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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR
This Veterans Day, the team at Ladue News would like to extend our appreciation to all those who have served our country and to those who have lost dear friends and family in military duty. To those actively serving and uprooting their lives to move wherever duty calls, thank you. To the spouses at home and nervous parents supporting service members, thank you, too.
Like many Americans, this day brings to mind a certain veteran who made a lasting impact on my life. My grandpa, raised by two Mexican immigrants, was so proud to be not only an American citizen but also a service member of the U.S. Navy. He endured racist comments and discrimination at times in his life, but he stood firm in his right to be respected as a citizen and veteran.
Many heroes deserve honor and celebration on this day, and in this issue, we introduce you to four living in the metro area. Associate editor Charlotte Renner and assistant editor Emily Standlee chatted with veterans Clayvon Ambrose Wesley, John Clark, Michael Dunham and Cary Williams about their experiences and lessons learned. The standout moments from those conversations are relayed on Pages 22 and 23.
Today, thank a veteran. Every day, honor the sacrifices veterans and their families make.
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CONTINUING A
CHARITABLE TRADITION
OnThursday, Nov. 17, hundreds of green-aproned volunteers will once again be out on local street corners, raising money in support of St. Louis children’s charities. For 66 years, Old Newsboys Day has been galvanizing community businesses, organizations, students, and families to help provide for at-risk children in throughout the St. Louis metro area.
Participating business, the Sunset Ford Auto Group, has partnered with Old Newsboys for more than 25 years and with multiple generations. Co-chairing this year’s Old Newsboys Campaign for Kids are Pete Heutel and Justin Heutel, cousins.
“It all started when our Sunset Hills location volunteered to sell newspapers on Old Newsboys Day many years ago,” explains Justin Heutel, a fifthgeneration general manager of Sunset Ford Auto Group alongside Pete Heutel. “The more Sunset Ford participated with Old Newsboys – and Pete and I have come of age to run Sunset Ford – that’s when we got more involved in the Old Newsboys organization. From selling newspapers on the corners to now overseeing the 2022 Campaign. It’s just something that has grown with us.”
“It’s a tradition that has been passed down,” Pete Heutel adds. “Our fathers, who are brothers, got involved, and we followed them. It is our privilege to lend a hand to lead the organization in its mission to assist area children’s charities. Old Newsboys continues its tradition of raising both funds and awareness for the children’s charities that do not always get recognized. Many of the organization are in-the-trenches relying on volunteers and the support of the generous people of St. Louis. Even just a few dollars can make a significant difference for these programs that are offering children hope, warmth and support.”
Volunteers with the Old Newsboys campaign will be selling a special edition of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch in support of the children’s charities. The Old Newsboys’ grant and allocation committee members work closely with business and community leaders throughout the metro area to maximize impact.
Justin and Pete Heutel have continued Sunset Ford Auto Group’s history of philanthropy, passed down through the generations, and they are not the only ones on the Old Newsboys board with a long history. Justin Heutel reminisces that there are members on the board that he assisted in the early days of his involvement. “I think it feels like family,” he says. “You learn a lot from individuals who serve on the board of directors, many are former chairs themselves, representing many industries and fields. You get to meet so many interesting people from around St. Louis and learn about the type of businesses they operate; it is truly diverse. Our members are exposed to people you might not always meet.”
You too can join in the tradition and help Old Newsboys serve metro area children, not only by purchasing a paper on Old Newsboys Day but also by volunteering for future events, such as its polo match, held every fall. “The polo match is another aspect of the organization that makes it fun to contribute and donate and help out – it supports a great cause,” Justin Heutel says. “I think that has opened Old Newsboys to a larger group.”
The organization’s website also has information on how to get involved on an individual level or through becoming a business leader, as well as how to fill out a request form for a local charity in need. “It’s super easy to get involved, and it’s never too late to help,” says Pete Heutel. “It’s important for people to support this organization.”
This month, take part in bringing the St. Louis community together through supporting a time-honored tradition. On November 17, before your morning commute, be sure to put a few extra dollars in your pocket to give to an Old Newsboys volunteer to purchase your very own special edition – all for a great cause.
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NextThe Move
By Drew Gieseke Photo courtesy of Webster UniversityWebster University knows chess. The private, nonprofit university based in Webster Groves touts one of the finest collegiate chess teams in the country and is home to some of the top players in the world. In September, Webster announced it added a Chess in Education minor within its School of Education, making it one of the only institutions in the world to offer an academic program in the 1,500-year-old game, according to a press release.
“Chess, as a unique didactic tool that stimulates the mind, requires the use of logic and predictive abilities and helps students to perform better under pressure,” Julian Z. Schuster, Webster University’s president and an avid chess player, says in the release. “Chess is more than a game. It is an investment aimed at improving the educational experiences of our students. As the home of the highest-ranked collegiate chess team in the United States, it only makes sense that we
would be the first to offer an academic program built around chess.”
The registered program aims to bridge the access gap between K-12 chess education and professional pursuits. Enrolled Webster University students can take classes online, with topics ranging from an introduction to the game to more complex courses that delve into the psychology of chess and artificial intelligence’s connection to the game. Each also considers the sociocultural, psychological, technological and strategic significance of the game.
It’s a fitting move for the university, as Webster is home to the Susan Polgar Institute for Chess Excellence, the school’s collegiate chess program also known as SPICE.
“Chess can be an educational tool for people of all backgrounds and interests; they can all benefit from learning this game,” says Liem Le, Webster University SPICE team coach and grandmaster ranked 20th in the world. “It can be a great global equalizer.”
Webster University education doctoral student Jonathon Singler helped lead the way for the
establishment of the minor program. Singler longed for a chess education credit similar to other theory and performance-based degrees, but none existed.
Singler worked with staff at the university –including Webster University chess coach Susan Polgar and Basiyr Rodney, chair of the Department of Teacher Education – to bring the dream to life. Once designed, the program was brought before a Webster committee and approved.
Courses kicked off this fall semester, , and though the program is just getting started, Le is pleased with the launch.
“The market for chess is huge,” Le expresses. “It has a lot of demand from so many perspectives. It’s not only a professional world – that’s not the only thing chess has to offer. In this program, we’re focusing on chess educators who can teach chess in the community, who will be able to apply it elsewhere, like scholastic programming and more.” ln
Webster University, 470 E. Lockwood Ave., Webster Groves, 800-981-9801, webster.edu
Ifyou’re like me, you’ve been relieved to go back to some sense of normalcy, especially as we approach the holiday season. We can all thank vaccines, which are a vital key to control COVID-19.
However, with that feeling of normalcy comes declining vaccination rates as fewer families are choosing to have kids vaccinated, even though more targeted options are available.
On Oct. 12, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention expanded authorization for the bivalent COVID-19 vaccine in children ages 5 and up. The updated bivalent vaccines, with broader protection against the Omicron variants, are manufactured by Pfizer-BioNTech and Moderna, both of which are equally effective and safe. The Pfizer vaccine is authorized for ages 5 through
11 (12 and up were already included) and the Moderna for ages 6 to 17. This means anyone age 5 and older is now eligible for boosting with the bivalent vaccine. Both manufacturers are completing research on efficacy and safety of the bivalent vaccine for children under 5.
Respiratory illnesses are already circulating ahead of the normal late-fall and early-winter onset. The number of children hospitalized with serious COVID-19 illness is steady and expected to rise. In addition to COVID-19, Mercy and other children’s hospitals are seeing kids admitted with significant respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) infection. Flu season, based on indications from other parts of the world, is expected to be severe.
Because so many of these illnesses have similar symptoms, it’s important we do what we can to prevent severe cases with vaccines.
