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The Christmas edition of MADE is my favourite to put together. I get sent hundreds of ideas for our gift guides, and I just love window shopping through them and picking my favourites for our pages. This year, I’ve split them all into rooms in a house, so that you can wander from room to room seeking inspiration of what to buy your friends and family. Loads of them are from small local Edinburgh businesses, so support these guys if you can.

My absolute favourites are the Sleepy Doe pjs on page 39 from BunnyHop. com, Katy Cloud’s homemade marshmallows on page 25 and absolutely everything in Mum’s Dressing Room on page 33. Hopefully Mr MADE will read this and get the hint.

Have a happy festive season and see you in 2019!

We asked our contributors what their favourite room in the house is…

Heidi Scrimgeour The garden, if that counts! I don’t spend enough time in it but when I do, it’s my happy place.

Claire Daly At the top of our stairs is our wee reading nook, just big enough for an armchair, a small row of books and a cup of tea. All the heat from our living room rises up here in winter, very cosy.

Caroline McClean The bathroom. It’s the only time I can lock the door and have time to myself soaking in the bath, total peace and quiet for half an hour bliss!

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6 News

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60 Hearing Health

16 Your 2018 Highlights Reel

By Heidi Scrimgeour

By Specsavers

62 Internet

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23 Trust Jojo

If you need advice…

64 Happy Birthday to you!

26 Get Crafty this Christmas

66 Goals just got great!

By Lynne Pearson

31 Home Alone

By Claire Daly

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34 What’s on guide

November and December

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Living Room

40 Christmas Theatre

25 Kitchen

48 Life with Allergies

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56 Making a Will

45 Garden

What will you see?

29 Nursery 39 Bedroom

By Kristin Pedroja

47 Playroom

By Gibson Kerr Solicitors

58 Style & Colour

By Moira Cox

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NEWS CHRISTMAS AT THE BOTANICS Christmas at the Botanics is set to return with over a million twinkling lights and 30 magical, botanical nights at the Royal Botanic Garden Edinburgh.

The event promises to be bigger and brighter than before and will provide a completely new and unique experience for visitors. The event will run 23 Nov 29 Dec on selected evenings. www.rbge.org/christmas

MY BABY CAN DANCE

MAGICAL CHRISTMAS AT CONIFOX Join Santa, Mrs Claus and Patch & Jolly the elves, for a magical theatrical Christmas experience at Conifox, thanks to Beyond Broadway Productions.

Housed in Conifox’s marquee, children can visit four different rooms - the Enchanted Forest, the Toy Factory, Mrs Claus’s Kitchen and Santa’s Sitting Room. Guests spend time in each room meeting Jolly, Patch, Mrs Claus and finally Santa, who will give all children a present.

Christmas Experience tickets includes one-hour in the marquee, gift from Santa and day-entry to the Adventure Park. www.conifox.co.uk

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My Baby Can Dance is a new fun preschool activity based on natural movement to music.

Friendly classes run at St Bride’s Community Centre and St Michael’s Parish Church and offer multisensory learning to help develop little ones’ physical and emotional needs.

For newborns there’s Newborn Can Dance - a class with music, singing, bonding, communication, vocabulary and natural movement using toys, props and techniques.

For more info about classes email alexandrambcd@gmail.com or visit the My Baby Can Dance Edinburgh Facebook page.

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NEWS GIVE SOME BLISS THIS FESTIVE SEASON The KnotStressed Therapies Gift Shop has a range of fabulous massage gift vouchers with something for everyone. Choose from indulgent KnotStressed signature treatments (awarded 5-stars and described as “Float Away” by The Scotsman) massage workshops for friends/partners to learn great massage tips, heavenly Pregnancy and Postnatal Massages, super stretchy Thai Massage Signature Experiences, muscle maintenance Sports & Remedial Deep Tissue Massages, as well as a wide range of yoga classes, parent & baby classes, and stocking-filler gift vouchers for friends to choose their own treat. All treatments take place at the gorgeous KnotStressed Therapies city centre clinic. www.knotstressed.com/shop

CRAMOND PLAYGROUP HAS SPACES! If you are looking for childcare or an opportunity for your child to play with other young children, Cramond Playgroup is just what you need.

It’s an established playgroup with a fully qualified team, offering a wide range of educational and fun activities, and the biggest perk is they don’t run a parent rota!

Drop the kids off, knowing they are safe and having the best fun.

There are currently spaces for children aged 2 - 5 years (children can join the waiting list from birth).

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A TREASURE TROVE OF ACCESSORIES AND ESSENTIALS

Coastal Kids in North Berwick has only been open a short time, but customers are already raving about this amazing kids’ shop. It’s packed full of everything your little one could need or want, and there is even a beach hut for them to play in whilst you shop! Local and international brands fill the shelves, rails and rafters, so next time you’re planning a trip to the beach, don’t forget to spare a few minutes to visit this great new addition to North Berwick’s high street.

Follow them on Facebook, Instagram and online www.coastalkidsnb.com

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NEWS THE GIFT OF RELAXATION When it comes to choosing the ultimate present, a voucher for a spa experience will be received with joy. Stobo Castle gift vouchers include monetary vouchers from £25, or specific experiences with a Half Day voucher from £65. If a more inclusive treat is in order, choose a Spa Day voucher from £115 including 2 treatments and lunch or a residential voucher from £149pppn including all meals and use of the spa facilities. www.stobocastle.co.uk

HOBO CINEMA HAS MOVED… Following last year’s sell-out screenings, Hobo Cinema’s Indoor Winter Woodland Cinema moves to Restoration Yard, Dalkeith Country Park. This immersive experience will see the Wellbeing Lab transformed into a woodland cinema with beautiful winter floral and foliage

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canopies, wood chipped floors, and twinkling festoon; not to mention gourmet popcorn, rich hot chocolates and spiced mulled cider.

The programme features Home Alone, The Snowman, Gremlins, Elf, It’s a Wonderful Life and Love Actually. www.roguevillage.com

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BE MOVED

BY T H E H E I GH T O F CA L A LU XURY

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A typical street scene at Ravelrig Heights

A beautiful selection of impressive family homes set within exclusive cul-de-sacs, with larger gardens & enhanced specificatio n.

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Showhomes open daily, 11am – 5.30pm.

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Telephone calls may divert to a mobile service in which case call charges may vary. 5 stars awarded for customers’ willingness to ‘Recommend to a Friend’ in findings of the survey undertaken by the Home Builders Federation 2017/18.

