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My Big Break

Kristi O'Brien opens up about golf, life and her reality TV debut

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Get Inspired W

ho inspires you? Perhaps you’ve been impressed by Mother Teresa’s compassion, Michael Jordan’s skills on the court or Stephen Hawking’s brilliance. But, as you know, inspiration can show up at any time, in any place. Photo: Josh Humble

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contributing writer Sherri Coner contributing photographers Josh Humble, Dan Kapsalis

In this issue of Fishers Lifestyle, you’ll find plenty of inspiration -- delivered through the stories of many of your neighbors. When interviewing people like Katie O’Brien, who shared her experiences for the cover story, I’m amazed at the resiliency of the human spirit. We can face some of the most daunting … even life-threatening experiences … and emerge more at peace with our choices as a result of them. Make sure you carve out some time to read the article on O’Brien. There’s much more to this professional golfer than the recent national fame she received by appearing on Golf Channel’s Big Break.

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Of course, O’Brien is not the only person with an amazing story in this issue. Paul “Whitey” Kapsalis, author of “To Chase a Dream,” recounts his experiences as an unlikely soccer player for Indiana University back in the 1980s.

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Attorney Howard Stevenson, who was recently elected as a school board member, recounts how his father inspired him at a young age to pursue his career in law and public service. It’s an example of how parents can be instrumental in shaping their children’s values, even if they may not seem all that interested at the time. For this issue, we also talked to Town Manager Scott Fadness about his recent win in the mayoral primaries. As Fishers makes its transition from town to city, Fadness hopes to inspire residents to rally behind a common vision.

We hope you enjoy this issue of Fishers Lifestyle. Who knows? It may motivate you to share some of your own inspiring stories with us.

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| FishersLifestyle.com | on the cover Kristi O’Brien was among 12

contestants recently competing for $175,000 in prizes on Golf Channel’s Big Break. photography courtesy of the Golf Channel

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Good Times

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Healthy Lifestyle

Your Neighbor

Style Wise

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Parting Thoughts

18 Tough Under Pressure

Pro golfer Kristi O’Brien takes on Golf Channel’s Big Break

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20 Chase Your Dream

Former IU soccer player and author Whitey Kapsalis inspires

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Around Town

FADNESS CALLS FOR A COMMON VISION When Scott Fadness envisions Fishers’ future as a newly minted city, he sees one in which its residents rally together. “That’s my No. 1 aspiration … that we can all embrace a common vision and a common goal for where we are headed as a community,” says Fadness, just a few days after he emerged as the winner of the May primary election. With the odds considered great for Fadness becoming Fishers first mayor in January, he discussed his path to a political office as well as the transition that must take place behind the scenes for a town to become a city. Although Fadness, Fishers’ current Town Manager, never considered running for a political office as a young boy growing up on his family’s North Dakota farm, he was keenly interested in public policy and how government worked. “It’s never something I aspired to,” he says of his recent run for a political office. “However, I enjoyed government and being a part of something bigger than myself.” His interest in government fueled his decision to study political science at the University of North Dakota. He went on to receive a master’s degree in public affairs from Indiana University. These days, Fadness will be focusing on Fishers’ transition from town to city status. “There’s quite a bit of bureaucratic structural differences,” he says. “The mayor has much more consolidated authority.” This is unlike a town status in which the council has more authority. He says it’s the type of work that the residents should not notice. “We will work hard on the transition with no disruptions in services,” he says. In reflecting on the primary election, Fad10 Fishers Lifestyle | June 2014

ness says he was grateful for those who supported him but had hoped for a larger voter turnout. “I was humbled,” he says of his supporters. “It was a unique life experience.” He also expressed appreciation for his wife, Aunna. “She’s been a trooper. Anyone who runs for office knows the toll it takes on family.” When asked about Fishers’ future, Fadness expressed the desire for it to continue to grow strategically on a path that leads to long-term financial sustainability. “I want us to a have unique vision all residents can be proud of,” he says.

nity and its parishioners to worship in its new home at 10748 E. 116th Street. The opening day ceremony for the $7 million structure culminated years of planning, prayer and gift-giving. The church building is inspired by sixth century design. The congregation previously had gathered to bless the 40-foot gold dome, which is made of aluminum and covered in 24 karat gold leaf, before it was installed. They also were invited to tour the church, which also includes painted portraits of Orthodox icons.

