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Issue 18 - Sept.2 - Sept.15, 2021

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RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars | Miami Beach Pride | Deep Inside Hollywood Feature: The Ex Factor: How to Forge a Friendship From a Bad Romance Feature: Interior Design Hacks for Budget Conscience First Time Home Buyers | Hot Bodies Out with Scott / What’s Hot | Scott Holland’s Guide to Events • Pix Page | Hamburger Mary’s Grand Opening Pix Page | thePUB • Names & Faces | Rich Walczak • Hot Eats Hot Places • Feature | Disney on Ice Presents Mickey’s Search Party • Hot Advice

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WHAT’S HOT WHO•WHAT•WHEN•WHERE

By Scott Holland

SEPT 02 -SEPT 15

Q-Force Jon Lovitz

Thursday, September 2 Netflix premiere's Q-Force today, a 10episode arc that will feature Sean Hayes, Gary Cole, David Harbour, Patti Harrison, Laurie Metcalf, Matt Rogers, Wanda Sykes, and Gabe Liedman Synopsis: Steve Maryweather, AKA Agent Mary, was once the Golden Boy of the American Intelligence Agency (AIA), until he came out as gay. Unable to fire him, the Agency sent him off to West Hollywood, to disappear into obscurity. Instead, he assembled a misfit squad of LGBTQ+ geniuses. Joining forces with the expert mechanic Deb, master of drag and disguise Twink, and hacker Stat, together they're QForce. But, after a decade of waiting for their first official mission from The AIA, Mary becomes hell-bent on proving himself to the Agency that turned its back on him, and decides to go rogue with Q-Force. After finding their own case, and solving it on

their own terms, they get the reluctant approval of The AIA, and are officially upgraded to Active Secret Agents in the field. But, that approval comes with one major caveat-F9 they must put up with a new member of the squad: straight-guy Agent Buck. For more information go to netflix.com/QForce. Friday, September 3 Strikingly beautiful, visually stunning scenes from marine expeditions around the world by renowned artist, conservationist, scientist and entrepreneur Dr. Guy Harvey are featured in a new exhibition on display at the Miami International Fine Arts (MIFA) Gallery (5900 NW 74th Ave. in Miami), in September. Dr. Harvey is scheduled to attend the exhibition's opening reception on tonight from 7 to 10 p.m. Much of the original artwork on display is from Guy Harvey's Underwater World, Dr. Harvey's fifth book and most recently released memoir. Books will be available for purchase and signing. The reception is free and open to the public and no reservation is required. For additional details, visit

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Dr. Guy Harvey

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SunServe mifagallery.com or contact info@mifamiami.com. The MIFA gallery exhibition is open Monday through Friday from 9:30am to 4:30pm, and Saturdays from 9:30am to 4pm from September today through September 30 Special appointments outside of working hours can be made by contacting

The Lake Worth Playhouse presents The Great American Trailer Park Musical from today through September 12. There's a new tenant at Armadillo Acres – and she's wreaking havoc all over Florida's most exclusive trailer park. The story has, at its center, a love triangle between an agoraphobic, a highway toll collector and an exotic dancer with an unhinged exboyfriend. A Greekchorus-eque trio of trailer park women helps guide the narrative, playing any character or gender they choose while breaking the fourth wall at whim to air their own dirty laundry. The result is a sense of informality and community – the lifeblood of neighborhoods everywhere. All seats, which are available at Lakeworthplayhouse.org or by calling 561-586-6410 are $35 with a dinner and Show Packages at $55 and $75. Saturday, September 4 Join SunServe for their annual body positive celebration for all body types from 5 to 8 pm. This year they have teamed up with Broward College - BC Pride to present a fun day on the lake in Dania Beach FL. Enjoy traditional beach activities and a backyard cookout style dinner. You'll also be able to participate in a host of aquatic challenges all supervised by qualified lifeguards. This is all FREE to you with the generous support from Broward College BC Pride! Although this is a FREE event, you must register online at Sunserve.org to receive location details and entry ticket.

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The Pub presents their monthly Decades show at 9pm hosted by Alexis Couture with guests Erika Norell, Candy Cox and Anna Recital. Gary Santis events presents the 23rd annual Black Fort Lauderdale (the largest gay fetish party) at The Manor Complex. Doors open at 10pm and in the Empire Room catch the sounds of DJ's Abe and Tony Moran, along with spectacular shows, productions and dancers. In the Ivy and Windsor rooms Noche Latina Saturdays features the sounds of guest DJ Larry Larr along with shows by Sasha Lords and her dancers and Oscar Novva. Sunday, September 5 Lady Marisa returns to The Pub with her Variety Show from 2-4pm featuring drag and live singers with this months special guests Lola, Shasta McNastie and Zay.

Urge Miami as the global pandemic shut down the world around her, “Thank You" - Her first new original studio recordings in more than two decades, offers a powerful, inclusive musical message of love and togetherness. Ms. Ross co-wrote and collaborated on the 13 songs along with award-winning songwriters and producers including: Jack Antonoff (Taylor Swift / Lana Del Ray) , Troy Miller (Rag and Bone man / Laura mvula), Triangle Park (Kendrick Lamar, Kanye West), Spike Stent (U2, Beyonce, Madonna), Prince Charlez (Rihanna, Usher), Amy Wadge (Ed Sheeran, Kylie), Neff-U (Michael Jackson, Dr Dre, Justin Bieber), Freddie Wexler (Ariana Grande, Justin Bieber, Halsey & Marshmello), Jimmy Napes (Sam Smith,

Hilton Wolman returns with his iconic “Urge” party with the theme Fight Club, and 1 ticket gets you two sensational events. This is an Outdoor event early from 5-11pm and slugging it out under the stars is Dani Brasil and Hansell Leyva and then from 11pm to late go indoors where Hilton presents the world title matchup of DJs Isaac Escalante and Tom Stephan. Urge takes place at 4000 NW 36th Avenue, Miami and to purchase tickets go to Urgemiami.com. Friday, September 10 Recorded in Diana Ross's own home studio,

