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Nicole Irving President Shane Irving Vice President Managing Editor Chris Wilson

Art Director Leslie Vega

Contributing Writers Wendy Joysen, Alison Walker, Mary Reichardt, Jillian Rogers, Rachael Pino, Dana Kamp, Amelia Harnish, Melissa Stauble Photographers Laurel Housden Photography, Kelsey Gordon, The K Gallery, Alyson Landry Sales Team Shane Irving, Chris Wilson, LaRue LeBlanc

giggle is a modern and refreshing magazine for the families and communities of Alachua County, Florida. With our sole purpose of keeping families and communities connected, giggle will keep readers intrigued, informed and inspired, with up to date information and heartwarming stories.

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6 Charity of the Month

26 Our Favorite

18 Legal Side of Things

31 Back to School Money Saving Tips

32 All Kidding Aside

Tyler’s Hope

12 In the Kitchen

Healthy Lunch Alternatives

20 Family Spotlight The Francos

Informing families of the important legal issues that effect them.

Multiples!

Tough questions answered about kids, family, school, parenting, and everything in between

24 Local Lifesavers

Things to do After School

29 Health & Wellness What To Know About Eye Exams

37 Giggle Dollars College Savings 101

38 Day Trips

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40 Why I love raising my family in Gainesville

The Graves Family shares why they love living in Gainesville

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Letter from the Publisher

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elcome to our first back to school issue! Within the blink of the eye, the days of summer have passed and it is time for new outfits, peanut butter and jelly lunches and that final kiss goodbye in the morning, for a new school year is before us.

Being a mom myself, I know how hard it is to prepare ahead, so I am happy to say that we have come up with what I think it is a complete back to school checklist, perfect for organizing the troops in time for that 6 a.m. wakeup call. If you like to save money (um, who doesn’t?), then you will love our back-to-school money saving tips. I’m sure you have never thought that going shopping in your own home would be a cool way to save? And, in our special “in the kitchen” feature, we will tell creative, yet simple ways to swap out old time lunch staples for more healthy and tasty treats!

This issue is especially meaningful to me as my eldest son is beginning Kindergarten this year. No longer are the days of being late for preschool or extra long vacations in the middle of the week. He is now starting “big boy” school, and he is very excited! Unfortunately, I do not share his enthusiasm. I am saddened by the fact that I have to face that my first born is no longer a baby, but a five- year-old boy, who can feed himself, cloth himself, eats chips and salsa and would rather swim all day than cuddle with me.

I have the same fear and worry that so many of us have on that first day of “big boy” school. Will he be safe? Will he be liked? Will his teacher be attuned to his little quirks?

In honor of all of you who also are venturing on this new journey with me, I welcome you to our back to school issue.

And, to all those Kindergartners starting a new chapter in their lives, we wish you the best of luck!

Our day trip feature will take you back to school shopping, the budget friendly way. We look at four outlet shopping centers that are sure to be hit with your wallet and children’s’ wardrobe!

Getting prepared to go back to school would not be complete without a vision exam to make sure that your child’s view of the world is crystal clear. Dr. Julie Abraham helps answer all your tough questions regarding your children’s vision.

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Emma and her mom, Shelly sneaking in some fun during her cover photo shoot. Photography by The K Gallery

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This school year, I’m looking forward to doing some art projects and meeting my new teacher.

‘Princess Songs Sing-a-long’ is my favorite book.

My favorite activity is going to gymnastics because it is really fun and I want to learn to be a gymnast.

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Tyler’s Hope Charity of the Month

BY AMELIA HARNISH Photography by The K Gallery

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n 2005, Tyler Staab was an active, sports-loving, seven year-old boy. He was playing basketball with his father Rick, who noticed an uncontrollable shaking in Tyler’s arm.

After numerous doctors’ appointments, Tyler was diagnosed with early onset generalized dystonia, a neurological movement disorder characterized by involuntary, painful muscle movements. The Staab family had an answer. But, they soon learned there is no cure for dystonia, which causes Tyler’s hands to knot, his jaw to clench and his body to twist. It is difficult for Tyler to eat or speak and he is often in pain from cramping.

Tyler, now age 11, spends much of his time in a wheelchair, although his symptoms have improved somewhat after undergoing deep brain stimulation surgery in 2008. He and his younger sister Samantha, age 8, who also developed symptoms of dystonia, have become the face of the search for a dystonia cure.

Because the type of dystonia affecting the Staab family is genetic, their youngest child Luke, 4, has a chance of developing symptoms as well. But, with the overwhelming support from family, friends and the Gainesville community, the Staabs have hope.

In 2006, within 6 months of Tyler’s diagnosis, Tyler’s Hope for a Dystonia Cure was founded. Since then, the organization has quadrupled research dollars going toward finding a cure, said Rick, who is the founding president of Tyler’s Hope. The non-profit currently funds $180,000 in grants at the McKnight Brain Institute at the University of Florida.

Dystonia is a rare disorder, but it does not discriminate.

It is the third largest movement disorder, affecting at least 300,000 people of all ages and backgrounds in North America, according to the Dystonia Medical Research Foundation’s website. Dystonia can affect one part of the body or it can be generalized, affecting multiple muscle groups. It causes varying degrees of disability and pain, but it does not affect cognition, vision or hearing.

“It’s not just Tyler,” said Rick. “It’s my daughter and my other son and all the others who have dystonia.”

After Tyler’s diagnosis, Rick and his wife Michelle did

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Tyler and his sister, Samantha who also has Dystonia, go through each day with a positive attitude and a smile on their face.

countless hours of research and realized that scientists knew a lot about dystonia, despite little funding.

“It was clear to me that if we could raise some money, they could cure it,” Rick said.

None of the money raised by Tyler’s Hope goes to the Staab family, Rick added. Every dollar raised by the foundation goes directly towards research, as the organization operates solely with the help of volunteers.

The goal of the charity is to find a cure, but Rick also wants Tyler’s Hope to become a national organization. The organization is already on its way, with annual events like a Wine Tasting, which was held this year in Chapel Hill, NC, and an upcoming Dinner Gala in Miami. The organization’s biggest event, though, is the Tyler’s Hope Fourth Annual Golf Tournament, which is held close to home at Gainesville Golf and Country Club. The event raised $250,000 last year.

