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AN EVENING TO REMEMBER
Eight young women from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff made their debut at the 66th Annual Presentation Ball—the primary fundraiser for the Illinois Club for Catholic Women.
FEATHER IN HER CAP
Lake Forest’s Bird Barre owner, Rebecca Asfour, invites you to soar to new heights using her latest wellness innovation—the Bird Barre Online app.
THE KNIT FACTOR
Lake Forest’s Ashley Lillis makes knitting “cool” for crafters of all ages, gaining more than a hundred thousand social media followers with her step-by-step tutorials, elevated designs, and engaging content.
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North Shore artists Joe Bednarski and Phil Gayter bring their unique “Oil & Water” live painting show to Gorton Center on April 25.
DEPARTMENTS
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Bird Barre owner, Rebecca Asfour, wears a wool jacket, silk tie blouse, and Carson flare jeans by Veronica Beard from Lillie Alexander in Lake Forest.
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Editor’s Note
As I write this note, it’s the beginning of January. I’m tucked in with a cup of coffee watching the snow fall outside my window. On the glass pane in front of me is a slip of paper, taped up years ago, that reads “peaceful and full of purpose.”
I don’t do resolutions, but for the past few years I’ve had the working goal of becoming more relaxed and centered. I think I actually attained that this morning (to be clear, I’m sure it’s just for the morning—by noon I’ll be off kilter again). But in this moment, I feel calm and especially excited about the February issue before you.
My purpose with this edition is to bring a little color into an often-gray month by shining a light on the work of a few incredibly vibrant local entrepreneurs. We visit with the always-inspiring Rebecca Asfour, owner of Bird Barre and the brains behind the new Bird Barre online app in Feather In Her Cap. We meet Lake Forest resident Ashley Lillis in The Knit Factor. Lillis has turned her passion for knitting into a robust online community and a thriving business. In That’s Painter-tainment, we preview of an innovative show coming to Gorton Center this spring. North Shore artists Joe Bednarski and Phil Gayter paint works of art in real time while exchanging gentle gibes and interacting with the audience.
On our cover we have Mia Gregor, a pediatric neuropsychologist who grew up in Lake Forest, and recently moved back to her hometown to put down
roots—both personal and professional. Gregor talks about her journey and shares some of her favorite things about our community in The Portrait
We double down on the color in An Evening to Remember. In this beautiful pictorial, we celebrate eight young women from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff who made their debut to society at the 66th Annual Presentation Ball, the primary fundraiser for the Illinois Club for Catholic Women. After a year of preparation and service, these young women had the honor of meeting the Archbishop of Chicago, His Eminence, Blase J. Cardinal Cupich and receiving a Papal Medallion. Finally, in The Last Word, we feature one of the most sparkly people in town—Michaele McDonnell. You’ll recognize this dynamic, world-travelling, 79-year-old as the friendly face of The Gallery. If you need a little pick-me-up this month, pop into The Gallery for a chat with McDonnell.
I hope you enjoy this colorful issue. I wish you a peaceful, productive month and a Happy Valentine’s Day!
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Influencer Ashley Lillis is weaving an online community, one stitch at a time.
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DINNER AND A SHOW Downtown Chicago comes alive this month with two of the most anticipated events of the year—Chicago Restaurant Week and Chicago Theatre Week. Restaurant Week runs now through February 9 and offers diners special prix fixe menus at more than 470 restaurants across the city. Theatre Week begins on February 6 and offers 10 days of discounted tickets to more than 100 exciting performances in every corner of the city at venues such as Lyric Opera, Chicago Shakespeare Theater, and Goodman Theatre. choosechicago.com
THREADS
OF HERITAGE Two dynamic multisensory exhibitions are coming to the Field Museum this month, Africa Fashion and Connecting Threads: Africa Fashion in Chicago. Organized by the Victoria and Albert Museum in London, Africa Fashion features immersive displays of cutting-edge haute couture and ready-to-wear apparel animated by multimedia. Its companion show, Connecting Threads, organized by the Field, explores Chicago’s African design scene and its roots. The exhibitions open on February 28. Africa Fashion runs through June 29, and Connecting Threads will remain open until March 1, 2026. fieldmuseum.org
GOWNS FOR GOOD Give another life to your pre-loved prom attire. Mothers Trust Foundation is proud to announce its 5th anniversary for the Pop Up Prom Shoppe in 2025. New and gently used formal dresses, shoes, purses, jewelry, men’s suits, ties, vests and cummerbunds are being accepted. All donations may be dropped off at University Center of Lake County (1200 University Center Drive, Grayslake), Mothers Trust Foundation (400 E Illinois Road, Lake Forest) or any Zengeler Cleaners location. motherstrustfoundation.org
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About Town Fabulous February
FRIDA
... A SELF PORTRAIT
WHEN: Through February 23
WHERE: The Alexandra C. and John D. Nichols Theatre, Writers Theatre
Iconic Mexican painter Frida Kahlo was a woman who lived boldly, loved wildly, and painted prolifically to see herself and the world around her more clearly. Witness this extraordinary figure come to life onstage through playwright and performer Vanessa Severo, who brings breathtaking physicality and raw honesty to this stunningly creative production directed by Joanie Schultz. writerstheatre.org
ORCHID SHOW
WHEN: February 8 to March 23
WHERE: Chicago Botanic Garden
The Orchid Show whisks guests away to a world saturated in color and culture. Look for a blooming peacock, a colossal banyan tree, and 10,000 orchid blooms all inspired by the beauty of India. The show will sweep you away to a place where India’s rich culture is felt in every bloom. chicagobotanic.org
VICTOR GARCIA LATIN JAZZ QUINTET
WHEN: February 7
WHERE: Gorton Center
Experience vibrant jazz with Grammy-nominated Victor Garcia at Gorton Center. Heat up your winter with the vibrant rhythms of this renowned Latin jazz quintet. gortoncenter.org
TEA PARTY STORYTIME
WHEN: February 14
WHERE: Lake Forest Library
Children ages 3 to 7 are invited to Lake Forest Library’s Tea Party Storytime. Children are encouraged to dress up, bring their favorite stuffie or doll, and join library staff for stories, apple juice, and cookies. Admission is free. lakeforestlibrary.org/events
SLOWING DOWN WITH AMY TAN
WHEN: February 19 WHERE: Zoom
Register for an evening with Amy Tan, best known for her novel, The Joy Luck Club. In 2016, Tan felt overwhelmed by the racism, hatred, and misinformation in the world. In response, she began enveloping herself in nature to find beauty again. Her 2023 nature journal, The Backyard Bird Chronicles, maps the passage of time through daily entries, thoughtful questions, and beautiful original sketches. Admission is free.
