Delve into the inspiring tales of those giving back this season and uncover distinctive ways to bring joy to our community.
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Treat yourself or a loved one to ultimate relaxation! Purchase a Spa 400 gift card today and give the gift of rejuvenation, self-care, and luxury. Perfect for the upcoming holidays or any special occasion—don’t wait to share the gift of wellness!
Driving the Mercedes-Benz GLS: The Ultimate Family SUV
The Mercedes-Benz GLS is a full-size SUV that combines spaciousness, advanced technology, and high-end features. Designed to offer a comfortable ride for up to seven passengers, it’s the ultimate family SUV. It includes a range of powerful engine options, sophisticated suspension systems, and a suite of advanced safety and driverassistance technologies. Inside, it boasts a premium interior with high-quality materials, infotainment systems, and customizable seating configurations. This vehicle is positioned as a versatile and opulent choice in the SUV market, and
Mercedes-Benz of Buffalo has a selection of them ready for you to test drive!
Our dealership has a variety of GLS SUVs to choose from, all with extensive safety features to protect you and your family. Some of these features include active break assist, blind spot assist, lane keeping assist, adaptive cruise control, PRESAFE ® system, surround view system, and crosswind assist. These features contribute to this vehicle’s reputation for safety and reliability, making it a strong choice for families and individuals seeking a secure driving experience throughout the 716 and beyond.
The Mercedes-Benz GLS seamlessly integrates luxury features with practical family-friendly elements, positioning it as an ideal choice for families. Its interior accommodates up to seven passengers, ensuring ample room for both children and adults. High-quality materials and advanced technology enhance comfort and convenience, while features such as multiple USB ports, a premium sound system, and an intuitive infotainment system cater to the needs of modern families. With its combination of elegance, functionality, and safety, the Mercedes-Benz GLS stands out as a premier family vehicle.
Together in Generosity: Our Holiday Message to You
As we approach the holiday season, a time filled with joy, reflection, and gratitude, we invite you to join us in celebrating the spirit of giving that defines our community. The holidays are not just about exchanging gifts; they’re about connecting with one another and uplifting those around us.
This year, let’s focus on the stories that inspire us—the local heroes who dedicate their time and resources to help others. From food drives and volunteer opportunities to unique initiatives that make a meaningful impact, we have so much to be proud of in Amherst. It’s in these acts of kindness that we find the true essence of the season.
In this special edition, you’ll discover heartwarming stories of individuals and organizations working tirelessly to bring joy to those in need. You’ll learn about local charities where your support can make a difference, along with creative ideas for giving back. Whether it’s donating to a local shelter, participating in community events, or simply reaching out to a neighbor, every act of kindness counts.
As you gather with family and friends this season, we encourage you to think about how you can spread joy within our community. Together, we can create a ripple effect of generosity that transcends the holiday season.
Thank you for being a part of our Amherst City Lifestyle family. Your support helps us shine a light on the incredible people and stories that make our community unique. Let’s embrace the spirit of giving and make this holiday season truly memorable for everyone.
Wishing you and your loved ones a joyful and meaningful holiday season!
ALLY FAZZALARO, PUBLISHER
@AMHERSTCITYLIFESTYLE
December 2024
PUBLISHER
Ally Fazzalaro | ally.fazzalaro@citylifestyle.com
EDITORIAL COORDINATOR
Nicholas Zielinski | nicholas.zielinski@citylifestyle.com
CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Steph Bee, Brooke Ostrye
CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS
Kaitlyn Dulski
Corporate Team
CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt
CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry
EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson
AD DESIGNER Zach Miller
LAYOUT DESIGNER Amanda Schilling
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WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN DECEMBER
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1: Celebrating the holidays in style! This little Bills fan is ready for game day cheer! 2: USA Insulation’s fleet ready to keep homes warm, even in the winter chill! 3: Relaxation at its finest—experience ultimate comfort in style. 4: Embrace your imperfections and embody your true self—perfectly imperfect. Coremess Wellness with Janice! 5: These robotic dogs are stealing the spotlight at UB football—innovation meets the gridiron! 6: On track for success with our incredible partners by our side! 7: Happy 3rd Birthday, F45 Amherst!