TRY IT DAY INSPIRES NEW EXPERIENCES

ENCORE SOTHEBY’S WELCOMES ARTISTS More than 40 works of art were on display at the offices of Encore Sotheby’s International Realty, as real estate professional Noelle Hans-Daniels welcomed nine artists to a special event to showcase their talent. The Visiting Artist Series, which is in its 10th year, was designed to celebrate some of the best artistic talent in the area. The artists whose work was displayed included Cindy Wingo, Susan Brewer, Greg Beall, April Willy, Brian Spurlock, Tom Casalini, Jerry Points, Lisa Bick and Bill Rasdell. Mediums of the works included oil, photography and encaustic. Visitors to the event enjoyed hors d’oeuvres and cocktails. Proceeds from the event benefit the Forest Manor Multi-Service Center in Indiana. If you missed the event, you can see the works of art on display at the Encore Sotheby’s offices through early July.

CHURCH OPENS ITS NEW DOORS St. George Orthodox Christian Church in Fishers recently welcomed the commu-

Residents came out to enjoy a new experiences, from sailing and disc golfing to hiking and bird watching during Try it Day, hosted by the Fishers Parks & Recreation department. The inaugural event, which was held last month, was designed to offer residents of all ages the opportunity to explore something they may not have tried before. All of the events were either free or discounted. Participating parks and organizations included the Amos Butler Audubon Society, Conner Prairie, Hamilton Disc Golf Union and the Fishers YMCA. Officials with Fishers Parks & Recreation, which sponsored the event, said they hope to develop working relationships with community organizations to increase collaboration and the sharing of resources.

Healthy Lifestyle

Fitness After 50 AgeSuccessfully health and fitness facility focuses on shifting needs of baby boomers article Shari Finnell

hen you hit the age of 50, chances are you’re not focusing your exercise routine simply for the benefit of getting ripped abs. More than likely, you’re more concerned about avoiding heart disease, having enough stamina to get through your day, continuing favorite activities like running and maintaining the flexibility to keep up with the grandchildren. “It’s different than what you were trying to achieve when you’re 20 and wanted to get a six pack,” says Debi Teeple, who opened AgeSuccessfully in the Fishers Town Center with the needs of an older clientele in mind. As part of its program, Teeple and other trainers focus on developing what she calls a prescription that reflects the client’s goals and health, based on an initial health assessment. The assessment focuses on five key areas -- balance, strength, endurance, flexibility and cardio recovery. The resulting prescriptions focus on internal health, Teeple says. “It’s not just about looking good, healthy and strong on the outside, but ‘looking’ good, healthy and strong on the inside,” says Teeple, pointing out that men who have had prior military training still may have issues with balance as they age. “Every 15 minutes, people in this 50-and-over demographic end up in ER because of falls.” An idea is born Teeple started forming the idea of a health facility that specifically focuses on the needs of older adults after she and her husband decided to embark on a bike ride to raise awareness about 12 Fishers Lifestyle | June 2014

sex trafficking of children internationally. The bike ride was a daunting endeavor for anyone of any age. It would take them from Fishers to New York. She decided to enlist the help of personal trainer Steve Hoffacker, who helped her condition for the extensive trek. Around the same time, Hoffacker had visited his parents and asked them about what they were doing to stay in shape. They responded with “mall walking.” “Here he was … a trainer who had been training clients from around the world for more than 25 years,” Teeple says. “He said, ‘I’m a trainer and my own parents are walking through the mall.’” Achieving results In most cases, participants in the AgeSuccessfully program work out twice a week for 1-hour private sessions based on a prescription that reflects their current health and their goals. Clients have reported various degrees of success. Mim Nifong, a 77-year-old client, says she’s proud of her muscle development. “I am more than happy to show you my ‘guns,’” she says in her testimonial on the AgeSuccessfully website. “On top of that, I am more agile and have better balance.” Another client wasn’t able to put her feet into the bicycle pedals without assistance when she arrived, Teeple recalls. The 65-yearold couldn’t do five minutes of cardio. “Now she’s doing an hour,” Teeple says. “She is stronger and has more endurance. Also, her blood pressure and cholesterol went down.” Those are the types of stories that convince Teeple there is a need to target the challenges of baby boomers. “We give people solutions for their fitness. We know how to move people forward quickly but safely,” she says. “All of us can get better. We just need to know how.”

