Sophie July/August 2017

July / August 2017

sophisticated. stylish. sassy.

Daphne Kirkwood

Gets WNC Running

FASHMOB IX in the RAD Cat Lady Syndrome with Susan Reinhardt

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Daphne Kirkwood

Women of WNC

WNC Screenwriter has her moment in Cannes

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Crazy Cat Lady Syndrome Can We Talk?

My Locks & Me How to Grow Your Brain

Enjoying the Wedding Planning Adventure

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FASHMOB IX: Cover Story Shine Bright Color Me Goodwill Angela Kim ‘17 Spring Collection

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Garden Bloomers

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Meg’s Movie Review

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Wine School

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Things to Do

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Sophie Celebrates You! Real Men Read Sophie

From the Publisher:

GENERAL MANAGER/PUBLISHER Patricia Martin Betts

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ophie magazine has been blessed with talented and dedicated contributors, many who have been with us since the inception of the magazine 12 years ago, looking at you Betty! Recently a new generation of readers has sparked an interest in local young women asking for an internship at Sophie, and we are thrilled to help foster these young writers and publishers.

IT/PRODUCTION MANAGER Jeff Ruminski CREATIVE EDITOR Rachel Hoeft CALENDAR EDITOR Carrie Harder CREATIVE SERVICES Carrie Harder Randy Whittington CONTRIBUTORS Meg Hale Brunton Lauren Griffin, M.A., LPC Andy Hale Angela Kim Susan Reinhardt Betty Sharpless

Ahdonnica Patterson, graduate from Warren Wilson College, completed her internship by submitting her final article on her hair care series, and provided a fascinating behind the scenes interview with Kristen Tidwell, fashion designer from the Color Me Goodwill Fashion show.

FASHION COORDINATOR Angela Ramsey PHOTOGRAPHERS Katy Cook Max Ganly Jennifer Mesk ADVERTISING CONSULTANTS Pam Hensley Rick Jenkins Rose Lunsford

As Ahdonnica moves on, we welcome Willie Yang a rising senior at T.C. Roberson High School, who is the Publisher of their high school newspaper, Golden Fleece. We are excited to see her perspective in future editions of Sophie.

In every issue we focus on women at work, this month features entrepreneur Daphne Kirkwood, known as “The Daphanator” on the racing scene. Her passion and energy towards designing, directing and promoting events is second to none.

Lauren Griffin shares 5 skills to come alive that everyone can relate to in some aspect of their life. Susan Reinhardt once again makes us laugh at the results of her recent social media poll of happy cat owners, and I was truly touched by Betty Sharpless who reminds us how the power of smell can trigger precious memories, and to plant them in your own life.

stylish. sophisticated. sassy

INTERNS Ahdonnica Patterson Willie Yang CLASSIFIED SUPERVISOR Angela Frizzell SALES ASSISTANT Jayme Pressley CIRCULATION MANAGER Sam Howell

Lots of great local fashion to share in this issue from the Color Me Goodwill Fashion show, Duncan Chaboudy brought back FashMob IX to our great pleasure, and our resident designer Angela Kim launched her Spring ‘17 collection at a benefit for the Boys and Girls Club of Buncombe County.

There is lots of fun to experience this summer, check out our calendar and make some memories!

Patricia Martin Betts

COVER CREDITS: Photograph by Katy Cook • Model: Anna Hilgeman • Clothing & accessories provided by Palm Village Asheville - Asheville: Luca Sweater in Tiki Pink, $118 , Kelly Skinny Ankle Pant in Resort White, $138, Jenna Wedge in Gold Metallic, $198, Birds of a Feather Bangle in Gold Metallic, $$48, Palmella Clutch in Tiki Palm Place Engineered, $128, Canopy Earrings in Gold Metallic, $38 • Hair & makeup stylist: Linda White from Carmen! Carmen! at Belk • Cover design by Rachel Hoeft

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Meet Our New Intern: CALLING ALL SoPHIE MAGAZINE LOVERS. Hi there, I am Willie Yang and by the time you read this, I will be done with my junior year of high school! I currently am 16 years old and attend T.C. Roberson High School (Go Rams!). I am a part of the communications class at my school which comes out with a total of 5 newspapers and broadcasts per year.

I am also the publisher of our high school newspaper Golden Fleece.

However, my role differs from Patricia's role at Sophie Magazine just a tad bit since I manage all the visuals in the paper, instead of the actual publishing itself. Due to the journalistic skills I have acquired from taking this class/club, I am possibly looking into the ďŹ eld of communications for college. Speaking of college, it feels so unreal that I will be submitting applications this fall! But at the same time, I am ready to begin another chapter of my life as cheesy as it sounds. I hope I can make a difference in the world. Being able to intern with Sophie Magazine this summer is something I am extremely looking forward to! This internship may be just the thing that will allow me to make a impact on the world, starting with the Asheville community.

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We can't forget that Sophie Magazine is a fashion publication, can we now? I love fashion myself and enjoy looking at the latest trends around the world. I would say my style tends to fall under the classy side of things, as I love wearing blouses and my J.Crew pixie pants. However, let's not forget that I enjoy being comfortable in my own clothing just as any other human being out there. Comfort is a key factor I keep in mind whenever I am shopping around. I hope to do great things for Sophie Magazine and hope that you lovely readers out there will enjoy the content I may put out during my internship. Happy Reading!

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Daphne

Kirkwood

Gets WNC Running Written By Meg Hale Brunton Photography by Paul Jackson

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lmost sixteen years ago, after having her first child, Daphne Kirkwood started taking an interest in running. She got involved in some groupruns and began participating in races. After a while, she joined some running-related clubs and served on a few race committees. “I was like a giant sponge,” Kirkwood muses. “I soaked it all in and loved everything I was doing and learning about running. I had a fire and energy that running created within me and I wanted others to experience the same.”

Like many new runners, Daphne accumulated a series of running injuries.

She was prescribed a rehabilitation regimen that combined cross-training in the pool with bicycling. Kirkwood found this multi-sport training provided her with more balance, which allowed her to train and race relatively injuryfree. After taking time to recover she wanted to put her new swimming and bike skills to the test and entered her first multi-sport event. That first event led to a second, then a third, and before she knew it she was hooked!

Her role in the events that she was involved in steadily became more active. She soon realized that she had her own ideas for how the events should run, and things started to fall into place. “I knew it was time to turn it into a legit business,” she explains. In 2011, Kirkwood started her own running, 8 | Sophie JULY / AUGUST 2017

cycling and multi-sport event company, iDaph Events. “I had to jump in fully to truly run the business in the best possible way.” iDaph Events is a full-service race management company that specializes in event production, training, and timing services for running events, duathlons, triathlons, cycling events, adventure races, and multi-sport events. In the early days of the business, Kirkwood had to work two other jobs to pay the bills to support herself and her two small children. “I wanted to make sure that my business would be sustainable before I took the plunge to fully invest my time solely on it,” she says. While she knew she had a knack for planning races, Kirkwood admits that there were plenty of challenges. She learned all that she could about the industry from local mentors and entrenched herself into the endurance scene. “These events have a lot of layers and details that are often just not even thought about,” she acknowledges. “I spent so much time researching and learning how all the puzzle pieces fit together. Along the way, refining those systems and processes has helped eliminate wasted time.”

Kirkwood admits that producing endurance events was not an easy industry to break into, and that she had to prove herself again and again before peo-

ple realized that she did have a full understanding of her business. She feels that it is essential to her job to have firsthand knowledge from the perspective of a participant. “I am a runner, cyclist, swimmer, and competitor in events, as well as a business owner,” she smiles. She uses this perspective to decide what the best options are for the events she produces. Kirkwood credits a lot of her professional success to making great connections and choosing excellent local businesses to partner with. The rest of her success, she attributes to the work ethic that her parents instilled on her. “I am a very determined person,” Kirkwood justifies, “and once I say I am going to do something I will do it to 100% of my ability. I will find a way.”