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RELAX THE BACK BUFFALO
Unwrap Comfort This Holiday Season at Relax The Back Buffalo
Give your body the gift of comfort and relief this season! Visit us for personalized solutions that support your wellness, from ergonomic chairs to pain-relieving sleep products. Discover how you can live and feel better every day—stop by today and experience the difference for yourself! Your back will thank you.
Special Holiday Savings at Relax The Back Buffalo!
’Tis the season for comfort and relaxation! Take advantage of our incredible offers and give yourself the gift of wellness:
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$500 on the Cozzia Qi XE Pro Massage Chair
SAFETY FIRST QUALITY ALWAYS
Relax The Back Buffalo Celebrates New Amherst Location
Relax The Back, a premier wellness retailer, proudly opened its newest location in Amherst over Labor Day weekend. Specializing in ergonomic furniture, massage chairs, and wellness products, the store offers customized solutions for pain relief and improved well-being. Founded by an osteopathic physician, Relax The Back empowers customers to enhance their comfort and quality of life. Visit the Amherst location to discover innovative health solutions designed for a pain-free lifestyle.
Purpose
Helping Children in Need Sleep Better
All children deserve a safe, comfortable place to lay their heads Across the US, too many boys and girls go without a bed or even a pillow to sleep on These children end up sleeping on couches, blankets, and even floors This can affect their happiness and health
That’s where Sleep in Heavenly Peace comes in We’re a group of volunteers dedicated to building, assembling, and delivering handbuilt bunk beds to children and families in need
“Up
to 10,000 children in Buffalo lack beds”
Jerry Sheldon, The Buffalo Chapter president of Sleep in Heavenly Peace estimates that up to 10,000 children in the area lack beds Sleep in Heavenly Peace, a national nonprofit, is dedicated to reducing this number, believing that a bed is essential for a child’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being Nationally, approximately 2-3% of children in the United States don’t have a bed to sleep on
1. Donate: Every dollar counts! Your financial contributions go directly towards building and providing beds for children in need
2. Volunteer: Join our team of dedicated volunteers to help build beds, organize events, or spread the word about our mission Whether you’re handy with tools or just want to lend a helping hand, we welcome your support!
3. Sponsor a Bed: Consider sponsoring a bed for a child in need Your sponsorship helps cover the cost of materials and provides a safe, comfortable place for a child to sleep
4 Host a Fundraiser: Organize a fundraising event in your neighborhood, school, or workplace Your efforts can raise awareness and generate funds to help us build more beds
5 Spread the Word: Share our mission on social media and encourage friends and family to get involved Awareness is key to helping us reach more children in need
Together, we can ensure that every child in Buffalo has a bed to call their own Join us in making a lasting impact help Sleep in Heavenly Peace Buffalo today!
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Batavia Downs
Announces New Year’s Eve 2025 “Great Gatsby” Party
Batavia Downs invites you to ring in 2025 with their extravagant “Great Gatsby” themed New Year’s Eve Party! The celebration takes place from 5:30 PM to 11:00 PM on December 31, 2024. Enjoy a lavish dinner buffet from 6-8 PM, open bar until 10:30 PM, live music by Coupe De Villes, and a spectacular fireworks show at 10:30 PM.
ARTICLE BY STEPH BEE
Blue United in
2024-2025 UB Women's Basketball
As the holiday season approaches, it’s a time to reflect on the spirit of giving, community, and togetherness— and what better way to embody this than by supporting the University at Buffalo’s men’s and women’s basketball teams? Attending games isn’t just about enjoying college athletics; it’s about coming together as a community, united in support of our local teams.
Buffalo basketball has a proud tradition, and both teams play with heart, passion, and determination. When you cheer from the stands, you’re not only inspiring the players but also contributing to the sense of unity that defines our city. This support shows our young athletes that the entire Buffalo community is behind them, pushing them toward success.
In the spirit of giving, attending UB games is a great way to give back. Many games feature charity drives or community initiatives, offering opportunities to contribute to local causes. Whether it’s donating food, clothing, or simply being present to show support, these acts reflect the values of generosity and care that are at the heart of the holiday season.
