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Holilday Issue
“It’s the most wonderful time of the year!”
Tyler Calkins
The malls are bustling with activity, Christmas lights twinkle through the night, and I love how the cold weather gives rise to so many sexy beards around town (keep them growing, guys!) For some, however, this is quite arguably the worst time of year. It’s a time when old wounds are opened, a time when seeing one’s family might be hard. It can be very lonely for the single guy or gal, as well as a time of year when many go back into the closet. (“He’s just my friend, Mom”). For me, it’s bittersweet. I love the music, the food, the company, but my family still doesn’t fully accept me, which hurts. (They live in Gwinnett, so cut ‘em a little slack.) It’s more than just the feeling of rejection, though — it’s the feeling that no matter what I do, I will never be able to give my family what they want: a straight son. But, I do not give up hope; in fact, it invigorates me. In time, I hope they will come to their senses. This is one reason why I am so excited to hear that the Supreme Court will rule on a landmark case which just might afford us all the rights we deserve. Let’s hope this case is our community’s Brown v. Board of Education. The freedom to marry and conduct our lives in a fashion that all Americans currently enjoy would be the best gift we can get this season because it not only affects us, but generations in the making. Have a wonderful, safe, and fun Holiday Season!!
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Cooking is fun, but when it’s time to party, don’t be the one trapped in the kitchen with the foie gras nibblers you aren’t pulling off very well as the party winds down around you. We’ve put together some easy-peasy recipes that’ll let you get your mingle on while raking in the accolades for the delectable hors-d’oeuvres you so perfectly executed. Even better, the clean-up is easy and the grocery list won’t have you dipping into your 401k and heading to Namibia for exotic ingredients.
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You’ll need: • 1 package of bacon • half cup of soy sauce • 16 ounces of water chestnuts • 3 tablespoons of brown sugar • toothpicks Soak whole water chestnuts in soy sauce at least four hours. In a separate container, soak some toothpicks in water to soften and prevent them from burning when you cook them later. Cut your bacon into half-slices. After four hours, roll the chestnuts in brown sugar and wrap each one with half a slice of bacon, securing the little buggers with a toothpick right down the middle. Place them on an ungreased baking sheet and pop them in the oven at 375 degrees for 12 minutes or until the bacon cooks completely. Suggested dipping sauce: Absolutely nothing. The savory bacon and the snap of the water chestnuts go together like drunk and disorderly.
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RASPBERRY-ALMOND BAKED BRIE
You’ll need: • 1 package of puff pastry sheets • 1 wheel of brie • half cup quality raspberry preserves • half cup slivered almonds • pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar • two tablespoons of melted butter
Brush a casserole dish with a little butter and place half a roll of puff pastry sheets into it. (Note: For a crispier end result, spray each individual sheet with spray butter or brush them with melted butter.) Put the brie wheel directly in the middle. Handwhip the raspberry preserves with a pinch of cinnamon until smooth, then slather over the top of the brie. Sprinkle on some almonds, saving a few for the top. Fold the pastry over the wheel and seal it together by brushing with butter. Put a healthy pinch of cinnamon and brown sugar on the top, then finish with what’s left of the almonds. Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes or until the pastry is golden-brown. Cool before cutting – it’s gooey when warm! You can slice it like tiny pieces of pie or however you prefer.
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Soak the mozzarella balls in the herb-infused olive oil on the counter for at least 20 minutes. Cut the sundried tomatoes into pieces small enough to cover the top of the them. Snip your thoroughly-washed rosemary sprigs about an inch down from the top and strip the bottom half of its “leaves.” Place the tomatoes atop each mozz ball, and then top with an olive ring. Stab the rosemary sprigs through the olive ring until it reaches the plate and it’s game on!
Suggested garnish: Sliced apples. “But I don’t feel like cooking at all this year.” Been there, whined that. The good thing is: everything in this list, so get out your good knives.
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You’ll need: • sizeable chunk of Chipotle and Cranberry Cheddar (it’s at Kroger and is crazy-delicious) • organic honey • toothpicks Cut the cheese (shut up!) into bite-sized pieces and align them around a small bowl of honey and toothpicks. Sounds too simple to make an impact, but seriously: It’s an instant hit.
