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CONTENTS SE PT E MBE R 2019

14 September 2019 • Volume 25 No. 9

INSIDE

BEATING THE BACK TO SCHOOL BLUES

TIPS FOR TEACHERS

10 TIPS FOR A GREAT FRESHMAN COLLEGE YEAR 12

Special Issue Inside

TIPS TO JUMPSTART YOUR COLLEGE SEARCH

14 WHERE TO WINE, TAKE A FALL VINEYARD ADVENTURE 18 BECOMING MORE AWARE SEPTEMBER: SUICIDE PREVENTION AWARENESS MONTH 35

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Beating the Back to School Blues By Danielle Debley

t’s school season again and perhaps you and the kids are wallowing in the back to school blues. Here are some tips to make this school year a little more fun for the whole family.

Make a fun routine. Structure can be a good thing to put into practice. Create a color coded clock chart or an interactive hourly calendar so that kids can see what activity comes next. Build in playtime, meals, homework and more! Plan a special dinner. Make it a point to do something special to celebrate the first week or month done of this new grade. It will be a fun outing and a special time for the family. Encourage kids to be active. Whether it’s setting aside intentional time after school for outside activity or involving them in a sport, get your kids running about and active. Not only will they have some fun and wear themselves out, it can be a great way to make new friends as well. Get creative with lunches. For you parents with younger kids, take a look at a few Pinterest boards and you’ll find tons of cute meal ideas for your little ones. Creative packed lunches can give kids something to look forward to during the day. Add a sweet or encouraging note for a special touch. Keep up with the homework. Make homework fun by finding creative ways to help out. Does your child need to meet reading requirements? Make going to the library an exciting adventure to keep your child interested. Hold your very own spelling bee at home and be sure to congratulate the winner! Be open and communicative. Teachers spend almost all of their day with your kids, so check in with your child’s teacher if you have questions or concerns. Be receptive to suggestions on how to help your child learn to the best of their ability. Rewarding incentives. They say that positive reinforcement can work better than negative. Talk with your child about getting rewarded for good grades. Perhaps there is a movie or book they really want – all A’s could get them the prize! Make it fun and something worth investing in. Many local banks even have programs that will put money into a savings account for good report cards. 7

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Tips for Teachers for a Happy and Productive School Year By Jacqueline G. Goodwin, Ed. D.

new school year can be stressful even if you are a seasoned teacher. Here are some back to school tips to help start your year off well. Share some of your life. Let your students know a bit about who you are outside of the classroom. Share stories about your family and your pets. Let them know about your outside interests, your hobbies and the type of books you like to read. Your stuents will feel connected and want to know more. Be consistent and follow through when you set routines and consequences. If you let up on consequence, sudents will push the boundaries and it will be tough to get them to believe what you say. They will test you. When they realize that you mean it, they will stop pushing so hard. If the routines and consequences make sense and they have been explained and accepted as part of the class rules, then it will be easier to enforce them as well. Follow a schedule. Have a schedule to follow and lessons prepared, but be willing to throw it out or postpone it for teachable moments. If something happens during the day that is relevant to your students, it deserves to be allowed to be discussed, explored, and experienced. Your stuents will learn more from teachable moments than they do from a structured lesson that is presented at the wrong time. No matter how fabulous the lesson is, if it is taught at the wrong time, it wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have the same impact. Have fun. If your students are happy they will enjoy learning. If you are happy, you will enjoy teaching more. Teaching can be hard enough nowadays with all the added pressures of assessment, social and political environments, and burnout. You need to do things to protect yourself from the stress these things cause. Laughing and enjoying your classroom experiences with your students is one way to do this. 7

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Tips For A Great Freshman College Year By Lindsay Garbacik

reshmen year may seem like the most daunting of the college years. With the idea of learning a new school, a new campus and making new friends, there are a lot of aspects which plague incoming freshmen. The keys to a successful freshman year really fall under a few main categories; getting and staying organized, keeping up with academics, meeting new people and getting involved with campus extracurriculars and clubs. Staying organized is a pivotal part of a successful freshman year, especially for those whom have never lived on their own before. Keeping an organized room can be difficult depending on living situations, especially if the student is confined to a small dorm room. Many stores sell options to overcome issues like this and allow students to maximize space, by utilizing space under the bed or rolling clothes rather than folding them traditionally in drawers. As for staying organized and on top of the academic aspects of college, every student organizes in their own way. A great way to begin to get organized for the school year is to buy a planner to write important dates and homework assignments. Having the ability to see 8 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019

where due dates fall while also having a place to write day to day notes and reminders is an easy way to keep track of the easily forgettable things. Academics are really the most important part of college, so ensuring that they are organized is imperative to doing well even before the exams start. And while academics are important, so is socializing and making new friends, especially for those students living on campus. The beginning few days of freshmen year can be scary, purely because of the amount of new faces. Everyone is a strangers to one another. A great way to break down the barrier of meeting new people is to meet other students living in the same dorm. Instead of always having the door closed, a great way to meet dorm neighbors is to leave the door open for a few hours during the day. This encourages passerbys in the hall to stop in and socialize. Another way to meet new students for freshmen is the dining halls or restaurants around campus. Sitting down with someone who is sitting alone is a simple way to meet a new face and maybe even a new friend. Extracurriculars are another key way to make friends and have a memorable freshman year. Many schools have club sport teams, clubs for different political and religious groups, or really any kind of interest. And if there isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t a club for it, making one is a great way to show initiative and meet like-minded people in the process. Many specific fields of study have extracurriculars associated with them, which can be a way for freshmen to meet other students in their major. Freshmen year can be a huge change for students coming from the more mundane days of high school, but every student is sure to figure out a few tricks and tips that makes the year work for them. 7 Lindsey Garbacik is a journalism major at the University of Maryland. A graduate of Cedar Cliff High School, she recently completed a summer internship with Harrisburg Magazine.

