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The Allendale Women’s Board makes fresh tracks with a new fundraiser—“Après Ski-Aspen”—on February 22 at Conway Farms Golf Club.
RAGDALE’S NEXT CHAPTER
Lake Forest’s celebrated artist community evolves under the leadership of its new Executive Director, Paul Sacaridiz.
TIMELESS MASTERPIECE
The Lake Forest Civic Orchestra ushers in the new year with Beethoven’s stirring Symphony No. 9. MAXWELL’S TOY
A Lake Bluff family turns their grief over their son’s difficult medical diagnosis into joy for other children and their families.
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Music Director, Christopher Ramaekers, prepares The Lake Forest Civic Orchestra for its performance of Ode to Joy: Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, on January 19 at the James Lumber Performing Arts Center in Grayslake.
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Editor’s Note
Happy New Year and welcome to our first issue of 2025!
One thing I love about living on the North Shore is our collective com mitment to staying social and engaged, in spite of often extreme winter weather. In this issue, we high light some of the fun events in our communities this month and beyond. From fundraisers and concerts to art exhibits and restaurant openings, there’s no shortage of opportunities to stay connected.
On our cover, we have Cassie Mancuso Carver, Chief Marketing Officer of Ferrari Lake Forest, and one of the co-chairs of the Allendale Women’s Board’s new fundraiser, “Après Ski-Aspen.” The board is pulling out all the stops with this over-the-top event to raise money for Allendale Association. Think fire pits, specialty cocktails, and even VIP yurts. Turn to Mountain of Opportunity for all the details about what’s sure to be the party of the season.
shape the nonprofit’s future.
Our final feature, Maxwell’s Toy Box, tells the story of a Lake Bluff family that turned a difficult medical diagnosis into a mission. When toddler Max Besic was diagnosed with leukemia in 2023, his parents saw firsthand the healing powers of play. Inspired to help other children facing health crises, the Besics founded Maxwell’s Toy Box, a charity that collects and distributes toys to local children’s hospitals.
Speaking of incredible events, the Lake Forest Civic Orchestra (LFCO) ushers in 2025 with a once-in-alifetime performance of Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony.
On January 19, LFCO will collaborate with Chicago Master Singers, Lux Cantorum Chicago, and accomplished singers from Lake Forest and Lake Bluff for a stirring rendition of this well-known but rarely performed piece. See Timeless Masterpiece for more information.
In Ragdale’s Next Chapter, we introduce Paul Sacaridiz—Ragdale’s new Executive Director. Sacaridiz comes to Lake Forest’s iconic artist community with a long and impressive resumé. A sculptor turned academic turned visionary, Sacaridiz is just the right person to
In The Portrait, we feature another philanthropist— luxury handbag designer Annie Diamantidis. Recently Diamantidis has partnered with Lake Forest nonprofit, Equestrian Connection, and is donating part of Annie Handbags’ proceeds to support its life-changing programs.
Finally, in The Last Word, writer Sherry Thomas previews the “Behind the Glamour: Inside (and Outside) F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Lake Forest” exhibition slated to open at the History Center of Lake Forest-Lake Bluff in early April. Find out more about how a romance with a Lake Forest socialite inspired the character of Daisy Buchanan in one of Fitzgerald’s most famous works— The Great Gatsby, which turns 100 this year.
Here’s wishing you a happy, healthy, and connected start to the new year!
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LUCKY US The coolest speakeasy on the North Shore—Lucky Duck— is now tucked into The Gallery in Lake Forest. Modeled after Izakaya, a Japanese-style pub where drinks and food share importance, Lucky Duck encourages guests to enjoy their own entree, or share smaller dishes for the table. Think Green Curry Shrimp with slow roasted pineapple and plantain, Korean Beef Skewers with charred broccolini, and Lamb Rack with five spice carrots and pistachio pesto. Cozy, moody, and designed for the foodie, Lucky Duck makes the perfect, local gathering place. Open Wednesdays through Saturdays after 4 p.m. thegallerylf.com
DOZIN’ WITH THE DINOS What could be more fun than hanging out with a dinosaur while in your pajamas? Not much! This winter, families with kids ages 6 to 12 can spend the night at the Field Museum during “Dozin’ with the Dinos.” Kids stay up late with scientists as the museum comes to life in games, challenges, and stories. Adventures include dissecting animal pellets, identifying animal tracks, and uncovering fossils, all with the help of one of the Field Museum’s dinosaurs. Later, guests are invited to grab a flashlight and explore the halls as the lights go out. fieldmuseum.org
DINNER AND A MOVIE Mountainfilm on Tour and Winterfest return to Gorton Center on January 24 and 25. Join friends and neighbors for two days of inspiring films, handpicked from Mountainfilm festival in Telluride, Colorado. Before and after viewing, get the full mountain experience by diving into the festive atmosphere of Winterfest, a free event included with Mountainfilm on Tour tickets. Snuggle into Gorton’s Après Ski Lodge for live acoustic music, craft libations, and food trucks serving up delicious bites. gortoncenter.org
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WHEN: Wednesday and Friday evenings
WHERE: Elawa Farm
Every Wednesday evening, enjoy homemade soup, freshly baked bread, salad, and wine in Elawa’s cozy hay barn. Each ticket sold supports the donation of weekly soup and bread to families served by North Chicago Community Partners. Then, on Friday evenings this winter, gather with friends and family for Elawa’s Pasta Night. Enjoy hand-crafted pasta, made with care by Elawa’s talented staff using locally sourced grains and local, seasonal produce. Your meal will be complemented with a salad, a side, a dessert, and paired wines. Tickets are $38. elawafarm.org
WINTER MARKET
WHEN: Opens January 10
WHERE: Elawa Farm
Beginning January 10, Elawa Farm will host its Winter Market on Fridays from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. in the hay barn. The Winter Market highlights locally sourced produce and eggs from Elawa’s farm partners, along with specialty pantry items from small businesses. In addition to fresh goods, the Market offers a curated selection of unique tableware, buffet-style entertaining essentials, tablescapes, home decor and gift items. elawafarm.org
PUZZLE AND GAME EXCHANGE
WHEN: January 10 to 11
WHERE: Lake Forest Library
On January 10 and 11, donate gently used puzzles, board games, and card games in their original boxes with all their pieces. Starting Saturday, stop by the Library Foyer to pick up a new-to-you puzzle or game. Admission is free.
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RED ROSE JAZZ
WHEN: January 12
WHERE: Gorton Center
Relax with an elegant afternoon of jazz classics at Gorton Center, performed by the Red Rose Jazz ensemble. Red Rose presents the very best of ragtime, Dixieland, and early jazz. gortoncenter.org
BLIND DATE WITH A BOOK
WHEN: January 14 to February 14
WHERE: Lake Forest Library
Visit the Rotunda, Teen Space, and Children’s Library to check out Lake Forest Library’s Blind Date books and audiobooks. You can’t judge them by their covers because they’re wrapped in festive paper. Use the hints on the wrapper to find characters and themes that pique your interest. After reading or listening to your book, rate it to enter the drawing for a chance to win a gift card to Sweet’s. Admission is free.
