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NOVEMBER 2015
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THE NOVEMBER ISSUE
Attracting Money: Switching on truth and prosperity in your life.
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COVER SUBJECT
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Attracting Money
Attracting Money
Parenting
Little Toolbox
Can I Really Get Rich? How is it that riches manifest through me? What does it take to be rich?
5 Little ways to boost your child’s enthusiasm for homework and study.
This month’s mental and spiritual practice is going you how to really manifest the wealth and prosperity you need.
COVER TOPIC: ATTRACTING MONEY Many resources are currently available everywhere in the world that try to get the average individual to believe that getting rich comes about as a result of doing a particular thing in a certain way. While it may seem as an advancement from the old model view of this topic where getting rich was hardly encouraged and often implied some kind of sin based on the erroneous interpretation of ignorant minds which completely misunderstood the higher teaching that was being passed on, we still can’t hope to attain total freedom whether personal or financial unless we adopt a new understanding on this
pressing subject that influences our daily living. Any normal and sane person in todays society requires quite a significant amount of money just to get by and as life gets more exciting with new technologies, toys, recreational facilities and luxury lifestyles for both the young and old to enjoy, the desire to have access to more financial freedom increases. I believe each person must have at one point or another inwardly inquired whether it was truly possible to get rich... Haven’t you?
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(Continued) I certainly did it an infinite number of times growing up, looking around the dirty slum surrounding that was meant to determine my fate. But I couldn’t get why some people had it while others really didn’t have it. I couldn’t understand who had called the shots and determined which people should enjoy a good life and which people seemingly deserved to live in poverty. This troubled me greatly and my anguish and frustration kept increasing and turning into anger and a feeling of injustice as I continued to experience lack and limitation. Surely there is something erroneous with a world that is filled with poverty and sorrow. We can all intuitively feel that something has gone wrong in a world where poverty prevails and we wouldn’t knowingly create a world in which conditions of pain and struggle dominate. Lack of any kind isn’t truth in God’s universe and so when there’s an appearance of such, it is our duty to rise above it and demonstrate truth. In the same way that life cannot have any desire for death, an abundant universe cannot have any desire for lack thus our opportunity here and now is to come to terms with our true nature and the truth of our being. So in relation to money, can you really get rich? That would actually be going through the old route. The one that's always been used by those who’ve struggled their way through life and weren’t able to get the most of out it. It is an outdated question that can only lead you into more disappointment and strenuous effort primarily because it is based on a flawed premise and that is: Riches are something that I need to get. Money isn’t something you get – if this is still the view you hold of money, it might be time to start checking the beliefs and ideas you hold around money. Anyone who wants to attract money through the approach of “getting riches” is set up on a very dark and painful journey where lack and fear will always linger nearby.
However, if you desire to attract money and experience prosperity in your world, the question you must shift to now needs to take a different approach. It must be one that is established under the right premise and that is: Riches aren’t something I get but something I make manifest because abundance is my true nature. Riches aren’t external to me; they don’t come to me, they come through me. I don’t get rich, I become rich because by my inherent nature I am born rich. This might sound like a fantastic idea if you are new to my work but a little inquiry on why that should be your conviction will help increase your clarity and hopefully get you facing in this new direction. To get us there, these 3 questions will come of greatest value as we self-reflect and increase our awareness of how to attract more money. The point to always bear in mind is that all wealth to be lasting and secure must begin to come through you because in your world, you are the only constant factor. Everything else will always be following the natural law of change since no material manifestation can ever be permanent. When I say you however, it becomes crucial that you test yourself and see whether you are defining yourself by your real name or whether you’re still stuck in the mass type of thinking and identifying yourself based on your physical aspect and social standing. If you know who you really are, then it won’t come as a surprise that your wealth will only become stable and secure once it’s allowed to flow through you. But how does this happen? First we must know what money is. Then we need to understand how it is that riches come through you and lastly we figure out what it takes to really become rich in manifestations.
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WHAT IS MONEY?