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y a d i l o H r u o Y s ’ t a Wh ? e l y t S g n i Decorat The OverDecorator Walking into your house is like stepping inside a holiday disco ball. From the basement to the bathrooms you decorate, illuminate, and generally throw up tinsel on every surface available. You get a head start on your holiday décor each year on December 23rd, buying out bargain bins and sale racks through mid-January so as to ensure you’ve got enough garland to decorate the dog. This year, consider getting rid of all that junk before you end up on an episode of “Hoarders.”
The Traditionalist You don’t buy new decorations. Ever. Each ornament, hand-carved nativity figurine, and even your crocheted table spreads are at least 20 years old. With stories, stains, and nicks to prove their age, you have fond memories of each piece. While your romantic look at the holiday season is indeed beautiful, consider freshening up your looks with some new pieces this holiday season.
The Classicist You know what you like, and it isn’t cheap. Think Ralph Lauren. Think NYC. Think – White House … You wouldn’t consider using anything other than real evergreen fir for your garland and wreaths, and perceive people who decorate plastic trees as somehow “beneath you.” You feel secure in the knowledge that you celebrate the holiday season in the only way
that Santa would consider liturgically correct. Take a chance on some fun modern accents this year – and perhaps donate a little money to Trees Atlanta for all the evergreens you’ve killed over the years.
The Modernist Color blocking is your favorite, but red and green are not to be seen. Opting instead for striking combinations of silver, gold, black, and white that mimic the magic of even the most beautiful window displays in New York (you secretly know that Tom Ford would approve). Fortunately for you, nothing serious has to be changed for your New Year’s Eve celebration – and that’s your favorite part of the holiday season, anyways.
The Minimalist You opt out of decorating instead claiming that it’s the sentiment that counts. You justify skipping out on this because it takes away from the time you spend with other people and “it’s about being together, anyways.” Be careful, dear. You might find yourself without wrapping paper on your gifts, if you get any in the first place. Taking part in the fun and hanging a little holly might even get you a kiss. Jump in and give it a shot.
The Grinch You hate the holidays. Were you able you would book a trip to Aruba on November 15th and return on January 3rd, just to be sure you missed every last bit. When holiday décor starts to line the pathways at your local big box stores and all the ads in your favorite magazines have snowflakes, you fight to keep from throwing up. Take an antacid and prepare for yet another holiday season.
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What you think it says: “I’m traditional. Tasteful. Norman Rockwell would have painted my home.”
What you think it says: “I’m free-spirited. I love rainbow, cartoons, and holiday specials.”
What you think it says: “I don’t take this holiday too seriously.”
What others think it says: “I make up for my slutty behavior with classic décor.”
What others think it says: “It looks like Times Square shot a load on your tree.”
What could be said: “You’re an elitist bitch – and your tree matches the one on my popcorn tin.”
What could be said: “Turn off the Bing Crosby special, get rid of the lawn ornaments, and unplug those obnoxious blinking lights.”
What others think it says: “Do you have a dwarf fetish or are you just lazy?” What could be said: “Spending the holidays alone, huh?”
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What you think it says: “I’m enjoying the holidays with my highly-developed sense of irony … and I’m gay.”
What you think it says: “I’m a forward thinking Jew.”
What you think it says: “I don’t need a tree for the holiday, I have the holiday spirit.”
What others think it says: “You’re gay. And you’re just a wee bit tacky.” What could be said: “Your Pepto Bismol-colored tree makes me feel like my egg nog was spiked with acid.”
What others think it says: “Jealous of the goyim, huh?” What could be said: “Even the two Menorahs and Hanukkah gelt don’t make up for the evergreen in the room.”
What others think it says: “That queen hates Christmas. I heard his mom beat him with candy canes and ornaments for opening his presents early.” What could be said: “No tree? No presents.”
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First, place heavy items like your shoes in bags to protect them from scuffing and keep your garments clean. Use shoe trees or tissue paper to protect the shoes, or you can utilize the space inside them to store belts, socks, or accessories. Be sure to distribute the shoes around the edges of the bag to stabilize your luggage and prevent one side from being too heavy. Wear your heaviest shoes to travel and take light sneakers or drivers to provide comfortable alternatives.
