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From the Rabbi’s Desk In December, my long-time friend, Brenda Barrie, visited JFC and spoke about her recently published book, The Rabbi’s Husband. I had received a copy from her beforehand, and had read it, and it has left me thinking about a variety of subjects raised by the book. Brenda mentioned that she had begun work on this book about 10 years earlier, and, at that time, had thought about writing about the first class of the Hebrew Union College (the Reform seminary) to ordain 10 women…a minyan of women rabbis. That did not happen until 9 years after Rabbi Sally Preisand opened the door for women in the rabbinate. Brenda gave up on that project and instead turned out her interesting book about the rabbi’s husband. Before 1972, even the concept of a rabbi’s husband would have provoked astonishment. I remember the husband of a classmate being asked, every time he accompanied his wife to her student pulpit, “What do you call a rabbi’s husband?” His answer: “Lucky”. As far as I know, there is still no term comparable to rebbitzen for said husband. One of our professors, Dr. Michael Meyer, married to Rabbi Margie Meyer, had “rebbitz” on his licence plate, but that was a joke, not a real Yiddish word. There were 15 women in my ordination class in 1990, and we were a support group for each other. Some women ordained long before us visited the campus and told us about the problems of being in a class with only a handful of women in it, problems ranging from the lack of washroom facilities in the library building to not being taken seriously by their student congregations. By the time I entered the college, these were only distant memories. Another subject raised by Brenda’s book has to do with her protagonist’s decision to leave the Reform movement and go back to her roots in the Conservative Judaism. The From the Rabbi’s Desk Service Schedule What’s Happening…? January Oneg Hosts Early Childhood Center The Religious School JiFTY Birthdays/Annivs/Yahrzeits
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rabbi in the book wants to return to a more ritually oriented Jewish practice. This intrigues me, because my adult religious life began in the Conservative movement, and I moved away from it because I saw a great gap between the official standards of the movement and the actual practices of its members. I still see that in my own family. For example, I have cousins who are very active in their synagogue, both as lay leaders and as occasional service leaders. They go to Shabbat morning services every week and then go out for Dim Sum. The Conservative movement officially requires its members to follow the traditional Jewish dietary laws, but many, many Jews affiliated with Conservative synagogues clearly do not do so. The Reform movement encourages each adult member to decide his/her own practice, and thus it is entirely possible and legitimate for congregants to go out for Chinese food before our Shabbat evening services. So unlike the rabbi in the book, I found great comfort in the Reform movement’s emphasis on intellectual integrity and individual autonomy. But, like the rabbi in the book, I also appreciate a ritually oriented Jewish life. For people like me, the good news is that the Reform movement sees itself as an umbrella, under which there is room for a very diverse set of beliefs and practices. Our most recent prayer book, Mishkan T’filah,embodies that umbrella concept. In the footnotes on many pages, it says “for those who choose”, and then it describes a ritual (from bowing at certain times to facing the entry to sing the last stanza of Lekha Dodi) that comes from traditional practice. And the concept of individual autonomy is emphasized in the choice that is offered.
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I see this in action every time I attend a conference of the Women’s Rabbinic Network. More and more women wear kippot all the time, and certainly during prayers and meals. At morning services, lots of women…clearly now the overwhelming majority…wear kippot and tallitot. And there are a few…also a growing number… who lay t’fillen each weekday morning. But when we go out to eat, a significant number of women will order foods that are treif. While some are troubled by this lack of consistency, others, me included, rejoice over the freedom of the individual to choose what is important to her. I know that the decision of the rabbi in my
friend’s book is a necessary element of the plot, but it caused me to think about the changes that our movement has gone through, and I have been reassured about my own choice, to become a practising Reform Jew. It has deepened my appreciation of Shabbat, and the wisdom of our inherited customs and practices. It allows me to live in the real world and still benefit from a Jewishly oriented life. A good book should stimulate far-ranging thinking, and this one certainly did! If you did not get a copy while Brenda was here, you can find it on Amazon, and by the time you read this, it will also be available for the Kindle. Please let me know what ideas it stirs up for you, when you have read it.