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Tips to Jumpstart Your College Search By Jacqueline G. Goodwin, Ed. D. Ask yourself some questions. Ask yourself: What am I interested in? How do I spend my free time? What do I feel passionate about? How do I learn best? What do I think I want to do in the future? Decide what matters most to you. For some students, sports and activities are very important. Other students want a challenging academic environment. Look at your answers to the first tip. What do they say about you and what you may like in a college? What's important to you? Ask yourself what’s important to you, where you want to be, and who you want to become. Then you can figure out what types of colleges will allow you to reach your goals. Consider size, location, distance from home, available majors and classes, housing options, student body demographics, available extracurricular activities, and campus atmosphere. Comfort and flexibility. Which of these aspects are things you feel you must have to be comfortable at a college? Which things are you flexible on? Preferences and goals. What do you want to accomplish in college? Do you want to train for a specific job or get a wide-ranging education? If you have a major in mind, are the colleges you’re considering strong in that area? Talk to people who know you. Tell parents, teachers, relatives, family friends and your school counselor about your goals, and ask if they can suggest colleges that may be a good fit for you. Don’t limit your search. At the start of this process, you may rule out colleges because you think that they are too expensive or too hard to get into, but this may not be the reality. Remember that financial aid can make college more affordable and colleges look at more than just grades and test scores. 7

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Where To Wine

Take A Fall Vineyard Adventure By Jacqueline G. Goodwin, Ed. D. • Photos By Danielle Debley

t’s no surprise that the rolling hills of central Pennsylvania are home to numerous wineries since the state ranks fourth nationally in the number of grapes grown and eighth in the production of wine produced. The state’s four-season climate and sprawling farmland allows for a wide variety of grapes. So, for those wondering, “Are there any wineries near me?” Relax, there are. Visiting a winery is a fantastic way to spend a fall day or afternoon with your friends, coworkers, or family, offering the unique opportunity to see beautiful vineyards, taste great wines, and learn all about the wine making process. While summer gives us beautiful, long vacation days to get into our cars and go visit the twelve wineries described below, when the first yellow leaves begin to fall and there’s a chill in the air, it’s the best time to visit. Fall in love with the rich flavors of whites, reds, blends, ciders, sparkling wines, and seasonal selections as you discover what each winery has to offer. Go beyond the tasting and learn about the process. We guarantee that you’ll walk away with a deeper appreciation of wine, from grape to glass. To find out more about additional wineries besides the ones listed below and the 12 wine trails located throughout Pennsylvania, log onto www.PAWineLand.com. The site also has maps and contact information for the more than 150 wineries spread across the state as well as wine tips and wine information. And if you’re on the road, find nearby wineries by using the mobile website at www.pennsylvaniawine.com. 14 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019

Buddy Boy Winery and Vineyard Experience backwoods, hometown hospitality when you visit Buddy Boy Winery and enjoy the many award-winning wines available. Sit back, relax, and stay awhile. Located in Perry County on land that once hosted an apple orchard, schedule a one-hour winery tour, or stop by for a tasting. Check the winery’s events calendar for musical and dining events. 111 Barnett Drive, Duncannon, PA 17020 (717) 834-5606 www.buddyboywinery.com

West Hanover Winery Enjoy award-winning wines, summer concerts, and wine tasting tours by visiting West Hanover Winery, the first and oldest operational winery in Dauphin County. With over 38 varieties, West Hanover Winery creates its wines using knowledge and skills developed with over 45 years of experience. 7646 Jonestown Road, Harrisburg, PA 17112 (717) 652-3711 www.westhanoverwineryinc.com

Cullari Vineyards and Winery Cullari Vineyards and Winery is a small boutique bottler and producer that specializes in both traditional dry and sweet red, white and pink wines, and also some unusual and uniquely crafted grape and fruit wine varieties that are only available at the winery’s tasting rooms. Grape varieties include both vinifera type grapes such as Cabernet Sauvignon and Franc, Merlot, Chardonnay, and hybrid varieties such as Chambourcin, Chancellor and Vidal Blanc. Cullari is also one of the few vineyards in Pennsylvania to grow Zinfandel, Sangiovese, and Barbera. At this time, Cullari Vineyards does not offer tours of the winery or vineyards. 1251 E. Chocolate Avenue, Hershey, PA 17033 (717) 533-8985 www.cullarivineyards.com

The Vineyard and Brewery at Hershey From whimsical and refreshing whites to bold and flavorful reds, and everything in between, The Vineyard at Hershey handcrafts every bottle of wine for the enjoyment of new and the most experienced of palates. In total, the winery produces more than 60,000 bottles of wine and boasts it does so without ever sacrificing its winemaker’s philosophy that the best wines are created with a passionate attention to detail and by growing grapes and producing wine in limited quantities. All of the winery’s artisan wines are designed to be enjoyed young and vibrant, or, for its dry wines, enjoyed cellared and graceful with age.  598 Schoolhouse Road, Middletown, PA 17057 (717) 944-1569 www.vineyardathershey.com

Spring Gate Vineyard and Brewery Spring Gate Vineyard and Brewery is a family owned business, located on 60 acres of farmland between the rolling hills of Lancaster County and Blue Mountain, near Harrisburg. The property dates back to the Revolutionary War and is complete with artifacts from the Indians who roamed it and used its natural springs before then. The property incorporates beautiful fields, streams, orchards, vineyards, and wildlife. The farm has been owned by only three families since the 1740s. Whether you prefer dry wines, crisp semi-sweet, or sweet and hard cider or sparkling wines, Spring Gate has something for everyone. In addition, the farm craft brewery, established in 2015, brews fine craft beers to enjoy by flight, glass or growler and, increasingly, by bottle. 5790 Devonshire Road, Harrisburg, PA 17112 (717) 857-5544 www.springgatevinyard.com

