Family Matters Christmas 2018 | Frome and West Wilts. edition

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ISSUE 51 • December 2018

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WELCOME As Christmas and the end of the year draws nearer, we’re hoping you’ve all had a great few months back at school and are excited for what the new year will bring.

While there is a great deal of joy to be found at this time of year, it can also be a difficult one.

It can be stressful with money worries, family dramas and more, this issue, we’re focussed on the good, but also here to support you when things don’t go quite to plan. You’ll find in this issue some advice for a smooth Christmas if you’re spending it as part of a new family, as well as some ideas on how to be money wise, which will hopefully dispel some of that stress.

Of course, not everyone celebrates Christmas the same way, so we’ve included some fun facts about the festive season around the world, maybe once you’ve learned about different traditions around the world, you can implement a couple of them into your celebrations and see for yourself the different ways families celebrate elsewhere.

Whatever your plans for this festive season, the whole Family Matters team hopes you have a great Christmas and a very happy New Year – we’ll see you in 2019!

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DON’T GET INTO DEBT THIS CHRISTMAS This time of year can be tough on your bank balance and we can all be tempted to rely on credit cards or loans to see us through. It isn’t just expensive presents, it’s buying food and treats for the family, heating the house and of course, having extra Christmas lights will take its toll on your electricity bill.

While it might be tempting to whip out the credit card to tide you over, you will need to keep in mind that interest quickly builds up, especially if you put off payments which can lead to the debts getting away from you.

To try and avoid falling into the trap of Christmas debts, here are some tips to help you cover all the costs.

Stick to a plan

You may have already started your Christmas shopping but make sure you have worked out a budget of how much you need to pay your usual bills, with a little extra to cover using extra lights and heating, plus food. Then with what you have left over, come up with an idea of how much you want to spend on each person and stick to it.

Set up an awards account

If you don’t already have one, ask your bank about awards accounts. Many banks offer an awards account where if you pay for certain items using your debit card, you can earn cash back or discount vouchers. These can be helpful when it comes to paying your utilities as you’ll earn money for paying your bills which can then be used on something else, plus if you get discounts for high street stores, these can be put towards Christmas presents or items throughout the year.

Use loyalty schemes where you can

Many companies offer loyalty schemes where spending so much over the year will give you money off at Christmas or will reward you with vouchers that you can spend on food or gifts. If you are involved in any loyalty

schemes, make sure you reach the requirements to get the awards as these can really help at this time of year.

Avoid going into your overdraft

If you can avoid it, stay clear of your overdraft, you will get charged for it and that can cause more problems. If you need to go into it, speak to your bank first and see if they have other options for you, like a small loan or a credit card.

HOWEVER! Credit cards and loans can cause their own issues if payments are missed or the monthly payments are too much. If you can keep up with them, make sure the minimum amount at least is paid off each month, otherwise you’ll find yourself being hit with penalty charges. Put payment dates in your calendar or set up direct debits so you don’t forget to pay them.

Compare credit deals

If you are going to use a credit card or loan, shop around and compare interest rates. Some cards have a high interest rates, but offer you discounts or interest free periods, which might work better for you. Don’t grab the first card you see, do your research.

If you do find yourself struggling to make ends meet at this time of year, don’t let it distract you from having a good time with your friends and family. There are plenty of resources available to help you if you get into a sticky situation, including advice on swapping to a better credit card deal or attending a free debt counselling session. Speak to your local Citizen's Advice Bureau or head online to find what is available in your area.

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Spending Christmas together when you’re remarried We’re told that Christmas is a time to be with family, but that isn’t always helpful for the families of today, many of whom have step parents/children or parents who are separated.

How do you keep everyone together without causing upset and how do you integrate step families into your traditions? It can be a difficult thing to negotiate, so we’ve compiled a few tips to help the festive season go as smoothly as possible.

