Gateway Life | November 2015 by Gateway Church

NOVEMBER 2015

UNPLUGGED

Staying focused on the present during a season of distractions. p. 12

TWO WORLDS COLLIDE

HOME OF THE BRAVE

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An adopted daughter travels to Guatemala to meet her birth mother. p. 10

Veterans at Gateway share their stories. p. 14

10 steps to throwing a spectacular holiday party. p. 18

“GOD’S RESPONSE TO THE HEARTACHE OF THE WORLD IS A LOVE THAT NEVER CHANGES.”

MAX LUCADO

CONTENTS NOVEMBER 2015

COMMENTS

WELCOME

PULSE OUTREACH

YOUR BEST THANKSGIVING EVER F E AT U R E S

10 TWO WORLDS COLLIDE An adopted daughter travels to Guatemala to meet her birth mother.

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UNPLUGGED

Staying focused on the present during a season of distractions.

HOME OF THE BRAVE

Veterans at Gateway share their stories.

SONG STORY

Rita Springer and Mia Fieldes’ “You Never Change”

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10 steps to throwing a spectacular holiday party.

ANNOUNCEMENTS

ACTIVITIES

PROFILE – TODD LANE

ON THE COVER: Libni, Abrahanny, Caleb, and Mikael Rodriguez have been Gateway members for four years. Libni supports Gateway’s simultaneous Spanish translation, and Abrahanny sings in the choir and volunteers in our media department.

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WELCOME

WELCOME to GATEWAY LIFE THANKSGIVING IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE

times of the year and it’s because I get to spend time with my family. We all get together for a traditional Thanksgiving meal with turkey, dressing, and dumplings and watch the Dallas Cowboys. It’s also during this time that I like to think about what it means to give thanks. I’m reminded that an attitude of gratitude isn’t just a

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one-day-a-year celebration but rather a daily lifestyle. Jesus is the perfect example of someone who had a lifestyle of thanksgiving. Every time He ate, He gave thanks. And when the disciples asked Him to teach them how to pray, He said, “Give us this day our daily bread.” He was trying to impart an attitude to His disciples. He was essentially saying, “Guys, this is a miracle. I want you to understand that God provided this food for us.” Here in America, this concept is often difficult for us to imagine, but that’s the reason God wants us to give Him thanks. If we remind ourselves

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every day that God provided us with everything we have, our attitude will change to one of thanksgiving. So rather than spending a day in November thinking about all the things for which we’re thankful, I want to encourage you to be thankful every day, and it starts with acknowledging that God is your provider. This month’s issue of Gateway Life has some amazing stories of God’s provision. You’ll read about the Wilks family on their journey of adopting Julia and meeting her birth mother several years later (page 10). We’re honoring our veterans by sharing some of their personal stories in our Veterans Day article (page 14), and our cover story offers a timely reminder to unplug and be more engaged with your family during the holidays (page 12). As we approach one of the busiest times of the year, I want to encourage you to look for opportunities to be thankful. You might be surprised at how many you find and how much an attitude of gratitude can change your life.

Pastor Robert Founding Senior Pastor

art Shane Dennehey, Creative Director Tim Lautensack, Art Director/Designer Megan White, Designer Katrina Sirmon, Production Designer David Phillips, Print Coordinator

photography Cory Hale, Staff Photographer

OUR VISION is to see people saved, healed, set free, discipled, equipped, empowered, and serving.

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For Gateway’s complete mission statement, visit mission.gatewaypeople.com.

GATEWAYPEOPLE

All responses taken from Gateway Church social media. Send us feedback on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram, or email us at life@gatewaypeople.com.

“Over the past 12 months, we have lost a brother and a sister and recently raced to the ER when my husband’s blood pressure soared past ‘hypertensive crisis.’ I am so incredibly grateful to our Gateway family for continually lifting us up in prayer this year. It has helped beyond measure. Thank you for living ‘we’re all about people.’ I’m happy to report my husband is feeling much better!” Georgette Shuler | via Email

I was diagnosed with aggressive stage 2 breast cancer. This happened shortly after my 36th birthday and only six months after we moved here from New York. We had to process the news with no family around and just a few acquaintances! We learned that my breast cancer was one of the most aggressive types, and I just didn’t understand how God could allow such devastation to happen in my life. Right after the diagnosis, we had very little information to work with, which allowed our minds to

“ON AUGUST 28, 2014,

“TODAY, A FULL YEAR LATER, I AM COMPLETELY HEALED!” wander and think of the worst. That weekend, I mustered the strength to go to church with my family, and Pastor Robert encouraged everyone to download the myGateway app and use it to connect with other believers and intercede for one another! On our way home, my husband and I both downloaded the app and separately posted a prayer request regarding my situation. As the day progressed,

prayers were trickling in. That night, my husband and I stayed up crying and praying. All night both our phones kept buzzing. I remember thinking, Who in the world is texting us in the middle of the night? It was our Gateway family praying for us all night long through the myGateway app! That Monday morning, we both knew I was going to be okay. I went through surgery for lymph node removal, chemotherapy, and radiation therapy. Today, a full year later, I am completely healed! My doctor said my tumor markers are normal and nearly undetectable. Praise be to God!” Daphnie Pilgrim | via Email IN RESPONSE TO CHURCHWIDE BAPTISMS:

“Getting baptized tomorrow for the first time! I’m so excited! Thanks to Gateway, I was able to start my relationship with the Lord at the North Fort Worth Campus. At first I was scared, now I’m scared to let Him go. God is good!”

“Tomorrow I will be getting baptized for the first time, and I couldn’t be happier on this new journey with God.” Emily Michelle Botello | via Facebook

“THANKFUL FOR FRIENDS WHO CAME TO SUPPORT ME TODAY AS I PUBLICLY PROFESSED MY COMMITMENT TO CHRIST THROUGH BAPTISM!” Luke Asper | via Twitter

Samantha Galaz | via Facebook

Gateway is committed to seeing every person BELIEVING in Jesus, BELONGING to family, BECOMING a disciple, and BUILDING His kingdom.

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“My wife and I had such a blessed time attending the Gateway Conference these two days. Looking forward to sharing all we learned!” Terry Feathers | via Twitter

Bless! Weekend

Students Serve | North Fort Worth Campus

IN RESPONSE TO GATEWAY CONFERENCE:

“WHAT AN EPIC THREE DAYS FULL OF GOD MOMENTS. I’M SO THANKFUL FOR GATEWAY AND ITS WORSHIP.” Michael Howell | via Instagram

Students Serve | North Fort Worth Campus

Fall Festival | Frisco Campus

“My life has been changed after attending Gateway Conference. I have more joy, more peace, more of Jesus in my life. Now it’s time to take it back home.” Brent Silberbauer | via Twitter

HIGH FIVE

IN RESPONSE TO GATEWAY CONFERENCE:

“Now that is an amazing way to end a conference! Gateway Conference was fantastic! The worship, the teachings, the fun. I absolutely loved it all! Thank you to everyone who helped make it happen! Y’all did an awesome job!” Emily Scheve | via Instagram

JOSH MORRIS ASSOCIATE SENIOR PASTOR

WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP? A spy, professional golfer, and film director. All at the same time. WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH OUT LOUD? Anytime there is a tense moment, my daughter Lo will sing the Nationwide commercial jingle, and it always makes us laugh. PROUDEST MOMENT? Each time my kids hear God’s voice. It’s the only real way to prepare them for life and adulthood. God speaks truth to them when their friends make fun of them. He speaks life into them when they are discouraged, He speaks destiny into their futures, and He gives them empathy and causes them to care deeply for those who are hurting. WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST PET PEEVE? When people talk during a movie. WHAT IS YOUR ULTIMATE DAY? Playing golf with my wife and kids, which has actually become our Sunday afternoon tradition.

For more about Gateway pastors and staff, visit staff.gatewaypeople.com.

