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GIGGLE MAGAZINE WAS RECENTLY NAMED THE 2012 BUSINESS OF THE YEAR BY THE GAINESVILLE AREA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE IN THE CATEGORY OF Leading Women’s Enterprise.
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corner? I cannot believe it. This year has been an amazing year at Giggle Magazine! Where should I begin?
In February, we settled into our new office space in Jonesville. We love it here and if you haven’t had a chance to swing by and say hi…please do. We always have cute coffee cups and yummy coffee brewing!
Through the year, we participated in so many wonderful events, fairs and charity functions! We had such a blast and are excited for what 2013 has to offer.
On November 7, the Gainesville Area Chamber of Commerce blew my heart away when we won the 2012 Business of the Year award for Leading Women’s Enterprise. What an honor! I am so blessed to work with the most talented and astounding team and this was the perfect ending to a great year at Giggle Magazine. Thank you to everyone for believing in us and enjoying Giggle Magazine as much as we do!
Whew…what a year!
And now the holiday season is upon us. Between the shopping and cooking, picture taking and movie making, it is so easy to forget about what truly matters. This year my goal is to be in every moment with the boys during the holidays. To laugh, play, be silly and just be in each moment and eat them up.
From my family to yours, we wish you an amazing holiday season filled with family, friends and laughter!
Nicole Publisher
* Make Christmas cookies.
* Complete all shopping before Christmas Eve.
* Only eat one helping of my dad’s incredible cooking (who am I kidding?).
* Make reindeer food with the boys and spread on our lawn Christmas Eve.
* Create a photo holiday card.
* Be in the moment!
* Have holiday movie marathon with my boys, starting with “A Charlie Brown Christmas.”
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Head to the Giggle Magazine ~ talk blog to find weekly inspiration for the home including kids activities, recipes and tips that just make life easier. You can also find important news you need to know before the magazine hits stands, in addition to funny stories and musings of the Giggle Magazine team.
• Yuliano's age: 5
• Favorite holiday movie: "Nutcracker"
• Favorite book: Any look and find books.
• Favorite holiday snack: Marshmallows.
• Yuliano's favorite part about the holidays: Opening the gifts!
{A big congrats} to one of our favorite photographers on the team on her new bundle of joy! Matt and Krystal Radlinski welcomed baby Leopold Gregory Radlinski to the world on September 29, 2012.
{6 lbs, 10 oz, 21 inches}
From hosting cookie exchange parties to celebrating your baby’s first holiday, Giggle Magazine has everything you need to make your holiday season merry and bright.
“It’s the most wonderful time of the year…” ~ Andy Williams
• You need a 50-50 mix of antifreeze and water in the cooling system for winter. www.theaa.com
• In order to remove condensation and frost from the interior of windows, engage your air conditioner and select the fresh air option.
www.Edmunds.com
• Make sure you wear shoes with textured soles. Flat-soled shoes slip on thin snow and ice and keep your arms out so that, in case you do fall, you can save your face and head from an unpleasant landing.
http://stevengomez. hubpages.com/hub/ Walking-in-snow-andice
Snow contains large quantities of Pseudomonas syringae, a type of bacteria that causes diseases in tomato and bean plants. www.safetyissues.com
• Every car has different handling characteristics. You should know what your
car can and cannot do in the snow. (Hint: It can't do any of the things it was doing on the TV commercial that made you buy it.) You should know if you have front, rear, part-time or fulltime four-wheel drive; antilock brakes; traction control; and stability control. You should know what kind of tires are on the car, and how all those things work and how they help you or don't help you. In fact, it's not a bad idea to do a little driving in an empty parking lot on a snowy day just so you know what to expect from your car when you drive on snowy roads.
http://www.cartalk. com/content/winterdriving-tips-8
To stay warm and continue to sightsee in the snow, the easiest way is to wear layers. A three-layer system is based on wearing a base, middle and an outer layer. You may also wear a shell layer over your outer layer if it is not waterproof or windproof.
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" Stay warm and cozy by layering your clothes."
On a cool, crisp December night, the family is cuddled around the glow of a mild fire in the chimney, the smell of hot chocolate fills the air and carols are playing in the background. The new mom and dad read the Polar Express to their little one as they imagine being in a snowy winter wonderland. Isn’t that every new parent’s dream?
BY BROOKE NEWELL AND LESLIE VEGA, PHOTO BY VERVE STUDIO
Beanie by Little Momma Boutique on Etsy
...Okay, really, the parents are running around after their little one, tirelessly trying to keep the holiday spirit without the baby swallowing pine needles. Ah, the first Christmas. Like most other things, parents are always anxious about their child’s “firsts.” Both moms and dads always have their cameras ready to capture great memories of the first time eating food, first steps, first words, and the first time celebrating the holidays. Follow Giggle’s tips and baby’s first holiday will be smooth and memorable!
Get prepared for your first journey on the road with baby with these little reminders.
DON'T FORGET THESE!
• Bottle warmer for the road.
• Baby wipes for every little clean-up.
• The perfect Baby Einstein videos to keep him entertained.
• Comfort items from home like favorite blankie, lullaby disc, Pak N' Play, baby monitor.
• Disposable/portable changing pad.
BABY'S SCHEDULE
You're not home, so naturally your schedule will look different. So stay at ease knowing what to stick to and what to let slide on vacation.
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It's a simple sweet shot, but the details might have you in a panic for that perfect shot. Here are a few tips to get you organized and make sure you don't miss the details:
• Schedule your session far in advance to allow the photographer time for editing and ordering your holiday cards.
• The ideal age for your baby's first session is 7 to 10 days old. The older they get, the less sleepy they are for all of the baby handling that goes on.
• Wear some cool clothes, Mommy, because the perfect ambiance for a newborn shoot usually involves an 80 degree environment to keep baby comfortable.
• Bring blankies and comfort items and be prepared to nurse or feed throughout the shoot. It is a slow delicate process and can last up to two to three hours.
To attend the family party, or not to attend? That is the new-mommy question! Here are some tips to survive that first family gettogether without investing in a human-sized bubble.
• Keep your baby in a sling. The closer baby is to you, the more uncomfortable it becomes for germy hands to come intrude your personal space to touch him.
• Have hand sanitizer handy. Pass it along with cheer! (But careful not to bring alcohol-based sanitizer in contact with baby's hands.)
• Migrate toward the rooms with less people to minimize germ exposure.
• Baby’s First Christmas ornament
• First Family Christmas photo frame
• Radio Flyer Wagon
• Melissa and Doug puzzles
• VTech Learning Games
• Leap Frog Magnetic Alphabet Set
• Leap Frog Shapes and Sharing Picnic Basket
• Wooden blocks
• Little Tykes Cozy Coupe or Truck
• Leap Frog My Pal Scout or Violet
your limits. keep it simple.Photo by Verve Studio Beanie by Sandy Coastal Designs
Making a holiday wish list is not just for the little ones, which is why we took the "wish list" idea to the parent level with our second annual Giggle Magazine and Lang Jewelers Wish List Party. We rang in the start of the holiday shopping season with friends, beautiful holiday décor and gorgeous jewelry at Lang Jewelers, located in the Tioga Town Center. Guests entered a raffle for door prizes, mingled with each other over yummy homemade hors d'oeuvres and enjoyed personalized service at the Lang Jewelers counters as they completed their holiday wish lists. Each guest turned in his or her wish list to the Lang Jewelers staff for safekeeping. Now, when their loved ones come in to look for a great holiday gift, they can consult the personalized wish list, ensuring the perfect jewelry gift this holiday season.