Firstly, before the big day, make sure you get everyone together and talk about it, that way you can be clear on everyone’s expectations and their usual routines and you can come up with a compromise. Perhaps you have children who aren’t sure whether they should split the day between you and your ex, or maybe they have step brothers and sisters that have recently joined the family and they’re worried about it. You might have a whole set of in-laws you’ll need to cater for. Whatever your new situation, it’s important to sit down together in advance of Christmas Day to talk through everything, that way there won’t be any nasty surprises and you can avoid any arguments and disappointments.

slip up and forget some of the things you decided on, there will be niggles but don’t freak out if something goes wrong.

Just let yourself go with the flow and enjoy the day.

Finally, work together to come up with a compromise so you can create your own Christmas traditions. It won’t be possible to do everything you did before, especially if you’re integrating families, but see it as an opportunity to come up with something special.

When the big day comes around, don’t heap massive expectations on the day. Don’t expect it to be perfect.

Much of the stress from Christmas Day comes from pressurising yourself to make it perfect, spending the day in a new situation can be stressful enough so don’t put extra pressure on yourself. You will forget to get things out of the freezer on time, you will

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Why not take 10 minutes out this Christmas Eve, sit down with the kids and a mug of hot chocolate and read this classic Christmas poem...

'Twas the Night Before Christmas 'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse; The stockings were hung by the chimney with care, In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there;

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.

As I drew in my hand, and was turning around, Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds, While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads; And mamma in her 'kerchief, and I in my cap, Had just settled down for a long winter's nap,

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot, And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot; A bundle of toys he had flung on his back, And he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter, I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.

Away to the window I flew like a flash, Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

His eyes -- how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!

His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!

His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow, And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow;

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below, When, what to my wondering eyes should appear, But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer,

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth, And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath; He had a broad face and a little round belly, That shook, when he laughed like a bowlful of jelly.

With a little old driver, so lively and quick, I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.

More rapid than eagles his coursers they came, And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name;

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf, And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself; A wink of his eye and a twist of his head, Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;

"Now, DASHER! now, DANCER! now, PRANCER and VIXEN! On, COMET! on CUPID! on, DONNER and BLITZEN! To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!

Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!"

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work, And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk, And laying his finger aside of his nose, And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose;

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly, When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky, So up to the house-top the coursers they flew, With the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas too.

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle, And away they all flew like the down of a thistle. But I heard him exclaim, ere he drove out of sight, HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A GOOD-NIGHT!

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Six tips for helping with eczema Eczema is one of the most common skin complaints, particularly among children and as the winter gets colder and dryer, eczema can flare up, which can be uncomfortable and irritating for young children. Here are some top tips from the National Eczema Organisation to help keep those flare ups under control.

DRESS IN LAYERS

Sweating and overheating can trigger itching and scratching which in turn leads to irritated skin – try sending the kids out in layers, that way they can remove clothing as needed to stop them overheating while also having enough to keep them warm in the changeable British weather.

Put a humidifier in the bedroom

This helps keep skin from drying out, which can stop it becoming cracked and itchy.

Drink plenty of water

When it’s cold out, you won’t want to reach for a nice glass of water or squash, but it is important to stay hydrated as this can help prevent flare ups.

Keep antihistamines to hand

This is especially useful if your child’s eczema is triggered by allergic reactions.

Moisturise regularly

Make sure to do this as often as possible during the winter months. Make sure to do this before and after washing to really keep the moisture locked into the skin.

Avoid wool jumpers

We know Christmas Jumper day is important, but any clothes that make you itchy are not ideal for anyone with irritated skin. Stick to fabrics like cotton instead.

Got any more tips for helping protect your skin during the winter months?

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d l r o w e h t HIDING BROOMS

EATING WHALES

In Norway, Christmas Eve is much like All Hallows Eve to us in the UK. Evil spirits and witches are said to rise on this day, so to protect themselves, families in Norway hide all their brooms before they go to bed.

While you might dread having sprouts spooned onto your plate, spare a thought for the people of Greenland.

Their Christmas delicacy, Mattak, is raw whale skin, complete with blubber. If that doesn’t turn your stomach, Kiviak might. This dish is a small bird wrapped in seal skin which is buried for several months and then dug up and eaten when its nicely decomposed. On second thoughts…. I think I’ll take the sprouts.