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KONTRAS STRING QUARTET
WHEN: January 17
WHERE: Gorton Center
Experience the spellbinding harmonies of this acclaimed string quartet. Their attention to detail, high energy, and creative programming brought down the house in their past Rendezvous performances—and we know you’ll be glad you braved the cold weather to experience them again this year. gortoncenter.org
KINDERHAVEN OPEN HOUSE
WHEN: January 18
WHERE: Lake Forest Recreational Center
Are you interested in a Preschool that emphasizes Reggio philosophy, art, and compassion? If you
are, Kinderhaven Preschool Academy (KPA) is the place for you. On January 18 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m., see why KPA is such an exciting and vibrant place for your developing child’s educational needs. lfparksandrec.com/kinderhavenpreschool-academy
THE SECOND CITY
WHEN: January 18
WHERE: Gorton Center
Laugh the night away with Chicago’s legendary improv troupe, bringing their sharp wit and hilarious sketches to the Gorton stage. Gorton Center is just a five-minute walk from the train station and fantastic restaurants. No need to trek down to the city for a night out with The Second City. gortoncenter.org
BEETHOVEN’S SYMPHONY NO. 9
WHEN: January 19
WHERE: James Lumber Performing Arts Center, Grayslake
Come see Beethoven’s rarely performed masterpiece, Symphony No. 9 on January 19. The Lake Forest Civic Orchestra, with chorusmaster John Hughes and voices of Chicago Master Singers, Lux Cantorum Chicago, and community members, will perform Ode to Joy: Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9 at the James Lumber Performing Arts Center in Grayslake. lakeforestcivicorchestra.org
MOUNTAINFILM ON TOUR
WHEN: January 24 to 25
WHERE: Gorton Center
Using the power of film, art, and ideas, Mountainfilm on Tour inspires audiences to create a better world—showcasing documentary films that celebrate adventure, activism, social justice, environment, and indomitable spirit. Get the full mountain experience at Gorton Center by diving into the festive atmosphere of Winterfest, a free event included with your Mountainfilm on Tour ticket. gortoncenter.org
Gorton Center presents Red Rose Jazz on January 12
ABOUT TOWN
POST-ELECTION UPDATE WITH PAUL LISNEK
WHEN: January 28
WHERE: Zoom
Register and join WGN-TV political analyst Paul Lisnek on Zoom as he breaks down the election results and considers what we can expect from the upcoming four years. lakeforestlibrary.org/events
BURNS SUPPER
WHEN: January 31
WHERE: Gorton Center
Gather your friends for Burns Night at Gorton Center in Lake Forest where you’ll celebrate Scottish heritage with an evening of poetry, music, and a traditional Burns Supper. gortoncenter.org
DADDY-DAUGHTER DANCE
WHEN: February 1
WHERE: Dickinson Hall
Step into a world of heroism and adventure at this dynamic duo daddy-daughter dance, “Superhero Soirée.”
Put on your capes and masks for a night of superhero fun from 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at Dickinson Hall at the Lake Forest-Lake Bluff Senior Center. lfrec.com
HENHOUSE PROWLERS
WHEN: February 1
WHERE: Gorton Center
Get ready for a toe-tapping evening of bluegrass music at Gorton Center with this high-energy ensemble. Wherever they are, the Henhouse Prowlers find and spread the commonality we share as human beings through the universal language of music. gortoncenter.org
VICTOR GARCIA LATIN JAZZ QUINTET
WHEN: February 7
WHERE: Gorton Center
Experience vibrant jazz with Grammy-Nominated Victor Garcia at Gorton Center. Heat up your winter with the vibrant rhythms of this renowned Latin jazz quintet. gortoncenter.org
APRÈS SKI-ASPEN
WHEN: February 22
WHERE: Conway Farms Golf Club
The 118-year old Allendale Shelter Club is hitting the slopes this winter with a new name, Allendale Women’s Board, and an exciting fundraiser, “Après Ski-Aspen.” This indoor/outdoor party will bring this beloved post-ski celebration to Lake Forest with cocktails and champagne, fire pits, and VIP yurts paired with a menu designed by chef Paul Kahan of One Off Hospitality. Proceeds will benefit Allendale Association, a nonprofit child welfare agency dedicated to the care, education, treatment, and advocacy for disadvantaged youth in Illinois. allendale4kids.org
COLOR BLOOM THE GALLERY
202 Wisconsin Avenue, Lake Forest
Through March
Bari Wieselman Schulman is a modern abstract painter and mixed-media artist obsessed with color, language (and color as language), and the ways in which art and art objects invite dialogue and carry meaning in the world—and into 2025 with her latest exhibit “Color Bloom” at The Gallery in Lake Forest. With a range of color palettes, medium, technique and curation, the exhibit is a breath of fresh air in the middle of January. On display through March 2025, with an opening reception from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. on January 16. thegallerylf.com
JEREMY FREY: WOVEN
ART INSTITUTE OF CHICAGO
111 South Michigan Avenue, Chicago
Through February 10
“Jeremy Frey: Woven” showcases the delicate, intricate, and sinuous vessels that artist Jeremy Frey has woven from the heavy lumber of ash trees. Many of the pieces additionally feature images intricately embroidered with dyed porcupine quills. The exhibition includes more than 50 baskets Frey has crafted over the last two decades—charting his development as an artist dedicated to expanding and elaborating the pos sibilities of traditional Passamaquoddy basket weaving. artic.edu
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The SpaceX Dragon Spacecraft served a pivotal role in supplying the International Space Station with cargo and experiments. Now, it’s the center of an exhibit in Griffin Museum of Science & Industry’s newly renovated Henry Crown Space Center—celebrating its part in history and how innovative technology is writing the future of space exploration. msichicago.org
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Renowned luxury handbag designer Annie Diamantidis has built a meaningful partnership with Lake Forest nonprofit, Equestrian Connection. Find out what inspires her and more as she shares her go-to spots from Chicago to the North Shore.
edited by Sherry Thomas / photography by Maria Ponce styling by Theresa DeMaria / hair and makeup by Frances Tsalas
Annie Diamantidis, founder and designer of Annie Handbags, has built a brand synonymous with luxury, craftsmanship, and timeless style. Her journey began with a passion for fine materials and design, which led her to create a line of exquisite leather handbags and jewelry embraced by discerning customers nationwide. Annie Handbags recently partnered with Equestrian Connection in Lake Forest, donating part of the proceeds to support their life-changing programs. Equestrian Connection’s mission is to improve the physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing of children and adults with special needs through equine-assisted therapy. The nonprofit’s 26,000-square-foot facility is home to highly trained horses, licensed therapists, and compassionate volunteers who ensure services are available to all, regardless of their ability to pay. Diamantidis chose this partnership because of the organization’s profound impact and alignment with her belief in the healing power of connection and community. In addition to her creative work, Diamantidis draws inspiration from her Greek heritage, which infuses many of her designs with a sense of history and elegance. Whether introducing her collections at trunk shows or working with clients to create custom pieces, she is committed to making her designs both meaningful and memorable. As we look to the new year ahead, this busy designer recently took time from her busy schedule to share a few of her favorite things.
Favorite place you’ve ever lived? Chios, Greece—living there at age 5 was magical.
Favorite place you’ve ever lived? Chios, Greece—living there at age 5 was magical. Designer who inspires you? Ralph Lauren. He is renowned for his American classic style, blending timeless tailoring with effortless sophistication. Chicago’s best-kept secret is? The Montrose Bird Sanctuary—a hidden gem for nature lovers. Favorite local restaurant? George Trois in Winnetka for its exceptional French cuisine. If you could have a second home anywhere, it would be? An apartment in Paris, France. Next passport stamp will be? Italy—I’m dreaming of Tuscany. Beauty brand you can’t live without? La Mer for its transformative skin care. Favorite place to shop in Chicago? Marcus (Gold Coast)—a go-to for curated fashion. What movie are you most looking forward to seeing in 2025? The remake of Dirty Dancing has me excited for its nostalgic return. Favorite musician or band of 2024? Kelsea Ballerini—her heartfelt lyrics and captivating performances make her unforgettable. Quote that inspires you? “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” - Maya Angelou. Drink of choice? A perfectly made lychee martini. Favorite winter escape? Little Palm Island in the Florida Keys. Dream car? The 1956 Porsche 356 Speedster. What’s at the top of your 2025 bucket list? Launching an international pop-up for Annie Handbags.
