Living in Brockville Jan Feb 2013 by InGenius Publishing

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LIFE • SPACES • PERSONALITIES • ENTERTAINMENT • BUSINESS

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living with Alzheimer’s

The good - the bad & the truth about living with this disease.

The Boomer Wave

Is our city ready to p r o v i d e t h e l i fe s t y l e Boomers expect?.

CONTRIBUTORS

INEVERYISSUE

FEATURES F amil y M atters

Discipline is Not a Dirty Word

t h e H y brid & E V

W ine W it h R uss

Home S paces

S enior M atters Managing Diabetes

Staff Writers: Jacqui Lysko (LIB)

Russ Disotell

Editor: Connie Deir

Driving towards the future

1 0 no - fail V alentine ’ s G ifts

T h e P erfect garden W edding

A dventures in dating

W eddings 2 0 1 3

Creating Illusions J ust E at , B roc k ville Boboli & Jon’s Restraurant

Editorial Contributors:

Angela Jenkins

Colonial Flowers

Bayshore Home Health

H e a l t h U n i t Graphic Design, Marketing & Sales: Jacqui Lysko (Jac of all trades) Photograhy: InGenius Images,

Healt h M atters

Mark Lysko

The Right to a Smile

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READERCORNER I really loved the shopping pages in the December issue, I actually took the magazine to the stores and finished my Christmas shopping in one day. My daughters circled what they wanted and I just went out and picked them up - so easy. I love this magazine, it’s always got great stories and it’s just beautiful. Keep it up, I will always be a loyal reader. Jennifer B. Brockville

out with the old - in with the new. The Holiday season came & went and winter showed up despite our hopes. February is here and love is in the air with weddings being planned and Valentines Day right around the corner.

I just picked up the December issue at Value-Mart. Such a good magazine - I read every page! I send the magazine to my family out west so they’ll know what’s going on ‘back home’ - they love it too! J. Barton Brockville

We look eagerly to the future with some trepidation and although the past few years have presented many challenges - we have persevered.

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Everyone at Living in Brockville is working hard to bring you the stories, features and issues that make up our corner of the world. 2013 will certainly be an exciting year of change and opportunity in Brockville with the opening of the much-anticipated Aquartarium, the welcome of new Brockvillians moving into Tall Ships and a fabulous new festival on the horizon. (The Tall Ships Festival)

I love Living in Brockville!!! The stories are always so interesting, the pictures are great and I love- love your covers! The best magazine, by far, in Brockville! Allison G. Brockville October 2012

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Just a few minutes north of Brockville on Cty. Rd 29 / Stewart Blvd. you will find Calamity Jane’s Dining Lounge. A fine dining establishment, family owned and operated since 1984. Renowned for it’s superior service and quality of food, guaranteed not to disappoint. The Chef prepares everything from fresh and cooked to order. The steaks are well aged, hand cut, never marinated and only lightly seasoned. The owner points out the the highest quality and aging of the beef makes it good enough to stand on its own. If you like Prime Rib, we have the reputation of having the best and serve thick cuts as not to disappoint. If you like seafood, without a doubt, we have the largest selection of anyone in the area, all prepared by our award winning chef. The soft lighting and easy listening background music guarantee a relaxing and romantic experience that few can duplicate. Come on out to Calamity Jane’s, we’d love to have you see why we think you’d make us #1. (Just Eat Reader Contest) Rick, Calamity Jane’s Dining Lounge Addison

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Living With Alzheimer’s disease is an irreversible, progressive brain disease that slowly destroys memory and thinking skills, and eventually even the ability to carry out the simplest tasks. The most common cause of dementia among older people is Alzheimer’s disease. Dementia is the loss of cognitive functioning—thinking, remembering, and reasoning—and behavioural abilities, to such an extent that it interferes with a person’s daily life and activities. Dementia ranges in severity from the mildest stage, when it is just beginning to affect a person’s functioning, to the most severe stage, when the person must depend completely on others for basic activities of daily living. According to the study, Rising Tide, The Impact of Dementia on Canadian Society, (a study commissioned by the Alzheimer’s Society - released in January 2010 ) Canada is facing a dementia epidemic and needs to take action now. Approximately 500,000 Canadians have dementia today, it is the most significant cause of disability among Canadians over the age of 65 and it already costs Canadian society many billions of dollars each year. By 2038 2.8% of the Canadian population will have dementia or 1,125,200 people. The cumulative economic burden will be $872 billion and the demand for long-term care will increase 10-fold. “The predicted surge in dementia cases will certainly overwhelm Canada’s health-care system unless specific and targeted action is taken. Canada must act now.” advises Richard Nakoneczny, Volunteer President, Alzheimer’s Society of Canada. Alzheimer’s affects everyone differently and early diagnosis is vital. As with any illness or disease, treatment is also different for each individual. “The disease stole my mother’s independence, her spirit, her dignity and finally, her life, it was horrible.” Marilyn

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talks about her mother, Ellen and her battle with Alzheimer’s, “She had always been such a vibrant person. A teacher, a wife, a mother, a grandmother, she really was my best friend - after a decade with the disease she just seemed to disappear. Towards the end she didn’t even recognize me or her husband of forty-three years.” Marilyn isn’t alone in her experience, many families face the effects of these terrible disease although for each family it can be unique. Scientists don’t yet fully understand what causes Alzheimer’s disease, but it has become increasingly clear that it develops because of a complex series of events that take place in the brain over a long period of time. It is likely that the causes include some mix of genetic, environmental, and lifestyle factors. Because people differ in their genetic make-up and lifestyle, the importance of any one of these factors in increasing or decreasing the risk of developing Alzheimer’s may differ from person to person. Although we still don’t know how the Alzheimer’s disease process begins, it seems likely that damage to the brain starts a decade or more before problems become evident. During the preclinical stage of Alzheimer’s disease, people are free of symptoms but toxic changes are taking place in the brain. Abnormal deposits of proteins form amyloid plaques and tau tangles throughout the brain, and once-healthy neurons begin to work less efficiently. Over time, neurons lose their ability to function and communicate with each other, and eventually they die. Before long, the damage spreads to a nearby structure in the brain called the hippocampus, which is essential in forming memories. As more neurons die, affected brain regions begin to shrink. By the final stage of Alzheimer’s, damage is widespread, and brain tissue has shrunk significantly.

