s we ponder the coming new year, thinking about the past helps frame our future. The year 5784 was filled with heartache and sorrow which will be seared into our Jewish heritage. The Jewish people before us showed respect and reverence to the past but have always looked to the future with optimism and hope. The Jewish proverb 24:16 that says “The righteous fall down seven times and get up” leads us to believe we must continue to pursue our future goals even though we may run into impasses along the way.
The theme of resilience is also in the Jewish prayer, “I lift up my eyes unto the mountains, from where does my help come? My help comes from the Holy One, Creator of heaven and earth.”
As we look to the new year, our strength will come from imagining and determining our goals and trying different ways to achieve them. Our inner strength gives us the ability to try and try again if we know our goals are worth the effort.
Tragedy and misfortune befall us all. As I have learned, our darkest hours are followed by light which leads to better and brighter days. The tragic day of Oct. 7, 2023 and antisemitism that has raised its ugly head throughout the world can only be fought with all of our strengths: education, unity of our people and standing our ground for right and wrong.
Secure Community Network is the official safety and security organization of the Jewish community that is working to educate and secure Jewish agencies across North America. Secure Community Network can also help Jewish agencies write and secure state and federal security grants that are available. Secure Community Network has just announced our Regional Security Advisor, John Murtaugh, who will work with Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, Jewish Federation of Lee
& Charlotte Counties, and Jewish Federation of Pinellas & Pasco Counties.
By showing our strength as undivided people, our unity will make it more difficult for antisemitism to spread. By being part of a community, we show the greater public that Jews share their common interest, as well as gain strength from one another. We too want to share a better world and join hands to lead the way forward.
Together as one, we are stronger. Leading by example and differentiating right from wrong shows that we too are working to “repair the world.”
The new year of 5785 will bring new opportunities for growth and knowledge. Undoubtedly, we will have singular and multiple disappointments. We will also have new and exciting opportunities.
May we all be blessed with a healthy, happy and successful new year.
Together as one!
By Rosalee Bogo, Annual Community Campaign Chair
This time of year, many of our snowbirds return to Naples, and it is a happy time. Program attendance and program quantity increase, and the work those of us at the Federation have been doing all summer to prepare for the “best season ever” will be coming into play. Read the Federation Star and the Federation e-blast. Please RSVP for the programs promptly before they fill up. Last season we welcomed at least 1,500 people a week into the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center, and we plan for an even more active season this year.
Rosalee Bogo
This is also the time of year when we begin to turn our attention to launching the new Annual Community Campaign. This year we have chosen an especially meaningful theme, “Together as one.”
How does that apply to what being involved with the Federation means?
Together as one, we uplift Israel and Ukraine by offering our unwavering support.
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Together as one, we take a stand against the rising tide of antisemitism.
Together as one, we pledge to ensure the safety of Jewish communities worldwide.
Here at Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, we join the Federations of the world to fulfill the goals set to take care of the Jewish people — wherever they are and in whatever way is needed. We are a united force fueled by the strength of our rich history, culture and traditions. We are together as one It is our responsibility to support, uplift and protect each other to ensure that every member of our community feels connected and valued within our community and across the globe.
Last year’s record- and goal-breaking campaign was a wonderful achievement for all of us in the Greater Naples area. It means we will be able to increase our support and fulfill the many requests we get. We can feel pride that our
community, together as one, has accomplished so much.
We will kick off our 2025 Annual Community Campaign on Dec. 11. Our speaker is Secure Community Network’s National Director/CEO Michael Masters. We will learn how the Jewish world is combating antisemitism and how our partners are working together to keep
us safe. Through our combined efforts and our generous caring community, we can ensure Jewish life for future generations both locally and around the world. Together as one, we stand united — we are unstoppable.
I look forward to seeing you around the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. Welcome home.
For our Federation, we have a wonderful building to share new experiences. We will have a wonderful opportunity to thank and congratulate our current CEO and President Jeffrey Feld, who is retiring, for the wonderful accomplishments he has achieved over the past ten years. And in the future, we will have an opportunity to meet and greet our incoming CEO and President Nammie Ichilov.
All of this involves the evolution of time and patience. 5784 leads us to our future … 5785.
L’Shana Tovah Tikatevu!
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Board Chair: Nathaniel Ritter
Vice Chairs: Robin Mintz, Marc Saperstein, Arlene Sobol
Secretary: Rosalee Bogo
Treasurer: Steve Strome
Immediate Past Chair: Jane Schiff
Board of Directors
Felicia Anchor, Frank Baum, Shelly Bell, Myra Benedikt, Mark Blaskey, Patti Boochever, Harvey Cohen, Marcia Cohodes, Max Deifik, Paula Filler, Cheryl Ginsburg, Mia Hyatt, Steve Iser, Larry Israelite, Tammy Katz, Elliot Lerner, Joel Pittelman, Michael Rubenstein, Anne Schuchman, Michael Sobol, Jay Weiss, Beth Wolff,
Board Member Emeritus: Alvin Becker, Emerita, Phyllis Seaman
Past Board Chairs
Gerald Flagel, Dr. William Ettinger, Ann Jacobson (z’’l), Sheldon Starman, Bobbie Katz, Rosalee Bogo, Judge Norman Krivosha (z’’l), Alvin Becker, Jane Schiff
Synagogue Representatives
Stan Alliker, Cantor Donna Azu, Rabbi Ariel Boxman, Rabbi Ammos Chorny, Joshua Garfield, Rabbi Mendel Gordon, Rabbi Mendy Greenberg, Rabbi Mark Gross, Joseph Henson, Rabbi Howard Herman, Rabbi Adam Miller, Charles Flum, Rabbi James Perman, Dr. Arthur Seigel, Rabbi Fishel Zaklos Staff
Jeffrey Feld: Federation President & CEO
Eduardo Avila: Campaign Associate
Reneé Bialek: Program Director
Michelle Cunningham: Receptionist
Courtney DeVault: Accounting Manager
Alicia Feldman: Development Director Amber Ferren: PJ Library Coordinator
Communications Manager
Manny Munoz: Assistant Facility Manager
Pat Pastorius: Facility Manager
Linda Sherman: Receptionist
Federation's mission is to enhance and enrich the quality of Jewish life by recognizing and supporting the charitable, educational, humanitarian and social service needs of the Jewish community locally, nationally, overseas and in the state of Israel.
Programs include:
• Annual Community Campaign
• Celebrate Israel
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• Israel and Overseas Committee
• Israel Scouts
• Jewish Book Festival
• Jewish Community Relations Council
• Jewish Young Professionals
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• Men’s Cultural Alliance
• PJ Library
• Publication of Federation Star and Connections magazine
• Singles Social Group
• Women’s Cultural Alliance
• Women in Philanthropy
• Youth Activities Committee –sponsoring youth education and scholarships for Jewish Summer Camp and Israel Experiences
Jewish Federations of North America trip to Berlin and Israel
By Paula Filler, JFNA National Women in Philanthropy Board Member
Irecently had the opportunity to participate in a Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) trip to Germany and Israel. Approximately fifty lay and professional Federation leaders participated, representing both large and small Jewish Federation communities. The purpose of this trip was to understand the impact of our philanthropic efforts to support our Jewish people and assess what else is needed. This is the first article to share learnings from this mission.
As we have all been consumed with worry for Israelis, we must not forget the Ukrainians who lost everything when Russia invaded and destroyed their homes and villages. Germany accepted 1,200,000 Ukrainian refugees, and 30,000 of these Ukrainian refugees are Jewish. The refugees are mothers, children and the elderly. They arrived in Germany with almost nothing. They did not speak German and left their husbands and fathers behind to fight the Russians. The children
and teens we met still have no idea if they will ever be able to return home, if their towns still exist, or if they will ever see their fathers again. Some children have already learned that their fathers have died or have been severely wounded.
Through our support of Jewish Federations of North America and our partners at JDC and The Jewish Agency for Israel we have been able to help our Jewish refugees survive this trauma. Refugees have also been separated from their friends and neighbors as they had to accept housing anywhere Germany could temporarily resettle them, thus compounding their social isolation trauma. Our funding of mental health counseling and social programming combats depression and isolation.
The Jewish Agency for Israel created a program called Shalom Ukraine. This program was created after an attack on Kyiv in which 40 children died and 150 children were injured. Our mission had the joy of watching and speaking directly
with refugee children and teens who are part of a Shalom Ukraine dance troupe program. This program gave these kids an opportunity to be with other Jewish kids who share their language and refugee status — an opportunity to make friends and recognize their own identities.
Our Jewish Federation partner, The Jewish Agency for Israel, also created summer camps and eight community centers with Jewish cultural content in five different countries, including Germany, to serve Ukrainian refugee children. This model has been successful in drawing kids out of depression, and therefore has been duplicated throughout Europe. Shalom Ukraine has created programs for children, teens and their parents who are deprived of their homes, family, friends and dignity. The educational classes have improved their literacy and given these refugees a chance to move forward and live. It should be noted that there is some “Jewish” content in each of the programs, and these programs are offered to the Ukrainian refugees whether they are Jewish or not.
Paula Filler
John Murtaugh hired as Florida’s west coast security advisor
Courtesy of Secure Community Network
The Secure Community Network (SCN), the official safety and security organization for the Jewish community in North America, announced the hiring of John Murtagh as the Regional Security Advisor for Florida’s west coast. Murtagh will serve as the official security liaison for Jewish Federation of Florida’s Gulf Coast, Jewish Federation of Lee & Charlotte Counties, and Jewish Federation of Greater Naples.
“We are fortunate to have John Murtagh join SCN as the Regional Security Advisor for Florida’s west coast. With over two decades of service with the NYPD, including more than half of that time as a detective in the Intelligence Bureau, along with his field experience with the Marine Corps Reserve and the Navy Reserve, John will be a tremendous asset to our efforts to protect the Jewish communities in this area. His expertise will strengthen our ability to reinforce Florida's west coast’s safety, security and resiliency,” said SCN National Director and CEO Michael Masters.
In this role, Murtagh will report to Alan Poland, SCN’s Florida Regional Security Director, and oversee the safety and security of approximately 56,000 Jewish residents and more than 30 distinct facilities across these federation domains, including St. Petersburg, Clearwater, Naples, Marco Island, Fort Myers, Punta Gorda, Port Charlotte, Cape Coral and Estero. Additionally, he will administer each federation’s community security programs, providing consultations, building and organizational
assessments, training and drills, threat mitigation for Jewish organizations, and response coordination for critical incidents.
Prior to joining SCN, Murtagh served 23 years with the New York City Police Department (NYPD), 13 of which were spent as a detective in the Intelligence Bureau. Additionally, Murtagh served 12 years in both the United States Marine Corps Reserve and the Navy Reserve. In 2006, he deployed overseas to Iraq, supporting intelligence collection operations with the Office of Naval Intelligence.
“I am honored to join SCN and to serve the Jewish communities along Florida’s west coast,” said Murtagh, SCN’s Florida West Coast Regional Security Advisor.
“This region is home to vibrant and deeply rooted Jewish communities, and I am committed to helping reinforce their safety and security as we continue to build strong community resilience. I look forward to working with local partners and law enforcement to ensure our communities are well equipped to manage an evolving threat landscape, always with an eye toward preparedness, communication and best practice safety protocols.”
Murtagh holds a Bachelor of Arts in Criminal Justice from St. John’s University and a Master of Public Administration from Marist College. He is currently pursuing a Doctorate of Professional Studies in
Homeland Security from St. John’s University and holds a Certified Protection Professional certification from ASIS International.
“John Murtagh brings a wealth of experience which will undoubtedly elevate our security efforts and safety culture. We look forward to benefiting from his knowledge and leadership as we continue to build a safer and stronger community,” said Maxine Kaufman, Executive Director of the Jewish Federation of Florida’s Gulf Coast.
“John Murtagh is familiar with our community and has the perfect background for this role, and we look forward to working with him and introducing him to the Jewish organizations he will advise in Lee and Charlotte Counties,” said Debbie Sanford, Executive Director of the Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties.
“We are very excited that John Murtagh is becoming our Regional Security Advisor and look forward to John’s ability to improve all of the security for our Federation and our Jewish community,” said Jeffrey Feld, President & CEO of the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples.
This hiring was made possible by SCN, local donors, community partners and national donors through the LiveSecure campaign. The Jewish Federations of North America’s $130 million LiveSecure campaign is the largest philanthropic initiative in history to establish a standards-based,
collective security framework for every Jewish community across North America. Jewish Federation of Florida’s Gulf Coast, Jewish Federation of Lee and Charlotte Counties, and Jewish Federation of Greater Naples are part of a growing network of Jewish Federations and communities that have partnered with SCN to launch or build upon existing community-wide security programs designed around an “all threats, all hazards” approach to preparedness, safety, security and resiliency. Each program is connected to SCN’s national operations, providing direct access to SCN’s National Jewish Security Operations Command Center and Duty Desk, as well as best practice security resources and support related to policies, procedures, physical security, facility assessments, training and incident response.
About SCN
A 501(c)(3) nonprofit, SCN is the official safety and security organization of the Jewish community in North America. Founded in 2004 under the auspices of The Jewish Federations of North America and the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, SCN serves as the central organization dedicated exclusively to the safety and security of the American Jewish community, working across 146 federations, 50 partner organizations, over 300 independent communities, and other partners in the public, private, nonprofit and academic sectors. SCN is dedicated to ensuring that Jewish life and culture flourish. Learn more at securecommunitynetwork.org.
John Murtagh
Greater Naples Jewish Book Festival
By Robin Mintz, Greater Naples Jewish Book Festival Chairperson
We are excited to bring you the 2024-2025 Jewish Book Festival!
This year, in honor of our 10th anniversary, we have invited 10 outstanding authors, representing a variety of genres. Whether you are an avid reader or just enjoy a fascinating speaker, this year’s Jewish Book Festival provides something for everyone. From December through April, the Jewish Book Festival, brought to you by Jewish Federation of Greater Naples in cooperation with Jewish Book Council, will continue to be a key contributor to the cultural life of our community.
The festival would not be possible without our patrons, sponsors and, of course, you — the community members who attend these events. Your generosity and overwhelming support are a testament to our amazing community — a community that understands the value of cultural arts. Each of this season’s events will not only feature a nationally renowned author and a moderator chosen from our local community but will also provide an occasion to socialize and enjoy a little nosh.
Our first week of patron sign-ups exceeded
last year’s. It is possible that we could sell out the season. As you read the Jewish Book Festival spread in the Federation Star (on pages 12-13), you will find the schedule of events, book overviews, registration and patron information. We hope you will consider being a part of this year’s “Ten for 10” festival.
The 2024-2025 Jewish Book Festival will kick off on Monday, Dec. 9 at 7 p.m. with author Adam Nimoy, son of Leonard Nimoy (aka Star Trek’s character, Spock), discussing his book, “The Most Human: Reconciling with My Father, Lenard Nimoy” (sponsored exclusively by Ginsberg Eye Ophthalmology). For questions or general information, please contact Reneé Bialek at rbialek@jewishnaples.org or visit www.JewishBook Festival.org.
Kristallnacht 2024
By Ginny Segaloff, CJD Kristallnacht Program Chair
The purpose of Catholic-Jewish Dialogue of Collier County's annual Kristallnacht Commemoration is to remember the lives lost in one of the darkest periods in the history of mankind. Our commemoration also provides a “teaching moment” to the events that precipitated this tragedy and affects our current events. Our hope is that by learning the lessons of this history, we are not doomed to repeat it.
This year’s speaker is John Koenigsberg. Koenigsberg’s story is a beautiful and
compelling account of those who stood up to do the “right thing” despite the fear of great personal danger. Koenigsberg will recount his story of survival as a child of five-and-a-half years old who was sheltered by the Snijcker family in Holland from 1943 to 1945. Join us on Sunday, Nov. 17 at 2:30 p.m. Visit www.jewishnaples.org to register for the Kristallnacht Commemoration Program so we can plan accordingly.
