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AND WE’RE OFF! Welcome to No. II! It’s February, which is also Black History Month, of course, so we call this issue TWELVE BLACK. This month also features one of the most significant holidays of the year, Valentine’s Day, so in total concept, let’s call this “Black to Love”. Take a look inside at some of the most significant moments in Black History. Hear from national and local leaders. On the “love” side, discover some of the products and events perfect for the holiday. Be sure to read “Kiss and Tell” for the local and direct perspective on love and relationships.

As always, we’ll highlight the people to watch and places to go. So enjoy the features.

Keep in mind, this is really your magazine. You have an opportunity to contribute to the content by writing, submitting story suggestions, and of course, attending the launch parties and more. Contact us at twelve@kcsoul.com to get involved and send us feedback too! Sincerely,

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Rome, Owner, Marisa Nelson, Manager, Albert Kelley, General Manager

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Stand Out elcome to your “Dinnertainment Destination”, better known as, ICONS Restaurant and Lounge. The venue specializes in “small stage” entertainment such as live band, karaoke, comedy, and is open to even more possibilities. Rome, the owner, says the customers are as diverse as the entertainment

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line-up, not only racially diverse, but also appealing to ages ranging from 21 to 70 year-olds. You have to make an impression in Kansas City and that’s what ICONS does. Rome says customers are typically “Shocked by décor. I’ve been told that it’s sexy and elegant, remi-

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red vinyl high back baguettes with Cosmo-granite wet bar lit by an Italian chandelier, not to mention its own private lavatory. The look gets guests in the door, but the food keeps them coming niscent of New York type boutique lounges”, says Rome. ICONS is a stylish lounge with a state-of-the-art sound system and 70” TVs tastefully interspersed between colorful décor and art in the main bar area. Dedicated to bringing something unique to Kansas City, even the lighting is imported with other art and finishing from other areas of the U.S. Rome stands 6ft 7in, so one of the signature accommodations is the large bar seating, great for guests of any size, even football players. ICONS offers a separate VIP space, the Red Diamond VIP room complete with a 60” HDTV, surround sound,

back. When visiting ICONS, there are a few signature items that should not be missed, such as its signature spaghetti or the tilapia. Even its spe(Continued on page 16)

“ICONS Fine food, elegant surroundings and the elite”

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Jauqua Preston Ivy Leaf Reporter Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Mu Omega Chapter

Beulah E. Burke Greek Pioneers

Beulah E. Burke was one of the most active of the founders of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority both during the period of incorporation as well as at the time of the original establishment, and provided wise counsel throughout her 67 years of membership. Ms. Burke entered the Preparatory Department of Howard University in 1900. Ms. Burke was an excellent scholar and graduated from the College of Arts and Sciences in1908 with a B.A. degree. She majored in Latin and also studied Greek, German, English, political science, chemistry

and physics. After graduation, she taught for one year in Georgia and then moved to Kansas City, Kansas to teach in Sumner High School. In 1913, when Nellie Quander was considering the incorporation of the sorority to preserve its name and integrity for all time, Ms. Burke was contacted to help in nationalizing the sorority because of her strong support for this step. She chartered the first three chapters after incorporation: Beta Chapter in Chicago (1913), Gamma Chapter at the University of Illinois (1913), and Delta Chapter at the University of Kansas (1914). Ms. Burke contributed further to the development of Alpha Kappa Alpha as a national organization by establishing additional graduate chapters. In 1920, she established Beta Omega Chapter in

Kansas City, Missouri, and in 1922, Mu Omega Chapter in Kansas City, Kansas. She served as president of both chapters. She was also hostess president at the Kansas City Boule of 1922. From 1923 to 1924, she served as second national anti-president. In 1925, she was elected Midwestern organizer (regional director). She attended and contributed too many other Boules and on the occasion of the 50th Anniversary Boule in 1958 had this to say: "I think fundamentally we should regard our fiftieth anniversary as just another milestone in our history - as another opportunity to rededicate ourselves to the high purposes which have been emphasized and reemphasized throughout the history of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority." Ms. Burke was a member of the NAACP and the YWCA and also was a member of the Workers Organization which helps young women to find gainful employment. She was active in her professional organization, the National Education Association. Beulah Elizabeth Burke died on April 8, 1975 in Washington, D.C. She is buried in Lincoln Cemetery.

Kelly Jones Host Better Kansas City | KCTV5

Oprah Winfrey I Can Too

In my eyes the person that has directly assisted me in my professional endeavors and indirectly uplifted millions, is none other than Oprah Winfrey. No one ever saw her coming and she burst onto the scene with knowledge, skills Kelly Jones and an intense drive to succeed. Growing up, I knew I wanted

Oprah Winfrey Media Mogul to only do one thing…be on television…but never quite had a TV role model that looked like me nor encompassed the faith, the depth or the rich history that Ms. Winfrey brings to the table. She uses her platform not to boast her power but to encourage others to follow their dreams, create new memories and reminds us to never let anyone diminish our spirit. Think about it. This is a woman by many accounts that didn’t fit the “TV standards” aka…looking as European as possible, slender, rich, well off, high profile connections or Ivy League educated. What she did have was a can do spirit and people in her life that saw that spark, that joy and her will to make a difference for many generations after her, every economic class and all colors and all people. Make no mistake, Ms. Winfrey never shied away from her trials and tribulations she experienced when she was younger…in fact she (Continued on page 14)

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used those as examples of how you can go through the worst yet still maintain your dignity. She remains a living, breathing and vibrant example of how her “life lesson scars” are in fact testaments to well earned life lessons that help shape who she is, what she stands for and the legacy she will leave behind. We are as a whole, better off thanks to Oprah Winfrey being the trailblazer that she is and remains to be and for that I am thankful for the progression she has helped to contribute to me, my family and OUR community.

Representative Randy D. Dunn 23rd District Missouri House of Representatives

Rev. Alexander Twilight First College Graduate

When I look back over history and think of African American’s who have helped pave the way for the generations to follow one of the first names that comes to mind for me is Alexander Twilight. While Rev. Twilight may not be a household name, yet his contribution to not only African American history but American History cannot be trivialized. Rev. Twilight was the first African American to receive a bachelor’s degree from an American college or University upon his graduation from Middlebury College in 1823. Additionally he was the first African American elected to a state legislature; in 1836 he was elected to the Vermont General Assembly. He was also a pastor and school principal. As a minister, politician and educator Rev. Twilight understood the importance of a quality education and political activism for the progress of African Americans. He embodied the meaning of sankofa, to go back and get, by helping others coming up behind him. This was exhibited when he funded and built Athenian Hall which served as a dormitory for Brownington Academy to ensure African American students had lodging and access to the school. His desire to help others and uplift members of his community is a lesson that should be adhered to today. We can accomplish more when we reach back and help pull those behind us forward.

Jenna Hanchard Reporter/41 Action News KSHB

Bloody Sunday Lest We Forget

There are several defining moments in United States' history that make me proud to call myself a Black American. These same moments paint the difficult journey of those who worked tirelessly for equal opportunities for Black Americans under the law. These moJenna Hanchard ments remind me why I must vote and exercise every right as a citizen of the United States. One of these significant moments in U.S. history is "Bloody Sunday", March 7, 1965. For about 600 civil rights leaders this was the first attempt to march from Selma, Alabama to Montgomery, Alabama for voting rights. On that day, civil rights leaders only made it as far as the Edmund Pettus Bridge, six blocks from where they started, before they were met by police and state officers who attacked them with Billy clubs and tear gas and trampled them with horses. Broadcast news media outlets caught the horrific scene on camera and these images led almost every single newscast in the country that night. Many Americans outside of the South were unaware of the fierce brutality that met the non-violent demonstrations of civil rights' leaders. Bloody Sunday helped to expose the darkness of the Deep South. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. joined the second attempt to march from Selma to Montgomery. This again proved unsuccessful. Finally on Sunday March 21st, 1965 about 3,000 marchers set out for Montgomery, walking more than 10 miles a day and sleeping in fields. By the time they reached Montgomery on March 25, 1965 they were 25,000 strong. Several months later, Lyndon Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act of 1965. "Bloody Sunday" is one of many examples that unveil the courage, fearlessness and determina(Continued on page 28)

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cially prepared chicken and waffle dish is a favorite among the regulars. The bar stocks your favorite premium brands, but connoisseurs will recommend its signature drink, the Romeski, a smooth recipe of Bailey’s, butterscotch schnapps, whipped cream vodka, shaken and poured over ice. This is ICONS’ second go around. It was open initially with the décor of a Latin bistro featuring lime green and blue lighting. Rome says, “It wasn’t me, but offered a starting opportunity

“You put something out there and people have to feel everyone’s going to be there for them to show up,”

cases similar to his work in L.A. “We used to send winners to Apollo showcase.” Rome’s had plenty of successes over the years, but it didn’t start that way. “I did my first show in Liberty Hall. See, in L.A. you will drive an hour and a half to see a show, so I