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The disease stole my mother’s independence, her spirit, her dignity and finally, her life

“The predicted surge in dementia cases will certainly overwhelm Canada’s health-care system unless specific and targeted action is taken. Canada must act now.” advises Richard Nakoneczny, Volunteer President, Alzheimer’s Society of Canada.

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Memory problems are typically one of the first warning signs of cognitive loss, possibly due to the development of Alzheimer’s disease. Some people with memory problems have a condition called amnestic mild cognitive impairment (MCI). People with this condition have more memory problems than normal for people their age, but their symptoms are not as severe as those seen in people with Alzheimer’s disease. Other recent studies have found links between some movement difficulties and MCI. Researchers also have seen links between MCI and some problems with the sense of smell. The ability of people with MCI to perform normal daily activities is not significantly impaired. However, more older people with MCI, compared with those without MCI, go on to develop Alzheimer’s. A decline in other aspects of cognition, such as word-finding, vision/spatial issues, and impaired reasoning or judgment, may also signal the very early stages of Alzheimer’s disease. Scientists are looking to see whether brain imaging and biomarker studies, for example, of people with MCI and those with a family history of Alzheimer’s, can detect early changes in the brain like those seen in Alzheimer’s. Initial studies indicate that early detection using biomarkers In its early stages and as it progresses memory loss worsens, and changes in other cognitive abilities are evident. Problems can include, for example, getting lost, trouble handling money and paying bills, repeating questions, taking longer to complete normal daily tasks, using poor judgment, and having some mood and personality changes. People often are diagnosed in this stage. “You never want to admit that it could be Alzheimer’s,” Marilyn explains, “You have a combined fear of facing the truth and taking your parent’s independence away.” This is often the fact. It’s a difficult transition to go from ‘child’ to ‘caregiver’ and the final decision to intervene can be prompted by a crisis. “When we realized she had not been taking her medication, we knew we had to make a hard decision.” It’s never easy and there are feelings of guilt attached. “It was so hard to finally take control of my mothers life, but she just wasn’t safe alone anymore - it really felt like I was stealing away her independence, her ‘self’ and she was very angry at me.” Marilyn, as an only child, was faced with the difficult task of deciding what was best for her mother’s future. “Mom had stopped paying her bills, she wasn’t eating properly and hardly went out - it was her next door neighbour that finally called me with concerns. I felt the best thing was to have her move in with me. After only a few months I knew this was not the solution.” As the disease progresses memory loss and confusion grow worse, and people begin to have problems recognizing family and friends. They may be unable to learn new things, carry out tasks that involve multiple steps (such as getting dressed), or cope with new situations. They may have hallucinations, delusions, and paranoia, and may behave impulsively.

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“Mom used to go into rages and my fifteen-year old daughter was actually becoming afraid. My mother would accuse her of hiding things from her and often didn’t know who she was, no amount of reassurance would help.” Marilyn remembers, “At least twice a week I would have to rush home from work because my mother would want to go home, it would take hours to calm her down. It was very stressful for everyone and I felt so completely saddened by the situation.” Marilyn finally made the decision to place her mother in an area nursing home. “They were wonderful to her - really and as a family, we adjusted. On her ‘good’ days we would spend time with her - on her bad days, the nurses knew how to make my mother feel safe. They would have her fold towels - it amazed me how much she would relax doing this simple chore.” Trained caregivers are sometimes the best option for family, “My mother seemed to settle down after a few weeks in the residence. The staff were always available and were so caring, it was an extremely difficult decision that worked out for the best in our situation.” Not all families choose the same option. Michael Cameron and his family decided to keep their father at home. “We hired a full-time caregiver to live-in. My father had someone with him at all times, had his privacy, and eventually his nurse felt more like a roommate. It really gave us peace-of-mind to know he could remain in his own home and still be safe.” Michael’s father had been a doctor specialising in Geriatrics before the onset of Alzheimer’s, “It seems so strange to us that for so many years Dad helped families deal with this disease - and to become a victim himself.” Michael shakes his head, “It just seems so unfair.” Although this disease is devastating there are those who have learned, if not to conquer Alzheimer’s, but to live with it. “It’s a battle you have to be willing to undertake, just like any illness. The most important thing is to get an early diagnosis and treat the illness.” Mary is a true inspiration, Alzheimer’s has given her an unbreakable will to fight everyday and help those faced with the disease. “Jim and I moved to Brockville from the Picton area as we wanted to be closer to family in Ottawa without having to actually move to a big city. We are loving Brockville and the friendly people here, our local Alzheimer’s office has been very supportive and welcoming as well.” Mary tells me, “I was diagnosed at the age of 61 with Early Onset Alzheimer’s, it’s been six years now.” Mary was started on one of the cholinesterase inhibitors called Aricept, “Jim and I spent most of our days on our computers finding out all we could about Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. One of my early finds was a chatroom for both people with dementia as well as their caregivers. (www.alzinfo.org). After chatting with some folks there, I realized that, indeed, my life wasn’t over and I had lots of good years left.”

