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in this ISSUE

CONNECTING OUR COMMUNITY

features

LOOKING BACK. FORGING AHEAD. ANDEE HOIG • 25 years of giving back

UP CLOSE • OUT FRONT area business executives share their giving stories

JOURNEYS • 50 YEARS OF “DOC” omaha zoo foundation celebrates dr. lee simmons

VIPS: VERY INSPIRATIONAL PEOPLE our final 5 in a series of 25 inspiring profiles

AKSARBEN CORONATION BALL CXX 2016 king & queen • pre-ball reception

departments/columns

connecting to our caring

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connecting to our leaders

GAME CHANGERS • MARGARET HAYNES presented by planitOmaha

HE SAID/SHE SAID mike & mary from KMTV’s morning blend

connecting to our genius

metroSPIRIT with mary vandenack

OMAHA COMMUNITY FOUNDATION omaha giving

YMCA OF GREATER OMAHA

connecting to our caregiving

150 years of giving

VW LAW planning matters

SWARTZBAUGH, FARBER & ASSOC. todays savings

VONDRAK DENTAL impact!

WAKING WORDS FROM ROB KILLMER it’s always about balance

events

SCENE highlights from recent charity & cultural events

SAVE THE DATE upcoming events in the coming quarter

connecting to our consciousness

connecting our generations

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NOV/DEC/JAN 2016/17 • VOL. 28 NO. 4 Press releases and other editorial information may be sent to: P.O. BOX 241611, OMAHA, NE 68124 or e-mailed to: Editor@SpiritofOmaha.com Publisher/Editor-in-Chief

Creative Collaboration

Andrea L. “Andee” Hoig

Leo Adam Biga Matt Darling Mary Drueke-Collins Daniel Flanigan Roger Humphries Elissa Joy Debra Kaplan Wendy Moore MORNING BLEND’s “Mike & Mary” Jim Scholz Kara Schweiss Mary Vandenack Stephanie Vondrak D.D.S. Mike Watkins Michael J. Weaver, J.D.

Editor/Creative Director

Robert P. “ROB” Killmer Community Engagement

Tracy Fisher Dana Carlton-Flint Special Thanks

Counterparts Printco Graphics

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words FROM MY HEART

mQUARTERLY • LETTER FROM THE PUBLISHER

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Few people have the opportunity to have their story shared on the pages of a magazine. It’s actually more intimidating than you may imagine! Even as a magazine publisher, it has not been an easy thing to attempt to determine what to share about the past 25 years. What was worth sharing? What qualifies as “too much information”? What will speak in a way that’s appropriate, mindful and inspiring? My passion has always been fueled more by sharing the stories of others, and in the context of mQUARTERLY – those people making a difference and inspiring others. As we prepared to bring our 25th year to a close I did a lot of soul searching, prayer and meditation to determine the best way to express how the past quarter-century has impacted both the community and, perhaps moreso at this time, myself. Since I have shared so little of the story behind my own journey, it now seems more appropriate (as well as a privilege and an honor) to go there. In doing so, I have been able to experience what so many others have experienced by sharing their stories on the pages of metroMAGAZINE/mQUARTERLY. An interview was set up along with a photo shoot, and from there I confess to more than a fair share of apprehension and nervousness. Being vulnerable and putting yourself out there, like so many have done before me (THANK YOU!) can trigger all kinds of emotions. Going back 25 years and reliving many of the significant moments that I have experienced brought up the best of times and the worst of times.

ANDREA L. HOIG ahoig@SpiritofOmaha.com

What started out as challenging times in my early years, I can now look upon as a gift – a gift for growth. I won’t go into all of the details as you will be able to read some of them for yourself, but when all is said and done I wouldn’t change a thing. I now sincerely believe that everything in my life has unfolded beautifully (even though at times it was disguised as failure, unfair, chaos, disconnection, despair, even devastation). On the flip side there has also been tremendous joy, triumph, love, beauty, meaningful friendships and a deep sense of community. That is what makes life so delicious! The contrast of life experiences, the ups and the downs, the highs and the lows, each with the potential of making me (as they make all of us) stronger, more fulfilled, more compassionate, more loving. When I look at it that way I can honestly say that I have lived a full, rich and meaningful life. I have a sense that the next chapter is going to be even sweeter.

“ "Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you." ~ Oprah Winfrey

I have been given so much over the past 25 years. I have experienced so many things. I have grown in unimaginable ways. This magazine and this community has been an important part of my life for a quarter of a century. While my work at ALH Publications is not done, I am being called out into the world to speak to businesses, individuals and organizations on the power of community service. We are entering a new day, an era where giving back and leading your life and business with a generous heart is so important and necessary. I too, feel I am being called to step up in new ways.

COVER PHOTOGRAPHY: HOOTON IMAGES LOCATION: OMAHA HEALING ARTS CENTER JEWELRY: ELISSA ILANA HAIR & MAKE UP: ONE DRAKE PLACE

As I look to 2017 and beyond, I feel that my purpose, passion and mission on this planet will continue to grow and expand. I look forward to continue to being of service to both my local and my global community. I am committed to making a difference in this world and leading from my heart, for I believe that life takes care of itself when love is the ultimate outcome. ~ Namaste, Andee!

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25 years

• MAKING A DIFFERENCE

KEEPING MY MIND FILLED WITH positive THOUGHTS, high vibes, LOVING MYSELF IS WHAT creates MY REALITY AND draws THE RIGHT PEOPLE, OPPORTUNITIES AND relationships TO ME. ~ ANDREA L. “ANDEE” HOIG OWNER/PUBLISHER, ALH PUBLICATIONS, INC.

IT WAS NOT AN auspicious BEGINNING… AT THE TIME, WHEN BOB HOIG, PUBLISHER OF THE MIDLANDS BUSINESS JOURNAL AND ANDEE HOIG’S FATHER, SOLD HER A STRUGGLING CHARITYORIENTED MAGAZINE KNOWN AS METRO MONTHLY, HE REMEMBERS THINKING, “FAT CHANCE; IT WILL NEVER MAKE IT,” AND HE LET ANDEE KNOW THAT HE QUESTIONED – NOT ONLY THE VIABILITY OF THE CONCEPT – BUT HER CAPABILITIES AND COMMITMENT AS WELL.

of scoliosis, and in the years following that adjustment, On several occasions over the next 20-plus years, Andrea Hoig was given numerous reasons to prove him right. they watched the light go out in their formerly However, in contrast to those expectations, in the early precocious daughter. days – as publisher of the newsprint tabloid – driven The confidence that had seemed so natural for her was nearly as much by desperation as ambition – she worked replaced by insecurities and other natural by-products three additional jobs to keep the magazine afloat. that came from being subjected to the cruelty of the No matter the circumstances, no matter the obstacles, schoolyard, where girls wearing braces could expect Andee persevered – choosing to continue, often working more than their fair share of harassment. with little rest, reward or profitability.

Perhaps motivated by some evidence to support his misgivings, or perhaps motivated (from intentions unknown even to himself) by a secret hope that she would prove him wrong, Bob Hoig unenthusiastically sold a lackluster five-year-old publication to a daughter he didn’t see as publisher material and couldn’t bring himself to deceive with unwarranted encouragement.

Bob’s relationship with his daughter was a challenging one, that didn’t improve as she ground her way through high school as something of a casualty, experiencing bouts of depression and experimenting with alcohol and other counterproductive coping mechanisms.

Giving Birth Andee had struggled as a child and teen. In the beginning she had shown a brightness and energy – even a vision – that sparkled and promised something special. But when Andee was 13, her parents decided to put her in a back brace to deal with a case

“That girl with the camera” became a recognized fixture at local charity events, attempting to shine a light on a segment of the community that area publications paid little attention to.

“I believed in this publication so much over the first couple of years that I did everything I could to keep it going, even College education wasn’t looking likely or desirable for when it looked like it wouldn’t survive,” Andee said. Andee. The only thing that seemed to keep her “When dad sold me the magazine, he had zero confidence anchored at all was her willingness to serve full-time in me, but I knew I could make it work. I was determined.” as a sales account associate and event photographer for Metro Monthly. So when Andee, in 1996, offered to That determination proved to be a saving grace for many of buy him out, Bob had little hope that she would the challenges that lay ahead for Andee: a determination actually make a go of it. and passion to create something meaningful.

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andee hoig: AN INSPIRATIONAL JOURNEY

over the course of a full quarter-century, a person (and a community) will go through a lot of living and lessons learrned along the way. andrea l. “andee” hoig has been witness to – and a part of – the evolution that has taken place across the giving landscape of the greater omaha metro area. while endeavoring to celebrate and promote those who are making a difference in the lives of others, andee has also experienced her own personal evolution during 25 years of “growth in giving.”

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andee hoig: AN INSPIRATIONAL JOURNEY

CHALLENGES… Giving Birth (for Real!) In 2000 Andee found out she was pregnant. It was an unexpected pregnancy that caused a lot of soul searching, something that would prove to be a “blessing in disguise”. Andee’s life was very chaotic at the time: working nonstop, working long hours; finding out she was pregnant – however unexpected (or initially devastating) – required that she slow things down to breathe and be present. In the midst of this, she prayed, cried and prayed some more. The answers came in mysterious ways: not only for Andee but for a couple near and dear to her. Andee’s brother and his wife had been investigating adoption, unable to conceive a child of their own. Andee sat down with them and after some additional soul-searching and prayer, the three agreed that the baby should be adopted by the couple. Andee knew deep in her heart that this was the right decision. Once they found out the baby was a girl, the adoptive parents named her.

about the adoption often assumed it was a planned event, that she was a surrogate – which she wasn’t. Dealing with the challenges that came with these inquiries and assumptions was difficult, yet the community that had become like family to her – those in the philanthropic sector who had come to know her better – were very supportive. They sent gifts for the baby. A group of women came together and threw Andee a“shower” honoring her decision to entrust the child to a situation that would better serve her daughter’s needs, while also serving the needs and hopes of the adoptive parents. On the evening of September 29, 2000, Andee experienced the most unforgettable event of her life. She was attending the Arthritis Foundation’sWoman of the Year Gala honoring DebTrowbridge. As usual she was there, covering activities and taking photos. She felt the need to leave early and went home to rest. At 5 a.m. the morning of September 30th she was having a dream about the Junior League of Omaha (the work always so much a part of her life) when her water broke. Her daughter was on her way.

Catching the Vision Today, published quarterly rather than monthly, supported by web and social media, mQUARTERLY enjoys a thriving readership and is well respected in the Omaha metro community and serves a very specific niche. But the winding path that brought Andee to this place was hacked through weeds and thistles, and carved out through numerous obstacles and brambles. The publication had never been an advertising gold mine, and remained a difficult sell, so much of the commitment to increase the quality of coverage and presentation was absorbed by Andee herself – once again determined to herald those making a difference in a manner she felt was deserved. But there was something new motivating her now. Her doggedness to see the publication succeed went beyond desperation, beyond ambition, beyond her personal desires to gain her dad’s acknowledgment, or at least prove him wrong.

Those motivations had been replaced by something Andee had “caught” along the way, influenced by those During the months she was pregnant Andee experienced she was covering, enhanced by something she had some of the happiest and most peaceful moments of her The moment – rather than exhilarating or exciting – was regained from within. The fire that her parents had seen life. She would put headphones on her stomach so the devastating. The child was two weeks early, and Andee glimmer, and then fade, had been rekindled through her baby could feel the vibration of a music CD: Baby wasn’t ready to let her go. Her time with the daughter years of exposure to those making a difference. Andee Symphonies. She would go swimming, spinning around in she had nurtured and carried for most of the year was Hoig had rediscovered a glimpse of her original calling, the water imagining the baby smiling and giggling with abruptly coming to an end. and of her original authenticity: Andee had delight. She would sit on the sofa with her beloved cat, “remembered” why she was here – to make a difference Murphy, next to her, telling Murphy and the child all she was at Methodist Hospital, going into labor, Suddenly for others more than herself…to give back, and to grow about each other. She talked to her for hours, all of these as a human being through doing so. Andee Hoig had moments incredibly special to her, as the challenges and finally giving birth to a beautiful little girl, one of the most significant events in her life.While in the hospital rediscovered her place in The Universe. discomforts associated with her pregnancy were she cooed with this little baby girl, telling her how much outweighed by the immense JOY she found. she loved her, how much she meant to her and how Even in its early days, the magazine accomplished happy she was going to be with her new family. something that no other publication in the community was And the challenges were varied: people congratulating able to do, by amplifying local charitable events, featuring her on her new baby, people asking her if this was her first child and telling her how lucky she was, inquiring if The adoption went though the Nebraska Children’s Home, the people behind the scenes or attending fundraising which encouraged her to have an entrustment ceremony. efforts; by raising awareness about civic and charitable the child was a boy or a girl, what were names being The ceremony was a way to honor everyone involved and causes. Over time, Andee’s mission and publications have considered? Many people that she knew in the community expressed that they hadn’t realized that she allow Andee to present the child to her new family. It was evolved into something much more than that. was married. She wasn’t. unquestionably the most difficult thing she ever had to do, but she had no doubt it was the right thing to do. She’s offered a much-needed voice – not only to promote giving back, or to promote those already All of the niceties and delights that came with carrying a child became, for Andee, reminders that her time was She went home to an empty house with an empty womb, invested in making a difference, but to inspire those not limited, that the clock was ticking, marking the time left and a business that she wasn’t sure how to show up for. yet invested to experience their own awakening to the to share the growing love she held for her daughter. benefits of growth through giving. And as other What followed was a period of intense sadness and loss where Andee slipped into a deep depression.The work publications and enterprises eventually saw the value in Andee was still running the magazine solo so she had to would provide a way out and up; the community she had supporting the philanthropic sector, Andee remains perhaps the single most recognizable and acknowledged be out in the community photographing events, making come to cherish, and facing the challenges that came with supporting it, allowed her to refocus and rebuild. sales calls, running her business. People who found out beacon and champion of local giving.

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25 years of growth in giving bob hoig • a father’s view AT THE end of the day WHEN IT COMES TO LIVING A fulfilling and meaningful LIFE, IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT IS HAPPENING IN THE economy, OR IN politics, OR WHAT THE P&L SHEETS SAY. IT’S ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON IN MY head. ~ ANDREA L. “ANDEE” HOIG EVOLVING ENTREPRENEUR

“For as long as I’ve known and worked with Andee, she’s “repairs-in-progress” – who was attempting to reengage with his own innate gifts and resources. always been all about giving everything for those who Assisting Andee with hers seemed almost destined at give to others – and she’s consistently done it at the time. He eagerly embraced the opportunity to help tremendous personal sacrifice,” said metroMAGAZINE’s Editor and Creative Director Rob Killmer, who’s worked at her transform her publication and business into more of what she dreamed it could be. It wasn’t a perfect the magazine for more than 15 years. alliance, but the synergy was tangible and productive. “Andee was out there slogging it out in the weeds, This all reads a bit too “dramatic” (even a trifle “romantic,” working long, arduous hours, to call attention to though not embellished) because we’re not talking about nonprofits long before it was fashionable or profitable. a love affair here, but still discovering a “soul connection”. She has always been driven more by her passion for For all of us, as such moments occur, there are no violins giving back – that’s the single, most intense and or drumrolls; no “lights, camera, action!” When we find authentic driving force that guides everything she does.” ourselves aligned with someone else, or more aligned In the early 2000s, this passion drove Andee to up the ante and move to a full color publication, switching from newsprint to gloss and expanding coverage. For years Andee labored, sometimes for 72-plus hours or more in a stretch, to deliver on that vision, and she labored essentially in isolation. There were some special part-time or full-time staffers who came and went during this season, but Andee shouldered the bulk of the burden – creative, financial and otherwise – alone. It was at this time that The Universe (as it so often seems to do) brought Andee into contact with another visionary attempting to recover something of himself: a middle-aged Texan, Rob Killmer, who carried some synergistic energies, experiences and perspectives that synced up well personally with Andee’s, and whose professional skillset filled an immediate and longerterm need. Like her, he was a soul undergoing

with ourselves in collaboration with others, we may have a sense that we’ve discovered someone we are “intended” to serve, and we move in cooperation with that sense. At the time, it’s not as “special” as it reads in retrospect, but still, something compels us to “hitch up and go,” to show up in support of someone else, come what may, through hell or high water. We feel “guided” to form a bond. Andee could now set about facing a new set of challenges with Rob in tow, as both signed on to do more with and for each other. Between 2001 and 2006, their combined efforts led to a series of transitions, culminating in a full-fledged, more legitimate magazine format replete with human interest stories, focus-features, columns, and (as always) Andee’s commitment to extensive photo and background coverage of local events – all dedicated to aggressively promoting the cultural and philanthropic agenda of area nonprofits and individuals making a difference. andee hoig

AN INSPIRATIONAL JOURNEY

In 2012, Bob and Andrea “Andee” Hoig became the first father-daughter honorees by the prestigious Omaha Press Club when they had their caricatures framed and placed on the club’s esteemed walls. Today, Bob calls it one of the most special times of his life both professionally and personally. But when he sold metroMonthly to his daughter 20 years ago for $1 after watching it struggle to make money in its previous five years of existence, he could have never envisioned the two would share such a special moment so many years later. “The magazine wasn’t making much, and as far as I was concerned, it wasn’t worth the effort or time to keep doing it, but Andee saw things differently,” said Bob, founder and publisher of Midlands Business Journal and the Lincoln Business Journal. “I was going to close it down, but Andee begged me to sell it to her because she believed she could make it a success.” At the time, Bob said he remembers thinking “fat chance; it will never make it,” but over the past two-plus decades, Andee has proven him wrong. “Remembering what it was like when I ran it and where she has taken it today is really amazing,” he said. “Andee saw something there at the time – something I didn’t – and she took the magazine to heights I never imagined possible. It has totally evolved into a really fantastic publication, and I’m so very proud of her.” The middle child – and only daughter – sandwiched between two high-achieving brothers, Andee grew up with some personal and health-related obstacles and challenges that held her back during high school and her early 20s. When she started taking photographs for her dad’s publications shortly after high school, she found her comfort zone. Shortly thereafter, she started attending charity events and taking photos of people involved with as well as attending galas and other fundraisers, and she found her calling with Metro Monthly (which has evolved into mQUARTERLY). “Being an active supporter of the nonprofit community and running a magazine like metro was tailor-made for Andee; it was definitely right up her alley,” Bob said. “She is more aligned with that part of the community than I ever was or would be, so it was a great fit for her. “But I definitely had doubts that she could make it work into something sustainable let alone profitable from the start, and now look at where she’s taken it.” Despite his skepticism, Bob said he never wanted to see his only daughter fail, and when she persevered through tough economic times and a devastating office fire, she proved to him that nothing was going to keep her from succeeding. “A lot of people with less grit and determination wouldn’t have responded and rebounded the way that she has,” he said. “I’m completely proud of her, and I never want to miss a chance to tell people that. She’s created her own mini-empire, and she’s made some calculated decisions over time that I questioned when she made them but she has more than proved me wrong.” CONTINUED

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andee hoig: AN INSPIRATIONAL JOURNEY

25 years • making a difference Andrea ‘Andee’ L. Hoig has been passionate about and actively involved in the Omaha metro’s philanthropic and charitable community for over 25 years. Andee is publisher of ALH Publications, Inc. which publishes metroQUARTERLY, The Giving Guide & Event Book and 101 Things to Love about the metro™. Her commitment to community is evidenced by numerous milestones over the years: 1996: Andee purchased Metro Monthly from Bob Hoig and started her journey as an entrepreneur 2002: Midlands Business Journal 40 Under 40 award winner 2005: ABWA Successful Business Woman of the Year (American Business Women’s Association) 2005: The Giving Guide & Event Book inaugural edition presented 2006: Metro Monthly became metroMAGAZINE ALH Publications, Inc. was created 2006: The first annual presentation of The BIG Event took place recognizing local charity events and the volunteers, supporters and sponsors that make them a success 2008: metroMAGAZINE receives the Omaha Chamber of Commerce Excellence in Business Award 2009: Andee honored as one of the YWCA’s Tribute to Women 2010: metroMAGAZINE recognized as the Omaha Chamber of Commerce Small Business of the Month 2010: Andee inducted into The Hospitality Hall of Fame 2012: Omaha Press Club’s Face on the Barroom Floor honoree along with her father Bob Hoig – the first father/daughter duo to be recognized 2016: metroMAGAZINE’s M.A.D.25 campaign initiated Since metroMAGAZINE (fka Metro Monthly) first published in 1991, it has paved the way for coverage and promotion of Omaha’s philanthropic community. The publication has covered thousands of charity events and has reported on millions of dollars raised for local non profits. As the magazine marks its 25th anniversary in 2016, it also celebrates being widely regarded as a definitive local market leader, trendsetter, and a widely respected standard-of-measure, particularly as focused on cultural and philanthropic endeavors. Andee and her enterprise help define the leading edge of an emerging Giving Landscape connecting businesses and individuals wanting to get involved with community service, those moving to the Omaha metro desiring to get involved in charitable causes, and all who are looking to embrace a greater, more meaningful purpose through charitable involvement. The mission of ALH Publications has been to recognize the ongoing efforts of Omaha-area businesses, organizations and individuals to better the community through their support of charitable and civic causes. ALH Publications also serves as a community connector and encourages people’s desire to give something back to the community through volunteerism and philanthropy.

PRIVILEGES… The addition of collaborative local partners and staffers with similarly aligned vision and dedication fostered a succession of creative and editorial achievements, including award-winning cover designs orchestrated in collaboration with globally-renowned local photographers Laurie and Charles Kay, acclaimed editorial features by authors such as internationally published Timothy Schaffert, or noted Alexander Payne biographer Leo Adam Biga. Such contributors invested in Andee’s vision because they, too, shared her passion for shining a light on the work being done by area nonprofits and local leaders. All of these, and many more, aligned with Andee in an expansive effort to add more substance and brilliance to her dream of shining greater light on those who give, and the growth continued.

Awakening Something deeply compelling and meaningful started clicking for Andee around this time; she felt a “call” from deeper within, and purposed to answer it in whatever way she could. A passion to do much more for others was ignited, a kind of sixth sense, that urged her to dramatically change and grow. Even with additional backup and support staff, some of the “character defects” and counterproductive devices that her father had observed, continued to plague Andee and limit her in ways she felt she now had to overcome. It was time to begin releasing the “false self” that Andee had carried with her since her youth, and recover her true identity and purpose.

In 2005, Andee launched her most ambitious and most challenging effort at bringing greater attention and support for those advancing charity and culture in the region, with the release of the first edition of The Event Book (now known as The Giving Guide & Event Book). This first annual was launched at a special reception hosted by Walter and Sue Scott, introducing the publication to the local philanthropic community.

That meant diving into her “personal zone” with the same dedication she had managed to find in her “professional zone” when reinventing and rejuvenating metroMAGAZINE. Now she needed to apply the same commitment and drive to the process of reinventing herself…and it would be a process, requiring as much determination and endurance as the “survival” process leading up to it had been. This would require dedication for the long haul, and Andee Hoig was clear about it – fully locked in.

