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Editor’s NOTE ISSUE 132
Dear Reader,
Thank you for picking up a copy of Keep The Faith, a magazine that aims to inspire, inform and share how faith in God is impacting lives and transforming communities.
Ecclesiastes 12:1 says ‘Remember your Creator in the days of your youth.’ I recall hearing this Bible verse often as a Christian teenager, and I can firmly say it’s a good thing to serve God when you’re young. So, with this Scripture in mind, the articles in this edition of Keep The Faith have a focus on young adults.
We have several interviews, including Phil Gray – National Youth and Education Director of the New Testament Church of God; Preston Perry – poet, podcaster and apologist; popular worship outfit Maverick City Music; and history-making gospel singer Sinach
There are testimonies from Sarah Téibo and from Nicola Morrison, and author Shani Akilah talks about the publication of her debut book.
Check out the articles explaining why young adults should be taught how to defend their faith; the importance of churches using social media to reach millennials and Gen Zs; insights for leaders providing leadership for 20-40 year olds; and our list of young Christians making impact in the Church, in business, and in the Arts and media.
Aside from our focus on young adults, there are also articles of reflection, encouragement, wisdom and insight on the areas of careers, health and fitness, mental health, community action and much more.
Have a look through the magazine, and if you like what you read, do consider taking out a subscription so it can be delivered directly to your home. Your contribution will also help us do what we do best – creating a great magazine.
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Woman of action receives prestigious award in Jamaica
Dr Pearl Jarrett – founder of charitable organisation the Jarrett Foundation, and visionary behind the Gospel School for the Performing Arts – is now the recipient of a Jamaican Governor General Award for Diasporan Achievement for work she has carried out in Jamaica over the past 12 years.
Her achievements include:
• shipping and distributing £250k worth of educational resources to 136 schools in the island
• distributing two million face masks in Jamaica during the COVID-19 pandemic for free
• creating an Atmospheric Water Generator (AWG) that extracts water from the air and donating one to the Ministry of Health and Wellness
A child of Windrush Generation parents, Pearl was deeply honoured to receive her award from the Governor General, Sir Patrick Allen. She told Keep The Faith: “As I get older, I appreciate the impact that Windrush had on Jamaica; the brain drain that happened; how our parents built up the UK at the expense of Jamaica; and how it has taken two generations to recover to where it is now. I feel it’s my responsibility to give back. I love Jamaica and it was so great to find out that Jamaica loves me back.
Known as a woman of action, Pearl is excited for the future. She said: “I would absolutely love to reside in Jamaica. I prefer the weather, sea, fresh food, etc. It’s 100% a better quality of life. Errord and I intend to spend our time between the UK and Jamaica as much as possible, particularly as we now have both a charity and a business there. However, our children are still here, and I’m building the Gospel School for the Performing Arts (GSPA) in the UK, which I’m also very passionate about.”
Visit www.jarrettfoundation.org
CORRECTIONS
In the last edition of Keep The Faith magazine we published a story about Claudine Reid’s appointment as an ambassador for the Atlanta Chamber of Commerce. We printed an incorrect web address. The correct one is www.atlantablackchambers.org
We also featured an interview with John Fisher, where he mentioned Ashley, a popular drummer who played for the UpMass Choir under the directorship of Patrick Anthony George and who unfortunately had passed away. At the request of his mother, we are publishing the drummer’s full name, Ashley Williams
Keep The Faith launches online lecture series about Black Church
Keep The Faith magazine recently launched its first ever Online Talk series.
Launched on June 13, writer and publisher Juliet Coley delivered the first talk on the topic ‘Windrush Women: Pillars of the Black Church’. The second talk, entitled ‘The Black Church in Britain: Past, Present & Future’ was delivered by author and former BBC producer Roy Francis.
This new initiative aims to provide a platform for academics, authors, writers, church leaders and specialists from within the Black Christian community to share insights on the history, development and success of the Black Church and the people within it. Individuals will also be invited to talk on topics of importance that relate to the Black Christian experience and the wider community.
Bishop Dr Joe Aldred is set to deliver the third Keep The Faith (KTF) online talk, entitled ‘The UK Black Church – An Agent of Change and Upward Social Mobility’ on July 29. Much of it will be based on his latest book, Flourishing in Babylon: Black British Agency and Self-Determination, and will elaborate on some of the themes launched in the book, such as diversity, ecumenism and justice.
Keep The Faith publisher and editor Marcia Dixon stated, “I am keen for Keep The Faith to initiate discussion about important issues of interest and concerns pertaining to Black Christians.
“I couldn’t do these talks without sponsors Just Money, Bronze Ash Funerals, Dare to Inspire, and Christian Aid, who have enthusiastically supported this initiative.”
GOSPEL NEWS
WINNING HEARTS, NOT ARGUMENTS –PRESTON PERRY ON FAITH, EVANGELISM AND APOLOGETICS
In a Keep The Faith magazine exclusive interview, Rhoda Hardie caught up with globally renowned poet, performance artist, teacher, and apologist Preston Perry, following the recent UK launch of his first book, How to Tell the Truth: The Story of How God Saved Me to Win Hearts – Not Just Arguments. In it, Preston shares his own journey to faith and his experiences sharing the Gospel with others over the years. He offers readers wisdom and advice to make evangelism and apologetics less daunting, and also provides insights on how believers can share and defend their faith genuinely and respectfully.
‘I believe we tend to overcomplicate apologetics and evangelism,’ writes Preston at the start of this book. ‘Apologetics is really about loving the Lord and being willing to tell other people about it.’ He describes himself as an ‘evangelist to the core’ with ‘a deep burning inside me to share the Gospel with those who don’t know it’. He talked with Rhoda Hardie about his faith, and desire to empower Christians to share their faith ‘with boldness, truth and love’.
RHODA HARDIE (RH): What inspired you to write How to Tell the Truth?
PRESTON PERRY (PP): I felt the need to teach people how to share the Gospel and share it well. The Bible tells us to make disciples of all men in the Name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. However, Christians can’t do that if they don’t know how to engage with others. I felt God wanted me to be an evangelist but also to teach others to be evangelistic. I believe the Church does a good job of ‘calling a spade a spade’ but doesn’t do a good job of teaching us how to play cards and talk to people. I also wanted to write this book as a way to get rid of the fear of evangelising and to make apologetics normal for the everyday believer.
RH: Who did you have in mind as your reader when you were writing it?
PP: This is written for the everyday believer. I wanted to reach those who would never go to seminary and don’t know the fundamentals. I believe the Gospel will spread if the everyday believer feels equipped. The second audience is people who know the Gospel and are comfortable with their information knowledge but aren’t comfortable sharing the Gospel in ways that honour God or the recipients. Some people find their identity in the information they know and not in the God that they know.
RH: How did you find the process of writing your first book?
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PP: Writing this book was very difficult and full of challenges. Being a poet, I’m used to communicating a lot of information in a short spurt, but writing a book requires you to stretch ideas and come up with more and more words. I had to find a balance of clear-cut and concise writing of theological ideas versus creative writing.
RH: Did you feel your work as a poet influenced your writing of this book?
PP: It definitely did! I believe poetry encourages us to dream, and dreaming deepens our affection for something. If I can paint a picture to allow someone to see something in a vivid way, it helps to make it real and to provide a clear picture in the mind of the reader. I also wanted to use my gift of poetry to tell stories and do it creatively. Poetry influenced me and my approach to stories and storytelling. Poetry married with theology is powerful. The Bible is full of poetic language, narratives and instructions, and I wanted to do the same.
RH: Tell us a bit about some of the people in the book who have been a key influence in your faith journey.
PP: My Aunt Denise took me in when I was lost and in a dark place. Gary Brown actually led me to the Lord. Later, Brian Dye mentored me into a mature believer and discipled me.
RH: Can you explain to the reader your
call to ‘win hearts not arguments’ when talking to people about Jesus?
PP: If we give the Gospel in a garbage bag and not on a dignified platter, the recipient doesn’t reject the Gospel, they reject our presentation of it. Our conduct gets in the way. If we win an argument but not a heart, what’s the purpose of evangelising? Jesus came to rescue hearts and we need to mirror Jesus and care about the person in front of us. We need to stop treating people like projects but instead see them as image-bearers of the one, true and living God.
RH: What advice would you give to people who want to get more involved in evangelism and/or apologetics but who find the idea daunting?
PP: If you find evangelism daunting, I want you to consider that you may be overthinking it. One Peter 3:15 tells us to be prepared to make a defence and do it with respect and gentleness. Peter was talking to people who loved Jesus but were committed to making him known. We’ve been called out of darkness and He’s equipped us to be an evangelist and truth teller. You don’t have to know a lot of information but just be faithful. You don’t have to be a scholar to share truth because the people who don’t know Jesus probably won’t be scholars. Just know Jesus and don’t boast in the knowledge but boast in Jesus alone.
RH: What are your hopes for this book, in terms of what people will learn from it or how it will inspire them?
PP: My hope is that the everyday believer will be comfortable sharing the Gospel with whomever the Lord wants them to share it with, such as family, friends, co-workers, and more. I also wanted people to understand that God really uses normal people. The disciples were just normal people, like fishermen and tax collectors. God can use each of us too!
Preston Perry is a poet, performance artist, teacher, and apologist from Chicago. His writing and teaching have been featured on ministry platforms, such as the Poets in Autumn Tour and Legacy Disciple. Preston is co-host with his wife Jackie of the popular podcast With the Perrys. He created Bold Apparel and the YouTube channel ‘Apologetics with Preston Perry’ to engage the public in theological discourse. Preston and Jackie live in Atlanta with their four children.
How to Tell the Truth: The Story of How God Saved Me to Win Hearts
– Not Just Arguments is available at www.preston-perry.com and all online bookstores.
UK TO CELEBRATE GOSPEL HERITAGE MONTH IN SEPTEMBER
Gospel Heritage Month, celebrated in the UK every September, holds significant importance as it acknowledges the profound impact of gospel music on the nation’s landscape. By dedicating time to celebrate gospel music, the UK not only honours a vital part of its cultural heritage but also fosters an inclusive and spiritually enriching environment that benefits individuals and communities. It’s great to see the monthlong focus take hold, as it highlights the importance of this genre – not only as a form of musical expression but also as a powerful tool for spiritual upliftment, community building, and cultural enrichment.
Benefits of Celebrating Gospel Music in the UK:
• Strengthens Cultural Identity: Gospel music is a cornerstone of Black British culture, with roots dating back to the arrival of the Windrush generation. Highlighting this music strengthens the UK’s cultural identity and recognises the contributions of Black communities.
• Promotes Unity and Community: Gospel music transcends religious boundaries, bringing people together through uplifting music and shared experiences. Whether attending a concert or listening at home, gospel music fosters a sense of connection and belonging.
• Discovers and Nurtures New Talent: September will see a mass celebration but
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every day, every week, and every month, numerous events and activities are providing a platform for emerging gospel artists, enriching the genre, and ensuring its legacy continues to thrive. We salute them all.
• Offers Messages of Hope and Resilience: Gospel music often carries themes of faith, hope, and overcoming challenges. Celebrating this music amplifies these positive messages, offering a source of inspiration and strength for many people.
By having a dedicated focus on gospel music in the UK, we can celebrate its rich heritage, promote unity, discover new talent, and uplift communities through the power of music. Every week there is a major event taking place, and we’re so excited to see you at them all. Let’s celebrate together!
LIVERPOOL GOSPEL MUSIC FESTIVAL - 7th September - Liverpool
LIMOBLAZE LIVE IN LONDON 14th September - O2 Forum Kentish Town London
PREMIER GOSPEL AWARDS 2024 21st September - Royal Festival Hall London
WORSHIP COURT with VICTOR THOMPSON - 27th & 29th September Manchester & London
The abundance and quality of musical talent linked to the UK is immense. The sheer volume of releases so far this year has surpassed that of any previous year, according to statistics gathered by AStepFWD’s monthly UK Christian Charts. New artists, collaborations, collectives and choirs are popping up everywhere –almost every month – and the output is world-class. Add to that, new releases from seasoned and established creatives
and the dream to see the UK become a vibrant and thriving industry for Christian and gospel music is now a progressive reality. Here are a few of those recent projects you need to have in your playlist:
UNPLUGGED Volney Morgan & New Ye
I JUST WANT YOU Sarah Wonders
LIVELY EXPERIENCE namesbliss
VICTORY SOUNDS Sinach
THE HYMNS PROJECT The Spirituals
TMAVERICK CITY MUSIC AND KIRK FRANKLIN:
TRANSFORMING THE WORLD THROUGH WORSHIP
AKOSUA DF UK-based broadcast journalist and media personality with a deep love for all things gospel. Follow @akosuadf on Instagram
he global pandemic was undoubtedly a dark time, marked by loss and isolation. Mental health suffered, and life felt utterly disrupted. Yet, amidst the struggle, a beacon of hope emerged. Maverick City Music, a collective formed by Atlanta natives Jonathan Jay and Tony Brown, churned out anthemic songs which became the soundtrack to our struggles. With songs like ‘Promises’, ‘Most Beautiful’, and ‘Refiner’, the genre-defying group singlehandedly breathed new life into our despair, emphatically reminding us to put our faith in Jesus. Five years on, the multi award-winning group has become one of the world’s leading groups in both CCM and gospel music genres. Maverick City Music’s popularity is undeniable, with presale tickets for their upcoming Kingdom World Tour selling out within hours. Akosua DF recently caught
up with a few members of the collective –Naomi Raine, Chandler Moore – and Kirk Franklin to talk all things music and the tour.
AKOSUA DF (ADF): Who are some of the musical influences that inspire Maverick City Music’s sound?
NAOMI RAINE (NR): Our sound is influenced by a wide range of musical genres, including gospel, R&B, soul, and contemporary worship. We draw inspiration from artists like Kirk Franklin, Fred Hammond, and CeCe Winans, as well as the diverse backgrounds of our members, which bring a unique blend of cultural and musical perspectives to our music.
ADF: How do you approach songwriting as a collective?
CHANDLER MOORE (CM): Songwriting for us is a deeply collaborative and Spirit-led process. We gather, share our personal stories, pray, and seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance. Each person contributes their unique perspective and creativity, which results in a rich and diverse collection of songs that resonate with many people.
ADF: Your music definitely resonates with the masses. Can you tell us about the inspiration behind your latest album, The Maverick Way Reimagined?
NR: The Maverick Way Reimagined was inspired by our journey and the ways we’ve seen God move in our lives and communities. We wanted to reimagine our sound and explore new musical landscapes, while staying true to our mission of bringing authentic worship to people everywhere. The album reflects our growth and the deepening of our faith.
ADF: You absolutely crushed it. The project is a phenomenal body of work... I must add that Annatoria’s ‘In the Room’ is my jam [chuckles]. Speaking of awesome music, what are some of your favourite songs outside your discography?
CM: I really love ‘Reckless Love’ by Cory Asbury, ‘Oceans’ by Hillsong UNITED, and ‘Alpha and Omega’ by Israel Houghton. These songs have a special anointing and have been instrumental in my personal worship time.
NR: I love ‘Goodness of God’ by Bethel Music, ‘Way Maker’ by Sinach, and ‘So Will I (100
Billion X)’ by Hillsong Worship. These songs have a special way of ushering in God’s presence and reminding us of His faithfulness and power.
KIRK FRANKLIN (KF): Some of my favourite worship songs include ‘Great Are You, Lord’ by All Sons & Daughters, ‘Good Good Father’ by Chris Tomlin, and ‘Total Praise’ by Richard Smallwood. These songs have a powerful anointing and have deeply impacted my own worship experience.
ADF: The Kirk Frankin and Mav collaboration for Kingdom Book One and tour a few years back was pretty awesome. How did that happen?
CM: Collaborating with Kirk Franklin was a dream come true. It started with mutual admiration and respect for each other’s work. We connected through conversations about our vision for worship and ministry, and it just clicked. Kirk’s experience and innovative approach brought a new dimension to our music and ministry.
KF: The collaboration with Maverick City Music happened organically. We connected over our desire to break down barriers and create music that truly ministers to people’s hearts. It was a natural fit, and the synergy between us was incredible.
ADF: You’ve collaborated with Elevation Worship and Kirk Franklin. Do you have any dream collaborations for the future?