ICONS STAFF: Anthony Montgomery, Albert Kelley, Alisa Nelson, Simone Tolbert, Marisa Nelson, Rome

to entertain and cater to people.” It closed after a year, but has now opened with new management, new décor, and a liquor license. Management hopes to realize the full potential of the location. The venue is new, but Rome is no stranger to entertaining guests. He started out promoting in Los Angeles with friends, hosting events featuring talent such as Chris Tucker, Sheryl Underwood, Hope Flood, D.L. Hughley, and Faizon in the Patriotic Hall. He eventually made his way to Kansas City to be closer to family. He kicked off his Kansas City venture in 1994 with Apollo style show16

thought it was the same here. I booked my first show at Liberty Theater. It held 800. Man, I had about twenty people. KC people weren’t about to drive out to no country, hick town. But then I brought the show to town at Heartland Theater in Crown Center and it started blowing up. When I Brought it to Paseo H.S., it sold out with 1,200 people. Arnez J, used to host for me, frequently. In fact, Kansas City can be credited with helping him earn is rep on the map. Other showcases included special guests such as Usher and John Witherspoon.” The life of a promoter is a roller coaster ride of wins and losses. You do something big and

something smaller and you experiment to find what works. Taking the promoter mindset to a venue, Rome didn’t want to experiment with anything too big for a first time restaurant and lounge. “You put something out there and people have to feel everyone’s going to be there for them to show up,” says Rome. It’s best to go small to start out. Knowing how to keep the momentum is definitely what you have to work on in this business. “You have to learn promote a restaurant versus a nightclub. Promoting for food sales versus heads to come through the door to dance. I’ve been learning. Audio books and Google are key resource.” Rome explains that although running a restaurant is not brain surgery, crafting a quality entrée from scratch is a genuine challenge. “We consistently work on preserving things to get it out in restaurant time”, he says.

...I booked my first show at Liberty Theater. It held 800. Man, I had about twenty people...

After mastering food, it’s about managing trends. Rome says, “People grow into your place and they grow out of it. People come and go. You have know how to reach the new generation. We’ve got to keep getting the new people. I want this to be hub where people celebrate birthdays, weddings, anniversaries…any occasion.” The management team is rounded out by Albert Kelley, general manager; Marisa Nelson, manager and Anthony Montgomery, chef. The servers, known in the front of the house as “spokes models”, are another feature attraction. They operate under the production name, ‘Show Me the Honeys’. “You can’t go wrong adding some beauty to your dining experience.” Heading up the stairwell to the second floor of ICONS you’ll find a definition of ICONS painted on the wall: One who is the object of great attention and devotion, an idol. That poignantly captures this venue. “Great attention” is synonymous with appeal and popularity and “devotion” translates well to longstanding customers. We’re sure this will characterize ICONS for years to come. 17

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LOVE STARTING WITH YOURSELF W. SARAH FLETCHER 18

TIME TO LOVE BY: W. Sarah Fletcher Hugs. Kisses. Flowers. Chocolates. Engagements, special arrangements, romantic get-a-ways and evenings planned. What an amazing opportunity this month brings in the mindset of our society and culture. We go out of our way to perform the extraordinary and simple considerations in preferring others; culminating with 1 day, Valentine’s Day. The significance, attachment, and enormity of this 1 day is palatable. All of the commotion and demonstrations surround 1 powerful/power packed word… LOVE. We dole out I love you’s to those we care about, almost effortlessly, yet we still have a deeper longing. Love and I Love You’s, 1 4 3’s to quote Musiq, is more powerful than we care to internalize. The Irony? LOVE does not start with others; its very inception begins with the genuine ability to authentically LOVE ourselves, which stems from a connection with Spirit, but that is another conversation. When we love others first, as a foundation, before completely loving ourselves, we create insatiable voids within ourselves, because the foundation was not laid properly. We cannot really love others, until we first love ourselves. The same passion, energy, time, thought and creativity that we give to others, with almost reckless abandon, in demonstration of LOVE, ... SHIFT INWARD.

Ready to LOVE? Your Invitation: Create a love language with YOURSELF, having the same intensity and in the same way that you love others. Explore and implement these 5 areas as building blocks for loving you. 1. Practice spending time daily with you, as access for connection. Getting in tune with you is the only way you’ll know what you need. 2. Begin to think more loving thoughts about yourself and towards yourself. Negative self talk and putdowns are blocks to love fully expressed. 3. Print & Post 5 areas you LOVE about yourself internally (your character) and externally (physically). Get present to what you listed daily. 4. Reconnect with God, Spirit, Universe and Your Spirit; this is an important connection to establish and maintain for LOVE the LOVE of self and others. 5.

Practice loving yourself not just on V-Day, or this month, but each and every month, daily.

W. Sarah Fletcher is a Professional Coach and Development Specialist at Greatness Realized. She specializes in the coaching, training, and development of her clients as they transition from good to GREAT. Get supported and realize your greatness! Contact Sarah at 816.588.2506 or visit www.greatnessrealized.com.

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Kween Colston is your favorite stylistâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s stylist. She also models, designs apparel, and can often be found at the hottest events promoting and hosting. The Kween Colston brand was created to bring style and class to local events that focused on giving back to the communities they serve through high fashion and entertainment. Her lifeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s motto is that we all must use our gifts to inspire others. She loves to sing and her favorite genres of music are jazz, blues, r&b, classical and real hip-hop. Her favorite singers are Billie Holiday, Sarah Vaughn and Ella Fitzgerald.

Finding Success After College Graduation You might not like the first job you get after college. What you have to avoid is moving on to the next one without a good idea of where you are going. Today we have the highest unemployment rate for youth in the country’s history. That means that jobs are hard to come by, and jobs related to your major will be scarce. If your field caters to educational institutions, their budget cuts will be a challenge. If your field pays a lot, you’ll have stiff competition. If you work in a field where people live a long time, the jobs may all be taken by older folks recovering from the economy. So what can a new graduate do? First of all, get a job – any job. Without a job, you will not feel completely like an adult. Without money to pay your student loans, or support yourself you will put your future at risk. No job is beneath you, and working in retail might actually do you some good. What matters when you start working is that someone relies on you, and pays you as a result. If you are too picky, your student loans will grow and your resume will have empty spaces you will always have to explain. Secondly, find yourself. I know. You’re right there. You’re reading this right now and paying lots of attention (I hope). But do you know who you are? Do you know your strengths? What are your talents? Which of them will you bet your future on? What are your most marketable skills? Without this information, you can have a great job but still be at risk of failure. I was fortunate to start my Accounting career at my dream job. Unfortunately, I soon found out

that I wasn’t that good at the day-to-day work. For many of you, this will happen. Studying something is not the same as doing it every day. I wanted to quit within six months, but was advised by a mentor to stay at my first job for at least 18 Sponsored By the UAN. Supporting a college-educated workforce. months. In the meantime, I got a part-time job – getting to know myself. In the year or so that followed, I re-learned who I am. It happened mostly when I was at home by myself, with the television, radio, and computer turned off. When I let my mind wander, I rediscovered what I was interested in. I remembered my calling to discover and teach new financial knowledge. I also found out that I was most marketable in certain types of accounting jobs, and decided use those to pay my bills. When I left my first job, I had a purpose, and I had a plan. From my experience, it is perfectly normal to find problems with your first job. You have to adjust from the college life to the career life. Start with a job, and then learn enough about yourself to start making big moves. You won’t be a CEO on the first day, and even if you could – how will you know it’s meant for you? For help discovering your strengths, I recommend StrengthsFinder 2.0 by Tom Rath. You will not regret reading this book! Albert Okagbue is a Certified Public Accountant with a passion for helping people make great financial decisions. He specializes in helping young adults manage college expenses, pay off student loans, and strategically increase long-term earning potential. Read his blog at www.studentloancpa.com or follow him on Twitter @Studentloancpa.

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Michael Watson: Basketball & Beyond Michael Watson gazes over the floor of high school players at Sprint Center. It’s the Time Warner Cable annual showcase, but this is different. For the first time, high school teams are playing at Sprint Center and in honor of MLK Jr Day! “That’s huge to play on platform where professional players play and ninety percent of the teams are from the inner city”, says Watson. Game time to post game “mock” media interviews, Watson is a part of this event and glad to bring something special to KC. We consider Watson Kansas City’s own globe trotter, having taken his professional ball abilities across the world. Yet, when you examine his life, you realize basketball was just the beginning.

Seeing blight of the city, downtrodden neighborhoods and murders, he realized he could have an impact. If you want to really change the urban core, you can do it. Sure, basketball built his rep, but he now leverages that recognition for the greater good. Already, Michael’s successfully encouraged corporate America to invest in the urban core. He points to neighborhoods in KC where no grocers are located in an 11 mile radius as an example Time Warner Showcase on MLK day. Michael Watson is part of the team that created this of the opportunity for HS players to ball in Sprint Center, for the first time ever. type of development needed.