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t’s easy to quickly find information about programs being offered by Jewish Federation of Greater Naples. Just use the QR code that accompanies this article to access everything you might want to know about programs being offered at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center, such as: the We Remember Community Memorial, oil on canvas art classes, the “Is Happiness OverRated?” discussion, the “Masters of Betrayal” book discussion, Beading for Betterment, the “Jewish Identity, Race, & Antisemitism in U.S. Pop Culture” presentation, and the “Growing Up Socialist” discussion just to name a few. We have the Israel Speaker Series and the Jewish Book Festival starting soon too! This QR code will take you directly to the ‘programs & events’ webpage. All you need to do is open your camera app,
point directly at the QR code and click on the ‘qrco.de’ button. Once you are on the landing page, you will see three featured events, followed by series of events (like the Elliott Katz Lectures, Jewish Book Festival, Sell your Gold, Women Self Defense classes, and more), as well as a few more upcoming events listed by dates.
Save these communitywide program dates
• Monday, Oct. 7, We Remember at 7 p.m.
• Sunday, Nov. 17, Kristallnacht Commemoration program at 2:30 p.m.
• Thursday, Dec. 26, Chanukah Celebration at Mercato from 5 to 6 p.m.
Please make sure to read our weekly Monday e-blast to view new programs and click on the registration links for all the above programs and for all the new programs that are being added. Please register for all events at www.jewishnaples.org.
Dates and times of upcoming events are announced on our website homepage. If you aren’t receiving our weekly Monday e-blast, please email me at rbialek@jewishnaples.org.
Would you like some fast easy cash?
From Gold 2 Green will buy your unwanted jewelry at November event
By Reneé Bialek, Program Director
Do you have gold, platinum, silver or diamond jewelry that you no longer want or need? Do you have jewelry that is outdated, ugly, broken, mismatched or the wrong color? You can immediately turn it into useful green cash, which is always the right color!
class rings, key chains, lockets, brooches, charms, gold and silver coins, silverware, and much more.
Bring your gold and the items you wish to sell to Jewish Federation of Greater Naples during either event listed below:
• Wednesday, Nov. 20, 11 a.m.-4:30 p.m.
Just bring in all your unwanted jewelry. From Gold 2 Green will buy everything in any condition including precious metals and gemstones. Any color or karat of gold, platinum or silver — diamonds too — for cash right on the spot.
From Gold 2 Green will buy chains, bracelets, men’s jewelry, pins, necklaces, earrings, ankle bracelets, cuff links, pendants, money clips, platinum rings,
• Thursday, Nov. 21, 11 a.m.-4:30 p.m.
Please register for the exact date and time at www.jewishnaples.org or directly at https://jfgn.regfox.com/ sell-gold-and-silver.
In addition to top prices paid out to the members, Jewish Federation of Greater Naples will receive an additional generous percentage of the proceeds.
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Scott & Cathy Silver
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Sondra & Thomas Greer
Nancy & Jack Wiadro
Susan & Nat Ritter
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Shanah Tovah!
OJeffrey Feld Federation President/ CEO
nce again, we approach the High Holy Day timeframe. We do look forward to a new year, but we are compelled to reflect on the year that is coming to an end. We hope and pray for a good year to come. This past year has been cast in the shadow of the Hamas attack on Israel on Oct. 7, 2023. It was the most tragic and devastating day
in the Jewish world since the Holocaust. Even in light of such a terrible time, we must always find a way to look for light, to go forward. It is a challenge to be positive, but we are required to find a way to do so.
As a Jewish community, we find ways to come together, to work together, to build together, in order to provide for current and future generations. Although we have faced great adversity, the Jewish community perseveres!
On behalf of my wife, Susan, and me, please accept our best wishes for you and all those dear to you for a happy, healthy, sweet, secure and peaceful Shanah Tovah in 5785!
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Grandparents and parents with disabled children
By Meredith Conte
The stress levels only rise for parents of special needs children. The U.S. Census Bureau estimates nearly 4.5% of children under 18 have some type of disability, and in 2023, the Center for Disease Control shared that 1 in 36 children in the U.S. are diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) — up from 1 in 150 in the year 2000. Numbers like these continue to rise thanks to new diagnostic tools, increased awareness and changes in reporting.
The role of grandparents in families with special needs children cannot be underestimated.
As a parent of children with special needs, I can’t underscore enough how valuable it is for grandparents to be involved. While there will always be some level of an “I can do it myself” mindset, the truth is that today’s parents can’t do it all. It’s just not feasible given current societal norms and expectations.
“Grandparents often provide a sense of security and unconditional love.
Their presence can allow their grandchildren to feel emotionally grounded, especially during challenging times. Grandparents play a pivotal role and contribute significantly to the social and emotional growth of their grandchildren,” shares Susan Abrams, speech pathologist of The Social Coach.
As a grandparent, if you are unsure of how to be engaged, just ask. Consider asking your adult children, “What might be the best way to support you?” or “Is there anything I can do that won’t make the situation worse?” Allow your children the time and space to consider your questions and come back to you with thoughtful answers. Let’s come together to discuss emotional support, financial support, and social and recreational involvement.
Join us at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center on Tuesday, Nov. 19 at 10 a.m. Please register for this free program at www.jewish naples.org.
Spin me right ‘round
The Matzah Ball 2024
By Michael Rubenstein, Matzah Ball Chair
You spin me right ’round baby right round, like a dreidel baby ’round ’round right ’round. Chanukah is quickly approaching, and that means the 2024 Matzah Ball is almost here! Put on your dancing shoes and best ’80s dance party/holiday attire, and join us for the most gnarly, rad and totally tubular party of the year — the 3rd Annual Jewish Federation of Greater Naples Matzah Ball!
Michael Rubenstein
The Matzah Ball is an annual party to bring people together. It is for those who are ages 55 and under, who are Jewish singles, couples or anyone else who supports Judaism and the Jewish faith. This year, the Matzah Ball will take place on
Dec. 7, beginning at 7 p.m. at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. Attendees will eat, drink and dance the night away surrounded by friends and '80s décor. This year’s Matzah Ball will feature food from Sage Events & Catering and music by the one and only DJ Unek.
Tickets are now live and available! Tickets are on sale for $150 per person; however, we offer an “early bird special!” If you buy your tickets on or before Oct. 31, the price is $125 per person! That is nearly a 20% discount, so be sure to get your tickets ASAP. Sponsorships are also available! This year’s presenting sponsor will be The
Donate at afmda.org/give or call 866.632.2763.
Please patronize our advertisers and tell them you saw their ad in the
Rubenstein Family! Contact Campaign Associate Eduardo Avila at eavila@ jewishnaples.org for information on available sponsorships at the following levels.
• $2,000 - Latke Sponsor Level
n 4 complimentary tickets to the Matzah Ball ($600 value)
n Advertisement in the Federation Star
n Name recognition at event and on marketing materials
• $1,000 - Dreidel Sponsor Level
n 2 complimentary tickets to the Matzah Ball ($300 value)
n Advertisement in the Federation Star
n Name recognition at event and on marketing materials
• $500 - Gelt Sponsor Level
n 2 complimentary tickets to the Matzah Ball ($300 value)
n Name recognition at event and on marketing materials
Thank you to all the committee members (aka “Matzah Ballers”) for all their time and work without which the party would not be a success: Daryl Berg, Marianna Clark, Max Deifik, Alicia Feldman, Mia Hyatt, Fabiana Kivilevic, Pam Lundborg, Julie Smith, Susan Solomon and Jennifer Suden.
Dust off your boomboxes and cassette tapes! Bust out your Rubix cubes and your best Miami Vice-style neon gear and get ready to spin your baby right 'round at the 2024 Matzah Ball!
The Most Human
by Adam Nimoy
Monday, December 9, 2024
7:00 PM • $25
Peek behind the curtain at a childhood growing up with an entertainment icon to discover how the son of Spock learned to navigate his tumultuous relationship with his father — from Shabbat dinners to basement AA meetings — and how he was finally able to reconcile with his father as well as with himself.
Exclusively Sponsored by Ginsberg Eye
The Art of Diplomacy
by Stuart E. Eizenstat
Friday, January 10, 2025 1:00 PM • $25
Based on interviews with more than 60 key figures in American diplomacy, former U.S. Ambassador to the European Union and negotiator Stuart E. Eizenstat’s book covers every major contemporary international agreement, from the treaty to end the Vietnam war to the Kyoto Protocols and the Iranian Nuclear Accord.
The Goddess of Warsaw
by Lisa Barr
Tuesday, January 21, 2025 1:00 PM • $25
A New York Times bestselling author, Lisa Barr’s historical thriller is an enthralling tale of a legendary Hollywood screen goddess with a dark secret about her life in the Warsaw Ghetto. When threatened by someone from her past, she puts her skills into play.
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When
Women Ran Fifth Avenue
by Julie Satow
Wednesday, January 29, 2025 1:00 PM • $25
A glittering portrait of the golden age of American department stores and of three visionary women who took great risks to lead them. Rich with personal drama and trade secrets, Satow’s New York Times bestseller captures the department store in all its glitz, decadence and fun.
Exclusively Sponsored by Women's Cultural Alliance
The Sequel
by Jean Hanff Korelitz
Thursday, February 13, 2025 1:00 PM • $25
Anna Williams-Bonner has laid to rest the anonymous accusations of plagiarism that tormented her novelist husband and is now living the contented life of a literary widow. But again, a work of fiction intercedes. Korelitz, New York Times best-selling author of "The Plot," gives us an antihero to root for while satirizing the world of publishing in this fun, yet suspenseful, read.
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Food, Hope & Resilience
by June Hersh
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
10:30 AM • $25
This vital collection features more than 100 stories and 125 recipes gathered from interviews with Holocaust survivors. Their stories are uplifting and life-affirming, and their recipes are as diverse as the survivor community. From semolina gnocchi to arroz con pollo, you will discover the full breadth of global Jewish food.
Phyllis Barolsky
Emily Berkowitz
Harriet Berneman
Cipora Brown
Terri David
Barbara Druckman
Spencer Forman
Louise Forman
Robert Gage
Patricia Gage
Susan Garelick
Nancy Garfinkel
Priscilla Gerber
The Boy with the Star Tattoo
by Talia Carner
Monday, March 10, 2025
3:30 PM • $25
An epic historical novel of ingenuity and courage, of love and loss, by master storyteller Talia Carner. This rich tale spans post-war France when Israeli agents roamed the countryside to rescue hidden Jewish orphans – to the 1969 daring escape of the Israeli boats of Cherbourg in Normandy.
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Barbara Girard
Jan Goldman
Carole Greene
Sherry Greenfield
Ronna Hain
Carol Hirsch
Susan Horowitz
Bobbie Katz
Helene Koenig
Deborah Kohler
Toby Kosloff
Debbie Laites
Judi Lazan
Lynn Lazar
Dale Lazar
Marci Margolis
Frederick Osgood
Marla Osgood
Jeani Park
Ben Post
Mae Riefberg
Barbara Ross
Susan Schaffer
Jane Schiff
The Money Kings
by Daniel Schulman
Friday, March 21, 2025
1:00 PM • $25
The incredible saga of America’s great Jewish banking families—among them, the Lehmans, the Sachs, and the Goldmans. Rich in both historical detail and as a character study, Schulman chronicles the fascinating details of how these determined men balanced their identities as Jews, bankers, Germans and Americans to make their marks and their fortunes on Wall Street.
We Must Not Think of Ourselves
by Lauren Grodstein
Thursday, March 27, 2025
10:30 AM • $25
In this heart-wrenching story of defiance, prisoner Adam Paskow, a middle-aged nonobservant professor, takes testimonies to keep the stories of the Warsaw Ghetto's residents alive. Grodstein reveals that love may be found even in the starkest of situations. [Inspired by the testimony-gathering project with the code name Oneg Shabbat.]
The Joy of Costco
by David & Susan Schwartz
Wednesday, April 2, 2025
1:00 PM • $25
David & Susan Schwartz are two of Costco's biggest fans. Since 2016, they have visited more than 225 of Costco's 850+ warehouses in the US and in 13 countries. Topics from Cashews and Chicken to Hot Dogs and Hawaii are covered in a whimsical A to Z format. Fun Fact: Costco sells more than half of the world's cashews.
Anne Schnesel
Harriet Schweitzer
Mark Shiffman
Cathy Silver
Gail Smith
Carol Smoler
Arlene Sobol
Elaine Soffer
Susan Sokolov
Estelle Tauch
Fritzi Thorner
Heidi Thorner
Joyce Toub
Allison Tucker
Linda Wainick
Jay Weintraub
Laurie Weiss
Leona Wreschner
Leslie Aderson
Nancy Armocida
Diane Aronson
Lea Bendes
Rose Bernstein
Jill Binder
Jamie Blatter
Peggy Brown
Deena Caplan
Jeanie Charness
Nan Ciralsky
Diane Clarke
Marilyn Davidson
Gayle Dorio
Marty Dorio
Larry DuKatz
Linda DuKatz
Janett Edelberg
Sally Ann Endleman
Leslie Feldman
Rosetta Felzer
Ken Getnick
Molly Getnick
Heidi Gilbert
Howard Gilbert
Hannah Goodman
Rochelle Goodman
Barrie Graham
Arlene Griff
Byrl Hendler
Sarah Hendler
Linda Hirsch
Ronna Hochman
Judy Kargher
Jackie Kerlek
Charlene Kerner
Susan Koeppel
Karen Kolodny
Sayde Ladov
Harold Lauber
Lisa Lauber
Barb Lefkowitz
Arlene Levin
Hilda Levine
Debbie Lurie
Elaine Marcus
Ida Margolis
Sheila Mesulam
Linda Miller
Lynn Miller
Alys (Elyse) Morande
Marsha Moranz
Darlene Muller
Mindy Nadell
Helene Naimon
Carol Orloff
Barbara Ostrolenk
Joel Pittelman
Terri Polacheck
Sue Reiver
Ellen Rodwick
William Rodwick
Midge Rozen
Linda Russell
Lanie Samuels
Laurie Sandler
Sandra Sanfilippo
Dorothy Schwebel
Jane Shaw
Ricki Shine
Julie Shlensky
Michael Shlensky
Iris Shur
Linda Simon
Ruth Smon
Harold Stein
Jennie Stein
Barbara Suden
Ann Swartz
Joan Van Berg
Ann Varsano
Joan Vazakas
Lisa Vogel
Sara Waldstein
Leslie Wasserman
Sydelle Weinberger
Suellen Weiner
Jack Wiadro
Nancy Wiadro
Susan Yale
Steven Yussen
Suzann Yussen
Cathy Zacks
Joni Zalasky
TOVAH
Is happiness overrated?
Would you settle for peace and calm?
By Dr. Linda Rosen
PPlease join me for a free presentation about happiness and the information provided below on Wednesday, Oct. 9 from 2 to 3 p.m. A Q&A discussion, where you can put my experience as a psychologist to work, will follow my presentation. Register at https://jfgn.regfox. com/is-happiness-over-rated.
There is an underlying pressure in our society for everyone to be happy all the time. Social media adds to this myth that everyone should be happy all the time — showing people at their best, having a great time, being popular with everyone, always smiling, etc. So, is there an alternative or addition to “happiness?”
We will explore the elements of good health, contentment and peace. According to the documentary series “Live to 100: Secrets of the Blue Zones,” there are typical life patterns and attitudes that are associated with longevity to age 80 and even up to 100 — as well as “old age hot spots” in places such as Sardinia, Italy; Ikaria, Greece; and Loma Linda, California.
It is more therapeutic to find a way to lead a purposeful and healthy life, enjoy the moment, find good coping strategies for life’s challenges and find tools and skill sets to navigate life’s journey.
This seminar will provide information on tools and skills that will help you focus on peace and contentment:
• Mindfulness
• Deep breathing to stay calm
• How to not take things personally
• How to navigate difficult social situations
• Creating three things that would make you feel content
• Acceptance — life on its own terms.
• Getting the most out of an experience
• Giving yourself credit — a pat on the back
• How to really listen — art and skill
• Leading a purposeful life — what is it you would like to do now?
• Finding who you are now — what you have to offer/give to others
• Expanding the arts in your life — musical instrument, art — playing or appreciation
• Making healthy choices in friends, food and fun
• Role of exercise in your life — are you walking? Keep moving!
• Removing excess, addiction and obsessions — moderation in all things.
• Mind control — how to redirect your mind to positive thinking.
• Staying steady, focused and determined — don’t give in to distractions.
• Anger — a necessary signal — is not always helpful; learn how to manage it. Remember to register for this free program today!