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“SO REFRESHED, EMPOWERED, AND ENCOURAGED BY ALL THE INCREDIBLE TEACHING AND WORSHIP AT GATEWAY CONFERENCE THIS YEAR.” Brittany Dennis | via Twitter

“I’M STILL PROCESSING WHAT GOD DID IN ME AND MY TEAM AT GATEWAY CONFERENCE. GOD WAS THERE AND HE MOVED! THANK YOU, GATEWAY, FOR YOUR FAITHFUL SERVICE.” Shawn Cooper | via Twitter

“MANY CHURCH CONFERENCES TEACH CONCEPTS. THANKS GATEWAY FOR SHARING CULTURE AND PRACTICES.” Todd Staal | via Twitter

“I was working at the Southlake bookstore for the Gateway Conference, and I met a guest from Louisiana. We had a terrible time finding a particular book she wanted and then getting her set up to have it shipped to her house. We eventually got it figured out, and when we had, she told me that Gateway was unique to any other church because everyone she asked for help here went above and beyond to help her with even the tiniest requests. She told me that never in her life has she gotten service like this from any church, restaurant, or business. She was especially impressed that our staff and volunteers would actually walk with her to find someone who could help her. She wanted to make sure that all Gateway staff and volunteers know how important they are to the guest experience. It is because of them that Gateway is an oasis for all who need to be refreshed and equipped.” Jennifer Howard | via Email

“Any Christian who has struggled in areas after giving their life to God: I’ve been there and the message this weekend is for us!”

“Wow. This sermon taught me so much and really renewed my desire to lead as a Christian. Thank you Pastor Robert for sharing your wisdom and Gateway for making this available online when I could not attend services in person. I would have missed so much!”

Andy Walt | via Facebook

Elizabeth Wacker | via Facebook

IN RESPONSE TO “THE BELIEVER’S BATTLE” IN THE LOST & FOUND SERIES

Chaney Rose | via Twitter IN RESPONSE TO ALL-CHURCH PRESBYTERY:

“I was blessed by a word from Pastor Steve Dulin at the NRH Campus presbytery. Thank you for your obedience to speak life.”

“PRESBYTERY! THE MOST BEAUTIFUL TIME OF THE YEAR!”

Andy Walt | via Twitter “I HAVE TWO DAUGHTERS, and I’m a single

mom. Back in 2010, I married a man who I believed was a Christian. But about a year later I found out my oldest stepson had been molesting both my daughters. My husband stood by his son (who admitted what he did) and kicked my daughters and me out of the house. It was such a hard time. I stopped attending church and started questioning my faith. Fast forward to this year. I took myself out of a difficult situation at IN RESPONSE TO THE GOD, SEX & LOVE EVENT:

Bethany Peterson | via Twitter

work, and I drove home wondering how I was going to provide for my daughters. I prayed the whole way home, ‘God, if You’re real, please help us get through another tough time.’ About a month went by, and I was offered this amazing job where I would make three times the amount I was making at my previous job! I prayed after the interview, promising that I’d start going to church again. I got the job, and I kept my promise to God. I went to Gateway NRH because they had blessed

“Wow. This was a balm for my hurting soul, like two days of hugs from Jesus that I needed so desperately!” Anonymous | via Event Survey

“Thank you Gateway Intimate Life for doing the God, Sex & Love event. It’s seriously life changing, and I’m so blessed by all of today’s sessions.”

“THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! MY LIFE AND MARRIAGE HAVE BEEN SO BLESSED THROUGH GATEWAY’S FREEDOM MINISTRY AND NOW INTIMATE LIFE MINISTRY. THANK YOU Deb Manusama-Sinaga | via Twitter FOR TACKLING THESE TOPICS “It’s happening! God, in His goodness, AND FOR YOUR OBEDIENCE AND BRAVERY. THE HURT, BROKEN, created something great. It’s AND BETRAYED ARE BEING time to allow His redemption to HEALED AND RESTORED, AND bring sex and love back to their THEY WILL TAKE IT OUT TO OUR rightful place in our hearts with HURTING, DYING WORLD. THANK YOU FOR EQUIPPING US!” no shame but life and joy!” @ladytomi | via Instagram

Anonymous | via Event Survey

so many children at my daughters’ elementary school, and I’m so thankful I did. My kids have never wanted to leave my side to go to children’s ministry, but at Gateway, they volunteer to go, and my youngest daughter even accepted Jesus into her heart. I’m so blessed by all God has done for us! I have been able to forgive my ex-stepson and exhusband for the pain they inflicted on my daughters and myself. Gateway has been such a blessing!” Jessica Rios | via Email

“I AM SO THANKFUL I SIGNED UP FOR THIS EVENT! I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH THE BETRAYAL AND SHAME OF MY HUSBAND’S ADDICTION AND DIDN’T FEEL LIKE I COULD TALK TO ANYONE. I ALSO FOUND OUT ABOUT THE BETRAYAL & BEYOND CLASSES, AND I AM LOOKING FORWARD TO ATTENDING. I’M SO GRATEFUL GATEWAY EQUIPS US AND GIVES US TOOLS TO UNDERSTAND HOW THE BIBLE APPLIES TO OUR DAILY LIVES.” Anonymous | via Event Survey

“Titus 2 at the North Fort Worth Campus was off the charts yesterday! The presence of our Savior was glorious, and then Irini Fambro brought us a teaching on intimacy with God that rocked our worlds. Our small group time was phenomenal too, and no one wanted it to end. God is really doing something great here.” — Natasha Nagwekar | via Facebook

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“I’m at Gateway Church so often that my phone is now automatically letting me know how far away I am!”

Outreach

YOUR BEST

THANKSGIVING EVER

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HOW YOU CAN SERVE THE COMMUNITY THIS SEASON Are you looking for a way to serve during the holidays? We have several ministry partners in the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex who are blessing thousands of families this Thanksgiving. We encourage you to get involved with one of them this year! The Community Storehouse TAKING DONATIONS OCTOBER 1–NOVEMBER 20 12073 KATY RD, SUITE 605 | KELLER, TX

The Community Storehouse is blessing families in Dallas/Fort Worth with a Thanksgiving dinner. They need holiday dinner food donations such as broth, cranberry sauce, and muffin mixes! To receive a detailed list of their needs, email outreach@gatewaypeople.com. To make a financial donation, visit communitystorehouse.org.

Bless A Life Serve Day SATURDAY, NOV 14 | 8:00 AM–1:00 PM FRISCO & SURROUNDING AREA

The Gateway Frisco Campus is conducting another Bless A Life Serve Day. This local outreach opportunity is a great way for Gateway Groups, families, and individuals to demonstrate the love of Christ in the community by serving others. We will participate in various service projects and evangelism opportunities as we partner with local organizations. The entire family is welcome! For more information, contact Jade Washington at 817.552.7425 or email outreachfrs@gatewaypeople.com.

World Relief THANKSGIVING FESTIVAL NOV 14 | 12:00–3:00 PM 4500 CAMPUS DR | FORT WORTH, TX

World Relief is hosting a Thanksgiving Festival for the refugee residents at

Ladera Palms Apartments. They need assistance with face painting, carnival games, holiday crafts, and sharing the Thanksgiving story. They will also be accepting food item donations for Thanksgiving food baskets they will be distributing. For more information, visit worldrelieffortworth.org/events.

Hands of Hope VETERANS AFFAIRS “COWTOWN HOMELESS VETERAN STAND DOWN” NOVEMBER 18

This event helps homeless veterans find housing and prepare for colder weather. We need volunteers to assist with serving during the event, and we need barbers to provide haircuts. Hands of Hope is welcoming donations of new socks, sleeping bags, shoes, hygiene items, water, and food. For more information, visit hohtx.com or email john@hohtx.com.

Youth World NOV 21 | 9:30 AM–2:00 PM 1121 W WHEATLAND RD | DALLAS, TX

Youth World’s goal this year is to bless 300 families in need with full Thanksgiving dinners. You can help with the distribution event or donate financially for the meals. It’s only $55 to sponsor one family. For more information, to register, or to give, visit youthworld.org or email info@youthworld.org.

Dallas Life Homeless Shelter NOVEMBER 25–27

Dallas Life Homeless Shelter needs help serving Thanksgiving meals. Individuals and groups up to four can apply online beginning November 2 at dallaslife.org.

Mission Arlington NOV 26 | 8:00 AM

Reach4Hope NOVEMBER 21

Reach4Hope is hosting a drive for new pajama pants (sizes: child 4 to adult medium), new blankets, and shoes! They are giving these items to 450 homework center kids. For more information or to give, email strahan@reach4hope.com or visit reach4hope.com/giving.

Mission Arlington will be distributing turkeys, turkey baskets, and hot meals to people in need. Help is needed throughout November to prepare. Families, Gateway Groups, and friends are all welcome to serve on Thanksgiving day with no advance signup. For more information, visit missionarlington.org. GL For more information, contact Samantha Belveal at 817.552.3704 or email outreach@gatewaypeople.com.