Money from a physical perspective as we all know is a tool, a medium of exchange. A very important one that each of us deserves to have and enjoy to our hearts content. It can be equated with the human blood because it serves a similar purpose for our economy. Blood is what nourishes and maintains the physical bodies we inhabit through the law polarity which makes circulation possible and while we don’t pay particular attention to it, there are basic healthy habits that we all apply in our daily lives to ensure that we do our part in maintaining good circulation and nourishment. But that’s as far as it goes really! We trust that if we do our part the rest will be automatically taken care of. If we take this as a metaphor and apply it to money, it makes no sense that we fuss and strain in an attempt to control it, hoard and hide it so much. The more we cling on and fret over it or struggle for it, the more it seems to punish us and constrict what would otherwise be a healthy lifestyle. But if it serves the same purpose as we metaphorically said that the human blood
does, it makes more sense why those who need it the most and feel the constriction are also the ones who don’t produce effortless flow and an abundant circulation. Back in my slum days, I realized this to some extent because I saw around me fellow slum dwellers working their buns off and getting nowhere. The construction guys toil from sunrise to sunset under the harshest conditions and the maids and cleaners do the same yet always receive peanuts in return. Talks of money shortage and injustice is what’s dominant while trying to squeeze their penny as much as possible to pay bills and always live from hand to mouth. Undeniably the cry for help is loudest here but still nothing better ever manifests. Abundance and money seem to have legs that always run away from these poor hardworking souls and toward those who already have enough. What gives?
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Well, as one with first hand experience of that life I can assure you that circulation doesn’t have freeflow in the mind of one who’s believed that he or she is poor. In fact one of the main challenges I’ve had on my journey was unlearning what I thought I knew about myself. Shifting from the belief that I am poor and limited in many ways to the belief that I am rich and just as capable as any man or woman walking the earth is not as easy as it sounds but it can be done! Most people in such situations are anemic in their economy of life the same way one who’s not doing a good job with their health will experience poor blood circulation and health problems. That’s where we fearfully ask the question: Can I really get rich? And since everything that appears in the universe had its origin in mind, the kind of inner conversations and beliefs we have around any topic determines what our experience will be relative to it. Money in reality is an idea but those who haven’t increased their awareness only view money as a material thing. The one who views and seeks to attract money as a material thing is bound to keep experiencing shortage, lack and fluctuations in life because if you didn’t know this yet, all material things are finite. There can only be so much money that you can hold and no matter how much, it will never be infinite. But if you realize that money isn’t just a material thing but an idea, and that all ideas are spiritual in nature and permanently exist, then you’ll establish within you the solid foundation for attracting all wealth. The idea behind money is the most important factor that must be considered and given first place in our attention if we want to bring about desired manifestations that last. It is the idea that generates thought currents in the mind, the same way a fire under a boiler generates steam. So if you want to move your world, you must begin with your thought and substitute the idea you have regarding money with new ones of a more abundant and limitless nature. We have said that all is mind and everything initiates from the mind. So things that appear must be
expressions of mind. In the matter of money or riches we can be sure that they are expressions of abundance that originates as thought in the mind. For the ego mind, money is seen as a material substance that is limited but the All-originating mind knows that all substance is unlimited and that it is everywhere present, equally available to all. Since you and I are here to express our divinity individually, we must find a way to connect ideas of infinite substance with ideas of material expression. We need to adjust the ideas we’ve been carrying around in our minds to align with the ideas of the Alloriginating mind. This is effectively done through the recognition that your intellectual mind, which has so far been seeing money as a limited thing, needs to renew the currently stored paradigms that the subjective mind is building life upon as well as attain union with it and your true Self for once that happens, then you’ll start to look at money as pure substance to be accessed from the spiritual realm where love and wisdom dwell. Money isn’t bad and wanting to manifest riches in your life doesn’t compromise your goodness or purity if only you can unite the material expression with its spiritual parents. The idea itself is wonderful, but if you take this idea that is pure substance from the spiritual realm and forget the substance idea back of it by trying to work it out in a material atmosphere of thought as we see so many doing today, then it results in disappointment and frustration. It was a great idea, but having taken it away from its spiritual parents of love and wisdom, it becomes an unruly and insufficient child. That’s why many of us who still chase after money unaware of truth amass a great abundance and loose it soon after or even those who don’t necessarily loose theirs, keep experiencing fluctuations and suffer from great worry and feelings of instability. Without love and understanding of substance, there can be no permanency of riches because that is the underlying reality behind all wealth. Today’s science helps us confirm that this pure substance is everywhere present and infinite only awaiting our intelligent direction and use of it which
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basically means that there can be no end to the wealth and prosperity you can manifest in whatever form once you tap into the right process.