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Black Fort Lauderdale

Disclosure, Clean Bandit), Tayla Parx (Ariana Grande), Fred White, and Nathanial Ledgewick. The new album, out today on Decca Records/Universal Music Group marks the beginning of an exciting new chapter in the unparalleled career of Diana Ross. For more information, go to DianaRoss.com. Inspired by a true story, QUEENPINS is an outrageous comedy about a bored and frustrated suburban homemaker, Connie (Kristen Bell) and her best pal JoJo (Kirby Howell-Baptiste), a vlogger with dreams, who turn a hobby into a multi-milliondollar counterfeit coupon caper. After firing off a letter to the conglomerate behind a box of cereal gone stale, and receiving an apology along with dozens of freebies, the duo hatch an illegal coupon club scheme that scams millions from mega-corporations and delivers deals to legions of fellow coupon clippers. On the trail to total coupon dominance, a hapless Loss Prevention Officer (Paul Walter Hauser) from the local supermarket chain joins forces with a determined U.S. Postal Inspector (Vince Vaughn) in hot pursuit of these newlyminted “Queenpins” of pink collar crime. In Theaters today and Coming Soon to Paramount+ Sunday, September 12 The Pub presents Boozy Belters from 2 to 4pm starring Miss Bouvee and Jennifer McClain. Tuesday, September 14 The MDGLCC presents their "Spotlight Mega-Mixer" benefitting Miami Beach Pride @ Mondrian South Beach Hotel from 79pm. Mingle and network with members of

the Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, guests, and the community at large. Cocktails and Open Bar courtesy of Bacardi. Complimentary food bites and drawing for great prizes including a chance to ride on the Chamber float in the Miami Beach Pride Parade (9/19). Music by Event Party Productions and photography by Bonnelly Films. Admission is only $10 for chamber members and $20 for others. Island City Stage will host their very own Behind the Red Curtain community forum entitled “Law Enforcement and the LGBT+ Community – Where are we today?” from 6 to 7:30 p.m., at its theatre (2304 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors). This presentation coincides with the kickoff of Island City Stage's 10th anniversary 202122 Season with The Twentieth Century Way by Tom Jacobson this October. This true-story scandalous period drama chronicling the 1914 Long Beach sex scandal launched the theatre company's award-winning decade-long run. This free, public event will review the advancements of South Florida law enforcement in how they interact with the LGBT+ community and promote diversity and inclusion, internally. Guest panelists will include Lieutenant Paul Auerbach of Broward Sheriff's Office, Assistant Chief of Police Darren Brodsky of Wilton Manors Police Department, Captain Michael Dodson of Fort Lauderdale Police Department, FAU Professor Emeritus and author Fred Fejes, PhD. and Trans Advocate Kat Rios. This forum is supported by Equality Florida and the GLBX Council of the Greater Fort Lauderdale Chamber of Commerce.Behind the Red Curtain is a free public forum. Guests may attend in-person or participate virtually. Registration is required by visiting Islandcitystage.org.

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OUT WITH SCOTT

By Scott Holland

the entire staff on a hugely successful grand opening weekend. (Pictured Drtox with WMEG's own Cederic)

On Thursday August 19, The Pub and Kimberly Venom (Miss Florida F.I. at Large 2019/20 presented the return of The Miss Pub, Mr Pub And Miss Pub at Large Pageants. It was a fun night with lots of great special entertainers. Congrats to the new court Leila Cox, William Le Paige and Taquoya Love Dupree, and to Kimberly, Muchael, Alex, Tim, and the entire Pub team for a fabulous pageant! Saturday night August 28 wwe headed over to Hamburger Marys Wilton Manors for their Grand Opening weekend featuring the talents of RuPaul's Drag Race superstar Detox and hostess Kewels who rocked the microphone. Congrats to Dale Runen and

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Afterwards we headed over to The Manor and as usual it was packed in all the rooms. DJ Alex Acosta rocked the Empire Room and DJ Duniel kept the Latin room busy all night long. While there we hung out with Gerard and his family who was celebrating his birthday thePUB in the VIP, and then later on Detox, Jewels and some of the staff of Hamburger Marys came over and we were hanging out with them.

Hamburger Marys

RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars Season 6 • Episodes 10 & 11

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Ru-demption & Trinity

Episode 10 starts out with Carson coming on the TV screen and saying “Welcome to the Secret RU-demption secret smackdown...it was so secret you had no clue it was happening.” What is this all about? Well the eliminated queens were lip synching amongst each other every episode to see who would eventually get back into the competition. Week 2 - Serena goes up against Giggly and Giggly wins Week 3 - Giggly goes up against Silky and Silky wins Week 4 - Silky goes up against Yara and Silky wins Week 5 - Silky goes up against Scarlet and Silky wins Week 6 - Silky was supposed to go up against A'keria, but she declines the second 24 | HotspotsMagazine.com

chance to get back into All Stars in a very respectful way. Therefore, Silky automatically advances but asks for the chance to lip synch anyways and they allow her. All I can say is she TURNS THE PARTY!! Week 7 - Silky goes up against Jan, and although they were both amazing, Silky wins again. Week 8 - Silky goes up against Pandora, and Silky wins again. Week 9 - Silky goes up against Eureka, and Eureka wins (in my opinion it should have been Silky) and gets to re-enter the competition. Episode 11 starts out with Ru telling the top 5, that during Pride celebrations everyone gets to let loose except drag queens, so for today's mini challenge they need to customize an outfit that is pride

perfect and then they will have a pride photo op. The winner of the mini challenge is Kylie Sonique Love, and she wins Levi's entire 2021 Pride collection. For the Maxi challenge the girls need to entertain Ru with true stories from their drag career on a new show they are calling the “Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve, and Talent Monologues.” Joining Ru, Michelle and Carson on the main stage is Justin Simien. The runway category is “Oops I did it again, a fashionable fashion fail.” Eureka wins and gets $5,000 from Levi's and they also donate $5,000 to Outright Action International. Ru then tells the girls that they are at that point in the competition that if you are not the top all-star, then you are in the bottom. The Lip Synch assassin this week is Jaida Essence Hall, and Jaida won and the group sent home Trinity. It was, once again, a pleasure to sit down with Trinity for this exclusive Hotspots Interview: How has your life changed since you were on Drag race the first time? Oh my god, drastically. It has just been very exciting as I have gotten many opportunities and met many people that I

would have never had the chance to meet if it wasn't for Drag Race. I also feel like I have grown in my artistry. In addition, now I have a home. What has been some of your favorite places to visit as a RuPaul Alumni? Australia, and any time I go to LA its amazing as everyone lives there. I also love New York City. How exciting was it to get called back to All Stars for a second time and did you consider not coming back? I was very excited, but very panicky. At the time I wasn't doing too well with my living situation, but I had to go. I would have been foolish to say no. How did you prepare differently for AllStars than you did your first time on Drag Race? The first time I was way more prepared as I happened to have everything in my closet they asked for. This time I had to work a lot harder to get everything either made, and I borrowed or rented a lot of things. It was much harder for me this time around, but it paid off. . Is there anything you would have done differently? No, not really. I think I gave it my all. What challenge or look on All Stars are you most proud of? The Brazil look as I love the Brazilian people and culture. I did it for the Brazilian people as I know how much they support the show. Which was your favorite season; Season 6 or All Stars 6 and why? All Stars 6 because I prefer Trinity now than I did then. You are well known in the Pageantry world and everyone talks about your Continental talents. Are you planning on going back to Continental? Yes, I will be competing next week. What's Ahead for Trinity? Hopefully a business as I want to start a beauty bar. I want to be able to do drag when I want to, not when I have to. Is there anything I didn't ask you that you want to talk about? Yes, I was not mad the last episode, I was just tired. For more information on Trinity, follow her at Instagram.com/trinitykbonet

miami beach

PRIDE

2021

ALL YOU NEED

to KNOW Compiled by Scott Holland

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The board of Miami Beach Pride did not want to let two years go by with a pride celebration, so they are producing the 2021 event from September 10-19, but fret not it goes back to their original dates in April for 2022. There are tons of events happening over the 10-day celebration, and below is a listing of some of the major ones: Friday, September 10