This year’s tournament will be held Thursday-Saturday, August 13-15. It begins with a sponsor’s dinner on Thursday, followed by a practice round and dinner auction on Friday. The tournament will be held on Saturday morning.

“It doesn’t matter how well you play,” Rick said. “That’s what’s so great about it. People are there for the charity.”

Despite Tyler’s and Samantha’s daily struggles, their parents, teachers and friends continue to be amazed by their bravery.

“They have great attitudes,” Rick said. “They’re very supportive of each other.”

For more information about Tyler’s Hope for a Dystonia Cure, the annual Golf Tournament or to see how Tyler and Samantha are doing, visit www.tylershope.org.

October 1, 2009 6:00 - 10:00 PM Cantebury Equestrian Showplace www.GainesvilleGoneNashville.com Sponsored By:

Keep it fun and

Go healthy

Try these healthy alternatives for your kids’ lunches!

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gator football schedule 2009

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Charleston Southern

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Troy

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Tennessee

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Kentucky (away)

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Arkansas (Homecoming)

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Mississippi State (away)

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Georgia (Jacksonville)

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South Carolina (away)

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Florida International

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Florida State University

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eco-friendly must haves!

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the salad pod

The Fit & Fresh Salad Pod just screams, “Healthy eating!” The salad bowl holds 2.5 cups of salad and comes with the perfect salad dressing dispenser built into the lid. The pod is ideal for kids of all ages. The salad will stay cool and fresh, with a removable ice pack that snaps securely into the lid.

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Good for the planet and fun to use, this bamboo utensil set is a stylish alternative to packing disposable flatware in your kid’s lunchbox. Packaged in a convenient pouch, these bamboo utensils are heat and stain resistant, and won’t impart or absorb flavors. Each pack comes with a fork, spoon, knife and even a set of chop sticks. Note to parents: Please take out knife for younger children’s safety.

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It comes in a wide range of colors and can be washed in the dishwasher and each container can be put in the microwave.

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The great success of last year’s Noche de Gala fundraiser for the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation laid the groundwork for continuing progress in the Foundation’s important mission: to build a world-class children’s hospital in Gainesville and to advocate for patient safety within the health care system.

The impetus for these goals is rooted in tragedy– the death of Sebastian Ferrero, a happy and healthy three-year old, in October 2007 from a series of preventable medical errors, including a medical overdose, during a routine scheduled outpatient test.

Almost immediately thereafter, Sebastian’s parents, Horst and Luisa Ferrero began to turn unthinkable personal loss into a miracle of hope for others. In forming the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation, they clearly embodied the idea that excellence in childcare and patient safety is critical to the well being of the entire community.

The idea of a dedicated children’s hospital to complete the excellent medical resource network already available through the University of Florida & Shands, has also been the hope and dream of Pediatrician Dr. Doug Barrett and his wife Macky.

They have lived in Gainesville since 1980, and Dr. Barrett is chief administrative and executive officer for the UF Health Science Center and also serves on the Board of Directors of the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation. This year, Dr. Barrett and Macky are Chairs of Noche de Gala, with their primary role emphasizing sponsor development.

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This cause is personal with the Barretts. As Macky commented, “I’m a mother and grandmother, and children and grandchildren are the most precious part of our lives. A facility that specializes in their needs is the last piece of the health care puzzle that already features an amazing staff of world-class pediatricians and nurses here in Gainesville.” Dr. Doug Barrett further noted, “The Foundation has galvanized many long-term dreams of UF&Shands’ medical and nursing staff. The goal is to transform today’s excellent pediatric care into the safest and most outstanding care provided in a worldclass children’s hospital. Our challenge is to build upon the momentum of past success – to keep the ball rolling.”

The inaugural Noche de Gala in 2008 was attended by over 700 people and raised close to $1 million for the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation through ticket sales, donations, sponsorships, pledges, silent auctions and the generous match from Horst and Luisa Ferrero. Entertainment included Flamenco dancers, a Mariachi band, a Live Cigar Roller and a champion Paso Fino horse show. Keith Watson of Keith Watson Productions helped in the latter planning stages of that event and this year is in charge of all preparations, from table linens, décor and centerpieces, to hiring the entertainment and working with the caterer and writers ofthe show.

Scheduled for October 3, 2009 from 7 pm to 12 am, Noche de Gala’s theme is a Venetian Masquerade ball. Keith Watson laughingly said, “We want everyone to know that it’s a ‘bye-week’ – no home or away Gator football game is scheduled.” The event is black tie with masks encouraged, but not required. Watson noted, “The entertainment this year is fabulous and in keeping with the theme.

Imagine the sights, colors and sounds of an over-the-top Venetian masquerade party. There’ll be wonderful music, singers, dancers and revelers, along with an appearance

by Paso Fino champions and cigar rolling. Exciting silent auctions will feature jewelry, fine art, vacation and golf packages, among other prizes donated by vendors from

Gainesville and the surrounding area. Catering is by Dean Cacciatore and we are expecting at least 1000 guests. The evening will definitely be a spectacular and memorable occasion!”

The setting for Noche de Gala 2009 is the beautiful and elegant 642-acre Besilu Collection in Micanopy, generously hosted by owners Silvia and Benjamin Leon, Jr. Macky Barrett commented, “This lovely location offers the perfect backdrop for the masquerade-themed fundraiser – both elegant and playful and so appropriate for a function to benefit children.” Keith Watson added, “We’re hoping this particular venue – about 15 minutes south of Gainesville – will bring in guests from the Ocala area as well.”

Keith Watson’s company is a special events design and production enterprise that has a large repeat clientele in the Gainesville and New York City metropolitan areas.

Their motto is “Fulfilling your dreams, capturing your personality and exceeding your expectations.” Keith’s flair for the dramatic comes naturally through his background as a New York stage actor who married his opera singer sweetheart, Roberta, after an on-stage romance. Their two children, John, a college student at Santa Fe College, and Sarah, a high school student at P. K. Yonge Developmental Research School at the University of Florida, often help out with their Dad’s work at their north Gainesville studio on the weekends.

