Houston Family Magazine September 2023 Issue

EXPLORING BELIZE SEX, ALCOHOL & PEER PRESSURE: DISCUSSING TOUGH TOPICS

— AVOIDING HOMEWORK HASSLES

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6 THINGS YOUR TEEN NEEDS

— THE GRANDPARENT CONNECTION

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

8 CREATIVE AND FUN WAYS FOR GRANDPARENTS TO CONNECT

Written by the Rebecca Hastings

12 SEX, ALCOHOL & PEER PRESSURE: HOW TO TACKLE TOUGH TOPICS WITH YOUR KIDS

Written by Christina Katz

16 WHAT PARENTS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT TEEN DEPRESSION AND SUICIDE

Written by Jan Pierce

18 NO HOMEWORK HASSLES: 7 SIMPLE WAYS TO RAISE CONSCIENTIOUS STUDENTS

Written by Christina Katz

20 ARE MUSIC LESSONS WORTH THE COST?

Written by Sarah Lyons

22 6 THINGS YOUR KID NEEDS BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO ASK FOR

Written by Rebecca Hastings

26 A CONTEST FOR KIDS TO SHARE THEIR LOVE OF THE LONE STAR STATE

Written by They Bryan Museum

28 WAYS TO MEMORALIZE THE LOSS OF A PET

Written by Tanni Haas PhD

30 EXPLORE BELIZE: UNBELIEVABLE NATURE & CULTURE

Written by Kimberly Davis Guerra

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Creative and Fun Ways for

kids & grandparents to connect

written by Rebecca Hastings

There is something special about the relationship between kids and their grandparents. I still remember pulling up to McDonald’s with my grandfather. He would take his leather change purse out of his pocket and count the exact change for his cup of coffee. He always knew exactly how much it would be.

Our trips weren’t fancy. It wasn’t expensive. Sometimes I didn’t even get anything. It didn’t take a long time. Just a ride to get his coffee. But it was something we did together. And that is what made it special.

If you want your children to feel connected to their grandparents, you can find simple things that your children will remember. Whether they live close to their grandparents or far away, you can foster the relationship and connection you want them.

What’s the Secret?

The number one thing you can do to foster a connection between your kids and their grandparents is to be intentional. Fostering a close relationship between the generations requires consistent choices to connect. You can’t do one thing and expect a lifelong connection filled with fond memories. When you are intentional about creating opportunities for your kids and parents to engage with one another, you help them create a bond.

A Word of Advice

A child’s relationship with their grandparent is supposed to look different than their relationship with their parents. While grandparents need to respect how parents raise their kids, parents also need to remember that it’s okay for grandparents to do things differently than they would.

Part of the fun of a relationship with grandparents is that they are not the parent. They can give an extra cookie or read an extra book before bed. I still remember the cookie tin that was never off-limits in my grandma’s kitchen.

As long as the grandparents are not doing anything that conflicts with important boundaries parents set for their children, it is part of how grandparents and grandkids create their own fun relationship.

Here are some creative and simple ways for your child and their grandparents to create a special connection.

Grandparents Live Close By

Proximity and availability give grandparents that live close by unique opportunities that not everyone has. Some things to try:

A weekly date: Set up a weekly time for the child to spend with their grandparent. This could be just a visit to their house or a time to go out together. Make it the same every week so it becomes part of the normal routine instead of something that gets overlooked. Even having a grandparent pick your child up from school one day each week helps them connect.

Sleepovers: A sleepover is a great way to spend long blocks of time together if everyone feels comfortable with the idea. It allows fun things like bedtime stories, staying up late, and having breakfast together in the morning. Plus, it is a good way for kids to get comfortable with sleepover experiences with a trusted family member.

Invite grandparents to activities: Grandparents often love attending kids’ activities like sporting events and school plays. Be sure to invite them to come. Make sure they know when they are so they can plan ahead.

Little traditions: Create small traditions between your kids and their grandparents. Like the McDonald’s trips with my

grandfather, even simple things like getting a donut create fond memories over time. Try simple things like going to a favorite store, helping with projects, or making a favorite recipe. Kids love to help taste-test baked goods!

Grandparents Live Far Away

It may seem challenging to connect with grandparents when they live far away, but there are great ways to bridge the distance, especially with technology.

Storytime: Use apps like Zoom or FaceTime to have grandparents read their grandchildren a story. It’s a fun way for kids to hear stories their grandparents love. You can even encourage your child to read a story to their grandparent and sneak in some reading practice! It’s especially fun if both your child and the grandparent have a copy of the book to look at during their storytime.

A weekly call: It may not sound glamorous, but setting up a time for a weekly call helps them feel connected regularly. During the week you can encourage your child to write down things to share with their grandparents so they’re ready with something to talk about. You can also teach them some questions to ask their grandparent. They can ask about the weather where they are, ask about something funny that happened, or find out what they did during the week.

Long-distance dates: With a little planning, grandparents can still enjoy dates with their grandkids. If they send along a gift card for ice cream, they can set up a time when they each go to their local ice cream shop and talk on the phone or FaceTime while they enjoy their treat.

Make something together: Find a family recipe and (with a little help) have your child make it. They can make it while on Zoom with their grandparent or simply call them and tell them about it.

Start a collection: Find a common interest like collecting stamps or special rocks. They can each start a collection and share exciting finds on the phone or the next time they visit.

Special Tips for Tweens and Teens

Staying connected during the tween and teen years can be hard for all of us. Finding little ways to connect with their grandparents is special for their grandparents and them.

Send a text: Encourage kids to send their grandparents a text sharing about how they did in a game or on a test.

Teach grandparents to text or connect on social media: It may sound silly, but it’s where kids spend their time. Helping grandparents meet kids where they are fosters more connection.

Send a photo: Grandparents love photos. Use a digital frame that allows your teen to send their photos right from their phone. It’s a great surprise for grandparents to see a new picture pop up.

Ask for help with rides: One of the best times I can get my teens to talk is in the car. Asking a grandparent to help with rides is a good way to give them time to connect without it feeling like too much for your child.

Fostering a close relationship between your child and their grandparents is a gift for everyone that lasts far beyond the childhood years. As you make consistent choices for connection and you will have a front-row seat to watching that special bond grow.

M is For Music

by Greg Poprocki (Babylit Publishing)

Engaging retro illustrations present the world of music, from the piccolo to the nose flute, from the veena to the ukulele. Each page contains rich cultural elements from the instrument's region of origin.

Ditty Bird Action Songs

by Ditty Bird USA

Ditty Bird wants you to shake a tail feather with him! Stand up, touch your toes and jiggle around as you sing along to all the High Action favorites.

Moo Baa La La La

by Sandra Boynton (Simon & Schuster)

Ideal for reading aloud, this classic book encourages youngsters to imitate the sounds made by Boynton's seriously silly signature animals. (Baby/Preschool)

Dolly Parton’s Billy The Kid Makes It Big

by Dolly Parton (Penguin Workshop)

French bulldog Billy the Kid loves barking to the beat of country music! He'll need his favorite songs (“Jowlene” and “I Will Pawlways Love You,” of course), to regain selfconfidence and be the star he always knew he could be.

Song In The City

by Daniel Bergstrom (Amistad Books For Young Readers)

A young girl, filled with the sounds of her beloved city, shares a song with her grandmother that changes the two forever.

Sofia

Acosta Makes A Scene

by Emma Otheguy

(Yearling Books)

A poignant coming-of-age story about a Cuban American girl trying to figure out where she belongs--both in her ballet-loving family and the wider world.

Rhythm & Muse by India Hill-Brown (Quill Tree Books)

When Darren’s dream girl and podcaster announces a theme song contest, his friends submit one of Darren’s projects which catches Delia’s attention.

Who Was Maria Tallchief?

By Catherine Gourley (Penguin Workshop)

A biography of the Osage Indian ballerina whose love of dance took her from a life on a reservation to a career on the stage.

We Still Belong

by Christine Day (Heartdrum)

Wesley's hopeful plans for Indigenous Peoples' Day (and asking her crush to the dance) go all wrong until she finds herself surrounded by the love of her Indigenous family and community at the intertribal powwow

A History of Music For Children

by Mary Richards (Thames & Hudson)

A global history of music for children, celebrating how and why we make music.

Let’s Go To The Museum

by Luisa Vera (Schiffer Books)

Join a dad and his child for an interactive visit through the art museum. The guided tour turns into an incredible maze adventure as you go through each room of recognizable artists and art styles.

Sex, Alcohol & Peer Pressure

HOW TO TACKLE TOUGH TOPICS WITH YOUR KIDS

written by Christina Katz

When it comes to discussing difficult topics with your kids, your natural inclination may be to try to avoid the job altogether. But remember, your children will pay for your hesitancy or embarrassment with a lack of awareness they will need to make good decisions. You don't want your child making emotion-fueled, spur-of-the-moment choices about alcohol, sex or peer pressure to try and prove something to their friends. You want them to be in the know, be prepared, and know in advance where they stand on crucial decisions before they get caught in a slippery situation.

While sweet, innocent naiveté might be a preferable fantasy to parents in the short run, protecting kids too much can cost them as they progress through rites of passage. How soon do your kids need to be ready to make good choices? Earlier than you may think-according to the National Institute On Alcohol Abuse And Alcoholism, 40 percent of adolescents report drinking by eighth grade, and 55 percent report being drunk at least once by 12th grade. Kids who head off to middle school with a solid understanding of how to make good choices about alcohol, sex, and peer pressure, can worry less and thrive more.

According to The Mayo Clinic, sex education is a parent's responsibility. And by reinforcing and supplementing what kids learn in school, parents can set the stage for a lifetime of healthy sexuality. Kids rely on parents to help them make good choices. Eighty percent of teens feel that parents should have a say in whether they drink or not. Be optimistic about the positive impact you can have. Information is power. It is uncommon for tweens to start having consensual sex before the age of twelve, therefore conversations about sex need to start early-likely long before you think your child is considering the option. Ideally, you want to start presenting your child with basic information on alcohol, sex, and peer-pressure from a young age.

The Mayo Clinic also reports that peer pressure, curiosity, and loneliness can steer teenagers into early sexual activity. Therefore, do not delay. Start talking to your kids about the big three today. Here's how:

Start Early.

Don't wait until your child is facing challenges to start talking about tough topics. As soon as your child begins to read, arm her with books that tackle important topics. Girls start puberty between the ages of eight and thirteen and boys start puberty between the ages of nine and fifteen. This means if you are going to get a jump on teaching kids about puberty, you will begin around the time they enter Kindergarten. A little bit of information delivered gradually each year will seem much less intimidating, rather then waiting for middle school and dumping a lot of information on kids all at once.

Cover The Basics.

How well do you understand biology, chemistry, and sociology? When your child hits puberty, he is going to be affected physically, emotionally, and within his peer group. This is especially true if your child is the first or the last in a group of friends to hit puberty. You might need a refresher course before you feel confident holding your own in conversations with your child about challenging topics. When your child starts watching health and wellness videos in school, be sure you watch them too. You can even watch them together, if you think this will spark questions and discussion. Check in with your child's teacher for more information on her plans.

Be Authoritative.