SERVICE SCHEDULE JANUARY Friday, Jan 6/ Tevet 12 Saturday, Jan 7
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*WORSHIP 101 Do you wonder why we bow at certain times during service? Why we face the ark? When do we cover or at least close our eyes? You are not alone in wanting answers to these and other questions, and we are offering an opportunity to get those answers during our Shabbat evening service on January 6 at 7:30 pm. Worship 101 is a different kind of service…where we will interrupt the service to take questions. Your raised hand will function as the “pause” button on a remote control. And please don’t be shy about asking whatever it is you want to know. It is very likely that others have the same question. We will explain the structure of the service, and answer as many questions as time permits. So please mark your calendar, and plan to join us on January 6, for Worship 101.
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JFC WELCOMES NEW MEMBERS ANDREW RAPPORT and ALLISON DeCRESCENZO of South Salem, NY
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The Early Childhood Center Jane Weil Emmer, Director
Sometimes the simplest things can make a big difference. This month we began our weekly trips to our “library.” Each Monday, we roll out a blue library mat, roll in our library shelves, and convert the Youth Lounge into our ECC library. Each teacher team customizes the library shelves with books for their students to choose from. We have invited Mystery Readers to surprise our classes with a favorite book. Every student has a library card, and they may borrow a book for the week. Simple, cost free, and a big hit! Library helps give the week structure. The children borrow books on Mondays, and return the books on Friday. Moving forward, we will ask our older students to share thoughts about the books they borrowed (book reviews). The students are excited about their weekly visits to the library. Instilling a love of reading and books is an inspiration to us all. And…Yes, we celebrated Chanukah this month. Each class invited parents and special friends to celebrate with them. We sang, cooked, created and partied! The yellow room answered the question: What do you know about Chanukah? Sydney – A long time ago there was a tiny bit of oil that lasted eight nights. Mitchell – We light the candles. Owen – We get presents. Macey – Some people don’t celebrate Chanukah. Dylan- You light the menorah for eight nights. Aaron – You spin the dreidel- Jewish people celebrate Chanukah. Jordan – The Temple was destroyed. Tammy – We eat Latkes and applesauce. Jason – We pray to one God. Kayla – The Shamash lights all of the other candles.
Todah Rabbah from the ECC to: EVERYONE who helped with our Chanukah Community Candle Lighting Service Cantor Kerry, Kathy and Paul Storfer for making our story and music time fabulous. Rabbi Carla, Leslie, Jolie and Kathleen for all of your support and help throughout the month.
CHOIR If you would like to join the choir, or for more information, please contact Kathy Storfer at kstorfer@aol.com We welcome all adults -- 13 or older!
