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Central Florida Edition October 2019
Catching Up with Bianca Del Rio
Bianca talks death-drop disdain, bachelorettes in gay clubs and why she’s done with “Drag Race.”
content:
• What’s Hot Central Florida • Hot Bodies • Hot Advice
this month’s features: • Coming Out With Pride Orlando • Charlie & The Chocolate Factory • Cirque Du Soleil’s Axel • Interview with Bianca Del Rio • LGBT Concert & Conference Orlando • LGBT Stoles Exhibit
hot shots • Quench Lounge • Around Central Florida with Amy DeMilo • Southern Nights Tampa
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...everything you need to plan your month
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PRIDE WEEK EVENTS OCTOBER 6-13 PLUS MORE EVENTS ONLINE
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community grand marshals – Jazell Barbie Royale, Miss International Queen 2019; Ben Johansen, founder of The Orlando Ribbon Project; The Central Florida Sounds of Freedom Band and Color Guard, long-standing community group; and Joel Strack (in memoriam), one of Orlando's most proli ic LGBTQ+ advocates. Come Out With Pride is also dedicated to becoming heroes for the environment. Orlando's Pride festival will be the irst large-scale event in the city to participate in the effort to eliminate single-use plastics since the policy went into effect on October 1. Come Out With Pride has worked closely with vendors and partners to incorporate sustainable solutions including selling reusable water bottles to guests, excluding the use of glitters and other micro-plastics during the parade, connecting food vendors with sustainable suppliers and increasing the quantities of recycling bins around Lake
Come Out with Pride Orlando Sunday, October 6 through Sunday, October 13
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Pride Week in Orlando will be celebrated on Sunday, October 6 through Sunday, October 13, with Central Florida's Most Colorful Parade and Festival scheduled for Saturday, October 12 at Lake Eola Park in downtown Orlando. The event has become Central Florida's largest single-day parade and festival, and is expected to attract more than 175,000 visitors with an anticipated $19+ million economic impact to Orlando. The theme for the 2019 Come Out With Pride Parade and Festival is “Heroes.” De ined in many ways, a hero can be a public servant, community activist or someone unafraid to be their true authentic self. Come Out With Pride Orlando is pleased to announce four
Eola Park to sort food waste, garbage and recyclables. To offset the event's carbon footprint, Come Out With Pride has partnered with Lyft for a second year to provide discount rides to and from the parade, reducing the number of cars on the road. Furthermore, in partnership with the Foundation for Florida Environmental Protection, 30 trees were planted at Clear Lake Park in an effort to make 2019 the most sustainable event in our Pride's history. Continuing Come Out With Pride's goal of providing diverse entertainers, international pop star Pabllo Vittar will headline the Pride Stage sponsored by Nissan and Broadway superstar Jennifer Holliday will headline the Amphitheater Stage sponsored by Nissan. Vittar, Brazil's most famous gender-defying drag queen with nearly 10 million Instagram followers, has rocketed to the spotlight after major international hits with music icons including Major Lazer, Diplo, Charli XCX and Iggy Azalea. Additionally, Holliday, best known for her role as Ef ie in the musical smash Dreamgirls, has been a ierce advocate for LGBTQ+ issues and the arts. This year's Most Colorful Parade presented by SunTrust steps off at 4 pm and features nearly 175 businesses and organizations eager to showcase their support for the LGBTQ+ community. Between noon and 7 pm guests can also explore their Vendor Marketplace sponsored by Wyndham Destinations and their Sponsor walk area — combined there are over 200 local businesses, nonpro its and food vendors to explore. New for families is the Kids Fringe Rainbow Ranch presented
Events During Pride Week Drag Race 5K: Sunday, October 6 | Baldwin Park | 3-5 p.m.
Come Out With Pride and Zebra Coalition invites you to the second annual Drag Race 5K - the kickoff to Pride Week in Orlando! The 5K is open to all ages and skill levels. Before the race, join the pep rally you always wished you had with drag cheerleaders and an awesome band. Come Out with Pride and the Zebra Coalition welcome students from all Central Florida Gay Student Alliances to show their pride and school spirit before the race.
Pride Happy Hour: Monday, October 7 | The Hammered Lamb | 7-9 pm
Enjoy light bites, your favorite drink and music from Sean Holcomb all while you meet your fellow neighbors and the Come Out With Pride team at this relaxing happy hour in beautiful Lake Ivanhoe.
#Transformation: Tuesday, October 8 | Southern Craft | 78 pm
Meet and mingle at Southern Craft. Come Out With Pride celebrates the transgender community and pays tribute to the trailblazers who walked the steps before us.
Gayme Night: Truth or Dare with Pepe: Wednesday, October 9 | Savoy Orlando | 7-10 pm
One of Orlando's favorite Fringe performers, Pepe, brings an over-the-top performance and interactive show that will be sure to draw out the laughs.
Weekend Launch Party: Friday, October 11 | Stonewall Bar | 7 pm
The of icial location of the Come Out With Pride Weekend Launch Party is sponsored by Trulieve. The event will showcase a variety of entertainment and special performances by Neon Hitch and DJ Kitty Glitter.
Orlando Magic Pride Night: Friday, October 11 | Amway Arena | 7 pm
Wear your Pride gear and cheer on the Orlando Magic during their pre-season game as they take on the Boston Celtics.
OďŹƒcial After Party: Saturday, October 12 | Parliament House | 9 pm
Whether you dance the night away or enjoy celebrity performances in the Footlight Theater, you will surely have an unforgettable night as the celebration continues at the Of icial Pride After Party.