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Two Worlds Collide An adopted daughter travels to Guatemala to meet her birth mother. by Bonnie Saul Wilks

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OR MANY YEARS WHEN MY HUSBAND WAYNE (pastor of Gateway’s Jewish Ministries) put our daughter Julia to bed, he told her a bedtime story. It went something like this: “Mama and daddy got married and couldn’t have children. We prayed and prayed for God to bring us a child. God looked all over the whole world and found the perfect baby in Guatemala for our family and brought her to us. She made us so happy.” Julia loved the story and asked us to tell it to her over and over when she was little. Julia celebrates two birthdays—the day she was born in Guatemala and the day we brought her home to the States. The latter we call her “Happy Day.” And growing up, she felt privileged to have two days—not one. Wayne and I tried to make her experience full of joy and adventure. The whole concept of adoption is very spiritual. After all, we are all adopted children born into God’s kingdom of light. Several years ago, when Julia was 21, the three of us traveled to Guatemala to meet Julia’s birth mother, Estella, and seven siblings for the first time. It was a moment of reunion and revelation—full of laughter and tears as we learned the story that brought Julia to us. Estella was born in San Marcos, a Guatemalan state next to Mexico. There were 18 children born to her mother— only 10 lived. Four died at birth and four died later. Estella was the seventh of the 10. Her father was a poor farmer and died when she was 11. At that time, Estella’s mother sent her to Guatemala City to live and work for a family. She never returned home and has worked as a maid in various places since then. She conceived a son and later met and married Julia’s father, Carlos. Together Carlos and Estella had another son and two girls, but their life was very difficult. They lived with Carlos’s family who didn’t like Estella.

Julia and her birth mother, Estella.

“Although it was hard giving Julia up for adoption, it was a very loving thing for Estella to do.” They treated her badly and told lies about her. When she became pregnant with Julia, Carlos’s mother convinced him the baby was not his. He threatened if Estella had the baby, he’d kill her and strangle the baby. She lived in fear and said it was the most difficult time of her life. Carlos began to drink heavily and stayed drunk most of the time. He beat Estella and told her repeatedly to abort the baby. She fled for her life, saved the baby, and didn’t know what to do but give her up for adoption. She got in touch with a lawyer, and he contacted Shady Grove Church (now the Gateway Grand Prairie Campus) to ask if anyone wanted to adopt a baby. We contacted the lawyer immediately, and then one day he called to say that a girl had been born to Estella. He said, “I have her birth certificate in front of me. What do you want to name her?” Well, we had prayed and already knew her name: Julia Elizabeth. It took another six months before all the red tape of adoption was clear. We flew to Guatemala City and brought her home. After hearing Estella’s story, we understand more than ever that Julia’s life had been “snatched out of the mouth of a lion.” Those are the very words God put in my heart as we interceded for a breakthrough in those months we waited for Julia to become ours. Both Julia and Estella’s lives were in jeopardy. And although it was hard giving

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UNPLUGGED Staying focused on the present during a season of distractions by Matt Knisely

THE HOLIDAY SEASON IS WRAPPED IN A

flurry of activity. It’s a time for friends and family, creating memories, and celebrating together. It’s a time for “stopping down” and connecting with the people you care about most. However, it’s a season where time seems scarce and distractions are plentiful.

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It points to one of life’s biggest paradoxes: Your future depends on your ability to pay attention to the present. Studies show that living in the present makes you happier and more successful, but what are some practical steps we can take to live in the moment—especially during such a busy season? I’m passionate about not only living in the present but also capturing it. It’s the photographer in me, and I find the decisive moment is a powerful metaphor for life. This term describes the split second photographers have to capture a subject in a perfect moment, whether it’s a child’s face upon opening a gift or a couple sharing a kiss. It’s intense. It’s beautiful. In life, we all have the opportunity to catch decisive moments each day. Our soul snaps an internal picture forever engraving in our memory what it was that suddenly caught our attention,

grabbed our hearts, and made us think. But how often do the moments pass us by unnoticed? Finding them is hard work and it means avoiding distractions. It’s a process that sizes up the situation, subject, and story by anticipating and watching how the action unfolds. So when the moment happens, when everything suddenly comes into focus, we can give the moment the attention it deserves. Click! But when distractions come in— many times in the form of smartphones and social media—we find ourselves disconnected and out of focus, keeping us from the beautiful moments and faces right in front of us. It’s difficult to stay focused on a moment when everything else in our world is fighting for our attention. Putting down your phone, freeing yourself from the social media frenzy, and trying to discover how life is unfolding in the present can feel impossible, but there are simple

ways to be more attentive and live in the moment. Sitting down to rest, taking a walk, or even eating a meal are all in-themoment practices. They’re activities you can do no matter where you are, at any time, by just focusing on the present. The bench you’re sitting on, the path you’re walking on, the food you’re eating—see them as your subjects. By doing this regularly, you’ll discover that presence of mind comes more naturally with time. As a photographer, I believe a life worth living is a life worth recording. Social media has its place and value in our world. It allows us to be connected to so many people at a moment’s notice and to record the highlights of our lives, but it needs to be managed so that media is not our sole subject and, rather, the person, place, or thing we’re talking about is. It is more important to be present with the people right in front of us and to have deep and meaningful relationships—to get to know our subjects—than it is to get a picture posted somewhere instantly and settling for that one-touch interaction. In many ways, we thrive on distractions, but so often they keep our focus away from what’s truly important. We move from activity to activity, resting momentarily before becoming bored, only to move on to the next source of pleasure. Today, let us recapture some lost time we have spent on trivial things and allow ourselves to stop for a moment. During this coming holiday season, take a deep breath and avoid distractions so you can focus on what is truly important: the present. GL Matt Knisely is the lead creative director in Gateway’s Media & Communications Department, and his book, Framing Faith, can be purchased in the Gateway Bookstore, on Amazon.com, and at Barnes & Noble.

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VETERANS DAY IS NOVEMBER 11. IT’S A DAY TO THANK ALL THOSE WHO ARE SERVING OR HAVE SERVED IN THE UNITED STATES ARMED FORCES. Heroes—men and women—serve among us every day. More than 21.8 million Americans in the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, and National Guard have sacrificed or are sacrificing daily their safety and security to give us freedom. Each veteran has a unique story. And this Veterans Day, Gateway wants to honor them by sharing some of their experiences. TOMMY BRIGGS (YEARS SERVED: 1956–1960) “In my day, the military draft was enforced. Sooner or later you were going to be called to service because the Korean War was going on, and there were several other conflicts taking place. I decided to join the Air Force to avoid the draft and started my four years of service on February 2, 1956. I was assigned to a wonderful place called Thule Air Force Base, Greenland. At that time, it was a strategic point and refueling spot between the United States and Russia. There was a saying about the Thule Air Force Base: ‘There’s a girl behind every tree.’ But there are no trees in Thule, Greenland. I spent a whole year there, and then I came back to Hunter Air Force Base in Savannah, Georgia. That’s where I found the Lord. One night, because of a tragedy in my own personal life, I decided I was going to commit suicide. I had attended a church in the area occasionally, and I had the church bulletin on the seat of my car. I left the base at 10:00 pm and was going to drive off a bridge. But I thought, If I’m going to take my own life and meet God, I better find out if I’m all right. So I found the pastor’s house, and I found the Lord.” Tommy Briggs is the associate pastor of Freedom Ministries at Gateway and has three married children and 10 grandchildren.

BOB ROTH (YEARS SERVED: 1972–1978) “I was in the Air Force and then the Army. For some of my time in the Air Force, I was assigned to a Security Police Squadron at Da Nang Air Base in Vietnam in 1972. At that time, there was a lot of incoming rocket fire, and my job was to patrol the perimeter at Da Nang, also known as ‘Rocket City.’ I was glad to get out of there alive when I was reassigned to U-Tapao Air Base in Thailand. I was not a believer when I was in the military, although I had a praying grandmother back home who would tell me that she prayed for me every day. I would say, ‘Okay, Grandma I got it,’ but I think her prayers really kept me from becoming a casualty. I became born again in 1987, and soon afterward I was asked to start a veterans ministry at the church we attended, but I didn’t feel equipped for it yet. When we moved to Texas, I started doing one-on-one sessions with veterans through Point Man Ministries, and I realized I had an anointing to work with combat vets who were coming back from any war. I became a certified marriage and family therapist and had some training in how to minister and counsel veterans with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Now I’m facilitating the Reveille group here at Gateway with my wife.” Bob Roth and his wife, Julie, have been attending Gateway since 2005.

