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JACKSON BLOEMENDAL FORT WORTH COUNTRY
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RECENT SPORTS/ACADEMIC HIGHLIGHTS
Jackson Bloemendal has distinguished himself through a series of notable achievements in both sports and academics at Fort Worth Country Day. Throughout his freshman, sophomore, and junior years, he consistently demonstrated exceptional athletic prowess, earning the Outstanding Boy Athlete Award each year. His leadership skills were further exemplified as he captained the football, basketball, and baseball teams during his junior season. In addition to his leadership roles, Jackson’s excellence in baseball was recognized as he was named to the SPC All-Conference 1st team during his sophomore and junior seasons. Academically, Jackson’s dedication was evident as he received the prestigious “Bill Arnold Award for Outstanding History Students” and the “The Dartmouth Book Award,” an accolade given to a junior student who exemplifies outstanding character, contributes positively to the school community, and excels in at least one non-academic area. His commitment to academics is further highlighted by his consistent presence on the High Honor Roll every semester. Beyond the school year, Jackson also actively participated in extracurricular sports, playing summer baseball for the “Fort Worth Cats 17U showcase team” and summer basketball for “Fort Worth Prep,” showcasing his dedication and passion for athletics.
PERSONAL HIGHLIGHTS
Bloemendal has showcased remarkable leadership and musical talent through his involvement with the FWCD Orchestra, where he has served as president since his sophomore year. His musical prowess and dedication have been recognized with prestigious accolades such as “The Orchestra Leadership & Musicianship Award” and “The Heart of the Ensemble Award” during his junior year. Beyond his musical endeavors, Jackson is deeply committed to philanthropy, evidenced by his receipt of the HOPE Award from The Center for Transforming Lives for his outstanding service. For the past three years, he has organized a hoodie drive for the children at CTL, demonstrating his unwavering dedication to making a positive impact in our local Fort Worth community.
MAINTAINING BALANCE WITH SPORTS AND SCHOOL
Bloemendal has demonstrated an impressive ability to balance his academic and athletic commitments as a three-sport athlete at FWCD. Despite the challenges that come with this demanding schedule, Jackson credits FWCD for offering a supportive environment where he can thrive both academically and athletically. Through this experience, he has honed his time management skills and become a strong self-advocate. The encouragement and guidance from his dedicated teachers have also played a crucial role in his success. Jackson’s story is a testament to the fact that hard work truly pays off, not only on the field but also in the classroom.
PLANS FOR THE FUTURE
Bloemendal is eagerly anticipating his senior year, where he looks forward to playing football, basketball, and baseball for FWCD. His excitement extends beyond high school athletics, as he has visited many top-ranked colleges and is thrilled about the possibilities that lie ahead. With a clear vision for his academic future, Jackson intends to pursue a Business degree, while also keeping his options open by evaluating future athletic opportunities throughout the year. His enthusiasm for both academics and athletics underscores a promising future filled with potential and growth.
Giving Issue
This time of year has always been my favorite. I happen to be someone who loves Christmas traditions and growing up had parents that were amazing at creating all the fun memorable ones. I always took it upon myself to make sure traditions were kept from year to year so nothing was missed.
As I’ve gotten older the way we celebrate Christmas with my parents and siblings has changed as we now are all grown, married and have kids of our own. However the tradition keeper in me has still wanted to find the time to do things the way we’ve always done them.
Last year my parents decided to not do our traditional Christmas (we still celebrated, just differently!) and instead took our family on a trip over the Summer. We spent a week together in the mountains, all 16 of us, under one roof. With the busyness of life getting to slow down and have time like that with my parents, siblings nieces and nephew was truly so fulfilling.
It made me realize that yes, traditions and keeping them are important, but letting go of how things have always been to allow for something new is even more important as it gave me one of my favorite memories with my family so far!
This holiday season I hope your inspired to of course, keep the old traditions, but to also think about starting new ones that maybe carry over into the next year. And more than anything allow you time with the ones you love most.
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WHERE NEIGHBORS CAN SEE AND BE SEEN
1-6: On October 19 ArtsGoggle presented by Trinity Metro was held on W. Magnolia Avenue from 8th Avenue to St. Louis Avenue, occupying 19 city blocks and hosting more than 900 visual artists. 5: Jessamin Shirin 6: Good Scout Provisions.
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Photography by Macka Photography
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Westland Restaurant Group and Magdalena's Catering & Events Announce Partnership
Westland Restaurant Group has partnered with Magdalena's Catering & Events, with Chef Juan Rodriguez and Paige Rodriguez continuing to lead Magdalena's while also overseeing catering for all Westland concepts through the new Westland Catering Company. Gigi Howell, Westland’s operating partner, praised the partnership as a natural fit, building on a decade-long relationship with Juan. The collaboration aims to expand Westland’s catering reach while maintaining the quality and creativity Magdalena's is known for.