Cassel Vineyards of Hershey Located just minutes from downtown Hershey, Cassel Vineyards offers more than just a wide selection of award-winning wines. The working farm features free roaming peacocks and guineas, a picturesque vineyard, along with mares and foals grazing on the hillside. Stop by to sit on the deck and enjoy the peace and quiet while you share a bottle of wine with a friend. The 12-acre vineyard includes six varieties of grapes: Chambourcin, Cabernet Franc, Chardonnay, Vidal Blanc, Concord, and Niagara. The vineyards and winery are part of the 135-acre Cassel family farm. This farm has been in the Cassel family for five generations has operated since 1903. “Taking what my dad and grandfathers have given us and seeing that my children want to carry this on has been most rewarding,” says owner Craig Cassel. 80 Shetland Drive, Hummelstown, PA 17036 (717) 533-2008 www.casselvineyards.com

CrossWinds Winery at Hershey CrossWinds’ vineyard was planted in the early 1990s and its grapes have produced some very fine wines. The owners, both pilots, have carried out the aviation theme via the winery’s name, labels, and even the décor. CrossWinds offers tastings from Wednesday through Sunday and no appointment is needed. The winery also hosts public and private events, including wine pairing dinners, and Sip and Shop—showcasing local artists, and custom art parties. 621 Hershey Road, Hummelstown, PA 17036 (717) 566-3050 www.crosswindswinery.com HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019 15

J & P Winery and Vineyard J& P Winery, located 1.5 miles from Hollywood Casino, is known for producing wines that reflect the varietal of the grape they're made from. Something for everyone, stop in to discover the taste. From the winery to your table, you'll be sure to enjoy the experience. Now open 7 days a week. Additional hours for special events or private parties can be arranged. 10417 Mountain Road, Grantville, PA 17028 (717) 686-WINE (9463) www.jpwinery.net

Nissley Vineyards & Winery Estate Family-owned and operated, Nissley Vineyards & Winery Estate has been making an assortment of wines for over 30 years. An actual operating winery in a scenic setting, a portion of the tour takes place outside the building, with a short walk to the nearest grape vines. Inside the winery, you will pass among tall wine tanks, as you learn about the wine-making process. In harvest months (late summer and early fall), you are likely to see grapes coming from the vineyards, then being crushed and pressed. In the spring, you are likely to see the bottling operation. Open year-round, tours and tastings are available 40 Vintage Drive, Brainbridge, PA 17502 (717) 426-3514 www.nissleywine.com

The Winery at Hunters Valley Hunters Valley Winery was founded by Bill and Darlene Kvaternik in 1987, starting with a stand along Route 11/15 and then taking the winery and tasting room up the hill, allowing visitors to overlook the vines and the Susquehanna River. Find a bench or just get comfy on the lawn and take in a slice of Americana. The Williams family (who own The Winery at Wilcox and The Winery at Versailles in Ohio) took ownership and reopened in 2015 the place with a slightly tweaked name, The Winery at Hunters Valley and an upgraded wine list. But obviously that view hasn't changed one bit. Open 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. seven days a week. 3 Orchard Road, Liverpool, PA 17045 (717) 444-7211 www.huntersvalleywines.com

5 Schmucks Winery 5 Schmucks Winery is proud to keep things efficient and manageable, allowing the creation of great wines at lower costs. The winery keeps things as small-scale as possible by using 55-gallon stainless steel tanks and small fermentation vessels. Using raw grape juice from all over the world from the finest vineyards for its reds and white wines, 5 Schmucks Wineryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s sweet wines are made with varietal grapes, and are infused with fruit making for a sweeter, lighter wine. Private in-home tastings are available. 118 Prince Street, Harrisburg, PA 17109 (717) 956-7430 www.5schmuckswinery.com 7 16 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019

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BECOMING MORE AWARE

September: Suicide Prevention Awareness Month By Danielle Debley

or those who don’t know, September is National Suicide Prevention Awareness Month. “With the rate of suicide increasing, having awareness is very important. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reports that suicide is the tenth leading cause of death in the United States. One person commits suicide every eleven minutes in this country. It is appalling to think of the loss of life that is occurring as a result, generally, of untreated mental health issues,” says Dr. Yolanda Graham, Senior Vice President and Chief Clinical/Medical Officer of Devereux Advanced Behavioral Health. “I think if we talk about suicide, we also have to talk about the stigma surrounding the treatment of mental illness – and increase

awareness. Many people are suffering in silence, aware that something is wrong, but the idea of reaching out to a therapist or psychiatrist, and that stigma associated with that, prevents people from getting the care that they need. “Within that vein, we see most people suffering from depression reaching out to their primary care providers; in the medical community it is then really important to make sure that those providers are trained in recognizing signs of depression and have training to be able to screen for suicidal thoughts and ideations.” Graham, who is board certified in General Psychiatry, Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, and is an expert in areas such as mental health and child advocacy, notes that not

only are the rates of suicide so high, but what is also extremely concerning is that the rates of suicide in very young people has been increasing exponentially in the United States. “Suicide is the second leading cause of death for young people ages 10 to 34. In this population, what we’re seeing, is that the age of children completing suicide, or thinking of suicide, is occurring at much younger ages. We are now seeing this phenomenon even in elementary and middle school,” explains Graham. High rates of school bullying and cyber bullying, access and exposure to effective means of completing suicide on the internet, and even TV shows that sensationalize suicide all add to the growing trend of ending life at younger and younger ages. “We have to look at this preventatively; how can we provide kids with resources to counteract some of the stress cycles in their daily lives? Recognition of children in this age group is extremely important, in terms of being aware of the signs. Suicide is a hard thing to live through as a survivor for a loved one of any age, but certainly when we see the death of a very young child taking his or her own life, I think the ramifications and emotional impact of that is devastating,” says Graham. According to the CDC, here are some signs to be aware of when interacting with someone you may be concerned about. Warning signs might include: • Talking or writing about wanting to die • Expressing hopelessness • Withdrawing from family and friends • Increased alcohol and drug use • Aggressive behavior • Extreme mood swings • Sleeping too much or too little • Changes in sleeping habits National Suicide Prevention Resources Individuals should never feel that they are alone. The following are resources that Devereux recommends: • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1 (800) 273-TALK (8255) • Crisis Text Line: Text “START” to 741-741 • The Trevor Project: 1 (866) 488-7386 • Trans Lifeline: (877) 565-8860 7