Parents who have the best results getting through to teens are authoritative rather than authoritarian, permissive or neglectful. So have thoughtful limits for your kids and express them to your kids frequently. Don't imagine they will know what you expect unless you tell them. Studies show that parents with a permissive attitude towards drinking, combined with poor communication and unhealthy modeling, lead teens into unhealthy relationships with alcohol. Parents who provide a healthy and consistent balance of discipline and support are more likely to have teens respect their boundaries on drinking and other behaviors.

Cover New Angles.

Kids grow up and as they do, you will become aware of important details that you failed to cover. You talked about biological sex, but did you discuss when to have sex? Kids who know their parents discourage sex are more likely to wait. You broached the topic of alcohol, but did you get into the dangers of drugs? You don't want your child thinking drugs are any less dangerous than alcohol. You talked about peer pressure on the playground, but what about when there is a car involved? Make sure your child will call you rather than get in the car with a drunk driver. The older kids get, the more contexts and social situations they will encounter. Keep reviewing possible scenarios with your kids so they will not be taken off guard. Teach them that it's not only okay to say no, but that life requires us to say no sometimes in order to make the best choices for ourselves.

Keep Circling Back.

You are never done discussing delicate topics. For example, 80% of kids will try alcohol in high school but even if your child starts drinking in college or later, keep talking. She needs to know that you are consistently focused on her wellbeing no matter what her age. Late elementary school and middle school are important times to talk about the negative effects of over-indulging in alcohol. By the time kids become teens, they should have an in-depth understanding of the negative effects of alcohol and should know you are willing to talk more any time.

Restrict Media Images Of Partying.

A 2010 Dartmouth Medical School study concluded that parents who steers kids clear of R-rated movies helped kids stay strong against peer-pressure to drink alcohol. According to James A. Sargent, M.D., "The research to date suggests that keeping kids from R-rated movies can help keep them from drinking, smoking, and doing a lot of other things that parents don't want them to do." In another study conducted the same year, Doctor Sargent concluded that children who watch R-rated movies become more prone to sensation-seeking and risk taking. Make sure your kids are mature enough for what they watch. If you are unsure, watch with them and set clear guidelines.

Create Opportunities For Discussion.

Whatever you do, don't become so fanatical about your child making good choices that she will want to avoid these topics with you altogether. A relaxed, age-appropriate, multi-media approach can help keep the conversation going without you having to constantly bring up topics yourself. For family movie night, choose a film that sparks discussion or take your child to see a movie in the theatre and then discuss it over dinner afterwards. Studies have shown that parents who are concerned, engaged and speak openly about expectations help their kids make more responsible choices. You want kids to know you care, but you don't want to drive them nuts. So don't ban films and media altogether, just try to take an active role.

Encourage Questions.

If your kids come to you with questions about alcohol, sex, and peer-pressure, then you know you are doing a good job keeping the doors to good communication open. Thank your child for asking questions. Resist the urge to make jokes or brush off your child's feelings. Respond to inquiries as thoughtfully as you can. You want to make sure the questions keep coming to you. Cast your vote in every potentially confusing situation. Better yet, turn the table and ask your teen what he thinks is the best choice in a situation. This is a good way to find out if she is listening or tuning you out.

Look In The Mirror.

Your child is going to pick up on the way you relate to your own body. Are you constantly on a diet? Typically complaining about weight you want to lose but not exercising? Do you drink soda, eat junk food, and hit the fast food drive through when you are upset? Do you drink often or excessively on occasion? Kids are imitators. They will do what you do. They will act the way you act. If you say yes to every request for your time and don't take time to take care of yourself, then your children will not learn to say no, either. How's your sex life? How's your drinking? How's your ability to say no? If the answer is not good, get to work on make better choices yourself, since this is what you expect of your kids.

When is your job as a choice coach done? Never. The goal for both you and your child is thoughtful responsiveness. Make sure your child has all the information she needs to get to the place where she can make conscious choices and you will sleep better tonight and every night.

Author and freelance journalist Christina Katz was a tween-teen once and thank goodness. She draws on her memories-both happy and humiliating-to stay as far ahead of her tween daughter as she can.

parent resources

>> Back To School For Parents

Get the information you need first, so you won't be thrown by questions your child dreams up about alcohol, sex, and peer pressure. These sites can help:

Kidshealth: http://kidshealth.org/

MedlinePlus: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/ medlineplus/childrenandteenagers.html

NIAAA: http://www.niaaa.nih.gov/

>> Books About Puberty

For Girls:

The Care And Keeping Of You, The Body Book For Younger Girls, Revised Edition by

Valorie Schaefer

The Care And Keeping Of You, The Body Book For Older Girls

by Carla Natterson

The Girl's Body Book, Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up YOU

by Kelli Dunham

What's Happening To My Body? A Girl's Guide

by Lynda Madaras and Area Madaras

Period. A Girl's Guide by JoAnn

Loulan and Bonnie Worthen

The Period Book, Updated Edition: Everything You Don't Want to Ask (But Need to Know)

by Karen Gravelle

For Boys:

The Boy's Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up YOU

by Kelli Dunham

What's Happening To My Body? A Boy's Guide by Lynda

Madaras and Area Madaras

What's Going On Down There? Answers To Questions Boys Find Hard To Ask

by Karen Gravelle

>> Watch Media Together

TV Shows That Tackle Tween/Teen Issues:

• The Wonder Years

• Freaks and Geeks

• My So-Called Life

Movies about peer pressure:

For Tweens:

• The Mighty

• Stand By Me

• Now And Then

• August Rush

• The Sandlot

• The Breakfast Club

For Teens:

• Pretty In Pink

• Freedom Writers

• Mean Girls

• The Man In The Moon

• Mystic Pizza

• Say Anything

• Perks Of Being A Wallflower

Movies about pregnancy:

• Riding In Cars With Boys

• Where The Heart Is

• Juno

• Quinceañera

For Parents:

• American Teen (documentary)

• Secret Life of the American Teenager

What Parents Should Know about Teen Depression and Suicide

written by Jan Pierce

Teens face many pressures in our fast-paced world. They endure the natural body and hormone changes we all faced as young people, plus questions of identity and finding a place socially, emotionally and psychologically. But teen depression goes further than normal moodiness and can sometimes be hard to diagnose. The good news is that teen depression is treatable and young lives can be rescued back to normalcy.

In 2020 the Psychiatric Research and Clinical Practice journal published a piece that linked the alarming rise in mental health issues for teens to increased technology use. It cited loneliness

stemming from reduced face to face social interactions, poorer communication when with peers due to interrupted interactions, poor sleep patterns and less quality sleep. It also cited cyberbullying

and toxic online interactions including a tendency for young people to encourage others to self-harm in a contagious negative online space.

Today, the poor mental health

and suicidal tendencies of our young people are even more alarming. Teen suicide is on the rise, especially in young girls. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention reports that nearly one in three girls will seriously consider attempting suicide—up nearly 60% from a decade ago. One in five girls report an incident of sexual violence and one in ten report having been forced to have sex. Teens who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual or questioning report extreme and ongoing distress in their struggles with mental health.

The pandemic has exacerbated the mental health challenges for our young people. Sheri Madigan, Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Chair of Research at the University of Calgary, reports that at the height of the pandemic incidents of depression and anxiety doubled. And the longer the pandemic restrictions lasted, the worse the problems became. Issues of social isolation, missed milestones such as graduations, family financial problems related to the virus and school disruptions all worked together to further stress and isolate young people.

Feelings of persistent sadness and hopelessness increased as predictability in daily life routines disappeared. Additionally, many of the mental health resources available in a given community—mentors, counselors, and other support systems often center within schools, and were not available during shut-downs.

It is vital that adults understand and recognize when teens are struggling with mental health issues and are able to direct them to supportive measures.

How to Know Teens Need Help

Since most teens go through some times of sadness and ups

and downs of emotions, it can be difficult to know when they are really in trouble. Here are some behaviors to watch for which, taken together, can alert parents and other adults to their need for help.

• Troubles at School including poor attendance, lack of focus, and a drop in grades

• Drug and Alcohol Abuse in an attempt to bury their pain.

• Lower Self Esteem in which teens may feel ashamed, unworthy or unappealing.

• Reckless Behavior where they engage in high-risk driving, drinking, or unsafe sex.

• Internet Addiction as a means of escaping real life and increasing their sense of isolation.

• Violent Behavior, more common in boys, can be the result of bullying.

In other cases, extreme behaviors such as cutting (selfinjury) or eating disorders may be the result of depression. In addition to the above behaviors, adults may notice that their teens display some of the following behaviors:

• Sadness or hopelessness

• Irritability, anger, hostility

• Frequent crying

• Withdrawal from friends and activities

• Changes in eating and sleeping habits

• Fatigue and lack of energy

• Unexplained aches and pains

• Thoughts of death or suicide

Again, everyone feels some negative feelings from time to time. The key is to watch for patterns, sudden changes in behavior or a combination of the above problems that become worrisome to family members, teachers and others who know the teen well.

Springtime is the time of year when the highest number of suicide attempts among teens takes place. It coincides with the pressures of final exams, fears related to college entrance or other future plans and, sometimes, the worries related to such events as proms and other social events. Some warning signs that a teen may be contemplating suicide include:

• Talking or joking about suicide

• Speaking about death or saying they’d be better off dead

• Writing about death, dying or suicide

• Engaging in risky behavior that causes them to be injured

• Giving away prized possessions

• Seeking out weapons or pills

• Saying goodbye to friends and family members

How You Can Help

Parents can play a role in identifying teen depression and become champions of hope and recovery. You know your child best. Here are some ways you can support teens suffering from depression and thoughts of suicide:

• Focus on listening to the teen, not teaching, reprimanding or lecturing.

• Be persistent in talking with them about the things they’re feeling.

• Accept their feelings and don’t try to change their minds. Acknowledging their pain and sadness can build trust.

• Since you know the teen well, trust your instincts in noticing dangerous behaviors and attitudes and directing the teen toward help via a counselor, teacher, or mental health professional.

Do your best to keep the teen engaged in positive activities such as sports, clubs, or volunteer work. Isolation is the enemy of the depressed teen.

• Spend time with the teen. Talking without distractions can play a big role in helping the teen come to grips with problems.

• Depressed teens need adequate nutrition, sleep and clear boundaries related to their social lives. They need a “safety net” in which to live.

In the U.S. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK or text START to 741-741

The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention: www.afsp. org

Outside the U.S. www.iasp.info/resources/ Crisis_Centres

www.suicide.org

www.childline.org.uk

www.hopesquad.com

Jan Pierce, M.Ed., is the author of Homegrown Readers and Homegrown Family Fun. She specializes in family life, education and parenting articles. Find Jan at www. janpierce.net

Become familiar with available mental health support systems. Below, find help lines and other sources of support for teens who may be suicidal.

No Homework Hassles

7 Simple Ways To Raise Conscientious Students

written by Christina Katz

Homework serves many helpful purposes. Students learn how to follow through on lessons taught in the classroom. Homework tests a student's comprehension of material that has already been covered in class so that learning gaps can be caught early. Finally, homework teaches kids how to focus in locations outside of school. Being able to settle down and get to work on a project is a skill that serves students not only in school and throughout the rest of their lives.

ike it or not, parents, homework is an important part of school and learning. Over an academic career, the amount of work your child brings home will gradually increase as a student progresses through the grades. Homework will also become more challenging and complex as the years go by. Many parents are surprised when they can no longer confidently answer their child's homework questions, especially in math, but don't let this throw you.