When you begin to think and grow rich you will observe that riches begin with a state of mind, with definite of purpose, with little or no hard work. You and every other person ought to be interested in knowing how to acquire that state of mind, which will attract riches.
Napoleon Hill
Money being a spiritual idea can therefore never come about as a result of physical or strenuous effort. No wonder we see this in our world! Those whom you admire and see manifesting great wealthy lifestyles aren’t an exception to the rule but rather the example that your soul desires to express in your unique way. You don’t need to endure great pain, suffering and sacrifice to improve your financial situation or the quality of your life. There is an unlimited supply for you right where you are ready to help you meet your demands of life once you are able to see the truth and reality of money. The physical activity or work you engage in is therefore irrelevant because you can be rich doing anything as long as you’ve tapped into the truth about money. So whatever you are doing now is the right work for you, the location you’re in now is the perfect one for you to be rich because it is you who produces the riches not the work that you do. Becoming rich is therefore not rocket science or a big deal for anyone, but we do need a better understanding of the creative process that turns that everywhere present, equally available pure substance into tangible form – in this case, money in your preferred currency!
How is it that Riches Manifest through me? Here is a metaphor I have used in my life that simplifies the creative process and helps bring greater clarity to the mind that is ready for a higher awareness. Imagine that you have paper with which you may fold artistically to give the form of a boat. This boat would easily float when set on water because the form would follow the laws that govern the shape given. Now take the same paper and change the form into the shape of a plane. It’s still the same piece of paper but now it would be flying across the room in accordance with the law that governs this new manifestation. Undoubtedly, if you were to place the paper plane on water, it would immediately disintegrate even though initially you were able to make it float just like a real boat. This is a rough idea to use on such a profound subject, but I have found it to resonate deeply with me because it helps one recognize the relation between the forms produced and the individual seeking to manifest things. The paper itself may be likened to pure substance. In itself it is neutral and natural; plastic in nature and always takes form and shape based on the direction given to which the form will naturally work in accordance with its respective laws. You are the one who works the substance and determines the shape and form it will take. And since there is only a single creative power in existence, the fact that you’re the highest expression of this power means that you’re also the one determining your experience and expressions of it relative to your particular life. The creative power is within you and must be consciously directed to mold the universal substance into whatever forms desired and in this case since we are focused on manifesting money, understand that it is simply the final form much like the plane or boat in our simple illustration.