NEWS A POWDER GREY CHRISTMAS

CHRISTMAS FUN WITH MONKEY MUSIC The Monkey Music Christmas workshops are a great way to get you and your family in the Festive spirit. The workshops are a mix of performance, games, music, songs and a sing-a-long at the end to ensure maximum Christmas cheer. The age specific workshops are at LifeCare, 2 Cheyne Street, Edinburgh, EH4 1JB on Mon 17, Wed 19 and Fri 21 December. For times and tickets go to monkeymusic. co.uk/Workshops. Please note tickets will not be available on the day.

If you have mixed aged children just get in touch so Monkey Music can advise which would be the best workshop for you. comelybank.costorphine@ monkeymusic.co.uk.

At POWDER GREY this year customers will see Christmas decorations featuring blush, greys and metallic tones adding greenery in the mix. Geometric vibes will be shining through with strong bold lines and shapes. In addition, this truly gorgeous luxury wreath, created on a moss base ring and packed with a variety of artificial foliage, berries and silk flowers, can either adorn your door, wall or table setting will be available. www.powdergrey.com For wreath orders and pricing email Sandie at powdergrey@btinternet.com

EDINBURGH STORYTELLERS WIN HISTORIC SCOTLAND CONTRACT ‘It’s in the bag’! have been performing their unique interactive storytelling shows at Theatres, Schools, Nurseries, Playgroups, Toddler groups, Private Events and of course Birthday Parties around Edinburgh and beyond for seven years. They are delighted to have recently won a contract with Historic Scotland to provide learning activities for schools, families and community audiences at Historic Scotland sites. www.itsinthebagparties.co.uk

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NEWS MERBABIES GROWS FROM STRENGTH TO STRENGTH

Popular Merbabies classes are continuing to grow with new venues and pools opening up from January 2019. Their classes teach life saving skills and water confidence, and builds the foundations for early swimming, through a gentle yet dynamic learn to swim programme. Their ethos is to teach with love, learn through play and this is central to everything that they do. Gentle, child-led lessons, where children are encouraged to play, explore and enjoy the pool, through creative and imaginative lessons, using toys, songs, games and sensory play. Booking for 2019 opens on 31 October. www.merbabies.online

THE VERY INCLUSIVE PLAY CLUB For pre-school children (0-5 yrs) who have additional support needs, The Very Inclusive Play Club offers a fantastic programme of activities and is thrilled to have been recently recognised as a Community Interest Company. Sessions run during termtime on a Thursday from Inch House community centre. Each session is specifically designed by specialist, Leanne Reid, to promote the children’s development using a variety of engaging strategies. The club is a place for children - and parents/carers - to learn and to play; to have fun and to relax. www.theveryinclusiveplayclub.com

THE GIFT OF SPACE Struggling to think of what to buy the person who has everything? Want something a bit different? What could be better this Christmas than the gift of space and the opportunity to fall in love with your home once more? By buying some Life/Edit time, you could treat someone to a home organisation, interior design, or decluttering session with Zoë Berry. It could be lifechanging! Get in touch for personalised vouchers www.life-edit.me zoe@life-edit.me and quote ‘MADE MAGAZINE’ FOR A 10% DISCOUNT made NOV / DEC 2018

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NEWS FUNDAY MONDAY! Mondays are officially the new fundays for Leith families with the launch of a brand new Step It Up Dance hub at Out of the Blue Drill Hall.

This unique brand of fun, fresh and funky Hip Hop dance classes arrives in Leith on Monday 4th November with classes for children aged 18 months upwards. All classes will be hosted by SIUD teacher Rachel.

The SIUD team have taken on board customer feedback and included a range of class timings to suit more families than ever. Your first class is completely FREE! Book online at www.stepitupdance.co.uk

BONNIE BAIRN IS BACK, BIGGER AND BETTER! Edinburgh’s premier pregnancy and family fair is excited to be at the Edinburgh Corn Exchange on Sunday 10th March 2019. The fair will host a fantastic line-up of exhibitors along with informative talks, taster sessions and children’s entertainment; showcasing the best local businesses in the industry. Your business could be a part of this wonderful day, so get in touch soon as only a limited number of stands are still available. www.bonnie-bairn.co.uk

EVERYONE WELCOME TO RED THREAD STUDIOS Red Thread Studio is a fun, relaxed sewing studio based in Newington, offering beginner classes in sewing and dressmaking for adults, children, and mums with babies.

There are also plenty of advanced courses for those who want to further their skills, and familiar faces frequent the studio on a regular basis. Classes are never complete without tea, coffee, laughter and cake! Book your place in one of their festive workshops such as Christmas Stocking Making or Christmas Pom Pom Cushions. Or treat family and friends with a Gift Voucher this Christmas, they’re available to buy online. www.redthreadstudio.co.uk

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The Edinburgh Art Fair brings galleries of national and international importance to showcase the work of over 500 artists from all over the world.

This BTO Solicitors sponsored event is now in its 14th year and regularly draws an audience of around 13,500 art lovers, collectors and enthusiasts; having gained an international following, this year will see exhibitors from China and South Korea line up among the other exhibiting galleries.

Other than the obvious paintings and printmaking there will be glassware, ceramics and some stunning sculpture in marble, metal, bronze, wood and stone to view and buy, with something to suit all budgets.

We’re delighted to have 10 pairs of tickets to give away for the private viewing on Thurs 22 Nov! To be in with a chance of winning, just answer this question…

How many years has Edinburgh Art Fair been running?

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Networking club, Love Your Business, meets at Black Ivy on the last Thursday of every month, from 10-12noon. Since launching in January, it has acquired a great fan-base, and hosts a variety of guest speakers every month - perfect for anyone in business from idea to growth stage who wants to hear stories and learn tips from inspiring business people.

Hosted by Michelle, a business training consultant from Michelle Brown PR who has over 20 media experience, the Club takes place in an innovative and quirky co-working space around two ping pong tables to encourage people to work productively all day, then remember to take time out and have fun in the evening.

To celebrate the success of Love Your Business, they are giving away a special six month’s membership plus a mini business review!

To be in with a chance of winning, just answer this question…

Which PR company hosts Love Your Business?

The Fair runs 23-25 Nov at the Edinburgh Corn Exchange.

