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The Makeup of a Successful Man Success... seems to be connected with action. Successful men keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit. — Conrad Hilton

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ost any of us can think of a male role model that has been an inspiration to us at some point in our lives. Whether young or old, rich or poor, famous or unrecognized, the ability to inspire others comes from the courage to take positive action and the perseverance to accomplish goals without fear of failure hindering the outcome. If you’re like me, you can easily think of many great men to admire for many different reasons whether their achievements are grand or modest, and regardless of their imperfections. We’ve taken the opportunity to spotlight several extraordinary men in this issue-men that are making a remarkable difference in our community. We’re thrilled to share a behind-the-scenes look at the developmental phase of OKArts, a proposed high school for the visual and performing arts in Tulsa, and the challenges faced in making it a reality. It’s exciting to see how a young man’s incredible idea about starting such a school right here in our downtown is being brought to life by his father, David Downing, and his grandfather, John Brock. We are encouraging all to please visit OKArts.us to learn how to give support to this wonderful project in any way and we’ll continue to update readers on their progress.

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contributing writers Rebecca Eckert, Lara Friend, Heather Moorehead, Natalie Nirk, Derek Taylor

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A personal interview with Congressman Jim Bridenstine allows us all to get better acquainted with him. Residing in Tulsa when he’s not in our nation’s capital, he accomplishes success while remaining grounded with family and faith amidst the daily whirlwind that he’s honored to call his job. It’s a pleasure to catch up with the owners of Mondo’s Ristorante Italiano on Brookside and to see their restaurant flourish now more than ever. Lou Aloisio and his three sons Rob, Mike and Chris enjoy carrying on the family tradition with their delicious food in a comfortable and classy atmosphere on Brookside. Check out some fresh summer looks in menswear, all of which can be found at local retailers, and be sure to try out a fun Independence Day recipe we’ve included. Have a happy and safe 4th of July!

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14 Tulsa Trendsetters Tackling Education in the Arts

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Good Times

Philbrook Wine Experience Weekend

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A celebration of the 7th annual Rhinestone Cowboy Event was held at the Renaissance Tulsa Hotel and Convention Center. All proceeds benefited the Volunteers of America Oklahoma organization.

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Tulsa Boys Home The mission of Tulsa Boysâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Home (TBH) is to provide the highest quality residential care for young boys needing placement outside their home for the purpose of developing well-adjusted responsible adults and strengthening the family. TBH helps approximately 180 boys each year. Imagine the needs for this many teenage boys. Each year, TBH delivers residential services to approximately 180 boys and their families. They serve 64 boys a day. Forty of the residents are placed by the child welfare division of Department of Human Services, and the other 24 are privately placed by parents or legal guardians for the Substance Abuse Treatment Program. TBH has served 12,000 boys in its 95-year history, many of which have learned to lead productive lives. They credit TBH for breaking the cycle of poverty, abuse and neglect that is often passed from generation to generation if no help is available. To become a volunteer, to serve as a mentor one hour per week, or donate items go to TulsaBoysHome.org.

One Million Cups (1MC) is a simple way to engage entrepreneurs in communities around the world. Each week, the 1MC program offers two local entrepreneurs an opportunity to present their startups to a diverse audience of mentors, advisors and entrepreneurs. Presenters prepare a 6-minute educational presentation and engage in 20 minutes of feedback and questioning after they present. Entrepreneurs gain insight into possible ways they can improve their businesses, gather real-time feedback, and connect with a community that truly cares about their progress and walk away feeling like they have advanced their business. The audience also learns a great deal from the presentations. Whether through passively listening or deeply engaging with the entrepreneurs, there is much to learn every week from these dynamic and diverse communities. The program takes place every Wednesday morning from 9-10 a.m. at Foolish Things Coffee, 1001 S. Main St, Tulsa, OK. Visit OneMillionCups.com for more information.

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Style Wise

A Summary of Summer Looks for Menswear Article Natalie Nirk | Photography Josh New

ummer is here and even though that means the heat is on, there are still many unique and stylish options for menswear out there that can be found right here in Tulsa. We’ve had a great time reaching out to some local retailers and designers to share some of their favorite pieces with us, dashingly worn here by model Patrick Thornton. (Hair styled by Kellie Mead of Parlour Salon on Brookside and apparel styled by Natalie Nirk). Bright yet cool colors are a great way to look spectacular and appear as though you’re beating the heat. The Baltic Blue point-collared dress shirt ($49.50) paired with a blue and green diagonally-striped Krimson by Kwame tie ($60), both from Dillard’s, look sharp with a fitted dark gray suit for a business or dressy occasion. Pocket squares are resurfacing everywhere, adding a classic and customized touch to a suit, so we coordinated a light blue one with the look. T-shirts by Tulsa pop artist and designer Steve Cluck are as cool as ever since he started his business in 2005. His shirts are nationally acclaimed having graced People Magazine, The Los Angeles Times, VH1 and NBC as well as several local publications. In addition to the famous “Don’t Hate the 918” phrase on countless shirts sold that’s now an official Tulsa slogan, he has a wide variety of other statement t-shirts that can be found in local stores such as Ida Red, Made: The Indie Emporium Shop, and M.O.C.H.A. Butterfly Boutique. We’ve included one of his latest designs, the 10 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