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I AND YOU
WHEN: February 21 to March 23
WHERE: Citadel Theatre
This extraordinary, touching story is written by the same playwright who brought us Silent Sky last season. Charming, mysterious, and poetic in the truest sense of the word, Lauren Gunderson’s I and You is a study of the beauty, the agony, and the mystery of the human connection. citadeltheatre.org
ART IN MOTION
WHEN: February 21
WHERE: Wildman BT, Chicago Hosted by the Associate Board, the 22nd annual “Art in Motion” event aims to raise more than $500,000 for Shirley Ryan AbilityLab’s Art Therapy and Therapeutic Recreation programs—unique and healing programs supported exclusively through philanthropy. Enjoy a lively cocktail party with music, refreshments, and patient artwork on display. Meet the artists and bid on their artwork throughout the night. sralab.org/artinmotion
APRÈS SKI-ASPEN
WHEN: February 22
WHERE: Conway Farms Golf Club
The 118-year old Allendale Shelter Club is hitting the slopes this winter with a new name, Allendale Women’s Board, and an exciting fundraiser, “Après Ski-Aspen.” This indoor/outdoor party will bring this beloved post-ski celebration to Lake Forest with cocktails and champagne, fire pits, and VIP
yurts paired with a menu designed by chef Paul Kahan of One Off Hospitality. Proceeds will benefit Allendale Association, a nonprofit child welfare agency dedicated to the care, education, treatment, and advocacy for disadvantaged youth in Illinois. allendale4kids.org
PASSION TO DANCE CONCERT
WHEN: February 23
WHERE: John and Nancy Hughes Theater, Gorton Center
Lake Forest Dance Academy’s Performance Company takes the stage in its annual concert, Passion to Dance. Join these passionate artists as they display their hard work in this one night only performance. Tickets are available online or at the door. lakeforestdance.com
MOTHER-SON PANCAKES WITH THE POLICE
WHEN: March 8
WHERE: Lake Forest Parks & Recreation
Save the date for a sizzling morning of family fun. Watch your little heroes’ faces light up as they indulge in mouthwatering pancakes served with a side of courage. This policethemed event promises a delightful blend of delicious breakfast treats and interactive activities that will strengthen the bond. Don’t miss this unforgettable, police-powered adventure! Please note that police officers may be called out during the event. lfrec.com
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Pediatric neuropsychologist Mia Gregor of Lake Forest is happy to be raising her own family in the city where she grew up.
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As much as Mia Gregor enjoyed her decade living and working in Scottsdale, she was thrilled to bring her family back home to Lake Forest. “I was the lead of the pediatric neuropsychology department at a large children’s hospital in Arizona, treating children with complex neurological and medical diagnoses,” explains Gregor, a Lake Forest High School (LFHS) graduate who had lived in the city since age 2. “After returning with my husband Alex and two sons, Brody (a 15-year-old LFHS freshman) and Knox (a 12-year-old Deerpath Middle School seventh grader), I have been happy to share my knowledge through child development lectures at schools and the inspiring Suite Escape.” A board-certified pediatric neuropsychologist, she now works at Chicago Neurodevelopmental Center, a private practice in Northfield, and gives back to her community whenever she can. Since returning to Lake Forest, she has become involved with the Spirit of 67 Foundation, the Lake Forest/Lake Bluff Newcomers Club, Allendale Women’s Board, Lake Forest Hospital Women’s Board, and the Lake Forest High School Foundation. “We are so happy to be in Lake Forest and back to the four seasons of the Midwest. I always tell people the fact there are so many people living here originally from Lake Forest speaks to the amazing community it is,” says Gregor, adding that she and her husband also love being close enough to go back to their University of Michigan alma mater for football and lacrosse games. “Many of us have lived in other cities, states, and countries but eventually return to Lake Forest since it is a sweet slice of Americana and a great place to raise your family.” With that in mind, she recently took time from her busy work and volunteer schedule to share a few of her favorite things.
Favorite place you vacationed recently? Last summer we did a big trip to Croatia and Montenegro that was incredible. Beauty brand you can’t live without? Not fancy, but I love Dickinson’s witch hazel toner. For cosmetics, I mostly use Jane Iredale and also love Henry Rose scents. Favorite Lake Forest restaurant? We love the new café at Elawa farm. I always have a solid meal at Deerpath Inn and am also a huge fan of the tuna tataki at Sophia Steak. Favorite winter escape? Back to Scottsdale to visit family and friends. Local place to spend the day with your family? Relaxing at the beach in summer, as well as the Lake Bluff Farmer’s Market. Favorite Lake Forest shop or boutique? Pasquesi Home and Gardens. And Elawa Farm’s garden market. Favorite way to celebrate Valentine’s Day? Stay home with my husband, make a nice steak, and relax on the couch with a good show and a glass of wine. Song you always sing along to when driving? All of them, much to my kids dismay. Quote that inspires you? “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.” - Epicuras TV show you can’t stop binging? All documentaries, especially murder mysteries. I just finished the Jon Benet Ramsey documentary. Best way to stay fit during winter months is? Paddle, walking (or snowshoeing if possible!) on the Elawa trails, and I do Club Pilates. Best book you’ve read recently? Brain on Fire by Susannah Chalan. What’s at the top of your 2025 bucket list? Starting a podcast related to pediatric neuropsychology topics, but also engaging, entertaining, and getting our two French bulldogs, Gus and Gertie, better trained.
Favorite Lake Forest restaurant? I am a huge fan of the tuna tataki at Sophia Steak.
Favorite place you vacationed recently? Last summer we did a big trip to Croatia and Montenegro that was incredible
Favorite winter escape? Back to Scottsdale to visit family and friends.
Local place to spend the day with your family? Relaxing at the beach in summer, as well as the Lake Bluff Farmer’s Market.
