all ticks in the right boxes to charm the onlooker.

For the connoisseur though, God surely lies in the details. Sitting at the heart of it all is the fabulous,

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The Jawa Forty-Two is the blood brother bathed in a dab of retro pastels, switching the chrome elements with colour tones that reflect the youthful identity of the new age driver.

Lime, Halley’s Teal, Starlight Blue and Galactic Green and is also available in the popular Comet Red and Nebula Blue for the gloss lovers. But trust me on the matte-finish blended with the metal, jet black/chrome of the engine block to give a sure shot ‘wowzer’ of a reaction.

single cylinder four-stroke 300-cc engine, imprinted with the ‘Persian wing’ Jawa motif. The classic European finesse of the engine incorporates a flat torque curve with improved low-ends to enhance the riding experience. The heart beats out its love through the iconic twin-pipe ‘chrome-cigar’ exhausts, turning the Jawa into the ‘rocket-on-the-road’, which is how it’s known.

Jawa has done well to offer both models with similar internal specifications - six speed gearboxes, equal tank capacities and body weights, front ABS disc-rear drum brake combos and same power and torque figures. The silencers inside the exhaust pipes can be adjusted in more than one way, allowing riders to customize the beat to their own tune. Thus, the rider doesn’t feel cheated in terms of engineered offerings and pays only a slight premium for the original Jawa, purely on the visual appeal.

The Jawa Forty-Two is the blood brother bathed in a dab of retro pastels, switching the chrome elements with colour tones that reflect the youthful identity of the new age driver. Bearing virtually the same platform, the Forty-Two is the fusion version looking to be a hit with first time Jawaholics. This beast has some refined Italian engineering and modern touches to deliver smooth acceleration, tight breaking and a peppy punch to urban riding.

Apart from the gloss of chrome, the Forty-Two has a different face, with the full moon headlamp clamped to the front forks and a meatier instrument console piggy-backing to the right of it. The livery is laced with first of its kind matte body colours like Lumos

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If first impressions are to be believed, the level of chrome, design details, metal, brake wiring and accessories come much better than its ’Royal’ rival in the retro-riding segment – whose customers continuously crib about leaking oil, burnt brake wires, chipped chrome and rusting within the first six months of ownership.

The Jawa might just be the reason for you to re-invest in a helmet and ride out into the weekend, soaring on the wings of nostalgia. Worth the wait? Why not!

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beauty

Cosmetology, beauty

and the modern woman

Feelings caught up with Arizona based cosmetologist, Amy Prajapati, to know more about the evolving concept and craft of looking beautiful

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he many procedures available to enhance one’s looks coupled with undue pressure from social media to appear well-turned out at all times, has led to a boom in the cosmetology industry. Many have carved careers for themselves from this everincreasing need to look perfect. It’s important however to remember where to draw the line. “Inner wellbeing comes first, even as outer beauty may help one to feel confident about oneself”, says Amy Prajapati.

Excerpts from the chat: How do you define Cosmetology and how did you get drawn to it?

Whether a man or a woman, we all want to look good.

Cosmetology includes hair cutting, make-up, manicure, pedicure, dressing up and so on. I picked it up by accident when I grew inquisitive while waiting and watching at a salon. I trained in hair- cutting initially, in Arizona, where I am based. I also did a one year course in Cosmetology in US, which takes 1600 hours to complete.

Cosmetology is now very popular in India. What are your observations on Indian beauty? Does Cosmetology help women to feel ‘empowered’?

India is a huge country and a woman has a special place in Indian culture. We now see so many confident women with a ‘can do’ attitude in most aspects of life.

Beauty doesn’t just mean facials etc. Real beauty comes from feeling confident, regardless of place, culture and

condition. Cosmetology has added a new dimension to a woman’s personality, so yes, in a way it has contributed to women feeling more confident about themselves.

The quality of products is very important in your line of business.

What are the testing parameters?

Customers can have allergy issues, so we prefer to do a proper ‘patch’ test and wait for a few hours to see how it reacts. Some customers would rather skip this procedure but then they must fill a form, to avoid any legal hassles later.

Aishwarya Rai Bachchan once said ‘soul beauty’ is what matters. What is your take?