One of the things Mary and Jim were advised was to ask Mary’s doctor to start her on a drug called Mematine. “I did more research and found an article written by Dr. Diamond of the Canadian Alzheimer’s Society. The research indicated that the use of two drugs (Aricept and Mematine) together in the early stages could make a significant difference - indeed within six months I felt like my ‘old self’.” Mary states, “We’re all so different, so you need to try to find the combination that works best for you.” Mary began writing a journal online, mainly to keep her family and friends informed of how she was doing, but also in hopes that she could help others on the same journey. “You can find my journal at the website www. jim-mary.com, I have weekly visits on my site by three to five thousand people - hopefully I’m providing helpful information to them.” In April 2010,Mary was asked to be a keynote speaker at the Changing Melody Forum in Kingston, a day of sharing by persons with dementia and their caregivers. “I was delighted to be able to share with others my tips and tricks on how to make my life work with my changing brain. I was totally shocked when I received a standing ovation, so I guess everyone liked what I had to say.” Since speaking at the Changing Melody Forum in Kingston, Mary has spoken at three additional Changing Melody Forums across the province and at an Annual General Meeting for the Alzheimer’s Society in Peterborough. “Early diagnosis made a huge difference in my life,” Mary says, “Extended treatment with Alzheimer’s disease drugs can significantly slow the rate at which the disorder advances, and combination therapy with the two different classes of drugs is even better at helping patients maintain their ability to perform daily activities.” “It’s people like Mary who continue to inspire us to, she is an amazing woman.” Denise Wood, Executive Director of the Leeds Grenville Alzheimer’s Society, “We are working hard to remove the social stigma regarding Alzheimer’s and Mary is a perfect example of how living with Alzheimer’s can be accomplished.” The local Alzheimer’s Society has many resources that individuals and caregivers can utilize. “We’re here to help in any way we can,” says Sean McFadden, Public Education Coordinator of the Leeds Grenville Alzheimer’s Society, “We offer support groups, information and various activities that assist those living with the disease.”

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If you suspect that you or someone you know may be suffering with dementia or the onset of Alzheimer’s, contact the local Alzheimer’s Society at 42 Garden Street, Brockville, 613-345-7392 or contact them online at www. alzheimerleedsgrenville.ca. “When changes in memory, mood and thinking start impacting daily life, it’s time to find out what’s happening,” Mary advises, “Are changes a part of normal aging or is it something more serious? Many different conditions could be causing the signs you notice in yourself or a loved one, some of them are easily curable. It’s important to get the best help possible. Life is just too short not to make each day the best we can.” LIB

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The Boomer Wave - change & opportunity This upcoming year is easily one of the most anticipated, and arguably, one of the most important in Brockville’s recent history as a number of developments come to fruition. First and foremost is the opening of the Aquatarium. After years of living with, ‘When the Aquatarium opens...’ we will finally know what that means for the future of downtown Brockville. The Tall Ships Landing will be opening its doors to new residents and the anticipated beginning of a new revitalized population base in the downtown. Last, but not least, the newly minted summer celebration, the Tall Ships Heritage Festival, will be launched. At the same time as these events take place there will be discussions about almost every aspect of municipal life as City Council, the business community and citizens try to formulate plans to deal with the future of the River City. Policing, the fire department and every municipal service in between will be examined to find what citizens want and what we can afford moving forward. So it promises to be a very interesting year, in more ways than one. While discussions are laudable I hope we don’t become mired in paralysis by analysis. Coming at the end of this period of introspection we need some concrete action. Lord knows there must be an entire annex of City Hall filled with reports that were commissioned, ignored and lie gathering dust. A good starting point for any discussion is a solid

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foundation in reality. The reality of Brockville’s situation is that the city has an aging population. The recent census was very succinct in pointing this out. While I commend City Hall for marketing the city as a home for young families, until there is a more robust local job market the campaign will have limited success. You may have noticed all of the proposed condominium projects popping up all over the downtown. The builders have done their due diligence in assessing Brockville as a desirable location for their projects. I would be willing to venture a guess that their target market is seniors in larger cities accessing the equity they’ve built up in their homes and relocating here as opposed to any heretofore unknown job market. The long and short of it is that Brockville is what it is and our demographics aren’t about to change drastically in the foreseeable future. Call us a retirement community or whatever the popular nomenclature is, seniors are one of the dominant demographics in the city. Which offers challenges and opportunities. To reap the benefits and better service this demographic the city and the business community might be best advised that, ìeverything old is new againî. Growing up and learning about municipal politics I was advised by older family members that the candidates to vote for were those that could get the sewers fixed and keep the sidewalks cleared. It seems pretty simplistic, but