GEORGE GARRIOTT (YEARS SERVED: 1979–2001) “My father was in the United States Air Force, and he retired from the Air Force in France, which was where he met my mother after the liberation of Paris. After retiring, he oversaw all of the US military cemeteries abroad. So

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Pastor Tommy Briggs on Thule Air Force Base in Greenland circa 1957.

I was born and raised in France. And I’d wake up every morning, look out my bedroom window, and see a garden of stones and thousands of crosses of American servicemen who were killed in World War I and II and laid to rest in Europe. I earned a law degree, but I’d always wanted to serve my country, so instead of practicing law, I joined the Army and became a Green Beret, which was a lifelong dream. Their motto “De Oppresso Liber” says it all, “To Liberate the Oppressed.” In 1980, I became a born again Christian. Then I was deployed to Grenada and received a Purple Heart. After that I served in several conflicts and classified missions all over the world even after I came back to the States and joined the Reserves. I got out of the military in 2001—before 9/11. I was called up again after 9/11 and asked if I wanted to go. It was a hard choice, but I had a wife and four daughters, one of whom was a baby. So I stopped there. Being a veteran is knowing a lot and not being able to share much. Even with my wife. I think that’s the hardest thing. But I’ve seen

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and learned so much. I’ve been in so many places, and I love serving my country. I love my country.” George Garriott and his wife, Kay, have been attending Gateway for almost 10 years and have four daughters.

SEAN TURNER (YEARS SERVED: 2008–2014) “I enlisted in the Army my second year of college. I joined the Infantry and deployed to Iraq immediately after graduating from basic training. My time in Iraq was tumultuous. Twelve months in a desert with nightly missions, sleeping a couple hours a day, sandstorms, and living out of a bag with only your toothbrush, iPod, sleepsack, and ammo—lots of ammo. There is no way anyone could ever convince me that God does not watch out for His children. The whole experience made me grateful for the peace and convenience we have in America. You don’t realize how much spiritual warfare goes on until you’re back here

in the States within the borders of a country blessed by God. After returning from my deployment in Iraq, I finished college and got engaged to Lauren, whom I met at Gateway. When I was called to go on a tour to Afghanistan, Lauren and I made the decision to push up our wedding date and get married before I left. It was the best day of my life. Several days before we were supposed to deploy, the commander called me and asked if I would extend my contract while in Afghanistan or not deploy at all. It was a truly difficult decision to make; as a sergeant, I had trained the young soldiers this time and felt a commitment to them, but I also felt a commitment to my new spouse! Ultimately, I stayed home. I knew God had a plan and a place for me to serve here in Texas.” GL Sean Turner and his wife, Lauren, have been attending Gateway since 2003 and have a one-year-old daughter, Zoey. Gateway has a new group for men and women veterans called Reveille. This ministry provides a safe place for understanding, support, and healing for veterans and their families. For more information, visit reveille.gatewaypeople.com.

SONG STORY

RITA SPRINGER AND MIA FIELDES’

“you never change” by KATIE SMITH

THREE YEARS AGO, WHEN RITA AND HER SON,

Justice, came to be a part of Gateway Church, they moved into a home that had a boxy, glassed-in solarium in the front. Not a plant lady, Rita thought, What in the world am I going to do with that box? She soon realized the only thing that fit in there is her piano, and when she closes the door, it’s like her own personal studio space. It was in this room that she heard the Lord ask her to write a simple song about His goodness. And it was in this room that she sought Him in a particularly difficult season. Before this, Rita had been hearing God prompt her to adopt again, 10 years after adopting Justice. She sought counsel and knew God was speaking to her about simply trusting Him in this decision. But when she was well into the process of adopting a new baby, it didn’t turn out the way she thought. “The Lord gave the baby to somebody

else. It was the kind of thing where you have to turn back to the Lord and cry, ‘Even in the why, in the middle of the night, I will say You are good.’” In her solarium-turned-studio, those words became lyrics for “You Never Change.” The song served as a real and vulnerable prayer to the Lord. Soon she called fellow songwriter Mia Fieldes for help writing a bridge. “It wasn’t this beautiful packaged song with all the t’s crossed and i’s dotted. It was just this raw, emotional thing,” Rita says. “And sometimes you just need to say it the way it feels. It doesn’t need to be all packaged and neat.” The song’s lyrics are guided by her own experiences, but their unprocessed simplicity is something we can all connect with. The chorus says, “You are good and You never change, God” several times. You can’t help but notice the repetition, and Rita had a reason for it. Like verse two says, “When the

arrows fly,” difficult times will come for all of us, and in those times, there’s power in declaring God’s truth over and over. “Once you get to that simple chorus, you don’t need to say anything else. He is good,” Rita says. Although the song is simple, it packs a powerful spiritual punch. “I think certain songs can become life rafts we climb into when we find ourselves in the middle of a storm—when we’ve been shipwrecked by circumstances,” Rita says, “But the song helps us realize there’s always rescue in Christ. That’s what this song was to me. And I believe it’s something people at Gateway can relate to as well.” GL “You Never Change” is available on Gateway Worship’s new album, Walls.

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10 Steps to Throwing a

Spectacular Holiday Party MY JOB INCLUDES PLANNING EVENTS, and I’ve figured out that events are really just big parties. I define a party as any fun

gathering with food, so it could be anything from a baby shower, a book club, or a Gateway Group to a Christmas party, men’s conference, or wedding. After planning many parties over the years, I’ve learned some great tricks that can help make any party spectacular!

1. DEVELOP A GOOD PLAN. What’s the main goal of your party? Establish the vision at the very beginning. Your plan can be simple or elaborate, just make sure you can wrap your mind around it before you start inviting guests. Plan to send invitations at least two weeks before the event. As the scale of the event increases, so does the timeline for invitations. For example, allow two weeks for a casual dinner party and eight weeks for a wedding.

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2. BE SURE YOU CAN PULL OFF YOUR PLAN. If you have time to handcraft invitations that match the food cards that match the décor that match the party favors that all tie into the thank you notes, then go for it! But don’t shoot for all of these if you feel tight on time or your budget doesn’t allow. It will only stress you out! Keep your plan attainable.

3. HAVE SOMETHING FOR PEOPLE TO DO. This is especially important if many of your guests don’t know each other. Nothing is more boring or awkward than standing around uncomfortably at a party with no one to talk to. So make sure you have a game or project for people to do at their leisure. Who knows, maybe your junior high bestie and high school bestie will become fast friends fighting over the best gift at the white elephant gift exchange!

4. DEVELOP A TIMELINE FOR YOUR EVENT. I plan my preparation according to when everything needs to be finished and work backward from there, so I always start with developing a timeline. Annual Christmas Ornament Exchange 6:00–7:00 pm | Guests arrive and go through buffet 7:00–7:30 pm | Ornament swap ·· Be sure to have a trash can close by. ·· Have each person share why they chose the ornament they brought.

6. BUILD TIME INTO YOUR PARTY SCHEDULE TO GET YOURSELF READY. My party mantra is “If you feel good about yourself, you’ll feel good about your event!” Guys don’t seem to appreciate this as much as girls do. It’s amazing the difference it makes when you take 30 minutes to freshen up before your event. When I don’t make time for myself, I feel off and self-conscious—it’s worth starting 30 minutes earlier.

7:30–8:30 pm | Games and dessert 8:30–9:00 pm | Let people mingle Based on this example, I’d want to be ready to receive my guests at 5:30 pm and would need to be pulling food out of the oven at 5:50 so that it would still be hot when people arrive. Do as much as you can the night before (setting tables, placing décor, cooking in advance), that way you can leave the last-minute details for the party. I always put notes of things I need to remember during the party on my timeline so I remember to do them.

7. BE READY FOR YOUR GUESTS. Be ready for your guests to arrive 30 to 45 minutes before the party is scheduled to start. This way you’ll be ready for that friend who is always conveniently early, and you won’t be frazzled when someone rings the doorbell and your wet hair is in a towel.

5. DELICIOUS FOOD IS A MUST. Whether you cook it, bake it, or have it delivered, make sure your food is good and that people don’t leave hungry. People always associate a full tummy with a fun party! And hopefully you’ll have great leftovers for a few days!

8. WELCOME YOUR GUESTS AS THEY ARRIVE. This might seem basic, but there’s nothing more awkward than walking into a stranger’s house and having to figure out where to put your gift or find some water. The best welcome in my book is a hello, a smile,

and a refreshment! If your guests don’t know everyone, make sure to introduce them to each other. A little trick I use is to not only tell guests each other’s names but also give a little fact about each of them so they can find common ground quickly.

