從今天起，做一個不好相處的女人 智慧 New way of STEALING...
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從今天起，做一個不好相處的女人
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作者：小燦 女人如果太好相處， 得到的只會是自己的疲憊和他人的漠視， 做個不好相處的女人， 才有人敬畏、有人愛。 01 當老好人，好的是別人，苦的是自己 很多人習慣了去做一個體貼的人，卻把握不好這個度，結 果不知不覺就把自己變成了人們眼中的那種老好人。 身邊人有事沒事都喜歡麻煩你，例如朋友之間領個快遞、幫忙 跑個腿的事兒都找你，家庭裡面大大小小的家務你全包，然後 遇到各種情況卻總是讓你先退讓，而他們還對此習以為常、甚 至不以為意，結果就是事情都讓你做了，虧也讓你全吃了。 要知道，好相處是一種美德，但太好相處的人，其實是好 了別人，卻苦了自己。 如果時時為他人考慮，卻忽視了自己的利益，那就活成了 別人的附庸，這樣的生活既虛偽又辛苦，就更談不上快樂幸福 了。而且，一味的退讓和付出，也只會招來別人的冷漠和輕視。
因為過分的犧牲和忍讓只會讓身邊的人越來越驕縱，卻帶 不來任何感激之心。 02 該生氣時生氣，該拒絕時拒絕 有原則才有人愛 太好相處的人，說的好聽點是體貼懂事，說的難聽點就是 沒性格沒原則。事事都順著別人的意思來，事事都以別人為重， 那連你自己都忽視自己、壓抑自己，讓別人任意揉搓自己，又 如何能夠得到別人的尊重和愛？ 所以，要做一個不那麼好相處的女人。 擺出自己的原則和底線，該發脾氣的時候發脾氣，該拒絕的時 候果斷拒絕，該爭取的時候努力爭取，該強硬的時候絕不忍讓， 讓身邊的人知道你的性格和原則，並且尊重你的利益和需求， 就不會一直把你當軟柿子捏。 別擔心會讓某些人不太高興，或是因此失去幾個朋友，你 沒有責任取悅所有人，更不是所有人都值得成為朋友。亮出你 的個性，堅持你的原則，一定會吸引到真正愛你、尊敬你的朋 友和愛人。 03
從今天起，做一個不好相處的女人 不做“刺兒頭”，更不做老好人！不會哭的孩子沒糖吃， 不好相處的女人才有人疼。別再一頭扎進家務裡任勞任怨了， 別再不懂拒絕別人了，也別再壓抑自己、忽視自己。 不願意、不高興，不滿意，大膽表現出來，讓身邊人意識 到你的重要性，給身邊人一個疼愛你的機會。 從今天起，去做個不好相處的女人！活出自己的性格，過 自己的痛快人生。
智慧 【和尚吃肉嗎？ 】 一個來訪者問：法師，我想問一個不太恭敬的問題？
師：請講！ 來訪：您在公眾場合是素食，您一個人在房間會不會吃肉呢？ （師並沒有回答他的問題。）反倒問他：您是開車來的嗎？ 來訪：是的。 師說：開車要繫安全帶。 請問您是為自己繫還是為警察繫？ 如果是為自己繫， 有沒有警察都要繫。 來訪：喔，我明白了！ （好多人就跟我說，沒自律，沒人督促就不能堅持成功者的習 慣。 我想看完這個故事，你應該懂得該怎麼做了。） 【孩子怎麼教？ 】 眾：請問法師，我的小孩不聽話、不愛學習怎麼辦？ 師：您影印過文件嗎？ 眾：影印過。 師：如果影印件上面有錯字，您是改影印件還是改原稿？
（場內立刻響起雷鳴掌聲。後有人答道：改原稿。） 師：應該原稿和影印件同時改，才是最好。 父母是原稿，家庭是影印機，孩子是影印件。 孩子是父母的未來，父母更是孩子的未來。 （父母是孩子最好的老師，如果你自己不優秀，如何給孩子優 秀的教育？如何要求孩子優秀？不如提升自己，同時提高孩 子。） 【五百元買汽車】 一位佛友電話抱怨道：為什麼我努力了還是得不到？念經行善 了但命運卻不變？ 師：我給你寄五百塊錢來好不好？ 眾：師父，你的錢我不敢要呢！ 師： 我是要你幫我辦一件事。 眾：師父，你說辦什麼，我絕對幫你辦好！ 師：幫我買一輛汽車。 眾： (驚呀地) 師父，五百塊怎麼能買到汽車呢？ ！
師：你知道五百塊買不到汽車！可是世上有太多的人都在絞盡 腦汁，想付出一點， 就得到很多。 【糞便臭不臭？ 】 一位女士不停地述說自己的苦難，沒完沒了。 師打斷她的話說：妳的苦還真多呀！ 女士：別人訴苦最多需要三天三夜，我訴苦需要三年！ 師：那是什麼時候的苦？ 女士：前幾年。 師：那不是過去了嗎？為什麼還緊抓不放呢？ （停了一下。）， 又問：妳拉出的糞便臭不臭？ 女士：當然很臭啦！ 師：現在糞便在哪裡呢？ 女士：拉完就沖掉了。 師：為什麼不把它包起來放在身上？見到人就拿出來告訴別人： 我被這東西臭過？
女士：那多噁心！ 師：對呀！苦難也是一樣，它已經過去了。回憶和訴苦就如同 把糞便拿出來向人展示，既臭自己又臭別人！聽懂了嗎？ 女士：聽懂了！ 師：那以後你還要不要訴苦？ 女士：不要了！ 師：記住：越訴苦越苦，越抱怨越怨。 女士：嗯！ 師：放下吧！ New way of STEALING... This is a new one. People sure stay busy Trying to cheat us, don't they? Be sure to read Scene 3. Quite interesting SCENE 1 A friend went to the local gym and placed his belongings in the locker. After the workout and a shower, he came out, saw the locker open, and thought to himself, 'Funny, I thought I locked the locker... Hmm, '
He dressed and just flipped the wallet To make sure all was in order. Everything looked okay - all cards were in place... A few weeks later his credit card bill came - a whooping bill of$14,000! He called the credit card company and started yelling at them, saying that he did not make the transactions. Customer care personnel verified that there was no mistake in the system And asked if his card had been stolen... 'No,' he said, but then took out his wallet, pulled out the credit card, and yep - you guessed it - a switch had been made. An expired similar credit card from the same bank was in the wallet. The thief broke into his locker at the gym and switched cards. Verdict: The credit card issuer said since he did not report the card missing earlier, he would have to pay the amount owed to them. How much did he have to pay for items he did not buy? $9,000!
