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Hello, 2025! Welcome to a bright, beautiful new year! And happy birthday to KC Parent Magazine, which turns 40 this year!
To celebrate, we have some 40-themed articles we hope you’ll enjoy. Susan Gimotty, our publisher’s wife, has compiled 40 “then and now” comparisons between 1985 and 2025 (pg. 24) that are sure to bring a giggle! Kim Antisdel brings you 40 parenting milestones to treasure (pg. 28), and yours truly has compiled a list of 40 birthday traditions to implement as you celebrate those you love (pg. 20)! Come along with us this month and this year as we celebrate 40 years of KC Parent !
Whether you need fresh ideas for indoor or outdoor adventures, we have some great ideas for in our Winter Fun Guide (pgs. 42–55). And the ideas don’t end there —we’re always bringing fresh ideas and fun to KCParent.com!
Looking for a novel experience? Invite your friends over for a soup soirée. Elizabeth Hammond outlines this delicious idea for you on page 38. You’ll enjoy the connection with friends and get some fresh ideas for dinner—a perfect start to a new year!
Wherever you find yourself on your journey, thanks for stopping by! Praying your 2025 is bright and beautiful, Kansas City!
Lauri Clapper, Editor
Publisher Michael Gimotty Michael@KCParent.com
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UNDERSTANDING THE CURRENT APPROACH TO MATHEMATICS
PARENTS: Yikes, did you have problems helping your children with their math homework during the pandemic? Are you still baffled when it comes to giving them a hand with it? If so, you are definitely not alone. That’s because the way schools are teaching students to do math these days, even simple arithmetic problems, is definitely different from the way you learned it.
In the ’80s and ’90s, there was a strong focus on memorizing math facts and formulas to solve problems. If you were in school during this time, it is likely that you really didn’t understand what you were doing, even if you got the right answer. For example, you could solve a multiplication problem because you had memorized the multiplication tables. And you could solve a geometry problem because you had learned that the square of the hypotenuse was equal to the sum of the squares of the two sides of a triangle.
The new math curriculum was introduced in 2010 as part of the Common Core Standards and was adopted by most states, making the study of math close to the same for each grade level. The idea behind the
new curriculum was to give students a better understanding of mathematical concepts. It was meant to give them the problem-solving skills needed for college math and workforce-required math, and it focused on mastering fewer topics each year.
An important aim of Common Core math was to raise the math scores of American students, which compare very unfavorably with those of students in other countries. Unfortunately, the Common Core curriculum hasn’t been successful in this goal. In 2023, in comparison with 81 international school systems, American students ranked 26th in math. This is just a bit better than our ranking of 29th in 2018.
A LOOK AT SOLVING MATH PROBLEMS USING COMMON CORE MATH
As you know, solving math problems now looks quite different. Students are taught to solve many problems by drawing them out or using manipulatives. This helps students see the how and why of math solutions. Then there are the new ways of handling such basic operations as
addition, subtraction, multiplication and division.
For example, you probably learned to do double-digit addition by writing one number on top of the other and using the basic math facts you had memorized to solve the problem. With the current math methods, you might approach adding 23 + 35 this way:
You break down the numbers by place value and first add together the tens place values: 20 + 30 = 50
Next, you add the ones place values: 3 + 5 = 8
Then you add the two answers together: 50 + 8 = 58
With these steps, the student has not only solved the problem, but has developed an understanding of place value.
Subtraction problems are often solved by testing what number needs to be added to the smaller number to get the larger number. For multiplication problems, rows and columns are used to give students a picture of the problem— for example, 4 x 5 can be shown as four rows of 5 objects.
When helping your children with basic arithmetic problems, you can show them how to get the answer the way you were taught; however, this will likely confuse them when they go back to school and are required to solve problems using the new math. So, what is the answer if your children need your help with their math homework? Just go online and you will find loads of videos explaining how to do different mathematical operations using the new math. You will also see online that many parents are frustrated with trying to understand these new methods.
If you want to prepare your young children for the new math or help your early elementary-age children better understand it, visit DearTeacher.com, where we have two books full of games and explanations.
Not all teachers or math experts are sold on the new math. In the early grades, many problems are word problems, and children do not always have the reading skills to understand them. Many mathematicians also think children need to develop computational skills before they can understand math concepts. Finally, not all teachers have received sufficient training in how to teach Common Core math.
As of April 2020, 45 states had adopted the Common Core State Standards (CCSS) for mathematics, but 24 of those states had revised, repealed or edited parts of the standards. Arizona, Oklahoma, Indiana and South Carolina have completely withdrawn from the standards. Other states, like Missouri, have replaced the standards with ones that better suit their students’ needs.
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Hop on the streetcar for a fun date that will take your mind off the cold January temperatures!
STOP 1: CITY MARKET—5TH & WALNUT
Harry’s Country Club isn’t actually a country club, but a neighborhood bar and restaurant frequented by socialites, the over-40 crowd and everyone in between. With roadhouse vibes, a jukebox, black-and-white photos, brick walls and an old mahogany bar, this place is like a warm hug. What will really warm you up is a bowl of their spicy chili accompanied by cornbread with honey butter—just one of the many choices on a menu full of pub fare and more.
STOP 2: KAUFFMAN CENTER—16TH & MAIN
In a building that dates back to 1908 sits Tom’s Town Distilling Co., named after political boss Tom Pendergast, who ruled the city from 1925 to 1939. Though Prohibition was in effect during most of Pendergast’s reign, alcohol flowed freely in Kansas City. Learn about this era and more on a tour of Tom’s Town. At the end, you can do a tasting of five of their spirits, including gin, vodka and bourbon. Or, if you don’t wish to imbibe, you can purchase a “designated driver” tour ticket. Either way, the tour is worth it!
STOP 3: POWER & LIGHT—14TH & MAIN
What started out as a dorm room experiment has grown into a national sensation. And while we typically avoid national chain eateries, one that we enjoy is Insomnia Cookies. Hot, fresh, delicious cookies available for pickup or delivery from midday until well after midnight—what’s not to love? They offer classic, deluxe and limited-time cookies, such as sugar, double chocolate chunk, oatmeal raisin, s’mores, apple pie filled and oatmeal chocolate walnut, plus brownies and ice cream.
Hannah Berry is a freelance writer who lives in the Northland with her husband. They love to explore Kansas City and try new restaurants and activities. Check out her Facebook page, Out & About in KC.
JANUARY FUN CALENDAR
NATIONAL BLOOD DONOR MONTH
Contact the Community Blood Center to find a nearby location or event where you can donate blood to help save lives. SaveALifeNow.org
JANUARY 6 Shortbread Day: McLain’s Bakery (McLainsKC.com) has been serving delicious baked goods, including cookies, to local customers since 1945. Shortbread cookies are just one of their many specialties.
JANUARY 11 Milk Day:
Head to the grocery store, where you’ll find milk from Shatto Dairy Farm (ShattoMilk.com), a working dairy farm and milk bottling company selling the best milk in the metro.
JANUARY 14 Hot
JANUARY 3 National
Chocolate-Covered Cherry Day: For a truly decadent gourmet treat, head to Laura Little’s Candies in Prairie Village (LauraLittleCandy.com), where you can purchase the best chocolate-covered cherries in town.
Pastrami Sandwich Day: Although d’Bronx (dBronxKC.com) is known for their pizza, the delicatessen serves some of the best sandwiches in town, including a hot pastrami sandwich to die for.
JANUARY 24 Peanut
Butter Day: Anyone can make and enjoy a PB&J or classic peanut butter cookie, but what about peanut butter pie? Enjoy one of these tasty confections at the Upper Crust Bakery (UpperCrustPieBakery.com).
JANUARY 15 Strawberry
Ice Cream Day: Sylas & Maddy’s (SylasAndMaddysIceCream.com) offers delicious homemade ice cream in both unique and classic flavors, making it the perfect spot to enjoy delicious strawberry ice cream.
JANUARY 5 National Bird Day: The Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium is home to hundreds of birds from around the world, including penguins, flamingoes, tropical birds and many more. KansasCityZoo.org
JANUARY 28
Blueberry
Pancake Day: The Big Biscuit (BigBiscuit.com) offers one of the biggest homestyle breakfast menus in town, with an entire section devoted just to pancakes.
JANUARY 29 National
Puzzle Day: Springbok Puzzles, a nationally recognized jigsaw puzzle company based in Kansas City, has been creating and selling puzzles since 1963. Visit their website to find the perfect puzzle to assemble on a cold winter’s day. Springbok-Puzzles.com
Snap Grip Luxe
Haven’t quite found the phone grip that suits you? You will love this snap grip from Oh Snap! It’s a stand as well as a grip, and it’s magnetic! And it allows for wireless charge-through. Super sleek and intuitive for holding, it’s also stupid thin—finally, something that doesn’t snag on pockets! It is profoundly functional yet feels like it’s barely there! OhSnap.com
millie + roo
This mom-founded brand has darling pajamas and apparel. My family got matching jammies this year, and we chose a darling snowflake pattern to wear past the holidays! Their organic bamboo is nontoxic, great for sensitive skin and incredibly durable (who else loves hand-me-downs?). Check out their vibrant prints! MillieAndRoo.com
5THINGS WE RIGHT NOW
Good Cook Ceramic Cookware Set
This cookware set is solidly made and beautiful in person! I’m a fan of ceramic cookware—this set isn’t heavy like some and the faux wood handles stay cool. Plus, it features a nontoxic nonstick coating that I appreciate in our effort to make healthier choices in 2025. And did I mention it’s easy to clean? It’s fabulous! Amazon.com
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Factor Five Regenerative Serum
I wasn’t sure what to expect from this product, but was intrigued by the rave reviews. Now that I’ve been using it daily, I love this serum! It’s super hydrating but not at all thick or sticky. I have noticed improvements with fine lines and hyperpigmentation as well as my skin’s hydration, texture and overall appearance. Check it out! FactorFiveSkin.com
In an effort to make smarter choices in the kitchen, I found this ingenious plastic-free, beeswax-lined linen solution for effortlessly preserving bread. It’s got a wide opening and drawstring closure, so it’s more convenient than a traditional wrap. It also allows the bread to breathe while still preventing moisture buildup. Maybe I need one for homemade cookies, too? Keeki.com
“Father, when will it snow?” James never beat around the bush when he had a question.
“What? Why on earth would you want snow? It’s cold, slippery and makes life more difficult, even dangerous. Who wants that?”
James knew I loved snow and all it brings. But this winter had turned into one of the warmest and driest in my recollection. I was as anxious for the moisture as he was.
“I want snow, Father. This is just … yucky.”
“All right, I’ll tell you what. We can’t make it snow, but we can watch the weather forecasts together. I’ll explain anything you don’t understand.”
That evening found us in front of the TV, eyes glued to the weather report. Side by side, we absorbed every bit of the presentation. After a few minutes of intense concentration, the segment was over.
“Are we going to get any snow?”
“Did you hear them say anything about it?”
He shook his head.
“Me neither. We’ll keep watching the weather until it either snows or spring arrives. Deal?”
James brightened. “Deal.”
This became our daily routine. Night after night, we sat down to watch the forecast. Night after night, we went to dinner disappointed in what we’d heard.
James’ exasperation grew. Every bedtime, he asked the same questions: “Why doesn’t it snow? All I want is a few inches. Is that so much to ask?”
“I know what you mean, bub. The trees are drab, the fields are brown, the temperature’s too cold and it absolutely refuses to snow.” I sighed. “Good night, James.”
I didn’t want to raise his hopes, but I’d been watching the radar and seen some storms tracking toward us. Maybe this time the forecasters would be wrong.
The next morning, I woke, glanced out the window, and whooped. “James! Look outside!”
William R. Bartlett lives
Consider these local venues and experiences
Ceramic Cafe
Celebrate your child’s birthday at Ceramic Cafe. All parties are scheduled for one-and-a-half hours, giving you plenty of time to open presents and serve cake and ice cream. Choose from painting pottery, creating with clay or a glass fusion project. Ceramic Cafe birthday parties are creative and fun for any age. Call 913.383.0222 or visit CeramicCafeKC.com for more details. See display ad on pg. 17.
Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium
Let the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium host your child’s next birthday party. We guarantee a wild time for every guest! We are currently
offering birthday party options on weekends. Zoo admission and rides wristbands are available as an add-on. You are welcome to provide your own décor, food and activities. Visit KansasCityZoo.org/birthdays to join us for a celebration like no other! See display ad on pg. 17.
Movies2U
Roll out the red carpet and celebrate that special occasion with a movie! Round up the kids to watch their favorite movie on one of our largerthan-life inflatable screens. Throw in our popcorn machine and the effect will be complete. The kids won’t forget it and you’ll love it as our professional staff takes care of every
detail. One of our four differently sized screens is sure to fit your occasion and budget. See display ad on pg. 17. Movies2U.com
Urban Air Adventure Park
Urban Air Adventure Parks in Lenexa and Overland Park continue to be voted Best Kids’ Birthday Party Place year after year. It’s the perfect place for indoor stress-free birthday parties for all ages. More than just a trampoline park, Urban Air has something for everyone. Let the kids fly through the park on our sky rider, take on our climbing walls or reach new heights on our trampolines. Urban Air. Let ‘em fly. See display ad on pg. 16. UrbanAirLenexa.com, UrbanAirOverlandPark.com
Where fun TAKES FLIGHT!