As with last year’s event, Horst and Luisa Ferrero will match all funds raised.

Noche de Gala 2009 Chair, Dr. Doug Barrett summarized his thoughts on the Sebastian Ferrero Foundation: “In just its first year the Ferrero Foundation has already had impressive successes achieving some of its goals. For example, the UF medical school curriculum has incorporated new patient safety and quality elements, and a ‘Condition H’ help line has been established in Shands hospital to provide patients and families with immediate access to a rapid response team when urgent help is needed. The ripple effects of the Foundation’s unwavering efforts continue to improve the quality of pediatric care throughout our community. Most recently, the Foundation has teamed with other community groups to advocate for a dedicated pediatric emergency room at Shands. It is also partnering with Shands to cost-share a feasibility study for a Full Service Children’s Hospital in Gainesville. And all of this is only the beginning.”

Keith recalled, “We started planning this year’s Noche de Gala almost as soon as last year’s ended. The success of 2008 was largely due to the 200-plus volunteers who were so dedicated in their time and talent, along with the fundraiser chairs, Barry and Susanne Bullard. We couldn’t have achieved such an ambitious goal without everyone’s collective help. I’m continually humbled by this community’s generous philanthropic spirit.”

Sponsorship opportunities for Noche de Gala 2009 are: Gondola, $1000; Rialto, $2000; Murano, $5000; Castello, $10,000; Gran Canale, $15,000; Piazza San Marco, $25,000; Palazzo, $50,000, and Venezia Title Sponsor, $100,000. Corporate and individual sponsors will be acknowledged through advertising, media, signage, event promotional materials and public service announcements. giggle

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the legal side of things

Adoption

By attorney Alison Walker

A family can be made up in many different ways. The process of growing your family through the adoption of a child or an adult is a serious and exciting matter for all parties concerned.

A birth parent has primary rights and responsibilities for a child, until they voluntarily relinquish their rights or fail to take action to assert their rights under the law. The type of adoption will dictate who must be given notice of the impending adoption. It is important that the adopting family understand all of the consents that need to be obtained and whether

“the process of growing your family through adoption...is an exciting matter for all parties” or not a home study will be required, and they must make sure that all legal requirements are being met.

In the United States, the most common form of adoption is the stepparent adoption. In many cases, the adoption of a stepchild formalizes an already existing parent-child relationship. Usually, the stepparent has already been financially and emotionally supporting their spouse’s child or children.

Stepparent adoptions have many exceptions to the requirements to finalizing an adoption. For example, a home study is not mandatory, unless otherwise required by the court. In order for a stepparent to adopt their spouse’s child, they must obtain the consent of his or her current spouse. The stepparent must obtain the consent of the other birth parent or, at a minimum, give proper legal notice. It is important that any mandatory consent strictly conforms to all requirements, as they can be set aside and there is a potential for adoptions to fall apart if all legal requirements are not strictly satisfied.

As with all types of adoption, if a child is at least age 12, the child also must give his or her consent to the adoption, unless the court finds that it is in the best interests of the child to not require the child’s consent. Once the person to be adopted turns 18, the biological parents still must be notified, but their consent is no longer required. If the person being adopted is married, their spouse’s consent also is required.

After the adoption is finalized by the court entering a final judgment of adoption, the stepparent will be legally responsible for the child and the other birth parent will have their legal relationship with the child terminated. Not only will the child no longer have a legal relationship with the other parent, but the legal relationship between that parent’s extended family (grandparents, uncles, aunts, etc.) also will be severed. Specifically, any legal right to inherit under intestacy laws from the non-custodial biological parent or his or her extended family will be terminated. There is an exception. If one or more of the child’s natural parents are deceased and the child is later adopted by the spouse of a living natural parent or a close relative, there is no effect upon the relationship between the child and families of the deceased natural parents, with regard to intestacy laws. Of course, any adoption has no effect upon a will. A biological parent, who has consented to the adoption of a child, can still provide inheritance to that child through a will.

Regardless of the type of adoption, it is important that all parties concerned understand the legal implications, as well as the social, economic and psychological impacts on the children and families involved.

This information should not be used as a substitute for seeking needed advice from an attorney or other qualified adviser regarding your individual needs

have a legal question?

Contact Alison at advice@irvingpublications.com

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In Florida, there are several different types of adoption: the entity adoption (where an agency or intermediary assists with the adoption), the close relative adoption (by grandparents, aunts, and uncles), the adult adoption and the stepparent adoption. In Florida, there is a different procedure depending on the type of adoption.

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“Where’s Papi?,” a two-year-old asks. “Papi’s coming?”

His Mami sighs. Eleven months, three weeks and six days down, one day to go. And, that question doesn’t get any easier.

“Papi’s coming,” she replies.

With a sad look on his face, her son accepts the answer and runs back to the family room with a kid-sized ball and red bat in his hands to continue watching “The Little Rascals” with his sister.

For Josie Franco, her 2 ½-year-old twins David and Jaelly and the newest addition to the family, four-month old Jasmine, the end of 12 months can’t come soon enough.

U.S. Army Reserve Staff Sergeant Israel Franco deployed to Iraq with the 345 Combat Supply Hospital unit from Jacksonville in April 2008, leaving then-one-year-old twins and his pregnant wife.

Now the one-year-olds are two and talking, and the baby has been born.

“the end of twelve months can’t come soon enough!”

Staff Sergeant Israel Franco reunited with his wife Josie, twins David and Jaelly, and four month old, Jasmine.

As the automatic door on the passenger side of the Toyota Sienna opens, David and Jaelly climb in the van, Jasmine’s carrier clicks into position and the door closes.

You develop invisible earplugs to tune out whining, patience for pee-pee accidents while potty training and tough skin for talking to non-military wives, who mean well, but have no idea what it’s like to live months without a husband.

“Sientate!,” Josie sternly instructs David and Jaelly, who instead of sitting in their car seats, climb into the front captain’s chairs to stick pennies in the CD player, turn the knobs on the air conditioning and press buttons on the console.

Every time your kids see men in greenish camouflage uniforms, they say, “Papi?” and look at you, eyes full of hope. “No, but Papi’s coming,” you force yourself to say with a smile.