DINING WITH YOUR DECEASED LOVED ONES It’s always hard at Christmas when you’ve lost loved ones and the whole day has a bittersweet feel to it. If you find yourself in this situation, inject some Portugese tradition to Christmas lunch – in Portugal, families set extra places at the table on Christmas day for their deceased relatives, this is called ‘consoda’ and is said to bring good luck for the coming year.

THE DEFECATING LOG

ROLLER SKATING In Venezuela’s capital, it is tradition to travel to church for an early morning service while wearing roller skates throughout the whole festive period. They even close the roads so this can be done safely.

This is a Catalonian tradition, in the fortnight leading up to Christmas, families carve a small grinning creature out of a log and place it on their dining room table.

Over the next fourteen days, the log must be fed with fruit, nuts and sweets and then on Christmas Eve, it is beaten with sticks until all the goodies come out.

Every family has their own traditions for this time of year, whether or not you celebrate Christmas, there are certain routines and rituals which you find yourself doing every year. In the UK, where shops, schools and businesses close down to allow Christmas celebrations, there are traditions we’re familiar with, having a tree, going to Christingle, watching a Nativity, cooking and not eating Brussel sprouts.

This isn’t the norm everywhere in the world though, here are some of our favourite festive eccentricities from around the globe...

BURNING A WOODEN GOAT We’re all familiar with the idea of a Yule Log, for us and our neighbours in France, Yule Logs are typically made of chocolate rather than being an actual log, but in Sweden they have the Yule Goat. In Gävle, the residents erect a giant Yule Goat and pretty much every year since its debut, people have tried to torch it.

SCARY BEASTS In the UK and America, we have Santa and his army of elf friends and reindeers, these cute little helpers aren’t universal however.

In Germany and Austria, Father Christmas is aided by Krampus, a hairy hooved beast with large horns that is supposed to punish naughty children during the Christmas period. So kids, if you’re planning on playing up this year, be wary if your folks say they’re taking you on a trip to Germany.

FINDING A FIANCÉE If you’re someone who hates Christmas because you’re always on your own, head to the Czech Republic. Young, single women have their own Christmas tradition, they stand with their backs to the front door and toss their shoes over their shoulder, if a shoe lands with its toe pointing towards the door it’s said the woman will get married within the next year.

SPIDERS ON YOUR CHRISTMAS TREE In the Ukraine, there aren’t baubals and tinsel over the trees, instead trees are covered in fake spiders and webs. This is said to bring luck and stems from a folk story about a poor woman who couldn’t afford decorations and woke on Christmas morning to find a spider had covered it in a glittering web.

FOUR-EYED SANTA Christmas isn’t really a thing in Japan, but there are people there that like to celebrate with the western world.

These people celebrate Santa Kuroshu who has eyes in the back of his head so he can keep an eye on naughty children. Those of you who aren’t fans of the traditional British Christmas cake might want to spend the holidays in Japan, Christmas cake there is made of sponge, whipped cream and strawberries!

what’s on Now til 23rd December Christmas Lunch at Dunster Castle We're now taking bookings for festive lunches. So whether it's the turkey with all the trimmings or the red lentil cottage pie that has taken your fancy, be sure to book early to avoid disappointment. 10am-6pm.

Now til the 22nd December Christmas Carol Festive Fun See Scrooges Office, make crackers, find out about Victorian traditions and see Victorian boots on display. Free admission but donations are welcome. The Shoe Museum, Street. From 10am.

Til the 24th December Breakfast with Father Christmas Father Christmas will be taking time out from his busy schedule to meet you for a yummy cooked breakfast, served with a Rudolph gingerbread biscuit! 8am – 10am Every weekend in December, plus Christmas Eve. £12.95 per child. Limited availability, so please book early to avoid disappointment.

Til the 6th January Festive Family Trail Help Hetty the Hedgehog get ready for her Christmas party and get some fresh air as you follow our trail around the wintry gardens. Open every day from 10am. £2 per child + normal admission. No need to book. www.hestercombe.com Til the 13th January A Christmas Carol at Bristol Old Vic This delightful new adaptation of Dickens’ well-loved comedy.

