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Nestled in the heart of Hillsborough, our expansive 8,000+ sq. ft. outdoor courtyard is a paradise for dogs. Covered with advanced artificial turf, meticulously disinfected, and maintained to the highest standards, this play area offers a clean and safe haven for your pets. The advantages of outdoor play for dogs go beyond physical exercise. Our outdoor yards offer a multitude of emotional and behavioral benefits that contribute to your pet’s overall well-being, including:
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• Increasing Mental Energy: Outdoor play stimulates your dog’s mind, keeping them mentally engaged and alert.
• Decreasing Separation Anxiety: Regular outdoor playtime can help reduce separation anxiety, making transitions smoother for both you and your pet.
• Diminishing Destructive Behavior: Dogs that enjoy ample outdoor play are less likely to exhibit destructive behaviors like chewing and digging.
• Reducing Stress and Depression: Fresh air and socialization with other dogs can significantly reduce stress and alleviate feelings of loneliness or depression.
• Building Confidence: Outdoor play and social interactions can boost your dog’s confidence, making them more comfortable in different situations.
• Lowering Digestive Issues: Regular exercise can aid in maintaining a healthy digestive system, preventing issues like constipation.
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Holiday Happiness: Love, Laughter, and Family Celebrations!
Dear Readers,
With the holidays on the horizon, I can’t help but reminisce about the enchanting moments of my childhood, especially the delightful scent of homemade cookies wafting through the air, which always takes me back to simpler times. It's interesting how we try to recreate that magic for our families, whether by hanging twinkling lights or watching heart warming holiday movies that evoke a nostalgic tear.
Our family has a special tradition that sets us apart from the typical holiday rush. Each Christmas Eve, we make our way to Blue Sheep Bake Shop in Somerville for a scoop of ice cream—yes, ice cream, regardless of the winter chill! This sweet ritual began when my daughters insisted on a treat before the big day, and I couldn’t resist indulging them. It’s become a beloved part of our holiday celebrations.
Now, I must share a little secret: I’m not a fan of decorating the Christmas tree. There, I said it! It often feels like a never-ending struggle with tangled lights and ornaments that seem to have minds of their own. Who really wants to debate the placement of that glittery reindeer ornament from the 1980s? By the time we're done, I can't tell if our tree is a festive display or an abstract art piece. If I had my way, I’d just throw a bow on it and call it a day!
This month, we’re thrilled to spotlight the season's magic right here in the Somerset Hills. Be sure to check out our gift guide on page 32, featuring local gems to simplify your holiday shopping while supporting our dedicated small businesses. Plus, our Events listing on page 54 is filled with activities that promise joy for the entire family.
While this season can be beautiful, it can also be tough for many—especially for those missing a loved one. Let’s remember to open our hearts to those in need, embracing the true spirit of the holidays with grace, empathy, and kindness.
Wishing you all love, laughter, and a touch of holiday magic!
Warmest wishes,
December 2024
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September into October has been quite remarkable for the housing market. Here’s the recap:
When the Fed dropped its rate 50 basis points on September18th, conventional mortgage rates hovered in the high fives/low sixes Fast forward to press time, October 21st The strong jobs market and solid retail sales resulted in the rates climbing back into the sixes, averaging 6 8% almost without warning New loan products are entering the market that reassure both buyers and sellers and strengthen buyer positions. Next issue we will be post election!
Bernards Twp , aka Basking Ridge, is still the fourth “hottest” zip code in the entire US as noted by Realtor com Couple this with the lack of available homes and our market remains very strong!
While the shortage of available homes has kept our local market robust, buyers are shifting their expectations and first impressions We can help you maximize your ROI and stand out among your peers based upon these trends Finally, sellers should avoid “aspirational pricing” and instead price their homes realistically to attract the greatest number of buyers. The chart below supports this: homes priced well saw sales at or above asking, while those priced above market remain unsold We can tailor a custom analysis to help you make the right decision
Please call if you'd like to discuss how this market affects the value of your home, the latest real estate values in your immediate area, and tips for moving, even if not this year!