La Pulga Spirits Adds Sotol to Its Portfolio
La Pulga Spirits, founded by three Fort Worth entrepreneurs, has introduced La Pulga Sotol Silver, crafted in Mexico from 100% wild-harvested Dasylirion. Now available across North Texas, this super-premium spirit joins La Pulga's lineup, which includes tequilas and mezcal. With a rich, earthy flavor and a touch of smoky sweetness, La Pulga Sotol honors Northern Mexico's deep cultural heritage. Available at bars, restaurants, and online.
UTA Announces Plans for New West Fort Worth Campus
UTA is expanding with a new campus in West Fort Worth, set to open in fall 2028 on 51 acres at Walsh Ranch. Approved by the UT System Board of Regents, UTA West aims to serve over 10,000 students. “We’re looking forward to planting a UT Arlington flag in west Fort Worth,” said Board Chairman Kevin Eltife, highlighting the university’s commitment to growth in the region.
UNVEILING NATURAL BEAUTY
T H E ART O F BEING A GOOD GUEST
The holiday season ushers in opportunities to connect with others. Learning the art of being a good guest energizes parties and communicates love and respect. Being aware of your party-goer habits can seem superficial at first glance, but as you devote yourself to purposeful habits, you realize this art can strengthen your bonds with others. Whether you are a social butterfly or a homebody, invest time in these tips this winter to make the most of your wide range of holiday celebrations.
ARTICLE BY BROOKE MACKO | PHOTOGRAPHY BY MACKA PHOTOGRAPHY
Pre-Party Mindfulness
• Being a good guest begins the moment you receive an invitation. A quick RSVP whether yes or no shows your host you care about them and their get-together.
• Send your regrets without excuses and express how honored you are to be invited. Explaining why you cannot be at a celebration is a common mistake.
• A quick call to ask if you can bring last-minute items is helpful especially when your close friend is hosting, or it is a more casual affair.
The Right Time to Celebrate
• In many situations, landing at your destination in advance is a great habit. However, early arrival can stress your party host as they are putting together the finishing details for the evening. Aim for ten to fifteen minutes from the invitation’s start time to refrain from being too prompt or too late.
To Gift or Not to Gift
• What better way to greet your host than with a small gift to show your appreciation. Wine, flowers, or charcuterie board (theartofgrazing fw.com) are classic options.
• Loose flowers can cause your host to juggle finding a vase and welcoming guests so consider bringing a floral arrangement (camellia farmflora.com).
• Being thoughtful also means considering your host’s interests. Do they like cats or dogs? Tea or coffee? Red or white wine? Roses or wildflowers? Choosing items that speak to your host’s preferences meaningfully express your gratitude.
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Let’s Talk About It
• Introverts and extraverts may approach gatherings differently, but anyone can ask themselves one question when interacting with a host and other guests: Am I trying to be interesting and impress others or am I interested in others? Making choices to genuinely listen and ask questions is a pre-curser to
captivating conversations and creates a warm and lively atmosphere.
• Disciplined alcohol consumption is courteous to the host and fellow merrymakers. Keep in mind that some attendees may be sober. For example, when offering a drink to someone, don’t forget to lead with non-alcoholic options.
Exiting Gracefully
• Vocalizing a thank-you and a specific compliment is a graceful way to leave a party. Remember a specific detail of the party and tell the host what you enjoyed about this detail or how it personally impacted you. Whether you comment on a great story that was told, about a new friend met, or on the velvety texture of the Christmas bows, the host will be grateful to know you saw the planning and hard work of creating an enjoyable evening.
• After-party clean-up is a valuable and practical expression of kindness. Remember the nuance that surrounds cleaning tasks. If your host has hired staff, a thank you and polite interactions are best. Typically, the closer you are to the host and the more casual the occasion is, the more you can dive into the dishes at the end of the night.
• Lastly, do not over-stay. Respecting the event’s end time keeps the party bright and jolly in its entirety. If not previously stated, pay attention to the host’s cues so that you do not overstay.
Post-Party Essential Photoshoot Credits:
• Acknowledging your host’s efforts is imperative to mastering the art of being a good guest. A hand-written and mailed note is best because the endeavor, while much smaller than the effort of putting together an event, is the extra gesture that ensures the host feels special and appreciated.