Tioga Town Center 352.672.6299
www.LangJewelers.com
leather motorcycle jacket
ruffled top with slim-fit flared
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Base: Ideal base layers are merino wool, silk, polypropylene and other various synthetic fibers. If there is one rule to follow: never ever use cotton as a base layer. It will not matter what you put over the top in an effort to keep warm, you will remain wet and cold.
Middle: A mid-layer should be thicker than a base layer. Again, do not use cotton it simply does not insulate as well as other fabrics. Some good examples of mid layers include merino wool, a mid weight fleece or polyester.
Outer: An outer layer maybe a heavy fleece pullover, a down jacket or ski jacket. This is the layer that most people will see and will be in most of your photos when you get home. www.trusty-travel-tips. com/best-winter-clothing.html
• When buying gloves for the winter consider what your use is for them. If you need the gloves just for traveling and sightseeing, then go with a thin and light material like spandex or polyester. Even fleece is a good option for casual wear. If it’s heavy, physical activities like snowboarding or skiing, then getting gloves in thicker, wicking material makes more sense. www.buzzle.com
A real first Christmas...
Gainesville mom Danielle Gamble, whose daughter will be just over 1 year old, is excited to see Brie’s reaction to opening and receiving gifts. She is looking forward to carrying on the family tradition of homemade sauce and meatballs for Christmas Eve. Danielle also plans to read Christmas themed books each night before bed with her daughter.
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DO NOT DECORATE THE BOTTOM PORTION OF YOUR TREE SINCE BABIES CAN STAND AND PULL ITEMS OFF OF THE TREE.
DO NOT USE GLASS ORNAMENTS (INSTEAD, BUY SHATTERPROOF).
KEEP PLANTS UP HIGH - AMARYLLIS, MISTLETOE AND HOLLY ARE TOXIC.
When decorating for the holidays, remember that your decor should be safe for babies too. All of the new and exciting holiday decor will surely bring out your baby's curiosity and exploring hands. Here are a few simple, but important reminders for keeping Baby safe this holiday season.
MAKE SURE WIRES AND CORDS ARE OUT OF REACH.
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WIRE ORNAMENTS TO THE TREE SO CHILDREN CANNOT PULL THEM OFF.
MAKE CUTE HOMEMADE, BABY-FRIENDLY ORNAMENTS TO USE FOR THE FIRST FEW YEARS.
DO NOT OVERLOAD INDOOR OR OUTDOOR ELECTRICAL OUTLETS.
IF YOU HAVE AN ARTIFICIAL TREE, MAKE SURE IT IS FIRE-RESISTANT.
NEVER LEAVE THE ROOM WITH MENORAH CANDLES BURNING.
DO NOT LEAVE FIREPLACE BURNING UNATTENDED AND USE A FIREPLACE SCREEN.
Here is our no-fail winter wear list for getting your family through the cold days of winter here in the Sunshine State.
• Bundle in layers: As the day progresses, it does tend to warm up.
• Wear socks! Keeping the toes warm is essential in the winter.
• Use hats and gloves: Yes, you can buy them in Florida and they should be worn. Again, cold mornings at the bus stop can make for an uncomfortable wait. Bundle the kids up with gloves and hats.
giggle tip!
Living in the Sunshine State has it’s advantages. Sun, surf and sand all year long. Golf on Thanksgiving, swimming on Christmas...what could be better? We are so lucky to live in paradise...but, even paradise welcomes “Jack Frost” now and then.
As the holiday season approaches, so do the ever illusive cold mornings. Although short lived, the winter season does show it’s face here in Gainesville, and when it does, it is so important to remember that 40 degrees is 40 degrees and it is time to bundle up those kiddos!
Send a Ziploc bag to school in their backpack for easy storage.
• Pull out your
Fun and colorful, they are great for layering and keeping the back of the neck warm.
• Dress in long pants: Cold kneecaps are not fun!
• Put on warm pj’s: Nights get cold, so make sure to bundle them up after bath time.
• Wear tights: Perfect for those cute dresses and will keep legs warm.
Scarves Fleece pj’s
Hats Socks
Tights Gloves
Jeans Closed toe shoes
Long khakis Jacket
Long sleeve tee shirts
Sweat pants/shirts
Remember to look for sales after Christmas on winter wear. Buy in bigger sizes for next year. Store in Tupperware containers under bed for ready-to-wear next winter!
You know it's Christmas when this one gets pulled out of storage!
Each year a new set of photo ornaments, handmade by my aunt, is hung on the tree. I receive a new set every year under the tree. It’s so fun to see the boys grow through the years. ~N.B.I.
Handmade by my grandmother, this stocking has traveled many miles. ~N.B.I.
Of course the holidays are a time for food, gifts and family...but they are also a time when all the heirlooms from holiday celebrations of the past come out from their nooks and get displayed and used. Some of our Giggle Magazine staff share their family holiday heirlooms. What are yours?
I just love seeing all the little ones’ “Baby’s First Christmas” ornaments on the tree.
~S.I.
Used every Christmas morning that I can remember! ~N.B.I.
It never failed. Every year it came out along with the yummy breakfast! To Mom's hysterical surprise, I just recently admitted that it would probably not make my decor list today, but the table memories it carries are priceless! ~L.V.
to identify families for the invitation-only event. Megan Jansen, this year’s MOMS chair, estimates that approximately 1,500 children were served last year. “Once you see what a big difference that’s made for that many people, it’s astonishing,” said Lindsey Johnson, who chaired 2011’s MOMS event.
The holidays are stressful for everyone, Johnson said, regardless of financial situation. For those worried about day-to-day expenses, it’s even harder. “It’s kind of our chance to empower those families,” she said.
Though he’d only gotten half an hour of sleep the night before, Greg Richards seemed energetic and in good spirits. He had waited all night to select Christmas presents for his 12 children, ages 2 to 13. As he waited, he didn’t have any particular gifts in mind; he was looking maybe for “something with wheels, electronics –anything they can break,” he joked.
Richards, of Gainesville, was first in line of more than 500 families to attend last year’s Miracle on Main Street (MOMS), an event held by the Junior League of Gainesville that assists local families by providing donated bikes, toys and games in time for the holidays. On December 1, the Junior League hosted its 22nd annual event, once again transforming the Friends of the Library warehouse into a winter wonderland stocked with thou sands of gifts.
“It helps more than you can possibly imagine,” said Richards, who ended up with a bag of toys that included a highlighter-yellow folding scooter, a basketball and an American Girl doll.
The Junior League works with more than 45 area agencies, such as Head Start, the United Way and Catholic Charities,
Sharon Campbell, also of Gainesville, was a perfect example. “I’ve got to have a roof repaired by the end of this month,” she said. Other upcoming expenses included her older daughter’s 16th birthday and her younger daughter’s safety patrol field trip. Campbell said the event would help her a lot. “I’m a single parent and it’s not easy,” she said.