Michael Watson was the star basketball player from Central High School in Kansas City, Missouri and continued his starring role at UMKC. After graduating in 2004, he went on to the pros, signing with the Boston Celtics, and later playing professionally overseas. He played in Europe and Puerto Rico professionally for seven years. After retiring from the game, he came back to KC a couple of years ago. Driven by a higher purpose and passion to give back to today’s youth, Michael had a revelation. His calling isn’t basketball. It’s peo-

ple. That realization sparked a passion for developing youth—on and off the court—into young women and young men.

Beyond businesses, he’d like individuals to take personal opportunities to build community by investing in people to make it better. Michael is about leading. “If you’re going to say something, put your money, put your time, put your effort behind it”, he says. Consequently, Paint the City was developed. It is a nonprofit started three years ago with a good friend. He says the aim is to be organic in how we go about things. “We see what the issue is (Continued on page 26)

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and how we can help through athletics, arts and academics for youth in the city. Paint the City wants to invest in people and their lives. The organization focuses on programming within schools, as well as a summer, multi-sports campus. “It’s not just basketball. It’s soccer, tennis, swimming, getting their imagination outside of the neighborhood”, says Watson. Watson has seen some of these other sports up close. “I fell in

“...What will they say about you? Will they say he was a hell of a basketball player? Or will they say man, that boy played basketball but you should have seen his heart for the city….”

love with soccer while playing in Europe. Soccer is the biggest sport in the world. Go to our basketball games you may have fifteen to eighteen thousand, but the soccer team clubs…they shut the city down. Soccer in Europe: you’ll see one hundred thousand people there for hours, despite the score. There’s nothing like the passion they have for the game.” With his interest in community, he’s often called upon, even been asked to run for city council, “For what?”, he says. “I can do more good and help more people just by being out with them, being that lending hand, being organic and building relationships… Not just saying we’ve got a great program for you than getting bogged down in politics. Paint the City goes to different schools, addressing specific needs for each environment”, he says. In addition to Paint the City, you can find Michael working with Metro Sports, commentating for both college and high school games. He’s also works with ESPN.

When asked about his perception of Kansas City, Michael opines, “I’ve been to five continents and forty countries. There’s no place like city like KC. It has the big city feel but is still a small town.” Michael describes KC as a breeding ground for young talented professionals who are working together. “It’s the younger generation that’s looking to work together to reestablish KC as one of the more prominent cities in the United States. It’s a place for young professionals to come and build and leave their mark. From nightlife to nonprofits, it’s open.” In the end, Watson wants to make an impact. “Everyone should make an effort to help. That’s what it’s about. That’s what Paint the City is about. We engage, equip, empower and encourage. Everyone from churches to organizations and communities can do their part. No one person or organization can do all of the work that’s out here to do. Leaving a legacy, is big for me. What will they say about you? Will they say he was a hell of a basketball player? Or will they say man, that boy played basketball but you should have seen his heart for the city. You should have seen his passion to see change, affect change. Not only just by words, but by action. Basketball is one chapter in my life.”

MICHAEL WATSON

COLLEGE CAREER HIGHLIGHTS • 2,488 points, all-time leading scorer in UMKC history • Second all-time leading scorer in the Mid-Continent Conference • 391 three-pointers, 7th in NCAA history Michael Watson became UMKC’s career scoring leader on Feb. 7, 2004. He also holds career records for games started, games played, minutes played, field goals made and three-pointers attempted. Watson scored in double figures in 109 of his 117 career games. Michael Watson was a three-time first team all- Mid-Con selection. Source: UMKC ROOS

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tion of civil rights leaders who risked their lives so that I could have an opportunity to cast a ballot one day.

Tiffany Wheeler President National Society of Black Engineers- Kansas City Alumni Chapter

I am sure that it has been submitted that 2013 marks, the 150th Anniversary of the Emancipation Proclamation and the 50th Anniversary of Dr. Martin Luther King’s iconic “I Have A Dream Speech” at the historic March on Washington. In addition isn’t interesting that the penny is copper and features President Dred Scott A slave who Fought for his freedom in court.

Clarence L. Mabin

KC Achievers in Engineering Clarence L. Mabin, P.E. is the first AfricanAmerican to receive a degree in Bachelor of Science in Civil Engineering from the University of Missouri. Mr. Mabin founded Custom Engineering Inc. in 1974, making it one of the first minority owned engineering companies in the region. As an established business owner, Mr. Mabin helped pay the college tuition of minority students pursuing an engineering degree. Custom Engineering Inc. started when Mr. Mabin initiated a number of community-service projects and programs to minority students which eventually led to the launching of careers of some of the prestigious and influential engineering leaders today. Custom Engineering Inc. is a multi-awarded and minority certified business that specializes in electrical, HVAC, plumbing, and lighting design, and incorporating new service dimensions of building information modeling (BIM), sustainable design, and integrated project delivery (IPD). To learn more about Mr. Mabin and Custom Engineering Inc. visit www.customengr.com

Jesse Barnes Executive Director Bruce R. Watkins Cultural Heritage Center & Museum

Dred Scott

Someone Had To Try

Abraham Lincoln- all other coins are silver… just a thought. A few facts…with the popularity of the blockbuster film on slavery, Django Unchained, I feel that it is important that people realize there was someone “like” Django who fought for his freedom in the state of Missouri. Dred Scott (1795 – September 17, 1858), was an African-American slave in the United States who unsuccessfully sued for his freedom and that of his wife and their two daughters in the Dred Scott v. Sandford case of 1857, popularly known as "the Dred Scott Decision." His case was based on the fact that although he and his wife Harriet Scott were slaves, he had lived with his master Dr. John Emerson in states and territories where slavery was illegal according to both state laws and the Northwest Ordinance of 1787, including Illinois and Minnesota (which was then part of the Wisconsin Territory). The United States Supreme Court decided 7–2 against Scott, finding that neither he nor any

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other person of African ancestry could claim citizenship in the United States, and therefore Scott could not bring suit in federal court under diversity of citizenship rules.

One of two very difficult questions to answer personally is, “who is my favorite jazz artist? and what African American figure or event has been most inspiring to you?”

Moreover, Scott's temporary residence outside Missouri did not bring about his emancipation under the Missouri Compromise, which the court ruled unconstitutional as it would improperly deprive Scott's owner of his legal property.

Both are equally difficult to respond to in a succinct manner simply because my list (and iPod playlist) is wide and deep. It reaches into all areas of our American fabric including entertainment, political, educational, sports, religious and social constructs. With that being said, someone who has seared a deep imprint in my heart and professional drive is the jazz luminary Edward “Duke” Ellington.

Gregory A. Carroll, Chief Executive Officer American Jazz Museum

In the pantheon of Jazz masters and innovators, Edward Kennedy “Duke” Ellington holds a very prominent place. Indeed, his influence is so pervasive, his effect on the fabric of popular music so indelible, that it hardly seems appropriate to limit his importance to Jazz music alone.

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in the development and popularization of the jazz orchestra format or otherwise known as the Big Band. The format became one of the most popular forms of entertainment and dominated the circuit throughout the 1930’s and 40’s. It continues to be popular in a global sense today, mostly in concert halls, educational institutions and jazz festivals.

est of expectations and used his musical pen as his “voice” within the movement. You have to dig very little or listen for a few bars to hear the reverence he had for the African American experience and his attempt to remove artificial barriers standing in the way of an artist’s inalienable right to freedom of expression.

Ellington’s role as a leader was remarkable. He had a keen sense of seeing into the future and leveraging his popularity to secure pivotal business opportunities. One of the most successful was his decision to become the house band for the famed New York Cotton Club back in the early part of the century. That decision garnered him exposure to radio audiences throughout the United States. The decision also allowed him a platform for which to cultivate one of the longest-lasting operations with stability unrivalled by its peers from 1924 until his death 50 years later.

One of the highest praises he could give to any kind of music or experience was that it was “beyond category”. Certainly today, Duke Ellington remains “beyond category” in my book and the book of millions of jazz lovers around the world. He is my African American/ Black History month hero!

His Orchestra served as a showcase and training ground for generations of musical giants including the likes of Johnny Hodges, Cootie Williams, Barney Bigard, Sonny Greer, Juan Tizol, Jimmy Blanton, Ben Webster, Billy Strayhorn, Ray Nance, Paul Gonsalves, Louie Bellson and the great Clark Terry (the last living legend of this era).