resonates with an older constituency. Take last winter as an example. Any retailer can tell you stories of customers (mostly seniors) who told of being trapped in their homes for long stretches of the winter, prisoner to the ice. Walking was treacherous with veritable skating rinks masquerading as city streets. Business across the city was slow during these periods. The challenge for City Hall and the Works Department will be to develop a strategy to combat these conditions if this indeed becomes our ìnew winterî. I don’t want to appear to be piling on the Works Department. By and large they do a fine job combating the snow. However ice is a different matter and a new phenomenon. It isolates seniors and the vulnerable in our city and is radically more dangerous to health and wellbeing. I don’t pretend to have an answer, but I sincerely hope someone is looking for one. Other challenges the city might look into include an accessible senior-friendly community centre, a local walk-in clinic and transportation options for seniors who no longer drive. Seniors I have spoken to point out that the bus system doesn’t run in the evening and taking cabs everywhere can be prohibitively expensive. I understand the economics of the bus system so this might possibly be an area to explore for some enterprising entrepreneur. Now the flip side of a challenge is an opportunity. Local businesses can reap the benefits by meeting the special needs facing today’s senior. Here are a couple of examples based on specific remarks from local seniors. Take for instance the fact that there are limited transportation options available for those wishing to go out in the evening. In conversation with our publisher one senior commented that she would love to go out for dinner and a movie from time to time. However she no longer drives and taking a taxi to the restaurant and movie makes the cost prohibitive, given the distance she needs to cover. How about a partnership between the Galaxy, a local restaurant and a taxi company or bus line to provide an allinclusive senior’s night out package? It could be a monthly outing based around an age appropriate movie that would appeal to persons of a certain age. Heck, if the means exist to bring in classic movies why not make it a classic movie night? I’m certain the Galaxy isn’t sold out every night, far from it. Similarly I’m fairly sure there are a restaurant or two that could use the extra business. This is just a kernel of an idea, but I’m sure the details could be worked out, to the benefit of all involved. When A&P was located on Jefferson Avenue they had a wonderful senior-oriented initiative. A bus picked up seniors from the Charlotte Place area and transported them to the A&P. Once at the supermarket there was free coffee and donuts and extra staff who could assist the seniors with their shopping, if they needed help. At the end of shopping groceries were bagged and loaded onto the bus. When the bus got back to Charlotte Place there was someone to carry groceries for those customers who needed help getting their purchases to their apartment. The service provided an outing for these customers, complete with the extra attention they may have needed to complete their shopping in comfort. Anyone who has any interactions with our senior citizens knows that there are enormous numbers of them who are lonesome and isolated and crave human interaction. Something as small as a

shopping trip can go a long way to satisfy this need. A&P was rewarded with a busy sales day and hopefully won themselves some loyal customers. It was a classic example of a corporate citizen recognizing a need in the community and giving back. I know there are some local stores that offer limited home delivery. However there is a growing need for this service and by providing an economical alternative businesses could tap in to what may become a significant niche. It wasn’t that long ago that I read of a dairy in western Ontario that was re-launching milk deliveries on a limited basis because their studies showed there was a market for a return to the “milkman”. Customer service, individual attention and ‘going the extra mile’ still count for something in today’s marketplace. They can evoke a customer loyalty that transcends prices and sales. Citizens in the city’s older demographic understand this and respect the efforts of businesses who try to address their needs. More retailers should explore this niche. So 2013 dawns with possibilities, potential, challenges and corresponding opportunities. We at Living in Brockville will continue to start conversations about issues pertinent to our city’s future. Discussion leads to a greater understanding of situations and oftentimes solutions to problems. Comments on this, or any other column are always welcome. Email Russ at brockvilleink@hotmail.com

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Managing Diabetes - A Family Affair Caring for an elderly parent, relative or close family friend often involves managing one or more age-related health problems, including diabetes. At first, learning all you need to know about diabetes may seem daunting, perhaps even a little frightening. Depending on your parent’s physical and cognitive abilities, you may be required to help with medications, test and track blood glucose levels, and ensure they are eating well. Fortunately, many services are available to help you and your parent learn more about diabetes and what you can do to help manage the disease. The more you and your parent learn, the better equipped you both will be to make the lifestyle adjustments that come with good diabetes management. Here are some suggestions to help you and your parent adjust to life with diabetes: • Take your parent to see his or her diabetes healthcare professional on a regular basis to discuss your parent’s diabetes management and its impact on overall health, and to ensure they receive important regular tests for blood pressure, cholesterol, eye health, etc. • Enquire about other professionals who can become part of your parent’s diabetes team – such as pharmacists, nurse educators, dietitians and social workers. They offer invaluable expertise about caring for seniors with diabetes. A pharmacist can be particularly helpful if your parent requires multiple medications for a number of health conditions. • Learn the signs of low blood glucose (hypoglycemia) and

how to treat it. Some symptoms of low blood glucose, such as confusion and disorientation, can be mistaken for other agerelated conditions, such as dementia. If your parent displays such signs, test his or her blood glucose level immediately. When in doubt, it is best to err on the side of caution and treat for low blood glucose. • Ensure that your parent is eating well. Following a healthy meal plan is a crucial component of good diabetes management, but impaired physical or cognitive abilities often prevents seniors from eating when and what they should. It may help to have healthy pre-prepared meals and snacks readily available for your parent or to arrange for a meal delivery service. • Encourage regular physical activity. Both aerobic and resistance training have been shown to improve blood glucose management and overall health. Many seniors’ centres offer age-appropriate activities. • Offer to check your parent’s feet regularly. Proper foot care including daily inspections for cracks, cuts or ingrown nails, is very important for people with diabetes, but many seniors find these tasks difficult. Your parent may require assistance. • Work as a team. While it may be tempting to try to take over your parent’s diabetes care, it is important to not treat your parent like a child or get into a power struggle over treatment. Encourage your parent to take ownership of his or her healthcare, while you offer support as needed.

This time of year everyone is looking for economical wine choices as they deal with the repercussions of Christmas shopping and entertaining. With this in mind we’ll look at two inexpensive reds that offer outstanding value and versatility. Cono Sur Bicicleta Pinot Noir 2011 (CSPC# 341602, $10.95) is a perennial favourite, known for its consistent vintages and quality. Pinot Noir is a specialty of Cono Sur and this their entry level Pinot is handpicked from specially selected vineyards. The label and name are new but the product in the bottle offers the same amazing quality we have come to expect. Look for a light to medium bodied Pinot with a fresh raspberry, cherry and spice nose. On the palate you can expect layers of complex black plum, currant and juicy cherry fruit with just a dash of spice. Soft tannins and a moderate acidity combine with the fruit to create a creamy, richly flavoured wine with superb balance. The finish has great depth of flavour and very good length. Bicicleta makes a great sipping wine and is a superb aperitif to offer your guests. It also has the muscle to perform admirably as a food wine. Team it up with baked salmon, roast beef, chicken or turkey, pasta or your favourite mushroom dish. Pezoules Cabernet Sauvignon 2010 (CSPC# 274696, $11.90, King Street) has been making a name for itself in Europe where it was lauded by the prestigious Decanter magazine. What makes it a bit unusual is that it is from Greece. Country of origin aside this is a stunning, lightweight Cabernet, perfect for an everyday red. Round, soft and juicy, Pezoules features spicy plum, black cherry and cassis fruit on an herbaceous background of sage, rosemary and thyme flavours. Soft tannins and a generous acidity complete the nicely balanced palate. Match our eminently quaffable Greek with all manner of roasted or grilled red meats, especially lamb (what else!). Enjoy. By Russ Disotell

