Maui Family Magazine Spring 2024

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CONTENTS VOL 88 | SPRING 2024

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OUR KEIKI

ALL IN THE ‘OHANA

BABY KEIKI & HEALTH

MAUI HAPPENINGS & ACTIVITIES

Unschooling 10 Learning to Grow 12 Separation Anxiety 14 10 Ways to Honor the ‘Āina 16 Maui Tumblers Celebrates 20 Years 18 Sustainable Products 20 Maui Children's Book Authors 22 Lāhainā Keiki Publish Book 32 A Medical Miracle 34 Help Kids Learn Healthy Sleep Habits 36 A Lifetime of Healthy Smiles 38 Cycles of Nature 42 Growing My Garden 44 New Baby, New You 46

Nurturing Financial Literacy 48 We are Lāhainā 50 Ho‘omau 2024 52 News from Island Art Party 54 A Weekend in Kaua‘i 56 Dear Cici: Healthy Parenting 58

Arts Calendar 24 Education Calendar 28 Recipe: Haleakalā Salad 60 Sports Calendar 62 Events Calendar 66 Keiki Corner 68 Party Page: Spring Egg Suncatchers 70

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PUBLISHER Alma Tassi GRAPHIC DESIGN Alexa Helge COMMUNITY EDITOR Kalia Kelmenson CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Kiegan Blake, Anik Cockroft, Jessica Gleason, Haley Celeste Miller, Maja Liotta, Bailey Onaga, Cecilia Ortiz, Kalia Kelmenson PROOFREADER Jennifer Hamayelian EDITORIAL ADMIN Zadie Tassi ADVERTISING SALES Alma Tassi Call 808-250-2990 or email ads@mauifamilymagazine.com EDITORIAL SUBMISSIONS Email info@mauifamilymagazine.com CALENDAR SUBMISSIONS Email calendar@mauifamilymagazine.com We at Maui Family Magazine want to inform, celebrate and participate in the nurturing and guidance of Maui’s children. We explore ways for parents to spend quality time with their children while also giving them information on health, safety and education. Maui Family Magazine is printed quarterly as Spring, Summer, Fall, and Winter editions.

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Cover ‘Ohana: The Plemels on Thompson Road, Kula.

Cover Photography: Sean Michael Hower @seanmhower • howerphotography.com

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CONTRIBUTORS Get to know our contributors. This issue we ask them to share: What are you looking forward to this year?

Kiegan Blake mauichilddevelopment.com “I have 3 areas of focus: Focus on my health and fitness, continuing to develop deep and meaningful relationships with families I work with and shared experiences with my family and friends.”

Kiegan Blake has been an Occupational Therapist for almost 30 years and specializes in working with families to address sensory superpowers, motor skills, behavior, attention, organization, social skills, and emotional coping. In this issue, she shares her tips for separation anxiety on page 14.

Sean Michael Hower @seanmhower • howerphotography.com “Some peace on Earth (please).”

Sean has lived on Maui for 25 years and he loves his fiance, surfing, traveling and capturing lifetime memories for his clients through his eyes and his camera. He captured the Plemel family in Kula on Thompson Road for our cover and for a feature "Medical Miracles" on page 34.

Hayley Celeste Miller @haleycelestemiller “I am looking forward to the small and seemingly insignificant memories with my ‘ohana, those moments that are easily dismissed.

When your life burns to the ground it's what you miss the most.”

Raised in Lāhainā, Haley is passionate about unschooling, generational healing, essential oils and being a mom. She shares a typical day of unschooling with her kids on page 10 and shares her raw emotions months after the fires in "We Are Lāhainā" on page 50.

Cecilia Ortiz @alohacici17 “This year I am looking forward to focusing on self-care and wellbeing. Part of that goal includes finding ways my family can volunteer and contribute towards the preservation and rebuilding of our Maui community.”

Cecilia Ortiz, LCSW is a clinical social worker and a mom. She has over 20 years of experience including working with kids, teens and adults in the areas of sex education, abuse, trauma and prevention. This issue, she talks about healthy parenting on page 58.

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Unschooling

By Hayley Celeste Miller

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oin me on a journey of curiosity and empowerment or as my ‘ohana calls it, unschooling.

Before you think unschooling means my keiki must be illiterate, lack social skills, and structure, or will be unsuccessful, let me quote John Holt who coined the term unschooling in the 70s: “We can best help children learn, not by deciding what we think they should learn and thinking of ingenious ways to teach it to them, but by making the world, as far as we can, accessible to them, paying serious attention to what they do, answering their questions—if they have any—and helping them explore the things they are most interested in.”

“Mom, wake up it's a beautiful day for fishing,” says my son, age 2, with bright eyes and excitement to begin our day. We turn on some music, sing, and dance while we measure the ingredients to make pancakes. He learns ratios, addition and fractions.

We sit down to eat and talk about fish, tides, moon phases, styles of fishing, different fishing poles that help catch specific fish, and how important fish are to the ecosystem. He learns history, geography, generational knowledge, and cultural practices.

Finally, it’s time to go fishing but we get to the beach only to find we forgot bait. My son

assures me it’s no problem because he knows the perfect bait he can catch, ‘oama. He catches a black crab, takes the meat to catch an ‘oama, puts the live ‘oama on his line, and casts out his dunking pole. He learns that it’s not the lack of resources, it’s the lack of resourcefulness that stops you from being successful.

As we wait for a fish to take the bait, we talk story with Aunty who’s always at the beach park and she shares her wisdom from a lifetime of fishing. My son learns respect for his kūpuna, values that could never be taught in a book, philosophy, and the idea that you can learn something new in minutes that took a lifetime for someone else to learn.

Still no bite, so we draw words in the sand and talk about the sounds of each letter.

“Fish on the line.” He runs to his pole and begins reeling up his fish, before it reaches the shore he already knows it's an ‘ōmilu by the way it’s fighting. He descales it, guts it and we go home to enjoy a delicious lunch.

Unschooling is about trusting in our keiki’s natural curiosity to learn and empowering lifelong learners. All we have to do is open the doors to deepen their knowledge and get out of their way.

Raised in Lāhainā, Haley is passionate about unschooling, generational healing, essential oils and being a mom.

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Our Keiki GROWTH MINDSET

Learning to Grow

BY KALIA KELMENSON

Adults can benefit just as much as kids can, and there’s a lot parents can do to foster a growth mindset in their keiki.

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e all come into life with certain capacities that come easily to us. These are commonly referred to as strengths, and they are important to recognize and to learn how to lean into. They are not, however, the end of the story. We all can develop parts of ourselves, and having a mindset that recognizes our ability to grow in different ways is an important part of being able to overcome challenges that we will inevitably face.

Research has shown that there are two kinds of mindsets developed in childhood, known as growth mindset and fixed mindset.

Those with a fixed mindset believe that we are born with a certain level of intelligence, definitive ability, or skill and that these things don’t change. When someone with a fixed mindset makes a mistake, they think of it as a failure. With this type of thinking, challenges often feel insurmountable, and most often giving up seems to be the only course of action.

People with a growth mindset believe that by working hard, they can develop the skills they need to overcome the challenges they face.

Their way of thinking is that if they’re not good at something, they can work at it and become better able to do that thing.

• Help them understand that making mistakes is a normal part of learning. Mistakes don’t mean failure, it means they’ve discovered one way that doesn’t work.

• Talk with them about what you do when you feel discouraged. Let them see that you are capable of feeling that emotion, and also show them that you can re-engage in the process of finding a way to work through a challenge.

• Discuss successes and failures. Dive deeper into stories that show challenges that were overcome, and also how that happened.

• Reminisce about challenges you’ve faced.

Don’t pretend everything is fine when it’s not.

• Develop awareness about how you speak to your keiki. Praise them for giving their best effort, and avoid praising them as artistic, athletic, or smart. These imply static traits that aren’t changeable. Instead, shift the script to noticing and encouraging the effort that goes into playing a sport, being curious about how they combined colors or textures in their artwork, or spending time trying to work out a math problem or learn new words.

Cultivating a growth mindset in yourself will expand your capacity to meet the challenges you’ll face. But by helping your keiki do the same, you’ll give them a lifelong gift.

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Our Keiki MAUI CENTER FOR CHILD DEVELOPMENT

Separation Anxiety

BY KIEGAN BLAKE, O.T.

Your child having worries about separating from you is a normal part of development. This is particularly true as your toddler gains some mobility by crawling and walking and realizes they are not only able to separate from you, but that you may not be right there when they move away from you.

Separation anxiety can be seen typically in the transition to toddlerhood through to preschool and can linger even later. It is always important to consider your child’s context and what may be under their worries internally.

Anxiety about separating can be heightened and prolonged by unexpected events such as parents separating, big events such as moving, and traumatic events such as our recent Lāhainā fires. All of these may raise alarms for your child’s internal sense of safety and security. If your youngster tends to be emotionally sensitive, even small changes and events can feel overwhelming, causing them to have worries about separating from you.

The goal is to create a platform of consistency and predictability as a foundation for safety and security. Here are some tips: • Create a predictable daily routine • Have connected time with your child daily— this is the emotional glue that allows them to be more secure when they separate from you • Talk about what is coming up for the day so they can prepare in advance • Plan together for transitions i.e. what favorite comfort toy they would like to take with them? Who will pick them up?