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I n honor of KC Parent’s 40th anniversary, we take a look at trends in 1985 and in 2025.
Who doesn’t want to feel remarkable on their birthday? Whether you start(ed) at year one or you’re ready to embrace a new tradition, enjoy weaving these ideas into your birthday celebrations!
Epic cake smash!
This is generally associated with the first birthday, and many photographers offer it for one-year milestone pictures. Whether in a photo studio or at home, capture the memories and enjoy the chaos!
Birthday countdown
Whether it’s a paper chain a few days out or an official Advent-style calendar with daily treats, embrace the anticipation of the big day! Consider sticky notes, tiny treats, number blocks or popping balloons … anything that sets the countdown mood!
Speaking of balloons …
Whether you scatter them on the floor or hang them from the rafters, balloons transform any space and are sure to spark a smile when your child awakes! (Keep an eye on kids so the balloons don’t become a suffocation risk.)
Birthday date with Mom and Dad
At home or out, carve out time to share a heart-warming moment over a meal, ice cream or activity. Do whatever suits your fancy—together!
Start with cake!
Why wait until after the birthday dinner?
Start the day with a sweet treat like a favorite candy or cake pops!
Keep a growth chart
Whether you mark up a door frame or save a sheet of butcher paper for annual measurements, this cherished birthday tradition is absolutely worth starting!
Birthday dance party
Blast some favorite tunes and get to wiggling! This activity is sure to get the blood pumping and the smiles stretching from ear to ear!
Enjoy a YES! day
Make your child’s birthday dreams come true by saying “yes” to everything he asks for. Set some budget (and perhaps safety) parameters, and have fun answering in the affirmative all day long!
Birthday parade
Whether you march, drive, bike or boat (depending on the time of year and your kiddo’s age), invite family and friends to join you in a birthday parade, or make visiting them the destination!
Just a second!
Download one of the one-second apps and save snippets of birthday memories. Imagine the montage at her 18th birthday—or even her rehearsal dinner!
Bring out the birthday plate
You can make one at a place like Ceramic Cafe or order something special from Etsy or elsewhere. Reach for this special piece every year to serve up dinner or dessert.
Giant happy birthday yard sign
Create your own or hire your local Sign Gypsies to help you make a no-miss statement on the front lawn! Don’t forget the photo op!
Favorite color
Dress everyone in the family in your kiddo’s favorite color from head to toe! Invite family and friends to join in the favorite fun and make memories together!
Snap an annual photo
Take a picture in the same place (and even in a similar outfit) every year. You can have your child hold up fingers or balloons to indicate his age in each year’s photo.
Birthday compliments
Have everyone in the family share what they love about the birthday kiddo. Make the extra effort to record the messages in writing, video or audio for her to look back on.
Birthday breakfast
Depending on your child’s age and preferences, this may mean breakfast in bed, breakfast with family and friends or breakfast out. Start the day celebrating!
“Happy Birthday” everywhere
Write it on the bathroom mirror; scrawl it on your house or car windows. Use chalk to doodle it on the sidewalk or driveway. Hide “Happy Birthday” notes in his underwear drawer, his backpack, the fridge—anywhere!
Stargazing
Take in the night sky together. Talk about her hopes, dreams and future plans. Help your child recount and remember these ideas in years to come.
Create a birthday banner
If you’re not crafty, you can buy one instead! Whether it’s a banner or a simple sign, find something you can use year after year. The sweet birthday wishes will be etched in your child’s memory as you mark his special day.
Hide dollar bills corresponding to her age
Your kid will be thrilled when she realizes the value of this tradition appreciates as she gets older! Have fun hiding the money and making her earn her age in cash!
Grow something together
Depending on the season of your child’s birthday, consider planting a birthday tree or flower each year. You could even start a succulent or fairy garden that will grow up with him.
Acts of kindness
Does your kid want to be a firefighter? Take cookies to the fire department. Does she have a heart for animals? Donate items or time to an animal shelter. You get the idea—celebrate your child by honoring what she loves.
Set an alarm!
Have you ever celebrated your child at the exact time he entered the world? This could make for make some silly, and potentially sleepless, memories (just like those newborn days)!
Birthday freebies
So many stores and restaurants have great birthday offers! Carve out some time to visit favorite spots for free birthday treats!
Create a birthday playlist
You’ll giggle about the music choices as your child ages. Create a walk down memory lane as they progress from tunes by Miss Pattycake, to Disney soundtracks, to the classics you listened to in your youth!
Scavenger hunt
You can simply hand your child her gifts— or you can create a scavenger hunt filled with personalized clues to make her feel extra special!
Memory lane milestones
Whether you compile the list together or write letters to your child to enjoy at a later date, don’t wait to start this birthday tradition. Note achievements, special memories and important milestones.
Birth story
Recount the day of your child’s birth. The story is uniquely his and he will love knowing it and hearing it shared.
Lunchbox surprise
Use gift wrap for all the lunch and snack items you pack for daycare or school. Make it extra fun by tucking in a non-food surprise as well.
Special delivery
Have a balloon bouquet, flowers or cookies delivered to the door as a special surprise. (Pro tip: You don’t actually have to order anything. You can stash the gift at the front door, ring the doorbell and let your child discover the heartfelt delivery.)
Hang a piñata
No need to wait on company for this! Make or buy a piñata, fill it with items your kid enjoys and let the birthday fun commence! The piñata’s contents may change as your child ages, but the memories will be fun year after year!
Birthday time capsule
Create a list of questions/prompts for your child answer to annually (e.g., What’s a great book you read this year? Your favorite hobby? A birthday wish?) Store the answers in a keepsake box and have your child read them all on her 18th birthday (or another milestone).
Goodnight message
Consider marking birthdays with a special greeting each year! For example, as your child snuggles into bed on his birthday eve, you might say, “Goodnight, threeyear-old!” Then, in the morning, greet him with, “Good morning, four-year-old!”
Paper crowns
Store-bought birthday hats are totally fun, but crafting your own paper hats or crowns out of construction paper is really special!
A family sing-along
This isn’t your average rendition of “Happy Birthday”! Plan for the whole family (including relatives who live far away) to come together on FaceTime or Zoom and sing to the birthday kid.
Birthday investment
Consider setting something aside for your child’s future that will grow in value (whether financial or sentimental).
Birthday dinner
Whether you cook from scratch or venture into a restaurant (or two), let the menu reflect your kid’s favorites! Consider saving the menus from year to year as a record of dishes she’s loved.
A midnight toast
There’s a whole lot of anticipation riding on the big day! Make it special by celebrating the minute it arrives— and by celebrating a little more after that, because who wants to go right back to bed?
Video montage
Compile well wishes, tributes and birthday blessings from friends and family into a video to be enjoyed over and over again for years to come!
Traditions provide a comforting rhythm and foster a sense of safety and security. Once your tradition is woven into your family fabric, it has a powerful impact. Enjoy the memory-making!
Compiled by Lauri Clapper, who now believes her children may have had the most boring birthdays ever to this point in their lives. Thankfully, gestures of love and words of life on other mundane days have kept everyone thriving, as far as she can tell.
Very first issue of KC Parent Magazine in 1985.
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The year 1985 was truly unforgettable—and not just because it marked my high school graduation. That year, George Brett led the KC Royals to their first-ever World Series victory, and KC Parent Magazine was born! The 1980s were a renaissance for magazines, with many specialized titles emerging to cater to niche audiences. Although I wasn’t part of KC Parent in its early days (I was still a student, after all!), the magazine’s founders were focused on helping families raise caring, responsible young people who would grow into self-sufficient adults. Back then, without the internet, finding parenting advice wasn’t as easy as it is now.
Fast-forward to 2005, when my husband and I acquired the magazine. Our shared family values, ambition and deep love for Kansas City drove us to take on the project. A few years earlier, we had launched KC Baby & Maternity from the ground up and were eager to expand our reach in the local community. One of our first changes was to revamp KC Parent Magazine, transforming it into a glossy, magazine-sized format that was easy for busy moms to grab and tuck into their bags.
Over the years, KC Parent has grown to include additional publications, like KC Going Places, while also building a strong digital presence through KCParent.com and social media channels. Our online and print calendar has remained a reader favorite, offering families a reliable resource for discovering local events and activities. It’s been incredibly rewarding to play a part in bringing Kansas City families closer together.
As I look back at what’s changed in KC since my high school graduation, here are some fun highlights:
1. BIG HAIR: In the ’80s, I had big hair and curly bangs! Permanents (ask your mom what those were) were a fixture. Now, sleek and straight is more in, but we’ll never forget the days of teasing and hairspray!
2. PHONES CONNECTED TO THE WALL: Phones were tethered to the wall by a curly cord, and if you wanted privacy, you’d stretch that cord as far as it would go! There were even rotary phones with circular dials and a finger hole for each number. Plus, the whole family shared the same line. Imagine taking turns!
3. RIDING BIKES UNTIL THE STREETLIGHTS CAME ON: Childhood freedom meant hopping on a bike and riding around the neighborhood until the streetlights flickered on. Now, parents track their kids via smartphones!
4. LAYAWAY AT K-MART: If you couldn’t afford that hot item, you’d put it on layaway at K-Mart and make payments until it was yours to pick up. Now, Amazon Prime delivers everything we want in a day or two.
5. CARRYING A BOOM BOX: Have you seen retro movie characters lug massive boom boxes around on their shoulders, blasting favorite tunes? The boom box was real! These days, we just pop in our AirPods and get the same sound from a device that fits in our pocket.
6. WORLDS OF FUN: My two favorite rides at WOF were the Orient Express and the Zambezi Zinger—both incredibly popular in the 1980s. The Zambezi Zinger was closed for 25 years, but in 2023, a reimagined version opened, preserving its legacy for new generations!
7. ANSWERING MACHINES: Back then, if you missed a call, someone had to leave a message on your answering machine’s cassette tape. You’d play it back when you got home— revolutionary at the time!
8. 87TH & METCALF: The iconic mid-century modern structure that marks this intersection remains, but its role has changed. In the ’80s, it was called the King Louie West building and housed bowling alleys and an ice-skating rink. I attended lots of church lock-ins there. Now, it’s the Johnson County Arts and Heritage Center, featuring exhibits, KidScape and the 1950s All-Electric House.
9. ENCYCLOPEDIAS: Research meant flipping through an encyclopedia or being dropped off at the library to search a card catalog (ask a seasoned teacher!). My parents bought one encyclopedia each month and were so proud when we finally had a full set. Now, we have the entirety of human knowledge in our pockets, courtesy of Google.
10. RENTAL MOVIES AT BLOCKBUSTER: There was something magical about browsing the aisles of Blockbuster for the perfect movie night rental. Today, we just scroll through Netflix or Disney+.
11. CASSETTE TAPES AND CDS: I grew up listening to music on cassette tapes, and oh, making a mixtape on a cassette was a labor of love. In the late ’80s, CDs emerged. Now, we create playlists on Spotify with a couple of taps.
12. TAXI RIDES: Hailing a cab was an art. Now, we hop into cars with strangers and trust apps like Uber or Lyft to take us where we need to go.
13. UNION STATION: This historic Kansas City landmark was once our bustling train station, but it closed in 1985. After a major restoration effort, it reopened in 1999 as a vibrant cultural hub and Amtrak station.
14. NO CALLER ID: Picking up the phone used to be a gamble since there was no caller ID. You never knew whether it was your best friend or a telemarketer on the other end.
Susan (Hawke) and Michael Gimotty, owners of KC Parent Magazine, at Stephenson’s Apple Farm Restaurant, circa 1985.
15. SHOPPING MALLS: We shopped at Metro North Mall, Metcalf South and Bannister Mall—I distinctly remember dragging my dad there to buy me leg warmers! All three malls are now gone, replaced by Zona Rosa, Town Center and, of course, online shopping.
16. VCRS: Missing a first-run episode of a favorite show meant waiting months for the rerun to air. The power to set the VCR to record shows or sporting events was liberating— and the device let us watch movies once available only in theaters. In the summer of ’85, watching Back to the Future in a Shawnee living room seemed almost as magical as a DeLorean time machine!
17. PHONE BOOKS: Everyone used to keep a phone book handy to look up businesses’ or friends’ numbers. They made great booster seats at the table, too!
18. ROLLER RINKS: Skating to synthesizer-heavy music under disco lights at Skateland South was in its heyday during the 1980s. I still remember wearing my snazzy red jeans to the rink!
19. PAPER MAPS: We used to unfold huge paper maps to figure out how to get from point A to point B—bonus points if you could refold it to fit back into the glove box! Now, GPS handles all the navigating for us.
20. THE CHIEFS: In 1985, the Chiefs ended the season with a 6–10 record, part of a challenging decade for the team. Today, the Chiefs are celebrating two recent Super Bowl victories and are poised for even more success!
21. WALDO ASTORIA: Every once in a while, my parents took me to this fancy dinner theater in Waldo. I vividly recall seeing Annie there and singing every word of the songs for months afterward, much to everyone’s dismay. Charming venues like this have since been replaced by new theaters.