Kirkwood had gone to school for business administration, without knowing exactly what form that business would take. She had been determined to run her own company since she was in high school, though as a child, her goal was to become either a professional ice skater, or another version of Laura Ingalls Wilder. “It just so happened that my running passion evolved into my business,” she says. “I had confidence and believed in myself that the risk was worth taking to pursue the business fully and to let my other jobs go.” iDaph Events continued to develop organically over time and still operates that way today.

“There are always innovative and creative things that can be done and I see them constantly changing and evolving,” Kirkwood explains. “I don’t want to become stagnant and just let things roll along.” The business quickly gained a reputation for bringing phenomenal events to WNC. Their team of outdoor sport fanatics collaborates to create a wonderful training experience and to deliver the best race possible. “I believe in working hard and also having a life balance for myself, and believe in the same for the people that work for me,” she says. Understanding the need for further community outreach, Kirkwood created a non-profit to give back to the endurance community. This foundation, iDream Athletes was created in 2015, with the goal of offering instructional, motivational and financial support for athletes in WNC.

iDream Athletes provides opportunities for youth and adults in the WNC area who are unable to pay for sporting event fees, coaching, travel expenses and training equipment. They also provide needs-based scholarships and assist in fueling growth for local athletes, teams, clubs, etc. by using their key activities to provide resources and financial support. Because entering the sports world can be costly, iDream Athletes strives to help the local sports community grow by removing the cost barrier for people who are interested in training for, or participating in, these events. “Seeing people reach and conquer the milestones and goals in their life is so inspirational,” Kirkwood says, “and to be a part of that, is very fulfilling.” iDream Athletes Foundation assists budding athletes in gaining the exposure, experience and training they need in their chosen sport. “This allows us to support and spur-on healthy, active lifestyles in our community members,” she says. “I love creating and enriching a better community and being an addition to it.”

Kirkwood, or ‘The Daphanator’ as she is referred to on the racing scene, continues to train and participate, while directing her passion and energy towards designing, directing and promoting events that she would also like to participate in.

Her favorite part of what she does is getting to create memorable and unforgettable experiences for people to have for the rest of their lives. She enjoys breaking new records with both the races she plans, as well as the ones she participates in.

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I am a very determined person and once I say I am going to do something I will do it to 100% of my ability.

I will find a way.

For more information on Daphne Kirkwood or iDaph Events, visit www.idaph.net To donate to iDream Athletes Foundation or to volunteer your time or services, visit www.idaph.net/idream-athletesfoundation/ PICTURED ABOVE: Locals wear iDaph gear

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“My boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago. We were together for 2 ½ years. I’m going through that whole process and I guess you have to start all over with yourself. It really sucks because whenever I say I want to go home, he was my home.

Even when I’m at home I’m not home, you know?

It’s stupid but it’s true.

wnc WOMEN of Photographed by Jennifer Mesk, HumansOfAsheville.net

“What propels me forward is to create, find out what reality is made of, how to sonically reproduce it and figure out what my brain is capable of. I’ve learned that there is no end to the amount of knowledge that can be gained in this world. Other people are where you find the most inspiration and yourself. We’re all one.”

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“My mom is a horticulturist. She always had a beautiful yard. When my sister and I were kids she made us a little room out of flowers. There were sunflowers and morning glories that made the roof. I look up to my mom more than anyone else. She’s an extremely strong woman. She’s had just so much strength over the years. She’s solid without being hardened.”

(L)“I had to tell my very conservative parents that I was gay. It’s on the up now for sure.

(R )”Mine went really well with my family in all respects. At work is different. I work in a very conservative county. I teach elementary school.”

(L) It’s very hard to hate someone when it’s your daughter or your friend. It’s much easier when it’s a stranger and you don’t know them.”

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ABOVE: Robin Wright & Denise Meyers on the set of “The Dark of Night” LEFT: Film still with Leslie Bibb

WNC Screenwriter Has Her Moment in Cannes

Written by Carrie Harder Photos courtesy of Denise Meyers

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his past May found Mars Hill resident Denise Meyers on the French Riviera rubbing elbows with the glitterati. The 57-year old screenwriter traveled to the Cannes Film Festival in support of “In the Dark of Night,” the award winning short film she penned two years ago. The script didn’t win the competition she originally wrote it for, but when she took it to Austin’s Table Read My Screenplay in 2015, she not only won the short film grand prize, but attracted the attention of Hollywood star Robin Wright and the production team from Netflix hit “House of Cards.” Shortly thereafter, Wright signed on as director and the team got to work.

Though no stranger to the film industry (she’s been involved off and on since 1982), Meyers still states that this experience has been beyond anything she could have ever comprehended. The 10-minute film was shot last December on the same set Barry Levinson used for his iconic 1982 film “Diner.” Besides Wright’s star power in the director’s chair, the film features some other big names: Leslie Bibb (“Talladega Nights”), Sam Rockwell (“Confessions of a Dangerous Mind”), Callie Thorne (“Rescue Me”), Michael Godere (“The Affair”) and Nini Le Huynh (“House of Cards”).

The film’s synopsis is as follows: The night turns deadly when a woman seeking refuge from a storm takes matters into her own hands after encountering a drifter and a waitress at an isolated diner where everyone has a secret and nothing is as it seems.

In a blog post after returning home from France, Meyers says she is “working with a TV producer for a series based on the short film, and a new project about an award-winning screenwriter who returns from a red carpet event and goes back to work fixing toilets and refrigerators in the RV repair business she owns with her husband. Because there’s nothing like hearing the sound of God’s laughter after telling him your plans.”

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Crazy Cat Lady Syndrome It’s a sultry summer evening, a Saturday night and all the cool people are downtown at hipster bars and restaurants dining al fresco.

by Susan Reinhardt

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am tangling with a plastic grocery cart, one wheel wobbling and causing a continual veer-to-the-right movement.

Just as the air conditioning blows down from a vent, it stirs the scent of caca a chatte from my new blouse. If you don’t care to look up that string of lovely words, allow me to translate: It’s French for “kitten poop.”

In preparation for the possibility of Single and all Alone, the condition either self-chosen or befalling many an independent woman who has given up on relationships, I adopted a marvelous kitty from a nokill shelter.

Susan Reinhardt is the author of the hilarious and quirky novel “Chimes from a Cracked Southern Belle,” along with “Not Tonight Honey, Wait ‘Til I’m a Size 6,” “Don’t Sleep with a Bubba.” and “Dishing with the Kitchen Virgin.” www.susanreinhardt.com

At eight weeks, little Margot “spoke” to my daughter and me from behind the sparkling cage at the adoption center. Plucky and all black, thin as my favorite pasta, we fell madly into epic love and signed the papers.

By the time they told us of her Die Rear and worms, giving us medications to take with us, it was too late. Love had capsized our hearts.

Nothing they could have said would have stopped us from a union with Margot, not even my well-meaning histrionic mother who swore if we got a kitty with trots, we’d soon fester with similar maladies, likely becoming gangrenous or thrashing about with massive explosions of Dysentery.

As I cruise the pet store aisles, I wonder: Could a woman dream of an evening quite as enchanting as selecting clumping versus “sliding” cat litter? Grain-free wet food or organic dry kibble?

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A regular litter box or one that self cleans?

As I ponder my purchases, I notice three other women on the cat aisles making selections with great care. Only one wore a wedding ring. Now, I’m NOT stereotyping, people. Just saying.

We chat amongst ourselves as if new mothers discussing breastfeeding and diaper choices. “Is catnip really kitty marijuana?” I ask a lady who is offering all kinds of unsolicited suggestions.

“Yes, it tends to get a cat rather stoned.”

Mental note to self: “Google catnip and see if it’s safe for humans.”

Upon leaving the store, I feared my recent choices in life had steered me to the old stereotype of “Crazy Cat Lady.” I took to social media to poll my tabby-loving friends, and here’s what happy cat owners had to say: “They have sass, they have spunk and they are independent and feisty!” said my high school friend Brenda Thueson. “All the traits we exhibit and love about ourselves as years give us confidence and wisdom.”

My former newspaper friend, Ronda Voorhis, once had 7 felines. “Now, I’m down to four that keep me busy 24 hours a day. They love me and want to be on me, near me, in my work, on my head, on my drawings, running, leaping, in and out, out and in, chasing paper, laying on paper, popping bubble wrap, waking me up at night patting my face, snuggling, purring.

