ISSUE 01 / 2021
JOY BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
OPEN TO FIND INSIDE:
Looking on Up Upgrade your
NEW
uplifting
CONTENT
+
EXC I T I N G
Joy to Life
F O U N D AT I O N U P D AT E S
Outlook
Cancer Screening is Essential
Don’lt ay! de
Do it for yourself Do it for your family
Call your healthcare provider to schedule an appointment today! LEARN MORE ABOUT CANCER SCREENING DURING COVID-19. Visit our website at: www.alabamapublichealth.gov/cancer
Our minimally invasive treatments offer patients a maximum reduction in leg pain. At Baptist Medical Center South’s all-new Vein Center, patients are finding state-of-the-art technology and relief from varicose veins and other painful vein disorders. Our services include a wide variety of minimally invasive treatments such as ablations and relief from venous ulcers. It’s time to feel good in your own skin, again.
Visit VeinCenterofAlabama.com to learn more and schedule a free screening.
JOY
Hello everyone.
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
Photography by Big Dreamz Creative
Last year was a huge upheaval for all of us, and although I believe it
was a tough year that we never want to repeat, I also believe it taught us some very valuable lessons. We are tougher than we think, but without planning and organization, nothing will work smoothly no matter what the task may be. We at JOY magazine also took a hard look at ourselves in 2020 and stopped to reassess our publication. In our “Everyday Joy” section in this issue you will read that we are recommitting to our roots, so to speak. We are excited with our decision, and I can’t wait for you to read all about it! Another article I am really thrilled about is our story on Elana Hagler. She is an incredibly talented artist with exciting things happening in her life. Elana, her husband Ari and her children are very dear friends to me and my husband Dickie. I am so pleased that Elana has chosen JOY
You are also going to read about Betty Ehrlich and her daughter Elaine. They too are very special to me and Dickie, and after reading Betty’s story, you will know why I consider Betty a mentor and role model. There are so many wonderful articles in this issue. From food to forgiveness and everything in between, you will learn something you did not know before. As we all move into 2021 together, we at JOY and at the Joy to Life Foundation wish you and those you love a happy new year — one with a renewed spirit and joyous attitude! Happy reading, and as always, here’s to Health, Happiness and Joy to Life.
to tell her story that has a definite connection to breast cancer.
PUBLISHER JTL Publishing EDITOR Joy Blondheim MANAGING EDITOR Jennifer Stewart Kornegay ART DIRECTOR Erika Rowe Tracy DIGITAL MEDIA PRODUCERS Big Dreamz Creative COPY EDITOR Jenny Enslen Stubbs Ray Blondheim CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Kym Klass, Jennifer Stewart Kornegay, Jenny Enslen Stubbs and Melissa Tate Witt CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Big Dreamz Creative, Evan Lanier Matt Reynolds, Ashley Tiedt and Erika Rowe Tracy COVER PHOTOGRAPHY Big Dreamz Creative
Joy Blondheim Editor & Co-Founder, Joy to Life Foundation
Joy is published quarterly by JTL Publishing. © 2021 All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part is prohibited without permission from the publisher. Joy reserves the right to determine the suitability of all materials submitted for publication and to edit all submitted materials for clarity and space. Joy is not responsible for damage, loss or any other injury to unsolicited manuscripts and/or unsolicited artwork. This includes, but is not limited to, drawings, photography, transparencies or any other unsolicited material. Joy does not knowingly accept false or misleading advertising or editorial. The publishers do not assume responsibility should such advertising or editorial appear. Joy is a news magazine with information on health, leisure activities and a healthy lifestyle. Readers are advised to consult their physicians before participating in any sport or fitness activity or starting any exercise, dietary or nutritional program published in Joy.
6
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
Photography by Big Dreamz Creative
32 REAL LIFE
A Discussion with Betty Ehrlich
12 THE DISH
36 GREAT GOODS
Growing Green
16 FORWARD MOTION Better Together
40 ON THE MOVE River Riches
18 FIT FOR KIDS
Cooking with Kiddos
22 EVERYDAY JOY
News & Happenings with the Joy to Life Foundation
7
Products & Gear
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
44 TO LIFE
The Positive Force of Forgiveness
FEATURES
CONTENT
08
LOOKING DEEPER
Putting brush and pencil to canvas and paper, artist Elana Hagler brings people, places and everyday objects beautifully to life. BY JENNIFER S. KORNEGAY
Hagler in her home studio where she creates as well as currently teaches virtually
PHOTOGRAPHY BY BIG DREAMZ CREATIVE
P
lenty of people can draw or paint a likeness of another person. But when a portrait is more than an accurate depiction of someone’s physical appearance, when it captures and
conveys not just how they look but who they are – that’s art. For Montgomery artist Elana Hagler, there’s a bit of science in it too. We asked her to share her evolution from pre-med student to painter, what she hopes to pass on to her art students at Alabama State University and her thoughts on beating out hundreds of other artists to score a contract from the United States Mint.
When did you first get interested in art? Elana: I’ve had a lifelong interest, but I come from a medical family, and it was expected I would be a doctor. I drew and
The beginnings of a sketch of Vice President Kamala Harris.
painted as a child but just stopped at some point, because I was raised on the idea that art is not a serious career choice. Plus, we came to the United States from Israel when I was five. My family felt like since we were immigrants, we would have to struggle, so it was even more important to be practical and make practical choices.
So you went to college to study medicine. What changed? I was pre-med at Brandeis University, where I studied neuroscience and psychology. Halfway through, I just came to the realization that I could not have a life of fulfillment unless I followed an artistic path. So I changed course. I had already finished my psychology major, but I picked up a fine arts major. I never looked back. I continued my art studies for two years at the Jerusalem Studio School in Israel and then in Umbria, Italy, for three summers. I went to graduate school at Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts.
GRANDMOTHERLY LOVE Breast cancer has a long reach, touching so many in some form or another. Both of artist Elana Hagler’s grandmothers have battled the disease. Her paternal grandmother, who she was named after, died from breast cancer before Elana was born, and her maternal grandmother, who is like a mother to Elana, is currently going through radiation treatments. Elana has felt support and love from her grandmother all her life and wants to make a public display of her encouragement for her grandmother
How does your psychology degree factor into your art, specifically portraits?
as she now fights breast cancer. “In light
They are a natural fit. Psychology is all about asking questions
of my grandmother, I’d like to dedicate this
of the world, attuning yourself in the right way to receive
interview to her,” Elana said.
answers. That is how I think of painting and drawing as well.
of the important work that the Joy to Life Foundation does for women, and in support
And I’m also fascinated with people on all levels. How they look, but also how they think and act. I believe this interest plays into my portrait work, as I am always thinking about totality of person as I paint or draw them.
What does your creative process look like day to day? In art school, I painted every day. Now, I spend a lot of time teaching. And I have two kids, a son who is 11 and a daughter who is 9, so I want to spend as much time with them as I can. When I have odd bits of time where I’m not teaching or being a mom, that’s when I do my art. Right now, that’s not as much time as I’d like, but know this is simply a season.
What drew you to teach? My husband got a position teaching history at Troy University six years ago, and that brought us to Montgomery. A few years later, I began teaching at ASU. I teach all levels of drawing and painting and color theory. When I was studying in Israel, some first-year students asked me to tutor them, and I found I really enjoyed it and those students seemed to get something out of it, so I knew from that that teaching was something I liked.
Face Time In addition to portraiture, Elana also paints landscapes and other subjects too. Still, she has a strong preference. “My favorite thing is to paint people,” she said. “There’s something so intimate about mapping out a person’s face, the peaks and valleys are almost like a landscape. I feel you get to know them on some level that
What do you get out of creating art?
goes beyond language.”
I feel like there are a number of things I could have done, but nothing else could have given me the fulfillment that art gives me. I very strongly believe that when people are allowed to develop their talents and live their life in the fullest possible way that it gives permission for others to do that as well. That’s actually an answer to this and the below question.