Donations come from a combination of corporate sponsors, grants, individual donations and toy drives, and planning for each MOMS starts about a year in advance. “Each year gets a little bit better and fine-tuned,” Johnson said.
“It helps more than you can possibly imagine.”Those interested in volunteering or making a donation to support MOMS, can visit gainesvillejrleague.org.
WE TOOK THE GUESSWORK OUT OF CHRISTMAS AND ASKED THE GIGGLE TEAM KIDS TO WRITE THEIR WISH LISTS TO SANTA. GO AHEAD - USE THESE AS YOUR OWN CHEAT SHEETS! YOU'LL THANK US LATER!
Carson's List
Nadia's List
Miles' List
Samantha Faye Charms
Recently launched, an eponymous line of charms with a really sweet, nostalgic concept aimed toward mothers and daughters. shopsamanthafaye.com
School
Perfectly sized for big and little people. Great for after-school activities, library, church and more. Kids can stash their books, pencils, and all their beloved toys. The pouch is perfect for storing snacks, Legos or gaming accessories. jaqjaqbird.com
in your life! photojojo.com
Michael Kors Watches
No explanation necessary! Who wouldn’t love a little glitz this holiday season!
Ladies: Michael
Kors Gold Parker
Glitz Watch.
Men’s: Michael Kors
Gold Runway Watch
Lang Jewelers, Tioga Town Center 352-672-6299
Mighty Mug
Never spill another cup of “joe” again. PERFECT for those busy moms and dads!!! Dishwasher safe, built-in coaster and BPA free! Available at Target.
Keep Baby safe during air travel with this award-winning flight vest for your little one. babybair.com
Tote Bag and Perfect Mini Pouch
Baby B’Air Flight Vest
The Nikon Camera Lens Mug With “zoom-in" ability and a camera lens cover lid, this is the perfect mug for the photo enthusiast
Snowman Beanie Celebrate your little one's first holiday season with this adorable snowman baby beanie. Includes a crochet top hat and carrot nose. etsy.com/shop/AddysHats
A personalized hand-calligraphed letter from Santa! Beautifully crafted by highly acclaimed calligrapher, Sarah Hanna. For information on how to order, email info@sarahhanna.com. {Deadline to order is December 18, 2012}
The Sparkle Box
A new holiday favorite, "The Sparkle Box: A Gift with the Power to Change Christmas," reminds us of the true meaning of the season. thesparklebox.com
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It's a Hoot! Children will be entertained by putting these recycled pieces together to create this adorable owl. Wild Birds Unlimited, Millhopper Square
Santa’s little helper, the ELF, has been sent from the North Pole to let Santa know who has been naughty or nice. A wonderful new holiday tradition! The Goody Basket Haile Village 352-376-2600
BY BROOKE
NEWELL, Photos by Verve Studio Cookies by Ms. Debbie's Sugar Art
As the holiday season approaches and life begins to get just a bit more hectic, what better way to celebrate the most wonderful time of year than with friends and a cookie exchange party?
1. Set a date and send out invitations at least four-six weeks in advance. Invite between eight-10 guests. Keeping the guest list small will be important because each person is asked to bring one dozen cookies per guest.
2. Decide what cookies will be prepared. Do this ahead of time so that there are no duplicates of cookies to be exchanged.
3. Create display cards for the cookies. This is a great way to label the cookies and let others know who brought them. Here’s an example - World’s Greatest Chocolate Chip Cookies from Nicole Irving.
4. Set up a cute packaging station. Why fill Ziploc bags with cookies when each guest can take home beautifully packaged cookies? Provide pretty bakery boxes or cookie tins, gift tags, tissue paper, ribbon and more so that each guest takes home a very special gift. You may also ask your guests to bring supplies as well.
5. Prepare light hour d’oeuvres and holiday beverages for your guests such as hot apple cider, hot chocolate or eggnog.
6. Prepare for the swap. Set up cookie exchange platters with festive trays, cake stands, etc., so that guests can fill the table with cookies as they arrive. Ask guests to place their recipe cards next to their cookies.
7. When it is time for the cookie exchange, allow the guests to make their way around the table filling their containers with cookies until all the cookies are gone.
GET YOUR FUN HOLIDAY COOKIES like these from Ms. Debbie's Sugar Art
1. One dozen cookies per person attending cookie swap.
2. Copies of cookie recipe to pass out to each guest.
Invitations, recipe cards and display cards are fun to make and will allow you to add your own personal touch and flair. However, if you prefer to purchase your cookie exchange printables, there are many online sources to choose from to suit your individual style.
1Keep your guest list at a manageable number.
2Prepare a tasting tray of cookies to be sampled prior to the exchange. (If you do this you will need to ask each guest to bring one additional dozen for sampling.)
3Encourage guests to share the cookies they take home. Provide plenty of packaging supplies so that guests can prepare cookie boxes for friends, family, co-workers and neighbors.
ALTHOUGH A COOKIE EXCHANGE PARTY IS TYPICALLY DESIGNED FOR ADULTS, it would be fun to host a party for the little ones as well. Set up a cookie decorating station and children of all ages can decorate the cookies while the adults mingle.
4Ask each guest to wear her favorite apron and give a prize for prettiest cookie, best-tasting cookie and best packaging!
5Send guests home with a sweet thank you gift letting them know how much you appreciated them. Here’s a cute idea - tie a thank you tag to a cookie cutter.
2013 IS ON ITS WAY. THIS YEAR, CELEBRATE IN STYLE AND WITH YOUR CHILDREN. LET THEM RING IN THE NEW YEAR WITH YOU AND SHARE IN THE CELEBRATION AND FESTIVITIES. SO, HOW DO YOU KEEP THE PARTY UPBEAT, FUN AND CLASSY, YET SPECIAL AND AGE-APPROPRIATE FOR THE LITTLE ONES? HERE ARE OUR SIMPLE NO-FAIL STEPS, TRICKS AND IDEAS FOR A SUCCESSFUL FAMILY NEW YEAR’S EVE CELEBRATION. 1 2
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TONE OF THE PARTY If you are inviting others to share in the festivities with you and your children, set ground rules. Respect and responsibility of the children are priorities. Encourage sleepovers. Much safer than being on the roads!
FOOD AND DRINKS Finger foods, sparkling fruit punch, and yummy cookies are a sure win with the little ones. Keep it on their level and limit sugar. They will be up all night regardless, so keep the sugar rush to a minimum.
Have a hat-decorating contest with the children. Nothing says “Welcome 2013” like a fun and festive hat!
ACTIVITIES If they are determined to stay up with you, keep them busy and wear them out, so once 12:01 a.m. comes, they’ll go right to sleep. Games like charades and Just Dance will keep them focused and energy-organized.
5 THE COUNTDOWN Plan a fun countdown for the kiddos. Have them practice it a few times while waiting for the ball to drop.
He just couldn’t stay up…
IF YOU HAVE A LITTLE ONE WHO FALLS ASLEEP OR IS WHINING AND ABOUT TO CRASH… LET HIM SLEEP. IT IS MORE IMPORTANT THAT HE IS HAPPY THAN AWAKE AND CRANKY.