NR: Absolutely! We would love to collaborate with artists like Tasha Cobbs Leonard, Lauren Daigle, and Jonathan McReynolds. Each of these artists has a unique voice and anointing that we believe would create something truly special in a worship setting.
ADF: What are some of your most memorable live experiences?
NR: One of the most memorable experiences was our worship night at the Red Rocks Amphitheatre. The natural beauty of the venue, combined with the powerful move of God’s presence, was unforgettable. Another
highlight was our performance at the BET Awards, which was a unique opportunity to bring worship into a mainstream setting.
CM: Another unforgettable experience was our performance at the Grammy Awards, which was a significant milestone for us and a moment of worship on a global stage.
KF: One of my most memorable live experiences was performing at the BET Awards with Maverick City Music. The energy and spirit in the room were electric. Another unforgettable moment was leading worship at Lakewood Church with Joel Osteen. Seeing thousands of people come together in worship was truly humbling and inspiring.
ADF: Speaking of live experiences, you are about to take your Kingdom World Tour global. This is huge... How did that come about?
NR: The idea for the global Kingdom Tour came from a desire to share the message of God’s love and kingdom with people around the world. We’ve seen how worship can break down barriers and unite people from different cultures and backgrounds. The response to our music internationally has been incredible, and we felt led to take this step to connect with our global family.
ADF: Which countries are you hitting for the Kingdom World Tour?
CM: We’re excited to visit countries across several continents, including the UK, South Africa, Zambia, Malawi, Zimbabwe, Tanzania, Uganda, Kenya, Ghana and the Netherlands. Each stop on the tour is an opportunity to meet our supporters face to face and worship together in a powerful way.
ADF: What is your heart for this tour?
NR: Our heart for the Kingdom World Tour is to create spaces where people can encounter God in a profound way. We want to see lives transformed, hearts healed, and communities strengthened through the power of worship.
It’s about bringing the message of hope and unity to every corner of the globe.
ADF: Amen, amen and amen! With such a vast music catalogue, how do you piece together the perfect set list for a tour?
CM: Crafting the set list is a prayerful and intentional process. We consider the songs that have resonated most with our audience; the themes we want to emphasise; and the flow of worship that we feel led to create. It’s a balance of our most beloved tracks and new songs that we believe will minister to people’s hearts.
ADF: For fans attending the UK dates of the tour, can you give us a sneak peek of the set list?
NR: Without giving too much away, fans can expect a mix of our biggest hits and some new arrangements of their favourite songs. We’re also planning some special moments that include guest appearances and spontaneous worship. It’s going to be an unforgettable experience!
ADF: Ooh, I’m super excited! Are there any plans to release a live album or video capturing the Kingdom World Tour experience?
CM: Yes, we’re definitely planning to capture the tour on film and in audio. We want to share the live experience with those who couldn’t attend in person, and create a lasting record of what God did during this tour. Stay tuned for more details!
ADF: What are you looking forward to most on the Kingdom World Tour?
NR: I’m most looking forward to seeing how God moves in different parts of the world, and hearing the testimonies of transformation from our audiences. There’s something incredibly powerful about worshiping with believers from different cultures and backgrounds. It’s a glimpse of heaven on earth.
GOD, CANCER AND ME
Gospel singer Sarah Téibo shares her journey with thyroid cancer and how
it has inspired her new single, ‘Human Like Me’
The world of award-winning UK gospel singer Sarah Téibo was turned upside down after she was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. This wife and mother of two feared she would never be able to sing again following her treatment. However, God had other plans.
Sarah spoke with Keep The Faith about overcoming thyroid cancer; how her faith in God helped her navigate the journey with a serious illness; and her plans to go on a church tour with her recently released single, ‘Human Like Me’.
KEEP THE FAITH (KTF): There was a lot of surprise and shock when you posted on Instagram that you had overcome thyroid cancer. What made you decide to be so public about your experience of cancer?
SARAH TÉIBO (ST): I am naturally a very quiet person – most people don’t believe I am actually an introvert. So, when I received the diagnosis, my first instinct was to just process it within my own space. I did this for several months before finally making a public statement about what I had been going through. The main reason I decided to share my story was so it could hopefully encourage anyone who might be going through a similar experience.
KTF: How did people respond after reading your post?
ST: Most people were quite sympathetic after hearing what I had been through. I received numerous calls, messages, and in some cases, personal visits from people. It was a pleasant surprise and, on one occasion, I was moved to tears by one particular visit to my home.
KTF: What symptoms led to the cancer diagnosis?
ST: The main symptom was a swelling on my neck. Though I wasn’t in pain, initial scans by my GP caused some alarm, which prompted further tests with specialists. Following this, I was given the shocking news that there was a tumour on my thyroid which was cancerous and needed to be removed.
KTF: Whenever the word ‘cancer’ is mentioned, people usually think death sentence. How did you respond when you were told you had cancer?
ST: It did feel like a punch to the throat when I was given the diagnosis. I am sure my heart sank to the floor of that hospital consultation room. It wouldn’t be until I got home that I actually broke down in tears.
KTF: How did your faith strengthen and comfort you and your family as you dealt with the aftermath of the cancer treatment?
ST: Our faith played a huge part in processing this phase of our lives as a family. Though I struggled with the diagnosis and initially even rejected it – because it is not my portion –I remember going to God and just asking Him: “Why?!” I was broken, in despair, and very open with my heavenly Father. It was in this place of vulnerability that God comforted and told me that if I never had a sickness, I would never know Him to be my Healer. Sometimes, as Christians, we want to go through life without any challenges, but it is through those challenges that we put our faith to the test and prove that God is truly who He says He is.
KTF: As you were going through the treatment, what were you most fearful of?
ST: My biggest fear was the possibility of losing my voice. This is something that was pointed out to me before I even went into surgery. It turned out that, after surgery, I did
have mild vocal cord paresis, which meant part of my vocal cord was mildly paralysed, resulting in the need for me to have vocal rehab to regain the strength in my vocal cords and essentially learn to sing again.
KTF: You’ve been given the all clear. How has it affected your approach to life, your family and your faith?
ST: It was a great relief to get the all clear after surgery! I genuinely feel privileged that my story did not end a different way. I now have a new outlook to life in general and my new motto is ‘Seize every moment’. These days that means I would rather enjoy an experience (e.g. at a concert) than take videos or photos. I just immerse myself into every chance I get at life.
KTF: It’s evident that you want to get back to your gospel ministry, as you’ve released an EP. What’s the inspiration behind your song ‘Human Like Me’?
ST: This song is inspired by my very personal
story of triumph after a life-altering episode with cancer. Losing what I felt was intrinsic to my identity – my voice – made me feel like a shattered vase – purposeless. But, through my restorative journey to being able to sing again, I am reminded that God specialises in transforming our broken pieces into masterpieces.
KTF: You are also planning to go on tour to share your story. What’s the reasoning behind that?
ST: My hope is that by sharing my testimony of navigating fear, faith, vulnerability and healing, and using songs from the project, I will be able to encourage and inspire people who may be going through a challenging season in their lives. The entire EP starts off with four words: “It’s gonna be OK.” More people need to hear this.
KTF: What should we expect from you musically in the forthcoming year?
ST: Following the release of this EP, I plan to take on more opportunities to perform the songs from the project and share my testimony to encourage others. I also plan to do more writing for my next project, as well as writing for other artists.
KTF: Having gone through cancer and come out the other side, what are the greatest life lessons you’ve learnt?
ST: One of the greatest lessons I learned from this experience is the importance of having a strong support system and true friends. I am not sure how I would have been able to process and cope with everything I went through, if I didn’t have my family there to support me. My church community and network of close friends were also a pillar of strength and encouragement through some of my darkest days. Visit www.sarahteibo.co.uk
Gospel Superstar SINACH returns with Victory Sounds
For over three decades, gospel superstar Sinach has faithfully led the masses in worship. Her anthems, like ‘I Know Who I Am’, ‘Great Are You, Lord’, and ‘I Want More of You’, established her across Africa, but it was the song ‘Way Maker’ that became a global phenomenon that truly skyrocketed her to fame. ‘Way Maker’ dominated the Billboard Christian Songwriter chart for a record-breaking 12 weeks, becoming an award-winning smash hit. Sinach is back with her highly anticipated new project Victory Sounds, which features collaborations with Travis Greene, Israel Houghton, Lucy Grimble and Da’Dra Greathouse. The 10-track projectserves as a stirring reminder that we are victorious through Jesus Christ.
"I AM CONFIDENT THAT AS PEOPLE BEGIN TO LISTEN, THEY WILL REALISE THEY ARE VICTORIOUS AND MUST LIVE IN THAT TRUTH"
AKOSUA DF (ADF): So, before we dive into your new project, I must ask about ‘Way Maker’. I’d love to hear the story behind it. Did you ever imagine it would become such a huge hit?
SINACH: The song was birthed during a season in my life where I felt God calling me to make major changes. Stepping out of my comfort zone was daunting. It reminded me of Abraham’s journey, venturing to a land unseen. But God reassured me: “I AM the Way Maker, your Promise Keeper. Every word I’ve spoken about you has come true. I’ve made the impossible possible.” His words, a powerful reminder of His character, prompted me to write them down: “You are the Way Maker, Miracle Worker, Promise Keeper, Light in every darkness.” In my brokenness and doubt, He brought healing, comfort and His touch. That’s who He is.
ADF: What an inspiring testimony. Congratulations on the release of your new album Victory Sounds. The new project has a great team, with a mix of expertise and musical style. I’m curious, how did you decide who to collaborate with?
SINACH: I really believe in partnerships and iron sharpening iron. The album has collaborations with Israel Houghton, Travis Greene, Lucy Grimble, and Da’Dra Greathouse. The Lord literally whispered to me that they should be on it. They all love Jesus and exude passion and grace. Once you listen to the project you will understand why they were chosen. It was a great blessing to have them all on this record.
ADF: What’s the key message you want listeners to take away from the new project?
SINACH: The key message is that you have been called into a life of victory, therefore enforce it, walk in it. Romans 5:17 says we have been called to reign in life through Jesus Christ. I am confident that as people begin to listen, they will realise they are victorious and must live in that truth. Enforce the life of Christ that is in you.
ADF: Amen, amen and amen. Who are some of your musical influences?
SINACH: Growing up, my dad exposed me to a rich tapestry of music: R&B, gospel, country, and the rhythmic vibrancy of African music which ultimately helped shape my sound. After coming to Christ, my playlist shifted towards gospel artists like CeCe Winans, Donnie McClurkin, Don Moen, Panam Percy Paul, and The Gaither Singers. But it was Ron Kenoly who truly revolutionised my understanding of praise and worship. I must add that church music continues to be a huge influence on me. I absolutely love serving in my local community.
ADF: What is next for Sinach?
SINACH: A lot of touring [laughs]! I’ll be heading to the States, Canada and Africa. I look forward to carving out time to create special memories with my family. In between all the travel, I’ll be writing new material so, yes, expect more new music soon. Through it all, I’m incredibly grateful for God’s grace and favour.
Visit www.sinachmusic.com Victory Sounds is available in all digital music stores.
Christians, aged 40 and under, who are making an impact
The Church is greatly influenced by those aged between 20 and 40 years old. They play a major part in fuelling its growth, impact and witness, and are influencing their peers in their various fields of endeavour.
With the advent of social media, and its ability to touch lives globally, the influence of young Christians can be felt throughout the world.
Keep The Faith magazine has compiled a list of Christians aged between 20-40 who are making a positive difference in their local community, nationally and in the wider world, whether through their role as leaders of churches or ministries, artists, entrepreneurs, media professionals, creatives, or a unique field of endeavour. Have a read and be inspired.
ANNATORIA
Gospel singer
Annatoria is a Zambian-born Christian singer who came to Britain at the age of seven, grew up in Dudley, West Midlands, and came to the fore when she won the ninth series of The Voice UK in 2020, and won a record deal with Island Records. Since coming to the public’s attention and releasing music, Annatoria has accumulated a massive social media following, with 643,000 Instagram followers and 1.3m on TikTok. Her debut album was released in 2021, with her second being released last year in 2023. Her single ‘Stay With Me’ is a favourite with gospel music lovers – both Christian and non-Christian – and, in a major development in her ministry, Annatoria recently collaborated with Maverick City on their latest project with the afrobeat track ‘In The Room’. She has just released her debut EP entitled Full Circle.
Visit www.annatoria.carrd.co
DR LISA ADJEI
British Church Relations Manager, Christian Aid
Dr Lisa Adjei is known and highly regarded within the Christian community for her work at leading international development agency Christian Aid, where she is serves as British Church Relations Manager. She is a speaker and teacher, who holds a PhD in Biochemistry and Physiology from the University of Surrey in Guildford, where she was also a lay church leader for many years.
Lisa is also founder of Sankofa Collective, an ecumenical racial justice and reconciliation community for Christians. She is a member of Churches Together England’s Board of Trustees and their Racial Justice Working Group, and chairs global climate youth community, Climate YES – a movement of young activists engaging in political and societal transformation. Lisa is currently an active member of Trinity Baptist
Church and is studying for a master’s degree in Theology with Ministerial Formation at Spurgeon’s College.
Visit www.sankofacollective.org
SANMI ADEGOKE
CEO, Rehoboth Property Group, property developer, philanthropist
Sanmi Adegoke is one of a growing number of Christian entrepreneurs whose business is undergirded by their faith. This award-winning businessman set up his company Rehoboth Property Group (RPG) in 2013. He operates on the principles of ‘Faith, Tribe and Legacy’ and believes in giving back to the community. A university graduate, Sanmi grew his business by renovating old entertainment buildings, like cinemas, and turning them into places of worship for London’s thriving Pentecostal community. He also focused his attention on repurposing different types of buildings, such as former police stations and magistrates courts, and turning them into community hubs, venues and homes. His company currently employs 20 people and he has assets worth £35million. Key achievements include setting up a £100million social impact fund and winning several awards, including Real Estate Developer of the Year; Entrepreneur of the Year; and Property Developer of the Year. In July 2024 he was named as a Top 25 Black Entrepreneurs to Watch by HSBC UK & UK Black Business Show.
Visit www.rehobothproperty.group
EMMANUEL ASUQUO
Founder OnestopSave.com, financial adviser, speaker, TV presenter, author, event host
Whether he is fronting an advertising campaign for a leading bank like Barclays; providing financial advice on his social media platforms;
or establishing www.onestopsave.com – a platform that provides information to help people save – Emmanuel is making a name for himself, providing financial advice in a way that people easily understand and can apply. He has also served as presenter on Channel Four’s Save Well, Spend Better; wrote bestselling book ‘Get Your Money Right’ (released in 2023) and has recently released a book for children entitled The Ultimate Guide to Money. He is an in-demand speaker and speaks in schools, conferences, churches and at business events. He developed his understanding of finance working for some of the UK’s leading financial institutions, including the Royal Bank of Scotland and Barclays, and remains committed to helping people understand and use their money well.
Visit www.emmanuelasuquo.com
TIMOTHY AND NIA-CERISE BAYONNE
Church leaders and ministry leaders
Prophet Timothy and Prophet Nia-Cerise Bayonne are a young husband-and-wife ministerial team, using their gifts, talents and ministry to expand God’s kingdom.
Prophet Timothy is founder of PLUG Global Army (PGA), which aims to reach five billion people through a range of initiatives, including Fire Shift – an evangelism movement aimed to empty bars and clubs through mass outreach, and his meetings, held across internationally, have empowered thousands to preach the Gospel worldwide.
Prophet Nia-Cerise works alongside her husband in PLUG Global Army and shares his passion to see the lives of people from across the world transformed by the power of the Gospel. She has hosted evangelistic crusades in Africa and Asia, and participated in PGA mission trips to Paris, the Netherlands, and Belgium, where she has laboured to spark
revival and establish disciples across the globe.
Prophet Nia-Cerise also carries a deep-seated passion for empowering women, giving rise to one of the fastest-growing women’s ministries in the UK – the PGA’s very own Women of Valour women’s movement.
Together, the Bayonnes have brought hundreds of young adults together to pray through PLUG Prayer Night gatherings, which are followed by street evangelism. They are committed to calling the lost to repentance, serving the body of Christ, and advancing the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ, with signs and wonders following.