What do you hope others get out of your work? It took me a long time as young person to give myself permission to follow my bliss and be an artist. I hope me doing this gives others the courage and that same permission to follow their dreams. It has not been easy. There has been obstacle after obstacle. But what matters most is having the perseverance that even if you don’t have success, you still feel that devoting your life to this act that means so much—that it in itself is worthwhile enough. I remember asking myself, “If no one ever cared, would you still create?” The answer was and is yes. 10
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
Newly Minted Success The finished product of Hagler’s portrait of President George H.W. Bush on a just-released $1 Presidential Coin.
Montgomery artist Elana Hagler was chosen from more than 400 other artists around the country to be a member of the U.S. Mint’s Artistic Infusion Program and as a result, was eventually chosen to draw a portrait of President George H.W. Bush to be used on a just-released $1 Presidential Coin. It’s an amazing achievement and yet, it was not the realization of some long-held dream. “I applied on a whim, never expecting I’d be picked,” Elana said. In 2018, the U.S. Mint put out a call for artists, and although it was not something Elana had ever even thought about, she put her name in the hat. “I just had this sense it would be something I would enjoy. Turns out, I was correct. It has been a wonderful experience.” After months of the Mint whittling down all the applications, including demonstration design submissions, Elana got the news she’d be working with them. She recently completed her fifth project, but it’s the first to be selected for minting, a portrait of former President Bush. She worked from multiple photos to create the image that was then used on the coin. And she’ll continue to do more work for the U.S. Mint, saying she has a few other projects, additional coins and even Congressional Medals, “in the works” right now.
the dish
MGM Greens is growing a lot of green goodness and doing it in a way that’s good for the environment.
growing green BY JENNIFER S. KORNEGAY
A
quick glance inside MGM Greens’ rectangle shipping containers brings to mind a disco, thanks to the intense purple glow, light emitted from thousands of tiny blue and red LED bulbs, filling the small space. The illusion quickly fades; there’s no music or dancing. And yet, there is life, energy and excitement all the same.
MGM Greens is currently the only Freight Farm in Alabama, there are about 500 Freight Farms farmers worldwide.
MGM Greens began in 2019 when Vintage Hospitality Group partnered with Alabama Power to explore container farming. Today, this urban hydroponic container farm is housed in two former freight containers stacked on top of each other that sit right behind VH Group’s two restaurants, The Vintage Year and The Vintage Café across the street. The operation grows herbs, veggies and flowers for use in both restaurants and to sell to the public at local grocery chain, Renfroe’s. MGM Greens products will also make their way to the Group’s new downtown Italian restaurant, Ravello, when it opens later this year. Vintage Hospitality Group Executive Chef Eric Rivera touted the quality of the produce that’s pulled from the containers and then used in his kitchens. “Having the
12
best ingredients is really important to me as a chef, and what we’re growing here, it’s amazing,” he said. “These lettuces and herbs are so bright and delicious, and we’re achieving great consistency in the products.” In each container, green things of all sorts are bountiful and thriving. But it all starts small. Seeds for basil, butter and romaine lettuces, Swiss chard, arugula, turnips and more are placed in a substrate that resembles soil, one seed per each indentation in shallow trays at the front of the container. Once the seeds germinate and fledgling plants are visible, they’re transplanted to vertical columns made from pieces of PVC fence post. They’re bathed in the purple light that mimics the sun. They’re fed water, fortified with nutrients, that drips down a furrow in each column at various intervals. They don’t require dirt; just the little bit of growing substrate they began in. The result is
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
A variety of greens, herbs and flowers line the rows of two MGM Greens containers.
13
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
a verdant jungle, with rows and rows of floor to ceiling leafy greens packing the interior. In one 320-square-foot container, and in just a few weeks, MGM Greens can produce 700 heads of lettuce with this method, a hydroponic system that’s efficient, sustainable and highly successful, yielding big, healthy harvests. And MGM Greens harvests year round. “Unlike traditional farming, where we are dependent on the seasons, here, we get beautiful, fresh basil 365 days a year,” Rivera said. “And I mean super fresh since we’re just steps away from the restaurants. Plus, these harvests have the roots, so unlike other produce that’s already dying by the time we get it, this stuff is still living. That really enhances the flavor as well as the appearance.”
MGM Greens provides enough crop for both restaurants, and more, including Vintage Cafe’s retail grab-n-go area. Below: The Vintage Cafe’s MGM salad.
That’s just one of the positives container farming brings; the environmental benefits are huge. “We use fewer resources, far less water,” Rivera said. “We’re actually in a water surplus in the top container. We make more than we need for the plants.” Because the climate is so controlled, there’s no need for pesticides. And with no real distance between the source and the end-user, transport emissions are drastically reduced. But there’s still learning to do, as Jud Blount, proprietor of Vintage Hospitality Group explained. “It’s really a big science project,” he said. Container farming allows high levels of control and customization. Fans and tubing regulate air flow, temperatures and other climate aspects like humidity are set and maintained. The specifics of what brings about the best results are still being figured out and are different for each farmer. “We’re still tweaking all the time,” Blount said. Thanks to the equipment and system MGM Greens is using, from a Boston-based company called Freight Farms, the team can take advantage of what other Freight Farms farmers have discovered. “The Freight Farms community is very open and sharing,” Blount said. “I love that aspect.” While MGM Greens is currently the only Freight Farm in Alabama, there are about 500 Freight Farms farmers worldwide, so there’s
Hydro What?
Hydroponic farming is a method that skips soil, growing plants (usually food crops) in a nutrient rich liquid. It has many advantages over traditional farming, including:
Using far less water Less need for chemicals Less space needed for bigger yields Increased control Accelerated growth
a large network of knowledge. Plus, Blount and his team can manage almost every aspect from the Freight Farms smartphone app. Despite the multiple benefits MGM Greens has reaped from container farming, it’s not down on conventional farming. Vintage Hospitality Group has a traditional farm that it relies on for all kinds of produce, and MGM Greens is not replacing those efforts; instead, it’s augmenting them. “We are starting a lot of plants in the containers and then moving them to the outdoor farm,” Rivera said. “We are getting stronger, better plants when we do that.”
MGM Greens is producing plenty of crops to supply the restaurants (The Vintage Year and The Vintage Café) as well as enough of some crops to sell to the public at Renfroe’s Grocery and at The Vintage Café.
MGM Greens: Farming Facts The bottom container at MGM Greens contains flowers, basil and arugula. It’s called the Leafy Green Machine and is Freight Farms' (the company that makes the containers and the hydroponic equipment and system used inside) first version of a container farm. It has 256 vertical columns with multiple plants per column. The top container at MGM Greens is a more advanced Freight Farms container called The Greenery, and it grows lettuce and other leafy green veggies. In this container, the rows of vertical columns move, side to side, making it much easier to manipulate the plants and much easier and more efficient to harvest the produce when the time comes.
Giving Green The company is donated more than 25 pounds of crop to The Montgomery Area Food Bank in the first 10 months of 2020, with plans to continue the giving.
TION FORWA RD MO
BETTER TOGETHER Need a little extra direction and a lot of extra motivation in your workout? Consider working with a personal trainer.
Keon Addison views his personal training business as relationship-building. He provides the tools for his clients to succeed and holds them accountable for following through. The owner of Unleashed Potential Fitness in Montgomery, Addison has been a personal trainer for 12 years. His business grew from a passion that developed in his early 30s, when he wanted to not only help others, but himself as well. “I was strength training, but I never took it seriously, because I ate whatever I wanted to,” he said. “I really got into it because I wanted to change something within myself.” And today, the certified trainer uses that drive to help motivate others. According to Addison, the benefits of hiring and using a personal trainer are endless – and one of the main ones is accountability.
Accountability matters. It is what Addison hears most. Clients know the exercises, he said, but they sometimes would never do them themselves. A personal trainer carries the responsibility of helping a client reach his or her fitness goals, and on the other side of the spectrum, the client also has the responsibility of following the instruction and advice that the trainer deems pertinent to achieving those goals. According to the National Federation of Professional Trainers, it’s a two-way road with both the trainer and the client holding each other accountable.
