For Connoisseurs & Conscious Living This magazine is called TWELVE to note it’s monthly presence, only TWELVE times a year. Also, and more importantly, TWELVE is a symbol of time. So it represents timely information and the central point by which life events are measured. And of course, time pieces are part of the finer things, perfect for our core readers in pursuit of sophisticated living. Welcome to TWELVE.
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Volume I, Issue VII
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JULY 2013
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THE TASTE OF SUMMER
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Food, family and fun. That sums up July fairly well. It’s the month we enjoy the summer season to the fullest—the grilling, festivals and fellowship. In this issue, we bring you some of the tastes and sounds of KC. Since it’s July, we also help you prepare for August—the Back to School season—exploring ways to keep kids sharp, even when they are not in school. We also continue our new campaign, VOLUME, so you’ll find articles highlighting some of our national music treasures. We’ve got much more in store for you. After all, this isn’t just a magazine. It’s a movement!
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As always, we highlight the people to watch, key tips and places to go. So enjoy the features.
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fter setting the 2013 Urban Fashion Fest Kansas City (UFFKC) theme this year of “Metropolitan Zeitgeist”, meaning Spirit of the City, the UFFKC committee wanted to make sure that the marquee fashion show reflected just that—the Spirit of the City. That vision came to life with the Haute Metropolis: A Fashion Show at the newly opened, The Promise Event Space, in the Crossroads District (1814 Oak). The jewel and candle lit focal runner down the center of the runway, evoked an intimate and sophisticated feel of a show style not commonly seen in Kansas City, but more reminiscent of some New York style presentations. It featured no staging, white curtains and lovely up-lighting making the focus entirely the runway. The 2013 show host was none other than KC native, Gary Mitchell, who kept the crowd entertained and provided commentary of designers with complimentary sounds by DJ Ben Rich. This year featured varying aesthetic concepts. Eleven designers were highlighted, including a customary student winner from Penn Valley’s annual student showcase. The other 10 designers ranged from accessories (bow ties, shoes & jewelry) and custom made pieces. The 2013 feature was KC native, Minc Mason of 3Minc. (Continued on page 8)
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The definition of family seems to evolve as often as we turn the TV channel. Growing up with a television meant fond memories of what was portrayed as the quintessential family of each era. For my generation it was The Cosby Show. Cliff and Claire Huxtable were the hard working parents who juggled careers as a doctor and lawyer, while raising five beautiful kids in New York. It was a joyous Thursday night routine to tune in to what was, without a doubt, a large, happy, successful, functioning family. Like all families (real and fictitious), they had their trials; but the dynamic couldn’t have been more ideal. As we watch society shift into a new definition of family, it’s important to consider how large families, like the beloved Huxtables, are succeeding in the real world. That same proverbial TV channel has replaced The Huxtable family with those seen on shows like Divorce Court, Teen Mom , I’m Having Their Baby, Modern Family and The New Normal. Each family, different in its own right, depicts the growing rate of unwed parents, underage couples and non-traditional families that contribute to the diminishing spotlight on what was once considered the nuclear family. Dana Weatherspoon-Tiller, a wife and mother living in Kansas City, Missouri, defines family as a group of people who share a common bond, love one another unconditionally and take care of each other. With five family members she has a firsthand understanding of what it takes to be a part of a large bunch. Dana, a fifth grade teacher in the Hickman Mills School District, may have that special blend of patience and appreciation that it takes to succeed in any situation.
“ I see successful African American families like the Cosby's all around me,” says Dana.
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The blessings, Dana reflects upon, are being able to have an abundance of love and of being able to interact with so many different personalities. Of course there are those things that every family has in place that keep it running. There are
routines to keep the household in order, and a set schedule to keep track of the various activities the children complete throughout the week. According to Dana, it’s all about creating a balance between each child’s individual needs. So how does a family manage to put it all together? Dana attributes the success of her family of five to putting God first, respecting one another, and not being caught up in “keeping up with the Joneses”. Dana’s life doesn’t seem so different from what many of us remember from The Huxtables, and, contrary to what one might believe, she is certain that today’s society makes that portrayal very realistic. “I see successful African-American families like the Cosby's all around me”, says Dana. The slightly decreasing divorce rate in the U.S. could be a sign that Dana’s sentiments ring true. If others share Dana’s definition of family, it’s certain that there are millions of other families that are setting their own great examples. Perhaps the best measure of whether or not any family is able to survive in today’s world is not so much about the number of people in your family, but the love and support you share.