Ordinary is Extraordinary

As a composer, Ellington was groundbreaking. His music stretched the boundaries of the genre, incorporating the influences of both “serious” Classical music and Tin Pan Alley pop. He took uncanny pride in composing works for the sacred environment as well as secular and almost single handedly elevated the art form to serious recognition moving it from the bar and club environment to the concert stage including hallowed concert venues such as Carnegie Hall. Furthermore, in the words of Down Beat magazine, Duke remains “the only figure from the jazz world ever to make an imprint on the American popular song book comparable in breadth and depth to that achieved by Gershwin, Rodgers, Berlin, Arlen and others.” While he was not largely overt and visibly active in the civil rights movement, he was an important supporter. He demanded quality pay and treatment for jazz artists, was a fierce businessman who held his players to the high-

Mayor Sly James City of Kansas City, Missouri

Vernon Baker There are so many people and events that have made an impact on the progression of African-Americans in this country that it is difficult to choose just one. However, I am always struck by ordinary citizens who do extraordinary things. Vernon Baker is such a person. Mr. Baker served this country in World War II and endured a particularly heavy attack in Italy in 1945. His brave actions included leading troops through intense gunfire, manually dismantling a network of German telephone lines in close proximity to a Nazi military base, and razing two Nazi bunkers and observation posts. This particular battle occurred in April of 1945 and the Nazis Mayor Sly James

surrendered the following month, ending the most brutal war in the history of the human race. Mr. Baker waited 52 years for proper recognition. Had the United States Army not conducted a study on the Medal of Honor and determined that not a single AfricanAmerican had been bestowed the honor, Mr. Baker’s legacy may have gone completely unnoticed and unrecognized. Why? Because he served in a segregated unit and therefore, wasn’t even considered for the Medal of Honor. For generations, African-American soldiers served this country when this country failed to even acknowledge their sacrifices. In World War II alone, over 400 Medals of Honor were awarded to U.S. troops, none of which were African-American. Councilman Jermaine Reed 3rd District, Kansas City, MO

Vernon Baker was one of seven AfricanAmericans the Army’s study found should have been awarded the Medal of Honor for their bravery. Mr. Baker was the only one of these soldiers who was still alive in 1997 to finally receive this honor. As he stood on that stage, he represented so many different things experienced by generations of African-Americans: triumph, tragedy, hope, despair, opportunity, and obstacles. But most of all, he represented progress.

25+ DEFINING MOMENTS IN BLACK HISTORY

Rep. John Lewis Last Man Standing

While I was in Washington D.C. for President Obama’s second inauguration ceremony, I had the pleasure of serving on an informal panel on Capitol Hill with Congressman John Lewis of Georgia’s 5th Congressional District. Congressman Lewis hosted a group of 50 high school students from California who were in D.C. for the inauguration. U.S. Representative Lewis is one of the only living figures who had great prominence during the Civil Rights Movement. He played a key role in the struggle for Civil Rights and to end segregation. Lewis was instrumental in organizing student sit-ins, bus boycotts and non-violent protests in the fight for voter and racial equality. During a march of 600 people in Selma, Alabama in 1965, Lewis endured brutal beatings by angry mobs and suffered a fractured skull at the hands of Alabama State Police. He was one of the 13 original Freedom Riders.

Congressman John Lewis & Councilman Jermaine Reed

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SCENE: Coach Ken Carter From the movie Coach Cater

KC Keys 20th Anniversary Celebration | Sat 1.26.13. Atrium inside the Museums on 18th & Vine

15th Annual Martin Luther King, Jr. Breakfast

Event Chair, Charles

Lambert (l); speaker, Pastor, Darron Edwards (c ) Chapter President, Ken Bacchus (r ). Mon 1.21.13 | Beta Lambda Educational Institute of Alpha Phi Alpha Frat., Inc.

The Rhythm: The BOSS KINGZ

The band is composed of Jason "Blue" Robinson (MC vocals) Aaron "Aroc" Jamison (Drums) Henry "St. Lou" Brooks (Bass) Drew "Duece" Davis (Keyboard), Delynia Janell Brown (Vocals) Calvin Thompson (Guitar) and Earl "Cupid" Gant (Percussion)

he Boss Kingz is an influential Kansas City-based R&B/Soul group known for its smooth jazzy tones and live instrumentation vibe. The band is composed of Jason "Blue" Robinson (MC, vocals), Aaron "Aroc" Jamison (Drums), Henry "St. Lou" Brooks (Bass), Drew "Duece" Davis (Keyboard), Delynia Janell Brown (Vocals), Calvin Thompson (Guitar), and Earl "Cupid" Gant (Percussion). The group is earning a respectable fan base in Kansas City and is the house band for Icons Lounge on Grand blvd. Several members of The Boss Kingz have also played for and shared the stage with the likes of Max Groove, Bloodstone, Lakeside, Zapp, Ziggy Marley, Gladys Knight, and the Ohio Players. The Boss Kingz have a fresh blend of up-and-coming and seasoned professionals which bring unique and dynamic performances of classics from Mary J. Blige, Maxwell, Usher, the Commodores, R.Kelly, Stevie Wonder, Maze, Al Green, Marvin Gaye, Zapp, Beyonce, and Earth Wind and Fire. The Boss Kingz song list is an encyclopedia of soul, funk, hip-hop, and pop from the 1960â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s up to today's hits. A new musical experience has begun in Kansas City and the ride has just begun for this band. The wait is over. The Kingz have arrived.

PART I of a II Part Series Grab a highlighter and some sticky notes for this. Time to get educated. There are a lot of things they say good girls won’t do. It’s probably truer that good girls just know how to keep a secret. That is until now. We were given exclusive “Fly on the Wall” access to a real, unbridled, girl talk session. The talk is REAL and factual, but we’ve changed the names and incidentals to protect the innocent…and especially guilty. These aren’t just any women. They are the professionals, rising community stars, diverse in age and experience. We were let inside this inner sanctum of sisterhood to educate you. That’s right. Men who aspire to build better relationships or wonder what’s keeping them from the next level. This is also for women who are rarely given the ins and outs of the male species, how to be a good wife or lover and wonder if they are alone in their interests, dilemmas and desires. 34

“...I’ve not been in a serious relationship since I’ve been here… actually I have until I found out he was married…so it doesn’t count…” The Scene of the Crime Picture it. A comfortable loft in midtown Kansas City. Women mingle, make introduction and small talk. Wine is on deck and plentiful.

Get ten women in a room and you’re bound to hear the same thing, right? Wrong. Women are as unique and diverse as their experiences. Most are strong enough to express their individuality, in some fashion, even if they are the silent type. That’s as true when it comes to relationships.

Looking for love in KC? Start Here. Where to Find the Good KC Men

Every so often you need an updated exploratory session like this. After all, nothing stays constant. Take any subject and you’ll find a thesis on how it’s changed. In relationships, the age of marriage seems to get longer; the length of marriage sees to get shorter. Even the definition of a relationship, and even marriage has changed. These changes create a need for someone to develop a rule book for all the “would-be” lovers; a guide to help others navigate this maze. For Kansas City, consider this your guidebook—or at least chapter one.

Where are the “good” men in Kansas City? Among all of these women, no one could pinpoint a single destination. Sure, women go to parties and networking events, so they always meet people, but are they many of the women on this scene say it’s hard to find a “good” one. The internet even opens up the social possibilities, says Shonda. “Yeah, we meet people. It’s hard not to meet people with social networking. You post or tweet and people follow you.” But still, no one claims a location for “quality” finds, at least to their expectations.

In this two part, two issue series, we’ll give you some insights on both the single life and married life.

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Just a snapshot of events from the nonprofit calendar. For complete listings, visit kcsoul.com

FEB 2013

Malcolm X

Add Your Black History Month events and more to kcsoul.com. Just create a login or use your Facebook log-in. Sun 02/10 Black Family Tech Wk Kickoff KC Public Library, Central Branch : 14 W 10th St Kansas City MO Time: 2:00 PM - 5:00 PM Producer: The BFTAA Contact: George Walker Email: lgwalker@sbcglobal.net Phone: 816 805-0406 Web: www.bftaa.org Wed 02/13 Love and Soul Event type: Community Action William Jewell College: 500 College Hill Liberty MO Time: 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM Producer: The Black Student Assoc Contact: Black Student Association Email: BSA@william.jewell.edu Phone: 816-781-7700 Web: http://www.jewell.edu/ Fri 02/15 Power of An Image - Chocolate Recep. Bruce R. Watkins Cultural Heritage Ctr 3700 Blue Parkway Kansas City MO Time: 6:30 PM - 8:30 PM Contact: Jesse Barnes Email: jesse.barnes@kcmo.org 36

Phone: 816-513-0702 Sat 02/16 Everybody Can Play! Youth Tech Fair and Robotics Comp. Southeast Community Center: 4201 E 63rd Street Kansas City MO Time: 10:00 AM - 4:00 PM Contact: George Walker Email: lgwalker@sbcglobal.net Phone: 816 781-4050 Web: www.bftaa.org Sat 02/16 Jack and Jill Flapjack Fundraiser Applebee’s: 1046 w. 103rd St Kansas City MO Time: 8:00 AM - 10:00 AM Producer: Jack and Jill of KCMO Contact: Karla Gray Email: 1kgray@earthlink.net Fri 02/22 Omega Psi Phi All Black MasQUErade Event type: Fundraiser Hilton Kansas City Airport: 8801 NW 112st Kansas City MO Time: 9:00 PM - 2:00 AM Producer: Buffalo Soldier Ques Contact: Cyrus Russ

Email: dpg94@yahoo.com Phone: 337-540-3453 Sat 02/23 Greater KC Founders Day Celebration KC Marriott Country Club Plaza: 4445 Main Kansas City MO Time: 11:00 AM - 2:30 PM Producer: AKA, Beta Omega Chapter Contact: Ramona Davis Email: rdavis_dhoc@yahoo.com Sat 02/23 Women Entrepreneurs On The Move Event type: Business/Finance Brush Creek Community Center: KCMO Time: 2:00 PM - 6:00 PM Sherri Flowers - The Flower Pot Fdtn Contact: Sharla Webb Email: sharjscatering@gmail.com Web: sharjscatering.com kcsoul.com –KCs Urban Source ADD EVENTS OF ALL TYPES POETRY, CONCERTS, PARTIES, NETWORKING AND MORE. Just create a kcsoul.com Login or use your Facebook login and post for FREE.

