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FROM THE PUBLISHER Strengthening Bonds: Reflecting on Success and Solidarity in Our Community By Sitki Kazanci

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CONSCIOUS COMMERCE CORNER Forgotten Piece in Greening the World: Culture By Olivia Manzagol

BUSINESS US Sanctions, Tariffs, and Non-Tariff Barriers: An Insightful Report by TABA-AmCham By Suleyman Ecevit Sanli

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IT HAPPENED HERE The Many Visits of a Diplomat By Mehmet Ali Munir

HISTORY The City That Blew Up from a Dust Bowl to Skyscraper Capital of 83 Million People By Uğur Akıncı

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COMMUNITY STAR: Güçlü Özenci By Oya Bain

FINANCE Banks Said No? Here’s How to Make Them Say Yes to Your Business Loan By Oguz Konar

ECONOMY İstanbul Economy Summit: Turning Economic Potentials into Productive Investments By Sibel Kulaksiz

PSYCHOLOGY Finding Love as a Turkish American: A Romantic Roadmap By Burcin Ogrenir

Best Valentine's Gifts on Amazon for Every Budget

EDUCATION Rebuilding Lives Through Education: Bridge to Türkiye Fund's Remarkable Journey of Hope By Dilek Livaneli

A Cup of Tradition: Elevating Turkish Coffee on the World Stage By Talip Murat Kolbaşı

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FILM Crying Babies, Motherhood, and Career By Serra Karacam

BOOK The Turkish War of Independence: A Military History, 1919–1923 By Oya Bain

FINANCE Unraveling the Mystery: Why Money Matters in Our Lives By Yasar Daglar

TECHNOLOGY Exploring New Horizons: Mastering Virtual Reality Technology in the Professional Sphere By Hürriyet Aydin Ok

PUBLIC RELATIONS Effective Communication: The Lifeline of Diaspora Communities By Suheyla Tayla

TRAVEL Santa Claus is from Demre, Antalya By Nil Güler

A PERSONAL ODYSSEY Turkish Hands By Tara Alisbah

A TASTE OF TURKISH CUISINE Quince Compote Ayva Kompostosu By Sheilah Kaufman

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ART + CULTURE Cihat Aşkın By Erol Güler

TECHNOLOGY Beyond Billions: A Guide to Building Enduring Value in Tech Startups By Guclu Ozenci

LIFE COACHING Friendship as an Essential for a Good Life By Melisa Gulsun Ozmen

CAREERS Adventurous at Work in America: Embrace Your Inner Trailblazer with These 5 Future-Proof Jobs By Kitty Waldorf

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STRENGTHENING BONDS: REFLECTING ON SUCCESS AND SOLIDARITY IN OUR COMMUNITY

A Our networking events and community initiatives reﬂect a powerful synergy, embodying our vision of unity and support within the Turkish community.

As the editor of our magazine, I am thrilled to reach out to you through the pages of our fourth issue. The journey we have embarked upon together has been nothing short of inspiring. With each monthly networking event, we've woven stronger connections within our community, and your positive feedback has been the fuel driving our commitment to make each edition and event a resounding success. January's event was a testament to the power of our network. Stories of business collaborations birthed, career opportunities found, and friendships formed to remind us of the impact we are making. These narratives are not just success stories; they embody our vision at work. Mark your calendars for our upcoming event on March 10. In a panel-style setting, we will focus on celebrating International Women’s Day, honoring women's pivotal role in our community and beyond. This gathering is not just an event; it is a tribute to the strength and diversity of our community. We believe in empowering each voice, ensuring a platform where everyone can share, learn, and grow. The essence of our magazine and events is to foster a spirit of unity and mutual support within the Turkish community. Our vision is to be a platform that brings us together, a space where everyone is welcome and can contribute. If you wish to be a part of this journey, we warmly invite you to reach out and join us. Our collective spirit was profoundly demonstrated after the tragic Türkiye Earthquake on February 6, 2023. It was a time that shook us to our core, but also a moment where our community's strength and generosity shone brightly. The Turkish Philanthropy Funds' initiative, supported passionately by our community, raised an astounding $20.5 million, directly impacting over 1.7 million lives. While we acknowledge that the path to recovery is ongoing and more support is needed, this effort highlighted our collective power to make a significant difference. This issue is brimming with content that we hope will inform and inspire you. From in-depth articles to heartwarming stories, each page reflects our vibrant community. As you turn these pages, we hope you feel the sense of pride and connection that we strive to foster. Furthermore, we continually seek to evolve and enhance how we serve and uplift our community. We understand the importance of staying connected, sharing resources, and supporting each other in triumphs and challenges. Our magazine is not just a publication; it is a celebration of our shared heritage, dreams, and aspirations. I want to express my heartfelt gratitude for your continuous support. It is your engagement and feedback that shape our magazine and events. Let us continue building this incredible community together, supporting and uplifting each other in every way possible. Warm regards,

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COMMUNITY NEWS

TURKNETWORK MAGAZINE HIGHLIGHTS POWER NETWORKING AND FUTURE TECH SUCCESS AT ARLINGTON EVENT January's gathering in Arlington, VA, marked a notable success for our networking event. Despite the snowy conditions, the attendance of approximately 100 community members highlighted the event's appeal. Remarkably, five business professionals journeyed from New York to join us. The event commenced with an enchanting live music session featuring Metin Bilgiç on Qanun and Ahmet Kılıç on Oud. Dr Hurriyet Ok's insightful presentation on new technology and its application in business was a highlight, offering valuable knowledge to attendees. A special moment was the presentation of the Community Star Award to Dr Hurriyet Ok in recognition of his creation of Turkish American TV and his team's voluntary service to the community. Culinary delights included delicious kuru fasulye and pilav, complemented by Ali Halva's exquisite baklava from New Jersey. The Business Exchange Table gained popularity as a prime spot for showcasing promotional items.

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The event was a fertile ground for business networking, leading to new job opportunities for some attendees. A comprehensive report on these successes will be shared later.

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■ Left to Right: Sitki Kazanci (TurkNetwork), Erica Hazar, Wa'il Ashshowwal, (Reyets Co.), Berker Hazar (Co-Chair, Sister States Committee), Sevil Altinsoy (THY), Gunay Evinch, Esq. (Co-Chair, Sister States Committee), Herb Scott (Capitol Hill Jazz Foundation), Ayse Azra Akinci (Counselor, Turkish Embassy), Sibel Kulaksiz (World Bank), Digdem Buner, (Deputy Chief of Mission, Turkish Embassy), Oya Bain (TASC)

MARYLAND-TÜRKİYE SISTER STATES COMMITTEE MEMBERS ATTEND THE 32ND ANNUAL INTERNATIONAL SALUTE PROGRAM COMMEMORATING DR MARTIN LUTHER KING JR. Maryland-Türkiye Sister States Committee members and friends attended the "32nd International Salute to the Life and Legacy of Dr Martin Luther King Jr. breakfast at the Willard Hotel on January 14, 2024. The event was attended by diplomats, presidents of universities, scholars, religious leaders, media, and many community leaders and philanthropists. The program entailed award ceremonies to persons for their outstanding work in carrying the values and ideals of Dr King. over the past 31

years and descriptions of their achievements. Azerbaijan Ambassador H.E.Khazar Ibrahim was the chair of the honorary committee. Attendees were treated to a delightful mini concert by mezzo soprano Bonnie Burnett and saxophonist Brian Lenair. The program ended with the audience and speakers joining to sing "We Shall Overcome" the song of the Civil Rights movement of 1960s reflecting the trials and tribulations of its leader, Dr Martin Luther King Jr. and his followers.

Monday, January 15, 2024, commemorated the birthday of Dr Martin Luther King, Jr. This year also marks the 56th anniversary of his tragic killing. Let us continue his struggle for justice, equality, and freedom. Last month, the Turkish American Community honored the life and legacy of a remarkable man, Dr Martin Luther King Jr., and his commitment to equality, justice, and freedom. Dr King never wavered from his peaceful opposition to segregation and discrimination. Indeed, segregation was still exercised in America one hundred years after the Civil War, which claimed the lives of over 620,000 people. The Civil War was the bloodiest American conflict ever.

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Dr King faced years of violent opposition from the American government, including arrests, incommunicado detention, and severe interrogation and mistreatment. He did not yield. He continued to use the most powerful weapon he had—his mind, his heart, and his ability to speak. He was eventually assassinated on April 4, 1968, but he was not silenced. Turkish Americans proudly served the cause of equality and justice, standing against segregation. The Turkish Embassy

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IN JANUARY WASHINGTON SAID

GOODBYE TO AMBASSADOR MURAT MERCAN AND MRS. INCI MERCAN

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was one of few places in Washington, DC, where all Americans, regardless of race, ethnicity, or religion, could meet in peace and

■ African American leaders and musicians pose before the bust of Atatürk at the Turkish Embassy, the 1950s.

Ambassador Mercan hosted additional farewell meetings for those who could not attend the January 10 event. It was a very considerate gesture, We wish Ambassador Mercan and Mrs.

be treated with dignity. The United States Senate warned the Turkish Embassy not to permit African Americans to attend Embassy social events. The US Department of State offered a "compromise" that Black Americans be admitted from the back door of the Embassy. Turkish Ambassador Munir Ertegun responded that all guests of the Turkish Republic would enter through the front door as equals. Maryland police arrested the Ambassador's son, Ahmet Ertegun, for violating segregation laws in Annapolis. Ahmet Ertegun eventually founded Atlantic Records, where he promoted countless African American and progressive musicians.

Mercan a wonderful retirement, enjoying their grandchildren and the larger family back to the good life in Türkiye. Their openness, enthusiasm, and no "nonsense" approach will surely be missed by all.

■ As Atlantic Records Chairman, Ertegun expressed: "I began to discover a little bit about the situation of African Americans and experienced immediate empathy with these victims of such senseless discrimination because although Turks were never slaves, they were regarded as second-class citizens by Europe because of their Muslim beliefs."

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Around the second week in January, there were many farewell parties and meetings for the popular Turkish Ambassador Murat Mercan and his equally popular wife, Mrs. Inci Mercan. Ambassador Mercan retired; however, he needed help connecting his energetic lifestyle with retirement. On January 10, there was an elegant farewell reception at the Embassy. The event was attended by many diplomats, State Department officials, Turkish American NGO leaders, and many Turkish and non-Turkish friends. In his speech, Ambassador Mercan thanked all for their attendance and the support they provided during his term. He invited Mrs. Mercan to the podium and stated that her hard work was critical to his success. It was an emotional moment; there were tears. Throughout his term, the Mercans opened the Embassy to all Turkish Americans and supported all their activities, regardless of the political and religious affiliations and beliefs of the Turkish Americans, That was an important factor in uniting all Turks who are usually adamant about clinging to their various political choices and practicing their democratic rights to the full extent. Both Mercans strived for unity and the success of the Turkish American Community, including Turkic American communities.

■ Atlantic Records Chairman Ahmet Ertegun and Ray Charles

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At the Consumer Electronics Show (CES), Togg, a company hailing from Türkiye, revealed their latest innovation—the T10F electric sedan. This model transcends traditional car concepts, positioning itself as a "connected smart device." The T10F is a stylish fastback sedan, building on the design of the T10X crossover. It showcases a sleek grille adorned with chrome tulip-petal motifs, complemented by slim LED headlights and distinctive daytime running lights. The car's design is enhanced with digital side mirrors, concealed door handles, and a bold shoulder line, topped off with a black contrasting roof and a smoothly sculpted rear featuring a thin light bar. Inside, the T10F is a tech haven, boasting a 12.3-inch digital instrument panel and a colossal 29-inch infotainment screen, along with an additional 8-inch display for climate and phone functions. Togg has also introduced a heated steering wheel in the T10F, alongside a rotary shifter, touch controls, and a potential wireless phone charger. The trunk offers considerable space, expandable to even larger capacities. Performance-wise, the base model features a rear motor with 215 hp, achieving 0-62 mph in 7.2 seconds. A more powerful dual-motor version offers 429 hp, cutting down the 0-62 mph time to 4.6 seconds. With a long-range battery, the T10F is expected to reach 373 miles, while the standard version should achieve 217 miles. A quick charge option significantly reduces charging times. The T10F is slated for a launch in Türkiye, with plans to extend to European markets.

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Calling all fashionistas! Türkiye's beloved women's fashion powerhouse, Roman, has now opened a dazzling pop-up store in Reston Town Center, bringing a touch of Turkish elegance to your doorstep. Get ready to swoon over Roman's exquisite 2024 Valentine's Day collections, featuring stunning collaborations with Noorelle, the exquisite jewelry line by Aynur Jahan, and coveted outerwear and accessories by Itala Testino. Led by the DMV's own fashion guru, Sakina Isgandarova, Roman USA Reston Pop-Up is more than just a clothing store—it is a haven for connecting with fellow Romantics! Come discover new trends, share style secrets, and experience Roman magic firsthand. Roman Reston Town Center 11928 Market Str, Reston, VA 20190 roman@shoproman.com / www.shoproman.com

Zeynep Soyupak, a dynamic entrepreneur, is widely recognized for founding Linda’s Giftland, a company she established in honor of her daughter Linda, born during the pandemic. Renowned for her positive influence in all business ventures, Zeynep's philosophy is, "Tomorrow is shaped by today's dreams and actions." She owns two active brands in the US and is committed to developing strategies for introducing innovative and unique products and services to a broad audience. Visit her website at www.zeynepsoyupak.com to get in touch. You can also purchase special gifts through Zeynep’s online store at www.etsy.com/shop/lindagiftland. Orders are dispatched from her South Carolina warehouse and reach Washington, DC, within two business days. Zeynep's husband, Ilkay Soyupak, formerly the goalkeeper for the Besiktas Football Team in Istanbul, is also creatively involved in the family business. Inspired by his wife, Ilkay designs vibrant soy candles. For more information or to contact Ilkay, visit his website: www. ilkaysoyupak.com.

