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SIX WEEK STUDY OF THE APOSTLESâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; CREED

GROUNDED in

CREED

JIM COWART & MATTHEW HARTSFIELD

SIX WEEK STUDY OF THE APOSTLES' CREED

GROUNDED in

CREED JIM COWART & MATTHEW HARTSFIELD

Copyright ” 2016 by Jim Cowart and Matthew Hartsfield ALL RIGHTS RESERVED Published by Harvest Church and Van Dyke Church Copyright and use of the curriculum template is retained by Brett Eastman. Unless otherwise noted, all scripture quotes are taken from the HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®. Copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 and 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. ISBN #: 978-1-945589-00-3 Printed in the United States of America

Table of Contents Welcome Using This Workbook Outline for Each Session

05 06 08

Sessions 10 24 36 48 60

Appendicies Frequently Asked Questions Small Group Agreement Small Group Calendar Spiritual Partners Memory Verse Cards

86 90 92 93 94

Small Group Leaders Hosting an Open House Leading for the First Time Prayer and Praise Report Small Group Roster Notes

98 101 102 104 105

Session One

I Believe Session Two

In God Session Three

In Jesus Session Four

In the Spirit Session Five

In the Church Session Six

In the Promise

Watch your LIFE and DOCTRINE closely. PERSEVERE in them, because if you do, you will SAVE both YOURSELF and your HEARERS. - 1 Timothy 4:16

VOLUME 1

Welcome Hey Jim and Matthew here. Welcome to Grounded in Creed! For thousands of years the Apostles’ Creed has served the church as a summary statement for essentials of the faith. This short synopsis of the faith is packed with meaning and hope. Joined by our friends, Jorge and Jennifer, we discuss the Apostles’ Creed line-by-line. You’ll also hear questions and insights from several of our friends who gathered to learn more about this timeless treasure. During this 6-week study you’ll have opportunities to share your own ideas and experiences, discuss the Scriptures that support the themes of the Creed, learn from each other and build lasting relationships with the people in your group. We’re excited about what God has in store for you and your group over the next 6 weeks, and we’re praying that you would experience God in a fresh and relevant way as a result of this study.

Using This Workbook in the Table of Contents there are three sections: (1) Sessions; (2) 1 Notice Appendices; and (3) Small Group Leaders. Familiarize yourself with the Appendices. Some of them will be used in the sessions themselves. you are facilitating/leading or co-leading a small group, the Small 2 IfGroup Leaders section will give you some heard-learned experiences of others that will encourage you and help you avoid many common obstacles to effective small group leadership. this workbook as a guide, not a straitjacket. If the group responds 3 Use to the lesson in an unexpected but honest way, go with that. If you think of a better question than the next one in the lesson, ask it. Take to heart the insights included in the Frequently Asked Questions pages and the Small Group Leaders section.

4 Enjoy your small group experience. before each sessionâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;for your group members, for your time 5 Pray together, and for wisdom and insights. the Outline for Each Session on the next pages so that you 6 Read understand how the sessions will flow.

Outline of Each Session A typical group session for the CREED study will include the following sections: WEEKLY MEMORY VERSES. Each session opens with a Memory Verse that emphasizes an important truth from the session. This is an optional exercise, but we believe that memorizing Scripture can be a vital part of filling our minds with God’s will for our lives. We encourage you to give this important habit a try. The verses for our six sessions are also listed in the appendix.

LEARN TOGETHER. In this section, you’ll read the Bible and listen to teaching, in order to hear God’s story—and begin to see how His story aligns with yours. When the study directs you to, you’ll pop in the DVD and watch a short teaching segment. You’ll then have an opportunity to read a passage of Scripture, and discuss both the teaching and the text. You won’t focus on accumulating information but on how you should live in light of the Word of God. We want to help you apply the insights from Scripture practically and creatively, from your heart as well as your head. At the end of the day, allowing the timeless truths from God’s Word to transform our lives in Christ should be your greatest aim. STUDY NOTES. This brief section provides additional commentary, background or insights on the passage you’ll study in the Learn Together section.

INTRODUCTION. Each lesson opens with a brief thought that will help you prepare for the session and get you thinking about the particular subject you will explore with your group. Make it a practice to read these before the session.

GROW AND SERVE TOGETHER. God wants you to be a part of His Kingdom—to weave your story into His. That will mean change. It will require you to go His way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By making small, simple choices, we can begin to change our direction. This is where the Bible’s instructions to “be doers of the Word, not just hearers” (James 1:22) comes into play. Many people skip over this aspect of the Christian life because it's scary, relationally awkward, or simply too much work for their busy schedules. But Jesus wanted all of His disciples to know Him personally, carry out His commands, and help outsiders connect with Him. This doesn't necessarily mean preaching on street corners. It could mean welcoming newcomers, hosting a short-term group in your home, or walking through this study with a friend. In this study, you’ll have an opportunity to go beyond Bible study to biblical living.

COME TOGETHER. The foundation for spiritual growth is an intimate connection with God and His family. You build that connection by sharing your experience with a few people who really know you and who earn your trust. This is helpful preparation for being able to share what Christ has done in your life with anyone you meet—which is what a disciple is ready to do. This section includes some simple questions to get you talking—letting you share as much or as little of your story as you feel comfortable doing. Each session typically offers you two options. You can get to know your whole group by using the icebreaker question(s), or your spiritual partner(s) for a deeper connection and encouragement in your spiritual journey.

SHARE AND WORSHIP TOGETHER. This section (not in every session) will also have a question or two that will challenge you to live out your faith by serving others, sharing your faith, and worshiping God. ADDITIONAL STUDY. If you have time and want to dig deeper into more Bible passages about the topic at hand, we've provided additional passages and questions. Your group may choose to read and prepare ahead of each meeting in order to cover more biblical material. If you prefer not to do study homework, this section will provide you with plenty to discuss within the group. These options allow individuals or the whole group to expand their study while still accommodating those who can’t do homework or are new to your group. DAILY DEVOTIONS. Each week on the Daily Devotions pages, we provide Scriptures to read and reflect on between sessions—a month’s worth of reflections to keep God’s Word near your heart. This provides you with a chance to slow down, read just a small portion of Scripture each day, and reflect and pray through it. You’ll then have a chance to journal your response to what you’ve read. Use this section to seek God on your own throughout the week. This time at home should begin and end with prayer. Don’t get in a hurry; take enough time to hear God’s direction.