JANUARY 2013 SCENE: IN CASE YOU MISSED IT BURNING SANDS STEPSHOW. JAN 2013 | UPTOWN THEATER | KCMO PRODUCED BY: KCMO Alumnae chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. Photos: Raye Jackson. SEE MORE PICS ON PG 70.

Art composition inspired by the Tuskegee Airman

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reminder of what he meant to the Civil Rights Movement. He’s the only remaining Civil Rights leader who spoke at the March on Washington in August 1963. As I witnessed the first Black president elected for the second time, I was humbled by how far African Americans have come in the 50 years since the Civil Rights movement. It’s remarkable that Congressman Lewis, who stood up so that we could have equal voting rights, was able to see the fruits of his labor. The Civil Rights Movement has many lesser known leaders; however, I find it interesting that most of the organizations birthed from the movement were started by men in their 20’s and early 30’s. The movement thrived on the energy of the young people and their fresh ideas and willingness to fight the status quo. These young men stepped up the plate and led the young and old in a movement that changed the course of history, not just in America, but around the globe.

stands as an example to follow, I had to look no further than my father. As a young boy, growing up in public housing, my father taught my sisters and me to hold our heads high, and always strive to do our best. I watched as my father worked three jobs to send us kids, and my mother, to college. We bought a small house, a home he still lives in today. And to this very day, my father leads the way with his pureness of soul and intentioned deeds in all he does. He takes pride in who he is and where he has been, and he helps lead others – like his loving son.

Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

Civil Rights Leader

U.S. Congressman Emanuel Cleaver, II 5th Congressional District

Lucky Cleaver

A Father Leads the Way

We often hear people refer to the Civil Rights Movement and the struggles of Dr. Martin Luther King, Junior, and others – as black history. And while we have made tremendous progress there is still much work to be done. As I searched my heart to pick a person for this article, who has shown me the way and 39

Michael E. Brooks Senior Pastor, Zion Grove Baptist Church

Dr. Vernon Johns Civil Rights Mover & Shaker I would offer a pioneer of civil rights Dr Vernon Johns, who has come to be known as the real Father of the Civil Rights movement. He pushed the culture of the South and members of his Baptist congregation to take a stand against injustice. His fiery sermons help to gain friends and foes and eventually, he was asked to resign from his pulpit because of his outspoken ways. They wanted a more polished conservative pastor and his replacement was an unknown young preach named Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. The rest is history. (Continued on page 40)

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Johns portrays the image of one who as trailblazer doesn't get credit for his accomplishments, but paved the way for the next generation. He's my choice because he's my model. Sometimes you have to stand alone to really take a stand.

and activities to promote education, cultural sensitivity, political involvement, community awareness, and the performing arts. Rev. Thompson, a retired United Methodist minister, has also pastored a local church, run a community center, and served on numerous boards of agencies and organizations. He is a lifelong resident of Kansas City and has been married to Mrs. Cheryl C. Thompson for 47 years. He is a graduate of St. Paul School of Theology, where he holds a doctorate degree.

Dr. Joe Seabrooks, President Metropolitan Community College-Penn Valley

President Barack Obama We Can

US 44th President Barack Obama

Arlana Coleman Southern Christian Leadership Conference

Rev. Nelson “Fuzzy” Thompson KC Continues the Legacy

Rev. Thompson, a well-known community activist, has been a leader in the civil rights community for the past 25 years, serving primarily as president of SCLC. He is the driving force behind Kansas City’s celebration of Dr. King’s birthday, making it the second largest in the nation. The Celebration is a 10 day event involving youth, young adults, and the community in honoring the legacy of Dr. King. The Celebration provides scholarships for youth

On the evening of August 28, 2008, I felt the earth beneath my feet shift, as I sat in the living room with my beautiful bride and our handsome sons, who were four-years old and two-months at the time. That night my heart was filled with so much pride, admiration and hope. Leslie and I were glued to the television as we watched and listened in awe and amazement. We will never forget these words: “To all my fellow citizens of this great nation, with profound gratitude and great humility, I accept your nomination for the presidency of the United States.” That night, then Senator, Barack Obama gave the most amazing acceptance speech at the democratic convention in Denver, Colorado. With tears in our eyes, Leslie and I started to believe that the possibility of America having a leader different from what we have always known was upon us. We along with a nation were inspired by the powerful and eloquent words of our future president: "At this moment, in this election, we must pledge once more to march into the future. Let us keep that promise, that American promise, and in the words of scripture hold firmly, without wavering, to the hope that we confess." (Continued on page 41)

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It was in that moment I put away all notions that America would only let me and my family go so far. That night I was convinced that American Dream was and is possible for ALL of us.

Dr. Doretha K. Williams Executive Director The Black Archives of Mid-America In conjunction with LINC

Mary Lou Williams Making Her Own Lane

(1910 - 1981) Among the greatest female jazz musicians, Mary Lou Williams was a piano prodigy and became a professional performer while in her teens. With her husband John Williams she moved to Kansas City in the late 1920s and shattered barriers in the male-dominated jazz scene with her immense talents as a piano soloist, composer and arranger. Leaving Kansas City in 1942, she formed her own small group, later joined Duke Ellington’s band, retired briefly, but remained active into the 1970s. A section of 10th Street between The Paseo and Woodland is named “Mary Lou Williams Lane” in her honor.

with readers my high regard for an individual who has a distinguished and proud history of advancing the cause of education in our country. Dr. Jeanne Noble was a visionary educator who published a book in 1956 titled “The Negro Woman’s College Education,” which analyzed the college experiences of a group of African-American women that would later aid in integration during a time of struggling social conflicts in our nation. Dr. Noble went on to become the first black woman full professor at New York University’s Steinhardt School of Culture, Education, and Human Development. She was also named to several federal education commissions by Presidents Lyndon B. Johnson, Richard Nixon, and Gerald Ford; appointed to the Defense Department Advisory Committee on Women in the Services; and served on the National Board of Girls Scouts USA. Through Dr. Noble’s accomplishments, she stands as a symbol to all African-American women to make their mark on this world in order to inspire, encourage and challenge future generations that will become tomorrow’s leaders.

Roger C. Williams, Jr. EdD Grammateus Theta Boule’ Sigma Pi Phi Fraternity

Dr. Leodis Davis

Professor Extraordinaire

S.Kiki Curls Missouri State Senator

Dr. Jeanne Noble National Educator As a lawmaker who is passionate about all issues relating to education in Missouri, I am honored to share S.Kiki Curls

Kansas City, Missouri native Leodis Davis PhD honored the education profession by his commitment to excellence. A graduate of Kansas City University with degrees of Master and Doctorate in Biochemistry granted by Iowa State University, Professor Davis used his training, love for teaching, learning, and research, as well as his student-centered demeanor to light his path to success as an Academic. He held appointments at Tennessee State University and Howard University prior to moving to the University of Iowa where he spent the majority of a distinguished career. At the University of Iowa, his tenure was embellished with terms as Chair of the Department of (Continued on page 44)

Kiss & Tell

“...Men don’t feel like they’re on the same level so they have to list out their resume.”

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from Atlanta. I’ve not been in a serious relationship since I’ve been here…actually I have until I found out he was married…so it doesn’t count”, Shonda says. So maybe the women have raised the bar too high. “Give the brothas a chance”, I say.

It’s Not That They’re All Bad, Right?

