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FROM THE EDITOR — REFLECTING ON A YEAR WELL LIVED 10 Things to Consider When Planning for the New Year It’s hard to believe that 2021 is coming to a close. It seems like only yesterday we were happy to see 2020 come to an end and were making resolutions about all of the wonderful things we wanted to experience in the new year. And now, here we are reflecting back on how the year was lived. Reflection is the practice of introspection. It enables us to navigate our journey by making choices. It is an investment in our life. Looking back on the past year is important because it provides us with an honest assessment of where we have been, which helps us gain perspective on the direction we want to go. So before you rush into the New Year with great intentions, take time to pause and reflect on what has happened this year. It will unveil important information that will set you up for 2022! Here are a few of the questions I ask myself at year end. Use them as a guide to help you move forward. 1. What did I accomplish? Remember the little things, too. 2. What were my disappointments? 3. What do I wish I had done differently? 4. What were my biggest challenges or obstacles and how did I overcome them? 5. What was a game changer for me? 6. Where did I focus most of my time? 7. What did I try that was new? 8. What did I want to do but never got around to doing? 9. What am I proud of? 10. What do I want to eliminate from my life? After reviewing the past year, think about what would represent your intentions for the upcoming year and create a mantra that you can hold on to: 2022 will be the year of (fill in the blank)!
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8 ST E P S TO STO P YOU R EVENING BINGES
Do you sometimes sneak a late-night snack, even after you’ve had a big dinner? Or worse, do you find yourself binging at night?
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You are not alone! Are you hungry after a big meal? Do you continue eating late into the night? Millions suffer from this devastating problem that leads to obesity, diabetes, and depression. I call this the sumo wrestler diet. Have you ever wondered how some of these men get so huge? They have a giant meal and then go right to sleep — guaranteed to pack on the pounds! So, if you eat late at night just before bed, you’re on the sumo wrestler diet, and you will gain weight and get pre-diabetes. Your body will store the extra calories as fat instead of processing and burning them. So, how does this happen? Have you ever thought about why, even after a big meal, you crave more food, more sugar, and more junk, and you want to have chips or sweets or other unhealthy foods? What is the root cause of this, and how do we deal with it? Balance Your Hormones It’s not a character flaw or an emotional issue that you have to fix. It’s not some psychological trauma that you have to get over (although for some, night eating is triggered by stress). It’s simple biology. All you have to do is understand why these changes happen in your body to make you crave food late at night, and then, you can overcome them. The underlying cause is an imbalance of the hormones that regulate your appetite. These are what I call the four hormones of the apocalypse. There are specific
things that trigger each of them, and if you understand how to balance them, you won’t have cravings for sweets and other foods … and you won’t be eating late at night. These four hormones are the following: • Insulin – A very important hormone that your body produces to process the sugar in your diet. When your insulin spikes then crashes after eating sugar and flour or junk, it makes you hungry. This can even happen after a large meal of ‘good food’. • Leptin – This is the brake on your appetite. Leptin says to your brain, “Oh, I’m full. I don’t need any more food.” When you eat a lot of sugar, processed foods, and flour, the leptin doesn’t work anymore. Your brain actually becomes leptin resistant. • Ghrelin – A ‘hunger hormone’ produced in your stomach that helps regulate your appetite. Leptin sends the message, “You should eat – I’m hungry!” • Peptide YY – A hormone that is produced in your intestines, and it says, “Hey, I’m full! I’ve had enough to eat. I don’t need any more.” There is also one other hormone we need to consider: cortisol, the stress hormone. When you’re stressed, your cortisol level goes up, and when that happens, you get hungrier and your blood sugar and insulin levels rise. This sets the stage for pre-diabetes or insulin resistance, and it’s a vicious cycle. So, all these hormones have to be kept in balance. How do you get them in balance? Here are the eight steps you should take to balance your hormones, stop the cravings, and end the nighttime binges. Eat breakfast. This is the key strategy to stop the nighttime cravings. Of course, if you are binging at night, you probably won’t want to eat breakfast, because when you wake up, you’re still full. So, you have to break that cycle, and you have to start with breakfast: a good, protein breakfast. There are two breakfasts that I love and use all the time. The first is eggs in any form you like: as an omelet, fried, or poached. Eggs are a great source of protein that helps balance your blood sugar. Be sure to eat whole eggs, not egg whites. The second is a whole food protein shake that can be made quite simply. I keep all the ingredients I need in my cupboard, so it’s “goof-