Designer who inspires you? Ralph Lauren. He is renowned for his American classic style, blending timeless tailoring with effortless sophistication.
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GREEN BEANS ALMONDINE
words and photography by Monica Kass Rogers
Gathering a bundle of fresh green beans the other day, the bright scent wafted up and I thought, “Green. That scent is the color green.” And there’s a reason for that. Studies in neuroscience have shown that cross modal associations in our brains link visuals with the sense of smell and affect our perception of colors. But whether your brain luxuriates in fresh green associations when you
see a green bean or not, your tastebuds will love this recipe. This classic French preparation combines green beans blanched in salted water to squeaky doneness, with butter-browned shallots, garlic, and slivered almonds. A spritz of lemon and sprinkle of zest is the bright finish. Note: While past literature may have warned you off boiling veg, the quick blanch in salted water ensures the beans will keep their color and nicely seasons them inside and out.
SERVES 4 TO 6
INGREDIENTS
• 1 lb f resh green beans or slim French haricot verts
• 1/4 cup salt for boiling water
• 2 Tbsp unsalted butter
• 1/3 cup untoasted sliced almonds
• 2 shallots, thinly sliced OR substitute one small very thinly sliced yellow onion
• 1 large or 2 small garlic cloves, very finely minced to make 2 tsp
• Zest and 2 tsp juice from one fresh lemon
• Salt and pepper to taste
METHOD
PREP VEGETABLES Snip off and discard stem ends of beans. Set beans aside. Peel and discard skins from shallots. Thinly slice shallots. Set aside. Finely mince 1 large or 2 small garlic clove(s) to make two teaspoons.
READY BOILING WATER Place 4 quarts of water in a large pot over high heat. Add 1/4 cup salt.
COOK SHALLOTS & GARLIC While the water heats up, in a skillet over medium heat, melt 2 Tbsp butter. Add sliced shallots and cook for 2 minutes until softened. Add minced garlic and cook another 2 minutes until shallots are translucent and golden. Scoop shallot garlic mixture into a small bowl, leaving melted butter in pan. Add almonds and brown in butter, stirring until toasted and golden. Stir shallots and garlic back into the skillet. Remove from heat.
BLANCH GREEN BEANS When water has come to a rolling boil, add green beans and blanch for four minutes until green beans are cooked al dente, and squeak when you bite them. Pour green beans into a colander. Add green beans into the skillet with the shallots, garlic, and almond. Turn heat to medium and briefly sauté until beans are tender. Add lemon juice and zest. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Arrange on a serving platter and serve immediately.
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Each month, Dr. E addresses your sports psychology challenges head-on. Need advice? Scan the QR code to submit a question!
Dear Dr. E.—
My Dad is extremely passionate about basketball. He loves to see me play, but sometimes it’s embarrassing how much he yells during my games—especially when he gives advice that doesn’t match up with what my coach is telling me to do. I respect them both so much, but I’m doomed always to let someone down when their advice is different. What do I do?
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Overly critical parents often are triggered by something greater than a simple bad call or play. So, when yelling from the stands gets to be too much, it can become uncomfortable for everyone.
Have you tried talking to your Dad?
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Then be honest with him about how you feel. Consider what would be most helpful for you and ask for his support so you can focus on your game and play your best.
When in doubt, ask another adult to get involved—your coach or another parent can be your biggest ally during sensitive situations.
—Dr. E.
Dear Dr E.—
My daughter is so hard on herself. My husband and I consistently tell her that all she needs to do is try her best, and we’re happy with whatever the outcome, but that isn’t good enough for her.
She sets impossibly high standards for herself, particularly when it comes to track. While we admire her determination, we also worry because it feels like she will never be satisfied with herself. How can we show our support but not add to her feelings of overthinking the situation and just enjoy the moment?
—Stuck in Overdrive
Dear Overdrive—
Overanalyzing can be mentally paralyzing. Many student-athletes suffer from self-imposed pressures. They hear you when you say you are proud of them regardless of how well they did, but they also can be stuck in a loop of comparison with their peers.
Talk to your child about what success looks like to you. How does your family define it? Focus on modeling that behavior for them.
Offer to be a listening ear. Sometimes, teens just need to vent, and often they already have their problem figured out for themselves; they just don’t know how to process the associated emotions around it.
Make sure your child prioritizes sleep, socialization, and proper eating habits. Observe their actions and feel confident about when to step in. At the first signs of distress, talk to your kid and help them name their emotions. Parrot back what you hear and ask if they’d like your advice. Tell them about a time you had a similar issue and how you dealt with it—what worked, what didn’t, what you learned, and how you moved forward.
Knowing they can count on you in a time of need is half the battle.
—Dr. E.
Specializing in peak performance and sports psychology, EleVive helps student-athletes master their mental game. Learn more at EleVive.com.
New Year, New Beginnings: Finding Clarity and Strength
words by Michone J. Riewer / photography by Katrina Wittkamp / styling by Theresa DeMaria
The start of a new year offers a powerful opportunity to reflect, reset, and plan for the life you truly want. It’s a time to evaluate what brings you peace, joy, and fulfillment—and, for some, this may include considering the future of your marriage.
The holiday season, with its unique pressures, often magnifies relationship challenges that might otherwise remain beneath the surface. If this past season left you feeling drained or uncertain, it could be the moment to ask yourself what changes you need to create a brighter year ahead.
WHY REFLECTION MATTERS
Taking time to reflect on your marriage is an act of self-care and empowerment. It allows you to ask essential questions and gain the clarity needed to shape your future indefinitely. For some, this may mean deepening their connection with their spouse. For others, it could involve stepping away from a dynamic that no longer serves their well-being.
Reflection is the first step toward clarity and understanding what’s best for you—whether it’s recommitting to your relationship or choosing a new path. Clarity brings the confidence to move forward with purpose.
HOW STRATEGIC DIVORCE CAN SUPPORT YOU
If divorce feels like a possibility, thoughtful planning is essential. At Strategic Divorce, we provide guidance at every stage, from exploring options to finalizing decisions, ensuring you feel confident and supported throughout the process.
Our approach centers on your unique needs and priorities. We demystify the legal aspects, help you understand your rights, and empower you to make informed decisions. Beyond legal advice, we offer strategies to protect your family and minimize conflict, ensuring the process is as smooth and constructive as possible.
With personalized, compassionate support, we guide you toward solutions that align with your goals, helping you build a foundation for the future.
TAKING THE FIRST STEP
Deciding whether to stay or leave a marriage is never easy, but you don’t have to face it alone. Whether you’re ready to act or just beginning to explore your options, Strategic Divorce is here to help. Our free consultations offer a safe space to discuss your concerns and plan your next steps.
A FUTURE OF POSSIBILITIES
While change can feel overwhelming, it’s also an opportunity to create a life that reflects your worth and values. By this time
Michone J. Riewer
next year, you could find yourself in a place of greater peace— whether that means rediscovering harmony in your marriage, creating a healthier environment for your family, or caring for your own well-being.
This New Year, prioritize clarity, courage, and self-care. Whatever path you choose, know that you have the strength to face it—and the support you need is just a phone call away.
Michone Riewer is an attorney with Strategic Divorce in Lake Bluff, 847-234-4445, strategicdivorce.com. Strategic Divorce helps individuals and families navigate life’s transitions with care and expertise. Serving Lake, Cook, and McHenry Counties, Illinois.