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Cecily, Caragen, Danielle, Teagan, Jamie

Fighting to Prevent Suicide By Danielle Debley March 3, 2010 was a normal day. I had just finished a long day at musical practice; our high school was putting on Fame. I came home bubbly, excited from the time spent with friends and successfully pulling off a dance number which was a huge feat for me...but I came home to a somber atmosphere and some grave news. That day changed my family and my life forever. And yet what happened, gave me something to fight for and be passionate about. I didn't get to know my biological father very well before he was gone. I was able to meet him again for the first time since I was two-years-old, at the end of seventh grade, and boy was I nervous. I had often dreamed of meeting my dad. I had seen home videos from when I was young, and even though I was constantly told not to get my hopes up, I always had that dream in the back of my mind. When I met Gary, it was on a warm sunny day at a local Rita's. I was nervous, scared, excited, experiencing so many emotions all at once. He strolled around the corner with my oldest sister. He was so tall, I couldn't believe it, and he had dark hair and brown eyes, just like me. I don't remember much of what we talked about, but I remember we all laughed together a lot. Suicide is often times a taboo subject, one that triggers emotions for many people who have been affected by it in one way or another. According to AFSP. On average there are about 129 suicides a day and in 2017 alone there were 1,400,000 attempts. So what do I fight for? I fight to end suicide. For a few years now, my family has participated in AFSP's Out of the Darkness Walks. These walks take place in different cities around the country throughout the year. They bring people together to help raise awareness and funds for furthering suicide prevention. We take a day to walk in our community as families, individuals and teams different people from different walks of life who have experienced the loss of a loved one because of suicide. Another great organization that raises awareness for suicide and self harm prevention is Project Semicolon. It is a nonprofit that takes donations to fight the cause. The organization also provides information regarding mental illnesses, suicide, and self harm. Its mission: "Project Semicolon is a global non-profit movement dedicated to presenting hope and love for those who are struggling with mental illness, suicide, addiction and self-injury. Project Semicolon exists to encourage, love and inspire." Many people I know show their support by talking about this project, getting semicolon tattoos, or even making creative content based off of this powerful movement. If depression or thoughts of suicide has been a struggle, please speak up and please reach out. Remember that even though it may not feel like it all the time, there are people around you who love and care for you more than you know.

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Out of the Darkness: Shining a Light on Suicide Prevention By Danielle Debley In September 2010, just six months after my dad had passed, my family and I were walking the streets of Harrisburg alongside so many others whose lives had been touched by the loss of someone to suicide. It seems as though many struggle with no help or voice to speak up. But, there is hope. Every September, in honor of Suicide Prevention Week, AFSP hosts its Out of the Darkness Walk. “Each year, suicide claims more lives than war, murder, and natural disasters combined. Yet suicide prevention doesn't receive anywhere near the funding as other leading causes of death. It's up to Walkers like us to make a difference. Together we can change the conversation about mental health and put a stop to this tragic loss of life.” This statement, found on AFSP’s landing page for its walks, strikes a chord. Through these walks, ordinary people can come alongside ASFP to help raise funds for research that can bring understanding to mental health and hope to preventing suicide. There are options to walk and raise money as a team, an individual, and even a virtual walker. All options help to generate awareness and support for this mission. When you participate in a walk, it gives you a sense of community; you are walking side by side with people that understand the pain and hurt, who understand the shock and even the guilt. You see families and friends celebrating the life that was, and others freshly mourning the soul that has gone. You build each other up, be it with a smile, a nod, the handing out of a water bottle or even an in depth conversation. Honor beads in different colors shine around the necks of each person, every color representing something different: • White: the loss of a child • Red: the loss of a spouse/partner • Gold: the loss of a parent • Orange: the loss of a sibling • Purple: the loss of a relative or friend • Silver: the loss of a first responder/military • Green: a personal struggle or attempt • Teal: supporting someone who struggles or has attempted • Blue: supporting suicide prevention The Out of the Darkness Walk in Harrisburg will take place on Sept. 7 starting on City Island near the FNB Field. Check-in begins at 9 a.m., the program starts at 11 a.m., and the walk will officially begin at 12 noon. Anyone who would like to participate can register in person at the walk from the time check-in begins until the walk starts. Registration is free and open to the public. Donations for the walk will be accepted until Dec. 31 of this year. If you or anyone you know has experienced a loved one lost to suicide, please consider joining a walk or donating to someone who is planning on participating. Fighting for more research and development on raising awareness about suicide and striving to prevent it is key. 7

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SEPTEMBER EVENTS MONTHLY ON THE 3RD FRIDAY 3RD IN THE BURG AROUND THE CITY Various locations around Harrisburg Harrisburg shows off its creative flair with 3rd in the Burg, a celebration of the city’s quickly growing arts and cultural scene. Each month, dozens of venues host special events - exhibits, music, theater, comedy, lectures - throughout Downtown and Midtown. THROUGH OCTOBER 14 PRINCESS PARTY CRUISES 11 Championship Way City Island Harrisburg, PA 17101 $24.50 5:00 - 6:30 PM What a joy for all of the little princesses in the kingdom! This activity-filled ride will have each prospective princess participate in a number of themed