Flowers - Camellia Farm Flora
Charcuterie Board - The Art of Grazing
Make-up - House of Tesla
Photography - Macka Photography House - Leonard Historical Home (Obadiah Paul Lenard was the owner of the home in the 30’s and 40’s)
Homeowners - Rich and Karly Johnston
Guests - Chad and Amy Horany, Kurt and Malorie Nielson, Jason and Summer Jones
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CRAFTING DREAMS
Inside Carly Morris’s Custom Jewelry Design Process
ARTICLE BY HANNAH BARRICKS PHOTOGRAPHY BY MACKA PHOTOGRAPHY
Carly Morris is redefining the art of fine jewelry through her Fort Worth-based company, ECM Gems. Specializing in custom pieces, ECM Gems surpasses other jewelers by offering a highly personalized experience. Without any stock, Carly crafts designs and sources gems from around the world to make one-of-a-kind jewelry for each customer.
“I started dreaming of different designs. I would doodle and play around with different styles, thinking it would be a cool graduation gift from my parents.”
In 2018, Carly longed for more feminine options that reflected her style during class ring selection at the University of Texas at Austin.
“I started dreaming of different designs,” she shares. “I would doodle and play around with different styles, thinking it would be a cool graduation gift from my parents.”
But trademark and university red tape almost shattered the dream, forcing Carly to battle relentlessly for approval until she nervously received the final product sight unseen. Thankfully, the risk paid off. Her design turned heads, too, and she began creating rings for students at other universities, including TCU, making a name for herself that she would then test as a salesperson at box retailer Jared the Galleria of Jewelry after graduating.
“I started as a part-time, seasonal salesperson in October and sold $500,000 in seven months,” she shares.
“It got me thinking that I could really make a career out of this.”
She started her own business and legitimized herself with a graduate degree in gemology from the Gemological Institute of America, the foremost authority on diamonds, colored stones, and pearls.
As an entrepreneur, Carly believes jewelry should be cherished and worn, not hidden away, collaborating with clients on everything from engagement rings to heirloom redesigns.
“I think it’s important for people to feel like they have a say in what they’re getting,” she says. “Especially when it represents a special moment or person in their life.”
ECM Gem’s 3D design option ensures clients avoid Carly’s experience with her class ring. The technology offers a preview of custom pieces through hyper-realistic CAD renderings, which provide a
360-degree view of their design before committing to a final piece.
“It’s also another check-in for me to make sure we are on the same page before casting,” says Carly. “I always tell clients, ‘Nothing is set in stone until the stones are set.’”
If clients are satisfied with the CAD images, ECM Gems prints 3D models of the jewelry, allowing clients to touch, hold, and try on their designs.
Carly’s unique gifts in science and art make her a gifted visionary with technical chops.
“It’s not just about making something pretty,” Carly says. “It’s about making sure the stones are exceptional, the design is durable, and the piece will last for generations. I want them to wear the heck out of it!”
Redesigning heirlooms is one of Carly’s favorite parts of the job, and she gushes that she’s reconfigured items for unborn clients, helping grandmothers update jewelry items for anticipated grandchildren.
“I’ve also had the privilege of creating a wedding gift that included diamonds from both grandmothers and her mom combined into one necklace for the bride,” she recalls. “Seeing her wear it at her wedding and every day after that— that’s why I do what I do.”
To achieve success, Carly must first connect with her clients by educating them and guiding them through each step, where transparency is critical.
“You should be a mini-expert on what you’re getting,” she says. “You should be proud of it.”
The highly personal design process at ECM Gems is conducted in five steps:
Initial Consultation: This is an opportunity to get acquainted without pressure. As Carly explains, “You can bring in your pieces if you have something you want to redesign...but you don’t need to know, really, anything. It’s for us to get to know each other.” Clients often bring in sketches, Pinterest boards, or screenshots for inspiration, and Carly shares
“I think it’s important for people to feel like they have a say in what they’re getting. Especially when it represents a special moment or person in their life.”
industry insights, like “learning about all the beautiful gemstones you may have never even heard of,” It’s a chance to ask questions and “get comfortable, even pet my dog, Molly,” before diving into specifics.
Stone Sourcing: Based on the client’s preferences, Carly sources “three to four options from all over the world” for diamonds or gemstones. She emphasizes, “I never bring in something that I wouldn’t want you to choose,” ensuring quality. Clients can view the stones in different lighting conditions and even learn how to use a jeweler’s loupe to inspect them. “If you don’t fall in love with any of them, I send them back,” she notes, reemphasizing the no-pressure nature of this phase.
Design Rendering: After selecting stones, Carly moves to “a 3D CAD rendering...modeled to the exact proportions of the design.” Clients get a detailed view of their piece, including top, side, and 360-degree video. Carly ensures clients feel confident before proceeding, as “it’s custom; you should be picky, you know?” This stage allows for any design tweaks before the piece is made.
3D Print Try-On: Carly prints a resin model of the design for a physical try-on, either in person or shipped to remote clients. “The try-on is a huge part of this...it allows you to see, feel, and hold before actually casting the metal and setting the stones,” she says. This step ensures the piece aligns with the client’s vision before final production.