Pride Recovery: Sunday, October 13 Ember | 12 pm
Enjoy Sunday Funday with Come Out With Pride at one of downtown Orlando's most popular venues. Enjoy brunch until 3 pm followed by Surrender Sunday cocktails with all of your favorite bartenders under one roof and food starting at 4 pm Cheer along as COWP Parade judges announce all of Saturday's winners!
Concert: Looking Back, Marching Forward: Sunday, October 13 | Plaza Live | 4 pm
The Lesbian and Gay Band Association will host a night of music, re lection, and inspiration – featuring two concert bands and a jazz ensemble, sponsored by Two Spirits. The concert will showcase LGBTQ+ history by honoring the past with a focus on building the future, as well as feature the debut of two commissioned pieces written for this event by acclaimed composers Randall Standridge and Julie Giroux. For more information and additional community events during Pride Week in Orlando, please visit ComeOutWithPride.com/Events
About Come Out With Pride
Come Out With Pride, Inc. is an all-volunteer 501(c)(3) nonpro it organization inspired to make an impact in Orlando's LGBTQ+ community. Celebrated in October, Come Out With Pride welcomes everyone from Central Florida and beyond to come together and celebrate diverse communities. Come Out With Pride is also dedicated to supporting the community through grants and scholarships via its 'Pride Gives Back' program.
what’s hot By Scott Holland
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Welcome to the What’s Hot October column where we feature events happening all over Central Florida. Continue reading on to learn What's Hot this month!
Friday, October 4
Southern Nights Tampa presents NeiBEARhood Takeover BEARricade (a Construction Theme Event) where all fetish gear is strongly encouraged. The event will feature a 12:30am Traffic Cone Challenge sponsored by FatMarker, as well as Gobearr Gear, Got Pride Clothing &
Accessories, and Shenanigans Leather/Kink Weekend. This is a 21+ only event and is free before 10pm. Starting tonight and going through Sunday, October 6, the Tampa Imrov presents Tacarra Williams, the
first runner up in the TV Show “Bring the Funny” (although I think she should have won)! Tickets are $15 at ImprovTampa.com. If you miss Tacarra this weekend, you can also catch her at the Orlando Improv on October 18-20, where tickets range from $15 to $45 at TheImprovOrlando.com
Saturday, October 5
Daddy Ersin Presents the Famous New York City Underground RAM Gear Party at Cristoph's in Tampa (2606 N Armenia Ave.) with music by International DJ Johnny I (NYC). Get prepared for a party filled with testosterone, men in gear, daddies, stud dancers, bears, bearded boys, pup, leather men, and musclemen. Ram Gear party is from 8pm to 3:30am and sponsored by Cellblock 12La, and powered by Scruff. Stonewall Orlando's Latin Saturdays “Amor” welcomes back and celebrates the birthday of Saphyre L'Sweet Cardoza. Doors open at 9pm, with free cover before 10pm with door diva Samantha Stone. Show time is a 12 midnight and stars Saphyre, Yeisa Jovovich and Kalah Mendoza. The night will also feature DJ's Kraig Matthews, Franklin Cruel, and Ray Rivera.
The Parliament House presents their 3rd annual PINK! Party benefiting Libby's Legacy Breast Cancer Foundation. The night will stars Sania D Cruize, one of the nation's #1 Pink impersonators, and also include a silent auction, raffles, shows, hot spots and more! You can win a scooter courtesy of Universal Motors!
Sunday, October 6
Tampa Pride presents “Drag Queen Bingo” with your host Amy DeMilo at Stone Soup Company (1919 E. 7th Avenue) starting at 5pm. All Proceeds
Golden Ticket,” alongside a toe-tapping and ear-tickling new score from the songwriters of Hairspray. Willy Wonka is opening his marvelous and mysterious chocolate factory ... to a lucky few. That includes Charlie Bucket, whose bland life is about to burst with color and confection beyond his wildest dreams. He and four other golden ticket winners will embark on a mesmerizing joyride through a world of pure imagination. Now's your chance to experience the wonders of Wonka like never before – get ready for Oompa-Loompas, incredible inventions, the great glass elevator and more, more, more at this everlasting showstopper! Tickets start at $41 at StrazCenter.org
Wednesday, October 9
from bingo go directly to Tampa Pride. There will also be a 50/50 raffle. Donations of bingo prizes are being accepted.
Tuesday, October 8
Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory plays at the Straz Center for the performing Arts from today through October 13. This show is the perfect recipe for a delectable treat: songs from the original film, including “Pure Imagination,” “The Candy Man” and “I've Got a
The Amalie Arena presents Twenty One Pilots in their BANDITØ TOUR at 8pm. The band was formed in 2009 by lead vocalist Tyler Joseph and drummer Josh Dun. The duo is best known for the singles "Stressed Out", "Ride", and "Heathens". The group received a Grammy Award for Best Pop Duo/Group Performance at the 59th Annual Grammy Awards. Tickets start at $36 at AmalieArena.com. The Van Wezel Performing Arts Hall presents “Once,” which features an ensemble of actor/musicians who play their own instruments onstage. Winner of eight 2012 Tony Awards including Best Musical, Once tells the tale of a Dublin street musician who's giving up on his dream when a young woman takes a sudden
interest in his haunting love songs. As the chemistry between them grows, his music soars to powerful new heights. It's an unforgettable story about going for your dreams and the power of music to connect us all. Tickets start at $57 at vanwezel.org.