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activities and crafts. This promises to be an absolutely magical evening that you and your children will remember forever! Recommended ages: 3-12 Tickets include riverboat cruise, pizza, snacks, crafts, and all activities aboard the Pride of the Susquehanna. THROUGH OCTOBER 27 ART IN THE WILD EXHIBIT 2019 Wildwood Park 100 Wildwood Way Harrisburg, PA 17110 7 AM - 7 PM Free 717-221-0292 Wildwood Park's Art in the Wild Available daily through October. Visit naturally inspired trailside creations along Wildwood Park's wandering trails and wetlands. Using mostly natural materials, artists have constructed large and small installations. A map-brochure about the exhibit is available. This event listing includes weekends but you can see the displays any day now through October. THROUGH NOVEMBER 9 TOUR-WWII IN GETTYSBURG: THE PEOPLE AND PLACES Free – $35 717-334-9089 www.gettysburgbattlefieldtours.com This year–D-Day’s 75th Anniversary– experience a different side of Gettysburg on a “World War II in Gettysburg” bus tour. Experience moving stories of WWII veterans buried in the Gettysburg National Cemetery; visit a prisoner-ofwar camp and learn why an intelligence camp was located here; hear stories of the Navy’s map-making operation that prepared for the invasion of Japan. Following the 2-hour bus tour, you may take a walking tour of the national cemetery. Tour runs weekly on Saturdays from April 6 through November 9. No tours June 29 to August 3. THROUGH DECEMBER 6 CHILDREN'S STORYTIME The State Museum of Pennsylvania 300 North St. Harrisburg, PA 17120 10:30 - 11:30 AM $7 adults, $6 seniors, and $5 children 1 -11 yrs. 717-787-4980 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019 23

StoryTime is our popular reading series for children aged 3 to 5. Each reading is held in one of our galleries and is followed by a related play activity or exploration of related hands-on artifacts. StoryTime is included with general admission. For more information go to www.statemuseumpa.org. SEPTEMBER 7 HARRISBURG OUT OF THE DARKNESS WALK FNB Field Harrisburg, PA 9:00 AM -1:00 PM When you walk in the Out of the Darkness Walks, you join the effort with hundreds of thousands of people to raise awareness and funds that allow the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) to invest in new research, create educational programs, advocate for public policy, and support survivors of suicide loss. Thanks to Walkers and Donors like you, AFSP has been able to set a goal to reduce the annual suicide rate 20% by 2025. SEPTEMBER 11 AN EVENING WITH SEAN CARROLL Midtown Scholar Bookstore 1302 North Third Street Harrisburg, PA 17102 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM New York Times bestselling author Sean Carroll shows that there are multiple copies of you. And everyone else. Really. This September, the Midtown Scholar Bookstore is thrilled to welcome physicist Sean Carroll to Harrisburg as he presents his new book, Something Deeply Hidden: Quantum Worlds and the Emergence of Spacetime. This event is free and open to the public. SEPTEMBER 13 PAINT A PET WINE GLASS PARTY The Humane Society of Harrisburg Better Homes and Gardens Realty Office, 500 N Progress Avenue, Harrisburg 6 PM-8:30 PM

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Join us for a fun evening painting a wine glass with a furry friend. Our talented artist friend, Karen Spidle, will help you paint your wine glass. We provide all the supplies- just let us know which one you would like to paint (cat or dog and what number) and what color! This event is BYOB! We may have a few baskets to raffle as well. All proceeds go to Humane Society of Harrisburg Area, Inc. and Harrisburg's Great Dog Program, Inc.! SEPTEMBER 14 SHOOTING STAR 5K RUN AND WALK FOR LIFE Harrisburgâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s City Island 8:00 AM Prepare to take some big steps and join hundreds of supporters of life who are working to help women, children and families in Central Pennsylvania. Your support for the 5-K Run and Walk for Life will provide us with the critical resources we need to serve the more than 3500 clients who come to Morning Star for counseling, treatments, ultrasounds and material assistance. With your help, we can reach even more women and families in need! Bring the entire family to Harrisburgâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s City Island on Saturday, September 14. From walkers to runners to wheelchairs and strollers, everyone is welcome to participate in these fun events!

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Visit www.supportmorningstar.com for more information and to register. HUMMELSTOWN ARTS FESTIVAL Downtown Hummelstown 9:00 AM - 4:00 PM An arts and crafts street festival with more than 150 juried crafters and artists. The festival supports area art students. SEPTEMBER 15 CAPITAL REGION HEART WALK City Island (Walnut Street Bridge) 10 N 2nd St Harrisburg, PA 17101 12:30 PM - 4:00 PM Take steps to be Healthy For Good at the American Heart Association’s 2019 Capital Region Heart Walk. Supporting the Heart Walk funds lifesaving science. It also makes your heart healthier. Walk with us and join the fight against heart disease and stroke. The Heart Walk offers a 1-mile or 5K walk and is held rain or shine. Leashed pets are welcome to join their humans at this event. FORT HUNTER DAY Fort Hunter Historic District 5300 N Front St. Harrisburg, PA 17110 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Fort Hunter Day ushers in fall with a free celebration of the old-time way of life. Sponsored by M&T Bank, visitors will find arts and crafts, children’s games and activities, historic demonstrations and exhibits, entertainment, a bake sale, festival food and more. View a butterfly habitat, visit with the PA Honey Queen, see old farm implements and learn about antique clock repair. Learn about native foods – pawpaws, persimmons, hickory and shagbark hickory nuts and sassafras. Visit Heckton Church throughout the day to hear music played by the Saint Thomas Dulcimer Society. View antique tractors and a hammermill with hit & miss engine from private collections. Apple pie bakers cut up the apples and fire up the ovens, may the best apple pie win! Click here for an apple pie contest application. 26 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019