Pride Lights the Night Flip the Switch Event at

1111 Lincoln Road at 7:30pm

Saturday, September 11

The Kickoff Party is Sweet Spot: Miami Beach

Pride Edition from 5-11pm. Sweet Spot Confectioners of Joy and two of Miami's

favorites, Deanne and Pride will be pumping a joy-inducing blend of modern and classic house, vintage jams and nudisco flavor. The award-winning LGBTQ icon, Singer/Songwriter/Producer/DJ Ultra Naté will be joining the Sweet Spot duo as special guest DJ to bring her brand of house music deliciousness and flavor to the party. Set off by a 360° panoramic view of Miami Beach on the stunning new Palomar Hotel rooftop (1750 Alton Rd), a Miami sunset on full display, exciting performances, electrifying dancers and an eclectic blend of house music lovers and party people, this Miami Beach Pride Week kick-off event is certain to create a VIBE that is too SWEET to miss. General Admission: $35 in advance and $40 at the door. VIP Experience: $100 (access to VIP lounge with unlimited Tito's, Jack and other cocktails). Cabana Access: $600 (includes poolside Cabana area for your group, 1 bottle of Tito's plus mixers, refreshing nibbles and access to the VIP lounge). 21+ EVENT

Sunday, September 12

Kick-off pool party at the playful oceanfront oasis, The Confidante Miami Beach (4041 Collins Ave). Ticket holders can take a dip, indulge in tasteful bites and cocktails (available for purchase) from The Backyard poolside bar and revel in daytime sounds by DJ Ralphi Rosario with an opening set by DJ TONYYNOT. VIP ticket holders will have access to the exclusive VIP DJ Lounge at the Carmen Miranda Ballroom Terrace overlooking the pool deck with light bites and unlimited Tito's cocktails. For a more extravagant, retro-glam experience, group cabana or bungalow tickets are available. Cabana reservations include access to the VIP lounge, a bottle of Tito's with mixers, lounge seating, food and beverage service and towel service for up to six people with access to VIP DJ Lounge and unlimited Tito's cocktails. Bungalow reservations include Tito's bottle service, a dedicated pool attendant,

food and beverage service and towel service for up to 10 guests with access to VIP DJ Lounge and unlimited Tito's cocktails. The spacious and private built-in bungalows offer plush seating, large HDTV, a safe box, phone charging ports, a fan and a mini fridge.

Monday, September 13

Pride Flag Raising Ceremony at Miami Beach City Hall at 5pm; Free

Queer Art Showcase

They are producing an immersive art experience by local LGBTQ+ artists in an effort to grow, promote and increase the visibility of South Florida queer artists to educate and develop meaningful interactions between artists and community attendees. Women, BIPOC and LGBTQ+ disabled artists are underrepresented and are encouraged to apply. Presented to the general public for free from 7-10pm, at the glamorous Eden Roc, designed in 1955 by famed architect Morris Lapidus. The event will include

photography, paintings, a book-reading and a workshop on self-publishing and will feature the work of Askenaxi, Jose Blanco, Jonathan Brooks, Leslie Cohen, Leslie Anne Frye-Thomas, Junior Jimenez, Chris Ochoa, David Sexton, Elias Smith, Julian Uquillas and more. Come celebrate the art of the South Florida queer community. All proceeds of art sales go directly to the artist. Buy some art and enjoy an affordable range of bar bites and crafted beverages at the cash bar while enjoying a fabulous live playlist by DeeJay Smeejay.

Tuesday, September 14

The Miss Miami Beach Pride pageant. Come

witness this unforgettable event as Florida's fiercest queens, diva it out to compete for the prestigious title of Miss Miami Beach Pride from 6pm to 12am. This incredible lineup of ladies will be put to the test, as they showcase their hottest outfits, outrageous stunts and showstopping performances live on stage. There will be six categories the

contestants will be judged upon including Presentation (Show Your Pride), Swimwear, Evening Gown, Questions and Answers and Talent. Hosted at Miami Beach's Faena Theatre, this night of glamour will also showcase jaw-dropping performances from former Miss Miami Beach Pride winners, including our reigning queen, Estephania St. Lords. Tickets, which start at $25 are available at Miami BeachPride.com

Thursday, September 16

Legends Ball - Serve Strut and Sashay all night to the throbbing beats and melodic vibrations of the ballroom voguing scene at Miami Beach Pride's inaugural vogue event. This will be an all-encompassing homage to our South Florida ball community and vogue aficionados. They invite ALL houses local, national and international to join them for this epic display of ball culture taking place at 8pm at 1235 Washington Avenue. Legends Ball will feature a lavish line-up of celebrity guest judges including the iconic nightlife impresario Susanne Bartsch, and will be hosted by Jason Rodriguez from FX's

smash hit POSE where he plays Lemar Wintour. Sign up to compete if you or your house has what it takes to claim 1st place and take-home cash, trophies and the title of House Supreme! Tickets start at $35.

Friday, September 17

VIP Gala at 1235 Washington (Formally

Mansion Nightclub) from 7-10pm Dress to impress at this elegant signature event hosted by iconic American television personality, actor, and designer Carson Kressley. Superstar iconic fashionista Adora will be spinning tunes while featuring jawdropping surprises, special celebrity guests, an open bar and delicious passed hors d'oeuvres. This red carpet affair is a celebration for our cherished community members who show their pride all year long! Tickets are $150.

Jake Resnicow's Secret Garden

Get lost in the urban oasis: The Secret Garden. Indulge in the forbidden fruit or get struck by Cupid's arrow and find

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the Adam to your Steve. Music by Dan Slater (Australia) + Danny Verde (Italy). Prepare for a multi-sensory experience as they immerse you in music, art, and love.

Saturday, September 18

Festival Day 1 starts at 12 noon. Nowhere is

the spirit of Pride and enthusiasm more apparent than during the extraordinary two-day Festival in Lummus Park, Miami Beach. Guests can enjoy music and performances from world-class DJs, entertainers and celebrity entertainers on two stages along with vendor booths, food, and a finale of fireworks. Pride Amenities - Festival Village with Expo; “Garden of Eve” Women's Space, Lambda Legal Senior Lounge sponsored by PNC Bank, Transgender Safe Space, Youth Safe Zone activation, Calming Pavillion, Interactive pet-experience activation, Two main entertainment stages highlighting diverse Headliner performances from local/national/global artists. Latin Stage Features: DJ Alex Infiniti, DJ Laura D, Maritrini, DJ Sushiman, Nitty Scott,

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Fly Kingi, Rob. B, Solomon Ray, and Paulina Rubio. Pop Stage Features - DJ HotPants, Wynwood Show, DJ Bill James, Celebrity Cruises Show, Davis Mallory, Host/MC Lucy Lopez, DJ TonYNot, Bobby Newberry, Teraj

Sunday, September 19

Parade Starts at 11am at Ocean Drive from 5th

to 15th Street featuring former American professional football player and Voice contestant Esera Tuaolo as their Advocate Marshall and the Chairman and Chief Creative Officer of iHeartLatino and a parade of 50+ floats and walking participants is sure to be a delight for all ages. Festival Day 2 starts at noon and features the same Pride Amenities as day. Dance Stage Features DJs Hex Hector and Cindel. Pop Stage Features - DJ Guy Scheiman, Bentley Jones *Virtual*, Crystal Waters, Celebrity Cruises Show, Host Latrice Royale, Latrice Royal Show, DJ Tracy Young, Walk The Moon and Closing Fireworks.