Stay safe. Another reason hiring a personal trainer is beneficial,
BY KYM KLASS
16
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
V
Addison said, is to help avoid injury. “The clients I have, we exercise so long, that sometimes our form is not even correct,” he said. “If we’re doing squats, and your back is hurting, then there’s something wrong.” The American Sports and Fitness Association agrees. It claims using a personal trainer can help keep people safe since the trainer has the knowledge to make modifications and changes to a client’s training plan if they feel it’s needed. Because you want to be challenged but not injured.
Get a goal (together). In addition to providing motivation and teaching proper form, a personal trainer can also help you define your fitness goals, and, as you make progress on them, celebrate with you; the latter is something Addison stresses. “I consider myself fun,” he said. “I want it to be fun, and you’re building relationships with your clients. You’re getting into a part of their lives that they don’t really share with everybody. I feel very humbled by that.” Addison gets something from the relationship too. “Establishing friendships and relationships is key. If I had a client that I just gave exercises to and knew nothing about them outside of that … I don’t like to have that kind of relationship.” That aside, Addison said when it comes to hiring a personal trainer, you want to be goal-oriented. “Not everyone comes to you to lose weight,” he said. “I always ask my clients, ‘What’s your goal?’ I want to center their workouts around their goal. Sometimes they just want to feel better.”
Find the real deal. While there are benefits to hiring a personal trainer, hiring the wrong personal trainer can be detrimental to your health and fitness goals. There are signs to watch for when choosing. A bad trainer doesn’t listen to you, pushes you beyond your capacity, body shames, only promotes one training style, focuses on intensity over form and promises quick results. That’s one thing Addison does not do. He understands the hard work it takes to produce what you want. “They want to lose the weight in 10 days,” he said of some people looking for personal trainers. “I always have to make sure that I put the responsibility back on the client, that I give them the tools to succeed, and that they’ll have to put their foot forward as well. I never give them guarantees. I try to let them embrace the process of this, and love this process. But it still falls back on them.”
17
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
CHOOSING A PERSONAL TRAINER:
picky
LOOK FOR: • The right certification • Solid experience • Comfort factor • A good reputation • Affordability WATCH OUT FOR: • No certification • They don’t align with your goals • They program beyond your experience • They’re lacking proof in clientele
FIT FOR KIDS
kidDos
Inviting your children to help with the family feast may sound like a daunting task. But a pinch of patience and a touch of time (and a tad of extra clean up) could be the recipe for your child’s life-long healthy relationship with food. In fact, kids who help cook could enjoy these wonderful benefits:
IN THE KITCHEN
1
There’s a long list of reasons to teach your kids to cook, so take the time to get them in the kitchen with you and let them learn hands-on.
Find some dinner fun that goes beyond mac n’ cheese.
Strong relationships and conversation habits. Kids who come home and flip on the TV or computer aren’t going to share as much with you as those that are in the kitchen waiting on the water to boil. What an incredible opportunity to share stories about each other’s day. Mealtime is also bound to include more discussion as you share with other family members why your meal is so darn delicious!
2 A developed appreciation for planning, timing and hard work. Cooking is not easy. Deciding what to make, ensuring you have the ingredients and planning your meal to meet time constraints is a lot of work! Meal planning and preparation are a great way to teach your children to be thankful.
3
Confidence and responsibility.
Experience in the kitchen will not only help your kids when they leave the nest (or need to impress that special someone), it will also build confidence in other areas of life as well.
BY MELISSA TATE WITT
18
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
place CREATE
4 Math skills. Many kids (and adults) are intimidated by math. In the kitchen, kids are able to see how math is applied in real life. How do you double a recipe? What if you have to substitute one ingredient for something else? How many ounces are in a cup? You get the idea.
Watch the chemistry happen!
5
When you heat up butter, it moves from a solid form to a liquid state. What about when you mix oil and vinegar? How did the cake batter turn from a thick liquid to a yummy, spongy cake? There are a million chemistry lessons in your kitchen—lessons your child will remember!
MAKERS
Teach your kids the importance of “mise en place” in the kitchen. The phrase is French for “everything in its place” and refers to the cooking practice of having all your ingredients chopped, measured, etc. and on-hand before you start the actual mixing/cooking
6
Understanding of the importance of whole foods and variety.
If your kids are helping you cook at home, you are probably using more wholesome ingredients and teaching them about real food. They see vegetables, fruits and grains go from their raw state to a finished meal and having a hand in preparing the food opens their eyes to a world of healthy food options!
19
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
process. With younger children, doing some of this prep work ahead will keep them from getting bored while you do things (like chop veggies) that they can’t.
One STEPat aTime
You know your kids best, and some will be more mature than others when it comes to certain tasks. Don’t forget—adult supervision and demonstration is a must for all tasks. Got one under age two? They can still be involved. All they need is a cup and a wooden spoon to get in on the action!
2
5
6TO7
TO
YEARS OLD
YEARS OLD
Paint/brush on oil or marinade
Form cookies and patties
Shake and spread
Grate cheese
MEASURE AND POUR
POUR Dice and peel
Scrub, dip, tear or break
SLICE AND SCOOP
WASH, ROLL, JUICE, STIR AND MASH
START EARLY. Don’t forget the little ones.
Garnish dishes
2
KIDS UNDER
ALL THEY NEED
is a wooden spoon and a bowl to get in on the action!
20
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
8
AND OLDER Read recipes Cut vegetables and fruits with a butter knife
USE ELECTRIC MIXER Crack eggs
STIR FOOD ON STOVE
i T 7 Ps
GReAt
TO MAKE IT
1
5
STRESS SAFETY:
GET THE GEAR:
Make sure your kids know exactly what they can touch or do and what they can’t.
Hunt down kid-safe and kid-size spatulas, spoons and measuring cups to make it even easier for the kids to handle kitchen tasks, and don’t forget the apron and chef’s hat!
2
PLAN AHEAD: Have the kids help you find the recipe and make the shopping list.
3
KEEP IT SIMPLE: Start with simple recipes—it does not have to be timeintensive to be fun! There are tons of kid-friendly recipe websites out there.
6
GRAB A KID-SAFE STEP STOOL: Make sure your kids are safe when they are helping out. There are several great step stools that allow your kid to be “boxed in” and moved around easily in the kitchen while cooking.
4
MAKE IT AN EVENT: Host a small group of kids at your house with their parents and make it a fun activity for all.
7
HAVE FUN: Be patient and be prepared for messes. Most kids probably won’t be as neat as you’d like.
everyday
Joy
NEWS & HAPPENINGS WITH THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION
MORE NEWS. MORE LOVE. MORE PINK. MORE SUPPORT. MORE JOY. LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
WOL, our biggest fundraiser, and now
Since 2001, the Joy to Life
in 2021, we are again at a crossroads.
Foundation’s annual Walk of Life has
We are working hard to “reimagine”
been a bright spot in spring, bringing
the Walk of Life.
together thousands of Foundation supporters, breast cancer survivors
But, while we work, breast screenings
and their loved ones to celebrate,
MUST go on for the thousands of
remember and honor those who’ve
women (and some men) across
fought breast cancer as well as those
Alabama who need them. This past
who’ve lost their breast cancer battles;
year, we funded more than 2,000
to increase breast cancer awareness;
breast screenings for women under the
and to raise funds to ensure the
age of 40.
Foundation continues its vital work. Our major contracts with the But last year, there was no Walk of
Department of Public Health’s
Life. In 2020, so many businesses and
Breast & Cervical Cancer Early
non-profits were affected greatly by
Detection Program (women 40 to
COVID-19, and the Foundation was no
49) continue. We were the first, and
exception. We were unable to hold the
we are the largest private provider
22
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
This partnership has been a strong
NEW YEAR, NEW WALK OF LIFE
one, and the Joy to Life Foundation
For our 20th anniversary, the Walk of Life has been
looks forward to continuing to work
re-imagined to celebrate the amazing passion and talents of
together to reach all uninsured women
you, our incredible participants! We know that times remain
in Alabama who need these breast
uncertain, and that many of you are still - and will be for the
screenings.
foreseeable future - hesitant to gather in larger groups.