9. RECRUIT “COVERT” HOSTS. I like to enlist my good friends who can work a room to help make sure no one feels alone or isolated. I ask them if they would be willing to include or sit by guests who might not know anyone. You’ll be amazed how much pressure this takes off you and how much more fun your guests will have as a result.

10. HAVE FUN! If you’re not having fun, your guests will notice. Sometimes things don’t go exactly as planned, and that’s okay! Just step away for a second, take a deep breath, and ask Jesus to change your attitude. Whether the problem is spilled apple cider or burned cookies, just remember that parties are what you make them. Put on your best smile and get back out there and join in the fun with your friends! Parties are my favorite, and I hope these tips help you enjoy throwing them as much as you love attending them! GL Taken from the fall 2014 issue of Studio G.

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KIDS

STUDENTS

BABY DEDICATIONS

Sundays, Nov 1–15 | 9:00 am | Classroom B

Nov 14–15 | Before Weekend Services | Auditorium

Learn how to parent in a post-Christian world and teach purity and connection to your children in the digital age. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

If you would like to dedicate your baby or child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com by Monday, November 9. Contact: Amy Carr, 817.328.2001, kidsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

FORGIVENESS

Saturday, Nov 14 | 5:45 pm | Classroom B

MEN

GATEWAY STUDENTS FIRST LOOK

First Wednesday of the Month, Nov 4 | 6:30 pm

MEN’S BREAKFAST

If you’re interested in serving with Gateway Students, come visit a service, meet our staff, shadow another leader, and hear our heart and vision for the next generation. Registration is not required. Contact: Lauren Sheppard, 817.552.7465, firstlook@gatewaypeople.com

Saturday, Nov 21 | 7:00 am | Lobby

Holding on to bitterness damages our hearts and distorts our thoughts and perceptions. But Jesus has made a way for us to be free and healed of the pain caused by those who have sinned against us. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH

FREEDOM IN TRUST

BLESS A LIFE SERVE DAY

Has your trust ever been betrayed? Do you have a hard time completely trusting God? Discover a Christ-focused approach to trusting again and achieve the intimacy and contentment you desire in life. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Are you looking for a way to serve in the Frisco community? This is a great opportunity for Gateway Groups, families, and individuals to serve together in our community through various projects and partnerships. There is somewhere for everyone to serve! Contact: Jade Washington, 817.552.7425, outreachfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Saturday, Nov 21 | 5:45 pm | Classroom B

THE MARITAL “SHAME FLAME”

Sunday, Nov 22 | 9:00 am | Classroom B

Learn how vulnerability and grace are the keys to recognizing and extinguishing shame and experiencing unconditional love. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, equipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS GATEWAY GROUPS

If you’re looking to meet new friends at the Frisco Campus, join a Gateway Group! Pick up a Gateway Groups booklet from Guest Central today! Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, groupsfrs@gatewaypeople.com

HEALING MINISTRY

We hope to see you at our next breakfast where men in our community come together to connect and hear from the Lord. Contact: Allie Wilke, 817.328.2088, menfrs@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN PINK MENTORING

Saturday, Nov 14 | 8:00 am–1:00 pm

SERVE OPPORTUNITIES CHOSEN ONES INFORMATIONAL MEETING Sunday, Nov 1 | 12:15 pm | Classroom B

Have you felt the Lord leading you to foster or adopt a child? Join us as we explore this process together. Agency representatives will be on hand. Contact: Vickie Akins, 817.552.3704, chosenones@gatewaypeople.com

SEVEN COLLECTIVE

Are you between the ages of 18 and early 30s and looking to get plugged in? Join other young adults for Gateway’s Saturday night service and dinner after! We also meet every second and fourth Tuesday night for worship, fun, and the message simulcast from Seven. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, sevenfrs@gatewaypeople.com

GUEST EXPERIENCE ORIENTATION

Saturday, Nov 14 | 4:00 pm | Classroom B

Serve on a Guest Experience team and help us create an atmosphere where people can encounter the Lord. Contact: Mikayla Blease, 817.552.3638, servefrs@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS SUNDAYS »» Equip Topical Classes 9:00 am & 12:30 pm | Classroom B

SPECIAL EVENTS CAMPUS TEAM NIGHT

Thursday, Nov 19 | 7:00–8:30 pm | Auditorium

Whether you’re sick, hurting, or suffering, we want to pray with you! We minister to people of all ages and to all conditions. Contact: Connie Brown, 817.552.5868, healingfrs@gatewaypeople.com

Are you a part of or interested in getting involved with worship, prayer, or technical arts at the Frisco Campus? Join our leaders and team members for a night of connection, community, and ministry! Contact: Ashley Jackson, 817.552.7541, worshipfrs@gatewaypeople.com

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YOUNG ADULTS Saturday, Nov 7 | 5:45 pm | Auditorium

HEALING MINISTRY

Tuesdays | 7:00 pm

Do you want to discover more about yourself, your potential, and your capabilities? Consider becoming part of Pink Mentoring at the Frisco Campus as a mentor or mentee. Contact: Kelly Hamilton, 817.552.7301, pinkmentoringfrs@gatewaypeople.com

TUESDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 6:30 pm | The Mix WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SATURDAYS »» Equip Topical Classes 5:45 pm | Classroom B

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GATEWAY GRAND PRAIRIE

EQUIP EQUIP FALL SEMESTER

PRAYER PRAY FIRST

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STUDENTS GATEWAY STUDENTS FIRST LOOK

Thursdays, Sep 3–Nov 5 | 6:30 pm

Wednesdays | 7:00 am | The Mix

First Wednesday of the Month, Nov 4 | 6:30 pm

Don’t forget to register for one of our many Equip classes! All are welcome, and children’s ministry is available. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Amanda Cheatham, 972.314.9084, equipgrp@gatewaypeople.com

Join us as we gather to worship and pray. Come ready to connect with God and release His kingdom on earth through prayer. Contact: Aaron Cheuvront, 972.314.9077, prayergrp@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY GROUPS

First Wednesday of Every Month | 7:00 pm | Prayer Center

PRAYER FOR THE NATION

Join us for a time of worship and prayer dedicated to seeking God for our country and establishing His purposes in it through prayer. Contact: Aaron Cheuvront, 972.314.9077, prayergrp@gatewaypeople.com

WOMEN

SERVE OPPORTUNITIES YOU BELONG IN A GATEWAY GROUP!

Gateway Groups are happening across all campuses! Let us help you get connected! To find a group, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Angela Wescott, 972.314.9088, groupsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

SEVEN (YOUNG ADULTS)

Tuesdays | 6:30 pm | Temporary Auditorium We need volunteers to be an essential part in helping others meet Jesus and facilitate our growing community of young adults! Contact: Zach Faught, 972.314.4725, sevengrp@gatewaypeople.com

HEALING MINISTRY HEALING MINISTRY

PINK IMPACT VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Friday–Saturday, May 13–14 Fort Worth Convention Center

We have volunteer spots available for Pink Impact 2016, and we’d love for you to join us! Volunteers receive a discounted rate starting at $75/ticket. To learn more and to register, visit pinkimpact.com/volunteer. Contact: Rachel Sandefur, 972.314.9088, pinkgrp@gatewaypeople.com

Thursdays | 6:00 pm | Flying Ferris Wheel Room Healing Ministry is now partnering with Equip on Thursday nights! If you need prayer for physical or emotional healing, we would love for you to join us. Contact: Aaron Cheuvront, 972.314.9077, healinggrp@gatewaypeople.com

MEN MEN’S BREAKFAST

Saturday, Nov 7 | 8:00–10:00 am | Temporary Auditorium Come out for free breakfast, fellowship, and worship with the men of Gateway Grand Prairie! Contact: Angela Wescott, 972.314.9088, mengrp@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH BLESS! LOCAL OUTREACH OPPORTUNITY

Tuesdays & Thursdays | 9:00 am–2:00 pm First Saturday of the Month | 9:00 am–2:00 pm People That Care Center Come use your gift to serve and minister God’s grace to families in need at our local food pantry. People That Care (PTC) Center is located at 2129 Galveston Street in Grand Prairie. Contact: Mack Barron, 972.262.8318, mack.barron@ptccenter.org

GATEWAY STUDENTS

Wednesdays | 7:00 pm | Temporary Auditorium Come be a part of what God is doing at Gateway Students Grand Prairie! As we grow, we need volunteers to help serve, disciple, and mentor the next generation. Contact: James Gadberry, 972.314.9078, studentsgrp@gatewaypeople.com