Casting, Setting, and Final Touches: Once approved, the metal is cast, the stones are set, and the final details are added, such as “someone’s handwriting on the inside” of a ring. She describes the final reveal as her “favorite part...watching people open the box and see their finished piece for the first time truly put together.” The moment when “the sunlight hits and smiles, and sometimes even tears follow” makes it an incredibly fulfilling experience.
Through clear communication, detailed renderings, and high-quality craftsmanship, Carly’s clients can proceed confidently with their investments. Her approach has
turned ECM Gems into a trusted name in custom jewelry, where word-of-mouth accounts for most of her business.
As Carly continues to expand ECM Gems, she remains committed to the core values that have shaped her journey over the last five years: authenticity, creativity, and connection.
“At the end of the day, it’s more than just jewelry,” she says. “Clients trust me with their most precious pieces to create them from scratch or steward heirlooms into the future. It’s about creating something meaningful and completely personalized. To get to do this as my career it’s an absolute honor.”
Complimentary Consultation, Sketching, Stone Sourcing, CAD Computer Renderings, Collaborative Editing, 3D Print Try-On, Design Approval, Fabrication & Delivery
HERE, LIFE MEANS MORE.
At MRC Stevenson Oaks, our philosophy is that no matter how old we are or what challenges we live with, life is about continuing to grow. We fight back on thieves like loneliness, helplessness and boredom. We resolve to make every day one that confirms the seven domains of well-being through identity, growth, autonomy, security, connectedness, meaning and joy.
“We’re busier now than we ever were. Our children call and they can’t get us and they wonder where we are now. And I have to reply: we were at bingo, we were at lunch, we were at dinner, now we are going down to trivia. It’s endless, what you can find to do. It’s just one fun-filled, lifetime vacation.”
- STEVENSON OAKS RESIDENTS, RON & JOYCE STULTS
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January 1, 2025, will see BIG changes in the HVAC industry.
On that day, two new refrigerants, and therefore new HVAC equipment, will be introduced into the United States. Manufacturers have been busy retooling their assembly lines in order to comply with the new refrigerant requirements, and contractors are gearing up for these changes by modifying their trucks and purchasing the new tools necessary to work with the new refrigerant. All of these costs will, unfortunately, trickle down to the consumer.
If your HVAC equipment is ten or more years old, please take note! It's important that you consider these upcoming changes and do your research in order to make an educated decision. To learn more about the upcoming changes, visit the Department of Energy and/or the EPA websites.
Until January 1, 2025, all new R410A HVAC equipment will still receive a ten-year parts warranty with registration. (Fort Worth Heat & Air, Inc. will register your equipment for you upon installation completion.) After January 1, 2025, R410A HVAC equipment will become available only on a first-come-first-served basis. If you have any questions, please feel free to give us a call.
TILE AND ERROR
ARTICLE BY HANNAH BARRICKS
One Designer’s Journey to Turn Outdated into Outstanding
When Crystal Maguire, owner of CLJ Design, decided to transform her outdated primary bathroom, she faced a space unchanged since the mid-1980s.
"The previous owners were clearly much shorter than we are," she laughs. "The countertops were low enough to sit on without any effort."
The bathroom was altogether inefficient for their needs, with wasted space from an earlier layout reconfiguring Maguire suspects eliminated a secondary water closet. It all had to go, save a single detail: a large picture window over the built-in tub that remains a focal point of the bathroom today.
With definitive inspiration, Maguire began mapping her design, intentionally planning the space, one of her favorite parts of the process.
She envisioned a "wet room" concept, blending the bathtub and shower areas, a choice that became her guiding light for the rest of the design. She chose functional materials the whole family liked. Their affinity for green quickly became a key element, inspiring the selection of a stunning verdant marble that anchored the color scheme. Maguire found the rich, intricately textured Zellige tile from CLE for the shower and tub area paired with an ombre mosaic from Artistic Tile for the vanity backsplash.
Despite handling most of the project herself, Maguire chose Marathon Builders as her general contractor, handling essential construction tasks, like a new sauna that caused delays. Maguire's husband and a friend decided to make it their weekend project, resulting in a six-month delay as they worked on it bit by bit. She admits it was worth the wait; the final result: a four-person sauna with thermo-aspen wood that adds a spa-like feel to the space.
Maguire designed custom-fluted white oak cabinetry for the vanity to accent the wet room's Irish Greenstone and wood tones in the sauna.
"The fluted details in the cabinetry complement the natural stone and wood elements while adding texture and warmth to the space," she explains.
She opted for another calming green shade for her husband's closet and a sandy pink hue for hers. She installed solar tubes to filter natural light and brighten the interiors.