This year, why not bring the beautiful Florida elements inside for a special holiday treat? With its ocean breezes, swaying palm trees and beautiful beaches of sand and shells, Florida lends the perfect accessories for holiday decorating!
Decorating “Florida style” is simple and easy. It is all about bringing the natural elements of the sun, sand, shells and ocean into the home and using them to enhance your holiday décor.
Here are some simple and easy tips for bringing the outdoors “in” this holiday season!
COLOR PALETTE
Blue Silver White Turquoise
Aqua Lime green
ACCESSORIES
• Rope
• Silver jars
• White lights
• Sand
• Starfish
• Rattan baskets
• Blue/silver/white/
• Twine
• Hurricane vases
• White candles
• Shells
• White stockings
• Large white coral pieces
• Driftwood
lime green tree ball ornaments
• Fill plain glass ornaments with shells and hang from tree.
• Glue large white shells or starfish to a sturdy craft wreath for the front door.
• Use shells that have small holes in the top for ornaments.
• Overflow silver jars with white shells and place on table.
• Use mini starfish and twine for napkin rings.
• Use driftwood pieces as centerpieces or on the mantle.
• Wrap presents in brown or white paper. Use aqua or turquoise ribbon and hang shell from bow on gift.
• Take holiday photo of family at the beach and use for your holiday card.
• Blow up family photo from the beach and place on mantle.
• Hang white stockings on mantle. Hot glue a starfish and first initial to the stocking.
Whowhatwear.com---Using pictures of celebrities as their inspiration and examples, this site explains how to wear a scarf in the stylish ways of Hollywood.
Scarves.net/how-to-tie-a-scarf/ A great tutorial that is broken down into types of scarves (i.e., bandana, winter, circle, etc.) and describes various ways to tie each type.
Youtube.com/watch?v=5LYAEz777AU
You’ll want to bookmark this link! This amazing video is called “25 Ways to Wear a Scarf in 4.5 minutes” and will not disappoint with its easy yet glamorous ways to quickly tie a scarf.
Photos by Verve Studio
CHAPPED LIPS ARE LITERALLY A PAIN DURING THE WINTER SEASON. WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN SPENDING TIME WITH LOVED ONES, MAKING GINGERBREAD HOUSES, OPENING GIFTS AND GOING ON VACATIONS, BUT HAVING CHAPPED LIPS CAN MAKE ANY OF THOSE ACTIVITIES LESS ENJOYABLE WHEN THE COLD AND WIND HIT OUR DRY, CRACKED LIPS.
Our lips are full of moisture and when the cold weather sweeps through and those frosty winds bite at our lips, they dry up and develop tiny cuts due to the lack of moisture. When our lips have these tiny cuts, our lips become more susceptible to aggravation caused by spicy and acidic foods, heat and even some toothpaste, according to the Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research.
• Stop Licking Your Lips!
Knowing that our lips are dehydrated, it’s easy to think, “Well, if I lick them, I’m putting moisture back into them, right?” Wrong. Our saliva contains bacteria that break down food, and when we put that saliva on our lips it evaporates, making our lips more dehydrated than they were before we licked them.
• Keep Balm and Carry On.
Lip balm is designed to keep moisture in and provide a protected barrier on your lips. Some lip balms can actually do more harm than good, so make sure you buy a petrolatum or beeswax based lip balm, and apply it right before you leave
your house to venture out into the cold. Good old fashion petroleum jelly will work just as well if you don’t have any lip balm around the house.
• Use Those Veggies. My mom used to cut up slices of cucumbers and put them on our lips. The moisture from the cucumber slices sinks into the chapped lips and feels extremely refreshing. Plus you get a treat when you’re done.
what about The Little Ones? giggle tip!
Raw aloe from an aloe vera plant will also supplement moisture back into your lips.
• Drink Plenty of Water. This one is pretty self-explanatory, but drinking plenty of water helps fight dehydration, so the more water you drink the sooner your lips will be less chapped.
The good news is the same treatments you use for your chapped lips can be used on your children. The bad news is you may have to apply lip balm more often as children seem to like licking off as much as they can as soon as you put it on, especially if it is flavored.
You may also want to consider putting a humidifier in your child’s room when she’s sleeping. This will increase the moisture content in your home and cause fewer instances of chapped lips. Lastly, cover her mouth with a scarf when out in the cold or the wind during this winter season. This will block wind exposure to her lips and face.
"LIP BALM IS DESIGNED to keep moisture IN AND PROVIDE A PROTECTED BARRIER ON YOUR LIPS."BY TANIA COWLING
Children will like shaping this dough and placing it to make a snowflake bread roll.
Ingredients: Refrigerator breadsticks (store-bought)
Directions:
1. Invite the kids to roll this dough into small snakes.
2. Place one rope (snake) onto the baking pan overlapping with other small ropes until you have a six-spoked snowflake.
3. Bake as directed on the package label.
4. Continue making snowflakes until you have used up the entire dough.
Ingredients:
2 ounces white baking chocolate
1 cup water
3 cups milk
Cinnamon or peppermint stick
(optional)
Directions:
1. In a medium-sized saucepan, melt 2 ounces of white baking chocolate and 1 cup water over medium heat. Stir this constantly.
2. When this mixture is fully melted, bring it to a boil and then bring the temperature down to simmer.
3. Stir in 3 cups of milk and heat this until it is warm.
4. Remove the pan from the heat and beat the milk with a whisk until foamy. Older children can help with adult supervision.
5. Serve the white chocolate in mugs with a dash of cinnamon or a peppermint stick inside.
Makes 6 servings.
French toast is not just for breakfast; use it for any meal or party food as well.
Ingredients:
Thick white bread
2 eggs
1/2 cup milk
1 tablespoon sugar
1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
Dash of salt
Butter or margarine
Maple syrup
Directions:
1. Using cookie cutters, cut a snowman shape from each slice of thick white bread.
2. In a shallow bowl, crack 2 eggs and beat until foamy.
3. Add the milk, sugar, cinnamon, and a dash of salt. Mix well.
4. Heat a griddle or frying pan to mediumhigh heat. Grease the pan with butter or margarine.
5. Dip the bread shapes into the egg mixture coating each side.
6. Place it on the griddle and cook on each side until lightly browned.
7. Serve these yummy snowmen on a plate with maple syrup.
8. Children may like fresh fruit on top as well.
Many of these foods are the same foods families eat on a daily basis, but add a few extra ingredients to give them a winter holiday theme. Having kids in the kitchen is a wonderful learning experience and teaching children skills they need in later life. Create, construct, and enjoy!
This food construction allows children to use their creativity to create a snowman face.
Ingredients:
Store-bought frozen pizza
Salami or ham strips
Pepperoni slices
Cherry tomato (cut in half)
Black olive halves (pitted)
Directions:
1. Bake a frozen pizza according to directions on the package.
2. Remove this from the oven to a plate.
3. Invite the kids to decorate with the ingredients below: salami, ham strips, pepper strips or pieces, pepperoni, cherry tomatoes, pitted black olives. Get creative with all kinds of healthy edibles.
marks the beginning of the eight-day celebration of the Festival of Lights. This year, share these special times with friends and family by welcoming in new traditions and celebrating with family favorites.