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School Board Trustee Howard Stevenson Long-time resident looks forward to helping Fishers further develop its first-class status article Shari Finnell

hen Howard Stevenson established roots in Fishers with his wife and sons 15 years ago, his family counted about 7,200 residents as neighbors. Of course, plenty has changed since then. While their own household has dwindled to near “empty nester status,” the Stevensons now have nearly 82,000 neighbors who call Fishers home, according to the 2012 census records. The Stevensons, who were drawn to Fishers because of its focus on family, welcome the growth, according to Howard, managing partner of the law firm Coleman Stevenson LLP. “It’s great,” says Howard, “There has been a significant amount of commercial development that’s bringing in more job opportunities. It bolsters the economy even more.” Yet, he says, Fishers still manages to maintain the qualities that drew them to it in the first place. “Fishers is a great place to raise a family,” Howard says. “It has a cohesive community and excellent schools.” These days, Howard and wife, Christa, are instrumental in supporting Fishers’ first-class community status. Howard recently was appointed to the Hamilton Southeastern Board of School Trustees, while Christa is a fourth-grade teacher at 14 Fishers Lifestyle | June 2014

Geist Elementary School. She was the recipient of the Indiana State Teacher Association’s 2013 Minority Educator of the Year Award. As a school board member representing Fall Creek Township, Howard is particularly concerned about doing his part to address two major issues currently facing HSE. One is inadequate funding for HSE schools, which has been an ongoing concern for the school system. “It’s one of the fasted growing in the state and one of the most successful, but it has the second lowest per pupil funding ratio in Indiana,” he notes. “We’re not rewarded for being successful.” Another concern, Howard says, is boosting academic performance among minorities. “It’s not on par with the success of the overall student population.” Roots in law and public service

Howard’s interest in law and public service developed decades ago, as he was growing up in Fort Wayne as one of two sons of Richard and Carol Stevenson. “The seed was planted in me at a young age,” says Howard, re-

calling how his father would pull him aside at about the age of 10 to watch TV networks like C-SPAN, which provides live coverage of proceedings of the U.S. Senate, the U.S. House of Representatives and other public forums. While watching the interactions among senators and congressmen or Supreme Court hearings, Richard Stevenson, a Fort Wayne elected trustee, would ask his young son questions to gauge his understanding of the process. Then, he would invite him to form his own opinions. At the time, Howard wasn’t particularly keen on spending his free time watching C-SPAN. It took a while for it to become an interest, he recalls with a laugh. “At first, I didn’t appreciate it,” he says. “But it was like a fine wine. I increasingly gained an appreciation for how politics and law are intertwined.” By the time he went off to college, Howard’s passion for law was cemented. He attended Indiana University in Bloomington, where he quickly developed another passion after noticing a young woman by the name of Christa Baker. At the time, they were undergoing a Spanish placement test as incoming freshman. As it turns out, Howard received the highest score among the group, while she came in second. “I knew I had to get to know her. She had brains and beauty,”

Howard says with a laugh. After introducing himself, the two became friends and later dated throughout college before marrying 25 years ago on June 17. The couple’s household expanded with the additions of Dominic, who is now attending graduate school in California; Drew, a junior at Indiana University, and Tyler, a freshman at Hamilton Southeastern High School. After earning his Bachelor of Arts degree from Indiana University and his Juris Doctorate degree from Indiana University School of Law in Indianapolis, Howard served in numerous positions. He served as a judicial law clerk on the Indiana Supreme Court, as Section Chief of Office of the Attorney General of Indiana, and as managing attorney for the Indiana Department of Transportation. He then went on to found the law firm Coleman Stevenson LLP, of which he is currently managing partner. His practice is focused on the areas of business law, real estate, civil litigation and municipal finance. In his spare time, Howard enjoys taking in action by the Indianapolis Colts and the Indiana Pacers, while Christa is a voracious reader. He also serves as superintendent of Sunday Schools for Eastern Star Church, which they have attended for more than 20 years.

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Style Wise

The Gift of Good Grooming This Father’s Day, surprise the special dads in your life with a present with long-term benefits Article Shari Finnell | Photos courtesy Macy’s

his Father’s Day, you could show your appreciation for the special man in your life by surprising him with a super powerful power drill, flashy grill tools, a shiny golf club or the gift of uninterrupted time in front of the TV. Of course, those are all great ideas. But what if you could give him a gift that could pay off in a higher salary, a promotion and overall job satisfaction? Now, that’s a gift that really could keep giving. And that gift could be as simple as several crisp shirts, a tie or a shaving kit. According to a survey by Harris Interactive, you could help your special dad achieve professional success by getting him on the road to good grooming. Of 500 human resources professionals polled, 84 percent agreed that well-groomed employees are more likely to climb the corporate ladder faster than their scruffier co-workers. In fact, 90 percent of the HR respondents said being well-groomed is more important than a firm handshake when it comes to first impressions. Being well-groomed also helps boost self-confidence, which further creates an impression, according to business consultant Mark Jeffries. “How you look has a direct impact on how you feel, your confidence and self-esteem. This is as true for guys actively seeking a job as it is for those who are currently employed and seek a competitive advantage,” says Jeffries, who also is the author of