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COMMUNITY NEWS

ANGELINA JOLIE OPENS SPECIALTY CLOTHING STORE IN MANHATTAN OFFERING TURKISH COFFEE AND SYRIAN PIES This December, Angelina Jolie unveiled Atelier Jolie, her inaugural fashion boutique nestled in a charming two-story building in Lower Manhattan. Atelier Jolie is not just a fashion hub; it is a unique blend of sustainability and culture. Specializing in garments crafted from recyclable materials, the boutique stands out with its exclusive offerings of Turkish coffee and Syrian pies, creating an ambiance that is both exotic and eco-friendly. The store has already become a hotspot, attracting icons like Keith Haring and Madonna. Each purchase at Atelier Jolie comes with a special touch: customers can personalize their items with unique printed or embroidered designs by talented artists. But it is more than just a boutique. At the back of the store lies a cozy café, purposefully designed to be a creative sanctuary. This space, adorned with comfortable chairs, plush couches, and stylish tables, invites guests to linger, collaborate, and find inspiration. Adding to the creative atmosphere is a white piano, perfect for those with a musical flair. At the heart of this creative retreat is the Turkish coffee experience. Known for its rich history and unique preparation, Turkish coffee at Atelier Jolie is more than a beverage; it is an invitation to savor a moment of

culture and connection. Whether you are a fashion enthusiast, an artist, or simply someone who appreciates the finer things in life,

Atelier Jolie is a must-visit destination that promises an experience as rich and inviting as the Turkish coffee it serves.

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The Turkish nation lost one of its most beloved sons, Hanri Benazus, at age 94. A chance encounter with Ataturk when Benazus was seven sparked a lifelong fascination. He traveled the world, amassing a collection of over 20,000 photographs of Ataturk, many of which were rare and previously unknown. In addition, he authored more than 100 books about Ataturk and the recent history of Türkiye. A recipient of numerous national and international awards, Benazus treasured the "Devrimlerinin İzindeyiz - We are on the Trail of Your Reforms Award" given by the Ataturk Society of America in 2020. He generously donated his collection to the Izmir Metropolitan Municipality. Benazus was laid to rest in the Altindag Jewish Cemetery in Izmir.

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FORGOTTEN PIECE IN GREENING THE WORLD: CULTURE Embracing the wisdom of our ancestors and integrating sustainable practices from diverse cultures is crucial for the success of the environmental movement. By Olivia Manzagol

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he structured environmental movement often appears distant and reserved for specific groups as it becomes a hot topic in daily life and business. However, looking at ancient wisdom practices in the US, Türkiye, or any other country, we find a unique care for nature, primarily through sustainable practices integrated into daily life. This commitment is most evident in the home environment. For example, Anatolians are strongly inclined toward sustainable living through repurposing goods, cultivating vegetable gardens, or practicing mindful electricity consumption. These practices, deeply rooted in their lifestyles, often occur instinctively. Recent studies show that many first- and second-generation immigrants, influenced by their parents' austerity and waste-conscious values, engage in environmentally friendly behaviors. These include recycling

and repurposing everyday items, mindful use of water and electricity, cultivating home vegetable gardens, practicing composting, and making ethical choices in purchases and consumption. Some second-generation migrants recall how their parents unintentionally embraced environmentally friendly practices, such as adopting frugality because of financial challenges or maintaining a connection to the land through gardening, especially those with agricultural backgrounds. A twofold approach is necessary to actively contribute to environmental causes: learning from our ancestors and ensuring the inclusion of these valuable practices in the broader green movement. ■ Olivia Manzagol is an economist, a finance specialist in energy, sustainability, and private equity, a university lecturer, a strategist, a mentor, and an author. She has been living in the US for about 25 years.

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UNITY AND RESILIENCE:

TURKISH PHILANTHROPY FUNDS’ COMMITMENT TO REBUILD AND RESTORE IN THE EARTHQUAKE REGION The impact remains profound one year after the catastrophic earthquake in Southeast Türkiye. As we reflect on this period, we want to recognize the significant progress made by the TPF community toward healing, rebuilding, and preparing for a resilient future.

TPF's initial response, rooted in their core objectives—empowering local organizations, ensuring equitable grant distribution, enhancing partner capacities, and upholding accountability—led to impactful collaboration with over 70 TPFVetted Partner Organizations. They could grant $10.5 million through this, directly supporting over 1.7 million people. Their swift action demonstrated the power of unity and the strength of our community, even in the face of adversity. Recently, TPF has been developing and implementing a comprehensive long-term strategy to meet ongoing regional needs. The TPF Earthquake Fund is now structured to provide support in three distinct ways: 1. Continued Grant Provision: The earthquake fund will keep offering grants up to $50,000, now available to non-TPF partners, focusing on supporting NGOs working in under-recognized areas in the earthquake-affected areas, allocating $1 million for this initiative. 2. Enhancing Resilience: With an additional commitment of $1 million, TPF aims to bolster the resilience of the nonprofit sector and the broader community. This involves backing projects that enhance disaster preparedness and prevention for a more proactive and robust response to future earthquakes. 3. Long-Term Funding through Invitation-Only Grants: The remaining funds will be allocated via an invitation-only process. This focused approach ensures efficient and impactful fund use and fosters strong partnerships for sustainable outcomes. TPF's mission extends beyond simple rebuilding. They aspire to transform earthquake-impacted areas into thriving communities. This transformation is envisioned in two phases: firstly, nurturing and sustaining new living spaces to positively impact resident well-being; and secondly, transforming these areas into hubs of urban renewal and economic growth. The ultimate goal is for these communities to not just survive but to evolve into self-sustaining entities full of life and energy.

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EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW

By Sitki Kazanci

e had the opportunity to speak with TPF’s Executive Director, Senay Ataselim Yilmaz, about their journey from the initial response to their current long-term strategies.

Thank you for joining us today. To begin, how much has Turkish Philanthropy Funds raised for the earthquake fund? First of all, thank you for providing us your platform to talk about our efforts. We are excited to share that we have raised $20.5 million, a testament to our donors' generosity and trust in TPF. Our fundraising efforts began early on February 6, 2023, and the support was immediate and overwhelming. Our staff worked tirelessly, often 18-hour days for a long time, to manage the support and address donor queries.

That is impressive. How did you assess the needs before making grants? Over the years, we have built an extensive network of NGOs in Türkiye. It was about 70 before the earthquake. Right now, it is over 100. We leveraged this network for real-time information and needs assessment immediately after the earthquake. This helped us quickly identify and address urgent needs like food, water, and shelter. Our first grant was made on the day of the earthquake. We made three more within the first week.

How have your funds been allocated so far? We have taken a strategic approach to grantmaking—a strategy that was more than an immediate reaction; it was a comprehensive plan for empowering the affected communities and making the most impactful and efficient use of the funds. Besides the first four grants made in the first week, all grant decisions were made by reviewing proposals, making sure they were aligned with our objectives and criteria, considering factors like the number of people who benefited, the duration of the impact, and the project's capacity to provide solutions to pressing problems. This often involves balancing immediate relief efforts with long-term development projects. To date, we have granted $10.5 million across various areas. These include emergency relief, providing safe spaces for children, education, psychosocial support, and economic development in the affected regions.

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Could you elaborate on your objectives when making these grants? Absolutely. Our focus has been on the hardest-hit areas, ensuring local empowerment, equity, and collaboration. We have focused on engaging with communities affected by the disaster and supporting organizations that provide equal opportunities, especially for marginalized groups. We have ensured efficient resource use and effective recovery efforts by funding capacity-building for nonprofit partners and collaborating with local NGOs. Our approach, emphasizing compassion and transparency, has provided immediate aid and laid the groundwork for sustainable community recovery. Has your strategy evolved for long-term needs? Yes, definitely. We have developed a comprehensive long-term strategy focusing on sustainable recovery and resilience as we progress with our grantmaking. In the future, we are allocating a total of $1 million for grants up to $50,000 and opening the applications to non-TPF partners. Second, we are dedicating an additional $1 million to resilience to strengthen the nonprofit sector and community preparedness against future earthquakes. And lastly, we have allocated

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the remaining funds to long-term rebuilding through invitation-only grants. Our goal is to ensure efficient and impactful use of funds and build strong partnerships that will enable sustainable outcomes. We aim to empower communities to rebuild in a way that makes them more resilient to future disasters. What specific areas will you focus on supporting moving forward? Our general fund will continue to support the areas we have been focused on since the beginning, such as WASH, health services, and humanitarian cash assistance. We aim

to keep assisting NGOs dedicated to helping earthquake survivors, especially in regions our long-term needs analysis may not have fully recognized. For our long-term strategy, we've identified four priority areas. First is economic development. We are committed to stimulating economic growth while reinforcing communal identity and resilience. Second is providing support for education to equip younger generations with the knowledge, skills, and attitudes necessary for thriving in the 21st century and contributing to their community's resilience and development. Third is supporting Children with Disabilities to ensure children who lost their limbs receive tailored medical treatments and inclusive rehabilitation programs, bolstering their journey toward self-sufficiency, mobility, and empowerment that will outlast the effects of the earthquakes. Lastly, it provides psychosocial support to foster resilience, empowering individuals and communities to recover and rebuild in the aftermath of disaster. Finally, considering Türkiye's vulnerability to earthquakes, we are prioritizing building resilience in communities along major fault lines. This includes supporting preparedness and disaster risk reduction initiatives. We

believe this is essential for the safety and preparedness of everyone in Türkiye. How do you ensure effective use of funds? We prioritize transparency and accountability in all our operations. Regular reports, impact assessments, and site visits are conducted to ensure that every dollar is making a real difference. We also work closely with our partners and local organizations to monitor progress and gather feedback. What is the impact of your efforts? We have directly impacted over 1.7 million individuals, including earthquake survivors, local businesses, and community organizations. Finally, what message would you like to convey to your donors and the wider community? Our heartfelt thanks go to every donor and partner who has supported us. This has been a true community effort, ranging from small donations to large ones. Thanks to your trust in TPF, we are not just rebuilding lives but laying the foundation for a resilient future. Your continued support is crucial for creating lasting positive change in the earthquake-affected regions. Thank you for your time and insights today. Thank you for this opportunity to discuss these important issues. ■

About Turkish Philanthropy Funds For 17 years, Turkish Philanthropy Funds (TPF) has served our community by channeling the generosity of over 100,000 donors to disburse more than $40 million. As a community foundation, our intimate knowledge of community needs has fueled innovative solutions to pressing challenges. We have directly impacted more than 3 million lives, offering strategic guidance to donors to maximize their philanthropic reach. TPF is a collaborative hub where donors, businesses, and nonprofits unite, pooling resources and expertise. Together, we have fostered resilient communities and built a LEGACY of positive change that all of us are proud of. www.tpfund.org LinkedIn | Facebook | Instagram | X (formerly Twitter) | YouTube Read TPF's Earthquake Fund 6th Month Impact Report Read TPF’s Most Recent Annual Report FEB 2024 | TURKNETWORK 25

BUSINESS

US SANCTIONS, TARIFFS, AND NON-TARIFF BARRIERS:

AN INSIGHTFUL REPORT BY TABA-AMCHAM

Understanding the complex interplay of US sanctions, tariffs, and non-tariff barriers is key to navigating the ever-evolving landscape of global trade and economic growth. By Suleyman Ecevit Sanli

stablished in 1987 by our late President, Mr. Turgut Özal, our association has been instrumental in opening Türkiye to global markets and facilitating significant American investments in Türkiye. As we celebrate the 36th anniversary of the Turkish American Businessmen Association (TABA-AmCham), we 26 TURKNETWORK | FEB 2024

BUSINESS

RUSYA-UKRAYNA SAVAŞININ DIŞ TİCARETE ETKİLERİ İLE ABD HÜKÜMETİNİN DIŞ TİCARETİ KISITLAYICI POLİTİKALARI:

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take pride in fostering US-Türkiye business relations, aiding Turkish investors in accessing the US market, and supporting American companies in Türkiye. TABA-AmCham, extending its presence across Türkiye, now boasts a robust membership of 421, including individuals and corporate entities. Our members benefit significantly from exclusive events, fostering extensive business networks. These gatherings, such as invitations, meetings, and seminars, provide unique opportunities for Turkish businesspeople to connect

with their American counterparts, fostering a strong business network. Our recent Supply Chain Analysis report, focusing on the Organization of Turkic States and their journey toward globalscale production, delves into trade volumes, sectoral distributions, and exportimport statistics between Türkiye and the Turkic Republics. It also explores the current and potential economic relations, trade policies, and barriers, serving as an invaluable resource for strategic decisionmaking in the business world. In 2022, the Turkic States, with a GDP of $1.56 trillion, a population of 174.1 million, and a total foreign trade value of $1.19 trillion, are emerging as a significant economic force. These eight countries represent 2.2% of the global population, 1.54% of global production, and a significant portion of global exports and imports. The need for our comprehensive report on US Sanctions, Tariffs, and Non-Tariff Barriers arises from the intricate interplay between economic growth, trade openness, tariffs, non-tariff measures, and exchange rates. Protectionist trade policies, a focus of our report, significantly impact global trade openness. The US, maintaining its status as a significant economic player since World War II, has actively engaged in multilateral and regional trade agreements. However, there is currently no Free Trade Agreement (FTA) between Türkiye and the US, with trade continuing under World Trade Organization (WTO) rules and bilateral agreements. Our report critically analyzes this context, including the impact of protectionism on

trade and economic growth and the potential risks it poses to global welfare, particularly in developing countries. The WTO, a key player in global trade, ensures smooth and free trade flows. The United States, a long-standing member of the WTO, is actively involved in numerous trade disputes, emphasizing the importance of understanding trade regulations affecting US imports and exports. Our report provides an in-depth analysis of various aspects of US trade, including the impact of trade wars with the EU, Japan, and China, the repercussions of the Russia-Ukraine War, and a detailed analysis of the US's foreign trade with Türkiye and FTA countries. This comprehensive report, curated under the expert guidance of Dr Metin Gürler, is a testament to the hard work of our Board of Directors, Executive Board, and Association Headquarters staff. I sincerely thank Dr Metin Gürler and everyone involved in crafting this invaluable resource. ■ Süleyman Ecevit Sanlı, born in 1973 in Mersin-Tarsus, has a distinguished career. He served at the Ministry of Finance and Customs for 20 years, rising to leadership positions and leading the Customs Inspection Officers Association. In 2011, he entered the private sector as a General Manager and founded NARİN Customs Consultancy and Elsan Global Logistics in 2013, specializing in customs and logistics services. Currently, he chairs these companies and heads the Turkish American Businessmen Association-American Chamber of Commerce Türkiye Representation. Sanlı is a prominent figure in the industry, featured in various media and publications. He is also pursuing further education and speaks fluent English. He is happily married with three daughters.