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1-2: An inspiring evening at the Hope Gala, featuring awards, performances, and support for educational programs. 3-4: Celebrating a historic achievement: Saint James School is now a National Blue Ribbon School! 5: Mary Jane Canose and Al Ribeiro welcomed the President of Paraguay, Santiago Pena, to Bernardsville. 6: Bernards High School celebrated a fantastic fall season filled with achievements and team spirit. 7: Heartworks Founder Megan McDowell and Jessica Walker of J.Walker Salon attend fundraiser. @SJSCHOOL
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SAINT JAMES SCHOOL
Celebrating Excellence in Education and Commitment to Student Success
ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS PHOTOGRAPHY BY SAINT JAMES SCHOOL
Saint James School in Basking Ridge has been recognized as a 2024 National Blue Ribbon School, one of 356 schools honored nationwide by U.S. Secretary of Education Miguel Cardona. This prestigious designation acknowledges schools that excel in academic performance or make significant strides in closing achievement gaps.
"The National Blue Ribbon Schools Award showcases the exceptional achievements of students and educators," Cardona states. "These schools serve as models for effective teaching and collaboration, inspiring our commitment to education."
The 2024 cohort reflects the diversity of American education, with schools demonstrating strong leadership and data-driven practices. Principal Sue Florendo proudly notes, "Since 1965, Saint James has provided exemplary, Christ-centered education. This Blue Ribbon Award honors the commitment of our students, faculty, and community."
Monsignor Sylvester Cronin echoes her sentiments, expressing gratitude to the school family. "This Blue Ribbon signifies not only academic excellence but also the profound impact of our Catholic faith on education."
Saint James School exemplifies a nurturing environment that fosters achievement. The rigorous application process highlighted its culture, instructional methods, and community involvement, underscoring its dedication to excellence.
The National Blue Ribbon Schools award flag symbolizes exceptional teaching and learning, inspiring educators across the nation. For more information on the 2024 awardees, visit nationalblueribbonschools.ed.gov/.
Saint James School
ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS | PHOTOGRAPHY BY DONNA GIOIA VOLPE
Pendry Natirar Unveils
Revitalized Ninety Acres
A New Era of Luxury, Sustainability, and Farm-to-Table Dining
Pendry Natirar has officially unveiled the revitalized Ninety Acres restaurant, marking a significant milestone in the resort’s grand reopening. Situated amidst the picturesque hills of Somerset County, Pendry Natirar is set to offer an unparalleled blend of luxury, sustainability, and culinary excellence as it opens its doors this fall.
The resort, once a historic estate, has been transformed into a sophisticated haven that harmonizes modern amenities with its rich heritage. At the heart of this transformation is Ninety Acres, now reimagined as a premier farm-to-table dining destination. This relaunch not only highlights the resort's commitment to sustainable practices but also introduces a new era of refined elegance and innovative gastronomy.
Designed by the internationally acclaimed DesignAgency, the updated interiors of Ninety Acres seamlessly blend rustic charm with contemporary sophistication. The design elements, including a travertine fireplace and a lush botanical installation, create an inviting atmosphere that complements the expansive dining space. The use of warm oranges and deep greens in the décor reflects the natural beauty of the surrounding landscape, enhancing the overall dining experience.
Ninety Acres is a cornerstone of Pendry Natirar’s farm-to-table philosophy, with Chef Peter committed to sourcing fresh ingredients from the resort’s 10-acre farm. The menu celebrates seasonal produce and local purveyors, offering guests a taste of the region's bounty. Signature
dishes such as the Poached Maine Lobster with squid ink Gemelli pasta and the Grilled Prime NY Strip highlight the resort’s commitment to culinary excellence and innovation.
As part of the broader Pendry Natirar experience, guests can look forward to a range of luxurious amenities and activities. The resort features opulent accommodations, including elegantly designed guest rooms and suites that offer stunning views of the surrounding countryside. Guests can indulge in a variety of
recreational options, including a worldclass spa, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and curated wellness programs designed to rejuvenate both body and mind.