So sit back in your seats and find out how selfish moneylender Ebenezer Scrooge finally comes to understand the true meaning of Christmas. bristololdvic.org.uk

Til the 13th January Peter Pan at Theatre Royal Peter Pan is a swash-buckling and unmissable Christmas treat that’s got everything – with flying, CGI special effects and all the traditional ingredients that make Bath pantomimes so special.

Til the 6th January Ice Skating at Hestercombe Glide about on our skate rink (it’s artificial so you don’t get too chilly!) in our magical winter marquee.

Perfect family fun. www.hestercombe.com

Til the 13th January The Scarlet Pimpernel Expect witty wordplay, brave women, not-so-brave men, hysterical double disguises, elaborate hoaxes, poodles aplenty and very, very high wigs. Everything a modern day audience could wish for in just under 2 hours of deliciousness.

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Til the 24th December Reindeer feeding Come and watch our Reindeer being fed every day at 4pm at our Lacock, Whitchurch & Woodborough Garden Centres. From Saturday 3rd November through until Sunday 24th December. This is a FREE event - no ticket required!

Whitehall Garden Centres. www.whitehallgardencentre.co.uk Til 31st December Lacock's Christmas List Family Trail On this self-led family trail, Father Christmas has lost his list and needs your help matching the presents to who they belong to in the woodland grounds. The trail continues on in the village where local businesses have codes to crack which make up the Christmas dinner shopping list. Lacock Abbey, Lacock.

13 December - 20 January 2019 Snow Mouse Back by huge popular demand for an incredible 4th year!

Come and join two new friends on their adventures in a magical forest full of play, puppetry and music. The Egg Theatre, Bath.

15th - 31st December Winter Trail at Dunster Castle There's discord between two rulers and they need your help to return their lands to peace. Follow the trail around the grounds and solve the clues to help unite the lands of the Swan Queen and River King. Dunster Castle, Dunster.

15 - 23 December A Christmas Castle & Illuminated Garden Walk See the castle's ground floor rooms decorated for Christmas and live festive music learn about some of the Luttrell family's traditions and play some festive games. The garden will be illuminated for an evening stroll. Dunster Castle, Dunster.

19th - 22nd December Supper with Santa Would your little one love to have supper with Santa? This event includes a buffet tea, ice cream, a funky disco and a present from Santa! 6-8pm, Puxton Park.

21st - 31st December Dick Whittington Supported by a very strong cast of top quality theatre professionals plus some fantastic local junior performers this is a show you just won’t want to miss!

The whole Dick Whittington cast will come out after the show to meet and greet the audience as you leave and pose for your photos absolutely FREE of charge. The McMillan Theatre, Bath Road, Bridgwater.

22nd - 1st January Snow White and the Seven Dwarves A fabulous show by Moorlight Theatre Productions.

Adults - £11.50 Senior - £10.50 Children - £9.50 The Meyer Theatre, Millfield School, Street.

28th December - 2nd January 2019 FMTC presents Aladdin Holiday fun for all the family. Traditional family pantomime with live music, fantastic costumes and scenery.

NOTE: Performance times on New Year’s Eve – 11am and 4pm.

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19th January Wassail at Glastonbury Tor Wassailing is an ancient custom that involves drinking cider, singing to the trees in the hope of a good harvest and scaring away any evil spirits that might be lurking. You can tour the Tor, sing around the trees, hear stories by the fire and sample the fruit of last year's crop.

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An Edible Gift Idea CHRISTMAS TREE CRACKERS Make Christmas tree shaped crackers and gift them along with a jar of homemade chutney and artisanal cheese.

INGREDIENTS 120 g porridge oats 120 g plain flour, plus extra for dusting 0.5 tsp cayenne pepper 70 g unsalted butter, chilled and cut into cubes 1 medium free-range egg, separated, white only 1 tsp poppy seeds 1 tsp sesame seeds 1 tbsp pumpkin seeds YOU WILL ALSO NEED: 3 Christmas tree cookie cutters METHOD 1. Preheat the oven to 180°C, fan 160°C, gas 4. Whiz the porridge oats in a food processor or blender to make a coarse flour. Tip into a large mixing bowl and stir in the plain flour and cayenne pepper.