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ith summertime comes fun, fun, and more fun in the sun. Although, we love the summer months, the sun can be harsh on our skin and hair. Here are a few tips to keep your look on point this summer. Stay Hydrated Drink plenty of water! The summer’s heat can be very dehydrating. Drinking lots of water can benefit you tremendously. So, drink plenty of water! Eat healthy Have you heard the saying, "What goes in must come out?" It's true that what we put inside our bodies comes out through our skin and hair. A good summer meal is a salad. A salad is not only a healthy choice, it's also refreshing. Incorporate ingredients from the colors of the rainbow into your fruit/ vegetable salad and your body will thank you. Exercise That summer body that you worked hard all year on still needs to be maintained. If you have a routine workout, continue that. If not, now is the time to get one. An early morning or late night walk is a great place to start. 19
Condition After shampooing your hair with a moisturizing shampoo, mix olive oil with your conditioner, apply it to your hair, cover your hair, and allow the mixture to work for 15 minutes. Rinse your hair with cool water and let your hair air dry. If you have to have heat on your hair, make sure you apply a heat protectant and use the lowest settings on your appliance. Moisturize Take a nice warm shower with a moisturizing soap. (A hot shower can dry out your skin.) Apply your favorite oil or Vaseline, while your body is still wet, to lock in the moisture. Add a little more to the soles of your feet and hands. Your skin will be baby soft. Protect The sun's rays can have a lasting effect on our skin and hair. It is very important to apply a sunscreen with an SPF of 15 or higher to your body 30 minutes prior to enjoying the sun. Add a nice brim hat to keep the sun from cooking your hair, stunning sunglasses to help block the sun's glare, and a fine linen outfit so your body can breath, and have fun capturing the world.
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July is National Family Reunion Month
Reunited “Reunions are not only important but, essential.You can't know where you're going until you know where you been. What better way to learn where you've been than through family.”
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There’s also an opportunity to become friends. Connected merely by a blood line or surname, family love is undeniable and granted to each member. However, there’s a larger opportunity to develop a true friendship, aside from just being related. Though, it’s not about opportunity, also seize key moments to get guidance from relatives for your educational or career pursuits. Maybe, by conversation, you discover like skills and interests to develop a family business empire. The Jones Family Reunion is coming to Kansas City in July. Joshua Jones, originally from Memphis, TN, now residing in Peoria, IL, is driving to KC. He reiterates the importance of reunions. “Reunions are not only important but, essential. You can't know where you're going until you know where you been. What better way to learn where you've been than through family.” His cousin, James Jones, driving in from the Chicago, IL area agrees. “Reunions are important, especially for the younger family members to get to know one another and continue to have events like this.” We understand travel expenses can become a factor, but before deciding not to go to your reunion, consider the overall value. Especially for parents of youngsters, don’t miss the opportunity for children to meet relatives across the country and begin to know them. Over the years, we all lose family members, so today can’t be taken for granted. Another cool factor of a reunion is that there’s always something new. Even for those who meet every year, at the same place, there’s something new. New stories, because we’ve lived another year that brings joys, pains and world travels. There are new family members— births, new cousins due to marriage. Let’s not forget new accomplishments—graduations, licenses, awards. Attend and help them celebrate! Now, the family bond shouldn’t be your only rationale for attending. Part of the fun at reunions are the “contests”, we’ll call them. It’s the collective experience of Who’s the Best—best debater—politics to sports; best in spades and dominos, and even most convincing at claiming why their city is best. Also factor the season. The reunion is your official summer vacation. Play, shop, explore, dance, eat…then eat some more, and oh yeah, take some pictures! Joshua Jones has fun on his agenda,” I wanna have so much fun, that by Sunday, the city wants to adopt me.” For the Jones family and all of those coming to KC, Welcome to our town! Enjoy!