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The Art of Business Seduction: A 30-Day Plan to Get Noticed, Get Promoted and Get Ahead. In this age of the casual work environment, being well groomed doesn’t necessarily mean a man needs to show up in a Gucci suit to stand out from the crowd. “Seemingly small details, like a clean shave or a great-fitting--but not necessarily expensive suit--send important visual cues to others about your professionalism and confidence,” Jeffries explains. By surprising the special fathers in your life with a nice shirt, tie, shaving kit or accessories, you could give him the incentive to step it up a notch with his personal appearance--and, quite possibly, his career aspirations.

Tough Under Pressure Pro Golfer Kristi O’Brien faces the challenges of Golf Channel’s Big Break, and opens up about the experiences that have shaped her positive outlook on life. article Shari Finnell

magine the pressure of playing against 11 of your toughest competitors in a 54-hole golf tournament. Now picture combining all 54 of those holes into one single shot. That’s exactly how it felt for Fishers resident Kristi O’Brien while competing on Golf Channel’s Big Break earlier this season, she says. Can’t picture it because you’re not a golfer? How about if $100,000 in cash and prizes also was on the line because of that one shot? Feel the pressure now? “It’s definitely a crazy feeling,” recalls O’Brien, 23, who lost an Elimination Challenge during the show’s 7th episode of its all-female competition. Although the talented golf player definitely had her share of intense pressure during college tournaments, she said it didn’t fully prepare her for the Big Break experience. “You’d think you’ll be OK,” she says. “But Big Break is totally different. There’s so much pressure on that first shot. I had to 18 Fishers Lifestyle | June 2014

wait over an hour for my turn. When I got there, my whole body started shaking. I couldn’t control it or stop it. I felt totally out of control of my own body. That’s what it felt like on the first day.” Although O’Brien says she became more comfortable as the competition got underway week after week, she never became fully relaxed. “It’s crazy. There is nothing compared to what you would feel on that show,” she says. The experience, which was filmed at Omni Amelia Island Plantation in Orlando in October 2013 and aired this spring, was life-changing, says O’Brien. That type of intense pressure, in which she faced off with 11 other women, sharpened her mentally -- a bonus in tournament play, says O’Brien who announced her professional status nearly two years ago. Turning a hobby into a passion

When O’Brien was a toddler, the sight of a golf club was just as natural to her as a pacifier was to other babies. “I just grew up around the game,” recalls O’Brien, the young-

est of four children born to Tom and Liz O’Brien of Fort Wayne. When she was still in a stroller, her parents carted her around on golf greens while her older brother, 12 years her senior, competed at the high school level. When O’Brien was 5, she started playing too. She played both golf and basketball year-round, traveling to competitions through her years at Bishop Luers High School in her home town. It was during that time that she realized her skills on the golf course were stronger than those on the basketball court. As much as she loved golf, O’Brien says, she honestly doesn’t believe she was committed to taking it to a professional level during her first year attending Indiana University-Purdue University at Indianapolis, where she received an athletic scholarship. Up until that point, she was intense about her game but didn’t see making it to the pro level as a serious consideration. “Maybe I believed it a little … but it was more like something to say,” she says. “I honestly don’t think I really believed it or dreamed about it … until my sophomore year in college.” A TURNING POINT