proof,’” and I don’t have to think about it. It’s all there. I put in hemp seeds, chia seeds, pumpkin seeds, walnuts, almond butter, coconut butter, frozen cranberries, frozen wild blueberries, and a little unsweetened almond or hemp milk. I put those ingredients in the blender, and it’s fantastic. If you have one of those for breakfast, it’ll keep your blood sugar even all morning and all day. Don’t drink your calories. If you have sugary, liquid calories in the form of sodas, juices, lattes, sports drinks, or iced teas, it will spike your insulin and blood sugar and will cause cravings. Eat regularly. Have breakfast, lunch, and dinner. If you want a snack in between, that’s fine, but make sure you eat at regular rhythms and regular times. Your body is a hormonal clock, and you have to eat in rhythm to keep it in balance. Have protein and good-quality fat at every meal: Good fats are nuts and seeds, avocados, coconut, olive oil, or quality protein like chicken, fish, or grass-fed meat. Some combination of these (plus lots of vegetables) balances your blood sugar. Find your pause button and soothe the stress. Stress makes you fat (and overeat); relaxing makes you thin. Learn to find your pause button and de-stress. Breathing, yoga, and exercise are some of my favorite ways to reduce stress, which helps reset the hormones, balance brain chemistry, and stop the cravings. Prioritize sleep. If you don’t sleep, you will be hungry, especially for carbs and sugar. Why? Because when you deprive yourself of sleep, ghrelin, the hormone that drives hunger goes up and PYY, the hormone that makes you feel full, goes down. So, if you want to lose weight, sleep it off. Find your food sensitivities. People don’t realize this, but you often crave the thing you’re allergic or sensitive to. And gluten and dairy are among the biggest triggers for food sensitivity. Try to get rid of these for a few weeks and see if your cravings stop. Supplement to cut cravings. There are natural molecules that balance your blood sugar and your insulin and help stop the cravings. • Omega-3 fats, especially fish oil - a couple of capsules a day can really help.
• Vitamin D also helps regulate hormones and balance insulin. • There is also a super fiber supplement called PGX that’s very simple to take. It’s made from a Japanese root called glucomannan and seaweed. And it comes in a powder or capsules. Take it 10 to 15 minutes before you eat and after dinner, and it will help cut your cravings. It slows the spiking of insulin and blood sugar, helps make you feel full, increases the PYY, balances out all the hormones, and stops the cravings. I’ve seen people lose up to 40 pounds using this simple high-fiber supplement. • Chromium, lipoic acid,N – Acetyl Cysteine (NAC) can also help cut cravings. • New studies show how branched chain amino acids can also help balance your hormones, stop your cravings and increase muscle mass.
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The Gullibility Factor: 7 Ways to Uncover the Truth Written by Paul Napper, PhD, and Anthony Rao, PsyD
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In an age when branding is king, we’ve ¬become easily influenced by emotionally appealing, strongly worded messaging. Many of us readily adopt the views of people we see as attractive, strong, decisive, and confident. These charismatic people are adept at reading other people’s needs and wants, and they know exactly what buttons to push to nudge us in their direction. When exposed to these strong influences, are you able to keep yourself calm and centered? If you can’t, your heightened emotions will move you from slower, logical thinking to thinking that’s reactionary and impulsive. Think of what happens when a mob of people is engaged — is there much independent thinking going on? Keeping your head during these moments is essential to what’s called agency: the ability to act as an effective agent for oneself — thinking, reflecting, and acting in ways that direct us toward the lives we want. Agency keeps you in control of your life. It requires you to critically evaluate the powerful, emotionally appealing messages coming at you that can forestall independent judgment. But it’s not always as easy as it sounds. The Case of Mike and the Hypnotist Mike is a tall man in his early fifties who maintains the athletic build of his college days. People gravitate toward Mike. He’s friendly and funny, and he projects confidence. He’s assertive about his viewpoints, and most