In Buffalo, we stand together and support one another through thick and thin. Supporting UB basketball is about more than just the game—it’s about being part of something bigger, uplifting our athletes, and demonstrating the collective power of a united community. As you plan your holiday festivities, consider attending a game to show your UB pride, give back, and celebrate what it means to be a true Buffalonian. Let’s come together this season and show our UB teams the strength of our community support!
Ryan Sabol, a rising force on UB Men's Basketball team, ready to make his mark!
Chellia Watson, UB Basketball star, and MidMajor Player of the Year watchlist contender!
2024-2025 UB Men's Basketball
Making Spirits
JOIN OUR MISSION TO SPREAD WARMTH AND COMPASSION BY NOMINATING SOMEONE WHO DESERVES A CHRISTMAS BLESSING
“We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way.”
As the Christmas season approaches, we’re reminded of the power of community and kindness. This year, through City Lifestyle’s nonprofit, The Kingdom Building Foundation, we will help people who may be struggling quietly without the support they need. But we need your help to find them.
Over the past three years, this campaign has grown into something truly beautiful, touching the lives of more than 150 families nationwide last year alone. Each year, we’ve seen firsthand how generosity can bring relief, hope, and a renewed sense of faith in others.
One person we had the opportunity to help was an 11-year-old boy diagnosed with a rare eye cancer. After he had to undergo chemotherapy and surgery to remove his eye, his doctors recommended a prosthetic one, but insurance wouldn’t cover the cost, calling it “cosmetic.” When we heard his story, we knew we had to help. Because of this campaign, he got his prosthetic eye and a piece of his childhood back with it.
Another was a wife and mother of two who fought a yearlong health battle and was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Just days before Christmas, she underwent surgery but passed away due to complications. Before her surgery, she received one of our cards and, in tears, told us this gift gave her some peace, knowing her family would have help in the difficult times ahead. It wasn’t just about the financial support but knowing that someone cared.
These stories remind us why this campaign is so meaningful. It’s not just
about writing checks; it’s about telling people they aren’t forgotten and that someone is there to lend a hand. It’s about giving families a moment of relief when the world feels unbearable.
“We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “This Giving Campaign is about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them this holiday season.”
Together with Matthew Perry, President, Steven adds that the gratitude from recipients was overwhelming, affirming this tradition’s importance. “We believe God has blessed our company with success,” Matthew adds, “so we want to be a blessing to others.”
We know many more people could use a little help this Christmas, and that’s where you come in. Do you know someone who could use a blessing? We want to hear about them.
To nominate someone, scan the QR code or follow @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the form in our bio. Nominations are open from November 27 to December 10, 2024. Let’s bring hope to those who need it most.
The City Lifestyle Giving Campaign is completely confidential. No identities will be revealed or publicized. All entries will be read, and selections and the amount given to each recipient will be based on the severity of the need. For more information, visit KingdomBuildingFoundation.com
Empowering Confidence and Giving Back
Linda Lopian and Rodan + Fields
ARTICLE BY BROOKE OSTRYE
As the holiday season approaches, the focus on gift-giving and spreading joy becomes more prominent. For Linda Lopian, a local Rodan + Fields consultant, this time of year is about more than just presents—it’s about helping others feel confident, empowered, and beautiful in their own skin.
Linda works with Rodan + Fields, a leading skincare brand founded by dermatologists Dr. Katie Rodan and Dr. Kathy Fields, known for its innovative products that target a variety of skin concerns.
From anti-aging solutions to sensitive skin care, Linda provides her clients with personalized regimens designed to make
them look and feel their best, just in time for the festive season.
Through her work, Linda helps others focus on the importance of self-care and wellness. The holidays are a perfect time to prioritize health and beauty, making her skincare consultations an excellent gift for anyone looking to enhance their glow for holiday gatherings or to start the new year feeling refreshed and revitalized.
In keeping with the holiday theme of giving, Rodan + Fields also engages in community-driven initiatives, with an emphasis on empowering others. Whether through their
well-known products or efforts to foster positive change, the brand is committed to making a difference in the lives of others.
While Linda’s primary focus is on her clients and their skincare needs, her role in supporting a brand that values giving back to the community aligns well with the season of generosity and care. This holiday season, consider not only how you can take care of your skin but also how small acts of kindness and self-care can spread joy and confidence to those around you.