Thursday, October 10
The Amway Center presents Maluma in concert at 8pm. Global Latin music idol Maluma today announced his 2019 Maluma 11:11 World Tour in support of his latest
album. Tickets start at $71 at Amwaycenter.com. The MC Rainbow Plantation presents a very special Wine Tasting to benefit PFLAG Tampa from 58pm. Tour this historic home
uniquely renovated by mark and Carrie. This event is sponsored by Ybor City Wine Bar, and Tampa Pride with award winning Sommelier Jayme Kosar. To purchase tickets, which are $20, go to TampaPride.org.
Friday, October 11
Dr. Phillips Center Presents “The Second City, Greatest Hits Vol. 59” today and tomorrow, October 12. There's a reason the biggest names in laughter all catapulted their careers at The Second City...it's been the funniest place on the planet since '59! Come witness the next generation of comedy superstars put their spin on the legendary comedy company's greatest hits, rebooted and re-imagined for today. From sketch comedy to original songs to worldfamous improv, The Second City will leave you rolling in the aisles! Cue mic drop. Tickets from $45 at DrPhillipscenter.org
Saturday October 12
Today is the day that all of Orlando has been waiting for as Come Out With Pride presents Orlando's Annual Pride and Parade from 12pm to 10pm at Lake Eola Park. With more than 150 groups spanning a 1-mile route
through downtown Orlando, a Vendor Marketplace and Sponsor Walk to highlight LGBTQ+ and ally businesses, a community rally, two entertainment stages and a fireworks finale, this year's Pride event will be one for the record books. For more information go to: Comeoutwithpride.com. Stonewall Orlando's Latin Saturdays “Amor” presents, in honor of Orlando Pride, Freestyle Legend LISA LISA Live in Concert. Doors Open
at 7pm with door diva Samantha and her team. They are offering 500 pre-sale tickets available, for only $20, on Ticketleap.com. Admission day of is 7pm10pm $25; 10pm-2am $30. VIP Meet and Greet Tickets including Cover charge $40 (Meet Lisa Lisa). This event is 21 and up. The outdoor stage features a light show, and performances by Lisa Lane, Angelica Michelle Jones, Naomi Aguilera, and Amalara Sofıá. The night will also feature DJ's Kraig Matthews, Franklin Cruel, and Ray Rivera as well as sexy male and female Dancers: Daniel, Garces, Palacio, Fabian, and Giovanni. Orlando's Official Come Out With Pride After Party featuring from RuPaul's Drag Race Jujubee, Ginger Minj and
Ross Matthews. They are offering a free parking and a shuttle to Lake Eola from 110pm, and at 8pm the official after party begins. The Footlight Players shows are at 10 pm and 12am with a 1am VIP Meet & Greet and Photo Op. Admission is $10 Advance and $20 Door with $30 VIP. 18+ welcome. The Dr. Phillips Center for the Performing Arts presents Wayne Brady in a rowdy night of comedy from Orlando's homegrown talent. The six-time Emmy awardwinning and Grammy
nominated actor, singer, dancer, improviser, songwriter and television personality continues to bring powerful performances to the screen and stage.
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Brady can currently be seen as the host of CBS's "Let's Make A Deal” and his work as a regular on the improvisational comedy television series, "Whose Line Is It Anyway?," Tickets start at $39.50 at Drphillipscenter.org.
Friday, October 18
The Gay Men's Chorus of Tampa Bay presents "You Are My Brother," as they will be singing songs of brotherhood and unity celebrating the diversity that is Tampa Bay. 2019 Fall Performance features songs of harmony that will charge you to welcome all peoples and to find strength in our unity. Tonight they will be at the MCC Kinf Of Peace (3150 5th Avenue, St. Petersburg) at 8pm , and tomorrow, October 19, they will perform at the Porticio (1001 N. Florida Ave, Tampa) at 3pm. For more information, go to: GMCTB.org
Tuesday, October 22
FAIRWINDS Broadway in Orlando Presents Les Misé rables at the Dr. Phillips center for the Performing Arts through October 27. Cameron Mackintosh presents the new production of Alain Boublil and Claude-Michel Schö nberg's Tony Awardwinning musical phenomenon, Les Misé rables, direct from an acclaimed twoand-a-half-year return to
Broadway. With its glorious new staging and dazzlingly re-imagined scenery inspired by the paintings of Victor Hugo, this breathtaking new production has left both audiences and critics awestruck. Tickets start at $34.50 at DrPhillipsCenter.org.
Thursday, October 24
Amalie Arena presents Post Malone in their Runaway Tour at 8pm. Post Malone's star continues to rise with the debut of his latest single “Goodbyes,” ft.Young Thug which became an instant hit after its Fourth of July release. This past March, “Wow.” peaked at number two on the Billboard Hot 100, becoming Post Malone's sixth top 10 single. Tickets start at $50 at Amaliearena.com
Tickets start at $35 at StrazCenter.org Amalie Arena presents The Chainsmokers with 5SOS and Lennon Stella at 7pm int heir World War Joy Tour. Their tour announcement came on the heels of The Chainsmokers' latest single “Who Do You Love” featuring 5 Seconds of Summer that immediately shot to No. 1 on iTunes. Tickets start at $26 at AmalieArena.com. they will also be performing tomorrow, October 26 at Amway Center (AmwayCenter.com).