cobalt blue “I Speak Okie” tee-shirt, modeled with some Rayban Polar Blue sunglasses ($115) from Dillard’s. All of Cluck’s shirts range from $20 to $25 and can also be viewed and purchased from his website at SteveCluck.com or his Etsy store. Another simple-yet-stylish casual option is shown with a Tre Vero Porter V-neck green tee ($39.50) from Dillard’s, worn with dark blue jeans and rugged boots. For an unexpected and classic addition to a plain shirt, try adding a fashionable bowtie by Adam-Bobby Farman of Bobby Bowties. Farman is a Tulsa fashion designer who actually just moved to New York City right after this photo shoot. Beginning with his vision in 2012, he hand sews each uniquely shaped bowtie himself using a self-designed pattern then pre-ties them for ease of removal or adjusting. From a large array of styles he sent over for our shoot, we selected a green and blue gingham print bowtie ($30) to jazz up a blue chambray collared shirt by Tre Vero ($79.50) from Dillard’s, along with some casual khaki pants. For a wider range of the colors, prints and textiles Farman offers, visit his website at BobbyBowties.com or shop his Etsy store.

Natalie Nirk is the editor of Tulsa Lifestyle and also a registered interior designer with the Oklahoma Board of Architects. NatalieNirkInteriors.com

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Sweet Tips for a Fabulous 4th of July Host a patriotic bash with dazzling desserts

t’s easy to throw a 4th of July party that looks like you worked on it for weeks, even if you just started the planning process. Celebrate the holiday in style by serving classic entrees everyone loves and focusing your attention on delicious, easy-to-make desserts. With the right recipes, your sweets will be as captivating as the colorful spectacle of fireworks above. This Hot Cinnamon Fireworks Cake will certainly be a spectacular treat for you and your guests. Crushed cinnamon drops add color and a slight hot cinnamon flavor to the inside of the cake, while simple melted candy details make the cake look like a firework bursting. Your party planning confidence will skyrocket with these delicious dessert ideas from the Wilton test kitchen. For more fun and festive party ideas, visit Wilton.com.

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2 3/4 cups all-purpose flour 2 teaspoons baking powder 1/2 teaspoon salt 2 cups (4 sticks) butter, softened 2 cups granulated sugar 6 eggs

1 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract 1 bottle (6 ounces) Cinnamon Drops, crushed 1 box (1.5 ounces) Blue Colorburst Batter Bits 1 cup sifted confectioners’ sugar 3 to 4 tablespoons milk Red, white and Royal Blue Candy Melts candy, melted Red, white and blue colored sugars Preheat oven to 350°F. Spray Dimensions Cascade Pan with vegetable pan spray. In large bowl, combine flour, baking powder and salt. In second large bowl, beat butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Add eggs one at a time, scraping bottom and sides of bowl often. Add vanilla; beat until well combined. Add flour mixture and beat at low speed until just combined. Fold in Cinnamon Drops and blue Batter Bits. Pour into prepared pan; smooth out top. Bake 60 to 65 minutes or until toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool in pan 10 minutes on cooling grid. Remove from pan and cool completely. In large bowl, whisk together confectioners’ sugar and milk. Drizzle melted candy onto cake to look like fireworks. Sprinkle sugars onto melted candy.

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Hot Spot

Mondo’s Ristorante Italiano Ever-present landmark restaurant still family-owned and enjoyable as ever Article Lara Friend | Photography Beautiful Exchange Photography

riginally opened in 1969 by Lou Aloisio, Mondo’s Ristorante Italiano continues to be a celebrated Tulsa establishment that cannot be overlooked. The chic and cozy family-owned restaurant is a favorite for all ages with its unique atmosphere that boasts lots of family history, making patrons feel as though they are right at home. Lou’s father, Angelo, immigrated to the United States from Abruzzi, Italy, and Lou always wanted to open an Italian restaurant because it was in his bloodline. The restaurant’s name is actually Lou’s middle name, and is run by Lou and his three sons Rob, Mike and Chris. “You can actually see hanging on our wall a copy of grandfather Angelo’s manifest from when he came through Ellis Island in October of 1920,” says Rob. He shares how after Mondo’s closed, so many people missed the original landmark it had become that the family decided to reopen. “We were just waiting for the perfect location and found it here,” Rob says of their current location at 35th and Peoria. “Many of the customers are repeat and ate at the original restaurant, and now these original customers are bringing their next generations to eat.” Many of the menu items have not changed from the original restaurant. The most popular dishes are the homemade ravioli ($12.95), lasagna ($12.95), spaghetti and meatballs ($12.95), and the eggplant Parmigiania ($12.95). I tasted all four on my recent visit and all of them were absolutely delicious. The colossal ravioli were generously filled with a cheesy combination of ricotta and mozzarella, and the meatballs were tender and scrumptious with just the 12 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

perfect amount of seasoning. An extremely flavorsome eggplant Parmigiania shows off their tricks to ensure the breading is not soggy, complemented perfectly by a marinara sauce topped with a considerable amount of mozzarella. A wood-burning oven has been incorporated into this restaurant, adding another great element to the food and overall atmosphere.