Parents regularly ask if the COVID-19 vaccine
is safe – to which I confidently say, “Yes!” It has been shown to be more than 90 percent effective in preventing COVID-19 illness, which is a very good success rate for any vaccine. Side effects are minimal and like those of adults: mild pain at the injection site, headache, fatigue and mild general malaise. These mild side effects may begin one to two days after the vaccine is given and persist up to three days, which is a small price to pay when preventing potentially long-term issues.
We have an opportunity and obligation to protect our vulnerable children and adults from preventable diseases, so I urge all of you to vaccinate your children against COVID-19 and influenza. ln
For more information or to find a pediatrician near you, visit mercy.net/LadueNews.
TheMissionofOldNewsboys -toensurethatchildrenwhoare at-riskinourcommunity,becauseofabuseorpoverty, receiveadequatefood,shelter,clothing,healthcareandan equalopportunityforsocialdevelopment.
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2022OldNewsboysCampaignCo-Chairs,Justin Heutel,leftandPeteHeutel,right,arejoinedonfieldbyOldNewsboysChairEmeritus,JackieBrock, andformerSt.LouisCardinalandcurrentNewYork Yankeeand2022HonoraryCampaignChairman, HarrisonBadertoofficiallykickofftheannual 2022OldNewsboysCampaignatBuschStadium.
Paving a Way to Better Health
By Connie Mitchell“W
alk more.” Primary care physicians say it all the time for many reasons. Walking is one of the best ways to work physical activity into a daily routine, which is why it’s commonly recommended for weight loss, cardiovascular conditioning, musculoskeletal rehabilitation and other health benefits. It’s supposed to be free and easy.
But that’s not the case for some people. Neighborhoods might not be easily or safely walkable due to many reasons, and a Saint Louis University researcher is hoping to pinpoint where those areas are and what needs to change.
With a five-year grant of more than $750,000 from the National Institute of Arthritis and Musculoskeletal and Skin Diseases, Dr. Sarah Gebauer, an assistant professor of family and community medicine, is drawing on technology to learn more about how neighborhood walking can impact osteoarthritis of the knee and how barriers to walking impact patients.
Osteoarthritis causes pain and stiffness in
joints as protective cartilage at the ends of bones degenerates due to age, injury, genetics, obesity and other factors. Walking is a low-impact exercise that can help maintain muscle strength, which supports joints. It also increases blood flow and improves production of joint fluid, helping to reduce pain.
“Walking around your own neighborhood is the easiest and most low-cost option for patients,” Gebauer says. “But there are so many things that stand in the way of that for many of the patients I see. If the infrastructure isn’t well-maintained, or if the patient fears for their safety, they likely won’t get in enough exercise to help manage their symptoms.”
Gebauer is bringing two types of data together to help determine where geographical “hot spots” are and what can be done to improve the situation for individuals and communities. She’ll use Geospatial Information Science and data from a Veterans Affairs Electronic Medical Record to explore the influence of neighborhood on walking and osteoarthritis. The geospatial modeling, identifying varying measures of walkability, will follow veterans retrospectively
across the country for 11 years. At the same time, Gebauer will interview primary-care physicians and patients to help determine how knowledge of neighborhood barriers and resources can enhance shared decision-making.
“This work will be a multidisciplinary approach to understanding just how place plays a role in knee osteoarthritis,” she says. “We’ll use big data (administrative health record data) to understand the big picture, but then we’ll dig into the real-life experiences of people who live in these neighborhoods and suffer with knee osteoarthritis pain and disability every day.”
Gebauer adds that physicians often know very little about where their patients live. “The more we can understand about the physical and social circumstances of our patients’ neighborhoods, the more we can support individuals in meeting their health care goals. We can also advocate for them, empowering, amplifying and echoing their voices to ensure they are heard as policy decisions are made about their communities.” ln
Saint Louis University, 1 N. Grand Blvd., St. Louis, 1-800-758-3678, slu.edu
TheVoicesof
TheVoicesof
Localveteranssharemomentsthatmadethemproudtobeinthemilitary
ClayvonAmbroseWesley
SERGEANTINTHEU.S.AIRFORCEANDMEDIC
Lengthofservice: Nearlyfouryears.Wesleyreceivedanearlyreleasein1970whilestationed atthe483rdHospitalatthe AirForceBaseatCamRanhBay,Vietnam.
Tellusabout amomentthat made youproud whileservingin themilitary. “Taking careof AmericanandSouthVietnamsoldierswhowerewoundedincombat,someofwhom died.Whenservinginacombatzone,youunderstandandseehowmenandwomen,doctors, nurses,medicsandsupportindividualsgiveofthemselvesforwhattheybelieveisthe‘right thing’todo.Youseethisactioneveryday.Whenitwas110degreesby10a.m.everyday,you seethesepeopledoingtheirjobs–thepilotsontheairstripworkingtofulfilltheirmissions. Whenthemonsoonscame,theycontinuedtodotheirjobs.Thiswas,andis, Americain action:defendingthosewhocanleastdefendthemselves,nomattertheodds.”
What’salifelesson youlearned whileserving? “Beinginthemilitary,youlearnagreat manythingsaboutyourselfandothers.Youlearntounderstandyourworkpartners.You learnthereisnoplacefortheideologiesofracismandprejudice.Thereisanunderstandingof functioningasateamandagreatsenseoftrustwhenworkingwithotherprofessionals.Iwould saytheselessonsarebroughthomebyyouasyoureconnectwiththeworld–theselessonsand messagesbecomepartofyourmind,spiritandsoulasyoumatriculatebackintosociety.”
JohnClark
SERGEANTINTHEU.S.ARMY,CORPORALINTHEU.S.MARINECORPS
Lengthofservice: 17years.
Tellusabout amomentthat made youproud whileservingin themilitary. “After IdeployedinIraqfromJanuary’05toJanuary’06,IcamebacktoSt. Louis.Mymomwas workingatthisrestaurantcalledCallahan’sdowninBarnhart,Missouri.Shewaswaiting outsideformewhenIpulledup,andIthinkshebrokeeveryribwhenshehuggedme.So whenIwalkedin[therestaurant],therewasabandplaying,andthebandstopped,and everybodystoodupandstartedapplauding.Iactuallyhadtogooutsideforamomentand collectmyself.Youseeitonvideosallthetime,butwhenithappenstoyouinperson,it’sa wholedifferentexperience.”
What’salifelesson youlearned whileserving? “Themilitaryteachesyouhowtodeal withhigh-stresssituationswithoutgettingpissedoff.”
Veterans
Veterans
andthelifelessonstheylearnedwhileserving.
ByEmilyStandleeandCharlotteRenner PhotosbyCharlotteRennerPRIVATEFIRSTCLASSINTHEU.S.NAVYANDMARINECORPS
Lengthofservice: 3 1/2years.
Tellusabout amomentthat made youproud whileservingin themilitar y. “Iwas [partof]the U.S.Naval Academy.IwentininJuneof1966.ItwastheheightoftheVietnam War,andinourrotunda–amassivebuilding–theyhadboardswiththephotosofallour peoplewhohadbeenkilled. Everyweek,thatlistwould,unfortunately,getbigger.Itmade mesad,inonerespect,becauseweshouldn’tbelosingpeople,butIwasproudthatthey weredoingwhattheyweretrainedtodoforthecountry.”
What’salifelesson youlearned whileserving? ““Notself,butcountry.Discipline. Saywhatyoumean,anddoit....Ifyouscrewup,admitit.Ifyou’reincharge,it’syour responsibility. Andthebestone:Nomatterhowhighupyouare,whatyourrankis, whatever,yourjobistotakecareofyourpeoplefirst.”