01 I Believe

If you declare with your mouth, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Jesus is Lord,â&#x20AC;? and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.

ROMANS 10:9

The Apostles' Creed I BELIEVE IN GOD, THE FATHER ALMIGHTY, MAKER OF HEAVEN AND EARTH; AND IN JESUS CHRIST HIS ONLY SON, OUR LORD; WHO WAS CONCEIVED BY THE HOLY SPIRIT, BORN OF THE VIRGIN MARY, SUFFERED UNDER PONTIUS PILATE, WAS CRUCIFIED, DEAD, AND BURIED; THE THIRD DAY HE ROSE FROM THE DEAD; HE ASCENDED INTO HEAVEN, AND SITTETH AT THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD THE FATHER ALMIGHTY; FROM THENCE HE SHALL COME TO JUDGE THE QUICK AND THE DEAD. I BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT, THE HOLY CATHOLIC CHURCH, THE COMMUNION OF SAINTS, THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS, THE RESURRECTION OF THE BODY, AND THE LIFE EVERLASTING. AMEN.

Before Group Each of us has a story. The events of our life—good, bad, wonderful or challenging—have shaped who we are. God knows your story, and He intends to redeem it—to use every struggle and every joy to ultimately bring you to Himself. When we share our stories with others, we give them the opportunity to see God at work. When we share our stories, we also realize we are not alone—that we have common experiences and thoughts, and that others can understand what we are going through. Your story can encourage someone else, and telling it can lead to a path of freedom for you and for those you share it with. Model good listening. The goal is not to just learn information but develop deeper friendships. If your group is new, welcome newcomers. Introduce everyone—you may even want to have name tags for your first meeting.

5. Small Group Calendar We recommend you rotate host homes on a regular basis and let the hosts lead the meeting. Studies show that healthy groups rotate leadership. This helps to develop every member’s ability to shepherd a few people in a safe environment. Even Jesus gave others the opportunity to serve alongside Him (Mark 6:30-44). Look at the FAQs in the Appendix for additional information about hosting or leading the group.

During Group

1. Pray Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer, in which you invite God to give you insight as you study. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

The Small Group Calendar on page 92 is a tool for planning who will host and lead each meeting. Take a few minutes to plan hosts and leaders for your remaining meetings. Don’t skip this important step! It will revolutionize your group.

2. Roster As you begin this first meeting, get contact information for every participant. Take time to pass around a copy of the Small Group Roster on page 104, a sheet of paper, or one of you pass your Study Guide, opened to the Small Group Roster. Ask someone to make copies or type up a list with everyone’s information and email it to the group during the week.

6. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD: Businesses sometimes have creeds, statements of purpose and identity that guide their behavior. For instance, a few years ago a company called Automatic developed a creed that said things like, “I will never stop learning,” "I will never pass up an opportunity to help out a colleague,” and “I will communicate as much as possible.” Non-profit organizations, universities, and even individuals develop creeds as a way to clarify their mission and define what’s most important.

3. Opening Questions Ask the following questions to get people talking. - What brought you here? What do you hope to get out of this group? - Did you grow up saying the Apostles' Creed, or is it new to you? - Do you have a personal creed or mission statement for your own life?

The Apostles' Creed wasn’t developed for a company website or an annual report. In fact, the twelve apostles themselves didn’t even write it! But this Creed is a guiding summary statement of what Christ followers around the world believe. Over the next few weeks, we’ll look at each line of this centuries-old Creed and explore together how it has shaped our faith in the past—and how it communicates our mission for the future.

4. Small Group Agreement Whether your group is new or ongoing, it’s always important to reflect on and review your values together. On page 90 is a Small Group Agreement with the values we’ve found most useful in sustaining healthy, balanced groups. We recommend that you choose one or two values—ones you haven’t previously focused on or have room to grow in—to emphasize during this study. Choose ones that will take your group to the next stage of intimacy and spiritual health.

Watch The DVD

Video Discussion Questions Why is it so important for the Church, today and throughout time, to have a summary of its basic beliefs?

Are there any lines of The Creed that you ﬁnd diﬃcult to understand? Share that with the group. You are not the only one who has questions!

Use the Notes space provided on page 105 to record key thoughts, questions and things you want to remember or follow up on. After watching the video, have someone read the discussion questions and direct the discussion among the group. As you go through each of the subsequent sections, ask someone else to read the questions and direct the discussion.

How is The Creed the “rock” or foundation of our faith?

As Jorge says, each one of us is an apostle if we have decided to follow Jesus. What would it mean for you to make the Apostles' Creed your creed?

Michelle said she plans to memorize The Creed as a way to internalize its message. Is this something that might help you to grow spiritually, as well?

Hear God's Story

The Apostles Creed tells us it’s not just important that we believe. It’s also important what we believe.

Read Matthew 16:13-18. When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say the Son of Man is?” 14 They replied, “Some say John the Baptist; others say Elijah; and still others, Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” 15 “But what about you?” he asked. “Who do you say I am?” 16 Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 17 Jesus replied, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah, for this was not revealed to you by flesh and blood, but by my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my Church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. Why might Jesus have started this conversation by asking what other people believed about Him?

Why would people have said Jesus was John the Baptist or a prophet? Why was it important for Jesus to correct these misinterpretations?

What does it mean that Peter’s response wasn’t revealed “by flesh and blood”?

How does this foundational statement (verse 16) serve as the foundation for the Church?

Study Notes In the original Greek, the word used for “believe” is “pisteuo.” This word means not only to think something is true, but to place confidence in it. It means not only an intellectual decision or believing in theory, but a life decision—believing in action. When we begin The Creed by saying “I believe,” we are saying we entrust our lives to God the Father and we have confidence that Jesus—and only Jesus—can save us.

Application

God wants you to be part of His Kingdom—to weave your story into His. That will mean change—to go His way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By starting with small, simple choices, we begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way—giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into Scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God.