For more info go to facebook.com/EdinburghArtFair/

Tickets for the events are £20 (plus booking fee) via Eventbrite - http://bit.ly/2DeTWQJ

To win this prize, go to www.mademagazine.co.uk and answer the question before 19 Nov

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T&Cs. The winners will be picked at random by MADE magazine on 19 Nov and 7 Dec. Competition entries are restricted to Edinburgh, Lothians and surrounding areas only. Editor’s decision is final. No cash alternative is available and prizes are non-transferrable.

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Children aged from four to six begin their Stagecoach journey in our Early Stages classes.

The 90-minute classes are split into three sections: 30 minutes for singing, 30 minutes for dancing, and 30 minutes for acting. Classes run during term time.

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Taking time to reflect on the past 12 months might sound a bit woo-woo to the average busy mum, but Heidi Scrimgeour reckons you’ll be glad you did.

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s another year draws to a close, it’s all too easy to get caught up in festive preparations without stopping to think about what the past 12 months have brought. But pausing to reflect on the outgoing year could be a more meaningful – and magical – practice than you might expect.

I totally get it if the very thought of mentally rifling back through the year to ponder its gifts and challenges makes you feel ill. Me too. I couldn’t be less mindful if I tried, and my default is to hurtle from one deadline to the next without stopping long enough to catch my breath, never mind meditate on the wonder of the moment.

I’m the mum that forgets to pick her child up from school (sorry about that again, darling…), not the mum who starts her day with a spot of yoga and some deep reflection. And I’m not the bullet journal type – who has time to doodle in a diary? The only bullet I know my way around is the one that pulverises your five-a-day into a smoothie because I don’t even have time to peel a banana.

So hear me when I say this is not just another fluffy feature designed to make you feel bad because you plan on seeing out the year with a vat of sparkling wine rather than indulging in a sacred, spiritual ritual.

I’m simply saying that slowing down for long enough to think about the year that’s coming to an end is a good thing to do before rushing headlong into a whole new calendar of things to juggle.

My friend calls this taking a moment to watch the highlights reel. I was telling her about a particularly challenging family trip abroad, which my son later described as the best holiday of his life. I was so shocked that what felt like a disaster to me was nothing but delight to him, that it prompted me to wonder what else I’d been missing. Because I wasn’t looking at life like he does.

She told me about an article she’d read whereby the writer had a similar life lightbulb moment. In the middle of a thunderstorm, the author was dragging her screaming kids from the beach to their holiday house. She passed an elderly man, watching this debacle unfold, who said aloud to himself: ‘Those were the days’.

She wrote, according to my friend, about realising that the small, unremarkable moments we take for granted are the very moments we’ll one day relish. That elderly gentleman, watching the chaos of a disastrous family holiday scene unravel, knew it was the stuff of which future fond memories are made. It was a highlights reel moment.

‘Here are your best bits’ they say on reality TV shows when a contestant has been voted out.

And all of a sudden every sucky minute, every embarrassing encounter and every shameful statement becomes a moment to treasure.

It’s the same with family life. Sleepless nights spent pacing the floor with a teething, inconsolable baby eventually fade from misery to cherished memory. Fraught mealtimes with picky eaters become the stuff of funny family legends, and disappointing holidays ultimately blur into charming experiences we’d give anything to relive.

As the famous saying goes: the days are long but the years are short. What we rush through today might one day have a starring role in the highlights reel of our lives. So why not slow down, even just a little, to make sure we capture them in full high-definition?

For me, this means taking quiet moments to myself to soak up the messy moments that I might otherwise miss. It’s a resetting of my perspective that means I linger to read just one more more book at bedtime, instead of rushing off to do something much more mundane, like

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load the dishwasher or catch up on the latest thing on iPlayer – things that will never make the highlights reel, yet which somehow get prioritised.

These are the days, and the ending of a year is the perfect time to take stock. What joys did this year bring that are worth reliving? What moments worth capturing have you not yet got round to printing out – and can you frame them for a wall as a festive present to yourself? What dark days did you survive this year, and how have they made you stronger or tightened your family bond?

Taking time out – in the busiest season of the year – to think about what’s made it onto your life highlights reel this year might feel counterintuitive. Actually, there’s no might about it.

You’re bound to be wondering how on earth you’re going to find the time to slow down and

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savour life’s precious little moments. But let me just say this: I promise you won’t regret it if you simply make the time.

The things that occupy so much of our time and attention at this time of year are so rarely the things that actually matter. We know our kids won’t remember what they got for Christmas the year they turned seven years old. They’ll remember how childhood Christmases made them FEEL. So why not forget about the financial pressure to buy more than we can afford? Instead, focus on the small things that will eventually become the moments our kids will replay on their own highlights reel in years to come?

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I’ve been trying to stay off social media in the mornings. I’ve tried to start my day with listening to the radio and getting work done rather than scroll through other people’s lives, and it’s been great.

I definitely feel like I get more done and have been feeling slightly smug.

I was sharing this knowledge with my husband, explaining the virtues of not going straight to your phone as soon as you wake up; I chatted to him about the day’s events, he kindly cooked breakfast for both of us and we chatted for a couple of hours without once checking our phones. Obviously I can’t go a whole

day, but I’m pleased to say that having spent a lovely morning with my hubby, mainly discussing my plans for the day, that it was midday before I even looked at a computer screen, and it was then, and only then that Facebook chose to tell me that it was my husband’s birthday!

I think my divorce papers will be arriving shortly.

As we near another year gone by, let me be the first to wish you a Merry Christmas and an amazing 2019. Keep warm, drink responsibly and remember to check Facebook birthdays first thing!

Dear Jojo I really get on well with one of the mums at the school but her child is a little horror and bullies other kids, she thinks butter wouldn’t melt – should I tell her?

Phyllis, Barnton

Dear Phyllis Noooooooooooooooooooooo! Run for the hills, avoid , avoid, avoid – no parent ever wants told they’re child is a horror (even if they absolutely know it to be true.) If you really can’t keep it to yourself and tell her, then just be prepared to have one less mum friend.

Jojo x

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THE KITCHEN gifts for the heart of the home EDITOR’S CHOICE

HANDMADE MARSHMALLOWS, £7.50 katycloud.co.uk. Luxurious handmade Christmas cracker filled with Katy Cloud’s finest signature marshmallows.

MOTHER’S RUIN OVEN GLOVES £21.95, Pippin, Haymarket

PLAYIN CHOC Innovative, ethical, zero waste product with toy - and it’s delicious!