CaryWilliams
LANCECORPORALINTHEU.S.MARINECORPS
Lengthofservice: Twoandahalfyears.WilliamsiscurrentlyapartoftheMarineCorps LeagueSt. LouisDetachment#184.
Tellusabout amomentthat made youproud whileservingin themilitary. “Ifyou’ve neverbeentoaMarineCorpsgraduation,it’sverymoving.Youpassthegrandstandwiththe commandingofficer,theparentsareallthere–it’samazingtorecognizehowdisciplined everybodywasthroughouttraining,howtheyallworkedtogetherasagroup.Itmademe proudtobeaMarine.You’retherefor13weeks,buttheMarineCorpsbrotherhood–that lastsforever.Youneverstopserving.OurdetachmentdoesToysforTots,andwehelpeda motherthathadtwosonsgoingtobootcamp.Shecouldn’taffordtogo,sowepaidforher togoseehersonsgraduate.We’vesponsoredGoldStarkids–childrenwho’velostaparent orguardianduringtheirserviceinthemilitary.We’veboughtbulletproofvestsfordogs. We’rethesmallestdetachment,butwegetinvolvedinsomanyevents.Thatmakesmeproud: knowingthatalltheseguysstillbandtogethertokeepuptheMarineCorps’values.”
MichaelDunhamALZHEIMER’S AWARENESS
PARCPROVENCE
AFULLNESS
ByMaggiePeters |PhotosbyWestrichPhotographWhen yourlovedonebegins torequire supportfromamemory carecommunity, many questionscanarise.How much assistanceisneeded?What socialization willbeprovided?Whatwillhappenas their conditiongrowsmoresevere? Parc Provencehas theanswersand compassionatesupport neededin thisdifficulttime.
ParcProvenceanditsteamofmemorycareexpertsserve
theSt.Louisregionandbeyondbyprovidingspecializedcare forpeoplewithdementiaandAlzheimer’sdisease,andbelieve thatfamilymembersdeservetheopportunitytoofferloveand supportwithoutbecomingcaregivers.
“Youformabondwiththefamilywhenyouarewalking themthroughthisprocess,”leasingdirectorRobynKalish says.“It’shighlyemotional,soweeasethemintotheprocess, introducingthemtothecareteamandthego-topeopletohelp
themineverydepartment.Butitdoesn’tstoponcethey’re admitted.Iregularlycheckinwiththesefamiliestoseehow theyaredoing,howthegrandkidsaredoingandwherethey aretravelingtonext.Wearealargecommunityinsize,butwe areallfamilyhere.It’ssoimportanttokeepcheckinginwith oneanother.”
KalishbeganworkingatParcProvenceafterworkingin socialworkandthenasarealestateagent,andfindsthather jobnowperfectlycombinesthefulfillingaspectofsocialwork withthesocialsideofsales.
“TherearenottoomanydaysthatIleaveherenotfeeling likeIhavehelpedsomeoneinsomeway,”shesays.“Ioften meetpeopleatthemostdifficulttimeintheirlives.Igetthe opportunitytomakeiteasierforthem,andItakethatasa blessing.Igettohelpthemacceptthattheynolongerhaveto dothisallalone.”
Thecommunity’sservices,rangingfromassistedlivingto skillednursing,aredesignedtomeettheneedsofindividuals withvaryingdegreesofcognitiveimpairment.ParcProvence understandsthatnotwopeoplewithAlzheimer’s–orother formsofdementia–experiencethediseaseinthesameway, andprovidesperson-centeredcarethatistailoredaroundeach resident’sindividualneeds.
For108-year-oldGenevieveTurner,thoseneedshave changedsinceshemovedtoParcProvencefouryearsago. StevenTurner,herson,praisesthecommunityforeverything –ontopofquarterlycheck-inswiththe familymembers,thestaffcallshimwhen theynoticechangesinherbehavior. “They’reveryproactive,”hesays.“The staffisunbelievablycaring;thedoctors andnursesandcaretakershaveallbeen wonderfultomymother.Shealwayssays, ‘I’msogladtobehere.’”
StevenTurneraddsthatthecommunity hasdoneagreatjobinhelpinghismother stayactivewithmusic,artandhappy hours.Thecuratedscheduleofevents allowsresidentstochoosehowmuchor howlittletheywanttoparticipateandgives themachancetosocializeandstayupto dateoncurrentevents.
“Theactivitieskeepresidentsmotivatedandinteracting–thesethingsarekey,”StevenTurnersays.“ParcProvencekeeps mymotherhealthy,physicallyandmentally.It’sbeenavery happyplaceformymother.”
NovemberisbothNationalAlzheimer’sDiseaseand FamilyCaregiversAwarenessMonth,andParcProvencewants familiestounderstandthatsupportisavailabletotheminthe midstofchallengingsituations.Sometimesthebestwaytocare forapersonyouloveistoletsomeoneelsehelp.
ParcProvence,605CoeurDeVilleDr,CreveCoeur, 314-542-2500,parcprovence.com
At a time wheninvestment venturesarevolatile, youmay becarefully considering yournext move.Thankfully, PlazaAdvisory Grouphas a talentedand trusted teameager toengageandguide youcloser to yourgoals.
“Working witha financialadvisorcanhelp younavigate thecomplex
array of investment vehicles to findsolutions for yourneeds,”saysJudy Rubin–Certified Financial Planner TM andCertified Divorce FinancialAnalyst®, Partner, Managing DirectorandWealth Manager for PlazaAdvisory Group.“It’simportanttomatch investments toaninvestor’s timehorizon,riskcapacity andliquidity needs.Every investment hasprosandcons,and todaytherearemoreinvestment choices thanever.”
It isimportanttoseekadvice fromsomeone whonot only understands thenuances of investments,but alsocaresabout catering to theclient’sspecificneeds.
“Byworking withaCertified Financial Planner TM,peoplecanget advice from someone whoagrees touphold the fiduciary standard, whichrequiresanadvisor to puttheirclients’needsbefore theirown,”Rubinsays.
Knowing theadvisorprioritizes theclients’interestsaboveallelsehelps them feelcomfortablein therelationship,especially nowwhen themarketsareseeinga lot of volatility.
“Eveninvestments whichareusually lookeduponassafe,likesomebonds,have seenahistoriclossof value,”Rubinsays.“Thestockmarket hashadaseriousslide, as well, whilerealestateishavingitsownset of problems fromrisinginterest rates. During timeslike these,it isimportanttomonitorinvestmentsandmake adjustmentsgiven thestateofwhere thingsare today.Wedon’t believeinmarket timing;however, therearesteps that peoplecan take tonavigate thesestormytimes.”
Two thingsRubinrecommends toherclientsarehavingregularportfolioreviews andpatience.Clientsshould feelcomfortablereachingoutto theiradvisorbetween reviews withquestionsorconcerns.
“Historically,apatient andpersistent investorisrewarded forlong terminvesting,” Rubinsays.“It’salwaysimportanttoreviewyourportfolioandconfirm thatyourasset andinvestment mix matches yourneedsand yourrisk tolerance.Themore youdepend on yourportfolio for thenear term, themoreproperplanningincreasesinimportance.”
PlazaAdvisory Groupstrives togiveclientsoutstanding,personalized financialservices.
“AtPlazaAdvisory Group, we workcloselywithourclients toorganize their finances,investtheirassets withpurposeandnavigate what life throwsatthem,” Rubinsays.“Noonehasalloftheanswers,butwe takeseriously ourroleasa trusted advisor toourclients.”