Esera Tuaolo

Advocate Marshall

Jake Resnicow's Sunday Pool Party - Heat!

Have fun in the sun and get slayed in the shade as HEAT! returns — taking over the incredible Clevelander Pool and Patio — right on Ocean Drive, making a splash with beats by Dani Brasil (Brazil) and Joe Pacheco (Puerto Rico).Ranked one of South Beach's Top 5 Pool Party Spots, get ready for a massive production kicking off at 12pm with the BEST views of the Parade and continuing thru sunset with state-of-the-art lights, sound and LEDs — right on Ocean & 10th Street. VIP tickets include express entry to skip line, Private VIP Lounge, free snacks and extra perks. Tickets start at $45.

HAPPY PRIDE! ------------------------For information on other events, to purchase tickets or for anything else, please go to: Miamibeachpride.com

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By Mike Jeknavorian

Rich Walczak

Executive Director of Miami Beach Pride Rich Walczak—by way of Philadelphia and Australia, and then with a stint in the music industry—has been the executive director of Miami Beach Pride since October 2019. But although his tenure with the organization was disrupted by the pandemic, Walczak and his pride colleagues are now ready to pull South Florida, albeit it safely, from the precipice of Covid-fatigue into the fabulousness that is Miami Beach Pride.

What's your claim-to-fame? I'm the executive director of Miami Beach Pride. Where did you grow up? In Philadelphia. What do you miss about Philadelphia? The people—my friends and family—who I don't get to see on a regular basis. How long have you lived in South Florida? For two years. Why did you move here? For the position with Miami Beach Pride. What part of South Florida do you live in? In the North Beach area. 46 | HotspotsMagazine.com

Where do you hang out in South Florida? I haven't found my go-to's yet, as I moved here just before the big Covid shutdown. What's your favorite restaurant in South Florida? Currently, me and my husband both love Crudos Fusion in Wynwood. What South Florida venue do you miss that's gone? I'm only just now getting to explore more post-pandemic! What's the best place that you ever lived? Australia is and always will hold a place in my heart.

If you had to live somewhere else other than here, where would you live? The Mediterranean. Which one of your old jobs least prepared you for what you do now? I worked as a cashier in an adult store in Australia while doing my master's degree. How long have you been the executive director of Miami Beach Pride? Since October of 2019. What's been the biggest challenge of producing this year's pride? It's been a rough ride with Covid. We had cancellation losses, had to keep the organization alive, and we had to ensure the safety of our community. But we still have to give the best possible pride that we can under the circumstances. What aspect are you most excited about for this year's pride? To be able to give our community something again. For so many, pride is the only time that they can truly be themselves, and it hurt us all when prides all over the world had to cancel last year.

What's the theme for the main stage decor at this year's pride? This year we're focusing on “One Love,” and coming together after and during hard times. The decor is going to be fabulous! What entertainer would you love to see at Miami Beach Pride? I think we need Cher to bring back her Final, Last, Finally Final Tour and tour the prides (laughs). What's been the most moving experience that you've had at Miami Beach Pride?

Launching our Faces of Pride campaign and hearing the stories and struggles of everyday queer individuals from our community. We're all so wrapped up in our own little world that we don't realize that the person next to us may just need someone to listen to them, to offer a hand, or just a hug. The world is so split right now that we need to gain that sense of community once again. What would your drag name be? If we're using the formula of ﬁrst pet and street you grew up on, I'd be Lady Wakeling. What did you do to keep yourself busy during the quarantine? I got married! We also hopped in the car every weekend and drove to a different location in Florida, just to explore and get out without being around people. Will you ever retire? Yes. The goal is to continue to travel and see as much of the world as I can before I die. What celebrity did you act like a “fan” around? Working in the music industry, I've met a lot of people. But I gotta say that the most star-struck I ever was, was when I was faceto-face with the one and only, Betty White. What's the last thing that you looked at online? Artist submissions for Pride's Queer Art Showcase, and the Legends Ball happening on September 16. Would you ever pose nude? Nobody needs to see all this! How much money are we talking (laughs)? Did you ever try LSD? Nah. As someone who has highfunctioning anxiety, I can't imagine that meshing well with LSD! What's the best place that you've ever visited? Ireland. The people were the friendliest that I've ever met. What are you an expert at? Creative troubleshooting. What do you want to live long enough to see? A uniﬁed society? One can only dream… More realistically, I'd like to live long enough to travel the world and immerse myself in learning about as many different

cultures as I can. There is so much uniqueness and beauty to experiences once we step out of our comfort zones. If vampirism was real and you could live forever, would you do it? I'm not even a fan of seeing my own blood, so I'm not sure I could drink someone else's (laughs). What politician don't you like? None of them. What's your most treasured possession? My babies Charlie and Mochi, my dogs. Do you believe in ghosts? Yes. Either living or dead, who would you love to have lunch with? Lucille Ball. What's your favorite animated character? Hmm… I would have to say that it's a toss-up between Zuko from Avatar, or Louise Belcher from Bob's Burgers. What's something that you learned in life only when you got older? To stop stressing about how others view you. It distracts you from being your true self. What did you learn from your parents? That no matter how much life knocks you down, to keep pushing forward. What's your best characteristic? My sense of humor. What's your favorite quote? “'What' and 'if' are two words as nonthreatening as words can be. But put them together side-by-side, and they have the power to haunt you for the rest of your life: what… if?" How do you enjoy spending your time? Traveling with my husband and my puppies. What celebrity do you have crush on? It's a toss-up between Michael B. Jordan and Chris Evans. Who's your favorite performer? Acting wise…? Oddly, I've always been a big fan of Laura Linney. Singer…? Right now I'm in love with Jessie Ware. But it changes often! Who do you admire? I admire anyone who steps up to help create positive change in our world. Those everyday 48 | HotspotsMagazine.com

people who wake up each day, push past their own struggles, and does whatever they can to be a positive influence in the crazy world that we live in. If you could bring one person back from the dead, who would it be? My grandmother, who we lost only a few months ago. Where would you go in a time machine? I mean, where wouldn't I go? To have the chance to first-hand experience all the great moments in history would be legendary. What would your last meal be? I'd have to go with sushi. What do you worry about? Getting wrapped up in the everyday routine that I lose sight of the importance of experiencing all that life has to offer. Are you more like a sheep or a wolf? I think for all of us it really depends on the situation that you find yourself in. Who depends on you, and for what? Our community depends on me to provide them a safe space to be who they are, and I'll do everything I can not to let them down. Who are you closest with? My husband, Leo, and my closest friends, Lisa, Bonnie, Bridge and Michelle. What would your autobiography be called? Nomadic Convergence. What's on your bucket list? To retire in Spain and travel throughout the world. What's your greatest regret in life? I have regrets; we all do. But I try not to dwell on them. Had those experiences gone differently, I may not be at the point in life that I'm at now. And I wouldn't give up the love that I've found through friends and family for anything. What's something secretive about you that people don't know? I once hitchhiked through Ireland when I was 19. Where can we see you? At Miami Beach Pride, from September 10 to September 19!