So much personality. Toddlers forever, until suddenly they are old.

Have had cats almost my entire life.”

Ronda’s friend made a snide but funny comment on her post: “Just don’t put that on your eHarmony profile.”

Almost all the positive comments centered on how loving their “babies” are, how attuned to their needs.

“Sophie was a dream walker and a companion that was one of a kind,” wrote Iris Jean. “When I was sick, she would sit by my head and put her mouth to my forehead like a kiss. Whe I was upset, she would insist on being with me.”

One of my male friends had me cracking up. “Anything that uses its tongue to eat, bathe, and wipe its butt, I want no part of it. This includes its owner, even if it’s Kate Hudson.”

One poster drew a bit of ire from the die-hard cat aficionados.

She dared to write the following: “A cat in my opinion signifies that you have given up on the world and just decided to stay home and bingewatch stuff.”

How did she know I watch Netflix most nights with a pint of Ben & Jerry’s and the kitten in my lap?

Or that once again, next Saturday night, my haunt du jour is another PetSmart outing, followed by Cherry Garcia and the new season of “Orange is the New Black.”

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5 Skills to Come Alive Want a change? How can you make an impact in your corner of the world or globally? What skills do you need to come alive? Change is possible.

by Lauren Griffin M.A.

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efore we can sustain change, like our desire to enjoy the flowers of summer, we must first plant the seeds, pull the weeds and take care to water the soil. To successfully sustain the flower of new changes, there must be an internal change that involves personal preparation. It’s a common misconception that changes in your life circumstances just happen by engaging in new behaviors. In fact, a sustainable process to come alive more fully in your life can be learned.

Improve your self-awareness by articulating on paper to clarify how you view yourself and your mission in life. Identify and develop talents, skills and strengths.

TRUST YOUR HEART. Be loving to yourself. Let in joy, appreciation and gratitude for living. Let out pain, fear, disappointment and anger. Renew and seek supportive friendships and family.

CURATE YOUR ENVIRONMENT: BE KIND TO YOUR-

Quinn, 34, despite loving her job as a tech manager for a softSELF. Take the time to create a clean, comfortable, organized, ware company, felt like an observer in a life that lacked purpose healthy environment for yourself. Release clutter, embrace beauand meaning. She knew there had to be more to life than workty, and function in all your spaces. ing 50+ hours per week. She lived alone and wanted to have a relationship and a family. She longed ASSIST YOUR BODY. Be happy with for the days in college where she was yourself.

Nurture your body, whatever the involved with music and felt like part shape and condition, as it supports you Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask of the community. She made several moving forward. Be positive, move more what makes you come alive, and go do it. attempts to get out of the house more frequently. Pace yourself, be in nature, eat Because what the world needs is people but felt like change wasn’t possible. well, sleep, hydrate, be gentle, provide who have come alive. good hygiene, and breathe deeply.

- Howard Thurman

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ALL LASTING CHANGE IS AN INSIDE JOB. To come alive on the

Lauren Griffin, M.A., is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Psychotherapist in private practice in Asheville. Learn more about Lauren’s work at WNCcounseling.com, or call her at 828-782-3388.

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outside, invest in learning what makes you come alive on the inside with inspired intention, confidence and focus. Quinn began to understand how she was keeping herself stuck even though she wanted to move forward. She began releasing fear and pain associated with past relationships and her family history. She felt better as she let go of past ideas about what she could accomplish and clarified what she wanted now in her life. Quinn began to identify talents, skills and strengths and master these tools for creating meaning and fulfillment as a beneficial presence in the community.

Here are five of the skills Quinn mastered to come alive in her life:

LOOK INWARD. Be gentle with yourself. Use your mind to create personal preparation through reflection and quiet time. Learn from the past, read, identify old ideas that are influencing the present and holding you back.

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ENGAGE WILLINGNESS. Be support-

ive of yourself. Ask yourself, “Am I willing,” when considering new choices. Begin with small steps and take immediate action when inspired.

When you prioritize care of yourself, you come alive and the energy spreads outward to others. If you find yourself in need of additional support, it is helpful to work with a licensed professional counselor to facilitate the development of your new life skills.

Checking in with Quinn, she has moved beyond observing her life to becoming an active skillful creator of her life. She has advanced in her career with a company that values work life balance.

Through her involvement in a community music group, she met her husband and they are welcoming their second child this fall. Quinn learned from the past, changed her choices in the present and was willing to take action to come alive in life. Quinn shared her most important strategy, “Be the champion in your life in the same way you would be an advocate for another who needs support.”

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talk, connect, love

www.WNCcounseling.com 828.782.3388 Lauren Griffin, M.A. Licensed Professional Counselor Psychotherapist Sophie JULY / AUGUST 2017 | 17

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My Locks & Me I am no longer a loose natural (meaning natural hair in its natural form, not knotted or matted together) but I am still natural. I decided to go on my lock journey, here are some things I’ve learned about myself and my hair.

by Ahdonnica Patterson

WHEN DID I START MY LOCKS? I started my locks on January 9, 2017

The number has changed, since I first installed them. I’m still feeling out for size; I’m adding and combining locks.

But as of now I have 65 locks.

The connotation and where the name dreadlocks comes from is the reason why I call them locks instead of dreads or dreadlocks. Dread means to anticipate with great apprehension or fear. Even though the word lock comes from the word dreadlock, I am taking out the dread from in front of it. My hair isn’t dreadful, my hair is beautiful.

WHY I DECIDED TO LOCK MY HAIR?

HOW DID I START MY LOCKS?

HOW MANY LOCKS DO I HAVE?

Ahdonnica Patterson, B.A. with a concentration in creative writing, is an avid reader and lover of all things art. She was previously a Sophie intern and is currently looking for career opportunities.

WHY DO I CALL THEM LOCKS INSTEAD DREADLOCKS OR DREADS?

My older brother and sister inspired me to get them at first, but ultimately I was bored with doing the same natural styles over and over again. I had been thinking about locking my hair for a while due to it being easier for me to keep up with and having to spend less money on hair care products.

I used 2 strand twist, because its something I’ve worked with before and they are the easiest to self start. I used leave in conditioner, coconut oil, Mane n’ Tail hair strengthener and olive oil styling gel by Lusti Organics.

HOW LONG DID IT TAKE ME TO START MY LOCKS?

From washing my hair to detangling and then twisting, it took me 8 and half hours due to how thick my hair is. The style I had before had been in my hair for a while so lots of detangling, hair treatments and love were needed before I installed my starter locks.

WHY DID I DO IT MYSELF?

I didn’t have the money to get it done professionally, but I knew if I didn’t do it now I probably wouldn’t do it at all. Since I’m a full time student and work 2 jobs with an internship, I didn’t have time to sit at a shop for hours. Doing them myself also gave me free range of how big they are and how I want them to look. I didn’t really go to shops as a young kid due to my serious tender headedness, so as an adult I guess this gives me a little bit of anxiety around salons. I’m not as tender headed as I was when I was younger, but that along with horror stories about going to salons make me less likely to go. I might try going to a salon in the future if I need a very formal style or want my locks resized once they mature.

PRODUCTS I USE:

In the beginning I wasn’t doing as many re-twists so I was just shampooing (not conditioning) and putting leave in conditioner and coconut oil in my hair.

When I did my re-twist I was using olive oil Eco Styler gel or the olive oil Lusti Organics gel, but this was leading to flakes when either of them dried. To me flakes mean build up, so I stopped using both of those and just used coconut oil and my leave in conditioner for my re-twist and I haven’t had any flaking.

The only downfall to not using gel or something with much more hold than my coconut oil or my leave in conditioner is that it doesn’t hold your re-twist as long, especially if you have some areas of your hair that are looser. A small sacrifice for no or less build up in the future.

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STRUGGLES I’VE EXPERIENCED SO FAR:

My twist near the nape of my neck was coming undone when I first started them and they still do till this day. Assumably this is due to my hair texture being a little looser in the back, sweat, and everyday activities like sleeping and driving. I’m wondering that perhaps I made them too big in some sections and too small in others.