PlazaAdvisory Group, 101 S.HanleyRoad,Suite1350,314-726-0600, plazaadvisors.com
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AccuCare Home Health Care of St. Louis
1185 N. Price Road, 314-692-0020, accucare.com
AccuCare Home Health Care of St. Louis, founded by owner and President Jacque Phillips, RN, BSN, is dedicated to providing seniors with the finest private, in-home health care. Celebrating 28 years of service, AccuCare proudly serves this community with a professional, caring and customized care plan specifically designed for seniors’ individual needs.
Alzheimer’s Association Greater Missouri Chapter 800-272-3900, alz.org/greatermissouri
The Alzheimer’s Association Greater Missouri Chapter works tirelessly to support those in the region living with Alzheimer’s and their caretakers. The Alzheimer’s Association offers support groups, education classes, meetings with social workers, and a 24/7 helpline to support those facing dementia while advancing research toward treatment, prevention and a cure.
Cedarhurst
Des Peres, St. Charles, Tesson Heights, 314-648-8863, cedarhurstliving.com
When it’s your loved one, you want a memory care solution that settles your worries. Cedarhurst Senior Living offers that care: Tailored plans, relationships of sincere trust, uplifting support, and exciting activity to make every day rewarding and fulfilling. Visit Cedarhurst; you’ll find a friend.
Friendship Village
15201 Olive Blvd., 636-898-8500, friendshipvillagestl.com
Friendship Village’s expert Memory Care team is certified in the Montessori Inspired Lifestyle® approach, focusing on each resident’s individual needs to create a more engaged, fulfilled community. Memory Care residents maintain their highest possible level of independence, thanks to hands-on learning and encouragement from a dedicated staff of care partners.
McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care
3 McKnight Place, 314-993-3333, mcknightplace.com
At McKnight Place Assisted Living & Memory Care, you can enjoy a life rich in quality care, genuine friendships and fun activities. Our community is designed to provide the warm, comfortable feeling of home in a safe and secure environment with beautifully landscaped gardens. We offer all-inclusive rates that are simple, predictable and worry-free.
Parc Provence
605 Coeur de Ville Drive, 314-542-2500, parcprovence.com
Parc Provence offers its residents and their families exceptional care for dementia and Alzheimer’s disease through dedicated, person-centered support. From its multi-talented nursing staff to its Medical Directors, leading authorities on gerontology and dementia at Washington University, Parc Provence provides unrivaled memory care 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
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By Nancy RobinsonFurnishings distinguished by graceful lines and gilded details make for a truly timeless and remarkable bedroom.
Visual Comfort’s Grammercy gilded-iron double sconce is accented with an aged mirror detail. The Grammercy collection was designed by the duo of Chapman & Meyers and includes a small and large chandelier, as well as a lantern. (kdrshowrooms.com)
Century Furniture’s Candela table with a Greek key footed pedestal makes a beautiful bedside table. Designed by Windsor Smith, it is available in a range of wood finishes with a decorative metal galley for polished effect. (savvyladue.com)
EJ Victor’s Julia Gray king poster bed wears an ebony finish and gilded details. The bed is a longstanding favorite in the EJ Victor lineup. (designanddetail.com)
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TALK OF THE TABLE
It’s time to plan what you’re wearing to your Thanksgiving celebration – and St. Louis area boutiques have a plethora of stylish looks for this delightful holiday.
Nation tank, $82, Vie, (viestlouis.com)
Tom Ford bag, $1,150, Neiman Marcus (neimanmarcus.com)
Dolce Vita boots, $240, Cha Boutique (shop-cha.com)
Spanx Flare jeans, $148, Ivy Hill (instagram.com/ivyhillboutique)
Scotch and Soda skirt, $198, Laurie Solet (lauriesolet.com)
Wooden Ships sweater, $148, Laurie Solet
Earrings, $135, Ivy Hill
Camilla dress, $309, Rungolee (rungolee.com)
Current Elliot blouse, $78, Ivy Hill
Sofie the Label jumpsuit, $85, Ivy Hill
DESIGN ELEMENTS Sipping
Sophisticated
Aformal dining room is now a parlor packed with pattern, texture and personality, thanks to Liz Basler at Castle Design.
“Our client is an incredibly wellmannered, gracious Southern woman, and she invites people to sit down, have a conversation and have a bourbon,” Basler says. “They like to visit with friends and enjoy time with them, so they wanted to create spaces that allowed them to entertain in a stylish way.”
a stylish, comfortable place to gather for gracious living, which is an homage to this lovely family and how they conduct themselves.”
The space features not only fantastic new accessories – like the luscious minkcolored velvet barrel chairs, weathered leather ottoman and patchwork hide rug – but also family heirlooms.
By Alecia Humphreys Photo by Alise O’BrienBasler kicked off the redesign by painting the walls, millwork and ceiling in a rich navy blue, which is beautifully accentuated by gold touches and classic English plaid window dressings in blue and beige.
“The space is a mixture of timeless design and menswear,” Basler says. “It’s
“She has some really fantastic legacy pieces; the picture frames are from their family,” Basler says. “The chandelier is a heritage piece from her grandmother. I love the idea of mixing some of the heritage pictures and the light fixture with more traditional items. I think the space turned out lovely.”
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Castle Design, 7707 Clayton Road, Clayton, 314-727-6622, emilycastle.com
CreatingCustomElegance
Whenit comes toholiday gifts,nothingbeatsgiving yourlovedonesomethingcustomizedandunique. The DiamondBaroffers thebest incustomdiamondandgemstonejewelry,allinacomfortableand stress-freesetting.
OwnerChris PhillipsopenedThe DiamondBarin2019aftermore than 17 yearsin thejewelry businessinspiredhim toreimagine theshoppingexperience.
“Iopened thisstore toshow people that customjewelry doesn’t have tobeoutrageously expensive,”heexplains. “Theatmosphereis what makes thestore;I want ittobelow-pressureand fun.”
The DiamondBarstrives togiveshoppersauniquepiece, whether they ’respending $1,500or $150,000.“When it comes tovalue, we feelourquality andprice, whencompared, willexceed yourexpectations,” Phillipssays. “Customerscan try ondifferent ringstyles withdifferent shapesandqualitiesof diamonds toget agoodsenseof theirstyle,before webegin focusingoncreating theperfect piece for theirpricerange.”
Phillipsalsoputsastrongemphasisoneducatingclientson whatthey buy,givingclientsa transparency hefinds theindustry islacking. Furthermore, whenclientsvisit,alwaysbegreetedbyPhillipshimself orhisdesigner,Jess, rather thanby apushy salesperson.
“We want clients tobepart of The DiamondBar family rather thanjust asaleorstatistic,”hesays.“We take the time tolearn theclient’s wants,and they gettopick whatthey ’dlike fromaselectioncuratedaround that.”
Anengagement,ananniversary oraholiday isacelebration,andThe DiamondBarensures thatyourgiftwill alwaysbecreateduniquelyfor you,crafted with thecareandquality it deserves.
GENOVESEJEWELERS
Outstanding Selection, UnparalleledQuality
ByMaggiePetersShopthelargest selectionof diamondstudsinSt.Louisandfindsomething foreverybody on yourlist at GenoveseJewelers thismonth.On topof avast variety of studs,Genoveseisalsohostingitsannualstudevent togiveshoppersaneven widerselection.
“Thestudevent isaonce-a-yeareventwhere webringinanevenlargerselectionof studs than we normally carry,”salesmanagerStacyKravanyasays.“Ourstudsrange from0.25carats total weighttoover 12carats total weight,so therearesome forevery budget.We will tradeinoldstudsevenif not purchased fromGenovese towardsalargerpair.”