Envisioned as a beautiful coffee-table book featuring high-end photography and extensive nonprofit profiles, event listings and resources, the publication was so well received that – while garnishing numerous press awards for editorial content and design – it has become the go-to social calendar for the region. The publication delivers its 12th edition in January of 2017, and is symbolic of the “growth in giving” that Andee and her collaborators have achieved.

She became a ravenous consumer of self improvement materials, and she began working diligently (through exploring personal therapy and a vast variety of other healing resources) to understand who she was really capable of becoming, as well as understanding the mechanisms in her life that were holding her back from being that person and fulfilling an expanded mission.

Ever the trendsetter, Andee’s was among the first niche publications to launch a website, metroMAGAZINE’S SpiritofOmaha.com, and introduced the first local published e-newsletter (now metro’s weeklyCONNECTOR), and was among the first to take her publication online. Among many of Andee’s “firsts” were ideas that many readers now take for granted in virtually every local publication, but many of these, such as multi-page fashion spreads, focus feature segments dedicated to local area real-estate, restaurants and care-providers, appeared in metroMAGAZINE before they regularly appeared in other area publications or websites, but always the true heartbeat of these efforts was giving back.

The 2008/2009 “Great Recession” that buried so many businesses dealt nearly a mortal blow to Andee’s publishing house, forcing her to shave staff and work bare bones to keep it going. It was essentially the equivalent of starting all over and reinventing her business model from scratch (a reinvention many businesses were forced to undergo but many did not survive). Andee managed to rise from the ashes of the recession – taxed, weary and conflicted about her future. These were not the last ashes she would have to dig out from under.

By this time Andee had definitely established her staying power, demonstrating an ability for professional growth and achievement, but new threats and challenges pressed Andee to grow personally.

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Catching Fire In 2010, the “Bagel Bin Fire,” which took place on one of the coldest nights on record, took the business’s offices, sparking a storm of events posing the most serious threat to the future of metroMAGAZINE.

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25 years of growth in giving ADVANCES… Andee & Rob actually witnessed the fire starting from Andee’s home, and had Rob not run down to the office and removed all the data drives before the fire spread, the fire may have meant an end to the vision then and there. Andee was compelled to dig deep and decide whether or not she wanted to keep going despite a devastating setback. “When the economy went bad in 2008 and 2009, things looked really bad,” said Hoig. Christmas 2009, she laid in bed crying and said “God, I need some kind of lifechanging experience – a new perspective in life.” Two weeks later, the office burned. She said she knew then it would have been a respectable time to back off and shut it all down. “No one would have blamed me.” “A lot of people would have folded their tents and called it quits, if they had faced the adversities Andee has overcome; especially as they watched their business being burnt down in the middle of a depressed economy,” recounted Rob. “I recall seeing statistics that 95% of small businesses who experience that kind of trauma fail within 18 months. Unless you’ve experienced it, you can’t imagine all of the ongoing aftershocks, the insurance hassles, obstacles and complications to recovery efforts, and the long-term adjustments and riptides that follow the original tragedy.” Andee had endured all of these. She had solidified herself as a person and had been persistent as a professional. She had come to a place of personal awakening and a hunger for enlightenment. Maybe this was God’s way of directing her to move on to something new, having made a difference here in some small way. But beginning the very next day, she was discovering that her contributions had perhaps been greater than she realized. Immediately and continuously, she received so many calls, text messages, letters…expressing not only concern, but gratitude and appreciation, including many which pleaded with her to find a way to keep her mission going. “How can we help you? You’ve done so much to help others! Don’t let this beat you!” In a way she had never experienced before, Andee realized she had a legion of people who were being reached and touched by her mission. But, also in a way she had never before experienced, Andee Hoig was discovering what it meant to receive.

The community came out to support her and the magazine, rallying to encourage Andee, mirroring her efforts to rally the community in support of others. It was, in some ways, a spiritual watershed – one that further illuminated her understanding of her path. “I saw things in a different light. Being on the receiving end helped me appreciate giving in ways I never could have before,” said Hoig. In terms of chronology, at least, the rest (as they say) is better known local history.

Epiphanies When Andee was working three jobs – at the Visiting Nurses Association (VNA), Omaha Steaks and bartending at a local pub (while also giving plasma) – in order to accomplish her goal of making the magazine a success, it wasn’t about living from inspiration; more from instinct. “In all honesty, in the early days, I never allowed myself to truly believe I couldn’t make it as a success because I didn’t have any other real career options,” said Andee. “I truly believed in this publication and knew I could turn it into something not available in town. I had been in the publishing business my whole life. It’s what I knew.”

Today, metroMAGAZINE, the flagship publication for ALH Publications, has been converted to mQUARTERLY, which What Andee did not know or see at the time (what most now releases each February, May, August and November. of us are not equipped to see early on) was that many of Andee has come to trust and rely greatly on her intuition. the limitations and adversities she had to overcome, both externally and internally, were critical “exercises” “As with most of the other decisions and changes I made that would prove essential in helping her to recover her over time, I just knew intuitively that moving to a original vision and mission for her life, but with vital, quarterly publication was the right thing to do,” she said. added humility, compassion and gravity. “The intent was to elevate the magazine to a new level, and I believe we’ve accomplished that.” “I’ve been introduced to so many sources of wisdom and illumination, especially over the past ten years, and it’s That intuition is a vital resource that, only in recent years, really transformed the way I see myself, my business, and has Andee come to fully appreciate. Today, she lives those I feel compelled, even destined, to serve,” said Hoig. more instinctively from an ongoing collaboration with the “Source” of that intuition and inspiration that “guides” “I’ve experienced so many different “epiphanies” along every decision she makes, every effort she undertakes. the way, ever since I went ‘all-in’ with my ‘spiritual’ life. It’s never been about religion, or a specific philosophy or From her first few days as publisher and editor of Metro approach, it’s always been a willingness to say ‘yes’ and Monthly in 1996, and continuing to the present, Andee’s to cooperate (at times surrender) to what is being focus has always been about more than simply running a revealed from somewhere deep within, and to what is publication about charities or about living well, but in being provided from beyond. It’s impossible to explain. recent years, through her commitment to a “spiritual” (or Everyone has to experience this in their own very private at least a personal devotional) path, she has gained way, but when we do, we recognize the significance, and additional clarity about providing a forum – a voice – for we move to give ourselves more completely to it.” promoting giving back to others in need, about living from the inspiration she discovered along the way. From 2006 through the present, as this more inspirational element of her life has unfolded, Andee’s capacities and Andee’s story is about much more than the chronology – capabilities have expanded well beyond anything she can it’s about much more than any one person’s triumphs or account for. She has witnessed (and been actively at work adversities, it’s about the journey all of us make in advancing) a complete transformation of her life vision, understanding who we are, who we are not, and how mission, priorities and practices. we are uniquely equipped and supported in sharing that journey with others who are facing similar questions and As she has grown her small, local publishing house obstacles. It’s about things we all share in common. during this period, Andee and ALH Publications have raised the profile of nonprofits and giving in the Omaha For each of us, it almost inevitably becomes about community to levels that, quite frankly, even she “growth in giving”. As we grow, we begin to understand, couldn’t have imagined when she first took over the as Andee did, that pouring our heart and soul into mere publication. She has company. Bob Hoig is a believer in Andee Hoig, having witnessed her emergence from the achievement or ambition never actually fills us; unless we are involved in helping and healing others, we never “caterpillar” she once was, to a “butterfly,” poised to take truly experience our own moments of help and healing. fresh flight. andee hoig

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andee hoig: AN INSPIRATIONAL JOURNEY 25 years of growth in giving Expansion When Andee began her journey with growth in giving, there were 85 charity events in the region; now there are hundreds. SpiritofOmaha.com’s Community Calendar receives over 1,000 event registration entries every year. Andee is convinced that a new generation of givers is watching in the wings, waiting to be inspired to live beyond themselves, eager to experience their own growth in giving through the message and modeling that Andee, and others who have caught the vision, can provide. Andee’s journey has expanded her vision, and has ignited a fresh passion to share the insights and resources she’s acquired along the way. Today, Andee is a sought-after speaker, appearing before civic and business groups as well as nonprofits, to champion and expand the vision shared by all who think in terms of doing more for those in need, and all those desiring a better way of life, not only through receiving, but through giving back. As Andee shares from her own inspirational journey, whether through speaking engagements, her writings, or through forging new, powerful strategic alliances with local, regional, national and international thought and change leaders, Andee’s focus is on educating, empowering and equipping those who have yet to experience their own “giving spark”. “I’ve received so much from being exposed to the joy of giving back, it’s vital that I pass those experiences and insights on to others,” said Hoig. Passing the torch, inspiring a new generation of givers, has become the greatest motivating force for Andee moving forward. “I still love the magazine – I always will – but I’m interested in branching out into new opportunities where I am now working with businesses in the community (and beyond) who want to do things to support nonprofits but aren’t sure where to begin or what to do,” she said. Her desire and passion to speak to professionals, students and other forums about the power that community service and giving back can have in creating stronger communities, stronger individuals ,is leading her in fresh, new directions. In addition to publishing Andee now offers one-on-one consulting to help organizations implement strategic giving plans, and we envision more services and support to come in the months and years ahead. “I see this stage of my journey as an extension of the publishing path, and just as the magazine has evolved over time, I must do so. I’m excited about the next steps.”

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OUT FRONT • UP CLOSE WITH... KIM ROWELL COX COMMUNICATIONS AT COX COMMUNICATIONS, A CORE VALUE IS THE IMPORTANCE OF GIVING BACK TO THE COMMUNITY AS THIS IS WHERE WE LIVE, WORK AND ENJOY LIFE WITH OUR FAMILIES. COX IS COMMITTED TO BEING A GOOD COMMUNITY PARTNER AND TO HELPING OMAHA, THE CITY WE CALL HOME, TO GROW AND PROSPER.

What is your favorite quotation and by whom? “I have learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ~ Maya Angelou

AS LONG AS YOU ARE LEARNING, YOU NEVER MAKE A MISTAKE.

~ KIM ROWELL

What historical figure would you most like to meet or be mentored by? Maya Angelou – she was such a pragmatic humanitarian whose philosophy on life transcended all barriers and spoke a message of tolerance and compassion to all.

What is the one thing that you love most about the Omaha metro?

For which activity or discipline would you most like to receive a lesson from an expert?

The people – the way that private citizens and business entities work together to help our community achieve greatness.

Woodworking , cabinetry or furniture building. I think this is such a beautiful art form. It’s the perfect blend of artistry, creativity and functionalism.

If you could give all human beings one virtue, which would you choose and why?

For me, I think it would provide an opportunity for quiet solitude and reflection as you create the piece. For the expert, I would choose Norm Abram from The New Yankee Workshop on PBS.

I would choose Integrity as it blends Honesty with Compassion.

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When you were young, what did you most dream of doing when you grew up? I wanted to be a high school math teacher. I have always considered teaching the ultimate “give back” career; education truly can change lives. I love math, as the reward of finding the solution to a problem is instantaneous and offers such a sense of accomplishment. This instantaneous reward and achievement helps build confidence in students.

If you decided to go on a personal pilgrimage of some kind, where would you go and what would you do? El Camino de Santiago (the way of Saint James) – the 30-day trek from France to Santiago de Compostela in northwestern Spain. I would love to follow in the footsteps of thousands who have traveled that path before me, just peacefully walking, thinking and taking in the centuries of beautiful European architecture. And of course, the 30 days of uninterrupted time with my husband, Bill, and the opportunity to experience this together, would truly enrich our lives.

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OUT FRONT • UP CLOSE WITH... MIKE MERIDITH SECURITY EQUIPMENT INC. SEI WORKS VERY HARD TO GIVE BACK IN ALL THE COMMUNITIES WHERE WE HAVE AN OFFICE. WITH SEVERAL CHARITIES THAT USE OUR SECURITY SERVICES, WE FOCUS ON TRYING TO HELP THEM WITH THEIR CAUSE THROUGH DONATIONS AND VOLUNTEERING. IN ADDITION MR. MEREDITH HAS SERVED ON THE HEART MINISTRY CENTER, AUTISM ACTION PARTNERSHIP AND PACE* BOARDS. *PARTNERSHIP FOR AUTISM CAREER EMPLOYMENT

What is your favorite quotation and by whom? “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other.” ~ Abraham Lincoln What is the one thing that you love most about the Omaha metro? The six degrees of separation. Usually you know someone that knows someone. It’s a big small town.

What does your “perfect day” look like? A perfect day for me would be sunny and 70 degrees on the golf course with good friends shooting a low round. I’d wrap up the day grilling out with my wife and kids. What historical time period would you most like to visit…and why? The Roman Empire; I’m fascinated by all that they built and accomplished so long ago with no modern equipment to construct buildings, etc. Also, to view the senate actually making laws so long ago would be cool to see. Who has most inspired you as a mentor and how? I serve on a board for a partnership where SEi is a shareholder. On this board are eight of the smartest people in the security industry from all across America. I have learned more about business, leadership and life from these gentlemen than I could have ever possibly imagined.

If you decided to go on a personal pilgrimage of some kind (spiritual, philosophical, sabbatical) where would you go and what would you do ? I would like to go to Europe with my wife for two weeks. We’ve been twice but it’s coincided with conferences so our free time was limited. On the list would be Paris, Madrid and Venice for sure.

What event in the past, present or future would you like to witness in person…and why? The signing of the Declaration of Independence. The risks our founding fathers took to create a new country is truly remarkable. What life experience has strengthened you the most? The birth of my children. That’s when you realize that people are counting on you to succeed and provide for them. It’s not just about me, but making sure my family has everything to meet their needs.

WORK TO LIVE, DON’T LIVE TO WORK. YOU MUST HAVE A WORK-HOME BALANCE AND BE ABLE TO TURN OFF WORK WHEN YOU’RE AT HOME [OR ENGAGED IN RECREATION.]

~ MIKE MERIDITH PRESIDENT SECURITY EQUIPMENT INC.

What historical figure would you most like to meet or be mentored by…and why? Abraham Lincoln, his ability to work with strongly opinionated people from different backgrounds and places around America when our country was most divided over slavery and the Civil War. To see and hear his thought process and strategy on how he would unify the country would be fascinating to witness and gain knowledge from.

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OUT FRONT • UP CLOSE WITH... JULIE DARRINGTON CENTURYLINK CENTURYLINK IS COMMITTED TO STRENGTHENING AND IMPROVING THE COMMUNITIES IT SERVES THROUGH ITS PRODUCTS AND SERVICES, AND THROUGH PHILANTHROPIC SUPPORT OF LOCAL COMMUNITY AGENCIES, EVENTS AND INITIATIVES; K-12 EDUCATION AND PROGRAMS THAT SUPPORT YOUTH; TECHNOLOGY-FOCUSED INITIATIVES; AND LOCALLY-DRIVEN EFFORTS THAT STRENGTHEN COMMUNITIES AND MAKE THEM BETTER PLACES TO LIVE. What is your favorite quotation and by whom? “Collaboration isn’t about giving up our individuality; it’s about realizing our greater potential.” ~ Joseph Rain I work to create an environment where others can succeed. Together, we win. What is the one thing that you love most about the Omaha metro?

BE STRONG IN YOUR COMMUNICATION AND HAVE FAITH IN YOUR EMPLOYEES AND INTERNAL PARTNERS. BE SPECIFIC ABOUT EXPECTATIONS. [OTHERWISE] ‘ACCOUNTABILITY’ BECOMES ‘MICROMANAGEMENT’.

~ JULIE DARRINGTON

There are so many wonderful things about Greater Omaha, but I particularly enjoy the people. They are creative, friendly and family-oriented. People here are passionate – and I think that is the secret to the success of Greater Omaha.

What does your “perfect day” look like? Any day that I have the opportunity to spend quality time with my family is a perfect day! I’m thankful to have many perfect days: going for a walk with my husband, chatting with my sons about their day, or streaming favorite shows with our dog Moe.

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nearly 30 years ago - especially considering technology advancements such as the internet and cell phones. If you decided to go on a personal pilgrimage of some kind (spiritual, philosophical, sabbatical) where would you go and what would you do? I would go to Jakarta, the capital of the Republic of Indonesia, on the island of Java. My father was born and raised in Jakarta and I grew up hearing stories about his experiences as a child. I would like to meet distant relatives and experience the culture of Indonesia firsthand and learn more about the history, geography and economy. What historical figure would you most like to meet or be mentored by…and why? I would like to meet Kathryn F. Clarenbach. Kathryn was from my hometown in Sparta, WI. She was selected by Governor John Reynolds to chair the Wisconsin Governor's Commission on the Status of Women. During her 15 years as chair of the commission, she helped change and redefine several laws which were unfair to women (1964-1979). Kathryn passed away in 1994. What life experience has strengthened you the most?

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Who would you like to trade places with for one month…and why? I would choose to trade places with my children. Alexander is in college and Eric is in high school. It would be interesting to experience the pressures and opportunities they face today compared to

Balancing a professional career while raising a family is, definitely, the life experience that strengthened me the most. I’m very blessed. I could not have achieved success without the continued support of my parents, in-laws and my wonderful husband of 26 years, Paul!

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dr. lee simmons took what was little more than small collection of animals on the grounds of an aging city park and turned it into an internationally recognized zoo with many one-of-a-kind features and world-class research facilities. on the eve of his 50th anniversary with omaha’s henry doorly zoo and aquarium, “doc,” his wife marie, and friends and associates look back on his legendary career.

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on Dr. Lee SimmonS’S 50th anniverSary with omaha’S henry DoorLy Zoo anD aquarium, frienDS anD aSSociateS chooSe Different but equaLLy impreSSive worDS to DeScribe him: AWESOME, EXTRAORDINARY, ENERGETIC, BRILLIANT. but SometimeS SimmonS can’t be SummeD up in juSt one worD.

“there is no ego. there’s an awful lot of talent backing him, but he’s not looking for the limelight,” said barry james, american interstate bank chairman, whose association with Simmons is both professional and personal; he’s the son of Lawrence and jeannette james. “i’m a strong supporter, as is my family, of anything Doc wants to do.” Simmons’s local legacy began in December 1966, when he relocated to omaha from the columbus (ohio) municipal Zoo, where he had spent three years as mammals curator, staff veterinarian and assistant director. the new job at the henry Doorly Zoo, resident veterinarian, was a departure from the politics that were prevalent at his previous post.

“i’ve said it before: the Dvm after his name is for Doctor of veterinary medicine, but i refer to Doc as ‘Dreamer – visionary – maker,’” said john boyer, an attorney with fraser Stryker pc LLo who also serves as the president of the omaha Zoo foundation and was the long-time president of the omaha Zoological Society. “and he has a great ability to “when we first came here, i probably thought it communicate what he’s dreamed up.” would be maybe 10 or 15 years. my goal was to become a zoo director and one of the reasons we “he’s multidimensional in so many ways. his came here was that they were looking for a intellectual curiosity might be higher than any other veterinarian, but our director who was here already person i’ve ever known,” said edson bridges of had a bit of reputation for not staying hooked into one place for very long,” Simmons said. “So i was bridges investment counsel, who has worked with looking at a new zoo that was being built, that there Simmons throughout many of his 50 years with the was a possibility that there might be an opening zoo. “in general, if someone wants to know before terribly long, and it was closer to home and something, he’s going to find the answer to it. he’s the culture that marie and i were both raised in.” very courteous and he’s patient when he explains things…and he’s a superb storyteller.” the couple were college sweethearts who met at central States college (now university of central “a lot of people are brilliant, but they don’t have the oklahoma) in edmond, oklahoma. marie Giem heart and soul that Lee has,” jeannette james said. was a home economics major and Lee Simmons was She and her husband, Lawrence, have been friends in pre-veterinary studies, but the two ended up with Lee and marie Simmons so many years that she taking a chemistry class and a water can’t recall when or how they met. “i think another safety/lifesaving class together. reason Lee is so successful is that he not only loves animals – every single kind of animal – he loves “what should have been a tip-off of things to come is people.” that on our very first date (other than a coke date in the Student union), i caught a copperhead,” “Lee has had an extremely good ability to have an Simmons recalled, adding that his original interest outstanding vision and know how to execute to before switching to veterinary medicine was in accomplish that vision,” local community leader and herpetology. at the time, he was hoping to become a past zoo foundation board president mike yanney reptile curator, and even carried a snake hook in the said. “his ability to work with the private sector as trunk of his car. “i think that might have surprised her a little bit.” well as the public sector is outstanding.”

“i should have had some indication then that it was going to be a very interesting life,” marie Simmons agreed, laughing at the memory. “and the first time i went to visit his home – his mother was a very tolerant lady – as i opened the door, there was this pet skunk.” “we had pomeranians and fragrance, who lived in the house and thought she was a pomeranian,” Simmons explained. “i actually paid one whole year of pre-vet by selling baby deodorized skunks.” Self-described “farm girl” marie wasn’t put off by her suitor’s love of all kinds of animals or his indoor/outdoor menagerie, and the couple married in 1959, less than a week before Simmons began veterinary school. “when we first got married we had this little 22-foot trailer house, which today would be a travel trailer,” Simmons said. which made it particularly hard to turn down a veterinary clinic position in altus, oklahoma, upon graduation, marie Simmons added. “it was like heaven. they were going to offer us a house and a car and a partnership eventually. and Lee said, ‘well, there’s this zoo in ohio…’” she explained. the columbus zoo position offered only a third of the salary of the veterinarian practice, less than marie was making as a junior-high and high-school home economics teacher at the time. but Simmons knew by then that he wanted a future in the zoo world. “when they asked me to take the position, marie kind of looked at me and said, ‘you’re the one who has to be happy about this,’” Simmons said. “it was kind of a long, silent ride home.” “but it worked out pretty well in the long run,” his wife said.

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HE’S PROBABLY DONE MOST everything HE THOUGHT HE OUGHT TO DO IN THE ROLES THAT HE’S BEEN IN. HE saw IT AND did IT. ~ EDSON BRIDGES EXECUTIVE, BRIDGES INVESTMENT COUNSEL AND FRIEND OF DR. LEE SIMMONS

“Doc’s biggest accomplishment personally? he would tell you, ‘marrying marie,’” james said. “he will attribute everything he’s ever done to marie. She was very supportive in working with him to see his dream out.” “marie has great patience and tolerance,” boyer said. “She’s a very soft-spoken lady and very kind. She contributed greatly to the success of the zoo.” “Lee just thinks the world of her and vice versa,” jeanette james said. “they’re a good pair.” “marie became an active co-conspirator in zoo activities from day one,” Simmons said. “marie was an integral part of the zoo.”

IF YOU WANT SOMETHING DONE, LEE CAN DO IT.

Supporting her husband’s career came naturally, marie said, after growing up in a family business, Giem’s hatchery and hardware, in her hometown of Guthrie, oklahoma. “i came from a home where my parents had a business with my grandparents. So everybody worked together as a family to make it work and to get ahead,” she said.