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GÜÇLÜ ÖZENCİ Uniting Cultures, Building Communities: Güçlü Özenci's Inspiring Journey of Entrepreneurship and Social Engagement In this issue, we have chosen Güçlü Özenci. By Oya Bain

ur award committee, dedicated to recognizing individuals who passionately assist others and actively promote Turkish culture, is proud to feature Güçlü Özenci as this issue's Community Star. Known for his entrepreneurial spirit in technology, investment, and as a speaker, Özencİ's most notable achievement is the creation of the DC Social WhatsApp group, a pivotal initiative uniting the Turkish community in the DMV area. Could you tell us about your early years? I was born in Ankara, graduated from TED Ankara Koleji and METU Economics, and lived with my parents and sister until I graduated from college in 1995. Do you have relatives in the United States? No, all of my relatives reside in Türkiye. What prompted your move to the US? In 1995, I moved to New Orleans to pursue my MBA at the University of New Orleans. After a brief entrepreneurial stint in the US, I returned to Istanbul. However, in 2017, at the age of 44, I relocated back to the US with my wife and two children. My wife, Zeynep, working for IFC, a part of the World Bank Group, received an offer here at the headquarters.

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What inspired the creation of the DC Social WhatsApp group? I have always enjoyed organizing social gatherings. The idea for DC Social stemmed from annual parties I hosted in Istanbul, which eventually led to the formation of a WhatsApp group here. The group was designed to be an open, inclusive space for community connection, with a few guidelines to maintain harmony.

Could you walk us through your career journey? My career path was largely shaped during my MBA. I began in the tech industry in 1997, working with major companies like Koc Group, Hewlett-Packard, and Cisco Systems. This experience paved the way for my transition to entrepreneurship in 2013. After my tech startup was acquired in 2020, I began mentoring early-stage founders, eventually leading

"From Ankara to America: Güçlü Özenci's Story of Cultural Integration and Community Building Inspires Across Borders."

the Founder Institute's accelerator program in our region. What does a typical day look like for you? My day usually starts with triathlon training –swimming, running, or biking. Work commitments like video calls and meetings are scheduled from 10:30 am to 3:00 pm, followed by family time and children's activities. What aspects of Türkiye do you miss the most? After moving away from my family, Istanbul became my hometown. I deeply miss my friends, family, and the connections we have built over the years. How do you balance Turkish traditions with American lifestyle? Thanks to the robust Turkish community in the DMV area, maintaining our Turkish roots is effortless. Adapting to the American way of life is an ongoing process, especially for our children, who are quickly assimilating. Who has been a significant influence in your life? While my parents have been a major influence,

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"Bridging Two Worlds: Güçlü Özencİ's Passion for Connecting the TurkishAmerican Community Shines Through in Every Endeavor."

my wife Zeynep's support and understanding, especially of my entrepreneurial endeavors, have been instrumental in my journey. Is there a moment in your life that you are particularly proud of? Securing our first investment for my startup was a moment of immense pride, marking a significant milestone in my entrepreneurial journey. Do you have a favorite quote? "Life is coincidences." What are your hobbies? I enjoy participating in triathlons and experiencing travels. How can readers connect with you? Readers can connect with me on LinkedIn, where all our meetings are announced. Any message for our readers? I am pleased that DC Social has become a trusted platform in the Turkish community. It is important to remember the public nature of our interactions and to maintain respect and privacy in our communications. Thank you, Güçlü Özencİ, for your inspiring contributions to our community and for sharing your story with us. ■

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ECONOMY

İSTANBUL ECONOMY SUMMIT:

TURNING ECONOMIC POTENTIALS INTO PRODUCTIVE INVESTMENTS

The İstanbul Economy Summit serves as a beacon, transforming potentials into actions, and fostering international partnerships to address global economic challenges. By Sibel Kulaksiz

s the Executive Board Member of the İstanbul Economy Summit, I had the honor of moderating its seventh iteration at Çırağan Palace on December 8-9, 2023. The Summit, graced by His Excellency Cevdet Yılmaz, Vice President of Türkiye, focused on "Sustainable Living and Smart Cities." It united a diverse group, including policymakers, private sector leaders, academics, diplomatic missions, and international partners. This successful gathering highlighted the collaborative efforts in creating economic opportunities focusing on climate-friendly investments. The deep concern for environmental issues and the proposed solutions to pressing 32 TURKNETWORK | FEB 2024

sustainability challenges were particularly encouraging. The İstanbul Economy Summit is backed by a vision to enhance lives through productive private-sector investments, aiming for mutually beneficial trade relations. Strengthening dialogues with international partners for knowledge exchange on policy and regulatory reforms and fostering new investments through global joint ventures are key aspects of our approach. The Summit's impact has noticeably grown over the past seven years, thanks to efforts by the Chairman of the Executive Board, Mr. Abdullah Değer, and the board members. Its success is attributed to providing an analytical platform for public and private sector leaders to

collaborate on solutions, leading to recommendations for regulatory reforms to unlock economic potential. Additionally, it has facilitated private-sector investments by connecting national and international partners across various economic sectors. Highlighting Türkiye's potential as a regional growth pole with positive spillover effects, the Summit underscored the country's economic opportunities, given its population, land area, nominal GDP, market access, and transportation corridor proximity. Türkiye's economy, bolstered by its strong industrial sector, is expected to grow rapidly in a favorable external environment. Board members see significant opportunities in the real economy, working to tap into the vast potential in the goods

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and services sectors. Türkiye's conventional strengths in industries like automotive parts, textiles, household appliances, building materials, and furniture continue to drive exports. Emerging sectors are also gaining focus, including the digital economy with under-utilized potential in data services, software, technology start-ups, and gaming. Potential joint-venture investments in regions like Africa, particularly in construction and infrastructure, are being explored, along with growth opportunities in health, tourism, agriculture, water management, and regional connectivity through transportation, customs, and logistics investments. The İstanbul Economy Summit paves the way from potential to action, emphasizing international partnership to address challenges like production diversification, regional integration, and youth employment. This collaboration is key to addressing broader economic and social development issues, leading toward stability. Türkiye's role in the region's economic stability is expected to contribute to political stability as well. In summary, there is immense potential to strengthen economic dynamics. The Turkish private sector is committed

to diversifying production, particularly intermediate goods, strengthening foreign direct investment and technology transfers, and enhancing competitiveness. The İstanbul Economy Summit is an effective platform for building upon these goals. ■ Sibel Kulaksız is a Senior Economist with the World Bank Group South Asia Region, based in Washington, DC. She also served as Country Economist for Middle East and Africa regions taskmanaging macroeconomic policy work with a focus on economic growth, fiscal policy, international trade and regional economic integration issues. Ms. Kulaksiz is the Executive Board Member of the Harvard Kennedy School Women’s Network, and co-President of the Arya Women International Club. She sits on the Executive Board of the Istanbul Economy Summit. She is also the Washington, DC, representative of the World Turkish Business Council.

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INTERVIEW WITH

HONORABLE DAMLA GUCLU TURKISH REPUBLIC OF NORTHERN CYPRUS AMBASSADOR TO WASHINGTON, DC

"Embracing our heritage abroad strengthens our ties and shapes our future." By Oya Bain

n this exclusive interview, we sit down with Honorable Damla Guclu, the esteemed Ambassador of the Turkish Republic of Northern Cyprus to Washington, DC. Ambassador Guclu, a figure of resilience and insight, shares her journey from the historic streets of Lefkosa, Cyprus, to the corridors of power in Washington, DC. Her narrative weaves through her early life amidst the pivotal events of 1974, her academic pursuits in the United States, and her ascent in the realm of diplomacy. Offering a rare glimpse into her personal life, diplomatic missions, and the challenges and triumphs along the way, Ambassador Guclu provides an inspiring account of dedication, cultural heritage, and the continuous quest for peace and understanding on the international stage.

ODTU graduates, have been significant influences in my life. My father, who passed away in 2022, and my mother, who still resides in Lefkosa, instilled in me the values of resilience and understanding.

What were the significant influences in your formative years? The 1974 Turkish intervention in Cyprus deeply impacted my childhood. The uncertain times taught me the importance of cherishing

Could you share with us about your early life and family background? I was born in 1971 in Lefkosa, Cyprus. My younger brother was born during the tumultuous events of 1974. My parents, both Ankara FEB 2024 | TURKNETWORK 35

"In the heart of global politics, our focus is the peace and recognition of Turkish Cypriots." our freedoms and striving for peace. Additionally, my father's involvement in politics and our family discussions about global issues sparked my interest in international relations. Tell us about your education. I started learning English at 5 and attended Turk Maarif Koleji for my high school education. I was fortunate to receive a Fulbright Scholarship and pursued my higher education in sociology, economics, and political affairs at Albright College in Pennsylvania. How did you transition into a career in diplomacy? Although I initially aspired to an academic career, the encouragement from my family and then-fiancé led me to join the foreign

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service. This decision has been rewarding, as it has allowed me to contribute significantly to my country on an international stage.

Cypriot influence. Most recently, I served as the Director General at the Ministry, which involved significant international engagement.

Can you tell us about your family life? I have been married for almost 28 years, and we have two sons. My elder son is a computer engineer in the UK, and my younger son is still in high school in Washington, DC. My husband, also in diplomacy, has been a pillar of support in our journey.

What has been your experience working in Washington, DC? Working in DC is both a privilege and a challenge. It is exhilarating to be at the heart of global politics. My time here has coincided with major global events, including the end of the Cold War and the post-9/11 era, which have shaped my worldview and diplomatic approach.

Could you share your experiences in various diplomatic roles? My first posting was in Washington in 1999. I later served in Stockholm and Brussels, where I managed EU and NATO affairs and addressed the challenges posed by the Greek

What are the main issues you focus on in your current role? The Cyprus issue is central to our work here. We aim to clarify misconceptions and

"Diplomacy is not just policy; it's about building bridges and understanding." advocate for the rights and recognition of Turkish Cypriots. Promoting peace and stability in the Mediterranean, especially concerning natural gas exploration, is also a significant part of our agenda. What are your hobbies and how do you spend your free time? I enjoy a variety of arts and crafts, from knitting and embroidery to painting. These activities offer a creative outlet and relaxation amidst my busy schedule.

What advice would you give to the Turkish American and Turkish American Cypriot communities? I encourage our community members abroad to be ambassadors of our culture and heritage. It is important to maintain ties with our roots and pass this rich heritage onto the younger generations.

Finally, do you have a message for our readers? I am grateful for this opportunity to connect with the Turkish community in the US. It is a privilege to be a part of such a vibrant and dynamic community, and I look forward to continuing our shared journey. ■

Could you share some personal inspirations or moments of pride in your life? Influential figures in my life include Atatürk, Rauf R. Denktas, and my father. Quotes from Gandhi and Lincoln resonate with me deeply. I take great pride in contributing to the development of others, particularly in the upbringing of my sons. Is there anything surprising our readers might find interesting about you? I have a passion for seasonal home decoration and have a penchant for movies with happy endings. I believe these small joys add a unique flavor to life.

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PSYCHOLOGY

FINDING LOVE AS A TURKISH AMERICAN:

A ROMANTIC ROADMAP

Embrace the journey toward love with confidence and hope, opening up a world where love transcends cultural barriers. By Burcin Ogrenir, PhD

n my professional work within the Turkish community, I have often heard Turkish Americans express their feelings of loneliness, with common refrains like, "I feel so lonely" or "I need someone to share life with." This sense of isolation is particularly pronounced among Turkish Americans who find the pursuit of love and companionship in the United States to be a unique challenge. With Valentine's Day in mind, I am motivated to delve into the nuances of dating in this community, striving to harmonize personal desires with cultural identity and the dynamics of American society.

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THE STRUGGLE IS INDEED REAL: THE CHALLENGES Gathering a group of singles, one hears numerous reasons why securing a lasting relationship is difficult. Common issues include a reluctance to commit, significant personality and interest differences, and the deceptive ease of online dating. For Turkish Americans, these challenges are intensified by cultural differences. Cultural Differences: Many Turkish Americans find it challenging to balance the collectivist nature of Turkish culture with the individualistic tendencies of American culture. While avoiding generalizations, a typical

Turkish person might prioritize family-oriented values; whereas, individual goals and autonomy are often more valued in American culture. This can lead to misunderstandings, like a Turkish man being seen as overly attached, or an American as self-centered. Differing gender role expectations can also be a hurdle. For example, my friend Sibel looks for a level of pursuit and dedication in a relationship that she was used to in Türkiye, along with a love for large family gatherings. Without mutual understanding and discussion of these cultural nuances, the path to a successful relationship can be fraught with disappointments.

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Navigating the nuances of dating in a cross-cultural context is not just a challenge, but an opportunity for profound connections and growth.

Limited Opportunities to Meet Other Turkish Singles: One Turkish single woman shared her desire to "listen to Sezen Aksu and enjoy it with my husband." Although many Turkish individuals are open to crosscultural dating and marriage, there is a preference among some to find a Turkish partner. This is especially challenging in areas with limited Turkish representation. The complexity of American dating, with its casual norms and unspoken rules, can be daunting for those accustomed to a more direct approach to romance. The American practice of casual dating and "ghosting" can be confusing and disheartening for those familiar with straightforward dating customs. These challenges, while significant, are not insurmountable. With understanding, patience, and the right approach, Turkish Americans can overcome these hurdles to find partners and build meaningful, fulfilling relationships. But how? WHERE THE SINGLES ARE Through my coaching, I have met many who have found love in various settings, from social circles and dating apps to childhood friends from Türkiye. Let us delve deeper into these avenues: Social Environments: Social circles provide comfort and familiarity, ideal for meeting potential partners with similar interests or cultural backgrounds. Social gatherings with mutual friends offer excellent opportunities to connect, creating a

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Language Barrier: Language barriers significantly impact the dating scene. This is particularly true for recent US arrivals, where conveying humor and emotion in a second language can hinder forming deep, romantic connections. While dating can inadvertently become a way to improve English, it should not be the primary goal. However, a lack of English proficiency should not deter one from dating. Be bold, improve your language skills, and confidently enter the dating world.

foundation of trust and ease for relationship growth. Step out of your comfort zone and mingle in these settings. Online Dating: Online dating platforms are a primary resource for meeting others. They allow setting specific preferences, including cultural background, making it easier to find someone who aligns with your values and interests. Forbes Health reports that 70% of individuals who met someone through a dating app said it led to a romantic, exclusive relationship. Embrace this tool confidently. Connections from Türkiye: Maintaining connections with people from Türkiye can open doors to romantic opportunities, especially given the shared cultural and linguistic background. While long-distance relationships have their challenges, they can be deeply rewarding. Community Events: Community events are excellent for meeting individuals with a strong connection to Turkish culture. Engage in activities like participating in Turkish student associations or attending Turkish music concerts and cultural festivals.