1 Serve amazing potato latkes and apple sauce.
2 Play the dreidel game.
3 Display a beautiful Menorah to light each night with friends and family.
4 Create special, lovely place settings at the table.
5 Enjoy challah bread at your meal.
6 Share Hanukkah gelt (chocolates coins) with the children each night.
7 Make homemade fried doughnuts.
8 Celebrate and make new memories!
• Occupations: Chris-VP Sales and Marketing in mortgage banking industry, Shannon-Owner of small businessPR/Marketing/Advertising.
• Favorite meal: Homemade chicken enchiladas.
• Favorite date spot: Swamphead Brewery.
• Movie in our DVD player right now: Star Wars-Colin loves it.
• Our family is most like: Your prototypical American family- one boy, one girl and a Golden Retriever.
• The kids’ favorite books: Colin“Goosebumps,” Sofia-“Brown Bear.”
• Mommy and Daddy’s favorite TV shows: “Modern Family,” “Two and ½ Men” and “Shark Tank.”
• Websites we love: Drudge Report, Amazon.
• Favorite sports to play: Basketball-the whole family!
• Favorite sports to watch: Football.
• Pets: Dog – Harlee.
• Favorite Vacation: Annual end-of-thesummer week at the beach in Sarasota.
• What makes our kids laugh: Acting silly!
• Why we love living in Gainesville: Gators, the small-town feel, it’s close to family and friends and we LOVE the trees!
• Something that we would want our children to have that we didn’t have growing up: We were both blessed with wonderful upbringings; we want to continue that for our kids.
"Gators, the small-town feel, ...close to family and we love the trees!"
• Favorite day trip: Tampa.
• First word you think of when we say “family”: Lovewe are very blessed to have the love and support of each other.
• Favorite picnic spot: Lake Alice.
• Must-have item: iPhone.
• Favorite family activity: Sunday mornings – coffee and paper in the park in Tioga.
• Three words that describe our family: Supportive. Loving. Fun.
• Anything else you want us to know about your family?: Chris and I met at the University of Florida (both UF Alumni). Although we moved away after graduation, we chose to come back to Gainesville to raise our family. We also love to travel together as often as possible.
"We were both blessed with wonderful upbringings; we want to continue that for our kids."
Whetheryou are the new family on the block or you’re welcoming someone to your neighborhood, there is bound to be a little apprehension when deciding how to meet the neighbors. Do you just go over and introduce yourself? Should you take them a gift? Everyone has their own comfort zone when it comes to making new friends, so use our Lifesavers list as a guide and decide how you’re going to meet your new backyard barbeque buddy.
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If your neighborhood has a community PLAYGROUND OR POOL, take your family down to play. It’s a great way to meet other families and help the little ones feel welcome as well.
6If there are good news banners or yard signs in your neighbor’s yard, CONGRATULATE THEM on the new baby or the 40th birthday! What a great way to start a conversation! Everyone loves to share happiness so let them share it with you.
2ATTEND
NEIGHBORHOOD SOCIALS when possible. Many neighborhoods now post upcoming social events, get-togethers and meetings online, so join the neighborhood FACEBOOK PAGE and attend the events you and your family would enjoy.
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One of the most traditional and nicest ways to greet new neighbors is to TAKE THEM FOOD. Whether it’s your famous lasagna, yummy breakfast muffins or a picnic basket of finger foods (helpful if they haven’t had a chance to unpack silverware yet), it is always appreciated.
4WAVE AND SMILE when your neighbors drive by. It sounds so simple, but this easy gesture lets them know you are friendly and welcoming. They may get the opposite impression if you don’t take the three seconds to acknowledge them.
7SHARE BUSINESS OR CONTACT CARDS with those you meet. It is great to have someone to call if you have a question, need your car jump-started, or want to plan a play date. This will also give you the opportunity to use the local businesses your neighbors own or work for—a great way to support your new friends.
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You can’t meet anyone if you’re inside all day, so grab the kiddos and go for a WALK OR BIKE RIDE around your neighborhood. It will be a nice break from unpacking or cleaning and it’s an easy way to see your neighbors and let them see you.
8OFFER TO HELP! You could unload boxes from the moving truck, entertain their children with a Welcome to the Neighborhood play date, give them a binder of take-out menus from local restaurants and offer to pick up and deliver tonight’s meal, or simply ask them what you can do to help. The act of putting yourself out there and letting them know you are willing to assist in making their transition an easy one is the gesture that will be remembered. So don’t be nervous, just take that step from your front porch and get ready for some neighborhood luaus, costume contests and holiday parties to begin!
We all know the drill. After months of holiday distractions, we resolve to reform our scattered lives by becoming models of organized perfection. We rev up the will power to last maybe until mid-February and then slip back into the comfortable habits that have kept the toys underfoot, the kitchen cabinets scrambled, and the paper piles in place. Are you willing to rethink your approach for 2013? Results can’t be guaranteed, but remember that you are supposed to be bringing in the “new.”
Define what “getting organized” means in your household. If you aren’t specific about the changes you want, you can’t plan the actions you need to take. Your family is your brain trust so include every member in the discussion, even the youngest players. Sharing the same goals makes your team more effective.
Resolve to be functional, not perfect. Give your goals a reality check. You can’t save everything if your living or storage spaces are small. You can’t devote all of your time to maintenance when you have other responsibilities. You can scale your goals to fit what works for your schedule and your family.
Establish mini-goals. Organizing the kitchen begins with one drawer. Purging your filing system begins with one folder. You children learn by taking small steps and so do you. Savor the incremental improvements because they will lead to bigger changes.
Measure your progress. De-clutter one kitchen cabinet each week. File papers for 15 minutes each day. Involve the children in a playroom sweep for 5 minutes before the nighttime routine begins. Use time and deadlines to keep you on task.
Create accountability. You can be a clutter club of one by keeping a notebook or journal listing ideas and accomplishments, or you can tell a friend about your efforts. A buddy system, which is a form of coaching, can support your efforts as well as give you new organizing ideas. Support also dispels negative thoughts that may creep up on you if you’re judging yourself too harshly or feel your motivation slipping. It takes a good friend to share your triumph in knowing where the stapler lives.
Accept the interruptions. A sick child, visitors, unexpected problems will sidetrack you occasionally. You can make temporary adjustments to your schedule but without using them as justification to abandon your efforts. Delegating to a cleaning service or a professional organizer can help you through the rough spots.
Getting organized is a process, not a weekend foray. Staying organized requires habits and routines that get embedded into your brain and life as you work through the process. January has been designated Get Organized month by the National Association of Professional Organizers; it’s a good time to tackle the clutter in your thinking, schedule and space. Create a list of goals and make your plan for 2013. A short list gives you the best chance of success. Don’t rush…you have plenty of time to take this journey, but don’t put it off indefinitely, either!
"Organizing the kitchen begins with one drawer."
BY KRISTIN HAWKINS
That is one of the many quotes or words of wisdom from Ben Franklin where he was encouraging people to save their money. More recently, a discount brokerage firm posted an updated version of this message on billboards across America, which stated, “A penny saved is not a lot.”
We are surrounded by numerous websites, organizations and individuals committed to helping people save money and live more frugally. The Tightwad Gazette was a great example of a periodic newsletter that offered frugality tips to a dedicated following. A classic tip for saving money included ironing the wrinkles out of Christmas wrapping paper so that it could be reused. Hmm.