By Romeo San Vicente

plot involves mysterious cyberspace-based employment, gaming and possibly murder, none of which will really make sense until we watch it. Our favorite detail: Billings 'character, a major role as a mysterious detective, is transgender, as was the character in the original novel, so three cheers for giving trans roles to trans actors. Created by Scott B. Smith, starring people we enjoy, we'll be watching..

'The Peripheral' moves into the cyberfuture with Alexandra Billings We are huge fans of trans actor Alexandra Billings (former Miss Florida F.I.). She's the reason we didn't bail on “The Conners.” And it's exciting to watch a performer come into their own on screen, which is how it seems to be going for her. Next she'll step into a role in

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the upcoming Amazon original series “The Peripheral,” starring Chloe Grace Moretz and Jack Reynor (the boyfriend in the bear costume in “Midsommar”). Based on the novel by legendary author William Gibson, the

Treasure hunting with Charles Busch and Margaret Cho in 'The Sixth Reel' The legendary playwright and drag performer Charles Busch (“Psycho Beach Party,” “Die, Mommie, Die!”) forged his own path with the offBroadway Theatre-in-Limbo company and, after creating those comedy mainstays, didn't rest on that success. That's a longwinded way of saying he's back and ready for the big screen again with “The Sixth Reel.” Co-written and codirected by Busch and Carl Andress, the latest project stars Busch as a movie memorabilia collector, obsessed with classic Hollywood. When a friend's death reveals the existence of the ﬁnal reel of a classic horror ﬁlm that was thought to be lost, a race to cash in

commences with a variety of ruthless and comedic schemes. Along for the ride are Limbo alum Julie Halston, Tim Daly and standup queen Margaret Cho. The ﬁlm will get its world premiere at this summer's Outfest. Look for it to roll out into the world soon after.

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with LSD, brainwashing and psychological torture and that they used human subjects? Well, it's yet another slice of American history they don't teach you in school and now there's going to be a movie about it. It's called “MK Ultra,” from writer-director Joseph Sorrentino (the documentary “Coyote”) and it stars Anson Mount (“Star Trek: Discovery”) as a psychiatrist whose professional and ethical boundaries are tested when he becomes involved in the project. Jason Patric and Jaime Ray Newman (“Little Fires Everywhere”) co-star, as does one of our favorite ascendant trans

actors/ﬁlmmakers, Jen Richards, who's appeared in “Clarice,” “Mrs. Fletcher,” “Tales of the City,” and is an Emmy nominee for “Her Story.” Already in postproduction, with an expected release of late December, look for it to take you on a bad trip this holiday season. Growing up with BeBe Drag superstars are not born fully formed, bursting out of the crib ready for their close-up. It takes time to develop one's artistry. And that is also the case with BeBe Zahara Benet, who was the ﬁrst-ever winner of “RuPaul's Drag Race,” in a moment when no one had heard of such a competition and when the latest young crop of queens were entering

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'MK Ultra' co-stars Jen Richards in CIA drug drama Did you know that in the 1950s and '60s the CIA engaged in a program called Project MKUltra and it was designed to develop interrogation techniques

elementary school. As it happens, the cameras were on Marshall Ngwa, aka BeBe, early in life, growing up in Cameroon and then France before settling in Minneapolis and developing a beloved drag persona. And it's this 15-year-long accumulation of archival footage that forms the fascinating backstory of BeBe's stardom in the new documentary “Being BeBe.” We love the prospect of peeking backstage to watch a legend in progress, and we'll be ready for the doc's premiere at this summer's Los Angeles 'Outfest. After that it'll surely sashay its way into theaters and streaming platforms before year's end. Romeo San Vicente’s hot vax summer requires proof of vaccination and stylish masks.

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The Ex Factor: How to Forge a Friendship From a

BAD ROMANCE Forging a friendship from the extinguished flames of a formerly romantic relationship is no easy task, but shutting him, her or them out completely isn't always necessary – especially if you'd both like to separate amicably and remain on good terms. We break up for lots of different reasons, but there's often plenty in common that can keep us connected to each other in one capacity or another – you were once inseparable for a reason – even when love and sex are no longer part of the equation. Here's how.

By Mikey Rox

BE HONEST WITH YOUR EX ABOUT YOUR INTENTION AND DESIRE TO BECOME FRIENDS You can say something like, “I really value your opinion, friendship, energy, sense of humor, point of view, and I would really like to be friends in some way,” or “We have too much history to not be friends,” or “You're the only one who makes me LOL.” Don't beat around the bush. Let them know what you'd like from them moving forward. If building a friendship is a mutual goal, move forward. If it's onesided, however, move on. GIVE YOUR EX (AND POSSIBLY YOURSELF) TIME TO GRIEVE THE LOSS OF WHAT YOU HAD OR EXPECTED THE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP TO BE It's OK to be angry and express that anger as long as you express your anger in a healthy way. Refrain from saying anything hurtful. Keep angry statements to how you feel – “I” statements – and not about your ex being a bad person.

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“Being angry is part of the process,” says David Strah, a Los Angeles-based psychotherapist and author. “Bad things happen to good people. We don't always understand why a relationship fizzles. But not understanding can lead to feeling helpless and angry. Sometimes it's better to accept that we are disappointed and can't control the outcome. Break plates, punch pillows, scream, take a boxing class – let out your anger in a healthy way.” TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR PART IN THE RELATIONSHIP ENDING Taking ownership and responsibility can be healing for both you and your ex. You don't have to rehash the past, but you can say things like, I feel badly about how I behaved, what I said, what I didn't do, how I reacted, how

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“...don't wait to get a call from your ex – just be there when you sense they need your support. ”

things ended. This will help both of you move forward toward a positive, healthy relationship that leaves the past where it belongs. DITCH THE BLAME GAME Forgive your ex and forgive yourself for anything that you regret doing or that you believe was done to you. If you're not completely over that trauma, it's probably not wise to start a transition to friendship; resentment is not a solid foundation on which to begin.

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SHOW APPRECIATION FOR YOUR EX Tell your ex how appreciative you are of them in both small and big ways. According to Strah, “Examples might include 'I am really appreciative of all the fun vacations we had together,' or 'I really appreciate all the support you gave me when I was going through a rough time at work,' or 'I really appreciate your willingness to help.' If you have an on-going relationship with your ex that involves pets, kids, or financial support or investments, it's important to show your appreciation for the positive ways your ex shows up – as a good parent, responsible pet owner, or provider.”