Loading everyone into the van solo takes ten minutes, but getting ready to leave the house can take hours.

There are no date nights with other couples when your husband is deployed and you have young twins and an infant.

Instead, you act as Mami and Papi at home, learning the words to every Barbie Princess song with your daughter and wrestling with your son.

Josie’s husband is stationed in Al Asad, Iraq, the same base where her brother, Hector, was stationed at in 2006-07.

As far as she knows, the replacements have arrived and the soldiers are living in tents and footlockers, with their belongings en route to the States.

They will fly from Kuwait to Germany, then to Texas, Atlanta and, finally, home to Gainesville.

Your phone bill sky rockets from late-night or early-morning phone calls from “unknown” numbers on your caller ID. You wake up early, go to bed late and stop cooking dinner, changing diapers or doing laundry to text, Skype or e-mail your husband.

The Franco family has gotten ready twice this week, having been given an estimated time of arrival on Monday, then possibly Saturday and now sometime on Thursday. The living room has been swept and mopped, bestrewn with baby dolls, cars, Ariel, Mickey Mouse, socks and shoes, and cleaned again.

Bedtime is a marathon – bath, bottles, books and bed. You and your kids say prayers that go something like, “Jesus, keep Papi safe, help David and Jaelly be obedient and Mami patient. Amen.”

The kids’ outfits are laid out; they just need to be ironed.

They’re all wearing some semblance of red, white and blue to pick up their Papi.

Quiet moments are few. Your space is not your own and you share your bed more often than you like to admit, because after the third and fourth sleepy 4 a.m. walk across the house to your kids’ room, you’re just too tired.

Josie’s acrylic nails are freshly painted, with toes matching. Her long, brown hair, recently accented with auburn low lights, has been blown dry straight and it curls gently at the bottom. Her giggle

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“welcome home daddy”

new dress, matching earrings and high heels are ready for their airport debut.

If only he would call.

It’s been a whole day, a sleepless night, a trip to Home Depot, lunch at Bentos, three feedings and an attempted nap time. Still, no word.

Josie is almost in tears on the way to the airport, arriving on time for the flight, but not soon enough for her – 6:14 p.m.

She speaks quickly, nervously through a TV 20 interview, struggling to verbalize just how excited she is to have her husband home.

David excitedly jumps up and down, waving his red, white and blue “bandera.”

“Papi’s coming!” he says. “Happy Birf-day Papi.”

The twins want to celebrate like they did the last time Papi came home, with a party.

Pressing their foreheads and noses to the glass window separating them from arriving passengers, David and Jaelly look for their Papi.

David turns back every so often to look at Mami, standing behind him, holding Jasmine, willing herself not to cry.

Jaelly stands on tiptoes to get a better look at the people exiting the plane. One set of soldiers’ boots, then another. More people – civilians.

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The flow of passengers slows. Another set of Army boots – this time a woman’s. More people. Finally, one of the last people to exit the plane – Papi.

Pushing past the legs of grown ups who came to welcome his daddy home, David is the first to reach his Papi and run into his outstretched arms. Jaelly tugs at his fatigues, not to be forgotten, and he scoops her up, too.

Josie and Jasmine are not far behind, and the family comes together in a long-overdue, much-anticipated hug.

Happy and exhausted with arms full of children, SSG Franco delivers a kiss to his wife.

Amid the hugs, kisses and “welcome homes,” David nuzzles into his Papi’s neck and doesn’t let go.

After twelve months of waiting, the countdown is over.

For military families, who are separated from loved ones for months at a time, each day is a reminder of how much it costs to be free. To the men and women of the United States Armed Forces and their families, thank you. b

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our community’s life-saving answers for every age!

After-School

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Gymnastics, drama, karate, volleyball, basketball and swimming are just some of the choices at select centers. Your child often has the opportunity to sign up for multiple activities when attending a youth activity center such as these.

Group Lessons No matter how old your

child is or what your child’s interests may be, there is somewhere locally to help foster those interests.

Many businesses offer private and/or small group lessons, such as Great Southern Music, Westside Park Tennis and Academy of Music & Art. Doxa Dance Studio is one of many dance studios where children as young as age 3 can participate in several styles of dance instruction.

Nanny for hire! If the after-school activity

BY DANA KAMP

The beginning of the new school year brings an additional challenge to many parents.

Planning how to fill the void between the end of the school day and the time you get home from work can be a menacing chore. This is the perfect block of time to get extra homework help or assist in developing your little one’s interests. Deciding what to do with your child is a big decision and, luckily, we have several options in our area to help you!

you’ve chosen for your child is off campus and doesn’t have school pick-up, you may opt to hire a nanny to help with the transportation and supervision during these activities and then bring your child back home. Noah’s Ark Nanny Placement Agency is a reputable company to find a nanny for your specific needs. They screen all of their potential nannies so you can have the peace of mind knowing your child is in good hands during the after-school/extra-curricular time.

Check with your child’s school to see if they offer an “extended day” program There may be a variety of

activities right on-campus, ranging from tutoring and homework assistance to sports programs, music lessons and scouts.

Several preschools offer afterschool care for elementary-age siblings

Child activity centers

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.com abound in the Gainesville area. gpublications giggle@irvin YMCA, Girls’ Place, Boys and Girls Club, Sun Country and O2B Kids to name a few, all offer a fun, safe environment for after-school care. Check with the individual centers to see which ones offer the activities you and your child are most interested in doing.

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of those who attend the preschool. If you have a toddler in a preschool, speak with the director to see what options are available for your older children. This also would make your pick-up easier by only having to go to one location!

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Mulitples!

Gainesville is full of multiples! Here’s just a few of our

favorite duos, and trios!

THE MUIR TWINS

Kirsten Alexandra (goes by Alex)

Carly Sarah Jane Identical Twins

How far apart are you?

1 minute Who is older?

Alex is older What is the best thing about being a Multiple?

Always having someone there.

Being something that not just anybody can be.

Have you ever switched places?

Yes, twice. Once, on our friends’ mother when we were very young, and one time at summer camp when we were about 13. It worked the second time.

Do you have any advice for younger sets of multiples?