But the Foundation cannot continue
But the pandemic can’t stop you and other Walk of Life
for this lifesaving state program.
join us virtually in 202 1
participants. This year, we encourage you to participate in
this lifesaving program without your
the Walk of Life YOUR WAY!
help. When you choose to support the Joy to Life Foundation, please know that your donations stay local and only help people in the state of Alabama. Our pink breast cancer car tag has been the key to our expansion. It must
Walk or run a 5k
Challenge friends to a virtual dance contest
Have a motorcycle parade
Make masks
Bake cupcakes
Complete a random act of kindness
Ride your bike
Host a wine tasting
Or whatever great idea you have!
remain strong for us to continue to fight for the women of Alabama every single day. The future of the Joy to Life Foundation depends on the sale of our pink car tag, as well as continued financial help from our loyal supporters, sponsors and corporate partners. We hope you’ll remember the Foundation when you’re making philanthropic choices. And find more
YOU decide how you’ll participate this year. Be safe, have fun and feel
details about how and why to get
amazing by helping more women access breast cancer screenings.
involved in our “WOL Reimagined!"
Visit joytolife.org to learn more and sign up.
at joytolife.org
23
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
everyday
Joy
NEWS & HAPPENINGS WITH THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION
RE-COMMITTING TO OUR ROOTS In late 2012, when the JTL Foundation
MORE NEWS. MORE LOVE. MORE PINK. MORE SUPPORT. MORE JOY.
decided to start a magazine, it had these goals in mind: to raise awareness of how a healthy lifestyle can help prevent breast cancer and other health issues and provide information and advice on how to pursue such a lifestyle; to spread positive stories about survivors of breast and other cancers in our area; and to promote the life-saving work of the Foundation and recognize the many supporters (businesses and individuals) who make that work happen. Through the years, the magazine that grew out of that initial decision
WE’RE MAKING A HARD TURN BACK TO OUR ROOTS ENSURING THAT THE FOUNDATION’S VALUES AND MISSION ARE AT THE CORE OF EVERYTHING WE DO. WE’RE PROUD TO BE PINK AND TO HEAVILY PROMOTE EVERYTHING IT REPRESENTS!
has had several different names.
to be way back in 2012? While we’ve
Just recently, we shortened Joy to
created and presented a veritable
Life magazine to simply JOY, and we
mountain of engaging, informative
feel that this one single word very
content focused on how to live a more
accurately and powerfully conveys
sustainable, balanced and healthy
what we want the magazine to
life, we came to the conclusion that
represent and bring to its readers.
we could do more and do better. We can do more to spotlight local folks
Over seven years of publication, the
fighting cancer and other health
inside of the magazine has remained
issues, either as patients or as those
relatively unchanged. But in the
physically unaffected themselves, but
face of upheaval and uncertainty
still doing battle as doctors, nurses,
that 2020 threw at us all, just like
researchers, caregivers and more. We
so many of you, we at JOY magazine
can do better to highlight everything
stopped to reassess. Were we truly
the Foundation is and does.
living up to what we said we wanted
24
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
PODCASTS. JOY MAGAZINE. SOCIAL MEDIA. Get news and information in a variety of formats. Find them all at joytolife.org.
Gre at Ways to find us:
So, in 2021 we will. In this new year, full of new possibilities and opportunities, JOY is making a fresh
LIS
start. We’re not changing too much. You’ll still find coverage of the topics
TEN UP!
you’ve come to love: articles outlining our state’s vast outdoor recreation
JOIN OUR
options; Overviews of yummy,
NEWSLETTER AT
nutritious ingredients with recipes
JOYTOLIFE.ORG TO GET
that include them; Inspiring personal
JOY TO LIFE EVENTS,
profiles; Tips for achieving both
GOOD NEWS AND EVEN
Tune into the Joy to Life
physical and mental wellbeing; and so
Foundation podcast, Everything
much more.
Joy to Life.
DIRECTLY TO YOUR EMAIL INBOX.
But we’re making a hard turn back
Each episode features insightful
to our roots too, ensuring that the
medical information, inspiring
Foundation’s values and mission
RECIPES DELIVERED
stories from breast cancer
are at the core of everything we do.
survivors as well as interviews
We’re proud to be pink and to heavily
that provide tips and ideas that
promote everything it represents!
will help you live your healthiest,
As we move forward, JOY will
best life.
more clearly be a “Foundationfirst” publication released in two
The podcast began last October,
print issues (out in February and
and new episodes are added each
September). Plus, we’re greatly
month. You’ll laugh; you may cry;
expanding our digital presence, too,
but whatever emotions it brings,
giving you a special Summer digital
you’ll certainly enjoy it.
issue, out in July, and multiple articles
Find Everything Joy to Life wherever you listen to podcasts and at joytolife.org.
each month will be published online at joytolife.org.
Watch joytolife.org for new Joy to Life gear coming soon.
We’re excited about this next step in our journey and hope you’ll join us!
25
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
everyday
Joy
NEWS & HAPPENINGS WITH THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION
JTL STEPS UP, EXPANDS FUNDING Although the Foundation has provided funding for breast cancer screenings for many years in all of Alabama’s 67 counties
MORE NEWS. MORE LOVE. MORE PINK. MORE SUPPORT. MORE JOY.
for women and men who cannot afford them, we are now proud that we can take over the northern counties of Alabama. Previously, the Susan G. Komen Foundation funded these counties, but in September 2020 that organization closed its office in Birmingham, creating a need that we are proud to fill. In direct response to the Komen closing and the Alabama Department of Public Health’s Alabama Breast and Cervical Cancer Early Detection Program’s (ABCCEDP) subsequent need for increased funding in North Alabama, the Foundation is expanding its efforts and providing funds statewide for breast cancer screenings through ABCCEDP. “We are very appreciative of our longstanding partnership with the Joy to Life Foundation and to its co-founders Joy and Richard Blondheim,” said State Health Officer Dr. Scott Harris. “Early detection of breast cancer through regular screening saves lives. The Foundation’s commitment to helping underserved women receive cancer screenings has saved more than 125 lives over the past 17 years. By expanding its coverage statewide, they will help us
The ABCCEDP provides free mammograms, Pap/HPV testing, and if needed, diagnostic testing to women who have no insurance, have an income at or below 250 percent of the poverty level and are age 40-64. If there is a diagnosis of cancer, most women are eligible to receive treatment through the Alabama Medicaid Agency. Each year hundreds of medically underserved women are diagnosed with breast and cervical cancer through the Alabama Breast and Cervical Cancer Early Detection Program (ABCCEDP), and nearly 3,000 women have been diagnosed since this program began in 1996.
ensure as many women as possible receive
According to the Blondheims, the Joy
life-saving cancer screenings.”
to Life Foundation feels the need and
26
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
MOVING AHEAD WITH HOPE We asked Joy to Life Foundation co-founder Joy Blondheim to share some thoughts on where the Foundation is headed in 2021. Grab your sunglasses cause the future forecast is looking sunny!
“I know the Joy to Life Foundation
that when the residents of North
has a strong and purposeful future
Alabama learn that 100 percent
in Alabama. We are so humbled and
of our pink car tag sales are used
at the same time so thrilled to step
to help people in their counties
forward and assist the Alabama
– now all 67 Alabama counties
responsibility to support ABCCEDP
Department of Public Health as
– we will expand our car tag sales
in filling this financial gap, so that
they provide mammograms and
and in turn be able to help even
mammograms and other breast cancer
other health screenings to the
more people in our state. It is the
screenings can continue to be provided
medically underserved in the
household awareness that we
northern counties of Alabama in
are so appreciative of in Central
response to the lack of Susan G.
and South Alabama that I know
“As the Joy to Life Foundation has done
Komen funds being allocated to the
will grow in the northern parts of
for 20 years, we will continue to work
area. We are honored to introduce
Alabama."
tirelessly every single day to provide the
the mission of the Joy to Life
without interruption in the northern counties for the medically underserved.
lifesaving screenings that every woman in Alabama needs and deserves,” stated Joy Blondheim. In addition to providing funds to ABCCEDP, the Foundation also assists women under age 40 who
Foundation to North Alabama and to serve the women and men in the area who need our help. One of the core beliefs of our Foundation is:
are at high risk or have symptoms of
‘Live here. Give here.’ That means,
breast cancers. “We are honored and
a donor should take comfort in
excited to introduce the Joy to Life
knowing their contributions stay in
Foundation to these counties,” Joy said.
their community. We are confident
27
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
THE FUTURE IS A BRIGHT SHADE OF PINK IN ALABAMA FOR THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION!
LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
everyday
Joy
NEWS & HAPPENINGS WITH THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION
MANY, MANY THANKS
550 Construction Raven Acoff Curtis Acton
Crystal Cook Shareefah Cook Carolyn Correia
Dimple Ahuja
Joyce Credic
Frank Albright
Vivian Crosby
Sandra Alexandaer
Elizabeth Crump
ALFA
Saundra Cunningham
Angela Allen
Nancy Dailey
Susan Allen
Cynthia Dale
Tina Allen
Kisha Daniel
Tiffani Anderson
Alyssa Daniels
Willie J. Anderson
Mary Daniels
FOR YOUR SUPPORT IN 2020
Debora Ansley Daniel Arner Vince Arnold Owen Aronov Teri Aronov Wanda Ashe
F R O M PA N D E M I C M A S K S T O T R A S H C A N S . F R O M D O N AT E D WA L K O F L I F E R E G I S T R AT I O N S T O C O R P O R AT E S P O N S O R S H I P S — E V E R Y D O L L A R G O E S T O S AV E L I V E S .
June Ayers
Roy Daniels Lisa Dark Tosha Darnell Horace Davis Karla Davis Melterick Davis Michelle Davis
Loretta Bach
Marlene Beringer
Angelia Brooks
Alonzo Carr
Rena Davis
Janice Badore
Barbara Berritt
Anita Brown
Marie Carr
John Deal
Monica Baker
Deloris & Tony Bibbs
Constance Brown
Stacye Carter
Niketa Dean
Bank of America
Laura Biggio
Nora Brown
Cleve Carter III
Rochell Dear
Carol Banks
Eva Bishop
Raelean Brown
Gerard Chevallier
Melissa Deaton
Elizabeth Barath
Diane Blondheim
Bruce Pearl Family
Hardenia Childrey
Susan Decker-Bunce
James Barber
Herb Blondheim
Foundation
Sarah Chung
Hobbie Dees
Nancy Baron
Joy Blondheim
LaShunda Bullock
Sally Cichon
Thaylee Dickerson
Jody Barr
Richard Blondheim
Yolanda Burgoyne
City of Montgomery
Jenny Dodson
Carl Barranco
Stephanie Blondheim
Erica Butler-Todd
Cindy Clark
Robert Dodson
Jessi Barrett
Janet Bolton
PA Butts
Marcus Clarke
Catherine Donald
Denise Bashaw
Margaret Bonham
Jill Byrd
Barbara Clein
Anonymous Donor
Michael Bassett
Melissa Bortnem
Willie Caldwell
George Clements
Elizabeth Dorman
Mary Battaglia
Beth Boyar
Cynthia Calvin
Coca-Cola Bottling Co.
Tonya & Albert Dorn
Tabetha Bell
Antwanette Boykin
Corinne Capilouto
Gail Cohn
Harriette Dorosin
Vanessa Bell
Aretha Bracy
Cargill Cargill Inc.
Molisa Coleman
Sonia Douglas
Tessa Belser
Reba Brannan
Ginny Carlisle
Venita Colon
Annette Douglass
Cynthia Bennett
Lynn Bright
Sheila Carnes
Venita Colon
Tonjia Drawbond
28
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
Jennifer Druhan
Linda Garrett
Tammie Hall-Welch
Carolyn Dubose
Patrcia Gartner
Jeannie Hamilton
Darius Duncan
Sara Geddie
Michelle Hamilton
Susan Dunham
Bonnie Getz
Linda Hammond
JoDell Dunlap
Barbara Gilewicz
Rick Hammond
Linda Dupree
Cassandra Gipson
Tina Hammonds
Eastern Oaks
Scott Girlie
Jack Hanchrow
Elizabeth Givens
Barbara Handmacher
Carrie Eberly
Elizabeth Glasgow
Sharon Harden
Tracy Edge
Audrey Glenn
Monroe Hare
Debra Ehrlich
Cheryl Glover
Betsey Harris
Shaundalyn Elliott
Shirley Glover
James Harris
Jonathan Elrod
Maxine Goldner
Sheniqua Harris
Penelope Howard
Morgan Johnson
Celia Espinosa
Michael Goldner
Chalita Hartman-
Rose Howell
Yolande Johnson
Patricia Evans
Steve Golsan
Williams Howell
Carole Jones
Harvey Fast
James Gooden
Kathleen Harvey
Joyce Hudson
Dorothy Jones
Jane Feldman
Josie Gorden
Bernadette Harville
Mary Virginia Huffaker
Jennifer Jones
Renina Fields
Alice Grayson
Gale Harwell
Karen Hughes
Lotonya Jordan
Patrice Fikes
Sharhonda Green
George Hatchcock
Megan Hughes
Sharon Joyce
Zenas Fishoe
Robin Greenberg
Gladys Hatcher
Dorothy Hyde
Laura Justice
Brenda and Alice Fleeton Jason Greeson
Jeanne Hatfield
Wendy Ingram
Dennise Kagey
Carl Fortson
Jerry Griffith
Cathy Hawthorne
Geraldine Ivey
Philip Kelliher
Pamela Fossett
Laura Grogan
Mia Haynes
J.K. Lowder
Cynthia Foster
Nancy Grosscup
David Haywood
Kay Lani Fowler
Cheydall Grubbs
Marvin Head
Christina Jackson
Elaine Kirkpatrick
Sue Godwin Fox
Jasjeet Gulati
Amy Hebron
Jackson Hospital
Barbara Kite
Leon Frazier
Manmohan Gulati
Cheryl Henderson
Debra Freisleben
Aranita Gunn
Sandra Henley
Sapna Jain
Andrea Knox
Sherri French
Renu Gurshaney
Daniel Hernandez
Deborah James
Douglas Kopren
Vibeke Froyen
Kay Haden
Kristi Hilliard
Sheldon Jeames
Vrinda Kosgi
Future Fuel International Leah Hagan
Sudha Hingorani
Sheldon Jeames
Irene Kramer
Ricket Gaines
Brittany Hagemann
Angel Hollins
Bettie Jenkins
Susan Kreher
June Gales
Vivien Hagler
Diane Holtam
Darlene Jernigan
Helene Krupnick
Lori Galluzzi
Jessie Haigler
Catherine Hook
Deborah Jinks
Amy Labovitz
Deborah Gantt
Elisabeth Hailes
Patricia Hope
Linda Jogy
David Labovitz
Gerald Gantt
Jamie Haling
Warner Hornsby
Ashley Johnson
Edward Lamber
Cheryl Gardner
Melanie Hall
Cheryl House
Belinda Johnson
Sabrina Lane
Baptist Church
Thornton
29
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
IN 2020, OUR FRIENDS AND SUPPORTERS KEPT US STRONG.
Family Foundation
Onocology Staff
Kinedyne LLC Libby Kinnucan
Louise Knight
LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
everyday
Joy
NEWS & HAPPENINGS WITH THE JOY TO LIFE FOUNDATION
Jodi Lapinsky Arthur Leadingham
Hayden & Brandt McDonald
Kathi Lee
Eruc McKinley
Sarah Lee
Felicia McKinzy
Chachanda Lewis
Michelle McMeans
Rob Light
Linda McMillin
Lilly Baptist Church
Douglas Medcalf
Arnea Linden
Julianna Menefee
Cheryl Lobb
Nancy Merner
Eugene Lockley
Thomas Miles
Eve Loeb
Esther Miller
Bonnie London
Margaret Miller
Cheryl London
Nancy Miller-Borg
Jack London
Leslie Mills
Ayanna Long
MontgomeryCounty
Chrissy Long
thank you w ind creek casino
Youth Facility
Rebekah Lords
Anne Moore
Tangie Oliver
Ashley Lough
Judith Moore
Marsha Orange
Marguerite Lowe
Robert Moorer
Meaghan Orozco
Calie Pettiway
Martha Ray
Meagan Lowery
Selena Moorer
Patrick Osborne
Teresa Pittman
Aletha Reynolds
Tom Lyne
Melissa Morgan
Theresa Osborne
Mary Plemons
Rheem Sales
John Mabry
Morgan Stanley
Julia Ovesen
PNC Foundartion
Kevin Ovesen
Brenda Poellnitz
Emma Richardson
Demetria Pollard
Joyce Ridgeway
Macon East Academy
Smith Barney, LLC
Perry Hill United Methodist
Tommy Ratliff Kathy Ray
Company, Inc.