The resort’s commitment to sustainability extends beyond the restaurant. The Farm at Natirar invites visitors to engage with nature through educational programs on organic farming, seasonal harvest workshops, and hands-on experiences like pick-your-own produce and honeybee tastings. These initiatives reflect Pendry Natirar’s dedication to environmental stewardship and provide guests with a deeper connection to the land.
The Cooking School at Ninety Acres offers an exciting lineup of classes and programs, from children’s summer camps to private chef collaborations. This educational component enriches the guest experience by providing opportunities for culinary learning and hands-on participation.
Pendry Natirar is not just a destination but a journey into the heart of Somerset County’s natural beauty and culinary richness.
For more information on reservations, dining, or to explore the resort’s offerings, visit www.ninetyacres.com , or www. pendry.com/natirar/dining. Stay updated on their social media via @pendrynatirar and @ninetyacres.
Chef Peter
ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI | PHOTOGRAPHY BY DONNA GIOIA VOLPE
TRANSFORMING SNEAKERS INTO ART
KICKING IT UP A NOTCH!
Jerome Stukes
Nice kicks!
This is exactly the reaction that Jerome Stukes relishes. While some artists paint on canvas, Stukes transforms sneakers and athletic shoes into wearable art. And in doing so, he brings a
“SOMETIMES,
clients such as New Kids on the Block, Donnie Wahlberg, Wu-Tang Clan, Naughty by Nature and members of the Jets football team.
Stukes shares the Major Gallery storefront with Nick Baer, where they
CUSTOMERS TELL
ME TO DO WHAT I WANT TO, AND THAT’S WHEN I HAVE FUN AND GET A LITTLE FUNKY.”
- JEROME STUKES
spring into the steps of schoolchildren, athletes and celebrities alike.
Stukes, who has a degree in visual communications and is a long-time sneaker fan, happened upon his chosen artform in 2010 when he discovered leather paint while looking to jazz up a pair of retro sneakers. When the sneakers started to crack and crease through wearing, he did more research on how to prep leather to keep the designs sharp. And then, he continued to experiment.
Around 2014, Stukes started to post his designs online. “It blew up like crazy,” he says.
Today, through his company, SBD Kustoms in Bound Brook, Stukes is now creating custom designs for
sell retail shoes and clothing as well as custom sneakers and shirts by Stukes.
“Customers can get a name-brand outfit or customize an outfit,” Stukes says. “Since it’s football season, people are getting their team on their shoes. I make it as unique as possible, using stencils for background effects, so you’re not just getting the logo.”
With the holidays approaching, Stukes’ artistry offers creative ideas for gift-giving. He works with customers to create a design that represents them. “I tell them, ‘I’m your muse. Just throw your idea at me, and I’ll tell you if it works,’” he says. “Sometimes, customers tell me to do what I want to, and that’s when I have fun and get a little funky.”
Each shoe — especially sports shoes like cleats — has a scratch proof finish for durability. Stukes recommends keeping the shoes clean by wiping them down gently with a cloth and not using anything harsh that could scrape the design. However, with wear, shoe creases or rubbing will happen, he says. And when it does, he offers a service to clean and refresh the worn designs. “However, I know people who brought shoes from me five years ago and they still look like the day they got them because they take care of them,” he says.
Want a unique sneaker inspiration? Stukes has you covered: Check out his portfolio of designs on his Instagram page or on his computer in the store.
In addition to offering custom work, Stukes also hosts classes in shoe and fabric dying, shoe cleaning and sneaker art classes for beginners and advanced students — another creative gift idea.
Giving back to the community is important to Stukes, who lives in Bound Brook with his fiancé Desiree and daughters Mila and Maris. Whether it’s offering giveaways for kids and or tabling at street fairs, Stukes is very present in the community. “At the fairs, I airbrush a silhouette of a black-and-white sneaker on a canvas and give kids paint markers to color the shoes. Then, they can take the canvas home,” he says.
Recently, Stukes taught a sneaker painting class for 50 children at the Martin Luther King Center in Bridgewater. “That was really fun.