“Using this oven creates a much better pizza overall with its high heat,” Rob remarks. “We also import our flour from Italy, which creates a superior pizza, and we make our own meatballs and Italian sausage in house. I love the meatballs so much I eat them almost daily.” The marinara and Alfredo sauce are authentically made from scratch each day. All entrees come

with choice of house salad, Caesar salad or soup and all of the savory salad dressings are made in-house. I sampled the house salad and it was unique and tasty with greens topped by tomatoes, olives, chick peas, mozzarella, artichoke hearts, red onion and croutons -- all the different contents blend together amazingly. I sampled the tiramisu and it was decadent – for me tiramisu translates A pickme-up and it certainly did just that. It is imported from Italy and is the real deal layered with creamy mascarpone cheese and espresso-soaked ladyfingers. It was like eating a little bit of heaven. The atmosphere of Mondo’s is very welcoming with their rich family history incorporated into the current space. A film projector plays silent movies while you dine and the walls display portraits framed in all shapes and sizes. “I have counted 150 photos on the wall and most all of them are of my family,” Rob shares. “There have been four generations working at Mondo’s over the years.

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I started out as busboy when I was 12 when the first restaurant was opened. My mother worked in the old location with us for years, and my daughter now works as a hostess and my middle son works as a busboy in the restaurant. My youngest son, who is 12, is wanting to start working in the restaurant too.” It is rare find to have such a long-lived family restaurant when competing against all the larger chains. The restaurant seats 70 people including the full bar service. They have an extensive list of Italian wine selections and they also run varied chalkboard specials daily. There is usually a wait to get in the restaurant in the evenings so reservations are recommended. Rob mentions they may be looking at a second location down the road. “Our cooks are from the location at 61st & Lewis, a husband and wife team, and our

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Leads to Innovation OKArts: Oklahoma School for the Visual & Performing Arts Article Rebecca Eckert | Photography Preston Power

t started during a trip to San Francisco with his grandparents at the age of 11. With his voice full of nostalgia, Coleman Downing reminisces. “I saw a painting in a shop window and asked if we could go in. It was an exhibition by Keith Haring, and I thought it was the coolest thing I had ever seen. That was the moment I decided I wanted to start doing this kind of stuff. I remember it very vividly.” Coleman credits the exposure his family gave him to the arts as a child as what started him on his journey. As a high-school student, Coleman spent two weeks in the summer attending the Oklahoma Summer Arts Institute (OSAI) at Quartz Mountain in southwestern Oklahoma. Here he was able to be fully immersed in his chosen craft of photography surrounded by like-minded students and taught by professional artists. “Being taught by instructors that had real world experience was so motivating,” Coleman recalls. “When you see people out there doing what you want to do, you see that it is possible 14 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

for you to do it, too. The tight-knit group of individuals all interested in the same things you are and collaborating with each other was very inspiring.” Immediately after attending OSAI, Coleman told his father, David Downing, that he wished his whole high school experience could have been like the community of collaboration he experienced that summer. Familiar with the Oklahoma School of Science and Mathematics (OSSM) in Oklahoma City that’s a two-year immersion school for students gifted in science

and mathematics, the Downing family began envisioning possibilities for the same education for artistic-typed students. “We want an experience like the OSSM for the right-brained kids,” explains David. “A place they can be surrounded by, immersed in, collaborate with and basically live, eat, and breathe their particular discipline with students from all over Oklahoma that are interested in the same things.” Coleman agrees. “When you go to school in a smaller town in Oklahoma, and even in schools in Tulsa for that matter, you don’t get a lot of art or music instruction and often there are only a handful of kids, if any, that are interested in the same types of things you are. It can be alienating,” he adds. The obvious need for such a program noticed by this teenager with a supportive family passionate about the arts led to their complex endeavor to create OKArts, The Oklahoma School for the Visual & Performing Arts, right here in Tulsa.

The Vision

OKArts will be located on the seven-acre campus adjacent to historic Owen Park where the 1926 Roosevelt School still stands, a property in the process of being purchased from Tulsa Public Schools. Resting at the northwest section of downtown with views of Tulsa’s largest buildings in the near distance, it’s a picturesque property that includes scenic Owen Lake and is entered

“Philosophically, if we can create more demand for arts education, we can create a better work force in the state, we can create more givers to the arts, and we can even create better curriculum for the public schools through our partnership with OSU. So many positives for the state are going to come out of the education of these kids.”