MOUNTAIN OF OPPORTUNITY
The Allendale Women’s Board makes fresh tracks with its new fundraiser—“Après Ski-Aspen” on February 22 at Conway Farms Golf Club.
words by Ann Marie Scheidler / photography by Marie Ponce styling by Theresa DeMaria / hair and makeup by Leanna Ernest
“THE CHILDREN AT AL-
LENDALE, on average, experience 14 different living arrangements before they find their way to the residential program at Allendale,” says Lake Forest’s Cassie Mancuso Carver. “They experience so much trauma and instability, how can someone not be driven to help?”
Allendale Association is a nonprofit child welfare agency based in Lake Villa, dedicated to excellence and innovation in the care, education, treatment, and advocacy for disadvantaged youth and their families. It’s more than a safe haven from a life of crisis, trauma, and neglect. The school strives to empower each child to transcend their circumstances with positive support and consistent, ongoing guidance. Allendale gives these children the transformative experience of simply being kids in a safe environment—the chance to make friends, play, explore, have an adventure, and make their own happy childhood memories.
“We believe everyone deserves a healthy childhood, a caring family, and a chance to learn, grow and change course,” explains Allendale Association President and CEO Jason Keeler. “Allendale is a place where kids have the opportunity to restore their life and discover a better future.”
Carver, who serves as Chief Marketing Officer for her family’s business Ferrari Lake Forest, is a relatively new member of the Allendale Women’s Board—newly renamed from the 118-year-old organization that was once called the Allendale Shelter Club.
She is co-chairing an exciting new fundraiser for Allendale called “Après Ski-Aspen” with Claire Concannon, Karen Anderson, Samantha Trace, Whitley Bouma Herbert, and Meredith Mitchell. The event will take place on February 22 at Conway Farms Golf Club. The indoor/outdoor party will bring the beloved postski celebration to Lake Forest with specialty cocktails and champagne, fire pits, and VIP yurts paired with a menu designed by famed chef Paul Kahan of One Off Hospitality.
“When I heard about Allendale, I was heartbroken and hopeful at the same time,” Carver says. “I’m really excited to be a part of a group that is making a difference in the lives of these children. I met a child at Allendale who is the same age as my youngest daughter and it really resonated with me. I am lucky to be in a position to help the children of Illinois who are most in need.”
“Après Ski–Aspen” will channel the action on and off the slopes that takes place after an epic day of skiing. This will include revelry in Aspen-inspired attire, dancing with glasses raised to the beats of deejay Sleepy Eagz, VIP champagne service, and incredible cuisine to keep the party going. “Après Ski–Aspen” is being supported by many of Aspen, Colorado’s favorite luxury brands with trips being auctioned to Mexico’s Hotel Esencia and more.
“I have a background in fundraising,” Carver says. “I don’t care if you’re raising $10,000 or $10 million, fundraising is challenging. It’s especially hard the night of an event. Our push as co-chairs is to raise 90 percent of our goal before the event. Then that night, our party can be more a celebration of hard work and a thank you to our supporters as we build more awareness for Allendale.”
“Allendale
believes in every kid until they can believe in themselves.”
The Allendale Women’s Board takes pride in offering a “mother’s touch” to the lives of the kids in Allendale’s care with a Christmas holiday party with gifts delivered by Santa Claus, brunch enjoyed on Christmas morning, graduation celebrations, career counseling, and a “School’s Out!” Spring Carnival at the Lake Villa campus.
“Allendale believes in every kid until they can believe in themselves.” explains Allendale Women’s Board President Karen Anderson.
Carver’s three children are a huge motivation for her commitment to help some of Illinois’ neediest children.
“There is no better way to show my children the importance of giving back than being involved with an organization like Allendale,” she says, explaining that they have taken an active role in Allendale’s new Youth Board as well. “If you’re in a position to help, you have an obligation to help. When I told my father about Allendale, his first words were ‘We’re in!’ I’m able to help because of the support of my family and our business. This really is families helping families.”
To learn more about Allendale Association, visit allendale4kids.org. Follow Allendale Women’s Board on Instagram at @allendalewomensboard.
RAGDALE’S NEXT CHAPTER
Lake Forest’s celebrated artist community evolves under new leadership.
IT’S BEEN 25 YEARS since Paul Sacaridiz, The Ragdale Foundation’s new Executive Director, first came to the Lake Forest nonprofit as an artist-in-residence. A deep-thinking artist, his work as a sculptor would be exhibited at the Philadelphia Museum of Art, the Denver Art Museum and other venues throughout the country. Then, building from this base, Sacaridiz would go on to lead as an educator and administrator in higher education and the nonprofit sector, shaping sustainable programs and systems designed to meet artist’s needs in an ever-changing world.
Some of those roles included serving as Director of the Cranbrook Academy of Art, and as Executive Director of the Haystack Mountain School of Crafts in Deer Isle, Maine. While there, Sacaridiz was responsible for setting mission, vision, and programming for one of the leading studio craft programs in the country. He expanded audiences by developing many new partnerships and collaborations—the Norwegian Crafts Council, the Shigaraki Cultural Center in Japan, and the Smithsonian Institution, among them.
During his tenure at Haystack, Sacaridiz also led the school through its first comprehensive strategic plan, launching a long-range campus planning process with the focus on accessibility, historic preservation, and sustainability. Navigating Haystack through the pandemic, Sacaridiz created fellowships to support BIPOC students, launched a new program for LQBTQ teens, and completed major facility and infrastructure upgrades to the historic campus. All of this, plus
growing the school’s endowment from $9 million to over $24 million.
Earlier in his career, Sacaridiz chaired the Department of Art at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, served as Associate Director of the Wonsook Kim School of Art at Illinois State University and was a Fellow with the National Council of Arts Administrators. He also has extensive experience serving on nonprofit boards including the National Council on Education for the Ceramic Arts (NCECA) and the Craft Emergency Relief Fund (CERF+).
“I seem to come into organizations when they are in transitional moments, when change is afoot,” says Sacaridiz. “At Haystack, my predecessor had been there for 27 years and the school was ready for a new perspective and outlook. Ragdale is in a similar position. For me as a leader coming into an organization that is at a time of transition, it requires an intense amount of focus and strategy and thought.”
Now at the helm of Ragdale, which celebrates
words and portrait photography by Monica Kass Rogers styling by Theresa DeMaria
Ragdale campus sculpture. Photography by Ian McLeod
its fiftieth anniversary in 2026 as one of the country’s largest interdisciplinary artist communities, Sacaridiz has spent the past number of months observing the organization, establishing relationships, and planning for the organizations next chapter.
“It’s incredibly important to ensure that a place like Ragdale will sustain for another 50 years and beyond,”
he says. “We are living in a fast paced and increasingly divided time. We don’t inherently have many quiet spaces in our lives to be reflective anymore. Ragdale provides that space and time for artists to ask challenging questions, which in turn help us to see the world in new ways.”
Time spent at Ragdale has allowed many artists to
Paul Sacaridiz
find answers to such questions, going on to produce works that have helped to shape American art and culture. “And that’s a very profound concept,” says Sacaridiz.
The shift from being an artist, academic and teacher into someone thinking and working administratively, was a natural progression for Sacaridiz. “Bringing clarity to systems, processes and structure, looking at history to discern what to pull forward, what should be left behind, what needs to be reinvented, and what are all of the ways to ensure people feel seen, safe and valued,” says Sacaridiz. “Thinking about and finding answers to these questions is, and always has been, wildly interesting to me.”
Sacaridiz appointment comes at a pivotal time for Ragdale as it asks the question, “Who are we now, at 50?” The organization just completed three years of capital projects after a successful capital campaign that raised $6.8 million to renovate, expand and rehabilitate the historic property. It also just received a transformational gift of $750,000 that will be used to establish Ragdale’s first dedicated endowment fund for programs and general operations. “So, my job now is to help us transition from capital projects, to re-focus fundraising efforts on developing greater fiscal sustainability, building our operational endowment and expanding fellowship opportunities for artists,” says Sacaridiz.