Jerome Stukes and his family
When I do a group class like that, I start off with a galaxy design, because it’s pretty easy — there is no way that you could mess it up. They paint a background of purple, blue and pink and then we shave it off with some black at the end. Then we put white paint on a toothbrush and flick on the star effect. And I use a star spray,” he says.
The sneakers he works on do not have to be expensive Nikes or Air Jordans, either. “Leather sneakers bought at Walmart work just as well,” he says. Prices for his designs vary, but most custom works range from $150 to $200 or more, depending on customizations, such as add-on options like Louis Vuitton fabrics.
Stukes, who grew up in area towns, but primarily in Somerville, attributes his love of giving back to the community to his late father, David Stukes, who was well-known and much beloved for his philanthropy. “My father worked at the food banks, the food drives, Thanksgiving dinners at the PeopleCare Center in Bridgewater and other area organizations — and brought me with him. Somerville even named a street after my father to honor him for his community efforts,” he says. “This is naturally inside me, and I especially have a soft spot for kids.”
The “SBD” in the company name honors his community-minded father: Shoes by David. “My father’s spirit is helping me paint the shoes,” Stukes says.
Check out Jerome Stukes’ designs at @SBDkustoms on Instagram and at www.MajorGallery.Store
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Jerome Stukes at his studio
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GIFT Somerset Hills GUIDE
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J.WALKER SALON GROUP: HOLIDAY HAIR CARE
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2. Mineral Sunscreen
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LAURA CLARE FLORAL DESIGN & EVENT DECOR: ELEVATE YOUR HOLIDAYS
4. Floral Classes: Give the gift of creativity with Laura Clare’s engaging Floral Classes.
5. Floral Concierge Subscriptions: Delight your loved ones with the gift of vibrant, fresh flowers delivered right to their door.
OLCOTT SQUARED: GIFTS FOR THE TRENDSETTER IN YOUR LIFE
1. Home for the Holiday Sweater: your perfect companion for festive gatherings.
2. Lauren Bell Sleeve top and Lauren Pant: This Stylish Duo is Perfect for any occasion.
3. Commando Ballet One Size Bodysuit: perfect for a stocking stuffer.
SIMMS JEWELERS: THE PERFECT GIFT FOR MOM
1. Expandable 18k yellow gold and 7.14cttw diamond ring.
2. Petite 14k white gold and diamond earrings and necklace.
3. Stack of 18k gold and diamond/ gemstone bracelets.
4. Sparkling "Limitless" platinum hoop earrings.
THE REBECCA COLLECTION: GIFTS FOR EVERYONE
5. Kashwere Throws: Plush blankets perfect for cozying up or enhancing your home decor.
6. Cashmere Wraps & Ponchos: Elevate any outfit with super soft cashmere wraps and ponchos.
7. Lola Jewelry: Lola Jewelry’s customizable charm bar, perfect for adding a unique sparkle.
8. Insulated Travel Thermos: Ideal for outdoor enthusiasts, the Insulated Traveler Toasting Thermos holds 36 oz of your favorite beverage.
9. Kids Fuzzy Pajama Pants: Available in both girls’ and boys’ styles.
10. Cordless Lamps: These lamps are powered on by touch, charged by a USB, and can be on for 9 hours at a time.
40 OAK BOUTIQUE: STYLISH ESSENTIALS
11. Signature Bobbi Crossbody Nylon Bag: Stylish nylon bag available in four colors.
12. Essential Lounge Sets: Comfortable and versatile outfits for relaxed living.
13. Kara Chain Mini Wallet: Compact wallet with stylish chain for convenience.
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REINVENTING THE SALTBOX
ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS | PHOTOGRAPHY BY RICH SILIVANCH, MICHAEL LAGO
A Dream Home Transformation in Bernardsville
As the leaves begin to turn and the air gets crisper, many of us find ourselves dreaming of cozy spaces and festive gatherings. This season, we turn our spotlight on a remarkable renovation that not only enhances functionality but also showcases the charm of a beloved home. J2 Design Studio, led by owner Denise Jones, took on the challenge of transforming a classic saltbox house in Bernardsville, for homeowners Claudia and Steve Dey.