A Family Affair

After graduating high school, Coleman went on to school at the Art Institute of Chicago to earn a BFA in photography. He is currently working as a photographer in New York City. David, a driving force behind OKArts, is the owner and managing director of AcrobatAnt, an advertising and marketing firm in Tulsa. Coleman’s grandfather, John Brock, and David are co-chairmen and organizers of this school together, making this a true multi-generational efAerial looking West fort. Brock and his wife, Donnie, are local philanthropists, patrons of the arts, and founders of The Brock International Prize in Education, and are happy to utilize their fundraising abilities for this project. (They are also responsible for the magnificent bronze sculpture so many native Tulsans have enjoyed viewing at Woodward Park, Appeal To The Great Spirit.) The Brock and Downing families are ripe with artistic talent. David explains with obvious pride that his wife was a ballerina, his sister was a Rockette, and most of his nieces and nephews along with his own children are in artistic fields as well. The love of the arts runs deep in the family, which is one of the many reasons David is so passionate about bringing his son’s vision to fruition.

across an extraordinary stone bridge dating to 1915. The Roosevelt school building with its magnificent architecture will be utilized as a dormitory, and a new state-of-the-art education facility will be built alongside it. The Downings and Brocks worked diligently for three years prior to getting HB-1737 passed by Governor Henry in 2009, and are now waiting for state legislature and Governor Fallin to approve the first state appropriation for OKArts. As a publicly- and privately-funded school, state appropriations will fund operations and private donations will fund the building and equipping of the continued >

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school. Once the state funding is in place, OKArts can focus on its private funding of more than $30 million. The family recently learned that progress will now be prolonged another year due to this being a negative budget year for the state in funding projects like this one. It’s a disappointing setback, but it has not deterred them from continuing their course to get this school up and running. “We were told by our three key senators that we missed by a very narrow margin, but they had so many funds needing to go to projects already established that they couldn’t make it happen this year,” David remarks. “But no one thinks this is an idea that isn’t going to pan out, and we have so much support that we have to carry on and hope next spring is when we’ll get the green light.” “When high school juniors and seniors are accepted to attend OKArts, their parents will not have to pay any type of tuition or room and board,” explains David. As a creativity immersion school, OKArts will attract and fully educate accepted students from all over the state of Oklahoma in their junior and senior years of high school. Modeled after the thriving OSSM as well as the OSAI program, the academic curriculum will also be developed in partnership with Oklahoma State University (OSU) and will follow a comprehensive college-prep academic model. The idea is to educate using innovative techniques specifically tailored to the learning style of creative-typed students. The school will have instructors who are accomplished in their respective fields in order to give students a real-world approach in developing and using skills conducive to successful careers they desire. “The caliber of our instructors will set us apart,” David remarks. “We will have practicing professional artists, photographers, videographers, musicians and dancers teaching our kids. We’ll be able to attract those professionals because our appropriation from the state will give us the money to pay those teachers 25-30 percent more than the open market would.” “There are only two other schools in the country that are public arts high schools,” David says. OKArts will promote Oklahoma as an innovative state by having two comprehensive, state-led immersion high

schools. By recruiting professionals from many areas; it will also create 60+ jobs right here in Tulsa. The arts and culture industry generates $170 billion across the U.S., but Oklahoma is currently rated 46th in arts-related businesses per capita and 45th in arts employees per capita. Oklahoma is already a state with a wealth of artistic talent and OKArts will help raise that ranking so it can be recognized as such. “A high tide floats all boats”

A favorite phrase of David’s is “A high tide floats all boats.” He explains how this relates to their endeavor in arts education. “Early in development of the school, many arts organizations were concerned we’d be stealing their money or cutting their arts funding, and we don’t agree with that,” he says. “Philosophically, if we can create more demand for arts education, we can create a better work force in the state, we can create more givers to the arts, and we can even create better curriculum for the public schools through our partnership with OSU. So many positives for the state are going to come out of the education of these kids.” The Downings and Brocks have been working for seven years now to develop this vision by raising funds, lobbying state representatives, acquiring a location, hiring architects and other staff, and rallying supporters. OKArts is still in the developmental phase and everyone is anxiously awaiting the first government appropriation to be approved so private fundraising can immediately go into full force. A young man with an idea, a supportive family, untold hours of hard work, and a passion that is palpable has all allowed this idea to become OKArts. For more information on this project and how you can support it visit OKArts.us. Rebecca Eckert, a wife and mother of two, is a tulsa native with a degree in psychology from Northeastern State University. She loves spending her free time with family, volunteering or baking and loves the pursuit of a great book and an amazing pair of shoes.