Buy from Bon Tot, Stockbridge

COCO SEA SALT DARK CHOCOLATE cocochocolatier.com Shop in Bruntsfield and Stockbridge

FEIN SALAD SERVERS £38, thenordicedit.com

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RIPPLE CHAMPAGNE SAUCERS, £29 for 2 thenordicedit.com

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Great Crafty THIS CHRISTMAS

POTTERY DECORATION WORKSHOP (f or kids)

RESTORATION YARD’S BOUDOIR, DALKEITH restorationyard.com Sunday 9 & 16 December, 9am-11am, £15 Personalise your tree with your kids’ artistic endeavours. In this fun, hands-on workshop, kids of all ages can paint and glitter pre-made clay decorations and walk away with two unique pieces of keep-forever festive art.

WREATH MAKING WORKSHOP (f or adults)

RESTORATION YARD’S BOUDOIR, DALKEITH restorationyard.com Saturday 8 & 15 December, 9am-11am, £40 Set your most creative festive spirit free this December. Come make a beautiful Christmas wreath with the Restoration Yard experts – your door will be the envy of your neighbourhood!

Festive nibbles and drinks will be on hand to get those artistic juices flowing.

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C HRIS TMAS CUSHION WORKSHOP (f or adults and kids 9+)

RED THREAD STUDIOS, NEWINGTON redthreadstudio.co.uk Saturday 8 December, 10am-1pm or 2pm-5pm, £30 These really lovely cushions look great in your home at winter. Come and learn the skill of how to make an envelope cushion with optional pompoms in the fabric of your choice, whilst learning to sew at the same time. Class includes tuition and refreshments and is suitable for complete beginners.

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acaulay Culkin had a terrific time living it up by himself, setting booby traps for burglars. But in real life, being home alone at Christmas is no fun at all, even with a kid.

I have been home alone with my three-year-old for three weeks. One week is fine, two weeks is too much, and three weeks is disastrous. I was tempted to set a booby trap of dirty dishes for my partner, but it wasn’t his fault he had to go for so long.

It is at times like this I wonder how single parents cope. Even getting us both ready in the mornings is a military operation with as much done the night before as possible, down to a teabag in a cup.

When Rose was only two weeks old, my partner was called away to the States because his mother had septicaemia. It was a traumatic time for everyone and I had my first taste of what it was like to be home alone with a tiny baby, one that was losing weight instead of gaining it.

I was struggling with breast-feeding, pumping and topping up. It was an exhausting rigmarole for a new mum and I needed help. With no family support around me and no close mummyfriends nearby, it was a horrible time. Thankfully my sister-in-law flew to us for a week, and my clueless babyless friends rallied round and helped as much as they could by providing moral support. Ever since, the thought of being home alone has filled me with dread.

Single-handed parenting can be nervewracking. When Rose was small, I was terrified to leave her alone in a room in case our cats

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lay on her and suffocated her, a scenario my partner’s aunt talked to me at length about every time we saw her. So I carried her everywhere, even learning to go to the loo with one hand, and carrying her in the other.

Accidents can happen when you leave a toddler in a room by themselves just for a minute. On one of my home-alone occasions last Christmas, Rose dropped my laptop on her little toe. It was Boxing Day and the living room was still strewn with wrapping paper and toys. She had wanted to watch The Snowman. She fractured a bone in her toe. It was a terrifying experience for us both, with several trips to A & E. “It takes a village to raise a child.” I think it really does and the stress modern parents go through these days is unparalleled in history.

With financial pressures, the lack of wider family in the same place, and work expectations, no wonder we are all so frantically busy.

Single parents have it much worse though, and the ones I know seem to cope incredibly well. All parents deserve a break, but if you don’t have family close by, life must be very difficult.

I always breathe a sigh of relief when Justin returns, because shared responsibility is much more relaxing.

Every time he goes to the States and leaves us here, I imagine what it would be like if I were a single parent and I know I would not cope. I feel incredibly thankful to my partner and everything he does.

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CHRISTMAS SHOP LAUNCH @ CLOUDBERRY BARNTON

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Complimentary glass of mulled wine and a mince pie.

Every Tues in Nov and Dec. www.doodlesscotland.co.uk

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BOOK WEEK SCOTLAND 19 NOV - 25 NOV

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Book Week Scotland runs 19 Nov - 25 Nov with the theme of Rebel. Hundreds of free events are taking place across many different local authorities.

Edinburgh Gang Show @ King’s Theatre. Over 250 young people from Scouting and Girlguiding present music, comedy, drama and dance Runs 20 - 24 Nov.

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CHRISTMAS SHOP LAUNCH @ CLOUDBERRY BLACKHALL

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COUNTRY LIVING FAIR 15-18 NOV

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1 6pm - 8pm Cloudberry (Barnton) launches its Christmas Shop.

Enjoy complimentary fizz, canapés, and exclusive discounts for one night only!

8 6pm - 8pm Cloudberry (Blackhall) launches its Christmas Shop.

Enjoy complimentary fizz, canapés, and exclusive discounts for one night only!

15 Country Living Fair in Glasgow. Meet hundreds of artisan designers and makers along with regional food producers, and find unique gifts for the whole family.

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EDINBURGH ART FAIR @CORN EXCHANGE 23-25 NOV

26 27 28 29 The Giant Lanterns of China return to Edinburgh Zoo. For 50 legendary nights, visit unicorns, giants, kelpies and even the Loch Ness Monster.

Runs 16 Nov - 17 Feb.

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Nativity! The Musical @ Festival Theatre. Feel-good, funny and full of yuletide joy.

Runs 28 Nov - 2 Dec.

Wendy & Peter Pan starts at The Lyceum.

Runs 29 Nov - 5 Jan

NATIVITY! THE MUSICAL @FESTIVAL THEATRE 28 NOV - 2 DEC

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Friday Saturday Sunday 2 3 10.30am & 11.30am Magic Carpet @ National Museum of Scotland.

Take a trip and explore the fantastic things in the museum’s collection/ For ages 2-4. Free but advance booking required.

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4pm - 8pm Fireworks & Bonfire Night @ Hopetoun House food, drink and entertainment.

Edinburgh Art Fair FIREWORKS @HOPETOUN HOUSE 3 NOV

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The annual Edinburgh Art Fair returns to the Edinburgh Corn Exchange bringing 60+ Galleries of national and international importance to showcase the work of over 500 artists.

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Ladies night @ TurtleDove Play Cafe. Tickets £15.