people consider him to be a smart guy. Mike has never seen himself as gullible, but that changed on a cruise ship in the Caribbean a few years ago. “A hypnotist got me,” Mike admitted a bit sheepishly. “It was a nightclub show we went to after dinner. Maybe deep down, I wanted to get up on the stage with the others, and somehow I just let go of thinking for myself. The hypnotist started by telling the audience that only some of us could be hypnotized. Before long, I was up there, my wife later said, acting like a robot or something and, honestly, I don’t recall much of it.” That cruise ship experience led Mike to wonder if maybe he wasn’t always the strong-minded, independent guy he’d thought he was. Examining himself deeper led to some interesting insights. As a boy, he recalled seeking out strong, confident male role models. Fortunately, he had good people to model, like his football coaches. He recalled trying hard to impress male teachers he admired. After college, Mike sought out successful men to be business mentors who could guide him in his career. Looking back, this desire to connect with other men and get their approval made sense. Mike’s dad walked out on his family when Mike was very young. Most of the male relationships Mike has found since have been positive, except for one. Ten years ago, Mike was led into a bad financial investment. As Mike explained: “I trusted this guy too fast. He was senior, accomplished, and sounded smart. I followed everything he told me to do, but he may have been a bit of a con artist. I wanted to believe he would help me. Men who sound powerful and talk a good game, well, it can be a bit of a blind spot for me.” Using Agency to Uncover the Truth People with agency acknowledge they are no less susceptible to gullibility than anyone else. In other words, they acknowledge their gullibility. They regularly examine themselves to figure out where their potential blind spots are. What physical state leaves me most vulnerable to being easily influenced (tired, hungry, physically unwell)? Who am I most likely to be influenced by? What situations? Groups? Men? Women? Attractive? Smart? Socially aggressive? Hard to get to know and aloof, or people who are gregarious?
People with agency also work at flagging ideas or messages that sound powerful or seductive, and they try to hold them at arm’s length. They try to adjust for the persuasive marketing those ideas and messages are packaged in. These are some of the ways they maintain healthy skepticism. And yet they aren’t closed-minded or oppositional. They know it’s important to be open to new ideas, products, and ways of thinking. They know it’s valuable to join in with groups, but they do so with their eyes open, knowingly, not unthinkingly. If something sounds too good to be true, here are a few tactical approaches that will uncover the truth: Hit the pause button. As soon as you sense someone is trying hard to sell you an idea or a product, or if you feel pressured to go along with the pull of a group, hit pause. Consider what you’ve just heard. Mull it over in your head. Does it still sound like it fits with how you see things? Your beliefs? Compare what you’re being told with what you already know. Try to be factual. Fact-check, like a journalist. Google it, and ask others you trust. Get a few independent sources. Seek out more information. Along similar lines, be sure to seek out information as it’s needed before signing on to anyone else’s beliefs. You should feel comfortable and calm when you adopt another person’s or group’s viewpoints or behaviors. Ask reasonable and probing questions. Act like an investigative reporter or a good talk-show host. One of the best questions we ask in our work when we’re evaluating the beliefs and ideas of others is: “That’s interesting. Can you tell me how you arrived at that way of thinking? Can you walk me through the steps?” There should be a process they can identify. The steps should sound logical. If not, they’re regifting a belief. It isn’t theirs, and it wasn’t thought through. If they balk at answering you or they double-down on a hard-sell message, be wary. Keep your emotions in check. When you’re in a highly emotional state — angry at someone, attracted to someone, scared, moved by a poignant speech or passionate sermon — you are more susceptible to losing control of your logic and making poor decisions. Check your personality type. If you know you are a people-pleaser or a “harmonizer,” you are especially at risk for conforming quickly, although, as we saw with Mike above, even strong, assertive people can be gullible at times.
Depending on the situation, our moods, the internal physical state of our bodies, and our social needs at the moment, any of us can fall prey to gullibility. We all have the potential to lose a bit of our capacity to think independently around attractive, powerful, persuasive people. Balance is key. We want to learn and grow from engaging with the world around us. We need to be part of the social fabric to be happy and healthy. And we all need the admiration and acceptance of others, but we must balance this with the need to hold on to the core parts of ourselves through not abdicating our commitment to think independently. Doing so will lead us to the life of agency: a life we ultimately want — and deserve.