MASTER PLANNING FOR SPACE, FUNCTION AND STYLE
The homeowner longed for her home to be a more welcoming and relaxing retreat, now that their adult children were on their own. J2 Design Studio was charged with the task of finding space in a historic saltbox house where, inherently, there was little to be found. With the collaborative expertise employed by Denise, her husband, architect Patrick M. Jones, AIA, and the building contractor, opportunities were found to maximize the building lot coverage and creatively find the desired solution. The existing two car garage was rebuilt as a two story structure, maximizing their lot and afforded space for a new master bedroom and bath suite on the new second floor,
Hallway Bathroom
as well as the new mudroom, laundry and butler’s pantry below. A rear addition provided a warm and inviting breakfast area which expanded the kitchen, looking out over their beautiful and personally curated gardens. “We wanted our home to reflect our personalities and the quality of life we cherish,” Steve shared. After completing their project, gatherings are more frequent and their family can’t imagine calling anyplace else home.
Jones emphasized the importance of collaboration in the master planning and design process. “Not a day goes by without us appreciating and enjoying how you blended our existing house with the new,” Claudia noted, highlighting the seamless integration of the additions with the original structure.
FROM DREAM TO CONCEPT, CONCEPT TO REALITY
The scope of the project revolved around correcting circulation issues and functional challenges. Studying, stretching and pulling ideas that would conform to the current lot but would eloquently resolve all issues is what J2 Design Studio inherently does. We rise to the challenge and find solutions even when all hope is nearly lost. The J2 team focused on both architectural integration and interior design, ensuring that the home felt cohesive and reflective of the Deys’ style.
“The best solutions are born out of listening closely and collaborating openly with the homeowner and a talented team of professionals,” Jones explained. In this instance, custom solutions solved many challenges whether it be functional improvements or the seamless transition from existing to new construction. The homeowner’s vision, team expertise and our pre-construction process planning is what separates us apart from decorative designers.
COHESIVE AND TIMELESS
Moving through common, quiet, utility and outdoor spaces effortlessly flows, one space to the next. For example, the coffered ceiling in the breakfast area cleverly conceals height transitions, more uniform flooring, unifies and expands space, “We strive to carve out charm and functionality in every detail,” Jones said.
The result is a home that beautifully marries tradition with modern living, allowing the family to showcase their colorful art collections and enjoy views of their lush gardens.
Living Room
Master Bedroom
A TESTAMENT TO TEAMWORK
A homeowner’s instinct is to first call a contractor to solve their home woes. Oftentimes it becomes clear additional expertise and guidance is needed. In this instance, the relationship between the contractor and J2 Design Studio proved to be the key to success. The vision became clear and a cohesive team was realized. “It’s crucial to find the right team that understands the clients’ vision and can execute it with precision.”
A HOME FOR ALL SEASONS
As the Deys prepare to welcome friends and family into their newly transformed space this holiday season, they reflect on the journey. “We couldn’t be happier, especially when we share the space with our friends and relatives,” Claudia expressed.
Their home is not just a collection of spaces; rather it’s a canvas that tells their family story—a beautiful blend of function, comfort, and style. This holiday season, as they gather around their new kitchen, it’s clear that the Deys and J2 Design Studio have created a retreat that embodies their easy going lifestyle and new found love for entertaining.
The Dey family's newly designed saltbox house stands as a testament to the magic of thoughtful design and the art of re-imagination. As Denise Jones put it, “It’s all about creating a space where people feel at home, and we achieved that beautifully.”
This holiday, let us celebrate the joy of home—whether through renovation, gathering with loved ones, or simply appreciating the spaces that bring us together.
For more information visit www.j2designstudio.com .
Living Room
Denise Jones Checking out her Design Work
Making Spirits
JOIN OUR MISSION TO SPREAD WARMTH AND COMPASSION BY NOMINATING SOMEONE WHO DESERVES A CHRISTMAS BLESSING
“We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way.”