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Can you now see why chasing after it externally if inwardly you haven’t set up the creative process in the right way will only bring disappointment? Now let’s assume again that an individual who wanted to make a paper plane blindly took up wrong instructions and ended up making a boat instead. He might try all he wants with all his might to get that boat to fly across the room but we all know how that would end! What is needed then, is for you to invest ample amount of time, ensuring that you’re working with the right mental instructions when it comes to the production of your results. Remember the held beliefs and paradigms are the instructions that your life and body will build upon regardless of how beneficial they might be. Whether you fed yourself the current paradigms held or if you’ve just inherited them in some way, they unfailingly work at making themselves facts in your world. Life is a state of consciousness and consciousness is the only reality. Understand that every ideal or result that you could ever wish to have now and in future is merely a state of consciousness desired and there are an infinite number of states that you can create for yourself. If you can conceive it and believe it, you will experience whatever state it may be whether good or bad. Wealth is a state of consciousness and all states are eternal and permanent with a negative and positive pole in material manifestation. Your biggest job in life needs to be learning how to stay on the positive side of the state you wish to realize. The negative and positive side of wealth will always co-exist in this world because of its dualistic nature but you forever have the choice as to which part gets into your experience. You cannot experience both at the same time; you can’t be happy and sad or sick and healthy at the same time isn’t it? Well if you’re going to attract wealth into your life then you must make sure that you’re now standing on the positive pole as you work on your manifestations. You are the
operant of this creative power, it doesn’t work itself in the specificity of your desire because it is always a universal creating power but it will unfailingly keep creating and producing something. The substance from which you’ll produce the wealth you desire is universal and the same for all. That alone should help you relax a bit as you recognize that all you need to do is master the one creative process that produces and forms everything into matter whether we refer to the stars, moon, trees, a baby or your dream. Ponder over the paper metaphor and if you really get into the spirit of truth, it will hit you like lightening once you realize once and for all how all the riches you could ever want can and must come through you. Remember - you - being spirit are the one who works the substance (paper) to determine the form and shape it needs to take in your world and to the extent you become good at performing your artistic duty, to that extent you get to enjoy beautiful manifestations that you can always regulate. So now we see that we must become aware of the source of pure substance and align rightly with it. Then and only then can we freely increase or decrease the form of our wealth or supply because their appearance depends entirely on our understanding and handling of the ideas of pure substance.
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What does it take to be Rich? Many are those who fail to understand the real purpose of mental science and spiritual enlightenment because in their ignorance they think that it promotes lack of action. But this is quite contrary and if anything betrays their ignorance of truth regarding action. Understanding the spiritual side of success and mastery of self doesn’t do away with action in the same way two lovers who first set eyes on each other and experience that irresistible attraction cannot fall short of taking action. That kind of action is right action. It is one that is natural, effortless and increases life whereas the more common one especially when it comes to financial success just drains life out of the poor soul. Riches that come through you must compel you into taking right action; you can’t help but act on the impulse if you’ve applied the principle accurately. The axiomatic truth that I now encourage your mind to grab hold of is that the secret of manifestation lies in being able to conceive what is true about the law of our being and then carrying out that concept in thought, words and action. Meaning, if I can conceive a truth, there must be a way by which I can make that truth objectify. Since all expressions have their origin in mind, then for me to express wealth and objectify the riches I desire, I must conceive of it in my mind
and carry this conception to its full completion of expression. If I can really conceive of an inexhaustible supply existing here and now as universal substance in the ethers then surely there must be a way by which I can make that supply manifest. If you can meditate on this and make it the truth that your mind lives by, then you’ve arrived at the place where it’s merely a matter of time following natural order before your desire is objectified. Launching this new though as your truth would require you to: ✓ Establish a great conviction and belief in the principle of life and your personal relation to it. ✓ Stay on the positive side of your desired state and maintain that position long enough for your goal to finish its natural growth process. ✓ Recognize the presence of the All-originating life principle that gives life to everything including yourself and offer praise for all the good your have no matter how little. ✓Increase your faith and understanding of the creative process within you because your intellect or objective mind can then have a better standing ground to trust and work with the invisible higher law that real faith demands.