~ JEANNETTE JAMES SIMMONS FAMILY FRIEND

the Simmonses started their family in omaha and raised three children together: son Lee, jr., and daughters heather and heidi. “the kids got exposed to a lot of things and basically grew up in the zoo world,” Simmons said. at the omaha zoo, he was quickly promoted to associate director and then director, which meant long hours. “on weekends, marie would bring the kids and go to work with me, so the kids on Sundays and such would come to the zoo so we at least had some family time.” “he’s a family man who is very close to his wife and his kids,” bridges said. “no matter how busy he was with everything else, his family was foremost in his heart and mind,” jeannette james said. During the early years, the Simmons home often served as temporary quarters for a host of animals.

MARIE & DOC WITH BABY GORILLA ‘HADARI’

“in the early days, because we had no hospital, we had no nursery. So all the babies that had mothers who wouldn’t take care of them came home with us.

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[ON OUR FIRST DATE] I SHOULD HAVE HAD SOME indication THEN THAT IT WAS GOING TO BE A VERY interesting life. ~ MARIE SIMMONS

Sometimes the Simmons house hosted human guests, too. the zoo didn’t have research and education facilities or scientific staff, but in those pre-internet days Simmons would regularly invite colleagues from the zoo world to omaha to work and share information from physiological norms to reproductive and genetic studies to diet and habitat. often, neither the zoo nor the colleagues had a budget to accommodate the travels, so it wasn’t uncommon for Doc and marie to invite veterinarians and scientists to their homes. marie would cook their meals and they would sleep on the living room floor. these early partnerships fostered a spirit of collaboration with other zoo professionals that endures today, although information and research is much easier to share now due to the accessibility of modern technologies, Simmons said.

Simmons also found the community supportive in “it’s his ability to do things from a perspective that’s other ways. “one thing we always had here that a lot not purely animal science that allows him to do of government zoos don’t have is freedom of action,” everything that has been done,” james added. “the Simmons said, adding that the board also supported zoo – nobody else could have done that.” the zoo’s relative independence and allowed him to take reasonable risks. “the one thing they never did was try to micromanage. from day one they gave us not only does a relationship with “Doc” transition easily into a friendship, his friends agree, but a lot of freedom while they exercised good, solid fiduciary oversight.” Simmons has remained ethical, genuine and downto-earth despite his long list of accomplishments that the zoo grew steadily under Simmons’s leadership, have earned him countless accolades from the and he personally envisioned some of its community and professional colleagues alike. even components including the Lied jungle and the his appearance is unpretentious. Desert Dome.

“if i hadn’t gone into veterinary medicine, i think i would likely have drifted into engineering because “there’s still more that we don’t know than we do solving problems and making things work is half the know, but the knowledge base has advanced greatly. fun in life. the great thing is, that’s what we’ve gotten So i guess that if there’s anything i’m really proud of, to do here,” Simmons said. it’s that we did a lot to help advance that knowledge “he took a zoo – with 13 employees, that still had base both from the standpoint of medicine and wpa cages for some animals, on the grounds of an conservation research in exotics, whether you’re old city park, that had just a mediocre collection – to talking about reproductive physiology or nutrition a world-class zoo,” boyer said. or a whole lot of other areas,” Simmons said. “omaha’s been a big player in that.” “i think the zoo is one of the best examples of public/private collaboration,” yanney said. Simmons himself has also been a big player, boyer said. “he has been recognized by his peers on a “we had goals for the zoo but i think we’ve simply global level.” taken opportunities as they’ve popped up and made them work. Doing whatever it takes to make things the community was behind the zoo from the work is probably the key, and certainly you create beginning, too, Simmons said, which contributed some of your own opportunities,” Simmons said. “i greatly to its growth and success. medical think there was a time in every one of our projects practitioners routinely donated equipment after where we’d say, ‘holy smokes, is this going to work?’ upgrades and sometimes even helped provide you just put your head down and pedal harder.” facilities or assistance for various procedures, especially involving primates, who are similar to “he’s probably done most everything he thought he humans physiologically. ought to do in the roles that he’s been in. he saw it and did it,” bridges said. “almost anything we needed, someone would step forward and provide it,” Simmons said. “it made a “he’s a very dependable person,” jeannette james said. “if you want something done, Lee can do it.” huge difference in those early days.”

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“his cup of coffee, his brown pants and his tannishbrown shirt: that’s the picture of Doc that’s inescapable,” james said. “i think Lee is exactly what you see. i don’t care if it’s public or private, he’s as straight as you get,” yanney said. “Lee is a very humble man, and he treats everybody the same way.” “you see what you get,” bridges said. “it is a privilege to know him.” as Simmons continues in his role as chairman of the omaha Zoo foundation, he is clearly proud of the work he is doing. “nowadays i get to continue working with the supporters who have helped make these 50 years possible, but i also get to introduce new people to the wonders of africa, asia and all over the globe as we highlight our conservation efforts.” If you’d like to support Dr. Simmons, you can make a gift to the Dr. Lee G. Simmons Legacy Fund: Visit www.omahazoofoundation.org or call 402-738-2073.

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“LIVING THE WILD LIFE:” a timeline

50 years of “Doc” the early years

no timeline CAN ADEQUATELY DESCRIBE OR DEPICT THE CONTRIBUTIONS AN INDIVIDUAL MAKES DURING A LIFE-LONG CAREER. dr. simmons HAS SO MANY MORE MEMORABLE MOMENTS THAN THERE IS ROOM TO INCLUDE IN JUST THESE FEW PAGES. THIS IS AN ATTEMPT TO HIGHLIGHT SOME OF THE MILESTONES LEADING UP TO, AND INCLUDING, THE SUCCESSES SO FAR IN HIS ILLUSTRIOUS 50 year career WITH OMAHA’S HENRY DOORLY ZOO AND AQUARIUM.

active duty IN THE UNITED STATES ARMY RESERVE IN MILITARY POLICE ROLE AS WELL AS MEDICAL ASSISTANT FOR THE OKLAHOMA NATIONAL GUARD

lee simmons is born FEB 20, 1938. HE IS INTERESTED IN ANIMALS, FROM COLLECTING SNAKES TO RAISING FRESHWATER FISH WITH HIS MOM

1938

PROMOTED TO director

OKLAHOMA STATE UNIVERSITY

first job AS MAMMALS CURATOR AT COLUMBUS MUNICIPAL ZOO

1959-1963

1957-1959 ATTENDS SCHOOL FOR

pre-veterinary STUDIES AT CENTRAL STATE COLLEGE IN EDMOND, OK

doc invents (AND LATER

1970

1963 doctor of veterinary medicine DEGREE FROM

PATENTS) DEVICES INCLUDING THE SIMMONS POLE SYRINGE DART GUN USED BY MANY ZOOS AND FIELD BIOLOGISTS THROUGHOUT THE WORLD

1976

1977-1986

attendance skyrockets

doc’s entire family IS

318% UNDER DOC’S LEADERSHIP

INVOLVED AT THE ZOO FROM CHILDREN WORKING TO MARIE GIVING PRESENTATIONS

1971-1975 1971 founding trustee OF THE INTERNATIONAL SPECIES INVENTORY SYSTEM

aquarium opens

1998

1.6 MILLION VISITORS ACHIEVED

LEE G SIMMONS

1995

hubbard gorilla valley OPENS

wildlife safari park

1996

MARIE BECOMES A

docent at the zoo

hall of fame

PUBLISHES

60th publication

2000 1994

DOC INDUCTED INTO THE GREATER OMAHA CHAMBER'S OMAHA BUSINESS

OPENED

kingdoms of the night

2002

desert dome opens OPENS center for

REMAINS THE WORLD’S LARGEST INDOOR DESERT

conservation research (CCR)

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zoo railroad BUILT IN COLLABORATION WITH

1966

union pacific

50 years of doc

1968 PROMOTED TO

associate director zoo times

1967

SHOW AIRS ON KETV UNTIL 1975

marie begins raising several animals AT HOME

moves to omaha FROM COLUMBUS, OHIO TO ASSUME ROLE AS resident veterinarian AT OMAHA’S HENRY

1966-1975

1969

DOORLY ZOO & AQUARIUM

1978

RECEIVES A

certificate of recognition

travels to russia TO ASSIST WITH WORLDWIDE ANIMAL CARE LIONS CLUB NAMES HIM

citizen of the year

successful artificial insemination

NEBRASKA VETERINARY MEDICAL ASSOCIATION AWARDS DOC PRESTIGIOUS

veterinarian of the year award

FROM THE AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF ZOOLOGICAL PARKS AND AQUARIUMS FOR THE SUSTAINED captive

breeding of gaur

1981

1979

1988 CONCEPTUALIZES THE

lied jungle exhibit

TECHNIQUES WITH TIGERS, GAURS AND GORILLAS

1990s

1992 ZOO REACHES

1 million visitors

1991

TRAVELS TO southeast asia TO RESCUE A BREED OF CATTLE (KOUPREY)

midlander of the year

face on the ballroom floor

OMAHA WORLD-HERALD

OMAHA PRESS CLUB

2013

2016

awarded ulysses s seal

DOC CELEBRATES

INNOVATION IN CONSERVATION AWARD FROM THE conservation breeding specialist group (CBSG)

50 years OF SERVICE AND CONTINUES HIS ROLE AS CHAIRMAN OF THE OMAHA ZOO FOUNDATION

AFTER GROWING THE ZOO FROM 13 EMPLOYEES AND $350,000 BUDGET TO 250 FULL TIME & 300 PART TIME state of oklahoma EMPLOYEES AND A $22M BUDGET, doc retires as director, PROCLAIMS OCTOBER 4 AS ASSUMES ROLE OF OMAHA ZOO FOUNDATION CHAIRMAN LEE G SIMMONS DAY AND NAMES A STREET IN FRONT king of quivira OF HIS HIGH SCHOOL 113TH – KNIGHTS OF AKSARBEN AFTER HIM

2008

2009

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“Doc” Tails! Marie Simmons

Jim Selders

Dr. Tom Loafman

MARRIED TO DOC FOR 57 YEARS When we first came, the zoo didn’t have a nursery. When the animals had babies, Lee would bring them home and we would care for them. The first was a leopard cub that the mother had refused. Of course I had no experience with exotic animals so it was real hands-on learning. We had her for about four months, but when we started her on meat, she became aggressive and began trying to attack our sevenyear old son — and I was expecting. Next, we had a grizzly. Then an orangutan. We had an incubator in the dining room for her. Lee never heard our own children at night, but that orangutan would just squeak and he’d be there. The orangutan, a gorilla, and our daughter Heather kind of grew up as siblings for a time. We learned a lot by trial and error. Lee always had the vision that we needed to save the animals that we could, and replenish, rather than deplenish, their populations in the countries they came from. We’ve been fortunate to have many people dream along with him. From the donors and businesses that support the zoo, to the medical professionals who have helped with their knowledge and resources, to the people. Omaha is a unique community: if they want something to happen, they make it happen.

FROM DOC’S HOMETOWN All through high school, our teachers were terrorized by what Lee might bring to class. It was common to see a skunk or a raccoon running up and down the aisles of our classroom. Once, when Lee was on a date, all was going well until the girl let out a scream. Lee had found a small snake earlier that day, put it in his shirt pocket, and forgotten about it. Well, that snake came up out of the pocket and the girl came unglued. Later, Lee and I commuted together to college. He picked me up one chilly morning and I noticed a white sack on my side of the car. I didn’t pay much attention to it at first, but as the car warmed up, the sack started to move. I asked Lee what was in it, and he told me they were rattlesnakes. I rode the rest of the way with my feet up on the dash. When we arrived at school, Lee tossed the sack under a table in the student union and a girl who was sitting with us asked what was in it. Needless to say, she ran off and never sat with us again.

VETERINARY SCHOOL W/ DOC Lee had some health problems in school and sometimes he’d be so anemic, he’d fall asleep in class. One time, we were having a test and Lee said that he didn’t have any notes. He asked if I’d come over and help him study and Marie, whom he married six days before we started veterinary school, would make us a spaghetti dinner. I wouldn’t pass that up! Of course, Lee would study for twenty minutes, and then he’d start telling stories, but somehow he still made 93 percent on that test, when more than half the class failed. He is a common-sense, problemsolving person. In microbiology class, they’d give us an unknown problem and we’d have to do different tests to come up with the right answer. Lee would always get the answer, but he didn’t always follow the steps to get there. The professor was going to fail him for that, but Lee’s faculty advisor understood the situation and said, “Lee Simmons is going to pass this course or I’m going to beat the hell out of you.” Of course, now, Lee is a distinguished alumni of the College of Veterinary Medicine at our school (Oklahoma State University). If I were going to go across Africa with minimal resources, he’s the guy I’d want with me.

Gail Koch FORMER OMAHA ZOO FDTN. BOARD MEMBER AND HENRY DOORLY’S GRANDDAUGHTER It was just a small zoo at first. I wish you could have seen it. It was awful. The animals were mangy and trapped in small cages. My grandmother loved animals and she saw what the zoo could be, so she donated the first $100,000 hoping that it would encourage others to give. Then Peter Kiewit came forward with a large endowment and there have been so many others, including Ed Owens, Walter Scott and Ben Morris from the telephone company… it took a city to make it what it is today, but the ideas all came from Doc. We were very lucky to have a strong board and Lee. Hiring him was the best thing they ever did. Doc hasn’t changed at all over the years. He’s still very bright, very humble {at this point, Mrs. Koch’s husband, Harry Koch, interjects, “still the same brown suit!”}. We are very lucky to have Lee. There’s no way my grandmother could have imagined all that the zoo has become, but she would be very proud.

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Sharon Sklenar 28 YEARS WORKING FOR DOC I started at the zoo when I was 20-years old as receptionist/secretary, and, as the zoo grew, I became Doc’s executive assistant. There was no such thing as a typical day at the office. If I needed a letter signed, I would have to put on a hard hat and go down and meet Doc at whatever project was being built at the time. He was so passionate about everything at the zoo. When he’d leave for out-of-town trips, he would call me on his way to Eppley and ask, “What’s going on?” And I’d say, “Well, Doc, you just left.”When he came back from anywhere, the first thing he’d always do is make a trip around the zoo. Doc has been honored worldwide, but it was a particularly proud moment when he received the Ulysses. S. Seal 2013 Award for Innovation and Conservation by the Conservation Breeding Specialist Group (CBSG). My husband and I went down to Florida to see him accept the award. As he always did, he thanked Marie and said that his achievements wouldn’t be possible without her. She is the kindest, sweetest lady. She and the family spent many holidays at the zoo because Doc would be there for one reason or another, and they wanted to be with him.

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George Mazanec

Sandy Parker

Sue Conine

Stanley How, ASD

Ellen Wright

FORMER PRESIDENT OF THE OMAHA ZOOLOGICAL SOCIETY BOARD OF DIRECTORS I was board president in the 1970s and early ‘80s. The first major projects I was part of were the development of the cat complex and the sea lion pool. I introduced Lee to my next-door neighbor, who was the attorney for the Lied Foundation. The rest is zoo history. It’s a tough job Lee had, dealing with the property, the animals, the public, the staff and the donors. But he handled it very well. I remember one board meeting in the ‘70s when a bear got out of his enclosure. Lee had to roar out of the meeting and some of us followed him. He captured the bear and returned it to his enclosure and we started the meeting again. In my lifetime, I have known three geniuses. One was a fraternity brother and friend who received the Nobel Prize in medicine. The other was head of the opera in Houston and now is head of the opera in San Francisco. The third genius is Lee Simmons.

LONGTIME ZOO PATRON My dad was a board member so I’ve known Doc my whole life. He was my first job interview, ever. I was so excited to get the job that it wasn’t until later that I realized I only had it because of my dad. I called Doc and said, “Sir, I didn’t earn this job,” and he said, “You sure didn’t. You better work your butt off.”Which is exactly what I did, and they invited me back for seven years. They used to have an animal called a kinkajou, which was small, like a cat. I fell in love with her so I would sneak her cantaloupe and strawberries. She used to wrap her paws around my neck. One time Doc caught me and he said, “You want her, you can have her.” She couldn’t breed and she was nocturnal so they couldn’t put her on exhibit. That whole next school year, I hid her in my sorority house. But then I got married and Doc took her back. She was on loan to me for the year. More recently, I’ve been on safari with Doc twice. He waits very patiently until the guides finish, then they look at him and he adds all this scientific information.

FORMER OMAHA ZOOLOGICAL SOCIETY BOARD MEMBER AND ZOO PATRON I’ve been around the zoo since the earth was flat. I remember back when animals were pacing in cages, with no room to do anything. It broke your heart. That’s why I really love the cat complex (opened in 1977), because I remember how horrible the conditions were for those beautiful cats back when it was Riverview Park. The new one was state-of-the-art when it opened – how they had the ability to corral all those cats from one part of the building to another. And now, that’s probably ready for an update. It’s been a roller coaster ride, and one I wouldn’t have missed for anything. Lee dreamed big, and he had a great ability to get everyone to buy into these dreams. The zoo has galvanized a spirit in the city that is very, very special.

STANLEY J. HOW ARCHITECTS COLLABORATED WITH DOC ON MANY ZOO PROJECTS We’ve had the good fortune of working with the zoo for a good long time, almost 40 years. My father worked with Lee before I did. Going to lunch with Doc has always been interesting because everyone knows him and wants to say hi to him. Each project would start with a budget and we’d find a way to fit within that. There was a lot of give-and-take to reach that number, because Doc always wanted to press it to the very limit to enhance the exhibit and the visitor experience. Doc would always say, “This shouldn’t be very expensive, it’s just something you can get off the shelf.” But, when you’re working on something as unique as a zoo, everything is invented, you just don’t find things “off the shelf.” For example, the sand waterfall inside the Desert Dome is totally custom. Doc had seen it somewhere in the world, and wanted it for the zoo. Well, sand is gritty and can bind up in a mechanical system. Fortunately, we had the engineers at Kiewit working with us on that. You just have to adapt as you go along. Zoo projects are never really done until they’ve opened and three months go by and you can be sure that they’ve achieved the original vision without any bugs. .

LONGTIME ZOO VOLUNTEER & PATRON I started working with the zoo in 1978. My first experience was Zoofari. My husband and I were just starting out and we didn’t have any money, so we volunteered. That’s the first time I met Doc, and now I’ve gotten to know him and Marie very well. I’ve had the wonderful opportunity of going to Africa with them three different times. Marie is such a special woman and Doc, well, he’s like Mr. Wizard. My first trip to Africa, we were in the land cruiser and I’m kind of watching and sitting in the back, just contemplating being there. I sort of wondered aloud where all the dung was — all those animals and you never see any dung. From the very front of the truck, there was this voice, just like Mr. Wizard, intoning, “Well, that would be the job of the dung beetle.”Then Doc went on to explain how they roll the dung and build their nests with it. He hears everything and he knows everything. I learn something every time I’m with him. He wears this funky safari hat that he’s had for decades. You’ll be sitting next to him in the land cruiser, then the wind blows, and the hat blows, and before you know it, he’s out there on the savanna taking pictures.

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Shortly after this interview, Sue Conine passed away. Her impact to the zoo as a volunteer and patron will live on for years to come. While all are saddened by this loss, we are grateful for the decades of support she offered the zoo.

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THEY BOTH STARTED OUT in direct patient care, but even as Steve Martin and Amy Haddad were becoming closer as a couple, their healthcare careers were already moving in very different directions.

point on my passion has been in teaching and learning,” she said. She taught first at the College of Saint Mary, then Creighton University. She also taught in adjunct capacity at the University of Nebraska-Omaha.

These two are a highly accomplished couple known throughout the community and beyond: “When I got my PhD, I decided to focus on education, thinking that regardless of what I did, She’s a Ph.D. who serves as the director of the Center for Health Policy and Ethics and the I’d be a teacher, in a clinical setting or in a classroom. Now I teach online, so in a virtual Dr. C.C. and Mabel L. Criss Endowed Chair in the Health Sciences at Creighton University, classroom, too,” she said. and she’s also president of the American Society for Bioethics and Humanities. He’s president and chief executive of Blue Cross Blue Shield of Nebraska and a 2016 inductee to the Omaha His passion for business Business Hall of Fame. Martin’s path led him to the business side of healthcare. Long-distance romance They seem to be made for each other, but it wasn’t an easy beginning. After meeting at a conference in Wichita, Martin and Haddad had to make an intensive effort to cultivate their budding long-distance romance, and in the early 1980s, “long-distance” meant not only being separated by many miles, but also the pricey phone calls that went with it. “I had a $400 phone bill that I could barely afford to pay – and that’s from landline long-distance,” Martin said, estimating the bill to be equivalent to just over $1,000 in today’s dollars. “We met before cellphones.”

“Amy and I worked in mental health care, and I also started out in nursing. I went to college on an athletic scholarship and then I transitioned from a pre-med major to nursing major,” Martin said. “I got interested in the business side, actually, mostly through public health and occupational health; in other words, how to keep people out of hospitals and acute care and how to intervene in the community and workplaces…I actually started a couple of companies with some others in the area of workplace clinics, home care and occupational health. I then got very interested in following the money in healthcare because I saw huge amounts of “ We’re each other’s waste and that those things that were more interpersonal and would mean a lot in people’s lives received the least best critic, the most attention, and those things that were highly technical is honest person in where all the money went.”

“No email. No texting,” Haddad added. The couple’s courtship was carried out mostly by letter, she explained. each other’s life.” “We wrote to each other. It’s hard for young people to Although both Martin and Haddad help people through fathom, but long-distance calls were expensive. I think, their work, they give back to the community in their personal AMY HADDAD F though, that kind of correspondence – writing to each other time, too; both have served on numerous nonprofits and – makes for a very different kind of foundation to a relationship. community boards over the years. They also share an interest in It was thoughtful in a way that maybe the quick ways we the arts. communicate now aren’t as much. So we really did get to know each other in a very different way.” “I admire the arts a great deal. A strong arts community attracts a diversity of workforce and populations and builds a strong community, and the arts need more attention to thrive,” So the relationship progressed. “I would keep making excuses to come to Omaha,” Martin said. Martin said. Martin and Haddad both are “voracious readers,” enjoy cooking and traveling, and like to stay active. They’ve even decided to try tandem biking, although “I don’t think I’d count Partners for life “And then when he moved here, now the courtship takes a different turn. That was a that as a hobby yet,” Haddad said. wonderful way to transition into being partners for life,” Haddad said. The couple married in 1984, and more than 30 years later their marriage endures. Still connecting And during their time together, the couple also still have conversations about what As suggested by the fact that they met through their work, both Haddad and Martin connected them in the first place: their work. began their careers in direct patient care before transitioning into two very different facets of the widely varied healthcare industry. “We’re each other’s best critic, the most honest person in each other’s life…But we learned early on that it’s best not to be working together formally in a job,” Haddad said, “Even though we both started in the same place, we knew we were headed in different adding with a laugh, “We did for a very brief period.” directions,” Martin said. “We respect each other’s areas of passion, we share what we can and we learn from it. But we don’t actually share each other’s areas of passion.” “We have to give each other respect and space on things that don’t involve each other. We have different work styles…I think of things from a business analytic perspective and Her passion for education Amy thinks of things from the ethics humanity perspective,” Martin said. “So I’m probably Haddad started out in nursing, working in several facilities before earning a master’s degree the most educated in health care ethics for a person who’s never taken class in it.” in medical-surgical nursing, and soon found herself teaching. “I really hadn’t intended to be a teacher in nursing, but it just seemed important to do after that. I would say from that “And I know more about business and financing than I ever thought I would,” Haddad said.