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Music VOLUME Turning KC’s Music up! Creating hits and new opportunities by uniting our national industry players.
Born and raised in Kansas City, MO, Tony Tolbert (a.k.a. prof.t ) began his journey within the music industry performing in local bands at the age of 16. Through one of the groups he formed a partnership with Lance Alexander as a songwriting/production team duo. After a few years of focus on production the two landed a production gig with legendary Grammy winning producers Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis. Songs placed on artists like Shanice Wilson, Alexander O’Neal and Johnny Gill lead to a group of their own called Lo-Key? who spawned the #1 R&B hit “I Got A Thang For Ya” on Jam & Lewis’s A&M/ Perspective label. Prof.t & Lance continued writing hits for Smooth, Jason Weaver, The Sounds Of Blackness and the platinum selling group NEXT along with their first hit “Butta Love”. After prof.t and Lance’s collaborations ended, prof began work as an A&R Director for Jam and Lewis’s Flyte Tyme label through Universal Records. When the company relocated to L.A., prof.t wrote and coproduced songs for New Edition, Earth Wind & Fire, Jessica Simpson as well as mega star Janet Jackson. Staying connected to various disciplines within the music business, prof.t also works as a Licensing Director for ASCAP Licensing. He continues to write and produce, most recently for R&B artist Will Downing. He’s credited with the lead single on Downing’s last four projects and a new Lo-Key? project is currently in the works.
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What’s been the proudest moment of your career? My proudest moment would be hearing that “I Got A Thang 4 Ya!”, a song I wrote, produced, and recorded with Lo-Key?, a group I founded and was a member of, reached the #1 Billboard spot in the country. That was validation. At that point I felt like "Hey, I can do this".
The music business can be called fickle, short -lived, challenging and ever-changing. Only a few seem to sustain a career? What’s kept you in the music business? Relationships, attempting to stay current, and evolving as a songwriter/producer have been the main ingredients to maintaining some relevance in this business. It doesn't hurt to have a relatively significant track record as well.
Do you have a style or preference of the type of music you like to write or produce? Clearly my style and preference is R&B although currently R&B has taken a back seat to hip-hop, of course. But since I grew up with hip-hop and I'm still a fan even today, I cannot avoid it's influence in my writing. The 90's were the heyday of hip-hop infused R&B which is my generation. So, though I respect other genres of music and R&B is not nearly as profitable as before, I not only embrace R&B as my fav it's just who I am. And you have to be true to the art in my opinion.
What’s next for you? My group Lo-Key? is currently working on some new material that we hope to have available by the end of the year. I also have a few major recording acts (I'd prefer not to name names until the business is finalized) I'm writing for and my new trek into reality TV territory has been slow but progressing.
In what city are you currently residing and why is it a good fit for you? Any plans to move? After living in Minneapolis and Los Angeles for some time I've spent the last six years here in Dallas, TX. I can't say I've fully taken advantage of the music scene locally but luckily technology has allowed those of us in the business access without always having to be where the "action" is. I've actually worked on Will Downing's last four projects and I haven't seen him in person for about 15 years. I've considered moving to Atlanta but other than that plane tickets, skype and the few music contacts here in Dallas will suffice., at least for now.