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The Religious School Leslie Gottlieb, Director
What makes a good leader? This question was one I used to provoke a discussion with the 9th grade Student Mentors a few weeks ago during our weekly class held on Thursdays prior to their actual mentoring obligations. We had a wonderful discussion about it. It is a complex response that could hardly feel complete no matter how much time is given to ponder the weight of it. Leaders are all around us—but a real leader is hard to identify by consensus because what one feels about the qualities of a leader-- can be arguably less or more important to another. Now that the next Presidential election cycle has kicked off in earnest, all we seem to hear from our involved politicians is how they can provide us with the leadership we all need and crave. Republicans complain about the present leader of the free world and how little leadership he is providing. Democrats complain about the chinks in the armor of Republican candidates revealing their undersized potential to become great future leaders. So what are we all hoping for? It seems that nothing shy of a messiah will satisfy the masses. So here we are. Our mentors were asked to come up with the qualities of a leader as it pertains to being a classroom teacher in a Jewish congregational school setting. They were also asked to consider the larger world and what leadership means. Here are some of their responses…. The mentors agreed that a real leader is responsible and needs to provide us with good role models of behavior. They need to lead by example. Leaders should be intelligent, they thought. Leaders should be charismatic, virtuous, principled. Interestingly, they said leaders should be kind. They felt leaders should be understanding. Leaders need to be powerful. Good leaders need to be accountable. When asked to identify a leader for discussion, they cited Lincoln, Obama… and when they suggested that I could be thought of as one, I had to redirect them-- but I was grateful for the nod. We moved on to the more noteworthy folks in our history. We talked about how these two men succeeded and failed at their job of leading others. It was an enlightening conversation for me and they were fully engaged because this is something they could really talk about with great ease. If you want perspective on the world we live in, talk to 9th graders. They are, most of them I have been exposed to anyway, highly gifted at recognizing certain truths that seem so difficult for adults to see. Life is still uncomplicated enough for them to see what’s really there and what is not. We, as adults, often hide from the obvious because it fits our chosen agendas. Oh, to be 15 again. So I took a look at some notable quotations from some prominent citizens of the world to get some ideas about
what leadership means to others, those dead and alive. Here are some of the more interesting ones: The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint to keep from meddling with them while they do it. Theodore Roosevelt If I have seen farther than others, it is because I was standing on the shoulder of giants. Isaac Newton Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it. Dwight D. Eisenhower The price of greatness is responsibility. Winston Churchill I must follow the people. Am I not their leader? Benjamin Disraeli Example is not the main thing in influencing others, it is the only thing. John F. Kennedy The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men, the conviction and the will to carry on. John Quincy Adams I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure: which is: Try to please everybody. George Orwell The key to successful leadership today is influence, not authority. Ralph Waldo Emerson The very essence of leadership is that you have to have vision. You can’t blow an uncertain trumpet. Steve Jobs As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others. Bill Gates It is impossible to imagine anything which better becomes a ruler than mercy. Seneca I am humbled-- crouching in the shadow of these great individuals who seem to have/have had the ability to capitalize on the true essence of defining leadership with extraordinary brevity & wit. But I think our mentors at JFC were right on target with their responses. Kindness is what they thought of… while Seneca called it mercy. Emerson called it influence instead of authority-- and they (Continued on page 13)
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saw it as someone who controls power. Churchill and the mentors agree/d that a leader must be responsible to his/ her constituents. Adams identified the need to give to others who will carry on your message—conviction and will. The mentors characterized the same message in their words; someone principled and virtuous can be trusted to carry on with someone else’s vision or conviction. Think about it. When do leaders become leaders? Is it when one puts on a judge’s robe, brandishes a scepter, holds up a Kiddush cup, points to the chalkboard which is now really a Smart Board, puts on more war paint than the next guy, organizes a rally or protest? Or is it when a leader listens, reaches out, understands, shows love, acts responsibly… bends a little or a lot to show compassion? To our mentors at JFC, and not just the 9th graders but to those in grades 9-12… to those past, present, and future mentors… we respect the journey you have chosen by stepping into the role of Jewish leaders for the next generation. In this secular new year, we look forward to years you’re your leadership as you continue on the path to becoming Jewish educators at JFC and beyond!! Mentors, thanks for all you do for us at JFC!
Todah Rabbah From The Religious School to… Dayna Kaplan for the Chanukiah and book. All of the Youth Group and K-7 Class Parents for their help organizing treats for the school Chanukah parties last month.
All the ECC and RS staff members for their caring cooperation in sharing our facility. All those who have donated generously to The Molly & Gregory Friedlander Religious School Scholarship Fund.
Next Midnight Run: March 17, 2012
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A unique menorah from the Andrade Family…. ...and some very unique Oneg creations!
JFC’sMatt Emmer at NFTY Fall Kallah
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Please call the JFC Office when any relevant information arises or changes so all Birthday, Anniversary and Yahrzeit listings are accurate and up to date. JFC can only list names/dates that have been reported to us.