Genovese’soutstandinginventory extendsbeyonddiamondstuds.Ifyou’relooking forstunningpendant necklaces, tennisbraceletsandstackablerings, thelocally ownedjewelerhas youcovered,nomatter your pricerange.
“Thelargesttrendsarestilllayeringandstacking–everything fromrings tobracelets tonecklaces,” Kravanya says.“Peoplearemixingmetals, texturesandpatternsandcomingup withgreat looks that areunique to them.”
Genoveseoffers fresh,one-of-a-kindpiecesshoppersknowtheywon’t findelsewhere,bringinginnew inventory regularly rather thanreplenishing theirstock with thesameitemsagainandagain.Thecasesareoverflowing with beautifulanduniquepieces, Kravanyaadds,so wowing that specialsomeonein yourlifeshouldbeeasy
“Ourinventory isalways freshandon trend whilestilloffering theclassics,” Kravanyasays.“Youcan takepridein not buying fromachainstoreandknowthatyouaregettingaquality pieceat agreat price.Andmost importantly, youaresupportinga family-ownedbusinessright hereinSt.Louis.”
EARRINGS
14kyellowgolddrop earringswithprongset diamondhuggieandopen prongsetpearshape drop124rounddiamonds .40cttw.$1240.00
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14kyellowgold18mm roundframed2.88ct motherofpearlpendant with.32cttwroundpave diamondsonsunburst andfancycenter.$1875
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EARRINGS
14kyellowgold 2x25mmtwo row.32cttwpave angledhoopwith polishedflatprofile kiteshaped140round diamonds.$1300
CUFFBRACELET
14kyellowgold7mmthree rowcloverbanglewith .80cttwrounddiamonds on11cloverdesignand onedges.$5600
12460OliveBlvd. 314-878-6203|genovesejewelers.com
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14kyellowgoldthreerow diamondbandwithprong rounddiamondsat.76cttw. $2825
ContemporaryHeirlooms
Thisholida
ByMaggiePetersy season,bring yourvintage yet modern fantasytolife withagift of SingleStonejewelryfrom YLANGYLANG.Thisuniquedesignercreatesheirloom-quality finejewelrythat beautifully incorporates repurposedstones,recycledmetalsandcontemporary style.
“Thestandout elementthroughout ourcollectionisouruseof antiquediamonds,”designerCorina Madiliansays–shebeganSingleStone withherhusbandAri.“We work withrepurposedstones thatwereminedand cut over 100 yearsago.”
On topof being themost sustainableoption, thesebrilliant,antiquestonesaresoromantic, Madilianadds, because theywerecutforcandlelight.SingleStonejewelry designbegins withacenterstone,drawinginspiration fromitsdistinctivequalitiesandcharacteristics.Theresult isa timeless,originalpiece.
SingleStone’scollectionsincluderings,bracelets,chains,bandsandearrings–allmade withconflict free diamondsandgemstones. For theholidays, Madilianpoints tonecklacesandpendantsasanexcellent giftfor that specialsomeone.“Ourcharmholders,like theVienna,allow clients tocreatebeautifullayersof charmsandcan transformasimplenecklaceintosomethingmore,”shesays.
And for thoselooking tomakeholiday shoppinganevent,YLANGYLANG willhost SingleStone trunkshowson Nov. 18and 19 from 10a.m. to5p.m.,as wellasaprecedingevent,Cocktails withCorina,onNov. 17 from5 to8p.m.
“Thisisaspecialevening forus togatherandshareinasocialsetting,getting toknow oneanother,” Madiliansays. “Ilovemeetingcollectorsand futureclientsinacasualsetting where wecanspendsome timegetting toknow one another.Ourcollectiondrawsalot of inspiration fromourclients.It’simportantforme tosee whoourclientsare andhowtheywear theirjewels,and tohear whatthey look for.”
FindSingleStone’soutstandingdesignsat YLANGYLANG today.
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ShopEvergreenGifts
ByMaggiePetersHouseplan
tsareanexcellentwaytobring theoutdoors induring the winterandChesterfieldValley Nursery has great inventoryfor theholiday season.Whether you’re looking forsomethingsmall foranapartment or fora light-filledlivingspace, thereissomething foreveryone.
“Plantshelppurifytheairandaregood for thehome’s environment,”saysplant purchasingcoordinatorAndriaGraeler. “Thereareplenty of options tomake thehome feelcozier.”
ChesterfieldValley Nursery alsocarriescut greens forholiday wreathesormantelpieces, whichpeoplecanpurchaseon their ownorletthenursery ’sexpertscreate theperfect decorativepiece for theirhome.
“Wealsohaveadecent selectionof pottery, from fourinch planters tolargeones forindoorsandout,”Graeleradds.“And,as asmallbusiness, wehaveselectionof items fromsmallbusiness collectionssuchashand throwncoffeemugs, tea towels that supportthebutterfly house,andlocalhoney.” For those who wanttogive thegift of qualitytime, thenursery hostsclassesinitsgardencenter.Gift certificatesarealsoavailableso theplant loverin yourlifecanpickout exactlywhat heorshe wants. Bringvibrancy into thechilly months withagiftfrom ChesterfieldValley Nursery.
16825 N.Outer40Road,636-532-9307, chesterfieldvalleynursery.com
THEEDITORS’
Wish s List
ByAndreaSmithis theseasonof giving–givinggiftsbut also time,energy andencouragement.Giftingsomething thoughtful to family members, friendsor tosomeone yousimply appreciatemight lifttheirspiritsmore than youknow.Soas youenterinto thisseasonof planning,decorating,shopping andall thattheholidaysentail,let oureditorsand writers provideinspirationon what businessesin theSt.Louismetro areahave tooffer thoseon yourlist.
ByAmandaDahl |Photo
byChri[5]SOFTSHADOWCO.CANDLESIN BIGSURANDSOLARIUM $22,TheCellarShopatWinslow’sTable [6]ANTICAMASSERIAJORCHEOLIO EXTRAVIRGINOLIVEOIL $20,TheCellarShopatWinslow’sTable [7]RIALTOGLASSCOUPESET OFTWOINSAFFRON $85,Bloomin’Buckets
[8]DISCOBALLMIXINGSTICK $5each,Bloomin’Buckets
VINTAGECOCKTAILCOUPESAND EMBROIDEREDCOCKTAILNAPKINS startingat$75,TheCuratedCoupe (etsy.com/shop/thecuratedcoupe)
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$20,MissouriHistoryMuseum (missouri-history-museum-shop. myshopify.com)
[3]WHITEMARBLECUTTINGBOARD $36(small),$44(large),CivilAlchemy [4]SLSIERRASCARF $40,StorySeven (storysevenstl.com) [5]CHAINBONEFRAMES $36(3"x3"),$52(5"x7"),CivilAlchemy
$60,CivilAlchemy
$25,BeeHygge (beehygge.com)
Afrontdooristhefirstimpression ofyourhome,anditshould reflectyourpersonalityand style.Whenitcomestocurb appeal,yourchoiceofdoorcanmakea dramaticstatement.
Ifyourcurrentdooristiredanddated, thenit’stimetoinvestinanewone.But wheretobegin?MosbyBuilding ArtsHome ConsultantKevinMarlershareswhatto considerwhenchoosinganewfrontdoor.
StyleandColor
Makesurethecolorandstyleofyour frontdoorcomplementtheexistingstyle ofyourhome,forinstance,modernvs. traditional.“Therearecertaintypesof doorsthatworkwellwithcertaintypesof homes,”Marlerexplains.“Forexample,a Craftsmanstyledoor–youprobablywould notusethatonacontemporaryhomeso thedoorneedstofitthehome.”