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Congressman Jim Bridenstine Faith | Family | Country Article Derek Taylor | Photography Provided

he first thing you notice about Congressman Jim Bridenstine is his friendly smile and warm, polite manner. A former Navy pilot, Jim is genuine, easy to talk to, and he truly enjoys serving the 730,000 people of Oklahoma’s 1st Congressional District. “I am humbled and honored to serve our state and country as a Congressman,” Jim says. When he walks from his office to the Capitol to cast votes, Jim reflects on the trust Oklahomans have placed in him. Congressman Bridenstine is a 1993 graduate of Jenks High School where he was a state champion and Oklahoma Swimmer of the Year. He earned a scholarship to Rice University and continued to set swimming records. Jim graduated in 1998 with a triple major in economics, business and psychology. Jim and his wife, Michelle, met when they were both interns at the Ft. Worth Star Telegram and to their surprise discovered they had graduated from Jenks a year apart. “I asked her out a number of times before she said yes,” says Jim smiling. They married in 2004 and have three children ages 8, 6 and 2. Growing up in Arlington, Tex., Congressman Bridenstine never considered a political career. His first grade teacher asked him what he wanted to be when he grew up and Jim drew a picture of an airplane and wrote “pieolot” on it. “My dad, who is one of my heroes, would take me to all of the air shows when they came to town,” says Jim. “I decided I wanted to be a Navy pilot after watching the Blue Angels.” After college, Jim joined the Navy to “fly airplanes and land on aircraft carriers.” He flew combat missions in Iraq and Afghanistan while deployed on the USS Abraham Lincoln and has logged over 1,800 flight hours and 333 carrier landings. Jim started off flying the E-2C Hawkeye and later transitioned to the F-18 Hornet fighter jet flying training missions at Topgun as “Red Air” (the enemy). His job was to be a target for the best pilots in the world. “I got shot down a lot,” says Jim. Leaving active duty in the Navy in 2007, Jim earned an MBA from Cornell University. He returned to Tulsa in 2008 to become executive director of the Tulsa Air and Space Museum. Jim continued >

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increased the museum’s visibility and attendance, organized the Quik Trip Air and Rocket Racing Show which attracted more than 40,000 people, and launched a campaign to acquire one of the retiring space shuttles. His love of flying led Jim to leave his position at the museum in August 2010 to serve his country in the Navy Reserve. Piloting the E-2C Hawkeye again, Jim flew missions supporting America’s war on drugs in Central and South America until he was sworn in as a Congressman on January 3, 2013. While Jim was working at the Tulsa Air and Space Museum some people talked to him about running for Congress. “Michelle and I talked and prayed about it but we didn’t think it was the right time,” says Jim. He continued to be encouraged to run. When 2011 came around, Jim felt compelled to run in the 2012 Republican primary. Once he made the decision, his family was behind him all the way. “My faith gives me freedom,” says Jim. “I know whether I win or lose elections, I have victory in Christ. I would not be where I am today without the support of my family and my faith. Both are critically important to me.” Jim’s dad, who has always supported him and been a great influence in his life, moved to Tulsa from Washington state for six months to support his campaign. “I am grateful to my mom, a former Glenpool school teacher, for allowing my dad to spend that much time on the campaign. I’m hopeful they will retire in Tulsa,” says Jim. He is also grateful for the support from his brother, John, who is a year older and a home builder in Houston. Growing up they spent a lot of time together and were competitive in sports and participated in Scouts. When Congressman Bridenstine first started his campaign, he and Gabe Sherman, who is now his district director, went to Bartlesville to campaign at the annual Tulsa Regional Fly-In. It poured down rain and almost nobody showed up. It was a bit discouraging but Gabe and Jim said a prayer asking God for help in finding just one person to help with his campaign in Washington County. A few minutes later they met Joe and Sheryl Kaufman who felt Jim was the right person for the job and joined the campaign as volunteers. Joe and Sheryl knew a lot of people due to their many years working at Phillips Petroleum and were an essential part of Jim’s successful campaign. Joe and Sheryl now serve as Jim’s chief of staff and communications director, respectively. Going into the primary, Jim was definitely the underdog against a five-term incumbent.

“We had very little money and were not able to buy the air time on radio and television that we needed,” says Jim. “We also had no idea where we stood until the election results started coming in because we didn’t have funds for polling.” As a congressman, Jim’s days in Washington are hectic and filled with meetings, voting, strategizing, studying bills and writing legislation. A typical day starts at 6 a.m. and ends around midnight. Mornings are filled with meetings with constituents from Oklahoma, House Armed Services Committee and Science, Space and Technology Committee meetings, and the morning house voting session. There may be two more voting sessions in the afternoon and evening. Along with answering emails, returning phone calls, etc., Jim often has dinner with someone from his office, other members of Congress, or constituents from Oklahoma. When Jim returns to his office, he pulls out a bed to sleep. Back home in Tulsa, Jim’s wife holds down the fort. “Being a military wife prepared me for this,” says Michelle. She is active in PTA and with the children’s many activities. Jim comes home each weekend and spends a day or two visiting with constituents and speaking at events. Sundays are family time spent attending church and relaxing. Congressman Bridenstine is supported by a great staff. They are all Christians most of whom have not been in politics before. Jim’s team is recognized as the best in Congress at communicating on social media and do a great job of keeping people informed. “Every one of the staff in Oklahoma and Washington, D.C. are dedicated and hard-working,” says Jim. Since being sworn in as a Congressman, Jim has had the opportunity to observe Congress from the inside. “I’ve been surprised at how every time there is a problem, the Congress thinks they can fix it. What they end up doing in trying to fix the problem usually makes it worse.” When he is back in Tulsa, Jim has also been surprised at how much he is recognized. A quick trip to the store can become a lengthy one. People see him and want to discuss matters important to them, which Jim enjoys doing. “Michelle has stopped sending me to the store,” says Jim with a smile. One thing you may not know about Jim is his musical preferences. “My favorite group is the Oak Ridge Boys,” he shares. His wife