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any parents today are confused about how to discipline their children. Good discipline is simply about helping children learn that their behaviour leads to consistent consequences that are always enforced within a predictable, loving environment.

As a clinical psychologist specialising in family concerns, and as a parent to my own two children, the best advice I can give is to always try and remain calm in the line of fire. Don’t let a single disobedient act escalate into a full scale battle of wills between child and parent. Discipline for children must involve clear, fair, age-appropriate rules and consequences carried out in a predictable family environment. It’s no good changing tactics one day because you don’t feel up to the challenge. When your child breaks a rule they know about, have an effective consequence. Removing a favourite toy, banning the use of a bike, or turning off the television are all viable consequences of misbehaviour. Being “pro social” with your children involves changing the ratio of negative and positive attention to shift the balance toward more positives. For example, if your children are fighting over a toy, you might tell them to stop fighting, teach them about the importance of sharing and then show them how to go about sharing. If your child is being loud and interrupting, explain the importance of politeness and teach them how to gain mum or dad’s attention in a more acceptable fashion. The way you discipline your children will vary with the age and personality of that child. For instance you can’t negotiate bedtime with a three year old, although you can with your teenager. And discipline for disobedience should always teach two things. Firstly, that “no” means to stop the behaviour that is not allowed and secondly, it should make clear the appropriate behaviour that should be seen instead. The trap that many parents fall into when dealing with misbehaviour is to unwittingly feed negative behaviour by nagging and criticising, often inconsistently, and by failing to praise and encourage children when they behave well. It isn’t magic that brings about these results, just effort, and an understanding that we all need a little help sometimes.

Professor Matt Sanders is founder of the Triple P - Positive Parenting Program. Contact Leeds Grenville, Lanark County Health Unit or visit the web at www.triplep.net

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Have you pulled your car up to the gas pump lately and been shocked by the high price of gasoline? As the pump clicked past $20, $30, $40 or even $50, maybe you thought about trading in your car for something that gets better mileage. Or maybe you’re worried that your car is contributing to the greenhouse effect. The auto industry has the technology to address these concerns. It’s the hybrid car. Did you know the first hybrid vehicle was actually presented during the 1900 Paris World Fair? Ferdinand Porsche, while employed at Lohner Coach Factory, developed the Mite. The Mixte included a pair of generators driven by 2.5-hp Daimler IC engines to extend operating range and it could travel nearly 65 km on battery alone. The Mixte broke several Austrian speed records, and also won the Exelberg Rally in 1901 with Porsche himself driving. The Mixte used a gasoline engine powering a generator, which in turn powered electric hub motors, with a small battery pack for reliability. It had a top speed of 50 km/h and a power of 5.22 kW during 20 minutes. Hybrid vehicles have come a long way since the Mixte and with the rising cost of fossil fuels are quickly becoming the logical option for the future. Today’s hybrid vehicles may seem much more complicated than Porsche’s Mixte, but the basic principles remain the same. Using the mechanics of regenerative braking, hybrid vehicles store captured kinetic energy in a lithium battery or dynamo. This energy is used to power an electric motor while the car travels at low speeds. When the hybrid vehicle accelerates above a certain speed, a gas engine is engaged. This interplay of multiple energy sources is precisely controlled by an on board computer to ensure the highest possible gas mileage. If you bring up the topic of hybrid cars during a conversation, it’s likely the Toyota Prius and the Chevy Volt will be mentioned, Hybrid technology is also available in SUV models as well. Both Chevy and Toyota offer

SUV Hybrid vehicles with the Toyota Highlander and the Chevy Tahoe. We’re going to give you an overview of both the Toyota Prius from 1000 Islands Toyota and the Chevy Volt from Meyers Brockville. The Toyota Prius, which came out in Japan at the end of 1997, is designed to reduce emissions in urban areas. To accomplish this, Toyota has designed a parallel hybrid powertrain, called the Toyota Hybrid System (THS), that adds some of the benefits of a series hybrid. It is a fourdoor sedan that seats five, and the powertrain is capable of accelerating the vehicle to speeds up to 15 mph (24 kph) on electric power alone. This contributes to the better city mileage than highway mileage.

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driving towards the future? Many think that the option of a hybrid is beyond their budget, “The new 2013 hybrid vehicles are very affordable”, Chris Walker of 1000 Islands Toyota explains, “The Prius C has a MSRP of below $21,000 - very comparable to non-hybrid cars on the market.”

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The most common misconception is that hybrid cars need to be plugged in or require premium fuel, “You never need to plug in your Toyota hybrid, the batteries are charged while the vehicle is running allowing complete freedom form having to plug your car into an outlet to recharge.” Says Chris, “They use the same fuel as comparable conventional gas engine vehicles - the only difference is the simple fact that you’ll spend less on gasoline.” Hybrid vehicles offer a completely unique driving experience - the reduction of engine noise is quite surprising, it’s somewhat difficult to tell if the car is actually running. In fact, most employ a function that allows the gasoline engine to stop running while sitting in traffic, coasting or even when the car is driving at lower speeds. Instead, a hybrid vehicle uses a quieter electric motor to conserve fuel and produce fewer emissions.