“Prideful, hood, and sensitive” are some of the adjectives the women used in describing KC men. But just when I thought the “hate fest” was in full swing , the women also acknowledged that KC men generally have goals and dreams, and some are decent guys because they are familyoriented. Many are even progressive, but the best catches seem to be migratory: either they’re trying to get out of Kansas City or they are recently relocated transplants to the area with no strong roots to make KC their home. EVERYBODY KNOWS...EVERYBODY Even when you find good men, the other challenge is that Kansas City is just so small. Melonie states, “Kansas City men have already dated several people you know, so people are in your business. If you say you’re from out of town, my first response is ‘Really?!’, an immediate interest arises from fresh prospects. “There’s no way I’d date someone in KC if turned up single again”, she says.

Men, Don’t Be Scared

Men have read and heard enough about what women want: Attractive with a good job – no, a career – and a 401k, topped off with a strong dose of good sense. Men want a progressive woman, but he still wants to retain the role of breadwinner. However, a rise in corporate positions among women means that you can find many women making more money and gaining career advancement beyond their male counterparts. So the feeling is that too many Kansas City men are intimidated by that advanced, professional woman, particularly if her material success is greater than theirs. Melonie believe this inferiority complex starts well before men reach adulthood.

She feels the behavior begins in high school. “Past classmates have told me that they didn’t approach me in high school because I was ‘smart’ or ‘in those books’.”

“Married sex is boring”.

Oh, yeah, you’re probably not ready for this.

Approach and Landing

Well, if you’re one of the “good” men, issuefree, and you’re not scared, you’re ready for the next phase: the approach. There are several strategies that work but DeAnna says don’t start with a line like, “Are you hurt, you look like you just fell from heaven.” Julie follows with, “No lines” is the best advice. A natural conversation works. When you meet someone, you should just try getting to know her as person, as a friend, and as a human being.” That approach may be received as a refreshing departure for the outdated status quo aggressive “I'm going to holla at cha”, tactic. Another turn-off in the approach phase is the “One-Upper”. “Guys think they need to talk about themselves (MAN TIP) You may and their accomplishments, consider not asking when it’s not a setting like that”, for a phone number says DeAnna. “Let’s just have a when you first meet. conversation.” One-uppers In a small town like are about proving themselves. Kansas City, you’re Every remark you make, they bound to meet again. counter with their own and better achievement. Julies says ”I think the One-upper goes back to the being intimidated thing. Men don’t feel like they’re on the same level so they have to list out there resume.” Of course this view illicits some response, It’s probably not intimidation, it’s a matter of making first impressions. If you’ve passed the top of the list, “physical appeal” check box. The next issue is proving you’re worth a woman’s time. Somehow you’ve got to get out that you’ve got a job and are not living in your mommas basement, right? It’s the same philosophy as speed networking or meeting a potential client. You’ve got two minutes to make an impression. This is the Apollo show of love. Men know the hook can come at any moment, so blame most of this on the clock. THIS CONCLUDES KISS & TELL PART I. You might call PART II, Let’s Get Real session. How real? Here’s a preview quote:

PART II March 2013

TWELVE MAGAZINE

IDEAL MEN SOCIAL MEDIA STALKERS SEX KEEPING RELATIONSHIPS GOING

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Chemistry, President of the Faculty Senate, Associate Vice President for Academic Affairs and Senior Associate Provost of the University for Budget and Planning. He was designated Professor Emeritus upon his retirement in 1997.

Curtis Brown, Jr. HBCU Alumni Events

In honor of Professor Davis’ celebrated career, the University of Iowa recently launched an effort to endow “The Leo Davis Fund in Chemistry.” Dr. Davis is a notable member of the Sigma Pi Phi Fraternity---Theta Boule’ and currently serves as Sire Archon of the Western Region.

His Science Ignited the World

Sean Tyler DJ & Radio Personality, KPRS-FM

President Barack Obama TWICE as Nice

I'm pretty sure I will NOT be the only one who thinks that this was the most incredible moment in black history, but on Tuesday November 4th 2008 we elected "change" in the form of this country's 1st Black president! That's right, the very same country where not 50 years prior held blacks in this country at a place where no human is deserving of. As we watched his expedited rise from the Sean Tyler Senate floor with an amazing speech from the Democratic convention just 4 years earlier, to sizzling debates with his Republican rivals. He proved himself worthy of being the leader of the free world even in the toughest economic times this country has ever seen. So my greatest moment in black history is not only the election, but also RE-election of President Barrack H. Obama

George Washington Carver

George Washington Carver was an example of how a mind that is dedicated to pursuing its passion will succeed, despite the obstacles put before it. Carver was born into slavery in the mid 1860's and by the end of his life in 1943, he was recognized as "One of America's Great Scientists." As a baby, he, his mother and sister were kidnapped by a gang of "night-riders" who intended to sell them as part of the slave trade. He was recovered by his master, Mr. Carver, with whom he stayed after Emancipation in Diamond, MO. His desire for knowledge led him away from the Carvers, and ultimately to Iowa State University after he was denied admission to another school because he was Black. His talent for plants and botanical studies was recognized by the faculty at Iowa State where he was accepted to complete his Master's degree and became the first Black faculty member. Ultimately, he joined the faculty at Tuskegee University, where he helped to develop the Agriculture Department as a recognized research center. He was a member of the Tuskegee faculty until his death in 1943. Carver is most known for his work with peanuts, however, this oversimplifies his contribution to science, the American economy, and the movement for Black self-sufficiency. In the early 1900s, the ability for the US to produce cotton was diminished by overplanting, which depleted the nutrients of the soil, and by the infestation of the boll weevil. His innovations around soil improvement led to higher cotton yields and alternative cash crops, which spurred economic activity. Carver's techniques to improve agricultural processes along with his expertise of the peanut gave him recognition within the scientific community, and the business/political circles of his time. World leaders, including Presidents Theodore Roosevelt, Calvin Coolidge and Franklin Roosevelt, as well as the Crown Prince of Sweden sought his advice. Henry Ford and other business leaders invited him to (Continued on page 45)

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speak on several occasions, many times which were at Southern White colleges. In 1921, his testimony before Congress led to the passage of the Fordney-McCumber Tariff which regulated peanut imports and protected the profits of American farmers.

The Black Wall Street Massacre Thriving Black Community Burned to the Ground

George Washington Carver held over 300 patents for his discoveries related to peanuts, and is one of a few non-Presidents to have a National Memorial.

Senior Pastor Ron Lindsay Concord Fortress of Hope Church

“The Black Wall Street Massacre”

Remember What’s Possible The Black Wall street massacre is a fact left out or unknown to most American historians even African American history conversations and literature. The setting for this tragedy was June 1, 1921, when a small yet progressive Black community in Tulsa Oklahoma, gained national attention for creating a fiscal giant. This moment, shared what it would look like when a segregated community would band together circulate its dollars and become an economic force in its region. The nation was amazed to see an isolated group of Negroes build 600 successful businesses among which were 21 churches, 21 restraints, 30 grocery stores, movie theaters, a hospital, a bank, libraries, schools, law offices, a transit system and even airports. It was a model that Negro communities nationwide looked to duplicate, ergo the name “Black Wall Street” was born. With this, grew the jealousy and anger of less affluent whites and the Ku Klux Klan. And on that ill-fated day, June 1, 1921, these angry groups marched on and flew over this amazing model of Black achievement. Within 12 hours bombed this community from the air and ground till every business was destroyed and over 3000 African Americans were murdered.

Lewis Walker Black Family Technology Awareness Association

Bruce R. Watkins

Kansas City’s Civil Rights Leader

Bruce R. Watkins

There are many African American heroes and sheroes that have had an impact on Civil Rights and improving the lives of African American in Kansas City. One of those was Bruce R. Watkins. Born in 1927 in Parkville, MO. During World War II Bruce was a member of the famed 99th Pursuit Squadron, The Tuskegee Airmen that were portrayed in the movie Red Tails. (Continued on page 54)

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Digital Big Biz

Davyeon Ross

It’s no surprise to hear about big business, mergers and acquisitions happening on the coasts, but the same happens right here in Kansas City in the AfricanAmerican community. Entrepreneur and technology leader, Davyeon Ross was founder and CEO of Digital Sports Ventures (DSV), a software and product development company. In simple terms, DSV delivered Division I College Sports Video to websites and mobile devices. His work of uniting college sports and digital media into solutions created new opportunities for publishers, advertisers, and agencies to target and engage sports fans. DSV was acquired by Digital Broadcasting Group Oct 2011 and Davyeon was named Executive Vice President. As CEO of DSV, Ross’ responsibilities included negotiation of the rights to DI college sports video across seven major conferences. Strategy development for the company’s portfolio of content and interactive technologies was also part of his responsibilities. Davyeon’s originally from Trinidad & Tobago, West Indies. He earned a B.S. in Computer Science and Math from Benedictine College and an MBA from MidAmerica Nazarene University. Now a 13-year veteran in the technology field, Ross makes time to use his expertise and talent to help emerging entrepreneurs and businesses. 47

THE DIGITAL DIVIDE KCs Tech Leaders Review the gaps and opportunities for African-Americans.