In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

Q: How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

Q: How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

Circles of Life Diagram Take a look at the Circles of Life diagram below and write the names of two or three people you know who need to know Christ. Commit to praying for God’s guidance and an opportunity to share with each of them. Perhaps they would be open to joining the group? Share your lists with the group so you can all be praying for the people you’ve identified.

FAMILY Immediate or extended

FAMILIAR

FRIENDS

Neighbors, kids’ sports teams, school, and so forth.

FUN

FIRM

Gym, hobbies, hangouts

Work

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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After Group Also consider someone—in this group or outside it— that you can begin going deeper with in an intentional way. This might be your mom or dad, a cousin, an aunt or uncle, a roommate, a college buddy, or a neighbor. Choose someone who might be open to “doing life” with you at a deeper level and pray about that opportunity.

For additional study If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time before the next meeting to dig into His Word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own and jot your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. A great way to gain insight on a passage is to read it in several different translations. You may want to use a Bible app or website to compare translations. Read 1 Peter 3:15-16. What would it mean for you to be prepared as verse 15 says? How could the Apostles' Creed be part of that?

What two attitudes should characterize our sharing of what we believe?

What is the result of sharing with people this way?

Read Romans 10:9-13. elief in Christ is the foundation of our faith. What do you B think it means to “believe in your heart”?

How would you interpret verse 11? How does belief in Him protect us from shame?

The Creed summarizes a faith that is open to everyone who believes! How can we “call on the name of the Lord” and be saved?

Daily Devotionals

This week how will you interact with the Bible? Can you commit to spending time in daily prayer or study of God’s Word. Tell the group how you plan to follow Jesus this week, and then, at your next meeting, talk about your progress and challenges.

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read John 14:12

Read Mark 9:24

Read John 20:29

Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.

Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!”

Then Jesus told him, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”

Respond: When we truly believe in Jesus, He equips us to do great things in His name. As you begin this week, re-read the Creed and consider what it says. Do you believe these statements? What would it mean to build your life on them?

Respond: This is such an honest statement. We do believe in Christ, yet at times we also struggle with doubts and confusion. Ask God to “help your unbelief” and help you grow in your faith through this study.

Respond: Unlike the apostles, we believe in Jesus even though we weren’t eyewitnesses to his life, death, and resurrection. This means we are especially blessed by Him!

Day 4

Day 5

Read Romans 4:3

Read John 3:16.

“Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness.”

Respond: Belief is a powerful thing; Abraham believed who God said He was and what He said He would do, and this belief made him right in God’s eyes.

Day 6

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

Respond: You’ve probably heard this verse before, but consider it in light of this week’s study. Why is our belief in God and His Son so important? Have you accepted His love for you and His gift of eternal life?

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

02 In God

Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.

ISAIAH 64:8

Before Group Help People Share As we said last week, when we share our stories with others, we give them the opportunity to see God at work. Your story is being shaped, even in this moment, by being part of this group. In fact, few things can shape us more than community. When we share our stories, we can encourage someone else and learn. We experience the presence of God as He helps us be brave enough to reveal our thoughts and feelings.

4. Spiritual Partners Pair up with someone in your group. (We suggest that men partner with men and women with women.) This person will be your spiritual partner for the rest of this study. He or she doesn’t have to be your best friend. Instead, this person will simply encourage you to complete the goals you set for yourself during this study. Following through on a resolution is tough when you’re on your own; it makes all the difference to have a partner to cheer you on.

During Group

1. Pray Open your group with prayer. This should be a brief, simple prayer in which you invite God to be with you as you meet. You can pray for specific requests at the end of the meeting, or stop momentarily to pray if a particular situation comes up during your discussion.

5. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD:

2. Opening Questions Ask the following questions to get people talking.

When we’re young, we think our dad can do anything—he’s smart enough to solve any problem, strong enough to carry anything, and brave enough to scare away all the monsters under our bed. However, as we grow up we realize that our dads are just regular people. Even if we’re fortunate enough to have a really good dad, we understand that he’s just a man with plenty of faults and flaws.

- What are three words you would use to describe God? - Share with the group one or two of your favorite parts of God’s creation—for example, the ocean, the change of seasons, or even a favorite food. 3. Circles of Life In the last session we asked you to write some names in the Circles of Life diagram. Who did you identify as the people in your life who need to meet Jesus? Go back to the Circles of Life diagram on page 17 to help you think of various people you come in contact with on a regular basis; people who need to know Jesus more deeply. Consider ideas for action and make a plan to follow through on one of them this week.

This week we’re studying what it means to call God both our father and our creator. When we truly understand both of these characteristics—both the power and authority of the King who created everything and the tender love of a daddy who loves each one of us individually—our relationship with God is transformed. Our Dad can do anything—and he would do anything for us.

Watch The DVD

Video Discussion Questions We talked a lot in this session about what it means to call God our Father. Now think about the word “almighty.” Perhaps ask someone in the group to look up the deﬁnition on their phone. What does it mean to say in The Creed that God is the Father Almighty?

How does Jesus show us who God is? What are some things you know to be true of Jesus? What does that tell you about God?

React to the idea that Jesus is inviting us to relate to God as our dad. Does this change your ideas about who God is and how He wants to relate to you?

If you prayed the prayer to receive God as your Father and Jesus as your Savior, be sure and tell at least one other person in the group! Let them celebrate with you!

When we say the creed, we're saying "I believe in this God, and I’m calling him my heavenly father— my heavenly dad."

Hear God's Story Read Romans 8:14-17 For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. 15 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” 16 The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs— heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in His sufferings in order that we may also share in His glory. 14

How do we know if God is our Father? (verse 14)

What attitude should we have toward God as His children? (verse 15)

What does it mean that we are adopted into God’s family? How does this idea help you understand God as your Father?

Think of it! We are God’s heirs—the heirs of the Creator of everything! What will we inherit as His adopted children?