All three generations of the Prius have been equipped with an energy monitor, one of the vehicle’s biggest draws for costumers concerned about fuel efficiency. A multi-function display (MFD) monitors energy flowing to and from the engine and battery, along with information about the vehicle’s regenerative braking and battery levels. This lets aware drivers keep an eye on how much fuel they’re using, and, if they pay attention, it can even encourage more fuel-efficient driving practices. Digital gauges that display vehicle speed, engine RPMs and other vital stats, are under a centrally located hood high atop the vehicle’s dashboard. The engine in the third generation Prius grew from 1.5 to 1.8 liters, giving the hybrid a boost in horsepower from 110 to 160, an important factor for those wary of the supposed weakness of hybrid cars. Also, the Prius doesn’t have to be recharged, since its generator constantly supplies power to the battery. With all of this, the third generation of the Toyota Prius aims to get 50 miles per gallon (21.3 kilometers per liter) in combined city and highway driving, compared to 46 miles per gallon (19.6 kilometers per liter) for the 2009 Prius and 41 miles per gallon (17.4 kilometers per liter) for previous models.

Another common concern is that the batteries will have to be replaced eventually -- and when they do, they will be prohibitively expensive. “Hybrid batteries are designed to last the life of the vehicle and are backed by an 8 year, 160,000km warranty”, Chris states, “The fact that 99% of the hybrid vehicles Toyota has sold since 2001 have never had their original battery replaced.” Toyota offers six models for the hybrid market including the Prius, Prius C, Prius V, Prius Plug-in, Camry and the Highlander (SUV) ensuring there is a perfect fit for any budget, lifestyle and family. Imagine only hitting the gas station once a month. A fantasy? “Far from it.” Explains Keith Bean of Myers Brockville, “In fact, Volt drivers who charge regularly are averaging about a month between fill-ups”. With the extended range Volt, you don’t have to choose between electric or gas. You have the option of both. First is the advanced lithium–ion battery that allows you to drive gasfree, but Volt doesn’t stop there. There’s also an onboard gas generator that produces electricity so you can travel a total of 450 Kms on a full charge and full tank of gas.

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The Chevy Volt can be plugged into either a standard electric outlet or a 220 outlet for a faster charge

Volt owners have already driven 100,000,000 EV miles. That means saving litres of gas and making a difference for the environment. Add the 273 lb.–ft. of low–end torque performance, stylish good looks, and all the high-tech amenities and you get a better understanding on how Volt is changing the way we drive. Volt technology includes a lithium-ion battery with rechargeable energy storage system and Voltec® electric drive system with 1.4L gasoline powered range extender. Safety features include eight air bags, four-wheel ABS, StabiliTrak® Electronic Stability Control System, LED daytime running lamps and a pedestrianfriendly horn chirp alert. Standard interior features include automatic climate control, 7-inch diagonal reconfigurable LCD instrumentation with Driver Information Center, Keyless Access and keyless push-button start, and remote vehicle starter system. Connectivity features include Chevrolet MyLink™ with 7-inch diagonal color touch-screen that lets you easily navigate through an amazing array of information and entertainment options, Bluetooth® wireless technology for select phones,

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You have heard the saying `good things come in small packages` and I bet many of you who have mastered the art of living in compact quarters can attest to the fact that bigger is not always better. Knowing how to enhance your space and make best use of what you have is what counts. Here are five ways to wow friends and family with your ability to transform a small space into something grand and luxurious without changing the square footage:

1. GO BIG & BOLD

Less is more in a small space. Create the illusion of a larger space by decorating with fewer larger scale items rather than many smaller items, which could form the idea of clutter. (However, keep in mind to balance the scale of furniture being used.) One way to apply this rule is to choose large scale artwork over a sofa instead of hanging a multitude of smaller frames. Another trickery to draw the right attention to a small space is by adding some drama. Choose a feature wall to apply a bold wallpaper or stone wall application. The pattern and texture is art unto itself and reduces the need for much wall décor.

2. RAISE THE ROOF

Small rooms with standard eight, foot ceilings can feel low and closed-in. Create a mirage of raising the height of the

ceiling by pulling the wall colour onto the ceiling. Instead of having the eye stop at the transition of the wall and ceiling paint, wrap the wall colour up onto to the ceiling, so the eye flows seamlessly around the small space. This works well with a lighter neutral but if you wish to use a richer wall colour, apply the colour onto the perimeter of the ceiling and add moulding to frame it out. Paint the moulding, the interior and ceiling the same colour in a traditional tone of white. A good rule of thumb for scale is 11/4” – 11/2” for every square foot. (ie) a 10”-12” painted perimeter for an 8’x8’ space.

3. TWICE THE CHARM

The oldest trick in the book is an easy solution to any small space - add a mirror! The reflection virtually enlarges the space, adds depth and brightens the room. Be careful where

you place a mirror; you don’t want to reflect a negative element from the room, such as a TV, appliance or large, dark piece of furniture. Place a mirror opposite a window (if you have a nice view) to get the full effect of more natural sunlight.

4. THE DISAPPEARING ACT

Be creative with your colour and furniture. If your sight-lines include a hallway or multiple doors off a small room, make the doors and trim disappear by painting them the same colour as the wall. The continuity of the colour makes the space feel larger and creates a seamless look. Furniture made of lighter tones or even a translucent acrylic material will help keep the area feeling light and airy. This trick also applies to floating furniture like shelves and console tables; it will reduce the visual weight in the room.