Aaron Madden
Jimmy Morris
Trish Ovesen
Herbert Maloney
Lisa Morrison
Bridget Palmore
Desiree Potts
Melanie Ridgeway
Howard Mandell
Kanava Morton
Angelia Parker
Wayne Powe
Angelia Rigsby
Malorie Mann
Princess Motley
Jemini Patel
Nicole Powell
Jan Rigsby Page
Lori Marine
Hyundai Motors
Stuart Patton
Marie Price
Willetta Rivers
Jane Marks
Debra Moye
Nichole Paulk
QMT Associates, Inc.
Richard Robbins
Jennifer Martin
Mt. Moab Missionary
Corey Pearce
Malia Ragan
Jenna Roberts
Louise Pearson
Sudha Raghuram
Jody Roberts
Lori Rall
Linda Roberts
Thomas Mask
Baptist Church
June Mason
Valerie Neloms
Jessalyn Peck
Wanda McCall
Carrie Nelson
Willie Penn
Courtney Rambo
Laura Robitaille
Charesa McClain
Melody Nelson
Frederick Perkins
Valtina Rankins
Veronica Rochelle
Maryanna McClendon
Tanisha Nettles
Tonya Perkins
Deepali Rastogi
Joyce Rogers
Jessica Norwood
Nancy Perry
Priya Rastogi
Venessa Rogers
Tessa McCord
30
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
Nicole Roney
Rosi Smith
Steve Thornton
Sheri Weiner
Rita Rosenthal
Stacy Smith
Marie Thurman
Barbara Wells
Kelley Rouze
Tamika Smith
Better Tomorrows
Clementine White
Martin Russell
Michael Snusz
Town of Autaugaville
Walter White
Regina Russell
Tom Somerville Jr.
Robert Traphan
Bevly Whitlock
Missy Sallas
Nathan Soutar
Kim Travier
Pat Wilensky
Olivia Salon
Savannah Spain
Jennifer Trott
Alice Williams
Malissa Sanderson
Betsy Stallworth
Debbie Trotter
Ann Williams
Jolynn Sanford
Marcus Standberry
Barbara Truelove
Gwendolyn Williams
Elizabeth Sankey
Christine Stanfield
Charles Turner
LaSonya Williams
Quinton Sassnet
Mary Jo Starcher
Bridgett
Loretta Williams
Jennifer Schaap
Lakechia Starks
Maxine Schiffman
Karen Steinhauer
UPS Store
Ortinaye Williams
Adam Schloss
Janice Stewards
Belinda Urquhart
Beverly Williford
Mary
Felicia Windham
Tyner-Smith
Monique Williams
Vivian Scott
and Family
Robert Segall
Evelyn Stiner
Jackie Segrest
Heather Stojak
Daniel Vargas
Harper Wood
Tara Severance
Leslie Stone
Shanta Varma
Sherry Woodall
Margaret Shanahan
Shirley Streeter
Jimmie Varnado
Walt Woodfin
Carol Shaw
Jim Stroud
Elodia Varner
Sylvia Worley
Katie Sheffield
Tammi Stroud
MisChele Vickers
Nancy Wright
Kristine Shirah
Jenny Stubbs
Komal Vig
Ursula Wright
Kimberly Shumate
April Sullivan
Bobbie Vinson
Wilma Wright
Virginia
Emelyn Sullivan
Vicky Walker
Assata Wynn
Mary Sundet
Maxine Jones
Birdie Young
Sichanthavong Carolyn & Linsay Simmions
Urquhart-Hollis
Lorraine Sutter Annie Sutton
Walley Stacy Burnett
Ahondus Simmons
Sandra Sutton
Roly Singh
William Sutton
Felandria Ware
Alice Smith
Delando Taylor
Kay Warfield
B. Smith
Vivian Taylor
Renee Warren
Edith Smith
John Terry
Andrea Watson
Kathryn Smith
Amy Thigpen
Freddie Watson
Michael Smith
Cissi Thompson
Frances Watts
Patricia Smith
Michael Thompson
Jennifer Webster
Rosa Smith
Sarah Thornton
Laurie Jean Weil
Vernetta Womack
+ MANY MORE
AN ADDITIONAL AND BIG THANKS TO ALL OUR PINK CAR TAG SUPPORTERS THROUGHOUT THE STATE.
Melanie Zack Yolonda Zink
Walters
31
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
IN 2021, LET’S KEEP GOING STRONG TOGETHER .
LIVE HERE. GIVE HERE.
FIRST-HAND ADVICE AND INSIGHT TO HELP CAREGIVERS COPE
A DISCUSSION WITH
BETTY EHRLICH & E L A I N E K I R K PAT R IC K When she was three years old, Betty Ehrlich lost her mother to breast cancer. Today, Betty is herself a three-time cancer survivor. Her daughter Elaine has been by her side through all three struggles. The duo shared what they’ve each learned and how prayer and positive thinking have proven powerful weapons
PHOTOGRAPHY BY NANCY FIELDS / BIG DREAMZ CREATIVE
real
in all of Betty’s cancer battles.
32
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
1
3
HEAR FROM SURVIVORS, COMPANIONS AND CAREGIVERS IN OUR
Real Life SECTION.
Please tell us a little bit about your cancer story. Betty: In March of 1984, I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer at the age of 54. Doctors found a tumor close to my aorta, and it was too dangerous to remove it. The next morning when I woke up, a gentleman was sitting on the floor holding my hand. He said, “Hi, I am Dr. Norgard and I am going to do everything I can to help you.” At that time there was no such thing as the Montgomery Cancer Center. I went to Dr. Norgard’s office once a week for six weeks for chemo. I sat in a tiny lab on a stool and a nurse gave me an injection of chemo, nothing for nausea, nothing for pain, just straight chemo. Next was radiation at Baptist Hospital. Many friends and fellow congregants helped out driving me to and from my many appointments. With a lot of faith, prayer, positive attitude, wonderful friends and good doctors, I survived. In early 1999, again I was not feeling well. Dr. Norgard was no longer in Montgomery, and my doctor was Dr. Mac Barnes. I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer; I was 69. By that time the Montgomery Cancer Center had been built and cancer treatments had come a long way. I again underwent chemo and radiation. With a lot of faith, prayer, positive attitude, wonderful friends and good doctors, I survived. In 2001, I was having problems with my back. Dr. Barnes sent me for a biopsy to make sure the cancer had not returned, and everything came back clear. However, I started feeling bad, and six weeks later I ended up in Birmingham seeing a back specialist who performed surgery to repair a back problem he found. The incision healed well except for one small place, so I went to a general surgeon for repair to the incision. This surgeon also specialized in breast cancer research and surgery. For some reason he took an interest in
“ DON’T
WITH A LOT O F FA I T H , P R AY E R , P O S I T I V E AT T I T U D E , WON DER F U L FRIENDS AND GOOD DOCTORS . . . me and all my former cancer diagnoses. When he found out I was Jewish and of Ashkenazi decent, he suggested I and my daughter Elaine be tested for the BRAC1 and BRAC2 genes. In October of 2004, we went for genetic counseling. I was tested first, and Elaine would be tested if mine was positive. On the same day I was to get my genetic test results, I had a mammogram, and they saw something that was suspected cancer. That afternoon, I learned I’d tested positive for the BRAC1 and BRAC2 genes. Talk about a double whammy. I was 74 years old at the time. So, here I went again: surgery to remove the tumor and more radiation. But, once again with a lot of faith, prayer, positive attitude, wonderful friends and good doctors, I survived. Since I tested positive for the BRAC1 and BRAC2 gene, Elaine was then tested. Thanks to a lot of faith, prayer and a positive attitude, her test came back negative.