Men’s Cultural Alliance (MCA) creating friendship and camaraderie among its members through attending and participating in social, intellectual, athletic, trips, seminars and more activities, wishes you, your family and the Greater Jewish Community a Happy New Year.
Shanah Tovah U’metuka
Sue Paul
David Willens
Katie & Harvey Cohen
JEWISH FEDERATION
New and exciting things at Jewish Young Professionals
By Cayla Schreier, JYP Coordinator
Our Jewish Young Professionals
(JYP) Naples members prepared and hosted numerous Shabbat dinners during the month of August. All our hosts prepared delicious Shabbat dinners and did a wonderful job of welcoming the Sabbath. Thank you to Dani C., Sarah M. and Carley S. for hosting incredible Shabbat dinners this past month for our JYP Naples members.
Our members ventured to Fort Myers to attend: Paint a Portrait Tik Tok Challenge, Jewish Edition. We chose partners and then painted portraits of each other using acrylic paint on canvas. The artist did not reveal their portraits until all were completed and the reveals began. The Jewish twist was to add our partner’s favorite aspect of being Jewish. Our members chose Jewish aspects such as the Magen David, Tikkun Olam, Challah, and grape juice. It was very humorous to see people's reactions when their portraits were revealed.
Future events
Details about upcoming events will be distributed via email and the Facebook group chat. Please reach out to Reneé (rbialek@ jewishnaples.org) if you would like to be added to those group communications. We also have a Google form for members to fill out
to receive member's feedback and ideas on what type of JYP events they would like to see in the future. I look forward to seeing everyone soon!
Jewish Young Professionals of Naples wishes everyone a happy, healthy and sweet New Year 5785. We hope everyone can celebrate the new year with family and friends.
Jewish Congregation of Marco Island
May 5785 Bring Peace, Happiness and Good Health to You and Your Family Come Worship With Us
Join our High Holy Day Services Led by Rabbi Mark Gross and Cantorial Soloist Hari Jacobsen
S’LICHOT
Saturday 9/28/24, 8:30PM
EVE of ROSH HASHANAH
Wednesday 10/02/24, 7:30PM
ROSH HASHANAH, 5785
Thursday 10/03/24, 10:00AM TASHLICH
Friday 10/04/24, 11:00AM
YOM KIPPUR EVE - KOL NIDREI
Friday 10/11/24, 5:00PM Pre-Kol Nidrei Dinner
7:30PM Kol Nidrei Service
YOM KIPPUR – Day of Atonement
Saturday 10/12/24, 10:00AM Worship, includes “Yizkor” Memorial.
3:30PM Afternoon Worship and Ne’ilah
6:30PM Break-the-Fast Dinner
We invite visitors and guests to join us in live worship. The cost for guests is $200/person. Call ahead to reserve your seat: (239) 642-0800.
All are welcome to follow services through live -stream from our Congregational website: https://marcojcmi.com/online -services
It’s never too late to learn self-defense
By Reneé Bialek, Program Director
LGreat opportunity for fun and giving with Beading for Betterment
adies, you are all welcome to learn self-defense with instructor Jill Newman, owner of Naples Family Martial Arts. All the classes listed below will be offered at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. Come learn techniques and maneuvers to feel safe. Newman is a second-degree black belt who has spent the past five years teaching kids and adults of all ages how to defend themselves.
Trial class Monday, Nov. 4, 11-11:30 a.m.
Come learn the different ways to defend yourself. This trial class is free and open to 30 ladies. Newman will go over situational
awareness, basic strikes and a basic wrist grab in this class.
Register for these self-defense classes
Monday, Nov. 11, 10-10:45 a.m.
Thursday, Nov. 14, 1-1:45 p.m.
Wednesday, Nov. 20, 10-10:45 a.m.
Thursday, Nov. 21, 1-1:45 p.m.
Monday, Nov. 25, 10-10:45 a.m.
Tuesday, Nov. 26, 11-11:45 a.m.
The classes are 45 minutes and cost $20 each. You can register for one or more classes. We need a minimum of five students with 30 being the maximum number of students per class. You will receive individual attention. Ladies only please – and wear comfortable clothes!
Register for the trial class and the other classes at www.jewishnaples.org.
A portion of the proceeds will benefit Jewish Federation of Greater Naples.
By Carol Hirsch
For several years, the Beading for Betterment project has provided custom-made special necklaces to children at Guadalupe Center in Immokalee so that they have a Mother’s Day gift to give to their mother, grandmother or special woman in their life. Necklaces have also been distributed to children who participate in Jewish Federation of Greater Naples’ Shop with a Sheriff event for Christmas.
Whether you are an experienced “beader” or have never made a beaded necklace, please join the group for a fun beading session. All are welcome.
There will be free sessions from 12:30 to 3:30 p.m. (*12:30 to 3 p.m. on Friday) at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center, 4720 Pine Ridge Road, on the following dates:
• Tuesday, Oct. 15
• Thursday, Nov. 7
• Thursday, Nov. 14
• Thursday, Dec. 12
• *Friday, Jan. 24
• Friday, Feb. 7
• Wednesday, Feb. 19
• Wednesday, March 12
• Tuesday, March 25
• Thursday, April 17
Come to one or come to all! If you have your own supplies, please bring them. If not, supplies will be provided and only a donation will be requested so that more supplies can be purchased. For more information, contact me at chirsch1951@gmail.com. This program is sponsored by Jewish Federation of Greater Naples and Temple Shalom.
Rita & Ben Greenberg
Susan & Michael Horowitz
Dravin Family
SKR Home & Health Care Solutions – Meeting the Home Health Care Needs of Naples Area Residents
“When my father died suddenly at age 58, my life changed forever,” says Susan Karp Riesenbach, Founder of SKR Home & Health Care Solutions. “Frankly it was a nightmare. What a wake-up call about how precious and unpredictable life is for any age and how it changes your perspective on your priorities immediately. I vowed to myself that day after seeing how it affected my mother, myself, my siblings, family and friends that I would try to assist people that could be in the same situation, have an experience similar to mine or be dealing with an emergency or something personal and see how I can help.”
Riesenbach continues: “More than 14 years later, I feel as though I have accomplished this by being sympathetic and empathetic to anyone who chooses me to call when in any kind of situation, to try to be available 24/7, and by having the team and the resources to provide solutions or be creative to help how I can. When that phone rings, I know the caller is looking for someone on the other end of the phone to have a calming presence and have answers or reassurance that there can be solutions in a time of need. I look forward to continuing this act of service in Southwest Florida.”
SKR Home & Health Care Solutions was created out of this premise. Founded in Philadelphia, PA in 2010, their attention to detail, individualized care planning, and creative client solutions have created a niche that is different than the competition.
SKR’s niche is high-end care, responding to the requests of the doctor, the patient, and the family. SKR is a private pay concierge service that, in your home, provides solutions for any healthcare need: skilled nursing care, post-operation and pre-operation, lymphatic drainage
SKR Home and Health Care Solutions offers services designed to meet your needs. With compassion, empathy and personalized attention, our team of Licensed Practical Nurses (LPN), Registered Nurses (RN), Certified Nurse Assistants (CNA) and Home Health Aides (HHA) will assist you with the care you require.
massage, IV hydration and IV antibiotics per doctors’ orders, physical and occupational therapy and overnight care of patients of plastic surgeons after outpatient surgery. SKR also provides many non-medical services such as traditional companion care and respite care. SKR is very proud to also offer services for mental health needs.
SKR’s exciting 2023 expansion into southwest Florida has opened a new avenue for excellent quality care for all patients. The word “Solutions” is in its name by design. When you call SKR, Susan answers the phone, listens, and custom-designs a care plan for your needs.
SKR made an affirmative decision not to accept Medicare because the limitations on care by federal and state programs are inconsistent with SKR’s philosophy of patient care. SKR’s nurses and caregivers say they often cannot do their jobs effectively within the regulatory limits. SKR is patient-focused and very happy to complete care after the Medicare payments end. Working alongside Medicare to provide clients with the best care possible, SKR works with and assists other companies to create the best environment for all patients. The stated goal is to service patients in their home and do whatever is necessary to avoid having them readmitted to hospitals.
SKR employees are handpicked by Susan and are the key to any successful personal care company. SKR is careful to employ professionals who appreciate and support our culture of care. SKR’s success is its unrelenting effort to have its clients and patients cared for as though they were family of SKR’s leadership.
For more information on SKR’s services, please call 610-488-2193 or visit skrhomehealth.com.
More Than Elder Care – We Do it All Expert post-surgical transportation: Orthopedic, plastic, and more Dedicated care to prevent complications and infections
Short-term and long-term care options Available 24-7 for all ages and needs
Services Include
• Private discharge planning
• Respite care
• Evaluation
• Education
• Errands
• Ambulation
• Personal care
• Medicine management/Prescription refill
• Meal preparation
• Doctor’s appointments/Transportation
• Light housekeeping
• Occupational/Vestibular/Vision therapy
Behind the scenes at Women’s Cultural Alliance
By Susan Pittelman, WCA Publicity Coordinator
Last season, WCA members had the opportunity to participate in more than 600 programs, interest groups, summer branch activities and special events. We anticipate that the number will be even higher this year. Each Thursday morning, WCA emails a newsletter brimming with information about upcoming WCA events and some community activities. Did you ever wonder how those events get planned and how the information gets into the newsletter and onto the website? WCA members enjoy using the online Member Directory. How does everyone’s information get into the directory?
How does all of this happen?
Answer: The WCA Board of Directors, with help from the magic of technology. The information below describes some of what each WCA Board member contributes. (Board members’ names are in bold.)
The WCA Board of Directors is comprised of 24 dedicated WCA members who work together under the leadership of WCA President Patti Boochever Each board member has a role and uses the magic of our membership management system (Wild Apricot) to implement, manage and publicize our programs, membership, registrations, renewals, Member Directory and website.
After you fill out your profile when joining or renewing your membership, Hannah Goodman checks the data, which then is used to create our Member Directory. Goodman monitors the database for our 1,600+ members, often using it to create member searches.
When an event is scheduled, the event organizer sends the information to Ann Cowen and Carol Sherman, and either they or another board member or volunteer create the publicity announcement. Harriet Schweitzer writes the publicity for each speaker in our signature Speaker Series. Sherman puts the event announcements in the newsletter with a registration link, while Cowen, assisted by new board member Rita Silverstein , creates and monitors the event registration pages. Cowen and Silverstein also send out notices for interest groups as well as invitations and reminders for other events. Sherman organizes the publicity announcements, then adds book and movie recommendations, photos and information about some MCA and community events. She searches the membership database so she can also include birthdays and a listing of new members. She then edits the entire newsletter and sends it to our membership.
As we look ahead to this season, we are all eagerly anticipating some
SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 3RD
WCA President Patti Boochever (in front of the door) and board members
Shelly Bell and Leslie Feldman welcome board members to a meeting in the Board Room at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center.
wonderful programs and special events. Susan Koeppel has already scheduled a spectacular line-up of speakers for WCA’s Thursday Speaker Series, which kicks off Oct. 10 with Sandy Parker presenting pre-election information.
Debbie Lurie and Darlene Muller oversee the WCA Welcome Back Luncheon (Nov. 15) and WCA’s Fashion Show (Feb. 26).
Linda Hyde has begun to contact nonprofit organizations for this season’s WCA Community Volunteer Expo (Feb. 11). This event is a significant part of WCA’s community outreach.
Robin Mintz creates the eye-catching invitations and program booklets for these and other key events. Mintz also provides the graphics for WCA ads and promotional items.
To accommodate women who live north or south of Naples, WCA established WCA North and WCA South, both of which provide programming closer to where these members live.
Dina Shein organizes and manages all activities for WCA North, while Cathy Lone-Dawson oversees all activities for WCA South.
WCA recently created WCA NextGen to appeal to WCA members 65 years of age and younger. Shelly Bell and new board member Joan Meltzer organize and manage NextGen activities.
Much of the success of WCA North and WCA South, as well as that of NextGen, can be attributed to the wonderful cadre of volunteers who chair the various events.
WCA’s largest interest groups, WCA Foodies and the Couples Group, each has more than 400 participants. Phyllis Strome manages the Couples Group and Lea Bendes heads the WCA Foodies. Bendes also oversees the Café of Life Foodies Volunteer Program and helps to plan the annual WCA Volunteer Appreciation Event. Louise Forman is the contact person for all WCA interest group liaisons. She ensures that interest group lists are kept updated and accurate in the management system.
With all this planning for all these gatherings, how does everyone find a place to hold their events? The answer is Leslie Feldman , who arranges the rooms, including set-up needs, for all WCA activities at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center.
Welcoming new members is a strength of Harriett Kleinman, who organizes the new member coffees and shares information to help new members get acclimated. In addition, Kleinman, along with a committee of 20 volunteers, offered a full complement of summer activities for WCA Year Rounders — women who remain in Greater Naples all year. Volunteers are key to the success of WCA. Linda Simon focuses on volunteers and membership engagement. She recruits new volunteers, matching their skills and interests to volunteer opportunities. Simon also helps to plan the WCA Volunteer Appreciation event.
Behind the scenes, Treasurer Arlene Sobol oversees and monitors the budget, presents a financial report of revenue and expenses at every board meeting and manages financial transactions. WCA Secretary Susan Pittelman documents the actions taken at each meeting. And Emerita Elaine Soffer , who served as president from 2013 to 2020, acts as an advisor, sharing her rich history with the board.
How did this article find its way into the Federation Star ? Susan Pittelman makes sure that an article about WCA appears in each issue.
So, in brief, that is how board members work to create an organization like no other — one that provides an exciting year of friendship, fun and fabulous social and educational programming for each of you.
Thank you to our WCA Board of Directors and to WCA’s dedicated volunteers. They all work together to make WCA the extraordinary one-of-a-kind organization that it is.
The WCA Board of Directors wishes each of you and your loved ones a Happy New Year filled with the blessings of good health, joy, fulfillment and peace.
JEWISH FEDERATION
What is the Men’s Cultural Alliance?
By Brian Katz and Michael Sobol
The Men’s Cultural Alliance (MCA) is an affinity group of Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, whose purpose is to create friendship and camaraderie among its members by attending and participating in social, intellectual, recreational and athletic activities. There are no solicitations, and there are no fundraising activities.
Beginning its 13th season, MCA has 868 members that participate in the wide variety of activities, ranging from breakfast and luncheon gatherings to sporting events, discussions groups and guest speakers.
All paid members of the MCA are eligible to join any program. It is necessary, however, to sign up for each program. Some events are limited in the number of participants to allow each member the best possible experience. In some cases, a small fee may be charged for the event (i.e. museum tickets or food). Some programs and discussion groups can be attended via Zoom.
We actively seek and welcome new members and encourage their input in organizing new activities and in participating in our exciting programs.
How to join
Contact Ira Kushnir for questions or how to get involved. To join or renew your membership, check out our website. Visit MCANaples.org.
For men ages 18-65, the MCA NextGen Group was formed in 2022 to provide activities, events and networking opportunities to younger MCA members. The group’s social and sports activities include lunches and dinners (including some that are jointly held with WCA NextGen), golf, tennis, biking, swamp buggy races, comedy club outings and many others. Please contact Max Deifik at maxdeifik@ yahoo.com for more information.
For information about becoming a member of MCA or to receive the
weekly e-blast, send a note to info@ MCANaples.org.
MCA summer event
Over the summer, there were three sessions in which groups toured the Judith and Marvin Herb Family Simulation Center. Simulation is an experiential learning process for adult learners through active participation and subsequent review and reflection. From basic medical problems to critical life-threatening situations, the multi-disciplinary Judith and Marvin Herb Family Simulation Center provides medical personnel and first responders with procedural skills, scenario-based training, opportunities for improved teamwork and communication as well as interprofessional and intraprofessional training. The Judith and Marvin Herb Family Simulation Center opened in October 2023.
Medical simulation training is comparable to flight simulation training used in the airline industry — where real-life issues and scenarios can be practiced in a controlled environment before a pilot ever gets the plane off the ground. Simulation training results in 90% retention of learning material. That compares to
for the clinical staff to include high fidelity adult and child mannequins, a virtual dissection table, heart ultrasound equipment, body ultrasound mannequins with pathologies, an endoscopy trainer, and multiple different task trainers. A great example the MCA members saw was a computerized birthing mannequin in an obstetrical suite. The mannequin is very realistic and can bleed up to eight quarts of blood. Students, EMTs and other first responders can train on delivering babies that cannot wait to get to the hospital. MCA members also saw a group of nursing students from Florida Gulf Coast University practicing placing IV lines in mannequins.