• Ask them what snacks and stuffies they would like to have to wait in the car at pickup. Have them help prepare their snack and

put the stuffies in the back seat- this gives your child agency and control to regulate their worries • Create a calm ritual around a sweet goodbye such as a hug and butterfly kiss • Start with small transitions and work towards longer separations • Visit new environments and people in advance together, even multiple times, so your child can begin to feel comfortable • Talk about changes in the plan in advance so your child is not taken by surprise • Plan your leaving—don’t let your child be surprised by you leaving suddenly without warning; while this may feel effective initially, it just deepens the worries that disappearances will continue to happen unexpectedly Planning with your child helps them learn to hold and manage around their worries.

This builds your child’s self-regulation skills and sense of agency in the world. If your child’s anxiety intensifies or is increasingly persistent, consider contacting a mental health professional.

Kiegan Blake is an Occupational Therapist, Behavioral Specialist, and Director of Maui Center for Child Development. For more information, please call 808-873-7700 or visit MauiChildDevelopment.com.

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Our Keiki EARTH DAY

10 Ways to Honor the ‘Āina

BY KALIA KELMENSON

Celebrating and honoring the earth need not be contained to one single day. This year, consider beginning a practice that can continue all year long. Making it playful and fun can instill a lifelong love of the earth.

1. Start a compost pile or get a worm bin so that you can limit how much of your household waste goes into the trash.

2. Find ways to conserve water in your household. Grow drought-resistant plants in your yard and water plants in the evening or the early morning so the water does not just evaporate in the heat. Always limit car washing and long showers — not just when there is an imposed limit on water use.

3. Pay attention to the kinds of household cleaners and body products you use, and choose from the many options that are earth-friendly. Consider visiting Rooted in Wailuku for a variety of house and beauty products that you can refill.

4. Collect microplastics from the beaches you visit. Make or buy a beach sieve to collect microplastics from your favorite beach sand. Once you start noticing how much there is, you can’t stop seeing it.

5. Learn about the ahupua’a system of land division that recognizes the interdependence of nature and all living beings.

6. Trace the streams that flow from mauka (mountain) to makai (sea) to understand how what happens in one place is connected to another.

7. Grow something from seed or a small start in your yard. Whether it’s flowers, herbs, a garden, or a tree, plant something and watch it grow. Consider planting something like a native plant. Maui Nui Botanical Gardens can help you find something that will grow well in your area.

8. Grow plants that support butterflies and bees, which are important to the ecosystem.

9. Get involved in one of the many initiatives on Maui that support the planting of trees or helping the native forests thrive.

10. Take the ideas of the three R’s to heart: reduce, reuse, and recycle are thrown around, but talk about these concepts as a family and focus on reducing and reusing since our ability to recycle on this island is very limited.

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Our Keiki COMMUNITY NEWS

Maui Tumblers Celebrates 20 Years

BY MELISSA RAJESH, PRESIDENT AND HEAD COACH OF MAUI TUMBLERS

Some of my fondest memories as a child were learning gymnastics. It taught me so much about myself. The courage to try something new, to believe in myself even when I was scared, and to persevere when things got tough and didn’t always go as planned.

Back then, I didn’t know it was teaching me all of these things. All I knew was that it was fun to flip and fly through the air, move my body in different ways, and dress up in cute leotards. I didn’t think it would lead me anywhere. No one told me I could live my life doing what I love. I was told to go to school, get a job, and work hard.

I eventually grew out of gymnastics, went off to college, and worked many jobs along the way.

Although I wasn’t a gymnast anymore, I never forgot the feeling of being strong, confident, and connected to myself.

After college and a few professions that left me feeling restless and unfulfilled, I made the move to Maui. I told myself, “This is a brand new start, I can be and do anything I want.”

Maui Tumblers mobile gymnastics was founded in 2004 with two goals: to give as many children the opportunity to experience gymnastics as possible, and to do something I truly loved that filled my days with fun and joy.

Owning a business isn’t always fun. It takes dedication, perseverance, and hard work. As Maui Tumblers grew, most of the time, my job had nothing to do with gymnastics anymore.

But what made it all worthwhile and continues to drive me are the thousands of children's lives we’ve enriched through gymnastics, the smiles and laughter, and witnessing their confidence grow every time they master a skill.

Mahalo to every parent, child, school and coach who made this dream a reality.

To learn more about Maui Tumblers, visit mauitumblers.com.

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Celebrating 18 Years 2006 — 2024

At Roots School we inspire a love for learning!

Our dynamic teachers help students to discover, dream and realize their full potential.

• Preschool – 6th grade • Arts-integrated project-based curriculum • Tuition Aid Program

• A focus on social and emotional learning in addition to academics • Small school environment with individualized attention

“Our family chose Roots School because we wanted our children to be in a small, safe and supportive community. I immediately felt that I had found what I was looking for.

I am constantly grateful for the opportunity that my children have to learn in an environment such as this.”

– Jessica Ross, Roots parent

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Our Keiki STEWARDSHIP

Sustainable Products at Maui Ocean Treasures Turning trash into treasure

Buying Maui-made products not only supports the island’s economy but also benefits the environment as less resources are used for shipping.

Maui Ocean Treasures, the gift store at Maui Ocean Center, takes the concept of sustainable shopping a step further by selling locally made products created with recycled materials.

Libby Behn, owner of Maui Island Love, handmakes items ranging from bags and pouches to wallets and card holders. Her products have been sold at Maui Ocean Treasures for the past eight years.

“I’ve always made homemade Christmas gifts for my friends and one year I decided to just use fabric I had at home, and we made some tote bags and they were a big hit,” Behn says.

“And shortly after that a local furniture design store was closing and they were giving away all of their fabric samples so we brought our car, loaded it up and our business was born.”

Another company found on the shelves of Maui Ocean Treasures is Upcycle Hawaii. The Hilo-based business uses repurposed materials to make items such as upcycled plastic pouches with bamboo cutlery.

“It is our pleasure to turn trash into treasure,” says Mattie Mae Larson, owner of Upcycle Hawaii. “My motivation in creating Upcycle Hawaii is I believe the world was looking at trash through the wrong eyes. It is our mission statement to give overlooked and

underappreciated materials a second life by creating quality and valuable products while diverting materials from local landfills.”

Larson says her inspiration came from beach cleanups and removing plastic pollution from the ocean since she was a young child. “Now we’re taking some of that debris, we’re diverting that trash from the landfill and we’re turning that into beach bags and earrings,” she says.

Other sustainable products showcased at Maui Ocean Treasures include everything from Wahi Hawaii’s eco-friendly straws and produce bags to artwork of marine life made from reclaimed barnwood.

“We even carry a line of mugs, hats, towels and other products featuring an image of the aquarium’s Vanishing Mural, which illustrates the impacts of climate change,” says Retail Director Sandy Fujiwara.

There is no aquarium admission required to shop (just ask Maui Ocean Center’s Front Gate staff to visit the gift store). Maui Ocean Treasures is open 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. daily, with the last entrance at the Front Gate at 4 p.m.

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Our Keiki LOCAL AUTHORS

Maui Children's Book Authors

These local authors put their passion on the page, offering keiki around the island books that reflect their surroundings and a lifestyle unique to Maui.

The Girl and the Boat

By Julia Allison Cost

For the last 6 years, Maui-born and raised artist, Julia Allisson Cost, has been painting a wordless picture book, featuring 30 detailed oil paintings that weave together to tell a story of friendship, love, letting go, creativity, and imagination. Working with two Maui children, Tehya Artzi and Kaia Coon as the models for the characters, Cost sewed costumes, built props and sets, and staged the scenes for every page in both Upcountry Maui and at the beach. The result is a stunning handmade tale. Find her work at juliacost.com, or book an appointment to visit her studio in Kula where you can browse the book, fabrics, and paintings in person.

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Kimo’s Hula Pie Adventure

By Tiana Pante

Written and illustrated by Tiana Pante, the story revolves around the journey of a Hula Pie, taking readers on a magical adventure around the island. Inspired by the iconic dessert, it’s also a heartfelt tribute to the late Kimo’s restaurant that many hold dear to their hearts.

70% of proceeds from the first round of book sales will be donated to the Legacy of Aloha, a foundation established by the TS restaurants to support those affected by the August fires. Readers can purchase a copy at any TS Restaurant in Hawaii and California or online at tssportswear.com.

On the Day You Were Born Written by Dani Langevin with Illustrations by Nicki Barsamian Written and illustrated on Maui, this sweet board book tells the story of how the animals of Hawai'i welcome a baby on their birthday.

Throughout the book whales sing, turtles surf, and dolphins put on an acrobatic show all in celebration of the baby. Each page is adorned with

whimsical watercolor illustrations to bring it to life and capture the eye of your keiki. Author Dani Langevin is a Maui doula while artist Nicki Barsamian illustrated the story. Books can be purchased at www.onthedayyouwereborn.org.

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MAUI FAMILY

SPRING 2024

CALENDAR Alexander Academy of Performing Arts 808-878-8970 • alexanderacademy.info 870 Hali’imaile Road, Makawao

Join Alexander Academy for the 2023-2024 dance season. Classes for kids ages 3+ include ballet, pointe, jazz, contemporary, acro, flexibility, hip hop, and acting. Adult classes available. AAPA aims to provide accessible high-quality dance instruction and performance opportunities to the Maui community. Through the art and discipline of dance, we empower students to embody the aloha spirit, identify their self-respect and compassion, and feel connection. Spring semester will conclude with full-length Swan Lake performances. Visit our website to enroll today.