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INGREDIENTS
FOR THE BLITZ TORTE
• 1 cup cake flour
• 1 tsp baking powder
• 1/2 tsp. salt
• 1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter
• 1 1/4 cups sugar
• 4 eggs, separated
• 2 tsp Nielsen-Massey vanilla bean paste (substitute vanilla extract if need be)
• 3 Tbsp whole milk
FOR THE VANILLA PASTRY CREAM
• 3 Tbsp cake flour
• 1/3 cup sugar
• 1/8 tsp salt
• 1 cup whole milk
• 1 egg, beaten
• 1 tsp Nielsen-Massey vanilla bean paste (substitute vanilla extract if need be)
• 1/2 stick butter
FOR THE STABILIZED WHIPPED CREAM
• 1 tsp unflavored gelatin
• 1 sheet silver strength gelatin
• 6 tsp cold water
• 2 cups heavy cream
• 1/4 cup superfine sugar
FOR THE STRAWBERRY TOPPER
• 4 cups, hulled and sliced right before service
Ilove strawberries. I eat them out of hand, make pies and jams with them, macerate them, even grill and pepper them. So, imagine my delight at finding myself knee-deep in Pete Ambrose’s organic strawberry patch on Wadmalaw Island, South Carolina, where he’s been harvesting the luscious berries since January. Together we worked our way up a few rows, quietly chatting and plucking until I had plenty to take home. This sweet, many-splendored cake is nice way to feature strawberries for your dearest. It’s actually a vintage blitz torte recipe, made extra special by the berries and whipped cream topper. Happy Valentines Day!
INSTRUCTIONS
MAKE CAKE Sift cake flour, baking powder, and salt together. Set aside. In bowl of a stand mixer, whip butter and 1/2 cup of the sugar until fluffy. Add the four egg yolks and vanilla paste and beat at medium speed until incorporated. Add milk and beat again. Add sifted dry ingredients and mix just until no streaks show. Grease two 9-inch baking pans and insert rounds of parchment paper in the bottoms. Spread cake batter (it will be stiff) into the pans. Set aside. In bowl of stand mixer, whip egg whites until foamy; gradually add the remaining 3/4 cups of sugar, and continue to whip until stiff and glossy. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Set rack in the center of the oven. Spread meringue over the unbaked cake batter in the pans. Place pans on oven rack and bake for 30 minutes at 350 degrees. While cake layers bake, make whipped cream and pastry cream.
MAKE PASTRY CREAM In a double boiler over boiling water, combine flour, sugar, salt, milk, and beaten egg and whisk until thick. Stir in vanilla paste and butter. Remove pastry cream to a bowl and press plastic wrap over surface of pastry cream to prevent a skin from forming. Refrigerate.
MAKE STABILIZED WHIPPED CREAM Chill mixer bowl and whisk attachment. Cut gelatin sheet and place with gelatin powder over cold water. Allow to stand until thick. In a small pan over low heat, melt gelatin, stirring constantly. Remove to a bowl and let stand. Remove 1/4 cup of the cream to a separate bowl. In chilled bowl of stand mixer, whip remaining 1-3/4 cups cream with superfine sugar until soft peaks form. Stir the reserved 1/4 cup of cream into the warm liquid gelatin and immediately pour into the soft-peaked whipped cream; continue whipping until cream is whipped firm.
ASSEMBLE CAKE When ready to serve, place one layer of cake on serving platter, spread with pastry cream, and top with remaining cake layer. Top with most of the whipped cream. Arrange sliced fresh strawberries on top of cloud of cream. Serve remaining cream and any extra strawberries with slices of the cake.
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Big Changes at Loomcraft Textiles are Here
Loomcraft Textiles, the North Shore’s premier destination for all things fabric, upholstery, and drapery window treatments, has just completed an exciting transformation at their location in Vernon Hills (645 Lakeview Parkway). The store has undergone a stunning renovation, and customers can now explore a refreshed space filled with new inventory and enhanced offerings. The retailer is proud to offer the most competitive pricing in the area for custom window treatments and upholstery, with world-class workroom quality.
This month, they are also offering a 20 percent discount on book fabrics, making it the perfect time to refresh your home for the spring season. Whether you’re tackling a small update or a largescale project, Loomcraft is the North Shore’s go-to one-stop shop for window treatments, reupholstery, and more.
What’s New at Loomcraft Textiles?
• Brand-New Flooring: The newly renovated space features modern flooring that creates a warm and inviting atmosphere.
• Improved Displays: Redesigned displays make it easier for customers to browse the extensive fabric collection, from timeless classics to the latest trends.
• Expanded Inventory: Loomcraft has stocked even more lux-
Revitalize with Performance Fabrics:
Spring is the perfect time to breathe new life into your furniture. Loomcraft’s custom upholstery services offer a variety of durable fabrics to refresh cushions and frames, allowing customers to create the perfect outdoor oasis for the season.
Refresh Your Windows with Sunshades, Roman Shades, Panels, and More:
Whether updating window treatments or designing custom drapery, this expert team will guide customers through selecting the perfect textures and colors to brighten any space and bring fresh spring energy indoors.
Custom Bedding for a Spring Awakening:
Transform any bedroom into a relaxing retreat with a new custom bedding set. With a wide selection of fabrics to choose from, it’s easy to create a stylish, comfortable sleep environment.
Loomcraft Textiles has been the North Shore’s home décor hub for 35 years, and the newly renovated showroom is ready to help customers bring their spring visions to life. Visitors can walk in (Monday to Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m.) or call to schedule an appointment. Home appointments are also available upon request.
Loomcraft Textiles is located at 645 Lakeview Parkway in Vernon Hills. For more information, call 847-680-1119 or email vhstore@loomcraft.com.
Why Revising Your Estate Plan During Divorce is Crucial
words by Michone J. Riewer
photography by Katrina Wittkamp
styling by Theresa DeMaria
As a divorce attorney, I’ve seen firsthand how critical estate planning is during and after the divorce process. The truth is, no one wants to think about their own mortality, especially during the emotional upheaval of a divorce. But failing to update or create an estate plan can lead to devastating consequences for your loved ones, especially children.
Recently, one of our clients passed away unexpectedly in the middle of their divorce. Unfortunately, she hadn’t updated her will or powers of attorney. Her estranged spouse, still legally married, inherited everything—money, assets, even control over medical and legal decisions before her death. This wasn’t the outcome she wanted, and her surviving family was left with no legal recourse. Even the assets that went to the children were controlled by the estranged spouse.
This heartbreaking situation serves as a stark reminder: your estate plan is just as important as dividing assets and creating parenting plans. In Illinois, revising your will, and creating or updating powers of attorney for health care and property, is not only wise but essential to protect your wishes.
Why Act Now?
In Illinois, if you pass away without a will while your divorce is pending, your estranged spouse will inherit a significant portion of your estate under the state’s intestacy laws. Even after your divorce is finalized, certain trust provisions may remain in effect if not proactively addressed.