Both beauty and brains are an integral part of our personality. Ms. Rai is right in giving importance to inner beauty, for we come in all shapes, sizes and colours - and must love ourselves for what we are.

What is your concept about natural beauty? Does too much focus on outer beauty lead to stress?

Anything in excess is not good and it’s the same with cosmetic beauty. Too much stress on personal beauty often leads to a personality disorder. We do counsel such customers but if the issue is out of our reach, we ask them to consult a psychologist. Feeling good from within is more significant. A healthy diet, enough sleep, anger management and clarity of thoughts and action is more important than outer procedures. External beauty helps to a certain extent, but inner beauty amplifies it. A ‘hearty laugh’ for example radiates on the face, like no make-up can. n

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BUSINESS WISE

The Recipe For A Dish

CALLED SUCCESS Successful restaurateur-duo Sundar & Deepti Sarma share their experience in the F&B space, for all who harbour dreams of opening their own cafe someday

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f the many things he is famous for, Marketing Guru Philip Kotler is perhaps best known for the 4 Ps of Marketing that he popularized. When we started out, we had ample time and reason to live these 4 P’s, even if we added a couple of our own Ps to the proverbial batter.

PRODUCT + POSITIONING - Our single-minded objective of wanting to serve great food and bring a smile to people translated into this idea of creating a restaurant that would serve authentic and homely South Indian food in Gujarat.

It had a nice ring to it especially when it was going to be helmed by a ‘Mehta’ raised in namma Coimbatore supported by an ‘Iyer’ bred in aapdu Vadodara. So, in idlis and dosas, we found our daily bread. Part of the dream was to also fill the gap between the localised (Read: sweet-ish) South Indian fare available and the otherwise fresh, flavoursome and diverse spread that we knew the states down south actually offered.

So, involving the considerable talents of homemakers and a professional chef, a menu with a fair representation of the dishes from all South Indian states was finally ready to be presented to the city of Vadodara.

PLACE / PACKAGING - The big question was ‘Location’. When we chose the little place that gave wings to our dreams initially, we ensured that we tick the right boxes in terms of accessibility from the city centre, which included proximity to both residential and commercial premises. This ensured footfalls.

Then we also had to ensure that they not only keep coming back but also spread the word to others. It was nerve wracking for us once, to see six central excise officials make their way to our little eatery in the second month of our existence, only to realise that ours was a preferred option for them, given the proximity to their office!

If there is one thing that we would have changed about the place, it would be the amount of parking space around it. We have vowed to ourselves that we will correct this, if we ever look for a new location in the future.

Next came the design of the restaurant itself. The paltry funds we had at our disposal simplified things for us. Right away, we knew what we could not be.

So, we became the best we could be - a simple yet warm, little eatery which focused entirely on the food offering, by keeping it authentic, tasty, and hygienic.

It was only a matter of time before we moved to a bigger place with an additional floor, put a central kitchen in place and slowly, as we became more sure of ourselves, started associating with like-minded individuals in setting up franchisees. It is then we realized the importance of scale when it comes to the money-making abilities of a business.

PEOPLE - While navigating through the maze i.e. running a successful business, we used our professional training in Human Resources to hiring the right kind of people. Be it hiring a chef in our initial days or creating an SOP to weather staff attrition as in the case of our chef parting ways with us; be it meeting the various requirements of the

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Department of Labour or creating a fair wage system – at each step our professional training held us in good stead. That, and the ability of our people to take charge. When our chef left us, it was one of us, who self-trained as a chef and put in measures to ensure consistency in our processes and our product. It taught us a critical lesson – The importance of having a succession plan and creating dispensability.

While it took us close to eight months and some brickbats to get back to where we were in terms of taste and consistency, we came back with a bang and went on to win the RED FM Thappa for the best South Indian restaurant in town!

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PERSONAL – As people who visit South India often, we were aware of the lack of service orientation in restaurants and tiffin rooms there. This made us all the more determined to never underestimate its essence in building sustainable and honest business relations with our patrons and vendors.