These simulations also require “actors.”
The Judith and Marvin Herb Family Simulation Center has a need for volunteer actors: no experience needed. Contact Tesa-Ann Smith at (239) 624-1250 to learn more about being a volunteer.
New season about to get underway
10%-40% retention with traditional classroom lectures and clinical observation.
The state-of-the-art, high-tech facility boasts over 12,000 square feet of training and meeting space that is offered to NCH staff and community members. They also have some of the most up-todate, high fidelity training equipment
Start the season with a weekend of events: Join us for the Fall Dance Saturday night, Nov. 9, followed by a Welcome Back BBQ and Tailgate Party featuring food, games, prizes and NFL football on Sunday, Nov. 10.
Review the MCA website and weekly e-blasts for further information on these events — and all events in the coming season.
Events for PJ families
By Amber Ferren, PJ Library Coordinator
hope you all enjoyed our September events, whether it was celebrating the New Year of Rosh Hashanah together, parents’ bowling night, or the PJ Our Way painting event for our group of children ages 8 years and older. This month, we will be celebrating the holiday of Sukkot! Please join us at Can U Dig It?, the North Collier Regional
Park Playground on Sunday, Oct. 20 at 2 p.m. Enjoy time at the playground with friends, snacks and special Sukkot crafts! Please be sure to follow PJ LibraryFederation of Greater Naples on Facebook for upcoming events and up-to-date info on all things local for PJ Library, including our monthly PJ parent gettogethers!
Welcome guests with a brick paver
By Eduardo Avila, Campaign Associate
Would you like to add your name to a brick paver as a welcome to guests visiting our
Join your friends for fun play, crafts, and snacks!
All events will be at: “Can U Dig It” Playground at North Collier Regional Park 3pm - 4pm To register visit: facebook.com/PJLibraryNaplesFL
new Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center? Contact me at eavila@jewishnaples.org or 239-263-4205.
Make your check payable to JFGN and send it, with this completed form, to: JFGN, 4720 Pine Ridge Road, Naples, FL 34119.
Indicate how you want your engraved brick to read, using the grid below for the size brick you are purchasing. Each square is the space for one letter or number. Each row counts as one line of text, only use the amount of lines specified below for your brick. 12” x 12” Engraved Brick - room for 8 lines of text with 20 characters per line ($1,800) 8” x 8” Engraved Brick - room for 6 lines of text with 20 characters per line
4” x 8” Engraved Brick - room for 3 lines of text with 20 characters per line ($360)
SPIDERS COULD BE A SIGN OF OTHER PEST ISSUES
by Anna Wallace, Truly Nolen
As autumn begins, you may be asking why there are so many spiders in Southwest Florida. One factor is because our area is warm basically year-round, the ongoing warmth helps create the perfect conditions for spiders to thrive and become a pest in your home.
In fact, simple biology comes into play. Warmer weather increases breeding for flying insects, which are the meal of choice for spiders (mosquitoes, flies, etc.). As the flying insect population increases, so does the spider population.
Fortunately, spiders rarely bite humans unless their nests or webs are disturbed. Except for a few species, the venom in spider bites affects individuals in various degrees from mild to a severe allergic reaction when bitten. The Black Widow, which is about a half inch long, black, and is most easily identified by the red hourglass shaped mark on the underside of its abdomen, and the Brown Recluse Spider, which is usually brown in color and ¼- ½ inch in length, are two to be aware of. If you are bitten by one, seek medical attention immediately.
However, because spiders feed primarily on other insects, their presence in your home can be a sign of a larger pest infestation, and their building of webs indoors can prove to be a nuisance for most homeowners when left untreated.
Some things you can do indoors to help keep spiders from wreaking havoc include high areas where plastic plants, knickknacks, decorative items are placed. We also suggest dusting often on curtains, skylights, ceiling fans, behind furniture, garage ceiling corners near entry and of course in areas that we do not often look. This ensures spiders have less places in which to hide.
A homeowner can thoroughly vacuum any areas where spiders or spider webs are found using their wand attachment to ensure they get all the small cracks and crevices. In addition, keeping pet food tightly covered and not leaving food bowls out all day can be a big help in this ongoing battle.
From an outdoor perspective, taking your broom and sweeping down any webs you see around your house paying special attention to the eaves of the house can help turn the tide. Seal all exterior cracks as best as possible paying special attention to doorways, window casings, basement walls and door frames will help prevent entry points from increasing.
Trim back trees, bushes or other vegetation that can be found touching the walls of the home to keep spiders from using them to crawl across outdoor plants and furniture, pool equipment, BBQs storage areas, ceiling fans, windows, and bird blocks. Remove piles of wood or rotting leaves and other
vegetation from around the foundation of the home. Finally, keep trash bins away from the house, as spiders will often lurk near them in hopes of preying on other insects.
While I know the above indoor and outdoor tips can certainly help keep your house from becoming spider central, should the problem become overwhelming, contact your local pest control professional. A professional can assist you with interior web wiping to remove spider webs from ceiling corners and beams, windowsills, and other surfaces to destroy the spiders’ source of food – its web.
They can also assist you with exterior web wiping which will remove spider webs from eaves, under patio covers, around doors and overhangs, and other areas to destroy the web. In addition to removing unsightly webs, the wiping also leaves behind a repellent to discourage further insect activity.
(Anna Wallace is the Manager for Truly Nolen in Naples. Her service office can be reached at (239) 643-2555. Founded in 1938, Tucson-based Truly Nolen of America (www.trulynolen.com) is one of the largest family-owned pest control companies in the United States. To learn more about Spiders and some ways to keep them at bay, please visit https://www.trulynolen.com/pest-control/spiders/.)
HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICES
Defense doesn’t win ball games or wars
Portnoy’s children and the ANC
By Allen Menkin, MD, Project Manager, CAMERA’s Naples Partnership of Christians and Jews
In the mid-20th century, Europe was in ashes; Israel was a collection of a million-and-a-half refugees on a sandbar in the eastern Mediterranean and Newark’s Weequahic section was a box of neuroses and contradictions celebrated by Phillip Roth in “Portnoy’s Complaint” and “Goodbye, Columbus.”
Gold star mothers wept for dead sons in the women’s balcony of the shul on Avon Avenue, and the counterman hand slicing belly lox at Tabachnick’s had numbers tattooed on his wrist, but shoppers scurrying to get home before Shabbos were triple parked in front of Lehrhoff’s bakery on Chancellor Avenue. The maternity ward at Beth Israel Hospital was full; the economy was booming; the suburbs were beckoning; and the forbidden fruit of assimilation dangled within reach.
But history and custom conspired to make us martyrs not warriors, and a debilitating self-image of Jews as passive victims gripped the residents of Portnoyland. That changed when the sandbar Jews attacked and thrashed the Soviet Union’s Arab proxies in 1967. The Six-Day War redefined the State of Israel and changed the way we saw ourselves.
In hindsight, the 1973 Yom Kippur War may have been even more consequential. Israel rallied from the brink of defeat to trap the Egyptian Third Army, gain the Golan Heights, and eventually sign a formal peace treaty with Anwar Sadat. But it required a massive American rescue and the “defeated” Arabs realized that they could bloody the Zionist’s nose and survive to fight another day.
In the war’s wake, a humiliated Leonid Brezhnev deployed a sophisticated propaganda campaign, centered
on ingrained Soviet antizionism, to turn the newly liberated nations of Africa and Asia against America and Israel. The campaign presaged the radical left’s lexicon of apartheid, settler colonialism, wokism and intersectionality, and it succeeded brilliantly. Israel was booted out of Africa, the U.N. General Assembly became a tool of a nonaligned/ Soviet majority, and Zionism was declared racism.
Apartheid South Africa was particularly fertile ground and leaders of its African National Congress Party (ANC) were groomed to champion Palestinian terrorism and lead the charge against Israel’s legitimacy, which they have enthusiastically done for decades. Today, South Africa cannot meet the basic needs of its citizens, and the ANC uses Israel as a whipping boy to draw attention from its chronic corruption and mismanagement. It has much to answer for.
Portnoy’s children left Newark and shed the victim complex but kept a defensive mindset. Defense does not win ball games or wars, and we are at war. We need to go on offense. For a start, we need to call out our enemies and hold them accountable for their crimes. CAMERA has been doing that every day since 1982.
On Nov. 18, the Naples Partnership of Christians and Jews will present a conference featuring Rev. Malcolm Hedding.
Hedding was an outspoken opponent of apartheid and an expert on the ANC’s lawfare against Israel. He is one of today’s most articulate teachers on Christian Zionism, an internationally recognized speaker on Israel and the church, and a leading theologian in the Christian Zionist world.
Programming at Beth Tikvah of Naples
By Lee Henson, Program Director
The excitement is building as we are about to begin season! Please join us for the High Holy Days, which will be musically enhanced as we have Cantor Norman Brody here to join Rabbi Chorny. Break-the-Fast will follow services on Oct. 12. Do remember to register!
The first day for the Zoom-only Hebrew Reading Class offered by Michael Kinrys will be Oct. 29. Register online at beb.org/event/hebrewreading. Level one meets for five Tuesdays; level two meets for six.
A special musical event is scheduled for the weekend of Nov. 1 when we have special guest Hazzan Andres A Levy joining us. He is coming from Argentina with an amazing repertoire. More information on this event to come! Register at info@ BethTikvah.us.
Our first Rosh Chodesh event will be Nov. 3. Women, please join us for this in-person event at 10 a.m.
On Nov. 8, we will honor those who have served our country with a special Veteran’s Day Shabbat. If you
have photos you would like to add to our poster, please send them to lhenson13@ gmail.com.
Our Speaker’s Series will open Nov. 12 with Jeff Margolis’s talk about “Books for Soldiers” — unique books that were printed and given to our GI’s during WWII.
On Nov. 23, we are celebrating Havdalah at Lowdermilk Park Beach at 5:30 p.m. Bring your family and picnic with us. It will be lovely!
There is a lot more coming throughout November, so watch this space, call 239-434-1818, email info@Beth Tikvah.us or look on our website at bethtikvahnaples.org for more information.
Naples Jewish Congregation events
By Chuck Naumoff, Publicity Chair
The following NJC events are open to the community:
High Holiday
Services
Our warm and spiritual High Holiday Services will be open to the community: Rosh Hashanah, 7 p.m. on Wednesday, Oct. 2 and 10 a.m. on Thursday, Oct. 3; Yom Kippur, 7 p.m. on Friday, Oct. 11 and 10 a.m. on Saturday, Oct. 12, Yizkor and Neila at 3:30 p.m. followed by our Break-Fast dinner. Complimentary tickets are available to anyone who has not joined us before. Previous attendee tickets are $100 per person.
Lifelong learning
We are committed to promoting education and reflective discussion of compelling issues we face as Americans and Jews. Rabbi Herman generously shares his knowledge and brings about a vibrant and respectful exchange of ideas and beliefs.
Join us Friday Oct. 18 at 5 p.m., when Rabbi Herman will speak on “Jewpernatural – Signs, Spirits and Superstition in Jewish Life.” This session probes the Talmud, Jewish Philosophy, Kabbalah and other sources to provide Jewish
perspectives and guidance. Light dinner ($10) with services to follow.
Shabbat Services
Everyone is welcome to attend our Shabbat Services at 7 p.m. on Friday nights, Oct. 4, 18 and 25. Join Rabbi Herman, Cantorial Soloist Jane Galler and Music Director Alla Gorelick for song and inspiration in our home at the Unitarian
Beth Tikvah bethtikvahnaples.org 239-434-1818
Universalist Congregation of Greater Naples (6340 Napa Woods Way, Naples). Worship together with the members of the “The Small Congregation with a Big Heart.” Services continue Friday nights and Saturday mornings through May. See our website at naplesjewishcongregation.org for more information and other various planned activities.
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Israel and Overseas 2024-2025 SPEAKER SERIES
Topic: Israel at Crossroads Post October 7
Sunday, November 3 at 3:00 pm NOV 2024
FEB 2025
Ofer Bavly
Topic: Uplifting the Marginalized Israeli Druze Minority
February date TBD
Eid DEC 2024
Topic: What Led the Recent War between Israel and Hamas
Wednesday, December 18 at 2 pm
MARCH 2025
Akiba Covitz
Topic: The Legal Foundation of Israel’s Right to Exist
Wednesday, March 12 at 4:00 pm
JAN 2025
Peter Geffen
Topic: The Magical Story of Moroccan MuslimJewish coexistence
Tuesday, Jan 21 at 4 pm
APRIL 2025
Dina Kraft
Topic: Post-October 7th: Stories of Healing, Resilience, and Resistance
Wednesday, April 9 at 1:00 pm
ISRAEL SCOUTS IN THE SUMMER
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October 7: We Remember Jewish Community Memorial
7:00-8:30 P.M. AT TEMPLE SHALOM
Please register so we can plan accordingly: jewishnaples.org
At the Museum
WSusan Suarez President & CEO
ith fall here, school groups are returning to the Museum on field trips. Each group gives us the opportunity to fulfill and recognize the importance of our mission — to teach the lessons of the Holocaust and to inspire action against bigotry and hatred. While most of these students have probably heard of Anne Frank prior to coming, few have indepth knowledge of Holocaust history and other genocides. Fewer still have met someone personally impacted by the Holocaust.
A visit here not only provides them with accurate historical facts, but they see the human suffering caused by the unopposed hatred and survivors’ hope for a better world in the personal stories we share of local survivors and liberators. As these young peoples’ awareness of national and world events grows, we hope their visit helps them realize their own power to make a difference by standing up for themselves and others.
millions of Americans whose life-saving medications are becoming unaffordable.
At press time, we have confirmed that one of the expert panelists will be Tami Balavage, founder of the local Southwest Florida organization Help a Diabetic Child. RSVP required to receive the film viewing and Zoom links. We will host a “watch party” for the film at the Museum.
To RSVP, visit http://weblink.donorperfect.com/moviesthatmatter2024.
Movies That Matter was founded in 2018 to facilitate discussion around human rights topics through film. The lessons of the Holocaust teach us to have mutual respect for all people. The United Nations Declaration of Human Rights was created in 1948 in response to the horrors of the Holocaust. These film discussions hope to inspire participants to be upstanders for those facing human rights challenges and abuses.
Movies That Matter series
We just completed the first of two fall Movies That Matter expert panel Zoom programs. The documentary discussed was “Wake Up: Stories from the Frontlines of Suicide Prevention.” Many thanks to all who joined us to discuss this topic which affects people of all ages, economic backgrounds and nationalities.
Special thanks to our panelists for shedding light on the advances being made to prevent future suicides nationwide and here in Southwest Florida — Dr. Robert Landy, a local psychologist who specializes in caring for veterans with mental health concerns and Lonzo Morgan, a winner of the 2024 Stand Up For Justice Educators award for his work as a school counselor focusing on suicide prevention at Immokalee Middle School. Bullying is often the root cause of suicide among teens. This film shows one of the terrible consequences as victims feel the pain of bullying and discrimination.
We hope you’ll join us for the next Movies That Matter program on Wednesday, Nov. 6 at 2 p.m. (EST U.S. and Canada) via Zoom. We will discuss the film “Pay or Die,” which highlights the financial dilemma and hard choices faced by
Current exhibition
“Witness to the Memory of Oradour –The Photography of Martin Graf,” on display in the Estelle and Stuart Price Gallery through December 2024, features haunting black and white photographs of the World War II ruins of Oradour, a small town in Central France. The exhibit honors the memory of the victims of the Nazi reprisal action in June 1944 in which 642 men, women and children were murdered and their town destroyed. Photographer Martin Graf met Robert Hébras, one of the six survivors of the reprisal. The two men later joined forces to teach students about the history of Oradour and its long-lasting impact on the memory of people in the region. More information about a program with Graf this fall will be available shortly.