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✓Carry out the inspired action that must follow. Riches will flow into your life based on your alignment and true understanding of the great life principle because it is the only real source but don’t be fooled into asking for spirit to give you money. Money is the final material form of a spiritual idea. Instead it is the idea of substance that you’ll receive in response to your demands that should be your main focus. If you bring yourself into proper alignment and receive your rich substance then your flow will never run dry no matter what happens in the material domain. You’ll always be able to access your supply because you’ll be tuned into the land of unlimited supply. The detailed steps of how you will move from where you are now into greater wealth must not be of your concern as your objective mind doesn’t have the means to know all that and isn’t even expected to. The only thing you must have is the right belief and higher understanding which can only come through proper knowledge, confirming that you are the source of your riches and that you have access to an unlimited supply. One thing I must bring to your attention here that many tend to miss is the idea of staying on the positive side of your desire. Realize that if you are truly working with the great law and have your starting point in spirit then you need to move your attention from the realm of the relative where secondary causes and conditions dwell into the realm of the absolute where only primary Cause is to be found. This might require an entirely new discussion should you wish to gain greater clarity but for the sake of this particular subject, I will content myself by stating that it is of the essence that you learn to distinguish between the absolute and the relative. Tying your desire for wealth in the conditioned world of secondary causation can’t give you enough power to produce and sustain a thriving, secure lifestyle because all conditions whether
positive or negative aren’t the real cause of any manifestation. So when I refer to you being on the positive side of your desired state, I mean being in tune with your ideal from the realm of the absolute which is always positive because it is life in itself and life can never be anything but affirmative. As you place yourself more in alignment with this understanding and establish this belief within you then feeling and being rich will become as natural to you as breathing and you’ll never get intimidated, threatened or fearful of any outside conditions because inwardly you’ll have set your starting point in the true source of all life. In essence, acquiring this belief is the only challenge that stands in most people’s way and since spirit is intelligent and law based, it cannot be mocked, deceived or lied to. Without the right belief, you still won’t have an easy time attracting the riches you want – and that has been my biggest lesson in recreating my destiny. So if you struggle with deeply believing that you are worthy or that your riches aren’t dependent on something that is external to you – then healing that and rising to a new belief system is all that it takes for you to become rich - everything else is secondary.
Now it’s your turn to take what we’ve shared so far and start putting it to work. You deserve to have a wealthy and thriving lifestyle. As we said before, your thoughts move your world. But often we can’t figure out what kind of thoughts dominate our daily living because they are so intimately connected to us. So do a quick selfanalysis to ensure that your state of wealth will no longer feel out of reach for you. With a little mental workout, you ought to be manifesting wealth more effortlessly doing exactly what you’re doing now but with far less physical strain and exertion.
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Take a few moments and see your frame of mind relative to wealth and abundance. Take note of how many “yes” answers you’ve gotten, as that will be a sure signal of what action steps you need to take to improve the quality of your life and increase wealth.
I agree with most of what was said, but I still feel like something is holding me back and keeping away my wealth. Yes No Maybe
I have a hard time consistently thinking thoughts and having feelings of abundance and plenty Yes No I’m not even sure what I’m thinking as I run through my daily living.
I have a hard time truly believing and connecting with the fact that I am rich already. Yes No At times I do but I’m not completely there
I feel that money comes in exact proportion to the physical action taken. Yes No Maybe
I believe in this statement: The invisible universal substance is plastic to my abundant thought and I am rich in mind and manifestation. Yes, Absolutely! Nope, not at all! I would like to fully believe in it and I intellectually get it but still a tiny part of has doubts.
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NEW THOUGHT PARENTING 5 Little ways to boost your child’s enthusiasm for homework & study
As children of the technology age, our little treasures certainly have their work cut out for them and remaining true to their unique personalities as well as keeping their priorities in check can be quite a challenge with all the distractions we have today. Every other day my daughter tries to sell me into buying yet another game on the iTunes store, buy another app or get something new that all the kids in her class have. Who can blame them, have you seen all the hype that goes into the marketing of these toys and games? I am shocked to see how many young men and women today make a living out of playing video games. So clearly the list of fun technological things to do at home for children is growing every day, which means that downtime, and especially study time feels more like a punishment. I have many parents asking me tips around this particular topic so this month I am including something short that might help you and your little ones should you find yourself in a similar situation. First things first: Your child is an individual! Never forget that please. He/she might be young in human experience but nonetheless they are just like you – an individualized spirit here for a unique and divine purpose. Please pay attention to the energy in your relationship because if you want to create a strong bond with them that outlasts all the phases of growing up, it must become a relationship that is based on truth, love, loyalty and respect. But here let me bring to your attention that most children respect their parents out of fear not love and this will lead to a rebellious break out sooner or later. I know you don’t want that to happen with your child so cultivate respect out of love and not fear. It will save you many arguments, lies, pain and anguish and actually help keep them out of trouble. With that said, here are the 5 little ways you can improve the quality of your child’s life as a new-thought parent, when it comes to homework and studying.