• A Wi ll Protects Your Intentions: While Illinois law (755 ILCS 5/2-8) allows an ex-spouse to be removed as a beneficiary automatically after a divorce is finalized, the same protections don’t apply during the divorce process. Without an updated will, your spouse will inherit under default laws.
• Powers of Attorney Safeguard Your Decisions: Powers of attorney for both health care and property allow you to designate someone you trust to make decisions for you if you’re unable to do so. If these documents haven’t been updated, your estranged spouse could still have the authority to make medical and financial decisions on your behalf.
Can
a Spouse Challenge a Will?
Under Illinois law, a spouse has the right to challenge a will by renouncing it and claiming their elective share, which is typically one-third of the estate if there are children, or one-half if there are none. While this might seem like a complication, having a will still provides clarity and limits the spouse’s ability to claim more than the statutory share. Without a will, the entire estate could pass to the spouse under intestacy laws, leaving all of your assets to the spouse you are trying to divorce, instead of your children or other family members.
What Steps Should You Take?
If you’re going through a divorce, here’s what you need to do to protect your estate and ensure your wishes are honored:
1. Dr aft or Revise Your Will: Work with an attorney to ensure your assets go to the right people, even during the divorce process.
2. Update Powers of Attorney: Name someone you trust to handle medical and financial decisions for you.
3. Re view Beneficiary Designations: These are separate from your will and govern who inherits retirement accounts, life insurance, and other payable-on-death accounts.
The Bottom Line
Revising or creating an estate plan during a divorce isn’t just about money—it’s about ensuring that the people you care about are taken care of according to your wishes. Without a plan, the law will decide for you, and those decisions might not align with what you would have wanted.
As painful as it might feel to think about, taking these steps is a way to protect the future of your loved ones. Don’t leave your estate to chance. Consult with an experienced family law or estate planning attorney to make sure everything is in order.
Strategic Divorce is here to guide you through every aspect of your divorce, including ensuring your estate plan reflects your new reality and protects your family. Contact us to protect your rights and your legacy.
Michone J. Riewer is an attorney with Strategic Divorce in Lake Bluff, 847-234-4445, strategicdivorce.com.
Michone J. Riewer
Are you your biggest rival?
How self-talk can help or hurt you.
Each month, Dr. E addresses your sports psychology challenges head-on. Need advice? Scan the QR code to submit a question!
Dear Dr. E.—
I love the sport of wrestling, but I hate to lose. Sometimes, I get so mad at myself when I mess up that I get anxious before my next match. I am stuck in a perpetual feedback loop of feeling bad and performing worse. How can I make it stop?
—My own worst enemy.
Dear Worst Enemy—
It’s easy to get down on yourself when things don’t go your way, but as you’ve witnessed firsthand, negative thoughts build up over time and can take a toll. Whether sad, angry, or frustrated, your subconscious Red Zone can often make you feel like you’re drowning in a sea of emotions with no escape. That repetitive behavior cycle is exhausting, and you are the only one who can break the pattern.
The next time you lose a match, stop and listen to the words you say to yourself (whether out loud or in your head). You might be surprised at how hard you are being on yourself. Would you ever call a friend stupid simply because they made a mistake? Try comforting yourself with the words you’d want to hear from someone else (your coach, a parent, a teammate) and see if that doesn’t help alleviate some of the pressure.
It’s okay to feel disappointed. Acknowledge your feelings and gently remind yourself that setbacks are just that: they don’t define you, and more often than not, they are the best way to learn and grow.
—Dr. E.
Dear Dr E.—
My daughter tends to fly off the handle when things don’t go her way. If she disagrees with a ref’s call or is upset about her mistake, she explodes when the pressure builds up. What are the magic words to calm a stressed-out kid?
—Parent of a Hot Head
Dear Parent of Hot Head—
No one can “calm down” when in the heat of the Red Zone, and if you suggest that, it might even make things worse. Red Zone thinking impairs our ability to problem-solve and can manifest in the body as well.
My first suggestion would be to help your daughter determine where she feels stress. For example, does her stomach hurt? Does she have a headache? Then ask her to quantify her level of distress on a scale of 1 to 10. You are in the psychological Red Zone and experiencing a high level of distress when you’re at a 7 or higher. Once she can self-identify the intensity of her emotions, she can begin implementing strategies to feel better.
I like teaching the student-athletes I work with to grab distress by the HELM.
H stands for halt. Don’t let anything out of your mouth (to avoid saying things we might later regret), and don’t put anything in your mouth (to avoid emotional eating).
E stands for exercise. Go for a brisk walk or do a few jumping jacks, anything that quickly gets your body moving.
L stands for laugh. Watch some funny clips on TikTok or YouTube to help your brain switch gears.
M stands for music. Create a Red Zone playlist with songs that make you want to dance and sing.
These ideas may sound simple, but once your daughter leaves the Red Zone, she can learn to be more resilient during stressful times.
—Dr. E.
Specializing in peak performance and sports psychology, EleVive helps student-athletes master their mental game. Learn more at EleVive.com.
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AN EVENING
TO REMEMBER
Eight young women from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff made their debut at the 66th Annual Presentation Ball—the primary fundraiser for the Illinois Club for Catholic Women.
words by Ann Marie Scheidler / photography by John Reilly Photography
ON DECEMBER 20, twenty-four young women from all over the Chicago area made their debut at the 66th Annual Presentation Ball presented by the Illinois Club for Catholic Women (ICCW).
Debutantes were presented to the Archbishop of Chicago, His Eminence, Blase J. Cardinal Cupich. The orchestra played in the flower-filled Grand Ballroom of the Hilton Chicago Hotel, where guests wore black tie and ball gowns and danced the night away. Patricia Peck, a former Texas debutante whose two daughters have also been debutantes, chaired the ball.
The 2024 Presentation Ball Debutante class included the following high school seniors from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff: Anna Braun, Abigail Bruskin, Grace Donovan, Anna Claire Giese, Victoria Hirs, Bria Mancuso, Madison McCain, and Harriet Pierce.
Julia Deal Lewis founded ICCW at the request of His Eminence George Cardinal Mundelein in 1921. The ICCW is a nonprofit organization that offers service and relief to the poor, the distressed, and the underprivileged of the Chicagoland area. Its primary fundraiser is the annual Presentation Ball. The first Presentation Ball was held December 29, 1958.
“This year, we had two legacy families attend the ball. This means that the grandmother, mother, and now the daughter is being presented as a debutante. Tradition plays such a big role in everything we do.” Peck says.