Of course, you are not the person who needs to complete your child's homework. You are the person who can help create a space at home where your student can apply focused concentration in the completion of assigned tasks. If you want the transition from school to homework to go as smoothly as possible, be forewarned, you are going to need to monitor your behavior as much as your child's. If you follow these simple tips you can help all your children avoid homework hassles.

1. BE PROHOMEWORK.

Whatever you do, parents, do not get down on the idea of homework. If you do, you might implicitly grant your student permission to dismiss it, too. If your child cannot handle the load that is considered typical for each grade, discuss your child's challenges with the teacher. However a generally negative or critical attitude towards learning, teachers or school only will only undermine your child's ability to prioritize homework. Addressing any concerns swiftly and giving teachers and administrators the benefit of the doubt will serve your student's highest good, inside and outside the classroom.

2. MAKE SPACE FOR EACH STUDENT.

If you have more than one student doing homework, try to create a separate space for each of them to work. The goal of homework is to take students out of a group environment and teach them to work independently. If others are always nearby creating distractions or trying to help, students won't get a chance to see what they can accomplish on their own steam. Of course, some homework is meant to be collaborative. Look to your student for invitations to participate. Otherwise try to give each student space where they can spread out and concentrate uninterrupted for the appropriate amounts of time recommended for their grade. Declare quite time in the house until every student has had time to complete work.

3. PARTICIPATE BUT DON'T TAKE OVER.

Sometimes you will be invited to participate in homework, but more often, your child needs to see what can be accomplished alone. Even when you are invited to pitch in, let students lead the collaboration process. Make sure you are the helper, not the boss. Once you take over your child's homework, it's difficult to get them to reclaim responsibility. After all, you can get it done so much faster and more accurately than they can. So be mindful about not taking over in the first place. If your child is lost or confused about homework instructions, seek out teacher input to help get your student back on track.

4. ENCOURAGE ROUTINE.

Use the first few weeks of the school year to establish a set

routine for getting homework done throughout the year. Your child might be crabby or tired during the first weeks of school as they adjust to new schedules and juggling more responsibilities than they did during the summer. But resist the urge to make exceptions to the expected homework routine in the first few weeks, as these habits set the tone for the rest of the school year. In fact, you will likely find yourself going through a homework adjustment period after each school vacation throughout the year. Stand firm that homework is the first priority when students return home each weekday. Homework for Mondays can be completed on Fridays or Sundays, according on what works best for your student and family.

5. TAKE ADVANTAGE OF STUDENTTEACHER INTERACTION.

Some children are more shy than others. Other children may have trouble listening carefully to homework instructions in class. Others may forget to write down assignments or leave needed materials behind at school. Try to see all of these homework pitfalls as opportunities for your child's growth. Don't interfere unless you have to. Conspire with your child's teacher to work together to help your student overcome unproductive habits. Don't get down on your child. Instead, brainstorm with the teacher about ways to inspire improved academic performance. Teachers always have plenty of experience in this department.

6. CHECK GRADES REGULARLY.

At some point, your child's grades will be posted online with the expectation that

students and parents will keep up with academic progress. When this happens, it means that you won't likely hear from teachers beyond parentteacher conferences and report cards. The onus falls on parents to help students monitor each child's progress in classes and address any discrepancies in grading. Don't merely check your child's quiz and test scores. Students are expected to turn in homework in a timely manner and to participate in class in addition to working hard on quizzes, tests, and projects. Don't let a few misplaced homework assignments bring your child's grades down.

7. USE TUTORS AS NEEDED.

Despite your best intentions and your child's best efforts, you may find yourself in need of a tutor during the school year, the summer, or even throughout the year. One of the best things we ever did for our daughter was to say yes to suggestions from teachers to enlist extra help beyond the school day. Academic challenges often show up during the elementary school years and when they are met with helpfulness instead of judgment, academic frustration can be addressed and improved swiftly, especially when parents and teachers work together. Remember you are not your child and seek the type of help most likely to remedy the situation. If you find yourself taking your child's disappoints too personally, working with a tutor is your opportunity to demonstrate detachment and humility for your child. Life presents challenges to us all. How we meet them determines how successful we will be in school and in life.

she was growing up.

Author, journalist and writing coach Christina Katz actually enjoyed doing homework when

ARE MUSIC LESSONS WORTH THE COST?

written by Sarah Lyons

Does your child love to sing?

Love plunking on the piano or pounding on the drum? Do you think you might have a future musician in your home? The average cost of private music lessons ranges from $15-40 per half hour (www.takelessons.com). Keep in mind the cost will vary depending on location and the expertise of the teacher. With these numbers, private lessons cost parents $1,000 to $2,000 a year. This may make you wonder, are music lessons really worth it? Let’s look at some short and long term benefits of music lessons.

DISCIPLINE

Learning to play beautiful music doesn’t happen overnight. All students must start from the beginning playing scales and mastering basic skills. In our society instant gratification is the norm. Music teaches the value of patience and discipline because children must set aside time for practice and make it part of their routine in order to further their skills.

WORK ETHIC

Music teaches children a good work ethic because they see the value of practice as they improve and reach new achievements. Students will learn how dedication creates good results, while failing to do all the necessary practice results in mediocre results. These lessons carry into school studies and future employment.

MEMORY

Is your child always forgetting things? Music requires kids to practice memorization. Even if sheet music is used, students memorize how to play each note and the sheet music eventually becomes a guide. Students can use their developing memorization skills in a variety of ways in school and at home.

MATH AND LANGUAGE SKILLS

Music helps develop math and language skills that give kids an edge in school. “Students who have early musical training will develop the areas of the brain related to language and reasoning. The left side of the brain is better developed with music.” (National Association for Music Education)

TEAMWORK

Teamwork isn’t just for sports. Music students may have an opportunity to participate in a band or orchestra. This provides kids experience working as a team and a sense of camaraderie. Teamwork develops social skills that they will use for a lifetime.

CONFIDENCE AND SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

Kids will gain confidence as they begin to perform music for an audience. This helps kids learn to face their fears and builds self esteem. As kids build up this confidence, they are more likely to boost their communication skills and have increased social development.

LIFELONG CHALLENGE

In music, there is always room for improvement. This creates the opportunity for students of any age to improve and challenge themselves for many years to come.

STRESS RELIEF

Playing an instrument can be an outlet for kids. Music can be relaxing and a form of stress relief, as well as a way to express yourself creatively. Kids who have this outlet are less likely to find negative ways to relieve stress, like drugs and alcohol.

EXPRESSION AND CREATIVITY

Kids who play music are trained to think creatively. The ability to think outside of the box in many other situations is a coveted asset among many employers.

IMPROVED COORDINATION

Kids who play instruments develop their hand-eye coordination. Just like in sports, playing an instrument requires these skills and develops their motor skills.

HIGHER TEST SCORES

Studies show that children who are exposed to music education have higher SAT scores and better grades in school overall. (Children’s Music Workshop)

INTRODUCES CHILDREN TO OTHER CULTURES

Through music kids are exposed to other cultures, teaching them awareness and empathy for others. This helps them become more accepting of other cultures at an early age.

My daughter recently started taking piano lessons. As I sat in the room observing her first lesson, I witnessed something. As she played her first chord, a smile spread across her face. It was clear she has a true love for music. To me, this makes the cost of lessons worth it. Each family will have to weigh the overall price of music lessons against their child’s enjoyment of music and the many benefits to make a decision whether music lessons are truly worth the cost.

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September 29

Meg Cabot*

Anderson Cooper*

Anne Twist*

Peter Brown

Rick Riordan

Katherine Applegate + Gennifer Choldenko

*Virtual Visit bluewillowbookshop.com/event for details.

six things

your teen needs

But Doesn’t Know How to Ask For

My daughter’s eyes were filled with tears and my voice was louder than it needed to be. We were arguing over something trivial and small.

Or so I thought.

We had gone round and round about the homework she was struggling with. She was convinced she wouldn’t be able to do it, and I was confident she could if she just pushed through. It was a moment when I could see her potential more than she could. She felt like she was sinking, and all I saw was her refusal to stand up in the shallow water.

After going round and round we were both exasperated. Heels dug in tight, I realized I needed to be the one to move first. All I could think was to ask a question:

“What do you need?” I pleaded.

“I don’t know, Mom.” And the tears came.

At that moment I knew she had no idea what she needed and it was my job to figure it out with her. This wasn’t about helping her with homework; this was about helping her find her way

Teens often don’t know what they need. Most kids don’t, but we step in more willingly when they're young. Now that our babies are more at eye level we look at them expecting adult choices, forgetting that sometimes they don’t know how to figure things out on their own.

minutes sitting side by side is enough to bring the same benefits.

1. Physical Touch – As our kids get older we are less likely to hug them, snuggle with them, or give them physical reassurance. This is especially true with boys because of gender expectations. While much research has been done on the effects of physical contact on babies and young children, we forget that some of the same benefits apply to teens.

“Hugging triggers the release of feel-good hormone, oxytocin that can lower the level of stress hormone and counter its anxiety effects.” (Parenting for Brain) This dual benefit helps teens in a way they cannot verbalize, making the situation they are facing easier to handle.

When my daughter is spiraling emotionally and I gently pull her into a hug she immediately collapses against me, letting the burden leave her as she falls into me. For some, hugs may be too much, but other types of physical touch can benefit them. A hand on the shoulder or a few

2. Sleep & Rest – The need for and benefits of sleep for teens has been highlighted recently with studies showing that teens are not getting enough sleep for proper development. While much of the recent research has focused on the sleep/school connection for teens, there is far more concerning the need for adequate rest.

Thinking back to those crazy years when I had three kids in as many years, everything is a blur. I spent five years sleep-deprived, and some days were difficult as a person who doesn’t function well without her eight hours. I was irritable, unable to solve problems well, and couldn’t think clearly.

Now, think of those same effects on the physically and emotionally developing teen brain.

I don’t need a study to confirm that my kids function better with good sleep. This can feel tricky with teens as changing physiology, more homework, and seeking independence keep them up later and later. Shifting the focus from actual sleep time to rest has helped in our household.

Encouraging kids to get stressful tasks requiring a lot of thinking done earlier in the evening allows them to use later times for unwinding. This can be with some electronics, but research is clear that the use of electronic devices late at night is not good for anyone.

Finding things that are relaxing like a shower, reading, listening to audiobooks, journaling, drawing, or other non-stressful, quiet tasks are a great way to ease into a better sleep routine.

3. Expression – Teens often struggle with appropriate ways to express feelings. At times their feelings are new and foreign or mixed up in a way that leaves them uncertain about what they feel at all. Giving them ideas for ways to express themselves helps. And the best way to do that is by modeling.

It’s no secret that telling a teen to do something doesn’t always work, but if they see people they love and trust doing something, they may try it.

Modeling a variety of ways to express thoughts, ideas, and feelings will help them see they have many options. Much like a buffet, when they are presented with an assortment of possibilities, they may try a few until they find what they like.