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AFTER OBSERVING the inequities in the community, Willie Barney has created a means to give everyone a voice and bring Omaha’s greatness to every ZIP code and every neighborhood. Barney hails from Mississippi and grew up in Iowa, but after landing in Omaha through a media marketing executive position in the early 2000s, he’s steadfastly committed to making his adopted hometown a better place.

The network focuses on seven areas: employment and entrepreneurship; education and youth development; sustainable neighborhoods; faith, hope, and community engagement; violence intervention and prevention; health and healthy families; and arts, culture, history, and media/communications.

Setting high expectations Ten years ago, Barney founded the Empowerment Network, a collaboration of more than “We really focus on high expectations. No matter who we’re working with, you have greatness 500 organizations, businesses, and individuals including elected and appointed officials, within you, you have great potential – What will it take to reach your absolute best? So business and nonprofit leaders, clergy, educators and residents. Their common objective is when I speak to youth or community groups, I go in knowing there is greatness within each person that we’re talking to. Each person, each group, each organization has a role to play,” to improve the quality of life in North Omaha and the greater community. he said. “We try to create a positive environment where you can have a difficult conversation “We work together to make a measurable change in our community,” Barney, who serves but keep it focused on a common vision or mission and try to do it in a productive way.” the nonprofit as president and facilitator, said. “People ask us what we mean by that: It’s holistic community development focused on making Omaha a great city in every ZIP code Barney and his wife Yolanda also advocate for the community as co-publishers of REVIVE Omaha Magazine, which is distributed through businesses, churches, libraries and schools. and every neighborhood. The key components of the Empowerment Network are personal responsibility, leadership accountability and comprehensive “My wife and I both have media backgrounds and have always thought collaboration. Each person has to do their part, and if we work about owning our own media business. So we launched the collectively, we can definitely move the ball and make things magazine about eight years ago. The goal of the magazine was happen in our community on a large scale.” truly highlight and recognize positive things that were “ Each person has to do tohappening in the African-American community in Omaha Moving the dial their part, and if we work and other cities,” he said. After entering the media, research and marketing field straight out of college, Barney said his business travels collectively, we can opened his eyes and confirmed the inequities in many Walking in faith communities. definitely move the ball Barney said his faith has been a lifelong source of inspiration. He and his wife now serve as associate pastors and make things happen “Everywhere I went, I always noticed a lot of separation by at Jehovah Shammah Church International, a nonincome, a lot of separation by race,” he said. “As I started to in our community denominational church. learn more about Omaha, it became apparent that Omaha on a large scale.” is a very prosperous city and there are a lot of great things in “We definitely walk in faith. We are strong believers. My wife and Omaha. But as I started to look at the information and do more I and our family are very active in church, very faith-driven,” Barney background research, it became very apparent that not every part WILLIE BARNEY F said. The Barney children – a high-school-age son and a daughter in of the city is partaking in that greatness.” grade school – join their parents in the public events and many of the activities of the Empowerment Network, he added. As he pondered “how to move the dial,” Barney left the corporate world for the faith community, accepting the position of chief operating officer at Salem Baptist Church in “My family really inspires me – working together with my wife, being inspired by my children North Omaha. every day with their creativity and the way they engage in everything we do. They’re always “The deeper I started working in the community, the issues and disparities just became there and participating, and that also inspires me, see them enjoying what we do,” he said. overwhelming to me. After prayer and talking with my wife and a few friends, we launched “When we do violence-prevention events, if people ask, ‘Is it safe?’ I say, ‘Absolutely. I’m out to form the Empowerment Network with a lot of input from other African-American bringing my own children.’” leaders and residents,” he recalled. Because of the collaborative work and the efforts of hundreds of organizations and His experience in marketing and facilitating large-scale meetings and strategic plans thousands of residents, measurable results are evident, Barney said. transferred well to the new community development endeavor. “Graduation rates have increased, reading and math scores are rising, thousands of youth “I saw Omaha visually and through the data and began to have conversations about what and young adults have been connected to employment, gun violence is trending downward, can we really do and how can we work together to make a measurable change in our and large-scale developments are occurring in North Omaha and other targeted community?” he said. “We have in some ways replicated that in the community where we neighborhoods,” he said. bring leaders and community members together using data, research and trends, and then With a focus on solutions, results and inclusivity – the organization has hosted a community we adjust our strategies using feedback from those most impacted.” meeting every month for 10 years running – The Empowerment Network is now being held up to as an example to other, even larger communities. “We rely heavily on our great Facilitating engagement partners and we have an amazing team,” said Barney. 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IN LESS THAN 20 years since founders Renee Black and Lesley Brandt opened for business with just a single client, planitomaha has blossomed into a multimillion-dollar, high-level meeting and event production company with an all-female team of 15 serving clients and creating events all over the country.

because we are very in tune with the clients’ objectives and their focus and budget,” she explained. “We really listen to our clients. We always tell our clients we are a small army of professionals who are taking and exceeding your corporate objectives and we’re trying to not only make your lives easier but (be) cost-effective. We always claim that we deliver the “I would like to think I inspire others because I give them a path to personal freedom ‘wow’ factor. I think our book of business speaks that people trust us, they know that we’re and success in their professional lives. We’re very much in tune with each employee of going to be on time, they know that we’re going to deliver exactly what they needed.” Client retention has built the business steadily, she added, and they’ve expanded planitomaha; we’re always asking, ‘What do you want to accomplish? What can we do beyond Omaha to first-tier markets like Chicago and Los Angeles, which helps planitomaha’s better?’” Black said. “The best way I can inspire others is to let them know I trust them. I team members keep a broad perspective on their ever-evolving industry. trust them with my business, I trust them with good business decisions and I want them “When clients tell us they love to work with us and we’re the best and that they can’t to grow.” Not only does Black champion female empowerment, it’s one of the cornerstones of wait to work with us again, there is no bigger compliment to me as a business owner knowing that we have national advocates out there,” she said. “It’s not about us, it’s about her company. them…There aren’t a lot of other firms that have built what we have in almost “I always wanted and am glad I’ve achieved an all-female business,” she 19 years, and that wealth of experience, that polished competence that said. “The women we hire here all have a passion to be in this industry this team has, sets us apart from other firms.” and they’re all driven. They know how important the client is, and The business still follows the same mission established at we attract that kind of person; they’re very successful here… “We’re watching women the beginning. A culture of women who are all believing in the same goal “The identity who we are today is still who we thought and objective is hands-down the most inspiring thing that become successful leaders we wanted to be 19 years ago. I think that’s very important, could happen to a business owner.” and we’re watching our that we very much believe in our work,” she explained. “I team members make a think what has changed is we’ve gotten bigger. We have Unlimited potential bigger scope, we have bigger breadth and depth, we’re difference in their It was actually a man who first instilled in her the bringing others on this journey with us, we’re watching expectation that women have unlimited potential to community.” women become successful leaders and we’re watching our succeed in business, Black said. team members make a difference in their community. We’re RENEE BLACK “My father was a big mentor, especially in my high school F watching our team members win awards for their work here at and college years, because he was a big believer in women in planitomaha, and I just couldn’t be more proud.” business,” she said. “He always encouraged me to follow my dreams: ‘Go to business school, get your degree and go change the world.’” Originally from Atlanta, Black moved to the Omaha area with her family as a highschooler and attended college at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. “I’ve been here since my late teen years, so Omaha is very much my community,” she said. Her first post-college position was in the field of marketing and public relations, but it was some of her ancillary duties that planted the seed for planitomaha. “Part of that first job was planning some high-level events. I realized as I was doing the marketing job that I wasn’t passionate about the marketing part, but I loved the planning and event part,” she said. She discovered a kindred spirit in work colleague Brandt, and the two eventually sat down to discuss the possibilities. “We both really like this concept, we both really love event work. Let’s put our shingle out there and see what we can do,” she recalled saying. “And that was almost 19 years ago.” Extraordinary customer service Black, who still serves as senior planner in addition to her role as principal, said her team has worked hard to earn a reputation of extraordinary customer service in the competitive and demanding business-meeting and convention-planning sector. “We don’t do the private parties and birthday parties and those kinds of things; we’re really a business-to-business type of organization. We believe that because of our high level of customer service and professionalism, we truly do the best job at these services

Belief in the community Black said good corporate citizenship also enhances the positive culture of planitomaha. “We have always believed in our community and giving back,” she said. “I think we’ve always had a very philanthropic spirit while being a B-to-B organization.” planitomaha has supported organizations like Special Olympics, Children’s Hospital & Medical Center, HETRA (Heartland Equine Therapeutic Riding Academy) and Visiting Nurse Association. Not surprisingly, Black is also the current president of the board of Women’s Fund of Omaha. “What they are doing to empower and give every woman and girl a chance for improvement, a chance for success in our community, it’s an amazing organization,” she said. Black’s planning experience comes in handy at home, too. Husband Jason is the vice president and general manager of Tierpoint, and the couple have a son, Tanner, and a daughter, Avery, who are both active in sports and other activities. “We spend a lot of time with the calendar, and we just have always been able to make it work, especially since we both have business travel on our plate,” Black said. And her children are growing up seeing firsthand that women and men both can achieve tremendous career success. “We preach a lot of female empowerment in our house,” Black said.

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OMAHA CHIEF OF POLICE Todd Schmaderer serves as students who are getting into criminal justice as a career. It’s an opportunity to give the voice of the Omaha Police Department, which means the public often sees him them some knowledge and guidance as to what’s going on in our world, our profession,” stoically sharing troubling information during crisis events. But he wants people to he said. “I’ve always tried to keep that going, although it’s difficult at times. This job is know there’s another side to him, too. As Omaha’s Chief of Police since 2012, Schmaderer very, very, very busy.” is accustomed to maintaining his composure in front of the cameras and an audience. But He also strives to mentor through his daily work. he had to think on his feet in a totally new way for his debut this summer as a local “I try to inspire others by identifying their talents. If you can identify somebody’s celebrity dancer in Omaha Ballroom’s Dancing with the Omaha Stars event. talent and they can see some success in what they do, it can take them to different “I’m fairly used to the public, used to being in front of a crowd,” he said. “This is different. levels, new levels of inspiration. It will take them farther then where they think they This is definitely different. That’s where the pressure came in; I’m sure everybody was can go,” he said. “It’s a privilege to identify that talent.” wondering how I would perform on that type of stage. It was nerve-wracking for sure.” And he’s inspired by his colleagues in turn, Schmaderer said. With no prior dance experience, Schmaderer not only executed a fine East Coast “In reality I’m just one person. I have a tremendous command staff and officers swing routine to the rockabilly beat of “Jailhouse Rock” with partner and Omaha Ballroom that do the work of the Omaha Police Department who are all part of our success,” owner Elizabeth (Edwards) Colclasure – after being delivered to the dance floor in an he said. OPD vehicle with lights flashing and stepping out handcuffed and in prisoner’s stripes – he raised more money than any other competitor Making society better for Angels Among Us and The Sunshine Kids Foundation. His commitment to his work as well as the community is “It benefits children who are struggling with cancer. We based on his basic desire to help others, he said. “When I’ve have so many partners we work with in the police had people come to me with job offers, I’ve always turned department, so I just tried to use my name recognition,” “ I’ve had a tremendous them down because I have some work I want to do here. he said. “I was nervous until I got on stage and then I I’m committed to the Omaha Police Department and I career and it’s allowed me wasn’t nervous any longer. I had fun! It was definitely hope to be chief for many more years,” he said. “I’m to see every aspect of out of my comfort level but I wanted the community to driven by a sense of making an improvement in society know and see me in a different light, that I do have a fun Omaha and every sector and having a relevant commitment and relative impact side and that I am human.” on making society better.” of the city.”

“When you see positive changes it continually inspires Climbing the ranks you further,” he added. “The rank-and-file members of the Schmaderer, an Omaha native, joined the Omaha Police TODD SCHMADERER F Omaha Police Department desire to work with the community; Department 20 years ago after attending Wayne State College there has been very little coaxing on my part. The department on a football scholarship (he was a running back) and graduating recognizes that in order to reduce crime, police/community from the University of Nebraska Omaha with a degree in criminal relationships are essential. I see that as a struggle in other cities across justice. He later earned a master’s degree from the University of Cincinnati. “My dad was a police officer for 34 years for the City of Omaha, and while that always the country, so the fact that we clearly want to partner with the community is a great intrigued me, I was initially in a business program,” he said. “I decided to switch to first step.” Schmaderer also serves the community through positions on the boards of criminal justice, and a few months after I graduated I was hired by the Omaha Police several nonprofits. Department. My initial take was ‘Let’s give it a try and see if I like it.’ Once I got into it, I “One board I sit on that’s very personal to me is the Boys & Girls Clubs of the realized that the Omaha Police Department was a great place to work. There are so many Midlands. That’s a chance to be a part of something that’s making a true difference in things you could do within your career and the place was so big that you could move young people’s lives in our community,” he said. “It strikes at what I’m trying to do as around and take on different tasks.” a person, and that’s help others.” Schmaderer’s career trajectory has been on an upward path ever since. “I was able to continually get promoted all the way up to chief. I’ve had a tremendous career and it’s allowed me to see every aspect of Omaha and every sector of the city. It’s Protecting and serving his family given me a great foundation taking over as chief, knowing the city so well,” he said. He’s proud of his career and service to the community, but Schmaderer said he He’s also found his original course of study to be particularly helpful. also wants the public to know that he’s just like everyone else when it comes to family. “As you climb higher up in the ranks, you get more opportunities to use that business “I generally keep my personal life extremely personal because I have such a background,” he explained. “The police department has a $130 million budget that has public job. But I have a tremendous 16-year-old daughter and 12-year-old son. I to be run by the chief’s office. The business background has been helpful on that front.” have two of the greatest kids ever and have a great relationship with them,” he said. “I am extremely proud of my kids and what they’re doing in life and how Guiding the next generation they’re growing up.” Schmaderer said that despite the demands of his position, it’s personally important Knowing his daughter would be in the audience at his dance competition even for him to help usher in new generations of law enforcement professionals. helped motivate him through the long hours of practice. “I teach at Bellevue University in the criminal justice program, and that’s a way I “My daughter can be my greatest fan or my biggest critic, so I wanted to be sure can be involved in academic side of things and give back to the younger college I did the best I could for her,” he said.

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JEFF AND HEIDI Wilke’s courage and candor in facing tragedy Courage and grace and trials has helped them get beyond survival to a place of faith, forgiveness and After surviving rape, Heidi chose to come forward, a decision she said she has self-discovery. never regretted. It was a classic example of opposites attracting when Jeff Wilke met Heidi Hamsa “Making the choice to be very vocal about it and up-front about it, that was lifeat a wedding in 1979, or as Jeff puts it, “juxtaposition.” changing for me. In my journey with this, I’ve met quite a few people who have had “I was a greenskeeper’s kid from the other side of the tracks who was working as similar experiences that maybe aren’t as up-front about it, and really, I think that’s a janitor, and she was a princess at Aksarben whose folks helped build the state,” Jeff okay. I think you have to choose which way you’re most comfortable to go with your Wilke said. “I picked her up for our first date and took her to the zoo, and then I find situation,” she said. “What definitely helped me a lot, the first couple of months after out she’s Henry Doorly’s great-granddaughter.” this happened, in deciding how I was going to move forward was ‘You didn’t do He was nevertheless undaunted, he said. “I asked her to marry me that first anything wrong. He did.’ And being a survivor, not a victim.” weekend.” Heidi has been a source of inspiration to not only other survivors, but also “I said no,” Heidi Wilke said. her husband. “She said no because she was kind of dating a guy she thought she was “Because of Heidi’s courage, I was able to go to a therapist and say I going to marry,” Jeff responded. “I explained to her she wasn’t.” was molested as a kid…I don’t think I would have had that The couple, now married 36 years, laughed together at the courage if Heidi hadn’t had courage,” Jeff said. The couple’s memory. “Who knows what that’s all about? Our lives are later work with Project Harmony was healing as Jeff served filled with providence,” Jeff said. The Wilkes are clearly a the board with a voice of experience. “I told Heidi, solid couple with a lot of other good memories to share: While faith sustained Heidi before and after her ‘Where was God? spending time at their lake cabin in Minnesota, walking ordeal, Jeff was still on a journey to find any faith. their chocolate labs, daughter Kiley working in the Where the hell was God?’ “I told Heidi, ‘Where was God? Where the hell was family coffee shop, Heidi’s green thumb and love of And she said, ‘He was God?’ And she said, ‘He was holding my hand or I’d cooking, and visits with daughter Kristy and her wife be dead,’” Jeff said. “She believed that, and that turned holding my hand Jessica, who are parents to a three-year-old son adored my heart right there…Heidi kept talking about this by his grandparents. or I’d be dead.’” God she loved and I kept telling her about the one I hid from. So we were two different people, and I could not JEFF WILKE Survival and faith F understand the God of her understanding nor did I think I But the word “juxtaposition” can also describe the Wilkes in could create one of my own until I got to AA.” the sense that their happy life together has also had moments of In Alcoholics Anonymous, Jeff discovered his spirituality. trauma. In 2002, Heidi was abducted, robbed and raped. The aftermath “If I had not gotten a wake-up call that was rather humbling and humiliating, I triggered Jeff’s memories of being molested as a child. And five years ago, a DUI arrest might not have been able to take the drastic step of white-knuckling it through AA on his daughter’s wedding day compelled Jeff to concede that he was an alcoholic. meetings that first year to get to the second year where I actually discovered prayer “Inevitably someone says, ‘You should write a book. You should tell your story. You’ve and meditation…I found the more Eastern-type religions as I started looking into really had an interesting life.’ And I’ve looked at them and said, ‘I don’t think you understand. It’s not really interesting. It’s kind of a tragedy,” Jeff said. “But now when I the meditation part, because it says in Step 11 of AA that you seek through prayer look back, I realize they’re right. It’s been a remarkable series of events, both Heidi’s and meditation to improve your relationship with God as you understand God.” and my lives.” Most remarkable is that tragedy has given way to survival, advocacy, faith, forgiveness and self-discovery. The couple were instrumental in the founding of Methodist Hospital’s Heidi Wilke SANE/SART Survivor Program, the first of its kind in the area, which provides survivors of sexual assault with expert and compassionate emergency care and evidence collection. The Wilkes also became involved in supporting Project Harmony, an advocacy organization which helps abused and neglected children. Jeff has been clean and sober for five years. And Jeff, a long-time blood donor, was matched to a Chicago coffeehouse barista with leukemia who needed a stem-cell transplant. The procedure saved the young man’s life, and Jeff hired him to run a new family business venture, Karma Koffee. “If you look at the wall of the coffee shop, around a piece of wood, the buckeye, it says, ‘Who Am I? What do I really want? What’s my dharma/purpose? What am I grateful for?’” Jeff said. “Heidi and I have come to use those questions to govern our lives every day.”

Peace and self-discovery Jeff’s search led him to studies with Deepak Chopra, a globally recognized holistic health guru. It was Chopra who inspired the Karma Koffee name. “I think Karma Koffee has turned out to be way more than I ever thought it would be,” Heidi said. “It’s become its own little piece of peacefulness. I think it draws people in. It’s not just a coffee shop.” “It’s turned into a place of self-discovery,” Jeff said. Not to mention a metaphor for the Wilkes themselves. “We can all get better from where we are. I used to think, ‘Why me?’ and then I got to thinking ‘Well, why not?’ I’ve said it’s not easy being me, but it’s not easy being any of us.” And the tragedy in “the remarkable series of events” that is Jeff and Heidi’s lives has circled around to joy. “It just keeps getting tangled up more and more in good outcomes,” Jeff said. mQUARTERLY • NOV/DEC/JAN 2016/17

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One of the qualities of Union Pacific that appeals to Duren, Sharing wisdom she said, is its longstanding commitment to community. Duren also said she’s thankful for the support of professional colleagues and higher-ups who, through “We believe our employees should be integrated into their the years, served as “good role models” and passed on communities, that they have a responsibility to give back,” their wisdom. she explained. “We encourage that in a lot of different “The bosses that I had were my mentors, whether you’re ways: matching funds for their contributions, giving employees time to give back to whatever their passion is. talking about Jack Koraleski, who was our CEO, or Jim We think it’s important as representatives of Union Pacific Young before that, who was our chairman and CEO. And the controller when I was in accounting and people who to be visible in that way.” had supported me through my career and continued to support me as I moved on to other things,” she said. “I Supporting community Today Duren serves as executive vice president, chief think it’s easy for a person to mentor their own employees, Duren herself has been active on multiple community administrative officer and corporate secretary for the but I think I’ve been really blessed.” and industry boards—usually in leadership positions and company and oversees a long list of areas of with organizations “that focus on basic needs”— These days, she’s glad to be in a position to help others accountability including human resources, strategic including Girl Scouts Spirit of Nebraska, American Red navigate through their careers. planning, administration, and oversight of some of Cross and Children’s Hospital & Medical Center. In 2014, Union Pacific’s historic assets. She previously held a she was appointed to the Metropolitan Entertainment & “I do a lot of informal mentoring, particularly for our variety of positions in the finance and marketing Convention Authority (MECA) board by Mayor Jean new female executives; I try to stay close to that,” she and sales departments, including vice president and Stothert. said. “A lot of these women coming up through the general manager. organization worked for me in one capacity or another “It’s a slightly different role for me, but I think it is and I have a vested interest in making sure they’re “Part of my success was the work ethic I received from my important for the vibrancy of the community; MECA has successful. I think mentoring is a two-way street; you parents and family,” Duren said. “We’ve had great times been really successful in making Omaha—particularly can get feedback on your performance, well as help them understand their impact.” and difficult times as a company, but I have been willing downtown—what it is today. I was at Creighton in the late ‘70s, and if I look out my window, it’s impressive to to work hard, put in time and be creative about things.” Duren is as committed to her family as she is to her career see all the development that has taken place.” and community. She and husband Drew Collier, a retired Building America railroad executive, have been married 11 years, and have Giving back is also important to professional After graduating from Creighton University with a four sons ages 22 to 31. With a large extended family, development, she said, and should be expected at the bachelor’s degree in business administration, Duren executive level. Duren has been honored by the Women’s hosting a Sunday dinner may mean preparing for as worked four years as a certified public accountant for a many as 25 people, but Duren is up for the challenge. “I Center for Advancement at its annual Tribute to Women major accounting firm. In 1985, she joined Union Pacific’s event, recognized by Profiles in Diversity Journal as one of like to cook and we like to entertain,” she said. accounting department. its “Women Worth Watching” and by professional In fact, despite her many achievements, she’s still up for women’s magazine Pink as one of the top 15 women in the challenge professionally, too. “After about six years I moved into marketing because I business, and awarded the Creighton University College wanted to better understand the railroad. I ended up of Business Alumni Merit Award. “I’ve been in my current role a little over three years and I spending 22 years in marketing and sales,” Duren said. have no formal human resources training and education; “Our vision is ‘Building America’ and it is absolutely true. “The experiences I have had and the relationships I’ve however, I’ve always been passionate about developing We move the commodities and products that are developed over time have opened doors in terms of teams. Not only is what you achieve important, but so is important for our daily life, whether it’s food, the further philanthropic opportunities. It also gives you how you achieve it,” she said. “We’ve created a talent chemicals we need to treat our water, or coal for opportunities to observe CEOs in their role and bringing management program called Core Connect and it really is electricity generation; and if you look at the development women through those organizations. It’s important in about making sure every individual has the opportunity terms of your own development, to find your passion in particularly of the western United States, it was to develop to the best of their capabilities. Good things terms of what you want to give.” flow from engaging employees.” populated along the railroad tracks.” IS A RITE OF PASSAGE FOR MANY MIDWESTERN RURAL TEENS, BUT IT’S EXTREMELY ARDUOUS WORK AND COLUMBUS, NEBRASKA, NATIVE DIANE DUREN STUCK WITH IT FOR FIVE SEASONS. IT MAY HAVE BEEN JUST A SUMMER JOB FOR HER FOUR DECADES AGO, BUT IT WAS ALSO AN EARLY INDICATOR OF DUREN’S INNATE SENSE OF COMMITMENT AND CONSCIENTIOUS ENGAGEMENT, CHARACTERISTICS THAT HAVE BEEN THE HALLMARK OF HER STELLAR 30-YEAR CAREER WITH UNION PACIFIC.