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Archaeologists from the Pennsylvania Historic and Museum Commission will be excavating in the side yard of the Mansion to find the 1750s Fort at Hunter’s Mill. Throughout the day enjoy musical entertainment on the corncrib stage in partnership with the Susquehanna Folk Music Society. Troy Engle and the Southern Skies conclude the afternoon from 2- 4 PM. Sincere thanks to event sponsor M&T Bank and Media Sponsors CBS21 and The CW Central PA for their support of this fun, family day. FREE SEPTEMBER 16 LIFE LION BLADES TO BUNKERS BENEFIT GOLF TOURNAMENT The Country Club of Harrisburg 401 Fishing Creek Valley Rd., Harrisburg 12:00 PM-5:00 PM Join Penn State Hershey Life Lion for Blades to Bunkers, a benefit golf tournament for Penn State Hershey Emergency Medicine and Penn State Hershey Life Lion at Penn State Milton S. Hershey Medical Center. Golfers will enjoy eighteen holes of golf, gift bags, heavy cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, awards, door prizes, a golfer gift provided by sponsor, and much more. Golfers play eighteen holes on the Hershey Country Club–East Course in a scramble format. Funds raised from the tournament help support Penn State Hershey Life Lion emergency services and community-centered activities. SEPTEMBER 21 CELTIC CRAIC MUSICFEST Mechanicsburg Club Picnic Grounds 80 Glendale Drive Mechanicsburg, PA 17050 12:00 PM - 10:00 PM Central PA’s Celtic music festival and Halfway to St Patrick’s Day celebration! Family friendly, lots of bands, traditional and contemporary stages, dancing, bagpipes, food and drink. Proceeds go to charity.

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WWII IN GETTYSBURG: THE PEOPLE AND EVENTS Gettysburg Tour Center 778 Baltimore St., Gettysburg, PA 17325 2:00 AM - 4:00 PM Gettysburg Tours, Inc has partnered with the expert guides of Tigrett Leadership Academy to offer a brand new tour showcasing a different side of Gettysburg military history. Ride along and take a look at the people and places that played a part in the Allied victory in World War II. You will visit a prisoner-of-war camp. Learn why an intelligence camp was located here, training specialized troops for psychological warfare. Hear stories of the navy’s map-making operation preparing for the invasion of Japan, and consider the scrap drive that almost took some of the battlefield’s most famous monuments. Find out what sacrifices Gettysburg’s citizens made to help the war effort. You will also hear moving stories of WWII veterans buried in the national cemetery (yes, the one that Lincoln dedicated). From Pearl Harbor to the Battle of the Bulge to Guadalcanal, these war-time casualties encompass all theaters of the war and all branches of the military service. Key war-time leaders have traveled here to pay their respects including Dwight D. Eisenhower, who chose to move here. Your guide can share details of their visits to Gettysburg, as you see this famous little town from a fresh perspective. SEPTEMBER 21 & 22 HARRISBURG COMIC AND POP CON Harrisburg Mall 3501 Paxton Street Harrisburg, PA 17111 11:00 AM to 7:00 PM The Harrisburg Comic and Pop Con is being held this September 21 & 22 2019 at the Harrisburg Mall. This comic centered show will feature all pop culture genres including tv, movies, anime, and wrestling.

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More than just a con, this show is a great family activity, featuring contests, free family board game play (with 100’s of board games to choose from), fun panels, cos-play with over $1000 in con cash prizes, interactive displays, green screen photo booth, and multiple cosplay groups including GI Joe, Star Trek, Ghostbusters, Superheroes, and Star Wars Jedi Knights. Their guest lineup includes WWE Legend, Jake ‘The Snake’ Roberts, Wrestler Gene Snitsky, Pet Sematary actor, Miko Hughes, Star Trek actor, Chase Masterson and Power Ranger Ciara Hanna. They will also have comic book guests Mark McKenna (X-Men, SpiderMan, Batman artist), Billy Tucci (Marvel and DC Comics along with being the creator of Shi and other Indy Works), Ken Hunt (DC Comics and Indy artist) and more. Buying pre-sale tickets is the cheapest way into the convention and can be found at www.fourstatecon.com . Physical tickets are available at Comics World (Chambersburg), Comic Store West (York), OooWee Art and Gaming Cafe (Harrisburg), and Comic Store PA (Lancaster). Each Ticket comes with 1 free admission of a child 10 and under, and any additional children 10 and under are $5. General admission costs: Entire Weekend: Presale-$18 At Door-$22 Saturday: Presale-$12 At Door-$15 Sunday:Presale-$10 At Door-$12 SEPTEMBER 27 OPERATION TROOP SUPPORT 10TH ANNUAL PA NATIONAL GUARD GOLF TOURNAMENT Manada Golf Course $75 per golfer; $300 per team Registration and entry fee due by Sept. 20 For more information contact Kirk Montrose at 717-265-5607 Fundraising event to support PA National Guard. 10th Year & Still Going Strong Military Care Package donations being collected. 30 HARRISBURG MAGAZINE SEPTEMBER 2019