Momentum Dance Maui

808-866-0212 • momentumdancemaui.com 230 Hana Hwy. Unit 4, Kahului, HI, 96732

Ages 3–adult Join Momentum Dance Maui for the 20232024 dance season at their brand new Kahului location! Classes include creative movement, pre-ballet, hip-hop, jazz, contemporary, tap, and more. Momentum Dance Maui aims to inspire well-rounded and enthusiastic dancers through excellent training for both the preprofessional dancer and recreational student.

We believe in creating a safe and positive environment where dancers can thrive. Call for more information or visit our website to conveniently register online today.

Napili Kai Foundation

808-669-6271 (Napili Kai Beach Resort) 5900 Honoapiilani Rd., Lahaina, Napili www.napilikaifoundation.org

“Perpetuating Hawaiian culture through the children of Maui since 1966.” Membership in our cultural program is open to keiki 6–18 and is free of charge. For details on membership commitment, contact Kumu Hula Kathy Ralar through our website.

Theatre Theatre Maui

808-661-1168 • ttmwestmaui.org admin@ttmwestmaui.org

In Lahaina: After-school classes, workshops, school-break and summer camps • Ages 5–adult We offer performing arts experiences for the children and adults of the West Maui community while also cultivating and nurturing local artists in the production of their original works. Visit ttmwestmaui.org to learn about upcoming classes and camps.

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Dance classes for ages 3 and up Register online today and visit us at our brand new location!

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Arts Calendar Maui Onstage Youth

808-868-0333 • mauionstage.com Queen Ka‘ahumanu Center (Across from Lens Crafters)

Spring camps and classes Students of all levels will explore elements of theater including vocalization, character development, music, movement, dance, and ensemble-building. Classes and camps include acting, improv, and musical theater for all ages.

Register at mauionstage.com.

Hui No’eau Visual Arts Center 808- 572-6560 • www.huinoeau.com 2841 Baldwin Ave, Makawao

Spring camps and classes • Ages 2.5–adult Classes are online & open for registration! The Hui offers classes, workshops, and camps for all ages and artistic abilities. Taught by professional teaching artists, Hui classes include programs in drawing, painting, photography, printmaking, jewelry, ceramics, glassblowing, Hawaiian arts, and more! The Hui also brings exceptional teaching artists to Maui as part of our Visiting Artist program. We offer classes for all ages, including family classes designed for multiple generations to participate in the arts together.

ArtLab Maui

808-666-0111 • www.artrlabmaui.com 381 Huku Li’I Place, Suite 103, Kihei info@artlabmaui.com

Ongoing after-school, weekend programs, camps and private events • Ages 2.5–18 ArtLab Maui programs include: creativity building, drawing, painting, mixed media, sculpture, and more. Providing quality teacher-led programs with engaging process based art activities, where kids learn, play and create! Let’s get a little messy and make some amazing art! Visit us online to see the current schedule and to enroll.

Maui Violin Lessons

808-283-6945 • mauiviolinlessons.com cambria808@gmail.com

Private violin lessons in Central Maui • Ages 6–Adult • Flexible times, beginning & intermediate students.

Experienced & patient teacher. Innovative teaching methods follow the interests & learning style of each student, keeping their passion for music alive. Contact Cambria Moss. If you do not have a violin yet, please call before shopping for one.

Anuenue Music Maui

719-948-7789 • anuenuemusicmaui.com Kindermusik.com Aloha Open Marketplace, 1794 S Kihei Rd., #10, Kihei

Kindermusik classes: Ages birth–10 years Private lessons: Ages 7 years–adult Kindermusik by Tamara for keiki and private lessons by Dan Anuenue Music Maui to continue their musical journey. Whether you are just beginning or a seasoned musician there is something for everyone. Kindermusik is the world’s leader in childhood music & movement education. Based on decades of research, activities are carefully & creatively designed to enhance children’s cognitive, language, physical, creative, and social-emotional development.

La-ti-Da School of Music & Creative Arts

www.la-ti-daproductions.com aloha@la-ti-daproductions.com • 808-280-2784 office 920-227-3406 text • @latidamusic 133 Makawao Ave, Makawao HI

Ages 3 months–adult La-ti-Da offers early childhood and preschool music classes for ages 3 months–6 years as well as private and group music lessons for age 7+ on various instruments. We believe in creating an uplifting environment for children to explore the world of creativity. We strive to motivate kids through interactive learning, movement, games and innovation, inspiring confidence and teamwork. Join us for the 2023–2024 school year at our studio in Makawao!

Bounty Music

808- 871-1141 • info@bountymusic.com

Music lessons in 'ukulele, guitar, drums, voice, and keyboard • Ages 6+ Ongoing classes every day!

We offer a great variety of musical instruments for sale from beginner to advanced to fit all your musical needs. Bounty Music has a great selection of digital pianos, 'ukulele, guitars, and drums for children and adults alike.

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Little Hoku Montessori

808-866-6072 • littlehoku.com Lutheran Church at 220 Moi Place, North Kihei

Montessori School of Maui

808.573.0374 • momi.org 2933 Baldwin Avenue, Makawao, HI 96768

Open House • Saturday, February 4, 2024 Interested in learning more about the value of a Montessori education for your child? Complete an Online Inquiry at momi.org/admissions to join us.

Ke Kula ‘O Pi‘ilani

808-214-5006 • kekulaopiilani.com 875 ‘Īao Valley Rd., Wailuku

Open House • Feb 16, 2024 • 5pm–7pm Ke Kula ‘o Pi‘ilani is a K–5 Hawaiian immersion private school located in the heart of ‘Īao Valley.

Our mission is to nurture life-long learners and passionate community leaders by cultivating an enriching environment of academic excellence grounded in Hawaiian culture and values.

Hawaii Technology Academy 808-676-5444 • hi.myhta.org 535 Lipoa Parkway, Suite 200, Kihei

Campus Tours & Virtual Information Sessions Starting January 17 HTA is an innovative public charter school that allows students to follow their own unique paths to success. In addition to our K–12 school, we also offer a full distance-learning program for grades 4–12. Admission for the next school year opens on Feb. 7. Contact the campus for more information or email enrollment@myhta.org.

Open House • Saturday, February 10, 2024 10am–11:30 am.

Little Hoku’s mission is to provide a safe and fun environment for its students to grow to be independent and creative individuals. Our school follows the Montessori philosophy. Little Hoku focuses on activities by directing our students in various Montessori activities to nourish their creativity and academics. Visit littlehoku.com/ schedules to see schedule and tuition fees.

Seabury Hall

808-572-7235 • Seaburyhall.org 480 Olinda Road, Makawao

2024 Summer at Seabury We invite you to see how a summer at Seabury Hall can make a difference in your child’s life! The 2024 Summer at Seabury program will feature a variety of courses designed to give students the opportunity to explore and sharpen their academic, artistic, and athletic interests. Please contact seaburysummer@seaburyhall.org with any questions.

Maui Center for Child Development 808-873-7700 • MauiChildDevelopment.com MCCDmaui@gmail.com 244 Papa Place, Suite 102, Kahului

Kiegan offers a wide array of therapy services for children and their families including occupational therapy, behavior management, Sensory Processing Therapy, social and motor skills, and more. She is known throughout the islands for delivering results with her highly specialized therapies and state of the art equipment, and has helped hundreds of families find innovative solutions. She provides comprehensive and outstanding quality to Hawai'i’s families and communities.

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Big Brothers Big Sisters of Maui 808-298-4781 • bbbshawaii.org

Open enrollment for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Maui Youth (ages 6–16 years old) and adult volunteer mentors are matched in a one-to-one friendship based on gender, interests, personalities, and geographic locations. Volunteers are carefully screened and trained to create a positive impact by sharing their friendship, guidance, and support. Pairs meet two to three times per month to spend quality one-on-one time together and form meaningful memories just by hanging out.

Matches are professionally supported by one of our staff members who also provide resources and support to the entire family unit. If you are interested in enrolling your child or becoming a volunteer mentor please e-mail us at ctomas@ bbbshawaii.org or call 808-298-4781.

Boys & Girls Clubs of Maui 808-242-4363 • www.bgcmaui.org

Our Central, Haiku and Makawao Clubs are open after school until 7pm Mon to Fri for ages 8-18 (if still enrolled in high school). Kahekili Terrace (residents only) and Paukukalo Club (waitlist only) also serve youth as young as 6. Our Lahaina Club is now operating out of Lahaina Intermediate School – email aaronn@bgcmaui. org for details. All locations provide a variety of programs supporting academic success, good character & citizenship, healthy lifestyles, and social-emotional development.

Family Hui Hawaii

808-230-7112 • FamilyHuiHawaii.org

Family Hui Hawai’i provides families with opportunities to connect, share and learn from one another through our in-person or virtual parent support groups. Our Maui Parent Cafes are peerled sessions run by other parents online, and our Maui Neighborhood Hui are parent-led group series in your own community. Our free programs are for all Maui families. Follow our IG at family.hui.hawaii, FB Family Hui Hawaii, website at familyhuihawaii.org, text hui to 70138 for free developmental texts and updates.

Maui Tutoring

808-500-8881 • mauitutoring.com • Kihei

Private & Group Tutoring PreK–3rd Grade • Mon.–Sat. • 8am–6pm Maui Tutoring creates a solid academic foundation to provide the child with the confidence and skills needed for future academic excellence. Private and group tutoring PreK–3rd grade. Maui Tutoring also offers (one time) individual assessment visits, and curriculum kits.

Mon.–Sat., all year, 8am–6pm.