Maguire selected a freestanding bathtub with 80 micro jets and a heated surface, keeping the water warmer for longer. The adjacent shower boasts multiple water features, including a rain head, three body sprays, and a handheld showerhead.
For fixtures, Maguire chose a mix of aged brass in the wet room and closets, paired with black fixtures in the other areas.
"Mixing metals is a must!" she emphasizes, explaining the depth and interest it adds to the design, completing the look with a metallic Clark and Clark wallpaper for the WC. Custom glass enclosures by Glasshouse in Dallas were used to frame the sauna and wet room, ensuring a connected but distinctive look.
After designing in NYC for nearly a decade, Maguire effortlessly blends a newfound city sophistication with her innate Southern sensibilities, a home run mix in Fort Worth, where the designer enjoys partnering with fellow Fort Worth home and business owners facing their own interior challenges.
"I find that when clients come to me with an open mind, the real greatness happens," she says. "Often, clients see something they like and want to replicate, but that's not what designers do. We create a curated space that tells their individual story."
She admits that sometimes, she takes clients outside their comfort zone to create an elevated and deeply personal space.
"The sky's the limit, but it doesn't necessarily have to break the bank," she says. Whether it's a complete home remodel or a simple redesign, Maguire focuses on delivering spaces as functional as they are beautiful. With a unique perspective, respect for fine craftsmanship, and a genuine desire to build lasting relationships, she creates spaces clients love coming home to—and reflects who they are.
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HOMEMADE SOURDOUGH STARTER
A Thoughtful Gift
Why not gift something homemade, practical, and flavorful this holiday season—a sourdough starter! Homemade sourdough made a comeback recently due to its health benefits and valuable versatility, so jump on the low-cost and
sustainable trend; it’s easier than you think. The starter provides a base for all kinds of baked goods, including homemade bread, pancakes, pizza dough, and more, making it an ideal gift for the foodies and home chefs in your life.
HOW TO MAKE A SOURDOUGH STARTER:
INGREDIENTS
• 1 cup whole wheat or all-purpose flour
• ½ cup filtered water
DIRECTIONS
Day 1: In a clean jar or bowl, mix 1 cup of flour with ½ cup of water. Stir until it becomes a thick, smooth paste. Cover loosely with a cloth or lid and leave it at room temperature for 24 hours.
Day 2-7: Every day, “feed” the starter by discarding half of the mixture and replenishing it with ½ cup of flour and ¼ cup of water. Stir well and leave it at room temperature. Bubbles will form, and the mixture will rise as the natural yeast and bacteria develop. After Day 7: Your starter should be bubbly and smell pleasantly tangy, meaning it’s ready to use! Transfer it to a lidded jar and store it in the fridge until you’re ready to bake or share.
HOW TO GIFT YOUR SOURDOUGH STARTER:
Divide your starter into mason jars. Add a linen or flax ribbon with handwritten instructions detailing maintenance and possible uses for the starter. Get creative; there are tons of jars and stationery to choose from online and in-store. Your culinary skills will blow away your friends and family while
you save a pretty penny. Talk about bang for your buck! You may even share recipes that become a family or neighborhood book. No matter where it takes you, your loved ones will appreciate the opportunity to start their own bread-baking journey this holiday season!
Why not gift something homemade, practical, and flavorful this holiday season?
ARTICLE BY HANNAH BARRICKS | PHOTOGRAPHY BY JANIE JONES
traveling with intent is more ATTAINABLE THAN EVER
DON’T JUST VISIT A PLACE. IMMERSE YOURSELF IN IT.
ARTICLE BY GABBY CULLEN
Traveling is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.” —Miriam Beard
In today’s world of tours, landmarks, itineraries, non-stop flights, and Airbnbs, seeing far-off destinations is more accessible than ever. But do you feel as though you’re truly experiencing the culture of your surroundings? Is it a whirlwind of scheduled to-dos, rather than an emotional experience that’ll stay with you long after returning home? Do you stick to the wellknown resorts and cities, rather than taking a chance on the unknown? Do you feel connected to the people around you or are you just stopping by for the afternoon?
If you’re considering questions like this, leaning into purposeful travel, the idea
that you can experience a place with care and intention, is something to consider. The trend has become increasingly popular as people seek to align their travel experiences with their values, especially for travelers considering social impact and sustainability. According to Grand Review Research, the voluntourism industry, which blends travel with volunteer projects, was estimated at 848.9 million dollars in 2023. “How you travel really makes a difference, and it matters that you can have a luxury travel experience that also gives back to your destination,” says Angie Herdman, owner of Intentional Itineraries, who has long seen the importance of educating people about traveling with intent.