Workplace and Volunteering: The workplace and volunteering are common settings for finding a romantic partner, especially in culturally diverse environments. Your Self Confidence is Key: Confidence is crucial in the journey of finding love. Believe in yourself and your worth as you navigate the complexities of dating, whether online or in person. In summary, the quest for love as a Turkish American is challenging but filled with potential for rich, culturally diverse relationships. Embrace your journey with confidence and hope, opening up a world where love transcends individual and cultural barriers, creating relationships that are as rewarding as they are diverse. ■ Dr Burcin Ogrenir, a Family and Parenting Coach and the Director of April Institute, specializes in child development, personal growth, family dynamics, and education. She pursued her graduate studies in Clinical Psychology and Early Childhood Education from Penn State University. As a former Assistant Professor at the City University of New York, her influence reached international audiences through her teaching and scholarly presentations. Dr Ogrenir's mission centers on serving diverse populations, making knowledge in child development, family relationships, and personal wellbeing accessible to all.

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EDUCATION

REBUILDING LIVES THROUGH EDUCATION:

BRIDGE TO TÜRKİYE FUND'S REMARKABLE JOURNEY OF HOPE One year later the earthquake's impact lingers. The Bridge to Türkiye Fund's educational efforts offer healing and hope. By Dilek Livaneli

xactly one year has passed since the earthquake disaster in Türkiye. The areas affected by the earthquake included 11 cities in the southeastern part of the country. These devastating earthquakes resulted in the loss of more than 50,000 lives, leaving many more displaced and struggling to rebuild. The impact of this tragedy manifested itself in a variety of ways, including posttraumatic problems, profound financial difficulties, and the great emotional struggles of coping with the loss of loved ones. Despite the passage of time, the affected population continues to grapple with the challenges of such a profound disaster. The Bridge to Türkiye Fund (BTF) made a magnificent effort to heal the wounds of the earthquake disaster of the last century through education. I want everyone to be aware of the existence of BTF in this beautiful TurkNetwork magazine. On February 6, 2023, the BTF urgently launched a grassroots emergency response mobilization to alleviate the devastation following the earthquake. Working hand in hand with supporters, leaders, and partners, BTF has created a formidable relief action plan. It is truly admirable that this aid plan continues unabated. I have been involved in educational support projects with BTF for years, focusing particularly on village schools and teacher candidates. As Turks living abroad, you will experience great happiness and pride 42 TURKNETWORK | FEB 2024

by participating in this aid bridge that extends to our country. Donors always desire transparency regarding where their contributions go, and they witness how significant differences can be made with small donations. Trust is the most crucial sentiment in donation platforms, and I witnessed a concrete example of this when I volunteered as a teacher in the earthquake zone last August. Thanks to ATADC's generous donations to BTF, we established a wonderful container classroom in Osmaniye. Scholarships were provided for many female students affected by the earthquake through the proceeds

of the International Women's Day Event organized by the ATADC community and hosted by the Washington Embassy. This had a truly incredible impact, bringing me to tears to see Turks from miles away in America being so sensitive and coming together to make a difference. It was also a great honor for me to receive the International Leading Women Award given by ATADC every year. The primary goal of the meetings we held with the New York BTF at the United Nations podium and the Chicago BTF at the consulate was to call for emergency aid in the earthquake zone.

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In Samandağ and Defne, 26 container classrooms, generously funded by donor communities, are now equipped with air conditioners, student and teacher desks, and whiteboards for enhanced teaching and learning experiences. Our goal is to create optimal learning environments by promoting the success of every student. BTF's commitment to expanding educational opportunities is clearly seen in the construction of 5 school buildings, 6 kindergarten buildings, and 4 container rehabilitation centers for children with special needs. Additionally, 1,085 "Hope" scholarships, 26 fully equipped containers, and BTF's training kits contribute to the empowerment of the next generation. We aim to support students affected by the earthquake not only in their survival but also in their development!

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KINDERGARTEN SCHOOL PROJECTS: In the regions affected by the earthquake, the construction of 5 early education areas, each with two classrooms, one floor, and a capacity of 100 students, continues. Additionally, BTF provides technology kits and educational resources to support the development of 250 children with autism who survived the earthquake. BTF's unwavering commitment continues as we collaborate with new partners to further develop the seismic zone. Join us on this meaningful journey to build bridges in education; your support makes a lasting impact on the lives of these students.

INTRODUCING THE IMPACTFUL BTF DILEK YETMEZ PROJECT!

As the first Turkish Teacher nominated for the Global Teacher Prize, a title likened to the Nobel Prize in Education, and recognized

among the World's 50 Best Teachers, I have dedicated years to teacher education and village school projects. From creating specialized training programs for teacher candidates to voluntarily offering motivation, entrepreneurship, and community service training for over twenty thousand aspiring educators in the last 5 years, my commitment is unwavering. My "One Wish Is Not Enough" project, acknowledged by UNESCO as an "Outstanding Practice and Performance Study," has been a beacon in enhancing the effectiveness of teachers. Embark on my journey from a village school teacher to a global educator through the guide I have crafted for prospective teachers, now distributed by BTF to future educators. In 2024, our goal is to donate 10,000 books to university students in earthquakeaffected areas. Join us on this path of social responsibility, where even a book donation significantly impacts. Contribute to our cause with the donation barcode below, and help us make a big difference with your small donations! For those eager to support the One Wish Is Not Enough (Bir Dilek Yetmez) Project, whether individuals, institutions, or organizations, reach out to us at birdilekyetmez@ gmail.com. As a BTF volunteer, our future endeavors focus on sustainable projects meeting the

long-term needs of survivors in the region. With unwavering dedication, we are committed to providing comprehensive support for the welfare, health, and education of students and earthquake victims. We aim to offer permanent solutions for their benefit. Education stands as the catalyst for change on the anniversary of the earthquake, keeping us alive and resilient. Gratitude to all our donors whose hearts are devoted to education — your support drives our mission. ■

your contribution can make a difference!

Dilek Livaneli has 20 years’ of experience and is a renowned educator and counselor. A Gazi University alumna with a master’s from the Institute of Social Sciences, Dilek has impacted education through her service in Turkish village schools and initiation of substantial projects. She was honored as the Teacher of the Year in 2012 and was a Nobel Global Teacher Prize nominee in 2015. Her “One Wish Is Not Enough” Project was nominated for a UNESCO award in 2018. Dilek is also an Education Ambassador for the Varkey Gems Foundation, continuing to elevate the educational landscape. PHOTO BY OZGUR DONMAZ

Consider these effective initiatives: TECHNOLOGY SUPPORT PROJECT: Realizing the urgent need for technology after the earthquake, BTF cooperated with organizations and provided laptop computer support to 519 students and tablet support to 150 students. This technological assistance ensures that students affected by the earthquake can focus on their studies despite the difficulties.

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IT HAPPENED HERE

Ahmet Rüstem Bey: A Diplomat's Journey from Controversy to Legacy, Bridging Cultures and Navigating Political Tides.

THE MANY VISITS OF A DIPLOMAT By Mehmet Ali Munir

n 1774, the Continental Congress appointed John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, and Thomas Jefferson as treaty commissioners, considering the Ottoman Empire a potential negotiation partner for recognition. In 1786, Adams discussed a mission to the Sublime Porte with the French Foreign Minister. William Smith of South Carolina, then Minister to Portugal, was appointed Minister Resident to the Sublime Porte in 1799, with full authority to negotiate a treaty of amity and commerce. This mission, however, was abandoned because of the French invasion of Egypt. During this period, Ahmet Rüstem Efendi emerged as a noteworthy diplomat from the Empire, ultimately becoming the last Ottoman Ambassador to the US. Born on the island of Midilli as Alfred de Bilinsky to Polish refugee Seweryn Bielinski and Mary Sandison, daughter of the British consul in Bursa, he converted to Islam and became Ahmed Rüstem, deeply connected to his birth country. Fluent in multiple languages, including Arabic, French, German, Greek, Italian, Persian, and Turkish, his diplomatic career was extensive. Rüstem Efendi's first assignment in Washington, DC was in April 1897 as Chief Secretary, following various diplomatic roles in Bulgaria, Greece, Serbia, and England. He briefly left foreign service to participate in the GrecoTurkish War, earning a military medal. His tenure in the US was marked by controversy. After being appointed as Chief Secretary of the London Embassy in 1898, he returned to the Washington Embassy in January 1899. Around 1901, he faced issues with the Ottoman Legation in Washington, leading to his

departure and loss of diplomatic status after exposing corruption in an article for the Daily Mail. After spending time in the UK, Malta, and Egypt, Rüstem Efendi rejoined the foreign service following Abdulhamid II's loss of power in 1909, becoming the chargé d'affaires in Washington. In 1914, he was appointed Ambassador to Washington, replacing Ziya Pasha, and became the first full ambassador. His initial efforts in America included an attempt to prevent the sale of battleships to Greece, although he was unsuccessful. Rüstem Efendi also highlighted the need for counter-propaganda against anti-Turkish sentiment in America, particularly from Greek and Armenian sources. His comments in an article about American internal affairs led President Wilson to declare him persona non grata, though he remained in the US after refusing to apologize. In 1914, as the Ottoman government abolished the capitulations, Rüstem Efendi returned to Istanbul, concluding his diplomatic duties in America. Mustafa Kemal Pasha later acknowledged his diplomatic skills in 1919. Rüstem Efendi contributed to the War of Independence, serving at the Sivas Congress and as a translator in meetings with American General Harbord. He later represented Ankara in the last Ottoman Parliament and the Grand National Assembly. Despite facing a death sentence by the sultan's decree in 1920, he lived off a government pension until he died in 1935 at 73. Ahmet Rüstem Bey's adventurous and significant diplomatic life remains a notable historical chapter. ■ Mehmet Ali Munir is a Balkan Turk who has lived in Canada and the US for 45 years. He researches Turks in America and writes about local history.

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HISTORY

■ Ankara in 1922

■ Modern Ankara with its sparkling shopping malls and residential and office towers.

THE CITY THAT BLEW UP FROM A DUST BOWL TO SKYSCRAPER CAPITAL OF 83 MILLION PEOPLE ANKARA is a rare seat of government without a seashore or major river. By Uğur Akıncı

f you happen to think that “Constantinople” is still the capital of Türkiye, this post is especially for you since Ankara has been the capital city of this country of 83 million since 1923. Time to update your databank. Ankara happens to have a long history dating back to the BC era, but its emergence as a prominent city is relatively new. Captured by Alexander the Great in 334 BC, Ankara was later integrated into the Roman Empire under Augustus. It became an Ottoman city in 1393, transforming into 46 TURKNETWORK | FEB 2024

the Angora Vilayet from 1867 to 1922. Following the Turkish War of Independence, Ankara was officially designated as the capital of the newly founded Turkish Republic on October 13, 1923. No Shoreline or Major River Remarkably, Ankara is one of the few capitals worldwide lacking a shoreline or significant river. This geographical disadvantage makes its rapid growth over the past century even more impressive. Then and Now… In the 1920s, Ankara, despite being the

capital, resembled a dust bowl more than a city, with just a few thousand residents. So, what fueled its transformation into today's bustling metropolis of 5.6 million? Seat of Government Ankara has been Türkiye's government hub for a century. Hosting the Grand National Assembly of Türkiye (Parliament), ministerial buildings, the General Accounting Office, The Supreme Court, and other high courts, it underscores its political significance. The new Presidential Palace Complex further highlights Ankara's role as the political center of this 83-million-strong nation.

HISTORY Ankara: From a Modest Dust Bowl to a Thriving Metropolis of Over 83 Million. A University City Ankara is also a hub of education, home to numerous prestigious universities and research institutions. Attracting hundreds of thousands of students annually, these educational institutions have turned Ankara into a magnet for the youth. A City of Middle-Class Civil Servants Given its status as the location for all government ministries, Ankara naturally has a substantial middle-class civil servant population.

■ Anitkabir - Mausoleum of Atatürk

A City of Skyscrapers Ankara is more than just a government city; it is a place of significant capital investment. This is evident in the plethora of residential and commercial skyscrapers that dot its skyline, transforming it into a city of high-rises. Shopping Malls The city's wealth is also reflected in its numerous luxurious shopping malls, hosting a wide range of well-known Western brands. Despite the country's economic challenges, these malls continue to thrive.

■ The new Presidential Complex in Ankara

In Closing… Projected to reach a population of 6.2 million by 2025, Ankara, despite current economic hurdles, is poised to remain a vital center of governance, politics, education, and commerce for many years to come. ■ Uğur Akıncı, PhD, is a writer who worked for Fortune 100 companies including ADP, Fannie Mae, and Honeywell. During the 90s, he published the first Turkish bi-weekly newspaper in the US, The Turkish Times. He also worked as the Washington Bureau Chief of Turkish Daily News. A member of ATA-DC, he contributed to the Turkish-American community in various capacities as a writer and a board member. He is married with one son. You can email him here. His website is here.

■ Atakule Tower. There is a rotating restaurant on the top floor

■ The Ministry of Environment and Urban Planning

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BANKS SAID NO? HERE’S HOW TO MAKE THEM SAY YES TO YOUR BUSINESS LOAN By Oguz Konar

ecuring a loan for your small business can be challenging, but it is not impossible. With a strategic approach, you can significantly increase your chances of securing the funding you need. Here are some essential steps and resources to guide you: BUILDING YOUR BUSINESS CREDIT

Establishing a Solid Credit History: Your business credit score plays a crucial role. Consistently manage your debts and ensure timely payments. Regular monitoring of your credit score can help you stay on top of any issues.