Saturday October 26
Barcodes Orlando presents their monthly “Leather Night”
Friday, October 25
The Straz Center for the performing Arts presents Diavolo Dance Theatre: Architecture In Motion. The jaw-dropping daredevil dance troupe returns with signature spectacular numbers involving enormous, rocking set pieces, muscular dancers
and plenty of gasp-inducing aerials. This evening contains a very special performance— a collaboration between Diavolo, local veterans and Tampa-area dancers to create a unique work around healing through movement.
(Last Saturday of the month), where all the hot leather men hang out! Stonewall Orlando's Latin Saturdays “Amor” presents, A Halloween costume contest with $1000 Cash giveaway, where the winner takes all. Doors Open at 9pm with door diva Samantha Stone, where $15 is the cover all night, although presale tickets are available on Ticketleap for $10. Show time is at 12am starring Yeisa Jovovich Angelica Michelle Jones, and Amanda Grimhilde.
The Parliament House presents Orlando's biggest costume contest with $5,000 IN CASH with the winner taking all!
hilariously hateful comic is known for her foul mouth and unapologetic humor, but her victims hardly have time to feel the sting before she zips on to the next topic. Besides, Bianca is quick to point out that she's the biggest joke of all.For tickets
“Nightmare on Bumby” with a $1,000 in cash and prizes Costume Contest. They also feature two shows. The first is the “Freshman Lineup” with Cara Cavalli-Andrews at 10:30pm, and the main show is at 12:30am starring Rocccy Andrews, Axel Andrews, Kai'Ja Adonis and Ivy Les
Thursday, October 31
Bianca Del Rio brings her “It's Jester Joke” tour to the Straz center for the performing Arts tonight and tomorrow, Friday, November 1 at the Hardrock Live Orlando. Bianca Del Rio, the alter ego of seasoned comic Roy Haylock and season six winner of RuPaul's Drag Race, is a self-professed “clown in a gown.” This
or more information, go to: Thebiancadelrio.com. Southern Nights Orlando's Rush Thursdays presents
Vixens. This is an 18 and over event with no cover for 21+ before 11pm. The Parliament House presents Orlando's biggest costume contest with $3,000 IN CASH with the winner taking all!
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory Hits Tampa's Straz Center October 8 -13
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Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory will end its North American Tour at the Straz Center's for the Performing Arts from Tuesday October 8 through Sunday, October 13. Willy Wonka is opening his marvelous and mysterious chocolate factory ... to a lucky few. That includes Charlie Bucket, whose bland life is about to burst with color and confection beyond his wildest dreams. He and four other golden ticket winners will embark on a mesmerizing joyride through a world of pure imagination. Now's your chance to experience
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the wonders of Wonka like never before – get ready for Oompa-Loompas, incredible inventions, the great glass elevator and more, more, more at this everlasting showstopper! With direction by three-time Tony Award winner Jack O'Brien, Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory features music by Grammy, Emmy and Tony Award winner Marc Shaiman, lyrics by Grammy and Tony Award winners Scott Wittman and Marc Shaiman, a book by Artistic Director of Edinburgh's Royal Lyceum theatre David Greig, choreography by Tony Award nominee and Emmy Award winner Joshua Bergasse and includes additional songs by Leslie Bricusse and Anthony Newley from the 1971 Warner Bros. motion picture. Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory features scenic and costume design by ive-time Tony Award nominee Mark Thompson, lighting design by four-time Tony Award nominee Japhy Weideman, sound design by Andrew Keister, projection design by Je Sugg, puppet and illusion design by Obie and Drama Desk Award winner Basil Twist, orchestrations by three-time Tony
Award winner Doug Besterman and music supervision by Nicholas Skilbeck. The hit Broadway musical features songs from the original ilm, including "Pure Imagination," "The Candy Man," and "I've Got a Golden Ticket," alongside a toe-tapping and ear-tickling new score from the songwriters from Hairspray. Roald Dahl's Charlie and the Chocolate Factory is produced by Warner Bros. Theatre Ventures (Mark Kaufman), Langley Park Productions (Kevin McCormick) and Neal Street Productions (Sam Mendes, Caro Newling). It was a pleasure to sit down with Elijah Dillehay (Assistant Dance Captain, Swing, u/s for Augustus Gloop and Mike Teavee).
When did the performing bug take a hold of you?
How did you get cast in in “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory?”
A lot of auditions. It started around two years ago…January was the original audition, and I kept getting called back. In May I couldn't go to the inal call back as I was working, so I thought I lost the opportunity. However, a few weeks later I got the call.
Besides this role, what has been your favorite role?
It really is this show because I swing and I play different roles all the time. And then I understudy for 2 main characters that are polar opposites. It feels like a different show for me every night.
Well my mom put me in music lessons when I was 7; irst piano and then voice. Dance came in high school, because I did Musical Theater there. Later on I trained Ballet. I started performing in regional theater but music is what got me started.
What was your first professional/paid gig?
I did get paid for the regional theater work I did, but I was too young to ever see it. However, my irst show out of college was “West Side Story” in New Hampshire's “Opera North,” and I get paid for that.
When did you know performing would be your career?
I ran from it for the longest time as I grew up in a small town. My parents are farmers, and have always been supportive, but never really thought performing would be my future. I originally went to an in state college in Tennessee and studied pre-med. I realized I hated what I was doing, so I left that college and went to dance school, and the rest is history.
Elijah Dillehay
What's your dream/fantasy role?