Just to remember that although what you have is very special, don’t let it define you.

You can and will always be your own person, with your own dreams.

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THE SNELL TWINS Kaleb and Madison Fraternal Twins

Birth date: July 29, 2005 Kaleb is older than Madison by 1 minute What makes them different: They are polar opposites and Madison is like a little Mommy. She is the go getter and Kaleb is the doer.

Fun fact: They have only been seperated when they each had a mommy and daddy day.

THE THOMAS TWINS

Dominique and Isabelle Identical Twins

Birthday: August 23, 2008 Born 3 minutes apart What Mom has to say…

Isabelle is the chunky one, but when they even out I’ll probably be in trouble.

THE BAKER TRIPLETS Arthur, Alex and Andy Identical Triplets

Birthday: May 30, 2002. They were 8 weeks early.

Are they separated or together at school?

They have been in the same classes for both Kindergarten and first grade.

Who is oldest?

The boys were born at 3:24 p.m. (Arthur, then Alex) and 3:25 p.m. (Andy), all within 90 seconds of one another.

How do we tell them apart?

When they were babies, we painted their big toenails with different color polish as soon as theycame home. Then their own color clothes.

Now,we can usually tell them apart by their voices. And, if that fails, we can tell bythe patterns of moles (or lack of moles) behindtheir left ears.

They are quite obsessed with“their” color and typically won’t wear someone else’s color.

What is their favorite part of being a multiple?

They all said that their favorite thing about being a triplet is always having someone to play with.

Of course, they also said that their least favorite thing is fighting.

Favorite toy They’re fascinated with the Roll a Rounds Dinosaur. They share pretty well, although their almost-three-year old sister, Ayla, helps with that. She’s a big helper, too, and they absolutely light up when she walks in the room.

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Great Southern Music prides itself on being different from the other studios.

From Instrument repairs, rentals and purchases to music lessons, Great Southern Music has everything you need to become a great musician. They have recently added morning and evening Kindermusik classes, taught by Lacey Cupp and Celeste Cragun. Let your little ones learn the joy of music and dance in a fun environment.

This summer is a great time to get your youngster started in music. Call Great Southern Music to find out about summer music camps for preschoolers!

Great Southern Music offers large, quiet lesson rooms in a family-friendly atmosphere. Their instructors are highly-qualified and professional, giving lessons on 14 different instruments, including group violin lessons.

Great Southern Music teaches voice lessons and has a fun guitar club. Their students range from 5-85!

Family-oriented and conveniently located in the Oaks Mall Plaza Contact Tom and Robin Llinas.

Eyeexams!

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by rachael pino

August is National Eye Exam Month!

As part of your family’s back-to-school preparation, scheduling an eye exam for your child is just as important as shopping for school supplies and new clothes. Healthy eyes and vision are a critical part of your child’s development.

Their eyes should be examined regularly, as many vision problems and eye diseases are best detected and treated early.

For many children, “going to the doctor” can be a stressful situation. So giggle Magazine visited one of Gainesville’s many eye care centers to find out what an exam entails and to learn ways to prepare you and your child for the visit.

Dr. Julie Abraham, O.D., answers our questions about eye care.

Q: What are the types of eye care professionals?

A: Opticians dispense and fit contact lenses and glasses.

Optometrists examine the eye to diagnose vision problems and abnormalities, and to prescribe glasses, contact lenses and some medications. Ophthalmologists are medical doctors, who specialize in treating eye diseases and injuries; they perform eye examinations, prescribe medications and perform eye surgery.

Q: When should you schedule your child’s first eye exam?

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A: Dr. Abraham said that most eye care centers have an infancy program to see patients who are just a few months old, but she advises that the first exam occur by 6 months. If your child is asymptomatic after the first checkup, the next visit should occur at about age three and then again before entering first grade. If your child is still risk-free, then exams should follow every two years, thereafter. Children who wear eye glasses or contact lenses should be examined annually to screen for vision changes.

Q: What does a routine medical exam for children’s vision test for?

A: At age three, your child will undergo eye health screenings and visual acuity tests, which measure sharpness of vision. Around age five, your child should have his or her vision and eye alignment evaluated. After age five, routine screenings should be done at school or at the doctor’s office, or after the appearance of symptoms that suggest any vision problems.

Q: What are signs that a child may have vision problems?

A: Symptoms include constant eye rubbing, extreme light sensitivity, poor focusing, poor visual tracking, abnormal alignment or movement, chronic redness, chronic tearing, or a white pupil instead of black. In school-age children, watch for other signs, such as inability to see objects at a distance, inability to read the blackboard, squinting, difficulty reading or sitting too close to the TV. Dr. Abraham also noted that your child’s teacher may be the first to detect eye trouble.

Q: What does an eye exam include?

A: Dr. Abraham said a complete exam checks all areas of the eye and should include: A review of your family’s and child’s personal health history, an examination of the exterior and interior of the eyes for signs of disease, testing the pressure of the eye and visual field to diagnose glaucoma, determining the presence of nearsightedness, farsightedness and astigmatism, a check for any difficulty with depth-perception and a check of eye coordination and muscle function to be certain the eyes are working together as a team.

Q: What may be frightening for a child during an exam?

A: Dr. Abraham said that the methods the doctor examines your child’s eye may frighten them. Three of the ‘scariest’ situations include dilation of the pupils with drops to test the eye for a refractive error, shining a lighted instrument with a magnifying glass into your child’s eyes for a better look inside and a puff of air that tests eye pressure.

Talking with your child before the exam is the best way to make the exam go as smoothly as possible. Explain to your child what each test is for and remind them that you will be with them the entire time. giggle

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Back to School

Check ist

Make sure you and your kids are prepared for the new school year! * Create a filing system to hold class lists, school flyers, forms that need to be signed, and PTA materials. * Plan for the display of the kids’ school work. Consider using space other than the refrigerator! * Identify “launch” and “landing” zones for backpacks and other school materials. Have everyone practice using these areas for their remaining summer activities. * Talk with the family about the best way to handle logistical problems or emergencies during the school year.

Missed carpools, late buses and forgotten homework are typical situations that need family guidelines.

by Helen Kornblum

Your family can enjoy the excitement of a new school year by practicing a few strategies before the buses start to roll.