Our personal involvement in back-end processes, choosing quality ingredients even if it meant slightly decreased margins to begin with, personally explaining the menu, taking orders, getting food on the table and correcting honest mistakes in all humility, paved the way for a magical bonding with our patrons. Our patrons spoke to us like this was their venture and not ours. They gave us feedback to improve because they knew we were listening, and

As more and more of our patrons spoke kindly to us, it allowed us time to perfect our offering, and it didn’t end there. They were also talking about us to their friends, which is why we were seeing a steady rise in walk-in customers. Our tiny dot was becoming a circle.

Given the fact that we had invested all our savings (our provident fund and gratuity…Yes, you read that right) and some loans from near and dear ones into starting our business, we didn’t have money to spend on advertising. But by focussing on our product, we ensured positive word-of-mouth publicity, which was far more priceless.

Ours was always a small place with a big heart, but had it not been for the bigger heart of the people of the city, we might have not got to where we are.

PASSION - There comes a time in our professional lives when politics takes precedence over policies, and the valued matter more than the values. It was the tenth year of the twenty first century when that happened to us. Thankfully, we had a dream – of our own restaurant - and that dream was all the fuel we needed to walk away from it all. It was when we walked out and took stock of all the resources we had at our disposal to get started that we learnt our first lesson – Resist the urge to get funded when all you have is a dream and a plan to achieve it, for you never know how big it may actually get.

“Our patrons spoke to us like this was their venture and not ours. They gave us feedback to improve because they knew we were listening, and because they wanted us to be better so they could keep coming back”. because they wanted us to be better so they could keep coming back. We realised the importance of humility, honesty and thoroughness in all of this.

If we would have traded half the investment required to set up our first restaurant for a corresponding stake in the venture, the investor would have grown richer by five times in eight years, given the value of the business today. Thankfully for us, we had the passion to make it by ourselves. Pooling our resources and loans from friends and family, we started out and kept it real. Without the pressure of an investor breathing down our necks and asking for his returns, we could focus on growth that was measured and steady. It also made us conscious of the one macro goal that any business should be built upon - make money and to do it the sustainable way. n (Sundar and Deepti, husband-wife duo, are the founders of an enormously successful south-Indian restaurant chain, in Vadodara)

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“I always like to add my own twist to the recipe.”

Celebrity chef Rakhee Vaswani talks to Abid Mohamed of her passion for food and her professional journey up until now

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culinary expert, food consultant, teacher, author, cooking show host and entrepreneur, Rakhi Vaswani is all of these, but above all, she’s a food lover at heart. Certified by the prestigious Le Cordon Bleu at Gordon Ramsey’s Tante Marie in London, Rakhee is a natural with textures and flavours. She runs the Palate Culinary Studio in Mumbai, where she trains budding chefs, amateurs and food enthusiasts.

A quick chat with her to find out more...

As a child were you fussy about food?

Yes I was. I was a picky eater in those times. I avoided everything other than Dal-Chawal.

When did you decide to become a chef?

At the age of 11, I had already started cooking and really enjoyed it. And then while cooking I always kept asking myself that, “Why don’t I become a chef? Cooking is my passion, so why not thrive in it?” I guess it came a natural transition of those thoughts.

What was your family’s reaction to your

wanting to be a chef?

They were very supportive of my decision. I had taken some time off from cooking because I got busy with raising a family. Then after a few years my children came up to me and said, ‘’Mom, why don’t you start cooking again?’’, because all their friends and friends’ mothers really liked whatever they had tasted of my cooking. So, with their encouragement, I started again.

Was there anything there you thought you wanted to do before cooking?

Well, I did think of becoming a make-up artist, as I’m very fond of make-up. Also I loved dancing. I never missed a chance where I could dance. I kept my options open for choreography as well. But in the end it had to be cooking for me.

What is the one quality you wish you had?

One talent I’d like to possess is to be calm and composed every time. I am the exact opposite. When I work, I thrive under pressure and cannot keep calm until the work is done. So being calm is one quality I’d like to possess.

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How would you describe your style of cooking?

I always like to add my own twist to the recipe, so I would say fusion is my forte.

Do you have a signature dish or favourite dish you enjoy cooking?

I enjoy every dish I cook, of course! But, my signature dish would be Baked Boondi Cheesecake, which is a fusion dessert I recently introduced in my restaurant ‘Not so Desi’ in Indore. I also enjoy cooking the traditional Sindhi Koki, an all-time favourite.