Here are 6 things your teen may not have a clue he or she needs.

Talking is the most obvious way we express ourselves, but there are many more possibilities. Writing, drawing, creating, cooking, and building are a few ways you can foster expression. Some need something more physical so things like running, hiking, swimming, sitting at the beach, or even swinging on the swings can help.

The key is to try many things, and be okay when they don’t work. When teens see you finding your way, even with a struggle, it helps them know there is nothing wrong or unusual with their own.

4. Exercise – Very similar to expressing your feelings, exercise presents positive benefits that are often overlooked because we don’t know how to incorporate it into our lives. Teens especially struggle with this, even teens that play sports. While playing a sport is a physical activity that will benefit them, it can also become a responsibility or burden associated with pressure.

I don’t love exercise. But I try to walk or hike regularly. It has little to do with physical health benefits and more to do with the clarity and mental well-being it fosters. Much study has been done on the benefits of exercise. It is proven that people who exercise “feel more energetic throughout the day, sleep better at night, have sharper memories, and feel more relaxed and positive about themselves and their lives.” (Helpguide.org)

All of these benefits will help teens in ways they often cannot pinpoint. Giving them ample opportunity to try different types of exercise will also help them develop habits that will serve them later in life.

Even if they groan and complain, drag the family out for a hike or take them to the pool. Head to the trampoline park, shoot hoops or challenge your teen to a 5K. Teens tend to let exercise go at a time when they may need it most. You can make sure they still have the opportunity to get moving. Plus, they may love the chance to beat you in a race.

5. Listening – This tip is the one most parents roll their eyes at and brush past. They often find themselves in the “My-kidnever-tells-me-anything” camp or the “Mykid-never-stops-talking” camp. Neither of which sounds very fun.

We are often surprised to learn that teens want better communication with their parents. As parents, we sometimes lack the time, interest, or skills necessary to effectively listen to our teens.

Listening is not always easy, and sometimes the results may not be noticeable, but fostering an environment of caring about what your teen has to say is helpful. Even if it is about the latest basketball team or what someone said to someone else that made another girl cry, this environment will benefit both you and your teen.

For great tips on effective communication with teens, don’t miss the Focus on the Family series Parent-Teen Communication

6. Grace – This idea is one you won’t find many places, but I have found it to be one of the most important things to teach my teen. Teens today are growing up in a highpressure society. AP courses, college, grad school, and high-paying jobs all feel like necessities to make it in this great big busy world. Sometimes teens are so busy trying to be the best and to get ready for the next step that they are miserable.

Simple reminders and parent behavior make a big difference here. If the only things we ask about school have to do with grades, sports, and college applications we are showing our kids that those are the most important things. When they lose a game or get a low grade it suddenly becomes devastating. We have the power to change that.

My daughter came home one day upset about her math quiz grade. She was crying because she wanted it to be higher, to be better, to be perfect. After listening to her talk for a few minutes I asked one question: “Do you know what I got on my math quiz in 7th grade?”

She looked at me with wide eyes, eager to see how we measured up against one another. “No.”

“Neither do I.” She may have rolled her eyes when I said this, but it showed her that it’s okay to let things go sometimes. We need to give ourselves grace when we make mistakes. That is what enables us to learn well and move forward without anger or bitterness.

Look for ways you can teach your teen about grace today. It may mean the difference between a stressful meltdown and a small bump in the road.

And one final note, this idea of grace works for you, too. As parents, we want so much to get it right, but the truth is sometimes we will miss the mark. Give yourself grace in those moments and move forward. It’s worth it.

2 Minute Action Plan

Spend a few minutes thinking about the best way to start making changes in your family.

• How can you give yourself grace today? It’s easy to fall into the trap that you should have done things differently, but remembering that you can start a positive cycle today with you can help.

• When was the last time you offered your teen or tween physical contact? It’s easy to lose track of this as kids get older and become independent. Think of one thing you will do today to offer my child physical comfort. Some ideas include a hug, sitting next to him on the couch, offering to read a chapter of her book out loud snuggling in bed, or simply putting your hand on his shoulder and telling him to have a great day.

• Think about how you want to respond the next time your child is struggling emotionally. While every tip doesn’t work the same for every situation, knowing what you will try will help you be prepared.

Long Term Action Plan

The next week or two offers a great opportunity to put more of these ideas in place. Spend a few minutes brainstorming how to meet each of these six needs. Remember it will not be perfect. This is not a checklist of things to do but ideas to try.

As you try ideas make note of which ones work well. Most will take multiple tries to see a difference, but don’t be discouraged. Notice which ones your child likes. See what helps him or her most and keep practicing those. You will both reap the benefits of these simple ideas when you thoughtfully put them to use.

A CONTEST FOR KIDS TO SHARE THEIR LOVE OF THE LONE STAR STATE

Over 500 students from across the state of Texas participated in this year’s I Am Texas Writing and Art Contest hosted by The Bryan Museum in Galveston. Twenty-one talented students will receive money and have their writing or art published in a yearly Historian’s Journal, produced by the iWRITE Organization, which will become part of the Museum’s permanent library collection!

The art and writing finalists will be invited to a special reception at The Bryan Museum this fall to celebrate their success in making it to the final stage of the competition. In addition, all art finalists get to see their work displayed on the walls of The Bryan Museum in the Donald E. McMahon Student Expo Space for the remainder of the year. Just like professionals!

The Donald E. McMahon Student Expo Space will showcase an array of talented artists in grades 2-12 whose artwork received top marks. These young artists used mediums

such as oil paint, watercolor, acrylic paint, alcohol marker, and colored pencil. They interpreted the “I Am Texas” theme with a variety of images including landscapes, bluebonnets, birds, longhorn cattle, and selfportraits. Houston-area artwork on display is from students in the following districts: Fort Bend ISD, Galveston ISD, Katy ISD, Lamar Consolidated ISD, Liberty ISD, Spring Branch ISD, and a private school in Houston. Houston-area writing finalists who submitted letters and fiction and nonfiction stories were inspired by art or artifacts in The Bryan Museum collection. Elementary

students wrote letters to Texas heroes such as Sam Houston, Charles Goodnight, and Texas Ranger Jack Duncan. Other letters were more personal – to a favorite teacher or to a relative with Texas roots, for example. Older students researched specific artifacts in the Museum and wrote about their history or used an item as a muse for a personal essay. Creative writers drew their inspiration from Museum pieces such as the sword that captured Santa Anna, an old-fashioned revolver, and a drawing by Texas artist Jose Cisneros. Writing finalist for this year’s contest include students from the following districts: Clear

Texas Prairie Sunrise by Lydia I., Northside ISD - Middle School Art Finalist

Texan's Original Sport by Aaryahi C., Fort Bend ISDElementary Art Finalist

Take a Closer Look by Olivia B., Private School in Houston - Highschool Art Finalist

“I am writing to thank you about your efforts during the Texas Revolution and its effects. The Texans’ revolt was initially unsuccessful, with the early massacres of the Alamo and Goliad, but you remained strong. I believe, without a doubt, that Texas wouldn’t be as great as today without your leadership.”

Kevin L. was a 5th grader at Spring Branch Academic Institute in Spring Branch ISD when he entered the contest.

Creek ISD, Columbia-Brazoria ISD, Fort Bend ISD, Galveston ISD, Huntsville ISD, Katy ISD, Spring Branch ISD, Stafford ISD, Sweeny ISD, and private schools in Houston, Galveston, and Pearland, as well as area homeschool students.

To see the student artwork up close, read the winning stories, or view the art and artifacts that inspired such creativity, visit The Bryan Museum in Galveston. To learn more about the 2024 I Am Texas writing and art contest, go to www.iamtx.org.

Our Future in The Horizon by Annabella Q., Katy ISD - Highschool Art Finalist

Ways to Memoralize the Loss of a Pet

written by Tanni Haas, Ph.D.

draw a picture or write a letter

Kids often find it helpful to draw a picture of or write a letter to their pet that expresses how they feel. “After your child has drawn a picture or composed a letter,” says Ken Breniman, a licensed clinical social worker who works with kids, “invite your child to put it somewhere special, such as on the pet’s grave or in a favorite sleeping spot.”

have a portrait made

You could commission a professional portrait to be made of their pet. “Once all the toys, bowls, and other pet items are put away,” says Roxanne Hawn, the author of Heart Dog: Surviving the Loss of Your Canine Soul Mate, “it can renew the sense of emptiness in your home.”

create a memory box or bowl of memories

Creating a pet memory box or a bowl of memories is another great way to memorialize a beloved pet. Your kids can collect their pet’s favorite toys in a special box and place it somewhere where they have easy access to it. “The collected belongings,” says Soli Martin, a professional pet loss grief specialist, “can give your child the chance to honor their memories of time shared with that pet.”

Encourage your kids to write down as many happy memories as possibly on colorful scraps of paper and then place all the scraps in a bowl. If your kids can’t write yet, have them put drawings of their pet in the bowl. “Anytime someone experiences a surge in grief,” Ms. Hawn says, “they can grab one of those slips of paper and, at least for a moment, remember a happier time.”

make a scrapbook

Have your kids take colorful scraps of paper and create a scrap book of happy memories of their pet. Add some of their favorite photos of the pet to the book. “Crafting scrapbooks,” says veterinarian Dr. Debbie Stoewen, “can provide an outlet for, and give form to, important feelings.”

plant a tree/flower or create an indoor memorial

If you to have a backyard, plant a tree or flower in memory of your kids’ pet. They could help pick out the tree or flower,

choose the spot, and then plant it. If you don’t have any outdoor space, create an indoor memorial with a framed photo of the pet. “Invite your child to help you light a candle next to the picture frame,” Mr. Breniman suggests, “to help keep the memory of your pet alive.” Alternatively, you could put a battery-powered LED candle next to the picture frame. These imitation candles are typically safer than lit candles. “Get some rechargeable batteries,” Ms. Hawn advises, because you’ll go through a lot of them if you keep the LED candle on around the clock.”

share stories

Suggest that your kids share their favorite stories and reminisce about the happiest times with their pet. Those memories are part of the natural healing process, Dr. Stoewen says, and can provide great comfort. “Friends and family can help by sharing their stories and special memories too,” Dr. Stoewen says.

create a digital slideshow or video

If you’re a bit computer savvy, help your kids create a digital slideshow or video tribute to their pet. Select a meaningful song to accompany it, and then document your pet’s life and important role in your family through photos or video clips. “Once the tribute is complete,” Ms. Hawn suggests, “perhaps you can host a special family dinner to watch the finished project together.”

read a book together

There are many great fiction and non-fiction books on pet loss for kids. Some of the most well-known ones include Dog Heaven by Cynthia Rylant, The Rainbow Bridge by Adrian Raeside, and When a Pet Dies by Fred Rogers. “Reading a story can help kids know they’re not alone and normalize what they’re experiencing,” says Litsa Williams, a licensed clinical social worker and grief counselor.