Boxcar matching challenge grant continues
The Boxcar Exhibit is an important part of the Museum's Holocaust education programming. Seen by over a quarter of a million people since it began its travels in 2008, the Holocaust-era boxcar has
2024 "MOVIES THAT MATTER" Steve Brazina Memorial Film Series
Pay or Die ZOOM Panel Discussion Wednesday, November 6, 2024 2:00pm - 3:00pm EDT
Monday, November 4th at 2:00pm Film "watch party" at the Museum
RSVP required for Film and Zoom Links and Film "watch party"
Sponsorships Available
Pay or Die explores the financial struggle faced by the millions of insulin-dependent Americans paying exorbitant prices for their life-saving medications as pharmaceutical manufacturers earn record-breaking profits.
Thank you to our Series Sponsors as of 9/6/24: Benefactor and Naming Sponsor: Rhonda Brazina Patron: Jeff and Ida Margolis
2024 "Movies That Matter" Series Partners: GenShoah SWFL, Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center, Interfaith Alliance of SWFL, Jewish Community Relations Council of Greater Naples, the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, Naples United Church of Christ, Temple Shalom
For more information on Series Sponsorships, and to RSVP for film and Zoom links and the Film Watch Party, visit hmcec.org/
ELLIOTT KATZ LECTURE FALL SERIES
Co-sponsored by
UPCOMING SCHEDULE
November 1: Maybe Joe was Right
Sen. Joseph McCarthy was pilloried and censured for accusing the US government and the US Army of harboring and protecting Communist Party members in their employ. His attorney, Roy Cohn, a controversial figure in his own right, became the central figure in a nationwide television drama, defending the Senator and generating a ratings bonanza for the TV networks. Years later it was discovered, that maybe Sen. McCarthy was right. You decide.
November 8: The Fugu Plan
Why did Imperial Japan, Nazi Germany’s closest ally in WWII, engage in a scheme to save Europe’s persecuted and threatened Jews? In the face of repeated demands by Germany, Japan refused to stop welcoming Jews into Shanghai and adamantly objected to Germany’s requests to dispose of the Jews already there. Was it possible a poisonous fish was involved? Let’s go fishing.
November 15: Poor Coco Chanel*
Coco Chanel was a fashion icon and the inspiration for the world’s most desirous perfume, Chanel #5. She was also a virulent anti-semite, a Nazi collaborator and a perfumer who never reaped the benefit of her most famous essence. She died alone, angry and not very rich, all because of a jilted lover, who became one of the richest men in the world. Meet them all.
December 6: The President Who Ignored the Constitution
Never before and never since have 100,000 American citizens been illegally, unlawfully and cruelly, forcibly incarcerated in American internment camps, solely because of their ethnicity. Executive Order 9066 enabled this to happen. What President of United States signed this order and why? You will surely be surprised.
December 13: The American Banker Who Financed Germany’s War and Mass Murder
As allied soldiers perished in the jungles of the Pacific and on the beaches of Europe, one of America’s most prominent bankers made sure that Nazi Germany had the necessary funds to continue to wage war in Europe and conduct its persecution and murder of tens of millions of innocents. Suspected of treason, he nonetheless escaped punishment and flourished in post-World War II America. One of the best kept secrets of World War II.
December 20: The Shush-Shush Jews
Beginning in 1933 the rise of Nazism foretold only disaster for European Jewry. In the United States, influential Jews had a choice to make. Do all that they could to save their brethren from the clutches of Adolf Hitler and his collaborators or remain silent, not willing to risk their positions or reputations. Their silence would result in the American administration willfully failing to open the doors to America to hundreds of thousands of qualified immigrants who would eventually perish. We call them, the shush shush Jews.
DETAILS AND TICKETS
WHERE: Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center 4720 Pine Ridge Rd .
WHEN: November 1, 8 & 15 and December 6, 13, & 20, 2024 | Fridays from 10-11:30 am *November15only,9:45-11:15am
COST: Series of 6 lectures at $145 pp or $30 individual ticket
PURCHASE SERIES OR INDIVIDUAL TICKETS AT WWW.JEWISHNAPLES.ORG.
Tickets can be purchased at the door if seats are available.
visited schools, universities, libraries and other locations across Southwest Florida. The exhibit is on loan to the Museum from Jack and F.E. Nortman and The Boxcar Foundation. As part of the program, schools hosting the exhibit receive descriptive materials about the boxcar's history, a teacher's guide and more. Additional education options include a presentation by a Holocaust survivor or family member, or the performance of a short play specifically created for in-school presentations about a survivor’s experience.
We invite you to help continue the Boxcar Exhibit's lasting impact in Southwest Florida and beyond by making a donation during this matching challenge grant.
Win a sunset cruise
Would you like to host a fun sunset cruise and support our education programs at the same time? Courtesy of Sand Dollar Boat Tours, we are raffling off a private, captained, two-hour sunset tour for up to 25 people. The winner can select the tour date, food and beverages to be served. Raffle tickets are $50 each and are limited to five per person. Only 300 tickets are available, and sales will end on Oct. 31. The winner will be selected by a random drawing at the Museum on Nov. 4 at noon, EST. More information is available on our website at hmcec.org.
Upcoming events and programs
Monday, Oct. 7
We Remember Jewish Community Memorial 7-8:30 p.m.
Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center Please register at www.jewishnaples.org.
Wednesday, Nov. 6
Movies That Matter “Pay or Die” Zoom expert panel discussion 2 p.m. (EST U.S. and Canada) RSVP required for film viewing, Zoom links and “watch party” information – http://weblink.donorperfect.com/ moviesthatmatter2024.
Sunday, Nov. 17
Kristallnacht Annual Community Remembrance 2:30 p.m.
St. John the Evangelist Church in North Naples
Wednesday, Dec. 4
The Luncheon Winter Fundraiser 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m.
Vineyards Country Club
Special multimedia program by Dr. Jed Newborn
Information on tickets and sponsorships at hmcec.org and donor@hmcec.org. We hope to see you soon at the Museum!
Have a student in Southwest Florida Schools?
Are you a parent (or grandparent) of a student in K-12 school in Southwest Florida? If so, you can help promote Holocaust education by letting the principal and teachers know about the Museum’s free programs for schools! Contact David@hmcec.org and we can email or mail you the flyer to give to your student’s school.
Holocaust Museum & Janet G. and Harvey D. Cohen Education Center HMCEC.org • 239-263-9200
Temple Shalom Sisterhood Fashion Show & Luncheon Fundraiser
Tuesday, November 12 at 11:30am
Doors will open at 11:00am
Featuring the latest in fashion by the 5th Avenue boutique Petunias of Naples
Sign up: tinyurl.com/TSSFashion2024 Questions? Contact Joan Friedman at 561.371.3441
Executive Chef’s Top Culinary Delights
An Introduction to Moorings Park’s Three Communities & Our
Here’s your chance to get a taste of what life is like at Moorings Park’s three stunning Naples communities.
Attainable Luxury Begins at $552,000
Successful aging expert and Vice President Tom Mann will introduce you to our three premier Moorings Park communities. Discover an innovative approach to successful aging as you learn valuable details on costs, oor plans, healthcare, dining, and waiting lists.
During this presentation, you’ll enjoy a video tour of each community’s clubhouse and model residences, all while savoring top culinary delights from our executive chef.
RSVP today by scanning the QR code, visiting MooringsPark.org/Events, or calling 239-356-0540.
Discover Our Secrets to Successful Aging
Thursday, November 7th | 2:30 p.m.
Moorings Park Clubhouse 120 Moorings Park Drive, Naples, FL 34105
RSVP by November 5th by calling 239-356-0540, visiting MooringsPark.org/Events, or scanning the QR code.
Unable to attend? Join our webinar on Friday, November 8th at 10:30 a.m. To register, visit MooringsPark.org/Webinar.
Silver Circle Honors Long-Time Donors
January 8, 2025: Silver Circle
Pre-Reception at Hilton, 4:00 PM
Special Guest: David Heller, JFNA National Campaign Chair
February 19, 2025: Silver Circle
Reception at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center, 3:00 PM
Have you, or someone you know, been giving to Federation for 25 years or more?
Please proudly let us know so we can celebrate you and your commitment to Jewish Philanthropy.
Contact Alicia Feldman, Development Director, at (239) 449-8266 or afeldman@jewishnaples.org to find out more.
Fall is upon us Zoog mir in Yiddish
By Sol Awend, GenShoah SWFL
The youth and vitality of endless summer has given way to the serious notion that the future of a new season is upon us. We Jews call this Dee Entoyven , The High Holy Days.
With the change in seasons comes an awareness of passing time. According to our tradition, we take steps to humbly confront Ha Shem, Our God.
• Miz noh menschen – we are only people, we offer meekly.
• Mot geh zindik’t – admitting that we have sinned.
• Meh miz bayten t’zeh Goht ahz Ehr zol ins fah gayben – we must pray that God will forgive us.
Jewish holidays are fluid. Because we deal with a solar calendar, as well as a lunar one, holidays either kimmen free, come early, or zei kimmen shpayt, come late.
Our New Year, Roysh Ha Shooneh , begins with the Days of Awe, Dee T’zain Taig, The Ten Days. We know what they are; we know what we need to do.
It all culminates on Yom Kippeh, the Day of Atonement.
• Meh faast – we fast.
• Meh geit in sheel – Synagogue (shul, if you’re a Litvak).
• Meh dahvent – we pray.
• Un meh bay’t zec’h oss ah git yooweh – we appeal to a higher power for a good year.
Shabbat & Holy Day Services
Yahrtzeit Minyanim upon Request Adult Education Courses
Scholar-in-Residence Program
Rosh Chodesh Study Sessions
Seasonal Adult Lecture Series
Mixers & Social Events
Pastoral Support & Counseling Life Cycle Celebrations
Tributes
This past year has been a rough one for the Jewish people — physically and emotionally.
• Miz geh vorren ooh geh faalen – we have been befallen.
• Miz geh vorren geh straashet – we have been assaulted.
• Miz geh vorren deh maan’t ahz mi zenen Yeeden –we have been reminded that we are Jews.
• Mot t’zee geh zayen ah geh ferlec’hen trah gedyeh gaygen inseh folk – we have witnessed a terrible tragedy against our people.
It seems ahz dee ganseh velt ot faan’t dee Yeeden (that the whole world despises the Jews). So, we respond, voos zol men teeyen? (What should we do?) Ahzoy iz nisht git, un ahzoy iz nisht git! (This way is no good, and that way is no good!) Zoll meh off gayben?! (Should we give up?)
Ah krenk! (I don’t think so!)
To welcome the season, Loh Mec’h Alleh Ooveinshen Ah Geh zinten Yoor! Let me wish you all a healthy year! Loh mir zec’hall oss bayten ah mazeldiken yoor! Let us pray for a blessed year!
And finally, Lomir inz ibbeh layben fin haat oop ah yooweh viddeh.
The Yiddish may have been pronounced in different ways, but I remember my parents reciting those wishes pre-war with their loved ones. This was a chance to bridge then and now.
Le Shanah Tovah, Tikahtayvoo! (Happy New Year, may you be inscribed!)
Tributes to the Jewish Federation Campaign
To: Janet Solot
Wishing you peace and comfort during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you and your family.
From: Alvin Becker
To: Marsha Karp
Such a special guy. So warm and welcoming to everyone he met. May his memory be a blessing. With much love, Rick, Oak, Lisa, Bill and Jon
From: Rick Shrier
Tributes require a minimum donation of $18.
To: Janet Solot
Dear Janet, Stu and I are sending our deepest sympathy and love in this time. With love,
From: Marlane & Stu Krane
To place a tribute in FederationStar in honor or memory of someone, please contact Linda Sherman at the Federation office at 239-263-4205 or lshermanjewishnaples.org. Tributes require a minimum donation of $18. A note will be sent to the person/family you are honoring. Tributes help further the work of Jewish Federation of Greater Naples.
Sol Awend
Reflecting
anniversary of the Oct. 7 massacre … and planning for the future
By Ida Margolis and Shelley Lieb
As GenShoah embarks upon another season it is also the time when many of our members celebrate a new year. But as we celebrate, it is likely that our hearts are filled with a mixture of emotions. Rosh Hashanah is a time of renewal, reflection and hope. Yet this year, our reflections are shadowed by the somber memory of the tragic massacre that occurred one year ago on Oct. 7 in Israel.
It was so frightening to wake to the news of Netanyahu saying, “Israel is at war.” On that day, one year ago, the land of Israel was stained with the blood of innocent lives. Families were torn apart, communities were shattered and a nation mourned. Just as in GenShoah, we honor the memory of those who perished in the Holocaust, and we must honor the memory of those who perished on Oct. 7, 2023 by recalling their names, their faces and their stories. But more than that, we must ensure that their legacy is not one of hatred or despair, but of hope and unity — and a time to renew our commitment to working for peace and justice. How can we contribute to a world where violence is no longer possible? How
can we be agents of peace in a time of conflict? The memory of the Holocaust and of Oct. 7 must inspire us to build a future where all children can live in safety and peace. We should not surrender to hate. The Jewish people have been known for choosing life and hope as well as remembering. Many in our GenShoah group wear pins that say “Zachor” in Hebrew or “Remember” in English. This year, we remember not only those murdered in the Holocaust, but the souls of those who were lost Oct. 7. May their memories be a blessing, and may their legacy inspire us to build a better world. And let us hope for a year that brings peace, justice and light into places of darkness.
Shanah Tovah U’metukah — a good and sweet year to you all. May this year bring us closer to peace and understanding. We hope that you will be able to join us at some of the programs in the season ahead and suggest future programs. Please note that our programs are listed in the
monthly GenShoah newsletter, which is available at no cost. Simply contact Shelley at liebro@gmail.com.
Please especially note the many November programs.
• Nov. 3: “Letters to Sala” a play at FGCU, 2 p.m. with a talkback (contact Shelley to RSVP).
• Nov. 6: Movies that Matter, “Pay or Die,” online with a discussion from 2-3 p.m., RSVP to hmcec.org for link.
• Nov. 14, 11 a.m.: Discussion of the
book “The People on the Beach: Journeys to Freedom After the Holocaust” by Rosie Whitehouse (RSVP to ekafer520@ gmail.com).
• Nov. 17, 2:30 p.m.: Annual Kristallnacht Commemoration at St. John the Evangelist Church.
All GenShoah members should have received an email about the special “Letters to Sala” performance with a talkback on Nov. 3. If you would like more information about this play, GenShoah or have any questions, contact Shelley at liebro@gmail.com.
And thank you to those who have helped us in the past and who have inspired programs and articles. Please note that GenShoah SWFL welcomes not only 2Gs, but all who are interested in our mission:
• Promotion of Holocaust education and human rights
• Preservation of the history and memories of the Holocaust
• Connection of the Second Generation with one another
• Support of the Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center of Southwest Florida
Ida Margolis and Shelley Lieb
WHY DO WRITERS WRITE?
With local author Estelle Rauch
Thursday, Oct. 10, 1 p.m. at The
Join us for this free program during which local writer Estelle Rauch will talk about her latest book, “Masters of Betrayal” and discuss the process of writing a novel. Using three famous American writers (two men and one woman), she will share information from their backgrounds and how they integrated some of their issues into novels. Comments from the audience will be welcomed.
Register now to hear this interesting presentation: https://JFGN.regfox.com/estelle-rauch
Books will be for sale at $15 and Estelle will autograph them.
You can also purchase the book at amazon.com/Masters-Betrayal-Estelle-H-Rauch/dp/B0CSXP8ZD6
Growing Up Socialist
We warmly invite all grandparents of children with special needs to a unique networking event:
Tuesday, Nov. 19 | 10-11:30 a.m. At the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center Register for this free program at www.jewishnaples.org
This is a wonderful opportunity to:
• Connect with other grandparents who understand your journey.
• Share stories and advice
• Learn about local programs and support available
• Build a supportive community Why Attend?
• Support: Gain emotional and practical support.
• Community: Be part of a caring and understanding group.
• Resources: Access valuable information and resources.
How grandparents can share their heritage with Jewish grandchildren
Aging Jewishly — What our traditions teach us about growing old.