As the Christmas season approaches, we’re reminded of the power of community and kindness. This year, through City Lifestyle’s nonprofit, The Kingdom Building Foundation, we will help people who may be struggling quietly without the support they need. But we need your help to find them.
Over the past three years, this campaign has grown into something truly beautiful, touching the lives of more than 150 families nationwide last year alone. Each year, we’ve seen firsthand how generosity can bring relief, hope, and a renewed sense of faith in others.
One person we had the opportunity to help was an 11-year-old boy diagnosed with a rare eye cancer. After he had to undergo chemotherapy and surgery to remove his eye, his doctors recommended a prosthetic one, but insurance wouldn’t cover the cost, calling it “cosmetic.” When we heard his story, we knew we had to help. Because of this campaign, he got his prosthetic eye and a piece of his childhood back with it.
Another was a wife and mother of two who fought a yearlong health battle and was diagnosed with a brain tumor. Just days before Christmas, she underwent surgery but passed away due to complications. Before her surgery, she received one of our cards and, in tears, told us this gift gave her some peace, knowing her family would have help in the difficult times ahead. It wasn’t just about the financial support but knowing that someone cared.
These stories remind us why this campaign is so meaningful. It’s not just
about writing checks; it’s about telling people they aren’t forgotten and that someone is there to lend a hand. It’s about giving families a moment of relief when the world feels unbearable.
“We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “This Giving Campaign is about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them this holiday season.”
Together with Matthew Perry, President, Steven adds that the gratitude from recipients was overwhelming, affirming this tradition’s importance. “We believe God has blessed our company with success,” Matthew adds, “so we want to be a blessing to others.”
We know many more people could use a little help this Christmas, and that’s where you come in. Do you know someone who could use a blessing? We want to hear about them.
To nominate someone, scan the QR code or follow @CityLifestyle on Instagram, where you’ll find the form in our bio. Nominations are open from November 27 to December 10, 2024. Let’s bring hope to those who need it most.
The City Lifestyle Giving Campaign is completely confidential. No identities will be revealed or publicized. All entries will be read, and selections and the amount given to each recipient will be based on the severity of the need. For more information, visit KingdomBuildingFoundation.com
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ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI PHOTOGRAPHY BY LYONS & ASSOCIATES
My Sister, Somewhere
Two sisters separated as children in Japan were reunited after seven decades by a dedicated team at Lyons & Associates.
Terry Jones searched for decades — and the world over — for a precious part of her life that she worried would be lost to time. At 76, Jones feared she would never know what happened to her younger sister, Masami Grey, who she last saw in a Japanese orphanage.
Their mother had abandoned the girls when they were four and one in an Osaka park in the 1940s. When Jones was adopted by an American military family, she lost touch with Grey. Thoughts of her sister and where she might be continued to haunt her as she raised her own children on American soil in Georgia.
Jones’ knowledge of Grey was limited: She knew their mother was Japanese and that their father was an African American soldier.
About 15 years ago, Jones began earnestly looking for Grey, armed with the only clues she had: her adoption documents written in Japanese. A breakthrough came in October 2022 when her daughter who worked for an airline bought her a ticket to travel to Japan for her birthday with the hopes she could further track her roots — kicking off an international investigation that brought Jones closer, then closer to solving the mystery of what became of her sister.
At her hotel in Japan, Jones enlisted the staff’s help in locating the government office where family records are kept, which still had the sisters’ adoption records, including the surname of the U.S. family that adopted Masami — Grey.
Her financial resources limited, Jones and her adult children set to work, scouring the internet for more leads until they located Grey's adoptive brother. Now in his 70s, he had enlisted in the military when he was 18 and lost touch with Grey but told Jones that she was disabled and was moved into a residential placement in New Jersey where they had lived all along.
More research yielded that Grey, 72, had been living in a care facility in Somerset County for close to a decade as a ward of the state. Jones connected with Grey's appointed guardian and began flying regularly from Georgia to New Jersey to visit her sister, who is non-verbal, deaf and required care.