What was your first thought when you heard your diagnoses? Betty: I was shocked, but I had faith in my doctors and believed they were going to do all they could to help me beat cancer all three times, and they did!
WAIT FOR SOMEONE TO TELL YOU WHAT THEY NEED, JUST DO SOMETHING KIND FOR THEM.
33
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
”
They were there for me every step of the way. I did not want people to shy away from me. I just wanted them to treat me like they always had, and they did.
What forms of help and support really stood out? Betty: Everyone was so wonderful. People brought food, sent cards, called to check on me and my family, and drove me to my chemo and radiation treatments. Friends came and sat with me through my chemo sessions to help pass the time. With my first bout with cancer, a very dear friend of the family, Jerry Berlin, drove me to some of my chemo treatments and almost all of my radiation treatments. How many men do you know that would volunteer to do that? That was very special to me.
What one thing did you do for yourself that most helped you cope? Betty: I continued to try to live my life as normal as possible. When I felt like it, I walked in the morning, went to work and participated in services and activities at my synagogue. I did a lot of praying and believed that with the knowledge of my doctors and through the power of prayer, I was going to be alright.
herself and she always did what her doctors asked of her. She was always very appreciative of anything I did for her. She is a wonderful role model for me and many people who have been diagnosed with cancer.
What advice would you give other caregivers on how to approach and help their loved one going through cancer treatment? Elaine: It is not an easy role being a caregiver. There are many ups and downs. If your loved one is having a bad day and may say or do something that hurts your feelings, just overlook it. Tomorrow will be a better day and always, always stay positive!
What has your cancer journey taught you? Betty: I have learned so much through my journey of three different cancer diagnoses. I have learned what is important in life. Always treat people with kindness, because you never know what they are going through. Don’t wait for someone to tell you what they need, just do something kind for them. And, with a lot of faith, prayer, a positive attitude and wonderful friends, you can get through anything. On March 8, 2020, I was blessed to turn 90 years old.
d
ho p e i n
ot
he r s.
What advice would you give caregivers, on how to approach and help their loved one going through cancer treatment? Betty: Just be there for the person. Don’t ask them what
What things have most helped you cope with your role as a caregiver for your mother? Elaine: Her positive attitude. She never felt sorry for
Fi n
Through your treatment process and/or after, what did you want and need from your friends and family? Betty: My family and friends were all so wonderful.
they need. Just do something kind for them.
The “Breast Cancer” Gene
Read more survivor stories in our Real Life archives online at joytolife.org.
Certain variants of the genes BRAC1 and BRAC2 are associated with an 80 percent increase in breast cancer risk. Some women who discover this gene mutation within their genetic makeup will take proactive steps to reduce their risk of cancer, including preemptive mastectomies and even hysterectomies. As scientists deepen their understanding of the role of genetics in breast cancer risk, research has turned to developing individualized breast cancer treatments based on a woman’s genetic makeup. Meanwhile, some research focuses on techniques to repair or even replace harmful genes before breast cancer occurs.
34
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
35
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
goods
PRODUCTS, PLACES & THINGS WE LOVE
MADE LOCAL
HOW SWEET IT IS
MODERATION IS IMPORTANT TO MASTER FOR GOOD HEALTH, BUT INDULGING IN A LITTLE TREAT SOMETIMES IS GOOD FOR YOU TOO. CHECK OUT THESE ALABAMA MAKERS
JOY MAG IS SWEET ON.
BEAUTIFUL BITES PHOTOGRAPHY BY ASHLEY TIEDT
great
When the pandemic put parties and other gatherings on pause, Meredith Reaves started missing the charcuterie boards she’d create for entertaining at home or to take over to a friend’s house. She decided to continue the tradition, even it was just for her and her husband’s at-home date nights. “I started thinking, if we were still enjoying these treats, so could everyone else,” she said. And so her business, Graze, was born. Graze brings highly customizable boxes packed
Meredieth Reaves
with a mixture of cheeses, meats, fruits, nuts and sweets right to you door, with free delivery inside Montgomery city limits (or for a small fee outside the city’s borders). The nutritious and delicious nibbles add a little something special to a more ordinary occasion, something Reaves finds rewarding. “I’ve really enjoyed giving our customers a bit of happiness and a way to still celebrate,” she said. All the bits and bites in each Graze box look as good as they taste, especially when artfully arranged, but Reaves admits she plays favorites. She usually gobbles up slices of cheddar with dollops of pepper jelly first, if she’s not reaching for the sweets.
@grazemgm or grazemgm@gmail.com
36
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
LAYERS OF LOVE BY JENNY ENSLEN STUBBS
Considering the multi-layered decadence of cheesecake, the simple story of the Cheesecake PHOTOGRAPHY BY ERIKA ROWE TRACY
Empori-Yum’s start may surprise you. Owner Monique Williams has always enjoyed baking, but when she needed some extra cash for her dream wedding, she started selling cupcakes. The effort worked, but after the wedding, the extra income wasn’t necessary, so she stuck to her job as a bartender. However, when she found herself divorced sometime later, Williams knew she was at a crossroads. “I’ve always enjoyed making something beautiful out of nothing, but after my divorce, it also became my therapy,” she said. Because she’d always enjoyed working in the food industry, Williams used her divorce as motivation to do something she loved and that made other people happy. In 2016, Williams devoted her time
Monique Williams
to a weekly pop-up shop selling her cupcakes and cheesecakes. It became incredibly
SWEET STUFF:
successful, and she knew she needed her own space. She located in the heart of Montgomery
Williams’ mom is a breast cancer survivor who supports the Joy to Life Foundation by participating in the annual Walk of Life!
on Mulberry Street, and today, she offers more than 45 handmade flavors of cheesecake and experiments to create a wide variety of tastes, like cinnamon roll, peanut butter, maple bacon, peach cobbler and even fried cheesecake and cheesecake nachos. Cheesecake Empori-Yum has always been a takeout style eatery, and that has allowed the dessert shop to continue relatively unscathed during COVID-19. And Williams’ dedication to keeping cheesecake exciting should help the business continue to flourish. She sums it up best. “It is my love and my passion to create desserts that wake me up every day, and I hope that you taste that love and passion!”
cheesecakeemporiyum.com 37
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
(ALMOST) TOO PRETTY TO EAT Birmingham-based Ginger Lily Southern Teacakes’ creations are not your average cookie. With intricate designs, a unique brownie-like texture and a more subtle sweetness, the tea cakes (a specific type called springerle) are what baker Cherri Jones calls a “grown-up” cookie. They’re also the result of cross-cultural pollination, based on European traditions but stirring in some Southern influences too. Jones began baking at her grandmother Lily’s side as a child and also soaked up knowledge from her other grandmother’s Russian heritage. “I love combining what I have learned from them both to create a slightly Southern version of a traditional European springerle,” she said. Others love the combo too, leading her to found her company in 2018 and share her treats with a larger audience. Even as Jones works to incorporate Southern flare in these old-world cookies, she’s faithful to the historic recipe that originated in Switzerland in the 1500s —
TRUE ART: Ginger Lily Southern Teacakes uses molds, which themselves are considered art in Europe, fashioned by master carvers and featured in museums.
she has to be. “Traditionally these cookies have always been made with vanilla, anise or almond, but I enjoy finding new ways to add Southern flavors,” she said. “But, this is a very technical recipe, so adding ingredients for my Pecan Praline, for example, can be tricky.” And the taste is only part of the cookies’ appeal. Each is a work of art, their whimsical shapes, delicate flowers and detailed scenes made using molds, which themselves are considered art in Europe, fashioned by master carvers and featured in museums.
gingerlilysweets.business.site
38
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
39
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
ON THE MOVE
River Riches Discover Alabama’s liquid assets by dipping
a paddle in one of our state’s multiple waterways and using The Alabama Scenic River Trail as your guide.
BY JENNIFER STEWART KORNEGAY
40
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
PHOTOGRAPHY BY EVAN LANIER
GET ROLLIN’ ON A RIVER Get started at alabamascenicrivertrail.com.
41
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
Alabama is a state rife with rivers.