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VOICE OF SUCCESS
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ansas City native Qiana Thomason has developed a reputation in the community as a leader’s leader; one who will stand and lead in the fire, shielding her team and taking hits like only great leaders do. An executive at Blue Cross Blue Shield of Kansas City, Qiana has recently received tremendous accolades in our community and has been recognized for her outstanding achievement. She was featured earlier this year in Xii’s Success Guide issue, which highlighted power companies and their executives here in Kansas City. Xii wanted to know more about the personal side of this powerhouse, whose character reflects her commitment to her faith and whose reputation reflects a lifestyle marked by prayer. We wanted to know the juicy behind-the-scenes-stuff that makes Qiana who she is. We started by finding out what anchors her and keeps her focused, grounded and centered. “Christ anchors me in every area of my life. It’s a total dependency on Him, of which I am unashamed. He is my anchor and threaded throughout everything”, shared Thomason. Qiana’s self-awareness sustains her, allowing her to recognize (Continued on page 27)
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strengths as well as her limitations. Consequently, she operates in her lane without fear, understanding that this distinction is truly a gift. If she chose, Thomason could be a professional juggler, as she wears many hats, striking that often elusive balance between being an executive, a wife, a mom, and even church minister with her husband. She prays daily for exactly what she needs to be anchored in that day, wearing the various hats, and maintaining balance. Choosing to live her life marked by intentionality, Thomason asks God every morning to send her someone she can bless that day. Living with this sort of intention has created visible and tangible success in her life. Her multi-tasking abilities all come back to her success as a leader, on and off the court. Knowing when to lead, how to lead and the leadership style that is needed, whether situational or from the posture of a servant leader, has proven essential. “I try to lead by example in all of my different life domains,” reflects Thomason. “A hallmark of true leadership is being able to build the capacity in those around you to lead.” Reflecting on the top three books that have shaped her, Qiana cited the Bible, 1-Minute Manager, and The 5 Love Languages. The 5 Love Languages is a book that transcends intimate relationships to allowing you to understand people better and what makes them tick. In her own marriage, Thomason, has found this book to
be important, allowing for the exploration through communication, of various love languages and communication styles, and how those desires show up in relationship. “My husband loves the leader in me, embraces that” says Thomason smiling. Active in her church, Thomason and her husband are a ministry team that talks-the-talk and walks-the-walk. Always the leader, Thomason, with her husband, leads pre-marital classes at their church. Family is particularly important, as they help define who Thomason is and help shape her success. With a rich heritage marked by a strong spiritual legacy, Qiana was exposed to greatness early, setting high standards for the rest of her life. “Being successful was never overtly communicated to me. It was what was modeled. Success begets success.” The baby girl of brothers, she learned early to hold her own. She credits her family for her exposure to different life situations and dynamics that expanded her ability to relate to people from all backgrounds. “I learned to be someone who is passionate about her community, family, and my influence in all those different life domains.” Thomason shared she learned to pay attention to the voice of success, whether it took an audible or visual form; recognizing that listening involves more than just auditory senses. She still intentionally listens to that voice, completely. Living her legacy now, Thomason’s intentionality can be felt by anyone who spends five minutes with her, as being with her sharpens the trajectory and path they find themselves on.
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rown folk needed a destination. At first blush, nightlife seemed naturally tailored to the newly twenty-somethings. After all, turning 21 is a rite of passage into adulthood. The years of anticipation and curiosity about the other side of the velvet rope are over and these new initiates wild out into the wee hours. Kansas City helped build this tradition. Yet, the central factors of the nightlife experience are appreciated by adults of all ages—good tastes good sounds, good people all at a fair price. Enter Club Rain, one of KC’s destinations for the grown folk. On the South side of Kansas City, Missouri, at 8015 Troost Ave., Rain has created a “casual elegance” experience geared for the 25 & older crowd. Operated by twin brothers, Johnnie and Donnie Wilson, it’s the neighborhood bar to some, a bar & grill to others looking for a good meal with friends, and VIP club for those celebrating special occasions. Rain was started in 2005 to expand the quality entertainment options for Kansas Citians. “My brother and I had always wanted to provide an establishment that would offer a venue that made people feel (Continued on page 30)
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good. Our goal was to provide great entertainment, affordable drinks, and a place that treated all people like a VIP”, says Donnie. VIP service is what Rain claims as its signature. Johnnie notes “We simply want to make each customer feel like a VIP guest. Rain Lounge is more about the experience of VIP service versus just going out to a nightclub where servitude is lost in the numbers.” The club is a two-level facility that offers private VIP parties on either level. It can accommodate two different parties with different DJs and even has a pool table. “We are an all-inclusive club that also provides food and catering services throughout the Kansas City area. In eight years we have offered a safe venue in south Read It.City that our patrons can call their Kansas neighborhood bar and grill,” says Donnie. Wear It.