Visit www.plugglobalarmy.com
COURTNEY DANIELLA BOATENG
Digital entrepreneur, author, public speaker, podcaster, content creator
Cambridge University graduate Courtney Daniella Boateng is positively impacting her large online following of 150,000 people. She
is co-founder and co-host, alongside Renée Kapuku, of To My Sisters, a global digital sisterhood. The To My Sisters podcast has amassed over seven million downloads; the book ‘To My Sisters’ is a bestseller; and they have held several sold-out live events in the UK, USA, and South Africa. Courtney has also helped raise over £15,000 for women’s causes, including building a school in Ghana. She has worked on projects in collaboration with various international organisations – including YouTube, UN Women, Meta, Action Aid, Vitabiotics, and Dell – to promote women’s wellness and economic empowerment. She is an advisor to several organisations tackling gender equity issues, is co-author of the book To My Sister, and has been named as one of the UK’s top Black Entrepreneurs to Follow by Forbes, and by HSBC UK & UK Black Business Show.
Visit www.tomysisters.com
STORM
CECILE
Spoken word artist
Storm Cecile is an international spoken word artist who works with organisations, charities and businesses to share meaningful stories and messages through performance poetry. She is commissioned by companies to produce poetry videos and live performances. Organisations Cecile has worked for include Biblica, TBI Media, CAP, Christian Aid Passion Conference, YPO, Kugali, The Mitchell Group, Ruka Hair, and Nationwide Building Society. In addition, Storm Cecile has performed at numerous prestigious venues, including the House of Lords, and recently toured with Kari Jobe, Cody Carnes and Martin Smith in collaboration with CAP UK. Storm is currently running a crowdfunding campaign to finance a series of new spoken word video projects.
Visit www.stormcecile.com
FAITH CHILD
Gospel artist, TV presenter, event MC
Michael Ayo, aka Faith Child, is a MOBO and multi award-winning rapper, presenter and one of the UK’s leading contemporary Christian artists. His stage moniker, Faith Child, relates to the story of how his mother was close to aborting him but heard God’s audible voice telling her to keep the child and have faith in Him – making Michael a ‘faith child’. She was told he would be a man who would serve God and be after His heart.
Faith Child has performed in over 20 countries to audiences ranging from 50 people to 50,000 across Europe, America and Africa. He has appeared on numerous TV and radio shows, like the BBC’s Sunday Morning Live and BBC Minute. Faith Child also runs workshops and motivational talks, with the aim of inspiring young people in particular to release their potential and materialise their dreams. He was recently appointed as Chairman of Youth Coordinators/Deputy Chairman European Youth Council of YAYA (RCCG UK’s Youth and Young Adults).
Visit www.faithchildmusic.com
DR OSCAR GUOBADIA
Senior pastor and theologian
An in-demand speaker, teacher, as well as pastor, Dr Oscar Guobadia is fast becoming the go-to theologian for his generation. He is Senior Pastor of The Brook Place, London, and reaches thousands locally and globally through weekly social media streaming platforms. Keen to make theology accessible to lay members and clergy alike, he regularly participates in forums and events. He hosts various events in the UK and the US, including The Convocation, Revive UK & Flames 2024 International Burn Conference, and in his desire to support
Christians with the gift of prophecy, Dr Guobadia founded and runs the Brook School of Prophets and its Prophetic Mentoring Program. His academic background in theology, complemented by qualifications in business administration and strategic leadership, has been instrumental in enhancing his ministry work. Dr Guobadia finds joy in travelling and engaging with individuals from diverse backgrounds. He is married to Triumph and resides in London, where he continues to inspire and lead The Brook Place with dedication and purpose.
Visit www.thebrookplace.org and www.droscarguobadia.com
SHERMARA FLETCHERHOYTE
Principal Officer in Pentecostal and Charismatic Relations, Churches Together in England
Shermara Fletcher-Hoyte is a leading millennial figure in Pentecostal and Charismatic Relations, in her role as the Principal Officer at Churches Together in England. A dedicated minister and international speaker, Shermara became known internationally when she participated as a reader in the late Queen Elizabeth II’s funeral on September 19, 2022, viewed globally by an audience of 4.1 billion.
Regarded as a spokesperson for Christian millennials, Shermara has been interviewed on numerous media platforms, including BBC Radio 2, BBC Radio 4, BBC World News, Talk TV, The God Channel, TBN, UBC Radio, and Premier Radio. She has also contributed to a number of books, namely Young, Woke, and Christian; Coming Home: Christian Perspectives on Housing; and Black, Christian and Single.
Shermara is the recipient of numerous awards, including the MAB International 2022 Young Leader of the Year Award; the 2020 Exceptional Young Woman Award from The Wise Women Awards; and the 2019 communityrecognised Faith and Belief Community Award by the Queen II’s Lord Lieutenant, highlighting her impact within the community and homelessness sector.
Shermara, married to Minister Benjamin Hoyte, attributes her achievements to the sacrifices of her grandparents and to God’s grace, love and mercy, exemplifying His transformative power in communities worldwide.
Follow Shermara on Instagram @fletche official
SAMUEL KASUMU
Entrepreneur, author, inclusion expert
Samuel Kasumu is an award-winning social entrepreneur, best-selling author, and inclusion expert, who unlocks new realms of success and innovation. He was recently featured on the United Nations’ Top 100 List of Most
Influential People of African Descent (MIPAD). Until his resignation in April 2021, he was the most senior Black advisor in government and worked alongside former Prime Minister Boris Johnson and, while serving under ex-Prime Minister Theresa May, he was a member of the Race Disparity Audit Advisory Board. He is co-founder of Inclusive Boards, a firm specialising in non-executive board appointments. Inclusive Boards has supported the development of culture change plans for various national governing bodies. The Inclusive Boards network has grown to over 60,000 senior leaders across sectors. In 2023, they were named Best Third/Public Sector Recruiters of the Year at the National Recruiter Awards. Samuel is the recipient of a number of awards, including the Entrepreneur Champion of the Year, Great British Entrepreneur Awards, Barclays Business Enterprise Award, and Spirit of London Awards (SOLA). He is also author of The Power of the Outsider
Visit www.samuelkasumu.co.uk
CASSANDRA MARIA
Station Manager, Premier Gospel, comedic content creator, broadcaster
Cassandra Maria is a comedic content creator, broadcaster, and the interim station manager of Premier Gospel Radio, the UK’s leading gospel music station. Since launching her media career in 2018, Cassandra has built an online following of nearly 25,000 and reaches millions across various platforms. She has collaborated on comedic campaigns with major brands like Sky TV, Amazon Prime, and Disney Plus. In 2020, Cassandra joined Premier Gospel as a presenter. In 2024, she was appointed the interim station manager, where she has played a pivotal role in advancing the team’s goals and mission. In pursuance of her comedic career, Cassandra Maria has co-hosted and created
TBN UK’s women’s talk show Sisterhood, and has been featured in BBC Radio 1Xtra’s Christmas of Comedy programming. She was a BBC New Comedy Awards regional finalist in 2023 and has now built up a following of over 23.9k through her comedy skits.
Follow @cassville on Instagram
MICAH McLEAN
Podcaster and YouTuber
Micah McLean is the founder of podcast and YouTube channel Micah McLean Talks. It was created in 2020 initially to address the issues young people were facing during the pandemic. It shifted focus and currently interviews movers and shakers in the world of business, media, charitable endeavours, politics and music, including gospel artists. People he has interviewed include Anne Hegerty from ITV’s The Chase; Nick Jenkins, former Dragon on BBC Dragons’ Den; Eric D Collins, businessman and former aide to Barack Obama; Edward Johnson of Port Royal Patties; and Tamela Mann. A committed Christian, when not interviewing the great and the good, he works as an EDI officer.
Visit https://www.youtube.com/@ micahmcleantalks
SHARLENE-MONIQUE
Singer/songwriter, TV presenter, author
Sharlene-Monique is a familiar face to many. She is a member and lead singer with one of Britain’s most famous gospel outfits, The Kingdom Choir. She has also written a number of songs for the choir which have been featured on their album, and on their Apple Music Home Sessions, released in 2022. Aside from singing with the choir, Sharlene-Monique is a solo singer in her own right. She has performed
live for Jazz FM and Radio London and was a support act for pop star Gabrielle. Recently, Sharlene-Monique has published her own books. Her debut book, 31 Diamond Thoughts Vol.1, conveys her thoughts on various issues, such as grief, marriage and relationship, to help readers live a life of purpose and passion. Earlier this year, she launched her debut children’s book, A New Life, inspired by her grandparents – members of the Windrush Generation. Sharlene-Monique presented two series of Melanated Stories for TBN, which enabled Black and Brown people to share their journeys of life and faith.
Visit https://www.sharlenemonique.com/
HAYLEY MULENDA
Award-winning speaker, trainer and businesswoman
Hayley Mulenda is a multi award-winning international speaker and trainer, who works with some of the world’s leading organisations and companies, including Microsoft, the University of Cambridge, Google, JP Morgan, NAS Dubai, and IBM. People from across the world – whether in person or via her social media – have been touched by her story of turning pain into purpose and the power of authenticity. She is also unafraid of talking about her faith whilst working. She has delivered keynote speeches on some of the world’s most prestigious stages, including the Houses of Parliament, Oslo Spektrum, and Wembley Arena. Hayley is a board member of Wagamama and a governor at her former secondary school. She also trains female leaders in public speaking, storytelling and confidence in Europe, America, Africa and the Middle East. Her impact has been acknowledged with awards such as The Diana Award, Rare Rising Stars, the Best of Congo Awards, and
just recently, Hayley was named as one of 25 Black Entrepreneurs to Watch by HSBC UK & UK Black Business Show.
Visit www.hayleymulenda.com
AYOKUNU ODUNIYI AND SUSAN DEBORAHS
Church and ministry leaders, A New Thing, London
Ayokunu Oduniyi, and Susan Deborahs are a husband-and-wife team who do ministry together. Ayo, as he is affectionately known, is founder and visionary leader of A NEW THING London (ANT), a church family committed to creatively engaging the culture with the Gospel of the kingdom. ANT disciples creatives to think kingdom, be creative, and do family. Ayo also founded Four12Men – a Christian organisation devoted to discipling men into biblical manhood. He is the pioneer of Groom2Husband – a forum where grooms and husbands discuss transitioning into married life. Professionally, Ayo works as a portraiture and commercial photographer. Alongside co-leading ANT with her husband Ayo, Susan Deborahs has a thriving women’s ministry entitled Coffee and Prayer. Using in-person events, coaching, masterclasses and online activities, Coffee and Prayer provides women with a platform to be spiritually empowered as well as talk honestly about a wide range of subjects, including those considered taboo. Susan is also a writer, and has written a number of books and devotionals, the most recent being Connecting with God: A Guide to Cultivating an Authentic Relationship with Him. And last year, she was a special guest at Woman Evolve, the conference hosted by Sarah Jakes Roberts – one of the world’s most influential female church leaders.
Follow @anewthingldn on Instagram
OMAR AND RHONA MPOLOGOMA TACKIE
Lead Pastors, ARC 2.0
Husband-and-wife team Omar and Rhona Tackie are senior leaders of ARC 2.0, a thriving, fast-growing church in Forest Gate, east London that has become the spiritual home to hundreds of millennials and Gen Zs.
Omar’s life demonstrates how an encounter with the Gospel brings about total transformation. A former gang-member and atheist, Omar is now a teacher, preacher, and co-pastor of a church. He has a desire for people to fully understand the Gospel and has had the opportunity and been privileged to speak in Europe, Africa and the Caribbean.
Rhona Mpologoma Tackie has been preaching since the age of 16. Converted as a teenager, she attended Arc Forest Gate. Under the leadership of Pastor Peter Nembhard, Rhona served as an intercessor, youth leader, and eventually joined the pastoral care ministry. A gifted speaker, Rhona has spoken in the UK, as well as in a number of African nations and the Caribbean.
She is one of the female ministers featured in the forthcoming Keep The Faith documentary about women in ministry and, in 2023, was the recipient of a Wise Women Award in the Exceptional Young Woman category.
Follow @arc2uk on Instagram
PASTOR ANDREW AND REV ALLICIA WIGNAL
Senior Pastor and First Lady, New Testament Assembly
Pastor Andrew and Rev Allicia Wignal are the newly appointed Senior Pastor and First Lady of New Testament Assembly (NTA) in Tooting, south London, one of the UK’s iconic Pentecostal churches.
Pastor Andrew, a visionary leader, aims to unify all generations under the guiding principle of ‘boldly building the body of Christ’. Ordained to the ministry in 2013, and having a professional background working in education for over 20 years and gaining a master’s theological degree from Spurgeon’s College, Pastor Andrew is passionate about biblical teaching, spiritual growth, and fostering a culture of devoted, Christ-centred service.
Rev Allicia shares her husband’s deep commitment to empowering church and community. An educationalist, Rev Allicia heads the NTA’s women’s ministry.
Both Pastor Andrew and Rev Allicia are excited for the next phase of NTA Tooting’s journey and aspire to serve as beacons of hope, through the power of the Gospel, exemplifying the profound impact of a united, faith-driven Christian community.
Follow @ntatooting on Instagram
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Shani Akilah A glittering new voice in the literary firmament
Described as “a glittering new voice in the literary firmament”, Shani Akilah has made an impressive entry into the writing scene with her first book, For Such a Time as This. Raised in a Christian family, this talented writer and screenwriter from south London has a passion for writing that started at the tender age of four, due to her parents’ love of academia. In For Such a Time as This, Shani, a master’s graduate, explores the quintessence of the Black British experience and different facets of today’s friendship groups through her thought-provoking storytelling.
Lawrencia Nelson spoke with Shani about her writing journey; why she believes community is still important in today’s culture; and the role of faith in her life.
LAWRENCIA NELSON (LN):
Congratulations on your debut book, For Such a Time as This. Can you tell us about your writing journey and who inspired you to write?
SHANI AKILAH (SA): I have always loved reading and writing, and that’s mainly down to being raised by my incredible parents. They are academics who have always valued the importance of education. I was reading from a really young age, and I have a vivid memory of Dad teaching me to read and write down John 1 on flashcards when I was four years old! I also loved writing stories in primary and secondary school, and a few years ago I came across a story that I had written when I was six years old.
But my writing journey really started five years ago, when I was at an event at my local library in Woolwich. My younger sister Rasheeda was hosting a Q&A with author Bernardine Evaristo to discuss her book Girl, Woman, Other, which later went on to win the Booker Prize. During that evening, I was really inspired by what Bernardine had to say about writing as a craft and the power of storytelling, and it reminded me how much I loved writing.
After the talk, I spoke to Bernardine and asked if she had any advice on what I could do to develop my writing. She spoke about the importance of reading to become a better writer but also doing writing courses and mentioned she was running a masterclass for under 25s in Woolwich at the Tramshed. I signed up to the class which started a few weeks afterwards, and I remember during that first session I felt strongly that writing was the one thing that made sense to me. That was a real moment in my journey because ever since that day I’ve been working towards the goal of being a published author, and exactly five years later it’s amazing to see that dream come true.
LN: You have beautifully executed and captured the essence of the millennial Black British experience and illustrated the challenges of friendship groups in today’s world. Tell us how you managed to do this and is this based on your own experiences?
SA: Friendship means a lot to me. It’s a really big part of my life and I feel that not enough credit is given to the beauty of platonic relationships. A lot of my writing is inspired by seeds of truth from my own life and a number of my characters, and the relationships between individuals are inspired by some of the incredible people I have the pleasure of calling some of my closest friends. I’ve learnt so much over the years about intentional biblical friendship and also have personal experiences of doing life with friends – the
joys, the sorrows and the challenges – all inspiration for my stories.
LN: What do you hope readers take away from reading For Such a Time as This?
SA: The collection deals with some really important topics that affect Black communities, such as sickle cell, dating, racism in the workplace, and endometriosis (in terms of how it affects Black women), and so I would love for people to learn more about those issues and take time to really sit with them. I would also say the book is very wholesome and illustrates the multiplicity of joy, so I want people to come away feeling warmth from the reading experience and filled with hope.
LN: We know you are passionate about community and bringing people together. How did you incorporate this in the book?