After having packed away your shoes around the edges of the bag, place the largest items like your toiletries case (with liquids in a Ziploc bag) in the center of the bag to maintain organization.
If you are carrying ers pack them into a separate adapt or onics electr toiletries case. This provides a means of organizing these items while keeping them in one place. Keep this in the bottom of the bag as well.
Fold, then roll your jeans, T-shirts, and sweaters to prevent wrinkling and place them in the bag next. They can be placed around the other items you have already packed. Roll jeans bottom to top, while it is best to fold shirts and sweaters from the top down.
Items that you may be required to remove for security should be placed near the top (i.e., laptop) in order to provide easy access. If you are packing these separately, then your next step is to place your lightest accessories on top of everything else (i.e., sunglasses, scarves, gloves, etc.) You can also place these in a separate bag to prevent shifting and protect them from damage. Zip to close, and you’re done!
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In order to ensure you don’t forget anything, prepare and lay out all the items you will need on your trip to prevent from having to repack later . Be sure to place heavy objects like your toiletries (with liquids in a Ziploc bag) case at the bottom of the bag – and remember to place them near the wheels of the bag to prevent it being top-heavy. Space around the two rails of the back of the suitcase can be utilized, but it is often forgotten. Place rolled jeans, T-shirts, or sweaters in these areas. As with the duffel, place chargers, electronics, and adapters in their own toiletries case to keep them organized and ensure everything is packed. Place each shoe in its own bag and nestle them atop the rolled garments you packed around the back rails of the bag. This will keep your heaviest items near the wheels of the case and also provide extra support to keep your toiletry case in place. Remember to pack socks, accessories, and belts inside shoes to save space. If packing a second pair of shoes, place them in bags as well and pack them along the rails nearer the top of the bag. If you are taking ties with you, be sure to purchase a tie case to keep them in order and prevent wrinkling.
Let’s face it ... it rolls, it saves effort when carrying heavy items or when going on a long trip, and protects everything with its structural support. Probably the most popular form of luggage in today’s fast-paced world, here is how to pack this staple of contemporary travel. Additional accessories, such as watches, cufflinks, and ties, can be placed inside their own toiletries case as well and packed near the back of the case.
Any books or guides can also be placed along the rails and back of luggage to prevent wrinkling and maximize space. Additional accessories like sunglasses, scarves, and gloves can be placed near the back of the suitcase as well (providing that fragile items like sunglasses are in their cases). Alternatively, you can pack these last, however the soft front side of the luggage may not provide as much protection as you may prefer. Items that you may be required to remove for security should be placed near the top (i.e., laptop) in order to provide for easy access. Finally, shirts can be placed on top of everything else. You can keep them together or place them separately in plastic bags. Be sure to leave your shirt collars unfolded in order to prevent from creating additional creases. The last item you should pack should be your suit. Fold one leg over the bottom of the hanger and bring it to the crotch of the pants, then fold the opposite leg over the first leg. Hang the suit jacket over the hanger and button it up. Place it inside a garment cover and zip it up. Finally, fold it into thirds and place it on top of everything else. Zip it closed, and you’re ready to jet set!
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For those of you who live in houses and apartments that are exposed to the outdoors this is an interesting and beautiful way to decorate your home. For a frozen wreath you can utilize a bundt cake pan and freeze holly, cranberries, and even certain holiday ornaments in water to create a “crystal wreath.” You can also use the Tovolo Ice Sphere Mold that we told you about in our online holiday gift guide to create frozen ornaments to decorate the trees in your yard. The options are endless and the final effect will have your home sparkling. Be sure the temperature is below 32 degrees outside otherwise you’ll end up with a melty mess.
Silver and Gold Never underestimate the power of a clean white spread with accents in silver and gold to add a touch of class and holiday tradition. Of course not all of us have inherited the family heirlooms, so consider finding classy accoutrements and accessories in silver and gold at places like Johnathan Adler or Peridot in West Midtown, DRTC Studio on Juniper and 8th, and Stanton Home Furnishings and Armour & Co in the Virginia Highlands. Whether your style is contemporary or classic, these accents will add some sparkle whether in the form of designer flatware or a beautiful centerpiece.