Here’s organizing homework to do from now until class begins. * Gradually move bedtime back to a reasonable hour. * Gradually move the wake-up alarm to the necessary hour for your family’s morning routine. * Create colorful reminder charts with your little ones that outline their bedtime and morning routines. * Stock up on nonperishable lunchbox foods as needed.

Store them so the kids can reach them to help pack their own lunches. Create a colorful reference chart for packing lunch. * Get singles and quarters from the bank to be ready for lunch money and other requests. * Plan time to shop for school supplies once you have the teachers’ lists. Label each child’s basic supplies to avoid arguments. Color-code their school possessions, if you can.

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Helen Kornblum is a professional organizer in Gainesville, FL. She owns NaturalOrderOrganizing.com.

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* Buy extra supplies for last-minute requests and projects.

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* Practice using a large family calendar with the kids so they know that adding their school and extracurricular activities is part of their responsibility.

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Get a Jump on School

Back to School

Money Saving Tips by nicole irving

Buy Early

During the beginning of last school year, I bought a ton of 22-cent crayons and glue sticks and even five-cent notebooks when they went on clearance. I was able to save and to stock up. So, even though you might have all you need for this year, think ahead to next year. It can save you time and money!

Buy in Bulk

If you have friends or family with schoolaged children who live nearby, compare shopping lists and see what you can take advantage of by buying in bulk. Pencils, notebooks, highlighters, filler paper, pens and erasers all can be found at your local wholesale store. Split cost and items per child and you have saved!

Uniform-swap

Get together with other parents to create a uniform swap. Either sell old uniforms for “pennies on the dollar” or use them in a trade. Either way, everyone makes out in the end.

School Supply Hunt

How many unopened packs of crayons, glue sticks, and safety sissors do you have lying around at home? Give each of your children a bag and go shopping at home! Have the kids collect all unopened supplies and survey what they have. You may be surprised to see that all of their school supply needs already are met!

Lunch Box Creativity

By packing you children’s lunch, you can save up to $20 or more a week on just one child. Have them help you prepare what they want for the week during grocery shopping trips and they will be less likely to swap items or want to buy their lunches.

Save Gas

The always reliable “car pool” is still hip.

Check with friends and neighbors to set up a car pool schedule, if you drive your children to school. Make sure everyone has a routine and a fair schedule. Swap phone numbers for safety and in case of emergency.

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Retired elementary school counselor, Wendy Joysen, answers tough questions about kids, schools, parenting, & everything in between.

Q: We just moved to a new town and my

daughter will have to attend a new school.

I am afraid that she will be sad and have trouble making new friends. Do you have any suggestions on how I can make it easier for her?

One of the most important things you can do to help your daughter is to contact her new school in advance. Depending upon the age of your daughter, the school may have procedures in place to help ease a new student into her surroundings. Talk to the guidance counselor at the school about your daughter’s adjustment and see what may be available. Many schools have peer helpers/buddies in place, who have been trained to help new students feel welcome. Having another student help introduce your daughter to friends and the school’s activities can be an enormous help to your daughter.

It also is important that your daughter remain active in the new community and at her new school. If you have time before school begins, go to summer programs or camps in your area.

It’s a great way to make new friends! Look for activities that interest your daughter, including gymnastics, swimming, team sports or art - and get her involved! The local YMCA is a great place to start looking for organized group activities. Once your daughter has joined an activity and has met some new friends, invite them to your home for a play date or lunch. It will be a great opportunity to have your daughter form a friendship and for you to meet other parents and make some friends yourself!

Once school begins, have your daughter join a club or group in an activity that she enjoys. Joining a sports team, the band, dance squad or chess team will allow your daughter the opportunity to meet other children who have the same interests and are in the same grade. Keeping your daughter involved in activities at school will not only allow her socialization with friends, but will also allow her to identify with a group that she feels she belongs in.

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As hard as it will be for your daughter, you need to encourage her to be outgoing and to introduce herself to other students.

The more people she meets, the more opportunities she will have to make friends. Once she has made one friend, then it should get easier. Children, especially teens, are more apt to invite others along if they have already met the new student than if the “new kid” waits for them to come up and ask them to join their activity. Once your daughter has been invited to join a group, encourage her to be nice to everyone and to be herself!

The most important thing you can do for your daughter is to help her get involved and be as supportive as possible. Keep an eye on her behavior and emotions. If you see that she is struggling with the move and continues to be depressed and unable to make new friends, do not hesitate to seek out professional help. It is important that you do everything you can to help your daughter adjust to their new surroundings. Once she becomes comfortable with the change, you will be able to enjoy making new friends yourself! b

have a parenting question?

Contact Wendy at advice@irvingpublications.com

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A: Moving can be a stressful experience for children, regardless of age, and you have every right to be concerned about the adjustment to her new surroundings. When you move, children often feel a loss of security. They are leaving behind their home, their friends and their school. The best thing you can do as a parent is to realize that it will not be an easy transition for her and you will have to help her along the way.

North Florida Regional Medical Center

Postpardum Luncheons

BY MARY REICHARDT Photos by Alyson Landry

While I was pregnant I read every baby book I could get my hands on. From “The Girlfriends Guide to Pregnancy” to “Pregnancy for Dummies,” I devoured all the information I could getting ready for my new role as a mom.

What these books didn’t tell me, was that I would be so sleep deprived and overwhelmed I wouldn’t remember a thing I had read! So, each Tuesday, I loaded up my infant and made my way to the basement floor of North Florida Regional Medical Center to get advice, support and the sense of normalcy I needed to make it through another week.

Since the inception of the women’s center in 1990, North Florida Regional Medical Center has offered a free weekly luncheon for moms who deliver at the hospital. New moms can bring their babies from three to 16 weeks of age for lunches, professional support and lots of encouragement from other moms struggling with the same issues. “We may not be able to solve your problems, but we can help you cope with them,” said LaChelle Reece, who is a board certified lactation consultant, a registered nurse and a mom. She moderates the class for babies 3-8 weeks old. Many women are nursing and have lots of stress, questions and even pain associated with this process and Reece is able to assist with these and other issues.