Losing a pet can be hard on kids. Whether they’ve had it for a short time or for several years, kids tend to develop very strong bonds with their pet quickly and to love it deeply. September 10 is National Pet Memorial Day, a fitting occasion to consider what parents can do to help their kids process their grief. Here’s some ways they can memorialize their pet:

Tanni Haas, Ph.D. is a Professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences, and Disorders at The City University of New York – Brooklyn College.

THE BIG THE BIG TO-DO

A curated look at the Greater Houston’s upcoming events and culture offerings.

All events listed are FREE unless otherwise noted. Check out our online calendar at

https://houstonfamilymagazine.com/events-calendar/

SEPTEMBER 1

MFAH PLAYDATE

Children 4 and younger, and their adult caregivers, are invited to enjoy a multi-sensory experience in the galleries with songs, stories, games, and activities.

11:30a-12:30p. Ages 4-. Free. www.mfah.org

RETRO GAMES

Whether you’re feeling nostalgic or love the thrill of competition, come and enjoy your favorite classic board games, card games, party games and more at the library!

Ages 5-12. 4-4:45p. Free. McGovernStella Link Neighborhood Library www.houstonlibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 2

FIRST SATURDAY NATURE WALK

Enjoy the diverse plants and animals found at our park every first Saturday of each month. Join us in A guided Nature Walk that highlights some of the common species of plants and animals representing the three distinct ecosystems present within the park. Stephen F. Austin State Park. 10a-11a. Adults are $5 per person, Children 12 and under are Free.

www.tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/stephenf-austin

TRAIL MIX

Features live music, magic, and more! Join us trailside as Andy Roo takes you on an adventure through the AndyRooniverse along with magicians Dave and Jake Rangel. Enjoy unique hands-on pop-ups and giveaways to amp up the fun! Sessions are outdoors, weather permitting.

10a-11a. All ages. Free. www.themkt.com

SANDCASTLE LESSONS AT EAST BEACH

Join professional sandcastle builder Emerson to learn about building sandcastles.

11a and 1p. All ages. Free. www.visitgalveston.com

BOOKS ON THE BAYOU

Join us for a fun, free story time event for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers and their parents/caregivers! In conjunction with this year’s Summer Species highlighting birds, there will be silly stories, rhymes, and songs all related to our feathered friends.

9a-9:45a. 6 months to 4 years. Free. ww.buffalobayou.org

SEPTEMBER 3

BIRDING HIKE

Brazos Bend State Park is home to over 300 species of birds making it the perfect place to bird-watch all year round! Meet at 40-Acre Lake to enjoy a guided hike focusing on the diverse bird population inhabiting the area. Learn to identify different species by sight and sound. This trail is 1.2 miles long, relatively flat, and graveled, and easily accessible for anyone that wants to join us! Don’t forget to bring your binoculars, field guides, hat, and plenty of water!

8-10a. Ages 12+. Free.

www.tpwd.texas.gov/calendar/ brazos-bend

BUCKET BRIGADE INTERPRETIVE BEACH TOURS

Join the Bucket Brigade in exploring the creatures and features that make Galveston beaches unique! There is more to the Sargassum and turbid water than many people think, and there is much more to be found on the beach than just sand. Tours are educational and fun for ocean lovers of all ages. The beach tours are offered on Saturdays and Sundays, and they last approximately 45 minutes. Sept 2 & 3.

First tours begin at 11a. All ages. Free with option to donate. www.artistboat.org.

THE WOODLANDS CARS & COFFEE FOR A CAUSE

Those who like their morning coffee with a side of fast cars will be pleased to know that The Woodlands Car Club is back with monthly Cars & Coffee for a Cause at Market Street.

6:30-10a. All ages. Free. www.visitthewoodlands.com

LABOR DAY IN THE WOODLANDS

Relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor at Waterway Square on Sunday, September 3, 2023, from 5 to 9 p.m. with live music, children’s activities, strolling entertainment, pie-eating contests, and fireworks!

5-9:05p. All ages. Free. www.visitthewoodlands.com

GALVESTON FAMILY BEACH CHALLENGE SEPTEMBER 3

The Galveston Beach Family Challenge consists of 14 Stations that allow family members and friends to compete one-onone or as a family against another participating family. Each family has the opportunity to participate no more than five times per station in a period of 4.5 hours. Browse through each of the stations and learn more about them. The stations are designed to have anyone over the age of 8 participate and play - the fun level depends on you!

10a. Ages 8+. Free. https://galvestonchallenge.com/

END OF SUMMER FIREWORKS

Close out the summer with a bang with our speactacular Fireworks over Galveston Bay 9:30p. All ages. See website for admission. www.kemahboardwalk.com

SEPTEMBER 4

LABOR DAY LIVE MUSIC

Come enjoy live music in the plaza every weekend! A new line-up with performance times is posted every week; enjoy a wide range of sounds, from smooth jazz to pop, and classic rock to country. 6-9 pm. All ages. Free. www.citycentrehouston.com

SEPTEMBER 5

GENTLE YOGA FLOW AND SOUND MEDITATION

Strengthen your body, relax your mind and find your center with this dynamic flow yoga and sound healing. Led by Farida Meguid with crystal sound bowls played by Saumil Manek.

Adult. 6:30-7:30p. Free. Also Sept 12th, 19th, 26th. www.discoverygreen.com

FAMILY STORYTIME

Join us for a socially distanced, indoor storytime featuring books and activities for everyone in the family! Encourage your family’s love of reading through this cross generational literacy. Ages 3-10. 10-11a. Free. Johnson Neighborhood Library. www.houstonlibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 6

MUSIC IN THE GARDENS

Children and parents experience rhythm and music principles in the gardens. Classes use Kindermusik’s curriculum, songs, instruments, and movement to inspire creativity, confidence and music appreciation in children.

10:30a-11a. Ages 2-5. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

TODDLER PLAYTIME

Join us for creative and collaborative play! Explore with your little ones as they guide you to their interests, get information about the skills they are developing.

10:30-11:30a. Ages 18-36 months. Park Place Regional Library. www.houston.library.org

SEPTEMBER 7

SMALL SPACE GARDENING

Come join Abbie Ince-Hendrickson as she shares her tips and tricks on how to garden for pollinators in small space

areas. This talk will cover how to create a small-scale pollinator patch, selecting the right plants to attract pollinators, and how we can share our small spaces. Aquatics Building, 8203 Millenniuim Forest Drive (rear door entrance). Adult. 6p. Free.

www.thewoodlandstownship-tx.gov

KINGWOOD FAMERS MARKET

There is a mix of traditional Farmers Market vendors providing grass fed beef and chicken, fresh produce, local honey, yard raised eggs, homemade salsa, pickles and jellies, Indian food and baked goods. In addition, craft vendors sell organic makeup, soaps and personal care items, CBD products, candles, and craft items.

3p-9p. All ages. Free. www.kwdfarmersmarket.com

SEPTEMBER 8

HOME SCHOOL DAYS

This incredible event provides a discount for home-schooled families to learn about space exploration and engage in an unforgettable day of inspiring STEM activities. Every Home School Day this year begins at 9 a.m., which means Home School Day guests get an extra hour to explore before the center opens to the public.

9a-12p. 5 and up. $14.5 per person. Registration required. www.spacecenter.org

MERCER GARDEN TOUR

Would you like to know about the history of Mercer Botanic Gardens, what’s in bloom and explore the ‘roots’ less taken with a guided tour? Join Mercer staff for an approximately one-mile walking tour of the gardens.

12-2p. Ages 6 and up. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

SEPTEMBER 9

SECOND SATURDAY BIRD SURVEY

Work on your bird watching skills while helping the Arboretum monitor bird populations on a fun, relaxed morning walk. Join us on the second Saturday of each month in the courtyard behind the building for a two-hour bird survey led by Arboretum staff members, Kelsey Low and Theo Ostler. We welcome all levels of bird watching skill and all ages (as long as you’re quiet) – but no dogs, please!

Monthly, Second Saturdays from 8a-10a. All ages. Free. www.houstonarboretum.org

KINGWOOD PICKLE FESTIVAL

In a Pickle Festival. Enjoy local live music throughout the festival by Opening band, CC & The Road Dawgs, followed by Brandon Lee, Bluebonnet Basters!

FREE FAMILY NIGHT –

HOUSTON CHILDREN’S MUSEUM

SEPTEMBER 7

Discover everything the Museum has to offer as we open our doors for two extra hours. From minds-on exhibits to experiments, bilingual story time and more, there’s lots to discover on Thursday night! All ages. 5-8p. Free. www.cmhouston.org

All ages. 11a-5p. Free. www.facebook.com/ getyourselfinapickle/

GARDENING FOR BUTTERFLIES

Set the table for butterflies in your backyard! In this class you’ll discover the best ways to support butterflies in your space from nectar plants for the adults to host plants for caterpillars. You’ll get a list of native butterfly plants and, weather permitting, we’ll explore the Butterfly Bungalow for inspiration.

12+. 10:30a-12:30p. $25 member / $35 nonmember. www.houstonarboretum.org

FREE YOGA ON THE LAWN

Namaste at M-K-T with Union Studio Yoga and YOGA ON THE LAWN! Union Studio will be hosting FREE classes on the lawn every Saturday. This class takes place outdoors, weather permitting.

8:30-9:30a. Adult. Free. Sept 16th also.

M-K-T Yoga Lawn, Trailside, 600 N Shepherd Dr, Houston, TX 77007 www.themkt.com

LEGO MANIA!

LEGO maniacs wanted! Let your imagination run wild and explore your engineering skills as you play with LEGO at the library. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event.

3-4p. All ages. Free. Looscan Neigborhood Library. www.houstonlibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 10

YOGA ON THE LAWN

Join us for a grounding yoga practice surrounded by the beautiful sounds and sights of nature! Taught by Carolina Vennie of Yogaleena, this class will be a Vinyasa Flow that is accessible to all levels. Please bring your own mat and water. This class is weather dependent and pre-registration is required.

16+. 9-10a. Free member / $15 nonmember.

www.houstonarboretum.org

MESS MAKERS – MESS MAKERS

Messy, sensory play is an important part of child development. Together with Ms. Mo and our NDC volunteers, you will explore and create with all kinds of messy things. We will make works of art as well as just good old messy fun with a mix of natural and man-made materials. After we make messes together, you’ll go home clean!

10-11:15a. Ages 3 to 7 with an adult caregiver. Members $35 Non-members $40.

www.naturediscoverycenter.org

SEPTEMBER 11

TYKE HIKES

Encourage your child’s curiosity about nature and spend time with them exploring outdoors! Children with an adult companion can join a Naturalist for a story reading, a simple nature activity or craft, and a stroller-friendly hike on the beautiful Arboretum trails. Enjoy an interesting new nature experience each week with themes such as bees, wildflowers, and lizards!

18 months +. 9:30-10:15a, 10:30-11:15a. Free member / $7 nonmember. Also, Sept 18th & 25th. www.houstonarboretum.org

TODDLER PLAYTIME

Join us for creative and collaborative play! Explore with your little ones as they guide you to their interests, get information about the skills they are developing, and meet other parents.

Ages 18-36 months. 10:30-11:30a. Free. Freed-Montrose Neighborhood Library www.houstonlibrary.org

SEPTEMBER 12

STAGE: ALWAYS….PATSY CLINE

Celebrating its 35th anniversary, this musical biography features 27 of the iconic country singer’s hits, while showcasing her rise to stardom in the 1960s. It’s also the story of the friendship between Cline and Houston native Louise Seger, who met the singer in a Bayou City honky tonk.