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS:

“Locks are nasty and gross”- if you do not do the upkeep, they can get gross and nasty when you first get them, especially after not washing them and product build up; you do wash them like regular hair with the exception of conditioner due to most conditioners having detangling agents.

INTERLOCKING VS PALM ROLLING:

When I started, some of the twist would come undone near the scalp but the rest of the twist would be fine. I ended up interlocking those and palmrolled the rest. However, generally I just twist and palm roll.

SISTER LOCKS VS TRADITIONAL LOCKS:

I thought about doing interlocks but they seem really time consuming and since I do plan to do most of the upkeep on my own, I decided that traditional locks would be ideal for me due to the time it takes to do a re-twist.

AREN’T YOU AFRAID YOU WON’T BE ABLE TO GET A JOB WITH LOCKS?

No, I’m not. I started my locks knowing about the discrimination law, but if the place that I want to work doesn’t accept all of me then maybe that place wasn’t such a worthwhile place to be anyway. My hair doesn’t define who I am as a person and shouldn’t disqualify me from doing my job.

SUCCESSES:

I can easily style them with and without a re-twist. Budding is starting to happen; I at least have one bud on every lock, except the ones in the back.

I don’t have as much shrinkage as I thought I would. Perhaps me having medium (shoulder to about mid-back) length hair makes them seem longer, since my hair was on the longish side to begin with.

THINGS I’VE LEARNED:

I’ve learned that my hair is different textures in different areas of my head.

I’ve learned to be more patient with my hair and to love my hair more. I have also learned that hair and vanity can be one in the same. When I was loose natural and wore my hair out it brought attention and now that I am locked it is still beautiful to some people but it doesn’t bring the same affirmations as being a loose natural did. I know that it doesn’t happen overnight but watching all the YouTube videos and looking at all the pictures on Pinterest made me have higher expectations for it to happen a lot quicker than it has been progressing. Due to my hair texture being somewhat looser than most people who have locks it’s going to take a little longer than anticipated.

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How to Grow Your Brain?

As I get older (not necessarily more mature…) my very real concern is to keep my brain healthy and sharp. Two fatal hereditary traits run in my family. One is skin cancer…too late to do much about that; I work in the sun all day in a hat with sun block. The other one is vascular dementia.

by Betty Sharpless

Betty Sharpless is a professional free-lance gardener, writer and quilter looking forward to the very first cherry tomatoes with glee…

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aving helped both my parents pass on, the dementia is much more intimidating to me personally. Fortunately, it is also a brain disease that one can work to prevent or delay.

The brain works just like all of the rest of our original equipment. If we don’t use it, we lose it. While anyone who knows me will agree that my brain works a bit differently then some folk’s, it works pretty well for the mileage on it. A few years back I started doing everything I could to maintain this level. My favorite thing of course is to travel to foreign lands, but that is not an everyday

thing. Learning a new language is an excellent brain exercise. A friend introduced me to DuoLingo, a free phone app and I am currently sharpening up my Spanish. This has actually come in very handy. Spending 20 minutes a day playing language games is easy!

I already go to an exercise class to prevent injuries and help balance.

Turns out that getting your heart rate up for 20-30 minutes three times a week is good for your brain too! My favorite exercise program for the old noggin is line dancing. After a good line dance class, I can feel my synapses just zinging. Line dance combines language, memory and physical movement in one fun activity. Asheville Parks and Recreation has several beginner classes. Watch out! It is addictive.

Anytime you put yourself in an unfamiliar situation you are exercising your brain. A good way to combine this with a feel- good activity is to volunteer. In Asheville there are limitless opportunities to volunteer.

There is even a volunteer website you can check called HandsonAsheville.org to choose a task that best fits your personality and time limits.

A secondary benefit to volunteering is that you will meet really nice new people! Guess what? Socializing with new folks is also good for your brain!

So! No Excuses: Exercise the brain, the heart and eat more greens…

See you at my 90th birthday party!

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»PEOPLE

Enjoying the Wedding Planning Adventure Millennial couples are spending an average of $31,000 on their wedding ceremony and reception. With costs in Metropolitan areas like New York and San Francisco averaging $15K more than other areas, weddings in Asheville can seem like a relative bargain.

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sheville certainly has no shortage of wedding professionals—wedding planners, photographers, caterers, etc. Which is a good thing, since most couples are hiring an average of 12 to 13 vendors to create and coordinate their ceremony.

It’s not surprising that most brides feel an enormous amount of pressure to impress their guests, compete with their friends’ weddings, create “picture perfect” events and please their parents (who are often footing the bill). Even the most organized bride-to-be is often overwhelmed by the seemingly millions of decisions to be made and the management of all the moving parts.

A FEW SUGGESTIONS FOR THE BRIDE-TO-BE As a wedding dress designer, I’ve had the opportunity to work with many brides as they plan their special day. Here are a few suggestions for making your wedding planning process a less stressful, more fun, and memorable experience.

Angela is a fashion designer with 20 years of experience in the industry.

She is a founder & designer of Asheville Couture- Bridal and Special Occasion Dresses and Angela Kim DesignsWomen’s ready to wear Clothing.

Check out their websites for more details. ashevillecouture.com, & angelakimdesigns.com

1. REMEMBER WHAT MATTERS MOST Remember why you’re throwing this party in the first place when stresses are taking over. Trust that it will all come together and be a wonderful occasion, even if everything doesn’t go exactly as planned.

2. KEEP YOUR PRIORITIES STRAIGHT Set priorities

for the tasks on your to-do list. Rank everything by order of importance and urgency. Take care of your top priorities first.

3. NARROW DOWN YOUR OPTIONS Limit your choices by staying focused on the kind of wedding you want to have.

Whether it’s big or small, destination or local, choose that early on so that you know what you’re in for when you start making plans.

4. BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF Create an event that reflects who you are. It should match your style. Once you have a theme, color palette, or your inspiration nailed down, go with those ideas. * One of my clients came to have a consultation with a very clear idea that their wedding color will be purple. I designed the Mother of the Bride dress first as she knew exactly what

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she wanted. Then it was time to design the bridal gown. The bride was torn between a traditional white gown and this very unique pastel lilac colored gown that she loved so much. I draped the fabrics on the bride to show how those two colors complemented her beautiful blue eyes and strawberry blonde hair. The bride and her mother spent a good amount of time considering the options and chose the lilac silk gown. After all, they knew what they really wanted. They stuck to their original vision and everything worked out perfectly.

5. GET PERSONAL If you’re not sure why you’re doing a certain “wedding tradition,” feel free to take it out of your wedding plans. Give your wedding a personal touch with any family traditions or something you want to start for future generations.

6. BE TRUE TO YOUR LOOK It is almost impossible to

ignore fashion trends when you are shopping for your wedding dress. However, your wedding attire should represent your personal style. Think of the aisle as your personal runway. * One common request I get from my clients is that they want to look their best, not like some model from bridal magazines. Most women already know what neckline, sleeves, and shape of dresses look and feel good on them. One of my clients said she was not keen on laces or embellishments. Even though lace is a major 2017 wedding trend, we went for a draped silk gown with very clean lines and minimal details. She was extremely happy with the result, and said she would wear that dress again after the wedding.

One of my other clients had really amazing legs and she wanted to show them off. I explained to her that a short dress will look somewhat informal compared to a full length gown but she decided to have the skirt cut above the knees. She was very comfortable in that dress and looked amazingly beautiful.

7. CREATE THE RIGHT TEAM OF VENDORS It is essential to find a planner, vendors, and designers who will help create and manage your vision as if it were their own. Look for the ones who understand you, respect your vision, and offer you the support you need, in addition to outstanding service.

8. REVIEW EVERY DETAIL WITH YOUR VENDORS Schedule a couple of in-person sessions and conference calls with your vendors before the wedding. Be sure to go over what you expect of them thoroughly.

* My business is to have the bride’s dress and the wedding party’s

wardrobe ready for the big day.

Most of the time, all the dresses are finished, pressed and hung nicely days before the wedding day. But sometimes there are some situations that need my attention on the wedding day, like figuring out how to tie bows, bustle the gown, urgent repairs, or even just the emotional support of ensuring them that they look impeccable for the biggest event of their lives. I extend my service to the dressing room on the wedding day to help and support my clients.

9. YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS ARE THERE TO HELP Your family members and friends are so happy for you and eager to

help. Involve them by having them take a look at your to-do list and pick any items that they feel they can handle for you.

10. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT

you The quality of the people who are there will determine the success of your wedding. Keep the people who know how to love and support you to create the most memorable and enjoyable event of your life.

11. FORGET ABOUT PERFECTION Focus on planning a wedding that’s meaningful to you instead of planning a “perfect wedding.” Help yourself feel more at ease during the wedding planning process by accept-

ing that things may take a different turn than you expect.

12. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF THE WEDDING ADVENTURE

Enjoy the time you’re spending planning your wedding and make it fun along the way. Your wedding is a celebration of love and family. So don’t forget to express joy and gratitude to your family members and the special people in your life.

* Due to the nature of my business, I often witness the most beautiful and emotional moments between mothers and daughters. Fitting sessions are filled with tears, laughter, stories, memories, hugs and kisses. Mothers are so proud and the “little” girls are forever grateful. One of my clients ordered a dress for her future mother-in-law to express how she feels about her. She told me, “My mother-in-law is always giving to others. She takes care of special needs adults as a day job then she takes care of grandchildren at home all the time. She never does anything for herself. She could really use a flattering dress.” So they went shopping for a new set of under garments and came to the fitting session together. Sharing that fun afternoon together is a precious memory they will never forget.

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»FASHION

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IX TOP LEFT TO RIGHT Photographer: Beth Scott Model: Michelle Raymond Hair & MUA: Tia Renay Hixon Kimono: The Costume Shoppe Photographer : Andy Moore | Model : Deborah Hahn Designer Kati Foster/CatDog Couture Photographer: Beth Scott | Model & Designer: Ivy Hawkins Photography: Andy Moore | Model : Naomi Ansano Designer: Amanda Rose | MUA: Terran Ward Hair: Rachel Minish

FA S H M O B IX: Cover Story made its triumphant return at the new Wedge Brewing on Foundy Street. This event was for photographers, videographers, models, makeup artists, hair stylists, and designers of all experience levels.

The purpose for FASHMOB is people to connect, have fun, and create images to share with one another. No matter your field of expertise, everyone will always be welcome.

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TOP RIGHT TO LEFT Photographer: Duncan Chaboudy Models: L TO R- Drew Zen and Johnchel Foster of local music group The Last Wordbender Photographer: Andy Moore Model: Sarah Elizabeth | Hair & MUA: Franky Martinez Photographer: Molly Grabill | Model: Tabis Gore Photographer: Max Ganly | Model: Riot Burgin Costume: Jessica Burgin Photographer: Max Ganly | Model: Ashley Dickson Designer: Leanna of Grateful Threads | MUA: Ashley Dickson

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unny days bring vibrance to the world around us and our wardrobe for the season should be no different!

Perfect for a wedding, family cookout or a trip to the beach our favorite summer trends burst with an energy that is sure to be contagious.

From neon wraps and playful trim to off the shoulder tops that ow with the wind, free your style to be bold and full of color!

Model: Anna Hilgeman (L) Mila Shift in Coral Reef Beside the Point, $178 Star Bright Earring in Gold Metallic, $38 Kristin Wedge in Gold Metallic, $198 Model: Alex Yarmosky (R) Mansi Set in Resort White Macrame Lace, $248 Sea Urchin Drop Earrings in Serene Blue, $38 McKim Wedge in Gold Metallic, $148 26 | Sophie JULY / AUGUST 2017

LEFT Model: Alex Yarmosky Valli Shift in Serene Blue, $198 McKim Sandal in Gold Metallic, $88 Fantasea Earrings in Gold Metallic, $48 Fantasea Cuff in Gold Metallic, $68 Reversible Tote in Gold Metallic, $148

RIGHT Model: Anna Hilgeman Luca Sweater in Tiki Pink, $118 Kelly Skinny Ankle Pant in Resort White, $138 Jenna Wedge in Gold Metallic, $198 Birds of a Feather Bangle in Gold Metallic, $48 Palmella Clutch in Tiki Palm Place Engineered, $128 Canopy Earrings in Gold Metallic, $38

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LEFT Model: Anna Hilgeman Ezra Beach Maxi Dress in Multi Sparkling Sands, $178 Via Arm Cuff in Gold Metallic, $58 Sparkling Sands Necklace in Multi Gold Metallic, $88 Lacey Sandal in Gold Metallic, $158

RIGHT Model: Alex Yarmosky Lizzy Set in Blue Crush After Party, $198 Marin Sweater Wrap in Loro Green, $108 Kristin Wedge in Gold Metallic, $198 Sea Urchin Bangle in Gold Metallic, $48 Sea Flower Earrings in Gold Metallic, $38 On Point Necklace in Gold Metallic, $78

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828.442.0337 katycookphotography.com HAIR & MAKEUP BY:

Linda White

Asheville Mall • 828.296.9463 ALL CLOTHING & ACCESSORIES PROVIDED BY:

Palm Village Asheville One All Souls Crescent, Suite 100 Asheville, NC 28803 www.shoppalmvillage.com (828)404-8140 FASHION COORDINATOR & STYLISTS:

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nside the Orange Peel in Downtown Asheville was packed full of people chatting enthusiastically; media, designers, the fashion savvy, all together to discuss not only the creativity of the designers of the show using upcycling, but the programs that Goodwill offers, especially career advancement.

PHOTOS BY MAX GANLY PHOTOGRAPHY WRITTEN BY RACHEL HOEFT

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The stage was splashed with all colors of the rainbow and you could feel the anticipation build as the

show began to start. The show consisted of 6 groups, each given a color and from that color, they had to go to a Goodwill store, choose fabrics, clothes and things to upcycle from tired items into something new. At the end of the show, members of the audience would vote on their favorite color group.

The main thing that makes this show in particular stand out, is the creative inventiveness that these designers partake in to make these unbelievably stylish, wearable clothes.

The ďŹ rst group that started the show was the Green group. As Leanna Echeverri, the designer, describes her inspiration for this collec-

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group with steampunk accents and the Red group, by Kristen Tidwell, had a mix of everything but each piece exuded a quirky element, like an 80’s Madonna style bust.

tion, it’s no wonder that this group would nab the runner up prize of $250. Dreamy flowy fabrics, rich in olives peppered with flower accents, corsets and Victorianesque theme blew me away.

The Blue group by Tricia Ellis, was all about ruffles and denim chevron accents, the Orange group by Caleb Owolabi, was the most casual group that gave off a 70’s retro vibe. The Sepia group, by Mckinney Gough, was a fun western gunslinger

Last but not least, the Pink group from designer Amanda Rose, who was the winner of the night, made its mark from its light pink hues and use of romantic lace. The fun floral prints and use of layers made the collection flirty and carefree. One dress was made from a feed sack!

All in all the show was inspiring. Everyday items repurposed into fun wearable fashion and seeing the people that Goodwill helped put their life on track made the night magical.

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LEFT TO RIGHT Model: Aubrey Huntley Designer: Leanna Echeverri Hair & MUA: Simply Gorgeous Model: Peter Ikeda Designer: Caleb Owolabi Hair & MUA: Carmen Carmen!

Model: Ivy Hawkins Designer: Kristen Tidwell Hair: Zhenya Lazarchuk MUA: Iliana Guardado Model: Jessica Riley Designer: Amanda Rose Hair: April Blakely | MUA: Erica Calvert Model: Kayla Beavers Designer: McKinney Gough Hair: Yelena Radchishin MUA: Tia Renay Hixon Model: Kaitlyn Storey Designer: Tricia Ellis | Hair: Charlotte “Cat” Murphy MUA: Vanessa Sogan

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BEHIND THE SCENES:

START INTO THE ASHEVILLE FASHION SCENE:

I got into it about a year ago with the Alice in Wonderland fashion show.

It was the very first fashion show I had done. I took on two very different themes- Victorian steampunk couture; was more focused on cleaner lines inspired by architecture and very sculptural looks and had an avantegarde feel.