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LIGHT NIGHT @GEORGE STREET 18 NOV

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The Christmas Market returns to East Princes St Gardens for a host of bespoke and traditional Christmas items.

3pm Light Night @ George St. A free event for all hosted by Forth One’s Arlene Stuart. Choirs from across Scotland will perform and the Christmas tree on the Mound will be lit.

10am Jeff Kinney @ the Assembly Rooms, George St. An exclusive fun event with bestselling author of the Wimpy Kid books. New title, Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Meltdown available to purchase.

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Edinburgh Art Fair @ Edinburgh Corn Exchange. Runs 23-25 Nov. See Spotlight for more details

Christmas at the Botanics runs 23 Nov - 29 Dec on selected evenings. For further ticket information please visit www.rbge.org.uk/christmas

10.30am - 3.30pm Christmas arts & crafts, raffle and refreshments @ ENABLE Scotland, 95 Causewayside.

A Scottish charity working to make life better for people with learning difficulties

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30 7pm Black Beauty @ Traverse Theatre.

Blending storytelling, music and puppetry, this is a vibrant re-telling of the classic tale. For ages 6+.

Runs 29 - 30 Nov

artedinburgh.com Corn Exchange 23 - 25 November

CHRISTMAS AT THE BOTANICS 23 NOV - 29 DEC

Aside from the array of wonderful artwork for sale, there are artist demonstrations and talks and kids’ art classes; and for those eager to try their hand at creating their own masterpiece there will be an open easel station, so that you can pick up a brush, canvas and some paints and, under the guidance of staff from the Edinburgh Art Shop, give it a go.

For younger visitors there is a professional and complimentary crèche service catering for children 1-12 years old, and for refreshments there is an on-site bar and restaurant where you can relax and contemplate your art purchases over a light lunch and glass of wine.

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Christmas storytelling from 2-5‘It’s in the bag!’ @ Gibson Craig Hall, Currie.

Dance like snowflakes and chase the little elves. Suitable for ages 2-5.

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Help pull the Christmas crackers and get a 17 18 cuddle from Rudolph too... Not to mention the King’s Panto: Beauty bell ringing and Christmas songs!

11th December, 3pm Gibson Craig Hall, Currie

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6 4-9pm Montrose Terrace & Abbeyhill Festive Open Night.

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24 Christmas Eve! Visit the Hobo Cinema @ Dalkeith Country Park for The Snowman + Father Christmas (U) at 10.45am and Elf (PG) at 2pm.

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10.30am - 3.30pm Christmas arts & crafts, games and musical entertainment @ Craigmillar Park Church in aid of Bethany, the homeless charity.

A Christmas Fairy Trail Archerfield Walled Garden 7-24 December

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Christmas Fairy Trail @ Archerfield Estate.

Take the 1.5km trail and discover fairies, woodland creatures and lighting installations along the way.

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11 - 11.40am Recitals for Wrigglers @ Holyroodhouse. Classical music, festive songs and nursery rhymes. Suitable for under-fours accompanied by parents or carers.

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FUNBOX: Once Upon a Christmas @ The Brunton, Musselburgh. Come as your favourite storybook character and bring a Santa hat!

Runs 21 - 24 Dec.

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Visit the Hobo Cinema @ Dalketh Country Park for Home Alone (PG) at 2pm; It’s a Wonderful Life (U) at 4.30pm and Love Actually (15) at 8pm

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A Christmas Fairy Trail returns with a revamped show and a shift towards an immersive family, theatre experience. Set in the Archerfield Estate woodland, visitors will be transported to an ethereal and beautiful otherworld, where they will come face to face with fairies and woodland creatures; lighting installations and projection; dancers, aerial and fire performers.

As well as A Christmas Fairy Trail, Archerfield Walled Garden will create a cosy, festive hangout serving mulled wine, hot chocolate and hearty food from the comfort of their bar and restaurant.

Complete with open fire, a festive soundtrack and twinkling lights it’s the perfect setting to warmup pre or post show.

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MATCHING DAD & KID PJS mens top £14; trousers £17.50; kids set £15 M&Co

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Every child in every school has one Christmas wish, to star in a Nativity, and at St Bernadette’s School they’re attempting to mount a musical version! Only trouble is teacher Mr Maddens has promised that a Hollywood producer is coming to see the show to turn it into a film. Join him, his teaching assistant the crazy Mr Poppy, hilarious children and a whole lot of sparkle and shine as they struggle to make everyone’s Christmas wish come true.

Feel-good, funny and featuring all of your favourite sing-a-long hits from the movies, Nativity! The Musical is the must see show this festive season.

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KING’S PANTO: BEAUT Y AND THE BEAS T KING’S THEATRE Sat 01 Dec - Sun 20 Jan Allan and Grant return for a beast of a panto!

Pantomime is loud for a small pair of ears, spectacular sights can sometimes cause tears! If bringing a little one, please be aware, one or two scenes are intended to scare. The odd naughty joke for grown-up laughter, ensures that we all finish Happily Ever After.

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SCOTTISH BALLET CINDERELL A FESTIVAL THEATRE Sat 08 Dec - Sun 30 Dec The ultimate spectacle. Primary colours that burst out of the darkness. Billowing ball gowns whisking you into a magical world. And Prokofiev’s irresistibly melodic score showing well-loved characters in a whole new light – performed live by the Scottish Ballet Orchestra.

Christopher Hampson’s Cinderella is everything you adore about the classic fairy tale – made fresh, funny and touching. We meet Cinderella at the saddest of times, then see her taken for granted by her wicked stepmother and two nasty stepsisters. But there’s no time for despair: Cinderella’s fairy godmother is casting spells of dressmaker spiders, magical roses and a very special glass slipper. Will love conquer loneliness, and light chase away the dark? made NOV / DEC 2018

Barrowland Ballet present Poggle,the story of Vince, who wants to explore the forest but is too scared, until one day he meets Poggle, a friendly creature. Together they go on an adventure through the forest where they discover the magical music tree.

A warm-hearted sensory dance theatre piece with live music, clapping rhythms and comedy throughout in an imaginatively changing world which the children have the chance to explore.

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WENDY AND PETER PAN THE LYCEUM Wed 29 Nov - Sat 5 Jan Recommended for ages 5+

BL AC K BEAUT Y TRAVERSE THEATRE Thurs 29 & Fri 30 Nov Fresh from an acclaimed run in New York, multiaward-winning, favourite Black Beauty returns home for two performances only, performed

by Paul Curley and John Currivan.