While extreme couponing has become the ultimate challenge in saving money these days, you do not have to stretch your boundaries quite so far and spend hours scouring websites and newspapers to find your bargain savings! (The mother of four who is late to her daughter’s soccer game and behind you in the checkout line will be forever grateful that you only have a handful of coupons vs. a stack.)
While you could spend time this winter ironing recycled wrapping paper to save a few pennies, there is something bigger, much greater, right under your nose - refinancing your home loan!
Interest rates are at ALL TIME LOWS! Combine that fact with the streamlined HARP Loan option today, and that translates to one thing - huge savings to you. The typical monthly savings is $300 a month. That is $3,600 a year in savings! In Ben Franklinʼs language, that savings equals 360,000 pennies annually!
If you have a mortgage rate greater than 4.75%, you will be able to take advantage of an opportunity that may never be available again in your lifetime.
Refinancing today will lower your monthly bills and give you the freedom to pay off other bills, or make a much-needed purchase, or even increase your giving to the charity of your choice. The whole point is, you will have choices! Ben would be so proud!
Despite the news reports stating that obtaining financing is more difficult than ever, thousands of people are taking advantage of obtaining the lowest interest rates in history. What did change was the increased legislation and guidelines for lending institutions. The lending rules have increased ten-fold, but it is not that much more difficult to obtain a better interest rate. The difficulty is finding the experienced lender that can guide you through the process and provide the positive outcome you deserve.
With a trusted and knowledgeable loan officer, you can begin saving hundreds of dollars each month, or build equity much faster in your home by reducing your loan term to 10-15 years.
The HARP program is one of many that allow a streamline refinance process with reduced documentation, easier qualifying debt ratios, and even skipping the need for an appraisal of your home. This program began in 2009 and is due to expire in 2013, if not extended.
Whether you have one home, a vacation home, or a rental home, now is the time to reduce all of your monthly interest expense on all of your mortgages.
Find a recent mortgage statement, contact your lender, or the advice of friends and family for a recommendation of a lender and loan officer, and let the savings begin. You can continue to shop the sales racks, clip your coupons, and use your rewards cards for additional savings. But, know that you have taken care of the largest savings possible on the largest debt you have each month, and never look back again.
“A savedpenny is a penny earned.”
Take a light-hearted look at Charles Schulz’s exploration of the natural world through Peanuts comic strips, videos, objects and interactive stations, including specimens from the Florida Museum collections. Topics include the universe, “web of nature,” trees, birds, the elements, gardening and Charlie Brown’s EPA escapade. Peanuts…Naturally was organized by the Charles M. Schulz Museum, Santa Rosa, Calif. Admission is $4 adults ($3.50 for Fla. residents, seniors and students); $3 ages 3-17.
© 2012 Peanuts Worldwide LLC
I SAT DOWN WITH MY LOCAL HOMESCHOOL GURU, SARAH MENDONCA MCCOY, TO OFFER A LITTLE INSIGHT INTO HER BRIGHT AND FUN WORLD. SHE IS THE MOTHER TO OWEN (9), MARY (7), AND KEVIN (4), HAS A PH.D. IN EDUCATIONAL LEADERSHIP, AND WAS AN EDUCATION POLICY ANALYST FOR THE FLORIDA LEGISLATURE. SHE COORDINATES MANY OF OUR LOCAL HOMESCHOOL OPPORTUNITIES. WHEN I HAVE A QUESTION, SHE’S THE FIRST PERSON I CALL…SO I ASKED HER TO SHARE SOME WISDOM.
• Your favorite subject(s) to teach your children: Honestly, I love them all! In our house, we get equally excited about math, science, history, language, music, art…it’s all so much fun!
• Least favorite: Whichever subjects they least enjoy, because that makes it more challenging for me to engage them.
• Best field trip spots: We love the Florida Museum of Natural History, the Harn Museum of Art, the Kika Silva Pla Planetarium, Devil’s Millhopper, Kanapaha Gardens, Dudley Farm and Morningside Nature Center.
• Overall homeschool philosophy: My goal is to cultivate a genuine love of knowledge in my children by fostering their natural curiosity and sharing my passion for learning with them. I hope to maximize their potential by exposing them to a broad spectrum of topics and perspectives, presenting material in ways that suit their individual learning styles, and giving them the freedom to pursue their own passions.
• Describe a typical homeschool day: No such thing around here! Some days are filled with classes, activities, and outings, and others are more quiet and focused at home. I love that my kids are never bored: wherever we are, whatever we’re doing, they are happy about learning new things!
• How do you choose curriculum? I appreciate the flexibility I have to select materials that are challenging, engaging and efficient. I especially like resources that offer greater depth (for example, in history, science, and the arts) and that address logic and critical thinking (which tend to be more exciting to bright kids who need more of a challenge).
• Do you feel that your children are missing out on anything? No, because I work hard to make sure that they are getting plenty of opportunities to participate in a wide variety of activities. I have been trying to create more opportunities for homeschoolers in Gainesville to have fun educational and cultural experiences together, and in the future, I hope to see even more, such as a theater cooperative, spelling bee, geography bee, math competition, science fairs, art fairs, etc.
• Do you feel that traditional school children are missing out on anything? I wouldn’t dare to generalize, since the answer depends on a wide variety of factors, including schools, principals, teachers and parents. I know that many of my friends whose kids go to school are very satisfied with their kids’ education. I think each family has to decide what is best for them depending on their own values, needs and preferences. But I do encourage parents to reflect on whether their kids’ educational setting is really right for them, and to remember that we are fortunate enough in this day and age to have rights and choices! If you are unsatisfied, then spend a little time reflecting on what needs to change and make it happen!
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FOR EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW TO BEGIN HOMESCHOOLING IN ALACHUA COUNTY, VISIT: www.sbac.edu/~research/HomeSchool.html
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• You have a background in educational policy. Explain your thoughts on homeschooling with regard to your experience. Having studied the history of education in this country and having worked for the state legislature as an education policy analyst, I am a big fan of public education. It is absolutely vital to the future of our country, and for many families, it is the only educational option that is available to them. But as my oldest child was preparing to enter kindergarten, I realized that public education wasn’t the best fit for our family at that time. Each year, we have re-evaluated and decided to continue because it works well for us. At some point, we may determine that the benefits of school outweigh the benefits of homeschooling for our kids.
• Any suggestions for moms (and dads) new to homeschooling? Have fun! Kids learn best when their natural curiosity has been engaged, and passion is contagious. Show them the connections between what they’re learning and the real world. To quote Mary Poppins: “In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun.” Get excited about learning, and your kids will follow suit!
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Do you know a couple with the greatest love story of all time? Is it your own?
We want to spotlight several of Alachua County’s greatest couples and feature their love stories in honor of Valentine’s Day. Feel free to be original and creative in your entry or nomination.
Visit gigglemag.com for more details and to submit your love story.
*Deadline for entries is December 17, 2012.
Tara Griffin is a graphic designer, freelance writer, and mother of two. She can be reached through her blog at www.vintagewinnie.com.