BIRTHDAYS Sandi Auerbach Max Auerbacher Samuel Auerbacher Juliette Bellinson Marcela Berland Cecelia Bersch Andrew Blum Michelle Blum Robyn Cohen Marina Fried Jonathan Glass Allan Goldstein Brooke Goldstein
Jack Haims Gregory Hoffman Kristopher Kahn Lisa Katz Glenn Kurlander Kenneth Kurzweil Eric Kutscher Dr. Martin Kutscher Patricia Lerner Stephen Margolis Richard Mishkin Michael Mucciolo Abby Plotka-Henshaw
ANNIVERSARIES Allan & Alice Gottlieb Ian & Sigal Leitner
Tamar Rackear-Sturm Emily Rauch Joshua Rauch Sandra Rosenhouse Dr. Michael Salpeter Rona Salpeter Savannah Shafer Justin Sobel Suzanne Sunday Riannah Wallach Lisa Warren Clayton Weisberg
YAHRZEITS Nathan Bell Robert Belsky Douglas Birdsall Jeannette Cohen Stephen Crown Ruth Davis Joseph Elias Israel Farber Helene Fuchs Julius Fuchs Theodore Garfiel
Zelda Jacobs Helene Kutscher Michael Mishkin Grayce Romeo Bernard Shuler Gerda Simon Julius Simon Zachary Adam Smith Louis Steinhorn Arnold Treitman Helen Worster
Have you considered celebrating significant birthdays and anniversaries with a leaf on our Simcha Tree of Life? Call the JFC Office for details.
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The 6,000 attendees at the URJ's 71st Biennial conference near Washington, DC - the largest URJ Biennial ever - heard from national and international leaders and saw a historic changeover of leadership. The URJ recommitted itself to cultivating the next generation through the Campaign for Youth Engagement and announced a new emphasis on reaching North American Jews both inside and outside the walls of its congregations.
I was privileged to be one of the 6,000 attendees. Attending the conference as both the Director of our Early Childhood Center and also as a member of Eisner/Crane Lake Camp Board allowed me to see and hear things with a unique perspective. The Campaign for Youth Engagement is an exciting initiative that I believe begins with Early Childhood. After all, nurturing and creating a strong Jewish identity begin at birth. The entire weekend was filled with inspirational speakers, spirited music and inspiring conversation. The highlight of the event was the President’s speech. President Barack Obama knew exactly what to say when he addressed the Union for Reform Judaism Biennial on Friday. After all, there’s a resident expert on Judaism in the Obama family. “Since my daughter Malia has reached the age where it seems like there’s always a Bar or Bat Mitzvah every weekend … As a consequence, she’s become the family expert on Jewish tradition,” Obama cracked. Obama took Malia’s advice and gave a d’var-torah-turned-stump-speech revolving around the word “Hineini,” saying, like Joseph, that he’s ready to take on challenges even if he can’t predict them all. The President rattled off a litany of his accomplishments, not just in regards to Israel (military aid, missile defense, support at international organizations during the Palestinian statehood bid, dispatching firefighting planes to stop fires in Israel, aiding besieged Israeli embassy in Cairo), but also in advancing liberal causes such as health care access, LGBT rights, women’s rights, and economic justice. “America’s commitment and my commitment to Israel and Israel’s security is unshakeable. It is unshakeable,” he said. But Obama had his praises for the Jews in the room, too, making sure to congratulate the Religious Action Center on their golden anniversary and thank them on a personal level for their commitment to the Civil Rights Movement. “You helped draft the Civil Rights Act and the Voting Rights Act. You helped to liberate Soviet Jews. You have made a difference on so many of the defining issues of the last half-century,” he said. “And without these efforts, I probably wouldn’t be standing here today. So thank you. Thank you.” If you have not had the opportunity to see the speech in its entirety, it is worth the time. It can be found at http:// urj.org/biennial11. Jane Weil Emmer, Director JFC ECC
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JFC Social Action Committee Happy secular new year! The JFC Social Action Committee is gearing up for our next Midnight Run. The date is Saturday, March 17th, and there are many ways to help out:
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Sign up to attend the run; Coordinate the food; Prepare bagged meals; Donate items listed below; Help with the repair of our garage/storage area. Contact Debbie Lavin at debbielav@aol.com or 232-0756 to volunteer.