Study Notes As we discussed this week, it can be difficult to relate to God as a Father if our own dads have been negative influences on our lives, or if we’ve never known our dads at all. Many times throughout the Bible, God reminds His people that He is not only a Father to all those who believe in Him, but that He has a special place in His heart for those without an earthly father. If this is you, spend some time this week reflecting on these verses. A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling. God sets the lonely in families, he leads out the prisoners with singing, but the rebellious live in a sun-scorched land. (Psalm 68:5-6)

Application In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

This is what the Lord says: Do what is just and right. Rescue from the hand of the oppressor the one who has been robbed. Do no wrong or violence to the foreigner, the fatherless or the widow, and do not shed innocent blood in this place. (Jeremiah 22:3)

How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed. Take up the cause of the fatherless; plead the case of the widow. (Isaiah 1:17)

How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

When you are harvesting in your field and you overlook a sheaf, do not go back to get it. Leave it for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow, so that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hands. When you beat the olives from your trees, do not go over the branches a second time. Leave what remains for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow. When you harvest the grapes in your vineyard, do not go over the vines again. Leave what remains for the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow. Remember that you were slaves in Egypt. That is why I command you to do this. (Deuteronomy 24:19-22) 30

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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After Group For additional study: If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time before the next meeting to dig into His Word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own and jot your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. A great way to gain insight on a passage is to read it in several different translations. You may want to use a Bible app or website to compare translations. Read John 14:6-11 How does Jesus make it possible to know the Father? What does it mean that Jesus is “in” the Father, and that the Father is “in” Jesus? What is some of the evidence that can lead us to believe in Jesus?

Read Psalm 8. What does the scope and beauty of the creation tell us about God? Despite the power of the Creator, verse 4 says that He is “mindful” of us and cares for us. How does that impact your understanding of God as Father? In what ways are we “crowned with glory and honor”? How did God entrust us with His creation? What does that say about His love for us?

Daily Devotionals

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read Ephesians 4:4-6

Read Nehemiah 9:6

Read James 1:17

There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

You alone are the Lord. You made the heavens, even the highest heavens, and all their starry host, the earth and all that is on it, the seas and all that is in them. You give life to everything, and the multitudes of heaven worship you.

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.

Respond: Our heavenly Father is in charge of everything, he knows everything, and he can do anything! As you begin this week, spend some time simply praising God for who He is.

Respond: What part of creation is especially aweinspiring for you? Is it the deep, deep oceans, with entire mountain ranges on the ocean floor? Is it the vastness of the universe? The same God who made that is your Father!

Respond: Our Father can be trusted—to give us good gifts, and to be the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow.

Day 4

Day 5

Read Isaiah 66:1-2

Read Luke 12:32

This is what the Lord says: “Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool. Where is the house you will build for me? Where will my resting place be? Has not my hand made all these things, and so they came into being?” declares the Lord.

Respond: We can’t create anything original that will please God, but we can give Him our lives. What do you need to give to God?

Day 6

“Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom.

Respond: Jesus came to earth so that we could know the Father and be part of His Kingdom—to live according to His ways and to know Him personally. As this week ends, consider what it means to be loved by such a great Father.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

03 In Jesus

For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

HEBREWS 12:2

Before Group Help People Share Each of us has a story. The events of our life—good, bad, wonderful or challenging—have shaped who we are. God knows your story, and He intends to redeem it—to use every struggle and every joy to ultimately bring you to Himself. When we share our stories with others, we give them the opportunity to see God at work. When we share our stories, we also realize we are not alone—that we have common experiences and thoughts, and that others can understand what we are going through. Your story can encourage someone else, and telling it can lead to a path of freedom for you and for those you share it with. Model good listening. The goal is not to just learn information but develop deeper friendships.

4. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD:

During Group

Without Christ, there would be no Christianity. That seems obvious, but think about it—it’s only because Jesus, God’s Son, was born on earth, lived a sinless life, offered up His life as a sacrifice, died for us, and then conquered death by returning to life, that we have our faith and our relationship with God the Father. Jesus is the foundation of our faith, and this is reflected in the Apostles' Creed. This week we’re diving into what the creed has to say about Jesus, from his birth to his death to his eternal reign in heaven. Let’s get started!

2. Opening Questions Ask the following question to get people talking. What is your favorite story in the Bible about Jesus?

3. Spiritual Partners Sit with your spiritual partner. If your partner is absent or you are new to the group, join with another pair or someone who doesn’t yet have a partner. If you haven’t established your spiritual partnership yet, do it now.

Watch The DVD

Video Discussion Questions Why is so much of The Creed devoted to talking about Jesus? Why is so little devoted to his earthly ministry?

What does it mean to call Jesus our Lord?

Why does this part of The Creed end with an emphasis on Jesus at the right hand of God?

What aspect of these nine lines about Jesus is most powerful to you, or speaks most to you at this time in your life?

Hear God's Story

The creed names specific people, and it's grounded in history.

Read Colossians 1:15-17 The Son is is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. 16 For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him. 17 He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. 15

Last week we talked about how Jesus, the Son, shows us God the Father. How does this passage reinforce that idea?

How is Jesus “the firstborn” of creation? How is He the firstborn from among the dead?

What is the significance of even the rulers and authorities being created “through him and for him.”

How is Jesus “before all things”?

Study Notes The last lines that we studied today say that Jesus “sitteth at the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence he shall come to judge the quick and the dead.” But what does that mean? The team talked a little about this in week one; as Jen said, it’s easy to wonder what happens to the slow and alive! But this somewhat ancient language is simply a way of saying that Jesus will judge both the living and the dead. The original meaning for “quick” was not fast, as we think of it today, but alive; for instance, the first movements of a baby in his mother’s womb are still referred to as the “quickening.” So this phrase is simply saying that Jesus is sitting at the right hand of God, sharing His glory and His power, and eventually judging all of creation.

Application God wants you to be part of His Kingdom—to weave your story into His. That will mean change—to go His way rather than your own. This won’t happen overnight, but it should happen steadily. By starting with small, simple choices, we begin to change our direction. The Holy Spirit helps us along the way—giving us gifts to serve the body, offering us insights into Scripture, and challenging us to love not only those around us but those far from God. In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom you’ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what you’ve learned.

How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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After Group For additional study: If you feel God nudging you to go deeper, take some time before the next meeting to dig into His Word. Explore the Bible passages related to this session’s theme on your own and jot your reflections in a journal or in this study guide. A great way to gain insight on a passage is to read it in several different translations. You may want to use a Bible app or website to compare translations. Read John 1:1-5, 9-14 What does it mean that Jesus is the Word?