Separating Personal and Business Finances: It is essential to establish a clear divide between your personal and business finances. This helps in building a business credit score and simplifies accounting and tax processes. ENHANCING YOUR ONLINE PRESENCE

Professional Website: Your website is often the first point of contact for potential lenders or investors. Ensure it is professional, easy to navigate, and clearly communicates what your business does.

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Active Social Media: Use platforms like LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram to showcase your business's activities, achievements, and customer engagement.

Professional Email Addresses: Use email addresses linked to your business domain. This small detail can significantly enhance your professionalism in the eyes of lenders.

FINANCE

Securing a loan for your small business requires careful planning, a strong understanding of your financial health, and a willingness to explore various funding sources. By taking strategic steps, you position your business for a better chance of loan approval and contribute to its overall health and growth. PREPARING A SOLID BUSINESS PLAN

Clear Business Model: Articulate how your business operates, your target market, and your value proposition.

Financial Projections: Present realistic financial projections to demonstrate potential growth and profitability.

Market Analysis: Show that you understand your industry and market trends. This indicates to lenders that you are making informed decisions. OPTIMIZING YOUR CASH FLOW

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Efficient Operations: Streamline operations to improve cash flow. This might involve renegotiating contracts, managing inventory more effectively, or finding more cost-effective suppliers.

Diversifying Revenue Streams: Consider diversifying your products or services to open up additional revenue streams. EXPLORING ALTERNATIVE LENDING OPTIONS

USING RESOURCES AND TOOLS

US Small Business Administration (SBA): The SBA provides various loan programs tailored to different business needs and offers guidance and resources for small businesses.

Online Lenders: Companies like Kabbage, OnDeck, and Lending Club offer various loan options and often have simpler application processes than traditional banks.

SCORE: This nonprofit organization offers free business mentoring and education, helping you prepare for the loan application process.

Microloans: Organizations like Accion offer microloans, which are particularly useful for small startups or businesses with smaller capital needs.

Fundera and NerdWallet: These platforms offer comparisons of various small business loans and lenders, helping you understand the different options available.

CONCLUSION Securing a loan for your small business requires careful planning, a strong understanding of your financial health, and a willingness to explore various funding sources. By building strong business credit, enhancing your online presence, preparing a detailed business plan, optimizing your cash flow, and considering alternative lending options, you position your business for a better chance of loan approval. Remember, each step you take to strengthen your business's foundation not only aids in securing a loan but also contributes to the overall health and growth of your enterprise. ■

Crowdfunding: Platforms like Kickstarter or Indiegogo can be alternative ways to raise funds, especially if your business has a compelling story or innovative product.

Oguz Konar has been featured in many publications such as Forbes, Inc., USA Today, and Entrepreneur Magazine for the work he has done in the lending industry. His company, Business Lending Blueprint, has made the Inc5000 list (America's Fastest Growing Private Companies) 2 years in a row. His videos and educational materials have been seen by more than 20 million people. Find out more about his work here.

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A CUP OF TRADITION:

ELEVATING TURKISH COFFEE ON THE WORLD STAGE By sharing the story of Turkish coffee, we do more than serve a beverage; we pour a 500-year-old tradition into every cup. By Talip Murat Kolbaşı

y previous articles have focused on my findings regarding Turkish coffee, its history, and the integration of technology in its development, as well as its recognition as part of the "intangible cultural heritage of Türkiye" by UNESCO. Today, I would like to discuss how you can contribute to popularizing Turkish coffee and its culture internationally, and ensure its legacy for future generations. I will illustrate what we can achieve with a few examples. Firstly, I encourage you to request Turkish coffee at every cafe, hotel, or restaurant you visit abroad, even if it's not on the menu. This is a point I emphasize at every conference and event where I speak. I practice this regularly when traveling abroad, always asking for Turkish coffee to offer my guests. While this may initially seem inconsequential, it is an important action and a significant step in creating demand for Turkish coffee abroad and introducing it to those unfamiliar with it. I believe that, though it may not happen immediately through the efforts of a few individuals, Turkish coffee will gradually find its place on menus, and our culture will gain popularity in those countries. Everyone should experience the same enjoyment I do while drinking Turkish coffee.

Moreover, I recommend that you enhance the Turkish coffee experience for your guests by purchasing Turkish coffee machines, available in the USA, to help preserve the Turkish Coffee heritage. Even without a coffee machine, you can use a coffee pot to make Turkish coffee for your guests, offering them the same delightful experience. You can be an ambassador of Turkish hospitality. Given that many readers of this article are in the US, I particularly advise cafe and restaurant owners to add Turkish coffee to their menus. As I mentioned in my previous article, it is significant and valuable for them to include various Anatolian dishes from the Ottoman era, as well as different types of Turkish coffee, on their menus. The menu should feature at least five Turkish coffee options, including classic, milk, cardamom, and Tarz-ı Hususi. The variety of coffee we offer can foster admiration for our culture. I want to remind you that Turkish coffee, unique in being the only coffee served with grounds, embodies a concept of grinding, brewing, and presentation. You can provide the Turkish coffee experience with finely ground coffee beans of your choice, available abroad. You can easily make your own Turkish coffee by finely grinding your usual coffee beans, enjoying the familiar aroma. Always remember to serve a glass of water,

candy, or Turkish delight with coffee, and explain the reason for these accompaniments. Whether you are a cafe or restaurant owner or hosting a foreign guest at home, my final advice is to share the story of Turkish coffee, its cultural significance, and various related rituals, especially with those trying it for the first time. In essence, it is vital that we convey the true story of a culture passed down for more than 500 years. I believe this culture, combining a rich history, the deliciousness and unique presentation of Turkish coffee, and Turkish hospitality, will undoubtedly be admired by other coffee cultures. Wherever you are, do not hesitate to request Turkish coffee, whether it is on the menu or not. If necessary, explain to the barista how to prepare, brew, and present it. In doing so, our coffee culture, a precious heritage, will continue to thrive for generations and spread globally. ■ Learn more about Arzum Okka here. Murat Kolbaşı, a Marmara University business grad, began at Arzum Elektrik in 1988, eventually becoming general manager and Board Chairman. In 2008, he facilitated a 49% share transfer to Turkish Household Appliances B.V., bolstering Arzum's industry standing. His pivotal role in the 2013 sale of 49% to SDA International and successfully going public in 2020 underscore his dedication to elevating Arzum globally. Since 2015, as Chairman, Kolbaşı continues driving Arzum’s ascendancy in the global market.

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ART + CULTURE

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ART + CULTURE

CİHAT AŞKIN THE MAESTRO BRIDGING CULTURES THROUGH THE STRINGS OF HIS VIOLIN

Through his music and education, Cihat Aşkın not only plays notes but also sows seeds of cultural understanding across continents. By Erol Güler

ihat Aşkın is a Turkish violinist born in Istanbul. He is recognized internationally as a representative of the Turkish violin school, with a multifaceted identity shaped by his mastery of both Eastern and Western cultures. As a virtuoso violinist, he has embarked on concert tours across North and South America, Europe, Asia, and Africa, sharing Turkish and universal art through recitals and concerts. In February 2024, he is set to perform at the 2024 Miami International GuitART Festival, organized by the Florida International University Wertheim School of Music and Performing Arts. Not only a musician, Aşkın is also an educator. He was appointed Associate Professor in 1998 and Professor in 2006 at Istanbul Technical University, Turkish Music State Conservatory (https://tmdk.itu.edu.tr/en). From 1999 to 2012, he served as the founding co-chair of the Advanced Music Research Center at the same institution. Additionally, he was the Director of the İ.T.Ü. State Conservatory of Turkish Music from 2008 to 2012. As a result,

Aşkın has been invited to numerous radio and TV recordings, educational activities, conferences, and workshops, establishing himself as a versatile and internationally acclaimed figure through the educational and artistic institutions he has contributed to. His musical talent was recognized at a very young age by his family, who enrolled him in a conservatory. Aşkın’s extraordinary talent and disciplined work ethic led to a successful student career. He gave his first recital at the age of 11 and by 15, he had performed all of Paganini’s Caprices, gaining nationwide recognition by performing with the Turkish Presidential Symphony Orchestra. He continued his studies in London at the Royal College of Music and The City University, earning master’s and doctoral degrees. Acknowledged by music authorities as one of today's leading violin virtuosos, Aşkın has participated in numerous festivals in 53 countries across four continents, receiving acclaim from the international press. He began composing at an early age and also made arrangements and soundtracks for the violin and various instruments.

Aşkın has received numerous national and international awards, including the Rome Foyer des Artistes in 2002, the Kennedy Center Gold Medal in 2009, the Buenos Aires Honorary Medal in 2017, the Istanbul Foundation for Culture and Arts (IKSV) Honorary Award in 2021, and the Sevda Cenap And Honorary Award and Gold Medal in the same year. As a jury member in international competitions, he has conducted masterclasses and lectured at significant universities in North and South America, Europe, the Middle East, and the Far East. From 1999 to 2011, he served as a faculty member at the Keshet Eilon Summer School in Israel and from 2011 to 2017 at the Crans Montana Summer School in Switzerland. He also organized summer and winter schools in Italy, Croatia, and Bosnia-Herzegovina. Among his many album releases, the Kreutzer: 42 Etudes album, released in 2006, holds academic value as it is the first of its kind in violin literature. With the Miniatures album released in 1998, he popularized the violin in Türkiye. He also made the first recordings of FEB 2024 | TURKNETWORK 53

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CAKA symbolizes Cihat Aşkın and his Little Friends. This project, infused with Aşkın's personal vision and educational model, has played a significant role in music education over the last 20 years, nurturing artists who have gained international acclaim. The CAKA Model's philosophy is that individuals can develop themselves while respecting their own cultural values. This model has established a system that honors local cultures, aiming to broaden the scope of accumulated knowledge and showcase it on international platforms. The CAKA philosophy embraces all educational movements that enrich children's cultural worlds. Here, children are viewed not just as students, but as friends. It is an educational system many Turkish composers' works. His recording of Turkish Waltzes in 2019 is one of his very popular albums. In 2001, aiming to introduce children to music aesthetics at an early age, Aşkın initiated the “Cihat Aşkın and Little Friends” (Cihat Aşkın ve Küçük Arkadaşları [CAKA]) project, considered a revolutionary movement in music. Through this movement, he has helped launch the stage careers of numerous talented artists in Türkiye and neighboring regions. To support young artists, Aşkın established the Aşkın Ensemble in 2007 and consolidated educational activities under Aşkın Academia in 2017. Institutionally, Aşkın founded the Istanbul Chamber Orchestra in 2001, initiating its season concerts. Under the CAKA education project, he organized educational concerts in various cities across Türkiye. From 2007 onward he consistently conducted CAKA Summer and Winter Schools domestically and internationally. Starting in 2013, he organized the “World Violins” festival. Moreover, to preserve cultural identity and support young artists, he conducted regular concerts and radio programs at TRT (Turkish Radio and Television Corporation) from 2014 to 2023. In 2023, he assumed the role of General Music Director for Adrafest, an organization he founded.

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In summary, Aşkın is an artist of truly international caliber and a person who has dedicated his life to making the world a better place through his music. ■

that avoids top-down teaching or dictation. In the CAKA philosophy, guidance is offered in the form of friendly advice, with educational work achieved through collaboration

The opening weekend, starting on February 17, will present the "Latin American Folk Blend" concert, setting the stage for a cultural immersion. The Anatolian Ensemble, featuring Neva Özgen Kösoglu, Cihat Aşkın, Yelda Özgen Öztürk, and Mesut Özgen, will grace the stage on February 18, offering a mesmerizing fusion of Turkish musical elements. In this year's festival, Cihat Aşkın will also be delivering a lecture on Turkish music. Find more information and immerse yourself in this extraordinary musical experience here. Erol Guler, PhD, is the co-owner of GT Consultants LLC in Virginia. Previously, he was the co-owner of the ELC Group in Istanbul, Türkiye, for 20 years, which was acquired later by the global consulting engineering firm Royal HaskoningDHV. He has served as the principal geotechnical engineer to more than 200 projects in Türkiye and many different countries. He is also a retired professor from Bogazici University where he dedicated 37 years. Since 2017, he has served as an affiliate professor at George Mason University.

between older and younger friends. Currently, CAKA has 11 branches in Türkiye, creating a network among students from all these branches. The vision of CAKA is that the appreciation of humanity, civilization, brotherhood, peace, justice, goodness, righteousness, and beauty worldwide can primarily be realized through the lens of art aesthetics. A human community nurtured within this framework will adopt a more positive approach to nature, art, science, and humanity, making the world a more beautiful place. The mission of CAKA is to serve all humanity within the ambit of its vision, irrespective of religion, language, race, politics, color, nationality, and any form of partiality. In line with this mission, it conducts activities that respect the official laws of the countries where it operates and are in harmony with societal norms.