22. SCHOOL OVERHEAD PROJECTORS: No more chalk dust—teachers wrote on clear plastic sheets they switched out by hand on the projector’s brightly lit glass surface. Of course, overheating was an obstacle. Now, smart boards have taken over classrooms.
23. ARCADES: Going to the local arcade with a pocketful of quarters to play Pac-Man or Centipede was a monthly ritual, and hotels specialized in game rooms—I remember the second we got to a hotel, my brother and I would go check out the arcade.
24. THE CIRCUS: One of my favorite childhood memories was going to the circus at Kemper Arena and sometimes watching the animals being unloaded from the trains. Now, the T-Mobile Center has taken over as the go-to venue for traveling shows.
25. PAY PHONES: You used to have to carry coins and hunt down a pay phone to make a call when you were out. Now, we carry our phones with us everywhere. I was newly married when my father-in-law bought the first “mobile cell phone.” It was housed in a large black case in the back seat of the car and only pulled out for emergencies!
26. THE GLENWOOD ARTS THEATRE: I saw many movies at this beloved theater, known for its 70mm film showings, plush seating and huge screen. Sadly, this treasure near 95th & Metcalf closed in 2000 and was later demolished.
27. KANSAS CITY INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT: In 1985, going to the airport meant strolling a mere 75 feet from the terminal curb to your gate at one of three circular terminals. Since then, KC has become a world-class city with a sleek, single terminal better serving visitors and Kansas Citians alike.
Susan (Hawke) Gimotty with friends at Theatre in the Park in 1985.
28. PUTT-PUTT GOLF: I loved Putt-Putt golf, and Cool Crest with its four courses, beautiful gardens and parrots was incredibly popular in the ’80s. Though new venues like Topgolf have emerged, Cool Crest is one of the few original entertainment complexes still standing.
29. SHOPPING HABITS: Aching feet and an empty gas tank were often the price for finding just the right item. Online shopping is now king. I still remember helping my mom navigate the web in the early days—she got nervous around 5:00, thinking the online shop was about to close for the day!
30. SALAD BARS: In 1985, grazing opportunities at all-you-caneat salad bars were everywhere you looked in KC—from specialty places like Costello’s Greenhouse to fast-food hamburger chains! Our obsession with assorted leafy greens continues, but now most restaurants assemble and serve them as entrees.
31. SHOULDER PADS: I’m talking fashion, not football! You could shop the Jones Store Co. or Fashion Gal for sweaters, blazers, dresses—even T-shirts—sporting hidden padding to create the power shoulder look. I never would have guessed anyone would resurrect this style, but the trend has shown up recently in Hollywood and on the runway.
32. THE PLAZA: In the ’80s, the Plaza was filled with smaller, independently-owned businesses and, oddly enough, a bowling alley where my dad bowled every Monday night! Now, it’s home to national chains, and the bowling alley was demolished in 1998.
33. SEARS CATALOG: The Sears catalog was the ultimate shopping guide, and kids like myself would pore over it for hours. Now, it’s been replaced by e-commerce giants like Amazon.
34. KALEIDOSCOPE: Thanks to Hallmark, Kaleidoscope has been a fixture in Kansas City for decades, and I have fond memories of doing many creative, hands-on activities there. More recently, Kaleidoscope has added immersive exhibits, including kaLIGHToscope and Color Exploration.
35. TYPING CLASS: I loved typing class and the sound of the carriage return whizzing by! Some school papers had to be typed on a typewriter, and if you made a mistake, no delete button could save you—Wite-Out to the rescue! Our daughter was so fascinated with the concept of a typewriter that she asked for one for Christmas. I found one at the thrift store!
36. ICONIC RESTAURANTS: Dining out was a treat in the ’80s, usually reserved for special occasions. Some of our favorites were Stephenson’s Apple Farm Restaurant, Sam Wilson’s (with its amazing salad bar where you could slice your own cheese) and Golden Ox.
37. POPCORN ON THE STOVE: Before microwave popcorn, people made popcorn on the stove. Now, we toss a bag in the microwave, and it’s done in minutes.
38. WALKMAN: The Sony Walkman was every music lover’s best friend, allowing us to listen to cassettes on the go. I remember entering an essay contest in 1985 and winning a Walkman!
39. MCLAIN’S BAKERY: When I was a child, my mom would take me to the original McLain’s Bakery at 74th & Wornall. Now, they’ve expanded to six locations, with the newest one in North Kansas City.
40. COFFEE SHOPS: Forty years ago, coffee shops as we know them today were uncommon. Instead, most people brewed Folgers or used instant coffee at home—the idea of spending money on a specialty coffee was unheard of.
As I look back on the changes since my high school graduation, it’s fun to reflect on how much has evolved. Yet through it all, one thing remains constant: KC Parent Magazine continues to deliver timely, relevant content that connects and supports families across Kansas City, just as it did back in 1985.
Susan Gimotty is a Kansas City native and has so enjoyed being involved with KC Parent Magazine while raising four kids with her husband Michael.
Maria and Darrell Dean at The Nelson. Darrell is KC Parent’s Associate Publisher.
MOMENTS AND MILESTONES: 40 TIMES WITH YOUR CHILD YOU’LL NEVER FORGET
Don’t blink, they say. It goes fast, they say. Well, spoiler alert: they are absolutely right. Moments with our children are fleeting and precious and don’t always get the recognition they deserve. Let’s be real—parenting is an exercise in struggling to keep your head above water for 18 solid years. And then, in a flash, the water recedes and you’re left with incredible memories, wondering how the time went so darn fast.
As KC Parent celebrates its 40th anniversary, we want to recognize 40 moments— firsts, lasts, good, bad and every moment in between—that every parent will treasure. If you’ve experienced these already, take a moment and reflect. If you haven’t, use this list to prepare for the incredible moments on the way!
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Bringing your baby home for the first time and realizing there is no handbook. For any of it.
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The first time she holds her head up unassisted.
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The feeling of his entire hand fitting in your palm.
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The smell of her head after a bath. Seriously, how do we bottle that?
5 The first fever, quickly followed by the first middle-of-the-night vomit cleanup.
6 The wobbly-legged steps that shift into confident strides, seemingly overnight.
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The first time he eats a vegetable— and throws it on the floor.
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The first time she eats a vegetable and doesn’t throw it on the floor because she’s discovered ranch dressing.
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The time you buy his favorite snack in bulk—only to discover his favorite snack has changed completely.
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Her face covered with cake and ice cream on her first birthday and every birthday after.
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Bedtime stories—over and over again.
Sneaking looks at his beautiful face in the rearview mirror.
Risking waking her up by slipping into her room and kissing her one more time.
14 Watching him get on the bus and fighting back tears as he waves goodbye.
15 Asking how her day at school was, being told, “It was boring,” only to see she got to pet an armadillo that day.
16 Christmas morning and all the highs and lows that go with it— including very strong coffee.
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Watching him make a friend without your help.
18 The first time she asks you where babies come from and you completely panic.
19 Hearing about his first confrontation at school and how he handled it.
20 The sound of the first violin/ flute/saxophone lesson. Yikes.
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Applying a Band-Aid wherever it hurts.
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Hearing the words, “I had a bad dream. Can I sleep in your bed?”
23 The rush to get to soccer practice, then karate, then a drive-through dinner.
24 The first time she’s old enough to go to the birthday party without you. WOOOOT!
25 Hearing him sing the wrong words to every single song he knows.
26 The smile that spreads across her face when she sees you in the crowd at her school recital.
27 The first time you have to teach him there are consequences for lying.
28 Watching her jump in rain puddles.
29 The hard realization that it’s time to go up a size (get the tissues out when this happens).
30 Going through photo albums (on your phone because no one prints anything anymore—you are not alone).
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31Chewing your fingernails to the quick as he goes to his first sleepover or overnight camp.
32 Helping her navigate her first fight with a friend.
33 Building a snowman in the front yard, followed by a huge mug of hot chocolate that he’ll only drink two sips of.
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Pretending to be excited when she gets to the next level of whatever online game she’s playing.
35 Camping in the backyard (we’ll forget the backache you get the next day).
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The first time he asks you not to hold his hand in public or call him by his nickname around his friends.
37 Mama Mommy Mom Bro
38 Dada Daddy Dad Yo
39 The first time you have an entire weekend away from her—and you’re OK with it.
40 When you realize it’s all almost over, and you return to this list to remember every moment. s s s s s s
Kim Antisdel is a freelance writer and interior design sales rep for KC. She lives in Liberty with her husband, stepdaughters and son.
MARVELOUS MUSEUMS
Wonderscope Children’s Museum
VISIT ONE OF OUR FAVORITE LOCAL MUSEUMS!
WONDERSCOPE CHILDREN’S MUSEUM
433 E. Red Bridge Rd., KC, Mo. | Wonderscope.org
Wonderscope offers 30,000 square feet of interactive exhibits designed for kids to explore, learn and play. Children can splash around in the WaterWorks area or enjoy the specially designed Tot Spot. The museum encourages hands-on learning through creative play, making it a perfect spot for families with young children.
ALEXANDER MAJORS HOUSE
8201 State Line Rd., KC, Mo | WornallMajors.org
Built in 1856, this historic home belonged to Alexander Majors, one of the founders of the Pony Express. The house offers a glimpse into 19th-century frontier life and Majors’ role in westward expansion and freight transportation. Through a variety of tours and exhibits, visitors can explore Majors’ life and legacy and learn how he shaped American history.
ARABIA STEAMBOAT MUSEUM
400 Grand Blvd., KC, Mo. | 1856.com
This museum showcases the treasures recovered from the Arabia, a steamboat that sank in the Missouri River in 1856. Excavated over a century later, the ship’s artifacts provide a unique glimpse into mid-19th-century life and commerce. The museum’s 25,000-square-foot exhibit space is filled with perfectly preserved items from tools to luxury goods, providing a fascinating look at life on the American frontier.
PONY EXPRESS NATIONAL MUSEUM
914 Penn St., St. Joseph | PonyExpress.org
Located at the starting point of the famous Pony Express founded in 1860, this museum offers a detailed look at riders, the challenges they faced and the mail service’s impact on American history. Interactive displays, artifacts and educational programs bring this short-lived yet iconic piece of American history to life.
KU BIODIVERSITY INSTITUTE AND NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM
1345 Jayhawk Blvd., Lawrence | Biodiversity.KU.edu
Here you’ll find four floors of exhibits showcasing the biodiversity of life on Earth. Nature enthusiasts and science lovers will love exploring the wonders of the natural world through fossil displays, live exhibits and interactive demonstrations.
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LIFE SKILLS EVERY CHILD NEEDS
“Life Skills Every Child Needs” is a seven-part series to help you raise happy and successful kids. Based on the book Mind in the Making by Ellen Galinsky, the series condenses years of research in children’s brain development and learning for your action as a parent or caregiver. Find more profoundly helpful resources at MindInTheMaking.org
Happy and Successful Kids Life Skill 5: CRITICAL
THINKING
Everyday life involves a lot of problem-solving. How do you encourage your children to get along with others? What’s the best way to help them learn to manage their time and select appropriate activities? Should you let your kids play video games, and which ones are off-limits?
Without realizing it, you’re making logical decisions every day, and your kids need to learn how to make sound, logical decisions as well. Not just in their social and emotional lives, but in their reading, their writing and their math and science explorations as well.
In short, the child who knows how to think logically will be a better student who comprehends his or her reading at a higher level, is able to think creatively to solve math and science problems, can communicate clearly and may even score higher on IQ tests.
Critical thinking is a complex skill learned over time. It involves being able to evaluate information for accuracy, interpret information, make predictions and inferences (conclusions based on evidence and reasoning), recognize fact vs. opinion and explain one’s thinking clearly.
So … it’s kind of hard. But there are simple ways to build these logical thinking skills, and you can begin to teach them in easy and fun ways. Here are some skills to work on at home to ensure your child is a strong, clear and logical thinker.
Analyze Analogies
Analogies are comparisons between two different things. They show a relationship between two items. The skill involved requires your child to first identify the relationship and then select words demonstrating that relationship. The use of analogies increases understanding in virtually all areas of learning.
For example: day is to light as night is to _____. To solve this analogy you first see that it is light in the daytime, then supply the opposite concept, dark, to night.
Or, book is to read as song is to ______. One reads a book. What do we do with a song? We sing it.
Analogies can demonstrate a number of relationships such as part to whole, opposites, cause and effect or degree of intensity (cool is to freezing as warm is to ___).
Kids enjoy solving these word puzzles and you might make a family game of solving them. Check out LearningGamesForKids.com for vocabulary games.
Create Categories and Classify Items
Sorting items for like attributes has always been fun for kids. For example, you can sort buttons by color, size, number of holes, shape, etc. You can group animals into size, habitat, pets vs. wild, stripes and no stripes or any other categories you create. And what kid wouldn’t want to sort M&M’s by color? You can go further and help children graph the information in a simple bar graph or pie chart. Classifying items builds both math and language skills and leads the way to simple science explorations. Check out MensaForKids.org for a game focused on classifying animals.