How is Jesus the light of the world?

Why is it so important that Jesus brought grace? Why is it important that He brought truth?

Read Philippians 2:5-11 In this passage, what characteristics of Jesus are given as examples for us to imitate?

How did Jesus “make himself nothing”?

How does The Creed echo this passage? What similarities do you see between the two?

Daily Devotionals

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read Colossians 3:1

Read Hebrews 12:2

Read 1 John 4:9

Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.

Respond:

If you are a Christian, you have been raised to new life just as Jesus was raised from the dead. What would it mean for you to set your heart on heavenly things?

What was the joy Jesus was looking forward to? How did He “scorn the shame” of the cross?

God sent Jesus to be born, suffer, and die as an act of love for us. Take a few minutes to thank Him for this gift and for the opportunity of new life.

Day 4

Day 5

Read 1 Timothy 2:5-6

Read Isaiah 9:6

For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all people.

Respond: God loves you so much that He wants a personal relationship with you—and Jesus loves you so much that He died to make it possible.

Day 6

For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

Respond: Which of these descriptions for Jesus is most meaningful to you? End the week by thanking Him for working in your life this way.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

04 In the Spirit

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

ROMANS 15:13

Before Group Help People Share As we have said in previous lessons, sharing our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Your story may be exactly what another person needs to hear, and your listening to othersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; stories is an act of love and kindness to themâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and could very well help them to grow spiritually.

4. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD:

During Group

One of our friends teaches a four-year-olds Sunday school class at her church, and on a recent Sunday it was her turn to lead the class. She was excited about it until she glanced over the teacher’s book and realized that week’s lesson was on the Holy Spirit—a topic that’s hard enough for many adults to understand, much less a room full of preschoolers!

In fact, the whole idea of the Trinity can be confusing. How can God be a Father, a Son, and a Spirit at the same time? How are they different, and why do we need all three? What does the Holy Spirit do, and how do we know when the Spirit is working? Theologians have wrestled with these questions for centuries, and it’s okay if we have questions, too. However, while we may not understand everything about the Holy Spirit, the Bible is very clear that the Spirit is real and is part of our lives as Christians. This week we’ll explore more of what that means and why we, along with believers throughout the ages, can confidently say, “I believe in the Holy Spirit.”

2. Opening Questions Ask the following question to get people talking. What understanding do you have about the Holy Spirit as we begin this session? Is it a new idea for you?

3. Spiritual Partners Sit with your spiritual partner. If your partner is absent or if you are new to the group, join with another pair or someone who doesn’t yet have a partner. If you haven’t established your spiritual partnership yet, do it now. Share one prayer request and one thing you want to thank God for. Spend some time praying about what you’ve shared.

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Video Discussion Questions How does the Holy Spirit make us more holy, or “sanctiﬁed”? How does the Spirit help us encounter or experience God?

The teaching team shared several words for the Holy Spirit: advocate, guide, comforter, encourager, counselor. Which of these describe your experience with the Spirit in your own life?

Why is it so important that the Spirit is also the Spirit of truth?

Consider Matthew’s relationship analogy. How does this help you understand the Trinity?

Can we live the Christian life without the Holy Spirit?

Take a chance, be vulnerable with your group, and share one way you want the Holy Spirit to change you or work in your life in a greater way.

Hear God's Story

The Holy Spirit is actually God working in us to help us follow him.

Read John 14:15-18 “If you love me, keep my commands. 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. 18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 15

How does the Spirit advocate for us?

Why does the world resist the Holy Spirit?

What does it mean for the Spirit to be “in” us?

How does Jesus encourage His followers in this passage?

Study Notes Some of Jesus’ most significant teaching on the Holy Spirit is found in the book of John. A few of those passages were chosen for this week’s study, but if you want to go deeper, take a few minutes to read John 14 – 16 in one sitting. What do these chapters say about who the Holy Spirit is, what the Spirit does, and why?

How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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Read John 3:3-8 What does this passage tell us about being “born again”?

How are we born of water? How are we born of the Spirit?

How is the Spirit like the wind?

Read Galatians 5:13-26 What does it mean to walk by the Spirit?

What does the Spirit desire?

What is one fruit that the Spirit is developing in your life?

Daily Devotionals

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read Luke 11:13

Read Romans 8:26

Read Acts 1:8

If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!”

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.

Respond:

This is an amazing thought—the Spirit of God prays for us when we are not sure how to pray. Does this encourage you in your walk with God?

The Holy Spirit not only encourages us, He also pushes us to take action and share the good news about Jesus. How is the Holy Spirit helping you share your faith?

Respond: The Holy Spirit is a gift and a blessing for all who follow Christ. Thank God for giving you this great gift.

Day 4

Day 5

Read Romans 15:13

Read Romans 5:5

Day 6

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.

And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.

Respond:

How do we tap into the hope that God wants to give us?

The Holy Spirit makes a way for us to experience God’s great love. Take a few minutes simply to rest in the knowledge of God’s love for you.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

05 In the Church

Christ is faithful as the Son over Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s house. And we are his house, if indeed we hold firmly to our confidence and the hope in which we glory.

HEBREWS 3:6

Before Group Help People Share Telling our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Sharing our stories requires us to be honest. We can help one another be honest and open by creating a safe place; be sure that your group is one where confidentiality is respected, where there is no such thing as â&#x20AC;&#x153;stupid questions,â&#x20AC;? where you listen without criticizing one another.

4. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD:

During Group

Some churches are small, with a few rows of chairs in rented space. Some churches are huge, with thousands of seats in massive auditoriums. Some churches are old, and their buildings need a facelift, while other churches are brand-new, with beautiful cafés or sports facilities.

There are a lot of different kinds of church buildings, but in reality, none of these are the Church. Instead, The Church is people—all of the people who have accepted Jesus as their Savior and Lord. Today we’re looking at the lines of The Creed that affirm belief in the Church, in the importance of our Christian brothers and sisters, and in the forgiveness we find in Jesus. Together, we are the people of God, and He is building us into His Church.

2. Opening Questions Ask the following questions to get people talking. Did you grow up attending church or is attending church a newer thing for you?