What trends do you see in food industry today, and which are you most excited by?

Trends like gluten-free foods, hyperlocal, no-waste cooking, are all on the rise but I’m most excited about regional food, which will become a fad very soon. anything that you don’t like to eat?

Yes, I cannot stand egg whites and any dish made out of it. This one item is going to stay in my fussy-list forever.

“Street food cravings are hard to resist. My favourite street food item is Pani Puri and Pav Bhaji. I can never stop eating these.”

Where did you get your training as a chef?

I have trained at Tante Marie - A Gordon Ramsay Institute with a Cordon Le Blue certificate. After that I trained at the AshBurton cookery school in advanced culinary skills. For Bakery, I have professionally trained at Cordon Le Bleu, London. Then I learned advanced Patisserie at Macaron Pastry training center with French pastry-chef, Eric Perez.

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Any projects of yours that you would like to tell us about?

We’ve had many projects this year. We launched a fusion restaurant ‘Not so Desi’ in Indore along with Chef Mitesh. We also started an advanced level diploma program in culinary skills at my academy. Recently in Indore we launched a rooftop lounge called 578 Skybar.

And in January we are going to begin an eggless baking course at the academy, something I’m very excited about.

Is there another chef you most admire?

Well, internationally, I admire Gordon Ramsay, Curtis Stone and Nigella Lawson. These chefs motivate me every day to thrive better.

What’s your favourite street food?

Street food cravings are hard to resist. My favourites are Pani-Puri and Pav Bhaji. I can never stop eating these.

What is your favourite food city?

I believe Lucknow is a dream city for food lovers, though I still have to visit it; it’s in my bucket list. n

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Tech talk HEALTH&FITNESS

Saanchi Nayak, Founder, Superfood Café

Eat Smart, Breathe Easy Saanchi Nayak says it is imperative to focus on a nutritious diet if we must keep our lungs healthy

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he air quality in India, especially in certain parts, has deteriorated to fatal levels in recent times. The fact that 11 of the 12 most polluted cities in the world are in India, makes it all the more critical and reason enough to take matters into our own hands. One such easy way is to include natural antioxidants and nutrients in our diets to help our bodies deal with the pollution-onslaught from within. When we inhale, elements like ozone, nitrogen dioxide, fine particulate matter, and diesel exhaust fumes are some of the nasties enter our lungs, especially during winter when the air is dense. The protective antioxidants present in the lining of our lungs spring into action and battle the pollutants to the best of their abilities but in their absence, the toxic particles attack the immune cells causing inflammation and creating free radicals. So upping the intake of antioxidant-rich food acts as an arsenal not only against infection and disease but also air pollution.

Here’s what you can eat to breathe easy: Vitamin C – The most potent antioxidant for our body is a water-soluble vitamin with the ability to ruthlessly scavenge toxins. It must be incorporated in our daily diets to maintain high levels in the lungs. Adults require 40 mg of the vitamin each day. In addition, the vitamin also assists in the regeneration of Vitamin E. Coriander leaves

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(dhania), Amaranth leaves (chaulai ka saag), drumsticks, parsley, cabbage, and turnip greens are among the vitamin C rich vegetables that we must munch on, on a daily basis. Remember to not over-cook these though.

Amla and Guava are among the vitamin-C rich fruits apart from citrus fruits. Including the juice of two lemons in our diet can do wonders.

Vitamin E – This vitamin acts as the first line of defence and is hence a pivotal component of the antioxidant arsenal. It is fat soluble and protects human tissues. Vitamin E usually originates from plant-based cooking oils like rice bran oil. Other oils include canola, peanut, and olive. In addition, seeds and nuts comprise potent fat calories as well. Hence, daily consumption of an ounce of almonds and sunflower seeds is advisable. Fishlovers can pounce on salmon, roe and eel which can be complemented with vitamin-C rich herbs and spices like chilli powder, paprika, cloves, oregano, basil and parsley. Since most of these ingredients are consumed it small quantities, adding them into daily recipes can help meet the total requirement, while offering both variety and taste.