From the cosy horsebox they call home, the McCuddy Brothers take the bit firmly between their teeth and tell the classic tale of Black Beauty as you’ve never seen it before.

Saddle up, jump on and gallop headlong into a story where loneliness gives way to hope, friends become heroes, and courage saves the day.

Blending storytelling, music and puppetry, this vibrant re-telling of Black Beauty offers fun and adventure for fans of the book, classic TV show and those brand new to the tale.

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A C HRIS TMAS C AROL USHER HALL Sun 9 Dec, 3pm ‘Tis the season to be jolly, so on that note, we need your help in saving Scrooge from his surly ways (what the dickens is that all about?) Can we convince him of the joy and wonder of the festive season? Find out as the Royal Scottish National Orchestra perform plenty of beloved Christmas classics!

Featuring some sweet singalongs (no bah humbugs allowed!) and actors from the Royal Conservatoire of Scotland, this will be a celebration of CCC’s Christmas past, present and future. Fun for all the family.

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Experience one of the world’s best loved stories about the boy who never grows up from Scottish writer J.M. Barrie. Follow the fearless Wendy as she flies with Peter to Neverland - a world of dastardly pirates, feisty fairies and raucous lost boys.

This adaptation has all the magic and wonder of the original, as Wendy and Peter fly together above the rooftops and follow ‘the second star on the right and straight on till morning’ to Neverland.

There they find all is not well in the kingdom of the Lost Boys, as the villainous Captain Hook wreaks havoc, can Wendy and Peter band together with fearsome fairy Tiger-Lilly and the irrepressible Tinkerbell to win the day?

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RSNO C HRIS TMAS CONCERT (FEATURING THE SNOWMAN) USHER HALL Fri 21 Dec, 7.30pm It isn’t Christmas until The Snowman has taken you on his magical journey through the winter sky. Enjoy this special showing of the festive classic on the large screen, accompanied live by the RSNO and narrated by guest presenter Jamie MacDougall. Enjoy this Christmas party filled with seasonal favourites, carols old and new – and, of course, a chance for everyone to sing along!

FUNBOX: ONCE UPON A C HRIS TMAS THE BRUNTON Fri 21 Dec - Mon 24 Dec FUNBOX present their brand new seasonal spectacular, Once Upon a Christmas, with singalong silliness with Anya, Kevin, Gary and Bonzo the Dog. All your favourite fairytales are going wrong and it’s up to the Funbox gang to make sure everyone lives happily ever after!

Packed with singalong favourites like ‘Old King Cole’ and ‘Ye Canny Shove Yer Granny Aff A Bus’, festive classics like ‘Jingle Bells’ and brand new songs, this is the perfect seasonal treat for all the family. Come dressed for some fairytale festive fun – come as your favourite storybook character and bring a Santa hat! made NOV / DEC 2018

Poor wee Jack.

She just can’t win.

Once upon a time her Daddy chopped down that Beanstalk, killed the giant and saved the day. But now, he’s gone and the bills are mounting up. There’s not a day goes by that Marge Aline, Jack’s widow wumman, mammy gets upset. It’s really, really sad... And if that wasn’t bad enough, Jack and her dunderhead sister have to sell the family cow, Daisy the Moo Mark Two. It’s just like history is repeating itself or something, isn’t it? Well at least there aren’t any giants around this time...

LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD CHURCH HILL THEATRE Fri 14 Dec - Sat 22 Dec Haggy, the wicked witch, deciding enough is enough, sets out to change the “happily ever after” ending to all fairy tales - starting with Little Red Riding Hood! Transporting everyone to Fairy Tale Land, she sets about her task with the aid of Wilberforce.

Come along and join in the mirth and mayhem in this traditional family pantomime with just a little twist in its tail!

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Life with an Allergy written by Kristin Pedroja

Susie and Chris Caira are parents of James, 4, and Emily, who is nearly 2.

James is one of the 8% of children in the UK who suffers from a potentially life-threatening food allergy. We sat down with Susie to discuss their life and what we can do to support parents and children in this situation.

TELL US A BIT ABOUT HOW YOU DISCOVERED JAMES’S ALLERGIES.

We suspected that James might be allergic to milk when he began weaning. I offered him a yoghurt and he projectile vomited it back over me. Looking back, he had eczema from when he was only a few months old; this may have been a red flag we missed. I was breastfeeding and he may have been ingesting cows’ milk through my excessive consumption of cheese, chocolate and coffee.

Following the vomiting incident we eliminated milk from his diet, a suggestion from my dad, a retired GP. We have a family history of milk allergy but we thought Dad was being a little over-cautious. Dad’s suspicions were somewhat confirmed when James ate a strawberry which had come into contact with cheese (they were on the same plate); James’s face erupted with a rash and he became quite agitated.

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When James was just over a year old my dad fed him a cheese and onion crisp and James went into anaphylactic shock. An ambulance was called and he was taken into hospital. I was working in Glasgow at the time and when I arrived in hospital James was quite unsettled but within a few hours he had bounced back to his usual self.

We were all surprised that a cheese and onion crisp contained enough milk to create such a reaction. As a side—James’s grandad (and granny) continue to feed him a ridiculous amount of treats which my sister and I were never given growing up!

HOW DOES THIS AFFECT YOUR DAILY LIFE?

Luckily, milk is the only allergy that James has so it’s great that he can still eat eggs and nuts.

We’ve become used to cooking dairy free food for James. There are lots of delicious alternatives

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such as soya yoghurt, ice cream, and chocolate. Unfortunately, we’ve not had much success finding tasty cheese. Most smell like feet. Though I’ve been seeing lots of posts online about vegan cheese festivals so maybe I’ve just found the right one yet.

We cook with coconut milk and use dairy free spread for cooking and baking. I’m not much of a baker so using dairy free spread provides me with an excuse for any disasters.

It’s reassuring that much of the time allergies are taken seriously by the cafes and restaurants we visit, however I often feel that I’ve been dismissed as being fussy. There are numerous occasions where sandwiches have arrived with butter on them, or a plate has hastily been withdrawn when I’ve queried the ingredients.

There was an incident when he was around 18 months old when we were out for brunch. I asked for my eggs to be cooked without milk, however they looked very creamy so I doublechecked with the waitress who reassured me there was no milk. James is not the biggest fan of eggs, but he must have eaten some as a rash developed around his face and he became drowsy. The waitress appeared mortified when I pointed this out.