EXPERIENCE WORKING WITH COLOR ME GOODWILL:

My color this year is red. One of the first things that I did was research colors and their emotional as well as spiritual and social impact, and the colors in cultures around the world.

I then also started doing research trying to refine and created a vision board on the look and the story that I wanted to tell. In trying to create a culture of inclusion and having 3 men and 3 women -different races; and including the employee from Goodwill- I requested someone who had a disability to be included, so that I could really have that essence of creating that culture of inclusion. From there I went to Goodwill to see what they had and the possibilities of what I could use; spent a whole afternoon looking through things and getting inspired by what I actually saw as well so that I can then take items- anywhere from actual garments to curtains, slip covers and yarn and other items that I found to then actually redesign that into actual couture items.

INSPIRATION:

The world around me and definitely people, I believe that it is mine and your fusion from enriching life adventures through art, design and culture.

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KRISTEN TIDWELL

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tures, the patterns from nature, the color, texture and also the functionality - Is there a need for a product or design. Storytelling is huge for me, I believe that storytelling and the arts is a great way to do that and it can make such an impact, you can make both a social and economic impact.

HOPES & ASPIRATIONS FOR ASHEVILLE FASHION:

I would like to see it continue to strive to high standards. I love to see it promoted to bring people into Asheville. Sometimes the shows have been small and it would be great to make it more powerful, make it stronger and find creative ways that fashion can interweave with the rest of the community in Asheville. That's actually a project that I am in the process of working on with some people – how to do that and create exhibitions in fashion and curation to really bring things together.

WORDS OF INSPIRATION TO FUTURE DESIGNERS:

Believe in yourself. Follow your dreams. Start an art journal- doesn't mean you have to force yourself to make things and whatever is in it doesn't have to relate, it just allows yourself to be free to create. Finding your inspiration and your research and discovery - that exploration that creates your essence. As a designer and an artist it’s so important to learn to communicate your ideas and finding what works for you.

ADDITIONAL NOTES / CLOSING REMARKS:

I think one of the most impressive things and the reason that I have remained engaged in the Asheville scene is the artistic collaboration. I think that is a huge thing that Asheville should be proud of.

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night of fashion and benefit, J Smith Boutique and Scout Boutique kicked off the launch of Angela Kim's Spring '17 Collection, featuring jewelry by Amber Hatchett and Noonday.

Live music, sparkling wine, and local nibbles. All proceeds went to benefit the Boys and Girls Club of Buncombe County, which creates safe and fun opportunities for kids and teens in our community.

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HOME & GARDEN

Garden Bloomers:

The Sweet Smell of Memories It seems that every scented flower has smelled sweeter to me this year. Lilacs, roses and now honeysuckle have just outdone themselves in celebrating surviving another crazy winter. I have read that smells can trigger memories, even in folks with severe Alzheimer’s disease.

by Betty Sharpless

Betty Sharpless is a professional free-lance gardener, writer and quilter who is also a hopeless romantic when it comes to flowers… parts.

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Moving forward in my childhood, the smell of a sunny meadow and I am right back at Camp Tohikanee Girl Scout camp. I noticed this when my dog and I were walking up over the hills of the Biltmore Estate gardens towards her favorite swimming hole. It was blazingly hot and the grassy meadow smelled exactly like the big field where we all gathered to greet and say goodnight to another fun day at camp.

know this is true. Even though I know that native honeysuckle is an invasive “weed”, I always leave some where I will smell it come twilight. The sweet gentle scent takes me right back to being six years old and having to go to bed shortly. I bet more than a few of you remember pulling the end of a bloom off to sip the nectar in each creamy bloom on a hot summer day.

When I was about 8, I got to be a flower girl for a Romeo and Juliet themed wedding. I don’t remember much past the costumes except for the heavenly smell of gardenias in the lovely bouquet I carried. To this day gardenias smell like true love to me. One sniff and I get all moony.

Every time I brush against rosemary while weeding, I remember one of my favorite Deerfield’s customers who always said “rosemary for remembrance”.

I don’t think of Italian food or my trips to Italy or France. I remember Tucky, the sweetest lady who ever hired us. I guess rosemary really IS for remembrance! Now I often tie a sprig of rosemary on a gift with her in mind.

The smell of bee balm, mint and lavender make any day of weeding a little easier. In fact you will be giving yourself a free flower essence spa treatment as you go. Interestingly enough, most scented plants are also very sturdy and reliable garden flowers.

So the point behind this ramble is to suggest that whenever you get to choose between a scented rose and a “no care” rose with no scent, take the rose needing care. Plant your garden full of herbs and flowers that will stimulate happy memories. Take time to help small children learn flowers from their scent. You will be “planting” memories that will last them a lifetime.

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»ENTERTAINMENT

Meg’s Movie Review: Snatched Amy Schumer is, at the very least, one of the strongest and most accomplished stand-up comediennes of our time. Her breakout performance in her 2015 film “Trainwreck” certainly showed that she could handle herself on the big screen.

by Meg Hale Brunton

Meg Hale Brunton reviews movies for Sophie every month. She has a Creative Writing degree from UNCA, loves fresh made popcorn, and throws an annual Oscar party at her house

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n her latest endeavor, “Snatched,” she shares the screen with acting legend Goldie Hawn (“The First Wives Club”).

Schumer plays Emily, a selfish young woman who is obsessed with making herself look good on Facebook and Instagram, instead of actually being successful in real life. When she loses her job and her boyfriend within moments of each other, she only has one place to go… home. Hawn plays her mother, Linda, who has her own set of problems. While she is very supportive of her children (perhaps overly so), she has closed herself off from new experiences because of fear.

When Emily buys nonrefundable tickets to Ecuador for her and her ex, she convinces her mother to go with her. Shortly after their arrival, all of Linda’s worst case scenario fears begin coming true.

A man that Emily meets in the resort bar talks them into taking a day-trip into the wilderness, where they are kidnapped, taken to Brazil and held for ransom. They are able to escape, then must flee their captors in a mad race through the Amazon.

“Snatched” is peppered with great, yet fairly pointless, cameos from fantastic actors like Wanda Sykes (“Monster-in-Law”), Joan Cusack (“Working Girl”), and Christopher Meloni (“Law & Order SUV’). While these actors are underused in their roles, they were still hysterical and a lot of fun to watch. One of my favorite performances, though, came from newcomer Ike Barinholtz (“Sisters’) who plays Linda’s agoraphobic live-in son Jeffrey. When the kidnappers call to ransom Linda and Emily, they reach Jeffrey, who is forced to push himself to his emotional limits in his efforts to rescue them.

Schumer is known for her crude sense of humor in her comedy routine. Since the film premiered on Mother’s Day weekend, it had plenty of women wondering, “Is this movie suitable to take my mom to?” My answer to that is: it depends on the mom. It definitely has the level of raunchiness that the world has come to expect from Schumer, and is rated R because of this. Personally, I found that Hawn and Schumer’s chemistry and the overall sweet message of the film outweighed the particularly dirty scenes.

In fact, the film studio that produced “Snatched” originally did not want Hawn for the role, fearing that her sweet and bubbly image would clash with the movie’s edge. Schumer threatened to walk from the project altogether if they didn’t cast Hawn in the role. I loved seeing Hawn in this film, especially considering that she hasn’t starred in a movie since “The Banger Sisters” in 2002.

I really enjoyed ‘Snatched” and felt that both the comedic and emotional performances by Schumer and Hawn were spot-on. They are hilarious together and I laughed out loud throughout the movie. And so did my mom. I give “Snatched” 7 out of 10 stars.

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»ENTERTAINMENT

Learning the Fun Way: Wine School While I don’t think that you need a master’s in viticulture to enjoy a bottle of wine, there is no arguing that a little studying can really open up the world of wine to you.

by Andy Hale

Andy Hale is a certified Specialist of Wine & cofounder of the Asheville School of Wine at Metro Wines and the Blind Tasting League of Asheville.