According to the ICCW archives, the practice of
Gianni Meucci, Grace Donovan, Charles Engelberg
Abigail Bruskin with her father David Bruskin
The 2024 Presentation Ball Debutante Class with His Eminence, Blase J. Cardinal Cupich, ICCW President Irene DeRosa and Ball Chair,Patricia Peck
Victoria Hirs with His Eminence, Blase J. Cardinal Cupich
“Tradition plays such a big role in everything we do.”
Bria Mancuso with her mother, Dr. Shayna Mancuso
Anna Braun
Anna Claire Giese
His Eminence, Blase J. Cardinal Cupich with escorts
Top Row: Patrick Nevin, Cole Ward, Brayden Thiergart, James Rappel, Charles Engelberg, Ryan Milliman, William Frentzas, Bradyn Baker, Owen Sloan Center Row: Madison McCain, Victoria Hirs, Anna Claire Giese, Abigail Bruskin, Bria Mancuso, Harriet Pierce, Grace Donovan, Anna Braun Bottom Row: John Walsh, Adler Schlacher, Huston O’Neil, Henry Brickman, Gianni Meucci, Cooper Hender
Anna Braun and Bria Mancuso
The Pierce family
Ford McDonnell, Harriet Pierce, Clark Smale
The Donovan family
“presenting” young women to society—meant to mark the beginning of adulthood—dates back to the middle of the 18th century in this country. Debutante charity balls flourished in the 1940s and 1950s and are currently held in nearly every major U.S. city, usually during the months of November and December.
The young women invited to become debutantes commit to a year of preparation and service. This year, Lake County Catholic Charities, Chicago Catholic Charities, Share Our Spare, House of the Good Shepherd, and Fill A Heart 4 Kids were all part of the debutantes’ outreach.
Each debutante invites two male friends as escorts to accompany her that evening—often turning to her friends, brothers, or cousins. In addition to participating in the presentation and the cotillion dance formations, the escorts are invited to join the social and service opportunities that take place leading up to the ball.
When the debutante is presented to the Cardinal by her father, she receives a Papal Medallion that is brought over from Italy. Only 3,000 bronze medallions are minted each year. “There are so many elements that make the Presentation Ball an unforgettable event for all,” adds Peck.
The ICCW Presentation Ball is a magical evening filled with tradition that is celebrated with family and friends. For more information, visit iccw.org.
Madison McCain
Victoria Hirs
The Giese family
Madison McCain, Victoria Hirs, Anna Claire Giese, Abigail Bruskin, Bria Mancuso, Harriet Pierce, Grace Donovan, Anna Braun
Henry Brickman, Bria Mancuso, James Rappell
Abigail Bruskin, Grace Donovan, Anna Braun
“IFEATHER IN HER CAP
Lake Forest’s Bird Barre owner, Rebecca Asfour, invites you to soar to new heights using her latest wellness innovation—the Bird Barre online app.
words by Ann Marie Scheidler photography by Maria Ponce styling by Theresa DeMaria hair & makeup by Leanna Ernest
NEVER THOUGHT I could design and launch an app,” says Rebecca Asfour, owner of Bird Barre Studio, a boutique fitness studio in Lake Forest. “But I ended up designing and launching two apps in one year!”
After navigating the challenges of being a small business owner during 2020 and successfully emerging on the other side, Asfour became clear on how to evolve her business into more than a fitness studio.
“Having a small business during COVID was a huge challenge,” she says, having just celebrated 10 years of owning the fitness studio. “I wanted a strong sense of community to be at the core of my business, so I closed our Vernon Hills’ studio and doubled down on Lake Forest. We signed a long-term lease, rebranded, renovated the studio, and updated the technology platform we were using with a studio-booking app.
“And after all of that was done, I invested in myself. I studied the science of happiness, nutrition, and longevity. I wanted to figure out how to optimize my own wellness and how to find real, lasting joy. I went back to school and became a certified health coach from the Institute of Integrative Nutrition. The experience was amazing.”
Before the program was complete, Asfour was tasked to come up with a product or business she would want to launch.
“For me, it was an app on my phone,” she says. “My daily focus for a happy life is relatively simple: move your body, eat nutritious foods, and practice mindfulness every day. I put all of this into my new app—Bird Barre Online. I have scoured the wellness landscape, studied thought leaders, and I have more than a decade of movement experience. I put all of this in one place for you.”
Beginning February 1, Bird Barre Online is live and available in the app store for less than $20 per month.
“The app has an ever-growing library of barre, strength, and
functional fitness workouts,” Asfour explains. “Some of the classes are full-length and full body. But some are short and focused for those days you just don’t have time for a full class, but still want a little movement. The music is awesome and will keep you going.”
As four says launching Bird Barre Online fulfills a long-term career goal she has had for connecting with the community.
“I hope this beautiful, easy-to-use app helps women move and feel good about themselves,” she says. “I’ve also added my favorite meditations and my tried-and-true recipes. I really think I can help people by putting this goodness and positivity out into the universe. Women are constantly taking care of other people, and this is a platform that will take care of them. That’s what Bird Barre Online is all about.”
To check out Bird Barre online, visit birdbarre.vhx.tv.
Rebecca Asfour
PHOTO COURTESY OF JENN MARIE BRAND
Rebecca Asfour wears a pink embellished cardigan by SelfPortrait, Carson jeans by Veronica Beard and silver mary jane shoes by Loeffler Randall from Lillie Alexander in Lake Forest
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The Knit Factor
Lake Forest’s Ashley Lillis makes knitting “cool” for crafters of all ages, gaining more than 100,000 social media followers with her step-by-step tutorials, elevated designs, and engaging content.
words by Ann Marie Scheidler / photography by Maria Ponce styling by Theresa DeMaria / hair and makeup by Doria Debartolo
Ashley Lillis
WHEN ASHLEY LILLIS WAS
teaching herself how to knit in college, she never imagined that one day she would be sharing patterns she designed with her creative followers from all around the globe.
“Of all the things my roommate and I could have been doing when we were in college, we were making trips to Michaels to buy yarn,” Lillis says. “That’s pretty funny to think about.”
It wasn’t until many years later when the world was wrestling with COVID-19 that Lillis decided to take her knitting seriously.
“Everyone was on YouTube—there was nothing else to do,” she says. “I know that lots of people are visual learners, so I thought to myself, what if I design knitting patterns, but also do accompanying videos? At the time, there were very few places where you could find a pattern and also watch how to make it from start to finish.”
Lillis got to work, not only mastering the skills it took to design workable knitting patterns, but also learning to film herself, edit her tutorials, and sharing her videos to a growing audience across a variety of so-
cial media platforms.