Omega-3 fats – These fats can counter the detrimental effects air pollution has on the heart and lipid profile. The heart-friendly oils can be

obtained from nuts and seeds like walnuts, chia seeds, and flax seeds. You can eat them plain as a mid-meal snack or make it more interesting by blending into yoghurts, smoothies and even cakes and desserts. The more common options include methi seeds, mustard seeds, green leafy vegetables, kala chana, rajma and bajra.

Ayurvedic solutions – Ayurveda has traditionally suggested several herbs and spices to cure common respiratory ailments and these can be used to combat air-pollution today. For instance, turmeric has traditionally been a popular antioxidant that helps protect the lungs from the toxicity of pollutants. It can also be mixed with ghee to cure coughs and aid asthmatic patients.

For an asthmatic attack, turmeric mixed with jaggery and butter is recommended to relieve

symptoms. Jaggery blended with onion juice is also useful for curing both wet and dry coughs as it creates an expectorant effect.

We are living in an environment where individuals with no history of any respiratory diseases are being admitted to hospitals. To prevent such harm to ourselves, it seems best to take remedial action through cures and antidotes found in nature and our kitchens. Complement these with yoga and pranayam and get adequate rest to build your immunity. For, a healthy outside starts from the inside! n

(Saanchi Nayak is a celebrity nutritionist who primarily specializes in clinical nutrition for sports people and detoxification.)

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Wild as can be

In Zimbabwe you are spoilt for choice - spot the Big Five (Leopard, Lion, Rhino, Elephant and Buffalo) in its national parks, discover world heritage sites or stand in awe of one of the natural wonders of the world, the Victoria Falls. Nivedita Jayaram Pawar finds Zimbabwe not just safe but also one of the friendliest and most spectacular countries on the African continent

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argely undiscovered, unspoilt and unique, Zimbabwe is not your typical tourist destination. It offers many surprises like the blooming “jungle” of Jacaranda trees - my first sight at Harare! With Elephants crossing the road, Flycatchers feeding their young, Hippos basking in rivers, Fish Eagles flying overhead and herds of Impala grazing alongside the road - it certainly didn’t take long for me to begin enjoying Zimbabwe.

This iconic destination has also earned its reputation as the adrenalin capital of Africa; it has one of the

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highest and definitely the most spectacular bungee jumps in the world along with a long list of other activities like abseiling, bridge-swinging, tandem parachuting and white-water rafting. But if your idea of fun doesn’t involve seeing your life flash before your eyes, then there are a plethora of other unique sights and activities which are just as exciting but with a slightly lower scream factor!

Hwange National Park If you are done with the traditional safari circuit and are yearning for new vistas, Hwange (pronounced

wildebeest and warthogs waiting to be discovered.

But the best experience here is cycling and walking in the bush, tracking elephants and then listening to them trumpeting in the dark, as you sleep under the stars.

Rhino-spotting in Matobo National Park Safari Matobo means ‘bald heads’ in the local Ndebele language and it’s easy to see why this UNESCO World Heritage Site is so called. This place is famous for the numerous bald boulders that rest on top of each other. Much like Devils Marbles in Australia, these striking geological formations seem to defy gravity!

Also among these boulders is the grave of English colonialist, Cecil Rhodes, as well as 3000 examples of Khoi rock art and even earlier Stone Age settlements.

The rainbow lizards scattered over the rocks are both fascinating and intriguing. Matobo is also a great destination for rhino spotting. The walking safaris bring you within 10-20 meters of one of the rarest animals on earth.. No binoculars or zoom lenses needed! ‘wang-gee’) could be the answer with acres of teeming wilderness, Teak woodlands, Mopani forests and palm-dotted plains virtually all to yourself!

Elephants are littered all across the sun-washed grasslands of Hwange and are the easiest to spot at daytime game drives. At night, the lions step out. We spotted at least three of them doing what they do best - bonding, licking and leaning on each other and rolling on their backs, paws in the air, with seemingly not a worry in the world. The list is long with zebras, baboons, giraffe, buffalo, kudu, waterbucks, impalas,

The magnificent Victoria Falls Few sights in the world can compete with Victoria Falls in sheer visual drama. The mighty Zambezi River crashing over a basalt-rock ledge, 354 feet down into a powerful whirlpool is a sight that will be etched in my memory forever. Traditionally known as Mosi-oa-Tunya (which means ‘The Smoke that Thunders’), the falling water’s impressive roar can sometimes be heard from 40 kilometres away. A dazzling cloud of mist floats high above the Falls, and you'll need to hire a raincoat and umbrella or you will

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get soaked! The rainbows in the sunshine and getting wet on a sunny day are just some of the paradoxical experiences of visiting Vic falls.