2. With your fingertips, rub the butter into the oat mixture until it resembles fine crumbs. Use 3 tbsp cold water to create a dough, then lightly knead until smooth.

3. On a lightly floured surface, roll out to a thickness of about 4mm. Using a small Christmas tree cutter, stamp out 16 biscuits (you’ll need to re-roll the dough).

4. Place on a lined baking tray and lightly brush all over with the egg white. Scatter over the seeds and bake for 30 mins until dry and crisp. Leave to cool on the tray for 5 mins, then transfer to a wire rack to cool completely.

Store in an airtight container for 3-5 days.

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Start thinking about those resolutions early We’re sure you’re bored of the New Year New You phrase already and it’s only just coming into the winter season! But, the start of a new year is always a great time to make a change in your life that you’ve been gearing up to, whether it is stopping smoking, starting a new career or finally using that gym membership that has been gathering dust, there is no time like the start of a new year to do it!

Research from the University of Hertfordshire suggests that only one in ten people are able to accomplish their New Year goals by the end of the year, but as it is widely believed that you can form a new habit in less than a month, we think it’s possible for everyone to achieve their goals with the right amount of support.

So – you have your resolutions for the new year – now what?

Well, start small, it’s easier to achieve something if it is broken down into manageable chunks, so figure out how to make them measurable and give yourself a deadline to a certain milestone.

For example, if you want to learn a new language, decide that by March you’ll be able to read, write and speak a certain number of sentences. That way, when it comes to March, speaking, reading and writing in another language will be part of your routine, so it’ll be easier to learn more sentences and by 2020, you might be able to wander around a new country speaking the language like a local. Or you could decide to get fit and choose to be able to run a certain amount of miles by a set date, by the end of the year you might be looking into winning an Olympic medal or something.

It’s also important to celebrate those mile stones and award yourself when you’ve achieved something – it’ll make you want to

continue on to the next step and of course, everyone likes prizes!

Enlist some friends and family to support you – this is important, while you will need to dedicate a huge amount of will power to achieving your goals, you will need support from those around you too. Talk to your friends and family about what it is you want to do and ask if they’d help you to get there. You never know, they might create flash cards to help you revise if you choose to learn a new skill or go over interview techniques with you if you’re looking for a new job, they could stop smoking around you if you’re planning on giving up or come shopping with you for gym gear. They might even be willing to be a food taster if your goal is to learn how to cook!

Don’t give up! Failure is all part of learning. Sometimes you won’t succeed straight away and you’ll feel frustrated at not being able to do something, but don’t let that put you off. Stick to your goals and think of it as a tiny set back – you’ll get there eventually! It’s also important not to put too much pressure on yourself, that’s just asking for trouble!

If you don’t fancy learning a new skill or taking on a physical challenge, that’s fine too, New Year New You doesn’t have to be about joining the gym or getting a new hobby, it can be as simple as getting a new hair cut or treating yourself to a new beauty regime. There are so many treatments and options available to anyone wanting to make a change, from eyebrow threading to a massage. Perhaps you want to stop biting your nails and want them to look pretty during your transition – there are lots of different options for nail extensions, paints and more!

What New Year’s Resolutions do you have in mind for 2019?

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BRING YOUR FOLKS TO SCHOOL Westbury Junior School have welcomed over 100 parents and family members into school to enjoy a morning of maths and English with their children.

They visitors were able to experience several lessons and gain an insight into the school day. Staff and children both really enjoy this interaction and they hope the adults enjoyed it too!

Class teacher, Yvonne Small, says, “We are always keen to encourage parents to come into school and get involved with their child’s learning and ‘Bring Your Folks’ is a perfect opportunity for that.”

BBC Bristol visited Oakfield Academy to film pupils taking part in the Children in Need Virtual Rickshaw Challenge. Somerset School Games teamed up with Children in Need to get children moving during 12th-16th November. Somerset Activity & Sports Partnership (SASP) want Somerset schools to be active and attempt to achieve the 423 mile challenge. The whole school were encouraged to participate. Oakfield Academy is joining the Rickshaw Challenge to achieve something amazing and raise money at the same time. The images were broadcast as part of the BBC’s local coverage on Friday 16th November.