Maui ‘Ohana Collective—Homeschool Resource Support & Educational Garden Program 209-259-3017 • mauiohanac@gmail.com

Maui ‘Ohana Collective is an educational non-profit, providing Waldorf-inspired and ‘Ohana-based curriculum and activities to students in grades 1–8. Offerings include drop-in classes, cultural festivals, and resources including Laulima Garden ‘Ohana— our operational farm and living classroom for regenerative agriculture education for children and families.

Hawaii State Public Library System

Your library card gives you access to free digital resources available 24/7. You can check out eBooks, eAudiobooks, eMagazines and eNewspapers as well as stream movies, documentaries, and TV series. Parents and caregivers can also access BookFlix for Kids, Scholastic Teachables, streaming movies, TV series, and Story Time and Virtual Programs featuring your local librarians.

Please visit www.librarieshawaii.org to find out about our current services, or feel free to stop by or call your nearest library during open hours.

Library staff is here to help!

Wailuku Public Library

808-243-5766 • www.librarieshawaii.org 251 High Street, Wailuku

Kīhei Public Library

808-875-6833 • www.librarieshawaii.org 35 Waimaha‘iha‘i St., Kihei

Makawao Public Library

808-573-8785 • www.librarieshawaii.org 1159 Makawao Ave., Makawao

Kahului Public Library

808-873-3095 • www.librarieshawaii.org 90 School St., Kahului

East Maui Watershed Partnership 808-573-6999 • eastmauiwatershed.org

Online Watershed Education • 3rd Grade–Adult Year-round by request • Weekdays Let us bring the watershed to you with various online presentations and quizzes! Students will learn what a watershed is and why they are important. In-person hikes and volunteer service trips may be available, but subject to COVID-19 limitations.

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Education Calendar Reading Tutoring

248-564-1999 • cindyteachesreading.com Cindy Shuster

Personalized one-on-one tutoring for beginning readers and readers needing extra support to achieve grade level. Students are initially assessed to establish their knowledge of letters and sounds, concepts about print, and writing skills.

Lessons are then designed around the child’s ability level. Children are guided through lessons that include reading, word work, and writing strategies. The goal for each lesson is to build confidence, independence, and a love of reading.

Learn CPR Save Lives

808-740-2770 • Learncprsavealifehawaii@gmail.com Learncprsavelives.com

Flexible classes throughout the year in CPR, AED, First Aid, Conscious and Unconscious

Choking, Basic Life Support Classes for health care providers using American Heart Association as well as American Red Cross guidelines. Students 12 years old and older. Recommended for babysitting. I guarantee you will leave your class with the skills necessary to effectively administer CPR for first aid to babies or adults.

Nā Keiki O Emalia

808-214-9832 • www.NKoEmaui.org • Wailuku

Children/Teen Bereavement Program Nā Keiki O Emalia provides support to grieving children, teens, and their families to help them heal after the death of someone important to them. Serving Wailuku, Kahului, Kihei, and adding Hana, Lana'i, Moloka'i, Lahaina, and Upcountry. Join us for our children’s grief programs on Wednesdays in Wailuku. Register at contact@nkoemaui.org or 808-214-9832.

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Our Keiki LĀHAINĀ ART SOCIETY

Lāhainā Keiki Publish Their Own Art Book

Volunteer Rita McClintock helped organize further and found a location that offered an indoor setting with regular hours for families.

Duncan says they were relieved to be a bridge to keep these keiki together until they could return to a school.

For children on Maui’s West side, art has been a powerful resource, providing a creative outlet for their emotions and a safe, comfortable space for expression.

The children’s favorite stories were by Peter H. Reynolds. Duncan says they were enthralled by the fact that he was an author and an illustrator of his books. She reached out to Mr. Reynolds and he sent a sweet message of support to the keiki.

DeAna Duncan spent years as a high school teacher in Tennessee, guiding students in visual art, dance and audio/visual production. After moving to West Maui and connecting with Lāhainā Arts Guild (LAG)/Lāhainā Arts Society (LAS), she began volunteering to teach art at King Kamehameha Elementary School. Duncan says she fell in love with the keiki, educators and the school itself, happily welcoming this new chapter in her life to connect kids with art.

Duncan recalls, “Within days of the fire, director Bill Smith let us know he had no plans of ending LAS and LAG.” Thanks to donations of art supplies, about two weeks after the fire, the group was able to begin offering art at some of the hotel sites, and volunteering time in the hubs.

Robert Livermore, a teacher from King Kamehameha III, immediately began teaching keiki after the fire. He set up at Airport Beach, then the Nāpili Park Hub. He worked tirelessly with other educators and volunteers to be sure the keiki had a place to learn and be with friends. For weeks they attended “school” at the park.

Duncan said, “They wanted to show him their appreciation, but didn’t think they could do what he does so well. I asked them ‘why not?’

And that began our process for writing and illustrating their own book!”

Three youngsters at the Honokōwai Hub named Makai, Ulises, and Alena, took particular interest. Duncan set aside time each day for them to brainstorm their ideas and come up with a story. They began with an outline, shared writing parts of the story, and organized the pages. They worked for three weeks on the book.

Duncan pledged that she would put their book together for the kids. True to her word, she digitally recreated their writing and illustrations. Lāhainā Arts Guild covered the cost of production and their creation, Makai Loves Books, made its way to an online self-publisher.

The group is planning to bring a book signing party in February, when there’s time to get the classmates together again and present the students with their special books.

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by Alma Tassi

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n a February evening in 2022, Gunner James Plemel was born. What should have been a joyous moment, quickly turned into a parent’s worst nightmare. Due to an unknown medical emergency, he was medevacked to a hospital in Oahu with his father, Jacob. His mother, Sarah, made the trip with her sister’s help the next morning. Given little hope her son would survive the night, she steeled herself for the worst when she was reunited with her family. Miraculously and against all odds, he survived.

Once Gunner had arrived in Oahu, emergency surgery revealed a necrotic small intestine. On the spot, Jacob was faced with a choice: Keep him alive long enough for Sarah to arrive and say goodbye, or attempt a risky surgery to remove it for a fighting chance. After 8 years of struggling to have children, the Plemels weren’t about to let their dream go.

Gunner is now almost two years old. He was born with a very rare disease called ultra-short gut or bowel syndrome (SBS). He receives nourishment 24/7 through a hole in his abdomen—a surgery he endured the first week of his life.

He wears a backpack that has a pouch of milk and a pump, which releases a measured trickle directly into his gut. He also gets a synthetic nourishment called Total Parenteral Nutrition (TPN) hooked up every day through a central line in his chest, for 10-12 hours at a time, which varies depending on what his gut can tolerate.

Due to Gunner’s unique needs and infection risk to his central line, he cannot get wet from

the waist up. He can only eat through the mouth in small, measured amounts, if at all.

With the complexity of the digestive tract, things can change in an instant. Managing his health needs requires a team of dedicated specialists, meticulous attention and care by his parents, and a ferocious will to survive. Luckily, Gunner has all in spades.

Raising a child like Gunner comes with extreme gratitude for his life, but the emotional roller coaster does takes a toll on everyone connected to him. Sarah says, “I’ve had waves of doing well and other waves of struggle. It’s easy to stay positive though because he’s alive.” Jacob adds, “We do what needs to be done, we talk it out and we trust that this strong little man can and will be here far beyond us.” Supported by their sacrifice, commitment, and love, Gunner’s progress continues to surprise everyone.

When his surgeries at birth left him with no measurable bowel, Gunner recorded a 20 cm growth in one year. His doctors even feel he could be TPN-free someday. Dr. Chui says, "Gunner has changed the way I counseled parents when faced with SBS diagnosis. Yes, I still have to tell them about the possible bad outcomes, but my counseling now carries a little more hope."

For the Plemel family, Gunner fuels their faith amid all the challenges. Jacob says, “You don’t know strength and determination until you watch the eyes of such a little person go through things that break his parents' hearts; and he can walk out of that room with a hug, kiss, and smiles.”

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Baby Keiki MAUI HEALTH

Help Kids Learn Healthy Sleep Habits

BY DR. ERI SHIMIZU, INTERNIST AND FUNCTIONAL MEDICINE, OLENA CENTER FOR HEALTH AND WELLNESS

drinks, look for hidden sources of caffeine, like chocolate. If you feel your child needs caffeine, limit it to morning hours only. You might even want to limit liquids before bed to avoid latenight bathroom visits.

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f bedtime is a nightly battle, you’re not alone.

According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, as many as 25 percent of children and teens struggle with sleep. Whether your child resists going to bed or wakes up often at night, trouble sleeping can make life harder for everyone.

Children who get enough sleep perform better in school and show improved mood, attention, learning, and memory. Sleep supports the immune system, keeping kids healthier. It also regulates the release of hormones that help children grow and plays a vital role in brain development. Children 6–12 years old should ideally get 9–12 hours a night, while teens should get 8–10 hours a night.

Every child can benefit by learning good sleep habits. Start by setting a regular bedtime and sticking with it, even on weekends.

Help kids wind down at the end of the day by limiting screen time, especially before bed.

Playing on a phone or tablet can be stimulating for kids, and the blue light from these screens causes the body to suppress the natural production of the sleep hormone melatonin.

Caffeine can keep kids awake, so watch what they eat and drink. In addition to common culprits like coffee, soda, tea, and energy

Ensure your child’s bedroom is conducive to sleep by keeping it dark, quiet, and comfortable. Dimming the lights as you get ready for bed can trigger your child’s circadian rhythm to prepare for sleep. Night lights can be reassuring for those with nighttime worries.