Zimbabwe and Zambia have a healthy rivalry about which ‘side’ is better to see the Falls; I’ll leave it to you to make up your own mind, but I will add my own bit which is that two-thirds of the Falls are in Zimbabwe, meaning it has the most viewing points. My favourite

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spot is the Cataract View which not just comes with a dramatic view of the falls but is often accompanied by a rainbow prism effect. The Danger Point is another stunning view where a sheer, unfenced 100m drop-off will rattle your nerves. While you’re here, do explore the Victoria Falls Town - a classic ‘tourist town’ with restaurants, bars and backpackers. For souvenirs, pick up a couple of iconic soapstone sculptures.

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Zimbabwe currently uses the US Dollar as its currency.

English, the country's official language, is widely spoken.

Include a warm jacket or fleece in your suitcase for evening game drives as well as a pair of comfortable walking shoes.

May to October is the best time to visit Zimbabwe for gameviewing, although note that September and October are extremely hot and dry months.

Taxis are safe and reliable and can be booked through your hotel front desk. Most are metered.

Cruise on Zambezi river Watching the sun go down over the Zambezi River while on a two-hour evening cruise is a magnificent and extremely popular way to experience the mighty river that snakes its way through six different countries en route to the Indian Ocean. Take a seat on the upper deck and settle back with a chilled drink in one hand and binoculars in the other. There is plenty of wildlife floating around - Hippos wallowing in the shallows, herds of elephants crossing the river and crocodiles snaking along the water’s edge. The stunning sunset overpowers everything though!

The Ruined City of Great Zimbabwe Alongside Zimbabwe’s rich wildlife is an equally rich historical culture, epitomised by its greatest

architectural treasure - The ruined city of Great Zimbabwe in Masvingo. This UNESCO World Heritage Site, after which the nation was named, was the royal capital of the Kingdom of Zimbabwe between the thirteenth and fifteenth centuries. Covering an area of nearly 2000 acres, it offers photography opportunities that could fill a whole memory card, particularly its lofty monolithic acropolis which can be seen for miles, and the elliptical Great Enclosure with its unique conical tower monument. You can spend a whole day wandering amid its ruins, climbing the acropolis and hanging out with the resident baboons. n

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fortune teller

Bejan Daruwalla is a well- known Astrologer and Author

predictions for february 2019

Know what the stars have in store for you from none other than Bejan Daruwalla

Aries (21st March to 20th April) Employees may see a change in their position or responsibilities while some will have differences with their seniors. Those job-hunting may find something but with some compromise regarding location or salary. Pimples/eye inflammation may bother you. You’ll want to earn as much money as possible, and will work really hard but may be disappointed. Family members may behave stubbornly.

Favourable time to buy an office, shop, or car.

Taurus (21st April to 21st May): Health will be great, though over-thinking will probably cause mental fatigue in the first week. It’s a great time in your career, though workload will increase. Foreign trips will fructify and those into import/ export will have a favourable

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week. Government employees will face struggle. Your money, if stuck somewhere, will come back. It would be best to control your anger mid-month onwards.

Children’s issues will get resolved.

Gemini (22nd May to 21st June): Professionally, you’ll be able to work hard, your efforts will clearly show and you’ll be rewarded. If you are planning to propose, you should take extra care during the first and the third weeks. Your old relationship may revive again this month. Be cautious about your eating habits. You will be able to move ahead in matters related to finance. Any family issues will get resolved and your children may feel great respect for you.

Cancer (22nd June to 22nd July): The month will prove progressive, professionally. Employees will have full support of seniors. There

is a good possibility of going on a foreign trip as well. A partnershipbusiness may incur losses.