Currently, Ragdale funds eleven fellowships annually, pro-
viding a fully funded residency, housing, and a stipend to selected artists. Ragdale also hosts about 250, three-week-long, artist-residencies for which participants pay on a sliding scale. “But my goal is to triple our Fellowship by the end of 2026 so that we can offer up to 40 fellowships each year to support artists at various stages of their careers.,” says Sacaridiz.
He adds that there are many interesting structural questions Ragdale is also thinking through as it envisions change and growth: How to better engage with the local community and the community at large? How can Ragdale expand and deepen educational outreach? As thought leaders, can Ragdale collaborate with other institutions to co-produce conferences, symposiums and convenings? What is the organizations social responsibility as an institution, or its role in bringing arts programming to support underserved communities? And how do we develop deeper connections with arts and culture organizations in Chicago?
One big question overall is how Ragdale can accomplish these more public-facing objectives while still ensuring the privacy and solitude that is part and parcel of its core mission: To steward an inspirational environment that fosters courageous creativity and inclusive community through its artist residencies. “It’s important that we evolve, but still preserve the institution’s core. We are a residency program, not an art school,” Sacaridiz explains.
Whatever unfolds as the evolution continues, Sacaridiz is excited at the prospect of thoughtful change. “Ragdale has had such lasting impact because of the ideas artists have explored here. That’s been true since this place began, as Howard Van Doren Shaw’s family retreat and what can be thought of as a literal experiment in building a creative community dating back to 1897, for family and friends, and that spirit is still very much present today. But many people don’t fully understand the impact that Ragdale has had, and the significance of the artists we bring here. Telling that story is a top priority. I am so excited for the momentum that we are building and the opportunities we have to steward and grow this remarkable place.”
Ragdale Living Room. Photography by James Caulfield
Ragdale House. Photography by James Caulfield
TIMELESS MASTERPIECE
The Lake Forest Civic Orchestra ushers in the new year with Beethoven’s stirring Symphony No. 9.
words by Thomas Connors photography
by
WIan McLeod styling
by Theresa DeMaria
HEN OR—IF— KING GEORGE II stood up upon hearing the “Hallelujah” chorus at the premiere of Handel’s “Messiah” in 1743, was it because he was moved, or had a cramp? We’ll never know.
Likewise, when Beethoven premiered his Ninth Symphony in Vienna, we cannot be sure if the nearly deaf composer turned around to see a cheering audience at the conclusion of the “Ode to Joy,” or earlier, at the end of the second movement scherzo.
What’s for sure is that both compositions remain for general audiences among the most recognizable classical music pieces ever. So how fitting, now that the traditional holiday performances of “Messiah” are over, the Lake Forest Civic Orchestra is turning its attention to Beethoven’s final symphonic work with a January 19 performance at the James Lumber Performing Arts Center in Grayslake.
Performed under music director, Christopher Ramaekers, in collaboration with Chicago Master Singers, Lux Cantorum Chicago, community members, and chorus master John Hughes, the Ninth Symphony is a significant undertaking for the orchestra.
“Once we had made the decision to move forward, there were a number of activities that we needed to take on that were not part of our normal concert preparation,” says Nancy Otto, who serves as project manager for this program. “First, we had to find a venue with a workable date and a stage that was big enough to handle 150-plus personnel. Second, we needed to find singers, resulting in a collaboration with Chicago Master Singers and Lux Cantorum Chicago. As a community orchestra, it is part of our mission to bring the orchestra to the community, and the community to the orchestra. In the past, we have collaborated with local schools, featured student soloists, and played music by local composers. For this project, we extended an invitation to experienced volunteer singers in our area to join in our performance and increase the community involvement.”
In its 36 years, Lake Forest Civic Orchestra has never performed this piece. Most of its members have not either. The piece is a first for Ramaekers, too. Although he has conducted all of Beethoven’s other symphonies, this is the first time he’s tackled the Ninth.
“To prepare both the orchestra and me to take on this work, I
began our season with Beethoven’s No. 1. Seeing where he started, and having worked on all his other symphonies, gives an insight into where he was going and what he was thinking. What about the second symphony is different from the first? Or how is the fourth different from the sixth?” he explains. “By putting this massive piece into the context of his entire catalog and knowing where it was coming from, I like to think that I have developed some idea of where Beethoven was going and what his goals with this piece were.”
Choral director John Hughes has sung in the work twice, but this is first time leading others through it.
“Many, if not most, of the participating singers, have sung this previously, so, learning the piece is not an obstacle,” says Hughes. “The main challenge is vocal fatigue. The vocal ranges are famously—or infamously—high, especially for the sopranos and tenors. I will certainly take this into account in rehearsal and will encourage the singers to pace themselves during the performance.”
Arguably, the key singularity of Beethoven’s Ninth is its choral component. Prior to its composition, notes Hughes, choral-orchestral works were primarily limited to Masses and oratorios. But like his predecessors, Mozart and Hayden, who had expanded the symphonic format from a short piece for a handful of musicians to something longer for a larger instrumental ensemble, Beethoven had been tweaking the form for years.
“By the time he gets to the Ninth, this genre expanded to the hour-plus-long work that we know today involving over 100 people, incorporating a chorus with a huge emotional range, and expressing some rather expansive ideas, both philosophical and social,” observes Ramaekers. “This symphony was not only a revolution itself; it was a capstone of a series of revolutions that Beethoven made within the genre. Without Beethoven’s symphonies, I don’t know that the expansive works of Mahler, Bruckner, Brahms, Shostakovich would have been possible.”
Or, as the 19th-century Russian revolutionary, Mikhail Bakunin, asserted, “Everything will pass and the world will perish but the Ninth will remain.”
For more information about The Lake Forest Civic Orchestra and to purchase tickets for Ode to Joy: Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, visit lakeforestcivicorchestra.org.
Music director, Chris Ramaekers
Dina and Senad Besic with their children, Lenna and Max.
MAXWELL’S TOY BOX
A Lake Bluff family turns their grief over their son’s difficult medical diagnosis into joy for other children and their families.
words by Ann Marie Scheidler
photography by Ian
McLeod
styling by Theresa DeMaria hair and makeup by Frances
Tsalas
DINA BESIC ALMOST CAN’T retell the story of the March day last year when she learned that her 2-year-old son Maxwell had leukemia.
“Max is our rainbow baby,” Besic says of her oldest child. “My husband and I had been trying to have a baby for 10 years and of course, during the apocalypse of 2020, we finally found out we were expecting him.”
In spite of the difficulties of having a newborn during COVID-19, the Besics were over the moon. Max was a very easy baby to love.
All had been smooth sailing with their toddler until March 2023 when Max just seemed off.
“Mothers will understand when I say this, but I just knew something wasn’t right,” Besic says. “I knew it was more than just the stuff that’s always going around when you have little ones. But when I took him to urgent care, they just told me that he had the flu.”
Besic accepted this until Max’s fevers wouldn’t subside.
“My husband and I decided to take him to Children’s Advocate in Park Ridge,” she says. “They were so good to us when we got there and quickly put us all at ease. I remember my husband and I having such a fun conversation with the doctor.”
After running some tests, the doctor returned to the Besic’s room.
“Immediately, I knew something was wrong,” Besic remembers. The doctor said, ‘We suspect your son has leukemia.’ I just started screaming at him. I was sure they ran the blood tests wrong, there was no way that what he was saying could be right. I feel so badly thinking about this now—I called him later and apologized, but we were just so shocked. Max was admitted to the pediatric ICU that night. When we got upstairs, there were 13 people waiting for us to discuss his treatment plan. Even after seeing all of those people, it still didn’t seem real.”
