The Observer Vol. 87 No. 2 – February 2022

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New JFS Adoption Fund to Expand Aid for Families By BARBARA DAB

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reating a family can be a challenging and often expensive experience. For some couples wishing to adopt, the high cost associated with the process is a barrier to fulfilling their dream of parenthood. There is a home study, travel expenses, legal fees, and many other out of pocket costs not covered by medical insurance, which can deplete a couple’s resources. Jewish Family Service of Middle Tennessee has been guiding families through the adoption process for more than 40 years providing resources, support, and financial aid. One significant resource, The Earl Kirshner Adoption Loan Program, provides no interest loans to Jewish couples who are clients of JFS. According to Howard Kirshner, Earl’s son, his father was passionate about supporting the Jewish community and he loved children. “Jewish Family Service

was very important to my dad. It makes us very happy to be able to help people create Jewish families and I know my dad would be proud.” And now, JFS is announcing they have a new adoption loan fund, the Abe and Renette Corenswet Adoption Loan Fund, that will provide similar assistance, but is expanding the scope of the fund to those who are not currently clients. Toni Jacobsen, Clinical Director of JFS, says this new fund allows even more people to get the help they need, “The initial purpose of the Kirshner Fund was to help build Jewish families. This fund allows us to really build upon that and be open to any family in the area, not just our clients.” For Helene Dunbar and her husband John, the road to parenthood had many obstacles. They eventually adopted their daughter, Keira, now 12 ½, from Bulgaria. “I don’t want to boil the whole adoption down to finances, but

Helene and John Dunbar with their daughter, Keira.

it’s exhausting and there are a lot of unexpected costs.” Helene and John’s journey took them from Nashville to the West Coast, Bulgaria, and back home to Nashville. It included mountains of governmental paperwork from two countries. “We had problems finding an agency to do our home study, but being able to align with JFS was amazing,” says Helene, “The services and professional advice we needed appeared at just the right time.” The Dunbars received a loan from the Kirshner Fund just in the nick of time and provided them with a safety net. “We have such a sense of gratitude for the help we received.” Building families through adoption is nothing new for the Corenswet family. Haley Attridge, Abe and Renette Corenswet’s granddaughter, says her late father, Robert, and her mother Lucy, fostered over 20 babies between 1997 Continued on page 3

Nashville’s Jewish Community Responds to Texas Hostage Standoff By BARBARA DAB

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ast month on a normal Shabbat morning in Colleysville, Texas, a stranger walked into the Beth Israel synagogue ostensibly looking for something to eat. Rabbi Charlie Cytron-Walker, the congregation’s spiritual leader, welcomed the stranger and even offered to make him some tea. As the congregation watched in horror via Zoom, the stranger became a captor, holding the Rabbi and three congregants hostage for 11 hours. The details of the hours leading to the hostages escape and the gunman’s death are still being revealed. The situation sparked fear among the American Jewish community and ignited debate about how to balance the need for security with the Jewish value of welcoming the stranger. In Nashville, the reaction was much the same as elsewhere. Local congregational Rabbis, law enforcement officials, and professional staff of The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee, shared words of comfort, reflection, and hope with The Observer. Eric Stillman, CEO of The Jewish Federation and Jewish Foundation of Nashville and Middle Tennessee: Reacting to the news as it unfolded, I found it so difficult waiting for updates as A Publication of the

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the hostage crisis stretched on for hours and hours. When I learned that the hostages escaped before the authorities entered the congregation and killed the hostage-taker, I was filled with relief and gratitude for the safety of the Rabbi and his congregants. Upon hearing and reading interviews that the Rabbi and one of the congregants gave after the ordeal, I reflected on how essential the security training was in advance, which clearly saved their lives in this situation. I am grateful to the Jewish Federations’ Secure Community Network (SCN), ADL, the FBI, and local law enforcement for the emphasis placed on Jewish community security, and I know that our Nashville Jewish community will apply the lessons learned from the hostage situation at the synagogue in Texas to better protect our congregations, agencies, and Jewish community organizations and members here. Rabbi Mark Schiftan, Senior Rabbi of The Temple: The events Texas should put us all on notice. This was a premeditated attack on a specifically Jewish target, a synagogue engaged in a worship service on the Sabbath. A rabbi was among the hostages. Sadly, we are living in a new and far more dangerous era as an American Jewish community. This should remind us all of the Josh Goldberg joins Congregation Micah as Cantor, page 6

need for a strong and vigilant security presence and ongoing training for Jewish communal professionals, employees, and attendees of Jewish institutions. Rabbi Laurie Rice, Congregation Micah: Rabbi Cytron-Walker is a hero. The bravery he exhibited at the eleventh hour to get them all out was incredible. But it is profoundly sad that we are unable to feel comfortable letting someone into our synagogue who may be in need. It is a sad state of affairs in our world that we can no longer tend to these people. Adam Bronstone, Director of Planning and Israel Partnerships, The Jewish Federation: This person entered the synagogue on the pretense of needing help. We are accustomed to welcoming the stranger, and that’s what the Rabbi tried to do, but this person used our faith against us. The fact that we now need to rethink how we welcome people who would not normally be in our spaces is chipping away at pieces of our soul. It’s a fine line. How do we remain in a state of readiness without putting people in a perpetual state of unease? But we do have a better culture of security today than we did three years ago. There is still work to be done, but the community is getting there. We have amazing law enforcement in our commuReflection: Dan Einstein, Z”L 1960-2022, page 16

nity who are ready to care for us and continue to develop better ways to do that. We must continue the conversation. Doug Korneski, FBI Special Agent in Charge, Memphis Field Office: All of us at the FBI are relieved the hostage situation in Colleyville, Texas, was resolved without physical injury to those taken hostage. We never lose sight of the threat extremists pose to the Jewish community and to other religious, racial, and ethnic groups, and we will continue to work tirelessly with the Secure Community Network, the Anti-Defamation League, the Jewish Federation, and others to protect members of the Jewish community from all potential threats. Preventing acts of terrorism and violence is the number one priority of the FBI. Throughout Tennessee, the FBI has had a close and enduring relationship with the Jewish community for many years and we value having representatives of the Secure Community Network and the Jewish Federation on the FBI Memphis Field Office’s Community Engagement Council. Rabbi Philip Rice, Congregation Micah: As a result of the frightening act of anti-Semitism in Texas, synagogues Continued on page 2

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