DoorMaterial
Therearedifferenttypesofmaterials tochoosefromwhenitcomestoyour frontdoor,suchaswood,fiberglass,and steel.Youwillfindwooddoorsonolder
andnewerhomes,butmostnewhomes tendtofeaturefiberglassorsteeldoors.If securityisanimportantfactor,a20-gauge steeldooroffersmaximumprotection. Fiberglassdoorsusuallyhavealargerscope ofstylesanddesignstochoosefrom.Wood doorsarebeautifulbuttendtoprovideless insulationandmaycomeatahigherprice point.Forthebestofbothworlds,consider afiberglassdoorwithwoodgrainthatlooks likerealwood.Marlersays,“Regardlessof thedooryouchoose,itshouldcomplement thestyleofyourhome,aswellasprovide securityandeaseofuse.”
EnergyEfficiency
Notonlydoolderdoorsandtheir framingwearoutovertime,butmoisture andmolddamagecancompromiseenergy efficiencyaswell. Properinstallationof anewdoorwillensureyourheatingand coolingbillsdon’trisemorethannecessary.
“Wheninstallinganewfrontdoor, installationisjustasimportantaschoosing amaterial. Eventhoughyoumayselectan energyefficientdoor,improperinstallation leavesthepotentialforairleakagearound thedoorintheroughopening,”Marlersays.
Soalwaysmakesurethedoorisinstalledby professionalsforoptimalenergyefficiency.
Sidelights–ProsandCons
Sidelightsareverticalpiecesofglass thatareplacedalongthesidesofthe door.Thisfeatureaddsintrigueandan invitingfeel,whilebringinginnatural lighttotheentry.Ontheotherhand,some homeownersmayfindsidelightstakeaway fromprivacyasonlookerscouldpeepin.If thisisaconcern,optforobscureorfrosted glasstoblockvisibilityintothehome.
DoorHardware
Makesurethatthehardware complementsthedoorandthestyleofthe home.Foracontemporaryhome,Marler suggeststofocusonboldhardwarethat’s beefierorhassquaredlinesinsteadof softeredges.
Ifyouareinthemarketforanew frontdoor,reachouttoMosbyBuilding Artstoday!
MosbyBuildingArts,115W.ArgonneAve., Kirkwood,314-909-1800,callmosby.com
KevinMarler, MosbyHomeConsultantTOP TEAMS IN REAL ESTATE
By Maggie PetersLynn Andel, Zachary White and Julie McDonald
Dooley Rowe Schnoebelen
COMPASS REALTY GROUP
314-252-8520, dooleyrowe.com
Mark Gellman and Neil Gellman
ANDEL-WHITE
& MCDONALD GROUP
LAURA MCCARTHY REAL ESTATE
314-609-0139 (Andel), 314-609-0192 (White), 314-600-3223 (McDonald), 314-725-5100 (office), lauramccarthy.com
The Andel-White & McDonald Group will focus on the things that matter to you. With expert advice and seamless this outstanding group will always have your best interests at heart!
The Dooley Rowe Schnoebelen team continues to reign at the top of the St. Louis Real Estate market while providing a modern real estate experience that’s high touch, high tech with the highest level of professionalism, integrity and commitment to the individual real estate needs of each client they serve.
THE GELLMAN TEAM
EXP REALTY 314-336-1991, thegellmanteam.com
Mark and Neil Gellman and their team have helped 460 families achieve their goals year-to-date in 2022. The team is also fast approaching $1.7 billion in career sales. They’re proud of the team culture they’ve created following 11 core values; including building client relationships for life and giving back to the community.
Sue Kelly Team
COMPASS REALTY GROUP 314-602-3533 (Sue Kelly), 314-347-1658 (agency), sue.kelly@compass.com
With 25 years’ experience, Sue Kelly has helped many families exceed their real estate goals. As a Five-Star Top Agent Recipient, Sue Kelly is content only when her clients are 100-percent satisfied! Working alongside Sue Kelly is Madysen Hamilton, an organized and creative real estate professional with proven marketing skills that get clients full brand exposure.
Keith R. Manzer and Christopher M. Klages
GLADYS MANION REAL ESTATE
314-609-3155 (Manzer), 314-445-8220 (Klages), 314-721-4755 (office), manzerklages.com
Keith R. Manzer and Christopher M. Klages possess more than 40 years of combined experience and expertise in the high-end market anywhere in St. Louis. Their hands-on approach is a key factor in their achievements and stellar reputation. Their motto is simple: Work hard and treat your customers as you would like to be treated yourself.
Wayne Norwood and Ben Patton
JANET MCAFEE REAL ESTATE 314-629-3931, finesthomesstl.com
Wayne Norwood and Ben Patton partnered in 2009, establishing the registered luxury brand “Finest Homes of Saint Louis.” They have successfully closed more than $400 million and annually receive the top team award companywide, ranking in the top half of 1 percent of all St. Louis agents, achieving the highest average sales pricing among top agents.
Cathleen O’Meara and Kathe DeGrand
LAURA MCCARTHY REAL ESTATE
314-477-1133 (O’Meara), 314-518-4772 (DeGrand), 314-725-5100 (office), lauramccarthy.com
No house is too big or too small for Cathleen O’Meara and Kathe DeGrand’s undivided attention and strong work ethic. Whether it is a listing or a sale, they are willing to go the last mile to prepare the clients and their homes for a busy and competitive market. They strive to achieve perfection!
Rossini Real Estate Group
LAURA MCCARTHY REAL ESTATE
314-303-2137 (Rossini), 314-210-8995 (Gillentine), 314-725-5100 (office), lauramccarthy.com
Integrity and trust are at the heart of every real estate transaction with the Rossini Real Estate Group. Having worked across multiple price points throughout St. Louis’ central corridor, they believe in putting their clients first, being available and listening to their clients and deliver exceptionally personalized service.
“Wecouldn’thaveaskedfor better…multipleoffers,allcash…her communicationandskilled negotiations…anartform!” “KimCarneyislikenootheragentin Ladue. She’sthebest! Here’swhy…we tried2othersbeforeherandwentweeks withoutmorethan3showings. Thenwehiredherandourhousewasa whirlwindofactivityandundercontract in3weeks.Shehasthecontacts beyondbelief…”
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THE NEXT STEP
SCHOLARSHIP CELEBRATION
GitchoffMore than four hundred guests and students gathered at the Sheraton Westport Chalet Hotel St. Louis in Maryland Heights for The Next Step’s annual scholarship celebration dinner. As guests sat down around tables, students and alumni shared their stories of recovery from addiction and how education changed their lives. The Gina May Weise scholarship was awarded to four students to provide additional funding for their academic endeavors. In 2022, 64 students recovering from alcohol and drug addiction earned $180,000 in scholarships. This year’s celebration raised $350,000 to provide funding to over 100 students in 2023. Since 2005, The Next Step has awarded more than $1.7 million in scholarships to metro area students.
Visit LADUENEWS.COM to see more fabulous photos from this event!
We at The Next Step support all educational endeavors and believe that education is one of the best ways to rise above addiction and [initiate] sustainable, longterm recovery. Tonight, the community came together to celebrate our students and support their journeys.
– DARCY GLIDEWELL
MISSION: ST. LOUIS
NIGHT FOR THE TOWN
Mission: St. Louis recently celebrated its 15th annual Night for the Town gala at the Chase Park Plaza Hotel in St. Louis’ Central West End neighborhood. Guests enjoyed cocktails and hors d’oeuvres while bidding on silent auction items, followed by a three-course dinner and live auction. The nonprofit creates pathways to self-sufficiency by removing barriers to unemployment and education and works with community partners to end poverty in the metro area. Maliyah Crawford, a student of the AmeriCorps program Beyond School, served as emcee. Jason and Tarryn Troutman were auctioneers.