SPECIAL EVENTS HABITATION

Sunday, Nov 8 | 6:00 pm | Temporary Auditorium Join us for our first ever Habitation service at the Grand Prairie Campus! We will meet for an extended time of worship and a message. Contact: Cindy Williamson, 817.552.3729, habitation@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» Seven (Young Adults, 18–Early 30s) 7:00 pm | Temporary Auditorium WEDNESDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00 am | Prayer Center »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Temporary Auditorium THURSDAYS »» Healing Ministry | 6:00 pm Flying Ferris Wheel Room

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

GATEWAY NORTH FORT WORTH

EQUIP EQUIP FALL SEMESTER

Thursdays, Nov 5–19 | 7:00 pm | Auditorium Join us this semester to meet new people, learn new information, and enjoy greater depth in your relationship with God! Children’s ministry is available. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Denise Edwards, 817.552.5801, equipnfw@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP STEWARDSHIP CLASSES

Saturday, Nov 7 | 4:00–5:00 pm | Guest Central

Serve | Second Saturday of Every Month

We’re looking for communion volunteers! If you’d like to serve, visit the Welcome Center for instructions 30 minutes before the service you attend. Attire is business casual. Contact: Donya Ingram, 817.552.5899, communionnfw@gatewaypeople.com

Fresh Start | Third Saturday of Every Month

SINGLE PARENT FAMILIES

GATEWAY GROWTH TRACK

Learn about Gateway’s history and vision at our membership class. Find your place to volunteer.

Explore your next steps . Contact: Donya Ingram, 817.552.5899, gxpnfw@gatewaypeople.com

RELATIONAL CARE

HEALING MINISTRY HEALING MINISTRY

Sunday, Nov 8 | Before Habitation | 3:30–5:00 pm We have healing ministry available before the monthly Habitation night! The process takes about 30 minutes and includes time in God’s presence, communion, and individual prayer. Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, freedomnfw@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS BABY DEDICATION SERVICES

Saturday, Nov 14 | 5:30 pm | Auditorium Sunday, Nov 15 | 12:15 pm | Auditorium If you would like to dedicate your child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Lara Bledsoe, 817.552.7351, babiesnfw@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS JEWEL STORE

Dec 5–6 | After Each Weekend Service | Guest Central Amazing Kids, be sure to bring your jewels for our next Jewel Store weekend! Contact: TJ Allen, 817.552.5852, kidsnfw@gatewaypeople.com

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SINGLE PARENT LIFE

Mondays | Meal 5:30 pm | Service 6:45 pm

Join us for a family meal, worship together in the Auditorium, and then teachings and topical classes about relevant topics for single parents. Visit singleparentlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly O’Briant, 817.552.3684, singleparentlife@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH

GATEWAY GROUPS This winter, we have opportunities to join our team as a group leader for the six-week Gateway series, The God I Never Knew. To lead a group, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com and submit your interest form, and we’ll contact you! Contact: Christy Atkinson, 817.552.3657, groupsnfw@gatewaypeople.com

Nov 14–15 | Weekend Services

4:00–5:30 pm | Compass A Catch the Vision | First Saturday of Every Month

This year, we’re building a house from the ground up for a wounded warrior! Register to prep and paint the house at bless.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Samantha Belveal, 817.552.3704, outreach@gatewaypeople.com

Jan 10–Feb 14

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COMMUNION VOLUNTEERS

MEMBERSHIP

Would you like to learn how to better manage your money, be a better steward, and create a secure financial future? Join us for our stewardship series and also receive one-on-one budget coaching. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Denise Edwards, 817.552.5801, stewardshipnfw@gatewaypeople.com

2016 SERIES GROUPS

Stay connected with us!

HOME MAKEOVER

Friday–Sunday, November 6–8 | Watauga, Texas

STUDENTS

RELATIONAL CARE

We offer encouragement to people who are experiencing hospitalization, critical illness, birth, adoption, or loss of a loved one. For after-hours crises, call 817.328.1000. Contact: Debbie Rhodes, 817.552.7325, carenfw@gatewaypeople.com

SERVE OPPORTUNITIES ALTAR & HEALING MINISTRY

Do you enjoy praying with people and want to see people healed? We are looking for individuals to serve on our altar and healing teams. We are also looking for Spanish-speaking volunteers. Contact: Meredith Tilton, 817.328.2075, freedomnfw@gatewaypeople.com

MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

We need volunteers to serve with us in ministering to married couples as we launch this powerful ministry this fall. Contact: Denise Edwards, 817.552.5801, marriagenfw@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKEND GUEST EXPERIENCE

Are you looking to get involved and be part of a team? We have several opportunities available to serve as ushers, greeters, parking team attendants, or Guest Central or Welcome Center hosts. For more information, visit gxp.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Donya Ingram, 817.552.5899, gxpnfw@gatewaypeople.com

GATEWAY STUDENTS FIRST LOOK

First Wednesday of the Month, Nov 4 | 6:30 pm If you’re interested in serving with Gateway Students, come visit a service, meet our staff, shadow another leader, and hear our heart and vision for the next generation. Registration is not required. Contact: Lauren Sheppard, 817.552.7465, firstlook@gatewaypeople.com

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EQUIP

THE BLESSED LIFE

MARRIAGE REVOLUTION

As you learn about the heart of generosity in this class, your finances and your life will be transformed. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

Saturdays, Oct 3–Nov 21 | 5:45 pm | Classroom A Marriage Revolution is an eight-week course designed to grow, strengthen, and empower your marriage. Whatever the condition of your marriage, God will do abundantly more than you can imagine. Register at marriedlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kate Panza, 682.223.6144, marriegenrh@gatewaypeople.com

FIFTY-PLUS LIFE EQUIP: FEARS, WARS, EARTHQUAKES, LANDSLIDES, FLOODS

Sunday, Nov 1 | 9:00 am | Classroom A

We all face fears, wars, earthquakes, landslides, and floods, and as we mature, they may occur more often and many times more devastating. Where or to whom do we turn? We will study a Psalm that gives us sound counsel and comfort in trying situations. Contact: Kate Panza, 682.223.6144, fiftypluslifenrh@gatewaypeople.com

Stay connected with us!

Sundays, Nov 22–Dec 6 | 10:45 am | Classroom A

THE VALUE OF A VISION FOR YOUR MARRIAGE Saturday, Dec 5 | 5:45 pm | Classroom A

The Word of God says, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” Without a clear, united vision, many couples unknowingly fall into survival mode. Discover the value of a vision for your marriage. Register at marriedlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kate Panza, 682.223.6144, marriegenrh@gatewaypeople.com

GROUPS

MARRIED LIFE MARRIAGE REVOLUTION

Saturdays, Oct 3–Nov 21 | 5:45 pm | Classroom A This eight-week course is designed to grow, strengthen, and empower your marriage. Whatever the condition of your marriage, God will do abundantly more than you can imagine! Register at marriedlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kate Panza, 682.223.6144, marriagenrh@gatewaypeople.com

MEN ENTRY POINT

Wednesdays | 7:00–8:00 am | The Mix Connect with likeminded men and take your spiritual walk to the next level. There will be practical teaching, prayer, worship, and of course, free breakfast! Contact: Matt Lankenau, 817.552.5802, mennrh@gatewaypeople.com

PRAYER

JEWISH EQUIP: WHY DID GOD CREATE PEOPLE?

PRAY FIRST

Sunday, Nov 8 | 9:00 am | Classroom A

Monday, Nov 2 | 7:00 am | Auditorium

Don’t let your failures keep you from your destiny. God did not adjust His plan when Adam and Eve fell. The Fall was part of His plan. How does this apply to you? You will leave this class with a greater sense of awe for God. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Oli Snyder, 817.552.7452, jewish@gatewaypeople.com

On the first Monday of every month, we come together as a congregation for a powerful time of prayer and worship. If you’re interested in being on the NRH Prayer Team and receiving weekly prayer requests from the NRH Campus congregation, email prayernrh@gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Katherine Hesami, 682.223.6021, prayernrh@gatewaypeople.com

COMMUNICATION CAVE-INS IN MARRIAGE

Sunday, Nov 15 | 9:00 am | Classroom A

Many couples feel their communication can only hold up to light topics without an argument, but this is unhealthy and ultimately impacts every area of the marriage. Learn how to have honest, open, and consistent communication in your home. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM FROM FEAR

Sunday, Nov 15 | 10:45 am | Classroom A Did you know that one of the most common traps for us as believers is fear? Fear is an attack against a specific aspect of God’s character. Come discover what God has done to help you be free to receive His love and His peace. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, freedomnrh@gatewaypeople.com

STUCK IN A RUT

Sunday, Nov 22 | 9:00 am | Classroom A Do you feel like your life is going nowhere? Come discover why you could be stuck and what you can do to move toward your destiny. Register at equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Ana Rodriquez, 817.552.7619, equipnrh@gatewaypeople.com

JOIN OR LEAD A GROUP!