It was June 2009. O’Brien had just left from visiting her parents in Fort Wayne on a break from college. While driving down Interstate 69 to head back to Indianapolis, she lost control of her car, overcorrecting to the right and then to the left to avoid a car behind her. Her car spun, rolled and then flipped three times. When the paramedics arrived at the scene of the accident, which had totaled her car, they later told her they expected to find a body. While it was happening, O’Brien, too, had thoughts of not knowing if she would live or die. Fortunately, she emerged with only cuts and bruises. She says she will forever remember it as a chance at a second life. “It really made me realize you only have one life to live,” she says. “You can’t live with regrets. You don’t want to do something you don’t love to do. You need to appreciate every day you’re given because you don’t know when it’s going to be your last.” With that newfound perspective, O’Brien poured her energies into golf. She and her husband, Ben Moster, her boyfriend at the time and also a golfer at IUPUI, started practicing as soon as the sun rose. They didn’t put their clubs down until it went down. “That’s all we did together,” she says. “It started becoming a passion.” Colby Huffman, assistant golf coach at IUPUI, also supported O’Brien in her efforts to get back into the game after the car accident. He demonstrated what a great ethic entailed, she says. “I was absolutely devastated from the accident,” she explains. “He really helped me see that getting back on the golf course and doing something I absolutely love was going to help me recover emotionally and physically.” The increased intensity paid off with significant results. In the following years, O’Brien had collected numerous recognitions and victories, including five collegiate victories at IUPUI, 2011 Indiana State Player of the Year, 2011 Indiana Women’s Amateur Champion, two-time winner of the Fort Wayne City Amateur, and lowest career stroke average at IUPUI. These only served to further fuel her dreams. With her husband’s encouragement, she decided to turn professional in December 2012.

Getting to the Big Break

Sometime last year, O’Brien heard about the Big Break, a reality TV golf competition that has been airing since 2003. The winners not only win cash, but the chance to gain exemptions to national golf competitions, like the LPGA. However, O’Brien figured it was too late to audition for an upcoming all-female competition. “I found out the night before,” she recalls. “I would have had to drive at that moment and keep driving the whole day.” She decided not to go through with the trip. A couple of days later, O’Brien received an email inviting her to a private audition for the show. It seemed like a sign, but she still hesitated. “I didn’t have a ton of money to pick up and fly. My husband is so supportive,” she says. “He said, ‘Don’t worry about it. We’ll pay for it out of our savings.’ We went there and I auditioned.” After her acceptance on the show, O’Brien found herself squarely in one of the most unforgettable competitions of her career. “I’ll never forget the experiences we all shared,” she says of the deep bond that developed among the 12 competitors. “No one else can really understand what it was like. It could be very emotionally draining … at times we were crying and other people didn’t understand why. You’re facing 15-hour days, intense competition and you have all this money on the line.” However, the benefits of the TV appearance went beyond deep friendships, name recognition and intense competition. “You have to be mentally strong to believe in yourself,” she says. “And it was great to have a support system. Everybody back home is always telling you, ‘You can do it.” She also credits Big Break for helping her realize that others can benefit from hearing her perspective on life after her tragic accident. “The producers were amazing … it really is like a Big Break family,” she says. Up until then, O’Brien seldom talked about the lessons she learned. “I never preached it to anyone. If it didn’t naturally come up in a conversation, I didn’t talk about it,” she says. “When I auditioned for the show, they asked me deep questions about the accident. It brought up a ton of emotions. They helped me considerably in opening up. “I really know it shaped the person I am today and I embrace it. I want people to know you only have one life to live. You shouldn’t live with regrets by doing something you don’t love. Appreciate every day you’re given; you don’t know when it could be your last. Treat everyone with respect. Live every day, making someone’s day better because you never know when the last time will be when you see them.” For those who want to pursue a professional career in golf, it’s a matter of having a deep passion that will fuel hard work and dedication, O’Brien says. “It’s something you have to work at hard every day. Just believe that those little things, like mastering your swing, will help you achieve your dream,” she adds. “It’s not going to come overnight. It takes years of dedicating yourself to the game. Know that the hard work you’re putting in now will pay off later. You have to believe in that.” June 2014 | Fishers Lifestyle 19

Your Dreams Former IU soccer player Paul “Whitey” Kapsalis inspires others to dream big through his new book. Article Shari Finnell | Photography Dan Kapsalis

he odds were definitely against Paul “Whitey” Kapsalis when he showed up to gain a spot on Indiana University’s varsity soccer team. For starters, he was a freshman. And Coach Jerry Yeagley already had been recruiting from among the nation’s top athletes to build out a formidable team. “I was told numerous times by the head coach that I would never play at the school,” recalls Kapsalis, who now lives