Why were there no calls made to verify the amount swiped? Small amounts rarely trigger a 'warning bell' with some credit card companies. It just so happens that all the small amounts added up to a big one! ================= SCENE 2. A man at a local restaurant paid for his meal with his credit card. The bill for the meal came, he signed it and the waitress folded the receipt And passed the credit card along. Usually, he would just take it and place it in his wallet or pocket. Funny enough, though, he actually took a look at the card and, lo and behold, it was the expired card of another person. He called the waitress and she looked perplexed. She took it back, apologised, and hurried back to the counter under the watchful eye of the man. All the waitress did while walking to the counter was wave the wrong expired card to the counter cashier, and the counter cashier immediately looked down and took out the real card.
No exchange of words -- nothing! She took it and came back to the man with an apology.. (This scenario actually happened to me at a local restaurant - Falls Terrace - between the waitress and the front desk cashier.) Verdict Make sure the credit cards in your wallet are yours. Check the name on the card every time you sign for something and/or the card is taken away for even a short period of time. Many people just take back the credit card without even looking at it, 'assuming' that it has to be theirs. FOR YOUR OWN SAKE, DEVELOP THE HABIT OF CHECKING YOUR CREDIT CARD EACH TIME IT IS RETURNED TO YOU AFTER A TRANSACTION! ================= SCENE 3: Yesterday I went into a pizza restaurant to pick up an order that I had called in. I paid by using my Visa Check Card which, of course, is linked directly to my checking account. The young man behind the counter took my card, swiped it, then laid it on the counter as he waited for the approval, which is pretty standard procedure.
While he waited, he picked up his cell phone and started dialling. I noticed the phone because it is the same model I have, but nothing seemed out of the ordinary. Then I heard a click that sounded like my phone sounds when I take a picture. He then gave me back my card but kept the phone in his hand as if he was still pressing buttons. Meanwhile, I'm thinking: I wonder what he is taking a picture of, oblivious to what was really going on. It then dawned on me: the only thing there was my credit card, so now I'm paying close attention to what he is doing.. He set his phone on the counter, leaving it open. About five seconds later, I heard the chime that tells you that the picture has been saved. Now I'm standing there struggling with the fact that this boy just took a picture of my credit card. Yes, he played it off well, because had we not had the same kind of phone, I probably would never have known what happened. Needless to say, I immediately canceled that card as I was walking out of the pizza parlour. All I am saying is, be aware of your surroundings at all
times. Whenever you are using your credit card take caution and don't be careless. Notice who is standing near you and what they are doing when you use your card. Be aware of phones, because many have a camera phone these days. FORWARD THIS TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS YOU CAN THINK OF. LET'S GET THE WORD OUT! JUST BE AWARE. Never let your card out of your sight... check and check again! Scary isn't it... New way of STEALING...
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