I find myself hamming up the severity of a potential reaction to ensure issues are flagged to chefs. Raising awareness of allergies to everyone employed by a restaurant is so important as it only takes one person to lack awareness and the consequences can be life-threatening.

He’s not experienced a further anaphylactic reaction, however we carry an EpiPen just in case.

it encouraging that nursery treats allergies so seriously.

We were in the play park recently and ran into James’ friend who offered James a Cheddar. I had to explain to his friend that an ingredient in the Cheddars would make James poorly. His friend looked baffled, his Mum looked embarrassed, and I felt bad for making everyone uncomfortable. I spent time after feeling a bit cringey about it and worried I’d I came across as an overprotective mum.

If James is going to one of his friend’s birthday parties I tend to bring some dairy-free treats (particularly cake) so James doesn’t get jealous, or worse yet, hangry.

Luckily I have lots of wonderful friends who make a massive effort to include James when they’re dishing out snacks or cooking us food so he generally doesn’t get jealous.

RAISING AWARENESS OF ALLERGIES TO EVERYONE EMPLOYED BY A RESTAURANT IS SO IMPORTANT

HOW DOES THIS AFFECT HIS DAILY LIFE?

His nursery is extremely supportive of James’ milk allergy. Their cooks provide an interesting and varied menu of options and if they bake or cook they use dairy free butter so he’s not left out of any activities. The nursery recently launched a trial of allergy bracelets as an additional way to highlight allergies to staff and our family find made NOV / DEC 2018

HOW CAN WE SUPPORT FAMILIES WHO HAVE CHILDREN WITH ALLERGIES?

While I’ve had only wonderful experiences with the NHS, it’s clear that there is a lack of funding around the area of allergy support. It took around six months to be referred to a specialist, who was extremely helpful, but that’s a long time in the life of a baby. In terms of weaning, I found support online but again, nobody I spoke with was equipped to answer the numerous questions I had about calcium intake and the pros and cons of soya milk vs plant based milk alternatives.

It’s encouraging how much support there is for the vegan and allergy communities and this appears to be growing rapidly. Larger chains like Pizza Express now have exclusively vegan menus and local coffee shops, like Mimi’s in Edinburgh, have dairy free cakes which easily rival their butter based counterparts. We can’t go past the West End without James requesting an ice cream from Affogato and I’ve been eyeing up the bespoke cakes in Sugar Daddy’s in Edinburgh—I think we’ll splash out next time a family member has a birthday.

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IT’S ENCOURAGING HOW MUCH SUPPORT THERE IS FOR THE VEGAN AND ALLERGY COMMUNITIES AND THIS APPEARS TO BE GROWING RAPIDLY giving me dairy free meal inspiration. ‘Accidentally Vegan UK’, ‘Fat Gay Vegan’ and ‘London Afro Vegan’ are all favourites.

ANYTHING ELSE YOU WANT TO SHARE?

We’re hoping that as James gets older he’ll grow out of his milk allergy. We’ve started to gradually reintroduce milk into James’s diet and he has been able to eat digestives which contain milk so we’re encouraged that he’ll continue to tolerate quantities of it moving forwards.

I often feel bad that James doesn’t get to enjoy as many treats as other kids especially as I’m an ultimate chocolate and cheese girl—we had a cheese wedding cake! I think I overcompensate by seeking out vegan options and think nothing of spending £4 on a vegan brownie, visiting three Prets to find their newly launched vegan

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chocolate cookie, or popping into Tesco on numerous occasions to check if they have the newly launched Ben and Jerry’s ice cream.

Parents can help by educating themselves and their children about an allergy if a friend or classmate has this condition. Explaining that some foods can make their friend sick is usually enough. Often it takes a few reminders to other parents, so don’t worry if you forget! Any support you can give parents of kids with food allergies will mean the world to that child, and his family. n

This article is courtesy of Edinburgh for Under Fives, the essential guide to everything from meals to activities, special occasions to speciality shops, written for families with under fives. Find them on Facebook, Instagram or www.efuf.co.uk

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We all know it’s important to make a will for our family, but many of us don’t have one in place. Here, we ask Lindsay MacLean of Gibson Kerr solicitors, Edinburgh, all about the will making process.

DO I REALLY NEED TO MAKE A WILL?

If you have any assets, particularly if you own a house, it’s important you have a will to ensure they go where you want them to on your death.

Plus, dealing with your estate after you die is quicker and usually cheaper if you have a will, so it’s easier for your loved ones that you have one in place.

Even if you think your affairs are quite straight forward, things may be more complicated than you realise without a will and our advice is almost always that you should have one in place.

DO I NEED A SOLICITOR TO MAKE A WILL?

Not necessarily. You can write a will yourself, or obtain a style will to complete yourself. However,

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there can be problems with wills which have not been written or signed properly. A solicitor can help ensure that your will is valid and that it properly reflects your wishes.

WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO MY ESTATE IF I DON’T HAVE A WILL?

It depends on your situation, such as whether you are married, have children and who your nearest relatives are.

If you are married, your spouse or civil partner will receive a certain amount of assets from your estate. If your estate is worth more than that amount, your children will receive a share as well. If you do not have children and your estate is above the amount that passes to your spouse,

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your parents, siblings or other remoter relatives might inherit the rest of your estate.

If you have an unmarried partner, they don’t automatically inherit from you and, if you have been living together at the date of your death, they could make a claim against your estate but that would mean a court action.

IS IT EXPENSIVE TO MAKE A WILL?

The costs of a will varies from firm to firm. At Gibson Kerr we charge £300 for a will (inclusive of VAT), which is about average for solicitors in Edinburgh.

HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE?

It usually takes a few weeks from when we first meet you to you having your will signed. But we can prepare a will very quickly and can even have a will prepared and signed the same day if needed.

DO I NEED TO KNOW DETAILS OF EVERYTHING I OWN?

It is useful if you come to your solicitors meeting with a list of your assets and estimated values to help them know if there are any specific issues to deal with. It will also help them advise you on whether inheritance tax will be payable on your death. Additionally, you should think about whether you want to leave any specific items that you own to anyone.

CAN MY WILL CONTAIN MY WISHES ABOUT THINGS OTHER THAN MY ESTATE?

You might include funeral plans, if you have any.

Any other points you wish to cover in your will that don’t relate to your estate or your funeral can be included in a separate document, usually referred to as a “letter of wishes” which would be stored by your will.