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#1. Approach your child as an individualized spirit in need of right guidance to successfully navigate the journey of life: This means that you’ll always be offering advice, suggestions and guidance with a positive vibration that will naturally demand respect. Believe it or not, all children want to make their parents proud and I really do mean all children – no exceptions. Here’s the thing though, they often feel like parents are more interested in tedious, boring stuff than fun exciting things. Many children feel as though their parents don’t respect them and that they don’t understand how they feel or what they want. And since they will carry around what other children or even teachers say regarding parents and education, it’s going to be hard for you to get through to your child and make them study instead of playing video games, watching television or hanging out with friends, if they don’t feel like you really get them or support their opinion. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible! I’ve had a lot of mothers tell me their child never touches homework unless and until the mother shouts and dramatically forces the child to do so. And she’s stuck there watching the child till it gets done otherwise it’s going to be drama in school with the teacher all over again. Now this is very distressing for everyone concerned and my heart goes out to you if your child is out-picturing such behavior but I must warn you, it can only get worse as they grow if you don’t do something about it now. Forcing them won’t cut it; punishing them won’t solve it either and certainly taking away play time or TV time will only stir up resentment and negative emotions. So please reconsider the measures you have been taking when dealing with your child because while I cannot tell you how to treat and raise your child or what kind of a parent you ought to be, I can tell you that every action you take will always bear consequences of a similar nature… something to really think about.
And this leads us right into our next little tip.
#2. Tell them why! Begin by explaining why homework is important. Enlighten them in a manner that resonates with their emotions, why studying is vital to their successful living. I mean most children have no idea why they need to study. Tell your child why and if you don’t know why, then that already tells you where they’re picking up the resistance from. Every child is different and has personal likes and dislikes but they all have one thing in common, they love to feel good and engage in things they consider fun and exciting. They love to dream and imagine a beautiful and prosperous lifestyle doing all kinds of cool stuff. And they certainly have a need to win and be the best at everything that’s seemingly cool and important to them – that’s what made it possible for them to master walking, eating, talking and a million other things in just a few years. That same power and enthusiasm to win when rightly harnessed and directed becomes a powerhouse for everything else in life especially school and education. If homework is a drilling, cumbersome idea in their mind, they won’t do it without force and that’s something you really want to help them shift.
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Remember children are way more susceptible to your energy than your words. You may think you’re covering up or successfully faking things when they’re small but really, you’re training them to grow up and be just like you!
#3. Don’t make it an either, or: Next, you want to let them know you’re on their side too and that you support their desire to have fun and enjoyment even if you don’t always agree with it. As an example, even though I don’t enjoy video games at all, my daughter has the luxury of having time to indulge in it. She doesn’t have to choose between study and Nintendo Wii; she gets to enjoy both because she knows the importance of homework and I also know the importance of her enjoying these inventions. As long as she feels that I respect her opinion and value her preferences and that I treat both equally, she happily sets out to do both with the same level of enthusiasm and positive expectation. The key point here being: Let your child feel that her needs and preferences are just as important as social responsibilities and that they complement each other.
#4. Make them feel big and empowered: Giving your child the power to choose when they will do their homework is one of the best ways of instilling a sense of personal responsibility, organization and discipline without physical enforcement. It works like a miracle when done rightly and makes your child feel really powerful. So you want to get into the habit of always having a discussion with them at the end of the school day, asking when they prefer to study and complete their assignment. Always ask open-ended questions that place your child in the role of choice maker (this is very important). It helps if they can see that you are interested but not imposing. Offering them the suggesting that getting it done first thing in the morning when the mind is totally fresh so they can have more time during the day to do what they love is a great incentive to help them see that you’re looking out for their best interest in all ways and it doesn’t make you a dictator because it’s an open discussion. Again these are ideas you simply need to grab and customize based on the relationship you have with your child. Hopefully it will free you from having to micromanage them as they study so you can also enjoy some free time.