If you’re looking for a way to get connected at the NRH Campus, join a group! We’re also looking for group leaders. Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Sabo, 817.552.5885, groupsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS BABY DEDICATIONS

Nov 7–8 | 10 Minutes Before Each Weekend Service Auditorium If you would like to dedicate your baby or child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com by Monday, November 2. Space is limited! Contact: Amy Sellars, 817.552.7342, babiesnrh@gatewaypeople.com

YOUNG ADULTS SEVEN (YOUNG ADULTS)

If you are between 18 and early 30s and are interested in being a part of our young adults gatherings, let us know! Contact: Brian McNabb, 817.552.7318, sevennrh@gatewaypeople.com

CROSSFIRE TRAINING

Sunday, Nov 15 | 12:30 pm | Classroom A Crossfire is a program (for students, 5th grade through age 15) that trains students to serve in the Amazing Kids classrooms. Contact: Joseph Chirico, 682.223.6917, crossfirenrh@gatewaypeople.com

AMAZING KIDS JEWEL STORE

Dec 5–6 | After Each Weekend Service | Court Room Bring your jewels to spend at the Jewel Store! Jewels can be earned by bringing your Bible to class, returning Replay sheets, and more. This is our last store of the year, so don’t miss it! Contact: Amy Sellars, 817.552.7342, kidsnrh@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS TUESDAYS »» DayTime Bible Study (Senior Adults) 10:00 am | Chat Room WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SUNDAYS »» Barabbas Prison Ministry 7:00 pm | Chat Room

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WOMEN

GATEWAY MEN’S GROUPS

EQUIP FALL SEMESTER

Wednesdays, Saturdays & Sundays | Nov 4–18 This fall, we have so many great classes available to pique your interest, including a special class about redemptive themes in popular TV shows and films (Wednesdays). For a list of classes and to register, visit equip.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jesse Kramer, 817.552.5818, equip@gatewaypeople.com

FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP INVESTING MADE EASY

Wednesdays, Nov 4–18 | 7:00 pm This three-week class provides an outline for your entire financial life and empowers you to make some basic investing decisions right away. Registration not required. Children’s ministry provided. Contact: Jacquelyn Bushnell, 817.552.7428, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

GROUPS YOU BELONG IN A GATEWAY GROUP!

If you’re looking for a way to get connected, join a group! To find a group, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rachel Kevil, 817.552.7486, groups@gatewaypeople.com

KIDS BABY DEDICATION SERVICE

Sunday, Nov 22 | 2:30 pm | Auditorium

Check out our Promise Principle groups, specially designed to strengthen your walk with God and empower you to respond to God’s Word instead of your circumstances. Register at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jonathan McNabb, 817.552.7468, mensgroups@gatewaypeople.com

OUTREACH

TITUS 2 (T2)

Tuesdays & Thursdays | 10:00–11:30 am | Classroom 2D Mondays | 7:00–9:00 pm | Classroom 203 UC

CHOSEN ONES INFORMATIONAL MEETING

Sunday, Nov 15 | 12:00 pm | Classroom 1C [SLK] Have you felt the Lord leading you to foster or adopt a child? Join us as we explore this process together. Agency representatives will be on hand. Contact: Vickie Akins, 817.552.3704, chosenones@gatewaypeople.com

SERVE OPPORTUNITIES GUEST EXPERIENCE HARVEST PARTY

Nov 7–8 & 14–15 | During Weekend Services Serve Lounge Join us for a fun Harvest Party during every service, and discover more about how we prepare hearts for worship. For complete details and to register, email gxp@gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jim Mayher, 817.552.7566, gxp@gatewaypeople.com

STUDENTS

BECOMING ONE (PREMARRIED LIFE CLASS)

Saturdays, Jan 9–Feb 13 | 6:30–8:30 pm | Classroom 2C Learn how to build a strong foundation for marriage while navigating the realities of life. Cost: $50/couple, including a wrap-up workshop weekend. Register at becomingone.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kathy Overton, 682.223.6034, becomingone@gatewaypeople.com

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This class helps women learn how to hear the voice of God and follow His voice in everyday life. To get started, join a T2 group at groups.gatewaypeople.com. Children’s ministry is available. Contact: Laurinda Dunn, 817.328.2093, t2@gatewaypeople.com

PINK GROUPS

If you’re looking to get connected and meet new friends, join a Pink Group! For more information or to join a group, visit groups.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Allie Martin, 682.223.6935, pinkgroups@gatewaypeople.com

WEEKLY EVENTS MONDAYS »» Family Life Night | 6:45 pm | Auditorium TUESDAYS »» Pray First | 7:00 am | The Mix

If you would like to dedicate your baby or child to the Lord, register at kids.gatewaypeople.com by Monday, November 16. Space is limited! Contact: Cheryl Morgan, 817.552.7431, babies@gatewaypeople.com

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PINK MENTORING

Do you want to discover more about yourself, your potential, and your capabilities? Consider becoming part of Pink Mentoring as a mentor or mentee. Contact: Laurinda Dunn, 817.328.2093, pinkmentoring@gatewaypeople.com

»» Seven (Young Adults, 18–Early 30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium »» Healing Ministry | 7:00 pm | Second Floor WEDNESDAYS »» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium UC

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FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP CAREER MINISTRY SEMINAR

Saturdays, Nov 7 & 14 | 8:30 am | Classroom 2C

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This interactive course covers job transition, resume writing, networking, interviewing, and discovering biblical calling and purpose. Register at stewardship.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jacquelyn Bushnell, 817.552.7428, stewardship@gatewaypeople.com

FREEDOM KAIROS

Thursday–Friday, Nov 12–13 9:00 am–5:00 pm | Auditorium

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Come expecting to have an encounter with the Holy Spirit through worship, teaching, and ministry. Register at kairos.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Jennifer Stracener, 817.552.7446, kairos@gatewaypeople.com

GIVEAWAY WIN A GIFT CARD! Email life@gatewaypeople.com and write your campus name in the subject line to be entered to win a $25 gift card from the Gateway Bookstore! Winners (one per campus) will be announced in the December Gateway Life issue.

Friday, Nov 13 | 7:00–9:00 pm | Auditorium

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After the loss of a loved one, celebrating a holiday season without them can be overwhelming. We’ll offer dinner, practical tips, a special message, and a devotional to equip you for the holidays. Cost: $5/person. Register at care.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Rebecca Freed, 817.552.7454, surviving@gatewaypeople.com

SERVE OPPORTUNITIES SINGLE PARENT LIFE CHRISTMAS GIVING This season, bless a single parent family at Gateway. You can give a special offering designated to Single Parent Life or donate major retail store gift cards. For more information, visit singleparentlife.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Kelly O’Briant, 817.552.3684, singleparentlife@gatewaypeople.com

SPECIAL EVENTS HABITATION

Sunday, Nov 8 | 6:00 pm Auditorium SLK FRS GRP

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Come learn about Hanukkah! Afterward, we’ll have a party with games, a photo booth, and holiday treats. We also need volunteers! Register at jewish.gatewaypeople.com. Contact: Oli Snyder, 817.552.7452, jewish@gatewaypeople.com

SERVICE TIMES SOUTHLAKE CAMPUS SLK 700 Blessed Way · Southlake, TX 76092 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm FRISCO CAMPUS FRS 7125 Legacy Dr · Frisco, TX 75034 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm GRAND PRAIRIE CAMPUS GRP 2404 N Carrier Pkwy · Grand Prairie, TX 75050 Sat 5:00 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm NORTH FORT WORTH CAMPUS NFW 4209 Basswood Blvd · Fort Worth, TX 76137 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

NRH CAMPUS NRH 7501 Davis Blvd · North Richland Hills, TX 76182 Sat 4:00 pm & 5:45 pm Sun 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

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MINISTRY CENTER MIN 540 S Nolen · Southlake, TX 76092

Join 7th–12th graders from all campuses and experience powerful worship, teaching, breakout sessions, crazy games, and loads of fun! Registration opens December 1. Contact: Joy Cromer, 817.552.7375, students@gatewaypeople.com