Marvelous in Monochrome Color blocking at its finest, a monochromatic color scheme utilizing varying shades of the same color creates a dramatic presence in any space and gives a feeling of unity to sometimes disparate or unrelated items. Start by identifying the dominant colors in your space and working them into the ornaments and accent pieces you purchase for the holidays, then decorate your tree, mantlepiece, or focal point with them. Although you are decorating with shades of one color, be sure to include neutral touches (i.e. a blue color scheme with touches of white, a green color scheme with touches of gold, etc).
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The holidays are always an emotional time of year. Whether you have recently lost a loved one, are estranged from your family, or find yourself single at this year – you may be dreading the season and wondering how you will make it through. In order to identify and face the specific concerns you have about the coming holidays ask yourself a few simple questions: 1. What are my plans for the holiday season?
3. What are my plans for Christmas Eve, Day, and
a particular loved one, how do I feel about it? (If it is the second or more, ask whether you still have some residual concerns or feelings about it and address them.)
4. If I could do anything I wanted, what would I plan to do during these dates?
2. If this is the first Christmas I’ll be spending without
New Year’s?
5. Do I find that my energy is being spent trying
7. What have I done or planned for myself during this time? Am I getting enough rest? Am I sleeping, eating, socializing, and exercising enough? Do I feel selfish or guilty because I prefer to be alone?
6. Do I dread going to places where people are
8. Do I find myself wondering how long this will last? Do I have a close friend with whom I can discuss these issues without fear or reprisal or advice, but rather to hear me out and love me nonetheless?
to please my family and continuing on with Christmas traditions and activities instead of genuinely enjoying them like in years past? happy and publicly celebrating and enjoying the holiday season (such as stores, parties, and church services)? Do I feel guilty for not wanting to participate in these activities?
5 tips to get you through
If you have lived through loss, whether it be fresh or residual, you must recognize you are not alone in this grief. Although it is part of the human experience, loss is especially common in the LGBT community and has become a part of our culture. Sometimes recognizing the toll grief has taken on you is the most important step. Following are some recommendations on how to get out of your holiday funk:
1. Forgiveness: For most people this is indeed the 5. Act your age: You’re an adult, so behave like hardest step. Forgiving yourself, your loved ones, and sometimes even the universe for pain, mistakes, or abuses of the past is an exceedingly difficult task. This is, however, an important part of letting go of your negative emotions to make room for new, positive experiences. Recognize that patience, kindness, and acceptance are key and strive to create new, wonderful memories this holiday season.
2. Take a moment: Truly, mastery in most things
comes from taking the time to be conscious. Take time to consider your choices before making them. Let me emphasize that last part – everything is a choice. Often we forget that even the most mundane decisions are choices we make and instead operate more reactively than we realize in true “kneejerk” fashion. Rather than allowing raw emotion or instinct to dictate your responses to things outside your control, pause and consider whether it’s even something worthy of your concern. Counting to 10 can be a valuable tool.
3. Avoid substance abuse: Alcohol, drugs, and stimulants can help to you ‘numb’ yourself, escape the situation, or have the energy to accomplish everything you want over the holiday season ... but they come with a price. Remember that there is no bad situation that substances can’t make worse. 4. Avoid the urge: If you find it difficult to avoid engaging in substance abuse, fighting with certain loved ones, or stressing yourself or others out during the holiday season, then you must find positive ways to redirect this stress. Focus your energy on positive things like volunteering in the kitchen, entertaining loved ones, hitting the gym, or sharing stories and experiences to distract yourself from potentially negative outbursts or actions.
one. By holding yourself to a higher standard, you will elevate the expectations for everyone else around you. Every experience offers a unique opportunity for personal development and provides you with a vantage point from which to identify and empathize with other people in the future. You must first be able to let go of the person you once were to become the person you want to be, so identify the life you want to lead and the characteristics with which you would like to be associated in order to ensure that you begin taking the steps to achieve it. Take responsibility for and love the life that you have. That is the only way to enjoy the holidays and your life in general, while living it to the fullest. Sometimes taking our own advice is the hardest thing to do, and I even recognize that these recommendations are a daily challenge for me as well. If, after reading this, you find that you are still struggling then reach out to someone close or seek guidance from a professional therapist. Remember: Asking for help doesn’t make you weak. In fact, it takes some exceptional strength to admit that you cannot do everything on your own. Don’t forget: Working toward a better tomorrow will ensure that you will have “a wonderful life.”