And while when some hear the word sustainable travel and automatically think about the environment, traveling with
intent is so much more. “When people hear that word, I feel like they automatically think about the environment. But that’s not what all sustainability is about. It’s about the people and respecting their destination as a visitor,” says Herdman.
It’s about the local culture, the economy, and the environment. Are you staying in a family-owned hotel with furniture made locally? Do the nearby residents work at the hotel so the money stays in the community? Is the food grown nearby or is it imported? Are the animals in cages or do they roam free on a sanctuary? There are many things to consider when it comes to being purposeful while on vacation, and opportunities to travel with intent can be found across the globe.
In South Africa, at Care for Wild Rhino Sanctuary, the largest orphaned rhino sanctuary in the world, visitors can book
a stay at the Rhino View Lodge, which lies in the heart of the property. It has four spacious rooms, stunning views of the property, a back deck, a swimming pool, a fire pit, chef services, and the opportunity to see firsthand the conservation and rehabilitation efforts for orphaned and injured rhinos. Activities include game drives, guided bush walks, feeding baby rhinos, and more. You can walk through the sanctuary, learn about the projects they’re working on, and truly get a sense of the good work the owners and staff are doing.
In Costa Rica, instead of visiting a giant coffee farm, visit a family-owned one where you’ll pick the beans, watch the process, and help a local community thrive.
Costa Rica is also home to nearly 500,000 animal species, 5% of the world’s population. You can volunteer at an animal rehabilitation center, help with reptile and amphibian research, be an animal keeper assistant, and even do some sloth monitoring. Herdman elaborates, “Volunteer opportunities could mean helping protect the sea turtles from predators or help scientists count the number of hatchlings. You can do a kayaking tour that includes tracking bird species. You can play soccer with the local kids. I know one hotel is providing music lessons for the village children to bring back a piece of their culture that has somewhat disappeared.”
It’s a fine balance between respecting a culture and experiencing it for yourself,
but combining intentional choices with travel plans has never been easier. You can still zipline through the jungle, go whitewater rafting, and surf in Costa Rica while choosing the hotel owned by locals instead of the big resort or the Airbnb owned by someone who doesn’t live in the country. You can see macaws in their natural habitat instead of in a zoo.
Herdman is passionate about helping people see the value in traveling with intent. “Travel can be so much more than just sightseeing and eating the food. It’s about feeling the culture, seeing the people and their interactions, and how they spend their day. You’ll get so much more from that experience. That memory will stick with you, and you’ll bring it home.”
WITH DEEP TEXAS ROOTS, METHODIST RETIREMENT COMMUNITIES IS NOW SERVING FORT WORTH
An Anchor in the Storm
ARTICLE BY JILL JANES
Buccaneer Hotel
“In order to realize the worth of the anchor we need to feel the stress of the storm.”
Corrie Ten Boom, famous writer and hero to many once wrote, “In order to realize the worth of the anchor we need to feel the stress of the storm.” Tumultuous times are certain to find us all. From minor to major, the figurative storms of life are inevitable.
In the late 1950’s the storms for aging Texans weren’t so different than they are today. The pain of loneliness and isolation felt by elders around the state had become apparent to a group of Methodist ministers, along with issues like housing, healthcare, transportation, and meals. In an act of faith in 1958, the Texas Annual Conference chartered the Methodist Home for Older People, later to be renamed Methodist Retirement Communities (MRC), a ministry dedicated to caring for older adults. Despite their faith, nothing happened for many years. The concept for this ministry existed only on paper, that is until a storm came through.
On September 11, 1961, Hurricane Carla slammed into the Texas coast becoming the most intense tropical cyclone to make landfall in the 20th century. A brand new, lesser-known newsman at the time named Dan Rather reported live from Galveston during the storm, marking the first ever live television broadcast during a hurricane. A display that would go on to be mimicked by many news anchors in the future. Vice President Lyndon B. Johnson, a Texan himself, toured the devastation in the state saying, “As always, Texans are arising to a challenge. We have suffered hurricane, tornado, and floods, but we in Texas are a bold and brave people.” President John F. Kennedy issued a disaster declaration for the state and deployed United States Marines to Galveston to patrol the devastated areas. Citizens in the area also jumped into action.
Well-known for their philanthropic nature, the Moody family opened the doors of the famous Buccaneer Hotel to those who had lost their homes in the storm as the eleven-story building somehow endured minimal damage compared to the devastation seen across the island.
In the months that followed, the city continued to recover. However, the Moody family found that the hotel had exactly 39 occupants that were greatly
limited with nowhere to go, each of them elderly. It was then they turned to the Texas Annual Conference to donate the building to become a retirement community for older adults. The gift came with the hotel garage, swimming pool and $350,000 to repair the damage caused by Hurricane Carla.