#5. Bring back the fun and magic even in study time! Lastly, work at making study and homework fun. If you don’t know your child well enough to help them associate education with fun, then this might need a bit of work on your end. After all, your child is manifesting in your world in that particular way because you have believed them to be as they are. If you don’t like what you see, then it’s not them who require a forceful change; instead you need a mental adjustment first that reflects more of how you would like them to be. For many people, schoolwork,
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homework and education in general carry a negative impression that secretly lingers for one reason or another. As a new thought parent, you really want to ensure that’s not a hidden belief within you because if anything, I want to believe that you can now see the value of ever increasing knowledge in life. If your child is fed up of learning while still in school it really limits their ability to find truth and stay on top of their game. The only way to ensure they carry on the right mental attitude around education is for you to demonstrate it in thought, word and action. Then you must begin to expect that they will show up differently from now on…For example, you can’t keep reiterating how much your child hates homework and expect them to give you an easy time with it. You expect it and they will always raise or lower themselves to meet your expectations. That’s a huge idea and yet it sounds so simple. So if your expectation and beliefs around your child changes, then your child is bound to change to match the reality you’ve chosen. Therefore I ask, who sees homework and study as a problem or something less fun? Your child or you???
Nothing can feel as good as seeing your child happy and prospering regardless of age. So do your part because they will always manifest in harmony with your belief.
Happy parenting!
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November 2015
The Little Toolbox of Life! This month’s mental and spiritual practice is one that I’ve found works magnificently when used rightly and faithfully. It will help you get into whatever state you’re desiring to make manifest in your world and as we shared before, every result, goal or dream that you wish to realize in your world is simply a state that you must learn how to enter and consciously believe to be your own before it can fully crystalize as reality. If manifesting wealth is something you’re working on then this will help put you in perfect alignment with the creative process as well as the presence of your desired outcome. This technique can be applied on any dream no matter how big but we will specify it to reflect this month’s theme and cover topic. Keep in mind you must practice it and get your own natural way of utilizing it because it will only work best when you find the best way that your intellectual, mental and emotional understanding can effortlessly assimilate and believe in it (The trick is to make it real and natural). Attracting wealth technique: Recognize that awareness is everything. Your consciousness is the only reality, not just some aspect of it but all of it in its entirety. Consciousness is everything! And so what you want to aim at with this technique is to make conscious contact with the consciousness or awareness of wealth. Not wealth and riches as a desire but as your actual reality. You may not have in this moment any riches physically but you are powerful enough to have, be and feel completely rich and surrounded with wealth. That is what will in turn produce the corresponding conditions. Conditions can never produce the awareness and feeling of being rich, that’s creating success in reverse and only ends in disappointment and burden. The proper order is one of seeking the consciousness first and then allowing the riches to flow into your experience through whatever action. Therefore let me simplify for you in words the technique I want you to apply and practice till it feels complete. In our live lectures we dig deeper into this technique this month and should you be joining us, you’ll have the opportunity to expand more on it to your great benefit. Step one: Get yourself into a most relaxed state. It must be a loving, quiet and relaxed state (I will offer live examples during the lectures.) Step two: Place yourself in a high mood, feeling yourself completely in love with that moment and the ideal you wish to objectify. So with wealth, bring to the screen of your mind a scene or image of yourself already living in wealth and riches. Think to yourself, wouldn’t it be nice if I had/was ….X (complete that statement with the desired image that would mean you have manifested the riches you want.) Step three: See yourself acting in this movie playing in your mind and using your preferred rhythmic breathing. Work your emotions up and see, hear, smell or connect with this psychic act emotionally until you feel the excitement rising within you. If you want to see your friends congratulating you or celebrating with you, do so and keep working yourself up into a heated momentum until you feel yourself exploding within having reached your climax. Once the act is complete and you feel it in your bones that something real has just been produced within you, let it go at that and follow the impulse that ensues without strain or force because what has been impressed in consciousness if sustained must be expressed in form.
Bold Beautiful Blissful U
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November 2015
Give yourself the freedom to enjoy a thriving and fulfilling lifestyle today. Learn what it takes to be rich by developing the right mindset and discovering the truth that guarantees your prosperity and makes it long lasting and satisfying… Everyone and everything has its right season to shine and I believe now is your season to make manifest an awesome lifestyle… What will you choose to attract today?
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