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BEYOND BILLIONS:

A GUIDE TO BUILDING ENDURING VALUE IN TECH STARTUPS True success in the tech world is not just measured by fundraising rounds, but by building ventures that are sustainable, scalable, and ready for the unpredictable. By Guclu Ozenci

n the rapidly evolving technology landscape of today, media headlines often spotlight multibillion-dollar valuations and substantial funding rounds secured by high-profile entrepreneurs. However, the real question is: What truly defines success, and is there a roadmap to achieving global growth across multiple regions? Additionally, do early-stage founders fully understand that each fundraising round involves committing to new investors? My close collaboration with pre-seed stage founders includes working with a dedicated team of mentors, seasoned entrepreneurs, and experts. We guide these founders in building scalable ventures through a proven framework and curriculum. Our method involves pushing them to complete weekly assignments, known as "sprints," similar to the rapid development cycles in software development, which occur every ten days. However, the challenging nature of our 14-week program often leads to exhaustion for many participants, resulting in dropout rates. Only the resilient 30% who persevere have the opportunity to continue their entrepreneurial journey and potentially embark on a fundraising endeavor. The January issue explored key players in the tech ecosystem and the pivotal

role investors play in supporting emerging startups. While some founders opt for bootstrapping, funding their early-stage ventures until they gain traction, others choose to wait, allowing considerable traction to build before increasing their venture's valuation. This strategy helps them secure more funding while giving up less equity. Once startups enter the fundraising arena, they are expected to continuously grow and secure further funding rounds. Investors strategically invest in ventures they believe will yield profitable exits in the future. This exit strategy often involves selling equities to laterstage investors or waiting for a potential IPO. Reflecting on the post-pandemic economic surge, it is evident that investors, particularly venture capitalists, capitalized on the influx of capital. This led to a spike in startup valuations and sometimes a fear of missing out (FOMO) among investors. Early-stage founders may view fundraising as a key metric of success. However, the real measure of success is building a sustainable venture. Fundraising can sometimes pressure founders to chase rapid growth without considering profitability or sustainability, relying too much on external funding. This approach was popular when capital was plentiful. However, with the current economic climate, investors are now looking for ventures that prioritize sustainability over

rapid, externally fueled growth. Coming from a region with financial constraints, stringent investor criteria, economic crises, high client expectations, and limited resources, I lean toward building ventures that are not only scalable but also sustainable and prepared for unpredictable challenges. Today, most investors advocate for careful spending, extending the runway, and steady, calculated growth. I believe this is the optimal approach. The most successful startups, in my opinion, will emerge during economic constraints—focusing on traction, sustainable growth, and strategically timing fundraising efforts. For any tech-specific questions, accelerator opportunities at Founder Institute Accelerator (www.fi.co), or to attend our monthly founder meetup events, feel free to reach out to me. ■ Guclu Ozenci, a renowned technology entrepreneur, boasts a career marked by blending business needs with tech innovations. With roles at Cisco, HP, and Vodafone, he honed his adeptness in operations and relationship building. In 2013, he cofounded a B2B SaaS startup, leading it to a 2020 acquisition. Currently, as the managing director at the Founder Institute in Washington, DC, Ozenci focuses on aiding pre-seed startups. He is launching Axent Ventures, specifically supporting immigrant founders, by providing capital, networks, and expertise, reflecting his commitment to fostering entrepreneurial success. Learn more about Ozenci here.

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FRIENDSHIP AS AN ESSENTIAL FOR A GOOD LIFE In the journey of life, friendships evolve from pleasure and utility to complete relationships, mirroring our own personal growth and changing values.

By Melisa Gulsun Ozmen

ndoubtedly, friendship is one of the essential elements of living a good life. Aristotle, the ancient Greek philosopher who lived from 384 BC to 322 BC in the kingdom of Macedon (now part of Greece) under Alexander the Great, emphasized the importance of friendship in his "Nicomachean Ethics." He described friendship as the most necessary part of life, stating, “For no one would choose to live without friends, even if he had all the other goods.” Aristotle noted that friendship should be based on reciprocated goodwill. Individuals seeking to form friendships should have goodwill toward each other, wish well for one another, and be aware of their mutual attitudes.

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LIFE COACHING

Friendships, however, vary in nature. Aristotle categorized them into three types: pleasure, utility, and complete friendships. As we age and mature, our friendships may evolve from one category to another, influenced by changing life conditions and purposes. During our youth, our relationships typically center around feelings and pleasures. We choose friends who bring us pleasure rather than for their inherent traits. For instance, we might befriend a witty person not for his wit but because his company is enjoyable. Such friendships, often formed during school and university years, include short-term sexual relationships and nonsexual friendships alike. Aristotle's second type, utility friendships, resemble those of pleasure. Here, we choose friends not for their character but for the benefits they bring. These often occur during our career-building years, like friendships formed in the workplace or for business purposes. A contemporary term for this is "friendships with benefits," prevalent in individualistic cultures like the United States. This does not mean we do not genuinely care for these friends. Our affection stems from the utility and pleasure they provide. However, pleasure and utility friendships are usually coincidental and temporary. Mixing utility and pleasure friendships can lead to conflicts of interest, as the love in such friendships fades when the benefits cease. Life's constant changes may dissolve these friendships naturally, and there is no guilt in this. In middle age, we begin to value our time more and seek virtues like honesty, integrity, and trust in our friendships. Aristotle referred to friendships based on shared virtues and values as complete friendships. These are deliberate choices, not based on the utility or pleasure provided by the friend. Goodwill and mutual support are key in these enduring and rare relationships. The pursuit of complete friendships transcends changing life conditions and hinges on quality communication and conversation. Being aware of the type of friendship we are in can prevent interpersonal conflicts. Understanding the purpose of the friendship

allows clear expectations. In pleasure friend- Achieving a complete friendship with ourships, mutual enjoyment keeps the balance. selves means that the only type of friendship In utility friendships, a just measure of benefit we need is complete friendships. Aristotle maintains harmony. In complete friendships, echoes this in Nicomachean Ethics, stating, the balance is maintained through personal “The excellent person is related to his friend decisions, without zero-sum calculations. in the same way as he is related to himself, Friendship is just one part of life's larger since a friend is another himself.” To this, I pie, which includes partnerships, marriage, add, “No one should live without a complete family, career, financial well-being, mental friendship with oneself, even if he had all the and physical health, personal growth, creativ- other goods.” ■ ity, spirituality, and even solitude. What we Melisa Gulsun Ozmen is an ecochoose to prioritize depends on our soul's nomics graduate with two decades in Turkish business. She relocated deepest desire. Some may find their deepest to the US in 2018, seeking personal fulfillment in friendship, while others may growth. Immersed in a distinct culture, find it elsewhere. The most important thing she discovered inner transformation’s paramountcy, inspired by Osho’s is to be aware of this inner desire. wisdom. This revelation led her to As a life coach, I partially agree with Aristhe Transformational Life Coaching totle’s view that “For no one would choose Program, graduating in 2020 and cementing her life's purto live without friends, even if he had all pose. Melisa is a lifelong learner and coach, continuously the other goods.” I believe that elements of exploring political science, psychology, and astrology, while also illuminating her journey of self-discovery and enlightenfriendship are present in every aspect of life, ment through perpetual learning. Learn more about Melisa especially in the relationship with oneself. and visit her blog. FEB 2024 | TURKNETWORK 59

CAREERS

EMBRACE YOUR INNER TRAILBLAZER WITH THESE 5 FUTURE-PROOF JOBS "They make you work all day but they don't pay you or let you go." ― Philip J. Fry - Futurama By Kitty Waldorf

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re you dreaming of a career that is anything but ordinary? The future of work is finally here, and it is brimming with adventure, just as Futurama depicted! Forget robots stealing your job—incredible, unconventional careers are taking hold right

now, waiting for bold individuals who crave more than the daily grind. From exploring uncharted territories to pushing the boundaries of technology, these five emerging jobs offer the chance to turn your wildest dreams into reality. With notable DMV people and organizations leading the future of work included, let us dust off our senses of exploration. Shall we?

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1. GENE EXPERT Gene experts are genetic counselors, clinical geneticists, or molecular geneticists. They can have diverse roles depending on their specialization and field of practice. However, some of the common primary duties across these roles include: Primary duties: Interpreting and analyzing genetic test results, providing genetic counseling, educating patients and healthcare professionals about genetics,staying up-to-date on the latest advances in genetics Education: BS in molecular biology and genetics or BS in biology is required. Workplace settings: Laboratories, research hospitals, medical schools Average salary: $55,000 per year (LinkedIn.com) Notable Gene Expert in DC: Jennifer Doudna from Howard Hughes Medical Institute in Chevy Chase, MD

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3. DRONE PILOT Primary duties: Inspecting the drone and equipment for functionality and safety, checking weather conditions and ensuring they are suitable for flight, piloting the drone safely and responsibly, adhering to air traffic regulations and airspace restrictions, developing flight plans and mission profiles, creating and editing aerial photography and videography, conducting data analysis and interpretation, providing training and support to other drone pilots, marketing and promoting drone services. Education: Graduating from a STEM program is helpful but not required. Workplace settings: Offices, everywhere that can fly drones Average salary: $130,916 per year (ziprecruiter.com) According to the USCP website, federal law prohibits flying Unmanned Aircraft Systems,

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2. AUGMENTED REALITY DEVELOPER Augmented reality (AR) developers are responsible for creating and maintaining software applications that overlay digital elements onto the real world through smartphones, tablets, or specialized eyewear. Their work blends aspects of software development, 3D design, and user experience design, requiring a diverse skill set. Primary duties: Communicate effectively with clients and stakeholders to manage expectations and deliver successful projects, optimize performance and battery usage to prevent lag and ensure a smooth experience, write clean and efficient code to ensure smooth performance and stability of the AR application and design AR objects that seamlessly integrate with the real world, considering scale, lighting, and interaction. Education: BS in computer science or BS in mathematics or equivalent is required. Workplace settings: Offices, computer labs, innovation labs Average salary: $120,000 per year (US Bureau of Labor Statistics) Notable Augmented Reality Developer in DC: Asanté Asiedu, Udeesa Systemics & Technology based in Washington, DC

such as drones, anywhere in the District of Columbia. Washington, DC, and the US Capitol Grounds are designated as a NO DRONE ZONE. Anyone violating Traffic Regulation §16.2.90 will be subject to arrest, a $300 fine, and/or 90 days imprisonment and may also face additional federal civil and criminal penalties. For this reason, we list a notable drone pilot company in the DMV if you want to learn more about becoming a drone pilot or take your children there as a shadowing internship for a day or two. Notable Drone Pilot Company in DMV: Hover Solutions LLC, based in Rockville

4. ENVIRONMENTAL ENGINEER Primary duties: Design water treatment and wastewater treatment systems, develop air pollution control systems, plan and design solid waste management facilities, conduct environmental impact assessments for proposed projects, conduct research on environmental issues and develop innovative solutions, Provide expert testimony in legal proceedings related to environmental concerns, advocate for environmental protection policies and regulations, educate the public about environmental issues and sustainability practices. Education: BS in environmental sciences or a relevant field is required. Workplace settings: Offices, universities, everywhere that the water, air, and soil pollution is controlled in a living community Average salary: $96,820 per year (careerexplorer.com) Notable Environmental Engineer in DC: Dr Marc Edwards

5. QUANTUM MACHINE LEARNING ANALYST Primary duties: Analyzing the performance and efficiency of quantum algorithms for specific tasks compared to classical approaches, selecting and adapting existing QML models or designing new ones based on specific needs, preparing and transforming data into formats suitable for quantum processing, considering limitations and noise characteristics, following research and development in quantum hardware and software advancements, collaborating effectively with quantum engineers, scientists, data scientists, and other analysts, contributing to the development and standardization of QML methodologies and best practices Education: BS in physics, quantum information technologies, mathematics or a relevant field is required. Workplace settings: Office, computer labs, industrial zones Average salary: $42,584 per year (ziprecruiter.com) Notable Quantum Machine Learning Analyst in DC: Jennifer Bisceglie, Founder and CEO at Interos Inc. based in Fairfax, VA What excites you about future jobs? Please get in touch with me on Linkedin and share your thoughts! ■ Kitty Waldorf is a self-excellence professional with more than 14 years of experience in MENA and US markets, focused on education, healthcare, and security and defense. She has been voted as the Best Life Coach of the Nation’s Capital since 2019. In 2023, she was named the Winner of the Best Life Coaching Category in Washington City Paper readers’ poll. Connect with Waldorf.

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CRYING BABIES, MOTHERHOOD, AND CAREER

Two TV series rescue mothers with small babies who feel like life is almost over and they will never be able to return to their careers... These two series convey the message "you are not alone" on motherhood, cultural codes, women's role in parenting, and career pauses. By Serra Karacam

t is a common situation today for a woman, shortly after having her first child, to feel anxiety about "being defined only as a mother from now on" and to struggle with this. The struggle to choose and balance your priorities has now begun. Dedication to

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motherhood is a major challenge, not a small hassle for many women. One of the discussions of women's equality with men is the business of feminism. However, the mother category is distinct from the women category even though it is still one of the main areas of feminism. This is because many of the problems mothers face—social, economic, political, cultural, psychological, and so forth— are specific to women’s roles and identity as mothers.1 Mothers are in a non-stop rush for months after birth, dealing with everything from breastfeeding to patting the child every time it cries, soothing it, cleaning it by changing its diaper repeatedly, and putting it to sleep. And of course, endless judgments they face. While the choice of not being a mother is a single matter of being judged, when you become a mother, you can be judged on millions of issues... The Letdown, released in 2017, is an Australian production and can be watched on Netflix. In addition to the transformation process that

Audrey and Jeremy go through with the baby, the experiences of other mothers and couples that Audrey encounters at the parenting group she reluctantly attends are also told. Audrey is a copywriter. There are different examples of a mother, for example, one who has a child with a donor, another a couple where the mother continues her career and the husband looks after the child as a "housewife." The show progresses in a balance of drama and comedy. Another series is Workin' Moms. In the series, which takes place in Toronto, Canada, the comedy side is more dominant in telling the story of the journey of a group of mothers. Psychiatrist, PR specialist, real estate agent, but all mothers... The length of leave that workplaces give to mothers varies. Parents are protected by the law for up to 12 weeks (FMLA). Some mothers take these three months of maternity leave, while others take another three months of unpaid but job-protected leave to complete their stay at home for 6 months, depending on their contract. Some people take a break from their working life for the first year, which is called "long leave" or "career break." Of course, they can return to their job once they are done. The period of sitting at home, especially in the first months, begins as a period when the mother barely has time even to take a shower.

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■ 2018 ACTAA Awards Alison Bell and Sarah Scheller, Sydney Australia

While mothers who are exposed to a bombardment of information strive to make the right choices, they also face pressure from their immediate environment. This starts during pregnancy. For example, some women do not have the chance to have a normal birth, no matter how much they want it. Some people prefer a cesarean section even though it is not a necessity. Then the issue of breastfeeding comes into play. No matter how much breastfeeding training they have received, some mothers start to give their babies formula, thinking that their milk supply is not enough. Some give a bottle for a few days to let their wounds heal. Then the baby gets used to the bottle and no longer accepts the breast. Should your baby sleep alone in the room, or should you go to him immediately when he cries? Topics go on like this. In this process, if they have decided to have children with their partner and are still together, they expect support from the baby's father. *** Some women who take a break from their jobs also go into an identity crisis. While they want the people who are temporarily assigned to take care of their duties at the workplace to be successful in managing, they

may start to worry about whether they will replace their posts. Mothers may feel like everyone is running, progressing, and rising, but they are falling behind. On the one hand, as the start date for work approaches, they feel both happy and sad because they will be separated from the baby. The problem of finding a caregiver begins. Generally, help is expected from grandmothers. If there is a neighbor at home who provides childcare at home in the neighborhood, the children are left at these nurseries. Grandmothers' old child-rearing practices, which are incorrect according to updated scientific information, can also be a cause for concern. *** When they return to work, for example, with calls from the caregiver between a very important meeting as it happened in one of the shows above, it is as if they are running an obstacle course compared to their colleagues. Leaving meetings early to pump milk for example. They cannot make the same effort as everyone who does not have a small baby! On the one hand, their spouses do not/ cannot provide adequate support in tasks related to the care of the baby due to careeroriented reasons; it makes you feel like this is unfair.