Please see website for ticket prices. www.stageshouston.com

CANDLE MAKING DIY WORKSHOP

Join Love & Make for a quick hour to explore a wide variety of 75+ fragrances to customize your very own candle or reed diffuser. Choose one of Love & Make’s signature vessels or upgrade to a premium vessel to make your candle even more unique. Love & Make instructors will walk you through the fragrance blending process in small groups or one-on-one, and you’ll pour your very own candle or diffuser.

Adult. Every hour from 12-6p. $40. www.loveandmake.com

SEPTEMBER 13

LUNCH AND LEARN

Expand your horizons by learning something new while meeting fellow garden enthusiasts. Bring a lunch and meet inside the Mercer Visitor Center. September’s topic is “The Bugs in the Garden” with Education Manager and Entomologist, Erin Mills of Houston Botanic Garden.

12-2p. Ages 16 and up. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

KAYAK/SUP RENTALS

We have kayaks and paddleboards for all ages and abilities! We offers single, tandem, and fishing kayaks, as well as adaptive paddling equipment. We also offer beach services cabana/umbrella rental, Ebikes and bicycle rental. Times vary. All ages. Prices based upon rental time.

www.texascampcompany.com

SEPTEMBER 14

BLAST OFF TO SPACE

Blast off with a good book at The Pavilion’s Hats Off to Reading celebration in the Event Center. In partnership with Conroe Independent School District, the FREE and festive literacy event begins at 5:30 p.m. and encourages early reading by offering various literacy-based activities such as games, visiting with characters, making hats and so much more. Children also have the opportunity to choose and take home a FREE book!

5:30p. All ages. Free. www.woodlandscenter.org

THE BRYAN MUSEUM BOOK CLUB

SEPTEMBER 14

The Bryan Museum Book Club is a monthly group who studies books about Texas and the American West. Our primary focus is non-fiction works, with the occasional fictional work included. The club meets on the second Thursday of every month in the Library at The Bryan Museum.

3p-4p. Adults. Free.

www.thebryanmuseum.org/the-bryan-museum-book-club/

ART IN THE GARDEN

Local school groups can discover their inner artist with this free event that gives children and youth with disabilities from Galveston and Harris counties a chance to be creative in a safe and fun environment while allowing them to explore interactive art stations and live entertainment in the gardens.

10a-1pm. Ages 6+. Free. www.visitgalveston.com

SEPTEMBER 15

SENSORY FRIENDLY EVENT

Sensory Friendly Events provide a sensory-supportive setting including modified lighting, music and sound effects. The number of tickets is limited for these exclusive events to allow visitors to enjoy Space Center Houston in a sensory friendly atmosphere without large crowds. Visitors can participate in special educational activities operated by instructors who are trained to accommodate guests with sensory sensitivities. There also will be a designated quiet room for guests.

6-9p. All ages. $15.95 per person. www.spacecenter.org

SMASHED CLAY & STUDIO

Make handmade pottery using the pottery wheel. No experience needed. BYOB. Book now and choose your project whelm you arrive.

Thur, Fri, Sat 11a-11p, Sun 11a-9p, MonWed by appointment only. 21+. Projects starting at $54. www.smashedstudio.com

PARACHUTE PLAY TIME

Parachute Play Time is back! Join the British International School of Houston on the third Friday of every month from March - October with fun craft activities and games - don’t miss out on the big parachute! It’s sure to start your Friday off right!Tuesday, September 4 from 7 - 10 PM: The After Party (Country & Pop) & 10-minute fireworks spectacular at 9:30p.

9-11a. Toddlers / Pre-K. $6 / child. www.citycentrehouston.com

SEPTEMBER 16

H-E-B MOVIE NIGHT: TANGLED

When the kingdom’s most wanted, and most charming, bandit Flynn Rider hides in a mysterious tower, the last thing he expects to find is Rapunzel, a spirited teen with an unlikely superpower: 70 feet of magical golden hair! Together, the unlikely duo sets off on a fantastic journey filled with surprising heroes, laughter, and suspense.

All ages. 7-8:30p. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

JLF HOUSTON

The iconic Jaipur Literature Festival, held annually at the Pink City of Jaipur in India’s Rajasthan state, has always believed in the spirit of community and the hope, strength, and vitality that literature gives. Join us for the sixth annual JLF Houston, where the Bayou City’s unique culture, diversity, and energy fuse with the festival’s camaraderie, caravan of ideas, and magical flow of conversations.

10a-6p. All ages. $20. www.asiasociety.org

HATHA YOGA

A basic vinyasa yoga class for enhanced awareness and a strong, healthy body led by Andria Dugas. This Saturday class is a perfect way to start the weekend strong.

Adult. 9-10a. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

FLEA BY NIGHT

Enjoy live music and food trucks while treasure hunting for one-of-a-kind local goods.

Musical entertainment.

Adult. 6-10p. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

BUG-A-PALOOZA!

Discover the fascinating world of bugs including caterpillars, spiders, millipedes, butterflies, beetles, scorpions, bees, and more! Explore live and prepared specimens on display at multiple stations where participants will examine and learn about bugs and their unique roles in the ecosystem.

9:30a-12p. Children 4 and up. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

GARDEN PARTY

Looking for a cool spot in the shade? Come to the George Ranch Historical Park for a late summer Garden party at the 1860s Ryon home. Lemonade, cakes and historic games will be available throughout the day. Play a game of croquet in the yard, then take a break and listen to a story or read a book under the oaks. Hoop skirts not required!

9a-5p. All ages. $15 Adults (ages 13-64), $12 – Seniors (ages 65+), $10 – Children (ages 4-12), Children ages 3 and under are free.

www.georgeranch.org

SEPTEMBER 17 FOSSIL WASH

A hands-on science experience! Calling all dino-mite paleontologists –you have a role to play in the scientific process! You’ll wash, rinse, repeat as you search for bone fragments and objects of interest in approximately 1000 pounds of red Permian dirt, excavated from the HMNS dig site near Seymour, Texas. Indoors, we’ll have some pter-rific crafts and activities. Learn your dino name, make a dino hat, and join us for a morning of messy fun, you won’t be saur-y. HMNS at Sugar Land.

10a-1p. All ages. $25 www.hmns.org

SUNDAY FUNDAY: FALL FLING

Celebrate all things fall at our awesomely autumnal outdoor market! Shop cozy wares from local vendors, enjoy treats and activities for all ages, frolic to sweet jams spun by our live DJ, and enjoy seasonal deals from our shops, eateries, and wellness destinations for a fab fall Sunday Funday!

12-4p. All ages. Free. M-K-T, Trailside, 600 N Shepherd Dr, Houston, TX 77007 www.themkt.com

THURSDAY AT THE BRYAN

Every Thursday night, you can enjoy a curated selection of wines, the music of local Galvestonian talent, shopping at the Museum Store, and the latest exhibitions highlighting Texas history and art at The Bryan.

10a-7p. Adults. $5-$14. www.visitgalveston.com/events/ thursdays-at-the-bryan/

SEPTEMBER 18

STORY TIME

Children and parents enjoy time together while being introduced to books in a pre-school social group. Each unique themed session offers a complimentary take-home craft. 10:30-11a.

Ages 2-5. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

SPLATTER ROOM AT PINSPIRATION

Experience the Jackson-Pollock-Inspired Splatter Room™! Suit up in protective gear and fling paint at a canvas to create a unique masterpiece. The Splatter Room™ can only accommodate up to 6 guests at a time (call for large group options). Date night packages available. Dates/Times vary. All ages. Pricing depends on projects chosen.

www.pinspiration.com

SEPTEMBER 19

TEXAS EAGLES TRIBUTE BAND ROOFTOP CONCERT

On September 27th, join us at Skylawn as we welcome the renowned Soda Stereo Tribute Band, Será Cero! Known as the best-selling band in the history of Argentina, Soda Stereo’s iconic music will transport you back to the vibrant alternative rock scene of the 80s and 90s. Prepare for an unforgettable evening featuring the captivating performances of Será Cero, along with the breathtaking backdrop of Houston’s spectacular skyline views.

8p-10:30p. 16+. Tickets start at $20. www.posthtx.com

SEPTEMBER 20

COFFEE CAKE BOOK CLUB

Coffee Cake Book Club meets the third Wednesday of each month at 11:00 a.m. This month’s book will be Fair and Tender Ladies by Lee Smith. Adults. 11a. Free. www.bluewillowbookshop.com

DANCES OF THE INSECTS SEPTEMBER 21

The study of entomology is so much fun when dancers Joani Trevino and Michelle Reyes convey the characteristics of insects through Becky Valls’ striking choreography with music, costuming, and audience participation. Dances include the Busy Ant, Firefly, Phantom the Flying Cockroach, and Two Too Many Ladybugs. Ages PK-3. 11a. All ages. Free. www.milleroutdoortheatre.com

SEPTEMBER 21

BLANKET BINGO AT MARKET SQUARE PARK

This popular park favorite is back! Join us for an exciting new season of Blanket Bingo, benefiting Market Square Park and Buffalo Bayou Partnership. Bring your blanket, lawn chairs or snag one of the tables at the park for a night of fun, music, and great prizes! $10 admission (cash only) includes one bingo packet (approx. 9 games). Additional games and daubers can be purchased for $1 each.

7p. Adult. $10. ww.buffalobayou.org

MKT SUNSET MARKET

M-K-T Sunset Market puts a weeknight, family-friendly spin on the typical farmer’s market. Enjoy charcuterie on M-K-T’s wave deck, enjoy live music and face-painting on the lawn, or grab a made-to-go meal by one of Houston’s favorite chefs. There is something here for all ages.

12-5-9p. All ages. Free. M-K-T, Trailside, 600 N Shepherd Dr, Houston, TX 77007 www.themkt.com

SOUTH MONTGOMERY COUNTY 4TH OF SEPTEMBER PARADE

IT’S BACK! Get ready for our fall concert series featuring artists performing Top 40, jazz, Latin, cover favorites and more. Enjoy the performances in Central Park or from the shady patios of any of our signature restaurants. Guests are invited to bring blankets and lawn chairs to sit back & relax.

6-8:30p. All ages. Free. www.shopatmarketstreet.com

GLOW RIDE

City Lights, Summer Nights & Glowing Bikes! Join Island Bicycle Company every third Thursday as we ride into the night “Glow Ride” style.

6:30p-9p. All ages. Free. www.islandbicyclecompany.com

SEPTEMBER 22

GALVESTON ISLAND SHRIMP FESTIVAL KICKOFF PARTY

Join us as we kick off the 14th Annual Galveston Island Shrimp Festival with a party for over 800 guests! You don’t want to miss this shrimptastic party featuring a fried shrimp dinner, an open bar, and live music! Must be 21 or older to attend. Secure your spot now, tickets will SELL OUT!

Ages 21+. 7:30-10p. $65 / person. https://galvestonislandshrimpfestival. com/friday-kick-off-party/

GOING BATTY!