SA: Yes, I am super passionate about community and bringing people together and I have been like that for as long as I can remember. In the collection, Niah is a main character and is the link that connects all the other characters. She is very much a fictionalised version of me and the friendship groups I have. I’ve got friends from school, sixth form, university, church and work who all know each other from the various events I’ve hosted over the years, including my annual birthday games night, which is the setting for the last story in the book. Group chats on iMessage and WhatsApp are also a recurring motif in my stories, which again are inspired by the online relationships I have with my friends and the various communities I have established over the years.
LN: Aside from writing such a thoughtprovoking book, you’re the co-founder of Nyah Network. What made you create a book club for Black women?
SA: When I was 22, I had just finished my master’s degree and my best friend Elizabeth and I wanted to create a safe space where like-minded Black women in their twenties could connect and make friends. Having entered the workplace as recent graduates, we found it was difficult to build a sisterhood
in white-dominated spaces, so we created a community where we hosted regular socials, brunches, trips abroad, and staycations. Given our passion for reading, as part of the network we started a monthly book club and wanted to highlight Black voices and so read books exclusively by Black authors. Though the community formally came to a close at the end of 2022, it’s been beautiful to see the friendships remain despite the group ending. The Nyah Network, and particularly the book club, will always have a special place in my heart.
LN: You have been described as a ‘glittering new voice in the literary firmament’. What a compliment! How does that make you feel?
SA: This is such an amazing quote and I’m so grateful to Bernardine Evaristo for her kind words. It also features on the front cover of the book, which is an absolute dream come true. Honestly, I feel so blessed. And I’m so grateful to God because I really do feel like I’m walking in purpose.
LN: What can we expect from you in the future?
SA: I really want to write more stories about Black communities and safe spaces that are hidden, or more specifically, stories from communities that I don’t feel have been well-represented in contemporary literature. For example, I would love to tell more stories about characters who have grown up in church, and explore the challenges, contradictions but also the joy and sense of home and belonging, and of being part of such faith communities. I’m also really interested in telling more intergenerational stories and sharing narratives from the Windrush generation and their impact on second and third generations. One thing that will remain in all my writing, though, is the illustration of community and joy within the context of the African diaspora.
LN: What would you like your work to be remembered for?
SA: This is a really big question, but I think the first thing that comes to mind is being remembered for writing stories where people feel seen. I think more so than five-star ratings or being featured on bestseller lists, what is most meaningful to me is when people have said to me: “Thank you, Shani, for telling our stories”. One of my favourite revelations of God is where He revealed Himself to Hagar as El Roi – ‘the God who sees me’. That passage in Exodus has always meant so much to me and so, as a writer, it’s a real gift to be able to convey that beautiful revelation of the Most High God in my storytelling.
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UK VISION 2030:
CATCH TH E VI SION, SHAPE THE FUTURE
Elijah Bossa shares the inspiration and findings of UK Vision 2030, a new report that sets out a strategy for progress for Britain’s African and Caribbean community
The context: The need for a new vision for change
‘For the vision is yet for an appointed time; but at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry’ (Habakkuk 2:3-4).
May 25, 2020, was a watershed moment in the history of the global civil rights movement.
A world in lockdown watched, in real time, the murder of George Floyd, and large-scale protests erupted in the US and across major cities throughout the world, including the UK.
Whilst large corporations, politicians, and policymakers scrambled to respond with more than lip service as a show of seriousness in the fight against racial injustice, questions were being raised about what the unfolding political frenzy meant for the United Kingdom.
‘UK Vision 2030 is a movement that seeks to bring together individuals from all walks of life’
It is in this context that the idea of UK Vision 2030 was birthed. But what exactly is UK Vision 2030, and why does it matter so much within the UK’s current social, economic and political landscape?
UK Vision 2030 is a movement that seeks to bring together individuals from all walks of life – from senior church leaders to young professionals, grass roots activists to philanthropists, youth workers to captains of industry – to develop strategies and action plans that will advance the success of people of African and Caribbean heritage across all sectors of society in the UK.
In August 2020, multi-skilled professionals came together to form the core team of UK Vision 2030, which focused on eight ‘spheres’ of enquiry: Government; Business & Economy; Education; Family; Religion; Arts, Entertainment & Sport; Media; and Health. UK Vision 2030 team members were allocated to one of the eight spheres based on their expertise. Data was collated using various secondary sources – academic reports, articles, media outlets – and primary sources collated through surveys, interviews and
focus groups with ‘visionaries’ (leaders of African or African and Caribbean heritage) invited to participate due to their experience and knowledge.
UK Vision 2030 Report
The UK Vision 2030 report was officially launched on 18 January 2024 and set out the findings of the current socio-political and economic challenges impacting the progress of people of African and Caribbean heritage across all eight spheres of influence. The report found high levels of underrepresentation – especially in senior leadership roles. It also found evidence of the challenges that Blackowned businesses experienced accessing finance, and signposted the shortage of mentors and positive role models.
However, this report was more than just a diagnostic compilation of the barriers to progress for Black people in the UK. The report emphasised the sense of pride and hope in the outlook for the next generation of Black talent. Contributors to the report were keen to point out that there is a “wind of change with deliberate efforts to improve and address the balance. The door has been cracked open to allow entry.”
Critically, the report ambitiously sets out strategic plans of action for change across
all eight spheres of influence. Underpinning this report is the repeated ‘call to action’.
What next?
UK Vision 2030 report highlights the focus on growing a network of leaders and change agents across each of the eight spheres. This network will begin the drive towards effecting tangible change by creating a platform to connect individuals from each sphere who can begin proposing and implementing the strategic goals and action plans signposted in these individual areas.
UK Vision 2030 is a rallying call for individuals across the UK to galvanise and gather, to collaborate and coalesce into action now.
Work has begun in earnest post launch, with UK Vision 2030 reaching out to connect with one of the most important meeting points of the Black community in the UK: the Church – the perfect epicentre to connect young and older change agents, as well as inspire communities across the country to network and advance the report’s plan of action.
In a sermon preached to commemorate the indomitable spirit of the Windrush Generation, during a thanksgiving service at Westminster Abbey (2018), the late Rev Canon Joel Edwards eloquently stated: “We may be perplexed but Christian faith is all about future hope.” The resilience of Black people in Britain arises “supremely from the conviction that God, our Help in ages past, will always be our hope in years to come.” It is this same undying, unyielding hope that continues to blow wind in the sails for a national movement for real change in the UK, a movement personified in the life and enduring work of UK Vision 2030.
Visit https://v2030.co.uk/uk-vision-report-2/ to download a copy of the report
Community transformation, social action, and the Church
Kate Sharma of Cinnamon Network explains why the Church is more than equipped to respond to our nation’s social challenges and transform communities
About mid-January, my local council sent me an email requesting my assistance in balancing their budget! I felt flattered. Briefly. Until I realised it was a circular mailing to anyone paying council tax in the town.
With a slightly bruised ego, I clicked on the email anyway. It was then that things got really depressing. The email read: ‘Where would you like to reduce spending: environmental policies, waste collection, community groups, children’s services, mental health, or well-being?’ Hmm, let me think... NONE.
Like others across the country, my local council is facing a budget deficit of nearly £500,000. In fact, the Local Government Association estimates that local authorities in England face a funding gap of £4bn over the next two years. This means key services are likely to be cut.
There are clearly cracks – or rather, great colossal chasms – in policy that need fixing. But as we stare at the hole, the boat is filling up with water. Fast.
This is where the Church comes in Now, come with me for a moment to a spot near Bethsaida, close to the Sea of Galilee. It was here some 2,000 years ago that Jesus was faced with a similarly impossible budget deficit – or rather a lunch deficit. Five thousand people had gathered to hear Jesus speak, and the disciples were challenged with feeding them.
What strikes me about this incident is that Jesus doesn’t ask the disciples: “How much food do you need?” He simply says: “How many loaves do you have?” (Mark 6:38). I think there is wisdom here, as we look to be salt and light in our communities during these challenging times.
Focusing on the huge problems can be dizzying to the point of paralysis. None of us has a spare £4bn for the collection plate, so let’s ask ourselves: “What gifts, resources, connections and knowledge do we have?”
What have you got?
At the beginning of the year, I spent a wonderful three days with 11 remarkable individuals who have all founded small social action projects to help churches respond to issues such as mental health, domestic violence, and relationship breakdown. These were people who had seen a problem in their community and responded by turning the passion, knowledge and connections they
had into action.
Through Cinnamon’s two-year Incubator Programme, they were learning skills and gaining contacts to grow and replicate their work. And while they were individually exceptional, none of them were lone wolves. They were all grounded in the local church network, which I think is particularly powerful.
Following the general election on July 4, we know that policies and priorities will change. What doesn’t change is God. Our churches will remain fixtures in our communities with an ear to the ground, a heart for the people, and the hands of Jesus to take action.
Churches are culturally relevant
As churches, we get the cultural nuances of our communities that other organisations don’t.
A great example of this is the Healthy Church Initiative (HCI) by Food For Purpose, the winner of Cinnamon’s Incubator competition in 2018. The HCI was set up by Shola Oladipo, a dietitian with more than 25 years’ experience.
As she overheard her NHS colleagues discussing how to reach Black communities, Shola knew that the Church was the key. Through her work, Shola and her team liaise with public health bodies, local authorities, and churches, translating key health messages into culturally relevant, practical actions that improve health and well-being.
Adeola Ogunade, from Hope4All Housing Surgery, is another pioneer. In her role as Chartered Housing Practitioner, she’d seen too many people lose their homes simply because they didn’t know their rights. So, Adeola took what she had, which was her
knowledge of the housing arena, gathered support from volunteers in her church and community, and created a solution.
Hope4All Housing Surgery now trains other churches to provide free support on housing to prevent people from reaching crisis point. Adeola speaks incredible truth when she says: “The application of knowledge is power.”
My question for you...
So, what loaves and fishes do you have?
You may be a Christian with industry expertise; a church leader with premises; or someone with lived experience. Do explore ways you can turn your experience into action and provide muchneeded services and support for your community.
Why the Black Church needs to take apologetics seriously
Clare Williams shares reasons why church leaders should engage with apologetics and the difference it can make in
discipling young people
In a world full of questions and so many competing answers, church should be a place where young people can find responses to life’s deepest questions. At times, whenever I scroll through social media, I feel as though I’ve walked into a room with hundreds of people shouting. There are so many opinions, so many platforms and podcasts. With all these voices, the truth of the Gospel can become lost, especially for young people who may not have the tools to discern truth from error. Enter Christian apologetics, a tool we can use to engage with the issues that young people in Black-majority churches are facing.
Why apologetics?
Growing up in Black Pentecostal church, I remember having powerful encounters with God but not having a forum in which to ask questions. I was often advised to “pray and trust God”, and even though this was good, I wrestled with many questions in my twenties, experienced crises of faith, and eventually decided to leave my 10-year teaching career in search of answers.
It was during this time of training in apologetics that I noticed a ‘gap’, whereby the questions of young Black British Christians, seekers and sceptics were not being addressed. Questions such as: Is the Bible a tool of oppression? Should I practise indigenous African spiritualities? How can God be good when the world is so unjust? Doesn’t Christianity crush my authentic identity? Is Christianity a copycat religion? So, in 2019, I launched Real Questions to support Black churches seeking to respond to these objections which emerge from Christianity’s colonial legacies and the presentday, lived experience of racial discrimination.
We can’t ignore them. We can’t plaster over them with spiritual platitudes. Instead, we can demonstrate how the Christian faith offers robust answers to these pressing questions.
What is apologetics?
Apologetics isn’t what it sounds like. It isn’t about apologising or saying sorry for what we believe as Christians. Instead, it comes from the Greek word apologia, which we see in 1 Peter 3:15 – ‘But in your hearts, revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason (apologia) for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect...’ This means we can draw upon evidence of God’s work in creation, the sciences, history, philosophy – and so much more – to present a compelling case for Christianity. There is a strong legacy of this in both Scripture and the intellectual history of the Church.
Called before yet another council, the apostle Paul made a defence of his faith in Acts 22. Early church fathers like Tertullian wrote tracts and treatises to defend Christianity in the face of unorthodox ideas being perpetuated by figures like Marcion of Sinope, who sought, among other things, to remove the God of the Old Testament from the Bible. There are many Christian apologists and organisations that are engaging with questions of our culture, ranging from philosophers like William Lane Craig, to cultural apologists like Preston Perry, Rebecca McClaughlin, and my own platform, realquestions.co.uk
How can we use apologetics?
Perhaps today the word ‘defend’ is off-putting and sounds like Christians are called to be combative. But this doesn’t have to be the
case. If a young Black person, who isn’t a Christian, asks: “How can a good God exist when there’s so much injustice in the world?” we may turn to the pages of Scripture which show how God is just, how He is kind, and how He cares deeply about oppressed people, e.g. Zechariah 7:8–10. However, if that young person doesn’t believe that God exists or that the Bible is a trustworthy source of information, this response won’t do much to present Christianity as a credible worldview. Using an apologetics approach, we might encourage a young person to examine where the concept of justice itself comes from, and if it is best explained in a world where God does or doesn’t exist. This would be an example of using the moral argument for God’s existence and applying it to a tangible question of today.
Where can we start?
Pastoring young people is a rewarding yet very demanding role, and with all the work that goes into discipling them, we need to find as many resources as possible. A good place to start with Christian apologetics for young people is Reboot City*, a big youth event for youth aged 12–18, to ask their big questions about faith. The Jude 3 Project is an excellent African American resource, which engages with questions of Black faith and culture. www.realquestions.co.uk takes a Black British approach to the subject.
CLARE WILLIAMS
Black Christian community embraces new conference venue
A brand-new Christian conference centre has opened in Northamptonshire with significant demand from Black-majority churches (BMCs). Christian Conference Trust, who recently purchased Highgate House, a former commercial hotel and wedding venue, report that over half of all new enquiries are coming from BMCs.
Growing to meet increased demand
The Trust has seen a sharp rise in the demand for quality conference facilities from the growing UK Pentecostal Church movement. In response to this, it has now added 30% more space by opening a new venue close to the cities of the Midlands, as well as being easily reachable from London and the northern home counties.
Joining The Hayes in Derbyshire and High Leigh in Hertfordshire, Highgate House is exclusively for Christian groups and is equipped with 16 meeting spaces – the largest for up to 200 delegates, fully catered services and 82 en-suite bedrooms.
Just as at its other centres, guests at Highgate House benefit from quality facilities, whilst saving on average 50% compared to prices charged by commercial venues*.
Preparing for the next generation of believers
For over 100 years, Christian Conference Trust has been providing a place for the Church to come together. They value the benefit of going away together with their church fellowship or Christian organisation; creating time and opportunities to grow in faith, reconnect with God, and encourage one another as believers in prayer, teaching and worship.
The need for a welcoming space has not changed, but the makeup of denominations staying at its venues has evolved. Today they are seeing a hunger from the UK’s BMCs to regularly come away together and benefit from fellowship, which is so important to ministry and encouraging the next generation to connect with God and commit their lives in His service.
New survey highlights the importance of togetherness
In a recent survey by Christian Conference Trust, 85% of church leaders who take their congregation on a residential retreat named relationship-building as the biggest benefit of spending time away together.
Of those surveyed, 94% believed it is
either important or essential for them to spend quality time together outside of weekly church meetings.
The two biggest reasons stated in the survey for choosing Christian Conference Trust were price and quality facilities. This encouraging feedback is in keeping with the Charity's mission to provide quality venues at below-the-market rates.
Space is booking up fast
With such high demand for these venues, churches and Christian organisations are encouraged to contact Christian Conference Trust through their website cct.org.uk to arrange a tour of Highgate House, The Hayes or High Leigh or to receive a tailored quotation.
Phil Gray - The making of a National Youth Director
Can you imagine being responsible for leading thousands of young people as they manoeuvre in church life and society? Juliet Fletcher received some insight after talking to 39-year-old Phil Gray, National Youth & Discipleship Director for New Testament Church of God (NTCG) UK, who has been in the post for just over a year.
Phil was awarded the role after a recommendation from the National Administrative Bishop Claion Grandison, which was ratified by the NTCG National Executive Board. Phil recalls: “Initially I wasn’t willing – life was good – but Bishop Grandison encouraged me to pray about it. As I sought the Father’s face, the answer came with the right vision and mission for NT Youth. I love my job.”
family life
JULIET FLETCHER (JF): First, would you fill us in on your family life and what it was like for you growing up in church?