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DR. KEN BIRD, KAITLYN FITZGERALD HONORED AS

120th King And Queen of AKSARBEN LONGTIME EDUCATOR DR. KENNETH M. BIRD AND DESIGN STUDENT ELIZABETH “KAITLYN” FITZGERALD WERE CROWNED 120TH KING AND QUEEN OF AKSARBEN DURING THE AKSARBEN CORONATION & SCHOLARSHIP BALL, SATURDAY, OCT. 15 AT BAXTER ARENA. The new monarchs and their families share a dedication to education and community service, two hallmarks of the AKSARBEN Foundation.

The Birds have three sons, Tab Bouc (Debbie), Chris Bouc (Staci) and Mike Bird (Karen) and six grandchildren: Jacob, Joshua, Parker, Van, Kacey and Korey. Chris was an AKSARBEN Escort in 1996 and Mike in 1998. “This is truly way beyond anything I ever dreamed I would be a part of,” Dr. Bird said in his acceptance speech. “My early goals were to graduate from high school and then to follow in my father’s footsteps and become a welder. I never dreamed of the path I would end up taking or anything like this.

After graduation next May, she will stay in New York to work under a designer while establishing her own clothing brand. Kaitlyn has displayed her fashions during three Omaha Fashion Week shows, and has presented during Los Angeles Fashion Week. She debuted her fashions while a student at Duchesne Academy. Her love of creativity also carries into her volunteerism. In the summer of 2016, Kaitlyn volunteered for “Free Arts NYC” that provides underserved children with educational arts and mentoring programs.

The Mardi Gras inspired ceremony attended by more than 1,600 also formally introduced the 2016 Court of “What an unbelievably lucky guy I am, and that luck is Quivira, honoring more than 100 Nebraska and In her acceptance speech, Kaitlyn gave special western Iowa families and celebrating 50 AKSARBEN what I want for all the youth of our Heartland, and recognition to her family. this is what I know AKSARBEN wants, too.” / Horatio Alger State Scholarship recipients and 195 AKSARBEN / Horatio Alger Career Scholarship “Thank you for always showing me the importance of recipients selected in 2016. AKSARBEN Foundation Honoring the New Queen caring, and teaching me that you should define your awards over $1 million annually in scholarships to Honor has been bestowed upon the new Queen and life by what you give, not by what you get. Thank you deserving Heartland youth who are overcoming her family for longstanding volunteerism and for being incredible role models.” financial need and adversity. support of AKSARBEN’s efforts to raise critical funds for scholarships. Court of Honor Members Inducted Congratulations to the New King In addition to crowning of the new monarchs, the Dr. Bird is president and CEO of Avenue Scholars Kaitlyn Fitzgerald, daughter of William Tate and Coronation & Scholarship Ball formally inducted Foundation and a former Westside Community Denise Fitzgerald, attends Parsons School of Design at three AKSARBEN Court of Honor members. Schools superintendent. Avenue Scholars is a nonthe New School in New York City, where she is Added posthumously to the Court of Honor, which profit program designed to ensure careers for majoring in fashion design. recognizes Nebraska and western Iowa community students of hope and need through education and supportive relationships. Her father, an executive at Mutual of Omaha Bank, is service, were the Rev. Ty and Terri Schenzel. The couple, who died in an August 2015 car accident, chairman of the Nebraska Methodist College board spent their lives helping others and founded the Throughout his distinguished career, Dr. Bird has and on the executive committee of the Madonna received numerous accolades including the 1998 School. Her mother, the former Denise Wenger, is co- Hope Center for Kids, which offers year-round programs of faith, education, employment, nutrition Nebraska Superintendent of the Year, the Nebraska owner of the local gift boutique, On a Whim and and recreation. Council of School Administrators’ Distinguished president of the St. Wenceslaus School advisory Service Award, University of Nebraska-Lincoln committee. Her parents are co-chairs of the Also inducted to the Court of Honor was Judy Varner, Teachers College David W. Hutcheson Award for Archbishop’s Dinner for Education. who retired this year as President and CEO of the Distinguished Service to Education, University of Nebraska Humane Society. Nebraska at Omaha Department of Education There are strong historic connections to the Distinguished Alumni Award, and Friend of the AKSARBEN Foundation and the Coronation & During Varner’s 18-year tenure, the Nebraska Horace Man League Award. Scholarship Ball on both sides of Kaitlyn’s family Humane Society grew from an outdated building to a dating back seven decades. Among these, her aunt full campus encompassing four buildings totaling Dr. Bird and his wife, Ann “Annie” C. Bird, have Kelli Draper was Queen in 1988 and her greatmore than 100,000 square feet and 13 acres. NHS has devoted their lives to education and share a strong grandfather William F. Fitzgerald was King in 1976. successfully completed several capital campaigns for commitment to building the Heartland through improvements, established a Foundation to manage leadership roles and volunteerism. She had a 40-year A recipient of the Deans’ Scholarship all four years, and increase the endowment fund, totaling Kaitlyn recently received the Reed Krakoff for Coach career in speech pathology. Both serve on numerous approximately $12 million to date, and implemented Scholarship. She is one of 15 Parsons students chosen numerous new programs to benefit the animals and boards in the community are current chairs of the to show a collection in the Fusion Fashion Show. the community. United Way of the Midlands Campaign.

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oment? What's your favorite 'Andee Hoig' m

he said • she said My answer: Changes! As many of us know, 25 years ago, Andee Hoig embarked on a journey to transform the way Omahans get information on things like charity events, the local fashion scene, culture, art and general human interest stories. That journey has grown into one of the most vital components in Omaha’s philanthropic community. Mary and I have had the pleasure of getting to know her well over the last 6 years. We’ve shared many jokes and discussions. These days, I feel comfortable enough referring to Andee Hoig as “The Pub”. After all, she’s an award winning publisher, not only for mQUARTERLY, but for The Giving Guide & Event Book and 101 Things to Love About the metro™. I also used to refer to “Andee”, as “Andy”. About five years ago, she came strolling in for her regular Morning Blend segment. We usually have about 3 minutes to get her microphone on, get her seated and catch up on our lives over the previous couple of weeks. On this particular day, she told us that she was likely going to change her pen name spelling, amending the end of her first name from the “y” to “ee”, now used in all of her publications. The wonderful trait about Andee, is that she is always looking to improve herself personally, professionally and spiritually. She’s never satisfied, and constantly looking to grow. I recall her spelling change explanation relating back to professional and philosophical growth. We may have to get a more formal explanation on a future television segment. I never quite understood the alteration. It was even a point of discussion in our 2012 roast when Andee and her father, Bob, were honored at the Press Club’s Faces on the Ballroom Floor. Mary and I were fortunate enough to speak during the event. We made sure everyone knew that she had made some “changes” in her life. “The Pub” may be a regular guest on The Morning Blend, but she’s also become a friend. I expect more fun surprises in our pre-segment discussions. Believe ME!

~ Mike DiGiacamo

My answer: Dancing With The Omaha Stars. This event isn’t like most. For the dancers, it’s a real commitment. They rehearse with their partners for weeks. Most competitors have never danced anywhere (unless you count Arthur’s back in the day). They really test their limits. Over the years, several friends have given it a shot. When I’d ask about rehearsals, there were often groans about what hurt and how difficult the routines were, and how nervous they were about performing in front of hundreds of strangers. When I asked Andee Hoig about her rehearsals, she lit up like the 4th of July! She was genuinely excited about some of the tricks and moves she had learned. Was it still challenging? Sure! But she embraced it wholeheartedly. When you’re trying to buy alcohol or rent a car, age matters. But generally in life, I think attitude trumps the year you’re born. But that’s not to gloss over one thing, which fueled Andee’s interest in participating in Dancing With The Omaha Stars: Turning 50. This wasn’t the first year Andee was invited to dance, but it was this milestone birthday that helped her decide to go for it! Andee was radiant in her rhinestone-encrusted, electric pink dress! Her heart must have been racing, but she showed no signs of nerves. She twisted and turned, as her smile lit up Ralston Arena! The crowd cheered. Dozens of supporters shook pink pom poms during the performance, and well into the judges’ commentary. Andee had executed her routine beautifully! She didn’t win the competition, but that mattered to no one. Andee set a terrific example that night! This wasn’t her comfort zone. This wasn’t easy. This wasn’t innate. This wasn’t effortless. For those reasons and countless more, this was completely meaningful. It was even transformative, which is a feat for a woman who’s constantly evolving!

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MARY E. VANDENACK Mary Vandenack, while a lawyer by profession, has studied extensively in mind/body areas of fitness and wellness. She is Yoga Alliance RYT-200, Power Pilates certified and ACE certified.

update: MINDFULNESS revisited MINDFULNESS-BASED STRESS REDUCTION~ Thích Nhất Hạnh

I’ve been a mindfulness practitioner in some form for many years but have most recently been studying the mindfulness-based stress reduction program from the University of Massachusetts Medical Center. Jon Kabat Zinn has done a significant amount of work in developing this program. His definition of mindfulness is “Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; On purpose, in the present moment, and nonjudgmentally. I began my study of the Kabat Zinn’s mindfulness work while going through a personal illness, family disruption and business challenges all at the same time. I really struggled with the “nonjudgmental” aspect of Zinn’s definition. Frankly, I was angry about all that was going on. I would sit and seek to focus on my breath and notice my thoughts non-judgmentally but would feel the anger rise. Rather than finding peace, I would let loose a mental dialogue that included thoughts such as “Are you freaking kidding me? I am ticked. And you want me to be non-judgmental.” As a result of my inability to find non-judgment, I began to feel like a total failure at mindfulness. About then, a friend of mine sent me a link to a video titled with an expletive about mindfulness. Given that was how I was feeling, I watched that video several times and tracked down what is called “An Honest Guide to Mindfulness.” I found I wasn’t alone in struggling with non-judgment and wanting to say certain words rather than focus my breath. I didn’t want to be sick. I wanted my family members to be well. And I wanted a little less business stress. “This is too much” and “this is making me mad” and “are you kidding” were thoughts that lived in my mind no matter how hard I sought to practice being mindful. Fortunately, I discussed my struggles with someone who coaches mindfulness. She said, “Actually, it sounds like you are doing a great job of

being present in the moment. You seem very aware of what is going on and how you are feeling about it. Just keep focusing on your breath.” Ah, that’s it…Mindfulness means “paying attention”, “being in the present moment”, and returning attention to the breath. I decided to drop “nonjudgmentally” off the definitioin. And of course, as soon as I did that, my struggle stopped. Mindfulness starts very simply with attention to the breath. If you are paying attention to your breath, you are in the present moment. The present moment may be full of significant life events and lots of thoughts and feelings related to those events. The key is focusing on the breath and staying connected to the events, thoughts, and feelings of this moment. Maybe non-judgment will come. It often does for me eventually but I no longer seek non-judgment in life moments that are filled with stress and turbulence. Maybe peace will come. Maybe I will feel a lesser sense of suffering related to my life events. Maybe I will learn how to dance in the rain. But what matters most of all is simply being present in this moment and attending to the breath that I am taking at this moment so that I can experience life as it is with all of its varying experiences – even when I prefer that my experiences would be other than they are at the moment. If I continue to focus on returning to my breath, no matter what is happening, at the minimum, I am able to find acceptance. It isn’t always the same day. It sometimes comes and goes. But the more I practice, the more I do find those moments. Focus on YOUR breath at this moment. Touch something near you and notice the sensation. As you eat or drink later today, be totally aware of the experience.

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Matt Darling is Vice President of Donor Services at the Omaha Community Foundation

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Today’s youth are growing up in a world dramatically different than that of their parents and grandparents. In this fast-paced digital age, it can seem daunting to figure out how to introduce our children to the complex issues facing society and begin teaching them the concept of thinking beyond their own needs. However, there are several simple activities that can help you begin exploring your child’s charitable interests and imparting the value of giving back.

care about. As children get older, you can even partner with local organizations, such as the Omaha Community Foundation, to provide a bit more structure for your child’s philanthropy by establishing a youth giving account, where your child can access tools and resources to assist them in their giving.

Volunteering: Volunteering together can be a wonderful way to introduce children to a wide array of charitable causes. Whether it’s a food pantry, animal rescue, or disaster relief organization, kids learn a great deal about themselves and others through sharing their time in service of an organization’s mission. Donating time together can trigger meaningful conversation about what is important to family members and can lay the foundation for family giving traditions moving forward.

Collective Giving: Part of the joy of giving comes from sharing the experience with others. Whenever possible, encourage your child to integrate giving into their existing activities and celebrations. Whether it is hosting their birthday party and donating the gifts to charity, or organizing their scouting troop’s service project, there are countless occasions that can expose them to giving and allow them to share their passion for a project with peers.

Non-Cash Donations: Beyond giving their time, children can also give through donation of items that they are no longer using. Clothing, toys, and books can be incredibly useful to those in need. If possible, get your child involved in selecting the items they wish to donate and have the child go with you to drop the items off at the charity. This offers time together to discuss the impact of their donation, and is a much more valuable experience to the child than simply having a parent clean out their closet.

It is never too soon to begin planting the seeds of philanthropy in your child’s life. By modeling some of these habits from an early age and building simple opportunities into their everyday endeavors, children can learn that there are ways both large and small that they can share their time, talent, treasure, and ties to do their part in making the world a better place.

Charitable Budget: You can teach your children the importance–and rewards–of philanthropy as soon as they’re old enough to have a piggy bank. Try giving them a charitable allowance, money that they get to set aside and save for a cause that they

For more information on youth giving, or to set up a youth giving account for a special young person in your life, contact us at (402) 342-3458 or www.omahafoundation.org.

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serving all

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BUILDING giving WITH YOUR STRENGTHENING THE COMMUNITY for 150 years For 150 years the YMCA of Greater Omaha has been committed to strengthening the community through programs and services that promote youth development, healthy living and social responsibility. We provide life-changing first experiences for all. Confidence. Friendship. Accomplishment. Belonging. This commitment has existed since the YMCA’s inception and expresses our mission to put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy spirit, mind and body for all. The history of the YMCA of Greater Omaha is filled with promise, progress and hope. In the mid to late 1800s, Omaha was a rough and tumble town with more saloons than schools. There was a need for a safe place for migrants, immigrants and new residents to feel welcomed, supported and strengthened. Into the void stepped the YMCA. George Frost was a purchasing agent for Union Pacific when he formed the first YMCA Association in Omaha in 1866. A local businessman named L.S. Reed was made secretary and librarian. From a one-time saloon and former engine house at 12th and Farnam streets, the YMCA began its work. The Y took to the streets, offering religious instruction to young men in boarding houses, on riverboats and in jails. It soon became necessary for the Y to offer Bible studies and Christian living classes in outposts at houses, storefronts and churches across the city. By 1908, it had constructed new headquarters at 17th and Harney Streets. Over the years, the YMCA of Greater Omaha continued to evolve to support

community growth and change, adding career seminars to their programming in an effort to equip young men with skills to succeed. With an influx of immigrants arriving in Omaha in the late 1800s, the Y responded by offering citizenship and language classes to Japanese, Greek and North European mean. These classes empowered young men to not only assimilate, but excel in their new communities. Always committed to improving health, the YMCA offered a place for physical activity and involvement. From playing the Nebraska Cornhuskers in their first football game in 1890 to leading many men’s volleyball teams to championship titles, the Y became established as a local leader in healthy living. Youth development, while always a staple of our mission, expanded at the turn of the 20th century with Camp Sheldon, Indian Guides and youth memberships. Over the years, the Y became the go-to place for Omaha community children to partake in youth sports and swim lessons. Social responsibility has always been the foundation of the Y’s mission. Today the Y supports men, women and children of all walks of life; from the littlest learners in their first classroom environment, to teenagers in need of a strong support system, to the active older adult looking for companionship. Our annual Strong Communities Campaign provides financial assistance to all people, so everyone has the opportunity to thrive. The Y is for all to be strong. To be confident. To belong. Here’s to the next 150 years. Check out the YMCA of Greater Omaha’s history in greater detail by visiting the Durham Museum’s YMCA exhibit, open through January 8, 2017.

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planning matters

• WITH HVW LAW

discounting rules FOR family LIMITED PARTNERSHIPS ARE BEING REVISED

Creating a family limited partnership (FLP) or limited liability company (LLC) has been a longstanding method of organizing and transferring wealth from one generation to the next. There are a variety of good reasons to consider consolidating various properties into one entity (or a holding entity). One reason for consolidating properties into an entity is that it is easier to transfer FLP or LLC units to beneficiaries than to transfer individual interests in property. For example, assume that the owner of several parcels of valuable land wants to begin transferring that land to her beneficiaries. Also assume that the owner wants to use her annual exclusion from gift taxes to make the transfers. That amount is currently $14,000 per year. If the owner simply transfers partial interests in the land to her

beneficiaries, the land ownership will get fairly convoluted quickly. If instead, the owner transfers the land to an FLP or LLC, she can remain in control of the entity (and thus the land) and can transfer non-voting units. She can also facilitate an agreement among the beneficiaries about how interests in (and liquidation of) the entity will ultimately occur.

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To the extent that an the owner in the example above has estate tax issues, the FLP or LLC offered the opportunity to apply discounting when valuing the FLP or the LLC interests. Applying valuation discounts resulted in “leveraged gifting.” Essentially, assume the FLP or LLC as a whole is worth $1,000,000. The owner decides to transfer 1% to each of her five children. Based on gross value, each interest would be worth $10,000; however discounting strategies would result in the a lesser valuation for certain types of interests. When the owner transfers a one percent non-voting interest, the recipient beneficiary has a minority interest. Additionally, the interest might be non-marketable due to restrictions on the ability to transfer the units. As a result of the various restrictions and lack of marketability, the interest being transferred might be valued at $6,500 after applying valuation discounts. The Internal Revenue Service has recently issued proposed regulations that significantly impact the ability to use valuation discount strategies. The proposed regulations create a term called “disregarded restrictions.” The regulations seek to disregard (and override various court decisions) many forms of restrictions that were previously considered to have a negative impact on the value of FLP or LLC units for estate or gift tax purposes. For those taxpayers with no estate tax exposure, the good news is some families will have higher income tax bases related to inheritances subject to these rules. For those taxpayers subject to estate tax and using an FLP or LLC strategy, time is of the essence in terms of reviewing the structure and strategy of the FLP or LLC from the estate tax perspective.

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open enrollment period for health insurance purchased on the individual market is HERE and now is the time to act! For 2017, the open enrollment period runs from November 1, 2016 through January 31, 2017. The individual market includes policies purchased through the health insurance marketplace (www.healthcare.gov) and those purchased directly from insurance companies. As a reminder, under the Affordable Care Act (ACA), if you are a legal resident of the U.S. and don’t have health insurance, you will probably have to pay a fine. In 2016, the penalties for not having health insurance are the maximum of $695 per person or 2.5% of your household income for each person not having health insurance. (At the writing of this article, the IRS had not yet released the 2017 penalties.) If you are self-employed, your employer does not offer coverage, or if you would like to see if you can obtain lower cost coverage, open enrollment is your time to do so. If you are eligible for premium tax credits (lower premiums) and cost sharing assistance (lower copays, deductibles and out of pocket expenses), you will need to apply for coverage through the Marketplace. Both Nebraska and Iowa utilize the federal marketplace, which can be accessed at www.healthcare.gov. You might be eligible for premium tax credits if you meet certain conditions: your employer does not offer you a medical plan that meets ACA requirements, you are not eligible for Medicaid or Medicare and you make less than four times the Federal Poverty Level (FPL). In 2016, the FPL is $11,770 for a one-person household and $24,250 for a four-person household. If you are purchasing your plan through the individual market, there are critical dates within open enrollment you need to know: • November 1, 2016: Open enrollment begins. If you would like to enroll in a health plan or change the health plan you had in 2016, you can make those changes now. Any plan changes or new enrollments will be effective January 1, 2017 at the earliest. • December 15, 2016: This is the last day for enrollments to be effective January 1, 2016. • December 31, 2016: If you had coverage in 2016, this is the last day for the 2016 plan. Most carriers automatically renew 2016 plans as of January 1, 2017, but there might be changes to the benefits. • January 15, 2017: This is the last day to apply for coverage for an effective date of February 1, 2017. • January 31, 2017: This is the last day you can apply for 2017 coverage. If you apply on this day, your coverage will probably begin on March 1, 2107. For most people, open enrollment is the ONE time a year to enroll in health insurance through the Marketplace or the individual market. Generally, if you miss open enrollment, you cannot enroll in coverage again until open enrollment 2018. Some individuals may be eligible for a ‘Special Enrollment Period’ (SEP). A SEP occurs if you lose coverage or experience a change in your family structure, such as losing employersponsored coverage, getting divorced/married, having a baby/adopting a child or losing coverage through your parents’ plan on your 26th birthday. You have 60 days after a SEP to enroll in individual market coverage. If you are purchasing your health insurance this year on the individual market, make sure you review your options during open enrollment. Timing is everything - this could be your one chance this year to get health insurance! For more information, please contact your trusted advisor at Swartzbaugh-Farber – ‘Client Centered – Client Advocates™’. This material is intended for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal or tax advice and is not intended to replace the advice of a qualified attorney, tax advisor or plan provider. Securities Offered through M Holdings Securities, Inc., a Registered Broker Dealer, Member FINRA/SIPC. Swartzbaugh-Farber & Associates, Inc. is independently owned and operated.