Choose an amber-colored one to minimize blue light. Try a 20-minute ritual of soothing activities like reading a book to help your child settle down and build a habit of going to bed.

Even with good sleep habits, many children still struggle with sleep. If your child is frequently sleepy during the day, has severe snoring, or if you suspect that an underlying health or developmental issue may be affecting their sleep, make an appointment with your pediatrician. Talk with a doctor before giving a child sleeping pills or supplements marketed as natural sleep aids, as these can have adverse side effects in children.

Sleep is essential, not just for your child, but for everyone in the family! By making sure your child is getting enough quality sleep and establishing a healthy bedtime routine, you can set them up for success — not just tonight, but for years into the future.

For more, visit mauihealth.org/keikisleep.

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If bedtime is a nightly battle, you’re not alone. Whether your child resists going to bed or wakes up often at night, trouble sleeping can make life harder for everyone. Here are a few tips to help keiki develop healthy sleep habits: • Set a regular bedtime and stick with it • Limit screen time, especially before bed • Create a routine, including reading a book and dimming the lights For more tips and resources, visit:

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Baby Keiki HAWAII DENTAL SERVICE

A Lifetime of Healthy Smiles for Maui Families The mission of Hawaii Dental Service is to give everyone a lifetime of healthy smiles, including those on Maui. After the wildfires in Lahaina last year, the HDS Foundation provided emergency funding to community clinics on Maui to ensure the dental community could provide comprehensive dental care for displaced families and ensure oral health remained a priority. Today HDS continues its work to improve access to dental care across Maui and the State of Hawai'i.

There are many things every family member can do to maintain good oral health and to have a healthy smile. Here are some simple but often overlooked tips to keep smiling and stay healthy: Floss Daily Be sure to floss your teeth at least daily. Flossing helps to remove food particles and plaque between your teeth and below the gumline.

Plaque is a sticky film composed of harmful bacteria that can erode your teeth’s enamel and lead to cavities. Flossing also helps to prevent gum disease so that you can keep smiling. Flossing is also an easy, low-cost way to benefit your overall health. According to the American Heart Association, there is a connection between the health of your mouth and the overall health of your body. Bacteria from your mouth can travel to your heart and create heart disease.

Brush Twice a Day Brush your teeth twice a day. Replace your toothbrush every three months. As the bristles of your toothbrush wear down, brushing becomes less effective. Bacteria and germs thrive in the bristles. Get a new toothbrush, especially after you’ve had a cold. If you do not brush your teeth properly and frequently, it could contribute to tartar buildup on your teeth.

See a Dentist Regularly Schedule regular visits to see a dentist. Keiki should see a dentist before their first birthday, and everyone should continue regular dental visits into adulthood. Don’t wait until you have a toothache or cavity. Make dentist visits part of your routine so that your dentist can detect and treat problems early and you can enjoy a lifetime of healthy smiles.

For more oral health tips and to find a dentist near you, visit hawaiidentalservice.com.

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Baby Keiki SEASONALITY

Cycles of Nature

BY KALIA KELMENSON

After my tutu passed away, we went through her belongings in her home in Kula. I came across a small journal of hers, written in her precise cursive lettering. In it, she had chronicled the coming and going of the plover birds on her front lawn. She noted which ones had returned after a summer away, and how many new babies there were in each family.

The natural world offers us endless opportunities to notice the cycles of life.

Remembering that we are part of nature and that we all are indeed part of the cycle of change, the cycle of life, and that each of us will go through many cycles in life can help us find perspective when we face challenges.

There are shorter cycles, such as watching the energy of a wave as it builds towards the shore, then crashes into the sand, washes up the beach, and then pulls away back to the sea. Then there are longer cycles; watching a caterpillar go through the process of becoming a butterfly or planting a seed and watching it grow into a flower.

Noticing these cycles can bring context to other cycles we experience: how our emotions rise within us and settle, learning new things, and even projects we take on.

By bringing this idea of cycles into our daily awareness and our conversations with our keiki, we help to normalize the process of change.

Including simple rituals, such as keeping a journal as my tutu did, allows us to mark the cycles. Within our own lives, it can be helpful to recognize where we are in our own lives.

Are we in a stage of growth or are we needing to rest to stop the output of energy?

Are we working through something, like the butterfly in the cocoon?

Bring this idea of cycles into your daily conversation. You might notice what cycle the moon is in, and notice how quickly it appears to be full or returns to just a sliver in the sky.

You might recognize that whales have returned to the island and talk together about their migration cycles.

Consider where you are, and where your keiki and even your ‘ohana as a whole are in this cycle of change. Let yourself be curious and invite the conversation to open up new possibilities.

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Baby Keiki HAWAI‘I PUBLIC LIBRARY SYSTEM

Growing My Garden: Keiki Self-Care Toolkits

BY JESSICA GLEASON, BOOKMOBILE LIBRARIAN “Every one of us already has the seed of mindfulness. The practice is to cultivate it.” ~ Thích Nhất Hạnh

The Growing My Garden: Keiki Self-Care Toolkits were created to support parents and caregivers in cultivating “seeds” of mental and emotional well-being in their children, their families, and themselves. Each toolkit contains books, an activity guide, and take-home activities to support a healthy garden of the mind.

There are four themed kits: Soil, Air, Water, and Sunshine.

Soil provides a nourishing foundation for seeds to grow and keeps them grounded through its roots. R ​ ecognizing our own emotions builds the foundation for us to grow and manage them. ​Grounding techniques, mindfulness, and meditation can help us connect with our emotions, and balance our emotional response.

Air provides clean, clear space for seeds to grow. S​ ometimes we may be overwhelmed with too many thoughts and feelings. ​Breathing techniques can help us calm and focus our minds, creating space for healthier thoughts and feelings to thrive.

Water nourishes and refreshes seeds/seedlings to help them grow.​We need activities that nourish and refresh our minds and bodies.​ Fulfilling activities are different for everyone: rest, exercise, play, reading, crafting, or any activity that replenishes your spirit. ​

Sunshine provides warmth and energy to help seeds grow. It is important to give ourselves the same warmth we share with others through kindness and gratitude. ​Treating ourselves with kind words and affirmations encourages positive thinking habits to grow.

Visit Wailuku Public Library or the Holoholo Bookmobile on Maui to borrow a toolkit. A free toolbox will be given away upon checkout of a toolkit (while supplies last). Decorate and then fill the toolbox with your take-home activity cards, crafts, and keepsakes as reminders of how to self-soothe, practice mindfulness, and cultivate self-awareness and self-love.

Recommended for ages 4 and up. Made possible by grants from mfol.org and the Network of the National Library of Medicine. Created in collaboration with mentalhealthhawaii.org, which provides free mental health tests online at: screening.mhanational.org/screening-tools To view all the kit contents and book lists, go to librarieshawaii.org/growing-my-garden-keikiself-care-toolkit/

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Baby Keiki MOTHERHOOD

New Baby, New You

BY DR. ANIK COCKROFT For every baby growing, there is a mama in vibrant bloom.

For every baby born, a mama herself is reborn in that sacred room.

Nourish through movement. Nourish your roots through movement which embodies a reverence for your physical form. Movement as medicine becomes an innate mantra for the way your body carries and supports your continual becoming.

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ecoming a mom invites you to become more of who you truly are. This role is a magnifier of all the energy that already surges within you. As a wildly beautiful force of nature, you are transforming through constant growth and change. While parts of you are incubating and yet to sprout, others are blooming, and still others are shedding their flowering petals in completion.

Embrace the tiny teacher in your arms designed as a mirror for your soul. Here, in this magnificent garden party era, your baby reflects back an undeniable sense of purpose for your life.

Cultivate curiosity. Getting your hands dirty with the seeds available to prosper your emotional health can be fun and playful.

Cultivate a curiosity for nature which allows you to drop into fascination and flow. Focus on harmonizing with a sense of childlike wonder to expand your world. It connects you to all that is surrounding and sustaining you.

Surrender to stillness. Develop the skill of stillness—it gifts you the ability to hear your truths more clearly. Here, you can discern the whispers emerging from your inner knowing.

This aligns you with a strong sense of prioritizing and protecting your peace. Finding the appropriate balance of creating to consuming requires time and patience. Clarity results from the devoted practice of pruning your inner landscape to fertilize your intentions and ambitions.

Notice your fears. Expressing your fears and weeding them from the soil of your mind will give way for the seeds of faith planted to flourish. Simultaneously, you will release any power your fears once held over you.

Grow on, mama. Whatever you choose to water will thrive. What loving actions are available to tend to your garden with gratitude? In what ways might living into your glorious existence inspire and elevate other mamas?

Did you know that MauiFamilyMagazine.com has even more great content?

• Maui School Guide • Preschool Guide

• Keiki Activities Guide • Seasonal Camp Guide

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Nurturing Financial Literacy: A Guide for Parents

by Maui County Federal Credit Union

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n the chaos of parenthood, managing finances often takes a backseat to midnight feedings and diaper changes, and later homework help and shuttling kids to practices. However, instilling healthy money habits early on can pave the way for a secure financial future for both you and your child. As parents, taking intentional steps to model responsible financial behavior can have lasting benefits for your family.

Open Communication

Start by fostering an open dialogue about money. Discussing budgeting, saving, and financial goals with your child, even at a young age, sets the foundation for a healthy understanding of money. Be transparent about your own financial decisions, sharing both successes

and challenges. This cultivates a sense of financial responsibility and encourages your child to make informed choices as they grow.