By Rabbi Barbara Aiello
"I’mafraid to interfere,” said Magda, grandmother to interfaith twin girls whose Jewish son and Methodist daughter-in-law are raising their daughters in both faiths. Magda’s friend “Zayde” Nathan shares her concerns. Nathan says, “My grandson is almost 10, and I haven’t brought up the Jewish thing. His parents are atheists and refer to themselves as cultural Jews, but they don’t do anything Jewish. I won’t be here forever. I want my grandson to know about his Jewish roots.”
With a U.S. intermarriage rate at nearly 60%, and with more than 30% of Jews self-identifying as non-observant or secular, it seems that Grandma Magda and Zayde Nathan’s concerns are not unique. For more than one third of American Jewish families, issues regarding how and when to share Jewish traditions are a sensitive part of the grandparenting experience.
One of the first to describe the joys and challenges facing interfaith grandparents was author Sunie Levin. In her groundbreaking book, “Mingled Roots – A Guide for Jewish Grandparents of Interfaith Children,” Levin shares her personal experiences with the topic.
As a rabbi who supports intermarriage and the uniquely rich trove of traditions that characterizes so many interfaith families, I’ve applied Levin’s perspective to encourage Jewish grandparents to share their heritage with their grandkids.
Where to begin?
First, some ground rules. Ancient Jewish practice dictates that we Jews do not proselytize — meaning that we don’t actively try to convert others to become Jews. This rule applies to our grandchildren, too. Depending on your family’s Jewish denomination, you may already consider that your grandchildren are Jewish, but modern life demonstrates that Jewishness is less about bloodline and more about day-to-day behavior.
Respect is also key.
You may not agree with the religious climate (or lack thereof) in your grandkids’ home, but if you adopt an attitude that demonstrates respect for their choices, interfaith and secular parents may be more open to grandparents sharing family history with their children.
The grandkids may understand that mom or dad is Jewish, but it’s possible that they have had no experience with the history and traditions of the Jewish people.
That’s where the grandparents come in. As bearers of the flame, grandparents are the family members who give the youngest generation a sense of their history. So, it doesn’t matter if the grandkids are part of a shul-going family or if they are being raised in a Christian or secular environment, grandparents can play an important role in helping their grandkids appreciate who they are and where they come from.
Rabbi Barbara Aiello
Here are some things that you can do:
The mini-museum
Create a Jewish corner in your own home. Shine the Chanukah menorah and buy
the items, organize a scavenger hunt to foster a personal hands-on relationship with your family’s Jewish treasures.
Nothin’ says lovin’ like Jewish cooking
If you are able to spend time with your grandchildren, create a cooking school experience. Use family recipes for brisket, latkes, kugel or blintzes, and teach the grandkids how to become chefs in “Bubby’s Jewish Cooking School.” While you’re creating, be sure to share family memories of how, when and why these Jewish foods were eaten. Invite the parents to sample the feast.
individual seder plates, matzah covers or book covers for the Haggadah.
Chanukah ranks as the second most popular Jewish holiday, even more special because it has its own unique interfaith meaning. Kindling the candles and placing the lighted menorah in the window demonstrates the basic tenet of the festival — religious freedom. An interfaith or secular family is an example of religious tolerance and appreciation of differences. Making or buying individual Chanukah menorahs for each family member can add to the enjoyment and, if you’ve made your mini-museum, they can be enjoyed year round.
U.K.’s Rabbi Gideon Sylvester puts it well when he discusses teaching about Judaism to anyone, Jewish or not (The
some Shabbat candles. Find the family kiddush cup and great-grandpa’s tallit Select a spot for your mini-museum, making sure that it is eye-level for the little ones. Ask your Jewish son or daughter if he/she would like to contribute a personal item to the mini-museum, as well. When the grandchildren visit, show them their family minimuseum; let them explore, touch and ask questions. Personalize the items. “This is my father’s tallit and these were my mother’s Shabbat candlesticks.” Or if these items are no longer accessible, adapt. “This is a tallit like my father wore, and these are candlesticks just like my mother had for Shabbat.” Before each visit, add an item or two and ask your grandchild if they can find what’s new in the minimuseum. When the kids are familiar with
Jewish holidays
Passover is the Jewish holiday celebrated by more Jews than any other. Regardless of Jewish persuasion the Passover Seder (traditional meal with symbolic foods,
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prayers and stories) has brought more Yiddishkeit to interfaith and secular families than any other holiday experience. With this in mind, have your grandchildren help you organize the seder by creating
Chronicle, 2010). Sylvester references the Torah where it says, “Keep my commandments which a person should perform and through which they will gain eternal life" (Leviticus 18: 5). The verse makes no distinction between Jews and non-Jews — Torah is there for everyone, including our interfaith and secular grandkids.
The first non-orthodox rabbi and first woman rabbi in Italy, Rabbi Barbara Aiello is spiritual leader of the first active synagogue in southern Italy since Inquisition times, founder of Italy’s Pluralistic Jewish movement, and a mentoring rabbi for Darshan Yeshiva’s conversion program. She is a vice president of Kulanu, an international Jewish organization that supports Jewish diversity worldwide. rabbi@ rabbibarbara.com
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Holiday honey babka
By Chef Dalia
Afew days ago, someone emailed me asking if I had a modern honey cake recipe for Rosh Hashanah. Well, you don’t need to ask me twice. Honey cake is frequently served during Rosh Hashanah, because honey symbolizes wishes for "sweet" things to come and, for me, more important than the appetizer or main course, a Rosh Hashanah meal is defined by dessert. For a dinner where sweetness is the prevailing theme, possibly determining the entire tone of the upcoming year, dessert is the most important course of all. And forever in my family, that most important dessert has been honey cake. I have always loved honey cakes, and not just for the flavor. I have wonderful memories of going to my Safta’s (Israeli word for grandmother) home a day before Rosh Hashanah, sitting in her kitchen and having a slice of honey cake with a cup of tea.
Once I married and moved far from Israel, I found myself wanting to make my grandmother’s honey cake for Rosh Hashanah
I called my grandma to ask for the recipe. She gave me the recipe over the phone, making sure to tell me everything I needed to know. She even made sure our pans were the same size so my honey cake could be identical to hers.
I wrote down everything she told me. When it came to ingredients, she instructed me to use “a glass of this, a glass of that …” So, that is what I wrote down, and that is exactly what I did. When all was said and done, my cake did not look or taste anything like my grandmother’s had. So, to make me happy, my grandmother sent me a honey cake every Rosh Hashanah. The cake was dark, sticky and sweet. It carried in it every good wish, and every happy memory she could send from Israel. It was always exciting to receive the package. The cake would sit on our counter until Rosh Hashanah dinner, promising future sweetness, future happiness, and joy. And when we would eat it with our guests, we knew our family in
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Israel was with us as well.
The next time I visited Israel, I went to see my grandma to find out how she makes my favorite honey cake. It did not take much time to understand what went wrong with my cake. She uses an old jam jar to measure the ingredients.
“Is that your glass? Is that what you use as a measuring cup?” My grandmother is originally from Spain, and Hebrew, the language in which we speak to each other, is not her mother tongue. I had assumed her one “glass” was one cup. She didn’t own a measuring cup. I found out the jam jar was equivalent to 1½ cups. I figured out it was my problem! On my next visit to her house, I brought her a gift … a measuring cup.
Through the years I always make honey cake, and I always think of her. This year, my attempt is to bring the joy of dipping challah in honey into a honey babka. Layers of rich dough filled with honey and baked together.
I modernized the classic honey cake to a babka honey cake in a bundt pan — honey cakes, same as babka, are often presented as simple loaves, but a round pan makes the cake more
festive and more symbolic. Similar to shaping challah into a circle at Rosh Hashanah, baking a round honey cake signifies the continuation of life, which
Honey Cake
Ingredients
• 3½ cups bread flour
• 2 tablespoon dry yeast
• ½ teaspoon salt
• ¾ cup water or milk
• ½ cup sugar
• 10 tablespoons melted butter
• 2 large eggs
For filling
• 8 tablespoons soft unsalted butter
• ¼ cup sugar
• Grated zest of one lemon
• ½ cup honey
• 1 cup golden raisins
• 1 egg yolk
• ½ cup walnuts or hazelnuts, finely chopped (optional)
For honey syrup
• 12 tablespoons honey
• 3 tablespoons water
• 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
Directions
1. In the bowl of a stand mixer, combine the water, yeast and sugar. Let it sit for 10 minutes.
2. Add honey, egg and butter and slowly add the flour and salt using the dough hook. Mix until the flour is completely incorporated, about 4-5 minutes. (If the dough seems sticky, add 1/4 cup of flour). Cover the bowl with plastic
is particularly appropriate for the Jewish New Year holiday. I wish you all a happy, healthy and sweet Rosh Hashanah!
wrap and let sit at room temperature for 2 hours.
3. Prepare the filling: mix butter, sugar and lemon zest in a medium bowl. Set it aside.
4. Make the large round babka: roll the dough in one piece into a 28” x 15” rectangle. Spread the sugar-butter filling and drizzle honey on top. Sprinkle raisins and walnuts (if using) all over. Roll up into a long log, starting from the long side. Gently cut log into 7-9 short logs (about 3 inches each) and transfer them, cut side up, into a 10” round spring form.
5. Cover the babka with a damp towel and let them stand for another hour. The dough will rise again.
6. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Lightly beat egg yolk and brush it over the babka. Bake the babka for 55 to 60 minutes. Touch the surface in the center of the babka to make sure it is almost steady but not completely firm.
7. Prepare the syrup: In a small saucepan, bring all the ingredients to a boil. Mix and remove from the heat.
For serving
When the cake comes out of the oven, use a tablespoon and pour the hot syrup on top of the cake. Sprinkle with walnuts or hazelnuts (if using). Remove to a cooling rack and let cool for 30 minutes (if you can) before serving.
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The joker sings!, SNL movie, and more Stars of David
By Nate Bloom, Stars of David Contributing Columnist
Editor’s Note: Persons in bold are deemed by Nate Bloom to be Jewish for the purpose of this column. Persons identified as Jewish have at least one Jewish parent and were not raised in, or identify with, a faith other than Judaism. Converts to Judaism, of course, are also identified as Jewish.
“Joker: Folie a Deux”
The latest entry in films inspired by the Batman comic books, “Joker: Folie a Deux” opens in theaters on Oct. 4. A “Folie a Deux” is a French expression that describes a delusion or mental illness shared by two people in close association.
“Joker: Folie a Deux” is a sequel to “The Joker” (2019), a huge box-office hit. Joaquin Phoenix, 49, starred as the Joker (real name, Arthur Fleck). Phoenix won the best actor Oscar (2020) for his (first) performance as the Joker/Arthur Fleck.
As I have noted before, Phoenix is the son of a non-Jewish father and a Jewish mother. Phoenix is not religious and, a few years ago, he said he defined himself as “a secular Jew.”
In case you are not familiar with the Joker character, here’s a capsule description: he’s a mentally ill, nihilistic criminal with a clown-inspired persona. Before turning to crime, he was a poor party-clown and an aspiring stand-up comedian.
As “Joker: Folie a Deux” opens, the Joker/Arthur Fleck is being held (really, imprisoned) in a state mental hospital. He is there because of his crimes in the first film, “The Joker.”
Lady Gaga co-stars as Harley Quinn, a music therapist at the mental hospital. She meets Fleck and is curious about him. This curiosity turns into obsession, and she forms a deadly romantic relationship with him.
Lady Gaga can certainly sing, and so can Phoenix. Just watch “Walk the Line” (2005), an acclaimed film about country music icon Johnny Cash. Phoenix (as Cash) sang all the songs — quite well — in his voice (not dubbed). Phoenix got a best actor Oscar nomination for this role.
So, here’s the big surprise: “Joker: Folie a Deux” isn’t just another comic book inspired flick — it’s a full-on musical!
A song list has not been released, but it’s clear that most of the songs are classic hits of the past (1920-1980). Advance rumors say that one tune used is “That’s Entertainment” (1953) written by Arthur Schwartz and Howard Dietz
“Joker: Folie a Deux” was directed by Todd Philips, 53. He directed the first Joker movie, too. He has four Oscar nominations, three of them for “The Joker.” He co-wrote both Joker films with Scott Silver, 59.
“Saturday Night”
This biographical comedy-drama set in 1975, which opens Oct. 11 in theaters, follows the events leading to the premiere of NBC’s Saturday Night (later known as Saturday Night Live and/or SNL). The film was directed by Jason Reitman, 46. He co-wrote the script with Gil Kenan, 47.
Jason Reitman is the son of Ivan Reitman (1946-2020). Ivan Reitman directed many comedy film classics, including “Ghostbusters” and “Kindergarten Cop.”
Jason Reitman’s big hits include “Juno” and “Up in the Air.” He and Kenan co-wrote “Ghostbusters: Afterlife” and “Ghostbusters: Frozen Empire.” Jason Reitman directed “Ghostbusters: Afterlife,” and Kenan directed “Ghostbusters: Frozen Empire.”
This is all nice, but I was not happy when I read the “Saturday Night” movie character/cast list. In one sense, this film busts any record I know of: the number of non-Jewish actors who play “real” Jews. I counted 27 named characters in the credits, and 14 are/ were Jewish. Only one (!) “minor” Jewish role went to a Jewish actor (!). I don’t have the space to give you all these names and who they are/were. Here are just the “top” five Jews played by non-Jews. (Contact me if you want the complete list.) Lorne Michaels , 79, the star character of this film, and
the creator/producer of “SNL;” Rosie Shuster, 74, Michaels’ first wife and a SNL writer; original cast member Gilda Radner (1946-1989); original cast member Laraine Newman, 72; and an important guest star Andy Kaufman (1949-1984). There is something wrong when only one Jewish actor plays a Jew and 13 nonJews play others. What if this was a movie with 14 Hispanic characters and only one actor playing a Hispanic person was “really” Hispanic? Today, hell would break out — even if the director were Hispanic.
“Disclaimer”
This 7-episode Apple+ series premieres on Oct. 11. Premise: Cate Blanchett plays a journalist famous for uncovering others’ misdeeds. She receives a novel by an unknown author that is really a list of all the bad things she’s done. She races to find out who knows her secrets — secrets that could destroy her career and her marriage. Sacha Baron Cohen, 52, plays her husband.
“Before”
A 10-episode Apple+ series, “Before” begins on Oct. 25. Premise: Eli (Billy Crystal, 76) is a child psychiatrist who, after losing his wife, Lynn (Judith Light, 75), encounters Noah, a troubled young boy who seems to have a haunting connection to Eli’s past.
Israel at Crossroads post October 7
Ido Aharoni Aronoff is an Israeli diplomat, advisor to global companies, public speaker, university lecturer, writer and investor. He was born in Tel Aviv to a family that settled in the Land of Israel in the 1870s and spent his entire diplomatic career in the U.S. on both coasts. He is a 25-year veteran of Israel’s Foreign Service, a public diplomacy specialist, founder of the Brand Israel Program (2002), and a well-known place positioning and branding practitioner.
Aronoff served as a Member of the Board of Governors of Tel Aviv University since 2015 and as senior faculty at the university’s Coller School of Management since 2018. He is the host of TAU Unbound, the official English language podcast of Tel Aviv University. He has served as a Global Distinguished Professor for International Relations at New York University and, since 2024, as Global Distinguished Professor of Business at Touro University.
Aharoni has been Israel’s longest-serving Consul-General in New York (20102016) and has frequently appeared in national and international media as a commentator and opinion writer.
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Kristallnacht is recognized by most historians as “the night the Holocaust began.” The Catholic-Jewish Dialogue of Collier County invites the community to this commemorative service.
Sunday, Nov. 17 at 2:30 PM
Ballroom at St. John the Evangelist 625 111th Ave., North Naples (111th Ave is the westward extension of Immokalee Road)
Please register at: www.jewishnaples.org so we know how many people will attend.
In the spring of 1943, 5-year-old John Koenigsberg was brought to the home of Johannes “Thei” and Anna “Bertha” Snijckers by members of the Dutch Resistance. This Catholic family hid him from Nazis between 1943 and 1945. Come hear his story.
Experiences of a Young Boy During the Holocaust
Most bittersweet year
IMarina Berkovich JHSSWF President
begin with the most heartfelt wishes for a safe and abundant Rosh Hashanah 5785. May it bring sweetness to all Jewish households and to the homes of our friends, who unwaveringly stand by us in our time of need.