The first twenty days may prove negative for your health. Ancestral property issues may bring disappointment. Students will easily focus on studies during the first fifteen days of the month.

Those wanting to study abroad may get their visa.

Leo (23rd July to 22nd August): For the first half, your health will not support you, lowering your productivity. The rest of the month will be positive though and your willpower and self-esteem will also get a boost.

You may participate in a physical competition and even win. The second and the fourth weeks may prove great at work. Your income will increase, but you may feel anxious regarding family issues.

Students will be able to get great

results during the first nine days of this month.

Virgo (23rd August to 22nd September): The second and fourth week are great careerwise - you may get promoted! Avoid switching your job now. The first nine days of February are positive for your business and health but later you may have to deal with mental stress and other health issues. There are chances of a family get-together where you may discuss important matters. Your children may not listen to you.

Married couples wanting to start a family may be disappointed.

Libra (23rd September to 22nd October): Attraction to the opposite sex and even spending money on them is indicated. Your desire for luxury may get stronger. You may meet old relatives or friends. You will help needy people and spend time decorating your home. There may be a mournful event during the month . You may benefit from your life partner. Satisfaction with your work and support from your elders is likely. Drive carefully!

People expecting to marry may see progress in the last week.

Be meticulous at work to avoid controversy.

Scorpio (23rd October to 22nd November): There are chances of your current relationship breaking due to ego issues - take care!

There may be benefits from your maternal side. You may feel like adopting an animal.

For employees there may be conflicts with seniors while business people may have to deal with a court case or governmentrelated projects. Though income will be significant, you may incur huge expenses as well, related to religious activities or a marriage.

Sagittarius (23rd November to 21st December): February heralds change. The first week proves financially stable but with some mental stress and familyrelated issues. Your health will be excellent now. Second week will prove best professionally and your married life may also get sweeter.

The third week may prove a little expensive and health may take a toll but will be great for students.

The last week may prove less favourable financially and healthwise, though love-life will be great.

Capricorn (22nd December to 20th January): This month will be unfavourable in terms of physical and mental health. Issues related to eyes, ears, throat and digestion may crop up and work will become less productive. For those wanting to start a business, the first nine days are positive.

Employees may get an increment and promotion, impressing their bosses. The second and the fourth week is good for students’

focusing abilities. Late February spells greater intimacy for couples.

Aquarius (21st January to 18th February): There may be new reasons to be happy, but there will be stress too.

Financial condition will improve and you may even get promoted.

It’s a good time for students, you may accidentally get great opportunities. Family life will be great, and you will be able to tackle petty conflicts well. Some new initiatives in your home and chances of a new individual entering your life are likely. You may arrange an auspicious programme at your place. A spoiled friendship may improve.

Pisces (19th February to 20th March): Health will be fantastic and your productivity will increase. For starting a business, the first eighteen days may not be favourable, while the first nine days of this month may prove great for business owners. You may face a huge loss in the stock market due to wrong calculations and also while selling your real estate urgently. Planning for an auspicious event at your home is indicated. For students, the the second half is definitely better and for romance, the beginning of the month is hopeful. n

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An Inspiring and Honest Memoir Title: Becoming Author: Michelle Obama pages: 448 price: `451 During her whirlwind promotional tour for the book, Michelle was often asked to explain the title of her book.

She explained that silly adults were forever asking children what they wanted to become when they grow up. But growing up is not a finite process. So, ‘Becoming’ is never giving up on the idea that there is more growing up to be done at every stage of life.

The book has caught the imagination of the world. It has been topping best seller lists everywhere. Perhaps it is due to the fact that Michelle has held nothing back. She speaks with refreshing candour about her personal demons. She acknowledges their inability to get pregnant, seeking IVF treatment. She reveals her miscarriage and the heartbreak associated with it.

Many years later she refers to Obama as ‘my best friend, my partner in all things.’ But there was a time when they had to seek marriage counseling as his busy political life impinged on their family life.

Her journey began from the cramped confines of an apartment in the working class ‘ghetto’ of South Side Chicago. Michelle’s father worked his entire life as an operator in a water filtration plant. His stoic acceptance of multiple sclerosis was a precursor to her own ability to deal gracefully with adversity.