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and cancer patients. Though the business provides fun for guests year-round, don’t be confused that it’s just a party. It’s work for the owners. It comes fully loaded with its share of challenges to remain relevant, exciting and competitive. That equates to a major time commitment. As Johnnie describes, “The most challenging aspect of owning a nightclub restaurant/bar, is that it truly requires great sacrifice and devotion from your family, children, spouse, and staff. As an entrepreneur, you really have to make smart discipline decisions. Not only for the livelihood of your business, but your staff and their families rely on your sound management.” Of course, the interest in supporting family, starts with the brothers, themselves. As identical twins, this is a family owned business for sure. Both bring unique perspectives that help in their management. Johnnie is considered “Mr. Entrepreneur”, and holds an MBA, and has 20 years in music entertainment marketing and promotion. This serves well for general management and operations. Donnie is “Mr. Philanthropist”. He’s a Master’s level social worker (Continued on page 38)
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n 1968 Alvin Ailey began his relationship with Kansas City when he first brought his groundbreaking modern dance company Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater here to perform. While here, he shared his vision for developing a second home for his company and to his surprise the Kansas City community responded. In 1984 the Kansas City Friends of Alvin Ailey (KCFAA) was introduced as the official second home. Annually, since 1989 KCFAA has presented the opportunity for Kansas City youth ages 11-14 years to participate in a six week summer AileyCamp. This provides them with the ability to study the art and skill of dance while working on their personal development. Students of the camp take dance classes in jazz, tap, modern and ballet, which are taught by professional faculty from around the country who also act as role models. Personal development classes instruct students on making the right decisions relating to conflict resolution, substance abuse, sexuality, peer relationships, self-esteem, health, and nutrition. “It’s amazing what they learn in a short amount of time” says Paula Lang, Master Teaching Artist at KCFAA. Paula has assisted in instructing AileyCamp students since 1990.
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reach urban youth in the Kansas City Missouri area but in 1999 the KCFAA’s Board and staff, along with the AileyCamp Committee, embarked upon planning for the expansion of AileyCamp into the neighboring Kansas City, Kansas School District. After meetings with USD500 School District officials, KCFAA announced plans to open a camp in Kansas in the summer of 2000. “This year, to commemorate the 25th anniversary of the AileyCamp in Missouri, instead of six weeks we tried something new and only did four weeks. The theme for the final performance was ‘Back to our future’ where we took a look at our past by incorporating one of Mr. Ailey’s favorite pieces, our present where we honored our Artistic Director Robert Battle, and then our future where the dance was choreographed with the help of students.” The AileyCamp Final Performance is a critical component of the program’s success because it gives students the opportunity to share all they’ve learned. The final performance merges elements of dance techniques, personal development, and creative communications lessons. Each camper has the opportunity to share on a stage before peers, families, friends, and the general public what they’ve learned.
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“Not only do they pick up technique but they mature as adolescents and I get to watch them become all around better human beings. Some continue with the group for many years or come back to contribute in some way”. So how does one become a part of this amazing experience? “We recruit for participants throughout the Kansas City Missouri School District. We also recruit in Kansas City Kansas and all the way out to Topeka”. Originally, AileyCamp was designed to
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here’s something inspiring about two creative and skilled forces coming together. Batman & Robin, for instance, were a powerpacked tag-team. They were legendary in cause, and just so happened to wear exceptionally stylish apparel. As with any celebrated dynamic duo, their name and reputation preceded them and, though unknown to some and full identity seldom revealed, even the unfamiliar benefited from their work. Kansas City boasts of its own hidden gem and talented duo. Although, not crime fighters, Asheley Brown and Brooks Proctor, co-owners and co-creators of the stylishly classic apparel line, SquareBear, have taken their brand and created an international movement. SquareBear; literally a bear in the shape of a square, is a revolution in self-esteem, promoting the celebration of individuality, selfconfidence and the embracing of one’s own uniqueness. It comes as no surprise that this team, both Kansas City natives, pack all sorts of power in Kansas City, Los Angeles and beyond, including Star Power. As humble beginnings go, SquareBear originated as a T-Shirt line that was almost tossed aside before this team even got started. Proctor brought the idea of a T-Shirt line and Brown brought the imagery and formed SquareBear. Proctor and Brown bounced ideas off each other and SquareBear, was sketched. Excited about their new venture, Proctor shared his vision and soon to be journey with a friend who shot down the idea. Crushed, Proctor was close to leaving his dream in dreamland and not moving forward. However, something told him otherwise, despite his advisor’s thumbs down. (Continued on page 35)