PHIL GRAY (PG): My wife, Cassandra, and I met as youth leaders at Youth Camp. That’s why I tell our young people – you never know what can happen when you go to Youth Camp (lol). We have two boys, Caleb (11) and Gideon (8). Our home church is NTCG Harvest Temple, Wolverhampton. Both my parents, Rev Byron and Patricia Gray, are Jamaican and came to the UK during the Windrush Era. They settled in Walsall, West Midlands. At the time, it was a mainly white middle-toworking-class area. I’m the third and last boy and the sixth of seven children. My father was a lorry driver, and my mother was a nurse at the local doctor’s surgery. They were – and still are – well-loved in the community.
JF: So, were you forced to go to church or did you just follow your siblings?
PG: I did say my parents are Jamaican (lol)! No, I wasn’t forced. For me, it was a way of life. Anyway, my father had a saying: “When I speak, no man suggested” (lol), but it was good.
JF: I guess that’s very different for many of the young men who are in church these days? How do you minister or relate to them?
PG: We do have a lot of men in that position (without fathers). But I know what it is to be human and just the
thought of not having my father around is unthinkable. So I aim to be the best role model for young men in that position. I’m a trained youth worker by profession, with over 20 years in the region. Young men pass me on the street and say: “Hello, Mr. Gray” or turn to their friend and say: “He was a mentor to me.” Often, if I pass a young man, I will give them the ‘Black nod’. Do you remember that? I’m letting them know “I see you”. That, with a smile or a brief conversation, can make a big difference to young men.
JF: Did or didn’t you have a ‘bad lad’ phase, then?
PG: (laughs) I ‘tried’ around the age of 14. When I started secondary school, I got into an unsavoury crowd. I knew I was going down the wrong road, but thankfully, I had a healthy fear of my father and any consequences. But, more importantly, my prayer warrior mother, without fail, prayed for all of us every day. We could hear her in the bedroom – especially because I had to wait for her to finish so that I could get my lunch money (lol). That particular summer, she sent me off for a week at a Youth for Christ (YFC) camp. Mainly white young people were worshipping and looking quite serious about it. Being in worship was something I had been doing all my life, but on that last day of camp, when I heard the Gospel – as if it was the first time – I found myself in floods of tears. I had a vision of Christ JESUS on the Cross. I heard Jesus saying: “This is what I have done for you. What will you do for Me?” It was at that point I said: “I surrender, I will do anything for You.” Honouring and serving Jesus through serving people – that for me was the moment of my calling.
JF: May I ask you a left-field question?
When you saw Jesus on the Cross, was He Black or white?
PG: I couldn’t see His face, but I know He wasn’t a white person. All I know is His whole body was light.
JF: These days, so many of our Black youths have taken this point seriously, saying: “Christianity is a ‘White man’s religion’.” How have you found answering that as a Youth Director?
PG: It’s a really important question because we are currently
a Black-majority church membership. We must address it. It’s clear He was not a white man. He was a Palestinian Jew! When I was younger, it was said it “doesn’t matter what colour He was – as long as His blood was red” but that’s not true. It does matter, and we should address clearly and specifically these false pictures and narratives. If the image is something that further alienates us from the faith, it’s important to redress that.
turbulent teenage overcomer
JF: Back to your teenage years. How did you cope with the dynamics of girls and young manhood? How did you find that struggle?
PG: My interactions with females – it was hard (lol)! Y’know, hormones flying everywhere! The truth is, I had some really good mentors. I was blessed with strong male role models. For example, my cousins Mark Perrin (my Youth Pastor) and his brother Dave (a Men’s District Leader) were a little older and got saved before me. They came in from the world, I think, as former bouncers. Dave had been involved in criminal activities before he came to the Lord. Mark, Dave, and some other men took me under their wings. I was able to ask real questions like “How do you not look at porn?” and tell them when I was struggling. These godly men were really willing to be open and honest with me. I didn’t care about being embarrassed about asking or whether a question might be shameful. I think it helped that I just wanted to live for JESUS, and I wanted to be holy. My discipleship was profound. This is what I want for all young people to experience in and from our churches.
Some men can be put off by the higher female environment. There are other young men who ‘seem’ to be more effeminate in their gestures, and other burlier guys push them aside and almost create a ‘self-fulfilling prophecy’, causing these young men to end up feeling more comfortable with female companionship. But we are saying: “No, you’re a brother, our brother” and embracing them, and if there are struggles with issues, we still show care and compassion and get them the support they need. The Church needs to have this prevailing attitude.
encounter with today’s culture
JF: How are you instructing your young people about social media? How open are you, as a young leader, sharing about yourself, your failures and faults?
PG: Wow! Interesting, isn’t it? We do teach
online safety, especially from a sexual point of view. We let them know that whatever you put out has an indelible mark. I think sometimes people use social media as a cathartic exercise, then maybe when they feel a little different, they say they wish they hadn’t said that – but... too late! I’m happy to be vulnerable and open when I can see someone face to face. I think I’m very honest with young people, but you won’t find all that on social media.
JF: If there were one final thing you’d like KTF readers to know about you, what would that be?
PG: It is embedded in the Vision and Mission of our Youth Department, and is summed up in three words: KNOW, GO and SHOW. To KNOW God through Scripture, through a relationship with JESUS, to experience the Holy Spirit; to SHOW people what the kingdom of God looks like, to be in spaces where they know they are safe; and to GO and tell someone else about Him. I love young people, I am fascinated by people, warts and all. JESUS really is the BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME, and that can happen to you too! This role is only because I had a true encounter with JESUS. A REAL living experience with Him will pour more out of you than you ever thought capable
Away from church, Phil loves spending time with his family, and travelling whenever possible. He has a penchant for Marvel and Star Wars film franchises and is an Arsenal football fan.
Visit www.ntcg.org.uk
You
are more qualified than you think
Iwas never that great when it came to classroom-based academics; it wasn’t the ideal learning setting for me. It was very early on that I embraced that well-known phrase: ‘God doesn’t call the qualified, He qualifies the called’.
‘But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things – and the things that are not – to nullify the things that are, so that no one may boast before him’ (1 Corinthians 1:27-29).
It isn’t that the dedication you put into securing an outstanding educational foundation isn’t of value, it is. It’s just that God’s divine purpose overrides natural limitations and human intellect.
Throughout the Bible, there are many examples of God using ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things. Moses, for example, was chosen by God to lead the Israelites out of Egypt – despite his initial hesitancy and feeling of inadequacy. David, a young shepherd boy, was anointed as the future king of Israel – despite being overlooked by his own family. The 12 disciples, who were mostly uneducated fishermen, were called by Jesus to become His closest followers and spread the Gospel to the ends of the earth.
We should study, work hard, and then be fully open to whatever direction God wants us to take.
Practically, we should be consistent in ensuring we are using our time wisely. Every
day is a gift and an opportunity to invest in yourself. What you do with your 24 hours is an indicator of how successful you will be, regardless of that shiny degree or PHD. Pray, exercise, eat well, and have a plan for each day. Do not leave things to chance. Write the vision down daily, not just at the start of a new year.
People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan
‘Write the vision and make it plain on tablets, that he may run who reads it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time but at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; because it will surely come’ (Habakkuk 2:2-3).
There have been times in the winter when I’ve rush out to do the school run. I’ve turned on the engine and the radio, and am all set to leave, except the car window is completely iced up. I cannot see, so I can’t leave. If your vision is impaired, you’re not going anywhere. If I tried to drive off. I could have an accident, simply because I didn’t plan and prepare.
‘At some point we must rely on faith and trust God that He will meet us as we walk out His plan’
Some people are great academically; they have every qualification under the sun and have taken the concept of lifelong learning to dizzy heights. Nothing wrong with that – if it isn’t embedded in fear. We
all have a purpose, but our destiny will only be fulfilled outside our comfort zone. At some point we must rely on faith and trust God that He will meet us as we walk out His plan.
God’s grace is sufficient for you to maximise every opportunity available to extend yourself, embrace His vision for your life, and make your contribution to the world.
Those ideas, those dreams you think about all the time that excite you, they are there for a reason, so don’t be afraid to step out into the unknown. Ask God for what you want and then boldly confess those things. Our mouths can speak life or death over our future. We don’t just have to think about what goes into our mouths, we also have to think about what comes out of them. A couple of years ago, I noticed that every time someone asked me how I was, I used to say “I’m really tired...” That may well have been the truth, but today if you ask me how I am, I think carefully about how I answer, and make sure the words I say are helping and not hindering me.
Speak in the direction you want your life to take, and remember your potential is unlimited and your dreams are within reach.
God bless you.
I HAVE A DREAM
Karen Allen writes about the importance of inspiring youth to counter the negativity in the culture and to dream big dreams for their futures
On May 10th, 2024, it was my privilege and esteemed honour to host an event called ‘I HAVE A DREAM – Inspiring Young Kings and Queens’. It was an idea that evolved following an intervention programme I ran with a group of Year 10 Black boys. During the session the boys spoke of their lack of hope and faith for their generation; told me they had very little to look forward to; and that, for the most part, their life lacked meaning. The words they spoke were devastating and heartbreaking but sadly not surprising. There are countless young people who feel the same way. I am convinced that a major contributor to this thought process is the lack of opportunities to simply DREAM!
Upon leaving that interaction I decided to host an event. The purpose of the event was simply to inspire and empower young people to dream.
The evening was explosive! It truly was a game-changer.
A friend of mine testified that her 15-yearold daughter turned to her during the event and, in a moment of pure inspiration, said: “Mum, I want to be an open-heart surgeon.” Her mother was speechless. The spoken word artists, the singers, the poets, the musicians, the headliner, the actors and the incredible hosts worked phenomenally as a team to make this dream work.
Despite the barrage of negative press about young people on a continued basis, there are a remnant of young kings and queens who have not ‘bowed their knee to Baal’. I have the privilege of being surrounded by them. These ‘youngers’, not just teenagers but younger people in their 20s and even 30s (apparently, I am no longer young now that I recently turned ‘half a hundred’!), these young people are those who have made a conscious and confident decision to counteract the culture.
We live in a culture where toxicity and trauma have become buzzwords. If you are not toxic and/or traumatised by some past or present experience, you are likely to be considered the odd one out. Sadly, society thrives on stories of toxicity and trauma – the more toxic and greater the trauma, the better. Too few people lead with love, speak life, and are making an intentional effort to leave a legacy, but there are those who are.
Most churchgoers are familiar with the story of the three Hebrew boys. I personally like to include Daniel in the story because, although he wasn’t thrown into the fire, the lions’ den was just as terrifying. These four young men were living in a toxic society as we are and had undoubtedly experienced deep trauma of being forcibly removed from their homes, community and culture to begin a new life in a strange land. Despite this fact, they took a stand and refused to bow. They did not bow to the environment or the expectations that surrounded them. They did not bow due to the pressure, nor did they bow because of the pain. They stood tall in the face of the fire, and they defied the odds.
As a result of their obedience and their
bravery, God saved them. He honoured them and used them to set a new standard. The game changed because they simply did not bow.
These four Hebrew boys were young, gifted, and they counteracted the culture. If we only look on the surface of modern-day culture, it is easy to miss the Shadrachs, Meshachs, Abednegos and Daniels of our day. It would be all too easy to conclude that “all young people are the same”, usually with negative undertones. This is so far from the truth and I am confident enough to invite anyone to spend a day with me so that you can encounter some of the amazingly gifted, talented, creative, innovative and kind young people I have the privilege of doing life with.
We live in perilous times – the Bible lets us know this – however God has always promised light in the midst of dark times. Isaiah 60:1-2 reads ‘Arise, Jerusalem! Let your light shine for all to see. For the glory of the Lord rises to shine on you. Darkness as black as night covers all the nations of the earth, but the glory of the Lord rises and appears over you.’ This is my declaration over the young people of this generation: “LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE FOR ALL TO SEE!”
I have a dream that one day young people everywhere, locally, nationally and globally will live in a world where they are safe, seen, and celebrated for who they are and for the incredible part they play... and I’m believing that God will exceed my expectations beyond my wildest dreams.
IF I KNEW THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW, I’D...
Joy Roxborough shares what she’d do differently if she had the opportunity to go back to her early 20s and start life over again
There’s really no room in life for if onlys. Our best bet in dealing with anything bordering on regrets in life is to embrace only those possibilities that can move us forward to a better future. Nevertheless, do you ever entertain the slightest thought about what you would do differently if you had the opportunity to go back and relive sections of your life?
When I think about my early twenties and onwards, if I knew then what I know now, the top five things I would do differently are:
One: I would get a good mentor. Rather than relying on my own instincts about business and career decisions, I would seek the help of an experienced and well-connected mentor. Mentorship in today’s world has been established as a big buzzword and increasing numbers of people of all ages are making use of mentors to support them in various aspects of their lives. Is there an area of your life where you might be able to benefit from a mentor’s support? Will you take steps to seek one as we approach the second half of 2024?
Two: Just as important as having a mentor, I would seek God’s guidance more. Many of us say we seek God for decisions in our lives, but do we really? Or do we pray about the important things a few times and then go right ahead and do whatever we want to do or whatever we
feel best? While I am not saying that we ought to expect God to come down and micro-manage every aspect of our lives, I am saying it would be a good idea to be more intentional about acknowledging Him in all our ways, as instructed in Proverbs 3:5-6.
Three: I would take better care of my neural pathways. I would make a more conscious decision to build positive neural pathways in my brain, by ditching negative thoughts as immediately as I could and switching my focus to countering positive thoughts. As I reflect, I can see that some outcomes in my life, both negative and positive, are rooted in thought patterns I entertained from earlier years. As a positive example, the things I am proud of as an author are outcomes of earlier thought patterns that I am a good writer. Conversely, there are other outcomes – which I won’t go into now – that were rooted in thoughts tainted by a low self-esteem.
In Christian circles, neuroplasticity has been popularised by neuroscientist Dr Caroline Leaf. She teaches that the brain is not fixed but that our thoughts build physical structures within the brain and that these structures can be good or bad depending on the thoughts we entertain. Anyone can incorporate these principles by taking to heart Philippians 4:8, which tells us to think about, or to meditate on, things that are true, noble, just, pure, lovely, of good report, virtuous and praiseworthy.
Four: I would speak my mind more. I don’t deal with conflict very well. My pattern in earlier years was to stew over hurts
without confronting the offender. When things got too much, I would go to the other end of the spectrum and blow a fuse and let that person have it. Neither option is good. Rather, speaking my mind in love is something I am slowly learning to do. I believe it is something we could all pay attention to. We can decide to improve in this area at any time since, as stated in James 3:2, we all stumble in many ways and if anyone has not stumbled in word, that is a perfect person. Clearly, there is no perfect person among us.
Five: I would spend more time with older people. I remember when our cousins used to come to our house, or when we went to theirs. We would wait until the adults were fully absorbed in their conversation and then we would sneak out of the room and retreat upstairs for our own party. However, older people have a wealth of wisdom to offer through their life experiences. If I knew then what I know now, I would spend more time talking and listening to older people.
In today’s society, where isolation is endemic, any of us can kill two birds with one stone. Why not spend an afternoon with an older person, since you may be their only company all week, and learn from them as you give them an opportunity to talk to their heart’s content?
More than a conqueror!
Author and editor Nicola Morrison shares how her faith in God helped her overcome the pain of her past, love herself, and enjoy career success at the BBC
By the age of 22, I had lived at 22 addresses.
It may sound unfathomable, but it’s true. I had just finished university; gone through a break-up; was on the brink of being evicted; and had made a third attempt to take my life.
For as long as I can remember, I had battled with a sense of feeling like I didn’t belong. Maybe it was due to the early demise of my parents’ marriage, frequently moving homes, and a lack of identity and sense of purpose which turned me into a habitual people-pleaser.