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BE THERE EMOTIONALLY FOR YOUR EX Let your ex know that you're available in case of an emergency, if they ever need to talk, or need someone to walk or feed their pet on a busy day. Even better, don't wait to get a call from your ex – just be there when you sense they need your support. But, like, not in a stalker-y kind of way. Don't get all Fatal Attraction about it.

MAKE AN EFFORT TO DO THINGS WITH YOUR EX In the beginning, shorter visits together are usually better because there is less opportunity to fall into old patterns and start pointing fingers, Strah says. “If you enjoyed going to the movies or working out together, suggest you workout together or go to the movies,” he continues. “If your ex doesn't want to get together, try calling or sending a text. Something like, 'I want you to know that I'm thinking about you and care about you' or 'Thinking about you and hope you are having a great day' can go a long way.”

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“Don't think of therapy as something you need to do to change, but rather an investment in yourself that will reward you 100 times over.”

SPEAK TO A THERAPIST Sometimes family and friends just can't provide the support and clarity that a mental health professional can – especially if a break up necessitates significant and overwhelming changes in our lives. “Consider seeing a therapist to explore and identify negative behavioral patterns and negative, self-limiting beliefs – like trying to convince yourself that you're not good enough to be in a relationship or that you're unlovable – that are selfsabotaging and keeping you from being in a healthy, romantic relationship,” Strah concludes. “Don't think of therapy as something you need to do to change, but rather an investment in yourself that will reward you 100 times over.”

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Mikey Rox is an award-winning journalist and LGBT lifestyle expert whose work has been published in more than 100 outlets across the world. Connect with Mikey on Instagram @mikeyroxtravels The Telegraph.

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HOUSE BEAUTIFUL

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(And Cheap-ish!)

Interior Design Hacks for Budget-Conscious First-Time Buyers

Upon initial walk-through of the ﬁrst home I'd buy, my head was consumed with designing that space, top to bottom, exactly how I wanted. I was so eager to hit the ground running that furniture and ﬁxtures arrived in a succession of FedEx trucks before the real estate agents sealed the deal. No longer culled creatively by a landlord, I had big plans for the bedrooms, bathrooms, kitchen, and outdoor areas. Only one hurdle: I had a conservative budget that limited my ostentatious ideas. Ever resourceful, however, I was able to bring my vision to life without going broke. Here are a few ways I did it that you can too. Freshen up the place with paint and accent wallpaper A simple coat of paint on drab walls is transformational. Anything but white is fair game in my homes, and I choose colors that will not only complement my existing wares but also inspire my mood on a daily basis. In the past I've been partial to a bright-andcheery sky blue that runs through the main room in all three of my properties, but I've also turned walls red, pink, yellow, green, gray, and tan. I also have a passion for wallpaper, but not full-on four-wall coverage. I choose one wall to drape with pattern, like behind the living room couch – and I make it count. I select 72 | HotspotsMagazine.com

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By Mikey Rox

ultra-premium paper from high-end producers. That sometimes costs a pretty penny, but the expense is justiﬁed in that I'm only dressing one accent wall and that one accent wall will become the focal point of that room. These days you can ﬁnd quality prints on removable paper that costs a fraction of

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Change ﬁxtures instead of committing to complete overhauls When I had a contractor estimate the cost of a bathroom remodel, I was left mouth agape by the total. He quoted 10 grand, which was beyond my reasonable expectation and my budget. And that bathroom was small. So I did the next best thing. Instead of a complete revamp, I replaced the vanity,

mirrors, faucets, shelving, and lighting. I've also upgraded the toilet in the past. Elbow grease on the tile brought it back to its original luster, and for less than a grand I had a new bathroom that I also outﬁtted with a cloth shower curtain, stylish curtain rings, complementary ﬂoor mat, color-

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the real deal on the front and back ends of the project (traditional wallpaper is notoriously hard to hang and remove). Just peel and stick and peel again when you fancy a switch-up. The price difference between the two variations is in the thousands of dollars.

coordinating towels, candles, and art. The reveal was a spa-quality oasis that left me satisfied mentally, physically, and financially. Buy floor models when possible I have a few go-to home retailers I shop when designing my spaces, most of which are accessible to modest budgets. My personal aesthetic leans more toward the styles of West Elm and CB2, but there are plenty of other outlets that will accommodate your design preferences. I never look at full price items either. If it's not on sale, I don't buy it. Most often, I head straight for the clearance sections or search for deeply discounted floor models. Large area rugs, for example, can extract hundreds from your budget, but lightly tread floor models (that can be washed professionally and inexpensively) are discounted up to 70 percent in some cases. My prized find was a gorgeous six-person glass-top dining table that retailed for $750 reduced to $250 because of a small scratch on the glass. A few months later, West Elm contacted me to receive a new glass top because of a recall on the original for the way it shattered if broken. It was delivered scratch-free and free of charge just HotspotsMagazine.com | 73

Make or print your own art Have I spent hundreds – even thousands – on artwork? Yes. Certainly not thrifty, but I saved up over time for the pieces I wanted. To offset those major expenses, I also make my own art using various resources and materials. I've turned postcards and periodical clippings into masterpiece collages; driftwood into conversationpiece jewelry organizers; and I've repurposed garage and flea finds into functional items like eye-catching reupholstered chairs. To save even more dough, I keep a file on my computer that includes printable projects, like links for rasterizing favorite photos into frameable, large-format wall

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because I was willing to take the L in the ﬁrst place. Bona ﬁde W in the end.

hangings (Rasterbator.net) and the free Charley Harper ﬂora-fauna poster series available via the National Park Service website. There are tons of other searchspeciﬁc options out there for whatever tickles your decorating pickle. Invest in plants Plants make a house a home. They're relatively cheap, space up otherwise empty areas, and, well, they make everybody feel frickin' fantastic. I mix real and fake plants all over my spaces to create comfortable, welcoming environments. Keeping them alive, of course, is half the battle, but we're adulting now and plants are our babies – babies that don't scream, cry, or spit up on you. Let the straights keep those; I'll take another terrarium, please.

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By Maria Espinal

1. The Colony Palm Beach

155 Hammon Avenue • Palm Beach, FL 33480 561.655.5430 • thecolonypalmbeach.com Visiting the Colony Hotel is like going back in time. With their lovely pink/salmonish building, The Colony is located in the heart of West Palm Beach, a classic destination with a charm and fashionable scene. If you are in a much-needed staycation, plan to take a bike ride or get some sun and let their beach Butler deliver gourmet bites in costume branded coolers just a few feet from the sand.

305.386.8288 • kendallicearena.com Hours: Mon - Fri 10am - 9: 30pm Sat - Sun 9am - 9:30pm With such high temperatures, what better than to take a trip to the ice skating ring with family or friends to have some fun! The Kendall Ice Arena is offering public sessions to everyone. To save time, all skaters should purchase tickets online in advance. All skaters must sign a waiver before skating. Admission is $15 with skate rental and you can book for events or private parties.