“I was mess! Stressed out and crying. I came here and everyone was talking about the same problems and I realized I was normal and sane.”

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Other moms also offer support and advice, as they struggle along with you. Jennie Long who currently attends the luncheons with her four week old daughter said, “I was mess! Stressed out and crying. I came here and everyone was talking about the same problems and I realized I was normal and sane.”

The lunches are in two groups to keep topics relevant for each age group. The first is for infants, ages 3-8 weeks.

Main topics include nursing, formula feeding, sleep deprivation and coping with stress. The second age group, coordinated by Terri Lord, a registered nurse, instructor and mother of two, is from 9-16 weeks postpartum.

Topics range from returning to romance with your partner and birth control to car seat safety and much more. “The purpose of the luncheons is to let moms know they’re doing a great job and allow them to bond with other moms,” Lord said.

The bonds formed while sharing your struggles and innermost fears are strong and often permanent. More than four years ago, Kelly Wagner gave birth to her first baby and joined the weekly luncheons. After they “graduated,” the women formed a playgroup and have been together ever since. “We get together as much as we can despite having more children and busy schedules — they are lifelong friends,” Wagner said. Each year, the group picks a date to get together and have one big birthday party for all their kids.

“The bonds formed ... are strong and often permanent.”

The luncheons have several guest speakers throughout the term covering various topics, including baby sign language, car seat safety and infant sleeping. Both coordinators also make themselves available by phone or for private meetings to further assist new moms. For me, it was simply hearing other moms having the same difficulties as me that helped the most. In these meetings I realized my baby was normal, I was a good mother and that it would all soon get better. b

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“letting moms know they’re doing a great job.”

Luncheons for moms who deliver at North Florida Regional Medical Center are held every Tuesday 11:30 a.m.-2 p.m., in the basement floor of the hospital. Contact Terri Lord at 352333-5314 for more information. giggle

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college

funds

achievement and is only available to students attending a university in the state of Florida. Having a Coverdell or either 529 account can impact the amount of financial aid a student can receive. For more information, visit www. fafsa.ed.gov and http://www.floridastudentfinancialaid. org/ssfad/bf/.

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Scholarships are a free and clear way to get money for school. Have your student talk to a college advisor or a guidance counselor at their high school for information regarding the types for which they are eligible. And, seemingly everyone is eligible for something -- there is even a scholarship for students with red hair!

BY Jillian Rogers and Chris Wilson

ith the cost of both public and private universities rising, starting to save early as a parent is essential to the future of your child’s education. I know your thinking “how am I going to afford this?,” but don’t worry! There are a large number of financial savings plans, financial aids, student loans and scholarships that will be available to your child. While it is best to talk to a financial or college advisor, here are some basics to get you started on your way to saving.

According to the National Association of Independent Schools 2006 survey, public universities currently cost upwards of $12,000 per year and private universities often cost more than $30,000 per year. Their estimates have costs rising significantly over the next 10 years. Financial aid and scholarships are a great way to earn easy funding for college, but competition for these is tough so you should always have a backup plan, such as a financial savings plan.

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Now that you know your options, do research on various colleges your student is considering and calculate the living costs for four years. Consider housing, food (a student can never have too much pizza), car and gas, books, school supplies and the necessary clothing (a Floridian needs heavy coats and boots if going to school up north).

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The basic plans include the Coverdell Education Savings Account (ESA), the 529 Prepaid Tuition Plan and the 529 College Savings Plan.

Contributions to the Coverdell cannot exceed $2,000 per year per child and the contributions can only last until that child is age 18. But, the contribution allowances are more generous in the 529 plans, which vary by state. All three plans set aside the funds solely for higher education expenses, although some states limit the 529 Prepaid Tuition plan for use on tuition expenses only. Earnings in all three plans accumulate tax-deferred and withdrawals are not subject to federal income tax, unless they are used for “unqualified” expenses. Another bonus of the 529 College Savings Plan is that you can change beneficiaries to another eligible family member at any time. Plus, any unused balance on any of the three plans can be rolled over to another eligible member of your family.

The two main types of financial aid are FAFSA (federal student aid) and Bright Futures.

FAFSA is awarded by financial dependency, while Bright Futures is awarded by academic

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outletshopping BY jillian rogers and mary reichardt

School is almost back in session and one way to make that back to school shopping experience a breeze is to head to the outlet mall, where good deals can be had. There are plenty of shopping destinations throughout Florida and even southern Georgia.

Whether you’re there on vacation or you’re making it a point to travel to an outlet mall, chances are good that you won’t leave without finding that bargain.

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W Attention outlet mall shoppers: If you have never been to Sawgrass Mills Outlet Mall, you are missing out on some of the best bargains in Florida. I am an outlet mall expert, who was raised in an intense family of shoppers (if there is not a mall in the area, there is no family trip) and my hometown of Plantation is only a short drive away from Florida’s largest retail and entertainment center, Sawgrass Mills Outlet Mall.

I have been going to Sawgrass for more than 19 years and I still have trouble navigating the 350+ store monster of a mall. More than two miles long, back to school shopping here is nothing short of an adventure.

Hey you, first timer: I would suggest looking at a directory prior to your arrival and targeting a specific store (or area) you would like to visit. The worst thing would be to park at the wrong end of the mall and have to walk 30 minutes in this overly crowded tourist attraction, through the part of the mall that is of no interest to you. Parking lots at Sawgrass are always crowded, but there is valet service at certain areas of the mall (particularly, the Colonnades and Oasis) for a small fee.

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of Sawgrass’ outdoor shopping areas, the Colonnades or the Oasis. Stores in the Colonnades are a little pricier and geared toward older teens and adults. Stores include Juicy Couture, Barney’s New York, Last Call Neiman Marcus, Miss Sixty, Burberry, Coach, Valentino and Kate Spade, to name just a few. The Oasis is more of an entertainment center, yet Ralph Lauren and Nordstrom Rack are located in the center of the Oasis and both have clothing for toddlers, teens and adults.

Sawgrass Mall also is an athlete’s dream. Don’t forget to stop by Nike Outlet, Sports Authority and other sporting goods stores for back-to-school necessities, including sneakers, socks, backpacks and other apparel.