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Pinpointing every corner will help add up the square footage of a room so mask the solid lines of the space by softening the edges of the room and adding a sense of depth. An easy and inexpensive solution is to add in some greenery. In addition to cleaning the air, plants can add interest and help us to imagine there is more space beyond their borders. Use lighting with a pattern shade or globe so when lit, a mesmerising light will dance around the room and bounce a soft pattern along the wall and ceiling creating a deception of depth.

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Outdoor or garden weddings are a wonderful idea, but they require special considerations during the planning process. Think about what the weather will likely be at the time of day and month of the year of your outdoor wedding. Sunny and hot? Don’t leave your guests uncomfortably melting – have your ushers give guests ice-cold bottles of water as they are seated. Consider printing your wedding program on a fan so that guests may cool themselves and don’t forget to have plenty of sunscreen on hand as well. For a very warm location, look into renting large electric fans (don’t forget a generator) and/or a tent to shade the suns rays. If it will be cold and damp, make sure you tell guests that so they can wear extra layers. You might want to have lap blankets on hand, or rent portable heaters. What will you do if it rains? The ideal outdoor wedding location has an indoor location waiting just in case. Many brides and grooms opt to have their ceremony outside and reception inside. In a pinch, the tables can be scooted to the back of the room during the ceremony. A tent is another option, but only for light to moderate rain storms. A heavy rain will soak the ground underneath, leaving guests with soggy and muddy shoes. Make sure any tent you rent is sturdy so it won’t flip over, and that it has thick and weighted sides. Many outdoor weddings suffer from windy conditions. Avoid light fabrics like chiffons and china silks in your dress and the bridesmaid dresses. Tell your hairstylist that you’ll be having an outdoor wedding so she/he can plan a style that won’t leave you looking like Cousin It! Men in the wedding party should use pomade or other styling product. Again, tell your guests in a printed insert so that they can plan accordingly. And of course, make sure your tent will stand up to gusting winds or find an indoor backup plan. One of the bonuses of an outdoor wedding is the natural beauty around you, lessening your need to decorate. But you still need to do some work. Visit the site a week before your wedding to make sure the grass is mown, the ground raked, and the flowers have bloomed. If your wedding is at a public park, you may want to ask the groomsmen or friends to do this the morning of your ceremony. If it’s been an especially cold season, you may need to supplement the flowers with some potted bulbs from a florist. Other decorations you may want to consider include an arch or trellis to focus the ceremony and frame the bride and groom as they say their vows; strings of lights or lanterns in the trees; luminarias; torches; or farolitas. Does your caterer have experience planning an outdoor wedding menu? Make sure they’re planning things that will keep well outdoors in the heat. Avoid things like mayonnaise salads or dishes which must be served cold and protective netting or lids on your serving dishes to avoid unwanted guests on the menu. Since alcohol is dehydrating, consider serving a variety of lemonades, teas and punches. Be sure to have plenty of ice and water around as well. For a fancy cocktail, why not serve a classic mint julep or a mojito? The mint will refresh and cool your guests. Be sure to put out citronella candles or a bug zapper so that your guests won’t spend the whole ceremony swatting at the air. Check the location for stinging insects like bees or wasps. Consider timing your outdoor wedding for sunset where your guests will see you take your vows surrounded by the warm glow of the sun. Those having a daytime outdoor wedding should orient the ceremony so that the sun will be on guests’ backs rather than in their eyes. This is one of the most important days of your life, if Mother nature doesn’t cooperate simply take a breath, smile and enjoy the day.

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Adventures in Dating:

The Search for Mr. Right (or Mr. Right Now? ) After being a serial monogamist most of my life I’ve decided this year to “date”. You know, see what’s really out there before settling down with one person and trying to mold myself into their life or them into mine. Upon looking at it now it’s almost cruel to give something with such huge implications such a tiny word, date. I’m sure anyone who is also participating in this particular activity will agree, it is not for the thin-skinned or the faint of heart. Oh my *insert divine label of choice here*!

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I consider myself at the university level of dating school and have learned a few things along the way. For instance, it is important to trust your instincts. To take the time to get to know another person and learn to listen to your inner voice. An example: you observe some rather odd behavior in your date (IE. He’s describing your future together and what your kids may look like on the first date) and although he’s handsome, charming and held the car and restaurant doors open for you I’d suggest you listen to LV (little voice) when it screams “RUN! DON’T LOOK BACK, JUST RUN FORREST RUN!” You met “needy guy”. Or he’s going through manopause and is suddenly remorseful he spent all his younger years acting like a kid and never had any of his own. Don’t get me wrong, I know these phenomena exist in woman too. Men aren’t immune to the insanities of dating by any means. I’m sure you’re familiar with or at least know someone who’s attempted online dating. There’s one website in particular that (not to name it exactly) we will refer to as “Lots of Locust”. Although, they hint at a body of water with which to find a date, please allow me to clarify, the water has become shallow and a touch murky. Every user has a profile where they can list their attributes. Height, hair (or absence thereof) and eye color, occupation, kids/no kids, drink/no drink etc. You know, they should have a teeth or no teeth field too! If you’re fortunate they have included a picture. If you’re blessed it’s from this decade.

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Further down the list is an area where each dater can describe themselves and a little more of what exactly they are looking for, their hobbies, taste in music and so on. This is where I’m compelled to ask, what ever happened to truth in advertising?! AND, where IS this beach everyone seems to love to walk on?! It seems to me that if we were to find this proverbial beach we could all save ourselves a lot of pain and suffering.