I know I will never play her, but I love the role of Grizabella in “Cats,” because of the drama of the character. It was also the irst show I saw as a young kid, and was instrumental in me wanting to be a performer.
What should our readers expect from the touring company of “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory?”
I would say one of my favorite things about our cast is diversity. We have a wide array pf people and performers. How they act, sing, and dance. The show is very different from a lot of productions as the principle characters are the big over the top kids and parents, and they require speci ic actors to be in those roles. For more info on Elijah you can go to his website: ElijahDillehay.com or you can follow him at: Instagram.com/eadillehay To purchase tickets, which start at $41, go to Starzcenter.org or at the box of ice at: 1010 N. W.C. MacInnes Place Tampa, FL 33602 For more info on the show go to: Charlieonbroadway.com
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Cirque du Soleil’s AXEL Opens in Tampa
October 31st at Amalie Arena
Cirque du Soleil is proud to announce its return on ice with a new creation that will spin you into the vibrant world of Cirque du Soleil AXEL. This unique experience will showcase world-class acrobatic skating performances set in fantastical universes combining fullspectrum visual effects and awesome live music that seamlessly integrates popular songs with new original scores. Cirque du Soleil AXEL will be presented at the Amalie Arena for 7 performances only, starting October 31. “The success of our irst creation on ice has reinforced our ambition to further explore the extensive creative possibilities of a frozen playground,” says Daniel Fortin, Vice President Creation. “With Cirque du Soleil AXEL, we will offer a truly electrifying experience to all audiences, pushing the boundaries of creativity with the unique approach that has forged the reputation of Cirque du Soleil.” Embark on the journey of Axel, a young man and his dynamic group of friends, whose passion for live music and graphic arts come to life in an exhilarating adventure that reminds us all that our dreams are within reach. Discover this young artist as he falls for the fascinating Lei in a highspeed chase for love and selfrealization. Get lifted by the electrifying experience of Cirque du Soleil AXEL, with stunning performances blending ice-skating, acrobatics and live music that will leave all audiences astounded! Tickets for Cirque du Soleil AXEL are available online at Cirquedusoleil.com/AXEL.
The 'Clown in a Gown' talks death-drop disdain, bachelorettes in gay clubs and why she's done with “Drag Race” By Chris Azzopardi
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Bianca Del Rio is in Stockholm on her It's Jester Joke comedy tour (which she brings to 2 Central Florida locations on Oct 31 and Nov 1), still subject to the fraught human realities of traveling despite her top-tier queen status. And packing – don't remind her. “As a drag queen, you travel with so much shit,” says Del Rio (aka Roy Haylock). Famous for her tart candor, the Louisianaborn stand-up comedian's success is a result of saying what she thinks and not caring what you think. And you, of course, already know this if you witnessed the self-proclaimed “Clown in a Gown” reign over the other crown-pining contestants during season six of RuPaul's Drag Race in 2014. Five years later, Del Rio, who has written a book, Blame It on Bianca Del Rio, and starred in her own ilm, Hurricane Bianca, is still coming out on top. In June, New York magazine named Del Rio one of the top 100 “Most Powerful Drag Queens in America.” Just before bringing her worldwide comedy tour stateside, Del Rio called to defend bachelorettes who celebrate at gay clubs, predict an inevitable Lizzo backlash and roast Drag Race queens who use emotional manipulation to get ahead in the competition.
What is the one thing you absolutely cannot leave home without?
I'm a drag queen – there are so many elements. I de initely need makeup. But a razor, I would assume. The problem is, with drag you have to travel with so much stuff. You have to bring size
12 shoes, extra eyelashes; you can't really ind that stuff just anywhere. De initely not in Stockholm. So I have to pack a lot of stuff. A lot more than I usually would like to admit.
How many suitcases do you travel with?
Four suitcases. Three of those are drag, one of them is what I call my “boy bag.” It's just to have options. The airport struggle – the security, the baggage, all that shit – really does start to wear on you.
And imagine if you went through airport security as – well, maybe you do go through as Bianca.
I've never had to ly in drag – thankfully!
As a self-proclaimed expert on nothing who has an opinion on everything, I need your take on John Travolta nearly giving Taylor Swift impersonator Jade Jolie a VMA because he mistook her for the actual Taylor Swift.
(Laughs) I mean, it's hysterical. Obviously he's got delusion problems. He's not dealing with a full deck right now. He also is a Scientologist, which goes to show it. And he had that Adele Nazeem moment. Either he's a drunk or he takes a pill or he just doesn't fucking care. I was just glad to see he was not wearing a wig. There's a rarity! So, you know, he's embracing his non-wig self. Next he'll admit that he's gay.
That he confused them – was it a compliment to Taylor or to Jade?
To Jade, because she's a Taylor Swift impersonator. I think it's great. I think it's an honest mistake, because to be fair I can't tell any white girls apart.
As Bianca, do you ever confuse people?
I do meet-and-greets, and when you have meet-and-greets, people are always like, “Oh, I just saw you in Stockholm!” or “I saw you in London!” and I have to really think. You do 150 people a night as part of the meet-and-greets, so it's very hard to remember. There's usually some characteristic that gets me there, but on occasion I've been like, “Have we met before?!” And they'll say, “No.” I'm like, “Oh… OK. Thought we did.” So it can fuck with you, with that many people a night. But I really haven't mistaken anybody for anybody of importance, no.
If John Travolta met you, who knows who you might be mistaken for.