It's the most wonderful time of the year, and that means new toys, games, books and more. While it's exciting for the kids to get that brand new I-gotta-have-it-batteriesnot-included something, it can lead to a pile of unused and unwanted gadgets from last year's haul. Cleaning after the fun ends can be not so nice, but we'd like to alleviate some of that stress and share with you a way to distribute the plenty. Many local charities accept donations all year long, and the holiday season is one of their busiest!
Going through your family's unwanted items together is not only a great way to spend quality time while reminding your children about the giving spirit, but it can help you appreciate the new items in a less-cluttered home. Here are some of our favorite charities and what you can give them to brighten their holiday!
An organization of women committed to promoting volunteerism, developing the potential of women, and improving communities through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. The Junior League has a thrift shop in Gainesville and would love to receive any gifts from your family.
From the kids:
-gently used apparel and toys.
From Mom and Dad:
-gently used apparel and household goods.
Donations accepted Monday - Saturday from 10 a.m. - 5 p.m.
For more information check out gainesvillejrleague.org.
• CHILD ADVOCACY CENTER:
A comprehensive, child-friendly facility where professionals from law enforcement, medical, child protection and therapeutic services effectively collaborate to meet the individual needs of child victims and break the cycle of abuse.
From the kids:
-gently used stuffed animals, toys and books.
-gently used children’s items including furniture, car seats, and clothing.
From Mom and Dad:
-some adult clothing is accepted.
For more information check out childadvocacycentergainesville.org or call 352-376-9161.
• CHILDREN'S HOME SOCIETY OF FLORIDAMID-FLORIDA DIVISION:
An organization working to protect and heal children from situations of abuse, build and strengthen families, and support teens who are on their own. The Children Home Society has a thrift shop in Gainesville that can benefit from your family's extras.
From the whole family:
-furniture, clothing and housewares.
*pick-up service provided for large furniture items.
For more information check out www.chsfl.org.
An organization working to unite local people and organizations in support of improving education, community, income and health.
From the kids:
-gently used toys, bicycles and books.
From Mom and Dad: -tools, furniture, household items, movies, etc.
For more information check out www.unitedwayncfl.org.
The Early Learning Coalition of Alachua County serves approximately 4000 children ages birth to 5 years old through supporting Voluntary PreKindergarten (VPK) and School Readiness programs in Alachua County Early Learning Centers.
From the kids:
-gently used books for kids 7 and under, blocks and similar toys. -no cribs, car seats, play pens or stuffed animals.
*very few toys are accepted, please ensure that the condition is good.
For more information check out www.elcalachua.org.
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It is amazing how much better you’ll feel when you take that step and switch from your unbuttoned, saggy jeans to a great-fitting pair of maternity jeans. Grab a gorgeous maternity top and your favorite earrings and you are set! Maternity wear is made to fit like your normal clothing with additional material in the tummy, so you still look tailored and pulled together, but your belly has room to grow. Use our mommy-approved list of maternity wardrobe essentials to make this a comfortable, stylish pregnancy.
“My maternity musthave was the belly band to hide my tummy from peeking out from shorter shirts, ..."
1. At least one pair of modern maternity jeans.
2. Little black (or gray or navy) dress.
3. Maternity camisoles in several colors to wear under blouses, sweaters and dresses.
4. Maxi skirt to pair with sweaters, blouses or t-shirts.
5. Pair of tailored black pants.
6. Leggings with a supportive belly band.
7. Pretty maternity tops to coordinate with jeans, black pants, maxi skirt and leggings.
8. Shrug or cardigan that can be worn over blouses, dresses and camisoles, but gives your belly room to grow.
9. Maternity hosiery and comfortable shoes for foot and leg support.
10. Sleep bra (bonus if it is a nursing bra to use after baby arrives).
“My best maternity purchase was the La Leche League International strapless bra. It was the most comfortable bra, especially at night. The bonus is it is STILL my favorite strapless bra.”
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Sitting in the dark with a whimpering 14-month-old suction-cupped to my chest, I decided I couldn’t possibly go back to work the next day.
It was Wednesday; the third day of the first week of daycare, and separation anxiety - for me and for my twin boys - was in full swing.
Settling my little guys back to bed and clearing my head, I realized staying home on Thursday would just delay the inevitable. The next morning was still a tough one to face.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, separation anxiety usually peaks between 10 and 18 months, when your baby realizes that you still exist when you aren’t together. The AAP says that separation anxiety generally starts to fade by 24 months.
The anxiety can manifest itself in many ways, but common forms are sleep and behaviors problems, and of course - every parent’s nightmare - a pitiful tear-stained face begging you not to leave at the point of separation.
If keeping your child with you at all times isn’t a possibilityas is the case for most parents - what can you do to make the transition an easy one?
First, resist the urge to slip out the back door when your child isn’t looking. Part of the root cause of separation anxiety is the fear that you’re gone and you’re not coming back. Reassure your child that you’re leaving for a little while, and you’ll be back to get them later.
If they are old enough to understand, check with your child’s caregiver to find out what activity takes place before your planned return. That way you can explain, “Mommy will be back to get you after you have your snack this afternoon.”
“It’s good to offer a hug and acknowledge the child’s feelings,” advises Kristy Bickmeyer, owner of Gainesville and Tampabased Twinkle Toes Nanny Agency. “Your child’s caregiver can say, ‘They’re coming home right after dinner, but we’re going to have so much fun!’”
While it’s not a good idea to disappear, it’s also not a good idea to act as though you’re off to war.
“Do not drag it out,” says Bickmeyer, who has more than 10 years of experience in childcare, as well as children of her own. “It does not get easier after one more hug, one more book or one more kiss. It’s best to say a quick goodbye, and get out the door. It’s okay if there’s some crying. A capable sitter will have the kids distracted and having fun within minutes after the door closes.”
Nothing will help separation anxiety fade faster than a positive connection with your child’s caregiver.
“It’s great if the kids can meet with their sitter beforehand so that it’s not a brand new face when Mom and Dad leave,” Bickmeyer says.
Planning an activity, with the caregiver’s cooperation, can also be a great way to help your child look forward to their time away from Mom and Dad, Bickmeyer adds.
“Mom and Dad can spend the day talking up that activity, ‘When Mommy and Daddy go, you’re going to have so much fun decorating cookies with Emily! You get to wear an apron, use frosting and sprinkles, and eat cookies,’” she suggests. “This way the kids are looking forward to doing something fun and they’re not too upset about Mom and Dad leaving.”
says Dr. Benjamin Siegel, professor of pediatrics and psychiatry at the Boston University School of Medicine. “They are influenced by what they see and hear around them. They get very excited about characters in their life that have special meaning for them.”
A Gainesville mother of two, Jenn Garrett, recently asked me to think of all the wonderful fiction books and movies that have been written (“Harry Potter,” “Sesame Street,” and “Star Wars,” just to name a few). She then stated,
BY BROOKE NEWELLIs it ok to tell your children that Santa and the Easter Bunny are real? Should you tell them they won’t come visit unless they believe? Some parents feel that you should never lie to children, while others consider issues like these not to fall into the category of lying. Most parents will agree that it doesn’t harm children to use their imagination and will readily participate with their children.