Are you ready? Grab your family, wallet and go to the mall’s website at http://www.simon.com/mall/default. aspx?ID=1262 for more information, including a store directory.

Orlando Outlet Malls If you happen to spend a few days at the Orlando theme parks or at one of Florida’s east coast beaches, you might want to stop at one of the many outlet malls in Orlando. The Lake Buena Vista Factory Stores (www.lbvfs.com), Orlando Premium Outlets (www.premiumoutlets.com) and Prime Outlets International (www.primeoutlets.com) all feature a wide variety of stores.

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Sawgrass Mills Outlet Mall

Ellenton Outlet Mall Travel about 2 1/2 hours south of Gainesville on I-75 and you will find the Ellenton Prime Outlets mall (www.primeoutlets.com), located near Sarasota. With more than 130 designer and brand-name outlet stores, Ellenton makes an easy and great stop for anybody visiting the Tampa Bay area.

Lake Park, Georgia Outlets My parents did not have much money when I was growing up and I didn’t get to go shopping often. That was fine, because in the one-stop-light town of Mayo, FL, there wasn’t really anywhere to shop. However, each year for my birthday as a young teenager, my parents gave me $50. This was a lot of money to me — until I went to the mall, where it could be spent on just one outfit. Since my birthday is in July, I always wanted to buy clothes for the coming school year. That’s when we discovered the outlet mall.

Every July after my birthday, my mom would take me for a mother-daughter trip to Lake Park, GA, to the outlet mall located right off I-75. They have 27 brand name stores, including Nine West, Polo Ralph Lauren, Black & Decker and Gap. I spent a lot of time in the Gap outlet store and always left with several outfits I loved. My mom Lori Daniels loves the L’eggs Hanes Bali Playtex and Westpoint Home stores.

“Outlets have the brand names that I love,” said Daniels.

“I always leave there feeling successful and proud. I can’t wait to brag to my friends about all the money I saved and the great deals I found.”

Now that I’m a parent, my mom and I are planning to take my one-year-old son to the Lake Park outlets for our traditional shopping spree. I am so excited to visit the Carter and Oshkosh stores I overlooked as a teen.

Why are the outlet stores cheaper? Typically these stores are full of clothes that did not sell quickly at their other locations. They are also often the styles and colors of “last season” in the fashion industry. Sometimes the items may have small blemishes or differences that excluded them from being shipped to the regular malls. Whatever the reasons, I am always more than willing to buy a shirt in last year’s jewel tones instead of this year’s more organic tones if I can get it for half the price — or less.

Georgia sounds like quite a trip. But, because it’s right off the interstate, the Lake Park Outlets are only about an hour and a half from Gainesville. The stores are actually visible from the interstate and easy to navigate. There are restaurants nearby as well. A list of the 27 stores can be found at www.mallseeker.com/lake-park-outlets.aspx. If you are mapping the stores, the address is 5327 Mill Store Rd., Lake Park, GA 31636. Good luck and happy hunting!

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Moms! Get stacked up and ensure a

pleasant day with the kids! Don’t forget to: • Plan ahead and make inventory of what you need • Make a budget and stick to it.

• Check for coupons and sales before you go • Make sure you know the sizes of your children before hand if you are not planning on bringing them • Check return policy and save all receipts • Bring a friend. Many times they have deals if you buy in large quantities.

• Wear good walking shoes… sometimes outlets are spread out.

• Check out map of outlet mall and plan out route, avoid areas that you don’t need to go to save time, energy and unnecessary shopping!

• Stay hydrated, eat healthy, and plan for a great shopping day!!

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Like most people, I think, I moved to Gainesville in the spring of 1999 to attend the University of Florida. At the time, I never imagined that I would meet the love of my life, a local boy, and settle down here with my family.

My husband Kris and I have 2 children, Reagan (age 3) and Tristan (1).

Gainesville is such a great place to raise a family because there are so many family friendly things to do. There are plenty of parks with playgrounds, which is so great when you have kids who need constant entertainment. You could literally go to a different one everyday. We live within walking distance of Kanapaha Park, so we have spent many Saturdays and evenings strolling through the park and playing with the kids. I love that there are so many outdoorsy things to do. I am not even an outdoors kind of girl, but my kids love it. One of my very favorite things is the annual Spring Festival at Kanapaha Botanical Gardens. We have gone every year since the kids were born.

There’s so much to do and see, the food is great, and they have stuff specifically for the kids. In the summer, we like to go to the local theatres which offer free kids movies and special deals on concessions. Chick-Fil-A always has family nights and other kid-friendly events, such as Princess Day -our family favorite.

For every season, there is something new and fun to do for the whole family. There are some really great restaurants for “date nights,” too. I have always said that I would prefer to live in a bigger city or closer to my family. But, I love that right now, this is home for us. This will forever be the place where our little family began.

We build strong kids, strong families, and strong communities!

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teasers!

BY Diane Daniels OF BRAIN WORKS

The four clowns in this puzzle all competed for the much-prized ‘Clown of the Year’ award recently. There were 30 clowns in total who entered the competition and each had to make the judges laugh.

From the clues below, can you work out each clown’s name, the town he or she came from, what place each clown was awarded and the most comical moment of each clown’s routine?

1. The Budsworth clown finished one place lower than Strumpy, who is not from Witfield.

2. The judges roared with laughter as one clown cycled across a tightrope, wobbled, screamed and fell head first into a pool of water. He finished two places below Boo Boo, who was not from Witfield.

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3. The clown who finished in 7th place lost points when her big red nose fell off during her manic routine. This involved being hit with a giant rubber mallet by her assistant who was supposed to hit her on the shoulder but unfortunately had something in his eye at the time and accidentally bashed her in the face instead.

4. Tambo was disappointed when his usually masterful custard pie antics failed to impress the judges sufficiently to secure the award. He was not the clown from Stockville whose final placing was lower than the Shrimpton clown.

Clowns: Boo Boo, Grego, Strumpy, Tambo Towns: Budsworth, Shrimpton, Stockville, Witfield Position 2nd 4th, 5th, 7th Routine: Custard Pie, Flower, Rubber Mallet, Unicycle

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