On the other hand, mothers who think that they always must put the baby first also experience an internal struggle of guilt for the desire for self-fulfillment. Parents groups where you can look at other mothers with small babies around you and compare yourself are also a must-have part of the process. Another point that spouses face when it comes to children is that although spouses from different religious beliefs and philosophies are in harmony while living together, they cannot agree when it comes to children. For example, it is inevitable to have a conflict with an elder family member who tries to put dates in the newborn baby's mouth, believing that it is sacred and will heal him, or, like in the Letdown, an atheist mother who does not want to have her child baptized will have a conflict with the father, who is a Catholic, even if he is not religious. *** Nowadays, especially among immigrant Turkish Americans, concerns about having children while pursuing a business career or academic life are intense. Couples trying to get back on their feet postpone it because of the pressure of the needs such as bringing a family member to America to support childcare, as it brings needs such as moving to a larger house. I observe that this is mostly due to reasons such as feeling that they are obliged to offer the best to their future children and that it would be unfair to the child if they cannot provide a sufficient "environment." This causes the age of motherhood to be older which is called geriatric pregnancy (literally) after age 35. Those who have gone through a difficult struggle in their education life in the US, especially in the fields of medicine, dentistry, and law, by taking exam after exam, have to agree with their spouses on the sharing of duties and the allocation of their careers. In other words, if the mother takes a break from work and school when the baby is born, the father will need to focus on the child by entering a period of lower volume in the next round. Meticulous attention to cleanliness, general housework, and baby care, which is also FEB 2024 | TURKNETWORK 63

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is wealth. In Türkiye, aside from families who have a good income to raise their children with English-speaking tutors and nannies, some families also prefer schools that provide English education. However, for Turks in America, mastering the rich use of the native language is at least as important. Bilingual mothers have a choice to make, which has a huge impact on their children's capacity to learn and comprehend. And cultural hesitation is another concern for some regarding having children.

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common among Americans of Turkish origin; turns out to be a full-time, even 24/7 job. Having help with daily tasks by hiring someone, even occasionally, is a luxury. For example, cleaners who come to clean the house and find it too messy may not give

you an appointment again. Or the standard of service provided may result in you doing twice as much work. Another issue is that children learn the use of Turkish as competently and with the correct accent as English. Because language

No matter what, choosing not to be a mother and choosing to be a mother are both people's own decisions and are equally worthy of respect. Of course, these difficult times pass somehow. The important thing is to know this and not be overly anxious. Understanding the sensitivity of motherhood and respecting her choice not to be a mother is equally extremely important in establishing healthy relationships. *** In the two series I mentioned, you can watch the struggles of mothers with different characters and choices, who come from different paths and whose lives intersect. You will also see that you are not alone in all difficult decisions, such as having a sibling to your baby or having a child at a later age, apart from motherhood and career. The trend of loneliness continues to increase in American society at an epidemic level. And while the feeling of loneliness in immigrant communities brings us closer to each other, we continue to work to offer the best to our children who enliven our simple lives. ■

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SOURCES 1. Matricentric Feminism: A feminism for mothers by Andrea O Reilly

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Serra Karaçam is a broadcast journalist born in Istanbul in 1983. She graduated from Kadir Has University, Department of International Relations, and Political Science in 2004. She started her career as a foreign news editor and worked as a presenter in different media outlets. She lives in Virginia.

BOOK

THE TURKISH WAR OF INDEPENDENCE:

A MILITARY HISTORY, 1919–1923 Esteemed historian Edward J Erickson's latest book marks the Turkish Republic's 100th Anniversary, reflecting his deep expertise in Ottoman and Turkish history. By Oya Bain

e are delighted to present a remarkable book by the esteemed military historian, Edward J. Erickson. This publication arrives at a particularly opportune moment, coinciding with the recent celebration of the 100th Anniversary of the Turkish Republic. Professor

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Erickson, renowned for his expertise in modern Ottoman and Turkish history, brings a wealth of knowledge and insight to this work. His extensive curriculum vitae and the impressive array of his published works available on Amazon stand testament to his invaluable contributions to the field of military history.

Edward J Erickson ABC-CLIO, May 24, 2021 - History - 399 pages The dramatic story of the turbulent birth of modern Türkiye, which rose out of the ashes of the Ottoman Empire to fight off Allied occupiers, Greek invaders, and internal ethnic groups to proclaim a new republic under Mustafa Kemal (Atatürk). It is exceedingly rare to run across a significant historical event that has no comprehensive English-language history. Still, such was the case until The Turkish War of Independence brought together all the main strands of the story, including the chaotic ending of World War I in Asia Minor and the numerous military fronts on which the Turks defied odds, fighting off several armies to create their state from the defeated ashes of the Ottoman Empire. This important book culminates Erickson's three-part series on the early 20th-century military history of the Ottomans and Türkiye. Making wide use of specialized, hard-to-find Western and Turkish memoirs and military sources, it presents a narrative of the fighting, which eventually brought the Turkish Nationalist armies to victory. Often termed the "Greco-Turkish War," an incomplete description that misses its geographic and multinational scope, this war pitted Greek, Armenian, French, British, Italian, and insurgent forces against the Nationalists; the narrative shows these conflicts to have been distinct and separate to Türkiye's opponents, while the Turkish side saw them as an interconnected whole. This book completes a trilogy of books by Edward J Erickson on the conventional wars of the Ottoman and Turkish armies in the early 20th century, the first two of which are Defeat in Detail: The Ottoman Army in the Balkans, 1912–1913 (2003) and Ordered to Die: A History of the Ottoman Army in the First World War (2001). With no comprehensive English-language military history available, it fills a massive gap in our understanding of this important war and Türkiye's founding on the centenary of Türkiye's birth. This book also contains the first reconciliation of combatant estimates of military and civilian casualties in the Turkish War of Independence and analyzes the Turkish War of Independence as an early example of modern "hybrid-war" (combination of differing types of wars—in this case, simultaneously conventional, unconventional, counterinsurgency, and political-economicinformation warfare).

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FINANCE

UNRAVELING THE MYSTERY:

WHY MONEY MATTERS IN OUR LIVES

By Yasar Daglar

n the intricate tapestry of human existence, one thread binds us all—the undeniable presence and influence of money. "Why Money?" one might ask, as it weaves its way through every facet of our lives, from the mundane to the extraordinary. In this exploration, we delve into the profound significance of money, beyond its tangible notes and coins, and unravel the layers of its impact on our individual and collective experiences.

Money, weaving through the tapestry of human existence, is more than a medium of exchange; it is a reflection of our choices, aspirations, and the interconnectedness of our global community.

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At its core, money is more than a medium of exchange or a store of value; it is a reflection of our societal values, aspirations, and interconnectedness. It serves as a facilitator, a catalyst for progress, and a symbol of human endeavor. Understanding the "Why" behind money requires us to peel back the layers and appreciate its multifaceted role in our lives.

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1. Freedom and Choice Money empowers us with the freedom to make choices. It provides the means to explore our passions, invest in education, and pursue the experiences that enrich our lives. The ability to make choices is a fundamental aspect of human agency, and money, in its various forms, amplifies our capacity to shape our destinies.

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2. Security and Stability In a world marked by uncertainties, money serves as a shield, offering a sense of security and stability. From building emergency funds to securing health insurance, the financial resources at our disposal contribute to our resilience in the face of unexpected challenges. Money becomes a tool for navigating the ebb and flow of life. 3. Expression of Values The way we earn, spend, and invest our money reflects our values. Whether supporting

FINANCE In the intricate dance of life, money is not just a currency, but a mirror of our values, a catalyst for freedom, and a builder of legacies, touching every aspect of our existence.

charitable causes, investing in sustainable practices, or choosing where to shop, our financial decisions contribute to shaping the world we want to live in. Money becomes a conduit for expressing our ethical, environmental, and social values.

the resources at our disposal contribute to our overall well-being. Money becomes a tool for enhancing the human experience.

6. Interconnected Global Economy In an increasingly interconnected world, money serves as the common language of international trade and cooperation. It fos4. Fueling Innovation and Progress Money is the lifeblood of innovation and ters global collaboration, allowing nations progress. It fuels research, funds entrepre- to exchange goods, services, and ideas. The neurial ventures, and supports the develop- "Why" behind money extends beyond indiment of transformative technologies. The vidual lives, weaving together the fabric of "Why" behind money lies in its ability to the global economy. drive the engines of progress, pushing the boundaries of what is possible and shaping 7. Legacy and Impact Money, when used thoughtfully, has the the future. power to create a lasting impact. Whether through philanthropy, supporting future 5. Quality of Life and Well-Being While money alone cannot buy happiness, generations, or contributing to positive sociit undeniably influences our quality of life. etal change, the legacy of money extends From access to education and healthcare to far beyond its immediate transactions. The the pursuit of leisure and cultural experiences, "Why" becomes a question of the legacy we

wish to leave behind. In conclusion, the question of "Why Money?" invites us to explore the intricate tapestry of our lives and society. Beyond its material form, money is a force that shapes our choices, provides security, fuels progress, and connects us on a global scale. As we navigate the complexities of financial landscapes, let us reflect on the profound impact of money and strive to channel its influence toward a more equitable, sustainable, and fulfilling future. ■ Yasar Daglar, born in 1975, is a seasoned financial consultant residing in the United States since 1993. Passionate about helping others achieve financial success, he entered the finance and consulting arena in 2003. Over two decades, he has offered invaluable guidance to individuals and businesses on money and credit matters. Daglar's commitment to empowering others through sound financial practices has earned him respect as a trusted advisor in the world of finance and credit consulting.

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TECHNOLOGY

EXPLORING NEW HORIZONS:

MASTERING VIRTUAL REALITY TECHNOLOGY IN THE PROFESSIONAL SPHERE Virtual reality is redefining the professional landscape, offering innovative solutions for learning, design, and therapy, and transforming how we engage with the world around us. By Hürriyet Aydin Ok

irtual reality (VR) technology, once a futuristic concept, has evolved into a transformative tool in various professional sectors. Its application extends far beyond gaming, offering innovative ways for learning, collaboration, and creativity. This guide delves into VR's expansion from gaming to revolutionizing professional fields.

UNDERSTANDING VR'S CORE TECHNOLOGY VR creates a simulated environment using computer technology, providing an immersive experience that is both realistic and interactive. Differing from traditional screens, VR plunges users into a three-dimensional world. Headsets,

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tracking head movements, translate these into virtual space, creating a sense of being "inside" the digital environment. Hand-held controllers or sensor-equipped gloves facilitate natural interaction within the virtual world. Prominent players in this sector include Meta Quest 2, HTC

Vive Pro 2, and Sony PlayStation VR2. Apple's Vision Pro, launched in 2024, is a pioneering hybrid device reshaping both VR and augmented reality (AR) experiences. VR IN PROFESSIONAL FIELDS VR's influence spans across education, healthcare, real estate, and training simulations, moving beyond its initial gaming and entertainment applications. Transformative Education and Training: Entities like Meta are revolutionizing university education in the US. Examples include Stanford's VR soft skills training, Miami Dade's virtual music classes, and New Mexico State's crime scene investigation programs,

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demonstrating VR's role in enhancing engagement and understanding. Innovative Real Estate and Architecture: VR offers powerful visualization and marketing tools. Companies like Matterport provide immersive 3D property tours, enabling clients to explore spaces virtually from anywhere. Revolutionizing Product Design and Manufacturing: Solutions like Autodesk's VR enable designers and engineers to prototype and test in virtual settings, reducing time and costs. Sales & Marketing: VR creates immersive product demonstrations and virtual showrooms, enhancing engagement and sales. Therapy & Rehabilitation: VR exposure therapy is effective for anxiety, phobias, and PTSD, and VR games for rehabilitation motivate patients in physical therapy. EMERGING TRENDS AND FUTURE APPLICATIONS VR's global impact is clear, with professionals from diverse backgrounds adopting this technology. For example, Turkish-American startups like VRT-U are using VR for designing user Interfaces (UI) for public safety operations,

and Japanese manufacturers are applying it in automotive design. VR's immersive nature improves learning and retention in education and opens new avenues for marketing and customer engagement in business. In healthcare, VR offers realistic surgical training and patient care scenarios. LOOKING TO THE FUTURE This overview of VR's varied applications highlights its potential to spur growth and innovation. Identifying specific needs and selecting the appropriate VR platform or application is crucial. As VR continues to evolve, staying abreast of technological advancements is essential. For customized VR solutions, consulting firms like Virtual Reality Technology Universe (VRT-U) offer expertise in creating experiences that drive business growth. ■ Hürriyet Aydin Ok is the Founder of VRT-U, LLC, a startup technology venture focusing on XR technologies. He is also a senior research fellow at GWU Cyber Security & Privacy Research Institute (CSPRI) and teaches courses in ecommerce security and augmented and virtual reality. Hürriyet was a member of the IT leadership team for over 24 years at the World Bank Group, and contributed in the areas of new technology infrastructure strategy and cybersecurity. Ok holds a PhD in computer science from the GWU, and MS and BS degrees from Hacettepe University, Ankara, Türkiye.

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EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION:

THE LIFELINE OF DIASPORA COMMUNITIES

Diaspora communities bridge worlds with the power of communication, nurturing their rich heritage while embracing new cultures and fostering global understanding.