2. Riverwalk North

4. Spady Museum

301 SW 1st Avenue • Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301 561.599.1717 • zumbabykate.com Hours: Mon – Fri 6:30pm Enjoy Free Outdoor Zumba at Riverwal North! Following social distancing guidelines, fun and excitement is enjoyed 6 feet apart. The class is free, donations are appreciated. Bring water, come dressed in comfortable ﬁtness attire that's easy to move in and can handle sweat. Wear sneakers that support dance movement and get ready for 55 to 60 minutes that you can consider a cardio workout in every sense of the word. 3. Kendall Ice Arena

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170 NW 5th Avenue • Delray Beach, FL 33444 561.279.8883 • spadymuseum.com Hours: Wed – Sat 11am - 4pm Spady Cultural Heritage Museum is a museum of African-American history in Delray Beach, Palm Beach County, Florida. It is housed in the former home of the late Solomon David Spady, a prominent African-American educator and community leader in Delray Beach from 1922 to 1957. The Spady Museum has become a destination about Florida's early black communities and culture. The museum has exhibited a series of shows, highlighting the talents and inﬂuences of African-Americans, Caribbean-Americans and Haitian-Americans.

Disney On Ice presents

Mickey's Search Party Interview with “out” Actor Nicholas Bausenwein

By Scott Holland Disney On Ice presents Mickey's Search Party is bringing the magic to guests through dynamic moments that take place on the ice and in the air. This adventure delivers compelling storytelling through multi-leveled production numbers and visits Sunrise from September 10-12, at BB&T Center and Miami from September 16-19, at FTX Arena (Former American Airlines Arena). Tickets are on sale at ticketmaster.com. Please review the event COVID-19 waiver at disneyonice.com/covidwaiver. Feld Entertainment is working closely with venue partners to establish and follow COVID-19 health and safety standards in accordance with all federal, state and local guidelines. Face coverings are currently required for FTX Arena guests, regardless of vaccination status, per venue policy. Face 80 | HotspotsMagazine.com

coverings are currently strongly encouraged for BB&T Center guests, regardless of vaccination status. Face covering policies are subject to change prior to each event – please be sure to continue to check the venue website. It was a pleasure to sit down with Nicholas Bausenwein, who is a member of our community and plays Buzz Lightyear, for this exclusive Hotspots interview. How old were you when you began skating, and did you always have the performance bug? I was about 8 years old when I started skating, but for a long time I was competition oriented. However, I always loved preforming. When I was younger, I was in the marching band and theater. At what point did you consider skating

a possible career? In my sophomore year in high school, I saw a production of Disney on Ice, and it sparked an interest in me. It looked like so much fun and thought this could be something interesting. But I really began to think about it when I was applying for colleges. How did you get hired at Feld, and what's they best part about working for Feld Entertainment? I sent in a video in the first week of Jan of 2019, and about 6 weeks later they emailed me and asked me to come skate for them in person. I showed them my tricks and how I can skate. There was also an improv section which I had a lot of fun with. I never heard back, and then I emailed them asking if I had a job. On April 1 (really that date) I got the email that I was hired. Best part of playing Buzz Lightyear? It's seeing all the kid's reactions. This is the one accessible form of Disney almost everyone can have without traveling and seeing kids who are seeing their heroes for the first time is amazing. What has been some of the favorite cities you have toured? I started in Mexico City for 5 weeks and that was cool as it was the first time I had been out of the country for an extended period of time. I also loved Seattle, Los Angeles and San Francisco. I was mostly west coast my first year, but now we are doing the east coast. Who are your idols/mentors in the Skating industry? I feel like I really looked up to two skaters. The first is Jason Brown who is a phenomenal performer. He is not as technical as he is a performer, and I feel like I am the same way. The second one is Adam Rippon, because he came out and then

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competed as an openly gay man at the Olympics. It was a huge moment for me to see. Seeing someone live their life authentically while having such success in skating was huge for me. What are you planning to do after your skating career? I will eventually go to school and study communications and consumer psychology. Are you single or dating? I am single and on tour, but luckily there are many gay people in our show. What makes the perfect guy for you? I have been all over the place with the guys I dated. I think its about the connection. Describe yourself in three words? Extra, fun, and caring. What do you do for fun? I really like to explore the cities we visit and therefore every week kind of feels like a vacation. I also love eating at all the local restaurants. The cultures are so different in parts of our country. What does the future hold for you? Right now, I am really enjoying touring and I am living in the moment. Once this is done, I will most likely go to school. However, this past year has showed me you never know what to expect, but I feel very lucky to be at a job where I love going to work every day. Once that is over, I want to find a job that makes me feel the same way. For more information on Nicholas, go to: Instagram.com/Nbausen

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By Tom Bonanti

HOW TO LOSE

& MUSCLE

FAT

This past week I faced three clients with three seemingly different situations. The ﬁrst man is returning to the gym after some major surgery and his doctor wants him to lose 10 pounds and build up his strength. The second guy wants to get leaner, more deﬁned abs. The third client wants to lose an inch around the middle and add an inch or two to his biceps. What do they all have in common? They want to lose fat and gain muscle. Can you achieve both objectives at the same time? Of course, before you begin any new exercise program, it is always best to talk about your goals with your physician. Here are several effective strategies on how to build lean muscle and lose unwanted fat at the same time.

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First, to lose weight, you must cut calories. This does not mean starving yourself of all fats and carbs! The low fat, lower carbohydrate debate comes down to this: you still have to eat fewer calories than you burn if you want to lose weight. The key here is eating fewer calories by cutting saturated fats and junk foods, and not depriving yourself of nutritious foods that give you energy and stamina. Focus on eating smaller meals, ﬁve to six times a day, every two to three hours.

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Consume low glycemic index complex carbs (whole grain cereals, pastas, fresh fruits, veggies and nuts) early in the day so that your energy level won't lag as the day wears on. Avoid highly refined carbohydrates such as sodas, white bread, and fast foods like doughnuts, chips, pastries and fatty fried foods. Second, remember that eating protein builds muscle. Protein is also more filling and satisfying. Another great fact about protein is that your body burns more calories to digest it than it does to digest carbs and fats. Build your meals around lean chicken, beef, fish or pork. That way you will burn more calories throughout the day and your muscles will get the protein they

need to grow. Third, eat more fiber. Fiber is not a nutrient, but it is very important to a healthy diet. Fiber is the part of plants that cannot be digested, and it is found in all fresh fruits, vegetables, beans, seeds, and nuts. Lack of fiber can result in sluggishness and constipation. Eating enough fiber not only provides you with a healthy digestive system, but it also helps you to feel fuller. Oats, oat bran, oat meal, beans, peas, berries and citrus can lower cholesterol. Apples, whole wheat products and brown rice help keep you regular. Fourth, remember the importance of omega-3 polyunsaturated fats found in fish, nuts, seeds, flax seeds, and fish oil. Health benefits include less risk of diabetes and heart disease. But omega-3 fats can also contribute to a great physique as well. For example, omega-3s reduce inflammation throughout the body. This not only prevents heart attacks, but it also helps sore, tired muscles to recover better and faster after a monster workout. Eat fish and eggs a couple of times a week or see your doctor or nutritionist about recommending a supplement.