George Walker President, Black Family Technology Awareness Association of KC bftaa.org

What sparked your interest in technology? My interest in technology started watching my older brother build model planes with gas engines. I also liked science from a young age and my parents got me a chemistry set for Christmas while I was in grade school. I always liked science in school and performing experiments. There were a few other people that encouraged my curiosity my grandmother and my Boy Scout master. Between the internet and the mobile phone, there seems to be limitless possibilities with technology. Do you feel the gap is closing in terms of the awareness and use of technology among Blacks? The rise in the use of mobile phones has made it easier for some youth to access the internet and that is not bad, but access to the internet is not the only factor of the digital divide. We do not need to become complacent about the digital divide just because cell phone usage is up. We still need to improve the digital literacy of youth. Emerging Tools or Technology? Where do you see advancements in technology taking place that may be a good career pursuit for AfricanAmericans? Students should not just pursue a career for the money if they don't have a passion for field they enter. Some good fields are petroleum engineering, graphic design, and programming. Some schools have technology, advanced math and robotics programs? For students that might not have those programs or resources, what suggestions do you have? I would suggest that students talk with their parents about the lack of programs so they can work with the schools to include these programs. I would also suggest that they try to start some extracurricular clubs to support their interest. There are also outside organizations like the Black Family Technology Awareness Association that offer programs in Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math (STEM) that students can get involved in.

Tiffany Wheeler President, National Society of Black Engineers-KC

What sparked your interest in technology? When I was in elementary school I wanted to be a plastic surgeon. My dream was to help burn victims like the doctors on the TV shows. After taking an anatomy class in high school I realized I didn’t have the stomach for it. A lady at my church about 8 years older than me went to school for chemical engineering. She graduated from college with her undergraduate degree and right out of school was able to start a successful career at a pharmaceutical company. I thought if she could do it, I could too. I renewed my college major search with a focus into science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM) careers. I chose one that I believed would fit me well, civil engineering, and I enjoy what I do today. Now I’m able to help people on a broader scale than I could as a surgeon. Do you feel the gap is closing in terms of the awareness and use of technology among Blacks? Black people are using technology more than ever, and the gap is closing considerably. With the explosion of online social media and increased access and affordability of technology we are able to easily stay connected. There are many STEM community outreach programs that were not in existence 5 or 10 years ago that people can participate in today. I’m also really excited that Kansas City was selected to be the test city for Google Fiber, and that will help close the gap in our community even further. Where do you see advancements in technology taking place that may be a good career pursuit for African-Americans? There is a need for more African Americans in all STEM fields. There aren’t enough women, especially Black women in these areas. If a girl decides at early age to pursue a career in STEM the sky’s the limit. As we develop new technologies and have a greater concern with preserving the environment around us, Information Technology (I.T.) and Environmental Sustainability aka ‘Going Green’ are at the forefront of areas with increased career opportunities and development. Some schools have technology, advanced math and robotics programs? For students that might not have those programs or resources, what suggestions do you have? Many of the high schools in the area have a FIRST robotics team and/or a Project Lead the Way program which are elective classes that introduce students to broad engineering principles. We have a NSBE Jr. Program that is for 9-12th grade students that meet at UMKC once a month. However, STEM outreach to even younger students in elementary and middle school will have a greater influence. An organization we partner with, Black Family Technology Awareness Association

TECH SOLUTIONS

Sherry Lumpkins Blue Symphony, LLC “From KC to around the nation...the next time someone’s in need… CentralGiving.com” Right now, there’s a family who’s lost their home in a fire. Nearby, there’s a mother who’s stopped working due to illness, a student raising money for a scholarship pageant, and, a few blocks away there’s a fraternity member who’s passed away. These seem familiar to you because you are, or know someone who is going through these life events, just like so many others in cities and neighborhoods across the country. The common denominator in each case is funding. And if you’re like most, you’ve got a little, but a not lot of money. Enter CentralGiving.com. Expanding the new movement of “crowd funding”, CentralGiving.com facilitates fundraising for both individuals and groups for any occasion. The site is used around the nation and was developed right here in Kansas City by cofounder, Blue Symphony, LLC. Sherry Lumpkins, principal of Blue Symphony, 49

LLC says the idea was borne of real life situations close to home: a shut-in neighbor, the sudden passing of a close friend and similar cases. In each case, money was needed although the families were sometimes reluctant to ask for help. CentralGiving.com provides an easy, no-pressure platform for anyone to create a gift page to help fund any need and even celebratory occasion – and page setup is free. “CG can be used for any occasion.”, says Lumpkins, “As we say, It’s for people’s life events – times of need and times of celebration.” People use the site for easy-to-use fundraising features such as reporting, managing communications and even goal tracking, which is not available with mere payment button services. CentralGiving.com also gives the fundraiser a polished, professional presentation and an online destination where people can go to give, a clear step up from and indiscriminate payment button that can ring of suspicion. Plus, it saves the time and postage from traditional mailing efforts. (Continued on page 59)

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(BFTAA) offers summer camps and robotics programs for middle school age students. As always the internet is a great resource. There are STEM activities and projects available any parent no matter their background can do with their student at home.

Kevin Williams CEO WillCo Group of Companies

What sparked your interest in technology? I’ve always enjoyed technology. Even as a child I was a bit of a gadget freak. I’m intrigued by how much technology enhances our lives and how much mankind is moved through the use of technology. Between the internet and the mobile phone, there seems to be limitless possibilities with technology. Do you feel the gap is closing in terms of the awareness and use of technology among Blacks? I believe that technology awareness is greatly improved among Blacks but we still have a ways to go to eliminate the digital divide. In today’s society, you can’t complete a job application unless you have access to the internet. Ordering goods and services online is very commonplace today, along with many other things that we take for granted. It is critically important that Blacks have access to the internet in order to stay competitive in the job market. Emerging Tools or Technology? Where do you see advancements in technology taking place that may be a good career pursuit for African-Americans? I’m a little bias with this answer because I have patents pending in the area of Smart Grid technology. The US electric grid is aging and there will be billions upon billions of dollars spent on the Smart Grid in the next ten years. Jobs in the solar industry will be plentiful. Other positions in the electric utilities and the suppliers that support the Smart Grid will be good career choices. For example the companies that make Smart Meters. Some schools have technology, advanced math and robotics programs? For students that might not have those programs or resources, what suggestions do you have? Look for certification programs at an accredited Community College. Health Care Technicians, Energy Efficiency Auditors, and Help Desk Support positions are good paying jobs that only require a certification rather than a 4-year degree. Some of these certifica-

tions can be earned in as little as two weeks and about a thousand dollars.

Davyeon Ross Founder & Former CEO Digital Sports Ventures

What sparked your interest in technology? have always been very strong at Math. In high-school I finished Calc 1 and 2. In college my options were Math or Computer Science. At that time Computer Science was a hot major and the highest paying major for undergraduates. Between the internet and the mobile phone, there seems to be limitless possibilities with technology. Do you feel the gap is closing in terms of the awareness and use of technology among Blacks? Blacks are incredible technology users and have always been. If you look at the statistics of Blacks on twitter it's outrageous. The challenge is for us to start utilizing technology to solve problems and create companies. Being aware and a good user of technology is great. Using tech to create and own a business is awesome. Emerging Tools or Technology? Where do you see advancements in technology taking place that may be a good career pursuit for African-Americans? To be honest, having a background in technology is the baseline. Once you have that foundation you can seamlessly transition into most markets and industries by acquiring domain expertise. The great news about Tech is that no matter the business there is a tech component. If you own a cookie company you are now selling online which is technology. Mobile Medicine is a growing area and will revolutionize the way we think, interact with our doctors and manage our prescriptions. At the end of the day anything that can be automated and leverage technology to drive efficiency, scale and margins is a good place to be. Some schools have technology, advanced math and robotics programs? For students that might not have those programs or resources, what suggestions do you have? The internet is an outstanding resource for technology. 9/10 times you can find a tutorial or answer to any technology question. Many websites offer tutorials and videos that are second to none. (e.g. http://www.khanacademy.org/). Please note it's important to ensure that the online resources you fine are credible. If you don't have access to the internet tech magazines and books are a great resource also.

In 2007, Sun-Up Jones relocated to Kansas City, MO, and within a few months he had taken Kansas City by storm. Soon the requests from clubowners and promoters started pouring in due to his reputation for rocking the crowd no-matter the venue. DJ Sun-Up Jones has a great ear for what's hot in music & knows when to drop the classics that'll always get the party going. He concentrates on staying current in his music selections, breaking records, and keeping the crowd entertained. Constant commitment is what it takes to be the best, and that commitment has paid off for him. He was the winner of the 2009 Mc Donald's Flavor DJ Battle (Midwest Division-Columbia, MO). DJ Sun-Up Jones is a member of National Recording Artist Nelly's Elite Derrty DJ organization. He continues to build his brand/ network through his hard work and excellent reputation.