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Adopt An Attitude Of Gratitude: Seven Ways To Be Happy With What You Have Written by Joan Herrmann
W When I was a young girl, like many other girls, I dreamed about what my life would be like. College … career … marriage … children … a house … a dog … and a big, loving family surrounding me. That was my dream. While some of it came true, many of my expectations were shattered, and my life didn’t live up to the fairy tale I had imagined. For a while, that revelation had beaten me down. I looked at others with envy, believing that they were living the perfect existence, and I longed for everything I thought I was missing. And, when those things didn’t materialize, I was lost. Many of us look to external objects – things we collect and acquire – and outside circumstances
to make us feel fulfilled. We assume that those with more material possessions, bigger houses, nicer cars, larger families, etc., have more for which to be grateful. However, interestingly, research suggests the opposite: it’s not how much you have, but how you feel about what you have that makes the difference. That’s why someone who seems to “have it all” is miserable, while others with very little are full of joy. As I’ve grown wiser, I’ve learned that ultimately, being happy with what you have is a matter of focusing on the good things, letting go of unrealistic expectations, and making yourself feel joy in the present moment. Here are a few strategies that I’ve picked up along my journey that can help you live with a more grateful heart: Focus on your gifts and blessings. Think about all of the great things that you do have, not the things you don’t. There is a wonderful quote that states: “If you have food in your fridge, clothes on your back, a roof over your head, and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75 percent of the world.” Place emphasis on those treasures. Let go of the past. You can’t change the past, so worrying about it does nothing for you except rob your peace today. Learn from your mistakes, vow not to repeat them, and move on. Stop comparing yourself to others. Envy is poison for happiness. Don’t focus on what others have. Most people show their “A” game and while it may look good on social media, you don’t know what happens in private. Release yourself from desires for material things. Possessions are just things. A big house or fancy car may be nice for the moment, but eventually the newness wears off and you’re back to being you. What good is the beach house if you’re miserable in it? Spend time with the people who lift you up. There is nothing worse than being around a person who complains. Negativity sucks the life out of you. Surround yourself with grateful people. Joy is contagious!
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Love the little things. Take time for small pleasures. Be mindful and savor life’s treats. A baby’s laugh. A beautiful flower. Playing with children. Listening to music. A funny joke. All of these moments become the snapshots of a full life. Don’t miss them. Change your attitude. The old adage of the glass being half empty or half full sums up the way you view your life. As Dr. Wayne Dyer stated, “If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” A happy life is an inside job; nothing “out there” can bring you lasting joy. You determine how you want to view your life. What do you want to see?
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O V E R C O M I N G T H E F E A R O F B E I N G J U D G E D Written by Linda Mitchell, CPC, LMT
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What’s your gut reaction when someone judges you? Do you get angry, feel bad about yourself, internalize the comments, or change course to avoid further judgement? What if you had an effective strategy to help release upset and overcome the fear being judged? Words have power. They can leave you feeling hurt and vulnerable. Other peoples’ judgement can negatively impact your opinion of yourself. You may begin doubting yourself and your decisions. Confidence crumbles and ultimately leads to fear of being judged, fear of making mistakes or fear of taking risks - this can negatively impact your relationships, jobs, social lives and of course, your self-esteem. It’s one of the foremost reasons I see people shy away from following their dreams or using their unique talents. Fear of being judged keeps people from feeling free to be their authentic selves, which keeps them from enjoying life to its fullest and stepping out to make the important contributions they’re destined to. Here are some proven tips to help overcome this very real fear. Learn your strengths and limitations. Once you’re clear on them, you’re less likely to be affected by what others say. Judgements become somewhat irrelevant when you know what you’re capable of. If someone uses unkind words about something you’ve worked on, and you know it’s not one of your strongest talents, you can more easily dismiss it. Avoid looking for approval from others and be content with self-approval. Start celebrating all your successes, big and little, and really feel how good self-approval feels. Or tackle something you’ve been avoiding. Once it’s done, stop and notice how satisfying it feels. Starting or deepening a spiritual practice helps too. Spending time alone reflecting or journaling on your strengths inspires feeling good about yourself, your successes and your decisions and bolsters you