Then Jones learned a heartbreaking fact from the staff: She was the first family member to visit her sister since she moved in.
She began calling attorneys to help her obtain guardianship of Grey and allow her to move her sister to Georgia — but the firms would either not take her case or quoted her fees she could not afford.
Then, in November 2023, Joanna Adu, a partner at Lyons & Associates in Somerville, who specializes in guardianship cases, picked up Jones’ call, changing the sisters’ lives forever.
Initially, Adu, too, quoted Jones as a retainer. “I knew this would not be a standard guardianship process, and I wasn’t sure how much time it would take. We did not know whether Grey's guardianship was in Somerset County or elsewhere, because we didn’t know where she lived previously,” Adu says. “And I could not identify a docket or court number since guardianships are presumptively confidential.”
But Jones, unsure if she could afford the retainer, asked for time to decide.
That night, Adu, a parent of a teenager with autism, couldn’t stop thinking about the sisters. “It was such a compelling story, and I felt I could definitely help. There were so many connections we shared: I also am African American and Japanese and have a family member with a disability. I understand how expensive it would have been for Terry to get guardianship of her sister. Adding to that, caring for her sister for the rest of her life would be a financial endeavor in and of itself,” she says.
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Sisters Reunited at Last!
Masami Grey
“It was wonderful to see someone who was a ward of the state — forgotten for decades — being taken in and loved by a family who gives her the attention that she deserves.” - Joanna Adu
Adu decided she would help Jones navigate the legal process of transferring Grey’s guardianship from the state to her as well as to obtain court approval for her to relocate her sister to Georgia — at no cost to Jones. “I called Terry and told her I was going to take on her case pro bono, and she burst into tears,” Adu says.
The work was painstaking. Adu investigated how to structure the application, gathering proof to make a case for the court to grant Jones guardianship. The firm rallied around the cause, with associates and paralegals contributing their skills — including an associate’s friend who was a native Japanese speaker who volunteered to translate the adoption documents for the court
“It was really a Herculean effort on the part of the team,” says managing partner Terry Lyons. “It was spectacular.”
After the court accepted the application, the judge appointed an attorney to do due diligence to determine why Jones wanted guardianship. “The attorney met Masami at the facility and asked Terry to fly to New Jersey so he could see the dynamics between the sisters,” Adu says. “After the meeting, he called me and told me how moved he was by their relationship. He confirmed that Grey knew who Terry was and that although she liked where she was living, she wanted to live with her sister in Georgia.”
The hearing was held in June 2024, during which the attorney explained the basis for his support of granting Jones’ application for guardianship and requested that the court grant permission for Grey to move to Georgia as soon as possible.
The judge, likewise moved by the story, granted Jones’ application. Two days later, Grey flew to Georgia with Jones.
“What touched my heart during my initial conversation with Terry was when she said she had been wondering about her sister her whole life and looking for her. And now that they were both in their 70s, she really just wanted to spend the last chapter of their lives together,” Adu says.
Today, the sisters share simple pleasures, like getting manicures, along with more momentous moments: Grey recently took her first hot air balloon ride. “Freedom to be in the community is something that most people take for granted,” Adu says. “It was wonderful to see someone who was a ward of the state — forgotten for decades — being taken in and loved by a family who gives her the attention that she deserves.”
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ARTICLE BY ANGELA BROOCKERD| PHOTOGRAPHY BY JANIE JONES
Garlic Herb Butter
This butter is versatile and goes with just about anything. You can use this on top of bread, popcorn, veggies, as a sandwich spread and more.
Ingredients
• 1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened to room temperature
• 4 tablespoons fresh parsley, chopped
• 1 tablespoon herb of your choice (dill, basil or oregano are my go-to herbs.)
• 1 clove garlic, chopped
• 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice
• 1/2 teaspoon salt
• cracked pepper to taste
Process
Add all ingredients in a food processor (or mix by hand in a bowl). Transfer butter mixture on parchment paper or plastic wrap. Cover butter tightly and roll into a log. Place in refrigerator until firm. Enjoy!
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