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After serving his country during the war Bruce returned to Kansas City and began to fight for the civil rights of African American at home. He would become one of the founders of Freedom incorporated a black political organization. Bruce would go on to become one of two first African Americans elected to the Kansas City, City Council in 1963. In 1966 he would become the first African American elected to a county office when he won the race for County Clerk of Jackson County. One of the most important actions that Bruce Watkins did for Kansas City took place while he served in the City Council. In 1963 he introduced the Public Accommodations Ordinance that would prohibit discrimination in public business establishments. The ordinance passed and African American could eat, shop, and enjoy all of the cities attractions that had been off limits to African Americans. Kansas City became a livable city in part due to efforts of brave men and women like Bruce R. Watkins.

len, the wife of an intern at General Hospital II bought the idea with her from Philadelphia. She gathered some of her friends and they invited others mothers from both Missouri and Kansas. However in1957, when the group became too large, they separated in an effort to take in members from both Kansas and Missouri. The KCMO chapter has provided workshops for young boys within our city. Our chapter has donated and made contributions to various charities in the community. We have an annual Java and Jazz, an evening of jazz. We are striving to promote excellence in our children as well as exposure, so that they may develop into responsible and caring adults.

Karla Gray, President Kansas City, Missouri Chapter of Jack and Jill

Jack and Jill Still Climbing

Jack and Jill of America, Inc was incorporated on January 24, 1938 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Twenty mothers came together to discuss creating an organization to provide social, cultural and educational opportunities for youth between the ages of 2 to 19. Today Jack and Jill has over 230 chapters representing over 30,000 family members. Each chapter plans programs guided by a national theme that involves health, educational, social and financial area. In 1968, the Jack and Jill Foundation is the philanthropic arm and has been responsible for the origin and funding of a large number of educational and charitable projects benefiting children and families in communities across the United States. The Kansas City, Missouri Chapter of Jack and Jill was found the summer of 1950. Betty Al-

Dr. Carter G. Woodson Father of Black History Month

Lewis Diuguid Board member and columnist for The Kansas City Star and letters editor.

Dr. Carter G. Woodson Theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve Got to Know

Dr. Carter G. Woodson is the person most significant to me in African American history.

My dad heard his lecture in the 1930s at West Virginia State College. Woodson, who is responsible for starting Negro History Week and the Association for the Study of African American Life and History, was dedicated to getting blacks not to accept the image that whites had of them. We are still embroiled in that struggle today. Larry Lester NoirTech Research, Inc.

abuse, and other life experiences that could have hindered her, she overcame those obstacles instead of being defined and defiled by them. Oprah's transparency, relatable persona and empathy allowed her to appeal to people across all cultures or backgrounds - something we didn't see for women of color. Oprah is a testimony that little brown girls can impact the world if they persevere through problems, passionately pursue purpose and love people.

Tom Bass

The Horse Whisperer Credited as a founder of Kansas City's American Royal Horse Show, Tom Bass (1859 1934) was born into slavery in Mexico, Missouri. For a half century, Bass trained thousands of horses to prance, bow, curtsy, dance, do the cakewalk, and dozens of other tricks. Starting out as a stable boy, Bass eventually became a trainer and established a reputation for training even the most violent horses, including Mustangs, without using a whip. He is credited with inventing the Bass Bit, still used today to ease the pain that horses endure during training.

Brian Foster. President 100 Black Men of Greater KC

1968 They Took A Stand

Gold Medallist Tommie Smith, (center) and Bronze medallist John Carlos (right). Raised fists and wearing Olympic Project for Human Rights (OPHR) badges. Silver Medalist, Peter Norman (left) from Australia wore an OPHR badge to support

During his life he performed before five U.S. Presidents and won over 2,000 blue ribbon competitions. More can be learned about Tom Bass in Bill Downey's book, "Whisper on the Wind: The story of Tom Bass - Celebrated Black Horseman."

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Oprah Winfrey

Didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Say It Would Be Easy As a woman in a field that favors men and more non-minorities with mainstream opportunities, I am grateful for minority women in media - particularly Oprah Winfrey. Oprah Winfrey is a living part of African American History in media , entrepreneurship and charity. Coming from poverty, sexual 55

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History occurred during my lifetime on October 16, 1968. That year was a turbulent and tragic one, with the assassinations of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert F. Kennedy, the continued escalation in Vietnam (can you say Tet Offensive?), and the violence at the Democratic National Convention in Chicago.

Marian Wright Edelman Youth Advocate

I was almost seven years old, watching the 1968 Olympics. Two African-American men, sprinters Tommie Smith and John Carlos, blazed down a track in Mexico City, winning the gold and bronze medal, respectively, in the 200 meters. As these Black men, representing the U.S., stood upon the victory stand with U.S.A. emblazoned across their chests, they each raised a black-gloved fist in the air during the playing of the U.S. national anthem. This non-violent, reverently silent gesture represents one of my fondest memories – both as a young Black male and as an American. With that salute, broadcast live on television screens across the country, Smith and Carlos forced America to view "boys" who should be grateful for the scraps society provides, as MEN who demand to sit at the table and slice their own meat. Don't sleep on their contribution to the struggle.

Darron LaMonte Edwards, Sr., Senior Pastor United Believers Community Church, Kansas City, MO

Rev. Dr. Gardner C. Taylor A King Mentor

A profound influence on the African-American pulpit, Rev. Dr. Gardner C. Taylor, born in Baton Rouge, Louisiana in 1918, is a model of eloquence and passion in preaching. He served as senior pastor of Brooklyn’s Concord Baptist Church of Christ from 1948 to 1990. In 1979, Time magazine recognized him as one of the seven best Protestant preachers in the nation and conferred on him the title “Dean of the Nation’s Black Preachers.” His views on social justice and equality placed him as a close

friend and mentor to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Believing that the church should play an active role in the community, he played a prominent role in the religious leadership of the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s. Together with Dr. King, he pushed the black Baptist establishment to get more involved in the struggles of the day. When that did not happen as swiftly as he anticipated, the two helped found a new denomination, the Progressive National Baptist Convention. To pattern your preaching after Dr. Taylor would mean that you would challenge our country. Taylor’s style of exegetical examination of a sacred text would challenge the contemporary American disease of “Let me alone! I choose not to get along, and I don’t want to be bothered with too many things.” In my opinion, when a pulpit becomes an echo of the pew, it loses, I think, almost all of its reasons for existence.

In summation, I believe very few students of great American preaching of the past 25 years would have offered a list of significant profound preachers without including Taylor at or near the top of their list. Taylor is now retired and living in Raleigh, North Carolina.

Tammy Edwards, President Greater KC Chapter of the Links, Inc.

Marian Wright Edelman

Good for the Children Marian Wright Edelman’s book, The Measure of our Success, greatly impacted my life. The book, written to guide her three sons into adulthood, provides a practical, thought provoking and inspiring view on the importance of living a purpose driven life grounded by service to others. Ms. Edelman is the founder and president of the Children’s Defense Fund (CDF), the nation’s leading advocacy and research organization for poor, minority and handicapped children. A graduate of Spelman College and Yale Law School, Ms. Edelman became the first black women admitted to the Mississippi Bar. While practicing law, she became active in the civil rights movement often assisting Dr. Martin Luther King with discrimination and poverty issues. That work led to the formation of the CDF which she founded in 1973. I’m confident that embracing the principals shared in The Measure of our Success shaped my passion for service, especially in areas that involve children. The majority of my volunteer work has been and will continue to be dedicated helping others do better by knowing better. Ms. Edelman, and most definitely my parents, helped me realize that success should not be measured by degrees, titles, income or where you live but by how you live and how many people you help. Marian Wright Edelman has devoted her life to ensure all children have access to quality childcare, healthcare, proper nutrition and education. Because of her tireless work, I am inspired to do the same.

Councilwoman Melba Curls 3rd District, City of Kansas City, MO

Philip B. Curls

Paved the Way in KC One of the most influential African American leaders in Kansas City that comes to my mind is Senator Phillip B. Curls, deceased. As a state senator in the Missouri Legislature, Curls was successful in getting a bill passed in the 1990s that is still relevant today. The Missouri Housing Trust Fund allowed funding to be set aside to assist affordable housing for low -income families and the homeless. He helped to establish the funding that is distributed state wide and nets approximately $3.5 million per year. Senator Curls diligently worked on this initiative for several years before it was finally passed. In addition to his work on funding this trust fund, he was very influential in assisting other comMelba Curls munity leaders in seeking public office. He served as President of Freedom, Inc., and as such, he helped to secure victories for Alan Wheat, the first African American Congressman from Kansas City, and Rev. Emanuel Cleaver, the first African American Mayor of Kansas City. Many public officials sought his counsel and advice, and leaders from around the state attended his funeral in 2007 in recognition of his influence and impact throughout the state.

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