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Join us for a special time of worship and ministry. Learn to hear God’s voice, increase your faith, and believe for miracles. Prayer starts at 5:15 pm. Contact: Cindy Williamson, 817.552.3729, habitation@gatewaypeople.com

Feb 19–21 | Lakeview Camp & Retreat Center Waxahachie, Texas

HANUKKAH CELEBRATION

UNIVERSITY CAMPUS UC 2121 E Southlake Blvd · Southlake, TX 76092 817.328.1000

WEEKLY EVENTS

THE SCHOOL OF TECH ARTS | SPRING SEMESTER

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Friday, Nov 20 | 6:30–9:00 pm

SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS

GATEWAY STUDENTS WINTER CAMP

JEWISH MINISTRY Friday, Dec 4 | 7:30 pm | Auditorium

RELATIONAL CARE

Begins January 12

All 5th and 6th graders are invited to join us for our 56 Fun Night! Wear Star Wars or space costumes, and we’ll have food, games, live worship, and prizes. (Cost: $10) Contact: Heather Martin, 817.552.7539, mix56@gatewaypeople.com

We offer a college-level education in live audio, video, and lighting! Along with Pro Tools certification courses, you’ll find affordable programs custom-made for you! For more information, visit techartstraining.com. Contact: Vivian Brassel, 817.552.5884, info@techartstraining.com

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MYGATEWAY ADVENT DEVOTIONAL

CAMPUS DAY

Sundays, Nov 29–Dec 20 | Daily, Dec 20–25

Saturday, Nov 7

This Christmas season, deepen your relationship with the Lord as Gateway pastors lead and encourage you through a video devotional. Only found on the newly redesigned myGateway App! Contact: Amy Alise, 817.328.2083, mygateway@gatewaypeople.com

Meet current students and talk with staff about admissions, financial aid, undergraduate and graduate degrees, and more! Application fees waived for those who attend. Register at tku.edu/campusday. Contact: Angela Tranel, 817.552.7381, angela.tranel@tku.edu

TUESDAYS »» Seven (Young Adults, 18–Early 30s) 7:00 pm | Auditorium SLK GRP NFW WEDNESDAYS »» Equip | 6:56 pm | Auditorium

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»» Gateway Students (7th–12th Graders) 7:00 pm | Auditorium UC FRS GRP NFW NRH

SATURDAYS »» Equip | 4:00 pm & 5:00 pm

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SUNDAYS »» Marriage Challenge | 9:30 am MIN (Canceled on holiday weekends) »» Equip | 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

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GATEWAY ANNOUNCES DALLAS CAMPUS

We’re excited to announce our next extension campus will be in Dallas! Our Dallas Campus pastor will be Tom Lane, and David Moore will serve as the worship pastor. Updates to the facility (located at 12123 Hillcrest Rd) will include the addition of a café and bookstore as well as renovation of the children’s area. We plan to open in the spring of 2016. To learn more about the Dallas Campus and how you can get involved, visit dallas.gatewaypeople.com.

CONTINUED FROM PAGE 11 Julia up for adoption, it was a very loving thing for Estella to do. She could have aborted her out of fear, but God had other plans for our Julia. Ten years ago, Estella heard the gospel and repented of her sins. She became a true believer. She prayed to meet Julia one time in her life. And God answered that prayer. One of the most beautiful parts of the story is also one of the simplest. During our time visiting Estella in Guatemala, she didn’t call Julia by her first name, but instead she used Julia’s middle name, Elizabeth. We asked why she did this and she told us it’s the name she had chosen for her. It’s just another wonderful, hidden detail in the story of our two families coming together. God is always bringing lives together to love and reflect His glory. When we parted ways with Julia’s family, she turned to me and said, “Mama, it was so special to meet my biological family and hear the story of my birth, but I am so happy I get to go home with you and Daddy.” With tears streaming down our faces, we hugged and thanked God for His perfect choices for our lives. GL Bonnie Saul Wilks is the Senior Writer at the Messianic Jewish Bible Institute, a Gateway ministry partner. Her book, Sabbath: A Gift of Time, is available at the Gateway Bookstore. Julia serves at the Gateway Grand Prairie Campus and works as an adoption counselor at Legacy Adoption Services.

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wasn’t worth it to be away from my family for six hours at a time just to play a game that put me in a bad mood. Sacrificing that hobby to free up time for my family was well worth it. NOW THAT MY KIDS ARE A LITTLE OLDER, I recently decided it’s time for another hobby. Rather than reinvesting in golf clubs, I’ve taken up cycling. I like the community aspect of it because I usually cycle with other people. I’ve fallen a few times though. I start to tip over and can’t get my feet out of the locks. Next thing I know I’m on the ground! MY FAVORITE MOVIE OF ALL TIME is Fletch. I love it so much that I incorporated it into my personal email address. Three Amigos is a close second.

TODD LANE TODD LANE IS THE LEAD EXECUTIVE SENIOR PASTOR AT GATEWAY. HE AND HIS WIFE BLYNDA HAVE THREE CHILDREN.

I WAS BORN IN OMAHA, NEBRASKA, then we moved to Amarillo when I was three, so I was raised in Texas. I have Texas pride, but I’m not over-the-top about it like some people. I don’t love country music, ride horses, or hunt. I did get my first cowboy hat this year. I MET BLYNDA AT BAYLOR UNIVERSITY during my freshman year. I still remember the room I was in when I met her. The clouds parted and light shone down upon her—it was wonderful until I found out she had a boyfriend. That turned out to be a good thing because for the next three years we became good friends. I realized she had everything I wanted in a wife, and I prayed, “God, if you ever wondered who the perfect woman is for me, it’s Blynda, so would you send me someone exactly like her?” Well, He worked it all out and we ended up together.

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BLYNDA AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS, and during the first seven years of our marriage, we moved six times. One of those moves took us to Auckland, New Zealand. We had an incredible experience and our oldest daughter was born there. When I went to find a place to live, the realtor and I passed a harborfront apartment with a sign that said “for rent.” The realtor said, “No, that place has already been rented.” I convinced her to go back and we ended up getting it. The funny part is it cost the same as the apartment we had previously in Lewisville, but for two years we could open our windows and hear the waves crashing. BEFORE WE HAD OUR KIDS, we had a list of adventurous things we wanted to do. New Zealand is perfect for that because it’s where bungee jumping was invented. We bungee jumped, rode a jet boat, and skydived. A month and a half after skydiving, we were pregnant. ABOUT FIVE YEARS AGO, I GAVE UP GOLF in the middle of a round. I was playing with Pastor Preston Morrison and some other guys, and I had done so badly on the front nine that I told them to finish without me. I went to the clubhouse, opened my laptop, and put my golf clubs for sale on Craigslist. I realized it

IN COLLEGE, MY ROOMMATE AND I wrote a song called “Crawfish Pie.” It absolutely makes no sense at all, but it tells the story of a lovesick dreamer whose love life depends on whether or not the girl could handle his crawfish pie, which is made of rutabaga, sour cream and chives, a little bit of sugar, and a whole lot of rye. Oddly enough, there’s no crawfish listed in the ingredients. I CONSIDER THE OPENING DAY of March Madness as a holiday. I set up three televisions and literally watch every game from the opening tip off to the final buzzer, which is after midnight. I’ll have a few friends over, and we’ll watch all 32 games. MICHAEL JORDAN ONCE WATCHED ME play basketball. I went to one of his basketball camps in the late ‘80s when I was in early high school. He’d watch us play and coach us. At one point, he had us do left-handed layups and watched everyone from under the basketball goal. The camp was sponsored by Nike, but I was wearing Adidas shoes, so when I did my layup he said, “Nice layup, but your shoes suck.” That was the beginning and the end of my friendship with Michael Jordan.

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A Gateway Christmas Musical Thursday, Dec 10 | 7:30 pm Friday, Dec 11 | 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm Saturday, Dec 12 | 2:00 pm, 4:00 pm, 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm Sunday, Dec 13 | 9:00 am, 10:45 am & 12:30 pm

CANDLELIGHT SERVICES A Family Christmas Event

Saturday, Dec 19 | 4:00 pm, 5:45 pm & 7:30 pm Sunday, Dec 20 | 9:00 am, 10:45 am, 12:30 pm & 2:15 pm

Admission is free, and tickets are not required. Children’s ministry is available, birth through sixth grade.

Children’s ministry is available, birth through five years old.

For other service times and locations, visit gatewaychristmas.com.

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