“My faith gives me freedom,” says Jim. “I know whether I win or lose elections, I have victory in Christ. I would not be where I am today without the support of my family and my faith. Both are critically important to me.” 18 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

Michelle adds, “Lots of people think Jim is really intense but he’s just really focused. I am proud of him and what he has accomplished.” Jim is very involved with his kids and makes every effort to attend school functions, sports and other activities. Becoming a congressman hasn’t altered who Jim is. “Jim hasn’t changed a bit,” says Michelle. “He comes home and plays Legos and wrestles around with the kids, watches movies with them, and really engages with them.” His oldest son, Walker, who is 8, loves sitting and listening to Jim speak at events and wants to become an Eagle Scout just like his dad. Jim’s goals moving forward are focused on preserving and improving our country. One of the biggest, on the national level, is entitlement reform. “We must have the courage to reform entitlements because the debt has become a national security threat,” Jim says. “Entitlements are also crowding out defense spending at a time when the world is not getting any safer.” Jim recently won his second term uncontested, and plans to serve only three terms. What he will do after that is uncertain, but Jim and Michelle both agree, “We had a life before I became a Congressman and we will have a life after.” To learn more about Congressman Jim Bridenstine and what he is doing for Oklahoma and our country, please visit JimBridenstine.com. Derek Taylor is the owner of Marketworx in Tulsa, providing marketing and web consulting services to local businesses. Visit the site at Market-Worx.com.

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Sold Properties

Recently SOLD Tulsa Properties neighborhood

sales price

bdrms

f/h bath garage cap. year built

sq. ft.

lot sq. ft.

Crown Pointe

$1,300,000

4/3

1994

6,000

33,649

Berwick Fairways

$1,060,000

4/1

2013

5,600

11,643

Green Hill

$841,000

3/1

2005

3,541

10,640

South Side

$819,000

2/1

1920

3,815

11,250

Timberland

$810,000

3/2

2005

4,246

11,595

Waterstone

$685,000

5/1

2013

5,303

15,534

Legends

$675,000

4/3

2013

5,347

14,222

Wildwood

$664,000

3/1

1936

3,789

9,900

Sunset Terrace

$630,000

3/1

1930

3,193

10,270

Legends

$583,000

4/1

2008

4,631

11,090

Hunters Hills

$564,500

4/1

1993

4,816

37,711

Sunset Terrace

$560,000

2/1

1930

2,892

16,095

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$557,000

3/0

1954

3,259

48,160

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$539,950

4/1

1986

5,104

27,475

Olivers

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3/1

2012

2,754

7,000

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$520,000

3/1

2001

4,125

13,725

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$520,000

3/1

1993

4,848

20,126

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$517,000

3/0

2010

2,750

8,400

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1958

3,034

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Home Matters

Bringing Indoor Comfort Outside Make outdoor space an extension of your home

he arrival of summer, along with its sunny skies and beautiful weather, beckons homeowners to create a space to entertain guests and enjoy the great outdoors. Design an outdoor living room that merges style and function, and incorporates elements of indoor comfort. New offerings in decor and design breathe indoor inspiration into your outdoor spaces, creating a beautiful extension of your home for all to enjoy. “It’s easier than ever to bring the comfort and style of your favorite indoor spaces into your porch, patio and other outdoor areas,” said Aimee Beatty, in-house stylist with Pier 1 Imports. “From comfy throw pillows to trendy rugs, colorful artwork and cheery curtains, new outdoor products boast durability and so much style that your patio will be the neighborhood’s go-to summer hot spot.” Beatty shares some of her stylish secrets to make your outdoor space an elegant living space worth sharing.