“I’ve always been super creative, but I wasn’t sure how I could turn that into a business,” she explains. Lillis’ years working in digital marketing gave her the skillset and confidence she needed to monetize her designs as she amassed a huge following on both YouTube and Instagram.
Lillis’ favorite part of becoming a “knitting influencer,” a label she’s not entirely comfortable with, is pattern design—a surprising revelation when she shares it’s the hardest part of her business.
“It’s a long and laborious process to publish a pattern,” she says. “I tend to knit a sweater in one size. Good designers publish size-inclusive patterns, ranging from extra-small to 5X. To create a design that accounts for all of those different sizes takes a lot of math.”
Lillis has built spreadsheet upon spreadsheet to calculate the intricate dimensions needed for her designs. From there, she knits a sample and writes out the pattern. She shares that document with her knitting technical editor. After she receives her editor’s comments, she then sends her pattern to at least three testers per
“I’ve always been super creative, but I wasn’t sure how I could turn that into a business.”
size—that’s more than 25 people testing her pattern. Once she receives input from them and incorporates their feedback, she publishes her pattern on Etsy and Ravelry. She strives to create designs that appeal to everyone from a first-time knitter to those who are more advanced.
“I absolutely love the design part,” she says. “I can see a sweater from labels like Jenny Kane or Sézane and know exactly how it was made. That’s not to say though that after weeks of work and calculations on a design, it still might not come out right. The design process can be so love-hate, but mostly satisfying when I see the final product.”
One of Lillis’ challenges has been to charge for her pat-
“The design process can be so love-hate, but mostly satisfying when I see the final product.”
terns, something she didn’t do when she first started releasing her designs in 2020.
“At the beginning, it didn’t feel right to charge people because I loved thinking that knitting was bringing joy to people during a difficult time,” she says. “But, there is so much hard work that goes into the finished product of these patterns, I can’t really afford to give them away any more.” To date, the most expensive of Lillis’ patterns retails for $10.
As Lillis’ popularity grew on social media, so did the demand for her to release more designs. After a case of the shingles put Lillis into the hospital for a week last spring, she realized she would like to scale her business without it being all-consuming.
“I’ve stepped back and taken the pressure off of myself to grow my brand,” Lillis says. “Being sick really forced me to slow down and get back to what I really love. I needed to tune out all of the noise about starting a podcast, growing brand partnerships, or doing more on social media. I love designing so that is where my focus is now.”
That’s not to say that Lillis, who is also a busy mom to three young children, doesn’t have a few ideas for her growth up her well-knit sleeve.
“I’d love to write a book,” she says. “It’s a little intimidating to think about how I could come up with enough content for one, but that’s definitely on my mind. I’d also like to design the perfect blazer. A blazer is tough to knit because it’s hard for it to keep its structure. But I’m bound and determined to figure that out.”
To learn more about Ashley Lillis, follow her on Instagram at @ashley_lillis.
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THAT’S PAINTERTAINMENT!
North Shore artists Joe Bednarski and Phil Gayter bring their unique “Oil & Water” live painting show to Gorton Center on April 25.
words by Bill McLean
photography by Katrina Wittkamp
styling by Theresa DeMaria
EVER WONDERED WHAT you’d get if you crossed a pair of expert painters with two storytelling comrades?
You’d get Ravinia District residents and longtime friends Joe Bednarski and Phil Gayter in an art gallery before a rapt and excited audience, creating paintings while exchanging gentle gibes and inviting attendees to participate in their delightful journey of a show, “Oil & Water”—which makes its Lake Forest debut at Gorton Center on April 25.
Cleveland native Bednarski, an introvert, is an oil painter. Gayter, an extrovert who grew up in Manchester, England, is the water (acrylics) guy.
And, so, the duel begins.
Their first show, staged last September at AIR Studio and Gallery in Glencoe, was a hit. So was their second performance at the same venue in November, when each man created a work of art in their chosen medium while engaging about 50 onlookers.
Joe Bednarski and Phil Gayter
“I Googled A.I., hoping to find the best insults an oil painter could deliver to an acrylic painter,” says Bednarski, who, according to his partner in sublime humor, is as droll as they come. “Forty-eight hours before our first show, I remember thinking, ‘I don’t want to do this.’ I didn’t think anybody would enjoy us. Then I thought, ‘How can I get out of this?’”
“It’s crazy, this all started as a simple joke between friends...and now look at us, a live show featuring storytelling and improv...”
But he stayed in, much to the delight of Gayter and scores of others, including a teen who made oil man Bednarski shed water (teardrops) after one of the shows.
“This high school student came up to me and told me, ‘You changed my life tonight,’” Bednarski recalls. “He went on to tell me that he loved art but had been intimated by the art he’d seen in museums. To hear how our little show impacted him as an artist moved me.
“Our approach to art, through our presentation, appealed to him.”
Bednarski’s wife, Laura, attended the first show and practically had to ask Joe to identify himself afterward.
“Laura,” Joe says, “had never seen that side of me.”
The title “Oil & Water” isn’t just a clever one; it’s also an ironic one because Bednarski and Gayter are pretty similar. Both are products of a working class upbringing, both were influenced artistically by a parent, both became ad men, and
Ahead of His Time by Joe Bednarski
Listen to the Man by Joe Bednarski
both specialize in figurative painting.
“They say some of the best artists come from hardship,” says Gayter, who studied at Manchester Metropolitan University and lived in Lake Bluff for 32 years, with a move to Kansas City briefly interrupting his run as a North Shore resident. “My mom, Pauline, got me interested in art, but I thought it would be wise to study communications.
“I was a starving kid. I didn’t want to be a starving artist.”
Bednarski’s father, a painter also named Joe, entered his son’s pencil drawing of a guitar in a contest. At the time, young Joe was a grade schooler and future Cleveland Institute of Art enrollee. The drawing took first place.
Bednarski worked in the music industry for 10-12 years before entering the field of advertising. He first met Gayter over coffee more than 20 years ago. The connections ran deep.
Both men are quick to praise Beth Peterson, the executive director of AIR Studio and Gallery, for jumping at the chance to showcase the “Penn & Teller of painting” (an actual comment from an “Oil & Water”
“Beth,” Bednarski says, “has such a wonderful vision for unifying galleries in the area. Galleries these days have to be open to trying new things, to presenting different shows like ours, for survival.”
Peterson found Bednarski and Gayter’s relationship hilarious the moment she met them. But their show is as much about drawing oohs and aahs over their art as it is about eliciting steady rounds of wows via their funloving improvisation, insights, and arty banter.