AND UP AT NIGHT! HALLOWEEN and the activities associated with it is just behind us. ‘Tis the season of ghosts, goblins and make believe fears. While we all may stephanie vondrak d.d.s.

enjoy these fantasies and diversions, there is nothing enjoyable about facing our real fears, many of which are deeply embedded and disempowering. Imaginary threats are one thing, there is a true-to-life threat loudly looming in many bedrooms, just as invisible and deadly as any imaginary “spook” yet very real, very serious, and incredibly disuptive. This noisy disruptive boogie-man is your undiagnosed and untreated sleeping disorder, known as sleep apnea! In my experience, individuals report Three Common Fears as to why they suffer without seeking help: Fear #3: The Sleep Study! The thought of sleeping in a strange bed hooked to wires and probes is enough to prevent many from seeking help. How to cure this Fear… Many dental-health professionals do as we do at Vondrak Dental, offering a simple in-home sleep study equipment called the Watch Pat. This small device wraps around your wrist like a watch and records your sleep from the comfort of your cozy bed. Cost effective and easy, your dentalcare team can communicate the results of your home sleep study in conitnuous collaboration with your physician, avoiding the need for further testing. Fear #2: The Diagnosis!What does Sleep Apnea mean? Sleep Apnea is diagnosed by recording the number of pauses in breathing (hypopneas) or cessations of breathing (apneas) that occur during sleep every hour throughout the night. The number of events (pauses or stopping breathing) then determines the severity of the diagnosis, Mild, Moderate or Severe Sleep Apnea. Effected individuals are exhausted upon waking often struggling to find the energy to get through each day. Likewise, the body of an undiagnosed apneic is under severe stress increasing the risk of heart attack, stroke and cancer as well as depression, decreased sex drive, inability to lose weight and more. Fear #1: Number One Scary Idea, The Cpap Machine!The conversation in my office usually goes something like this…”Mr. Jones, I am concerned by the damage (wear) I see on your teeth. Tell me, how do you sleep at night?” His reply: “Terrible. I am always tired.” My response, “Sorry to hear that, but I may be able to help. The damage on your teeth and your exhaustion is likely related to a sleeping disorder called Sleep Apnea. The good news is we can send you home with our Watch Pat machine, test you and make you a sleep appliance so you can breathe and feel rested.” His response: “Great! As long as I don’t have to wear a Cpap…I will do it!” Sleep Appliances like the one pictured here are designed to prevent your lower jaw from falling back maintaining a patent (open) airway during sleep. Each appliance is custom made and monitored for several months to ensure maximum medical improvement. If you are concerned you or someone you love may have sleep apnea, please contact our office.

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AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY HOPE IN THE HEARTLAND GALA

OMAHA FASHION WEEK

AMERICAN HEART ASSOCIATION OMAHA GO RED FOR WOMEN EXPO

NEBRASKA CHILDREN AND FAMILIES FOUNDATION CHANGEMAKERS 2016

HEART MINISTRY CENTER INC. HOLY SMOKES

METRO AREA YOUTH FOUNDATION, INC. SUMMER BASH FOR CHILDHOOD CANCER

SENIOR HEALTH FOUNDATION TASTE OF FLORENCE

OMAHA HOME FOR BOYS IMAGINE OUR YOUTH GALA

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Running American Cancer Society Hope in the Heartland Gala When: July 22 Where: Baxter Arena Why: Proceeds to benefit the American Cancer Society and the Nebraska Hope Lodge Sponsors: Methodist, Union Pacific, Fred & Pamela Buffett Cancer Center, Deloitte, TD Ameritrade, Wells Fargo, Oriental Trading Company, Valmont, Bank of the West, Burlington Capital, Carlson West Povondra Architects, CHI Health, Gavilon, Kiewit, Nebraska Cancer Specialists, Travel and Transport Caterer: 7M, Beacon Hills, B&G Tasty Foods, Freddy’s, Jason’s Deli, Ragazzi’s Pizza, Sullivan’s Steakhouse Attendance: 250 Amount Raised: $179,000 Mission: The American Cancer Society is a nationwide, community-based voluntary health organization dedicated to eliminating cancer as a major health problem. About: The American Cancer Society provides information, day-to-day help, and emotional support to people with cancer and their families. We want to help you get well. And our help is free. Our vision is a world free from the pain and suffering of cancer. From research to education, prevention to diagnosis, and treatment to recovery, we provide support to everyone impacted by cancer. For more Information: 402.398.0762 | cancer.org

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Omaha Fashion Week Omaha Fashion Week When: August 22-27

NICK AND BROOK HUDSON

BREANNE REIS WITH NICK AND BROOK HUDSON

Where: Omaha Design Center Why: On the inside, Omaha Fashion Week is a talent incubator that seamlessly connects designers, stylists, photographers, artists and models through nurturing platforms and engaging opportunities. On the outside, Omaha Fashion Week is Midwest’s premier fashion event, spotlighting fashion innovations and celebrating creative excellence. Designers in this showcase represented the best of OFW. They were selected through Rack Check. At Rack Check, designers presented their final collections to our panel and had one last interview. The highest scores at Rack Check represented the finale line up.

GOOKY COLLECTION

Sponsors: SAC Federal Credit Union, Borsheims, Cadillac, Pretty In Patina, Develop Model Management, KETV, metroMAGAZINE, Cutchall Management Caterer: Brandeis Catering, Attitude on Food, Patricia’s Catering, Catering Creations, Contemporary Food Management, Inc. Attendance: 4,500

KARI BULGRIN, BRANDI PETERSEN AND MELISSA RYAN

DAVID SCOTT AND RICK CAREY

MARY STEINFELDT, LISA SCHRAGER, CATHY AND BOB HANEY

JOHN, ISABELLA AND MELISSA DAHIR

For more Information: 402.880.8035 | omahafashionweek.com

JUSTIN AND SARA KOHLL

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About: Omaha Fashion Week is celebrating nine years in 2016! During that time, we’ve grown into the nation’s fifth largest fashion event, supporting more independent fashion designers than any other organization in the region. Omaha Fashion Week is a glamorous red carpet event for a good cause. We nurture the youngest of fashion designers by providing mentoring, education opportunities, and a professional platform to showcase their work.Omaha Fashion Week is excited to celebrate our 10 Year Anniversary in August 2017.

BRIDGET BUMGARDNER AND NICK HUFF

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Smokin’ Heart Ministry Center Inc. Holy Smokes When: August 25

SUE SELDE, MARTHA TODD AND JOYCE JOHNSON

ANNE KUTILEK, FR. TOM FANGMAN AND STEVE KUTILEK

Where: Anthony’s Restaurant Why: To Benefit The Center and helping those it serves have access to food, clothing, health care and a way forward. Sponsors: Dan and Laura Monen, Jack and Stephanie Koraleski, Arkfeld Wealth Strategies, Gregg & Sharon Classen, Nebraska Medicine, Mike and MaryJo Dahir, Simmonds Family Foundation, Rick Crotty and Edith Peebles, Pam Finn and Kevin Jackson, Richard Hunt and Maureen Fitzgerald, Mike and Susan Lebens, Dennis and Diana Walker

DAN MONEN, JIM CLEMENTS AND LAURA MONEN

NANCY MURPHY, JON BAKER AND BECKY APP

Event Planner: Julie Dewitt Marketing & Consulting Attendance: 650 Amount Raised: $350,000 Mission: Providing food, clothing, healthcare and a way forward to people severely affected by poverty in the Omaha area.

EMILY AND JON GNUYEN WITH ALICIA AND TIM MCTAGGART

CATHY JENKINS WALSH, HELEN JENKINS, IRMA BYAM AND CATHY MATT

LISA SEEMANN AND LISA MERIDITH

PAM FINN, FR. TOM FANGMAN AND JIM CLEMENTS

DAN WALKER AND LEIGH SHEA

For more Information: 402.451.2321 | heartministrycenter.org

MELISSA DAHIR AND ISABELLA DAHIR

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SUMMER Days Metro Area Youth Foundation, Inc. Summer Bash for Childhood Cancer When: August 27 Where: Ramada Inn & Plaza, Omaha

AL PENNER, ALEX LOPEZ AND WALT KEAST

HAL AND MARY DAUB WITH MARIE AND DOC SIMMONS

Why: Raise funds to assist families with children fighting cancer Special Guests: • Dr. Lee and Marie Simmons • Hal and Mary Daub Sponsors: Prime Time Healthcare, PayPal, Optimist Club of Council Bluffs Foundation, Ag Processing, BAT Logistics, James Family Foundation, Suzanne & Walter Scott Foundation, Edson Bridges, Optimist Club of Omaha

ALEX, ALEX, BECKY AND SEBASTIAN LOPEZ

Attendance: 400+ Amount Raised: $160,000 + Mission: Raise funds to assist families with children fighting cancer and to support organizations that provide care and comfort to those families as well.

JILL AND LEVERNE HAYES

KORY KRAMER AND MEGHAN LEWIS

About: Metro Area Youth Foundation is comprised of Optimist Clubs and their members from Western Nebraska and Eastern Iowa, The Foundation is operated by Optimist Club members who donate their time and effort to this worthy cause. MAYF has assisted over 400 families in the past 10 years thanks to the public’s generous donations. For more Information: 402.510.4083 | SummerBashforCCC.org

RICH AND KATE GILLOON

JERRY AND PAT KELLER

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BECKY AND LARRY WEAK

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LOADS OF Red! American Heart Association Omaha Go Red For Women Expo When: August 30 Where: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Why: Heart disease is No. 1 killer of women in the United States, claiming the lives of one in three women. The national Go Red For Women movement, sponsored by Macy’s, aims to change that statistic. Proceeds from the Go Red For Women Expo fund not only groundbreaking scientific research but also public health education and professional training throughout the state. In 2015, the American Heart Association funded $2.3 million in research in Nebraska alone.

KEVIN HARKER, JENNIFER REDMOND, DIANE DUREN, DREW COLLIER AND CAMERON SCOTT

Attendance: 750

KAYLA THOMAS, MARY NELSON, JENNIFER ZEPPELIN AND JENNIFER GRISWOLD

MICHAEL AND LISA BOCKMAN WITH BETTY MCLAUGHLIN, RAELEEN JUSTICE AND DENISE TROUT

Amount Raised: Nearly $400,000 Mission: Our mission is to build healthier lives, free of cardiovascular diseases and stroke.

WENDY MOORE, JUDY CLARK AND DIAN WARREN

MARY GENE WEPFER, RACHEL THOMPSON AND LOYCEE O’DANIEL

About: The American Heart Association is devoted to saving people from heart disease and stroke – America’s No. 1 and No. 5 killers. We team with millions of volunteers to fund innovative research, fight for stronger public health policies, and provide lifesaving tools and information to prevent and treat these diseases. The Dallas-based association is the nation’s oldest and largest voluntary organization dedicated to fighting heart disease and stroke. To learn more or to get involved, call 1-800-AHA-USA1, visit heart.org or call any of our offices around the country. For more Information: OmahaGoRedForWomen.org

AMANDA COURY, ANNE MAINA, JENNY MICKELIUNAS AND AMY RYAN

STEPHANIE HARLAN AND MONIKA JOHANNSEN

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Liberation Rejuvenating Women Beautifully Broken, The Key to Freedom Banquet When: September 1

BRAD AND BEKA DOOLITTLE

ARDYNE SOLOMON, MICHA SOLOMON AND JULIE SHRADER

Where: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Why: Raised money for the first and only home in Nebraska for girls who have been under the control of a person or group of people for financial gain. Attendance: 433 Amount Raised: $111,745

ASHLEE STANGER AND BRITTANY ZIPPERLEN

AMANDA MCGILL JOHNSON, DAWN WALKENHORST AND MALISSA SCHLIEMAN

About: Rejuvenating women is a faith-based, non-profit organization committed to providing hope and restoration to those enslaved in human trafficking. We are committed to developing relationships with the girls and women who are deeply wounded by being a victim of human trafficking by loving each and every girl right where she is at…without conditions or judgement. Mission: Together Freedom. Providing hope and restoration to victims and survivors of human trafficking. For more Information: 402.522.6811 | www.rejuvenatingwomen.com

JULIE SHRADER WITH NANCY AND MIKE LUDWICK

DR. DAVE AND KATIE MACK WITH DENA STEMM

BREANNA MIELSEN, BARBARA MALLORY AND MICHELLE DIRKS

MELISSA TITUS, MEREDITH KLEIN AND DIANNE ROWLAND

MATT AND ALEXANDRA CADE WITH NICK AND KAYLA FAILLA

JESSICA AND MICHAEL COGSWELL WITH COLLETTE STEMM AND BRYAN HOHENSTEIN

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Taste

Senior Health Foundation Taste of Florence When: September 11

EDUARDO CORTES, COLIN KIRKE AND ENZO ZURLO

JUSTIN WAYNE, REP. BRAD ASHFORD AND DAN ESCH

WHERE: Florence Home Healthcare, Omaha WHY: Taste of Florence was a food festival featuring 15 of Omaha’s finest restaurants put on by Senior Health Foundation supporting our mission of caring for the seniors in our community. This was the first annual Taste of Florence Food Festival and it was a smashing success. Look out for the 2nd Annual Taste of Florence in September of 2017! Special Guests: Andee Hoig, Congressman Brad Ashford, Johnny Rodgers, Senior Health Foundation Board

PONCA HILLS FIRE AND RESCUE

BECKY, MATT, ALEXIS AND WESTON FEHRMAN

Sponsors: American National Bank, AON, Simmonds Family Foundation, Union Pacific, US Bank, Mutual of Omaha Bank, Zaiss Company, Lund Companies, Seim Johnson, Amy Scott Family Foundation, and C&A Industries. Caterer: 15 Florence and North Omaha Restaurants Event Planner: Mark Kresl Multi Media: Come Together Band

JOEL AND LISA LONG, LEROY AND AMY PETERSON, JANE AND JAY HERMAN WITH MIKE AND TRACY GEARHART

Attendance: 1,100 Amount Raised: $26,000 Mission: Inspiring the individuals we serve to live life to the fullest as they age. About: Senior Health Foundation fills in the financial gaps for the businesses of Midwest Geriatrics,Inc. (MGI). MGI operates Florence Home Healthcare, Royale Oaks and House of Hope Assisted Livings, and House of Hope Alzheimer’s Care.

SUE SUDBECK, ROB KILMER, TRACY FISHER AND ANDEE HOIG

SCOTT KRIENER, MADDY MULHOLLAND, DILLON KRYSL AND JOHN FARMER

JOHNNY RODGERS AND LOIS JORDAN

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For more Information: 402.827.6051 | www.tasteofflorence.net

NANCY MCCARTHY, LOIS JORDAN AND MIKE MCCARTHY

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Change

Nebraska Children and Families Foundation Changemakers 2016 When: September 12

MARY JO PANKOKE, VICTOR RIVAS RIVERS AND JAIME HEMMERLING

FRONT: BILL AND RUTH SCOTT BACK: MARY JO PANKOKE WITH JOHN AND DIANNE SCOTT AND VICTOR RIVAS RIVERS

Where: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Why: Inspirational speaker around the subject of child well-being and awareness of Nebraska Children’s work Special Guests: First Lady Susanne Shore, William and Ruth Scott (Grace Abbott Award Honorees)

PATSY KOCH JOHNS, SALLY GANEM, MARTHA FLORENCE AND SHAWN SHANAHAN

MARY JO PANKOKE AND VICTOR RIVAS RIVERS WITH CONNIE AND TODD DUNCAN

Sponsors: The Duncan Family Trust, Jodie Mackintosh, Methodist Hospital, Pinnacle Bank, Tenaska, Doug Christensen, Cline Williams Wright Johnson & Oldfather, Firespring, First National Bank, Lincoln Community Foundation, Nebraska Medicine, Nelnet, P&L Technology, Peetz & Company, Security National Bank, Union Bank & Trust, Weitz Investment Management, Dvorak & Donovan, Lincoln Financial Management, BKD LLP Attendance: over 400 Amount Raised: over $70,000

MIKE WORTMAN, SARA WOODS AND CAROL RUSSELL

RYANNE HASTINGS, JOYCE DAVIS, CYNDY PEACOCK, SANDY PARKER

Mission: Create positive change for Nebraska’s children through community engagement. About: Nebraska Children and Families Foundation supports children, young adults and families at risk with the overall goal of giving our state’s most vulnerable kids what they need to reach their full potential. We do this by building strong communities that support families so their children can grow up to be thriving, productive adults. For more Information: Brenda Weyers–402.817.2004 | NebraskaChildren.org

LYNN SMITH AMY ROUSE AND CONNIE SPELLMAN

TERRI MCDONNELL, JODIE MACKINTOSH, AND MAUREEN TURNER

VICTOR RIVAS RIVERS

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DOUG CHRISTENSEN, ANDY RIKLI, KAMI JESSOP AND BRETT RICHARDS

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BOYS COME First Omaha Home for Boys Imagine Our Youth Gala WHEN: September 15 WHERE: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista

LINDA AND TERRY KUCERA

HAL AND MARY DAUB WITH JEFF MORAN AND JUDGE PAT AND LOU LAMBERTY

DAN AND JO WELLENDORF, MIKE AND BARB QUINN WITH KELLY AND DEAN HODGES

WHY: Annual fundraiser to support our programs and youth we serve. More than 380 members of the Omaha community supported the Omaha Home for Boys and its youth, by coming to see and hear Coach Ken Carter – famous for the movie about him, "Coach Carter," starring Samuel L. Jackson – speak about life, motivation and following your passion. Sponsors: Friend of the Home (Speaker): Quantum Financial Partners LLC (Presenting), metroQuarterly (Media), Scripps (Media), Eyman Plumbing, Heating & Air (Emerald), The Lozier Foundation (Emerald), Omaha Schools Foundation (Emerald), Wells Fargo (Emerald), American National Bank (Sapphire), Darren and Tammy Carlson (Sapphire), First National Bank (Sapphire), The Glienke Agency (Sapphire), Grunwald Mechanical Contractors & Engineers (Sapphire), The Lund Company (Sapphore), Valmont (Sapphire) and Warren Distribution (Sapphire).

JEFF AND SANDY PASSER

Attendance: 387 Amout Raised: $160,000

JEFF MORAN, COACH KEN CARTER AND HAL DAUB

MINISTER JEANETTE WASHINGTON AND ERNIE BOYKIN

Mission: To support and strengthen youth, young adults and families through services that inspire and equip them to lead independent and productive lives. About: Founded in 1920 as an orphanage and refuge for homeless boys in downtown Omaha; moved to our current location at 52nd and Ames in 1945 and have been here ever since. For more Information: 402.457.7000 | www.omahahomeforboys.org

WILLIAM AND CINDY PINGEL

DAVID AND MICHELLE JACOBS

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Journals Fontenelle Forest

The Journals of Emmy Gifford Opening Celebration When: September 16

CHARLES GIFFORD WITH MARY AND TOM KERR

DENNIS AND ANN CHRISTIANSEN

Where: Fontenelle Forest About: Explore the world through the eyes of Emmy Gifford, an artist and designer who brought her own style to Omaha and founded the Emmy Gifford Children’s Theatre.

BRITTNI AND CHAD REDDING WITH LYN ZIEGENBEIN

MERICA WHITEHALL WITH TODD AND SUSAN RIVERS

WINNIE WELLS WITH BILL AND TINA BRUSH

ERIC DUNNING AND TOBA COHEN-DUNNING

The Journals of Emmy Gifford, a public exhibition that debuted at Fontenelle Forest in September, brings her travels and experiences to life with over sixty pages of colorful journals and sketchbooks. These remarkable works of art will be displayed in a gallery setting for the first time. Emmy Gifford’s family has been an important part of Fontenelle Forest throughout the organization’s history. Dr. Harold Gifford, Sr., Emmy Gifford’s father-in-law, led a group of area scholars and businessman who created Fontenelle Forest and raised money to purchase the first 300 acres of protected land in 1920. In the mid-1970s, Carl Jonas, Emmy Gifford’s brother, donated the land that would become the site of the Neale Woods Nature Center. The Journals of Emmy Gifford exhibition honors the generosity and vision of the Gifford Family and Carl Jonas and their roles in helping Fontenelle Forest become one of the largest and most respected non-profit nature organizations in the United States. For more Information: 402.731.3140 | fontenelleforest.org

CLARK KAMPFE, ANN KAMPFE, KEN KAMPFE, SALLY KAMPFE AND TOM KAMPFE

RITA SANDERS AND ANGELA BURMEISTER

TAD LEEPER AND MARY COADY-LEEPER

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FAIRLY Perfect QLI (Quality Living, Inc.) QLI’s “An Evening at the Fair” When: September 16 Where: Baxter Arena Why: Fundraiser to support of QLI’s life-changing rehabilitation and care services. An Evening at the Fair puts an exciting, modern twist on an old-fashioned county fair theme, culminating in an event like no other.

TREV AND ANGIE ALBERTS WITH ANDEE HOIG AND PATRICIA KEARNS

Honorary Chairs: Angela and Trev Alberts, Event Chairs: Jenn and Josh White, Rachael and Ken Moreano

JENN WHITE, PATRICIA KEARNS AND JOSH WHITE

Sponsors: Community Pharmacy, Valmont Industries, WOWT NBC 6 News, Dr. Amy Haddad & Steve Martin, David Scott Foundation, Baxter Arena, CQuence Health Group, Fusion Medical Staffing, Terri & Jack McDonnell, Pinnacle Bank, Rotella’s Italian Bakery, Schnackel Engineers

JACK AND TERRI MCDONNELL

Caterer: SAVOR Omaha Attendance: 1000+ Tickets Sold Amount Raised: $250,000 Mission: Deliver life-changing rehabilitation and care. Promote dignity, instill purpose, create hope. Commit to excellence.

CARBULLIDO FAMILY About: For over 25 years, QLI has been a national leader in brain and spinal cord rehabilitation. QLI’s clinical model combines medical excellence, gold standard research and highly individualized programs — which support the rediscovery of life passions and focus on the “real-world” skills needed to pursue them. For more Information: 402.573.3700 | www.TeamQLI.com

JANELLE ZELENY AND LORI SCOTT

BOB AND MARGE MONACO WITH DR. JAMES SCOTT-MILLER

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Antiques Lauritzen Gardens Antique & Garden Show When: September 22–25

ALEX HITZ AND JULIE KENNEY

CINDY BAY, JILL BYDALEK AND MARY SEINA

Where: Lauritzen Gardens Why: The Lauritzen Gardens Antique & Garden Show is a weekend-long event that featured a lineup of design experts, authors and trendsetters serving as keynote lecturers all set in the backdrop of the Midwest’s premier botanical center. The one-of-a-kind show brought together nearly 30 national and international antique dealers with all genres of fine antiquities. The event is the largest annual fundraiser for Lauritzen Gardens.