Who cares! I'm not interested! He's not high on my list.
Who is high on your list?
I think every gay man would say Dolly Parton. She's that rare one that is almost like some mythical creature. She's just one of those who I love not only because she's Dolly Parton and I've grown up with her, but also she's just so fucking funny.
Some people might describe you as a “mythical creature” too.
Emphasis on the word “creature,” yes. But mythical? No. (Laughs)
Oh, I don't care. Whoever buys a fucking ticket, I don't give a shit. Gurl, listen: I think people have lost their minds. The gays don't even wanna be in the gay bars anymore! They're all on a f*cking app anyway. Nobody is even paying attention. And look, at least somebody's in the bar. Somebody has to buy a drink to keep gay bars open. You can't rely on gay men to do that. So look, let the girls come in, let them have a good time. Not like I've never told a bitch to shut up. You can do that, but you can't be offended. Who cares! As long as they're there having fun, fuck it.
Isn't the point of coming to a Bianca Del Rio show to be offended?
First of all, it's important to laugh at ourselves. I laugh at myself, and I laugh at everything that I could possibly laugh at. But I think we've lost that because there's so
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This is very controversial in gay bars, so I wonder if this translates to your shows. But do you let bachelorette parties come to Bianca shows?
much with social media warriors constantly saying, “You can't say this” and “I'm offended.” Well, then, fuck off! If you're offended by me, then don't come and see me. It's very simple. I don't like Kim Kardashian, but I don't spend my life watching her on fucking TV or writing all over her Facebook or Instagram or Twitter saying, “I hate you, you're a piece of shit.” I just don't care. You can live a successful life with someone not liking you.
Have you always been the kind of person who says what some people really want to say but are too scared to say? Has that always been your style? Always. Yeah, yeah.
As a kid?
Yeah, as a child everything was always funny to me, and I would always try to ind humor in all of it. It's just what you have to do. It was just my survival skills. Imagine being different, being artsy, being gay. All that de initely can either turn on you or you can ind a way through it, and that was just my way through it, which is being blunt and upfront. And the people who got it – usually the smart ones – understood it.
When did you know you could get away with more if you put on a costume?
When I got paid. I always said it, but it wasn't until the packaging came with it. And it's not so much that I can get away with more – it's just what's easier for people to accept. For instance, with drag in particular, the average person would think, “I have nothing of interest with a drag queen.” But when they see it, they're kind of fascinated by it. So, for me, it was just this evolution into it. I mean, I could totally live my life without being in drag and I probably will. I'm not doing this forever.
What do you think your post-drag life will look like?
That's the stupidest question! I have no idea! I know I don't want to be schlepping around the world in a wig and heels at 60, I can tell you that. It's one of those things where I'm like, look, it's been 24 years so far, I'm all right, but I know it's not forever. And I have no idea. I didn't plan this far. So I don't know what the fuck I'll be doing. But it'll be
something fun, that's for sure.
You once said it's important to know your limits. What new limits have you set for yourself at 44?
I said I didn't want to do drag at 40 because at the time I think I was 37 and it was right before Drag Race, and so I was working a regular job in New York City during the day making costumes for Broadway and then at night working in a club. So at that point, 18 years of working in the clubs and trying to stay a loat – and the bars were fading, not many people were coming out like they used to, so New York nightlife completely changed and I thought I could wrap this up at 40 and be OK. I'd had a great 20 years and that would've been that. But then at 38 – well, 37 is when I ilmed Drag Race – it shifted everything, it elevated everything, and I was ready for the challenge. But I don't think I want to stay in that particular game. I mean, no one should. No one should stay in something just because you've been doing something. You have to trust your instincts and move on. I de initely know this is not something I want to do forever on this level. It's demanding – and by no means am I bitching about it. I'm being realistic here. Options! (Laughs)
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I'm living proof that you can get through the show without f*cking crying in every episode...
After your controversial remark during Montreal Pride about “Drag Race” season 10 contestant Blair St. Clair in 2018, did that have you reconsidering how far to push the envelope?
First and foremost, I have a problem with, when you're watching a drag show and everybody has an ailment or an issue or loves to tug at your heartstrings to try to get people to like you. That's what I was discussing (during her set, Del Rio said, "You got the one going 'Ugh, I'm fat.' Then you got the other one going 'Ugh, I'm a black queen,'" referencing
season 10 contestants Eureka O'Hara and The Vixen. She then mentioned Blair St. Clair opening up about being sexually assaulted: “Then you got that other bitch, 'I was raped!' No, fuck you…”). I was discussing someone being left at a bus stop, somebody being sick. All of that is part of the nonsense of being part of a reality show. And I'm entitled to an opinion when someone's about to lip sync for their life and they start pulling out all this fuckery. There's a time and place to discuss serious topics. So my joke was about people that ind any way to bring up their heartache and pull on heartstrings, that's what I was discussing. And so no, I refuse to change anything that I say and do because, like I said, the people who like it, like it, the people who don't, don't. But as they have an opinion about me, I can have an opinion about the ridiculousness of a drag show. It's my take on it. And I'm living proof that you can get through the show without f*cking crying in every episode, for cripes' sake! I laugh at the fuckery. I laugh at the stunts and gimmicks. It's no worse than somebody doing a death-drop. It's been done! Just fucking be entertaining! I'm so sick of all these sob stories! That's what that's about.
I'm guessing that even though you were named one of America's most powerful drag queens, it's not true that with great power comes great responsibility.
