Helper student guidebook

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Helper Student´s Notebook 2016/17 Name:_______________________


Coordination meetings

HELPER STUDENT´S ROLE 1.

Inform your peers about the help you can offer.

2.

Spread your help individually or in joint actions with other mates.

3.

Accept the student who has just arrived at the centre or those mates who are isolated or always alone.

4.

Listen to your mates actively when they want to talk about the problems they have and the concerns they feel without judging or criticising..

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Guess if there are posible conflicts and discuss about them in the regular meetings in order to search for ways to intervene before it is too late.

6 Reroute those cases when we don´t know how to act and also when physical violence has taken place and always when those involved show a lot of pain and serious personal difficulties. The responsable teachers will assess with you what should be done.

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HELPER STUDENT´S PRINCIPLES 

CONFIDENTIALITY: I keep quiet about personal matters or problems the people I help could have.

COMMITMENT: I cooperate with the helper student´s team and also with my attitude. I always pay attention to what I can do to help, even though I could not like that person.

RESPECT: I express respect toward the people who require my help: their likes, their opinions and their image.

SOLIDARITY: I put myself in the others´shoes, I have to perceive their sorrow, their difficulties, their weaknesses and their differences with others. I try to make them meet instead of looking for battles.

AVAILABILITY: I offer my presence when somebody needs me. I try to make the others feel my interest to listen and help them.


Coordination meetings

SOCIAL ABILITIES WE USE. THE HELPER STUDENT. Date: 1.

I recommend solutions when a problema arises.

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I try to put myself in others´shoes trying to know how they feel and must understand them when they feel bad.

3.

I wait for my turn to speak when we speak in a group.

4.

I am glad and feel well when I help somebody.

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I realize that there are different ways to solve a problem.

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I become aware of those things that annoy the others and I try to avoid them.

7.

I respect everybody even those I don´t agree with.

8.

I have fun with all my mates without excluding anybody.

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I think the others trust me.

10.

I listen carefully.

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THE HELPER STUDENTS ARE ASSERTIVE We express firmly that a situation is not correct without showing fear and without using violence. If something is not fair, we act; we struggle with determination to change it.

Coordination meetings. Previous remarks / Topics / Agreements

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Action carried out

People I helped


WHEN THERE IS A PROBLEM AMONG CLASSMATES THE HELPER STUDENT TRIES:

I REFLECT what the person who is speaking feels. Examples: 

If he/she expresses sorrow, I will express that I feel his/her sorrow; if it is worry, I will express the same; if stress is expressed, I will convey the need to calm down.

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To stop to think.

2.

To know what the problem is.

I ask OPEN QUESTIONS about what I don´t understand.

3.

To figure out who causes the problem. It is better to speak about the problem in a place where nobody is around.

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4.

To investigate what each person feels and what they want to achieve.

I ask CLOSED QUESTIONS when the other person shows that he/ she intends to make a decisión:

5.

To make those who had the problem listen to each other and say what they feel doing it calmly and without offending anybody.

Examples:

6.

To make different alternatives appear in order to solve the problem and make a decisión.

7.

To try to reach an agreement so that nobody prevails.

What?, How?, Why?, What for? To encourage him/her to speak more if he/she needs it.

Are you willing to ask him/her if he/she wants to go out with you?

Are you willing to tell him/her that you can´t stand that?

What have you told him/her exactly?

… The answers could be YES or NO or a short and precise answer.

I SUM UP with two or three sentences the most important things he/she said. Example: 

Then what happens is that somebody speaks to you badly. That person doesn´t deserve you and that makes you feel very bad and that is why you need to find a solution.


IN ORDER TO LISTEN ACTIVELY TO OTHERS 1.

I listen with interest.

2.

I establish eye contact.

3.

I nod.

4.

My position and distance must show that I am listening.

WHEN WE LISTEN TO A CLASSMATE ACTIVELY, WE NEED TO SAY SOME THINGS: I PARARHRASE: I repeat what it is said to me so that the others know that I have heard and understood well. Examples: 

Do you mean that you think that? (I repeat the same he/she has told me).  Do you mean that you understand that? (I repeat the same thing the person I listen to has said).  Do you mean that you ponder that? ( I repeat the same he/ she has told me).

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Action carried out

People I helped


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