Leanna Pilarski
ARTICLE BY STEPH BEE
““As a wife and mother of two boys, she understands the importance of home and community, values that shine through in her work.”
This holiday season, we are proud to feature Leanna Pilarski, a respected attorney specializing in both residential and commercial real estate transactions. With her wealth of experience and a reputation for delivering exceptional service, Leanna has become a trusted partner for individuals and businesses alike. Whether helping clients close on their dream home or guiding them through complex commercial property deals, her attention to detail and personalized approach make every transaction smooth and stress-free.
Leanna’s success is deeply rooted in her family values. As a wife and mother of two boys, she understands the importance of home and community, values that shine through in her work. Just as the holiday season brings families together, Leanna ensures that her clients are treated with the same care, compassion, and dedication she reserves for her own loved ones. Her ability to connect with clients on a personal level allows her to truly understand their needs, ensuring every deal is handled with the utmost professionalism and a human touch.
Balancing a thriving law practice with a busy family life, Leanna embraces the spirit of giving, especially during the holiday season. Whether it’s creating lasting memories with her two boys or helping a family secure their forever home, she finds joy in making a difference. Her commitment to her clients extends beyond the transaction itself—she builds lasting relationships, ensuring her clients feel supported every step of the way.
As we celebrate the holidays and the importance of giving, Leanna Pilarski’s blend of expertise, family values, and unwavering dedication reminds us that success is not only about the deals we close but about the impact we have on the lives we touch.
pixie mamas RESCUE
TRANSFORMING LIVES, ONE DOG AT A TIME
ARTICLE BY BROOKE OSTRYE & ALLY FAZZALARO
Nestled in the heart of Buffalo, Pixie Mamas Rescue, founded by the compassionate Barb Backhaus, is more than just a refuge for dogs—it’s a sanctuary of hope, healing, and fresh starts. For over two decades, Pixie Mamas has been a vital part of the local rescue community, tirelessly giving dogs a well-deserved second chance at life.
We would also like to correct an error from our August issue where we spotlighted Lisa Jane as the one who established Pixie Mamas. The founder of Pixie Mamas Rescue is Barb Backhaus.
Barb's passion has turned Pixie Mamas Rescue from a small initiative into a powerful force for good. What began with the
adoption of one dog has grown into a mission that rescues over 500 dogs every year. With dedicated volunteers and unwavering community support, Pixie Mamas has expanded its reach beyond Buffalo, partnering with rescues in Texas and other southern states while also focusing on local dogs from shelters, owner surrenders, and breeder surrenders.
What sets Pixie Mamas apart is its commitment to transparency and community involvement. The adoption process is thorough, ensuring every dog finds the perfect forever home. Prospective adopters undergo home visits and reference checks while the rescue stays active on social media, engaging followers with updates, events, and fundraising efforts.
Volunteers are the heart and soul of Pixie Mamas’ daily operations, handling
everything from fostering dogs to organizing community events. Pixie Mamas hosts various activities designed to raise funds and increase awareness, bringing the community together in meaningful ways.
Pixie Mamas Rescue is especially dedicated to dogs with medical needs and senior dogs, often taking in those requiring intensive care. Their commitment to these dogs reflects the rescue’s unwavering dedication to every animal they save.
To learn more about how you can support or get involved with Pixie Mamas Rescue, visit their website and follow them on social media for the latest updates and events. Reach out via email at info@pixiemamasrescue.com and become part of a rescue that does more than save lives—it transforms them.
Barb Backhaus: Changing lives at Pixie Mamas Rescue!
THE GIFT OF UNDERSTANDING FOR FAMILIES WITH ADHD
Empowering Families to Navigate the Holiday Season with Compassion and Support
ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY JENNY KUPCZYK
The holiday season brings joy and celebration, but it can also be overwhelming for families raising children with ADHD. Changes in routine, sensory overload, and social pressures can lead to stress and chaos.
This season, let’s give the most valuable gift: understanding. The excitement of the holidays can overwhelm kids with ADHD, leading to meltdowns and anxiety. As parents, we can practice empathy and patience by recognizing our children’s need for extra support and downtime.