Young Michelle shared a room with Craig, her brother, just a couple of years older than her. Tall and gangly he went on to play professional basketball. But it was her mother who played a seminal part in moulding Michelle’s no-nonsense outlook to life. She describes Marian as possessing ‘an unflappable Zen mentality.’

Her philosophy being – ‘Handle it how you think best.’

Unswervingly focused on achievement, she aced her

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way to Princeton, then went on to Harvard Law School and landed a coveted job at a high end law firm in Chicago. It was there that she was asked to mentor an incoming summer associate. She was told he was a black student from Harvard with an odd name! Barack Obama’s humility, willingness to sacrifice his own needs and wants for a bigger purpose won her over.

She describes him as this strange mix of intellectual and athletic, white and black, African and American ‘Refreshing, unconventional, poised and successful.’

They were married in 1992. By now she had realized that she hated law and took on a mentor role at an organization called Public Allies. Its job was to find talented young people, nurture them and give them direction.

In the final section titled, ‘Becoming Us’, Michelle recalls the surreal feeling as the tornado of press, security and staff suddenly surrounds them when Barack wins a bruising election contest against Hillary Clinton.

Their elder daughter, Malia Ann Obama was just ten years old and the younger one, Natasha Marian Obama was just seven. The two were to grow up in the full glare of the media as the Obamas became the first ever black family to occupy the White House.

As the 44th First Lady, Michelle decided that she is not going to be a well dressed ornament who showed up at parties and ribbon cuttings and she did manage to leave a legacy that was purposeful and lasting, from starting the White House kitchen garden to getting 45 million kids to eat healthy meals at school. She emphasized the role of exercise in a program called Let’s Move and raised billions of dollars for girls’ education, because ‘I knew what it was to be marginalized by race and gender.’

The book concludes with the election of Donald Trump to office. She minces no words there as she struggles to understand why America chose a misogynist as their President and rejected an exceptionally qualified female candidate. She considers herself an ordinary person who found herself on an extraordinary journey.

A powerful book by an iconic woman, this is a must read. n Review by Gita Chauhan

BOLD WORDS

#Shock #Sadness #Outrage

As the whole country reels in shock and horror at the lives lost in Pulwama, we, at Feelings, extend heartfelt condolences to their families and the nation for the loss of their brave sons. Long live their sacrifice Narendra Modi @narendramodi Attack on CRPF personnel in Pulwama is despicable.

I strongly condemn this dastardly attack. The sacrifices of our brave security personnel shall not go in vain. The entire nation stands shoulder to shoulder with the families of the brave martyrs. May the injured recover quickly

Ranveer Singh @RanveerOfficial Disgusted at the cowardly terror attack on the #CRPF soldiers in #Pulwama - my sincere condolences to the families of our brave jawans. Saddened. Angry.

Prakash Raj @prakashraaj Shocked, saddened by #PulawamaTerrorAttack.

Let’s stand by the families of our soldiers... pls this is not the time to politicise a tragedy n start a blame game. It is time GOVERNMENT n the CIVIL SOCIETY to be united and assertively find a solution. Jai hind

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Sakshi Malik @SakshiMalik Terribly saddened to hear the news of the #Pulwama attack. My thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their families.

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Nargis @NargisFakhri Saddened by the news of #PulawamaTerrorAttack.

Violence & hate is not the answer. My thoughts and prayers for the martyrs and their families.

Mohanlal @Mohanlal Shocked and saddened by the #Pulwama attack. May god give strength to the grieving families

Baba Sehgal @OnlyBabaSehgal #Pulwama mein jo hua woh nahi hona chahiye tha. All this needs to end. Enough is enough. Imagine the state of the families of the jawans who were martyred today.

Deepest condolences to all of them. Enough of to and fro, WE NEED TO ACT BRO

Randeep Hooda @RandeepHooda What a dark day it has turned out to be ...shocked and saddened... condolences and strength to the families and loved ones of the martyrs #Pulwama

Sadhguru‫‏‬ @SadhguruJV Brave lives of our forces wasted. The source of these dastardly attacks must be dealt with firmly and decisively.

Lack of decisiveness is costing the Nation dear.

-Sg #Pulwama #CRPF #KashmirTerrorAttack #Awantipora