The year 5784 was a trying and often bitter year for all those who value human life and abhor religious/ethnic persecution, especially of the kind we all had to witness on Oct. 7, 2023. What made it even more bitter was that the atrocities perpetrated by Hamas on the population of the Gaza Strip were then cheered by the pro-Palestinian (aka anti-Jewish, antiIsrael) movement of the world.
Up until last year, I held the year 1979, the year of my own exodus from
the U.S.S.R., as the most bittersweet year in my memory. Normal, everyday antisemitism I had to endure from the Soviet Ukrainian population escalated to something from the early WWII era; the sort I never, ever fathomed I would be subjected to. But last year topped it!
The Holocaust itself now pales in comparison to the atrocities committed by the bloodthirsty terrorists of Oct. 7 and the world that rose up against Jews under the leadership of 21st century heads of state.
Historical evidence of similar events teaches us that in the face of clear and present danger, when terrorists themselves submit recordings of their intentions and methods to "The Associated Press," "Reuters," United Nations and other various media/world organizations, the majority of world populous cowers and bows in fear.
Instead, all decent people should be gathering as one to bravely stand up to the oppressors. Power is in unity, yet, so many individuals and organizations opt for regurgitated wordy mandates and
orations, instead of definitive actions that could swiftly put an end to further abuse, terror and atrocities.
I’m grimly reminded of a fable I heard in my long ago, far away childhood about a man who loved his dog so much that he chopped off his tail bit by bit to “lessen the dog’s pain.” To continue to have illogical expectation of one’s inept leaders is analogous of being the dog of this fable and still licking the boots of the man, who actually either has no clue of the prolonged pain his torturous action has on the dog or is a sadist (terrorist) at heart and enjoys the torture he inflicts. Historically, the only success is to resist early on. Before they command you to surrender, they always destabilize your entire world and the way you’ve enjoyed living in it, including how they educate children and what they teach. I’ve written of Gaza and West Bank math textbooks before. Next, they refuse to service you. Two Orthodox Jews last week were refused gas service in New Jersey, where self-service is not an option. Jews on social
media were advising these men to take off their yarmolkas — not historically winning advice. Resist! The next step is always disarming, and then, a new Holocaust. If we are not there yet!
We hope to see you at all JHSSWF events during this season. The Naples Jewish History Film Festival starts Oct. 30 at the Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center. More information is available at JHSSWF.org
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WINTER SERIES
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January 24: No Good Deed Goes Unpunished
The civil rights movement of the 1960s was an awakening for many Americans. None more so, than young American Jews. Joining to help fi ght segregation, many were beaten and imprisoned in southern jails. Two gave their lives for the cause. Their reward was not what you would have expected. You will learn that no good deed goes unpunished.
January 31: Beau James and Murder in The Park
When the body of Vivian Gordon, a woman with a checkered past, was found murdered in Van Cortland Park in the Bronx, on February 26, 1931, it set in motion a series of events that toppled New York’s favorite Mayor and destroyed, arguably the most powerful political organization in America. The movie does not tell the whole story. Learn how this happened.
February 14: The Partition of India, Wounds That Never Heal
When the British government agreed to partition India in August 1947, the resulting human catastrophe of displacement, misery and death would be squarely placed on the shoulders of England’s leaders, one in particular. Learn who was really responsible for this disaster and why it happened.
February 21: Lawrence of Arabia Meets NILI
Thomas Edward Lawrence was England’s Arab Savior tasked by the British to organize an Arab revolt against the Ottoman Turks in Arabia, in World War I. Sarah Aronsohn her brother Aaron and three dozen Jewish youths decided that they too would help the British to defeat the Turks in their ancient homeland, Palestine. When the British were successful in defeating the Turks to whom did they give the credit? You will be surprised.
February 28: Putting on the Ritz
The Ritz Hotel in Paris, before World War II was the gathering place for the glitterati, the famous and the rich. It became the Nazis favorite residence and meeting place during the French occupation. While they feasted on roast pheasants and sipped champagne, they never suspected what was happening in the Ritz, right under their noses.
March 7: No Good Deed Goes Unpunished: Redux
The small Jewish community of South Africa played a disproportionate role in opposing apartheid. Nelson Mandela acknowledged that fact and honored them after becoming president. The reward was the present government pursuing a blood libel against the state of Israel at the International Court of Justice. Why? The answer is quite simple, and you will hear it.
March 28: The Longest Hatred
History encompasses 2500 years of anti-Semitism. We will explore when it began, its past manifestations and how it has morphed into an outburst of Jewish hatred in the 21st century. Learn how the new anti-Semitism is different than the old anti-Semitism and how and why it has become a worldwide phenomenon.
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A year of Hadassah hope and healing
This has been a life-changing year for Hadassah. We helped save lives. We transformed lives.
And we were transformed.
The year 2023 was a life-changing year for all of us at Hadassah: from groundbreaking medical achievements at Hadassah hospital, to advocating for women’s rights, to fighting antisemitism, to helping Israel heal after the devastation of the unprecedented war that Hamas launched.
We began the year ready to joyously celebrate 75 years of Israeli statehood. Yet by year’s end, we found ourselves in fullon crisis mode, responding to a massive, horrific terror attack on Oct. 7 followed by a new war. Hadassah responded immediately. Critically wounded patients were brought to Hadassah hospital. We helped save lives. We mobilized for Israel, for the hostages, and for the victims of Hamas’ sexual violence used as a weapon of war.
Since our founding, Hadassah has met crises with meaningful action. Providing hope and healing is something Hadassah does at all times, not only during war. This year alone has seen Hadassah hospitals at the forefront of medical achievements, developing personalized cancer treatments, and employing the latest technical advances, such as robotics and 3D printing, to aid in complicated surgeries. Across the U.S., we reaffirmed our unwavering support for complete access to reproductive choice, fought for better protections against antisemitism at the state and federal levels, empowered young women to take on leadership roles and participated in the largest pro-Israel rally in U.S. history.
Our ties to Israel are strong. We supported at-risk teens and adults through our Youth Aliyah villages and an enduring
connection to the Jewish people through Young Judaea.
The work we do together as Hadassah sisters is truly lifechanging. Every member reading this message should be very proud to belong to Hadassah.
Upcoming Hadassah events
Please join us for these upcoming events to support Hadassah. Collier/Lee Hadassah is a vibrant chapter with programming to educate you about Hadassah’s mission, vision and values, entertain you with delightful performances, feed you with delicious food, and introduce you to a group of women with a wide variety of interests.
We look forward to welcoming you to our upcoming events as our activities rev up in October. We have some exciting programs planned, so mark your calendars now. You must register in advance to attend each event.
Oct. 15 – Clive Daniel – An afternoon of food, fun and great design. Please join us for a buffet lunch followed by Clive Daniel design consultants providing tips to enhance your home followed by an opportunity for some “retail therapy.”
Oct. 28 – Women’s Health Symposium – Gynecological Cancers: Diagnosis to Wellness. The program will be held both in-person at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center and via a webinar.
Nov. 13 – Fall Meeting and Election of Officers. The program features a “Vendor Artisan Showcase” (a great opportunity to buy some handcrafted Hanukkah gifts) and a panel discussion on antisemitism. This event will be held at Nina Iser Jewish Cultural Center.
Dec. 11 – Theater Party Matinee to see Agatha Christie’s “The Murder of Roger Ackroyd.” This event will be held at Florida Repertory Theatre, 2267 Bay Street, Fort Myers. For more information about these events and to get a registration link, please email CollierLeeHadassah@ gmail.com with “Event Information” in the subject line.
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How I’m choosing to rejoice this Rosh Hashana
ARabbi Fishel Zaklos
t the end of each year, we often feel like giving a big groan, or as they say in Yiddish, a “krechtz," about the year that passed. Each year has blessings and challenges, and it’s often the challenges that seem to stand out more in our minds.
This past year is definitely one of those years that the krechtz, and even a tear, feels justified. You don’t need me to tell you how hard this year has been for all of us. Three weeks after Rosh Hashanah, on the happiest Yomtov (Jewish holiday) of the year, Simchat Torah, our lives were changed forever as we heard the news of the devastating destruction, known to the world as the events of Oct. 7. And now we approach Rosh Hashanah again, and the whole month of festivities that follow. To be honest, it will be a struggle. Every day seems to bring a new piece of troubling news that we add to the burden on our shoulders. Feeling the joy that is the big commandment of the holidays of Sukkot and Simchat Torah will be an uphill battle.
Let me share with you a few ideas that I will hold onto as I commit myself to find joy in these difficult times.
1. If I give into the pain and despair then I have handed a small win to the terrorists. They want nothing more than to break the spirit of our people, not only in Israel but worldwide. I won’t give them that satisfaction.
2. I believe that I honor the lost lives by choosing to live as an open, proud and joyous Jew. By choosing to celebrate, I am not dishonoring their memory, but rather I am continuing their legacy. They died for being Jewish, so I will keep their spirit alive by being Jewish as proudly and happily as I can be — for them. Even those who have passed can still receive loving care packages — which are the Mitzvot
and acts of goodness and kindness that we do. When we choose to go forward, it is a gift to the souls we’ve lost.
3. Unfortunately, this isn’t our first rodeo, as our nation has been through so much pain over thousands of years. Oct. 7 and the many months of war and loss that followed — while horrific, painful and unimaginable — are sadly part of a difficult history of loss and pain that we have endured.
Amongst the lessons we’ve learned is that we outlive our tormentors every single time. We are an eternal people, and we never go away, because our faith, our values and our bond with G-d are unbreakable. So, we celebrate the fact that we know we will overcome. We know how the story ends. We will arrive to a world of peace, love and kindness, yet. We never stop believing in a better future. And we know that it will come. Am Yisrael Chai (the Jewish people live on)!
4. And finally, in our own private darkness that so many of us are battling –– fraught with our personal pain, hurt and loss –– we would be wise to remember the truth that the darkness in our heart is dispelled by kindling the light in the heart of the other. Our inner healing opens outwards, and the more we give to others, the more we heal our own pain. Now is the time to touch the hearts of others by making a positive impact on their lives. At Chabad of Naples, we consider this idea our guiding light and ethos — to add light and love to the hearts of those around us. So, join us this High Holidays! We look forward to gathering together in a spirit of joy.
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May we see better days in our community, our Holy Land, our people and for good people the world over very soon. We continue to pray for the remaining hostages to be released and to return home safely to the comfort of their families. And for a swift end to the suffering felt by people everywhere.
היתוכרבו הנש לחת, היתוללקו הנש הלכת May this year and its curses end. May the new year with its blessings begin.
Rabbi Zaklos Fishel serves at Chabad Jewish Center of Naples.
“As we dip our apples in honey, we pray for an additional measure of sweetness. May we continue to grow in our commitment to our faith, our people and community. May all Jews experience blessings in the year ahead, and may the world become a better place for all your children.” – Rabbis Bennet Miller & Erik Lankin Please come visit
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Unity between Jews
TRabbi Adam F. Miller
he 10 days between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur carry many names, including Aseret Yamei Teshuvah (the Ten Days of Repentance/ Return) and Yamim No’raim (the Days of Awe/Fear). Apt descriptions for the experience of this time, when we are seeking to return back to the right path and hold in our hearts a fear for the unknown of the year that is about to unfold.
This year, we feel an additional weight as the 10 days coincide with the end of our first year mourning the horrific events of Oct. 7, 2023. It is at this juxtaposition of these moments that we find ourselves at a crossroads. How does one let go of the last year when it still feels like time has frozen? What does it mean to return, and what are we returning to?
sources. We were a people divided. In Israel, months of protest created massive rifts across the society over proposed changes to the Israeli Supreme Court. Religious divisions over control of religious life in Israel furthered the divisions. In America, things were not much better. The Jewish community was fragmenting over disagreements amongst ourselves on politics, support for Israel and religious differences.
Then came Oct. 7, 2023, and the world for us stopped. Faced with an existential external threat, we stopped fighting with one another, and instead put our arms around each other’s shoulders in solidarity. We became am echad im lev echad, one people with one heart.
“God has set before us a choice between life and death,blessingandcurse.”
Like the Holocaust, the Yom Kippur War, and other tragic milestones in Jewish history, Oct. 7, 2023 marked a moment that forever altered our people. We can clearly point to the time before Oct. 7, 2023, and the time after.
Before Oct. 7, major threats to the Jewish community came from internal
Groups in Israel that were previously organizing rallies and protests shifted to become social service agencies, providing aid for those who lost their homes and their loved ones on that tragic day. Across the world, Jewish communities united, with Jews from all denominations standing together as Am Yisrael. Our unity gave us strength, comfort and hope during those dark hours.
One year removed, we struggle to figure out our path going forward. At this season of return, do we want to go back to where we were? Before Oct. 7, we were heading down a terrible, yet familiar path of animosity between Jews. Too many times, we have witnessed divisions within the
Jewish community. The Sages teach that sinat chinam, senseless hatred, between Jews was the reason the city of Jerusalem was destroyed 2,000 years ago. We don’t want to return to that!
Sadly, in recent months, we have seen signs of a return to the divisiveness from before. Arguments in Israel over the responsibility of ultra-Orthodox Jews to serve in the IDF, as well as disagreements over who will lead and participate in the national observance for Oct. 7. In America, divisions over denominational streams emerged stronger than before with some in Orthodox communities refusing to recognize other Jews as Jews.
The choice is ours. Do we want to go back? Let us choose to end this cycle. If nothing else, Oct. 7 should have been a
stark reminder that we have enemies who want to see us destroyed, and they revel in our fighting with one another. We must reject words and actions that cause alienation between Jews.
This year, when you hear those words on Yom Kippur — that God has set before us a choice between life and death, blessing and curse — choose the path of life. Choose the path of unity between Jews. Enable us to return to a time of kavod, respect, between all Jews. Speak out when you hear Jews denigrating other Jews. We don’t have to agree, but we cannot be disrespectful. The future is up to us; the choice is ours.
Shanah Tovah U’Mtukah.
Rabbi Adam Miller serves at Temple Shalom.
Hope, strength, wisdom and compassion
ARabbi Ammos Chorny
s we prepare to usher in the Jewish New Year 5785, the shofar’s call resonates deeply, inviting us to reflect on the past year’s trials and renew our hopes for the future. This Rosh Hashanah, however, arrives with a heavy heart, as we cannot overlook the profound challenges that Israel and the Jewish people have endured.
On Oct. 7, a dark chapter was added to our history; when innocent men, women and children were mercilessly massacred, and many others were taken hostage by Hamas terrorists. The pain and anguish felt by their families continue to haunt us all. Their absence casts a long shadow over our celebrations, reminding us of the fragility of life. We feel their loss as our own, standing united in prayer for their safe and peaceful return. Our tradition holds pikuach nefesh — the saving of a life — as among the highest mitzvot. We will not rest until every captive is brought home!
The NewYear representsrenewal …despitethe challengesofthe pastyear,there isalwaysthe possibilityof change,healing andpeace.
Simultaneously, the campaign to eradicate Hamas and secure Israel's safety has come at a great cost. The brave men and women of the IDF have displayed extraordinary courage and resilience, but the losses have been devastating. Families have been shattered, communities displaced, and an entire nation bears the weight of war. We stand with Israel, recognizing that the fight for security and peace comes with painful sacrifices. Yet we hold firm to the belief that Israel will emerge stronger and that these sacrifices will not be in vain.
The reverberations of this conflict extend far beyond Israel’s borders. Jewish communities worldwide have faced a disturbing surge in antisemitism — synagogues desecrated, violent attacks perpetrated, hateful rhetoric amplified. This rise in hatred is a stark reminder that the struggles of our people are not confined to one nation but are part of a broader fight against prejudice. Just as our ancestors stood resolute in the face of adversity, we must do the same. We refuse to let fear define us. We will continue to live proudly as Jews, to educate, advocate and stand in solidarity with one another. Yet amid such darkness, Rosh Hashanah calls us to hope. The New Year represents renewal — a reminder that, despite the challenges of the past year, there is always the possibility of change, healing and peace. As we dip apples in honey and wish each other a sweet year, we also pray for the sweetness of peace — not only for Israel and the Jewish people but for all of humanity.
We pray for the safe return of the hostages, for a resolution to the conflict that brings security and dignity to all, and for an end to the cycle of violence that has plagued our world for far too long. May this New Year usher in healing for the wounded, comfort for the bereaved, and unity for a fractured world.
