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JULY 13, 2018

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From the ashes

oday is a pretty awesome day for me. It marks 2 years clean for me. As I sit here and reflect on how amazing my life is today, I really thought it would be selfish not to share my experience with drug addiction and recovery with anyone who may be struggling out there. Two years ago today I was a desperate, pregnant, absolutely hopeless catastrophe, and I knew both my and my unborn baby girl’s life were in danger if I didn’t make a change. So for the first time in my life, after 10 years of drug addiction, I decided this was going to be the first day of the rest of my life. And it was. That day I had absolutely nothing. My purse had been stolen, I had no ID, phone, clothes, literally nothing but the clothes on my back, the gift of pure desperation and a drive to do something with my life. I hadn’t had a job in over 8 years because I couldn’t pass a drug test and I couldn’t work unless I was high. I had no family relationships because I’d ruined them all, and the friendships I had were solely based on what kind of drugs they had and how accessible they were to me. So I did what was necessary to get what I needed to get into Hope House and by July 26, 2016, I was officially in treatment.

I was a hopeless, desperate catastrophe. I had never done anything like this before because in my head I knew I could quit any time I wanted to. I just didn’t want to. I blamed and fueled my addiction on everything and everyone who had done me wrong and all the bad things that had happened to me in my life. Responsibility and accountability weren’t even words that existed in my vocabulary.

I spent 10 months in treatment, and thanks to a combination of determination, hard work, the amazing staff there, the support network of sober women, the support of my family (which was a BIG deal for me because they had written me off completely because of the monster I had become), and by the grace of God, I learned how to live a healthy, productive life, how to “adult,” and be a good friend, and a daughter, and most importantly, a good mother. On October 12th my daughter will be 2 years old. She was born a healthy, happy baby, with no complications. Fast forward to the present day and I have gotten and maintained a job, I pay taxes, my word means something to people because my actions match my words, I am trustworthy, I am reliable, I am a daughter again, I don’t have to ask my family to help me with money, I can afford to put my daughter in a Christian daycare, I am able to provide my daughter with everything she needs physically, emotionally, and financially, I have a network of women that I know at any given time I could pick up the phone and they would be there for me no questions asked, I was able to afford to take my mother skydiving

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