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in Fishers with his wife, Sherri, and their children, Katrina, Nicolette, and Trey. “He liked me and my work ethic … he just didn’t think I was at that level to win a national championship. He said, ‘We just don’t see you playing here.’ He was very kind but just straightforward.” Although that type of feedback could have prompted Kapsalis to see how his skills stacked up at another school, he persisted. He had always dreamed of

wearing that red-and-white jersey. He deflected the coach’s words. “I respected him. I never argued with him. But deep in my heart I didn’t believe him,” he says. “As long as he was willing to keep giving me a chance, I was going to keep coming back and coming back. Until I heard the word no, I ‘heard’ yes. He never truly said, ‘No you must leave.” Through persistence and hard work, Kapsalis not only made the team as a freshman, he would go on to receive an award for mental attitude, a scholarship and, eventually, be appointed to the role of captain of the team. That journey -- one that demonstrates the power of relationships, perseverance and unwavering devotion to a dream -- is captured in Kapsalis’ recently released book, To Chase a Dream: A Soccer Championship, An Unlikely Hero and A Journey That Redefined Winning. He co-authored the book with Ted Gregory. One of the first people to purchase his book was his former coach Jerry Yeagley, who talked about Kapsalis’ role in turning around the team at one of its lowest points. “No one felt the pride of the uniform more than Whitey,” Yeagley told a group at a book signing at Barnes & Noble in Carmel recently. “No one was a better leader in my coaching career than Whitey. I’m very proud of him.” Inspiration for book

During the many years that followed Kapsalis’ soccer career at Indiana University, including a NCAA championship in which he played a significant role, he would recount the story in day-to-day conversations -- as many former athletes do. However, Kapsalis found that many people were encouraging him to do more with that story. “I would hear things like, ‘That’s an incredible journey. You have to write a book,’” he recalls. It was a suggestion he kept in the back of his mind until he was called upon to do a favor for St. Louis de Montfort School, the local school his children attended. The athletic director told Kapsalis that the speaker for the athletic banquet had suddenly canceled for the event. A replacement was needed immediately. “I asked him what he wanted me to talk about,” says Kapsalis. “He said ‘Just say something to inspire them.’” It would mark the first time Kapsalis told his story to

a larger audience, in this case a group of more than 100 eighth grade students and parents. He was surprised by their reaction. “The response was overwhelming. I received a standing ovation,” he says. “People were coming over to me to shake my hand … and about every fourth person said, ‘You ought to write a book.’” Kapsalis decided to stop ignoring the advice. “I thought, ‘Maybe it can help people.’ That’s what ignited the fire.” Lessons to be learned

One of Kapsalis’ desires is to pass on invaluable lessons about developing a dream and then pursuing that dream. He especially wants to convey the importance of embracing relationships along the way, believing in yourself and chasing your dreams with perseverance. “There are different times in your life when you’re at a crossroads, determining whether you continue on or if you quit,” he says. “There were certain people in my life that helped me keep going. “It’s not about winning at all costs. It’s about winning in a way that’s inclusive; that you share with others along the way.” Kapsalis also has a lesson about conquering fear. He believes many people don’t try lofty goals because they are afraid to fail. “When you’re vulnerable and transparent, you truly give yourself the ability to dream. When you want something bad enough and believe in it, the fear of failure never enters the equation,” he says. “I was never afraid of not making it. I was more concerned about what would happen if I hadn’t taken this chance. I didn’t want to wake up 30 years later, wondering, what if ?” Now that his book has been released, Kapsalis, who is in sales and volunteers as a coach for the Fishers Soccer Club, is further expanding his message through motivational speaking. “More than anything, I want to inspire kids to believe in themselves … to be vulnerable enough to pursue something,” he says. “I inspire them to open their hearts and minds to what a great feeling it can be to accomplish your dreams and bring people along with you.” To Chase a Dream: A Soccer Championship, An Unlikely Hero and A Journey That Redefined Winning is available at Amazon.com and at local Barnes & Noble bookstores. If you’re interested in booking Kapsalis as a motivational speaker, contact him at whiteyiu14@gmail.

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f your life seems to be turning into a blur of meetings, carpooling, grocery runs, errands and work, it may be time to consider transforming a part of your home into a space you truly can call a sanctuary. Whether it’s a small corner, an enclosed porch, a basement or an outdoor area, a space that is designed to help you recharge can have significant benefits, according to Donna Marino, a Decorating Den consultant in Fishers. Areas that feature the outdoors can be especially soothing, says Marino who has helped many clients by designing personal retreats. “Home is that place where we should be able to escape the stresses of our days … sporting activities, recitals and work,” Marino says. “By incorporating the beauty of the nature and outdoors, you can have a place where you can recharge, refresh and renew … setting off all the distractions of the day. It allows you to metaphorically close that door.” When it comes to creating your own space, your objectives will define the final results, Marino says. Some people may want to have a place in which they can be surrounded by music, allowing them to relax with a glass of wine. Others may simply want a reading nook with the sounds of a water fountain nearby. In one case, Marino transformed part of a client’s basement into a spiritual retreat, a place for her to express her Catholic faith. The room featured a pew, a small altar, crosses, a small