Arrange away

Treat your outdoor area as you would your living room. If space is limited, use sectionals to create seating in whatever arrangement fits best. If there is more room, add an investment piece, such as the Echo Beach Dining Table from Pier 1 Imports. This high-quality piece is made from handcrafted, all-weather synthetic rattan and offers plenty of space to arrange chairs just as you would in your dining room. Finish the look by layering your favorite accessories, such as handcrafted trays, detailed lanterns and a colorful floral arrangement to create a cheerful centerpiece. 22 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

Tie it all together

To let you in on a little secret — outdoor rugs tie everything together and really bring a space to life. Simply layer a rug, such as Pier 1 Imports’ chic Wavy Geo Rug, with a beautiful seating collection, colorful cushions and pillows, and you’ve got an outdoor area that makes everyone comfortable and happy. Embrace the bold

Some might be afraid to create a statement outside because — it’s outside. But an outdoor living space lends itself to adventures with color and pattern, providing the opportunity to be bold and to go beyond your comfort zone. When shopping for the outdoors, remember — anything goes. Serve in style

Al fresco entertaining always focuses on food, drinks and friends. A self-service food station or bar enhances the casual tone, freeing guests to grab refreshments whenever they please. This also allows you, the host, to focus on the fun at hand. Look for serving and drink carts that maximize space, such as the Rania Serving Cart from Pier 1 Imports, which has three levels so there’s plenty of room to stash an ice bucket, drink dispenser, snacks, lawn games and more. So let the warmth of the season bring many memorable moments to your life and stylish elements into your outdoor spaces. For more great decorating ideas, visit www.pier1.com.

July

Lifestyle Calendar

JULY 11 - 13 ROCKS AND GEMS OF THE INDIAN TERRITORY CENTRAL PARK HALL TULSA FAIR GROUNDS

JUNE 29

ROCKETS OVER RHEMA BROKEN ARROW

One of the largest fireworks displays in the Tulsa/Broken Arrow area. There will be plenty to do before the fireworks get started. Enjoy inflatables, games, face painting, and a car show featuring antique vehicles from the 1920s to 1950s. The evening begins at 5:30 pm and fireworks start 10 p.m. sharp. RocketsOverRhema.com

JULY 1 - 11 EXPERIENCE TULSA: ART AND CULTURE ARE ALL AROUND TOWN TULSA

Monday - Friday 10 a.m. to 5:30 p.m. Several of Tulsa’s Museums and cultural groups have come together in a shared exhibition to highlight their institutions. All have a unique origin, yet all are interconnected. Explore the complete Tulsa experience by learning more about these groups and what they offer. 110 East 2nd Street. Visit TulsaPAC.com

JULY 4 FREEDOM FEST TULSA RIVER PARKS

Celebrate America’s independence with your family and friends at Tulsa’s annual July 4th celebration. Tulsa’s much anticipated Freedom Fest includes endless entertainment, a variety of activities and tasty concessions. For more information call 918.596.2001. RiverParks.org

JULY 4 ROSES AND SPRING WATER EXHIBIT: ART NIGHT BROKEN ARROW

Every first and third Friday night from 5 to 8 pm you will find a place of inspiration. Meet like-minded people and be motivated to create! You will have easels, a few supplies and light snacks provided. Simply bring your materials and your ideas to get started! 211 S. Main St. For more information call 918.994.4473. RoseDistrict.com

JULY 5 - JULY 26 RIVER WALK CROSSING FREE SUMMER CONCERT SERIES JENKS

RiverWalk Crossing Summer Concert Series provides free open air concerts at RiverWalk amphitheater in Jenks every Saturday. These concerts are a great way to get up close to your favorite local artists--something not possible at many venues. 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. 300 Riverwalk Terrace. Contact Chelsea McGuire at 918.695.6958. RiverWalkTulsa.com

JULY 6

Presented by Tulsa Rock and Mineral Society, there will be competitive and special exhibits of rocks, jewelry, gems, fossils and crystals on display. Also door prizes, a Silent Auction Spin Wheel and grab bags, speakers, demonstrations, Kids Activities Field Trips. Friday and Saturday 9 a.m. to 9 p.m. and Sunday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Cost is $6 for adults per day. Children, firemen, policemen and scouts in uniform are free. VisitTulsa.com

JIM GLOVER PATRIOT CRUISE NIGHTS

JULY 11 - 13

JENKS

AFFAIR OF THE HEART

From 6 p.m. til dark, the Jim Glover Patriot Cruise Nights occurs every Sunday and features a free car show and live music presented by RiverWalk Crossing. Jim Glover and the Eagle 103.3 & Folds of Honor will be taking donations and selling merchandise to benefit scholarship for families of fallen and disabled American heroes. 300 Riverwalk Terrace. Email Chelsea@ emergempr.com. RiverWalkTulsa.com

RIVERSPIRIT EXPO AT EXPO SQUARE

JULY 9 - 13 WOODY GUTHRIE FOLK FESTIVAL OKEMAH

A concert celebrating the life of Pete Seeger will kick off this year’s Woody Guthrie Folk Festival at the Crystal Theater in Okemah, Okla. Songs written by Pete as well as songs popularized by Pete will be performed. In addition, some of Pete’s words will be interspersed throughout the evening. Cost of general admission tickets for the “Pete Seeger Sing-A-Long,” are $15. General Admission tickets can also be purchased at the door for $20. Doors open at 7:30 p.m. for the 8 p.m. show. 104 S. 2nd Street. WoodyGuthrie.com