Tom Bonanti is a certified fitness trainer and massage therapist (MA#40288) with his own one on one facility Pumpnincgym.com in Ft. Lauderdale. Contact trainertomb@aol.com with questions or to set up an appointment.

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Experienced Sous Chef ($20 an hour), prep cook, cleaner, server and bartender. Apply after 4pm, except Monday. Chef Nate’s 2045 Wilton Drive.

PART-TIME SALES POSITIONS AVAILABLE

Does Leather and gear excite you? Does the thought of helping someone pick out their new harness or impact toy sound more like fun than work? Join our team! We have daytime positions available in our main showroom, and we need a few good men for our Ramrod store. So if you’re a night owl and enjoy the atmosphere of a nightlife setting, we’re looking for you, too! Apply in person at LeatherWerks Main store

WORTHINGTON FRONT OFFICE

Reservations clerk P/T, 3days. Sometimes more, 2pm to 8pm. Experience preferred. Apply in person 543 N. Birch Rd.

ZANE EDWARD SALOON

Is looking for a friendly hairstylist to join our team. Day, evening, and weekend hours available. If you have a following great, if not, we can help you build. We are in a busy area and we need more staff. Call 954-491-1144 and ask for Brandon.

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EMERALD ELITE HOME HEALTH CARE & LGBT SENIOR CARE

New Locations Opening of Emerald Elite Home Health Care & LGBT Senior Care, who specialize in providing male caregivers, is seeking Companions & Home Health Aides for our clients in the Palm Beach area. No experience necessary. Compensation is $12-$15/hr. Please apply online at www.emeraldelitecare.com/apply

CLUBHOUSE II

Is taking applications for full or part time positions. Stop in for an application at 2650 E Oakland Park Blvd.

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Tax preparation and resolution for individuals and small businesses. Help with same-sex marriage issues and IRS matters. Call 781-363-5519 or 561-429-3592 www.haroldjblotchertaxes.com

u RENTALS - FORT LAUDERDALE COLORFUL CABANA ONE BEDROOM APT. WITH PRIVATE PATIO / GARDEN IN LAKE RIDGE

Newly painted Lg. Bright L shaped living room, Remodeled Kitchen with door to private garden, Tile Floors, Central A/C, Linen Closet, Large Bathroom. Near Beaches, Wilton Manors - Water & Gas included $1,300./mo. Contact Marcus 754-234-4789

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Your Personal Tech Assistant. BEST RATES in the tri-county area. Specializing in Android & iPhones. PC/Mac-Training, Installation, Clean-up & Repairs. Friendly, In-Home and remote Srvc. Call/Txt 954-903-4383.

FLORIDA TECH SUPPORT

On-Site & Remote Support. Central location. Windows Mac OS IOS Androd. Security, virus, & spyware removal, repairs & upgrades, wired & wireless networking - gay owned www.FLoridaTechSupport.com 954-453-9574

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IN-HOME SERVICE. Cell phones, printers & Internet issues. Proudly serving our community for over 20 years. *Get the BEST performance, protection & value from your computer investment. *A+ Hardware & OS certified. *Friendly, professional, RELIABLE service. Reasonable rates. Call: Mike 954-817-3883

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Waxing, facials, trimming, shaving and body scrubs at its best. Very friendly and relaxing experience. Visit me today. For appointment please call 954-649-9905. WWW.BRAZILLIANTOUCH.COM

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Ceiling Fans, Bathroom, kitchen, microwave, plumbing and electric, outlets, switches, breakers. Time clocks, Upgrade breaker box, repair or replace sprinkler & pool motors, replace & remove hot water tanks & install tankless water heaters. Vanity. sinks, faucets, dishwasher & garbage disposals and SHOWER GRAB BARS. K&J 954-260-9940 BEST PRICES IN TOWN! 32 Years Experience.

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Repairs, installations, indoor air quality. Residential/ Commercial. Proudly serving the tri-county area. Quality and experience. Free service calls for all A/C makes and models. Lic/Ins CMC1249558 Call 954-274-8287 for your free estimate. **10% off your first repair** ADVERTISE IN MARKETPLACE Call 754-200-2979 or Email Classifieds@HotSpotsMedia.com

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Home improvements, additions, electrical, plumbing, painting, kitchen, baths, wood flooring / trim, TV mounting, Former owner of a NY remodeling co. as well as a hands on worker, because I demand perfection in all I do. Please call Mitch 954-253-4650 for prompt honest and dependable service. Lic. CGC1514441 and insured.

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Quality work at a reasonable price. We also service & install any size generator. Licensed & Insured (98-CME-1807-X). 954-257-9509.

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u MOVING/STORAGE RED BOX MOVING COMPANY

Affordable, Reliably, & Careful. Licenced & Insured (MV#567) Norbert 954-305-9176 www.redboxmoving.com

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u LAWN MAINTENANCE / IRRIGATION IRRIGATION SYSTEM REPAIR AND MAINTENANCE 30 Years experience, excellent work, referrals upon request. Call Roberto at 954-383-8980

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Make your home a showplace. INTEGRITY LANDSCAPE SERVICES, LLC specializes in property clean up, tree and shrub pruning, sodding and landscape design & installation. We also do lawn maintenance. Call 954-812-5434 or 954-288-3601 our website at www.integrityLandscapingService.com

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By Andreus Quinones

“After all, you are dating him, not them.” Dear Andreus, I am 45 years old and have recently been seeing a guy who is 22. I have the absolute best time with him, and I find him incredibly mature. He is educated, funny and not interested in the club scene at all. The problem is that my friends tell me that I am foolish for entertaining any kind of relationship with someone so much younger than myself. I am so torn. I want my friends to be okay with it, so that I can bring him around and include him in our social activities. He wants to meet my friends, but I am afraid of how they will respond to him. Is it foolish for me to date someone so much younger? Sincerely, Mitchell S. Dear Mitchell, Your happiness should always come first. If you want to date this guy, then do that. You are both consenting adults. As much as we would love for our friends and love ones to give us their blessing when we are with someone, that is not always going to be the case. The age difference means absolutely nothing if you are both happy. You can't please everyone, and you will drive yourself mad trying to do so. If your friends truly care about you, they will support you regardless of how they feel about the age difference. After all, you are dating him, not them. Hope this helps!

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don't work out. Over the past few weeks, I have started to talk to someone new. Now suddenly, my ex is showing interest in me, acting as if he wants me back and suggesting it in conversation. I feel as if he is just doing it out of jealousy or realization of what he lost. I do still love him though. Should I give him another chance? Sincerely, Jason W. Dear Jason, Clearly, this is a decision that only you can make. From a perspective, I would give it time. I generally don't usually go backwards, because people usually have realizations after the fact – and we all know that hindsight is a b*tch. You also have to consider how invested you might be in the new guy. This could certainly be jealousy, because people sometimes don't realize what you meant to them until they see you happy with someone else. I would keep doing you, and don't make any sudden decisions about anything. You are in charge of your happiness now – choose wisely. Best of luck!