WESTWOOD RADIO AT WILTSHIRE HEIGHTS ELMHURST JUNIOR SCHOOL GET A VISIT FROM PUDSEY Pupils at Elmhurst took part in various fundraising activities for Children in Need this year and even got a visit from Pudsey the Bear! In the week leading up to the event, each year group took part in a different activity.

Year 3 had a dress up day with their costumes relating to the letter P on the Friday. Earlier in the week, Year 4 went for a welly walk, Year 5 held a book sale and Year 6 wore “something on their heads and clothes for bed” in return for a donation as well as a floss off during the day.

All the funds raised throughout the week were presented to Pudsey the Bear by members of the School Council.

NEW STAFF Oakfield Academy are delighted to announce that two members of staff will be joining their Leadership Team. Mr Nathan Webb and Mrs Kathy Pinches are joining the Team on a temporary basis to undertake projects on parent engagement and communication. All staff and pupils wish them luck with their exciting new roles. ukfamilymatters |

Once again the fabulous team of Westwood Radio broadcasters were delighted to be invited back to present a live outside broadcast from the dining room at Wiltshire Heights residential care home in Bradford on Avon. The pupils have always enjoyed visiting the residents and taking their portable radio station to entertain and engage with the local community.

With the usual mix of top stories, engaging scripts and great music, the team were on top form and made the afternoon so enjoyable for everyone. They were also thrilled to be able to talk to some of the residents about their memories of childhood; a perfect focus for the show as it happened to be on Children in Need day. You can listen to the show again on soundcloud.com/ westwoodradio. @UkFamilyMatters | familymatters-uk.co.uk | 19

FROME MARCHES AGAINST BULLIES Over 400 children from eleven different Frome schools joined forces in Victoria Park to rally against bullying during Anti-bullying week.

The idea came from Frome school girl, Isla Stockland Coates and was agreed by her fellow Anti Bullying Ambassadors at Vallis First School who approached Frome Town Council to see if they would like to support.

Richard Ackroyd, Mayor of Frome, said: “Of course – we were delighted to support the young people to put their idea into action and it is incredible to see so many children here today. It is a credit to all the schools attending that they were able to follow through with the idea – which was difficult logistically.”

The children were welcomed by the Mayor of Frome, then each school shared their chant, and the children walked around the park with banners and placards that they had made. The children gave a clear message that they want bullying to stop and they would like adults to support them in stamping it out.

Isla and her school friend then led everyone in a Hi-5, Handshake, Hug activity before Avon and Somerset local PCSO’s introduced themselves as someone else young people can talk to if they are worried about bullying. To demonstrate togetherness the children then all linked together using blue ribbons.

The fact that so many schools joined in suggests that the schools are strongly in support of this initiative. Toby Jenkins from Frome Learning

BIKE INITIATIVE An exciting new initiative has been organised by the Oakfield Academy's PE Department and British Cycling. Selected pupils were invited to experience Cyclo Cross which involves off road cycling challenges, which took place on the school field. Bikes and safety helmets were provided for the pupils, who all agreed it was an amazing experience. Cyclo cross races typically take place in the autumn and winter, and consist of many laps of a short course featuring pavement, wooded trails, grass, steep hills and obstacles requiring the rider to quickly dismount, carry the bike while navigating the obstruction and remount. The sport is currently very popular in Belgium, France and the Netherlands.

partnership said “Frome Learning Partnership is proud to work together to make Frome and its schools the very best that we can. Seeing so many of our young people from so many of our schools gave a powerful and moving message of respect, friendship and strength in our community.”

The message is clear – if you are being bullied then tell someone you trust. If you or a child you know is affected by bullying you can call 0800 1111 and there is more information on: https://childline.org.uk.

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WESTBURY JUNIOR SCHOOL HARVEST FESTIVAL Westbury Junior School celebrated Harvest with a very special assembly.

Children from each year group performed songs and readings and every child was given the opportunity to reflect and share the things we are thankful for.