Identify Relevant Information
In the process of problem-solving, it’s crucial to be able to pull out the information that matters. For example, consider the following sentence and the question to be answered: Tom has four quarters and three dimes. He also has a frog in his pocket. How much money does Tom have? Obviously the frog in the pocket is not important in determining the amount of money. But selecting only pertinent information can be very challenging. Go to Study.com and search for “relevant
information” in math. You’ll find videos followed by simple quizzes to practice this important skill.
Test Hypotheses
A hypothesis is an educated guess based on the current information known. Your child needs to be able to consider what is known and predict what might happen next, then test it out to see if the hypothesis was correct. This is an important skill in all of learning.
When your child is reading, ask: “What do you think will happen next?” Then after reading you can evaluate the accuracy of the prediction and determine why it was or wasn’t right. We can learn just as much from an inaccurate hypothesis as from an accurate one.
In math and science it’s important to make logical hypotheses and then go on to test and evaluate them. Go to Study.com and search “how do you develop a hypothesis?”
Distinguish Between Evidence and Interpretations of Evidence (Fact vs. Opinion)
In this day of information overload and cries of “fake news” all around, children must know how to recognize facts from opinions of others. Facts are always true. Opinions are beliefs held by an individual and can vary from person to person. Help your children learn the difference.
Kids benefit from opportunities to practice problem-solving using critical thinking skills. And don’t forget that an oldfashioned conversation around the dinner table is a great time to pose questions that require clear, logical thinking.
Jan Pierce, M.Ed., is a retired teacher and reading specialist. She focuses on education, family life and parenting issues. Find Jan at JanPierce.net.
SETTING intentions IN THE new year
Anew year, a new start. In 2024, 3 in 10 Americans made New Year’s resolutions. However, surveys show that within the first week of January, 23% of those same Americans had given up on their goals, and only 9% reached their ultimate goal by the end of the year. In 2025, try setting positive intentions rather than resolutions that may fizzle out faster than you can say “Happy New Year!”
SET REALISTIC, ATTAINABLE INTENTIONS
The fact that 43% of people gave up on their New Year’s resolutions by February likely indicates they set unrealistic or unreachable goals. When setting your intentions, choose ones that make sense. Goals that are interesting, fun and that you’re motivated to achieve are more likely to end in success.
For example, if you want to read more, make it your goal to read a certain number of books or complete a challenging but interesting book series. “I made a reading goal this year to read my age in books,” says mom of three Stephanie Loux. “It was a fun self-care resolution, which made it easier to reach. It also helped me discuss books with friends.”
If weight loss is a goal, choose a fun way to reach your goal weight. If you despise running, don’t plan to shed pounds on the treadmill. Instead, pick an activity you love and incorporate it into your exercise routine while choosing healthy meal options.
SET MEASURABLE, SPECIFIC INTENTIONS
Many people give up on their resolutions because they don’t know how to gauge when they’ve achieved them. Examples of unmeasurable goals include “Get healthy,” “Become more organized,” or, “Save money.” Instead, be specific when setting intentions. How will you become healthier? Does that include changing your eating habits? Incorporating exercise? What types of exercise, and how often? Goals such as, “Read one book a month,” or, “Save x dollars for family vacation” are specific and measurable. This way, you’ll know exactly when to celebrate your success.
REWARD YOURSELF
Speaking of celebrating, don’t forget to set rewards for yourself. For example: “If I lose 15 pounds, I will buy three new outfits”; or, for your child, “If you raise your grade in science class from a B to an A, you can pick out a special toy.” Pick a reward that is enough to motivate you or your child to follow through when things get challenging.
DON’T OVERDO IT
Many people set themselves up for failure by setting too many unattainable goals. When creating your intentions for the year, make a list of all the areas you would like to work on, then narrow it down to improvements that are realistic, measurable and come with a reward. Prioritize and categorize your goals. Can you consolidate any? Which ones are you most excited about? Do you see a theme? Revise your list and be as specific as possible to give yourself the best chance of success. If you have several objectives, keep your list handy so that
Many people give up on their resolutions because they don’t know how to gauge when they’ve achieved them.
once you achieve a goal, you can move on to the next one. “I find that setting goals for shorter terms, say three months, is easier to stick to than a yearlong endeavor,” says Kelly Lawton of Olathe. “It allows me to reevaluate my progress and reset or restart as I need without the guilt.”
As you set your intentions for the year, keep them positive. Give yourself permission to create intentions that are fun rather than a punishment or a chore. When we create goals that are actually obtainable and set rewards for ourselves, we are much more likely to be successful.
REFRAME YOUR RESOLUTIONS AS INTENTIONS
Most resolutions are never reached. This year, try reframing your goals as intentions and making them more attainable and realistic.
RESOLUTION: Lose weight.
INTENTION: Develop a healthier lifestyle by eating healthier and exercising regularly. Focus on how you feel rather than the scale.
RESOLUTION: Save money.
INTENTION: Determine what you are saving for (college, vacation, paying off debt, etc.); create a budget and stick to it; buy used when possible; spend less.
RESOLUTION: Spend more time with friends and family.
INTENTION: Host get-togethers for friends; plan regular family game nights. Put these events on the calendar and ask someone to help you plan them so you aren’t doing it alone.
RESOLUTION: Get organized.
INTENTION: Define which area feels the most disorganized and focus on that first. Tackle one area at a time. Use organizational tools that are realistic and will work for you long-term.
Sarah Lyons is a part-time freelance writer and full-time mom of six living in the Midwest.
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Find a G reat Preschool!
Early education lays the foundation to help kids make a smooth transition from infancy into the school years. Research has found that kids who attend preschool programs are better prepared for kindergarten. Are you searching for the right early learning program? Follow these tips to help you find the right preschool for your child.
Start Your Search Early
Many schools have a waitlist, so it’s important to start the preschool search months before your child is ready to enroll. Researching preschools can be a lengthy process, so start early. Some communities offer early education fairs, and many preschools hold open houses. Take advantage of these events to help make your decision early. The earlier you decide on a school, the more likely you will be able to secure a spot
for your child when he reaches enrollment age. Never assume you are starting your search too early. I joined a waitlist for a childcare facility when I was pregnant and didn’t receive a phone call about an open spot until my daughter was 3 years old.
Referrals
Talk to your friends, family and neighbors about what preschools they chose for their children and why. Ask about their
experiences and what the pros and cons were of the school. Referrals will give you an idea of what schools you might want to tour and learn more about. You can also read reviews about schools online, but don’t rely solely on online reviews to make your decision.
Meet the Teachers
You will usually meet with the preschool director when taking a tour. However, the teachers are who your children will be spending most of their time with. Studies show that teachers with higher education usually translate to higher levels of care. Search out teachers who have formal training, such as a college degree in child development, early childhood education or a related field. You will also want to see whether the teacher is positive and in good
spirits with the students. Ask whether you can sit in on a classroom. Is the teacher interactive and engaging? Does she use positive discipline? Is the classroom under control? And most importantly, are the children learning and having fun? It’s also important to look at the staff turnover rate. Constant staff changes can be distracting to your child’s learning environment. Every school has minimums regarding teacher to child ratios. Does the school meet the minimums?
Full Time or Part Time?
A big decision when selecting a preschool is whether your child is ready for a full day of school or would do better in a part-time program. According to a study by the Journal of the American Medical Association, children are better prepared for learning and social interaction in full-time preschool than in part-time programs. However, every child is different. Not all children will be prepared to start a full-time program. For example, a child who has never been in childcare outside of her home might not feel as comfortable spending an entire day away from her parents, and a child who takes a two-hour nap every day might be better suited for a half-day program so he can get home in time to rest. Many children start part-time preschool at the age of 3 and transition to full-time preschool when they turn 4.
Ask About Philosophy
Kimberly Cordonnier, children’s program director at UCP of Northwest Missouri and mother of two from St. Joseph, says parents should make sure the philosophy of the school aligns with what they value in their child’s early education. For example, some programs focus mainly on academics while others incorporate social skills along with academics.
Cordonnier says there are two different types of learning structures in the preschool setting. Teacher-led structure is more academic based. “The teacher is the one deciding what to teach young children and what experiences they should have,” she says. “Classroom time is devoted to learning letters and sounds, distinguishing shapes and colors, telling time and other
Preschool programs for young children are becoming more and more common. According to the National Center for Education Statistics, 68 percent of 4-year-olds and 40 percent of 3-yearolds were enrolled in a preschool program in 2017. However, the National Institute of Child Health and Development (NICHD) found that fewer than 10 percent of the facilities it surveyed fall in the “very high quality” category.
skills. The teacher seems to follow a thematic curriculum that involves drills and practice. The focus seems to be more on memorization and not focused on developing the whole child.”
Child-led learning is more play-based. Teachers observe the children’s interests and choose topics that align with those interests. “Teachers are able to introduce social emotional skills along with academic concepts that include hands-on experiences based on the children’s interests,”
Cordonnier says. “Child-led activities are more meaningful to young children, and more learning is taking place. Child-led activities allow children to be creative and work on their problem-solving skills.”
Read the Handbook
Before you enroll your child, make sure you read the entire parent handbook. Ensure the school’s hours, holiday schedule, tuition rates, vacation and other policies work for you and your family. Typically, schools have other fees that aren’t included in the tuition, such as registration fees, supply fees, technology fees, fees for field trips and daily
snacks. Calculate all costs involved before signing the agreement. Some schools also have annual tuition increases, so keep that in mind as well.
Trust Your Gut
A parent’s intuition is usually right, so trust your gut instincts. If the classroom looks fun and joyful while you’re taking a tour, and the children seem engaged and excited, that’s a good sign. If you and your child feel comfortable and have a good first impression of the school and its staff, you may have found the right preschool. If something doesn’t seem right, ask more questions and address any concerns you might have. Feel free to make an unexpected visit to see how the preschool runs outside of visiting hours. The most important thing is to find a place where your child loves to come learn every day.
Regan Lyons is a girl mom and freelance writer. She lives with her husband, Cale, and daughters, Atley, 7, and Ensley, 1, in St. Joseph.
A SOUP SOIRÉE
BRINGING CONNECTION TO THE BODY AND SOUL
One of the most vivid and comforting images from my childhood is simple white Corningware bowls of piping hot tomato soup with a dollop of vanilla ice cream on top (yes, back when ice cream was made with real cream and frozen like a dollop of whipped cream) and a Wonder Bread grilled cheese on the side. Whether it was a Sunday night spent watching America’s Funniest Home Videos or a midweek family dinner on a cool autumn day, soup was a staple in my tiny Cape Cod home. Maybe that’s the reason for my current-day obsession with Le Creuset Dutch ovens, vintage Wedgewood table linens and thrifted Lodge cookware. It connects me to the days when homemade
chicken noodle soup nursed me back to health; when spicy chili and cornbread warmed me after countless hours spent making a snowman. The nostalgia of soup, as simple or as complex as it can be, is a universal language of epicureans around the globe. No matter our political views or cultural differences, we can find common ground around the table with enamelware pots of soup. Exquisite combinations of vegetables, meat, fish, spices and homemade broths accompanied by crusty rye or sourdough bread truly feed the soul. In a world of canned, boxed and fast-food fare, I’ve observed that more and more of us crave nourishing foods, wholesome conversations and real connection. Like the canned soup options
on grocery store shelves, our relationships have started to feel diluted. This digital age that so easily connects us to foodie influencers and online recipe indexes can also leave us disconnected.
We need one another deeply, and we need nourishing food on the table, eaten together. I grew up in a home where we entertained for the holidays multiple times a year, cooking was part of daily life, and we always had family dinners. Over the past few years, I have been intentional to reconnect not only with whole foods, but also with whole relationships. While preparing to entertain my friends, I have found working with my hands to be therapeutic and healing for me, as well as good for those who gather to share the meal.
Recently, while searching for new ways to revive relationships that have quieted over the years, I stumbled upon the idea of having a soup soirée. Cold fall and winter nights are the perfect time to explore new combinations of harvested veggies, dried herbs and farmers market goodies. I posted on social media asking if anyone was interested in a golden hour soirée. The only stipulation was that you had to bring your favorite soup and all the toppings that go with it. We would vote on our favorite, and the winner would go home maybe
holding her head a little higher, believing in her ability to combine fabulous flavors, re-create nostalgia and know her food touched others.
I was a tad nervous when the big day arrived, but really, the most significant decision of the day was where to place all the beautiful enamel soup pots, ladles, wooden spoons and sliced sourdough. Equipped with pumpkin-themed bowls I found on Amazon, mid-century modern spoons from World Market and my thrifted Wedgewood linen napkins, we gathered
on my back deck by the fire pellet stove. There we lined up and labeled each Dutch oven and slow cooker alongside their accompanying fixings. We introduced ourselves and our soups, shared what we were most thankful for over the past year and offered up thanks to the Lord for His goodness.
Together, we sampled each divine soup, smeared grass-fed butter on crusty bread and grazed on apple pasties and rosemary lemon shortbread. Afterward, we snuggled under plaid wool stadium blankets and cast our votes for our favorite soup. The winner was a dreamy butternut squash delight, and the cook was presented with the prize of an engraved golden ladle.