by Lee Goldstein The Tzedakah of the Month For JANUARY Is HOMES FOR HEROES FOUNDATION Their purpose is to provide or coordinate financial assistance and housing resources to our nation’s heroes such as military personnel, police/peace officers, firefighters and first responders in need. Selected by the
As you read in the last Shofar, we’ve had great volunteer efforts to fix up the garage as a staging and storage center for our midnight runs. However, we still need help: the roof leaks. Contact Pat Shafer at pat.shafer@intrasphere.com if you can donate time or materials (we can use lots of both!).
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What can I donate to the Midnight Run? New, men’s jockey-style underwear New toiletries: small deodorants, toothbrushes, disposable razors. New or gently used back packs, book bags, and duffle bags New or gently used men’s jeans, hoodies, coats, hats, gloves, scarves, shoes Roofing material!
Want to help?
Contact Debbie Lavin (debbielav@aol.com) or Jeanette Sanders (crotonjan@aol.com)
Next Midnight Run: March 17, 2012
JFC ANNOUNCEMENTS If you would like to “announce” a Simcha in your family, please send the text (pictures are welcome too!) to Jolie Levy at jfcoffc@gmail.com. Announcements must be received by the 15th of the month to appear in the next month’s Shofar. Please feel free to acknowledge your Simcha with an $18 donation to any JFC Fund or with a leaf on our Simcha Tree. Donation forms appear in every Shofar.
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Recent Donations to JFC General Fund Dr. Silviu and Josephine Landman The Hogan Family Mark and Debra Lavin Robi and Steve Margolis
In Memory of Amy, Molly & Gregory Friedlander In Memory of Charlene Lavin, Edith Redman and Harold Redman In Memory of Freda Shuler
Molly & Gregory Friedlander Religious School Scholarship Fund 3rd Grade Class Sherr Family
In Honor of Leslie Gottlieb on the occasion of Chanukah In Memory of Amy, Molly and Gregory Friedlander
Music & Choir Fund Richard and Beth Sklarin
In Honor of Julia Sklarin on the occasion of her Bat Mitzvah
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Jerome Kerner Kenneth Kurzweil and Suzanne Sunday 3rd Grade Class
In Memory of Ruth Davis In Honor of Rabbi Carla Freedman on the occasion of Chanukah
HIGH HOLY DAY DONATIONS David and Leslie Moss Laura Levenson Michael and Rona Salpeter Pat Shafer Kenneth and Cindy Carson Martin and Tracey Weisberg
Martin and Tracey Weisberg Mindy Cohen Ken Okamoto and Nita Weissman Lawrence and Jacquelyn Goldman Kenneth Kurzweil and Suzanne Sunday Paul and Kathy Storfer
IF ANY DONATIONS ARE NOT LISTED, KINDLY CONTACT THE JFC OFFICE AND LET US KNOW.
ASK THE RABBI Question: I see “Rosh Hodesh” on my Jewish calendar, but I don’t know what that is. Can you explain, please? Answer: Rosh Hodesh literally means “head of the month”, so it is the beginning of a new Jewish month. It was treated as a minor festival, with its own set of prescribed sacrifices (Numbers 28:11-15). In ancient times, the beginning of a month was determined by an actual sighting of the tiniest sliver of the new moon after the “no moon” phase. Then the sighting was communicated by lighting a fire on a high hill, so that it could be seen in the next town, and those folks lit a fire, etc. While the Temple stood in Jerusalem, people took the day off work, thronged to the Temple, offered sacrifices and then had family feasts.