Establish a budget

Creating a budget is like a roadmap for your finances. Share the basics of budgeting with your child, involving them in age-appropriate discussions about income, expenses, and savings goals. As they see the importance of prioritizing needs over wants, they develop a practical understanding of financial management.

Saving as a family

Demonstrate the power of saving by involving your child in the process. Consider setting up a family savings account specifically for shared

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goals, such as a family vacation or a special purchase. This teaches the value of delayed gratification and the joy of achieving goals through disciplined saving.

Smart spending habits

Modeling responsible spending habits is crucial. Show your child the importance of distinguishing between needs and wants, making thoughtful purchasing decisions, and avoiding impulse buying. This lays the groundwork for mindful spending as they grow older.

Investing in education

Discuss the importance of education as a long-term investment. Emphasize the idea that knowledge and skills are assets that can lead to better opportunities. By framing education as an investment, you give your child's learning journey a sense of purpose.

Charitable giving

Teach the importance of giving back to the community. Engage in charitable activities as a family and explain the impact of contributing to causes that matter. This fosters empathy and instills the concept of giving back to your community and responsible citizenship.

Modeling healthy money habits as parents is an investment in your child's financial literacy and future success. By incorporating these practices into your family routine, you lay the foundation for a financially secure and responsible future for both you and your child. Remember, what you teach today will shape the financial mindset of the next generation.

Learn more at mauicountyfcu.org.

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Photo credit: Sea Level Photography

We are Lāhainā

Individually, as a community, as an island, our lives have been changed forever.

BY HALEY CELESTE MILLER She screams and sobs, “I just want to go home.

Why can’t I go home? Please Mommy take me home.”

Another nightmare of the fire wakes my 5-yearold. It’s been 4 months since the Maui wildfire took 100 lives and, according to ABC News, turning 2,200 homes to ash and leaving 7,000 of us displaced.

On August 8, 2023, our community was left blind and deaf with only one way in and one way out as the fire ripped through everything we knew, our home, Lāhainā.

Power line poles blocked the road, thousands were gridlocked in the heart of Lāhainā while the world around us was blowing up, literally. Propane tanks, roofs caving in, gas stations, and cars going off like bombs, the noise is unforgettable. Watching as the smoke encapsulates everything in its wake.

Embers lighting up the darkness. The heat was unbearable to the skin. People ditched their cars and ran for their lives as everything around us was turning to ash.

I hold my daughter close, brushing her hair away from her face and kissing her tears, whispering in her ear over and over, “You are safe. I love you. You are safe. I love you.” I apply calming essential oils and begin singing her favorite songs while rocking her back to sleep.

We wake up to a reality that was chosen out of survival, a reality that isn’t ours. I honor my keikis’ experience, their pain, and their loss while navigating my own. I bring them to the ocean and urge them to scream, be angry, feel sad, and let our tears fall with silent prayers to fill our soul with faith in the uncertainty, to keep our minds clear and hearts open.

There is nowhere to go, being moved and evicted every two weeks while trying to mesh into a world that feels foreign and uncertain.

Fighting for our voices to be heard. Standing in solitude as we protect our 'āina and the world moves on and life continues even though.

Hearts are hurting, PTSD, anxiety, depression, depletion, and grief are the new normal but we rise because Lāhainā runs through our veins. We bleed red. The pride we carry in one another and our hometown will forever be the freedom and vision of tomorrow.

We are Lāhainā, kukui ‘a‘ā mau pio ‘ole i ke Kaua‘ula (ever-burning torch not darkened by the Kaua‘ula winds.)

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Parent Support Groups For All Maui Families

Connect. Share. Flourish.

Talk story with other families on a variety of parenting topics online or in person.

— Free Parent Support Groups —

A 10-week program peer-led by local parents. Gather with other families in your area.

Virtual drop-in sessions you can join from the comfort of your own home.

To register for a Hui program, scan the QR code:

Call: (808) 230-7112

www.familyhuihawaii.org Family Hui Hawai‘i is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit charitable organization incorporated in Hawai‘i.

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‘Ohana NĀ LEO PŪLAMA O MAUI

Ho‘omau 2024 Nā Leo Pūlama o Maui will be hosting their 37th Annual Ho‘omau Benefit Concert on Saturday, March 23, 2024 at the Maui Nui Botanical Gardens from 9 am-sunset. This event will feature performances by the keiki of Pūnana Leo o Maui, keynote speakers, hula hālau, as well as a line-up of local entertainers.

There will be a showcase of Hawaiian crafters, demonstrators, and local business vendors from around the island as well as offering ‘ono food and a keiki zone. Pūnana Leo o Maui will also be hosting a silent and live auction.

Nā Leo Pūlama o Maui, the non-profit 501(c) (3) and parent-based non-profit organization dedicated to supporting the Hawaiian immersion preschool program, Pūnana Leo o Maui, is located in Kahului. The event hosts over 4,000 attendees who travel near and far to celebrate the perpetuation of ‘ōlelo Hawai‘i.

Ho’omau 2024 is going to be an exceptional year since Pūnana Leo o Maui is honored to kako’o many ‘ohana from Pūnana Leo o Lahaina!

This upcoming Ho‘omau we celebrate 40 years with the ‘Aha Pūnana Leo for the many years committed to perpetuating the Hawaiian

language and to celebrate the hundreds of students whose foundation is from within this unique Hawaiian Immersion language preschool.

The theme for Ho’omau 2024 is “I ala. I ulu. I ola.” (To rise. To grow. To live.) It is an affirmation and how we re-empower ourselves to OLA (live). The ‘ulu will forever be in our kāhua in remembering the literal gift of life that gives our lāhui hope to rise, to grow, and to live.

The ‘ulu tree/fruit is symbolic and represents our beloved wahi pana of Lahaina, otherwise known as ka malu ‘ulu o Lele. The ‘ōlelo no’eau “Ka Malu ‘Ulu o Lele” gives us insight to what once was an ‘āina filled with groves of ‘ulu. It is important to remember these ‘ōlelo no’eau, inoa, and ‘ike passed on to us by our kūpuna so that we can rise, grow, and flourish (live) in this wā. May we continue to rely on our ‘ike kūpuna to empower a rising, growing, living lāhui each day just as the ‘ulu has empowered to OLA. Tickets are $15 presale and $20 at the door. For more information or to purchase tickets, contact Kahu Kili Nāmau‘u, at (808) 283-7733 or at kili@ahapunanaleo.org.

Please follow this event and the latest updates on Instagram @hoomau_maui and Facebook Ho’omau Maui.

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INDEPENDENT HAWAIIAN IMMERSION ELEMENTARY SCHOOL SERVING MAUI’S ʻOHANA & GRADES K-5

Located in the heart of Wailuku in ʻĪao Valley at Māniania, we believe there is great value in integrating traditional Hawaiian wisdom with modern academics. We endeavor to enrich and empower each student through the practical application of traditional skills and knowledge of modern lifestyles.

OPEN HOUSE FEB 16TH 5-7 PM

VISIT KEKULAOPIILANI.COM

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A Weekend in Kaua‘i a code word that unveils a secret message leading to a prize. Kids will delight running through the sports fields, searching through the pool areas, and learning something about the new place they’re visiting.

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f you’re looking for a staycation this spring or summer break, why not spend a weekend (or more!) in Kaua‘i with its slower pace, breathtaking hikes and beaches, and worldclass resorts?

About a 30 minute drive from Līhu‘e Airport, Kōloa Landing Resort in Kaua‘i is the perfect spot to bring the family with its expansive pool, activities, and for those with little ones, their new Kaua‘i is For Kids program. This fun scavenger hunt encourages keiki to explore the property and learn the history of sugarcane.

Upon arrival families traveling with children between the ages of three and 11 will receive a complimentary adventure pack equipped with a sun hat, binoculars, compass, and sunglasses.

Children will also receive an activity book, containing fun facts about sugarcane and directions for the scavenger hunt.

The sugarcane scavenger hunt includes a map with markers that lead to seven signs around the property with fun facts about sugarcane and Kōloa’s history. Each sign is marked with

In addition to the scavenger hunt, families can enjoy the many activities found throughout the 25-acre property. Relax at the 350,000-gallon main pool, complete with an infinity edge, waterslides, or swim through grotto, and meandering lagoons. Start a volleyball or soccer match or practice putting drills at the resort’s designated activity fields. Every Thursday, all are welcome to enjoy s’mores around the fire pits on the lawn.

If you’re in the mood for an adventure, Kaua'i has it all and you don’t need to go too far to enjoy the sights. For a day trip, head to Waimea Canyon State Park and choose the level of hike you’re comfortable to do with your kids. Make sure you take in the views at the top of the park.

Pack up the family for a day at the beach at popular Po‘ipū Beach Park, conveniently right down the road.

To make a reservation or view special packages visit koloalandingresort.com or call (808) 240- 6600.

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e Sports Camps Visual & Performing Arts Technology Language & Culture Core Academic Instruction & Skills Registration Opens

March 24, 2024 SeaburyHall.org

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News from Island Art Party After 9 years of providing Maui visitors and residents with an awesome, fun time providing the structure for everyone’s creativity to come out, Island Art Party has closed their doors to the studio in Kīhei, Azeka Mauka Shopping Center. Not wanting this activity to disappear altogether, they will be available for private events upon request. There will also be some pop-up events open to the public so stay tuned. Please follow them on Instagram or Facebook if you would like to know about future Art Parties open to the public. In the meantime, they appreciate all the support received over the past 9 years and hope to see you at one of their upcoming events. If you’d like to book a party, you can reach them at info@islandartparty.com or call Mary at 808269-2445.