I was constantly shape-shifting to fit in and be accepted. From the age of six, I was bullied in the playground for my skin colour, my full lips, and ‘wild’ curly hair, which led me to chemically straighten my hair at the age of 14. When as a teen I tried to express my feelings of abandonment and loss – triggered by the death of my grandfathers and my dad leaving the family home – I was told I was “too emotional and dramatic”, so I withdrew and became mute. And when I was constantly told I wasn’t good enough by those I wanted in my life, I pursued toxic friendships and relationships, desperate to avoid the pangs of rejection. From the age of 14 to 40, it has been a long, winding road – one that God has been faithful to see me through. I have lost close friends, a family member was tragically murdered, and I have experienced domestic and racial abuse. I now consider myself in recovery, and good mental health is something I battle to maintain every day. I read my Bible, reminding myself of who God is in my life, and that He says I am ‘fearfully and wonderfully made’, ‘blessed and highly favoured’, and ‘more than a conqueror’. But, even with Jesus, we will still go through trials, and I was truly surprised by how many of my childhood and early adult experiences would be triggered once again when, as an adult, I embarked on my career as a broadcast journalist in one of the biggest news corporations in the world.
Getting into the BBC in 2010 had been such a challenge, after years of failed applications, so I was under no illusion that climbing the ladder to get in front of the cameras would be hard – if not nigh impossible!
What initially struck me was the lack of diversity on screen. Apart from Children’s TV, there was no one who looked like me reporting the news. After completing my MA in Journalism in 2015, I was fortunate enough to catch the eye of a senior news editor, who brought me on as a freelancer.
The initial jubilation soon faded, though, as I quickly realised that being qualified wasn’t enough. I was young(er), Black and female, making the already rare and coveted role of news correspondent an even more unrealistic aspiration for me.
I was surrounded by people – many with fewer qualifications and even younger than I – who looked like the editors, hailed from similar backgrounds, and shared the same stories. They were the ones who made it to air; they were often the ones who were close to the lived experiences of those commissioning them.
I remember on one occasion having to pitch quite hard for a slot in the schedule to be dedicated to covering the death of Kobe Bryant. Some felt it was too US-centric and wouldn’t resonate with a UK audience. I’m pleased to say I succeeded in making a compelling-enough case, and my story aired live on BBC News. Often, however, there were times when my stories about faith, race, culture and identity were not picked up, which was disheartening and, once again, I would feel the all-too familiar feelings of being misunderstood, unsupported, ‘othered’, and as though I didn’t belong.
‘It isn’t always easy, but God is a Rewarder’
It was at these times that my faith in Jesus had to override my faith in self. I had to remind myself of His promises: He would never leave me nor forsake me; He saw the injustices; and He was my Defender. So, I pressed in and pressed on. It was during a particularly difficult time of mistreatment by a senior colleague – when I continued to extend grace – that God blessed me with the biggest breakthrough of my career, when an editor commended my work ethic and offered me an opportunity that led to me reporting on the breaking news of COVID-19.
It isn’t always easy, but God is a Rewarder. It is a daily commitment to let His voice be the loudest in the room. Ultimately, He is the God who opens and closes doors, and His is the only voice that matters!
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Very often we think we need to get to a specific destination in life that promises happiness and success. We avoid looking at where we are now, but our present experience can help us find the way forward. I have learnt something from every job change on my career path.
So how do you find your career path? With the many media channels and cool influencers on social media, there is an abundance of information – some of which is misleading. Having worked as a careers adviser for 10 years and having a master’s qualification in this area, I have some advice to share.
It is important to tune in to yourself and identify what lights you up and brings you joy. Explore your current areas of interest. If you’ve only recently started to think about your future, then be patient with yourself and take small steps to find out more.
Begin to research roles you are drawn to. From presidents to athletes to musicians to scientists... there are many autobiographies where people share their career experiences. Pay attention to the people doing the job you are attracted to, and try to imagine yourself in that role. Would it suit you? How might you feel in that role?
It may be that what you want to do seems very competitive. Is there any way you can keep adding skills and experiences so that when an opportunity arises you are ready? If you do not have the right experience, consider volunteering. This gives you the chance to get some insider information and perhaps pick up a mentor. It may be that you also need to add a qualification through part-time or online study.
In the meantime, you could take on a similar role in a less prestigious setting to get some experience. Is there one aspect of the
CAREERS, CHANGE AND SELF-CARE
In the ever-changing world of work, Shirley Anstis provides some useful tips for young people seeking a career, and for those who are in career transition
role that you can do as a freelancer alongside a day job? For example, doing digital designs for community events could be a way for you to build your portfolio to work with brands. Think about all the people you know and whether any of them can help you to get closer to your desired career. Consider your many networks, including family, friends and faith group. It is often a good idea to have a backup plan.
We change as we age, and that can be a good thing. Allow yourself to grow. Be whoever you are becoming. Don’t be afraid of making a misstep – that is how we learn. My career path has led me to different jobs, but I can see a theme of supporting people to know themselves and make the best choice for their next step. That covers psychology, careers, counselling, coaching and writing. There was no grand plan, just a desire to step into the next opportunity that felt right.
• You are not your friends.
• You are not your parents.
• Get to know and trust yourself in making decisions.
• Observe chosen role models, whether near or far.
If at some point you change your career direction, know that all is not lost. Early in my career I made a complete switch from trainee accountant to careers adviser and found connections between the two. Now as a counsellor and coach I understand my clients’ longing for and working towards career change or promotion, and the emotions that go with it.
As the world evolves, new job roles and career paths are being created. Some family and friends may not understand the new
world of work, so you may need to educate yourself and let them know that you have a plan. If you know any employers or leaders, then ask them for advice or an opportunity. Pay some attention to news sources and magazines in your sector, whether that is theatre or engineering or medicine. Consider buddying up with a peer to support each other. You might also join a coaching group for ideas, encouragement and accountability.
• Don’t try to fit yourself into a space that is uncomfortable; that can lead to mental health challenges or burnout.
• Do the best with your talents and keep learning.
• Be encouraged by the positive steps you are taking.
• Be patient with yourself as you grow, change and find your way.
• Know that no job is perfect, and everyone has challenges.
• Book a counsellor or coach if you feel that would help.
• Remember to practise self-care, whatever that looks like for you.
SHIRLEY ANSTIS MA, BSc, MBACP
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Millennials and Gen Zs – the challenge they pose for the Church
Rev David Shosanya outlines cultural and social factors churches need to consider when leading young adults and developing them for leadership
The idea of a post-Cold War world characterised by volatility, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity (VUCA) was first introduced into the lexicon of military training by the US Army before being adopted in business and strategic leadership by Warren Bennis and Burt Nanus. VUCA describes the cultural, political, economic, social, legal and technological world in which millennials (1981–2000) and Gen Z (2001–2020) were born into and have subsequently been shaped by.
Millennials and Gen Z are two categories of five demographic age brackets, each with unique cultural, psychological and behavioural characteristics. The three remaining categories are the Silent Generation (1925–1945); Baby Boomers (1946–1964) and Generation X (1965–1980). According to the American Psychological Association, Millennials and Gen Z are “driven but entitled”, and “progressive but disloyal”, respectively. These characteristics need to be noted when considering ministerial and other forms of leadership.
It is not difficult to imagine the potential conflicts that arise between each demographic. In fact, researchers are keen to understand the material impact of intergenerational dynamics in the workplace, family and beyond. When overlaid with the present polycrisis in the world, the pressing need for intergenerational collaboration is even more apparent. Furthermore, there is little doubt that the COVID-19 pandemic contributed to fundamentally and irrevocably reconfiguring the world as we knew it.
The Pandemic inaugurated a perfect storm, resulting in a widespread global intergenerational
experience of liminality – the feeling of existing in a transitory space, characterised by a lack of clarity about the new world to be entered. A specific challenge for church communities that results from a VUCA/post-pandemic world is to embrace a way of doing life, ministry, and mission with millennial/Gen Z leaders.
This means letting go of historic assumptions about age, experience and competence that are no longer as valid in the new world we presently occupy. Both generations will therefore have to learn to grow with and alongside each other. This requires a radical paradigm shift, increased strategic co-creation, and learning that opens opportunities for unprecedented intergenerational dialogue.
An article published by the World Economic Forum (WEF) argues that intergenerational collaboration can lead to transformational change. However, it suggests that achieving this goal will require the creation of spaces to convene and converse, create and construct, and collaborate and coalesce. I agree. The Lausanne Movement has also offered its own model, the Intergenerational Leadership Paradigm, aimed at assisting the Church to foster and promote intergenerational unity by embracing five principles: biblical vision, missional calling, friendship, mutuality, and collaboration. Both Lausanne and WEF offer practical tools to assist us with moving forward. I like it!
Spaces of focused, co-creative leadership problem-solving and innovative dialogue are already taking place. The appointments of Bishop Mike Royal and Shermara FletcherHoyte, General Secretary and Principal Officer for Pentecostal & Charismatic Relations, respectively, at Churches Together in England, have ushered in robust ecumenical dialogues between current and future senior church leaders. Similarly, the appointment of millennial leaders, like Rev Andrew Wignal (NTA), Rev
Dr Garrick Wilson (NTCG), Rev Nathan Hutchinson (NTCG), and Minister Phil Gray (NTCG), are other examples.
However, there remains a conspicuous absence of Gen Z leaders and we must ask whether millennials are discipling Gen Z leaders in the way they were discipled. If not, why not? If they are, where are they?
Amidst the celebration, a word of caution must be noted. The characteristics we admire and encourage in millennial/Gen Z leaders should not blind us from the risks. It was noted earlier that they can be “driven but entitled”, and “progressive but disloyal”. These are not traits the Bible encourages in leaders!
Research undertaken by the Evangelical Alliance (Building Tomorrow’s Church Today) highlighted emerging changes in traditional doctrinal positions within the millennial/Gen Z age groups. It is also noteworthy that the religious attitudes of young people in the USA led to researchers to coin the term ‘moralistic therapeutic deism’ (MTD) to describe a form of religious outlook that was more about self-actualisation and personal happiness than sacrifice and service to humanity. This has major implications for mission, particularly in a social media age where there is little to no regulation/ accountability about views expressed.
In conclusion, we need to be intentional in creating dialogical spaces that are informed by biblical truths. We also need to be intentionally relatable, empathetic, accessible and likeable. These are the principles I embrace when advising, mentoring or coaching millennial/ Gen Z leaders inside and outside of the Church. They work! However, the four qualities need to be underpinned by strong accountable and reciprocal relationships that allow for open dialogue. With this in place, millennial/Gen Z leaders will then be strongly rooted and grounded to live out and confidently share their faith in contemporary societies without fear.
THE FEAR OF THE LORD IS THE BEGINNING OF KNOWLEDGE
Rev Stephen Brooks explores the success and impact of Christian schools, and outlines steps they can take to safeguard their existence
The increasing focus on secular and multifaith schools of progressive governments poses a challenge to state-funded Christian schools. Within the last six months, I have become aware of two schools that have had their Christian school designation contested, putting their very survival at risk.
To safeguard their existence and ethos, it is crucial for state-funded Christian schools to form a multi-academy trust (MAT). This strategic move would provide a robust support network for both new and established schools at risk of takeover or closure. A multi-academy trust can pool resources, share best practices, and provide mutual support, thereby enhancing the resilience of these schools. It would also offer a unified voice in advocating for Christian education in policy discussions. The establishment of a Christian MAT is not just about survival, but also about thriving and continuing to offer a distinct, faith-based education in an increasingly secular and multifaith society.
Christian state schools have carved out a unique niche. They are not merely institutions of learning; they are vibrant communities, where values, ethics, and a sense of purpose are intricately woven into the fabric of education. These schools offer a distinctive environment that provides a well-rounded education that is both academically rigorous and spiritually enriching.
Christian state schools in England are often among the highest achievers in terms of academic performance. They are “overrepresented” in the top 500 schools under all attainment methods. They represent only 19% of all comprehensives but constitute 29% of the top 500. These statistics emphasise the strong academic performance of Christian state schools, which often surpasses that of non-faith schools.
One of the most significant advantages of Christian schools is the supportive community they foster. Churches play a vital role in this, encouraging families to send their children to these schools, thereby ensuring that the
children are part of a nurturing environment that shares their family’s values and beliefs. This partnership between churches and schools can create a future where education and faith go hand in hand, shaping wellrounded individuals ready to lead and serve.
The potential closure of Christian state schools in England could send shockwaves through our communities. This isn’t just about losing faith-based education; it’s about diminishing the influence these schools have on moral development, and the potential shift in educational priorities that could follow. The ripple effects could reach far beyond the school gates, impacting future generations and the very fabric of our local churches. The value of Christian state schools in England is not just significant, it’s irreplaceable. They are the bedrock of our communities, nurturing not just minds, but hearts and souls. Let’s stand together to protect these invaluable institutions for the sake of our faith, our children, and our future.
‘WE’RE NOT JUST EDUCATING MINDS, WE’RE SHAPING FUTURES.’
While Ofsted ratings provide a snapshot of academic performance, the values taught in Christian schools have a lasting impact on students’ lives. These values shape their character, influence their decisions, and guide their interactions long after they leave the school environment. Choosing a Christian school means prioritising the development of well-rounded individuals who not only excel academically, but also embody the virtues and principles that contribute to a just, compassionate and ethical society.
The true testament to a school’s success isn’t confined to academic laurels but is reflected in the character and integrity of its alumni. This makes the Christian values imparted during their education not just important, but essential. After all, we’re not just educating minds, we’re shaping futures. Choose a Christian school, and you choose a future built on strong values.
The potential closure of these schools would not only be a
significant blow to the Christian community but also a loss to the wider society that reaps the benefits of the well-rounded individuals nurtured in these schools.
These institutions are not just centres of learning, but sanctuaries where our children are steeped in faith and virtue, far surpassing the scope of Ofsted ratings.
We are reminded in Proverbs 22:6 to ‘Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.’ We are not merely imparting knowledge; we are shaping the leaders of tomorrow who will transform our world.
We are called to invest in an education that goes beyond textbooks, one that prepares our children for the challenges of life in Deuteronomy 11:19. Let us stand together in this mission, for the sake of our children, our faith, and our future. Choose Christian state schools, and you choose an education that truly matters. In the words of 3 John 1:4, ‘I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.’ Amen.
FOOD THOUGHT
BY MARCIA DIXON MBE
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REJECT WORLDLINESS AND LIVE FOR GOD
When I was growing up, my parents – as with many parents of the Windrush Generation – told me: “Don’t follow friends” and “Know your own mind”.
These were important life lessons, as it encouraged young people like me to be confident independent thinkers and to have self-agency, i.e., not blindly follow their friends but carve out their own path.
In this age of social media, where influencers seek to encourage others to imitate their lifestyle, follow their advice, or buy their products or services, it’s evident that aspects of the Windrush generation’s parental advice needs to be revisited –especially for young people who have made the decision to follow Jesus.
From where I’m sitting, as a mature person, young Christians are living in ‘the best of times and the worst of times’, as written by Charles Dickens.
The advent of social media has provided Christians – young and older – with an exceptionally useful platform to share testimonies and Scriptures; to post links to their church services and events; and to preach the Word in order to touch the world for Christ.
The dark side of social media, however, is that it can cause anxiety, encourage people to project a false image of themselves, and inspire believers to think and behave in ways that are not in alignment with their faith.
During the era in which the apostle Paul lived, preached and wrote his epistles, Christians faced struggles similar to those which we experience today – minus the technology – hence his famous scriptural directive in Romans 12:2
‘Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing and perfect will.’
Living out God’s will – and being confident of what one believes – will entail rejecting worldliness, pursuing righteousness, and following Scripture. One John 2:15 states what we need to do perfectly: ‘Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.’
AMEN
Make that change
When people speak about desiring a change in their life, the go-to response is usually “Do different things”. But what does doing different things look like in reality? Depending on what you want to achieve, the different things you can do may include:
• changing your personal style, like getting a new hairstyle or new look, etc. One person I know got a job promotion as a result of dressing more smartly.
• changing your social circle by developing relationships with new people and going to different types of events. Doing so will bring you new opportunities.
• changing your mindset and attitude, and having a willingness to do new and different things.
• enrolling on courses. Sometimes the change we want will come when we upskill and broaden our knowledge base by taking a course, attending a workshop, or watching educational videos.
• getting a mentor. Find someone who has walked the path you want to walk and see if they are willing to mentor you.
• praying, which is the pathway to change. Listen to the still small voice of the Lord, and He will lead you to the people and opportunities you desire according to His will.
Practical ways to serve your world
With the election of a new Labour government and its promise to serve the country, I was inspired to write about ways in which Christians can play a greater role in serving civic society. Christians can utilise their skills and expertise to make a difference and exert their influence in a wide variety of ways. Here are some of them:
VOLUNTEERING – You can volunteer at your church, local charity or food bank. In doing so you can make a valuable and much needed contribution to causes close to your heart, and you will be serving others and broadening your skills and network at the same time.