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It’s important to mention that while “fishing” for a date it is important to pay close attention to what you put on your own profile or to put it more clearly, what kind of bait you use. You don’t want to put anything that could be misconstrued as provocative or you are only going to attract the bottom-feeders. These are the guys that send you pictures of parts of their anatomy that frankly look much better “housed” in some sort of clothing anyhow. Please. At this juncture I would like to say (as unbelievable as it may sound) that I am not yet completely jaded. I still believe that if I don’t find Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now, I will at least have more stories to tell! Dating is both entertainment and a sport. Keep raising the bar!

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This King Street eatery opened in 1993 (20 years ago!) and is renowned for it’s fabulous menu. Everything is homemade, fresh - daily and from scratch! Owner, Kathy Lewis believes Boboli can attribute it’s success to a dedicated following and to the simple fact that she has maintained a high level of quality, consistently and passion for the business. “In 1993, when I moved here, Brockville didn’t know what a cappuccino was.” Kathy tells me, “I wanted to open a resurant that would serve food made fresh with local ingredients - I make everything onsite so you can be assured it’s truly homemade.” Each day Kathy prepares her infamous soup-du jour and sandwich for the lunch menu. “I don’t think Brockville realises that I make everything daily - I roast the meat, prepare the soup and bake the day’s cookies, pies and cheesecake in the mornings and throughout the day.” Open daily - Monday to Saturday 8-5. Dessert, menu items and sandwich trays available for take-out. Fresh pies and cheesecakes can be ordered and, of course, a fabulous cup of coffee. Check out Boboli & send in your vote for this Brockville eatery!

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Jon’s Restaurant is a Brockville icon and a favourite breakfast & lunch spot. Opened in 1960, this is truly a family business. Mike Kalivas and his sisters Helen and Lily are the second generation to Jon’s and the third generation is already involved in the day-to-day operation. “We’ve been successful for 53 years because we understand that our customers love us for the good food at a good price, we give people what they want.” Mike tells me, “We have customers that have come here for years and they never go away hungry.” Jon’s is famous for their breakfast menu; a favourite? Eggs any style, bacon and home fries - but this spot has a great lunch menu as well. “We serve up breafast and lunch six days a week (MonThurs: 6am-7pm, Fri: 6am-7pm and Sat: 6:30am-1pm) but because we’re a family business, we close on Sundays and holidays.” Mike is also a member of Brockville’s Council so he stays busy and involved in our community, “People know where to find me, and I often have people drop in to discuss issues and have a great meal.” Drop in for a hearty meal & send us your vote for Jon’s.

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The Campaign: A postcard campaign headed by the Ontario Oral Health Alliance which includes representatives from the Ontario Association of Public Health Dentistry, Ontario Association of Health Centres (CHC’s), Public Health Units, local coalitions (Tri County Dental Coalition), social service agencies and other community members concerned with equitable access to dental care.

it is draining through the outside of their cheek. Often their only choice is to go a hospital emergency room for antibiotics and pain medication. This will only temporarily delay the problem, as it will come back unless it is treated.

Postcards depicting Ontario adults in severe need of dental care were distributed over the summer and fall across Ontario. Province wide, 50 000 signed postcards were collected, with over 600 collected locally in Leeds, Grenville and Lanark counties. Advocates met with local MPP’s all over

The Tri County Dental Coalition is a local, volunteer organization that raises funds to help people access dental care. Unfortunately, the amount of money they have to work with pales in comparison to the need in our communities. One person that the TCDC was able to help was a man who had finally had his name come to the top of the kidney transplant list. But in order for him to be eligible for a transplant, he had to be free from infection. He had several infected teeth, and no funds to fix them. OHIP was unable

Ontario to bring this issue to light. The issue: There is no help available for adults who cannot afford dental care. The province provides assistance for children, but if you are over the age of 17 there is nothing. Social assistance programs such as Ontario Works sometimes provides limited funds but it varies by region and is not guaranteed. The ‘working poor’ are left to pay for costly dental care out of pocket. Thousands of Ontarians suffer with pain and infection from poor oral health. In 2006, province wide – 26 000 Ontarians visited hospital emergency rooms for dental concerns. In 2010 – Leeds Grenville and Lanark residents made 1660 visits to hospital emergency rooms for dental problems.

to assist him, and he was going to have to give up his spot on the transplant list if he could not get help. This really underscores the importance of oral health in relation to general health. Oral infections definitely affect the rest of your body. Oral health has been concretely linked to cardiovascular diseases, respiratory diseases and diabetes. This is not about beautiful, white teeth – this is about an issue of basic humanity and not forcing people to live with pain and infection. Locally, our Community Health Centres have dental clinics that could potentially be used for emergency dental treatment for those who could not otherwise afford it. But the funding needs to be there to run the clinics.

We see people at the Health Unit coming to us for help. They have severe dental infections. I have seen mothers come to sign up their children for government dental programs, but they themselves have a dental abscess that is so severe that

If you want to volunteer to be part of the solution with the Tri County Dental Coalition, or know someone who needs help... contact the TCDC at 613-283-1952 ext 142. Courtesy of Leeds, Grenville & Lanark District Heath Unit

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From their one-of-a-kind spa designs to their advanced hydrotherapy systems, Coast Spas focus is always on evolving the hot tub experience.

Family Owned & Operated Visit our showroom: 920 Edward Street, Prescott

613-925-2336

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• Denture stability increased • Enjoy healthier foods • Prevent further bone loss • Enhance your natural smile

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Brad Sharron, DD - Denture Specialist Call for an appointment today

613-345-2110

65 George Street (West of Post Office)

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SALES HOURS: MON- THURS., 8 AM - 7 PM FRI. 8 AM - 6 PM SAT. 8 AM - 4 PM

SERVICES HOURS: MON- WED., 7 AM - 5:30 PM THURS. 7 AM - 7 PM FRI. 7 AM - 5:30 PM SAT. 8 AM - 4 PM