In addition to leukemia, Max was suffering from a terrible infection and had almost no immune system to fight it. The Besic family ultimately spent 33 days at Children’s Advocate.
“My husband and I look back on that time and we’re like, how did we do that?”
“My husband and I look back on that time and we’re like, how did we do that?” she says of juggling their days with Max, their jobs, and their new baby Lenna who was only six months old at the time.
“Max made it through that dark time because of prayer, family, positivity, and loads of antibiotics,” Besic says. “When we were getting ready to go home, the doctors told us that at the beginning, they weren’t sure Max would get better— he was just so sick. While he was fighting the infection, he started chemo. He went through so much. He was only two years old and trying to explain all of this to a little guy was so hard. It was truly 33 days of uncertainty.”
Since being home, Max has continued his treatment. He’s been back to the hospital seven times. He’s now on a maintenance regimen where he takes an oral chemo medication. And every three months, he is sedated and receives a spinal tap—chemo in his back.
“Watching your child be sedated is so hard,” Besic says. “But when it’s over, Max gets up and is like ‘Mama, what are we doing today?’ And I’m always like, whatever you want.”
It was on one of Max’s many visits to Children’s Advocate when they were waiting in the bright playroom for their appointment that Besic had an idea.
“Max was happily playing, and I said, ‘Max, wouldn’t that toy grocery store we have be great here?’ Or, what about a toy train because he’s obsessed with trains. Max then would say, ‘Mama, go buy?’”
Besic asked her husband what he thought of her putting together an Amazon wish list and sharing it with their family and friends. She posted it on her social media, with no obligation, and quickly received 108 toys. After sprucing up the children’s hospital’s toy room, they had 50 toys left that the Besics gave to the hospital to distribute to other pediatric oncology patients.
“Toys bring a sense of normalcy, childhood, and joy to these amazing kids in the not-so-normal world of cancer. People sometimes associate toys only with fun, but there is a lot of purpose to them. With Maxwell’s Toy Box, we focus
on ensuring we provide developmental toys since these kiddos tend to miss 40-50 days of school due to illness, hospitalizations, or appointments. Cancer is incredibly dark and navigating it with your child is so hard,” she says.
“No one can really understand what you’re going through unless they’re in your shoes. So, it was really therapeutic for me to look at toys and channel all of our
sadness into something positive by bringing little moments of joy to other families. The toys to me were so much more than toys. Collecting them did so much to heal my mind and soul and it felt so good to give back.”
Besic formally organized her toy collection into Maxwell’s Toy Box, a nonprofit organization, in January 2024. As of publication, Maxwell’s Toy Box has collected 1,929 toys and 51 gift cards. It has also distributed 249 goody bags to children receiving treatment filled with things to keep them busy and engaged with their parents. Maxwell’s Toy Box is currently supporting the Children’s Advocate locations in Park Ridge and Oak Lawn, and anticipate making donations to Lurie Children’s Hospital, as well.
“My big, audacious goal is for Maxwell’s Toy Box to be a national nonprofit where we service every pediatric hospital. My hope is to also create an advocacy division where I can bring more awareness to childhood cancer,” says Besic, who has completed advocacy training and met with the offices of Illinois Senator Dick Durbin and Congressman Brad Schneider to ensure that Illinois representatives are supporting childhood cancer laws to improve access to treatment.
“I’m a childhood cancer advocate because it’s the leading cause of disease-related deaths in children, yet only 8 percent of federal cancer research funding is dedicated to pediatric cancers. Every day, 43 children in the U.S. are diagnosed with cancer—a statistic that demands action. Most treatment options for kids are outdated, relying on therapies developed more than 40 years ago, leaving these children to face devastating side effects and long-term health challenges. One day, we’ll get to a better place with all of this. I’m sure of it.”
To learn more about Maxwell’s Toy Box, how you can host a toy drive, or donate, visit maxwellstoybox.com. Additionally, follow the organization on Instagram @maxwellstoyboxnfp.
Maxwell’s Toy Box volunteers deliver toys to Children’s Advocate Hospital
SOCIAL LIFE
FOUNDER’S DAY FUNDRAISER
photography by Mark Gavoor
Lake Forest-Lake Bluff Saint Mary’s College-Notre Dame (SMC) alumnae and guests gathered to celebrate the 180th Founder’s Day on October 20. The day started with Mass at St Patrick’s Church and continued with a luncheon and fashion show at Conway Farms Golf Club. Alumnae and special guests modeled fashions from J. McLaughlin and Lillie Alexander Boutique. Proceeds from the event benefit the SMC Student Scholarship Fund. jgavoor@gmail.com
Mary Clare Brady, Liz Davit
Frank Klepitsch, Don Patton, Tom Tschanz
Scott and Ellen McCallum
Carol Gillig
Noreen Pulte
Armene Kapamajian
Gail Sturm
Karen Clow, Wendy Sofyanos
Karen Bedford, Sasoun Kapamajian
SOCIAL LIFE
GOOD SCOUT AWARDS
photography by Ian McLeod
On October 30, the Northeast Illinois Council of Scouting America honored Michael Rummel with the Good Scout Award and recognized Captain James A. Lovell Jr. for his national service and Keith Ross for his council contributions. Guests enjoyed a dinner, program, and auction featuring unique items like an Apollo 13 patch signed by Captain Lovell, all supporting Scouting in Lake and northern Cook counties. neic.org
The Lovell Family
The Hensley Family
Scott & Senator Susan Garrett, Congressman Bob Dold
Tim & Meg Metzler
John Beaugard, Sandra Sommers, Amy Beaugard, Robert Sommers
Maria Del Missier, Carrie Rogers
Richard & Cheryl Tucker, Patricia & Gary Simmons
Capt. James Lovell (front), Michael Rommel, Nick Roberts, Keith Ross, Beth Mickseh
Scout Troop 48B & 48G
POWER OF THE PURSE
photography courtesy of Women United of Lake County
On November 3, more than 200 Lake County women joined forces at Women United’s Power of the Purse event to raise funds for early childhood learning programs. Guests enjoyed brunch and bubbly, bid on designer bags and silent auction items, and gave from their heart in support of local children. liveunitedlakecounty.org/wu
Laura Huaracha, Errin Saleh
Paula Jenkins, Mandhagini Inian, Arlyn Franklin
Tara Thomas, Kristi Long, Ann Johnston
Ann Johnston, Jamie Epstein
Josephine Messink, Diana Nielander, Marilyn Mines
Lindsay Levine, Susan Metz, Amy Meeske, Nicole Miller
Iris Livingston, Marisa Livingston
Tricia Eckland, Jessica Ceisel
HUNGER RESOURCE NETWORK FASHION SHOW
photography by Robin Subar
Le Colonial Lake Forest was the perfect setting for Hunger Resource Network’s November Luncheon & Fashion Show. Emceed by Joanna Rolek from the Lake Forest/Lake Bluff Chamber of Commerce, the show featured collections from Alesia C. Fashion House, ENAZ boutique, Selleria Veneta and Guys & Co. Event proceeds will fund protein distribution to food pantries, shelters and soup kitchens in Lake County. hungerresourcenetwork.org
Joy Ebhomielen, Lisa Connell
Joanna Rolek, Amy Levin Schneider
Kerry Smith
Dr. Paige Enwright
Robin Bright
Sarah Roe, Berenisse Espinoza, Emma Fathollahi, Evan Davis
Mary Rose Chiovari, Anna Gamerdino
Steven Ford
SOCIAL LIFE
REVEL HOLIDAY BOUTIQUE
photography by Ian McLeod
Club of Hearts hosted its 3rd annual REVEL Holiday Boutique on November 6 at North Shore Country Club. Featuring 36 local and out of state vendors, offerings included craft spirits, original art, fine jewelry, and best seller books. Proceeds from the event benefit Club of Hearts’ 2024 charity partner, Lake County Haven, whose mission is to empower homeless women and their children to achieve permanent, independent living. clubofheartsil.com
