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WE CANNOT PREVENT LIFE’S CHALLENGES, BUT WE CAN ADAPT TO OVERCOME THEM Congratulations! You made it to 2021. 2020 will almost surely be defined by the COVID-19 pandemic. Despite the challenges presented by the pandemic, I see 2020 as the year I gained new perspectives, discovered five years’ worth of innovation in one year, and came to appreciate the little things in life that in a normal year often get overlooked. Recently, I was sitting in my office and was reminded of an article I read back in April titled, “What Hard Times Teach Us: 5 Pandemic-Inspired Lessons That Will Make You Better For The Long Term” by Tracy Brower. I thought I would combine some of her advice with my own words of wisdom that came to mind when I introspectively examined what I learned from this past year. I thought I would share them with you before I file away 2020 in hopes of making 2021 the best year yet!
Patience: If you have children, you may have an abundance of patience or lack it entirely, but one thing is for sure, this pandemic pushed it to its limit. Whether it was/is navigating and balancing the complexities of virtual learning with working remotely, waiting for the quarantine to lift, or anticipating your favorite restaurants to reopen and spring back to life. One thing was for sure, we are never going back to “normal”.
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Finding patience can yield a different perspective and even at times, new appreciations in life. As importance as patience is to your well-being, it is also important to understand and recognize the sign of impatience. According to Mindtools.com, “Patience is a vital quality in the workplace. It can reduce stress and conflict, lead to better working relationships, and help you to achieve your long-term life and career goals. Many of us struggle with impatience. Learn to recognize the physical and emotional symptoms associated with it, and to identify the situations that trigger it. When you understand the causes of your impatience, you can develop strategies to prevent or overcome it. These could include attending to your physical well-being by using deep breathing and relaxation techniques and developing your empathy and emotional intelligence skills”. Playing the long game: A term often used to describe how taking the necessary steps now will to set yourself up to long-term success. It means not sacrificing longterm gains for short-term wins. Tracy Bowers says, “With a narrow perspective, current reality can be even more challenging, but by taking a longer-term view, you can reassure yourself that current realities will shift, and good things will come—ultimately—from today’s experiences and lessons”. Warren Buffet once said, “Someone is sitting in the shade today because someone else planted a tree a long time ago.” Do not focus on the here and now, especially when the here and now are so tumultuous. Take solace in the fact that this too shall pass, you will get through it and you will be better because of it. The race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself!