13th Annual Maui 5K Sunday, March 3, 2024 • 7 am–9 am • Mā‘alaea Maui Ocean Center will present the 13th annual Maui 5K from 7 to 9 a.m. Sunday, March 3, 2024.

Participants have the option to run a timed 5K or an untimed 1-mile run/walk (a virtual run/walk is also offered). Proceeds from the event provide local schools with funding for physical fitness and athletic programs. Participants will have the option to designate their entry fees to schools affected by the Lāhainā wildfires. For more information or to register, visit maui5k.org.

Spice Up Your Stream Looking for the latest Maui news and events for your family, craft and recipe inspiration, and creative activities for your keiki?

Follow Maui Family Magazine.

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TIPS FOR CHOOSING QUALITY CHILD CARE Know what type of child care you are looking for: LICENSED

FAMILY CHILD CARE HOME

INFANT/TODDLER CENTER

PRESCHOOL

BEFORE/AFTER SCHOOL CARE

LICENSED-EXEMPT (NOT LICENSED)

Identify the providers you want to contact: Contact PATCH at 808-242-9232 for a list of licensed providers in your area Ask your friends and family for recommendations

Check at least two references: Make a list of questions to ask!

Visit their home or center and ask questions: What activities do they do with the children? * Do they have age appropriate toys?

How do they handle different behaviors? * How do they keep the environment safe?

Even if the provider is related to you, ask questions!

Determine how much care will cost and how you will pay for it: For information on resources to help with the cost of child care, visit MFSS.ORG/CHILDCARERESOURCES or call 808-242-1608

Make a decision and follow up: Ask questions daily * Trust your instincts * Is your child happy?

It’s ok to make a change if needed!

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‘Ohana DEAR CICI

Healthy Parenting Dear Cici is a family resource for accurate informaton about sex and relationships.

Email your questions to info@mauifamilymagazine.com.

Dear Cici, I'm having trouble seeing eye to eye with my partner on raising our kids; it's only getting worse as they age. How do we communicate in a way that's positive for both our relationship and our kids?

It's not uncommon for parenting disagreements to arise, especially as kids grow and face new challenges. As children develop, our role as parents and our strategies should develop along with them.

In the early years, it might have been easier to see eye to eye with your partner about parenting because the needs of your child were clear. As kids become school-age and move towards adolescence, parenting can become more challenging as you and your co-parent navigate issues such as shaping ethics and values, developing a sense of responsibility, and promoting autonomy.

The most important thing you can do is to have each other's backs. Backing each other up means supporting each other and being consistent. When parents show a united front it helps kids feel secure and is especially useful when managing problem behaviors. Whenever possible, discuss rewards and consequences ahead of time so there is consistency. Focus on the values and principles you want to instill in your children rather than specific parenting techniques.

• It’s important not to undermine their other parent in front of your kids. If you see your partner having a difficult parenting moment avoid jumping in to solve the problem; ask your partner if they would like your help managing the situation.

• If you make a parenting decision, communicate that to your partner so that they are aware and if you’re unsure, tell your child you want to check in with the other parent before making a decision.

• Find a time to debrief with your partner, away from the kids, when you're calm and without distractions. Talk about what worked and what didn’t work.

• Use active listening skills to ensure the other person is feeling heard.

• Offer praise for the things your partner did well and be sure to take responsibility for your actions.

• Choose your battles, keep it brief, offer suggestions one at a time, and try to avoid being over-critical.

• If you become frustrated/angry, take a break and come back to the conversation later.

Seeing parents in conflict can cause kids to feel unsafe. Working through disagreements in a calm, respectful way teaches kids that you can communicate with and work collaboratively with someone even if you don’t see eye to eye.

Parenting is a journey filled with challenges and finding a middle ground may take time; keep the lines of communication open and be patient with each other as you navigate this shared responsibility.

Cecilia Ortiz, LCSW is a clinical social worker and a mom. She has nearly 20 years of experience including working with kids, teens and adults in the areas of sex education, abuse, trama and prevention.

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Haleakalā Salad

by Maja Liotta French they have an expression trompe I nd’oeil that means “a trick of the eye” or an

optical illusion. This expression got me thinking about some cool foods that trick the mouth.

Have you ever tried a miracle berry? When these little fruits are ingested, a fully alchemic situation is ignited by your enzymes and your taste buds do a total flip flop. How about Spilanthes? Native Hawaiians used these for oral health as the enzymes in your saliva alchemize with the active compounds in the plant. About half a minute of sucking on it, a party in your mouth happens. Think Pop Rocks, but a more zen experience. Cleansing and a tonic to the gums and throat tissues, this little plant itself is a miracle. So, to keep with the trompe d’oeil theme, here’s a salad recipe that pairs garlic with strawberries and balsamic vinegar—and utilizes and highlights local products. First, you need some culinary bling:

Golden Garlic Confit Oil Ingredients • 1 cup avocado oil • 3/4 cup of garlic cloves • 1 thumb-size split in half piece of turmeric (‘ōlena) root, thinly sliced Directions 1. Simmer over low heat for 30 minutes, until cloves are as soft as a ripe banana and oil smells like fragrant garlic. Be sure not to heat oil past 450 degrees.

2. Drizzle this on everything. It doesn’t replace butter but it's pretty fabulous and the smooshed garlic cloves are quite yummy and useful too! (a sprinkle of flakey salt is pretty delish as well)

Haleakalā Salad Ingredients • 1 head of Waipoli greens hydroponic butter lettuce • Balsamic glaze / reduction • Quality salt of your choice • Fresh ground pepper • 1 pint Kula Country Farms strawberries • Fresh dill Optional: • Surfing Goat Dairy goat cheese • Toasted nuts like pecans, walnuts, pistachios, hazelnuts, or pine nuts • Shaved watermelon radish • 1–2 freshly juiced Meyer lemons Directions 1. Clean lettuce and rip into bite size pieces.

2. Quarter strawberries and mix separately with balsamic glaze.

3. Drizzle garlic oil over greens and radishes.

4. Crumble goat cheese and scatter toasted nuts.

5. Distribute balsamic strawberries around greens and season with salt and pepper 6. Drizzle with fresh lemon juice and another drizzle of garlic confit oil Chef Maja Liotta is a private events chef and Maui-based mother of three. Additionally, Maja is passionate about sharing the holistic benefits of food and cooking, providing nutritional consultations and private cooking classes for clients looking to broaden their practice of using foods to optimize their well being.

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Maui Family

SPRING 2024

Sports Calendar

a donation basis. Visit our website or contact us to register!

Maui Tumblers

808-205-7922 • www.mauitumblers.com info@mauitumblers.com

Gymnastics Classes • Pre-K through Elementary Island Wide • Year Round Maui Tumblers Mobile Gymnastics offers recreational gymnastics classes island-wide, special Ninja Nights, and private events. Check out our website for a full list of locations near you.

Keiki Soccer Pros 808-633-4070 • keikisoccer.com

Island Athletics Maui

808-385-4066 • islandathleticsmaui@gmail.com https://app.iclasspro.com/portal/islandathleticsmaui 106 Kane Street, Suite 103, Kahului (In Hawaii AllStars Facility)

Island Athletics Maui offers a wide range of classes from our Parent & Tot program, Preschool Gymnastics, Tumbling, Recreational Gymnastics for Ages 4-12 years old, Ninja Tumbling, and Camps!! At IAM we desire for all of our athletes to be Inspired to learn and grow, that through their developed self-confidence and experience they can Achieve their goals that they have set for themselves, and through effort and Motivation, they may be able to see their dreams take flight!

Vertical Sports Maui

808-281-5443 • verticalsportsmaui.com verticalsportsmaui@gmail.com

Vertical Sports Maui is dedicated to inspire and equip youth through sports. World-class sports programs are made accessible to all on

Island-wide Keiki Soccer Pros is Maui’s most fun, exciting soccer program. Our professional, creative, caring coaches your child will love. We have been teaching soccer in Maui to thousands of kids over the past 8 years. Visit our website to find out what classes are available.

ALBION SC Hawaii

808-212-9611 • albionschawaii.org

Central Locations & West Side Location Ages 4–18 • Offering Keiki Academy, ALBION Juniors (Development) and ALBION SC Hawaii Competitive programs The Mission of ALBION SC is to develop successful, well-rounded individuals who exhibit good sportsmanship, ethical and moral behavior, and good citizenship. We aim to leverage the challenges and life lessons of striving for excellence in competitive soccer into molding young people to understand the value of teamwork, sportsmanship and hard

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I.A.M. Inspire. Achieve. Motivate Parent & Tot • Gymnastics • Tumbling Ninja Tumbling • Open Gyms • Camps

Offering a variety of basketball programs year round for keiki ages 4 years old to high school.

808.385.4066 • islandathleticsmaui@gmail.com 106 Kane Street, Suite 101, Kahului https://app.iclasspro.com/portal/islandathleticsmaui

Register: UptempoMaui.com Email: brenda@uptempoathletics.com 295 Ho‘ohana Street Unit E, Kahului

MAKAWAO • KIHEI • LAHAINA • KAHULUI

Keiki Soccer Pros all skill levels ages 2 to 11 Maui Football Club advanced player ages 6 to 11

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SPORTS CALENDAR work while fostering an environment that allows players to reach their full potential and love for the game.

