Link these to your hot tap. As you turn on your hot tap - think about the main ‘issue’ in your life that is draining you, making you feel emotionally, physically or mentally depleted. Then as you turn on your cold tap (which is invigorating) – ask yourself: ‘Is there anyone, anything or a physical activity that can support or invigorate me to help this situation?’ This exercise trains your brain to flip your thinking 180 degrees. It’s the art of always seeing the opposite. We can often balance out ‘draining conversations/ issues’ by recalling ‘invigorating conversations/life situations’.
Day Two: Your P4TD: Phrase 4 The Day As you turn on your cold tap, let your brain freewheel and fill in some of these blanks to come up with an empowering P4TD: I am… I know that I can … I honour… Examples: • I am mindfully present • I know I can make good choices • I honour my healthy body • I am free to laugh a lot today • I honour my slow, deep thinking
Day Three: Plan Micro -bursts Again your brain may be ‘tuning’ into the challenges you face in the day. An extra few doses of more serotonin (happy hormone) will undoubtedly help these. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. So plan micro-bursts of activity threaded throughout your day. Examples: • One minute plank on your bedroom floor after your shower. • One minute of squats every hour next to your desk • Three minutes of stretching before lunch. • Six minute walk around the block at the end of the day. • Motion shifts emotion. Think about the day ahead of you. Commit to ‘micro-bursts’.
Day Four: Plan the 30 min worry dump time! Much of the everyday anxiety and stress we face results from unwanted intrusive thoughts ‘circulating’ in our heads. We often think of these issues ‘over and over again’. These could be as simple as “did I respond to that email/request?” In the shower, acknowledge these and then plan a specific
time in your day to address these ‘intrusive thoughts’. You could call it your ‘worry period’. Perhaps, ‘ring fence’ 30 mins to do this brain dump, while sipping your coffee after your shower. This is liberating for your brain, and it may ease your mind for the rest of the day. Try jotting down these thoughts in a Journal or even speaking them into your phone. Try the free version of Otter: voice to text.
Day Five: Lavendar breathing Buy lavender shower gel ahead for Day 5. The smell of lavender can be very effective in dealing with anxiety and stress. Benzodiazepines and SSRI antidepressants, can cause headache, dizziness and an effect like being drunk. Lavender, meanwhile, has a relatively quick relaxing influence and no other side-effects. While using your lavender shower gel, combine this with a deep breathing exercise. Use this ‘counting technique to be in the moment’. •
Breathe in for four counts through your nose (hold lavender gel bottle close to your nose). Hold your breath for 7 counts and then breathe out (through your mouth) for
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