writing desk and special lighting to allow for a meditative atmosphere. “We created a space where she could go and actually worship,” Marino says. One of the most important steps in developing a retreat or a design project is taking the time to reflect on your lifestyle and goals, says Marino, who asks her clients a series of questions to get at the root of their needs. “The process is about unfolding what they hope to accomplish, as far as their experiences,” she says. “Some people want to go for an informal atmosphere, while others want something more formal. Others like vast and large, while some prefer cozy and warm. It’s all about their lifestyles.” Another consideration is the client’s investment, as Marino calls. “I prefer to say investment instead of budget because when you’re recreating a space, it truly becomes a financial investment. You’re adding value.” For example, if an outdoor project involves structural additions, such as an entertaining space, it visually adds square footage, she says. “It can definitely add to the value of the home,” Marino says. “Remember to create a space that is perfect for you and your needs,” Marino adds. “It will be a space where memories will be made. It’s an important investment--both financially and emotionally.” continued >

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alk about commitment. It’s been nearly 40 years since Donna Allen, Maurine Anderson and LaVonne Amstutz answered a call to volunteer for the newly founded Meals on Wheels of Hamilton County. Mary Bray, who founded the local chapter of the not-for-profit organization, has been relying on their dedicated service ever since. That was 1975. To this day, the three women continue to drive throughout the county to deliver hot meals to senior citizens and others who otherwise may not have access to nutritious food. “There are people on my route who sit in their chairs the whole day,” says Anderson, whose husband, Bob, has been joining her in her runs. “Maybe some of them go to the table to eat, but I know that many of them just stay in their chairs.” “Some of these people have no family here,” Anderson adds. “Physically, some can’t grocery shop or cook. Financially, some can’t afford cooking. Meals on Wheels gives them one hot meal and a dinner every weekday.” This type of dedicated volunteerism is what keeps Meals on Wheels of Hamilton County successful, says Beth Gehlhausen, executive director. She is one of three paid staff members for the organization. Otherwise, MoWHC depends upon the generosity of the community to serve about 200 people. About 60 percent of the recipients pay for the service, which amounts to $35 for a week of daily meals. Donations are relied upon to cover the costs of the other meals. MoWHC is hosting an event this month to help raise funds. The Strike Out Hunger Bowl-a-thon takes place from 2 -4:30 p.m. June 29 at Cooper’s Stardust Bowl. Supports are encouraged to form a team, donate a door prize or become a sponsor. For more information, call Meals on Wheels of Hamilton County at 317.776.7159.

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Lifestyle Calendar

June JUNE 3-JULY 15 SUMMER CONCERT SERIES NICKEL PLATE DISTRICT

Enjoy incredible music from local talent every Tuesday night during the Fishers Summer Concert Series. Head to the Nickel Plate District Amphitheater to see bands like Midnight Special, Blue River Band and Dave and Rae all summer long. The free shows are from 7 p.m.-9 p.m. Families are encouraged to pack their favorite snacks and arrive early to secure their seats. The line-up this month includes Soul Street on June 3; Midnight Special on June 10; Endless Summer Band on June 17; and BBI on June 24. For more information, call 317.595.3150.

JUNE 8 PLANT SALE & TOPIARY PRESENTATION NICKEL PLATE DISTRICT AMPHITHEATER

Shop for a wide variety of plants during this green extravaganza at the Nickel Plate District Amphitheater. You’ll find a plants to enhance your home, food trucks to satisfy your appetite, and a topiary trimming competition that will entertain you. The plant sale is 11 a.m.-5 p.m. June 8. Make sure you see a pro at work by stopping by the presentation by Pearl Fryar, an internationally acclaimed topiarist. Fryar will talk about his philosophical approach to his hobby as well as his life.

JUNE 7 FISHERS FARMERS MARKET NICKEL PLATE DISTRICT AMPHITHEATER

Take your pick from among fresh produce, baked goods, meats, honey and other delectable items during the Fishers Farmers Market, located on the grounds of the Town’s Nickel Plate District. More than 38 vendors are expected to be on hand for the 2,500 residents who regularly attend the event on Saturdays, from 8 a.m. to noon. Local entertainment also is part of the weekly Saturday event. Log on to Fishers.in.us for more information.