We then filled our to-go containers with our favorite leftovers and chatted until golden hour faded and the fire quieted. It was one of the greatest highlights of 2024 and an event that will become a staple in my life year after year.
Elizabeth Hammond is a sourdough-baking, homeschooling mom of six and a wannabe homesteader living in a tiny cottage in northern Overland Park.
Helping Kids Navigate Anxiety
Anxiety is a feeling of unease or nervousness that often goes along with an upcoming event or something with an uncertain outcome. This feeling typically comes with physical signs such as increased heart rate or muscle tension, according to Merriam-Webster. It is normal for children to have occasional feelings of anxiety when they face something new or have to confront their fears. Just as adults do, kids experience periods of sadness, nervous feelings and hopelessness during childhood. As parents, we can support our kids while they have these episodes and give them tools to work through the difficult feelings.
Many parents question how to discern between their kids’ feelings of anxiousness stemming from typical developmental challenges and unmanageable anxiety that calls for professional help. For example, it is common for babies 7–9 months old to have anxiety about strangers. It is common for preschool-age kids to be afraid of the dark, monsters and insects. School-age kids often have anxious feelings about school and friends. These feelings are expected for kids and part of their learning to manage the world around them. When these fears begin to interrupt children’s ability to learn, interact with peers, sleep at night or function normally in daily life, your child may be dealing with an anxiety disorder, according to VeryWellMind.com.
“We sought professional help when anxiety caused self-harm or destructive behaviors,” says Courtney DeBok, a Paola, Kan., mom of six. “Continued talks about what’s causing the anxiety help, but sometimes the child can’t identify what they are anxious about. This is also another reason it’s helpful to include a professional.”
Anxiety can appear at any age, but children experience these feelings much differently than adults. True anxiety can cause anger and aggression, bedwetting, changes in appetite, insomnia, fatigue, trouble focusing, irritability, muscle tension, nervous habits such as nail biting, restlessness, headaches or stomachaches in children. Anxious feelings can cause children to refuse to go to school or other activities or make them want to avoid
situations. The Centers for Disease Control Prevention (CDC) says that “7.1% of children aged 3-17 years (approximately 4.4 million) have diagnosed anxiety.” If your child is struggling with anxiety, the statistics show he or she is not alone.
Feelings of anxiousness protect us from dangerous situations and warn us when to avoid things that may put us at risk. This is the positive side of anxious feelings. However, an anxiety disorder can be debilitating and cause us to make decisions that are no longer protecting us.
Anxiety in children can be difficult to identify because it can appear to be a child’s acting out or behaving strangely rather than clearly revealing an underlying concern. For example, if your child is having anxiety about school, she may refuse to go, or may complain about a stomachache and ask to see the nurse to get out of class. He may act out and distract his peers. If you feel that your child’s behavior stems from his anxiousness about a situation, try to understand the root of the problem. “We ask questions that get them to discover the root of the worry themselves,” says an Olathe mom of three. She suggests asking kids what they are most of afraid of happening in a given situation. This will help them determine the root of the problem. “If they don’t know what scares them, we walk through a possible scenario of the whole event and stop when they get to the scary part, so we can further discuss it,” she says.
Darcy King, an Olathe mom of two, says, “We use a lot of grounding techniques. For example, name five things you see, five things you hear, five things you feel. We also use deep breathing and progressive muscle relaxation videos that can be found on YouTube.” Olathe mom of three Amy Cameron says, “I finally asked my kids if they felt like talking to a therapist, and I was surprised how well they were able to articulate what they were going through. It helped a lot.”
No one will argue against the fact that anxious feelings are normal on occasion for both kids and adults. When these feelings interfere with schoolwork, activities or relationships, disrupt the entire family or
become unmanageable, it may be time to seek professional help. If your child is threatening to hurt herself or others or if the behavior feels scary or out of control, see a professional right away. A therapist will be able to give you and your child tools to manage the anxiety in a healthy way and identify the root of the problem. All these steps will help anxiety become manageable and leave your child feeling healthier and happier.
TIPS TO TAME ANXIETY
• Name the worry and talk about it.
• Determine the symptoms of anxiety so you are aware of it right away.
• Determine the triggers and the root of the problem.
• Listen to your child’s fears without brushing them off.
• Walk through what could happen and come up with solutions.
• Write down the fears then throw them away.
• Encourage your child to journal about his feelings.
• Let them know it’s normal—every child experiences nervous feelings.
• Give her a hug. Have her hug a stuffed animal or snuggle up with a stuffed animal or pet.
• Have your child take a bath or splash water on his face.
• Do a grounding activity like the five senses game. Name one thing you can see, hear, smell, taste and feel.
• Practice deep breathing and muscle relaxation techniques.
• Listen to music or sing a song.
• Utilize a fidget toy or stress ball.
• Get moving—exercise or go for a walk.
• Be patient and remain a calming presence for your child.
Sarah Lyons is a mom of six children, including 7-year-old triplets. She lives in Olathe with her family.
Sources: Definition of Anxiety, Merriam-Webster; “Children with Anxiety: Symptoms and How to Help,” VeryWellMind.com
Q-tip Snowflakes
Looking for a fun indoor activity to do while it’s cold outside? This cute little craft is perfect for small and large hands alike! Add a simple twist by using the Q-tips to practice math skills like counting, adding, subtracting or even multiplication and division!
SUPPLIES:
• Q-tips
• Construction paper
• Glue
• Scissors
DIRECTIONS:
Step one: Pick out a piece of construction paper.
Step two: Count out 20 (or more) Q-tips. This is a great opportunity to practice any of the math skills mentioned above.
Step three: Use the glue to make a snowflake design on the construction paper.
Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, Kansas, with her husband, three children (1, 3 and 5) and two senior dogs. Janelle is a homeschooling mom who enjoys writing in her spare time. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.
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31 DAYS OF FUN
BY MARGARET SARVER
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Don’t let the short days get you down! Below are fun ideas for every day in January.
Happy New Year! Play a new card or board game with the family.
Start a journal. Have each family member write down three things they are grateful for. Take down decorations. Enlist the family’s help to take down all of the holiday decorations. Be sure to organize as you put away.
Make a hot cocoa bar. Make hot chocolate and let everyone add in extras. Ideas include marshmallows, whipped cream, candies and more.
Feed the birds! Spread nut butter on a pinecone and roll in bird seed. Attach yarn and hang from a tree.
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Tell a joke. Challenge the family to each tell their best joke and then vote on the funniest.
Go for a walk! It’s tempting to stay inside where it’s warm, but bundle up and take a stroll around the block.
Go swimming! Many rec and community centers have an indoor pool. Spend the day splashing and you’ll forget about the cold.
Enjoy a dance party! Take turns choosing songs and get up and dance along to the beat.
Have a pizza night! Make your own at home or pick one up! Try one from a new restaurant and discover a new fave.
Visit a local library. Most have daily programs or special events. While there, find a new title to enjoy. Write a note. Choose a few people like neighbors, teachers or friends and write them a note “just because.” It will brighten someone’s day.
Stay in your PJs. Clear the calendar and spend the day in jammies. Pop in a movie and spend a relaxing day with the family.
Have an indoor picnic. Spread out a blanket and pack yummy foods. Bonus: no insects!
Get creative. Buy a canvas for everyone, get out some paints and let those creative juices flow. Explore someplace new. Find somewhere you haven’t been and check it out. Need inspiration? Visit KCGoingPlaces.com.
Set up a yogurt bar. For a fun after-school snack idea, give kids a bowl of yogurt and set out toppings like granola, coconut, fruit and more.
Pop popcorn. It’s National Popcorn Day. Pop up a batch and get creative by adding toppings.
Go on a neighborhood scavenger hunt. Make a list and head out to look for things like an icicle, smoke from a chimney, a bird, etc.
De-clutter. Choose one junk drawer and dump it out. Ask kids to take what is theirs, keep what you need and pitch the rest.
Have a snowball fight. No snow? No problem. Give everyone a box of tissues, wad them up and launch away! When finished, collect tissues to use as packing material.
Make a list. Summer will be here before we know it. Start your family’s summer bucket list and dream of warmer days.
Learn a magic trick. Have everyone learn one magic trick and then put on a show for each other. Volunteer at a food bank. There is always a need. Check out Harvesters.org for opportunities to help all year long. Play a word game. Find a crossword puzzle or seek and find (or print one up) and solve as a family. Play family trivia. Have everyone write down five family trivia questions and then gather together for a trivia contest. 13 17 25
Do a puzzle. Dust off a puzzle that you’ve been meaning to start and get everyone together for a puzzle night.
Give a compliment. Challenge each family member to give three compliments throughout the day. Discuss results at dinner.
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Count change. Empty out the piggy bank or change drawer and add up how much you’ve saved. Take some of the change and get an ice cream treat.
Snack for dinner. My kids love a small bites meal. Make everyone’s favorite appetizers and create a fun dinner buffet.
Grow a plant. Buy a pot, soil and some seeds and plant an indoor plant. Take turns watering and watch it grow!
SleddingIN KANSAS CITY
CELEBRATE YOUR SNOW DAY AT A PRIME SLEDDING SPOT.
Brookside Park
Brookside Park, 200 E. 57th St., Kansas City, Mo.—This beloved park boasts Kansas City’s most famous sledding hill. Formerly nicknamed “Suicide Hill” and now more commonly called “Brookside Hill,” this slope has thrilled generations of sledders. The steep, wide incline provides ample space for winter fun. The park also contains gentler slopes that are perfect for younger children.
Westwood Park, 47th St. & Wyoming
St., Kansas City, Mo.—Locals frequent Westwood Park’s playground and baseball diamond during the warmer months, but the place truly comes alive in winter. The park contains a sledding hill that’s a timeless favorite for many Kansas Citians, but isn’t as daunting as Brookside Hill. While you’re there, make sure to snap a picture by the park’s iconic giant chair.
Keystone Park, 2214 SW Keystone
Dr., Blue Springs—According to the City of Blue Springs, Keystone Park is “the place to be when it snows!” Adults and children alike will love zipping down the town’s biggest sledding hill. The terrain includes both slight and steep slopes, ensuring a good time for all ages.
Stump Park, 4751 Woodland
Dr., Shawnee—In addition to its playground and sports fields, Stump Park has two hills that are ideal for sledding. Younger kids will have a blast on the smaller incline while older ones speed down the larger slope. You may encounter a few bumps, but there is plenty of room to avoid collisions.
Wyandotte County Lake Park, Leavenworth Rd. & N. 91st St., Kansas City, Kan.—Whether you prefer steep grades or gentle hills, you’ll have plenty of sledding areas to pick from at Wyandotte’s beautiful park. The 1,500-acre landscape offers abundant room for sledding, making snow angels and enjoying snowball fights. You can also let your dogs play in the off-leash area.
Anna Hiestand resides in Blue Springs with her family. She has a passion for writing, art and cinema.
snowflake slime
Being indoors doesn’t have to be boring this winter! Have some fun with this easy snowflake slime!
Step one: With clean and dry hands, pour glue into a large bowl.
Step two: Add baking soda. Mix completely in.
Step three: Add contact lens solution. Mix completely in.
Step four: Take slime out of bowl and mix on a clean and dry surface. If the slime is sticky, add more contact lens solution a few drops at a time.
Step five: Store in plastic ziplock bag.
Janelle Cumro-Sultzer lives in Manhattan, Kan., with her husband, three children (2, 4 and 6) and two senior dogs. Janelle is a homeschooling mom who enjoys writing in her spare time. Janelle loves to focus on learning through play and getting messy with crafts.
Materials Needed:
• 6 oz. glitter glue (any color)
• 1/2 T. baking soda
• 1-1/4 T. contact lens solution
• Large bowl
• Spatula
• Measuring spoons
• Plastic ziplock bag
WAYS TO BEAT THE WINTER DOLDRUMS— KC STYLE!
Go for a nature walk. Bundle up and hit a local trail, nature center or botanical garden such as Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens, Burr Oak Woods Conservation Area or Lakeside Nature Center. Research paw prints and scat, then go on the hunt to see which critters took a walk in the same spot before you. Or spice things up by going geocaching or doing a nighttime walk with glow sticks and flashlights.
Explore the Money Museum. Learn about the operations of the Federal Reserve Bank and its importance to the U.S. economy at the free Money Museum. See one of the nation’s largest cash vaults, browse coin collections from various presidential administrations and take home a bag of shredded money as a souvenir!
Visit the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. With smaller crowds and playful animals, winter is a great time to explore the zoo. Enjoy indoor attractions like the Sobela Ocean Aquarium, Polar Bear Passage, Helzberg Penguin Plaza and the Discovery Barn.
Go to Science City. Little ones can enjoy the water play table, sensory play areas and infant/toddler-friendly exhibits. Older kids will love exploring the three massive floors of interactive exhibits. Plus, their outdoor play structure is great for burning off excess energy.
Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium
Treat the family to a movie. Thirty minutes before showtime, head to B&B Theatres in Lee’s Summit, Liberty, Shawnee or Overland Park for screenPLAY!, where kids can climb on an indoor play structure and catch a flick in the colorful movie room.