I think that's absolutely ridiculous. There's a list that says I'm No. 1; there's another list that says I'm the worst drag queen. That's just how it works! None of that means anything. And what's this responsibility? I'm a f*cking man in a wig making a living. I'm not a f*cking superhero. And don't put me on a pedestal because I shouldn't be on a pedestal, because they love to put you on a pedestal and then tear you the f*ck down. You cannot fool me. They love to say you're amazing. Like, look, this girl Lizzo is the one everybody loves right now. Just give her a year and there's gonna be something someone is gonna bitch about and pull out and say “she did this” and say “she did that” and CANCEL her. That's how they are. That's just the world. So look: I'm not looking for that type of acceptance. And you shouldn't be putting faith in f*cking people that are on reality
shows, for cripes' sake. That's ridiculous. People that idolize me or Snooki have problems.
Referring to the way the queens are depicted on “Drag Race” versus their actual persona, you said recently, “I've been behind the curtain. And when you're behind the curtain, it's kind of weird to watch.” Do people get a better understanding of who you are from your shows than they did from “Drag Race?”
Yes and no. The thing is you can only be yourself when you're on television, and of course if you say something they're going to use it. So the people that say, “Oh, it's the editing”? Well, if you didn't say it, they wouldn't have the
footage. I've accepted responsibility for everything I said and everything I did, and sadly a lot of people don't do that when they leave the show. They have to blame someone, and it won't be themselves.
If you could have been on a different season of “Drag Race,” which season of girls would you have wanted to compete against?
I don't care. I don't have an opinion. (Laughs) I can't even remember who was on what season when! It's that much of a blur. It was six years ago, and I never watched the show when it was airing. I would watch marathons, but I would never watch it weekly, night after night after night. I never followed. The only seasons I'm familiar with are four and ive; the rest of them have become a blur. And, I mean, a lot of them are my friends, but I can't remember which season they were on. I'm also a irm believer that it happened, it was great, I had a great experience and a great moment, but I wouldn't change any of it.
So if an “All Stars: Winners” season ever happens, would you be interested in competing?
Nope. Why? Would you go back to high school?
Bianca will bring her Its Jester Joke Tour to 2 locations in Central Florida. Catch her Halloween day, Thursday, October 31 at the Straz Center for the Performing Arts (Tickets: StrazCenter.org) and the next day, Friday, November 1 at The Hardrock Live Orlando (Tickets: Ticketmaster.com).
As editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBTQ wire service, Chris Azzopardi has interviewed a multitude of superstars, including Cher, Meryl Streep, Mariah Carey and Beyoncé. His work has also appeared in The New York Times, Vanity Fair, GQ and Billboard. Reach him via Twitter @chrisazzopardi.
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LGBA Concert and Conference Coming to Orlando
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Central Florida Sounds of Freedom Band and Color Guard, South Florida Pride Wind Ensemble, and Tampa Bay Pride Band are honored to announce details on the musical events associated with the 2019 Lesbian Gay Band Association (LGBA) conference in Orlando. They invite the public to join them for a night of music, reflection, and inspiration featuring two concert bands and a jazz ensemble. The Pulse tragedy had a huge impact on the LGBT+ community. For Orlando, the impact was a community coming together as one to stand up against hate. The LGBA conference and accompanying music events will celebrate that coming together. With 2019 being the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Uprising, they will honor the past with a focus on building the future. This event will be reflective of our history and accomplishments without forgetting the significant work yet to be done. The concert will feature the debut of 2 commissioned pieces written for this event by acclaimed composers Randall Standridge and Julie Giroux. The performance will be held at The Plaza Live (425 N. Bumby Ave.) at 4pm on Sunday, October 13. Tickets are $20 and available on our website: lgba2019.com/tickets Also, they are excited to present a 300+ piece marching band as part of the Come Out With Pride celebration held in downtown Orlando on Saturday, October 12. In addition to the musical performances,
the 2019 conference will bring hundreds of performers to Orlando to learn, perform, and celebrate. Attendees will experience all of the world-class entertainment, facilities, and leisure activities they have to offer in “The City Beautiful�. LGBA is a musical organization comprised of concert and marching bands from cities across the United States and the world. Formed in 1982 as Lesbian and Gay Bands of America when seven independent bands met formally in Chicago, the Association has grown to 38member organizations including international bands. LGBA bands and affiliate members meet at their annual conference to plan events, encourage the formation of new bands, and share the gift of music with gay and non-gay audiences. Seminars on topics such as musicianship, programming, and organizational skills are held in addition to general business and committee meetings. For more information please visit: lgba2019.com Central Florida Sounds of Freedom Band and Color Guard is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization serving the Orlando area since 2011. Their mission is to promote LGBTQ+ awareness, acceptance, and equality in a positive way through quality entertainment and fellowship. Their diverse membership unites with common goals: to serve and educate through the performing arts. For more information visit us them at: cfsof.com
Dunedin Church Hosts LGBT Stoles Exhibit from October 12-20