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The greatest piece of her living legacy is reflected in her daughters. Every morning before she leaves for work, she asks her daughters two important and life shaping questions. “Who are you?” Their response is always, “I am smart, I am beautiful, I am powerful, I am loved.” She follows by asking, “And what can you do?” Assured and confident they respond, “All things through Christ who strengthens me.” She glows. In a society that constantly bombards women with distorted images, Thomason believes it is a essential for women to have an unshakeable confidence and self-esteem in the face of all the messages that combat a woman's psyche. She takes pride in forming and shaping her little women daily. “I believe that all my interactions and exchanges with people should leave them edified. Especially since I ask God to show me who to bless.” Living by the scripture found in Proverbs 18:16, “A man’s gift will make room for him and bring him before the great,” Thomason pursued a path in social work thinking it would be awesome to bless people everyday. “I recall knowing very early that my gift was with people and helping them. I’ve always been very resolute and not easily swayed. People told me I would never make money and always be broke but God always spoke to me and said, not so, and I’ve done so much in social work. I told the Lord that scripture was His promise to me. To God be the glory, my gift has made room for me.” With character this resolute, it is easy to see how Thomason is creating a place for herself among the great leaders of Kansas City.
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Proctor braced himself for a challenge, noting that to be in and from Kansas City, you really have to prove yourself. After all, we epitomize the “Show-Me” state. “Kansas City is tough and they will look you up and down,” says Proctor, “but once they see you are about what you say and start doing it, they will get behind you 100%. They will show love and support, but you have to bring it every time and be a hard worker. You have to show that you are serious.” Not only are Brown and Proctor serious, they are absolutely in sync. Proctor says he throws the alleyoop and Brown slams it, every time. Good passes and slam dunks are especially important as this team reside in two different cities with Proctor in LA and Brown in KC. At only 18 months old, SquareBear is revolutionizing popculture fashion and making huge waves. Their line is a celebrity favorite, as evidenced by the numerous tweets of celebs posting pictures on Twitter, Facebook and other social media in their SquareBear apparel. SquareBear has been featured in countless music videos, appearances, and events of a growing number of celebrities. Many celebs contact this team, personally, to get their hands on their own SquareBear stash. While inspiration is all around, ideas often come from playful references of other classic duos. Noting the cartoon characters Pinky and the Brain, Proctor says they too, are on a constant quest to grow and ‘take over the world’ a tongue-in-cheek reference to SquareBear’s apparel revolution. Co-creator Brown, an amazingly talented and gifted artist, who also handles all marketing and graphics, cited Batman & Robin, adding “I am perfectly comfortable being Robin and being behind the scenes.” Passionate about conveying the message of SquareBear visually, Brown continually works to push their message. “It means everything to me that Square(Continued on page 38)
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Fun Ways To Keep Your Kids Learning this summer
Summer can go by in a flash, but even the best of planners will find the season dragging along without enough activities to keep the kids occupied. All parents want to ensure that their children are enjoying summer without disconnecting them from the skills learned throughout the school year. This is why finding the right activities to nurture educational growth can make all the difference for a child’s summer. Here are a few tips for making your child’s summer educational and productive.
Tip #1: Make Web Time Meaningful
It’s no secret that the millennial generation revolves around the quick and accessible convenience of the internet. For parents that would rather put completely ban internet access for the summer, consider other options. Give your children an opportunity to utilize the web in a positive way. Encourage your child to join educational sites like IXl, NGA Kids and Funbrain, that allow children to practice core subject skills at every grade level.