Did you know that bats are the pollinators of the tequila agave? You’ll enjoy a delicious tequila popsicle from KICPOPS as you listen to bat expert DeAndra Ramsey, who will discuss the important role of bats in our ecosystem as pest control, seed dispersers, and pollinators. Then we’ll go on a bat hike using special detectors to listen to bat sonar over the Arboretum.

6:30-8:30p. Ages 16+. $40 member, $50 non-member. www.houstonarboretum.org.

WHEN HOUSTON HAD THE BLUES

Enjoy a powerful performance from Houston’s Diunna Greenleaf before watching a screening of the new documentary When Houston Had the Blues. Featuring Lightnin’ Hopkins, Big Mama Thornton, Clifton Chenier, Bobby “Blue” Bland, Diunna Greenleaf and others, “When Houston Had The Blues” describes the vibrant Black music scene that’s never gotten its due.

Adult. 7-10:30p. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

BEYOND BEES!

Bee-come fascinated with our local bees as staff and volunteers guide you through Mercer’s gardens. Learn about resident colonies of carpenter bees and honeybees, their critical role in the environment, and Mercer’s conservation efforts through holistic gardening practices.

9:30a-10:30p. Children 6 and up. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

SEPTEMBER 23

BAT FEST

Houston Arboretum’s Bat Fest is returning! Though often misunderstood, bats are a vital part of our ecosystem. Visit booths from our community partners to learn more about local bat species and current conservation efforts. There will be fun bat-themed activities and crafts for the kids, story time, food trucks, and a blood drive with Gulf Coast Regional Blood Center.

10a-2p. All ages. 12+. $25 member, $35 non-member. www.houstonarboretum.org

TAKE ME OUTDOORS

Get back to nature and celebrate the great outdoors with the Texas Parks and Wildlife Department. All ages. 9a-2p. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

SEPTEMBER 24

FESTIVAL DE LA SALSA

El Festival de la Salsa celebrates Latin culture’s most popular music genre

through an exciting and dynamic day of live performances. Showcasing its many influences that include African, European, Caribbean, United States, and others. İQue Viva La Salsa! This is a ticketed event. Tickets can be purchased at www.elfestivaldelasalsa.com.

All ages. 1-10p. www.discoverygreen.com

SALSA BEATS

September sizzles with salsa music, special performances, dance lessons and kids’ crafts in the Plaza all day. All ages. All day. Free. www.kemahboardwalk.com

SEPTEMBER 25

ENGINEER FOR A DAY

Get a behind-the-scenes experience as you join the Hermann Park Railroad staff for an exciting day of activities! Work alongside the team as they do the safety checks and morning activities in the maintenance barn.

8:30a-12:30p. Ages 7 and up. $150 with additional person $50. www.hermannpark.org/special-trainprograms/

GALVESTON NAVAL MUSEUM

Experience the Life and History of a WWII Sailor, by visiting the USS Stewart & the USS Cavalla today.

9a-6p daily. All Ages. Children $8, Adult $13, Senior $10, Veteran $7 www. www.galvestonnavalmuseum. com/general-1

GALVESTON ISLAND SHRIMP FESTIVAL SEPTEMBER 23

Galveston Island is a seafood lover’s paradise all year round, but in September Yaga’s Entertainment Inc. brings foodies a little taste of heaven at the Galveston Island Shrimp Festival. Featuring some of the best shrimp gumbo the Gulf Coast has to offer, the festival features a seafood cook-off, gumbo tasting, L’il Shrimps Parade, live music, a children’s area and a Strand merchant walkabout.

All ages. 12-4p. $13+ / person. https://galvestonislandshrimpfestival.com

SEPTEMBER 26

GARDEN NATURALIST

Led by Mercer’s Education Staff and Precinct 3 Park Programs, Garden Naturalists is an exciting new program, combining engaging classroom lessons with hands-on outdoor garden adventures. Children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian.

Ages 7-13. 10 am. Free. www.pct3.com/MBG

CURIOUS KIDS

Are you raising a Curious Kid? Join us out back at the pavilions where we’ll explore, ask, discover, experiment, and more in our pre-K science program! Our children’s programs feature science-rich, weekly, stand-alone classes that offer you the flexibility to sign-up for individual classes that meet your hectic schedules or for specific topics that inspire your children.

Ages 3-5. 10 am & 4 pm. $15 Nonmembers $20. Registration required. No drop offs. www.naturediscoverycenter.org

SEPTEMBER 27

OPEN LAB –COMPUTER CLASS

Bring your computer questions to our Open Lab for Computer Help. Staff will be available to answer your questions and provide one-on-one assistance. Registration is required and will open two weeks before the event.

Adult. 10:30a-12p. Free www.houstonlibrary.org

TRIVIA NIGHT AT WILD OATS

Calling all trivia lovers! Wild Oats, Underbelly Hospitality’s Texas-inspired, family-friendly restaurant in the Houston Farmers Market, will start their weekly trivia nights 6:30-8p Adults.

Wild Oats 2520 Airline Drive Suite C-315, Houston, Tx www.thehoustonfarmersmarket.com

SEPTEMBER 28

YOUNG ADULT BOOK CLUB

Join our Young Adult Book Club and attend our book discussions and you’ll get a new book to keep every month!

4:30-5:30p, Ages 13-18. Free. www.rosenberg-library.org

KIDS CRAFT

Bring your imagination and let’s get crafting! Create exciting projects at the library that you can show off at home. Geared for kids ages 5-10. Registration required.

3p-4p. Kids 5-10. Free. Registration required. Meeting Room, Carnegie Neighborhood Library and Center for Learning www.houstonlibrary.org/

SEPTEMBER 29

IN PERSON KATHERINE APPLEGATE AND GENNIFER CHOLDENKO | DOGTOWN

We are very excited to welcome Katherine Applegate and Gennifer Choldenko to the shop to celebrate their new book, Dogtown. Books will be available for pick up at the event. Although reservations are not required, we appreciate them! Adult. 5p. Free. www.bluewillowbookshop.com

SEPTEMBER 30 SCREEN ON THE GREEN – CINDERELLA

In this modern musical retelling of a classic story, Cinderella is a poor yet ambitious orphan who dreams of meeting the prince, Robert. Unfortunately for her, her evil stepmother and stepsisters are intent on preventing that from happening. When all hope seems lost, her Fairy Godmother comes into the picture and makes her dream come true. All ages.7-9:30p. Free. www.discoverygreen.com

OPEN MIC NIGHT

Share in the spirit of creativity and community at this Poetry and Spoken Word open mic night, hosted by local bookstore, Buy The Book. All writers of all experience levels and backgrounds are invited to attend and share their work. If you do plan on participating, be sure to sign up when you arrive at the open mic night to save your spot. 6-8p. All ages. Free. www.woodlandscenter.org

BACKYARD COMPOSTING CLASS

Learn from Montgomery County Master Gardeners the simple, cost-effective way to enrich your yard and garden with compost made in your own backyard. . Recreation Center 6464Creekside Forest Drive.

Adult. 9:30a, 10:30a, 1130a. Free. www.thewoodlandstownship-tx.gov

LABOR DAY EVENTS & ACTIVITIES IN HOUSTON

Labor Day weekend is the perfect time to celebrate the end of summer and enjoy a long weekend in Houston. Here is a comprehensive guide to help you plan your exciting weekend, featuring some of the top events and activities in and around Houston.

1. HOUSTON ASTROS VS TEXAS

September 5th

Minute MaidPark, Downtown Houston

RANGERS

For the biggest in-state rivalry, go check out the Texas Rangers playing the Houston Astros at Minute Maid Stadium. With games Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday night, you get three chances to watch the Astros play that team from Dallas. Can the Astros continue to dominate the AL West with the Rangers close on their heels? Nothing says Labor Day quite like America’s favorite pastime, a beer and a hot dog.

2. LABOR DAY WEEKEND SALE

September 3rd - September 6th

The Galleria, 5085 Westheimer Rd, Houston, TX 77056

If you’re a shopaholic, don’t miss out on the Labor Day Weekend Sale at The Galleria. Enjoy discounts, deals, and special offers from a wide range of retailers, including high-end and luxury brands. Whether you’re looking for fashion, accessories, electronics, or home decor, you’ll find it all at the Galleria.

Check the official website of The Galleria for specific store hours and promotions during the sale.

3. BIG SALSA FESTIVAL

September 2nd-5th

Westin Galleria Houston 5060 W Alabama St Houston, TX 77056

Labor Day weekend in Houston means BIG Salsa Festival. This four-day Latin event will feature some of the greatest names in performing arts and music! Each day is packed with dance classes, amazing performances and, of course, Latin dance parties. Whether you’re a novice or a pro, BIG Salsa Festival Houston offers classes for beginners, challenging courses for the advanced, and everything in between. Come salsa and celebrate 10 years of BIG Salsa!

4. LABOR DAY SUNSET CRUISE

September 6th

Houston Port, 7300 Harborside Dr, Galveston, TX 77554

Enjoy a relaxing Labor Day evening aboard a sunset cruise, departing from the Houston Port. Witness the breathtaking views of the Houston skyline as the sun sets over the city. Dance to live music, enjoy delicious cuisine, and sip on refreshing drinks as you sail along the coast.

Ticket prices vary depending on the cruise package you choose. It is recommended to book your tickets in advance.

5. FIREWORKS IN THE WOODLANDS

September 3rd, 5-9 pm

Waterway Square, 31 Waterway Square Place, The Woodlands, TX 77380

Relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor at Waterway Square on Sunday, September 4, 2022 from 5 to 9 p.m. with live music, children’s activities, strolling entertainment, pie eating contests and fireworks!

Ticket prices vary depending on the cruise package you choose. It is recommended to book your tickets in advance.

These are just a few of the many incredible Labor Day events and activities happening in and around Houston. Feel free to explore more options and plan your long weekend accordingly. Have a fantastic and memorable Labor Day celebration in Houston!

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CARMELA FULL OF WISHES

Main Street Theater

September 20 – October 27, 2023

Feliz Cumpleaños! It’s Carmela’s birthday, and she’s finally old enough to tag along with her big brother as he runs the family errands. Passing by the bodega and the lavanderia, Carmela picks a dandelion and makes a very important wish… A moving ode to family, to dreamers, and to finding hope in the most unexpected places.

Recommended for Pre-Kindergarten and older. Check for dates. Tickets:

$18 - $24 www.mainstreettheater.com

THE MUSIC OF SAM COOKE

Miller Outdoor Theatre

September 9, 2023

The Music of Sam Cooke starring Bradd Marquis: A fantastic new show depicting the life and music of one of America’s most iconic and talented performers, the Legendary Sam Cooke. A rip-roaring soulful performance brought to you alongside a live big band. 10 am. All ages. Free. www.milleroutdoortheatre.com

POTUS: OR, BEHIND EVERY GREAT DUMBASS ARE SEVEN WOMEN TRYING TO KEEP HIM ALIVE

Stages Houston

September 1 – October 8, 2023

One four-letter word is about to rock 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. When the President unwittingly spins a PR nightmare into a global crisis, the seven brilliant and beleaguered women he most relies upon risk life, liberty, and the pursuit of sanity to keep the commander-in-chief out of trouble. This uproarious, all-female farce took Broadway by storm in 2022; this fall, the wacky West Wing lands in Space City. After all, behind every great man is a great woman—or seven of them.