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GOODWILL TREASURES FUNDRAISER TO BENEFIT GOODWILL KEYSTONE AREA AACA Museum, Inc. 161 Museum Dr., Hersehy PA 6:00 PM - 9:30 PM $125 per person For more information contact bcassel@ yourgoodwil.org Amazing treasures like antiques, collectibles and jewelry are donated to Goodwill throughout the year. Every fall community members are invited to attend our Goodwill Treasures event to enjoy a relaxing dinner and discover a few auction treasures of their own. The evening includes appetizers, dinner and dessert along with an open bar. The funds raised benefit people in your community. Thanks to the generosity of supporters and sponsors, we are able to help people overcome barriers, learn job skills, and gain hope, dignity and independence. SEPTEMBER 28 JOHNNY APPLESEED MAKE AND TAKE EVENT Hollabaugh Brothers Fruit Farm and Market 545 Carlisle Road, Biglerville, PA 17307 10:00 AM Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time to celebrate Johnny Appleseedâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 245th Birthday! Join us for a very special apple-themed make and take event for the kids. They will make a Johnny Appleseed Book and learn all about this famous American, and also make an apple pinch pot out of clay to remind them all about apples all year long! Cost is $10 per child. No registration necessary. Show up anytime between 10am and Noon. Please pay at the register when you come and then head to the Bee Room to start. For more information visit www.destinationgettysburg.com/event/ details/13670 7

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Central PA's Premier Wedding Guide Fall 2019

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What 's Your Ring Personality?

Traditional

Glamorous

You love the classics, those timeless styles that are here to stay. Round or princess diamonds and white gold are your perfect matches.

You live to dress up and show off your style. When you enter a room, heads turn, and you love the attention. Emerald and marquise diamonds are shapes that will showcase your personality.

Adventurous It's all about the journey and you'd love a ring that is ready for the adventure. Alternative metals, such as cobalt or chrome and stainless steel are durable to match your active life. A round-cut diamond solitaire is also a good fit.

Romantic You want to show the world your love. The design of your ring is very personal. Heart shapes and rose gold are made for romantics, since they symbolize love. Cushion cuts are another option.

Independent Daring and unique, you are all about yourself. Since you make your own path, a spinel ring is a great choice. Let your jewler design a custom ring especially for you. A radiant or pear-shaped diamond is a fitting complement to your independent nature.

Trendsetter You love the latest styles and wedding rings are no exception. Partner up with an oval, cushion, or trillion-shaped diamond. Add a pop of color like sapphire and you'll be ready to say, "I do." 6 WEDDING PENN SEPTEMBER 2019

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&Veils

Rails

The Rusty Rail Brewing Company began with a group of passionate craft beer drinkers and a shared dream. In 2013, that dream became a reality with a small batch of beer brewed in the parking lot outside of the brewery, a restored Model T-Body factory in Mifflinburg. Fast forward to 2019. The Rusty Rail Brewing Company is now the perfect venue for any wedding ceremony or reception. "Our restored, rustic setting offers you a unique atmosphere that you cannot find anywhere else. From original wood floors and exposed brick, to 15-foot ceilings and hand-painted murals, you and your guests will be in awe from the moment you arrive," says Roxanne Kopelcheck, event director. "Our professional event team will help you plan the wedding reception you always dreamed of. From intimate 4 WEDDING PENN SEPTEMBER 2019

to upscale, we will help you plan an individualized reception that will match your personality, your style, and your budget." Elyssa Snyder is the brewery's official wedding planner. "She works with the couples throughout the whole process and takes each couple's vision and turns it into a one of a kind day. Plus, she does this with patience and genuine caring," says Kopelcheck. "I, myself, almost want to get married again just to have her create an unforgetable day. Who knows? I might renew my vows." With three different areas that serve food the Rusty Rail has a variety of menu selections. The event department has a large catering menu and the Brew Pub offers a full menu as well as a fabulous brunch menu. The brewery's Game Room Bar on the second floor offers a

grown-up version of bar food that makes an everyday grilled cheese sandwich look boring. The Rusty Rail distributes beer in six states and has a craft beer presence in Central PA. "The craft beer following has built our wedding business from fourteen different states," says Kopelcheck. We litereally had a couple try our beer in Maryland, schedule a tour on Sunday, and book their wedding on a Wednesday!

Rusty Rail Brewing Co. 5 North Eighth Street, Suite 1, Mifflinburg, PA (570) 966-6470 www.rustyrailbrewingco.com

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Selecting Your Wedding DJ It's a fact. The DJ you choose for your wedding will definitely play a vital role on your big day. More than just playing music to fill the dance floor, a wedding DJ has many jobs to do. That’s why hiring a professional is totally worth it. You really don't want someone who will create a Spotify playlist, plug an iPhone into some speakers, and call it a day. You want a professional who knows the ropes, is within your budget, and is reputable. Here are two top-rated DJs who fit the bill.

Jason Klock has been woking events as a DJ for over 15 years. Klock, owner of Klock Entertainment, says not only does his company provide DJ services for weddings and receptions, it also offers lighting, design, photo booths, coordination, and high-end production elements to make that special day memorable for both brides and grooms and their guests.

Mike Miller, owner of Mixed-Up Productions has been a DJ since he was 12 years old. "It started with a Sweet 16 dance then grew to a community pool party called "Teen Night," says Miller. One thing led to another, and in 2007 I rebranded the company, called it Mixed-Up Productions, and then started to expand by adding members to the team."

"We don’t just show up," says Klock. "We work with couples to learn their vision, guiding them through all of the formalities, family traditions, and the needs and wants they may have. We use this information to build the soundtrack, provide the lighting scenes perfect for their venue and their design, along with including production elements to create extra magic during those special moments."

Mixed-Up Productions' main focus is its DJ services. "That’s what we started as so we want to make sure that’s what we are great at. We offer lighting services for all types of events and include uplighting, monogram lighting, club style lighting the list goes on. It’s a lot of fun when we can come into a room and do a complete transformation with our lighting. We provide photo booths to our clients as well. We currently have four different types of photo booths. Our production side is constantly growing so we can help assist clients that have these requests on a larger scale."