Creating small moments of calm—like reading together or maintaining familiar routines—can help them feel
secure. Flexibility is key; plans may not go perfectly, and that’s okay. Allowing space for unpredictability shows our children it’s normal to struggle and take breaks.
Ultimately, the greatest gifts aren’t found under the tree but in our presence, love, and support. This holiday season, let’s embrace understanding and compassion, transforming how our families experience the festivities.
From my family to yours, I wish you warmth, patience, and the joy of giving the gift of understanding. Join our FREE Thrive ADHD Family Community by texting COMMUNITY to 814-969-1522.
Carley’s Corner
EGGNOG MARTINI
ingredients:
• 1 ounce vodka
• 1 ounce kahlua
• 1 ounce brewed coffee cooled
• 3 ounces eggnog,
• 1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
• Dash of cinnamon
directions:
Step 1. Add all ingredients together in a shaker and mix.
Step 2. Pour into a glass and serve over the rocks.
ARTICLE BY ANGELA BROOCKERD
PHOTOGRAPHY BY JANIE JONES
UNWRAP THE GIFT OF COMFORT
Experience
Relax The Back Buffalo This Holiday Season!
ARTICLE BY STEPH BEE | PHOTOGRAPHY BY KAITLYN DULSKI
Just in time for the holidays, Relax The Back Buffalo has burst onto the scene in Amherst, opening its doors around Labor Day 2024 and completely transforming the landscape of wellness and comfort! This innovative franchise specializes in top-tier wellness solutions that embody its empowering mantra, livewellness. With a heartfelt mission to relieve pain, enhance health, and cultivate well-being, Relax The Back Buffalo is here to elevate your routine, revitalize your space, and enrich your life.
THE INSPIRING LEGACY OF RELAX THE BACK BUFFALO
Founded in 1984 by a visionary osteopathic physician, Relax The Back Buffalo was born from a desire to help patients easily access self-care products designed to alleviate neck and back pain. By 1989, the company had begun franchising, gaining robust support from the medical community and establishing itself as a premier specialty wellness
retailer. For nearly 40 years, Relax The Back Buffalo has championed a holistic approach to health, highlighting that wellness is a continuous journey of physical and mental relief, renewal, prevention, and sustainable habits that nourish our bodies and minds.
WHY RELAX THE BACK BUFFALO IS THE ULTIMATE DESTINATION THIS HOLIDAY SEASON
Get ready to discover why Relax The Back Buffalo should be at the very top of your holiday shopping list:
• Expert Guidance : The passionate team of knowledgeable store consultants is dedicated to helping you uncover the ideal wellness solutions. With their expertise in spinal health and wellness strategies, they offer personalized consultations that ensure you leave with precisely what you need to enhance your unique lifestyle.
• Quality Products: Immerse yourself in a meticulously curated selection of
premium ergonomic chairs, luxurious massage tools, and restorative sleep essentials. Each product is thoughtfully crafted not only for immediate comfort but also to promote long-term health. Trusted by medical professionals, Relax The Back Buffalo is the go-to resource for pain prevention and management.
• Holistic Approach: The commitment to a healthier lifestyle shines through in the diverse product range. Whether you’re a busy professional seeking ergonomic office solutions or someone yearning for relaxation at home, there’s something exceptional for everyone.
A GIFT THAT KEEPS ON GIVING
This holiday season, embrace the spirit of giving by sharing wellness with your loved ones! Imagine their delight as they unwrap a state-of-the-art massage chair or a custom-fit office chair designed to alleviate discomfort. These gifts not only elevate everyday comfort but also inspire healthier lifestyles, making them truly unforgettable.
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CELEBRATE LOCAL WELLNESS THIS HOLIDAY SEASON
Let’s make this season a celebration of well-being right here in Amherst! At Relax The Back Buffalo, visitors are welcomed into a warm and inviting atmosphere, where expert consultants, including the incredibly knowledgeable Max, are ready to assist you in discovering the perfect gifts. Max’s unwavering passion for wellness and deep understanding of the products ensure that every customer receives personalized guidance tailored to their unique needs. Whether you’re treating a family member or a dear friend, the exceptional service and insights available at this location promise an extraordinary shopping experience. Together, let’s uplift our community by sharing the invaluable gift of wellness this holiday season!
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