against harsh judgements. This kind of consistent, positive reassurance helps overcome the fear of being judged. When you feel judged ask yourself: Was that person well enough informed to judge you fairly? Were their comments true? Do you truly value their opinion? Sadly, sometimes people are jealous of your achievements, and may judge you harshly to make themselves feel better. Be very aware of your inner critic. That little voice in your head can become deafening so it’s important to recognize when negative thoughts creep in. If you let others’ judgements join your own negative self-talk, it’s much harder to deflect it. Instead of letting it cloud your own perceptions, remember and appreciate your value and worth. Don’t dwell on the harsh words. Even though it hurts in the moment, the memory will fade more quickly if you don’t ruminate over it. What we focus on expands, so be sure you’re not giving priority to the negative thoughts! Remember, sometimes things just come out wrong. Give others the benefit of the doubt and realize they probably weren’t intentionally trying to hurt you. Here’s an effective strategy to quickly deflect hurtful judgements in the moment and keep yourself from internalizing them. Create and practice an empowering phrase to avoid getting offended. It might sound something like: “Well that’s very interesting! What a unique perspective you bring; I see the situation differently but really, thanks for your input.” Remember, everyone has an opinion. Some you’ll agree with and some you won’t. Your opinion of yourself and your work is the most important. It’s valuable to recall times you’ve taken risks that paid off in a positive way. Remind yourself of all your accomplishments, especially when you’re embarking on something outside of your comfort zone or you’re not as sure of yourself as you would otherwise be. Release judgements and do what feels right for you despite what others may say because being true to yourself will always pay off!
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LINDA MITCHELL Linda Mitchell is a board-certified coach, speaker, intuitive healer and LMT. She empowers people who are stuck, overwhelmed or desiring change to release their struggle, gain clarity, balance and freedom as they move through challenges and transitions and step into their next meaningful role. To Learn More Visit: www.LivingInspiredCoaching.com
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What Does Disorganization Cost? Written by Gayle M. Gruenberg, CPO-CD®, CVPO
B Being disorganized and living with clutter can take a toll on you: body, mind, and spirit. Working with clients who live with chronic disorganization, I see first-hand the effects that being disorganized can have. It doesn’t have to be this way. Examining the underlying reasons for the disorganization and/or accumulated clutter, then taking even one small action to mitigate these effects, can have life-changing benefits. Are you losing time by being disorganized? Looking for things that are out of place or hidden, or becoming distracted, think shiny object syndrome, can cause an average of one and a half hours in lost time each day. Creating a designated place for everything in your home or office lets you find what you need quickly and clarifies where to put it when you’re done. No more guessing, “What do I do with this?” Are you losing money by being disorganized? That 1.5 hours per day adds up to over 500 hours per year. Multiply that by how much you earn per hour and see what the financial cost of being disorganized can be. Add to that any fines or penalties assessed for bills that
went unpaid because they got lost. Add on repurchasing things that had to be replaced because they went missing or were damaged as a result of clutter or neglect. What is the total? Is your energy being sapped by disorganization? Racing around looking for the things that are out of place or hidden, rushing to appointments because you’re late, or doing things over and over again because you didn’t do it right the first time, puts a strain on the body. Not only does it require physical exertion, it causes mental and emotional stress, which taxes the circulatory, respiratory, and endocrine systems as well. Are your relationships suffering as a result of disorganization? If you’ve surrounded yourself with stuff in your home or office, you may unconsciously be creating a barrier to intimacy or friendships. At home, someone living with chronic disorganization who shares space with one or more people who are not disorganized can cause volatile clashes over the underlying issues of respect, boundaries, and self-control. At work, being disorganized, or even appearing to be, can sabotage trust, reliability, and opportunities for advancement. Is your mental health affected by disorganization? Do you beat yourself up
for not being good enough or thinking, “Why can’t I do this? Everyone else can.” You may be living with brain-based conditions that affect your executive function. If you haven’t been evaluated and diagnosed, you may think that something is wrong with you. There isn’t. Your brain just works differently. You are brilliantly you, and you’re amazing just the way you are. Committing to addressing your organizing challenges and their underlying sources can pay huge dividends in terms of time, money, energy, relationships, and your overall mental health.
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GAYLE GRUENBERG Gayle M. Gruenberg, CPO-CD®, CVPO™ is the Chief Executive Organizer of Let’s Get Organized, LLC, an Organizer Coach, and the creator of the Make Space for Blessings system. To Learn More Visit: www.LGOrganized.com.
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