SCHOOL GOVERNOR – Serving as a governor of a school will involve contributing to a school’s vision and policy, approving the budget, and appointing the headteacher. Visit www.nga.org.uk for information on how to apply.
LOCAL MAGISTRATE – If you’d like to play a part in the criminal justice system, consider becoming a magistrate. They hear cases in criminal and/or family courts on offences such as minor assaults, thefts and TV license evasion, and decide whether defendants should be kept in custody, fined or imprisoned. Visit www. magistrates-association.org.uk for more information and how to apply.
LOCAL COUNCILLOR – You can influence what happens in your local area by becoming a councillor. You’ll represent people in your ward, contribute to policies in the borough, and play a part in reviewing and scrutinising council policy. Visit https://www.local.gov.uk/be-councillor for information.
CHARITY TRUSTEE – Trustees serve on the governing body of charity. They decide on how a charity is directed, managed and run, and being a trustee provides individuals with an opportunity to develop their leadership and strategy skills. Visit https://howcharitieswork.com/ get-involved/becoming-a-trustee/ for more information
AVOIDING FOLLY AND GETTING READY FOR THE LORD’S RETURN
Gary Clayton shares why Christians should avoid folly, live righteously, and look forward to the coming of the Lord
Many years ago, when I was a young Christian, both in terms of age, experience and understanding of God’s Word, I worked for a Christian film distributor which allowed potential customers to watch films so they could decide if they wanted to hire them or not.
On one occasion, we showed the 1970s Christian horror classic Thief in the Night. It’s the one where Jesus’ followers disappear from the earth due to the Rapture.
After a quick shot of some clouds, the film cuts back to an electric razor left dangling in the bathroom, an overflowing food mixer, and an abandoned lawnmower – all left behind by the believers who’d been whisked off to heaven.
Unfortunately, when it was time for us to change the reel, my colleague and I decided to hide once we heard the customers coming to find us.
Before we did, however, we left the phone dangling from the hook, and the large, noisy film-checking unit and electric fan running unattended...
Now, I’m not going to unpack the different theological views concerning the Last Days but, remembering my lamentable behaviour many decades ago, I can’t help thinking about how foolish we Christians can be.
One Corinthians 13:11 says we may have talked, thought, and reasoned like a child but, when we became adults, we put the ways of childhood behind us. I’ve hopefully improved since then – particularly when one considers the fact that the Lord could return at any moment!
But when the Son of Man comes, will we be like the virgins in Matthew 25:1-13, who
came prepared, or the five foolish ones, who weren’t ready for the bridegroom’s return?
The Bible contains more than 230 references to ‘fools’, ‘folly’ and ‘foolishness’ – the biblical concept of folly encompassing stupidity, spiritual blindness, moral deficiency, and wilful sinfulness.
That’s why Proverbs 15 says the ‘hearts of fools are not upright’ (verse 7). Their mouths not only ‘gush folly’ but also feed on it, with folly bringing ‘joy to the one who has no sense’ (verse 21).
Because the way of a fool seems right to him, Proverbs 12 tells us that his heart ‘blurts out folly’ (verse 23) and he is easily annoyed (verse 16).
So it’s hardly surprising that the Bible contains warnings about those who build their house on sand (Matthew 7:26-27); trust in riches rather than God (Luke 12:16-21); fail to make use of their talents (Matthew 25:14-30); or listen to God’s Word and then forget it (James 1:22-24).
There are also warnings for those who aren’t ready for the Lord’s return:
• Matthew 24:42-44: “Keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come. But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.”
• Luke 21:29-34: “Look at the fig tree and all the trees. When they sprout leaves, you can see for yourselves and know that summer is near. Even so, when you see
these things happening, you know that the Kingdom of God is near... Be careful, or your hearts will be weighed down with carousing, drunkenness and the anxieties of life, and that day will close on you suddenly like a trap.”
• 1 Thessalonians 5:6-7: “So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be awake and sober. For those who sleep, sleep at night, and those who get drunk, get drunk at night.”
• Revelation 16:15: “Look, I come like a thief! Blessed is the one who stays awake and remains clothed, so as not to go naked and be shamefully exposed.”
Two Peter 3:9-10 reminds us, ‘The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness... But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare.’
So let’s ensure we don’t spend our lives playing hide and seek like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden after foolishly disobeying God (or me hiding from the customers who wanted to see Thief in the Night).
Instead, let’s live holy and godly lives, making every effort to be found spotless, blameless, and at peace with the Lord, looking forward to His return and speeding its coming.
LIKE FATHER, LIKE SON
Church leader Rev Dr Garrick Wilson shares why boys need fatherly mentoring and on the role male mentors can play in the lives of boys raised by a lone female parent
Are fathers indispensable? What do they contribute to the development of their sons that mothers cannot do by themselves?
I was raised by a single mother, and she would often say: “I am your mother and your father” – a view shared by many single mothers who carry sole parental responsibility.
Despite my mother’s best efforts, I disagreed that she was an adequate fatherly substitute. I have corresponded with other men who were raised solely by their mother, and they share my experience. However, to balance the equation, I must highlight that I have also spoken to men who believe that their mum occupied both roles successfully.
How do we reconcile these two conflicting views?
There is a growing body of scientific evidence showing the importance of a father in the development of his child. Notably, when a man becomes a father, his testosterone levels drop and, if he remains in contact with his child, they do not return to pre-birth levels. This drop impacts his brain activity, which is now primed to protect, teach and care for his child. Regular contact is the bedrock for attachment; a mother’s attachment is usually
a nurturing one, to make the child feel safe. A father’s attachment also nurtures, in addition to helping the child look beyond the family and to face the world with survival skills. Globally, there is compelling data to show that sons raised without a father are more likely to drop out of school, be imprisoned, become teenage parents, have behavioural problems, run away from home, struggle to build lasting relationships, and be more prone to depression.
Role modelling what it means to be a man
The ideal role model for a young man would be their biological father; however, this is often not the case. Research shows that father figures can come in many forms – uncle, brother, friend, teacher, etc. What’s important is the development of a trusted bond.
1. START BY BEING THE MENTEE
Don’t enter a mentee-mentor relationship with the belief that you know what’s best for the young man. Instead, apply the reverse mentoring principle, where the mentor takes on the role of the mentee; this allows you to see life from his perspective. Learning about young men individually will enable you to build a tailored approach that will resonate more effectively.
2. DON’T BE FAKE
The old saying “Do as I say and not as I do” does not apply in the mentee-mentor dynamic. Model what you say and be consistent in doing so. For example, if you speak to a young man on how to build relationships, and he realises that you do not apply the same principles in your life, then you will be seen as fake. Further, when you get something wrong, which you will from time to time, embrace the humility of saying sorry to him. Knowing when to be humble will make you a better mentor.
3. SHOW UP
Consistency is crucial. Keep your word and be present when he invites you into his world. If he is playing football, support him; if he is going for a job interview, help him to prepare; if he gets into trouble, visit him in prison – you will see the benefit of this when he is released. Allow him to show up in your world, too. Take him to work one day; invite him to meet your friends; let him see what it looks like to have the right influences around him – and it gives your friends an opportunity to pour into him as well.
4. AFFIRM HIM
Saying words such as “I am proud of you” may not be a big deal to you personally, but for him it can be momentous because you might be the first male voice that utters those words to him. Don’t wait until he achieves something to recognise his efforts, congratulate him during and at the end of the journey. See beyond the now and help him to conceptualise a future; hold him accountable in his pursuit of a better future; provide constructive critique when necessary; and challenge behaviours that are negative. Affirmation is more than highlighting the positives; it also roots out the negatives. Mentoring is a wonderful opportunity to be a father figure or role model, and to live out what authentic manhood looks like. The phrase “Like father, like son” means that the son’s qualities or behaviours often resemble those being modelled by the father or father figure. I am calling all men to model an authentic manhood that will empower the next generation.
Transform the lives of millennials and Gen Z with social media
Shannon Walker shares how churches can use the power of social media to connect with younger audiences to share the Gospel
My journey into ministry began with leading my local church’s social media department. Through this role, I realised the immense potential for churches to leverage social media as a powerful evangelistic tool for spreading messages of hope and love.
Since the pandemic, the value of social media for churches has increased globally. When the world stood still, social platforms were able to foster connections in crisis and enable fellowship to continue, exponentially growing church membership. As the Church extends beyond four walls, social media’s appeal lies in its ability to transcend physical boundaries, reaching young audiences who may be harder to engage or have felt marginalised in the past.
Whether your church aims to maintain connections with its young people beyond Sunday services, or increase young members at in-person services, here are five strategies for effectively using social media to engage teens and young adults.
1. Shift your mindset and gain understanding
Churches should view social media positively, recognising it as an opportunity rather than a negative or ‘worldly’ platform. Shifting mindsets will enhance effectiveness and keep the focus on uplifting the demographic that uses it most – youth and young adults. Apply wisdom by taking the time to research and understand each platform and its best use. For instance, while traditional church event flyers may not resonate on visual platforms like Instagram, engaging videos on IG Reels and TikTok, featuring young people inviting others, will have greater appeal.
2. Reflect what you want to attract
Representation is powerful in helping individuals see themselves reflected in a
church’s community. Sharing content that celebrates, uplifts and spotlights your young community will help others feel welcome, plus encourage them to re-share and reach more peers. IMPRINT is a church that excels in this, boasting a continuously growing community of young adults and students. Many newcomers have cited being attracted by the social posts which highlight the community and which spark an appeal to attend in person. Notably, their social media team is comprised of teens and young adults. This highlights the advantage of having young people in this ministry, which gives them a platform to express their faith and creativity, connect with their generation, and bring a modern energy to a church’s social media presence.
3. Post with purpose
Don’t post for the sake of it but think about ways to visually convey your warmth and light that will draw people in. This could include testimonies, service message recaps, or words of encouragement specifically by teens or young adults. This fosters relatability and community, which are highly valued by this demographic. Purposeful posting involves strategic planning to boost visibility and engagement, such as tapping into popular trends or using popular gospel music and audio.
4. ‘Two fish and five loaves’ thinking
Stories of multiplication are numerous in the Bible, and this principle can be applied to reaching the masses online. Think about how one piece of content can be multiplied to extend its reach and tailored to the ways teens and young people prefer to consume content. A service streamed on YouTube can be cut into short snippets for IG reels, TikTok or into a podcast. Adding music, graphics and captions can transform a long message into dynamic sound bites. Elevation Church excels at repurposing messages into
thought-provoking text carousels, impactful short videos, and podcasts. These formats help encourage young viewers to explore full versions and attend church in person.
5. Long-term and lasting relationships
Social media is a powerful tool to attract young people, but the mandate extends beyond just reaching them online. For this generation, their digital and offline worlds are blended. Ensure there’s synergy between how they interact online and offline with your church. In person, they should be welcomed ‘as they are’, encouraged, edified by the Word, shown the love of God and His grace, and discipled as they grow in their faith. Building relationships is key. Get to know young people, involve them, listen to them, and show them they are valued in your church community.
Conclusion
The heart of social media is connection and sharing, making it a powerful tool for evangelism and uplifting the next generation. Have fun with it and remember, God works uniquely through different platforms and churches, each equipped with diverse gifts. Test, be inspired, and explore what works best for your church. Don’t get caught up in the numbers – whether you reach hundreds of young people or thousands – rejoice if even one is blessed by your content. Be encouraged that you are bringing kingdom light and values into mainstream spaces, making a difference by spreading messages of hope to teens and young people who need it most.
SHANNON WALKER
Loneliness and its impact on mental health
Dr T Ayodele Ajayi puts forward ideas on how to combat loneliness individually and as a community in order to promote mental well-being
Loneliness is a complex and unpleasant emotional response to perceived isolation. It has also been described as a “social pain” – a psychological mechanism that drives us to seek social connections. In simple terms, it is when an individual perceives themselves to be getting less social contact than they require to thrive and live a healthy, whole and happy life.
Each one of us is unique with regards to how much social contact we need to meet our needs. The longer loneliness persists, however, the more likely it is to negatively impact both our physical and mental health. Loneliness results from several reasons, with no single approach to tackling it.
Social isolation is a related, but different concept and occurs when someone has a smaller number of social contacts. It is measured by how many relationships they have.
Who’s likely to experience loneliness?
About 3.7 million adults in Britain reported feelings of being often or always lonely in February 2021, which equated to about 7.2% of the population. These figures suggest that the pandemic and lockdown resulted in worsening loneliness, as the 2016/17 statistics showed 5% of the population was affected. The largest loneliness survey ever carried out, conducted by BBC4 in conjunction with a few academics across the UK, gathered data from 55,000 subjects globally. The findings identified 16- to 24-year-olds as the worst affected age group. The additional risk factors include being widowed, unemployed, living alone or in rented accommodation, and living with a long-term health condition or disability. Being a carer and from an ethnic minority or LGBTQ+ community are other vulnerability factors.
What impact does loneliness have on mental health?
Loneliness has a complex relationship with mental illness. Being lonely not only predisposes an individual to anxiety and depression, but also worsens severity of the latter. Certain mental health disorders can cause withdrawal from society, culminating in loneliness. The persecutory thoughts associated with psychosis, social aversion with anxiety, and poor motivation and lethargy of depression can all result in loneliness from forced diminished social contacts. Similarly, loneliness is associated with increased risk of certain long-term physical health conditions, including diabetes, strokes and heart conditions. Remarkably, loneliness is linked to reduced life span and a 50% increased risk of dementia. The American Center for Disease Control opines that the risk of loneliness rivals that of smoking for its impact on health.
How to overcome loneliness
An approach to tackle loneliness is to adopt both a personal and community strategy. Keeping active through physical exercises, which could include joining the gym, praise aerobics, and going on regular walks are part of a personal intervention. Keeping the mind busy through stimulating content, such as listening to podcasts or watching educational videos; making the best use of daily encounters, such as with the postman or local grocers; and spending time in nature and with pets are other ways to combat loneliness. Learning a new skill, starting a course, or volunteering are other ways to overcome loneliness.
Look,
listen,
love, learn and lead
A community approach to combat loneliness is to adopt a Tripart strategy that looks out for, listens to, loves on, learns from, and leads the
lonely out of their hideaway into a safe, sensitive space. Looking out entails intentionally being more aware of and seeking out those who may be vulnerable in society. Listening to the lonely involves an undivided, empathetic attention. Stephen Covey identified five levels of listening as ignoring, pretending, selective, attentive, and empathetic listening. Undistracted time to listen is one of the most precious gifts one human can offer another in my view. Listening means creating a safe, sensitive, space for the lonely to be heard without fear of judgement and rejection.
Loving relationships have a positive impact on mental and physical well-being. They are associated with better stress management, reduced anxiety and depression, and increased happiness and life satisfaction. Those in loving relationships live longer and have better outcomes in the face of severe physical illness, such as cancers and heart attacks.
As regards learning, what can we as a society learn about and from the lonely to alleviate their suffering? What can we do in our churches and Christian communities to be more friendly and accommodating to the needs of the lonely?
Could looking out for, listening to, loving and learning from the lonely lead to a trusting safe relationship that can be leveraged to cautiously lead them back to community?
Trusting relationships are crucial to breaking the cycle of loneliness.
And they take time to build.
DR T AYODELE AJAYI
BLACK CHRISTIAN AND SINGLE
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BY TERESA ALLEN
THE DANGERS OF VAPING
This article explores the rise and dangers of vaping amongst teenagers, and provides tips for parents who discover that their children vape
Strawberry Frosting, Peachy Sunset, Blueberry, Fizzy, and Mango Passion
Ice all conjure up excitement of desserts or ice cream, but no, these are the names and flavours of vapes or e-cigarettes, which are now used widely among under-18s throughout the UK.
E-cigarettes are mixed with nicotine and are recommended by the NHS as a tool to help adults to stop smoking cigarettes and other tobacco products, as they contain less nicotine.
However, the use of vape products amongst young people in secondary school has soared. Some see it as an experimental phase, which young people will grow out of. However, the long-term health effects of vapes are still unknown, as they have not been around for very long, and we know they not risk-free!