What is a saint? Can you name any famous saints?

3. Spiritual Partners Sit with your spiritual partner. If your partner is absent or if you are new to the group, join with another pair or someone who doesn’t yet have a partner. If you haven’t established your spiritual partnership yet, do it now. Answer this question: how has being in this group impacted your personal relationship with God?

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Video Discussion Questions Is it a new thought for you that God created The Church—that it was His idea, not ours? Does that change how you view The Church?

Why is connection with other believers so important?

How is The Church holy? How do we “keep watch” to remain holy?

Why is it signiﬁcant that there is one united Church? How is Jesus the head of the Church?

Are there sins you need to repent of and seek forgiveness for? Remember, God is faithful and just and will forgive our sins. Are there things you need to forgive others for?

Hear God's Story

If the church isn’t perfect, it’s because it’s full of people like me—people who also a ren’t perfect and who need forgiveness.

Read Ephesians 4:11-16 So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, 12 to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. 14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming.15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. 16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. 11

What is the job of the pastors, teachers, and other leaders in The Church?

What does it mean to have unity as a church family?

Why is maturity so important? (verse 14)

What does it mean to speak truth in love?

What is our responsibility as part of Christ’s body, The Church? (verse 16)

Study Notes Research by groups like the Stanford Forgiveness Project repeatedly show the benefits of forgiveness. “The practice of forgiveness has been shown to reduce anger, hurt, depression, and stress and leads to greater feelings of hope, peace, compassion, and selfconfidence,” they write. Practicing forgiveness leads to healthy relationships as well as physical health. It also influences our attitude which opens the heart to kindness, beauty, and love.”

Application

Their website (http://learningtoforgive.com/9-steps/) also includes a nine-step process for forgiveness that includes the important point that “Forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciliation with the person that hurt you, or condoning of their action.”

Although we should always look to God’s Word as our primary authority on how and why we forgive others and release bitterness, tools like these can be valuable, especially if we are struggling with deep hurts.

How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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Read 1 Corinthians 3:6-11 What is our role in God’s work? What is God’s role?

In the context of this passage, what does it mean for The Church to be God’s field?

How is Jesus the foundation of The Church?

Read Colossians 3:12-17 Which of the character traits listed in verse 12 is easiest for you? Which is most difficult?

How does love bind together every other virtue?

What does it mean to be called to peace?

How can you apply the final verses of this passage into your own life?

Daily Devotionals

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read Acts 2:46-47

Read Hebrews 10:24-25

Read Ephesians 2:21-22

They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.

In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit.

Respond:

When we are living in peace with each other and serving God, people are attracted to The Church! How can you live out this verse and draw others to Jesus?

This passage reminds us how important it is to worship, pray, study, and grow together. Take a few minutes to pray for the others in your group. How can you encourage them in their faith?

Once again in this passage, we as The Church are the building or temple of God. How do you see God building us together as the home of His Spirit?

Day 4

Day 5

Read Psalm 122:9

Read Colossians 1:19-20

For the sake of the house of the Lord our God, I will seek your prosperity.

Respond: We bear each other’s burdens, forgive each other, and choose to love not only for ourselves; we seek the good of other believers for the sake of the Church. How can you “seek the prosperity” of someone else for Jesus’ sake this week?

Day 6

For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross.

Respond: We end the week with this verse that Jen read on the video. Because of what Jesus did on the cross, we can have peace with Him and peace with others. Spend some time contemplating this verse and reading it slowly to yourself a few times. Listen to what God might be saying to you.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

06 In the Promise

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.Â I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand.Â

JOHN 10:27-28

Before Group Help People Share As we have said in previous lessons, sharing our personal stories builds deeper connections among group members. Your story may be exactly what another person needs to hear to encourage or strengthen them. And your listening to othersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; stories is an act of love and kindness to themâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and could very well help them to grow spiritually.

4. DVD Have a volunteer read the following before you watch the DVD:

During Group

When Jesus was crucified on the cross, He was the perfect sacrifice for sin who died in our place. When He was raised back to life, He was the champion over death. As we studied in week three, these amazing events are core to who Christ is and why we follow Him.

But The Creed ends with another look at Jesusâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; life and death and relates it to our own experience. Because Jesus died, we have life. Because Jesus rose from the dead, we have eternal life. This week, we close our study by focusing on how every other line in The Creed leads to a final, incredible affirmation: belief in our own resurrection and in the life to come.

2. Opening Questions Ask the following questions to get people talking. What has surprised you most about this group? Where did God meet you over the last six weeks?

What do you hope heaven will be like? What do you know about how the Bible describes heaven?

3. Spiritual Partners Take time in this final session to connect with your spiritual partner. What has God been showing you through these sessions? What positive changes has your partner noticed in you? Check in with each other about the progress you have made in your spiritual growth during this study. Make plans about whether you will continue your relationship after the group has concluded.

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Video Discussion Questions Why do we get a new â&#x20AC;&#x153;resurrectedâ&#x20AC;? body?

What are you most looking forward to when you get to be with Jesus? Asking Him a question? Getting a hug? Worshiping Him?

How does the promise of eternity help you handle the struggles of this life?

After studying the entire Creed, which part has especially spoken to your life?

Hear God's Story

We don't have to know everything about the next life to know that it will be so good.

Read Revelation 21:1-7. Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,” for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. 2 I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” 5 He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” 6 He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. 7 Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children. 1

What is the “Holy City” in verse 2?

How does God dwell with us now? How will He dwell with us in eternity?

What is the “old order of things” that will pass away? What will it be replaced with?