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PERFECT HOST Nico Stoerner, Staff Writer
BABY, IT’S COLD OUTSIDE – but there’s a difference between being the perfect host and simply providing the place for your holiday celebrations. Even more importantly, in the 21st century there are far more things to deal with. From Wi-Fi passwords, numerous remotes, home theaters, and maybe even the coffee maker – odds are your friends or family coming for the holidays will have at least a few questions. Your best bet: Prepare for everything and stay five steps ahead so you can be the host with the most, sipping your holiday cocktail (see our Holiday Cocktail Guide which appeared in the November 15 issue of FENUXE, which also featured our excellent gift guide) and smiling as your guests enjoy their stay. Remember: The key to being a great host is to have fun, so take these steps to ensure that you will be able to relax and enjoy the company.
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Most people think only of preparation for a party, but they don’t consider preparation of information for their guests. Especially if you have people staying with you, prepare a guest guide with everything from your and your partner’s cell numbers to the Wi-Fi password and instructions for the remote. You might also want to leave directions to your local gas station, Whole Foods, and Starbucks for them along with a map of the immediate area - ya know, just in case. Print this on nice paper stock from Paper Source in Virginia Highlands, or even drop into your local office store for some great options. Check your word processing program for easy templates or even look online for the one that you like best. Not only will they be impressed, your friends and family will wonder how long you have considered opening your own B & B.
Before you hang even the first decoration be sure that you have anticipated your guests’ every need in advance. Too often we worry about the presentation and not enough about the preparation. The fact is without adequate towels, linens, toiletries, and other necessary items (toothpaste, floss, mouthwash, shampoo, conditioner, shaving cream, soap, and maybe even some pain relievers and antacids) you’ll spend most of your time together making runs to the store and not enjoying your time together. Consider creating a small guest basket with travel-sized toiletries like these. Help make your guests feel autonomous and they will also feel comfortable and at home: No one likes to pester their host.
LET ‘EM BREATHE Don’t make your guests live out of their suitcase. Be sure to provide a room with a dresser, luggage rack, or at least a closet with hangers so your guests aren’t digging for their clothes and going around in wrinkled clothing.
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Bemoaning the rigors of a long and tiresome Black Friday, the crowd at Burkhart’s finally got the rest (and cocktails!) they deserved.
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2284 Cheshire Bridge Rd.
Jungle Club
The Heretic
2115 Faulkner Rd.
2069 Cheshire Bridge Rd.
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Felix’s
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1510 Piedmont Ave.
Leather
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1492 Piedmont Ave.
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Oscar’s
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Roxx Tavern & Diner
Tripp’s Bar
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Live Entertainment
Las Margaritas
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The Hideaway
Club/Dancing
2345 Chesire Bridge Rd.
1086 Alco St.
2425 Piedmont Ave.
MAPKEY
BJ Roosters
Opus One
1931 Piedmont Cir.
Hobnob
1551 Piedmont Ave.
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The Pet Set
Gilbert’s Cafe The Fifth Ivory
219 10th St.
794 Juniper St.
PONCE DE LEON AVE. NORTH AVE.
931 Monroe Dr.
227 10th St.
PIEDMONT AVE.
893 Peachtee St.
JUNIPER ST.
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306 Ponce de Leon Ave.
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306 Ponce de Leon Ave.
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Atlanta’s hottest holiday party is here. With at least 12 Circus performers, 11 velvet jackets, 10 Nuns with beards, 9 hors d’oeuvres, 8 tasty liquors, 7 drag queens, 6 sexy servers, 5 homeless Elmos, 4 chocolate fountains, 3 French hens, 2 guest speakers, and a human.
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HERETIC’S 21ST ANNIVERSARY 10 P.M.