He now teaches classes at Metro Wines. Follow him on Twitter @avlwinegeek

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nowing what the different grape varietals taste like will help you pick a wine that suits you, knowing the growing regions will help you learn about local winemaking styles, and learning how to describe wine will make it easier to communicate your likes and dislikes to your favorite restaurant sommeliers and wine shop clerks. It’s also a lot of fun to talk about the flavors you taste in a special bottle of wine with your friends or loved ones!

Admittedly, it can be very intimidating getting started with wine, I remember in college walking through a wine shop and being completely overwhelmed by the sheer number of bottles. With so many wines out there, where do you start?

Wine classes are a great way to get started. Learning from a pro can fast track you on your way to becoming a wine expert, and it’s very useful to be able to ask questions. I teach classes at UNCA through the OLLI program and also through the Asheville School of Wine on everything from wine basics to regions and varietals of the world.

Check out our website (ashevilleschoolofwine.com) for more information or stop by the shop and ask me your questions in person!

If you have ever wanted to sniff a glass of wine and exclaim “Subtle flavors of gooseberry, finishing with a whiff of freshly cut lawn,” you have to train your nose and brain to work together. You can thank (or curse) genetics for your smelling sensitivity, but a little practice can help you get better at describing the flavors that your nose is sending to you.

In my opinion, the best way to develop your sniffer is to blind taste.

This is a sommelier art where you try to guess the grape varietal and region of a wine just from what you are smelling and tasting. Forcing yourself to search through the flavors in an unknown wine is hard, and it really forces you to concentrate on the subtlest of aromas. Does that hint of bacon fat indicate you are drinking a Syrah? Get a friend to pick out a bottle of wine and pour it for you secretly or join us at our blind tasting class on the first Wednesday of each month.

The best way to learn about wine is to drink it! Don’t just glug it back though, pay attention to the flavors and take notes. While you taste it, pick out 3 fruit flavors and 3 non-fruit flavors. Write your descriptions and ratings down in a wine journal or phone app such as Delectable or Vivino, or take pictures of bottles that you enjoyed. Try not to get stuck on just one varietal or brand. Take a chance and try a new grape or region!

You will never learn all there is to know about wine. There are always new regions, grapes, and styles to try. Try to let that thought excite you instead of intimidating you. It’s a hobby that will never get old!

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summer’s counterpart to the fun Winter Court fashion event. Featuring runway & live performance. Designers include Jon Pierce Fashions, Foxfire Custom Designs, Amanda Rose, Royal Peasantry & KatDog Couture. Saturday,

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CELEBRATION Free event featuring family activities throughout the day with a fireworks extravaganza capping off the event at 9:30pm!  Tuesday, July 4, 12-10pm. Pack Square Park. ashevilledowntown.org

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Have you ever looked up at the night sky…and wondered? The Pisgah Field School teams up with Pisgah Astronomical Research Institute (PARI) for a series of stargazing programs in Pisgah National Forest that will challenge what you think you know about our small planet and the very large galaxy that it resides in. Pre-registration required.

Saturday, July 8, 8:30pm. Brevard Music Center. brevardmusic.org

Friday, July 7, 1-5pm. Gallery of the Mountains, Omni Grove Park Inn. facebook.com/GalleryOfTheMountains

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IN CONCERT

A special 35th anniversary celebration of Steven Spielberg’s heartwarming masterpiece! Relive the unparalleled magic and imagina-

COSTUME DRAMA: A FASHION SHOW Asheville Community Theatre will hold the 6th annual Costume Drama. This eclectic evening of inventive fashion has quickly become an Asheville favorite and sells out every year! Local designers compete for cash prizes in this Project Runwayesque show, and proceeds from tickets benefit the theatre.

Attendees choose the winners with ballot style voting. 2017 Design Categories: Light, Paper, Ribbon, Trashion. Photo: Audrey Goforth July 7, Renaissance Hotel. 7:30 pm. $35. ashevilletheatre.org

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Mark your summer calendars for a free and fun for all celebration of handmade creativity and indie ingenuity. This show features 150+ Indie Artists, Crafters & Makers + Food + Drink + Music!  Sunday, July 16, 12-6pm. Pack Square Park, Asheville. For more info, visit thebigcrafty.com

JUL FOLKMOOT

As NC’s Official International Folklore Festival, Folkmoot is a 10-day celebration of the world’s cultural heritage through folk music, song, and dance. The festival is headquartered at the Folkmoot Friendship Center in Waynesville, about 25 miles west of Asheville, but performances can be seen in several cities, including Asheville, Cherokee, Franklin, Lake Junaluska, Maggie Valley and Hendersonville.

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Friday, July 7, 8-10:30pm. Pisgah National

Asheville artist & illustrator Al Ramirez demonstrates brushwork techniques in oils on a painting of a female cardinal.

Fine art prints and original works will be on display and available for sale.

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tion of this beloved movie on the big screen, performed live by full symphony orchestra.

July 15, 10pm-2am.

New Mountain AVL. Buy tickets at brownpapertickets.com /event/2939546

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TIME IN WESTEROS A BARD’S TALE Browncoat Bellydance and Spectacle & Mirth have teamed up to bring you a theatrical dance and performance arts tribute to the Game of Thrones. Come join us around the hearth as our bard spins tales of magic, dragons, and intrigue from the far off land of Westeros.

July 20-30. Folkmoot Friendship

Center, Waynesville. For tickets and further info, visit folkmootusa.org

Saturday, July 8pm. The Grey Eagle. thegreyeagle.com

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WILD GOOSE FESTIVAL

A festival of justice, spirituality, music and the arts in Hot Springs. Talk, listen, eat and camp together, captivated and challenged by the call of radical humanity, and who seek to celebrate diversity and promote the common good. Thurs - Sun, July 13-16. Hot Springs Resort & Spa. wildgoosefestival.org

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RUNWAY

Presented by Fire Beads; the

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PRESENTS BURNING CAN (NOT JUSTA) BEERFEST

Burning can NC condenses what’s best about the craft can lifestyle into a multi-day, outdoor festival with nationally touring bands, some of the best canning breweries from around the country, camping, a group mountain bike ride, group road bike ride, trail run, paddle trips, yoga activities, and more. Friday-Saturday, July 21-22, Oskar Blues REEB Ranch. burningcan.com

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DANCE & FOLK FESTIVAL

Bascom Lamar Lunsford founded the Mountain Dance & Folk Festival as a means for people to share and understand the beauty and dignity of the Southern Appalachian music & dance traditions.

Since 1928, mountain fiddlers, banjo pickers, dulcimer sweepers, dancers, balladeers and others have come to enjoy themselves “along about sundown” the first weekend in August at the Mountain Dance and Folk Festival. Thursday - Saturday, August 3 - 5.

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CRAFT FAIR OF THE SOUTHERN HIGHLANDS Now in it’s 70th year, this juried craft fair will bring more than 200 craftspeople to the Civic Center selling their works of clay, fiber, glass, leather, metal, mixed media, natural materials, paper, wood and jewelry.  Friday - Sunday, July 21-23. US Cellular Center, Asheville. Fri - Sat: 10am - 6pm.; Sun: 10am - 5pm.

Admission $8, Children under 12 Free. southernhighlandguild.org

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Friday: Mission Health/A-B Tech Conference Center, 340 Victoria Road, Asheville. For tickets and more information visit folkheritage.org

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ASHEVILLE

Take on a summer challenge and cycle through scenic countryside and vibrant cityscapes at the fourth annual Gran Fondo Asheville hosted

by New Belgium. The cycling event offers 30-, 60-, and 100-mile routes and includes optional competitive timed sections. Proceeds from the cycling event benefit Friends of the Smokies.  Sunday, July 23. To register visit friendsofthesmokies.org

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In the vein of “The Moth” or “This American Life,” “Listen to This” features stories and original songs from locals. Hosted by Tom Chalmers. Thursday, July 27. 7:30pm. $15.

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FAIR Over 200 artists & craftspeople working and displaying their work.

Food, live bluegrass, dance performances & more! 

Fri-Sat, August 4-5, 9am-5pm.

Burnsville Town Square.

Free.