As a parent myself, I couldn’t agree more with Garrett. What child doesn’t love Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, the Tooth Fairy, and fiction books and movies? Garrett strongly believes that there is a difference between pretend and lying. She feels like the traditions of Santa and the Tooth Fairy can be fun and creative examples of pretend that little ones love. In the future, when her kids ask her whether these characters are real, she plans to explain that they are pretend. She won't lie to them, but she will explain that it is fun to imagine things like Santa and the Easter Bunny and to use their creative minds to dream up fun stories about them. Other moms in Gainesville also agree. Many feel there is plenty of time in life to deal with reality and that children should have time to enjoy the fictional characters.
Mary K. Wimsett, mother of three, feels that you should not lie to your child when she blatantly asks you if Santa is real. In her opinion, it is not worth continuing the fantasy to betray your child’s trust. However, Wimsett does still tell her children that Santa only comes to kids who believe. Her oldest daughter, who is in the fourth grade, understands that Santa is not real, but her two younger daughters still “believe.”
As a parent, it is up to you to decide if you will “lie” to your child or not. No one knows your child as well as you do. Just trust your heart and make the best decision for your family.
“Kids up to four, five, six and seven live in what we call fantasy life magic years,”
“I wouldn't say that their creators were lying, would you?”
There’s a parent-teacher conference tomorrow morning. You can’t sleep. Your mind is racing. There is a swarm of butterflies in your stomach. Imagine how your child feels. No one wants to walk into a meeting unsure of what is going to happen and what will be said. Whether you are meeting about your tween’s academic progress or a behavioral issue, it’s better for everyone involved if you come prepared.
BY DANA KAMPhowcan a parent prepare for a conference with a teacher?
Carrie Sepulveda-Jimenez, a middle school language arts teacher, says parents should come with an open mind and an understanding that the teacher is there to help your child be successful. Walking into the meeting with a positive attitude can make all the difference. Preparing your mind to be open to someone else’s ideas and suggestions for your child is the first step toward a productive conference.
Also being willing to share some background on your child is going to open up the conversation and give the teacher more information to use in building a plan. If there are any medical conditions not listed in your child’s Individual Education Plan (if he has one), share these with the teacher. Be open about any personal insecurities your child has or any issues he may be dealing with at this time. Teachers need to know if there have been any recent major changes in your child’s life as well.
“Remember that the teacher wants what’s best for your child. Teachers are your partners, not your enemies,” says Cyndi Johnson, a middle school teacher in the Read 180 program (an intensive reading program designed to raise reading achievement in students in grades 4-12+). Being open and honest about your child can only improve the outcome of the conference.
Parents can also make a list of any routines or schedules that are followed at home. Tweens have a lot on their plate on any given day, so sharing this list will be
beneficial for both the teacher and child. Together, everyone involved can see what is in the child’s schedule and how best to accomplish everything that needs to be done.
Tonia Cunningham teaches honors and gifted classes and encourages parents to let the teacher know about any particular learning strategies that help their child stay on track.
“If your child needs to write the week’s assignments in her planner each Monday or uses a color-coded homework folder system, that is fine. If something is working at home, share it during the conference so we can all get on board,” says Cunningham.
Positive strategies that have worked with your child, at home or in another
setting, are great to bring along. Talk with your child before the meeting about past coaches, teachers or therapists who have helped him in some way and what he liked about that person’s approach. Explaining what has been successful in the past can assist the current teacher in knowing how she can help your child.
Your child’s teacher will most likely bring along a list of suggestions as well. Constructively working through the lists together, to find the best “next step” for your child is ultimately the goal of the conference.
Joanne Wright, an advanced and intensive reading teacher, reminds parents that teachers don’t have all the answers. "It takes a team effort to help a child succeed."
Sepulveda-Jimenez shared a few questions you can ask at the meeting that will facilitate your child’s learning and show that you want to participate in your child’s success.
• What are you currently working on in class? How can I help?
• How can I monitor my child's completion of assignments on a daily basis?
• Are there any programs or clubs to help kids who need a little extra attention?
• When are you available if my child needs extra help?
• What is your preferred method of communication with parents?
"It takes a TEAM EFFORT to help a child
Timesure does fly! It is hard to believe that high school graduation is quickly approaching. Soon parents will be watching their child walk down the aisle at graduation and begin the next stage of his life. I know for parents, it probably seems like just yesterday you were searching for the perfect preschool for your child, and now he is already planning where to move next.
Students have already taken the SATs and ACTs and have begun the process of applying to colleges and filling out scholarship applications. But, what if your child catches a case of senioritis? According to Merriam Webster Dictionary, senioritis is defined as an ebbing of motivation and effort by school seniors as evidenced by tardiness, absences and lower grades.
Jen Homard, former assistant principal of curriculum at Buchholz High School, believes that there are many causes of senioritis. She has seen cases of senioritis occur sometimes as early as October or November of a senior year! But it tends to
“break out” at the start of second semester (the end of January), and seems to get even worse after Spring Break.
One such reason for this is that many students are anxious for the next chapter in their life to begin, whether it is college, technical school or a career. Students work extremely hard through all of their years of schooling and they are ready for a break. Additionally, seniors tend to be more stressed, not only from coursework, but also from major life decisions that tend to be made that year. What college should I attend? Am I going to live at home next year? What do I want to do with my life? How will I pay for college? Most students Homard has had contact with seem to willingly admit they have some degree of senioritis at some point during their senior year.
As parents, you need to help your child prevent this common syndrome that can creep up on your high school senior. It is important to realize that colleges are serious about the candidates they are selecting. According to an article from The New York Times, author Laura Pappano explains that colleges take senior year performance into consideration, even after the acceptance letter arrives in your mailbox.
• The University of Colorado Boulder rescinded admission for 45 of its accepted students, 10 of whom had already attended freshman orientation, selected classes or met roommates.
• The University of Michigan sent out three different letters to its incoming freshmen with poor final grades: 62 issuing gentle warnings, 180 requesting an explanation and nine revoking admission.
• Twenty-three would-be freshmen found themselves without a college when the University of Washington revoked their acceptances during the summer because of poor final grades.
Parents, administrators and teachers can all work together to help with senioritis. Homard feels that parents should keep lines of communication open with their child, their child's teachers and school counselors. Also, she feels parents should encourage their child to participate in as many school events as possible, so they stay grounded and focused on the moment. Teachers and administrators are keeping a close eye
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on students' grades, so they don't drop to the point that graduation, scholarship offers and college entrances may be in jeopardy. They are also encouraging senior events to take place and they are available for students to talk to, for both guidance and assistance.
TIPS TO BATTLE SENIORITIS
By Jen Homard
1. Help your child recognize that there are many people who can help in the process of making major decisions (family, guidance counselors, favorite teachers, school administration, coaches, etc.).
2. Help your child stay on top of assignments and study for tests.
3. Encourage your child to enjoy the special events that are unique only to seniors (Grad Night, Senior Prom, Senior Picnic, Senior Breakfast, Senior Awards Night...) - they'll only happen once in his lifetime!
4. Break the year into smaller increments (even weekly segments), so that the larger events and projects will seem manageable.
5. Have your child set positive, attainable long-term goals, to give herself something to remain focused on for her future (for example, getting into specific classes her freshman year of college, graduating high school with a certain grade point average, acquiring a specific number of community service hours before graduation).
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