How do we become victorious? (verse 7)

Study Notes We sometimes picture heaven full of clouds, people floating around wearing white robes and haloes. But the Bible paints a very different picture of what we can look forward to during eternity with God. Here are some of the insights Scripture gives us about what “life everlasting” will really be like. What surprises you? What encourages you? I did not see a temple in the city, because the Lord God Almighty and the Lamb are its temple. The city does not need the sun or the moon to shine on it, for the glory of God gives it light, and the Lamb is its lamp. The nations will walk by its light, and the kings of the earth will bring their splendor into it. On no day will its gates ever be shut, for there will be no night there. The glory and honor of the nations will be brought into it. Nothing impure will ever enter it, nor will anyone who does what is shameful or deceitful, but only those whose names are written in the Lamb’s book of life. Revelation 21:22-27

ought to live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming. That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells. 2 Peter 3:10-13

Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, as clear as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb down the middle of the great street of the city. On each side of the river stood the tree of life, bearing twelve crops of fruit, yielding its fruit every month. And the leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations. No longer will there be any curse. The throne of God and of the Lamb will be in the city, and his servants will serve him. They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads. There will be no more night. They will not need the light of a lamp or the light of the sun, for the Lord God will give them light. And they will reign forever and ever. Revelation 22:1-5

Jesus replied, “The people of this age marry and are given in marriage. But those who are considered worthy of taking part in the age to come and in the resurrection from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage, and they can no longer die; for they are like the angels. They are God’s children, since they are children of the resurrection. Luke 20:34-36

But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare. Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You 78

Application How has God changed your story during this six-week study? What new things is He asking you to do? What truth has transformed your heart? Think about specific steps you want to take to live a new story, to walk more closely with God so you can be part of His story, engaged in His Kingdom. In this section, talk about how you will apply the wisdom youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve learned from the teaching and Bible study. Then think about practical steps you can take in the coming week to live out what youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve learned. How can we apply this lesson as a group? Examples:

How can we apply this lesson as individuals? Examples:

Prayer

Ask, “How can we pray for you this week?” Invite everyone to share, but don’t force the issue. Be sure to write prayer requests on your Prayer and Praise Report on page 102.

Close your meeting with prayer.

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Read 1 Corinthians 15:20-26 How is Christ the “firstfruits” of all those who have died?

What is our connection to Adam? What is our connection to Christ?

What are some of the authorities and powers that Jesus will conquer

Read John 17:1-3 What is Jesus’ description of eternal life?

How did Jesus bring glory to God?

How did God answer this prayer?

Daily Devotionals

This week how will you interact with the Bible? Can you commit to spending time in daily prayer or study of God’s Word. Tell the group how you plan to follow Jesus this week.

Day 1

Day 2

Day 3

Read Romans 6:23

Read John 5:28-29

Read Romans 8:38-39

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Do not be amazed at this, for a time is coming when all who are in their graves will hear his voice and come out—those who have done what is good will rise to live, and those who have done what is evil will rise to be condemned.

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Respond:

What an incredible thought! Thank you, Jesus, for saving us so that we can rise to live with You.

Nothing, not even death, can separate us from God’s love. Spend a few minutes reflecting on these verses and thanking God for His love.

Respond: How is death the result of sin? How does eternal life conquer both sin and death?

Day 4

Day 5

Read Philippians 3:20-21

Read John 14:2-3

Day 6

But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.

My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.

Respond:

We are all citizens of an earthly country, but more important is whether we are citizens of heaven. What does God promise to those who are citizens of His Kingdom?

Even now, Jesus is preparing your “room” in the new heavens and new earth. Thank Him for the many ways He cares for you in this life and the next.

Use the following space to write any thoughts God has put in your heart and mind about the things we have looked at in this session and during your Daily Devotions time this week.

Appendix Great resources to help make your small group experience even better!

FAQs What do we do on the first night of our group?

Like all fun things in life–have a party! A “get-to-know-you” coffee, dinner, or dessert is a great way to launch a new study. You may want to review the Group Agreement (page 90) and share the names of a few friends you can invite to join you. But most importantly, have fun before your study time begins.

This can be troubling, especially for new groups who have only a few people or for existing groups that lose a few people along the way. We encourage you to pray with your group and then brainstorm a list of people from work, church, your neighborhood, your children’s school, family, the gym, and so forth. Then, have each group member invite several of the people on his or her list.

Where do we find new members for our group?

No matter how you find members, it’s vital that you stay on the lookout for new people to join your group. All groups tend to go through healthy attrition—the result of moves, releasing new leaders, ministry opportunities, and so forth—and if the group gets too small, it could be at risk of shutting down. If you and your group stay open, you’ll be amazed at the people God sends your way. The next person just might become a friend for life. You never know!

How long will this group meet?

It’s totally up to the group—once you come to the end of this 6-week study. Most groups meet weekly for at least their first 6 weeks, but every other week can work as well. We strongly recommend that the group meets for the first six months on a weekly basis if at all possible. This allows for continuity, and if people miss a meeting they aren’t gone for a whole month.

At the end of this study, each group member may decide if he or she wants to continue on for another study. Some groups launch relationships for years to come and others are stepping-stones into another group experience. Either way, enjoy the journey.

Can we do this study on our own?

Absolutely! This may sound crazy, but one of the best ways to do this study is not with a full house but with a few friends. You may choose to gather with another couple who would enjoy some relational time (perhaps going to the movies or having a quiet dinner) and then walking through this study. Jesus will be with you even if there are only two of you (Matthew 18:20).

You’re not alone! This could be the result of a personality conflict, life stagedifference, geographical distance, level of spiritual maturity, or any number of things. Relax. Pray for God’s direction; and at the end of this 6-week study, decide whether to continue with this group or find another. You don’t typically buy the first car you look at or marry the first person you date, and the same goes with a group. However, don’t bail out before the 6 weeks are up—God might have something to teach you. Also, don’t run from conflict or prejudge people before you have given them a chance. God is still working in your life, too!

What if this group is not working for us?

Most groups have an official leader. Ideally, however, the group will mature and members will rotate the leadership of meetings. We have discovered that healthy groups rotate hosts/leaders and homes on a regular basis. This model ensures that all members grow, give their unique contribution, and develop their gifts. This study guide and the Holy Spirit can keep things on track even when you rotate leaders. Christ has promised to be in your midst as you gather. Ultimately, God is your leader each step of the way.

How do we handle the childcare needs in our group?

Who is the leader?