Join in the celebration over this weekend-long celebration of Heretic’s 21st – they’re finally legal! Friday: DJ Lydia Prim. 10 PM, no cover before 11 PM. Saturday: DJ Micky Friedmann from Berlin. 10 PM, no cover before 11 PM. Monday: Customer Appreciation Party 8-10 PM by invitation only.
12.01.2012
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WEEKLYBARPICKS MONDAY
Amsterdam – Industry Night – 9PM Blakeʼs – Brain Freeze Trivia – 11PM Followed by Drag on the Edge Show Burkhartʼs – Blue Monday Karaoke – 11:30PM Cockpit – Happy Bear Cocktail Hour – 6-9PM Friends On Ponce – DJ opens at 2PM Jungle – Stars of the Century –11PM LeBuzz – Drag Star – 10PM Maryʼs – Industry Night – 5PM Model T – Wheel of ? with Elvis – 9PM Oscarʼs – Midtown Martini Club – 4PM | Service Industry Night – 9PM Sister Louisaʼs Church – Ping Pong Tournament – 8PM The Hideaway – Domestic Beer Special Trippʼs – Monday Night Madness – 9PM Woofs – Texas Holdʼem Poker – 7:30PM
WEDNESDAY
Blakeʼs – Lust and Bust Show – 11PM Burkhartʼs – Humpday Karaoke – 11:30PM Friends On Ponce – Team Trivia – 8PM Gilberts – Trivioke – 10PM Heretic – HUMP Dress Code Night – 10PM Joeʼs on Juniper – Crazy Bitch Bingo – 8PM Las Margaritas – Trivia – 7:30PM LeBuzz – Theme Nights – 9PM Maryʼs – The Honey Pot – 9PM
TUESDAY
Amsterdam – Evolve Showtunes – 9PM Blakeʼs – I Gotta Sing! Karaoke by Jerry – 11PM Burkhartʼs – Trivia Tuesday Karaoke – 11:30PM Cowtippers – Trivia – 8PM Friends On Ponce – Letʼs Make A Deal with Ken – 6PM Heretic – 3 Legged Cowboy Dance Lessons – 8PM LeBuzz – Krazy Karaoke – 10PM Maryʼs – Mary-oke – 9PM MIXX – Piano Night with David Reeb – 8PM Model T – Texas Holdʼem Poker with Nut Flush – 9:30PM My Sisterʼs Room – Trivia – 8PM Oscarʼs – Show Tune Tuesday – 8 PM The Hideaway – Service Industry Night | Trivia with Will – 9PM Trippʼs – Ladies Night – 9PM Woofs – Industry Discount Day – 10AM to 10PM
MIXX – Texas Holdʼem Poker with Nut Flush – 7PM Model T – Karaoke with Pat & Tina – 10PM My Sisterʼs Room – Karaoke – 8PM Oscarʼs – ReBooT Retro – 8PM Sister Louisaʼs Church – Church Organ Karaoke – 10PM The Hideaway – Miss Laurenʼs Poker – 7PM Trippʼs – Free Taco Bar – 5PM Woofs – Trivia – 8PM
THURSDAY
Blakeʼs – Texas Holdʼem Poker – 7PM Blakeʼs – The Shawnna Factor Show – 11PM Burkhartʼs – Twisted Thursdays – 11:30PM Cowtippers – Movie Night – 8PM Friends On Ponce – Where Girls who like Girls meet Girls with Regina Simms – 8PM Gilberts – Wine Tasting – 6:30 – 9:30PM Heretic – 3 Legged Cowboy Line Dance Lessons – 8PM Joeʼs on Juniper – Trivia – 8PM Las Margaritas – Crazy Bitch Bingo – 7:30PM LeBuzz – Ladies Night – 11PM Maryʼs – Balls Out Thursdays Theme Night – 9PM MIXX – The Toolbox – 6PM | The Unexpected Cabaret – 11PM Model T – Wheel of ? with Michael – 9PM My Sisterʼs Room – Xplosion – 10PM Oscarʼs – Petey Party - 2PM – 8PM Tripps – Karaoke – 9PM Woofs – Country Music – 7PM
FRIDAY
Blakeʼs – Charlieʼs Angels Show with Charlie Brown – 11PM Burkhartʼs – The Fab Five – 11:30PM Friends On Ponce – Happy Times with Ken & Kelly Heretic – DJ Lydia Prim – 10PM LeBuzz – Divas Cabaret – 11PM Maryʼs – Boys Room – 5PM MIXX – End of the Week Party with Ron – 4PM | Grown & Sexy Dance – 10PM Model T – Free Friday Bagels – 10AM Oscarʼs – 80ʼs Retro Vidz – 8PM Trippʼs – Afternoon Delights – 4PM Woofs – TGIF Cocktail Night – 5PM
