Thinking | Architecture

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1 ‘ The Central Six’, Spent, Geoffrey Miller (pp. 144-170)

Teh Kah Khen 0314502

29th/8/14

All of us are born different, no two alike. From the minute features to the observable physical characteristic, human beings are created by The Mighty that highlights the essence of uniqueness. Throughout the transitional stage of physical and psychological development of my life, I have always been questioning about my self being. Why am I like this? Why am I different? Why am I the odd one standing out? Then, until the recent time I have understood that we are all dissimilar regardless of character, personality and inner beings and on top of that, we are actually trying to stand out amongst ourselves without much realisation. Could that be the intention of The Creator? In this immensely diverse creation with no boundaries, we should actually welcome ourselves in this world without having any doubt. Be it the midget among the group or the “overly” introverted student in the class, we are all “born this way”, the title by Lady Gaga that sparks controversy yet I found it meaningful in my honest opinion. Apart from that, there is also a quote by Paulo Coelho that can be adopted, “Each human being is unique, each with their own qualities, instincts, forms of pleasure and desire for adventure. However, society always imposes on us collective ways of behaving, and people never stop to wonder why they should behave like that”. This is agreeable as we should not let the society control or shape us but instead, generate a holistic society made of different, unique members.

In contrary, I also believe that there are insecurities hindering us from acting how we should and the way we are. For instance, the experiences of a friend of mine who has always been meticulous of how to present oneself to the crowd everyday as of looking good in all aspects so as to induce a positive perception. Having said that, we are all being judged unknowingly as I believed this is the nature of human beings. In other words, the external layering put on oneself and the amount of time spent behind mirrors are just to compensate the low-stability and low-extraversion characteristics. Could this be the means of introducing oneself to the crowd without actually having to perform the action? Therefore, the intention is actually to gain a good first impression although it might be a come-and-go crowd. Besides, together with well manners and good attitude, these might overcome the insecurities and actually show the true self of one. To sum it up, it takes time to discover one’s true form and through the ups and downs of finding, we are often being put in tough situations or events that we are not comfortable with. It might take few attempts and consumes time to reclaim ourselves as of how the society placed us but as a result, it has the potential to soar us to a whole new level of how we look at life and perhaps, make life more interesting.


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