THERESA DIMAIO, LIZ HEESE AND LAURA DIMAIO

MARKHAM ROBERTS, SUZANNE RHEINSTEIN AND BRUCE FRASIER

Special Guests: Suzanne Rheinstein, Markham Roberts, Alex Hitz, Jane Scott Hodges, Honorary Chairs Cindy Bay and Mary Seina, General Chairman Jill Bydalek Attendance: Four day attendance was more than 3,100 guests Amount Raised: Net total is over $605,000 (to date) Mission: Lauritzen Gardens is a living museum of unique four-season plant displays, maintained to the highest standards consistent with environmental stewardship. It provides memorable educational and aesthetic experiences for all.

MIKE SKRADIS, JULIA RUSSELL, DAVID HECKER, MELANIE HECKER, BRIAN WOOD, DEBBIE WOOD, FATIMA BASITH AND PIRZADA SATTAR

RICK CAREY, KAREN HAWKINS, ANDE JOHNSON AND DAVID SCOTT

About: Lauritzen Gardens is uniquely positioned as the region’s premier botanical center and garden resource. Centrally located in the heart of the United States and situated on 100 acres of lush grounds, the garden exemplifies visionary efforts to provide a quiet, tranquil and serene setting for the study, preservation, and pure enjoyment of some of the region’s most precious resources and flora. Beginning with a grassroots effort to build a garden for the Omaha community, the garden has quickly become a regional destination and has substantiated its position as a major Omaha-area attraction.

AMY SCOTT, LAURA DOLL AND JEAN BELL

For more Information: 402.346.4002 www.omahaantiqueshow.org | www.lauritzengardens.org

MELISSA MARVIN, ROBYN FREEMAN AND JANETTE GARVIN

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RAISING THE

Ribbons

AKSARBEN Foundation AKSARBEN Purple Ribbon Auction When: September 25

SUSI AND BOB DALRYMPLE

Where: CenturyLink Center, Omaha

STEVE AND BARB GRANDFIELD

Why: The Purple Ribbon Auction is the pinnacle event of the AKSARBEN Stock Show and takes place at the culmination of the week’s activities and serves as a fundraising vehicle for AKSARBEN Foundation scholarships. Special Guests: Agriculture Initiatives Committee Chairman, Bob Dalrymple; AKSARBEN Buyer’s Club Co-Chairs, Steve Grandfield and Mandy Smith; Hero’s Award recipient, Dr. Linda Ford

HAL AND MARY DAUB WITH MAYOR RITA SANDERS AND DR. LINDA FORD

TODD SCHROEDER, , JACKIE SCHROEDER, TIM SCHROEDER, SUE SCHROEDER AND HALEY SCHROEDER

Event Planner: Sally Brittan Attendance: 300 Amount Raised: $250,000

GREG AND SUSAN GEHL WITH MARSHA MARROR AND DAVID SCOTT

GRETCHEN KIRCHMANN AND SCOTT MOORE

Mission: Our mission is leveraging collective business leadership to build a more prosperous Heartland. Representing the premier employers in Nebraska and western Iowa, AKSARBEN Foundation works as a unified network to influence change for the betterment of youth, the economy and Heartland communities. About: The AKSARBEN Foundation awarded over 300 college scholarships in 2016 to deserving Heartland youth valued at over $1.3 million through the AKSARBEN/Horatio Alger State Scholarships, AKSARBEN/Horatio Alger Career Scholarships and AKSARBEN 4-H Scholarships. For more Information: www.aksarbenstockshow.com

MICHELE AND BRENT POHLMAN WITH BRENDA AND CRAIG MARTIN

BOB AND ROXANN HALEY WITH PETER MASSEY

KELVIN JORGENSEN, DOYLE WOLVERTON WITH JUNE AND DICK MCCLURE

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THE PROPERTIES OF Caring Rebuilding Together Omaha Fundraising Lunch featuring the Scott Brothers When: September 29

GUNDERSON’S JEWELERS WITH JONATHAN AND DREW SCOTT

Where: Omaha Design Center Why: The luncheon was a fundraising lunch featuring a presentation by the Scott Brothers hosts of HGTV’s Property Brothers. The event included an exclusive VIP Meet and Greet and photo opportunity with The Scott Brothers for the sponsors and invited guests of Rebuilding Together Omaha. Special Guest: Drew and Jonathan Scott (The Scott Brothers) from the Property Brothers HGTV show.

JONATHAN AND DREW SCOTT

JULIE CORNELL

Event Planner: Turner Events and Marketing Caterer: Contemporary Food Management, Inc. Amount Raised: $118,000 Sponsors: Wells Fargo, Gunderson’s Jewelers, KETV, 3M, KAT 103.7, 99.9 KGOR, Cabinet Factory Outlet Plus, Methodist Health System and metroMAGAZINE About: Rebuilding Together Omaha works to make a difference in the lives of low-income, elderly or permanently disabled homeowners.

REBUILDING TOGETHER OMAHA BOARD WITH JONATHAN AND DREW SCOTT

Mission: Together we transform the lives of low-income homeowners by improving the safety and health of their homes by revitalizing their communities. For more Information: 402.965.9201 | rebuildingtogetheromaha.org

KETV TABLE

LYNETTE FARHART AND SCOTT BROTHERS

METHODIST HOSPITAL COMMUNITY ENGAGEMENT EVENT

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DREAMS TAKING

Wings

Angels Among Us Evening Among Angels

ZETA AND SEBASTIANO

When: Nearly 500 people came together in support of Angels Among Us on Friday, September 30th. The evening featured Cocktails, Silent and Live Auctions and Dinner all to raise awareness and money for families battling pediatric cancer.

SID AND DAWN DINSDALE

Where: Hilton Hotel Downtown Omaha Why: The Evening Among Angels event raises funds to financially support families battling pediatric cancer. Over $180,000 was raised by the event which was presented by Pinnacle Bank. Honorary Chairs for the event were Sid and Dawn Dinsdale.

JANE POHLMAN AND SUSIE NELSON

ADAM AND KELLY WALSH WITH CAMMIE NEAL AND SHAIN HEISS

Special Guests: Honorary Chairs, Sid and Dawn Dinsdale, Melissa Fidone, guest speaker, Mary Nelson from KMTV The Morning Blend was Master of Ceremonies Amount Raised: $180,000 Mission: Angels Among Us provides financial and emotional resources to families battling pediatric cancer living in or being treated in Nebraska.

JANET AND JERRY SLUSKY WITH FRANKIE AND SANDY KASIN

KATHY ENGLISH AND DEBBIE ARNOW

About: Angels Among Us was started in 2006 by two women looking to assist families battling pediatric cancer. In its ten-year history, Angels Among Us has assisted over 290 families with over $1.25 million in support. For more Information: 402.934.0999 | www.myangelsamongus.org

DIANNA KUYPER AND CHRISTINE BEHLEN

CHRIS HARRISON WITH BRANDI AND SEAN LANE

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HEARTWARMING

Hope

The Hope Center for Kids What’s Your Story? When: September 30 Where: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista

CURTIS PETTIS, BRENDA BLOCK AND DAIN JOHNSON

PASTOR ED AND JUANITA KING Why: The community gathered for a night to celebrate the stories of the youth and children at The Hope Center for Kids. NYT Best Selling author Donald Miller spoke to the crowd, and “The Hope Founding Team” was celebrated with the first annual Ty and Terri Schenzel Legacy Award. Speaker: NY Times Bestselling Author, Donald Miller

MIKE AND BOBBIE FRANK

BRENDA CHRISTENSEN AND MIKE MORRIS

Sponsors: Jim and Shirley Young Family Foundation , Oscar and Lois Christensen, Sid Dillon Chevrolet Fremont, Thrasher , Bel Air Merchant Society, Omaha Track, The Hope Center for Kids Guild, Del and Phyllis Toebben, Mike Morris and Brenda Christensen, Auto-Owners Insurance Company, C&A Industries, GWR Wealth Management, Legion Outdoor, First National Bank, Doug McDermott, Greg and Theresa McDermott, Northern Natural Gas, Michael and Nancy Paul, Dan and Heather Svehla, The Learning Exchange, Valmont Industries, Richard and Janet Zehnacker, AGP, Diversified Solutions, Home Instead Senior Care, Mutual of Omaha Bank, The Presbyterian Church of Fremont, RE/Max Results, Spirit of Faith Church, Thermo King Christensen Attendance: 850

MYLESHA AND DEVAUTE NUNN

RIK AND WANDA SMITH

Amount Raised: $375,000 Mission: The Hope Center for Kids strives to inspire hope in the lives of youth and children through education, employability, collaboration and faith. About: The Hope Center for Kids provides a safe after-school and summer program in North Omaha and Fremont where children and youth can take part in academic support, youth development, employment training and receive a hot meal.

Y’RION HARRIS, TRAE MOSE, JASON MCGEE AND PHILIP MASON JR.,

For more Information: 402.341.4673 | www.hopecenterforkids.com

JOHN KNICELY

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JUSTICE

League Justice For Our Neighbors-NE enVISION 2016: Food Truck World Tour When: October. 6

JIM GLAZER, TODD SIMON AND JORDANA GLAZER

Where: The Slowdown

POLINA AND BOB SCHLOT

Why: To provide immigration legal services to low-income immigrants Special Guests: Honorary Event Hosts–Polina & Bob Schlott; Host Committee Co-Chairs Betiana & Todd Simon; Douglas County Commissioners Jim Cavanaugh, Mike Boyle, Mark Kraft and Candidate for U.S. Congress Jim Esch. Sponsors: Warren Distribution & Katie Weitz, Ph.D.

RICK RUSSELL, JOEL RUSSELL AND CAROL RUSSELL

ELLEN STRUVE, WATIE WHITE WITH PAUL AND ANNETTE SMITH

Event Planner: Vic Gutman & Associates Attendance: 200 Amount Raised: $140,000 (Preliminary) Mission: Justice For Our Neighbors-Nebraska (JFON-NE) is a nonprofit organization welcoming immigrants into our communities by providing free, high quality immigration legal services, education and advocacy for low-income individuals and families in Nebraska and western Iowa.

BOB BARTEE AND SHANE ELLISON

BEVERLY REICKS AND EMILIANO LERDA

About: We serve immigrants of all faiths, races, abilities and ages, with an emphasis on the most vulnerable—victims of domestic violence and other crimes against children. Our attorneys are educated and experienced in broad immigration law with specialties in domestic abuse, child welfare and facilitating access to immigration legal services in underserved rural communities. For more Information: 402.898.1349 | www.jfon-ne.org

MARY L. UMBERGER AND SARAH BAKER HANSEN

DR. DELE DAVIES WITH VALERIA AND DR. WASHINGTON GARCIA AND ANN WEAVER

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INSPIRING

Actions

Autism Action Partnership Vintage Affaire VII: Jockeys & Juleps When: October 8

C.L. WERNER AND DAVE PANTOS

GAIL WERNER-ROBERTSON WITH RON AND SHARON RIVETT

Where: Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Why: The purpose of this event is to raise funds to support programs for children, young adults and their families impacted by autism. Sponsors: Keeler & Associates, C.L. & Rachel Werner, UltraAir, My Place Hotels Attendance: 280 Amount Raised: $480,000

DAVE PANTOS WITH DREW AND MARCIA LEPINSKI

ROGER WEITZ AND KATE NOBLE WEITZ Mission: To improve the quality of life of persons on the Autism Spectrum and their families through education, advocacy and support, thereby enabling them to be an integral part of the community. About: Our Vision: Every person touched by autism in the Heartland will receive the care and support necessary to lead a fulfilling and dignified life.

SUELLEN WILLETT WITH TODD AND SHELLY MILES

ANGIE STEINBACH AND PATSY STEINBACH

LAUREN OEHM, ALY FORBES AND LIZZIE LANSPA

DAVE PANTOS, GAIL WERNER-ROBERTSON, LYNDA ULEMAN AND JIM BICHEL

For more Information: 402.763.8830 | autismaction.org

KRISTEN BECK, ELISE TURILLE, HANNAH GERHARDT AND MEGHAN MARTIN

TODD AND JACKI STECKELBERG

KARI LEWIS AND ZACH WILLETT

EMILY RAMSEY, LAUREN BENNEWITZ, ADAM WEAVER AND OLIVIA ROSOL

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CELEBRATING

a Milestone YMCA of Greater Omaha 150 Years of Providing Firsts Gala When: October 8

CRAIG AND HEIDI LEFLER WITH BECCA AND CHRIS TOINTON

GARY AND KATHY GATE WITH MARK SPITZ

Where: CenturyLink Grand Ballroom Why: Established in 1866, the YMCA of Greater Omaha has been strengthening the community for 150 years. The Y has been make life changing impact to the children, adults and families through programs that focus on three key areas: youth development, healthy living and social responsibility. This year has served as a celebratory year for the Y, beginning with the community-wide weight loss challenge, a staff and board member balloon release, a Durham Museum exhibit on display through January 8, 2017 and the Gala.

JEFF AND BECKY SHARP

DR. JOE STOTHERT AND MAYOR JEAN STOTHERT

Special Guests: Keynote speaker was Olympic Gold Medalist, Mark Spitz. Inspirational speaker Sean Goode, of the YMCA of Greater Seattle performed a spoken word performance. Mayor Jean Stothert read a Mayoral Proclamation, proclaiming October YMCA of Greater Omaha month. Papillion Mayor David Black introduced Mark Spitz Attendance: 420

DANENE TUSHAR AND SCOTT MOORE

Amount Raised: The culmination of the yearlong Y150 fundraising campaign and celebratory Gala has raised over $400,000 for the YMCA of Greater Omaha. The proceeds will go toward improving the YMCA of Greater Omaha facilities and programs, to allow us to better serve the community.

SIGRID AND MIKE MOYLAN

Mission: To put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy spirit, mind and body for all. About: At the YMCA of Greater Omaha, strengthening community is our cause. We make life changing impact to the children, adults and families we serve through programs that focus on three key areas: youth development, healthy living and social responsibility.

BOB AND NANCY EDICK WITH ALAN AND ANNE BRODIN

STACIE AND JOEL FALK WITH ARUN AGARWAL

For more Information: www.metroymca.org

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WINNING THE

Race

Susan G. Komen Nebraska Race for the Cure When: October 9

ZUMBA–ELLIE

VICKI BREWER, CHEREYELL FRAZIER, LANITA FRAZIER AND MATARI MITCHELL

Where: Baxter Arena & Aksarben Village Why: Funds raised support local breast health services and research to find the cures Sponsors: Union Pacific, Baker's, Baxter Ford, KMTV Action 3 News, Star 104.5 Attendance: 9,000

JACLYNN RAY AND BROOKE POWERS

DR. DONNA POLK

LAURA HEISTERKAMP AND SEANA FAIRCHILD

Mission: Save lives by meeting the most critical needs in our communities and investing in breakthrough research to prevent and cure breast cancer About: Susan G. Komen Nebraska encourages supporters to be More Than Pink after announcing a new nationwide goal to reduce breast cancer deaths in the U.S. by 50 percent in the next 10 years. Supporters are encouraged to act, donate and get involved to help Susan G. Komen reach its bold goal. Through the support of generous donors of Race for the Cure, Komen Nebraska grants funds to the community for breast health education, breast cancer screening and breast cancer treatment support. Services funded help the 24 Nebraskans diagnosed with breast cancer each week. For more Information: 402.502.2979 | www.komennebraska.org

SURVIVOR ALISSA BOUSQUET AND FRIEND

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CHANCE OF A

Lifetime

Youth Emergency Services Dance for a Chance When/Where: July 29 Omar Bakery Events Center Attendance: 410

TOM BECKA, ANDEE HOIG AND MARTIE CORDARO

KAYLA THOMAS AND CAROLYN ROOKER

Amount Raised: $84,335 Mission: To serve homeless and at-risk youth by providing critically-needed resources which empower them to become self-sufficient. About: Youth Emergency Services (YES) serves homeless and near-homeless youth by providing critically-needed resources that empower them to become self-sufficient adults. YES offers a continuum of care for vulnerable youth, from meeting their immediate needs of shelter, food and safety to teaching them essential life skills for a successful adulthood. To help these young people transform their lives, YES operates five key programs.

TERRY VARGAS AND ANNE HERMAN

BENNY THE KING AND REBECCA HAMATA

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THE RIGHT

Stuff

Jennie Edmundson Fndtn Spirit of Courage–Celebrity Weekend When/Where: August 5 - 7 Mid America Center - Council Bluffs, IA FRONT: DAVE WEBBER, MARLIN BRISCOE, JOHN BEASLEY, KRIS ANGELIS, PJ MANOUX, GRACE BANNON, ERIC HOVER, TRENT PAULSON, STAN BAHNSEN, TRAVIS PAULSON BACK: JOHN O’LEARY, BOB CLENDENIN, BRETT CULLEN, LANCE ZENO, JON LIEBER, LARRY JACOBSON, CARL MARINO, RAD DALY, MAYOR- MATT WALSH

Why: Annual fundraiser for Methodist Jennie Edmundson Cancer Center - Charitable Patient Care Fund Attendance: 685 Amount Raised: Over $100,000.00 Mission: To improve the quality of life by caring for the body and mind. About: The Jennie Edmundson Foundation is the fund raising arm of Methodist Jennie Edmundson Hospital. By engaging philanthropic leaders, we are able to help make certain that the equipment, facilities, programs, services and educational initiatives at Methodist Jennie Edmundson Hospital continue to meet community healthcare needs.

JON LIEBER AND BRADY JORGENSEN

KAREN HANSEN, AMBER WILLIAMS, STEVE BAUMERT, TERESA BENSON & THE FAMILY OF JENYI KNUDSEN-BERGSTEN

For more Information: 712.396.6086 | www.jehfoundation.org

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GETTING THERE

First

First Responders Foundation 3rd Annual 9/11 Memorial Benefit When: September 8 Where: Omaha Police Mounted Patrol Barn

DR. RON ROSKENS AND RAY SOMBERG

Why: This is our largest fundraiser. Proceeds from the Benefit will support the Foundation’s mission to enhance public safety and build community appreciation and respect for our first responders. Attendance: 450 Amount Raised: $100,000 About: The First Responders Foundation is a 501(c)(3) non profit organization that works to enhance public safety and build community appreciation and respect for our first responders. We partner directly with Omaha’s police and fire chiefs to provide meaningful resources and vital equipment and create programs and events that make a positive impact on the community. For more Information: www.firstrespondersomaha.org

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MAKING

Music

Omaha Performing Arts Broadway Ball

CINDY AND MOGENS BAY

LINDA FORD AND LAURA BENANTI WITH DAVID AND MARTHA SLOSBURG

The halls of the Holland Performing Arts Center were filled with “The Sound of Music” on September 9th when 300 people attended the biennial Broadway Ball fund-raising event, presented by Omaha Performing Arts and The Presenters. More than $315,000 was raised for Omaha Performing Arts’ education and community engagement programs. Honorary Chairs were Lori and Paul Hogan and Event Chairs were Gail and Shane Graeve. The Kiewit Concert Hall was decorated to resemble an Austrian mountainside with images of the mountains and downtown Vienna projected on the walls around the concert hall. The mountain top made famous by “Maria” were replicated when guests moved to their tables across the elevated floor which covered the concert hall’s seats.