Take a day trip. Break up the winter blues by heading south for the day. Wonders of Wildlife in Springfield, Mo., has breathtaking exhibits showcasing the history of the Ozark region, Native American heritage, the Lewis and Clark expedition and wildlife from around the world.
Enjoy all things trains. Head to Fritz’s Railroad Restaurant to place your order through the old-fashioned telephone and have your food delivered by a toy train. While you’re downtown, be sure to visit the free Model Train Gallery at Union Station, where kids will love watching the trains zoom through the 8,000-square-foot exhibit.
Splash around at Lenexa Rec Center. This indoor pool delights all ages with its toddler play structure, spray features, lazy river and two 40-foot-tall indoor slides. Not a Lenexa resident? You can purchase a day pass to the pool or discounted Splash With Me passes for tots.
Marvel at art. The Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art is perfect outing on a cold winter day. Grab a scavenger hunt guide at the front desk to navigate the award-winning exhibits. Kids can also take art classes or explore the outdoor Kansas City Sculpture Park, including the iconic shuttlecocks, which look magical in the winter snow.
Rediscover your favorite childhood books. Explore The Rabbit hOle, KC’s newest children’s attraction. Located in North Kansas City, this immersive museum features 14 exhibits based on classic children’s books, such as Caps for Sale, Madeline, Goodnight Moon and more. They also host unique author and illustrator events and regular story hours.
Sip coffee. Grab a friend and visit Family Tree Nursery’s Café Equinox in Shawnee or Overland Park, where blooming plants, koi ponds and magical fairy gardens will brighten a winter day. Plus, the nursery hosts fun seasonal workshops to spark your creativity and beat those winter blahs.
Take a sleigh ride. The Oregon, California and Santa Fe trails played an integral part in shaping Kansas City. Visit the National Frontier Trails Museum to participate in interactive exhibits as you learn about Western expansion. The Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm features tours of the historic farm home and Santa Fe Trail stagecoach stop, as well as actual stagecoach rides.
Explore underwater wonders and millions of Lego bricks. View over 5,000 sea creatures, including majestic sharks, graceful stingrays and colorful tropical fish, at Sea Life Kansas City. Or go next door to Legoland Discovery Center and enjoy the ultimate indoor Lego playground with rides, build and play zones and a 4D cinema. You can also buy a combo ticket for both attractions!
Pet furry friends. Stop by a local pet store to meet some animals. Visit Pet Stop in Shawnee to interact with Frankie, the Capuchin monkey (our favorite)! Or visit a pet adoption center like Wayside Waifs
Spin on the ice. Enjoy Crown Center Ice Terrace and The Rink at Zona Rosa. Both are typically open daily for public ice-skating, special events and more. For more local rinks and wintery outdoor fun, search Winter Sports on KCParent.com.
Allie Cole, a Kansas City native, lives in Lenexa with her husband and two girls. She enjoys exploring Kansas City, and as her daughter puts it, she loves doing a hundred fun things every place she goes!
Science City
Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm
COMFORT FOODS ON COLD DAYS
When the wind blows and you want a warm, easy meal with homemade flavor plus an extra serving of veggies, find yourself some Zoup! and enjoy.
BUTTERNUT SQUASH MACARONI AND CHEESE
This three-ingredient mac and cheese is sure to become a new weeknight favorite! Just melt cheddar cheese into Zoup! Good, Really Good® Butternut Squash Soup, mix with cooked macaroni noodles, sprinkle with more cheese and bake until cheese is melted.
COOK TIME: 30 minutes
SERVINGS: 4
INGREDIENTS
1/2 lb. macaroni noodles
1 jar Zoup! Good Really Good® Butternut Squash Soup 1/2 c. shredded cheddar cheese
INSTRUCTIONS
1. In a large pot, boil water and prepare macaroni noodles according to package instructions.
2. In a second large pot, heat Zoup! Good, Really Good® Butternut Squash Soup until it begins to boil. Reduce heat to a simmer and stir in half of shredded cheddar cheese until melted and well combined.
3. Once the pasta is ready, stir into the Butternut Squash Soup and cheese mixture.
4. Preheat oven to 400°. Lightly grease a casserole dish, then place the macaroni mixture into dish. Sprinkle with remaining cheese and bake for 5–10 minutes or until cheese is melted and golden.
5. Serve and enjoy!
Recipes courtesy of Zoupbroth.com
EASY CHICKEN POT PIE
Introducing the easiest chicken pot pie recipe there is! All you need is a jar of Zoup! Good Really Good® Chicken Potpie Soup and some Pillsbury Crescent Rolls.
COOK TIME: 30 minutes
SERVINGS: 6
INGREDIENTS
1 can Pillsbury Cresent Rolls
1 jar Zoup! Good Really Good® Chicken Potpie Soup
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Preheat oven to 375°.
2. Grease 4 small ramekins and set aside. Cut a small circle of Pillsbury Crescent Roll dough to place into each ramekin.
3. Bake for 10 minutes. While dough is baking, cut small strips of dough for the top of your pies.
4. Remove ramekins and fill with Zoup! Good, Really Good® Chicken Potpie Soup. Top ramekins with dough strips and place back into oven for 10 minutes or until pies have reached your desired brownness.
5. Serve and enjoy!
TOMATO BISQUE PASTA BAKE
This easy Tomato Bisque Pasta Bake with spinach and mushrooms comes together in 30 minutes for an easy dinner the whole family will love!
COOK TIME: 30 minutes SERVINGS: 4
INGREDIENTS
2 jars of Zoup! Good Really Good® Tomato Bisque
8 oz. dry rigatoni pasta (approximately half a box)
2 c. spinach
1 c. sliced mushrooms
1 c. shredded mozzarella
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Preheat oven to 350° and lightly grease a casserole dish.
2. In a large pot, heat Zoup! Good, Really Good® Tomato Bisque until it comes to a boil.
3. Add pasta and cook for 14 minutes, stirring occasionally so the pasta does not stick to the pot and is cooked evenly.
4. Turn off the heat and mix in spinach and mushrooms. Pour pasta mixture into casserole dish.
5. Sprinkle with mozzarella cheese. Bake for 20 minutes.
6. Serve and enjoy!
inside and inspired: creative fun for everyone
Let yourself think outside the box, but if you are just tapped out, ask your kids what ideas they have.
Ilove that we have seasons in Kansas City, but I have to admit, I am not a fan of winter. Besides the cold and sloppy snow, I don’t enjoy being stuck inside ... but I also don’t love going out in it either! What I do love is figuring out ways to keep everyone sane in our house when we are all together day in and day out. Read on for some new ways to beat the winter blahs and keep your sanity too!
Sensory Play
Sensory play is an important part of child development, as it encourages free exploration and open-ended creativity, piques curiosity and engages fine and gross motor skills. Some ideas may include:
Play-Doh – Use cookie cutters, blunt scissors, rolling pins and other small tools for play.
Finger painting – You can use more than paint for this activity! If you have a little one in a high chair, put out pudding or applesauce to let him “paint” with. Don’t forget to take off clothing first, though!
Bowl of soapy water – I used to spread towels out on the floor with bowls of various sizes, and our children would be entertained for ages! Give them some straws for blowing and measuring spoons or cups for scooping and you’re good to go!
Moon sand - My children used to call this “fluffy stuff.” Mix 5 cups of flour with 1 cup of baby oil. We put ours into a Tupperware container with a tight fitting lid so we could use it multiple times.
Baking soda/vinegar – One of our favorites is using eye droppers to drip colorful vinegar (just use food coloring) onto a thick layer of baking soda in a pan. Watch it bubble up over and over again. Make little paths or tiny volcanoes with your fingers. Endless entertainment here!
Water beads – Very inexpensive sensory item, but make sure to soak them in water for a while ahead of time. (Soak time depends on how big you want the beads.)
Muffin tin – Fill with rice, sugar, salt, sand, oats, quinoa ... the possibilities are endless!
Snow – Bring a bowl of snow in for indoor play ... and maybe try making snow ice cream! Just make sure you scoop from a pile of nice, clean snow!
Arts/Crafts
Start stocking supplies now! Gather items from the dollar store or recycling or grab some goodies on sale at Michaels, Joanns or Hobby Lobby.
Boxes – Don’t just throw these out for recycling! Let your kids decorate with crayons or markers or design a car, spaceship or other amazing item out of them.
Paint – Use watercolors, tempera paint, paint sticks or bingo daubers for painting but switch up painting utensils. Maybe try cotton balls, Q-tips, sponges or even forks!
Beads – Do a bead swap with a friend to expand your selection, buy some small corded elastic and make jewelry or keychains.
Cards – Make cards for retirement homes, police or fire stations or to mail to grandparents.
Recycling – Save a tub of random recycling items for the week and let your children invent or create whatever they want.
Building
Building can take many different forms. Whether your child is using small blocks, Magna-Tiles, food or furniture, constructing things fosters creativity, hand/ eye coordination and motor skills.
Toothpicks and marshmallows –Sneak in a little learning by asking your children to build a few specific shapes or letters, then let their imaginations lead the way.
Obstacle course – Use simple household items and furniture to turn your living room or basement into an obstacle course of crawling, climbing, jumping and more. Put on some fun music and burn off that energy!
Magna-Tiles – These are a great investment item for play and building. Use them on the floor, the table, your front door (if it’s steel) or on the fridge!
Forts – Turn the couch cushions into a fort or use some chairs and a blanket. If you are feeling like a really cool parent, have a picnic or bowl of popcorn while you’re in there!
Field Trips
Why, you ask? Because there are only so many things you can do in your house before everyone needs a little change of scenery! Bundle up and pick somewhere each week or two to visit!
Scheels – It’s free to look at the fish and toys, but bring some dollar bills for bowling and, if you’re feeling brave, riding the Ferris wheel.
Library – We have so many wonderfully updated libraries throughout the metro you can visit for new books and movies to help beat the winter blahs!
Target/U.S. Toy – Looking at toys is always free and fun for your kids—as long as you can resist the whines and pleas to buy something!
Car wash – Bonus that you don’t even have to get out of the car for this one!
Jumperoo at Urban Air – Fridays from 9:00–noon and Saturdays from 8:00–10:00.
Crown Center – Hit up the free children’s exhibit, then lunch at Fritz’s.
Indoor pool – Many of the community centers have open swim times, so check their websites for hours, fees and age requirements.
Backyard Specialists – Located in Olathe, they offer open play on Tuesdays and Fridays for just $2.
Check out any of the numerous nature centers and art museums KC has too!
Other ideas
Sarah Allee, a Kansas City mom of five, shares some of her go-to ideas for beating the winter blahs. “An extra bath time during the day with a bowl of ice cubes or bubbles, an indoor Easter egg hunt, glow stick dance party, dressing up to act out a favorite story or movie are all things we like to try to keep us busy during the winter. For older kids, hide 10 buttons in a room for them to find. Keeps them entertained for a while!” Other ideas might include an impromptu movie in the middle of the morning, baking muffins or mixing up Rice Krispie treats or cookies and having an indoor lunch picnic. Let yourself think outside the box, but if you are just tapped out, ask your kids what ideas they have. Who knows? They could surprise you with an amazing brainstorm you might just go for!
Julie Collett writes from Overland Park, where she will be beating the winter blahs right along with you! Her favorites are baking soda and vinegar and letting the kids make obstacle courses out of the furniture!
HIGHLIGHTING THE BEST OF KANSAS CITY!
Meet Jordan Lowe, author of The Adventures of Hattie and Hank
Sometimes a dream comes together so perfectly it requires a life-changing pivot. That providential pivot allowed two Kansas City natives, author Jordan Lowe and illustrator Chelsea Buchanan, to bring The Adventures of Hattie and Hank to life.
As a former first-grade teacher, a lover of all things travel and outdoors, and a mom of two, Lowe seized the opportunity to bring her passions together. In 2018, she visited New Zealand, traveling and exploring as much as possible. Upon returning, she shared her photos and stories with her class. Seeing that her students were eager to learn more, Lowe went to the library to find nonfiction books about New Zealand. She quickly realized there weren’t any books her students would be able to read independently. It was then that she formed the idea for a nonfiction geography series for kindergarten through second-grade readers. One of the best parts of this new endeavor is that the illustrator, Chelsea Buchanan, is not only also a former teacher and fellow Kansas Citian, but also one of Lowe’s best friends!
Lowe shared, “The Adventures of Hattie and Hank is an adorable story about a curious, geography-obsessed girl and her trusty travel partner, the family dog. Hattie’s love of geography, adventure and culture stems from her dad’s career as a photographer for a travel magazine. After years of settling for backyard adventures, Hattie and Hank finally get the chance to tag along on Dad’s work trip. As the trip comes to an end, her dad accidentally sends his boss the pictures meant for her mom and they end up landing a gig as the faces of a brand-new children’s travel magazine.”
The first book in the series, The Adventures of Hattie and Hank, is a fiction “prologue” that introduces the characters and the backstory of how their magazine came to be. Each book in the series will feature a different state or country and be styled as a magazine with a picture-heavy layout of photographs and drawings. The first location will be The Adventures of Hattie and Hank in Kansas, coming in 2025.