Heart of Tulsa is presented annually in July and November by An Affair of the Heart, the largest arts, crafts and antiques show in Oklahoma. Premiering in 1995, Heart of Tulsa has grown into a unique marketplace where local and national crafters, artisans, boutique owners and collectors can share and sell their products with the general public. The three-day shopping event features unique, one-of-a-kind and often handmade items from jewelry and handbags to furniture, clothing and gourmet foods. It is a rare opportunity to shop for housewares, clothing, jewelry and more from more than 405 independent retailers in one building. HeartofTulsa.com

JULY 18 - 20 BARE: A POP OPERA TULSA PERFORMING ARTS

“Fruugensteinery” was originally a made-up word exclusively used by a group of local theater students. Through their friendship and their love for the performing arts, it has blossomed into a budding new theater company making its debut with “Bare: A Pop Opera.” After opening off-Broadway in 2004, this contemporary rock musical, with lyrics by Jon July 2014 | Tulsa Lifestyle 23

Lifestyle Calendar Hartmere Jr. and music by Damon Intrabartolo, is being presented in Tulsa for the first time. The story revolves around a group of high school students during their last semester at St. Cecilia’s Catholic boarding school. In this coming-of-age story, each student struggles with issues of sexuality, identity and self-worth alongside the Christian faith. Mature audiences only. TulsaPAC.com

JULY 18 BRIDGING THE GAP TULSA PERFORMING ARTS CENTER

7:30 p.m. Young Joseph Bates (violin), Nicholas Bashforth (violin), Quinn Maher (viola) and Anthony Conroy (cello) are the BBCM Quartet. They met years ago as students at Tulsa’s Barthelmes Conservatory. Since forming the BBCM Quartet in 2012, they’ve been confounding the expectations of adults everywhere with their mix of totally normal teenaged boy interests and their dedication to, and passion for, their music. In February 2014, BBCM won the Tulsa Young Chamber Artist Competition sponsored by Tulsa Camerata and Chamber Music Tulsa and placed second in the Buttram String Quartet Competition sponsored by the Oklahoma City Orchestra. TulsaPAC.com

JULY 23 STEELY DAN: JAMALOT EVER AFTER BRADY THEATER

Summer tour 2014 celebrating 100 years. Steely Dan has sold more than 40 million albums worldwide and helped define the soundtrack of the 70s with hits such as “Reeling in the Years”, “Rikki Don’t Lose That Number,” etc. BradyTheater.com

JULY 25 - 26 CENTER OF THE UNIVERSE FESTIVAL TULSA BRADY DISTRICT

More than 100,000 well-known bands will perform. Friday night, the popular rock band AWOLNATION will headline the main stage, with Twenty One Pilots opening and Fitz & the Tantrums playing second in the lineup. Saturday night will open with Cold War Kids, followed by Capital Cities, then headliner Young the Giant. Additional bands will be announced later for the other outdoor stages and club venues. Tickets on sale now. CenterOfTheUniverseFestival.com

JULY 19

JULY 29

SCISSORTAIL WINE TASTING

OCA EAST ALL-STATE BASEBALL

CLAREMORE EXPO CENTER

ORAL ROBERTS UNIVERSITY

Cost $20 per person. 21 years of age and older. Art, food, coffee and the Route 66 Cruisers Car Club. 400 Veterans Pkwy. Contact Ron Burrows at Claremore Expo Center 918.341.1325. ClaremoreCity.com

Event Starts at 4:30 pm. 7777 S. Lewis Ave. OklahomaCoaches.org

JULY 19 GRADY NICHOLS WITH STARR FISHER JENKS

Saxophonist Grady Nichols’ new CD, Destinations, is a musical vacation. You can visit the beach, explore the streets of London, go a little country, hit the west coast, spend time daydreaming and come back home again after listening. You will realize you have embarked on a muscial journey touring carious genres without any layovers. 300 Riverwalk Terrace. RiverWalkTulsa.com

JULY 21 LIFE’S MUSICAL MONDAYS: SANDY AND CHUCK GARNER CASCIA HALL

The Gardners will return to Life’s Muscial Monday’s stage and will share timeless selections from the Great American Song Book, as well as introducing the audience to some perhaps not so well-known classic jazz pieces. LifeSeniorServices.org 24 Tulsa Lifestyle | July 2014

JULY 30 AMERICAN IDOL LIVE BRADY THEATER

Wednesday at 7 p.m. Every year, tens of thousands of hopefuls from across the nation audition for a shot at stardom. American Idol Winner Caleb Johnson performs with the top nine contestants of this 2014 season. Tickets on sale at Reasor’s and Starship Records in Tulsa. Tickets start at $39.50. All ages welcome. BradyTheater.com

AUGUST 1 MICHAEL BUBLÉ BOK CENTER

Michael Steven Bublé is an ItalianCanadian vocalist, songwriter and actor. He has won several awards, including four Grammy Awards and multiple Juno Awards, and now visits Tulsa to perform his latest, “To Be Loved by You,” at the BOK Center. BOKCenter.com

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