Swim with Hoku 808-384-9626 • swimwithhoku.com

Island-wide classes and private instruction Swim in 10 days or less. Accepting students age 32 months and older (younger children will be considered on a case by case basis). Check our schedule for additional classes at swimwithhoku.com.

Maui Ki Aikido

194 S. Market, Wailuku • mauikiaikido.com

Children in Ki-Aikido enjoy fun classes that incorporate movement with social cooperation, calmness training and self-confidence building.

Keiki, Ages 6 to 11-Thursdays 6:00 to 7:30 pm and Saturdays 8:30 to 10:00 am. Teens 12 to 18 – Tuesdays 5:00 to 6:30 pm. Visit us at mauikiaikido.com and the Shunshinkan Dojo, 194 S. Market, Wailuku.

Maui Taekwondo & Hapkido Center

808-344-5244 • info@mauitaekwondo.org Mauitaekwondo.org • 300 Ohukai Rd. Bldg. 3, Units 313-314 *Behind Shell on Pi’ilani Hwy in Kihei

We offer a variety of classes from ages 2–18+.

Taekwondo and Hapkido are Korean forms of martial arts that offer more than just a fitness program. It is structured to promote discipline, build self-confidence, and encourage focus while learning the skills of self-defense.

Tennis at Kalama Park

808-250-3656 • citanmaui@gmail.com Kalama Park Tennis Courts, Kihei Courts 3 and 4 near the ocean

Tennis classes • Age 6–17 • Wednesday/Friday Beginner: 4-5pm • Intermediate: 5–6pm Beginning skill building, movement and strategy, combined in a fun atmosphere. Skill based, not age. Call and reserve with Coach Barb 808-2503656. Class size will be limited to 5 students.

Check monthly calendar posted at the park.

Tennis Made Easy

808-283-1925 • Coach Petra War Memorial Tennis Courts (Upper Level)

Beginner & Advanced Classes

Wednesdays & Fridays • 4pm–6pm Registration required. Limit is 10 participants per class. All equipment is provided. Please call for details.

Uptempo Athletics Maui

UptempoMaui.com • brenda@uptempoathletics.com 295 Ho‘ohana Street Unit E, Kahului

We are a basketball training facility conveniently located in Kahului. We offer multiple basketball programs year round for keiki ages 4 years old to high school. We offer introductory classes, group training sessions, leagues, skills clinics and more! At Uptempo Athletics Maui, we want to go beyond just teaching the basics and skills of the game of basketball, we want to encourage a life long love for the game for all players who come into our basketball facility. We hope to see your keiki playing and training with us soon!

Hitter’s Paradise Indoor Training Facility 808-877-7091 • hittersparadisemaui.com 250 Alamaha St. (behind Goodwill), Kahului

Hitter’s Paradise is Maui’s premier indoor baseball and softball training facility catering to the needs of players from t-ball through the collegiate level.

Our 11,000 square-foot facility includes 7 batting cages, 2 pitching lanes, a weight and fitness area, and flex space to allow for indoor fielding practice.

Our professional coaching staff offers year-round batting, fielding, and pitching lessons; group clinics, and camps during school holidays and summer break. Call or stop by and take your game to the next level!

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SWIM WITH HOKU Swim in 10 days or less GUARANTEED! Private, 1-on-1 Lessons Just Hoku and your child in a private pool Fully Insured & CPR Certified Check our website for upcoming classes! swimwithhoku.com • 808-384-9626 hoku@swimwithhoku.com swimwithhoku

@swim_with_hoku

MAUI TAEKWONDO & HAPKIDO CENTER Classes Available for Ages 2–18+ No experience required.

Morning & Afternoon Classes • Tiger Cubs (ages 2-4) • Little Tigers (ages 4-7) • Kids/Teens (ages 8-17) • Adults (18+) • Sparring Classes • Defense Classes • Special Events & Tournaments

New Student Special!

FREE Trial Classes & Registration Fee Waived!

808-344-5244 • info@mauitaekwondo.org www.mauitaekwondo.org 320 Ohukai Rd. / Unit 407, Kihei

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SPRING 2024

MAUI FAMILY

Events

CALENDAR

Whale Trust

Whaletales.org February 16–18, 2024 Whale Tales is an educational and fundraising event presented annually by Whale Trust, to promote and support scientific research and education. Presentations from researchers, photographers, and artists from around the world. For more information or to register, visit whaletales.org.

The 19th Annual Kamehameha Schools Maui Ho‘olaule‘a

Saturday, March 2, 2024 • 9am–4pm Kamehameha Schools Maui Campus, Pukalani IG/FB: ksmhoolaulea Kamehameha Schools Maui celebrates their 19th Annual Ho‘olaule‘a. ‘Ono food at the many booths and trucks. Shop at the Country Store, Vendor Village, silent auction, Logo Store, and book fair.

Incredible live entertainment, Hawaiian cultural demonstrations, keiki crafts, teen zone, games and more. Free parking, free admission to this Kamehameha Maui PTSO event.

Maui 5K

Sunday, March 3, 2024 • 7am–9am Maui5k.org Maui Ocean Center will present the 13th annual Maui 5K from 7 to 9 a.m. Sunday, March 3, 2024.

Participants have the option to run a timed 5K or an untimed 1-mile run/walk (a virtual run/walk is also offered). Proceeds from the event provide local schools with funding for physical fitness

and athletic programs. Participants will have the option to designate their entry fees to schools affected by the Lahaina wildfires. For more information or to register, visit maui5k.org.

Blood Bank of Hawaii

Blood Drive on Maui Cameron Center, 95 Mahalani St, Wailuku Tuesday, March 19 • 9am–7pm Wednesday, March 20 • 8am–6pm Thursday, March 21 • 6am–3pm Appointments are required, as they no longer accept walk-ins and it only takes about 1 hour.

The process is easy and safe, and it is recommended that donors be well-hydrated and have something to eat before they come in to donate. To schedule an appointment, visit bbh.org or call (808) 848-4770.

37th Annual Ho’omau 2024

Saturday, March 23, 2024 • 9am–sunset Maui Nui Botanical Gardens IG: @hoomau_maui • FB: Ho’omau Maui Nā Leo Pūlama o Maui will be hosting their 37th anniversary event, Ho‘omau 2024 on Saturday, March 23rd at the Maui Nui Botanical Gardens in Kahului from 9:00 a.m. to sunset. This is their annual benefit concert to support the Hawaiian language immersion preschool students at Pūnana Leo o Maui in Kahului. Tickets are $15 presale and $20 at the door.

For more information or to purchase tickets, contact Kahu Kili Nāmau‘u, at 808-283-7733 or at kili@ahapunanaleo.org.

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Seabury Hall Craft Fair

Saturday, May 11, 2024 • 9am–3pm Seabury Hall Campus, 480 Olinda Rd., Makawao seaburyhall.org Always the day before Mother’s Day, this familyfriendly event boasts crafters, keiki zone, live entertainment, food booths, and more on the beautiful Seabury Hall Campus. Cost is $10 for adults/free for children 12 and under. $20 for premium parking.

Kula Country Market

808-878-838 • Kula Country Farms 6240 Kula Hwy, across from Rice Park Every 3rd Saturday, Kula Country Market will host a new Kula Country Market featuring local vendors. Follow their new Instagram for details. instagram.com/kulacountrymarket

Kula Country Farms

808-878-8381 • kulacountryfarmsmaui.com Located on Kula Hwy, across from Rice Park Strawberry U-Pick Patch February through May Springtime is Strawberry U-Pick time at Kula Country Farms. This annual tradition happens from February until May, so bring your children and make a day of strawberry picking. Have fun while teaching your keiki about where their food comes from!

Maui Mall

808-877-8952 • mauimall.com Join us for family-friendly fun throughout the season: Orchid shows, an Easter celebration, and more. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram at @MauiMall or visit our website at www.mauimall.com for more details.

Keiki Club

Every 3rd Saturday of the Month • 10am–11 am Queen Ka’ahumanu Center, Kahului Queen Ka’ahumanu Center + Kumu Luana of Morning Mana’o presents Keiki Club every 3rd Saturday at the QKC keiki play area! Learn about ‘olelo Hawai’i, Hawaiian language! Join us alongside your keiki and let’s learn together with Kumu Luana Kawa’a. Start your child’s journey in ‘ōlelo Hawai’i. E ola ka ‘ōlelo!

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Spring Egg Suncatchers

Step 1: Tear tissue paper into strips. You can make the paper strips thick or thin.

Step 2: Cut two rectangles of clear contact paper the same size. You’ll cut these into egg shapes later so they can be whatever size you like. It’s fun to make different sizes.

BY TASHA COMPOS Celebrate spring with these adorable Spring Egg Suncatchers. Fun, easy, messy-free, and just too cute in the window with the sun shining through. Made from clear contact paper and torn tissue these colorful eggs are a perfect craft for all ages.

Let’s gather a few simple supplies: • Clear Contact Paper (we got ours at Walmart) • Any Bright Colored Tissue Paper • Ribbon for hanging • Scissors Now let’s get crafty! This easy project has just four simple steps:

Step 3: Lay the tissue paper strips across the contact paper - you can overlap the strips or leave gaps. Either will look great and make each suncatcher unique. Once your tissue strips are in place, lay the second piece of contact paper over the top to secure it.

Step 4: Draw an egg shape and cut it out. Snip a piece of ribbon to hang, and WOW you're done!

You will love how brightly the colors blend where the tissue overlaps.

Tasha Compos is the owner of ARTLab Maui in Kihei offering art classes from 1-years old to adult. To learn more, visit artlabmaui.com.

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