JUNE 7 Tim McGraw in Concert Klipsch Music Center

Powerhouse country singer Tim McGraw takes the stage June 7 at the Klipsch Music Center in Noblesvlle. The Sundown Heaven Town Tour 2014 also includes performances by Kip Moore and Cassadee Pope. The concert gets underway at 7 p.m. Ticket prices range from $30 to $90. Log on www.LiveNation.com for more information.

JUNE 11 HUEY LEWIS & THE NEWS The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts

JUNE 7 FISHERS STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL BILLERICAY PARK

How do you like your strawberries? How about atop delicious shortcake along with vanilla ice cream and whipped cream? If you’re like most Fishers residents, you don’t want to miss out on the Fishers Strawberry Festival which takes place 10 a.m.-3 p.m. on June 7. The festival also includes live music and various activities for the kids, including face painting, crazy balloons and clown tricks. 30 Fishers Lifestyle | June 2014

Huey Lewis & The News are still rocking after their 35th year of playing together, and they bring their classic hits to The Palladium at the Center for the Performing Arts in Carmel on June 11. Listen to some of their greatest hits like “Stuck With You” and “If This Is It.” The concert is at 7:30 p.m. Ticket prices vary. Go to TheCenterForThePerformingArts.org for more information and for tickets.

JUNE 13 BACKSTREET BOYS AND AVRIL LAVIGNE KLIPSCH MUSIC CENTER

The Backstreet Boys are back by popular demand. The group has extended it’s a World Like This U.S. tour, which is coming to the Klipsch Music Center in Noblesville 7:30 p.m.. The tour includes

a performance by Avril Lavigne. Ticket prices vary. Log on Livenation.com for more information and for tickets, which range in price from $30 to $175.

JUNE 14-15 CURIOSITY FAIR Conner Prairie Interactive History Park

Invite your children to explore the world around them during the Curiosity Fair, presented by Dow AgroSciences, on June 14 and 15 at Conner Prairie. As part of the interactive exhibit, children will be able to delve into mysteries like, “Why are bees yellow and black?” and “How does light move?” The exhibit, which is from 10 a.m.-5 p.m., is included with paid general mission to the history park. Log on ConnerPrairie. org for more information.

JUNE 20-21 DAVE MATTHEWS BAND KLIPSCH MUSIC CENTER

Enjoy a “Very Special Evening with Dave Matthews Band” on June 20-21 when the music group comes to the Klipsch Music Center in Noblesville. The band will include a mix of configurations, including electric and acoustic. The concert gets underway at 7 p.m. Log on LiveNation.com for tickets and more information.

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Fireworks, live music, a 5K competition, a climbing wall, a zipline and food booths are just a few of the activities and attractions that will keep you entertained during the 26th Fishers Freedom Festival June 28-29 at the Roy G. Holland Memorial Park. The festival kicks off June 28 at 6:15 a.m. with a 5K event registration, which takes off at 8 a.m. The event is free. For more information, log on FishersFreedomFestival.org.

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The Indianapolis Symphony launches its 33rd annual Marsh Symphony on the Prairie season, with a performance of Gershwin’s Rhapsody in Blue. David Glover is Conductor and Eric Zuber is on the Piano. The 11-weekend series continues throughout the summer on weekends. The concert begins at 8 p.m. each night. Log on IndianapolisSymphony. org for more information and tickets.

JUNE 27-28 GREGORY HANCOCK DANCE THEATER CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS

The legendary Gregory Hancock Dance Theater present an original operatic ballet based on the life of Mexican artist, Frida Kahlo. The world premiere event, La Casa Azul, is at Carmel’s Center for the Performing Arts June 27 and 28 at 7 p.m.. The production features original music, lyrics, choreography, costumes, and direction by Gregory Hancock, lyrics by Kate Ayers, orchestration by Nicholas Cline, and lighting design by Ryan Koharchik. Go to TheCenterForThePerformingArts.org for more information and for tickets.

JUNE 29 STRIKE OUT HUNGER BOWL-A-THON COOPER’S STARDUST BOWL

Whether you form a team and get in on the action or simply show up to provide a donation, the “Strike Out Hunger Bowl-A-Thon will be a fun way to support a good cause. The event, presented by Community Surgery Center, gets underway from 2 p.m.-4:30 p.m. June 29 at Cooper’s Stardust Bowl, 845 Westfield Road, Noblesville. Proceeds benefit Meals on Wheels of Hamilton County. Call 317.776.7159 for more information.

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