The former hotel reopened its doors on January 1, 1962 as a retirement community called Moody House. These thirty-nine seniors, each paying $135 per month, would become the first ever residents of MRC.
Today, MRC is the largest faith-based, non-profit senior living organization in the State of Texas serving over 2000 residents in 13 senior living communities to include Bryan (since 1970), Huntsville (since 1985), Lufkin (since 1992), Texarkana (since 1996), La Porte (since 2002), League City (since 2015), College Station (since 2018), and Fort Worth (since 2022).
From day one the organization has remained true to its roots. Governed by a volunteer board, MRC reinvests every dollar earned to enrich the lives of the residents with improved programs, services, and amenities rather than lining the pockets of shareholders. Most importantly, the organization continues to mirror and honor the actions of the founders. Just as the Moody family refused to turn their back on these 39 elders with limited resources and nowhere to go, MRC commits to caring for residents who have outlived their money through no fault of their own, giving back a significant amount of benevolent care each year through the donor funded program, MRC’s Covenant Fund.
MRC proudly expanded into the Fort Worth market with Stevenson Oaks offering an amenity rich community boasting of 172 Independent Living apartments, 40 Assisted Living apartments, 24 Memory Support suites, and a robust outpatient rehabilitation program offering physical, occupational, speech therapies.
While visitors are sure to find Stevenson Oaks to be an appealing location, innovative design, pleasing décor, and comfortable furnishings, each of these things would rank very low on the list of why people move there. Even the impressive amenities and comprehensive list of services aren’t at the top.
It’s about connection, assurance, and purpose. “ ”
Instead, the things that seem to endear residents and their families to Stevenson Oaks are much, much deeper, it’s about connection, assurance, and purpose. While many might suggest the greatest barriers older adults face while aging is largely defined by physical or health limitations, MRC carries a philosophy that is unlike others in the industry, the belief that the greatest barriers are actually loneliness, boredom, and a general lack of purpose.
Loneliness is usually the outcome of prolonged isolation and can be more detrimental to one’s overall health than most may initially suspect. In fact, The U.S. Surgeon General’s advisory report says loneliness increases the risk of premature death by 26%, an outcome comparable to smoking 15 cigarettes per day. It is important to note that a person can be around others, and still be lonely, which means the cure for loneliness is genuine connection. Those who go without are likely to see a major decline in health.
Boredom is equally dangerous as it commonly leads to depression, anxiety, and an overall decrease in the quality of life if allowed to become perpetual. Even more concerning is when boredom leads to risky or unhealthy behavior. Boredom is a signal that life is no longer challenging, exciting, or purposeful, all core needs for the human experience. Perhaps one of the most staggering outcomes of prolonged boredom is the increased risk of cognitive decline as the brain is severely lacking in mental stimulation.
Finally, a lack of purpose is often the first red flag to signal the troubles associated with loneliness and boredom are waiting just around the corner, along with an even crueler companion, apathy. The human experience is not best lived as a consumer, but a participant in the world around you. There is a give and take that nurtures meaning and satisfaction in each of us that we matter and have a greater purpose to fulfill.
The staff at Stevenson Oaks are uniquely attuned to making sure each resident feels known and valued as well as feeling purposeful and empowered. While the amenities and spaces are sure to impress, the real heartbeat of Stevenson Oaks seems to thump in rhythm with the early founders of MRC who envisioned a ministry
that could be like an anchor for older adults facing the heavy winds and stormy conditions brought on by aging. A place where elders can avoid the perils of loneliness and boredom while anchoring into purposeful living.
Stevenson Oaks resident Marilyn McClain-Jones shared, “A comradery exists at Stevenson Oaks like nothing I’ve ever been a part of before in my life. While I can have as much privacy as I want, I can find companionship just outside my door when I want it. There are engaging and challenging adventures awaiting me each day, while opportunities to bring my talents and passions to the table abound.”
She continued, “I loved the home I owned before coming here, but the more I understood about emotional, physical, mental, and social wellbeing, I realized there are more areas of my life I needed to tend to that can never be satisfied in my house. My house was just a house, this is a community and it’s just what I need at this stage of life.”
When asked about how they weather the storms of life McClain-Jones summed it up perfectly saying, “Oh the storms have come, and they will surely come again. But now that I’m at Stevenson Oaks, I’ll be ready.”
Oh the storms have come, and they will surely come again. But now that I’m at Stevenson Oaks, I’ll be ready.
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INGREDIENTS
• Bronson’s Original Punch 2oz
• Laird’s Applejack 1oz
• El Guapo Creole Orgeat .50oz
• El Guapo Holiday Bitters 6 dashes
• Cranberry Juice 2oz.
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Combine all ingredients, shake vigorously and pour over crushed ice.