DO I NEED TO TELL MY FAMILY WHAT I HAVE PUT IN MY WILL?

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IF YOU HAVE AN UNMARRIED PARTNER, THEY DON’T AUTOMATICALLY INHERIT FROM YOU WHAT IF I WANT TO MAKE CHANGES TO IT?

You can change your will at any time. This can be done either in a codicil, making amendments to your will. Or a new will can be prepared.

WHAT IF I HAVE ANOTHER CHILD AND IT ISN’T NAMED IN THE WILL?

We normally try to cover the possibility of you having more children at the time your will is prepared. For instance, you can leave your estate to your existing children and any other children you may have in the future. This means that your will does not need to be updated if you have any children. It is, however, advisable to review your will regularly anyway to see if any updates are needed.

DO I NEED TO MAKE A WILL TOGETHER WITH MY PARTNER, OR SEPARATELY

You each need to make your own individual will.

However, if you both wish to do this at the same time and are happy letting each other know what is in your will, you can have a meeting at the same time and go through the process together. n

FIND OUT MORE You can talk to Lindsay MacLean, Personal Law Partner at Gibson Kerr on 0131 226 9162, or visit www.gibsonkerr.co.uk for more information.

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Jonathan Bell, hearing director at Specsavers Audiologists in Edinburgh, works closely with his teams across the city to provide the best level of care to customers while delivering world-class

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audiology services right in the heart of your area.

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‘Research shows that on average people wait around 10 years to seek help for hearing loss after first noticing a problem. This is a huge amount of time for someone to struggle with their hearing, especially when you consider that people with hearing loss are more likely to suffer with depression and develop dementia.

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‘Our hearing professionals can answer any hearing related questions, give advice on our excellent range of hearing aids and offer services such as ear wax removal.

‘We often see people who have been struggling for years but have finally come in to get some help after reaching the point where they can’t function properly anymore. Hearing aids can make a big difference so I’d urge anyone who notices they can’t hear as well as they used to, to come in for a test. Having hearing loss doesn’t necessarily mean you need hearing aids but our audiologists will be able to tell you how much hearing you’ve lost and give you some advice about how to cope with it.’

Specsavers recommends that everyone over the age of 55 should have a hearing test every two years. Our qualified hearing professionals will give you a comprehensive hearing assessment for free. However, there is no obligation to buy a hearing aid.

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HEALTHILY INTEGRATE THE INTERNET

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By Dr. Claire Halsey, Parenting Expert

Being online, whether for leisure, learning or work can be a big part of time at home. Get the most from internet use and family time by following these top tips: 1. GET A BALANCE Family life works best when it includes a mix of activities. Get the most out of time at home by having a balance of real world family activities, shared time online - perhaps working on a project together or watching a streamed movie - and personal internet use – such as Skyping friends, completing homework or gaming.

2. MAKE GOOD USE OF THE INTERNET TO STRENGTHEN RELATIONSHIPS: Online connections mean we can share our everyday lives and precious milestones – children’s first steps, big birthdays, exam results – with family and friends who can’t always be

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around in person. Mix these online methods with real world, face-to-face contact for the richest connections.

3. TAKE AN INTEREST When family members are absorbed with online, there’s an opportunity to show an interest and even join in. You may be surprised to discover a shared enthusiasm and develop it together online, and maybe in the real world too.

4. MAKE THE INTERNET DO THE HARD WORK FOR YOU Whether you’re planning day trips in the holidays, craft activities for a rainy day or making bigger

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decisions, make online information gathering a natural part of planning in your family. When each of you does a little online detective work, decisions can be easier and best of all, everyone can be involved.

5. STAY SAFE Agree your online safety rules and set parental controls if needed. Keep up to date with the latest online scams and safety issues and be open about what you’re each searching and sharing online. You’ll be safer as a family if you keep communicating about online safety.

6. FIND THOSE TEACHABLE MOMENTS There are plenty of opportunities to make online activity a chance to teach valuable life skills and set good habits for the next generation. Online shopping is an ideal place to begin.

Next time a purchase is needed work together to consider what you’re looking for, deciding on a budget, making price comparisons, considering quality or reviews and checking for secure payment. All these add up to useful skills online and off.

7. MAKE WORK AND HOME LIFE FLEXIBLE Working online can offer opportunities for flexibility that allow families to be available at key points in the day or for important events – family mealtimes, the school play or sports events.

Grasp opportunities for flexible working and work from home to be around for those significant family moments. Put a limit on it though.

8. PRIVACY Families are built on love and trust and this extends to the online world as well. Family members will have different ideas about what is private and what needs to be accessible to others. Get this all out in the open. Give clear explanations about what must be visible such as search histories and what can be private and why. Share your reasons using possible scenarios - such as a teenager’s Facebook page being left open on a laptop – to work out how this should be handled.

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here is a good chance that you are currently pursuing a particular goal in your life. You might be aiming for a job promotion, getting to grips with a new hobby, planning an amazing family holiday trip aboard, looking to lose weight or possibly moving house.

Being goal oriented is part and parcel of the human experience.

There are however two very different types of goals; intrinsic goals are an internal form of motivation and relate to your passions in life, your relationships, interests and key values. For example, being more active together as a family.

Extrinsic goals, on the other hand, are motivated by some outside demand, obligation or reward. For example, completing a 12 week diet and exercise plan to fit into that outfit you have bought for the office Christmas party.

Heading into 2019 there will undoubtedly be a rash of endurance events being sent your way, all enticing you to set a new physical challenge, raise funds for charity and boost your fitness levels.

There is no doubt that all these aims are very worthy and worthwhile and exposure will develop your skills and experience to multiple forms of exercise.

However, what happens in the longer term once the event has been completed, the celebrations enjoyed and the muscle stiffness eased?

So, rather than signing up to the latest running, riding or walking event, opt instead to spend time on what you find intrinsically rewarding. Where do your interests and passions lie? This is key to your happiness and self-esteem.

For me, I have found my happy in running. I will often go for a run for the sake of it, just because I

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really enjoy the doing. I am intrinsically rewarded and then I feel happy and fulfilled.

Recently joining Edinburgh Athletics Club has brought me joy and appreciation that being part of a tribe is key to my happiness. Doing things with like minded people sounds so simple but I believe it is so important in ensuring your success in any physical pursuit.

Find your tribe and you will find your path to success. n

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