Until the age of 25 years, the human body and brain are still developing, so smoking and vaping can affect the body in the long term and cause serious diseases, stunt growth, and weaken lungs.
Parents and carers should look out for signs that can highlight if their children are vaping, such as lack of concentration, lapses in memory, reduced fitness and energy, restlessness, and anxiety. Dentists have also noted that some young people who vape experience gum inflammation, swelling and bleeding.
Hospital A&Es and in-patient departments are seeing teens with symptoms such as palpitations, breathlessness, nausea, vomiting and lung inflammation, and researchers have noted abnormal changes within the cells of the mouth and lungs of vapers.
It should also be noted that sometimes other substances are mixed with e-cigarettes, such as tetrahydrocannabinol (THC) – the main psychotropic ingredient in marijuana. In 2020, Han Oh and other researchers analysed data of 29,232 students from 36 universities in the Healthy Minds Survey (USA), and found
that students who vaped, and who didn’t take other drugs and didn’t suffer from depression or anxiety still had a significantly higher risk of psychotic episodes. There is also a growing craze of ‘vape spiking’, where vapers are unaware that their vape is laced with another drug.
There are stories of teenagers vaping at school, during exams, whilst travelling on public transport, in shops, at stations... just about everywhere! Hardly surprising, when we take into consideration how vapes are advertised and promoted as being very cheap, with prices from as little as £4 for 600 puffs.
The vaping industry would say it is not targeting young people; however, there are many, including clinicians, teachers and parents, who believe it is and want it banned. Some e-cigarettes are designed to be small, discreet and thin, and can therefore be hidden in items such as books. Many parents are totally unaware their children are vaping –vapes lack the smell of cigarettes – while other parents, family members and friends are being complicit and even buying vapes for their children as a ‘treat’!
Other serious risks include:
• EVALI (e-cigarette or vaping use-associated lung injury) can happen to users of e-cigarettes which contain nicotine or substances from cannabis, and this lung injury can lead to hospital admissions and even death
• Faulty e-cigarettes exploding and causing burns and injuries
• Nicotine poisoning caused by a child or adult swallowing or spilling vaping liquid onto their skin. This can lead to hospital admission and can be quite serious – especially if a child gets hold of vaping liquid that has been left out at home or at an event, like a party.
So, what can you do if you find out your child is vaping?
1. Pray for wisdom before you have a conversation with your child.
2. Read up on the issue some more and find out where to get help (see below).
3. Plan the time you will speak to your child.
4. Do not shout and shut down the conversation.
5. Find out why they vape. Is it to be like their peers or due to stress? Take time to listen.
6. Once they decide to quit, support them, and devise some alternatives that will help them to deal with the issue.
7. Understand that withdrawal from the nicotine in the e-cigarette can make them irritable and cranky.
8. If your child is showing signs of psychosis, suicide ideation, breathlessness, or palpitations, etc., call the emergency services on 999, go to A&E or, in the case of milder symptoms, call your GP.
9. Where are they purchasing the vapes? You can report the supplier(s) to your local Trading Standards team at your council or anonymously to Crimestoppers.
Visit websites below for information on how to help your children to stop vaping: www.nhs.uk/ www.talktofrank.com/drug/vapes#the-risks
The passionate hairdresser’s journey in the world of hair
Keep The Faith columnist Verona White shares her journey as a hairdresser, which has led her to work with different communities and celebrities, and to travel across the world
Iembarked on my journey in the world of hairdressing at a young age, practising on my sister who shared my love for hair, fashion, and all things girly. Starting off with braids, she graciously endured my imperfections and offered me patience as I honed my skills. I was captivated by the way she styled her hair for performances, and I eagerly asked her to let me experiment with various hairstyles. I promised my mum I would take hairdressing seriously, and I knew deep down that this was my true calling.
With unwavering support from my mother, I set out to establish myself in the industry. I received formal training in Birmingham, under the guidance of my wonderful teachers, Laurel and Joy, who inspired and nurtured my talent. This training paved the way for me to secure a position at a prestigious salon in London, where I quickly made a name for myself within the Ethiopian community.
After years of hard work and dedication, I took a leap of faith and opened my own salon in Wembley, north London. Known for its innovative styles and exceptional service, my salon became a go-to destination for clients seeking a fresh and stylish new look. The success of my first salon led me to expand and open a second salon in Bushey, Herts, catering specifically to the hairdressing requirements of Orthodox Jewish.
In addition to running my salons, I made it a priority to stay updated on the latest trends and techniques in the hairdressing industry. I attended shows in various locations, such as
Atlanta and Florida (in the US), Italy, and across the UK and the world. I even undertook a course to master the art of making wigs professionally, learning from a skilled Jewish lady from the US. With years of practice and expertise in wig-making, I ventured into teaching and have conducted workshops in countries like India, China, Italy, Jamaica, and now in the UK, where I am training aspiring wig technicians to create wigs in a professional manner.
But my journey didn’t end there. I continued to push myself and my business forward, opening a third salon in the upscale area of Knightsbridge. As my reputation grew, I had the privilege of working with a diverse range of high-profile clients, including Angie Le Mar, Michelle Gayle, June Sarpong OBE, Shaznay Lewis, Audley Harrison MBE, Trisha Goddard, Lady Victoria Starmer, Baroness Scotland KC, and many more. I also had the opportunity to work on television, in theatre, and at T4, where I styled guests for the show in the absence of their personal hairdressers.
Throughout my career, I have encountered numerous highlights and milestones – too many to mention. In 2023, I launched Braid Camp, a one-day course where I teach individuals how to create various braided styles, twists and locks. Additionally, during the pandemic, I authored an organic recipe book for women who were unable to access hair products, providing them with DIY recipes for afro and curly hair care.
My dedication to hairdressing extends
beyond the salon. I recently published my first children’s book, The Hair Celebration Party, which encourages children to embrace and celebrate all types of hair. I plan to visit schools to conduct role plays, and educational sessions on diversity and acceptance of different hair types.
Hairdressing is not just a job for me; it is a passion, an art form, and a means of self-expression. Despite the challenges and obstacles along the way, I remain grateful for the unwavering support of my family, friends and clients who have been instrumental in my journey.
As I look back on how far I’ve come, I am filled with pride and excitement for the future. I am committed to continue growing and evolving as a stylist, and always striving to be the best version of myself.
Thank you to everyone who has been a part of my journey – your support and encouragement have been indispensable. This includes my church family, under Prophet Uebert Angel, has also helped me upgrade and shown me who I am.
Most of all, I thank God, who is at my very core, for allowing me to have all these amazing experiences. I could not have done it without Him.
Ministry leader and pastor, Yvonne Brooks, provides wise, compassionate and insightful advice to readers experiencing problematic life issues
I don’t want to stop preaching to become a stay-at-home wife
My husband and I met when we were youth leaders within our respective congregations. Prior to marriage, we agreed I would work and serve in church when the children came. After 10 years of marriage, we now have three children aged eight, six and five; my husband has excelled in his career – with salary to match – and wants me to be a stay-at-home wife and mother. His theological position has changed, and he doesn’t believe women should preach or teach at all. He has said I must now decline any speaking engagements I receive. In the meantime, my husband has become a church elder and regularly preaches and teaches. I am getting very resentful and feel constricted and controlled by my husband. I don’t want to be a stay-at-home wife, and I feel my husband is stopping me from pursuing the preaching and teaching ministry God has called me to. My husband has not kept to the agreement we made before marriage. I’m so disappointed and deeply unhappy but unsure how to resolve this issue.
Jennifer, Scotland
Matters Heart
of the
Pastor Yvonne: Unfortunately, there is no systematic training to help individuals develop the correct approach/mindset for life and marriage, and we underestimate the need for negotiation at the start. As women, loving and accepting ourselves is not emphasised, nor is the need to be the kind of person we want to attract. Women are not required by God to accept a subservient role.
Biblically, a husband is designed to be the foundation of the family, providing stability, security, and ensuring family members are happy and fulfilled. A wife is a complement and completer in the relationship, bringing definition to everything they strive to do as a couple. Marriage is a partnership and is designed to be mutually beneficial. Choices and decisions should be by discussion and agreement. Let your husband know that you would like to speak with him. Organise to go out or wait till the children are in bed and have a heart to heart about what concerns you. Set an agenda, in order of priority. Stay calm and be as clear as you are able about your hopes and aspirations. If that fails, ask for both of you to meet with your pastor to discuss the matter.
Personally, begin to look at yourself as a child of God and decide what you really want out of your life. Don’t just go along with the expectations others have for you but seek the reason you are here and the purpose for which you are on this earth. God honours marriage, but He does not condone abuse.
A teenager has disclosed she’s being abused by a church elder. How should I respond?
I really need your help. I am a youth leader at my church. I am just 19, but the church leadership team have seen my love for young people and made me a youth leader of the 11-16 year olds. I love what I do and I have a really good rapport with the young people. The relationship I have with them is so good, one of them told me that her uncle, who’s part of the church leadership team, has been abusing her for the past two years. How should I respond?
James, London
Pastor Yvonne: Congratulations on being appointed as a youth leader, and thank you for asking for my advice. This is an important
and sensitive situation. When a child or adult confides in you, believe what they tell you. Your next step is to speak to the child protection officer of your church, who should then discuss the matter with the leadership of the church and make a referral to Children’s Services, regardless of whether the uncle is a part of the church or not. Check that a referral has been made, and if not, you will need to make the referral yourself. Children’s Services will carry out the required investigations and you will have fulfilled your duty of care.
If you would like help with a problem, email editor@keepthefaith.co.uk. Your details will not be published.
Pastor Yvonne Brooks is a co-pastor at New Jerusalem Community Church, Birmingham, and founder of Woman of Purpose, a ministry that encourages women to fulfil their purpose. She is also a speaker and author. Visit www.yvonneelizabethbrooks.co.uk
Enhancing young people’s mood and well-being through physical activity
Olivia Williams shares ways to encourage young people to be more physically active and to make decisions to enhance and improve their health
As Christians, we are called to teach young people about the way they should go, whether it be their physical, emotional or spiritual needs. Proverbs 22:6 reminds us to ‘Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.’
When we discuss the health and well-being of our young people, we often focus on academic achievements and physical health. But are we addressing the right topics about their overall well-being?
Understanding physical activity
When competing against the rise of a digital world, physical activity isn’t just about structured exercise, like hitting the gym or playing competitive sports. It includes any movement that gets muscles working and burns energy. From playful games to family outings in nature, these activities not only promote physical health but also positively impact mental well-being.
Why is physical activity crucial?
We know that being active can prevent chronic diseases and keep our bodies fit. But did you know that regular physical activity can also enhance mental health? Engaging in at least 30–60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity every day can reduce anxiety, stress and depression, while boosting self-esteem and confidence.
Importance of leading by example
The most powerful way to instil healthy habits in future generations is by leading through our own actions. As the Bible wisely states, ‘A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children’ (Proverbs 13:22). This inheritance includes values, behaviours and, crucially, habits that contribute to generational health.
Significance of generational health
Generational health involves deliberate planning and efforts to pass down not only genetic health but also the knowledge and resources needed to maintain a healthy lifestyle. By demonstrating the importance of regular physical activity in our own lives, we set a lasting example that extends through generations to come.
Rising depression and suicide among young people
Today, the challenges to the health of young people are numerous, including sedentary lifestyles, poor dietary choices, and increasing
mental health concerns. Research has found that depression and suicide rates are rising, with mental health conditions emerging as significant challenges.
Impact of COVID-19
Since the onset of COVID-19, these issues have intensified as YoungMinds (the UK’s leading youth mental health charity) reported 83% of young people with mental health agreed that the pandemic had made their mental health worse; enforced isolation had disrupted social skills and lowered dopamine levels. The stress of adapting to online learning and a sedentary lifestyle led to increased obesity and further mental health struggles. In addition, the rise in energy drink consumption among young people enhances these health issues.
Energy drink dilemma
Energy drinks are marketed as boosters for physical and mental performance. However, studies have found that energy drinks may cause cardiovascular issues, by restricting blood flow, causing high blood pressure and heart arrhythmias. These drinks often contain high levels of artificial sugar, caffeine and chemicals like aspartame, which can increase appetite, affect metabolism, and steal water from the body. This causes more harm than good. Excessive consumption has even been linked to heart attacks. It’s wise to limit or avoid these beverages and encourage young people to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated and healthy.
Practical steps for families
Educate and equip: Provide knowledge
and resources on the importance of healthy habits. Discuss the benefits of physical activity and the impact on mental health.
Cultivate a supportive environment: Create a home environment that supports healthy choices. Stock nutritious foods, limit screen time, and encourage open discussions about mental and emotional well-being. Promote a balanced lifestyle: Set priorities for health, family and church. Plan activities that integrate physical, emotional and spiritual growth.
Encourage regular physical activity: Find ways to make physical activity fun and engaging – whether it’s a family game of football, a praise dance session in the living room, or a simple walk in the park.
Support healthy eating habits: Encourage a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. Avoid high-sugar drinks and snacks that can lead to health problems.
Monitor energy drink consumption: Discuss the potential risks of energy drinks with young people and encourage them to choose healthier alternatives, like water.
By focusing on these areas, we can help our young people build strong foundations for both their physical and mental health.
FINDING THE RIGHT LITERARY AGENT
VANESSA GROSSETT
Literary agent at The Authors Care Agency Ltd www.theauthorsagency.co.uk
“I seek a literary agent. What qualities should I look out for?” is a question I get asked frequently, and my answer to the writer is always: “What qualities are you personally looking for?”
For example, some authors may go to agents mainly because of establishment – and to secure that five- to eight-figure book deal – however that doesn’t necessarily mean there will be a great connection. The relationship could eventually be short-term simply because it was based on just monetary values.
This is why there are many authors who go from agent to agent, because they feel the agent doesn’t really care about them. Writers must remember the agent is doing their job; the author initially came to them for a book deal, and that is what they are providing.
However, I believe there should be more to the author-agent relationship than just book deals. As a writer, you want to have someone
you can discuss ideas with; someone who believes in you and your brand, even if the publishers don’t. Success can happen to anyone at any given moment.
Here are some tips I believe are important when seeking out an agent or manager:
Good reputation: Just because a person or a company is established doesn’t mean they have integrity or a good reputation. Many authors want to go to what they see as an ‘established’ company – a company that may have connections with the CEO or director of the publishing house. This is all well and good, but what about their character and morals?
Even the Bible states in Proverbs 22:1, ‘Choose a good reputation over great riches; being held in high esteem is better than silver or gold.’ People can become ‘established’ simply because of who they know, yet they themselves can be of questionable character.
The secular way of thinking used to be that you couldn’t be successful and have good character, that “This is a dog-eat-dog world”, but you most certainly can have good character and be successful – God’s way.
Connection: Do you believe you can connect with this person? Do you feel they believe in you and your brand and will assist you in taking your career to the next level? Even if it takes longer than expected to get a book deal – which it sometimes can – will you still want to be with that agent or manager? Even book editors have some form of connection with the author, and this is important, as they are working on the book together. If they feel uncomfortable with each other, it will affect the outcome of the project.
This may not matter if you just want the agent to sell your manuscript. You will discover,
though, that those who have a divine connection with their agent or manager tend to have a great long-term relationship. When God is at the centre of your decisions, it really does become a divine encounter.
Short- or long-term agent: Now, as a writer, you may be thinking, “Of course I want an agent or manager for the long-term”, but your actions may prove otherwise. In the past, I represented an author who was upset with me because she thought I wasn’t getting a book deal quickly enough.
She told me in an email she was moving to another agent. Little did she know, however, that a deal had finally come through, and on the very day she sent the email I was going to call to inform her of the good news. But I didn’t inform her; I just let her go. And apologised to the publisher.
After two months she left the new agent and came back to me, wanting representation again. I refused and then told her about the book deal I’d secured for her. The connection and trust were no longer there.
To me, this author was just looking for a short-term business relationship. She wasn’t looking for agent qualities, such as reputation and connection. Where I thought a long-term connection had been established, it hadn’t been.
Be honest with yourself. What type of agent do you really want? One where it is just business, or one you can connect and be with for the long haul? The decision is yours. As you ponder, remember this Bible verse from Psalm 37:23, ‘The LORD directs the steps of the godly. He delights in every detail of their lives.’
Happy writing
Vanessa Grossett
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