Very carefully. Seriously, this can be a sensitive issue. We suggest that you empower the group to openly brainstorm solutions. You may try one option that works for a while and then adjust over time. Our favorite approach is for adults to meet in the living room or dining room and to share the cost of a babysitter (or two) who can watch the kids in a different part of the house. This way, parents donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to be away from their children all evening when their children are too young to be left at home. A second option is to use one home for the kids and a second home (close by or a phone call away) for the adults. A third idea is to rotate the responsibility of care for the children, either in the same home or in another home nearby. This can be an incredible blessing for kids. Finally, the most common solution is to decide that you need to have a night to invest in your spiritual lives individually or as a couple and to make your own arrangements for childcare. No matter what decision the group makes, the best approach is to dialogue openly about both the problem and the solution.

Small Group Agreement

To provide a predictable environment where participants experience authentic community and spiritual growth.

Group Attendance Give priority to the group meeting. We will call or email if we will be late or absent. (Completing the Group Calendar will minimize this issue.) Safe Environment Help create a safe place where people can be heard and feel loved. (Please, no quick answers, snap judgments, or simple fixes.) Respect Differences Be gentle and gracious to people with different spiritual maturity, personal opinions, temperaments, or â&#x20AC;&#x153;imperfectionsâ&#x20AC;? in fellow group members. We are all works in progress. Confidentiality Keep anything that is shared strictly confidential and within the group, and to avoid sharing improper information about others outside the group. Encouragement Be not just takers but givers of life. We want to spiritually multiply our life by serving others with our God-given gifts. Shared Ownership Remember that every member is a minister and ensure that each attender will share a small team role or responsibility over time Rotating Hosts & Homes Encourage different people to host the group in their homes, and rotate the responsibility of facilitating each meeting. (See the Group Calendar)

Our Time Together Refreshments:

Childcare:

When we will meet (day of week):

Where we will meet (place):

We will begin at (time):

and end at:

We will do our best to attend worship service together. Our primary worship service time will be:

Date of this agreement:

Date we will review this agreement again:

Who (other than the leader) will review this agreement at the end of this study:

Small Group Calendar

Planning and calendaring can help ensure the greatest participation at every meeting. At the end of each meeting, review this calendar. Be sure to include a regular rotation of host homes and leaders, and encourage every member to take on some role of responsibility in the group.

DATE

5/4

LESSON HOST HOME

1 1 2 3 4 5 6

Mike

HOSPITALITY

LEADER

ADMIN

PRAYER

Sandra Billy Lori Sam

Team Roles: Host Home: Prepare your home to host the group meeting.

Admin: Send out emails, keep roster and take notes to share.

Hospitality: Welcome people in the group and provide refreshments.

Prayer: Open/close in prayer and send out prayer requests.

Leader: Prepare for lesson and facilitate discussion during meeting.

Spiritual Partnersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Check-In

Briefly check in each week, and write down your personal plans and progress targets for the next week. This could be done before or after the meeting, on the phone, through an e-mail message, or even in person from time to time.

My Name: Spiritual Partnerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Name: OUR PROGRESS

Week 6

Week 5

Week 4

Week 3

Week 2

Week 1

OUR PLAN

Memory Verses SESSION ONE If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:9 SESSION TWO Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand. Isaiah 64:8 SESSION THREE For the joy set before Him He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 SESSION FOUR May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 15:13 SESSION FIVE Christ is faithful as the Son over God’s house. And we are His house, if indeed we hold firmly to our confidence and the hope in which we glory. Hebrews 3:6 SESSION SIX My sheep listen to My voice; I know them, and they follow Me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of My hand. John 10:27-28

Small Group Leaders Key resources to help your leadership experience be the best it can be.

Hosting an Open House If you’re starting a new group, try planning an “open house” before your first formal group meeting. Even if you have only two to four core members, it’s a great way to break the ice and to prayerfully consider who else might be open to joining you over the next few weeks. You can also use this kick-off meeting to hand out study guides, spend some time getting to know each other, discuss each person’s expectations for the group and briefly pray for each other.

Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson.

A simple meal or good desserts always make a kick-off meeting more fun. After people introduce themselves and share how they ended up being at the meeting (you can play a game to see who has the wildest story!), have everyone respond to a few icebreaker questions: - What is your favorite family vacation? - What is one thing you love about your church/our community? - What are three things about your life growing up that most people here don’t know? Next, ask everyone to tell what he or she hopes to get out of the study. You might want to review the Small Group Agreement and talk about each person’s expectations and priorities. Finally, set an open chair (maybe two) in the center of your group and explain that it represents someone who would enjoy or benefit from this group but who isn’t yet here. Ask people to pray about inviting someone to join the group over the next few weeks. Hand out postcards and have everyone write an invitation or two. Don’t worry about ending up with too many people; you can always have one discussion circle in the living room and another in the dining room after you watch the lesson. Each group could then report prayer requests and progress at the end of the session. You can skip this kick-off meeting if your time is limited, but you’ll experience a huge benefit if you take the time to connect with each other in this way.

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Leading for the first time Ten common leadership experiences. Welcome to life out in front! Sweaty palms are a healthy sign. The Bible says God is gracious to the humble. Remember who is in control; the time to worry is when you're not worried. Those who are soft in heart (and sweaty palmed) are those through whom God is sure to speak. Seek support. Ask your leader, co-leader, or close friend to pray for you and prepare with you before the session. Walking through the study will help you anticipate potentially difficult questions and discussion topics. Bring your uniqueness to the study. Lean into who you are and how God wants you to uniquely lead the study. Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Go through the session several times. If you are using the DVD, listen to the teaching segment ahead of time. Consider writing in a journal or fasting for a day to prepare yourself for what God wants to do. Don't wait until the last minute to prepare. Ask for feedback so you can grow. Perhaps in an email or on cards handed out at the study, have everyone write down three things you did well and one thing on which you could improve.. Don't get defensive. Instead, show an openness to learn and grow. Prayerfully consider launching a new group. This doesn't need to happen overnight, but God's heart is for this to take place over time. Not all Christians are called to be leaders or teachers, but we are all called to someday be "shepherds" of a few. Share with your group what God is doing in your heart. God is searching for those whose hearts are fully his. Share your trials and victories. We promise that people will relate. Prayerfully consider to whom you would like to pass the baton next week. It's only fair. God is ready for the next member of your group to go on the faith journey you just traveled. Make it fun, and expect God to do the rest. 101

Prayer and Praise Prayer

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NAME

PHONE #

ADDRESS

Small Group Roster

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