Our vast collection of rivers, creeks, streams, bayous and lakes contributes to our economy, is foundational to our cultural heritage and creates a valuable recreational resource. Anniston jeweler Fred Couch already knew and loved the state’s rivers; the avid paddler had spent plenty of time traversing them. But he had a nagging question. Why weren’t they given more attention? That thought was the initial pebble tossed from the bank. It broke the surface and had a ripple effect, one that led Couch to gather like-minded folks and shine a light on Alabama’s rivers by helping to create The Alabama Scenic River Trail.
But it took some grass roots work to get it all going, as Laura Gaddy, ASRT communications director, explained. “In the beginning, Couch and Jay Grantland, who is now our executive director, traveled all over Alabama sleeping in a VW van from 1970s and getting county commissions and other local leaders to adopt resolutions in support of a river trail,” she said. “Along the way, they were also helping local communities develop access points to the trail.”
River Racin’
The Alabama Tourism Department got involved too, putting Couch in touch with others around the state who had also expressed interest in a river trail. There were challenges, including finding portage trails to get around dams on many of the rivers. With the help of countless volunteers and communities, the Trail was open for business in 2008 and encompassed 650 miles. Today, the Trail has branched off that first north-south main route to include more than 6,500 miles – 10 times the
42
PHOTOGRAPHY BY MATT REYNOLDS
The Alabama Scenic River Trail is two things: a nonprofit organization that designated the pathways along the state’s rivers as a Trail and the actual Trail itself. The Trail was christened and started “officially” showcasing some of our state’s abundant water wonders in June 2008. Its purpose is to encourage residents and visitors to explore the state’s rivers and provide the information and access to make it easier than ever before.
In 2019, The Alabama Scenic River Trail launched the Great AL 650, a 10-day paddle race on the Trail’s core section, from the Georgia line in North Alabama all the way down to the Gulf. “This is an event for more experienced paddlers,” Laura Gaddy, ASRT communications director, said. “But we’ve had a great response, attracting elite paddlers from across the country and even internationally.” The event keeps garnering attention, a spotlight Gaddy says is overdue. “The event is increasing the profile of Alabama’s waterways and our state’s natural beauty, and we are worthy of that attention,” she said. “We have a lot to offer.”
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
initial Trail. This makes it the longest such trail contained in a single state in the country. The blueway flows from mountain streams and slow, wide rivers all the way into coastal delta. And it still only includes a small portion of the state’s huge network of waterways, which total more than 100,000 miles.
While power boaters are welcome on the Trail, there’s a good bit of emphasis put on helping paddlers travel its liquid pathways. Many of the Trail’s supporters, like Couch, count paddling among their hobbies. Gaddy is a paddler too. She lives in Jacksonville, and the former reporter got involved with the Trail after discovering an affinity for the outdoors. “I was volunteering with the Trail and asked if they needed help with media and public relations, and they did, so I wound up working for them.” Her job gives her the opportunity to promote something she believes in and a pastime she believes can be beneficial for both mind and body. “The first time I was in a boat without a motor, I fell in love,” Gaddy said. “Paddling provides great physical fitness; it’s a great workout. But there is more to it too. It is an overall experience that provides the mental and emotional benefits of being outside in fresh air, immersed in the beauty of nature.” Thanks to the efforts of Gaddy and many others, the Trail has experienced phenomenal growth in just a little over 10 years, and work is ongoing to improve and add to it. “We’ve recently been doing an initiative where we work with rescue squads to put mile markers on the Trail,” Gaddy said. “They function like mile markers on the highway and help rescuers access paddlers and other boaters if needed, but they also help people navigate the Trail.” Trail staff and volunteers are also always working
PHOTOGRAPHY BY MATT REYNOLDS
The Trail’s core section begins at the Georgia state line on the Coosa River. It winds its way south to the Tallapoosa River, then to the Alabama River, crossing nine lakes and branching out all along the way before terminating at Ft. Morgan in the Gulf of Mexico.
PADDLIN’ PICKS We asked Laura Gaddy, ASRT communications director, so share some of her favorte Alabama rivers to traverse. “I love what I call my ‘home creek,’ which is Terrapin Creek. It is where I got started paddling. I enjoy Autauga Creek, too. It’s really great, and its access point is right by downtown Prattville,” she said. to clear debris from Trail waterways on the trail, things like downed trees and other hazards, through the Open Waters program. The Trail website is the place to get started exploring the Trail. It gives beginning boaters and old river rats alike an amazingly detailed route to follow for a day trip or an extended run. The interactive map includes waypoints, campsites, road access, put ins and take outs. You can also find contact info to reach out to a Trail Angel, a Trail volunteer ready, willing and happy to help you plan your Trail trip. “We really want to make it simple for people to use and experience the Trail,” Gaddy said.
NEED MORE OUTDOOR IDEAS?
Check out our archives on joytolife.org.
43
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
OUTSIDE
AL
44
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
The Positive Force of Forgiveness Find out how leaving bitterness behind and forging ahead with forgiveness can positively impact your health.
English poet Alexander Pope famously wrote, “To err is human; to forgive, divine.” And for many spiritual people, the notion of forgiveness is a central tenet of their faith, a selfless act bestowed upon someone who has wronged them just as they have been forgiven themselves. But learning how to truly forgive is not just altruistic: It can actually improve your overall health.
Anger does no good. We all know being angry feels awful. And doctors are finding specific physical effects related to harboring anger:
According to the Mayo Clinic, when you let go of a grudge or anger and forgive, you can experience health benefits like lower blood pressure, fewer symptoms of depression, a lower risk of substance abuse and lower anxiety and stress levels as well as a heightened sense of wellbeing. Participants in a recent study at Stanford University called the Forgiveness Project reported not just a positive emotional release following forgiveness, but that they felt better physically too. Other recent medical studies have shown that forgiving can: • Reduce the risk of heart attack • Improve sleep • Lower blood pressure • Improve cholesterol levels • Strengthen immune system
• Tense, tightened muscles leading to headaches or an increase in chronic pain • Restricted blood flow to joints, making it more difficult for the blood to supply oxygen and nutrients to the cells
This all sounds great. But if forgiveness was easy, everyone would be doing it. So how do you forgive?
• Even proper digestion is compromised
So, you're ready. Now what? It starts with the decision to forgive. It is a commitment. It helps to think about how it will benefit you to move out of the role of victim and into a place where you are empowered to control your own emotions and reactions, instead of letting your thoughts about the person who hurt you control you. It also helps to change your perspective, taking the focus off of yourself and accepting that other people are not perfect (and that you aren’t either). 45
Once you have stopped dwelling on the negative and can move forward, you may want to tell the person you’ve forgiven that you have forgiven them. This does not guarantee reconciliation, nor does it mean you completely forget the hurt that was caused. It is just one step further in the process of letting go and living better.
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
SPREAD TH E JOY, SPREAD TH E SU PPORT!
EN JOY YOU LOVE JOY MAGAZI N E , SO KEEP TH E LOVE GO I NG, AN D SEN D A SU BSCRI PTION TO A FRI EN D WHO WOU LD LOVE IT TOO!
A $1 0 G I F T
G ETS YO U R FR I E N D: OU R TWO PACKED PRI NT I SSU ES
+
S PECIAL SU M M ER DI GITAL I SSU E
SU BSCRI BE .
J OYTO LI FE .O RG 46
JOYTOLIFE.ORG
47
47 BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE
INTRODUCING ADOLESCENT BEHAVIORAL HEALTH SERVICES As the only mental health center in Central Alabama, Crossbridge Behavioral Health now offers specialized in-patient care for adolescents between the ages of 12 and 18. We understand how chaotic life can feel for families when a child is struggling with behavioral health issues. Our staff of expert physicians, licensed therapists, licensed social workers, registered nurses and mental health technicians offer a program of therapies and services that help return the young patient to emotional well-being. We treat adolescent behavioral health illness such as: Anxiety | Bipolar | Depression | Post-traumatic Stress Disorder Schizophrenia | Mood Disorders | Psychosis
Now is the time to begin the healing journey. Please call 334-286-3116 for more information.
The Road to Health and Hope Begins Here
48
BRINGING ALABAMA TO LIFE