Westbury Junior School were also able to make a generous donation to Crosspoint, a local Westbury food bank, thanks to the generous contribution of foodstuffs by the families of the school.

WHY COMPETITION ELMHURST CELEBRATE OLIVER Oliver W took part in his first ever Biathlon in Bath, his younger brother, Kieran, also took part in his first ever Biathlon in Sherborne the week before. Both throughly enjoyed themselves representing the school and they look forward to taking part in more in the future. Well done, boys. It must run in the family!

CHRISTMAS CARD COMP Each year Selwood Academy hold a competition to design the School Christmas card. Congratulations to Olive L, Year 5, Evie C in Year 6, Evie L in Year 7 and Patrycja R in Year 8. Their winning designs will be made into cards to be sent out from the school. Well done everyone!

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Congratulations to Oakfield Academy students Freddie Norris, Willow Millard and Elijah Diment who were all winners in a recent WHY (We Hear You - a Cancer Counselling charity) design a Christmas card competition. Pictured with the winners is Helen Sprawson-White, their Fundraising Officer. Oakfield Academy produced 3 of the overall 5 winners, their designs will be on show in the town hall during the festive period.

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WESTWOOD-WITH-IFORD CD RECORDING STARS! Recently Westwoodwith-Iford School had another exceptionally fun and special day as they all joined together to record a special CD of their favourite songs that they sing in assembly and on special occasions throughout the year.

The school were delighted to welcome back Jules from 4Part Music Ltd, who recorded their last CD and this was another wonderful experience for everyone. The hall was transformed into a recording studio for the day as he set up his fantastic mobile equipment to capture the children in full voice and with such a professional outfit, everyone was VERY excited from the outset and worked hard to sing each song as well as they could, but most importantly, with enthusiasm and enjoyment.

With a diverse and seasonal playlist that can be enjoyed throughout the year, the children were just brilliant, recording most of the songs successfully on the first take and they even had time to squeeze in a staff song before lunch, watched by an audience of 100 children, all of whom resisted the temptation to giggle. Well done everyone!

Headteacher, Ian Rockey, said: “Of course, each class recorded their own song too and I am immensely proud of everyone. At the end of the day we have a CD that we can all enjoy for a very long time and is a lasting memory of this year at our school.”

WELL DONE OAKFIELD GIRLS! Oakfield Academy took a Year 6 team to the local schools ESFA girl's football tournament at Frome College on Wednesday 13th November. There were 5 other teams competing, including local rivals Selwood and 2 strong teams from St Paul's. Under the expert coaching of Mr Stuart Harris, the girls have been training weekly, but this was their first fixture together. Despite their lack of experience, Oakfield Academy dominated the tournament, winning 4 games and drawing the 5th.

The attacking flair was evident from the start, with Lucy Widlinski, Alice Owen, Ella Gaisford and Teagan Pepler shining early on. The solid defending from Asha Fitzsimmons, Jacquline Burgess and Lucy Owen kept the other sides from shooting at the Oakfield goal too often, but when they did Amelie Piper's reactions were mostly too fast as Oakfield only let in 2 goals in the entire tournament! As the team's confidence grew, so their play improved further - they overwhelmed their opposition in the 3rd and 4th matches, scoring 13 goals while only conceding 1!

These goals included 5 in one game from Josie Stanning, and a stunning goal from the halfway line by Thea Whitstock.

Match Reporter, Mr Nick Ward Overall it was a wonderful afternoon for Oakfield and the team are looking strong, feeling confident and excited about qualifying for the county finals in January.

ENIGMA CODE BREAKERS Westbury Junior School were proud to host Claire Johnson from CJ Enrichment who held an ‘Enigma Code Breakers’ course for their gifted and talented mathematicians and historians within the Westbury schools cluster.

The children stepped back in time to World War Two and used their maths and history skills to decipher codes and work both as part of a group and individually…all whilst dressed up in 1940s style with a gas mask!

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SELWOOD FUNDRAISING Selwood pupils held a fundraising week culminating in a visit from Pudsey for Children in Need and raised over £600!

Well done everyone!

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