For more info, 828-682-7413 or yanceychamber.com/craft-fair

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ART & CRAFT FAIR Held on the grounds of the Cathedral of All Souls in Biltmore Village near the entrance to the Biltmore Estate, the fair hosts 100+ artists from 17 states representing the

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My Sistah Taught Me That presents their 2nd annual FASHION SHOW fundraiser. Enjoy a fashion show with MSTMT models and purchase items modeled in the show from local retail partners & other vendors.

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MSTMT is a young girl’s developmental program designed to encourage, inspire, educate & mentor girls ages 11-19 with a special focus on girls growing up in single parent homes without their father.

This program was created so young ladies in Buncombe County & surrounding areas have the chance to be exposed to professional women in our community who provide educational opportunities and open dialogue to help them mature.  August 6, 4-6pm, Celine’s on Broadway. For more information, visit mysistahtaughtmethat.org

full spectrum of craft media jewelry, ceramic, wood, fiber, metals, 2D art & more.  Saturday-Sunday, August 5-6, Saturday 10am-7pm, Sunday 12-5pm. Biltmore Village. Free. newmorninggallerync.com

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ASHEVILLE OFF This comedy festival, now in it’s 11th year, brings 60+ comedians from around the world to Asheville to perform. Sure to be a good time!

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 Wednesday-Saturday, August 9-12.

Visit laughyourashevilleoff.com

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There’s always plenty to see and do at this free street festival in downtown Black Mountain with great music, arts & craft vendors, Sourwood Idol contest, children’s area, and of course lots of great mountain cookin’.

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 Saturday - Sunday, August 12-13.

Saturday: 9am-8pm; Sunday: 9am5pm. Downtown Black Mountain. For more info, sourwoodfestival.com

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Family-friendly event with lots of activities for kids & the famous Anything that Floats water parade. Music, food trucks & lots of fun! Bands include The Get Right Band, Ben Phan & the Soul Symphony & more.

For two days Pack Square Park will be alive with three stages featuring national, regional, & local talent, Easel Rider activities, a LEAF Family Adventure Zone, dozens of roaming artists & buskers, a Prestige Subaru Adventure Zone, and interactive art installations for all to enjoy!

 Sat, August 26, 1-7pm. The Salvage

Friday & Saturday, August 4 & 5.

 Sun, Aug 27, 10am-6pm. Pack Square

Friday: 12-10pm; Saturday: 9am 10pm. Pack Square Park. theLEAF.org

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Live music, organic local food, cooking demos, samplings, natural arts & crafts and more all in the heart of downtown Asheville.

Park. FREE. organicfest.org

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ONGOING EVENTS DOWNTOWN AFTER 5 CONCERT SERIES

July 21: Asheville All-Stars; Rock Academy Aug 18: Cedric Burnside; Lyric; The Stump Mutts Visit with locals and visitors, enjoy free live music in downtown Asheville, and support local businesses and entertainers. North Lexington Ave. 5-9pm. Free; $2 wristbands for beer & wine. ashevilledowntown.org

LEAF CULTURAL ARTS IN THE PARK SERIES

Wednesdays through Aug 9, 6-7pm Join LEAF’s talented Easel Rider & resident teaching artists for free, hands-on workshops!

Interactive and immersive theater, improv, hip hop dance & a variety of African drum & dance forms. Pritchard Park. 6-7pm. theleaf.org

THE LUTHIER’S CRAFT: INSTRUMENT MAKING TRADITIONS OF THE BLUE RIDGE

Though October This exciting interactive exhibit explores the rich history of stringed instrument making. This craft is still practiced in our beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains.

The exhibit features guitar maker Wayne Henderson and his daughter Jayne and fiddle maker Chris Testerman and includes videos and sound recordings. Smith-McDowell

House Museum. For more info, visit wnchistory.org

WINGED WONDERS: STEP INTO THE WORLD OF BUTTERFLIES

Through October 29; 9am - 5pm See the miracle of metamorphosis before your very eyes. Winged Wonders is an indoor butterfly exhibit featuring a chrysalis-rearing chamber and a walk-through butterfly house where visitors can meet a whole host of local butterfly species.

GAME NIGHT AT HIGHLAND BREWING

Mondays, 3-9pm Each Monday, meet your friends for $3 seasonal and year round beers!

Ping Pong! Giant Jenga! Corn Hole! Highland Brewing. For more info and other weekly highlandbrewing.com

events,

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SHINDIG ON THE GREEN

July 1, 8, 15, 22; August 12, 19, 26; 7-10 PM. This free mountain bluegrass music and dance festival is a local summer favorite, now in it’s 51st year. Locals and visitors gather “along about sundown,” to watch musicians and dancers from across WNC sharing the region’s Southern Appalachian mountain culture and traditions. Roger McGuire Green, Pack Square Park. See more at folkheritage.org

and a good time. Sierra Nevada Brewing Co. For more

Tryon International Equestion Center.

Casablanca Cigar Bar, 18 Lodge St, Biltmore Village. For more info, visit casablancacigarbar.com

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SATURDAY NIGHT LIGHTS

Select Saturdays Saturday Night Lights is a Grand Prix equestrian event featuring food, fun, live music, and the highest level of competitive show jumping. Bring the whole family: admission, parking & carousel rides are all free! Activities at 6pm, competition follows at 8pm.

June 7; 8-11pm Come Join us for Ladies’ Night at Casablanca Cigar Bar and enjoy Wine or Craft Cocktails and Cigar Pairings and other Girls Night Out Themed Activities! First Wed of Every Month!

Broad Ave. Most classes are free, preregistration required. Call 828-2555166 to register. ontrackwnc.org

THE VILLAGE POTTER A range of classes for adults designed to welcome the beginner, welcome back the prodigal potter, guide a new enthusiast to the next steps and offer mentorship for those wanting to explore their skills and learn from a generous community of artists.  The Village Potter, 191 Lyman Street,

The nation’s only chair caning school & museum is operated by Brandy Clements & Dave Klingler, who are on a mission to revive a “dying art.” Its an experiential education opportunity for all ages. Classes range from from short 3 hour workshops to day-long, weeklong, and 2-week intensives.

AFTER-NOONER & SUNSET CONCERT SERIES

LADIES NIGHT AT CASABLANCA CIGAR BAR

 OnTrack WNC Offices, 50 French

CHAIR CANING WORKSHOPS

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info, visit sierranevada.com

The Financial Empowerment Center at OnTrack WNC offers a full range of financial counseling & education services with a women-centered approach, responding to unique needs & perspectives, to help you reach your financial goals.

#180. For current class offerings and to register call 828-253-2424 or visit thevillagepotters.com

NC Arboretum. For more info, visit

Saturdays 2–5pm & 7–9pm; Sundays 2–5pm Sierra Nevada hosts free concerts all summer long in their amphitheater.

These weekly jams feature local and touring acts in a serene and beautiful setting among the trees at their beautiful Mills River brewery. Grab a beer and head out back for some great music

WOMEN’S FINANCIAL EMPOWERMENT CLASSES

For more info, visit tryon.coth.com

CLASSES & WORKSHOPS WILD ABUNDANCE CLASSES

A variety of classes offered March - November including: Essentials of Homesteading & Permaculture, Ancestral Foods Cooking Classes, Women’s Basic Carpentry Class & more!  For complete class listings visit wildabundance.net or call 828-775-7052

 Silver River Center for Chair Caning.

For complete class listings and more info visit silverriverchairs.com

FREEDOM FROM SMOKING SERIES Trained facilitators will lead discussions in this 7 week series (beginning August 15) to explore practical ways to handle urges, friends who continue to smoke, building healthier new habits, and other helpful tips. Quit Day is during week 4, with support and more helpful tips to follow. The series and materials are free but you must preregister.

Sponsored by the Henderson County Health Department.  Hendersonville Library. To register call 694-6065 or email blevinson@ hendersoncountync.org

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L to R: Jennifer Nicks & Leigh Ann Conner

Looking Glass Clothing Company is the newest children’s clothing line to come out of Asheville, NC. Founded and created by two local moms, Leigh Ann Conner and Jennifer Nicks, the line’s mantra is to produce clothing that is practical yet pretty.

Looking Glass Clothing Company is online at www.lookingglassclothingco.com

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