Sondra Douglass, Robin Powers, Kathy Milliman, Erin Foley
Diane Skaleski, Joy Nagel McGreevy
Toni Lenzi, Meg Gagliardo
Lauren Peters, Megan Ingelberg
Kathy Harmer, Ava Harmer
Shelley Cummings, Angela Sandner
Krissi Schmitz, Megan Anderson
Missy Burger
AVANT SKI WINE SOCIAL
photography by Kelsey Campbell
The 118-year old Allendale Shelter Club hit the slopes on November 7 with a new name: Allendale Women’s Board at their Avant Ski Wine Social fall fundraiser. Chaired by Dawn Talma and Isabel Fiore, the event attracted 150 guests and raised nearly $20K for Allendale Association. Avant Ski Wine Social served as a prelude to the Allendale Women’s Board’s new fundraiser Apres Ski-Aspen, which will take place on February 22 at Conway Farms Golf Club. allendale4kids.org
Dawn Talma, Ester Viti, Isabelle Fiore
Leslie Brewer, Karen Anderson, Leslie Young
Mallory Ciarrocchi, Emily Delfino, Claire Concannon
Lisa Flojancic, Heather Pateros, Leslie Basedow
Peter and Mary Kate Strittmatter, Diana Walsh
Phoebe Reaumond, Natalie Windle, Liza Ballen
Kira Albrecht, Jenni Westrich, Ami Fischer, Kristen Webb
Maureen Bennett, Whitley Bouma Herbert, Kathleen Brill, Katy Collins
MOTHERS TRUST SEASONAL SOIRÉE
photography by Kelsey Campbell
The Mothers Trust Foundation hosted its annual fall fundraiser Seasonal Soirée on November 9 at Knollwood Country Club. The event kicked off the holiday season with gorgeous themed tablescapes and an inspirational keynote speaker. Funds raised will further the organization’s mission to provide for children who have no other place to turn in times of crisis. motherstrustfoundation.org
Katy Evans, Keri Yale, Kaylan Kane, Maggie Getz
Christine Goshgarian, Lisa Cervieri, Vanessa Fjeldheim
Lauren Peters, Keri Yale
Wendy Gimbel, Lori Dann, Joe Blandford
Blythe Watson, Ellen Marwede
Kelly Sweeney, Cheri Lucania, Karen Conley, Lisa Potash, Chef Davide D’Andrea
Norbert Reidel, Susan Lovell, Loan Reidel, Jack Perno, Doane Tang, Doris Lim, Pericles Georgeopoulos
Ami Vora, Cyncy Shacher, Anne Moebius, Cheri Lucania
Redefining Success
Coach Dave empowers high-achieving men to embrace purpose, fulfillment, and meaningful change.
words by Janis MVK
Dave O’Connor is on a mission to help highachieving professionals find deeper fulfillment. Offering one-on-one coaching and group workshops designed to transform both the professional and personal lives of men, his unique approach, “The DAVE Method” (Discover, Accept, Vision, Experiment), helps clients uncover the deeper issues at play, embrace their current reality, and define a clear vision for how they genuinely want to achieve their goals.
After over two decades in the corporate world holding high-pressure leadership roles, he witnessed a common pattern: accomplished executives checking off milestones and achieving success, yet feeling discontent—a struggle he knew firsthand. “I wanted to offer a different approach to creating a full life; one that doesn’t just focus on productivity and performance but also on helping people rediscover what lights them up.” It’s coaching that goes beyond the usual career advice to deliver real, sustainable change.
That vision came to life with the launch of his personalized coaching practice located in the heart of downtown Lake Forest. “Coaching is about creating space for meaningful change not just in careers but in the overall quality of life.”
Holding an associate certified coach credential, he studied under Dr. David Drake, a leader in narrative coaching, and studied at the Harvard Institute for Coaching and the Coactive Training Institute. To keep his coaching approach sharp and effective, he engages in ongoing supervision with Katie Drescher, a master-certified coach.
“My experience isn’t just theoretical,” he says. “My goal is to integrate practical strategies with deep, personal insights to drive meaningful, lasting changes for my clients.” For
founders, EVPs, and CEOs across diverse industries, he has coached at life-changing conferences like Camp Mograph, a premier creative industry event where professionals learn, connect, and recharge.
O’Connor reflects on the success story of a senior executive he worked with who was grappling with the existential question: Is this it? “Through our coaching sessions, he used my method to clarify his values, embrace change, and take intentional action.” The result was a career pivot that balanced fulfillment with income, deepened connections with his family, and renewed the client’s sense of purpose in both his personal and professional life.
For O’Connor, these transformations are the heart of his mission. “Real success isn’t just about hitting targets—it’s about noticing what’s important about those targets and prioritizing the right ones just for you,” he says. With the launch of The Thriving Midlife Man group coaching series in January at the Gorton Center, he is expanding his reach. “January is the perfect time for fresh starts,” he shares. “This series is for men ready to redefine what success means for them and start living it.”
O’Connor’s coaching is more than a service; it’s a call to action for men ready to grow—not just professionally, but as human beings. “The courage to dive deep and do the work is where the magic happens,” he says. And with O’Connor as their guide, his clients are proving that it’s never too late to thrive.
Dave O’Connor, Executive Coach is located at 253 Market Square in Lake Forest, 518-727-6531, heycoachdave.com, Instagram: @heycoachdave. Sign up for Coach Dave’s LinkedIn Newsletter, “The Clear Leader”: linkedin.com/in/djoconnor1.
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Community Dentistry
Dr. Linda R. Salmon brings her lifetime of dental care experience to the Lake
Bluff and Lake Forest communities.
If you are walking down Scranton Avenue in Lake Bluff and pass the post office, you will be surprised to see a new dental office there. How long has it been there? Well, the dental office has been there for more than 50 years, but Dr. Linda R. Salmon of Lake Bluff Dental Care has given the dental office many reasons to notice it.
Dr. Linda R. Salmon has been a dentist for over 28 years, and she has been in dentistry for 40 years. She believes that things that are meant to be will happen. Her life in dentistry began at age 15 at a dental appointment when her dentist recruited her to work in their office as a dental assistant and receptionist. After graduating from UIC College of Dentistry in 1996, she worked in Oak Park and then in the Sauganash area of Chicago for more than 22 years. In 2023 she left her Chicago office to open her new office in downtown Lake Bluff. Her practice, Lake Bluff Dental Care, is located right in the center of the historic downtown area at 32 East Scranton Avenue.
Dr. Salmon has always prided herself on being a Chicago girl, having grown up there and lived there her whole life. She moved with her family from Chicago to Glenview for better schools for her children in 2002. About 10 years ago, some of her friends from Glenview moved to Lake Forest, so she and her husband began spending most of their social time in the Lake Forest and Lake Bluff areas.
Since then, Dr. Salmon and her husband Jeff, have grown very fond of the Lake Bluff and Lake Forest areas, and have become involved in the local communities. In 2021, she and her husband attended Citadel’s 7th Annual Gala—Villa Gatsby. Since then, Dr. Salmon has been in attendance and helped at many Citadel Theater fundraisers. She is involved in the Lake Forest and Lake Bluff Chamber of Commerce, and she has participated in Lake Bluff Park District’s Trunk or Treat the past 2 years. She was part of Lake Bluff’s Annual 4th of July Parade where she passed out lots of goodies and was greeted by many new faces and many of her patients from her new practice.