In the year ahead, may we be blessed with the courage to stand strong in adversity, the wisdom to seek peace, and the compassion to care for one another. May 5785 be a year of renewal, hope and peace — for Israel, the Jewish people and all of humanity.
Shanah Tovah U’Metukah — may it indeed be a good and sweet year. Am Yisrael Chai!
Rabbi Ammos Chorny serves at Beth Tikvah.
Time to chart a new course
IRabbi Howard S. Herman DD
’ve always been enamored by the song “Turn, Turn, Turn” written by singer, songwriter and activist, Pete Seeger. It applies the lyrics lifted from a fragment of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, which reads: “A time to rend and a time to sew; a time to keep silent and a time to speak; A time to love and a time to hate; A time of war and a time of peace.”
Seeger wrote the song in the late 1950s and added “turn, turn, turn,” to the text to create a chorus. He also included his own hopeful line, “A time for peace; I swear it’s not too late,” for audiences during the Cold War. Seeger composed the song as a protest and a clarion call for change.
So why do I bring this up now? Well, simply because we are coming into our High Holiday season which, thematically, is about turning and change. When we turn, we chart a new course. We are looking at this season of the year to right old
wrongs, to acknowledge slights we have made, to look ahead and see where we want to be in this next year, and to alter our direction to get us there.
It is hard to imagine anyone who doesn’t want to accomplish some kind of turning. We want the transition to 5785 to feel peaceful. In fact, if we were pressed, we would say we want it to feel simple and easy. But this is a year that is already fraught with uncertainty as we look toward an election that really feels disastrously contentious.
There are some who teach us that the Jewish High Holiday season does not begin with Rosh Hashanah. They contend, rather, that the Jewish High Holy Day season commences on Tisha B’Av, the day we remember and mourn the loss and catastrophe of the destruction of the Temple. So, the High Holidays do not begin with celebration or even introspection, but with everything falling down around us.
Judaism has much to say about what to do when you find yourself in places where it feels like everything has torn asunder.
A teaching from Brachot, a tractate of the Talmud about blessings, tells us that a Rabbi Yossi, while walking along the
road enters the ruins of an abandoned building to pray. While praying, he notices the prophet Elijah guarding the entrance. After greeting Elijah, they have a conversation:
And Elijah said to me, “My son, why did you enter this ruin?” I said, “To pray.” And Elijah said, “You should have prayed on the road.” Rabbi Yossi said, “I was unable to pray along the road, because
Workinanyway youcantobringabout the best world for yourselfandallpeople, notjustsome.
I'm afraid that I might be interrupted by travelers and would be unable to focus.”
Elijah said, “You should have recited the abbreviated prayer instituted for just such circumstances. You cannot pray in a ruin, regardless of the goodness of your intent.”
It seems the lesson, especially now, is this: You cannot stay in the ruin; not just because everything it represents is gone, but because, eventually, it will
very likely collapse around you. You are not freed from your responsibilities, but you “turn” and take them on the road. You keep moving and turning. And you work to build something for yourself and the community.
Just because something is ruined doesn’t mean it can’t be rebuilt. That is the lesson for Rosh Hashanah and for this upcoming election season.
Work in any way you can to bring about the best world for yourself and all people, not just some. All humans are God’s children, not just some.
There may be days in the coming weeks — and in this election season — where everything will feel like it is falling apart. We begin the High Holidays every year in mourning, but we don’t stay there. We keep going and being the change we want to see. We end the cycle with Sukkot — a holiday in which we are literally commanded to feel joy.
As we begin this holy time, joy feels like a big ask. But keep encouraging yourself to turn. It may not bring you joy, but it will give you hope. And with hope you will keep going.
Rabbi Howard S. Herman DD serves at Naples Jewish Congregation.
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hen the High Holy Days come to a close with the Neilah service on Yom Kippur and we have enjoyed our Break-the-Fast meal with family and friends, we are truly ready to start the new year. Following this prolonged and deep period of personal introspection, we reach the festival of Sukkot. A time not only to build a personal sukkah, but for also building the Jewish community. Sukkot is a perfect time for family togetherness and fun, which for us meant building our own family sukkah.
A sukkah is not meant to be a permanent structure, but rather a portable shelter as it was for those escaping Egypt, and as it can symbolically be the same for us! Building a sukkah serves as our physical connection to the 40-year ordeal the Israelites lived through in the desert before reaching their permanent home in Israel. A sukkah’s purpose is to be a shelter that can be easily moved. Thankfully, building a sukkah is not too complex and does not take much more than an afternoon. For a few years, when our children were in the six to twelve age range, we would build a sukkah on our backyard deck. While our sukkah may not have strictly followed Jewish law, being able to physically reenact part of the Exodus story added insight
to our understanding of the Exodus from Egypt.
For the sukkah’s minimum of three walls, we used lattice tied to the deck railing. The roof, or sechach, was a bamboo mat that we unrolled to complete the construction. The last step was the favorite of my wife and children — making colorful construction paper chains and picking which fruits to hang from the sechach. Then, in went the patio furniture and it was time for the family to say the blessings and have a meal in the sukkah … or at least a hardy snack. About the same time as the children’s interest in making construction paper chains waned, we stopped building our own sukkah. Thereafter, we would join in with our synagogue in building a community sukkah.
Now, having settled in Southwest Florida, we celebrate with our Beth Tikvah family. We would love to invite everyone to join us in our Beth Tikvah sukkah at the conclusion of Shabbat, Oct. 19. Families can join together in the sukkah for the mitzvah of saying the appropriate blessing for sitting in the sukkah and the hamotzi as we share a piece of challah and other delicacies. Sukkot concludes with another joyous holiday, Simchat Torah. Please return to Beth Tikvah on the evening of Oct. 24. Join us in dancing with the Torah as we celebrate the completion of the yearly cycle and begin the next triennial reading. You will enjoy an evening of dancing, singing and eating, and we will enjoy having you with us!
L' Shanah Tovah
JEWISH CONGREGATION OF MARCO ISLAND
LStan Alliker President
’Shanah Tovah. Best wishes for a happy and healthy new year. This summer, the staff of the Jewish Congregation of Marco Island have been busy preparing for the High Holidays. Service schedules are as follows:
• S’lichot Service at 8:30 p.m.
• Rosh Hashanah Eve Service on
Wednesday, Oct. 2 at 7:30 p.m.
• Rosh Hashanah Service on Thursday, Oct. 3 at 10 a.m.
• Yom Kippur Eve Service on Friday, Oct. 11 at 7:30 p.m.
• Yom Kippur Service on Saturday, Oct. 12 at 10 a.m.
A traditional Break-the-Fast dinner will be held at the Temple on Saturday Oct. 12 following services. Community members are welcome to attend. Please contact the office at 239-642-0800 to attend.
Again, I wish everyone a happy and sweet 5785.
ACharles Flum President
re you new to the area or unaffiliated with a Reform synagogue?
You need look no further. If you have never been to our High Holy Day services, now is the time to come as there is no cost to you. Rosh Hashonah services are Oct. 2 at 7 p.m. and Oct. 3 at 10 a.m. Yom Kippur: Kol Nidre is Oct. 11 at 7 p.m., morning service Oct. 12 at 10 a.m. Yiskor and Neillah start at 3:30 p.m. If you are interested in coming to join “the small congregation with the big heart” please call President Charles Flum 239316-8611 to register. Non-members must register to attend.
The first day of Rosh Hashonah never falls on Wednesday, Friday or Sunday. If it fell on Wednesday, Yom Kippur would be on Friday. There would be no time to prepare for Shabbat. If it fell on Friday, Yom Kippur would be on Sunday, leaving no time to prepare for Yom Kippur. If it fell on Sunday, Hoshanh Rabbah would fall on Shabbat. That is not allowed as the beating of the willows, a part of Hoshanah Rabbah, is forbidden on Shabbat.
The shofar is not blown when Rosh Hashonah falls on Shabbat because one may need to carry the shofar, which is forbidden.
Trivia facts
Rosh Hashonah is not the only new year in the Jewish calendar; there are four. Rosh Hashonah is the beginning of the religious year, the first of Nissan is the beginning of the civil calendar, the fifteenth of Shevat is the new year of trees and the first of Elul is the new year of tithes.
Rosh Hashonah is celebrated for two days by Conservative and Orthodox Jews; Reform Jews celebrate for one. In Roman times, when Jews were dispersed throughout the empire, it was difficult to determine the exact day as it took time for the announcement from Jerusalem to reach throughout the empire. The rabbis decreed that Rosh Hashonah should be two days. There is presently no uncertainty as to the calendar, therefore, Reform Jews worship for one day. It is a mystery to me how the rabbis decided that Yom Kippur is one day as two days of fasting is too much. Didn’t the calendar uncertainty apply here as well?
In the third century, the three shofar sounds were established. Tekia and terua are found in Numbers. The third century rabbis debated what sounds these were as they had not been firmly established. Tekia was one long blast. Terua was determined to be nine staccato notes. A new sequence was introduced, shevarim, which was three undulating notes.
The greeting for Rosh Hashonah is “leshana tova tikatevu,” may you be inscribed for a good year. The greeting for Yom Kippur is “gamar chatima tova,” literally a good final sealing. It means you wish the person to be sealed into the Book of Life for the coming year.
The round challah we eat is symbolic of the hope the coming year will be complete, unbroken by tragedy.
There is a ban on wearing leather on Yom Kippur. Therefore, many Jews wear sneakers. They do have to be careful that the sneakers themselves do not have any leather.
Kol Nidre is said three times for two reasons: 1) so latecomers to the service hear it; and 2) in court, when a person is released from a vow, the court declares “you are released” three times.
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Jonah is read at mincha for two reasons: 1) it proclaims the universality of God, a High Holidays theme; and 2) so man can repent, which is also a theme.
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Updates from Naples and Fort Myers BBYO
By Cayla Schreier, BBYO Southwest Coordinator
Summer has come to a close, and the teens have returned to school. While the start of school can be stressful, Naples BBYO Chapter Board teens have gathered to create and plan some fun upcoming events for their fellow BBYO members and new prospects.
Naples BBYO’s first Fall 2024 event, an ice skating event, took place on Sunday, Aug. 25 at Hertz Arena. We had 19 teens attend this event. They ice skated and hung out with their current and new Naples and Fort Myers BBYO friends. The teens played an ice breaker and skated in groups to better get to know one another.
Our BBYO teens will be joining the Chabad of Naples’ Rosh Hashanah Shofar Blowing Event which will be held on Thursday, Oct. 3 at 4:30 p.m. at Lowdermilk Beach, Naples. The Shofar Blowing Event will last one hour. Thank you to Chabad of Naples for the open invitation. For more information, please contact Chabad of Naples at office@ chabadnaples.com. We will host International Convention Launch Night on Wednesday, Oct. 9. The time and location are TBD. The teens will also hold a
pumpkin carving event later in the month of October. Details to follow.
Please keep an eye out for emails regarding all upcoming Naples and Fort Myers BBYO events. We wish everyone a happy, healthy and sweet Rosh Hashanah. May 5785 bring you happiness and joy.
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BBYO is a diverse and inclusive Jewish youth group to encourage Jewish teens to become more immersed and interested in meaningful Jewish activities and programs. This organization accepts Jewish teens attending 8th through 12th grades
One big, happy family
SEttie Zaklos Founder & Director
eptember and October are busy months filled with learning for both our students and our parents. As our well-rounded, award-winning program really kicked into high gear in the classrooms, the evenings provided ample opportunity for educational and community-building events for our parent body. In late September, we hosted our annual Parent Curriculum Night — always a highlight on our school calendar — which served to strengthen the unique partnership between our talented POTA faculty and dedicated parent body.
The theme this year was “If You Give a Parent a Peek: A Night of Learning Adventures,” inspired by the classic childhood cause-and-effect sequence book, “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie.” This special community event was a tremendous success! Parents delved into their children’s daily educational experiences and collaborated on painting a circle that will grace the halls of POTA.
The night also featured a fundraiser to stock the STEAM Makerspace in
our new building as parents sponsored exciting science- and technology-based equipment and materials that will bring our ambitious STEAM center to life. We were blown away by the parent response and cannot wait for the building to be ready so we can see the exciting plans become a reality!
Throughout the busy fall months, we also enjoyed preparing for and celebrating the Jewish holiday season with our students, marking special days and learning all about our beautiful traditions. The classrooms were filled with apples, honey, shofars and challahs as the children learned all about the symbols and customs of the holidays.
Our holiday curricula are always supported by classroom learning and are enhanced with our extensive “specials” programming, including music and performing arts, visual arts, sports, yoga, gardening, science, Spanish, and Shabbat celebrations. Each “special” is designed to maximize our school’s wonderful facilities and resources, such as our Nature Playscape, state-of-the-art playground, Marketplace, Garden of the Arts, and indoor and outdoor art studios.
On Rosh Hashanah, we are excited to host a bevy of exciting family-oriented activities, including the popular Shofar and Tashlich service at Lowdermilk Park. The outdoor event allows our families to
of all backgrounds, sexual orientations, gender, race, denominational affiliation, or socioeconomic status. BBYO currently reaches over 70,000 teens worldwide, with participants in over 60 countries and hundreds of chapters across the United States.
Supporting our teenage Jewish community
The BBYO chapter of Naples has entered its 11th year of partnership with Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, Temple Shalom, Chabad of Naples, and Beth Tikvah. Each organization provides financial support, volunteers and community involvement opportunities for the BBYO teens. We thank each and every one of our BBYO Alum, friends and other supporters for making this a safe and positive environment for the teens of BBYO Naples and Fort Myers.
If you know of someone who has a teen who might like to join BBYO Naples or Fort Myers or know of someone who may want to be an advisor to our chapters, please email me at cschreier@bbyo. org. You can also follow us on Instagram: @Mishpacha_BBG and @Negevaza. Scholarships to attend BBYO conventions and summer programs are available through both Jewish Federation of Greater Naples and the Temple Shalom Men’s Club. Please contact me for more information on scholarships. If you are a BBYO Alum and would like to be included in our Friends and Alumni of BBYO mailing list, please email us at mjs0821@aol.com.
It is crucial to engage teens post-B’nai Mitzvah age in Jewish activities. Having teens get involved in BBYO and be eager to create and confidently continue their own Jewish community within their greater Jewish communities is critical to our future.
gather in honor of the holiday and hear the Shofar blown on the special day. Children will be well entertained with many exciting and educational activities, including crafts and, of course, sweet holiday treats!
We were also honored to welcome our families for engaging adult services and offer a unique holiday program specifically geared to children. Spending Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur with our extended Preschool of the Arts families is a very meaningful experience that sets the tone for an inspired and educational year ahead.
In keeping with the Jewish New Year theme, our school also welcomed a local beekeeper who brought in thousands of buzzing bees for an incredible hands-on experience that taught the children about bees’ habitats and honey-making ability. The children had a great time helping extract the honey from the beekeeper’s cylinder and collecting it in their very own jar of honey.
Aside from honey’s seasonal fun and delicious taste, it also has some scientific superpowers. Raw honey, which has not been processed in any way, is incredibly healthy and is full of minerals, vitamins, enzymes and powerful antioxidants. It was wonderful to see the children’s enthusiasm during the fun-filled lesson and the connections they made to the world of bees
and honey that they had been exploring in their classroom centers. The exciting and educational visit brought classroom learning to life.
The fun continues as we celebrate the joyous holiday of Sukkot in midOctober. The holiday’s numerous themes and exciting traditions inspire much of our daily curriculum. In our classrooms, teachers will provide many opportunities for students to explore the different fall and harvest-inspired elements of Sukkot and discover the holiday for themselves. Handyman Seth will guide the children in using construction tools to build a real-life Sukkah, which they will then decorate. Our little engineers will practice their budding STEM skills as they measure and hammer away!
Our students will also enjoy delicious cereal at the Sukkah event. Enjoying a fun holiday meal while sitting outdoors in the Sukkah, which the children helped build with Handyman Seth, so beautifully decorated with their own artwork, makes us all feel like we are one big, happy family!
For more information about our award-winning preschool or to schedule a tour, please call 239- 263-2620 or email me at NaplesPreschoolofthearts@ gmail.com.