Visit LADUENEWS.COM to see more fabulous photos from this event!
This gala is important because it displays the impact that we have been able to make as an organization. More importantly, it changes the narrative. It says, ‘There are beautiful people in the heart of our city – you just have to get to know them.”
– T. JASON WATSON SENIOR VICE PRESIDENT OF ENGAGEMENTURBAN SPROUTS CHILD DEVELOPMENT CENTER
GALA EN BLANC
All the wonders of the circus greeted guests as they were shuttled to The Big Top in St. Louis’ Grand Center Arts District for Urban Sprouts’ Gala En Blanc. Met by circus performers, guests played ringtoss for wine and enjoyed popcorn, funnel cakes, cotton candy and even a cigar lounge. All attendees wore white for the event supporting the Urban Sprouts Child Development Center in University City.
Visit LADUENEWS.COM to see more fabulous photos from this event!
When the world feels like a circus, Urban Sprouts is always there to make sure all children are the ringmasters of their own futures, regardless of their identities or backgrounds. With your support, Urban Sprouts can continue to deliver education and services so high quality they can truly be described as ‘acrobatic.’
– ELLICIA LANIERLUTHERAN FAMILY & CHILDREN’S SERVICES OF MISSOURI
ANNUAL DINNER AND AUCTION
For 39 years, Lutheran Family and Children’s Services of Missouri’s annual dinner and auction has raised money to help people in need around the state. This year was no exception – attendance was high, with guests participating in raffles for toys and sports memorabilia. Guests enjoyed dinner while bidding on items, with proceeds benefitting local children and their families’ health and wellbeing.
Visit LADUENEWS.COM to see more fabulous photos from this event!
LAURA AND AARON TELLE 2022 AUCTION CHAIRSThe Telle family has been involved with Lutheran Family and Children’s Services for three generations. Just as we have a legacy of supporting this incredible cause, LFCS has a legacy of supporting generations of families and creating lasting, sustainable change in our community.–
TheGiftof Hope
ByMaggiePeters |PhotoscourtesyofSSMHealthCardinalGlennonChildren’sHospitalWhen yourchildhasbeengivenaseriousdiagnosis, thelast thing you wantto worry about ishowyou’regoing topayfor treatment.SSM HealthCardinalGlennonChildren’sHospital makesit so yourattentioncanbeonbeing there for yourchild.
JenniferWalkenhorstwas toldhersonConner wouldneedaheart transplantwhenhe wasonlythreedaysold.With thehospital’ssupport, Conner wasput on the transplant listtwo weekslater,andreceivedhis surgerytwomonthsafter that “Without CardinalGlennon,I wouldnot be themomIam,andmy son wouldn’t behereandcelebratingsixyearssincehis transplant,” Walkenhorst says.“They’vebeen withusevery stepofthe way.”
TheSSM HealthCardinalGlennonChildren’s Foundation works tosupport thehospital,allowingittoprovideitslifesavingcare toevery childand family inneed.The foundationitself issupportedbythegenerousdonationsoftheSt. Louiscommunitythrough fundraiserslikeitsTreeof Hopegivingcampaign. Yourdonation toSSM HealthCardinalGlennon willgo toward improving the technology and facilities throughoutthehospital,allowing
ittocontinueprovidinglivesavingcare tochildrenlikeConner who needit most.
“Somethinglike thisishuge,”Walkenhorst says.“Fundshelp with those whocan’t necessarily payfor treatment,hereoranywhere.The factthat that’showthey run–it givessomuch tosomany peopleacrossSt.Louis.”
TheTreeof Hopecampaignruns through theendofthe yearand makesagreatwaytoletfamiliesknowthatthey’renot aloneasmany can’t makeit home for theholidays.Additionaldonations through the foundationhelpkids feelasenseof normalcy duringdifficult and abnormal times.
“Anything thattells families that peopleare thinkingaboutthemand lookingoutfor themreally helps,”Walkenhorst says.
Give thegift of hopeandhealing toCardinalGlennonkids thisholiday seasonby going to treeofhope.org.
SSMHealthCardinal Glennon Children’sFoundation,3800ParkAve., St. Louis,314-577-5605,glennon.org
Arzola’s Fajitas & Margaritas
Adestination for Tex-Mex debuted in early May from a familiar family of restaurateurs. In Benton Park, Arzola’s Fajitas & Margaritas specializes in namesake signature dishes and cold drinks in a casual neighborhood restaurant setting.
The restaurant comes from married couple and neighborhood residents Coby Arzola and Derek Fatheree in partnership with Coby’s father, Eddie Arzola, who runs everyday operations. The duo brought on longtime friend Tanya Key, a local chef who previously owned The Little Dipper, to head up the kitchen.
Locals might recognize the Arzola’s name from its predecessor, Chuy Arzola’s, which Eddie Arzola named after his father, who helped him run the Dogtown eatery for much of its life between 1989 to 2008. Coby followed in his family’s footsteps with his own business, Agave, a Grove neighborhood tequila bar-restaurant concept that operated for a couple of years in the early 2000s. With Arzola’s Fajitas & Margaritas, the Arzolas make an exciting comeback to the dining scene, bringing three generations of industry experience to the table.
“We basically took the best of Chuy Arzola’s and Agave and kind of put the greatest hits together; that’s how we came up with Arzola’s,” Eddie Arzola says. “I think Coby and I both really missed doing this. It’s our passion.”
Eddie Arzola grew up in Austin, Texas, learning the ins and outs of the industry at his father’s side, and as a teenager, he built a cart around a barbecue grill to sell fajita tacos on the streets.
“We brought those fajitas up from Texas, where they originated; I think we really introduced them to the St. Louis market for the
most part in 1989,” Eddie Arzola says. “No one was doing them like we do. We marinate the steak and chicken for 72 hours, in our own marinade that we created, before it touches the open grill. The meat is tender and juicy, and you can actually cut it with a fork. Some of our guests have referred to it as ‘melt in your mouth.’ ”
The fajitas are available in as charbroiled steak, chicken, shrimp and vegetarian options and are offered in platters served with guacamole, pico de gallo, crema, cheese, lettuce and flour tortillas, as well as in quesadillas, burritos, tacos and salads.
“I would describe this menu as elevated TexMex comfort food that’s whimsically traditional,” says chef Tanya Key, who cites her grandmother as her culinary inspiration. “My grandma always
said, ‘If you cook your food with love, people will love your food.’”
Additional highlights include classic queso; Papa Chuy’s jalapeño hush puppies made of house-pickled jalapeños stuffed with red rice pilaf, cheese and seasoned beef fried in crispy cornmeal; and shrimp tostaditas – crispy corn tostadas layered with guacamole and mojo shrimp fajitas with red chile velvet sauce, grilled pineapple pico and queso Cotija.
From the drink menu, choose from an extensive selection of tequilas and mezcals in addition to beer, micheladas, cocktails and plenty of hand-shaken and frozen Margaritas.
“I think the hospitality, fajitas and Margaritas we offer are legendary,” Eddie Arzola says. “I want people to know that when they walk into Arzola’s, they’re walking into our home.” ln
Arzola’s Fajitas & Margaritas, 2730 McNair Ave., Benton Park, St. Louis, 314-226-9672, eatarzolas.com
UNEXPECTED HOME
By Bryan A. Hollerbach Photos courtesy of Missouri Historical Society PressAnew book from the Missouri Historical Society Press, “Bosnian St. Louis: Between Two Worlds” by Patrick McCarthy and Akif Cogo, succinctly details a contemporary tale of local immigration woe and hope alike.