In August 2024, she celebrated the one-year anniversary of the opening of Lake Bluff Dental Care with a ribbon cutting ceremony in partnership with the Lake Forest and Lake Bluff Chamber of Commerce. The fun celebration included, to her amazement, some former patients from her Chicago practice who traveled to Lake Bluff to congratulate her and let her know they followed her to her new location and will be seeking an appointment with her soon. She has been honored to have many of her patients from Chicago follow her to Lake Bluff and she feels thankful that many of the contacts she has made in Lake Forest and Lake Bluff are now patients, too.
“It is an honor and a solid compliment of your qualities as a dentist and as a person when your patients follow you to you the ends of the earth to continue seeking your care,” says Dr. Salmon. A relationship between a dentist and a patient is like no other business and client/patient relationship. Patients want to know that you have amazing dental skills, that you can chat with them as if you have known them your whole life, and
that you can help them feel at ease in difficult or uncomfortable dental procedures.
Dentists must be very well rounded in so many areas to be successful in dentistry and business. They must be artists and make sure they can match colors, shapes, spacing. They need to know medications that may interfere in the welfare of their patients. They need to know how to best care for their patients, both regarding their teeth and their overall health. They need to be able to run a business and hire staff to support them. They need to have fine motor skills and keep themselves in the best physical shape to be able to endure the physically demanding dental procedures, they need to be able to problem solve, and most importantly, they need to have patience with their patients.
Dr. Salmon has all the above and more. She continues to keep herself in good physical shape by eating well and working out regularly. She can be found boxing, running, powerwalking, rock climbing, hiking, and more. She keeps her dental skills up to date with continuing education and advanced training in many areas. She can take care of her patients in many areas of dentistry, including laser biopsy, place and restore implants, place limited orthodontic brackets, and she is Invisalign certified.
After 40 years in dentistry, you might think one would get bored or tired, but not Dr. Salmon. She likes to keep it interesting and add new procedures to her office to offer her patients the latest technologies and treatments. She also keeps active in many dental societies and has a position on the Alumni Board at University of Illinois College of Dentistry. The UIC College of Dentistry recently opened its Inclusive Care Clinic to help patients with disabilities and it is expanding its off-site free dental clinic. The board was instrumental in providing feedback on the clinic design while it was being built and made a list of needed improvements to help the school. Dr. Salmon donates her own time and money to the UIC College of Dentistry because she appreciates how they reach a variety of patients with their on-site and off-site clinics. Dr. Salmon has been involved with many organizations in the past, but she says, “You can give a little to many organizations and feel like you are contributing, or you can focus your attention on one organization and be sure you are making a difference.”
Dr. Salmon believes her move north was meant to be and has immersed herself in everything Lake Bluff and Lake Forest. She is planning on moving her home to the area in the next few years. In the meantime, look for Dr. Salmon around the area taking a class at the Gorton Center, attending chamber events, shopping at Fresh Market or Source and Style, eating at Le Colonial, Inovasi, or other great eateries, or walking around the beautiful downtown area and the beach on her lunch break. Dr. Salmon says, “If you happen to walk past my office, I invite you to stop in and say ‘hi’ to me and my warm dental team.”
Lake Bluff Dental Care is located at 32 East Scranton Avenue in Lake Bluff. For more information, visit lakebluffdentalcare.net or call 847-234-0557.
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One of the most frequent requests that I get is for a “Tummy Tuck.” Many patients find that despite diet and exercise they cannot achieve the shaped, toned, flat abdomen they desire.
In assessing a patient for a “Tummy Tuck” multiple factors are taken into account.
1. W hat is the status of the overlying skin and the degree of laxity? Is the laxity confined to the lower or upper part of the abdomen or both?
2. W hat is the status of the underlying muscles? Do they meet in the midline or are they separated from pregnancies or intra-abdominal fat?
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Depending upon the above assessment a customized operation can be performed to address these concerns. Multiple procedures or techniques can be employed.
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The above procedures can often be combined to give you a customized operation to achieve the results you desire.
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BEHIND THE GLAMOUR
Lake Forest debutante Ginevra King and her socialite friends are famously credited for inspiring the character of Daisy Buchanan in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby. As the iconic novel turns 100 this year, the History Center of Lake Forest-Lake Bluff will unveil a special exhibition to celebrate the connections between the author and his visits to the city from 1915 to 1916.
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“Once I thought that Lake Forest was the most glamorous place in the world,” American author F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote to his daughter in 1940, just six months before his death. “Maybe it was.” There is a palpable angst in that statement, a sense of longing that lingered decades after the author famously met and courted Ginevra King—a young debutante who ran with an exclusive Lake Forest sorority known as “The Big Four” (they even had rings that bore that selfdubbed nickname). While Miss King would ultimately break the aspiring writer’s heart, Fitzgerald’s visits to Lake Forest in 1915 and 1916 changed his work forever, ultimately inspiring one of the most famous novels of the 20th century—The Great Gatsby. As the book turns 100 this year, the History Center of Lake ForestLake Bluff is gearing up for the April 4 launch of “Behind the Glamour: Inside (and Outside) F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Lake Forest,” a new exhibit devoted to the influence of the author’s time in Lake Forest and the subsequent mythologizing of the Gatsby lifestyle. “We’re going to examine both Fitzgerald’s work through the lens of Lake Forest and Lake Forest through the lens of what Fitzgerald saw, focusing specifically on Ginevra King and “The Big Four’ debutantes,” says Deputy Director and Head of Curation Laurie Stein, explaining that Francis Scott Key Fitzgerald (second cousin of the author of the national anthem) met King at a skating party in his hometown of St. Paul, Minnesota. “They embarked on a correspondence and would write to each other. He especially wrote voluminous letters, as you can imagine.” Fitzgerald’s visits to King in Lake Forest exposed him to a new world of wealth and high society. His experience socializing with King and her glamorous “Big Four” counterparts—Edith Cummings, Courtney Letts, and Margaret “Peg” Carry—is brought to life both in Gatsby and his
short stories. “Edith Cummings was a very talented golfer and is seen as the inspiration for the character of Jordan Baker in The Great Gatsby. Beyond that, there are multiple references in his work to Lake Forest itself. He name drops the city again when he mentions that Tom Buchanan was bringing polo ponies from Lake Forest,” adds Stein. “His visits to Lake Forest cemented his awareness of how hard it was to break into the inner sanctum of the wealthy and elite. You can see that in both Nick and Gatsby.” Fitzgerald learned this the hard way as King quickly moved on, a rejection he ultimately blamed on his family’s socioeconomic status. It’s no wonder then that his descriptions of Daisy Buchanan were dripping with quiet resentment. In one passage, he writes that “her artificial world was redolent of orchids and pleasant, cheerful snobbery and orchestras which set the rhythm of the year, summing up the sadness and suggestiveness of life in new tunes.” Stein says that in addition to showcasing the influence of Lake Forest on this legendary work of literature, the exhibit will explore the complex lives of King and her fellow debutantes and how marital decisions significantly controlled their fate beyond their hearts. “They all went on to have very interesting lives and what happened to them says a lot about opportunity for women in that time,” she explains. “It’s fascinating from a historical perspective to see the impact of our community on something that’s been read by so many.” Interestingly enough, when King and Fitzgerald ended their relationship, they made a pact to burn the letters they had written to each other. As Fitzgerald’s many biographies can attest, she kept her promise. He did not.
“Behind the Glamour: Inside (and Outside) F. Scott Fitzgerald’s Lake Forest” will run from April 4 to October 4 at the History Center of Lake Forest-Lake Bluff. For more information, visit lflbhistory.org.