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Faith United Church of Christ, 1650 Pinehurst Rd. in Dunedin will host the th international “Shower of Stoles” exhibit, opening Saturday October 12 at 10am, displaying 50 colorful, artistic, sometimes handmade liturgical stoles from gay and lesbian clergy many of whom lost their jobs when “outed” for their sexual orientation. The exhibit draws from a collection of over a thousand stoles, collected from individuals and congregations around the world by the Institute for Welcoming Resources in Minnesota since 1996; the collection tours constantly around the country. The Dunedin exhibit will be open to the public free of charge at Faith UCC, 1650 Pinehurst Rd., Dunedin from October 12-20. Collected from LGBT clergy and lay leaders from 30 denominations, six countries and 3 continents, 50 stoles from the collection will be hung in the sanctuary of Faith UCC, with a brief personal story about each individual. According to Faith UCC Pastor Michael MacMillan, “we are honored to host this extraordinary collection from people of faith who served in diverse faith communities all over the world, and some of whom were excluded because of their sexual orientation.” The exhibit will be open free of charge on Saturdays from 10am-2pm, on Sundays from 12noon-4pm and during the week for groups by special appointment by calling the church office 727-799-4602. Faith United Church of Christ is a spiritual community in Dunedin, FL, celebrating 60 years of progressive, inclusive worship and programs. Contact Pastor Mike MacMillan, 727-799-4602
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Whether you're searching for the ideal career, scoping out a new place to live or planning a vacation, life is all about making right choices. Living a healthy, fitness lifestyle also requires that you make key decisions. Becoming more active, finding a great gym, making the time to work out all require proper planning. While these are crucial factors, it's your nutritional choices that will determine your success. Yes, it's what you put in your mouth that will make or break your health and your physique. Eating “right� requires knowledge and planning. Certainly, the best nutritional strategy is to shop for and prepare your own healthy meals consisting of good clean organic foods. There is nothing better than a diet consisting of complex,
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low-glycemic index carbohydrates (fresh fruits, vegetables, beans and whole grains), lean fresh protein sources ( chicken, fish, beef) and very low amounts of polyunsaturated fat (low-fat dairy and some cheeses).While the above plan is ideal, the reality is, most of us spend a lot of time eating out or eating on the run at restaurants and fast food joints. A few visits to these places every week will pile on the pounds in no time! Here are a few pointers about restaurant eating that can keep you lean and on track with your fitness goals. Breakfast or brunch on the weekend with friends can be a pleasure. But in one sitting you can literally consume your daily calorie requirements of fats and carbs. Ask for eggbeaters when ordering an omelet. Avoid bagels, and Danish and opt instead for an English muffin or a couple of pieces of whole grain toast. Try unbuttered grits with a little
fresh salsa instead of hash browns. Avoid processed meats like bacon and sausage. A sandwich for lunch sounds simple and convenient. Yet, it's not just burgers that are lethal, those deli sandwiches can be just as deadly. Between those slices of bread lurk some serious calorie pitfalls like mayo, salad dressing, several servings of salty cold cuts, and loads of fattening cheese. Choose whole-grain breads or better yet, a wrap and grilled chicken instead of ham, roast beef, tuna or chicken salad. Order only half a sandwich and avoid super sizes. Pasta is good energy food but, request a half portion and you'll save hundreds of calories. Eat pasta earlier in the day so that the carbs fuel the rest of the day's activities. If it's available, choose a healthy whole-wheat pasta or spinach
pasta for a more fiber-rich dish and pair it with a lean protein grilled portion of chicken or fish. Avoid cheesy calorie-dense dishes like ravioli, manicotti and lasagna. Sushi is a healthy choice when dining out. Broiled fish, steamed veggies, edamame and tuna, yellowtail and salmon sashimi are all tasty and light Japanese fare. But unless you want to look like a sumo wrestler, steer clear of tempura and agemono, which indicate deep-fried. Tom Bonanti is a certified personal trainer and massage therapist (MA#40288) with his own one on one facility www.pumpnincgym.com in Ft. Lauderdale. Contact trainertomb@aol.com or call Tom (954) 557-1119 to schedule a massage or training session today.
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“There is NO turning back� after you open Pandora’s Box.
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Dear Andreus, My boyfriend wants to open our relationship. We have been together for 10 years, and he says that we are strong enough to now experiment. Even though I told him I don't exactly like the idea, he keeps pushing it. Admittedly, there is a guy that we both find super-hot, that he is suggesting we play around with, but I am just afraid of the repercussions. What should I do? Sincerely, Roland P. Dear Roland, Situations such as this are like Pandora 's Box. Once you open it you are not sure what is going to be unleashed, but things will never be the same. That is a decision that you must make with the utmost comfort being aware of the possible repercussions. There is no turning back. For some people it works, and for others it is destructive to their relationship. I think the first question that needs to be addressed is if there is something missing from your relationship that prompts the need to open that door. Maybe just something new or spontaneity could refresh your relationship without going that route. But ultimately, it's a decision that should be made with both people in complete agreement without hesitation. Hope that helps. Dear Andreus, My girlfriend and I have been raising a child together. I work, and she pretty
much watches our 3-year-old. I work super long shifts and feel like I am missing out on so much of our son's life. I want to switch roles for a while, let my girlfriend go back to work, and get some much-needed parenting time with our son. I feel particularly strong about it because I am the one who physically gave birth to him. My girlfriend is against it. She keeps saying don't try to fix what's not broken. Help me please. Sincerely, Sarah J. Dear Sarah, This is not the first time I have witnessed this struggle with parenting equality. May I suggest that both of you come to an agreement that allows for you both to have equal time with your son, which in parenting is usually the goal. You could start by cutting back hours and asking your girlfriend to work a schedule that allows for both of you to get roughly the same amount of time with your son, including complete family time together. These years are essential, and if you are raising him together, then you both need to be equally present.