The 175-pager relates how St. Louis has become “home to more displaced Bosnians than any other city in the world,” according to its preface, which estimates the local populace at 60,000 – slightly less than seven times the present number of Ladue residents.
“In the 1990s, Bosnia and Herzegovina were rocked by brutal warfare and systematic genocide that resulted in a mass exodus from the Balkan nation,” the society’s press release states. “Starting in 1993, thousands of these displaced Bosnians found a welcoming new home in an
unexpected place:” the St. Louis area, largely the Bevo Mill neighborhood.
In the new volume, the press release continues, McCarthy and Cogo use firsthand accounts to “explore how an event of global significance became the everyday reality of the refugees who came to St. Louis and have had a profound effect on the city ever since. The city’s resettled Bosnians quickly established themselves as a positive local presence in their new home, bringing with them tightknit families, a strong work ethic and a rich cultural heritage.
“Although tragedy and sorrow created the Bosnian community in St. Louis, this poignant book demonstrates how new beginnings and opportunities are building a brighter future for the city’s Bosnians and for all who call them neighbors and friends.”
The press release describes McCarthy as associate dean of libraries at Saint Louis University and the writer of a related 2000 volume from the
society, “After the Fall: Srebrenica Survivors in St. Louis.” It similarly identifies Cogo as “the historian and archivist for St. Louis Bosnians Inc., a nonprofit organization he founded in 2011.”
The indexed title includes 73 black-and-white images and an eight-page insert of 25 full-color photos, and retails for $19.95. Its back cover quotes Francis G. Slay, the longtime mayor of St. Louis, describing the book as “a fascinating read about human tragedy, sacrifice, self-determination and resilience, which I highly recommend.” ln
Missouri Historical Society Press, Missouri History Museum, 5700 Lindell Blvd., St. Louis, 314-746-4599, mohistory.org/society
BECHTOLD PINOT NOIR
Grapes: 100% Pinot Noir
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Winery owner: Jean-Marie Bechtold Approximate retail price: $38 Website: madrose.com/producers/ france/alsace/domaine-bechtold
TASTING NOTES:
Color: Medium ruby hues with a wide meniscus, slightly cloudy
Aroma: Captivating earthiness laced with bright cherry, strawberry and rose – with the slightest hint of smoke Taste: Bright acidity strikes the mouth immediately, followed by enticing light red fruits and mineral earthiness and finishing with mild tannins. This wine is highly complex and layered.
Food pairings: Charcuterie, soft or hard aromatic cheeses, grilled chicken, lean red meats and game, tomato-based sauces or soups, creamy pastas with truffles or any type of mushroom.
Theoriginating region of Alsace is located in northeastern France, on the borders of Germany and Switzerland. For at least 300 years, the territory of Alsace has either been a part of Germany or France. As a result, the culture tends to reflect a blend of the two, though these days, French is the primary language. It is a fascinatingly unique region rich in culture and history.
Alsace has been host to wine-making for over 2,000 years and due to the cooler climate has focused primarily on white varietals such as Riesling, Gewürztraminer, Pinot Blanc and Pinot Gris. Although these wines can be produced off-dry or even sweet, Alsace whites tend to be made more on the dry side. Pinot Noir is also produced as either a red or rosé wine but is less common.
Due to the terrior (climate, soil type, etc.) of Alsace, the Pinot Noirs that come out of this region have a very unique style to them. While still expressing true varietal character, it can have an earthiness similar to burgundy but also display minerality typically found in white wines. The fruit also tends to be brighter yet still full-mouthed. Alsace Pinot Noirs can be fascinating to the right audience, but they can take a person by surprise.
The Bechtold winery, though known for its highly aromatic and dry Rieslings and Gewürztraminers, also produces a Pinot Noir that comes from the Obere Hund Vineyard, one of four vineyards used by Bechtold. This low production Pinot Noir goes through primary and malolactic fermentation in steel tanks and is aged up to a year in large neutral oak casks. Jean-Marie Bechtold takes a minimalist approach during vinification to allow both the vintage and terrior to be fully expressed. The result is an amazing wine that grips your senses and leaves you tantalized.
Bechtold has long been practicing organic farming and wine production but is also segueing into biodynamic practices, as well.
If you consider yourself a Pinot Noir fan, even a connoisseur, dare yourself to try a Pinot from Alsace, especially the Bechtold Obere Hund, if you can find it. ln
THISISABANNERYEAR F ORTHEGREENBERGGALLERY, C U RRENTLYCELEBRATINGITSGOL D ENANNIVERSARY
Amongpreeminent art galleriessituatedinSt.Louisproper, the DuaneReedGallery opened28 yearsago,in 1994.Thatwas two years afterWilliamShearburnGallery debuted,in 1992, whileAtriumGallery dates from 1986.EvenClayton’svenerableBruno DavidGallery started only in 1984,inNew YorkCity beforerelocating to themetroarea (initiallytheGrandCenterArts District)in2005.
TheGreenberg,aslocaldevoteesof visualart know,currently occupiesacompact but poshfirst-floorspaceinTheTwoThirty Building inClayton, whoseinterior theafternoonsuncustomarilytransforms intoanalmost overwhelmingly brightwhite-walledspace forviewing canvasesof allkinds.Todojustice to that spaceand tocommemorate half acentury of spotlighting thefinest invisualart, theGreenbergjust openedanexhibitiononThursday,Nov. 10,starting withareception from 6 to8p.m.
That exhibition, which willrun throughJan.31,includes works fromJean-MichelBasquiat,Richard Diebenkorn, DiegoGiacometti, Ellsworth Kelly,Roy Lichtensteinandotherluminaries.Therangeof talent in that rostersuggests thecosmopolitaneyeof gallerist Ronald K.“Ronnie”Greenberg.
Most recently, from May 26 toJune30, theGreenbergshowcasedan exhibitionentitled“Snaplines” fromNewMexicanRonald Davis. Prior to the Davisdisplay, thegallery presented thefiendishlytitled“Hamburger BaconBlackOliveand MushroomWithSaltedCaramel PretzelConcrete andHi Fi Fo Fum”exhibition fromClaytonnative KatherineBernhardt
Within thepast lustrumorso,Greenberg’sgallery alsohas treated viewers todistinct anddistinctiveexhibitionsdevoted to thelateHelen
Frankenthaler, thequeenof colorfieldpainting, fromNovember2018 toJanuary 2019,and,inamid-2018extravaganza,selectworksofthe Frenchgiant Henri Matisse.
Greenbergopenedhisnamesakegallery in 1972,makingit oneofthe metroarea’sfirst galleries focusinglesson thepastthanon thepresent “TheGreenbergGallery [has]broughtto the Midwest someofthe most respectedandinfluentialcontemporary artistsin theartworld,” statesapressreleaseon thevenue’s50th.
FromitsoriginalsiteinClayton, thegallery movedin 1978 toSt Louis’CentralWest Endneighborhood, whereit blossomed foradecade andahalf.Itthen“becameGreenbergVan DorenGaller to thriveinitsCentralWest Endlocation,” thepressreleasecon “hostingshowsby bothcontemporary mastersandno emergingartists.GreenbergVan DorenGallery openedin New YorkCity in 1999.”
Almost anotherdecadeandahalf passed,and Greenberg,in2013,renovated thecurrent Claytonspacenotfar from thegallery’s originalspace, whereuponGreenbergVan DorenGallery resumeditsoriginalmoniker.
“TheGreenbergGallery remainsSt. Louis’premiercontemporary art gallery,” the pressreleaseconcludes withpardonablepride, “showing the worksof contemporary masters andemergingartists.”
TheGreenberg Gallery,230S.Bemiston Ave., St Louis,314-361-7600, thegreenberggallery.com
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