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Tip #2: Put a Spin on Camp
Add variety to the traditional summer camp with education in mind. There are camps designed to fit the interests and personality of every child. More traditional camps like those offered at Southeast Community Center (South KC) and the YMCA allow kids to participate in weekly field trips, swimming, sports and crafts, but if you want to spark your children’s intellectual curiosity, consider programs that will enhance their learning and prepare them for the upcoming school year. The warm season presents opportunities to explore all things nature. Mad Science KC and The Academy of Arts and Science provide exposure to the study of robotics, life and earth sciences and animal life. Children interested in math can enroll in math and engineering themed camps.
Tip #3: DIY
Do-It-Yourself projects can bring families closer together during the summer, and they don’t all have to revolve around maintenance and repairs. There are a variety of ways to turn everyday projects into learning opportunities. As a family, come up with a list of projects that you can complete together and tackle them throughout the summer. A road trip can easily become an interactive geography lesson. Build a brand new bookshelf that will be filled only by adding a new book after it’s read. Regardless of the task, if kids feel they are hands on, involved, and trying something new, it will be a success.
Tip #4: Grow Something
Planting flowers, herbs, or vegetables with your child to encourage the observation of plant life and how to monitor their progress is a great science lesson. Math doesn’t have to be a bore for your child, either. Summer is a great time to teach your child lessons in money.
Tip #5: Go Shopping Sharing your grocery list with your children is quick and easy budgeting practice. Have them bring along a notepad and add each item’s cost as you place the items in the shopping cart. To make sure they are paying attention and really participating, put a few extra things in the cart and wait for them to alert you that you’ve gone over budget.
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Summer Vacation. Lesson Learned After a long school year, most parents feel like a break is in order for their child. Typically, parents become lenient with their child’s academics in the summer but according to the National Association of Summer Learning, children who aren’t academically active in the summer retain less and have to be refreshed for more than a month after school begins and they must also re-learn study habits. Helping your children retain the information learned during the year, preparing them for the upcoming school year, and keeping their minds academically stimulated is an important job that parents should take seriously. In addition, this can be a bonding experience and a way to understand your child's learning styles and abilities. Summer time is a great opportunity to explore the outdoors and get firsthand experience with science and helps keep their brains stimulated. As these tips illustrate, the trick to summer learning is to make things fun, relatable and interactive!
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with 17 years experience. “We both get to share in building the business model and maintaining social services within our community. Both are very important to us,” says Johnnie.
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Though the synergy built from their educational disciplines is a great foundation for alignment, at the end of the day, they are still different people with different personalities. According to Donnie, "We are both very strong and opinionated individuals. We agree on 99.9% of everything, however, when we get to that .1% of disagreement we clash. We argue and walk away from each other on that subject matter. However, at the end of the day it matters not what the decision is we go with. What matters most to us is that we remain brothers, and best friends. We know that trumps any bad business decision we make and overcome. Johnnie adds, “At the end of the day, we would rather be either working together or socializing together, than with anyone else. In most cases if we are out on the social scene, one is rarely out without the other. "The Wilson Twins" as most people would call us, are kinda inseparable, even
at our age. We never spend a birthday apart. “ Both brothers consider themselves introverts. That’s a difficult personality trait for a social business. However, Johnnie tends to take the lead as the front man, as Donnie has dedicated more time to home and family. The Wilson twins plan to continue building and enhancing Rain, and expanding catering opportunities. Never being willing to settle, they plan to pursue other entertainment venues in the future. Until then, be sure to stop by Rain for some Wilson hospitality.