The declaration of the new moon was very important, because otherwise, Jews living in separate communities could not be sure that they were observing festivals on the right days. It is interesting to note that Rosh HaShanah is the only Jewish festival that begins on the first day of a month. Rosh Hodesh was also treated as a special women’s holiday, because, according to rabbinic legend, the women of Israel declined to participate in the building of the Golden Calf (though the Torah does not allude to this) and for their loyalty to Judaism, they were given the holiday of Rosh Hodesh.
In recent times, women’s groups have taken to celebrating Rosh Hodesh, with festive meals and rituals created for the occasion, by way of reclaiming the ancient event that was Since the destruction of the Temple, Rosh Hodesh is merely announced in synagogue on the Shabbat preceding specifically intended for women. the new moon; there are also changes to the traditional liturgy for Rosh Hodesh. The necessity of sighting the actual new moon came to an end when Rabbi Hillel II established his calendar, based on astronomical calculations which fixed the dates of the new moon; this happened in 358 CE.
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And a SPECIAL THANKS TO OUR PANEL OF JUDGES: Michelle Auerbach Samantha Rai Nicole Rose Elyse Sherr Heather Sherr
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Kids Ask the Rabbi Question: Why do we call God Adonai ?
Still, the Jewish people had to have a way to refer Answer: In the Torah, the name of God is spelled to God’s name without taking the chance of mispronouncing it. So the practice came to be the subYud, Hey, Vav, Hey. It has no vowels, because stitution of the Hebrew word Adonai for the acnothing in the Torah scroll has any vowels. And there are probably two or three ways to add vow- tual four-letter name of God. Adonai means “The Lord”. And whenever we see “The Lord” in English, els to the Hebrew letters of God’s name and still be within the rules of Hebrew grammar. But since we know it is a substitute for God’s actual fourletter name; many of us now replace the English we don’t know which is correct, we don’t want to take the chance that we are saying it incorrectly, translation of Adonai with the Hebrew word itself, so when we say Adonai in the middle of an English so we don’t even try to do so. prayer or Torah text, we are reminding ourselves It was understood in ancient times that just saying that we are avoiding using God’s actual name. God’s name out loud could unleash great power into Once the temple was destroyed by the Romans in the world, and that could be very dangerous…not the kind of thing you do casually! So our ancestors 70 CE, there was no Holy of Holies, and so no one said the name out loud at all. chose to avoid saying God’s name out loud altogether, with one exception. The Kohen Gadol (high So, today, we don’t know the proper pronunciation priest) said the name of God out loud on only one of God’s actual name, and we just say Adonai inday of the year, Yom Kippur. And he said it only in stead. one place: the inner sanctuary of the Temple in Jerusalem, which was called the Holy of Holies, into which only he could go. So no one heard him say it.
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Gr. 4-6 9:00-12:00
ECC
ECC
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K-3/CC/SMP
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Gr. 7 9-10:45
Creation Station
Gr. 7 4:20-6:15
MUSICAL SERVICE Service 7:30 Tot Shabbat 29
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Gr. 4-6 ECC Bring A Parent to RS Gr. 7 9:00-12:00 4:20-6:15 FAMILY SKATING PARTY 12:15-2:45
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K-3: 4:15-6:00 CC: 6:15-7:15 YG: 7:15-8:15
JANUARY 20-22: EISNER AND CRANE LAKE CAMPS CHAGIGA/ARTS WEEKEND
JEWISH FAMILY CONGREGATION
Jewish Family Congregation 111 Smith Ridge Rd/Rte. 123 P.O. Box 249 South Salem, NY 10590
CURRENT RESIDENT OR
Non Profit Organization Postage PAID White Plains, NY Permit No. 9022