“Their passion for painting really comes through during the shows,” says Peterson.
“It’s crazy, this all started as a simple joke between friends … and now look at us, a live painting show featuring storytelling and improv,” Gayter says. “And there was Joe, shaking his head and saying, ‘No way.’ It’s also been exciting, combining art and entertainment like we have, with art presented at a human level with a backdrop of humor.”
“The aim of our show is to illuminate painting in a truly unique and fun way. We want people to come away with an appreciation for the journey of painting, no matter the medium.”
Ultimately, oil and water do mix.
For more information about the “Oil & Water” show at Gorton Center, visit gortoncenter.org/event/oil-water.
show attendee) for North Shore art and storytelling lovers.
Colin etc. by Phil Gayter
Frida by Phil Gayter
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SOCIAL LIFE PADDLE PARTY FOR A PURPOSE
photography by Robin Subar
On November 22, a sold-out crowd filled the Oakhouse at Exmoor Country Club for the 2nd Annual Paddle Party for a Purpose. Team Ryan O’Connor (RSO) enjoyed dinner, drinks, and live music all while watching professional paddle exhibition games. Significant money and awareness were raised about Angelman syndrome and the great work the Foundation for Angelman Syndrome Therapeutics (FAST) is doing in pursuit of a cure. cureangelman.org
Ben and Elizabeth O’Connor
Ashley Madsen, Mindy Minoff
Vanessa Nowlin, Mila Sobinsky
Laurel & Bruce Bufe
Kacey Koessl, Megan Hadler
Leslie & Jacopo Leonardi
Mindy & Tom Minoff
Maureen & Chris Bennett, Bill Sheridan, Aram Topalian
Doug & Mary Clare Kadison, Ben & Elizabeth O’Connor, Aram & Maggie Topalian
Carrie & Matt Oates
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SOCIAL LIFE
HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE
photography by Ian McLeod
The Women’s Board of Northwestern Medicine Lake Forest Hospital kicked off its annual “Holiday Boutique” with an opening night event on November 21, followed by two full days of shopping. Proceeds from the event benefit nursing education. lfhwomensboard.nm.org
Amanda Szwast, Elyse Butler, Shannon Engelland
Amanda Alpert Knight, Heidi Clifton, Lindsay Nero
Laine Bennett, Pam Metz
Gemma Benson, Jenna Salak
Michelle Kaylor, Wendy Laesch, Kristin Rupp
Anne Stewart, Simone Asmussen, Lindsey Chabraja
Jacque Pittz, Jennifer Rohde, Toni Roesslein
SOCIAL LIFE
IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE
photography by Ian McLeod
On December 7, Lake Bluff celebrated the holidays with its festive and fun family event, “It’s a Wonderful Life.” Neighbors gathered for specials and treats around town before Lake Bluff’s infamous “light orbs” were turned on for the season. lflbchamber.com
The Stolzenburg Family
Roger Hecker, Jennifer Beeler, Mike Duffy, Jodi Barke
Rick Young, Joanna Rolek
Olivia Bell, Julie Bell
Dave Verkler, Terry Papincak
The Lipe Family
Jalane Kostreva with Blitzen
The Heaton Family
Annie Lenzke, Sander Lenzke
SOCIAL LIFE
JOY & WONDER
photography by Ian McLeod
Candyland came to Lake Forest’s Market Square on December 7 as part of its Joy & Wonder event. There was something for everyone—a bounce house, DJ, camel, glitter artist, crafts, and hot chocolate.
The Santos Family
The Mullady Family
Lucy, Maria and Ella
The Hoffman Family
The Klocke Family
Mrs. Claus
The Kennelly Family
The Bolanos Family
Completely renovated in 2016, this home offers a spacious light and airy floor plan. High ceilings, and high end finishes, perfect for today’s living. 2,550 square feet on 3 floors, with 2 bedrooms ensuite, 3rd bedroom plus hall bath & 2nd floor laundry. Overlooking West Park, in a walk to everything location, it’s a 10! Many upgrades: Sonos, Lutron lighting system, Ecobee, Ring camera, electronic locks, hardwood 1st & 2nd floors, plenty of storage.
Marina Carney, Marina Vernon & Andy Mrowiec
Lic. R.E. Brokers
Marina Carney: 847.274.5566
Andy Mrowiec: 847.308.2589
Marina Vernon: 847.612.7646 teammarina.andy@gmail.com
Many agents claim to be #1, but our priority will always be our clients.
$1B is an incredible milestone, but our journey with you is just beginning.
We are also excited to share that Marina Vernon has joined our team!
A charming cottage, this home is arguably the landmark home in east Lake Bluff, double lot and stunning gardens. Features include fir floors, 9ft ceilings in many rooms, a first floor primary suite with 2 full baths, a large walk-in closet and laundry plus 3 bedrooms/1 bath on the 2nd floor. The 9ft deep basement includes 1 bedroom, sitting room, workroom, full bath and 2nd kitchen & laundry room, perfect for an au pair or live-in.
SOCIAL LIFE
HOLIDAY HOME TOUR
photography by Ian McLeod
On December 8, a record number of guests participated in the “Holiday Home Tour,” Lake Bluff History Museum’s annual fundraiser. They walked through six festively decorated homes that represented key points in the village’s history, including the Camp Meeting era, Roaring ‘20s, Great Depression, World War II, and the recent pandemic. lakebluffhistory.org
April Thomas, Marie Colette, Wendy Antrim
Lauren Fraser, Devon Ellis, Kelli Stiltz
Linda Doerr Hicks with Babette dog
Kristan Griesbach, Lydia O’Connor
Tina O’Connor, Samantha McDermott, Donna McDermott
Megan Medica, Macy Clemons, Amy Collis, Christina Rourke
Katherine Marsoobian, Jessica Blom, Kaelin Teegarden
Libby McGuire, Maria McGuire
We are excited to announce our affiliation with Jameson Sotheby’s International Realty! Our commitment to excellence reflects the historic brands experience and the outstanding level of service that has been its global benchmark for nearly three centuries. Sotheby’s International Realty provides local expertise to the Chicagoland markets and across the globe with 1,110 offices in 83 countries. This aligns us with a group of professionals that are the best in the industry. At Jameson Sotheby’s International Realty, we utilize innovative technology, local and international marketing exposure, and our robust referral market to ensure our clients get the most eyes on their homes. Using these sophisticated resources, we are able to enhance our already outstanding caliber of service and elevate us and your listings through real estate’s most trusted brand.