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Bear started in Kansas City.” she continues, “We are the leading start-up spot in the country.” Whatever her strategy, it is working as SquareBear has gone international with increasing demand and recognition of the brand. Proctor and Brown both have a strong love for Kansas City and host events here whenever possible. SquareBear recently hosted a PopUp Shop at the Escapist in the Crossroads District. PopUp Shops are mini shops that set up for a day or two to promote and sell products and provide opportunities to connect between any company and brand and their community. What really separates SquareBear is its ability to transcend, creating a brand that fuses trendy and faddish elements that are still classically timeless. Brand recognition is undeniable. The bear itself stands out for being square, referred to by the team as Hello Kitty’s boyfriend. This is in reference to the Hello Kitty multi-billion dollar brand seen worldwide on consumer products for all ages, primarily featuring the main character, Kitty White. SquareBear is set its sights on a similar destiny. In a time and season where pop-culture has embraced the ‘geek’ and ‘nerd’ stereotypes, evidenced through fashion, SquareBear has found a home and niche. To stay current, classic and join the revolution, visit www.mysquarebear.com or follow on social media at @mysquarebear and, as this dynamic duo would encourage you, ‘Dare to be Square’. 38
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Add your upcoming events and more to kcsoul.com. Just create a login or use your Facebook log-in. Sat 07/20/13 The Gospel of Poets| KGGN 890 AM | Time: 4:00 PM-5:00 PM KGGN1734 E. 63rd St. Suite 600 KCMO Admission: $5.00 for a copy of the show Event Type(s): Fundraiser, Performance Contact: terance williams 816.612.7640 Email: kdpublishingdotcom@gmail.com
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BEST BBQ Ask people to name their favorite Barbecue in town and you’ll draw a long pause. The delay stems from the hundreds of barbecue experiences fleeting through their minds. Kansas City is home to over 100 BBQ restaurants, which is one of the reasons we can aptly declare it the nation’s barbecue capital. Hey Memphis, Texas, St. Louis…Yeah, I said it. Back to our survey.
After careful deliberation, you get a response, but it’s not an answer. It’s one of several questions. “What do you mean?”, they begin. “Most popular? Largest? Best price, best sauce, best overall?” Realizing the questions conjure recollections of skilled caterers, grillers and tailgaters, we narrow the scope: “What is your favorite restaurant?” Another pause. This time it’s because, even with this qualification, favorites tend to be classified by menu selection, meats rubs, marinades, sides…how can you choose just one? Ultimately, Kansas City did choose. In 2010, the Travel Channel's Food Wars set up in Kansas City and conducted a best BBQ ribs contest between Gates and Arthur Bryant's. In the not-so-scientific taste approach, determined by three celebrity judges, the victor was Arthur Bryant’s. Arthur Bryant’s owner, Gary Berbiglia graciously acknowledged that another five people on another day would have overwhelm(Continued on page 54)
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ingly chosen Gates. If you had to pick two pillars of KC’s barbecue, they would be Gates and Bryant’s. Coincidentally, both restaurants trace roots back to the father of KC barbeque, Henry Perry. Originally from Tennessee, Perry started selling BBQ ribs in 1908, served wrapped in newsprint. Charles Bryant, who worked for Perry, would later build Bryant’s BBQ and bring in his brother Arthur. Another Perry cook, Arthur Pinkard, would later branch off with George Gates in 1946 to begin the Gates legacy. From their origins, other BBQ joints emerged as champions in their own right. While it’s their cuisine that made these establishments famous, they’re also known for their unique character: Fiorella’s Jack Stack Known For: Upscale BBQ. The BBQ restaurant known for its ambience and service in addition to its menu. Favorites: sausage, ribs, smoked chicken, cheesy corn Gates & Son’s Known For: Hi May I Help You! First timers, beware. Favorites: Burnt End sandwich, late night options, sauce
ABOVE. Fiorella’s Jack Stack BBQ. Always at the top of the list when it comes to favorite BBQ. Redefining BBQ as fine cuisine, you’ll find premium, superb desserts on the menu like bread budding and carrot cake. BELOW. One of the most recognized names in BBQ. Name an celebrity coming to town and it’s almost a guarantee to find some Gates in the plans, before or after the show.
Oklahoma Joe’s Known For: Its gas station locale Favorites: Ribs, Burnt ends, sauce Arthur Bryant’s BBQ Known For: Rolled Up in newsprint, paint brush splashed. Favorites: Best pork, best portions LC’s Known For: Best Hole in the Wall! Favorites: Sausage, Burnt Ends, Beans, FRIES, FRIES, FRIES So who’s the top pick? That’s an open debate. Yet, from our survey, Jack Stack received the most nods. However, we invite you to try these restaurants and more. Let us know your favorites and savor the moment.
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