Lowe says, “This last year has been filled with failure, change and an ample amount of learning. We’ve been surrounded by the love and support of family and friends rooting us on. We can’t wait see how far we can take this series and where it will take us!”
Stay tuned for many adventures with Hattie and Hank, Kansas City! Books are currently available for purchase at HattieAndHank.com.
Author Jordan Lowe (right) and illustrator Chelsea Buchanan.
Hattie and Hank share their first book.
Snowy Day Book and Snack Pairing
There Was a Cold Lady Who Swallowed Some Snow!
By Lucille Colandro Illustrated by Jared Lee
Emphasizing rhythm, rhyme and larger-than-life illustrations, this month’s read is pure silliness! One volume in a series that puts new spins on the classic children’s song, Lucille Colandro’s There Was a Cold Lady Who Swallowed Some Snow! celebrates winter and the wacky building of a snowman. As you progress through the story, try pausing before completing a rhyme to see if children can fill in repeated words or lines.
Greek Yogurt White Mousse Parfait
Your white mousse parfait can be as layered and silly as the story! I especially like how the coconut on top resembles the snowflakes from the story. Consider saving this story and parfait pairing for a snowy day and building a real snowman as a part of your fun!
Yields: 4 large or 8 mini parfaits
Ingredients
10 oz. white candy melts
1 c. shredded coconut
32 oz. vanilla or plain Greek yogurt (both fat-free and full-fat work)
2 c. chopped mixed berries of your choice (I used frozen raspberries, strawberries, blueberries and cherries)
Clear glass serving dishes (I used 7 oz. parfait glasses)
Directions
1. Microwave white chocolate for 1 minute, stirring every 15–30 seconds until smooth.
2. Stir yogurt into white chocolate. Make sure the yogurt is room temperature—otherwise, the white chocolate will harden while mixing.
3. Optional: Toss the coconut in a large skillet on medium to low heat for 2–4 minutes, stirring until golden brown. Remove immediately from heat.
4. Dollop two inches of yogurt mixture into the bottom of each glass. Layer with berries, then coconut. Repeat.
5. Optional: Place a large marshmallow on the top of each parfait. Use a knife to cut three indentions into the marshmallows, then press in chocolate chips for eyes and a piece of candy corn or pretzel stick for a nose. Spear a mini marshmallow on the end of a toothpick or pretzel stick to make a pipe. Feel free to customize your snowmen with other edible accessories.
6. Enjoy! Parfaits will keep in the refrigerator for up to three days.
Alicia Mock operates Adventure Arts Academy for 3–5-year-olds from her home in Overland Park. Alicia offers one-on-one parent coaching and is a musical theater enthusiast, singer, writer and promoter of all things positive. She was recently widowed from her husband, Cary, with whom she shares four amazing, nearly flown children.
KCPARENT.COM CALENDAR FEATURES OVER 1,000 EVENTS EACH MONTH!
Catch the delightful Penguin March every weekend in January at the Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. A winter highlight for families! KansasCityZoo.org No part of this calendar may be reproduced in print or online format.
Dive into the wonder of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone in Concert with the KC Symphony, Jan. 29–Feb. 1 at the Kauffman Center. KauffmanCenter.org parade
immerse
culture
Welcome the Year of the Dragon at the Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art on Jan. 26. Enjoy cultural performances, handson activities and more. Nelson-Atkins.org groove
Feel the roar of excitement at Monster Jam on Jan. 11–12 at T-Mobile Center. See colossal trucks perform electrifying stunts! MonsterJam.com
Get your toes tapping at MTC Kids Jam—Funky Mama on Jan. 18. A lively and family-friendly concert at the Midwest Trust Center! JCCC.edu
Monster Jam at T-Mobile Center
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Disney 100 Exhibit Thru Jan. 5, Union Station. This once-in-a-lifetime event celebrates the iconic characters and stories that have captured our hearts, stirred our imaginations and captivated generations. UnionStation.org
Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Playtime with an array of toys and activities for young children to enjoy. OPKansas.org
Mom & Me Bumper Bowling 9:30, Summit Lanes. For just $3 per person you get a game, shoe rental and drink. SummitLanes.com
Preschool Story Time 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center. Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises geared toward preschool children. Register at JCPRD.com
The 12 Dates (and Dogs) of Christmas! 3:30, The Martin City Melodrama. Enjoy an evening filled with song, dance and comedy, featuring adorable rescue dogs from local shelters. MartinCityMelodrama.org
New Year’s Day Resolution Run 9:00, Tony Aguirre Community Center. Kick off the New Year with a 5K or 10K fun run, followed by hot chocolate, coffee and camaraderie. KCParks.org
2 Thursday
Junior Chefs Winter Baking Camp Thru Jan. 3, The Culinary Center of Kansas City. Join us for a cozy winter baking camp for budding bakers ages 9–14. KCCulinary.com
Parkville Holiday Wonder Walk Thru Jan. 3, English Landing Park. A spectacular event that will dazzle families with an enchanting display of festive lights. ParkvilleMO.org
Tot Time Swim 9:00, Powell Community Center. Toddlers will enjoy the pool with shallow water and play equipment. Merriam.org
Snowfest: Sensory Snow 10:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Engage in handson fun by making and playing with squishy snow-dough. KansasDiscovery.org
Toddler Town 10:00, Roger T. Sermon Community Center. An indoor program for children ages 5 and under. IndependenceMO.gov
Children’s Craft: Clay Pot Gnome 6:30, Powell Gardens. Join us at Evergy Festival of Lights for a children’s crafting night that includes story time, crafts and a snack. PowellGardens.org
3 Friday
Hokusai: Waves of Inspiration Thru Jan. 5, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. See the work of one of the most famous Japanese artists in history. Nelson-Atkins.org
Jumperoo 8:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park. Children 5 and under and their parent/guardian can jump, bounce and crawl around safely. UrbanAir.com
Winter Wonderland Art Camp 9:00, Lee’s Summit Parks & Recreation. Make the most of your child’s winter break as they create a variety of winter-themed projects. CityofLS.net
Power Hour 9:30, Mercury Gymnastics. Kids under 5 can explore the gym’s trampolines, low beams and foam pits. MercuryGymnastics.com
Early Literacy Music and Movement 10:00, Mid-Continent Public Library—Lee’s Summit Branch. Encourage the development of early literacy skills through music, instruments and big body movement. MyMCPL.org
Story Time 10:00, Trailhead Books. Bring the littles to enjoy a few stories and crafts in our kids’ area. Parents can grab a coffee and relax. TrailheadBooks.com
Inspired Play
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Toddler Time 10:00, Blue Springs Fieldhouse. Children under 5 can play inside with cars, scooters, slides and a playhouse. BlueSpringsGov.com
Crafternoon for Kids 4:30, Indian Creek Library. Get creative with a fun after school craft. OlatheLibrary.org
4 Saturday
Winter Market 8:00, Independence Uptown Market. Come support local businesses and pick out handcrafted items, home-baked goodies and more. IndependenceMO.gov
Kids’ Projects and Activities 9:00, Home Depot locations. Kids are invited to enjoy free hands-on DIY projects. HomeDepot.com
Mother Nature Reads 10:00, Lakeside Nature Center. Bring your children for a fun morning. Hear Mother Nature read a story and make a craft to take home. LakesideNatureCenter.org
Special POPS 10:30, Paint Glaze & Fire. Adapted art projects for children and adults with disabilities. Helpful staff members will provide instruction while encouraging participants’ creativity. PaintGlazeAndFire.net
Read to a Pet 11:00, Mid-Continent Public Library—North Independence Branch. Children are invited to read to registered therapy pets for 10-minute sessions. MyMCPL.org
Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Join us every weekend this month as our penguins parade around Helzberg Penguin Plaza and enjoy the fresh outdoor air. KansasCityZoo.org
Whimsical Woodcuts 1:00, Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art. Jump into the world of Japanese woodblock printing by creating your own design with natural elements. Nelson-Atkins.org
Evergy Festival of Lights 5:00, Powell Gardens. Explore the illuminated gardens with themed displays and holiday music. PowellGardens.org
Winter Magic Lights 6:00, North KC. Last chance to enjoy KC’s dazzling, mile-long premiere light show. WinterMagicKC.com
5 Sunday
Back to the ’50s: Bowling Noon, Summit Lanes. Games, shoe rentals, hot dogs and sodas are just 50 cents each with a $5 cover charge. SummitLanes.com
Knox Classical School Open House 12:30, Providence Community Church. Learn about Christian, classical, collaborative education for grades K–4. KnoxKC.org
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Monday
Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com
Sensory-Friendly Days 9:00, Johnson County Museum. This limited-occupancy session is for children and families with sensory processing differences. JCPRD.com
Dog Man Celebration! 10:00, Olathe Downtown Library. Meet Dog Man fans, learn to create original comics, draw favorite Dog Man characters, collect Dav Pilkey trading cards and practice being Dog Man. OlatheLibrary.org
Mornings with Mommy: Colors and Shapes 10:00, Mt. Olive Lutheran Church & School. A unique blend of story time, learning centers and playdate for children aged 0–5. MtOliveLutheranSchool.com
Kids Create Puppets 6:00, Antioch Library. Craft and create puppets at the library. We provide the supplies; you bring the imagination! MyMCPL.org
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Tuesday
Little Explorers 9:00, Tony Aguirre Community Center. Bring your little one for an hour of exploration with self-guided activities. KCParks.org
Preschool Indoor Playground 9:30, Merriam Community Center. Ride and slide with us in our indoor playground. Merriam.org
STEAM Play Tuesday 10:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Engage in hands-on activities exploring science, technology, engineering, art and math. KansasDiscovery.org
Toddler Tuesday 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Enjoy discounted admissions for toddlers and one adult. LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com
Discovery Day at the Arboretum 10:00, Overland Park Arboretum and Botanical Gardens. Little explorers are in for a treat as they immerse themselves in nature and creativity. OPKansas.org
8 Wednesday
Portraits of Childhood: Black Dolls from the Collection of Deborah Neff Thru March 3, Toy and Miniature Museum. Explore themes of race, gender and identity through 135 handmade Black dolls. ToyAndMiniatureMuseum.org
Retro Story Time 10:00, Johnson County Museum. Preschoolers love stories from long ago read by a special guest from the 1950s AllElectric House! Craft included. JCPRD.com
Open Gym Noon, 360 Gymnastics. Enjoy an open gym with your toddler. KC360Gym.com
Mixed Media and Printmaking After School Art Camp 4:00, Art Curiosity Studio. Perfect for kids in grades 6–9, this camp encourages artistic exploration and fun in a relaxed setting. ArtCuriosityStudio.com
9 Thursday
Crown Center Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Glide into winter fun at Kansas City’s iconic outdoor skating rink! Perfect for families, friends and date nights. CrownCenter.com
Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe
10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under get to paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com
Sar-Ko Aglow 6:00, Sar-Ko-Par Trails Park. There’s still time to stroll through the park’s festive holiday lights. Lenexa.com
SIX-STOP TOUR THE CROWN CENTER DISTRICT
1. DOWNTOWN KC’S ICE RINK
A beloved winter tradition in KC is skating at the Crown Center Ice Terrace, downtown Kansas City’s outdoor skating rink. The rink offers public skating daily and even offers skating lessons for beginners. Admission for adults and children 4 and older is $9; children under age 4 are free with a paid admission. Skate rental is $6. A season pass is $130. CrownCenter.com/ IceTerrace
2. DELICIOUS DINING
Local restaurants team up annually for KC Restaurant Week, a 10-day dining event (Jan. 10-19) where you may savor delicious dishes and support a good cause. This year, proceeds benefit Guadalupe Center. Many Crown Center restaurants are participating. Sample new eateries or enjoy personal favorites. For a list of participating restaurants, visit KCRestaurant Week.com
3. ICONIC LANDMARK
Spend a day exploring one of our city’s most recognized landmarks, Union Station. Part of the Union Station complex, Science City boasts loads of hands-on science exhibits for all ages, and the Gottlieb Planetarium is one of the largest 360-degree domed screens in the Midwest. Films are offered at the Extreme Screen, and you’ll also find souvenir shops and restaurants. UnionStation.org
4. A HISTORIC ADVENTURE
One of Kansas City’s most respected museums is the National World War I Museum and Memorial. After exploring the galleries, you may take a tour to the top of the tower for views of the city skyline. Their immersive VR experience, War Remains, transports viewers to the Western Front of the First World War. TheWorldWar.org
5. SEA LIFE AND LEGOLAND
Sea Life Aquarium is home to a walkthrough underwater tunnel and an enthralling journey from the fresh waters of the Missouri River to the salt water of the Atlantic Ocean. Legoland Discovery Center provides interactive play areas, including a 4D cinema, classes, rides and exhibits.
VisitSeaLife.com and Legoland DiscoveryCenter.com
6. SPEND THE DAY SHOPPING Crown Center offers three levels of shopping and dining. Shop for toys, clothing, candy, cooking items and local souvenirs at these boutiques. The Coterie offers live children’s theater, and MTH Theater produces live shows for all ages. Throughout the year the center hosts FREE handson educational exhibits for children to enjoy. Learn more at CrownCenter.com.