2. Garnish with lemon wheel & cranberries.
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DECEMBER 2024
DECEMBER 1ST
Lightscape
Botanical Garden
Join Fort Worth Botanic Garden for their third annual Lightscape event, a spectacular collaboration with Sony Music. This extraordinary show features custom-designed light installations set against the serene backdrop of nature, creating a festive atmosphere that will enchant guests of all ages. Stroll along sparkling pathways and marvel at breathtaking, never-before-seen artistic displays from around the globe, immersing yourself in the magic of the holiday season.
DECEMBER 2ND
Holiday Art Show at Camp Bowie District
Camp Bowie District | 10:00 AM
Explore a festive display of local art at Camp Bowie’s annual holiday show. Featuring a variety of artists, this week-long event is perfect for art lovers and holiday shoppers alike.
DECEMBER 6TH
Holiday Open House
Trinity Terrace | 2:30 PM
Let Trinity Terrace take your holiday from “ho-hum” to “woo-hoo!” during its holiday open house. Guests are invited to come at their leisure to mingle with residents while enjoying beer, wine, appetizers, and signature party punch. Call (682) 267-6962 to RSVP.
DECEMBER 7TH
Christmas in the Stockyards
Fort Worth Stockyards | 12:00 PM
Celebrate the holidays with a Western twist! The Stockyards offer live music, armadillo races, and a Christmas parade that captures the spirit of Texas.
DECEMBER 7TH Camp Bowie
Christmas Parade
Camp Bowie Blvd | 10:00 AM
The Camp Bowie District will come alive with marching bands, festive floats, and Santa, creating a magical holiday experience for the whole family.
DECEMBER 12TH
Christmas Jazz at Ridglea Theater
Ridglea Theater | 7:00 PM
Enjoy a soulful evening of holiday jazz music with local and regional musicians bringing Christmas classics to life in this historic venue.
DECEMBER 13TH
Holiday Stroll on Magnolia Avenue
Magnolia Avenue | 5:00 PM
Stroll through the beautifully lit streets of Magnolia, enjoying pop-up shops, food trucks, and street performers, all while supporting local businesses.
ART
Art class consists of children learning methods from great artists while activities are strategically chosen to inspire creativity and freedom of expression.
MUSIC
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DECEMBER 14TH
Westside Winter
Wonderland Market
Waterside, 3720 Convair Dr. 10:00 AM
CREATIVE PLAY
Students are exposed to Dalcroze Eurhythmics, Orff instruments (both based on body-brain development), folk dances, heritage music and famous composers.
Children have opportunities to use their imaginations while acting out stories. They develop real life skills through Montessori work and pretend occupational roles.
LANGUAGE ARTS
Letter recognition, phonemic awareness and other elements encompassed under phonological awareness, along with fine motor development and handwriting, are taught through multi-sensory experiences.
MATH
Math is introduced by using an interactive approach using Montessori materials to build foundational mathematical skills.
SCIENCE
Children discover science and the natural world through investigation, observation, hands-on-experiences, and inquiry.
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Shop for holiday gifts at this festive market featuring handmade crafts, local vendors, and family-friendly activities like cookie decorating and hot chocolate stations.
DECEMBER 14TH
Santa’s Pancake Breakfast
Fort Worth Zoo | 9:00 AM
Bring the kids to enjoy a breakfast with Santa Claus amidst the zoo’s festive decorations. Take photos, eat pancakes, and meet the zoo’s friendly creatures.
DECEMBER 15TH
Holiday Tea at The Ashton
The Ashton Hotel | 2:00 PM
Relax with an elegant holiday tea at The Ashton Hotel, complete with seasonal pastries, tea blends, and live carolers.
DECEMBER 16TH
West Fort Christmas
Bird Count
Fort Worth Nature Center | 7:00 AM
Join nature lovers and birdwatchers for a morning counting birds in this scenic area, helping with an ongoing conservation effort. A peaceful and educational way to spend time outdoors during the holidays.
DECEMBER 19TH
Fort Worth Symphony
Holiday Concert
Bass Performance Hall | 8:00 PM
Bask in the beauty of live orchestral music with this annual holiday performance. The Fort Worth Symphony Orchestra delivers a heartwarming mix of classical and modern holiday tunes.
DECEMBER 21ST
Christmas Light Boat Parade
Lake Worth | 6:00 PM
Watch as festively decorated boats light up Lake Worth during the annual boat parade. Bring blankets and hot cocoa to enjoy this unique holiday tradition.
DECEMBER 24TH
Candlelight Christmas Eve Service
Arborlawn United Methodist Church 6:00 PM
Join a serene candlelight service celebrating the true spirit of Christmas with hymns, scripture readings, and community fellowship.
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