This enchanting 10-acre, fully enclosed and dividable property borders a public prairie reserve and features restored Jens Jensen-inspired grounds, including award-winning gardens, a vineyard, and outdoor entertainment areas. The century-old home boasts elegant interiors alongside a modern commercial kitchen and unique spaces. Perfect for those seeking privacy, security, and timeless charm.
PLASTIC SURGERY UPDATE
TREATING “OZEMPIC FACE”
words by Steven Bloch, M.D.
With the use of semiglutides commonly referred to as Ozempic and Tirzepatide referred to as Mounjaro many patients have experienced rapid weight loss. This has led to changes in the face referred in the media as “Ozempic face.” Basically, this is caused by a loss of facial fat. The skin of the face and often the body loses its ability to contract sufficiently due to reduced collagen and elastin in the skin. This becomes particularly acute in an older patient as a natural progression of aging.
Signs of “Ozempic face” are gauntness, sagging, hollowing out of the temples, cheeks, and wrinkles. Fortunately, treatments can mitigate some of the effects. These treatments consist of readily available procedures used to treat the naturally aging face.
• Fillers: The role of fillers is to restore volume. There is a host of dermal fillers that either stimulate collagen production (which takes time) or instantly adds volume. The objective is to create a natural, youthful appearance that does not look injected. It requires the eye of an artist and skill of a sculptor.
• Neurotoxins or Botox: Typically used around the eyes, forehead, and neck, to reduce the wrinkles and activity of underlying muscles which become more apparent in the thinner face, particularly if the skin is thin. Advanced Botox injections require a thorough understanding of the underlying facial muscles to create a naturally balanced appearance.
• Non-Invasive Skin Tightening Procedures: There is an explosion of non-invasive technologies. The premise behind them is to deliver energy which translates into heat either to the skin or just beneath it to stimulate collagen or elastin production. The trick is to deliver it comfortably and safely so that you don’t damage the skin. At Skin Deep we have many technologies including Sofwave, Genius, Thermage, and Venus. The type will be discussed during the consultation.
• Muscle Toning/Non-Invasive Tightening: As a result of rapid weight loss there is often a loss of muscle mass and resulting in laxity. As part of aging there is also loss of muscle mass resulting in laxity. To improve muscle tone we have several technologies. Emface stimulates the facial muscles resulting in increased muscle tone, a shortening of the muscle and lifting of the overlying soft tissue. Pure Impact and CoolTone can be used on the body to stimulate the underlying muscles and increase muscle tone.
• Laser Resurfacing: As a result of rapid weight loss and loss of fatty tissue combined with lack of elastin and collagen one is often left with a wrinkled face and body. This is not the reward one has to accept for weight loss. Lasers are often very effective in minimizing the appearance of wrinkles. At Skin Deep we have a full complement of noninvasive and invasive lasers including Fraxel, CoolPeel, Tetra, and Plasma Pen.
• Surgical Tightening: Depending on the severity of sagging and laxity of skin we offer minimally invasive procedures such as FaceTite, BodyTite, and Renuvion. Finally at Body by Bloch we offer the Gold standard facelift, tummy tuck, thigh lift, breast lift, and arm lift.
All these procedures can be combined. As part of a consult, a customized plan is created for each patient and a program can be created to fit most budgets.
For additional information, visit bodybybloch.com or skindeepmedicalspa.com. To schedule a consultation, call Dr. Bloch at his Highland Park office at 847-432-0840, Skin Deep Medical Spa Highland Park at 847-432-0426, or Glenview at 847-901-0800.
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CONVERSATION THE ARTIST
If you’ve been to The Gallery in Lake Forest recently, chances are you’ve met Michaele McDonnell—a docent, art consultant, and world traveler who prides herself on being able to literally talk to anyone. She recently took time to share her life story.
words by Sherry Thomas / illustration by Tom Bachtell
You’re on the phone with the one and only Michaele McDonnell, and she just got back from Istanbul and Cappadocia in Turkey, one of 16 countries she’s visited on global gallivants that have taken her from North America to Europe, Asia, Africa, and South America. Give this vivacious docent, art consultant, and community volunteer a second and she’ll come back with a full list. In the meantime, she’d prefer you rewind to her birthplace of Monterrey, California, which is where this story started 79 years ago. She’ll tell you how she zigzagged across the country in the decades that followed on a life filled with noble triumphs and grand adventures that would ultimately land her to the 1906 Howard Van Doren Shaw “mini Ragdale” house in Lake Forest that she’s called home since 1990. “I went to college for 26 years,” she says, explaining how she graduated from University of Hartford with an art history degree at age 45 after taking two classes at a time for more than two decades. “I was determined.” Those who’ve met her over the decades she’s lived here would not be surprised by that statement. Determination is what drove a successful interior design and art consulting business back in the 90s and it’s also what resulted in myriad volunteer achievements—including her role on the Deerpath Art League, one of the most prestigious art fairs in the U.S. “As a board member, I get corporate donations and I persuade lots of people to give me lots of money,” she says. “Unfortunately, when you do a really good job, you can’t get rid of it.” The stories continue to flow until eventually you get to the singular moment that brings you to the job she is most famous for today—hostess and docent at The Gallery. With time on her hands, she approached owner Cecilia Lanyon in 2017 with a bold offer Lanyon couldn’t refuse. “I went in there and said, ‘I’m looking for a job and you need to hire me because I am fabulous’.” Those who’ve met McDonnell know she’s not exaggerating. In the eight years she’s greeted guests at the art gallery and restaurant, this dynamic brunette (and grandmother of 12) has made quite the impression. “I work four nights a week and I love it,” she gushes. “I’m always upbeat because I’m so happy to be there. The people are awesome.” Drawing from her art background and bon vivant energy, she is the ultimate ambassador—eager to start conversations that ultimately lead to valuable feedback for Lanyon and her team. “My job is to talk to every single table, every night. People tell me things
they might not ever tell the server. They tell me everything,” McDonnell explains. “And I can talk to anybody because I’m old. I’m 79 and I’ve had a life. whatever you want to talk about I can pretty much talk about it.” As for that list, so far, her passport includes visits to Canada, England, France, Spain, Italy, Norway, Belgium, Germany, Japan, China, Morocco, Egypt, Turkey, Ecuador, Cuba, and Mexico. Italy’s also on that list, along with all nine provinces of Sicily. “I am Sicilian and consider Sicily its own country,” she says, ending the conversation with her signature sign-off. “Toodle-oo!”