SATURDAY Blakeʼs – Open at 1PM. Non stop music & Video. Daring Divaʼs Show – 11PM Burkhartʼs – Extravaganza – 11:30PM Friends On Ponce – Afternoon Funtime with DJ 12-6PM LeBuzz – Divas Cabaret – 11PM Maryʼs – Hot Mess Dance Party – 9PM MIXX – Afternoon Grill-out – 4PM | Guest DJʼs Dance – 10PM Model T – Saturday Night Live with Michael – 9PM Oscarʼs – Total Request Videos – 8PM Trippʼs – Cook out – 3PM
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THE COMICAL CHRISTMAS SHOW JERRY FARBER’S SIDE DOOR 8:30 PM
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MADELINE’S CHRISTMAS HORIZON THEATRE
Celebrating its 5th year at the Horizon Theatre, Madeline’s Christmas is a girls holiday adventure. A musical play adapted from Ludwig Bemelman’s delightful book, this is a great show to share with the kiddies. Tickets are $12 for children and $15 for adults. 12.15-23.2012
HO, HO, HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS ACTOR’S EXPRESS 7:30 PM
One of Atlanta’s favorite holiday traditions! Join the incomparable Libby Whittemore and her special guest Connie Sue Day, “The 31st Lady of Country Music,” as they perform some of the most beloved holiday classics and tickle your funny bone. Tickets are $40 online, $42 at the Box office. Find out more at Actors-Express.com. PrideMed.Fenuxe_PsychTheraphyAd_01_Layout 1 8/23/12 4:20 PM Page 1
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COMMUNITYPICKS 12.13.2012
THE ONE AND MANY VOICES OF JIMMY JAMES MIXX 8 PM
Come out and enjoy the incredible talent of Jimmy James whose incredible impersonations include Cher, Liza Minelli, Judy Garland, Eartha Kitt, Billie Holiday, and so many more – as well as his very own hits like the epic “Fashionista” we all know by heart. Tickets are $25 in advance and $30 at the door. 11.22.2012 – 1.6.2013
SEASON OF MAGIC PIEDMONT PARK
Bundle up and head to the park with your loved one, your friends, and your family for some holiday cheer. The many attractions available to enjoy include skating at the Southwest Rink, horse-drawn carriage rides, carousel rides, and romantic fireside dining at the Park Tavern. Proceeds raised support the Piedmont Park Conservancy. Find out more at PiedmontPark.org.
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After so many requests from all you holiday party goers for my holiday party rules, I’ve decided a reprint is in order. Enjoy! What makes a successful party? Girl, you know it’s all about the people. And as a frequent party cras… goer, I’d like to share some ideas on how to be the perfect party guest.
1. Be the first to show up and the last to leave.
People really appreciate you showing up half an hour early so you can watch them finish their last-minute touches. Also, if you’re the last one to leave, then they will know how much you really love them. You can’t just say, “I love you;” You have to show it. Don’t make the mistake of offering to help clean up—it really offends people. They want to do it themselves. They know where everything goes.
2.
Bring a hostess gift. These people have worked really hard putting on this party and you must show your appreciation. No expense spared! I recommend a nice bottle of Blue Nun, Two Buck Chuck or an apple. If you want to bake something, nothing impresses like a cheese and mayonnaise sandwich. Remember, It’s the thought that counts!
3. Dress appropriately. You don’t want your host
to feel like you’re all snooty and high palootin, er um highfalutin. Camouflage is casual yet you won’t stand out. Plus it goes with everything!