Wed-Thu 7:30p, Fri 8p, Sun 2:30p.

Tickets start at $30.

www.StagesHouston.com

JAGGED LITTLE PILL –THE MUSICAL

Hobby Center for the Performing Arts

August 29 – September 10, 2023

Joy, love, heartache, strength, wisdom, catharsis, LIFE—everything we’ve been waiting to see— is here in the exhilarating, fearless new musical based on Alanis Morissette’s world-changing music.

Directed by Tony Award winner Diane Paulus (Waitress, Pippin, 1776) with a Tony-winning book and Grammy-winning score, this electrifying production about a perfectly imperfect American family vaults the audience to its collective feet

The Guardian.

Tickets start at $40.

www.thehobbycenter.org

AMERICAN MARIACHI

Alley Theatre

September 22 – October 22, 2023

THE DISCOVERY SERIES: MARIA’S MAGICAL MUSIC ADVENTURE

Hobby Center for the Performing Arts

September 19-21, 2023

A children’s play based on Ars Lyrica’s first children’s book, “Maria’s Magical Adventure” features a young girl named Maria who travels to the 17th century Italy to meet Antonio Vivaldi, who is in the process of creating his musical masterpiece, “The Four Seasons.” Various time. Adults.

Tickets start at $40.

www.thehobbycenter.org

CANDLELIGHT: A TRIBUTE TO TAYLOR SWIFT

Candlelight concerts bring the magic of a live, multi-sensory musical experience to awe-inspiring locations like never seen before in Houston. Get your tickets now to discover the music of Taylor Swift at the Lone Star Flight Museum under the gentle glow of candlelight.

7p and 9:15p. 8 years old or older. Anyone under the age of 16 must be accompanied by an adult. Seating is assigned on a first come first served basis in each zone.

Tickets start at $45.

www.candlelightexperience. com

Family, love, and tradition are at the core of this heartwarming play about the freedom to dream big. It’s the 1970’s and girls can’t be mariachis … or can they? As Lucha and her spunky cousin hunt for bandmates, dodge disapproving relatives, and bring Mom along for the ride? This play is infused with vibrant, infectious live mariachi music and reminds us how music and love can make the impossible come true. Start times vary. Adult. Tickets start at $35.

www.alleytheater.org

NOW EXHIBITING NOW EXHIBITING

MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS HOUSTON

www.mfah.org

Tues.-Wed. 10am-5pm., Thurs. 10am-9pm., Fri.-Sat. 10am-7pm., Sun. 12:15-7pm. $19 adult; $16 senior 65+, $12 children 13-18 and students (19+) (children 12 and under free).

FREE every Thursday 10am-9pm

EXHIBITS: IMPRESSIONIST AND POST-IMPRESSIONIST MASTERPIECES FROM THE PEARLMAN FOUNDATION

See outstanding works by art stars including Cezanne, Degas, Gauguin, Van Gogh, Manet, and Modigliani presented within the context of their experiences. This exhibition examines the friendships the artists developed in Paris as well as the many locations and sites—regional, national, and international—that shaped their work individually.

Through September 17, 2023

WILLIAM KENTRIDGE: IN PRAISE OF SHADOW

The acclaimed exhibition William Kentridge: In Praise of Shadows surveys 35 years in the career of celebrated South African artist William Kentridge. More than 80 works touch on every aspect of his wide-ranging investigations in the visual arts, sculpture, film, and theater.

Through September 10, 2023

HOUSTON MUSEUM OF NATURAL SCIENCE

www.hmns.org

9a-5p Mon-Sun

$25 adult, $16 children 3-11, senior 62+ and college students FREE every Thursday 2-5pm

EXHIBITS: THE ART OF TEXAS STATE PARKS

For the first time in the Texas State Park Programs history- and in celebration of the centennial- the Texas Parks and Wildlife Department commissioned 30 notable Texan artists to paint scenes from over 30 parks across the state.

Ongoing

THE HEALTH MUSEUM

www.thehealthmuseum.org

Hours: Mon.-Sat, 9a-5p, Thurs 9a-7p, Sun 12-5p

Admission: $10 adult, $8 senior 65+, free for children under 2 FREE on Thursdays 2-7p.

EXHIBITS: VETERAN VISION PROJECT

Arizona State University student and photographer Devin Mitchell created the Veteran Vision Project to capture the diversity of veterans and their experiences. His powerful photos, which have received significant national acclaim, contrast veterans in uniform and in poses that reflect their life after military service.

YOUR BODY YOUR AIR

Breathe in. Breathe out. Air pollutants are substances in the air that can have a negative effect on our health. Your Body, Your Air explores four common types of air pollutants and their sources in the Houston area, as well as the effect these pollutants have on our bodies and our communities. Together we can work towards healthier air, healthier bodies, and healthier communities.

HOLOCAUST MUSEUM

www.hmh.org

Tue–Wed 10a-5p, Th 10a-8p, Fri–Sat 10a-5p, Sun 12p-5p

Adults $22, Seniors (age 65 and above) $16, AARP Members $16 Active Duty Service members and their families Free through Labor Day through the Blue Star Museums Program. Ages 0 – 18 Free

EXHIBITS: BEARING WITNESS: A COMMUNITY REMEMBERS

The Gallery is personalized with testimony of Holocaust Survivors who later settled in the Houston area. These incredible individuals lived through a genocidal war that inflicted mass death on unprecedented numbers of innocent civilians. The Gallery features artifacts donated by the Holocaust Survivors, their descendants, liberators, and other collectors.

Permanent

SHARKS! THE MEG, THE MONSTERS, & THE MYTHS

Houston Museum of Natural Science

We’re gonna need a bigger exhibit hall. Debuting on a floor all to itself is Sharks! The Meg, The Monsters & The Myths. We’re making your dreams come true and bringing you up close and personal with live sharks for a hands-on experience that will be – dare we say – jawsome. You’ll get a chance to touch a shark and discover what makes these creatures unique – from bait balls to bioluminescence. Further immerse yourself in the world of sharks as every order of shark known to mankind is represented within the exhibition, including a life-size model of the ancient behemoth, the Megalodon. And don’t forget to pick up a few Megalodon teeth of your own in the island shop.

Dates/Times Vary. All ages. Child $27, Adults $35 www.hmns.org

PEARL FINCHER MUSEUM OF FINE ARTS

www.pearlmfa.org

Tues-Sat 10a-5pm

Admission is free!

EXHIBITS:

SEE EVEN MORE FAMILY FRIENDLY EVENTS IN OUR ONLINE EVENTS CALENDAR!

https://houstonfamilymagazine.com/events-calendar/

THE MENIL COLLECTION

www.menil.org

Wed - Sun 11a-7p

Closed Monday and Tuesday. Free Hours: Always free!

EXHIBITS:

HYPERREAL: GRAY FOY

Between the 1940s and 1970s, American artist Gray Foy (1922–2012) created a body of extraordinarily meticulous drawings, most often rendered in graphite on paper. This exhibition celebrates two recent gifts that have made the Menil Collection the foremost repository of Foy’s work. Intrigued by Surrealism and Magic Realism as a young artist, Foy characterized his artistic method as “hyper-realism.” His exacting technique— which required intense concentration and even months to complete a single drawing—rewards sustained looking.

MAIN GALLERY: “ELEPHANT & PIGGIE IN WE ARE ART!”

(A Mo Willems exhibition), organized by The Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art in Amherst, Massachusetts. Elephant & Piggie have entertained millions of children with their hilarious escapades that impart valuable lessons on manners, empathy, emotions, and— most importantly—friendship. This free exhibition features 75 works including original illustrations, color digital renderings, early sketches, dummy books and more, as well as a cozy reading area for families to enjoy these wonderful stories together.

June 3 - September 2, 2023

COLE GALLERY: “KEITTOODLES” BY BETH BRUBAKER

Enter a world of color and imagination with “Keittoodles” by local artist and retired teacher, Beth Brubaker. This exhibition will feature more than 50 pieces in an interactive environment where children can explore the Land of Keittoodles and their Colorworld.

June 3 - September 2, 2023

The exhibition spans the entirety of Foy’s career, from his early Surrealist compositions to his later inventive botanical and geological renderings. Also included are a selection of the artist’s commercial illustrations, which will be displayed publicly for the first time.

Apr 21–Sep 3

CONTEMPORARY ARTS

MUSEUM HOUSTON

www.camh.org

Tues - Wed 10a-7p, Thu 10a-9p, Fri 10a7p, Sat 10a-6p, Sun 12p-6p

Closed Monday, New Year’s Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day Free Hours: Always free!

EXHIBITS:

JORDAN STRAFER:

TRILOGY

Both perversely pleasurable and pleasurably perverse, Jordan Strafer’s videos are absurd, fantastical, humorous, and, at times, violent meditations on power and the uniquely human capacity to inflict violence, be it physical, psychological, or both. The artist’s first solo museum exhibition, Jordan Strafer: Trilogy presents Strafer’s recent trilogy of videos PEP (Process Entanglement Procedure) (2019), SOS (2021), and PEAK HEAVEN LOVE FOREVER (2022), alongside a selection of related works on paper by the artist.

July 28, 2023 - November 26, 2023

HOUSTON CENTER FOR CONTEMPORARY CRAFT

www.crafthouston.org

Open Tue- Sat 10a-5p.

HCCC is closed on Sunday and Monday and the following holidays: New Year’s Day, Memorial Day, Juneteenth (June 19th), July 4th, Labor Day, Thanksgiving Day, and Christmas Day.

EXHIBITS:

GABO MARTINEZ: THE LAND OF FLOWERS

An exhibition of ceramics and printmaking named for the mythical, flower-filled paradise, known in Nahuatl as xochitlalpan. Influenced by her upbringing in Guanajuato, Mexico, and Texas, Martinez’s vibrant work centers a reclamation of indigenous identity through craft production, using materials and motifs with ties to prehispanic cultures. Her vividly glazed terracotta vessels and large-scale prints are inscribed with motifs like the flower, a deeply significant symbol in the poetic tradition of Nahuatl speakers, known as In xochitl In cuicatl (Flower and Song).

June 3-September 9

THE JUNG CENTER OF HOUSTON

www.junghouston.org

Mon-Thu 9a-7:30p, Fri 9a-4p, Sat 10a-4p

Bookstore Closed Friday Closed Sunday Free Hours: Always Free! Call for program catalog. Gallery is free to the public.

PETER BIRKHÄUSER: LIGHT FROM THE DARKNESS

The creative process of the Swiss artist Peter Birkhäuser (1911-1976) took a striking turn when he entered midlife. A successful and influential graphic artist, Birkhäuser entered a deep depression and sought answers in the ideas of C.G. Jung; he recorded and explored his dreams, entered into analysis with Marie-Louise von Franz, and eventually developed a friendship with Jung himself. As it became more difficult for Birkhäuser to finish his creative assignments, he began to illustrate images from his dreams. Over the course of 35 years, he kept notes on over 3,400 of his dreams, and his work increasingly focused on the images emerging from his unconscious.

Permanent Exhibition