10 Friday
STEM Class & Experiments 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Join us for this free educational and fun class that is included in your open play ticket, membership, or punch card. InspiredPlayCafe.com
Toddler Gymnastics 9:30, Xtreme Gymnastics. Kids ages 2–5 can enjoy age-appropriate gymnastics equipment like foam pits and mini-trampolines. XGTKids.com
Animal Crossing: New Horizons Aquarium Tour 10:00, Sea Life Kansas City. Featuring character meet-and-greets and themed photo opportunities. VisitSeaLife.com
Homeschool Day 1:00, Urban Air Trampoline and Adventure Park. A chance for homeschool families to come in, get active and play during the day. UrbanAir.com
Disney’s The Sound of Magic Thru Jan. 12, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. Musical theater stars join the Kansas City Symphony to bring your favorite Disney film scores to life. KauffmanCenter.org
Kansas City Restaurant Week Thru Jan. 19. Enjoy special multi-course menus at hundreds of local restaurants. Many establishments offer family-friendly dining options. KCRestaurantWeek.com
11 Saturday
Monster Jam Thru Jan. 12, T-Mobile Center. The ultimate adrenaline-fueled experience! Massive trucks soar, smash and race their way through jaw-dropping stunts and epic competitions! MonsterJam.com
Tween/Teen Abstract Painting Day 9:00, Art Curiosity Studio. Unleash your creativity with a fun and vibrant abstract painting session designed for tweens and teens! ArtCuriosityStudio.com
Free Day at Lanesfield Historic Site 10:00, Lanesfield Historic Site. Check out the oldest operating schoolhouse in Johnson County and last remaining structure in the former town of Lanesfield. JCPRD.com
Hands-On History Noon, National WWI Museum and Memorial. Guests of all ages are invited to handle Great War artifacts. TheWorldWar.org
VolunTEEN Open House 1:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Is your teen passionate about animals and helping others? Consider joining the VolunTEEN program. KansasCityZoo.org
12 Sunday
Sensory Play 9:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park Overland Park. Playtime designed for children with autism and special needs to enjoy the park without loud music or flashing lights. UrbanAirOP.com
Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Join us every weekend this month as our penguins parade around Helzberg Penguin Plaza and enjoy the fresh outdoor air. KansasCityZoo.org
Murder on the Nile 2:00, Roger T. Sermon Community Center. Enjoy Agatha Christie’s 1944 murder mystery presented by City Theatre of Independence. IndependenceMO.gov
13 Monday
Inspired Play 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Attend a two-hour play session in this fun, educational and nurturing environment where little ones can explore while caregivers enjoy the calming cafe. InspiredPlayCafe.com
Movin’ and Groovin’ Rhyme Time 9:30, Lenexa City Center Library. An active program of songs, classic rhymes and fingerplays to introduce your little one to the sounds of rhymes and music. JOCOLibrary.org
Crown Center Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Glide into winter fun at Kansas City’s iconic outdoor skating rink! Perfect for families, friends and date nights. CrownCenter.com
Indoor Playground 11:00, Mill Creek Activity Center. Toddlers can explore soft climbing structures, slides and sensory activities. JCPRD.com
Kids STEAM 3:00, North Independence Library. Learn while engaging in STEAM games and activities. MyMCPL.org
14 Tuesday
Family Story Time 9:30, Merriam Plaza Library. Stories, songs, fingerplays and movement activities foster pre-reading skills. Fun for all ages. JOCOLibrary.org
Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com
Critter Feeding 2:00, Burr Oak Woods Nature Center. Captive amphibians, fish and turtles enjoy their feast every Tuesday and Friday. MDC.Mo.gov
Acoustic Night at the Garrison 6:00, Corbin Theatre. Enjoy a night of relaxing acoustic music performed by local musicians. LibertyMissouri.gov
Kids Create Art: Winter Crafts 7:00, Blue Springs North Library. Get out of the cold and create some fun winter crafts as a family. MyMCPL.org
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Wednesday
Admission All-School Open House 9:00, The Barstow School. Meet faculty and staff and learn about academic, artistic and athletic offerings. BarstowSchool.org
Giggle Time 10:00, Tomahawk Ridge Community Center. Enjoy a delightful children’s program with activities ranging from music to stories to puppet shows. OPKansas.org
Tails, Tales and Trails 10:30, Prairie Oak Nature Center. Enjoy a nature-themed story time and nature walk! Leawood.org
Preschool Story Time 10:30, Ernie Miller Nature Center.Visit the nature center for stories, songs and surprises geared toward preschool children. Register at JCPRD.com
Chess Night 5:30, Olathe Downtown Library. Come play chess with a worthy opponent. All ages and playing levels are welcome. OlatheLibrary.org
16 Thursday
All School Open House 9:00, St. Paul’s Episcopal Day School. Meet school leadership, discuss curriculum with teachers and tour school facilities with current student ambassadors. SPEDS.org
WonderBaby & Me 9:30 and 2:00, Wonderscope Children’s Museum. Weekly class for infants aged 3–18 months and their grownups, too! Register at Wonderscope.org
Music and Movement 10:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Come enjoy a musical playtime with the Stepping Stones Music Therapist! InspiredPlayCafe.com
Free Family Fun Night 5:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. A special place where children can create, discover and learn through play. KansasDiscovery.org
17 Friday
Toddler Time 10:00, Blue Springs Fieldhouse. Children under 5 can play inside with cars, scooters, slides and a playhouse. BlueSpringsGov.com
Penguin March
Every Saturday and Sunday at 11:00 thru February, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. These fun events are free with admission. KansasCityZoo.org
Sensory Swim 6:30, Blue Valley Activity Center. This Inclusive open swim is available every Friday for families to enjoy sensory-friendly pool time. BlueValleyRec.org
18 Saturday
Frozen Princess Party 10:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Don’t miss this sparkly slime class, free sugar cookies to decorate, and a photo opt. InspiredPlayCafe.com
MTC Kids Jam—Funky Mama 11:00, Midwest Trust Center. A family-friendly morning of art activities and a lively children’s concert featuring acclaimed musician Funky Mama. JCCC.edu
Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium’s Adapt to That 2:00, Antioch Public Library. Participants will observe, compare and contrast live animal ambassadors and animal biofacts to explore adaptations and habitats. MyMCPL.org
The Princess Bride: An Inconceivable Evening with Cary Elwes 7:00, Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. A behindthe-scenes look at life on and off the set of the classic film. KauffmanCenter.org
19 Sunday
Crown Center Ice Skating 10:00, Crown Center Ice Terrace. Glide into winter fun at Kansas City’s iconic outdoor skating rink! Perfect for families, friends and date nights. CrownCenter.com
Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Join us every weekend this month as our penguins parade around Helzberg Penguin Plaza and enjoy the fresh outdoor air. KansasCityZoo.org
20 Monday
Toddler Fun 8:30, Foundry Church. Parents can enjoy coffee while toddlers play in a small indoor play area or a large gymnasium perfect for balls, scooters and ride-on toys. FoundryChurchKC.com
Indoor Play Park 9:00, New Century Fieldhouse. Enjoy slides, soft structures and ride-on toys. JCPRD.com
Muddy Mondays 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. An expert will guide you through the process of making a clay creation on the wheel. CeramicCafeKC.com
Open Gym Noon, 360 Gymnastics. Enjoy an open gym with your toddler. KC360Gym.com
21 Tuesday
Dean’s Discussion Series—What is Classical Ed? 8:00, Whitefield Academy. Connect with our deans and ask any questions you may have. WhitefieldAcademyKC.org
Toddler Story Time 9:30, Leawood Pioneer Library. Enjoy this story time with short stories, songs, fingerplays and movement activities to reinforce early language learning. JOCOLibrary.org
STEAM Play Tuesday 10:00, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center. Engage in hands-on activities exploring science, technology, engineering, art and math. KansasDiscovery.org
Totally Tots 10:30, Kemper Museum of Contemporary Art. Sing songs, read books, explore art and make your own art with a Kemper Museum educator and Kansas City librarian. KemperArt.org
Outer Space After School Art Camp 4:00, Art Curiosity Studio. Blast off into creativity! Kids in grades 3–6 will explore the wonders of outer space through art, crafting galaxy-inspired masterpieces each week. ArtCuriosityStudio.com
Read to a Dog 5:30, Olathe Downtown Library. Read aloud to a friendly reading education assistance dog. Preregister at OlatheLibary.org
22 Wednesday
Gym for Me 9:00, Lenexa Community Center. Provides kids a place to run, ride and play while making new friends. Lenexa.com
Toddle Time 9:00, Matt Ross Community Center. Playtime with an array of toys and activities for young children to enjoy. OPKansas.org
Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! The Musical! 9:45 and 11:30, Folly Theater. A lively adaptation of Mo Willems’ children’s book, featuring engaging songs and interactive fun. FollyTheater.org
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Thursday
Tot Time Swim 9:00, Powell Community Center. Toddlers will enjoy the pool with shallow water and play equipment. Merriam.org
Thursday Toddler Time at Ceramic Cafe 10:00, Ceramic Cafe. Toddlers 5 and under get to paint one of our selected items for just $12. CeramicCafeKC.com
Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com
Free cultural festivals
Nelson-Atkins festivals feature live performances, traditional cuisine, and family artmaking activities.
Save these 2025 dates:
Lunar New Year | Jan. 26
Native American Cultural Celebration | March 2
Passport to India | April 27
Juneteenth Celebration | June 12
Kansas City’s Lawn Party | July 20
Deaf Cultural Festival | Sept. 13
Día de los Muertos | Nov. 2
nelson-atkins.org/festivals
24 Friday
Toddler Gymnastics 9:30, Xtreme Gymnastics. Kids ages 2–5 can enjoy age-appropriate gymnastics equipment like foam pits and minitrampolines. XGTKids.com
Club SciKidz Camp Jurassic 4:30, IDEA Space. Campers will learn about dinosaurs, their habitats, rocks and fossils. IDEASpaceKC.org
Hiplet Ballerinas 7:30, Midwest Trust Center. Experience the blend of classical pointe with diverse dance styles in a captivating performance. JCCC.edu
Creative Story Time 10:30, Ceramic Cafe. Participants read a book, paint a ceramic item that goes along with the story and finish with a snack. CeramicCafeKC.com
25 Saturday
Tangle Designs Art Day for Tweens/Teens 9:00, Art Curiosity Studio. Dive into the intricate world of tangle art! ArtCuriosityStudio.com
Winter Farmers Market 10:00, City of Lenexa. Support local growers and makers at Lenexa’s annual indoor farmers market. Lenexa.com
1860s Dance Party Matinee 2:00, Mahaffie Stagecoach Stop and Farm. Celebrate Kansas Statehood, 1860s style! Join us for a dance party with live music and light refreshments. Mahaffie.org
26 Sunday
Sensory Play 9:00, Urban Air Trampoline Park Lenexa. Playtime designed for children with autism and special needs to enjoy the park without loud music or flashing lights. UrbanAirLenexa.com
Lunar New Year Celebration 10:00, NelsonAtkins Museum of Art. Celebrate the Lunar New Year with cultural performances, art activities and more. Nelson-Atkins.org
Penguin March 11:00, Kansas City Zoo & Aquarium. Join us every weekend this month as our penguins parade around Helzberg Penguin Plaza and enjoy the fresh outdoor air. KansasCityZoo.org
27 Monday
Movin’ and Groovin’ Rhyme Time 9:30, Lenexa City Center Library. Introduce your little one to the sounds of rhymes and music. JOCOLibrary.org
Family Story Time 1:45, Indian Creek Library. Join us for stories, songs and fingerplays for 3–5-year-olds. OlatheLibrary.org
28 Tuesday
Inspired Play 8:30, Inspired Play Cafe. Attend a two-hour play session where little ones can explore while caregivers enjoy the calming cafe. InspiredPlayCafe.com
Story Time for Babies 9:15, Parkville Library. A fun, engaging story time for babies. MyMCPL.org
Preschool Prep 9:00, The Barstow School. Come learn what Barstow offers to foster your child’s academic beginnings. BarstowSchool.org
Toddler Tuesday 10:00, Legoland Discovery Center. Enjoy discounted admissions for toddlers and one adult. LegolandDiscoveryCenter.com
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Wednesday
Just Ask! Thru Feb. 23, The Coterie Theatre. A world premiere musical based on Sonia Sotomayor’s book celebrating diversity through music and dance. TheCoterie.org
Admission All-School Open House 9:00, The Barstow School. Meet faculty and staff and learn about academic, artistic and athletic offerings. BarstowSchool.org
30 Thursday
Seuss on the Loose 10:00, Mid-Continent Public Library—Blue Ridge Branch. Storyteller brings Dr. Seuss’ funny characters and powerful lessons to life. MyMCPL.org
Pay for Play 10:00, Backyard Specialists. Plan a playdate for your children and their friends at the amazing showroom! BackyardSpecialists.com
31 Friday
Kinder Prep & Kindergarten Round-Up 8:30, Whitefield Academy. Register your incoming child for a no-obligation readiness evaluation and hear from school leaders about our programs. WhitefieldAcademyKC.org
Power Hour 9:30, Mercury Gymnastics. Kids under 5 can explore the gym’s trampolines, low beams and foam pits. MercuryGymnastics.com
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