By Suheyla Tayla

he term "communication" derives from the Latin word "communicare," meaning "to share, inform; unite." Communication is a fundamental aspect of human interaction, encompassing the exchange of information, ideas, and thoughts. It is vital for building and maintaining both personal and professional relationships, enabling us to express our feelings, share experiences, and connect with others. Effective communication is crucial in all life aspects as it helps reduce misunderstandings, improve productivity, and boost morale. In relationships, it involves not just talking, but also listening, understanding, and responding. It is a two-way street, where both parties actively engage, fostering trust and intimacy. In our globalized age, the concept of diaspora has gained significance. Diaspora communities, formed by individuals who have left their native countries, often maintain strong connections to their cultural roots while adapting to new environments. This dual identity presents unique opportunities and challenges in communication. Effective communication is crucial for diasporas, serving as a bridge between their country of origin and new home, and as a tool for preserving cultural identity and fostering community cohesion. For diaspora communities, communication is about preserving identity. Language, stories, music, and traditions are cultural heritage vessels, and transmitting them is vital to keep the homeland spirit alive. This

is especially important for second and thirdgeneration diaspora members, who may not have direct homeland experience. Language, as the archive of culture, encapsulates a community's history, values, and worldview. Therefore, teaching the native language to younger generations is emphasized through language schools, cultural classes, and community events. Effective communication within diaspora communities fosters belonging and solidarity. These communities often act as support networks for new immigrants and as social anchors. Through community centers, social gatherings, and online platforms, they share valuable information about life in the new country, from legal advice to employment opportunities. In crises, like the recent devastating earthquake in Türkiye, these communities unite, coordinating efforts and resources. The ability to communicate effectively—to organize, mobilize, and support—is crucial in these situations. Communication also plays a pivotal role in integrating diaspora communities into their new societies. It is a two-way process: diasporas expressing their cultural identity and host societies providing an inclusive environment. Language proficiency is key to integration, allowing diaspora members to participate fully in their new country's life. Diaspora communities often act as cultural ambassadors, promoting their heritage through festivals, art exhibitions, and cultural exchanges. These events celebrate diversity and foster mutual respect and understanding between different cultural groups.

However, effective communication in diaspora communities faces challenges, such as language barriers and the risk of misinformation, particularly on digital platforms. To overcome these, diaspora communities leverage technology, with online platforms and social media becoming vital for maintaining connections and celebrating cultural milestones. In conclusion, effective communication is diaspora communities' cornerstone, enabling cultural heritage preservation, community building, integration, and multicultural exchange. Though it faces complexities like emotional nuances, language barriers, and technological challenges, steps can be taken to overcome these and communicate more effectively. As the world grows more interconnected, the role of diaspora communities in bridging cultures and fostering global understanding becomes more significant. By harnessing communication's power, these communities not only maintain their cultural tapestries but also contribute to their host countries' cultural richness, creating a more diverse and inclusive world. ■ For 30 years, Suheyla Tayla was a senior political strategist at the US Embassy in Ankara, advising 10 ambassadors through significant regional events, including wars and political upheavals. She held roles at the Anatolia News Agency and led the Embassy's Local Employees Association. Honored with multiple awards for her exemplary service, Tayla now serves as Vice President at Mercury Public Relations. An Ankara University alumna with advanced studies in International Law of the Seas, she is a revered figure in international relations.

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■ Patara City ancient ruins outside Kalkan City on Türkiye coast. Patara was founded in the 5th century BC and became the largest port of Lycia.

■ Myra antique town, Demre

SANTA CLAUS IS FROM DEMRE, ANTALYA

Patara, not just the birthplace of Santa Claus, but a beacon of ancient democracy and rich cultural heritage, stands as a testament to the enduring legacy of Lycian civilization. By Nil Güler

emre, a town in Türkiye's Antalya province on the Mediterranean, holds a unique place in history as the hometown of Santa Claus. Surprisingly, in this region known for its ancient city of Patara, there are no reindeer. Patara, adjacent to Antalya, was a prosperous maritime and commercial city, once the capital of Lycia. Saint Nicholas, who lived from 270 to 343 AD, was an early Christian bishop during the Roman Empire. Known as "Nicholas the Wonderworker" because ofo the many miracles attributed to him, he eventually became the bishop of Myra, now modern-day Demre. Legend has it that Saint Nicholas would drop bags of gold coins down the chimneys

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of poor girls needing dowries, or leave gold coins in the shoes of the needy. A Lycian by birth, Nicholas, the only son of a wealthy family, dedicated his life to acts of kindness and became a world-renowned saint. Visitors can reach Demre and Patara via coaches and shared-minibuses from Antalya city center, with Patara also accessible from Dalaman International Airport. Demre is home to amazing historic sites, including the Saint Nicholas Church, now a museum built over his burial site. The church's importance is heightened by the fact that Venetian sailors removed bone fragments from his sarcophagus during the First Crusade. Also notable in Demre is an open-air theatre, the largest in Lycia, and the rock graves with unique facades on the cliffs.

Patara, the birthplace of St. Nicholas, was a significant city in Lycia, serving as its capital for some time. Its ruins, including a 5000-seat theatre and the "bouleuterion," or ancient parliament, reflect its storied past. Patara was a key city in the Lycian League, a democratic union in ancient times. This site is now recognized as a UNESCO World Heritage Site, celebrating its universal value and historical significance. The beach at Patara is part of the Patara National Park, famous for its sandy shores and as a nesting site for the endangered Caretta caretta sea turtles. This beach is protected for environmental reasons, including the Caretta caretta conservation program. The area is also a haven for various bird species, making it a popular spot for bird-watchers.

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■ Saint Nicholas of Myra was a Christian Bishop of the Ancient Greek City of Myra (Demre), Türkiye During the Roman Empire

Patara's historical significance goes beyond being Santa Claus's birthplace. It has played a pivotal role throughout history, from hosting important meetings like that of Cem Sultan with the people of Rhodes, to housing a wireless telegraph station ordered by Ottoman Sultan Abdülhamid II. The Lycian Civilization along Türkiye's Mediterranean coast is unique, and the Lycian League is noted for being an early inspiration for modern democratic systems. This ancient city stands as a cradle of civilizations and a testament to the rich history of Anatolia. ■ Nil Guler, PhD, is a graduate of Robert College and Middle East Technical University in Türkiye where she got her BSc in civil engineering (METU) and her PhD in management from Istanbul University. She carried out extensive academic and administrative work in national and international fields together with her social work for students and women. She has over 100 scientific articles and papers. She took part in many international and national conferences as a speaker. In 2003, she became full professor. Between 2008 and 2015, she served as the Dean of Maritime Faculty of Istanbul Technical University. She retired as a professor from Istanbul Technical University Currently she is a partner in GT Consultants LLC.

■ Saint Nicholas Church

■ Caretta carettas on Patara Beach

■ Saint Nicholas Church, Demre

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REFLECTIONS FROM TÜRKİYE: A PERSONAL ODYSSEY

TURKISH HANDS “AL SANA EVRAK”; paralinguistic phenomenon! By Tara Alisbah

his is a story about Turkish hands. The hands that birthed me, the hands that held me after those that cared for me in my first months, and those of my son many years later. And all the gesturing hands that caught my attention so profoundly that I wrote a book about them. In the year "None of Your Business," on a day remembered as the great nursing strike at Çankaya hospital, many mothers-in-law and grandmothers were catching babies. And my dad, Hamdi Bilsel, was there. My mother did not have any family there. She was an American woman who had grown up in India, attended school in England, and been married to a Turkish man doing his military service

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in Ankara before he was for sale. The doctor whose hands received me, so the story goes, was shocked at the places my mother had hair that she should not and was hesitant to touch her. {She used the word disgusted, but she was always one to embellish a story for effect, so we cannot be sure). Either way, I guess I am lucky he caught me with his disgusted face and quickly threw me into the hands of my Turkish father, whose look was probably a lot more loving. It was not a welcoming entrance to the planet, though unique, and it set a tone for the life to follow. Maybe I should add here that I was born a bastard. My officer dad was not supposed to have a foreign wife, so he did not, at least not in the paperwork. “Al, sana evrak," and that meant that when my mother went to register

me at the nüfus dairesi, she got the stink eye because there was no father and, well, you get it. At least that is how the story goes… I promised to tell you about my son’s hands. I was walking with a friend on the Bosphorus road near my preschool “Eden’s Garden” and marveling at how my son used his hands to express himself almost as much as he used words. “I wonder where he gets it,” I asked out loud. “Yeah, I wonder,” my friend said, looking pointedly at my hands floating mid-air and splayed open in the gesture of curiosity. And that is when it clicked. I spoke with my hands. I could not help it. I had probably explode or implode if you tried to stop me. And I had never noticed. I would noticed how uninteresting it was to watch most Americans talk, or Westerners for that matter since they appeared mostly

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dead from the waist up, and how much more captivating it was to speak to people who used their whole body to communicate, but I had not noticed myself. Geez, what a pleasure it must be to watch me talk. Lucky people! And that is where the story of me becoming the world’s first and only Turkish hand gestures expert begins. Now, on to all the hands of all the Turks I mentioned before. You cannot have failed to notice (I mean, I am trying to be polite, but of course, you probably did not notice since I am the only one who made a book about it) that Turks have a hand language. Think of the gesture: “yok, kalmadi.” Okay, that is more of an eyebrow lift and a tongue click, but there is a hand gesture that goes with it. Or the “dos doğru git, hiç bir yere sapmadan” karate chop. Still do not believe me? Then take, for example, the thumb under the teeth of “Ödüm patladı,” or the threatening hand of “Bir tane çarparım,” or the crumb-wiping motion of “Bitti.” It is a language unto itself because it carries meaning independent of words, is mutually intelligible, and is much easier to understand than sentences, especially across a crowded room: “ben yavaş yavaş sivişiyorum.” This paralinguistic phenomenon is rich—I have collected and documented over 150 independently meaningful gestures. I challenge you to start noticing your own hands. What does it look like when you are choosing cheese at the store? Or fish. And now, challenge yourself to stop noticing hands. It will not be possible. Indians, Egyptians, Italians. Multiple hand language cultures exist, but the Turks are especially creative. I have had people make up new gestures in the course of a conversation. It is a language of bodies and energy, almost like having a superpower—the ability to communicate on multiple levels simultaneously. Use it well, my friends! ■ Tara Alisbah www.taraalisbah.com Mother of Eden, Turkish Language and Culture Expert, Eden’s Garden International Pre-School Founder and Director, Linguist, Medicine Woman, Writer, Author, Priestess and Guardian of Sacred Lands, Mermaid, Dragon Master, Sacred Disruptor, MA from Johns Hopkins SAIS, Middle East Expert, World Bank Faith and Development Dialogue consultant, Magnetizer.

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DELİ

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ÖDÜM PATLADI

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A TASTE OF TURKISH CUISINE

QUINCE COMPOTE AYVA KOMPOSTOSU By Sheilah Kaufman

Quinces turn a delightful pink when cooked, releasing a wonderful aroma that brings comfort and warmth to any kitchen.

uinces resemble pears in appearance and have a somewhat pineapple-like fragrance. Autumn is the season for quinces. Store them separately from other fruits until they become soft, juicy, and release their delightful aroma. The fruit turns pink when cooked. In Türkiye, when someone is feeling unwell or has an upset stomach, instead of opting for something light like Jell-O, a mother typically prepares this compote. Ingredients 3 large quinces, peeled and thinly sliced ● 2/3 cup of sugar ●

Instructions ● Place 3 cups of water and the sliced

quinces into a 3-quart pot. Heat until it reaches a boil, then reduce to a simmer, cover, and cook for 30 minutes.

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Add the sugar, stir well, cover, and continue to cook for an additional 15 minutes or until the quinces are tender.

Transfer the quinces and cooking liquid into a serving bowl and let it chill before serving. ■ Serves 4 to 6

Sheilah Kaufman is the author of 28 cookbooks and is a popular lecturer for organizations and clubs around the country (including the Library of Congress, The National Book Festival, Epcot, the Textile Museum, the Turkish Embassy, diplomatic groups, and senior residential centers). Cookbook topics include culinary histories, some with tastings (like her popular History of Chocolate), and other histories (such as the history of words, phrases, and nursery rhymes). Kaufman and Paula Jacobs edit and proofread cookbooks, novels, and websites; they test recipes; and more.

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DID YOU KNOW?

SMITHSONIAN MUSEUMS AND GALLERIES, INCLUDING THE NATIONAL AIR AND SPACE MUSEUM AND THE NATIONAL MUSEUM OF AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY AND CULTURE.

TÜRKİYE IS HOME TO 17 SITES RECOGNIZED BY UNESCO FOR THEIR CULTURAL, HISTORICAL, OR NATURAL SIGNIFICANCE, INCLUDING THE HISTORIC AREAS OF ISTANBUL AND THE ROCK SITES OF CAPPADOCIA.

1791: THE YEAR WHEN THE CITY'S DESIGN WAS COMMISSIONED. PIERRE CHARLES L'ENFANT, A FRENCHBORN AMERICAN ARCHITECT, WAS CHOSEN BY GEORGE WASHINGTON TO DESIGN THE CITY.

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40,000+ HISTORICAL MOSQUES: TÜRKİYE HAS MORE THAN 40,000 MOSQUES, WITH SOME LIKE THE HAGIA SOPHIA AND THE BLUE MOSQUE BEING WORLD-RENOWNED FOR THEIR ARCHITECTURAL BEAUTY AND HISTORICAL SIGNIFICANCE.

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3000+ YEARS OF HISTORY: TÜRKİYE'S

HISTORY SPANS OVER 3,000 YEARS, ENCOMPASSING THE ANCIENT CIVILIZATIONS OF THE HITTITES, GREEKS, ROMANS, BYZANTINES, AND OTTOMANS.

2 PANDAS: THE NATIONAL ZOO IN WASHINGTON, DC, IS ONE OF THE FEW ZOOS IN THE US THAT HAS GIANT PANDAS, WHICH ARE A GIFT FROM CHINA AND A MAJOR ATTRACTION.

WASHINGTON, DC, COVERS AN AREA OF ABOUT 68 SQUARE MILES, MAKING IT A RELATIVELY SMALL CITY COMPARED TO OTHER MAJOR US CITIES.

19 FEET TALL: THE HEIGHT OF THE STATUE OF ABRAHAM LINCOLN INSIDE THE LINCOLN MEMORIAL. THE MONUMENT HAS BEEN AN ICONIC SYMBOL OF FREEDOM AND A POPULAR TOURIST ATTRACTION.

19 SMITHSONIAN MUSEUMS: THE CITY IS HOME TO 19

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