Klock says his team works full-time. "This isn’t a part-time job for us. We fully invest into all of our couples for weddings and all of our clients for corporate and live events," he says. "We are passionate about the details and always excited to create the magic." Over the years, Klock Entertainment has worked with thousands of wedding couples to plan their wedding receptions. "We continue to be trendsetting for our market," Klock adds. "We are industry leaders as well providing education, sponsoring industry events and paying it forward to other DJ and wedding vendors at all times, sharing everything we know and helping to grow the industry as a whole and locally. "Most importantly, we sincerely love what we do." 1310 Crooked Hill Rd., Suite 100 • Harrisburg, PA 17110 (717)-717-836-7366 www.klockentertainment.com 6 WEDDING PENN SEPTEMBER 2019

Miller and his team work with the bride and groom to make their reception special. "The most important thing is to make them feel confident in their choice of our company and making sure they know that they are the main focus. We don’t make the reception about us. We help create that energetic vibe at the event that guests are looking for. They come to a wedding or event to have fun, and we provide the soundtrack for that," says Miller. "Our goal is to make sure when guests leave the event, they talk about it more than any other event they’ve ever been to." 2700 Turnpike Industrial Dr, Middletown, PA 17057 (717) 982-6646 www.mixedupproductions.com

Radisson Hotel Harrisburg

(717) 763-7117 1150 Camp Hill Bypass, Camp Hill, PA 17011

www.radissonhotels.com

Rusty Rail Brewing Co.

(570) 966-6470 5 North Eighth Street, Ste 1, Mifflinburg, PA

www.rustyrailbrewingco.com

Peter Allen House

(717) 921-1726 1801 Peters Mountain Rd, Dauphin, PA 17018

www.thepeterallenhouse.com

Linwood Estates

717-842-0562 93 Encks Mill Road Carlisle PA 17015

www.linwoodestate.com

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Your Wedding Cake

lassic tiered cakes crowned with fresh flowers are never out of style. But there are lots of ways to freshen up tradition or even stray from it entirely, while still serving a sweet that is timeless, delicious and unique. The Look. The look and feel of your wedding cake should match the rest of your wedding day, whether it's classic elegance, rustic romance or whimsical fun. As you style your dessert, think about what speaks to you as a couple and what sets you apart. If you have a uniquely sweet and personal idea, seek out a professional who can bring your vision to reality. Tiered Style. Whether your wedding is better suited to a cake with exposed layers of butter cream or a fully-frosted tower of elegance, the classic tiered shape can adapt to many styles. Think ruffles to glimmering metallic luster to colorful, illustrative designs. Painted or fondant monogramming and lace details are also elegant. While a lone-tiered cake can be 8 WEDDING PENN SEPTEMBER 2019

beautiful by itself, consider placing a few smaller tiered cakes at staggered heights, or one large tiered cake surrounded by cupcakes. A Little Variety. For a special touch, pair your cake with other sweets. Consider cookies, candies, or even ice cream sundaes with a well-stocked toppings bar. Love donuts? A display of these beloved confections can also be fun and whimsical. Finding a Bakery. Go with your gut and choose the dessert you deem the tastiest. Attend food tastings and take notes. Factor in the bakery's efficiency and professionalism. Talk to your friends. Know that wedding cakes are typically priced by the slice, depending on the style, ingredients, size and embellishments. The First Bite. If you decide on a traditional cake, make sure you have a knife and lifter ready to go. Traditionally, the bride grasps the knife with her right hand and the groom covers her hand with his as they cut the cake together.

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Your Grand Exit the environment, but plenty of shops now sell their own eco-friendly confetti. Buy small cones of the colorful décor and you’ve got yourself a beautiful celebration! • Ribbon wands. Don’t like the idea of anything being thrown at you as you make your exit? Give guests colorful ribbon wands to wave around as you pass by. They still make for great photos and bonus – there’s no mess to clean up.

RECEPTION As your party cheers you on as you run through a tunnel of people, here are a few fun elements you can incorporate for your send off. • Sparklers. Sparklers are a classic exit choice. These bright pieces will add a fun element to your photos. • Balloons. Make a colorful exit by releasing some balloons during your send off. Just be sure to use eco-friendly ones. This option is best used during daytime send offs.

CEREMONY Though rice throwing as you exit your ceremony has been a tradition for many years, myths about its impact on birds and other animals have risen to the surface. Whether or not they hold any value is one thing, but some people also don’t fancy getting the smack-down from a handful of rice. Here’s a little list of some fun alternatives. • Bubbles. Bubbles are simply known for sparking joy, so why not use them on the most joyful day? Not only are they fun, but they can create some great shots for your photographer to capture. Try dressing up a bubble wand case with a personalized message and 10 WEDDING PENN SEPTEMBER 2019

it can double as a perfect gift for your guests to keep. • Flower petals. You can take a few of your extra petals and place them in baskets for guests to grab. This pulls in an element of your details and can also cut an extra expense of getting something else to throw. • Dried herbs. For those who love all things natural, throwing dried spices and herbs can be a great alternative. Try getting small sachets of lavender or sage for a sweet smelling send off. • Confetti. Many will argue that this is not a great alternative for

• Lanterns. Get your Disney vibes on by releasing beautiful lanterns into the night sky. This is a fun way to incorporate your guests in a little activity and to capture some amazing photos. • Glow sticks. Want some added color to your night time exit? Instead of sparklers, opt for a more vibrant choice - glow sticks! With a few magic camera tricks, you’ll have a fun array of photos for your album. • Leaves. Though it may seem a little underwhelming or unorthodox, for all the lovers of fall out there, this one is for you! Have guests grab a handful of leaves (fabric or real, up to you) and give them a toss as you make your exit. There are plenty more options for your final send off that you can choose, but these were just a few of our favorites.

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