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Plant yourself near the bar! Your host has worked hard to provide an assortment of nice drinks so show them your appreciation by trying them all—beer, wine and liquor. They’ll never tell you how much they appreciate it but you’ll know next time they give you that look.
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5.
Double dip. It helps keep the mood casual. Show your host you feel comfortable. Remember, it’s just friends together. Your host won’t say anything but they’ll appreciate you setting that tone. If your cracker breaks in the dip, leave it. It makes it look more “earthy.” By the end of the night, it will look like a sculpture.
6. Keep the conversation interesting. Again, these are your friends. They want to know how you really feel about their religious and political beliefs. What better time than a holiday party? Remember, you only have a short period of time with each guest so make sure you hammer your point home. If you’ve been drinking (which I highly recommend) speaking louder really helps get your point across. Following these tips will guarantee your party host won’t forget you. Hollerrrrr! Love and lashes,
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SAGITTARIUS
[NOV. 23 – DEC. 21] We were pretty impressed with your ‘north pole’ during the Santa Speedo Run. Too bad that, during an overzealous cartwheel, the Jeff Stryker dildo fell out. (You ran really fast after that!)
Capricorn
[DEC. 22 – JAN. 19] Notoriety is nice, but your claim to fame? Being the reason LeBuzz breathalyzes people before letting them in.
AQUARIUS
[JAN. 20 – FEB. 18] It’s not so much that you have a big head about your sexual prowess; it’s just making love to your Mario Lopez body pillows doesn’t count.
PISCES
[FEB. 19 – MAR. 20] Karaoke at Mary’s is made better by your unmistakable falsetto. Your secret: snorting estrogen tablets before going on.
ARIES
[MAR. 21 – APR. 19] Your symbol is the ram, which explains why your Gold Member status on PowerBottomsATL.com includes free hemorrhoid cream.
Taurus
[APR. 20 – MAY 20] Last year, you drank yourself into a stupor before heading out to ogle holiday lights. The brightest show? The reds and blues in your rearview. No drinking and driving, pal.
GemIni
[MAY 21 – JUN. 22] It would be sexy that you can play the “Island of Misfit Toys” song on guitar if only you didn’t point to that thing on your back to demonstrate that you’re one, too.
CANCER
[JUN. 21 – JUL. 22] Alcoholism isn’t funny, but that perpetually red nose works for the Rudolph costume, so we applaud your hard work.
LEO
[JUL. 23 – AUG. 22] When people at Piedmont’s Reindog Parade ask you which pup is yours, your whispered response (“I haven’t decided yet — they all look delicious.”) proves you’re the creeper we love and adore.
virgo
[AUG. 23 – SEPT. 22] After gift-wrapping yourself in Saran Wrap while waiting for your lover to get home, you remember she’s working a late shift. And that you’re lactose intolerant. And you just drank a milkshake. And you’re wrapped too tightly to move. Nice.
libra
[SEPT. 23 – OCT. 22] We love what you’ve done with the place, but when are you going to move out of the house you’ve been squatting in all month?
scorpio
[OCT. 23 – NOV. 22] You got a head start on cardio when you dreamed Insurrection was having a Black Friday butt-bead blowout. Not bad.
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10TH ANNUAL TOY PARTY 12.2.2012 • Americas Mart 3
Community members brought tons of toys for good girls and boys to the 10th Annual Toy Party.
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AID ATLANTA CELEBRATES 30 YEARS 11.29.2012 • AID Atlanta AID Atlanta opened their doors to the community to celebrate their 30th Anniversary.
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TWO MARTINIS AND A MICROPHONE 11.24.2012 • Mary’s Amateur entertainment took a rowdy birthday party to the next level Saturday night at the always-happening Mary’s.
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You can make everyone a lot more comfortable this holiday season. For a limited time, when you donate $50 to charity you will receive $200 OFF the purchase price of a Stressless® recliner or sofa or $400 OFF the purchase of select Eagle or Wing recliners. Stressless® living is the perfect combination of comfort, function and style. Our patented Plus™ system provides you with optimum head and lumbar support in any position, while the Glide system keeps your body in perfect balance. Give yourself the ultimate gift of comfort and see why charity begins at home. Learn more here. Stressless® is proudly endorsed by the American Chiropractic Association.
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