KATHY AND GARY GATES

SHANE AND GAIL GRAEVE WITH JOAN SQUIRES AND LORI AND PAUL HOGAN

For more Information: 402.345.0202 | OmahaPerformingArts.org

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WONDERFUL

Walkers

Alzheimer’s Association Omaha Walk to End Alzheimer’s When: September 25 Where: Midtown Crossing, Omaha Why: To raise money and awareness for Alzheimer’s and other dementia related diseases. Attendance: 1500 Amount Raised: $183,000 About: Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s® is the world’s largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care, support and research. Held annually in more than 600 communities nationwide, this inspiring event calls on participants of all ages and abilities to reclaim the future for millions. For more Information: 402.502.4301 Ext. 8250 | ehdrouin@alz.org

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CELEBRATING

Ten

Ted E. Bear Hollow Annual Comfort Food Classic When: Oct 9 Where: Ramada Convention Center

SUE DEHECK AND KATHY ENGLISH

DENISE AND JON MEYERS Why: Ted E. Bear Hollow’s Annual Comfort Food Classic is a foodie event with heart. All proceeds from this annual chef competition support the agency’s free grief support services in Omaha, Council Bluffs and the surrounding communities. This year was the 10th anniversary of the Comfort Food Classic. Attendance: over 300 guests Amount Raised: Approximately $60,000 Mission: No one has to walk their grief journey alone! For more Information: 402.502.2773 | www.tedebearhollow.org

JOHNNY TORRES AND CRYSTAL SIERRA

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featured EVENTS NOVEMBER 3 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM

CHRISTMAS CARAVAN 2016 Assistance League® of Omaha Four homes in northwest Omaha Christmas Caravan 2016 will take place Thursday, November 3 from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. featuring four Omaha homes decked out in holiday finery and a variety of related events to be held at Champions Run.This popular event benefits ALO's philanthropic programs including Operation School Bell®, annually clothing over 3,400 needy Omaha-area students through a partnership with JCPenney's Westroads location. In addition to this service, Caravan proceeds also support other year-long programs such as Operation Bear Hug, Operation Teen Parent, ACT/PSAT Review Sessions, Assault Survivor Kits®, and Operation Recovery. A stop at Champions Run, 13800 Eagle Run Drive, will offer a lovely buffet luncheon ($13 dollar ticket at the door), bake sale, and more shopping provided by Assistance League's Thrift Shop Boutique. Tickets are available from Assistance League Thrift Shop, HyVee Stores, and any Assistance League member. $16 in advance, $20 at the door 402-210-5571 | http://alomaha.org

NOVEMBER 2

4:00 PM – 9:00 PM

CHRISTMAS CARAVAN PREVIEW PARTY Assistance League® of Omaha Champions Run | Omaha A preview party will kick off the 2016 Christmas Caravan on Wednesday evening with a tour of homes decorated for the holidays by local florists from 4-6 p.m., followed by social time and silent auction at 6:00, and dinner at 7:30. No-host social time, silent auction, and dinner will all take place at Champions Run. Tickets for this elegant event are $100 per person, and all proceeds further benefit ALO’s philanthropic programs. Contact the Assistance League office at 402.342.4288 for information. This popular event benefits ALO’s philanthropic programs including Operation School Bell®, annually clothing over 3,400 needy Omaha-area students through a partnership with JCPenney’s Westroads location. In addition to this service, Caravan proceeds also support other year-long programs such as Operation Bear Hug, Operation Teen Parent, ACT/PSAT Review Sessions, Assault Survivor Kits®, and Operation Recovery. $100 402-210-5571 | alomaha.org

NOVEMBER 3

8:00 AM – 4:30 PM

NONPROFIT SUMMIT OF THE MIDLANDS Nonprofit Association of the Midlands Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista The Nonprofit Association of the Midlands is celebrating a decade of bringing charitable organizations together to learn best practices. The 10th annual Nonprofit Summit of the Midlands is Thursday, November 3, at the Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista. The theme is “Who’s Telling Your Story?” Attendees will hear from two keynote speakers: Andy Goodman of the Goodman Center, and Tim Delaney, president and CEO of the National Council of Nonprofits. Register online at www.nonprofitam.org/page/summit. For more information, contact Hannah at 402-557-5800 or hannah@nonprofitam.org. $150 members/$225 non-members 402-557-5800 | nonprofitam.org

NOVEMBER 4

6:00 PM – 9:30 PM

9TH ANNUAL ADULT SPELLING BEE Literacy Center

JOIN US! JANUARY 19TH

UNO Scott Conference Center OMAHA DESIGN CENTER Who remembers the sweaty hands and nervous tremors of third grade spelling bees? Well now that AS WE CELEBRATE we’re adults we’re turning that terrible experience into something a bit more fun. It’s an evening full of THE WINNERS excitement, as teams of adults battle it out to be the “Best of the Hive” trophy winner. $75 IN 11 CATEGORIES CHARITY EVENTS 402-342-7323 | giveliteracy.org

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NOVEMBER 4

11:30 AM – 1:00 PM

BREAKING THE CYCLE LUNCHEON Youth Emergency Services Scott Conference Center November is National Homeless Youth Awareness Month. Join us for the annual Breaking the Cycle Luncheon which addresses issues that many homeless youth in our community face every day. This year’s speaker, Sakura Yodogawa-Campbell, will share her story of being a survivor of sex trafficking. $65.00 402-345-5187 | yesomaha.org/luncheon Ashley Flater aflater@yesomaha.org

NOVEMBER 4

5:30 PM – 10:00 PM

FANDANGO® AND WICKER & WINE® Lutheran Family Services of Nebraska, Inc. Hilton Omaha Lutheran Family Services is combining its historic Wicker & Wine® event, which raises funds for the Pottawattamie County Center for Healthy Families®, with the award-winning sports-themed Fandango®: All Stars event, which raises funds for all Children Services programs. Together we can help create and restore safe and happy childhoods! Event Chairs: Chip and Erin James (Omaha) John and Tracy Jerkovich (Council Bluffs) Dan and Martha Peterson (Council Bluffs) $100 (402) 661-3138 | http://https://www.lfsneb.org/events/fandango-wicker-wine/

NOVEMBER 5 CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL & MEDICAL CENTER GALA Children’s Hospital & Medical Center Foundation CenturyLink Center Omaha Join the Friends of Children’s Hospital & Medical Center for an evening of hope and entertainment! The annual Gala is Children’s signature fundraising event, featuring dinner, live and silent auctions, a raffle and live music. $175 402-955-6851 | childrensomaha.org/gala

NOVEMBER 9

11:30 AM – 1:00 PM

A TIME FOR HOPE & HEALING The Kim Foundation Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Convention Center The Kim Foundation is proud to present A Time for Hope & Healing featuring Dr. Thomas Joiner, a leading suicidologist in the United States. The luncheon aligns with our mission to serve as a supportive resource and compassionate voice for lives touched by mental illness and suicide. We know that suicide is a major area of concern in our community and we hope that you will join us for this impactful event. An extended session from 1:30 - 3:30 p.m. with Dr. Joiner, a survivor panel, and a memorial activity will be offered for an additional cost. $75/person; $100/person for the luncheon, extended session & signed copy of book 402-891-6911 | thekimfoundation.org

NOVEMBER 10

5:30 PM – 9:30 PM

NURSE OF THE YEAR AWARDS Methodist Women’s Hospital Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista The March of Dimes and Omaha Magazine will host the 2016 Nurse of the Year Awards on Thursday, November 10, 2016, to celebrate nursing excellence and recognize leaders in nursing from across Nebraska and Western Iowa. Patients, families and colleagues are encouraged to nominate nurses from all aspects of health care. The purpose of the event is to raise important funds and increase interest and public awareness of the diverse and rewarding careers available to nurses. The March of Dimes is proud to provide a platform to the medical community to pay tribute to these unsung heroes. Individual $175.00 Nominee- free

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Historic Livestock Exchange Building The OneWorld annual Milagro Dinner, featuring a guest speaker and live music, honors members of the medical community who have helped further OneWorld’s mission. The funds raised will reach more than 35,000 children and families who, because of their economic status, would otherwise go without healthcare. Ticket Prices: $125/person (402) 502-8940 | oneworldomaha.org

KANEKO | 1111 Jones Street | Omaha Mark your calendars for the 3rd annual KANEKO Open Space Soirée. Be the first to experience the upcoming KANEKO exhibition, From the Collection: Passion and Obsession. Enjoy rarely exhibited work that represents the passion of artists from around the world and the obsession of those who love it. The KANEKO Open Space Soirée is the organization’s annual fundraising event, with all proceeds benefiting KANEKO programming and operations. Event Chairs are Mary Lou Brasee and Polina Schlott. All but $60 per attendee is tax deductible. Cocktail attire. Thank you to our KANEKO Soirée Event Planning Committee! General Admission – $175 Young Professionals (up to age 35) – $75 thekaneko.org/soiree

NOVEmBER 10 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM ANNUAL TOAST Merrymakers Association Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista This signature event involves the participation of a prominent Omaha figure. The individual is honored and “roasted” or “toasted” by several of his or her close friends. 2015 marked the 25th anniversary of this event. The evening features a cocktail hour, a dinner and an oral auction following the program. The list of honorees reads like a Who’s Who of Omaha. Ticket Prices: $200 per person (402) 555-5555 | merrymakers.org

NOVEmBER 10– 12 JOSLYN CASTLE hOLidAY hiSTORiC hOmE TOUR & BOUTiQUE Joslyn Castle Joslyn Castle Save the date for the 4th Annual Joslyn Castle Holiday Historic Home Tour & Boutique. The tour kicks off with a Holiday Patron Party on November 10 and the tour will run November 11 and 12. Enjoy viewing historic homes and the stunning Joslyn Castle. While at the Castle shop a one-of-a-kind gift boutique. $20 for the Tour, $75 for the Holiday Patron Party 402-595-2199 | joslyncastle.com/events

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NOVEmBER 18 6:00 PM – 10:00 PM ViSiON BEYONd SiGhT BANQUET Outlook Nebraska, Inc. Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Join us to celebrate the capabilities of the blind and build awareness among influential community members of the work we do supporting our 35,000 visually impaired neighbors in Nebraska. Tickets are available at https://outlooknebraska.org/tickets/. For more information, contact Director of Fund Development John Wick at jwick@outlooknebraska.com. $75 outlooknebraska.org

NOVEmBER 18 SENTimENTAL JOURNEY The Durham Museum $175 and up durhammuseum.org

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JOSLYN CASTLE TURkEY TROT Joslyn Castle Midtown Crossing | Omaha Join us on Thanksgiving Morning (November 24, 2016) for the annual Turkey Trot. This 5K run/walk is fun for the whole family. The 5K takes place at Midtown Crossing and is a great way to burn some pre-holiday meal calories. $30 - $40 402-595-2199 | joslyncastle.com/events

dECEmBER 11 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM ThE 56Th ANNUAL RUTh SOkOLOf ChRiSTmAS PARTY fOR BLiNd ANd ViSUALLY imPAiREd ChiLdREN Nebraska Foundation For Visually Impaired Children Westroads Mall The party provides children with an independent holiday shopping experience. The Foundation pairs each shopper with high school student volunteers, and gives each shopper $100 in cash/gift cards with which to shop. Each team tours the mall, purchases gifts, wraps them, and enjoys lunch, all at no cost. Any blind or visually impaired Nebraska child between the ages of 5 and 18 is eligible to attend. Ticket Prices: Free to Visually Impaired/Blind Children and Teens (402) 522-6855 | nfvic.org

dECEmBER 27 6:00 PM – 11:00 PM OmAhA SYmPhONY dEBUTANTE BALL Omaha Symphony Guild Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista The Omaha Symphony Debutante Ball is a celebration in recognition of the many Omaha and Council Bluffs families support of the Omaha Symphony and other charitable organizations in our community. The proceeds from the event will help fund the Omaha Symphony’s educational and outreach programs that benefit over 30,000 students annually. $125 omahasymphony.org/guilds/

fEBRUARY 4 6:30 PM – 11:00 PM 2017 OmAhA hEART ANd STROkE BALL

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Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista The 28th Annual Omaha Heart and Stroke Ball, attended by more than 1,000 individuals from Omaha’s business, medical and social communities, is the annual black-tie optional gala benefiting the American Heart Association’s lifesaving mission of building healthier lives, free of cardiovascular diseases and stroke. The evening festivities begin with an opening reception that includes an electronic silent auction followed by a dinner and a program that features entertainment, a live auction and an inspiring survivor story. $300 Individual 402-810-6842 | omahaheartball.org

fEBRUARY 11 6:30 PM – 11:00 PM ROCkiN’ ROSiE 2017 – A BENEfiT fOR ThE ROSE ThEATER The Rose Theater Guild Hilton Omaha Join us February 11, 2017, at the Hilton Downtown for Rockin’ Rosie 2017. Rosie Rocks the Rockies – An Aprés Ski Party! Live auction, silent auction, raffle, dinner and entertainment. Dress in your coziest cabin-chic, and enjoy an evening in the mountains. $125, $150 patron rosetheater.org/

fEBRUARY 26 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM ART & SOUP Visiting Nurse Association Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista This award-winning event highlights artistic creations from over 35 local and regional artists, who will donate 50% of the proceeds from their art to VNA’s Shelter Nursing program. In addition, guests will have the opportunity to taste incredible soups and desserts created by local chefs from approximately 20 local restaurants. There is also a silent auction and music. Proceeds benefit VNA’s Shelter Nursing Programs. $50 for general admission/ $100 for Patron Party 402-930-4170 | thevnacares.org 90

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DON’T MISS these NOVEmBER 4 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM PROJECT hARmONY 20 YEAR CELEBRATiON GALA Project Harmony Holland Performing Arts Center Project Harmony has helped over 26,000 children tell their story and provide them with the support and resources they need to live a happier/healthier life. We celebrate the positive impact Project Harmony has had on their futures and within our community. Celebrating the courage of child abuse victims with outstanding nationally recognized child prodigy musical performers, featuring: Justin Yu and The Joyous String Quartet (as seen on Ellen and Little Big Shots ), Laura Bretan (as seen on America’s Got Talent ) and Ethan Bortnick (as seen on Oprah ). $0.00 for dinner, concert and dessert reception - also a $75 and $35 option 4025951326 | projectharmony.com

NOVEmBER 5 6:00 PM 2016 BiG REd BLOCk PARTY Junior League of Omaha Scott Conference Center | Omaha The Junior League of Omaha will hold its Big Red Block Party during the Nebraska/Ohio football game at the Scott Conference Center, located at 6440 Pine Street on the South UNO campus. The fundraiser will feature a viewing party for the Nebraska/Ohio football game, where guests will watch the game on six big screens, enjoy a tailgate-themed buffet and bid on a variety of silent auction packages. All proceeds support the league’s projects: A Book of My Own, Project Hope Pack, Career Development Series and Done-in-a-Day. $60+ http://https://www.jlomaha.org/?nd=blockparty

NOVEmBER 8 3:30 PM – 5:00 PM B4B PRESENTS: fERGUS hOBAN Business4Business Professional Society Think Whole Person Healthcare | Omaha Join B4B Professional Society for this exciting presentation and tour featuring Fergus Hoban, CEO of Think Whole Person Healthcare! Think is a disruptive healthcare model with its large pilot center based here in Omaha. Think is a large-scale, team-based patient centered medical home – leading the charge for change leadership in healthcare. This event is free for B4B Members and just $20 for guests. For planning purposes, please register your attendance ahead of time. 402-490-4192 | b4bsociety.com | https://www.eventbrite.com/e/b4b-presents-fergus-hobantickets-28398221846

NOVEmBER 11 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM fAShiON GALA EVENTS 2Nd ANNUAL fAShiON ShOw Fashion Gala Events Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha Tickets are available for purchase at: https://ticketomaha.com/ticketing?perf=17817#/bas VIP Plus$100 per ticket *table seating closest to runway, wine, swag bag gifts, early arrival social hour +VIP photos. VIP- $65 per ticket *Next closest table seating to the runway and wine General Admission- $40 per ticket * chair seating on the balcony and outer edge of the first floor. This Veterans Day show features special guest Joe Trader telling his story about his life as a veteran and what he is doing now, followed by an amazing military-based line by Mae & Pearl. This year’s host will be Conner Rensch, featured in People Magazine for losing half of her body weight and also on the Steve Harvey Show to share her experience. You will also get a chance to shop from some of the designers’ collections after the show! Afterparty at Parliament Pub! $40-$100 402-619-0219 | http://https://www.facebook.com/Fashiongalaevents/ 91

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NOVEmBER 25 5:00 PM – 7:00 PM TREE LiGhTiNG CEREmONY The Durham Museum 801 S 10th St | Omaha The Christmas at Union Station festivities begin with the annual Tree Lighting Ceremony. Enjoy entertainment, cookie decorating and holiday crafts, plus Santa himself! Also, the signature tradition: the community countdown to lighting the region’s largest indoor Christmas tree. $11-Adults; $8-Seniors(62+); $7-children(3-12); Free-members and 2 and under 402-444-5071 | durhammuseum.org

NOVEmBER 25 – JANUARY 2 10:00 AM – 5:00 PM ChRiSTmAS AT UNiON STATiON The Durham Museum 801 S 10th St | Omaha This holiday celebration began in the 1930s when Union Pacific would decorate for Union Station travelers to enjoy. Today, the tradition continues with the region’s largest indoor Christmas tree and an exceptional lineup of family friendly events. $11-Adults; $8-Seniors(62+); $7-children(3-12); Free-members and 2 and under. 402-444-5071 | durhammuseum.org

NOVEmBER 26 – dECEmBER 17 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - SOUNdS Of ThE SEASON Gene Leahy Mall & Old Market | Omaha The Sounds of the Season will showcase the talent of local choral groups ranging from youth to professional performers. The Gene Leahy Mall and the Old Market will be filled with delightful holiday music on Saturdays from November 26 - December 17. FREE | holidaylightsfestival.org/

NOVEmBER 26 – JANUARY 1 7:00 PM – 7:30 PM Holiday Lights Spectacular Midtown Crossing at Turner Park | Omaha A choreographed blend of light and holiday music projected onto Midtown Crossing’s condominium buildings, the Holiday Lights Spectacular will run approx. 20 minutes every Thursday through Sunday night. – Saturday, Nov. 26, through Sunday, Jan. 1 – starting at 7 p.m. FREE 402-351-5954 | holidaylightsomaha.com

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hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - CONAGRA fOOdS iCE RiNk ConAgra Foods Ice Rink | 10th and Dodge Streets | Omaha The ConAgra Foods Ice Rink, at its new location at 10th and Dodge Streets, will return for a 10th year to entertain families and “Shine the Light on Hunger.”The rink will be open from 1 to 10 p.m. Sundays through Thursdays; 1 p.m. to midnight Fridays and Saturdays; and 1 to 5 p.m. on Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve. The rink will be closed on Christmas Day and New Year’s Day. For details, visit www.holidaylightsfestival.org/shine-the-light-on-hunger/ $5 holidaylightsfestival.org/

dECEmBER 12 6:00 PM – 8:30 PM fREd CLAUS - 6Th ANNUAL fAmiLY hOLidAY mOViE ANd RAffLE Concord Mediation Center Aksarben Cinema Create a new family tradition and kick off the holidays by joining Concord Mediation Center at its Sixth Annual Family Holiday Movie and Raffle at Aksarben Cinema. We’ll show Fred Claus, a family-friendly holiday themed movie and conduct raffle prize drawings, including many movie-related prizes. Event sponsorships are available. $10 movie tickets 402-345-1131 | concordmediationcenter.com

dECEmBER 31 7:00 PM – 7:30 PM hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - NEw YEAR’S EVE fiREwORkS SPECTACULAR Holiday Lights Festival Downtown Omaha As a grand finale to the 2016 Holiday Lights Festival, the Fireworks Spectacular will begin at the family-friendly hour of 7 p.m. on New Year’s Eve. The show will feature a mesmerizing display of fireworks designed by J&M Displays and choreographed to a special musical accompaniment broadcast on STAR 104.5; viewers are encouraged to tune in. The official viewing site is the Gene Leahy Mall located at 14th and Farnam. FREE holidaylightsfestival.org/

dECEmBER 31 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM NOON YEAR’S EVE The Durham Museum 801 S 10th St | Omaha 3-2-1, Happy New Year! Children of all ages will enjoy live music, crafts and activities. Ring in the noon-year while enjoying the celebratory bubble wrap stomp and the balloon drop at noon. $11-Adults; $8-Seniors(62+); $7-children(3-12); Free-members and 2 and under 402-444-5071 | durhammuseum.org

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fEBRUARY 16 – 19 7:00 PM – 4:30 PM

Aksarben Village | Omaha On December 3 and 4 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. you will be able to get some of your last minute holiday shopping done at the Physicians Mutual and WOWT Holiday Market at Aksarben Village. Shop for great holiday gifts from local vendors under heated tents at 67th & Center Streets. Unique gift ideas include holiday décor, festive foods, homemade crafts and much more! Stroll the market while listening to your favorite holiday tunes and make sure to bring your kiddos - Santa will be there from 2 to 4 PM on Sunday, so bring your cameras! For more information visit www.omahaholidaymarket.org and don’t forget to visit our Facebook page - search for the Omaha Farmers Market to keep updated on all the vendors! FREE

TANGiER ShRiNE CiRCUS Tangier Shrine

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fEBRUARY 25 4:30 PM – 10:00 PM

hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - wELLS fARGO fAmiLY fESTiVAL Downtown Omaha | Omaha The Wells Fargo Family Festival offers an afternoon of free family fun. Downtown arts and cultural institutions will provide free admission and hands-on activities for the entire family. Free trolley service provided by Ollie the Trolley will connect all participating locations from noon to 5 p.m. Families are encouraged to “Shine the Light on Hunger” and bring non-perishable foods and household goods for donation. Food donation barrels will be located at each Family Festival venue.FREE holidaylightsfestival.org/

Mid-America Center | 1 Arena Way | Council Bluffs Built to amaze! Affordable family fun! See the magic up close! Fun for all ages! Hair-raising, thrilling attractions! Those are just a few of the ways to describe the 88th Annual Tangier Shrine Circus. From high-flying acrobats, comical clowns, and majestic elephants to kooky Keystone Kops, glorious tigers, and more, this year’s Shrine Circus promises to be one of the best ever. $18-$25 402-965-1737 | omahashrinecircus.com

mERCY GRAS fiESTA 2017 Mercy High School Embassy Suites Conference Center – La Vista Mercy Gras FIESTA 2017 is Mercy High School’s annual fundraising event to support the school’s tuition assistance program. It is scheduled for Saturday, February 25, 2017 at the La Vista Conference Center. Check-in begins at 4:30 p.m. with dinner at 7 p.m. and auctions and raffle to follow. Ticket cost is $125 for non-alumnae. Auction prizes range from fabulous getaways, to tickets to sporting events and concerts, to baskets and gift certificates and much more. The raffle is for $10,000. $125 per ticket. 402-553-9424 | mercyhigh.org 92

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NOVEmBER 3 – 5 | NOVEmBER 11 – 19 7:30 PM – 10:00 PM NOVEmBER 6 – 13 | NOVEmBER 20 2:00 PM – 4:30 PM A wAR Of ROSES: fOREiGN fLAmES Nebraska Shakespeare Weber Fine Arts Building | 6505 University Drive South | Omaha As part of the 30th anniversary of the founding of Nebraska Shakespeare, this November the theater departments at Creighton University and the University of Nebraska at Omaha are presenting A War of Roses. An original, two-part retelling of William Shakespeare’s Henry 6 Trilogy, A War of Roses: (part 1) Foreign Flames and A War of Roses: (part 2) A Fire Within will be a first-of-its-kind collaboration. Both productions will feature casts and production teams comprised of faculty and students from both Creighton and UNO, as well as alumni professionals hired by Nebraska Shakespeare. Over 100 individuals will be involved to make this a reality. Part 1: FOREIGN FLAMES (Preview November 2), November 3-6*, 10, 12*, & 13* (* indicates a matinee) Part 2: A FIRE WITHIN (Preview November 9), November 11-13, 17-20 Join us for an event between the plays on November 12th, The Shakespeare Collective Presents: INTERMISSION! Individual Tickets and Packages Available 402-280-2391 | nebraskashakespeare.com/a-war-of-roses

NOVEmBER 4 & 6 7:30 PM – 11:00 PM LA BOhÈmE Opera Omaha Orpheum Theater | Omaha Fall in love with La bohème. One of the best known and beloved operas of all time, La bohème is the cherished story of love and loss. Beginning as a tale of youth, romance and optimism, a group of passionate Bohemians in Paris live as artists and musicians, celebrating life’s victories and weathering its hardships. As time passes, love turns to loss and hopefulness to heartache. Puccini’s timeless story of love, friendship and unwavering dreams has been cherished for more than a century. Maestro Leonardo Vordoni returns to Opera Omaha (Cinderella, 2014) to conduct this classic production. Omaha favorite Leah Partridge (Micaëla, Carmen, 2013, Opera Outdoors 2015, OPA Celebrate 10) will portray Mimi for the first time in these Opera Omaha performances not to be missed. 402.346.4398 | operaomaha.org

NOVEmBER 15 – 20 iRViNG BERLiN’S whiTE ChRiSTmAS Omaha Performing Arts Orpheum Theater | Omaha This holiday season discover the perfect gift for everyone on your list! Start with a timeless tale of joy and goodwill, fill it with classic Irving Berlin songs, top it off with glorious dancing and lots of snow and head on over to the Orpheum Theater to see IRVING BERLIN’S WHITE CHRISTMAS. Performances begin November 14, 2016, for this must-see classic in a lavish new production that The New York Times says to “put on your wish list.” IRVING BERLIN’S WHITE CHRISTMAS tells the story of a song-and-dance team putting on a show in a magical Vermont inn and falling for a stunning sister act in the process. Full of dancing, laughter and some of the greatest songs ever written! Give everyone the gift they’re dreaming of with this merry and bright holiday musical. Starting at $30. 402-345-0606 http://https://www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/irving-berlins-white-christmas

NOVEmBER 20 3:00 PM – 5:30 PM hANdEL’S mESSiAh Voices of Omaha Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas Street | Omaha Voices of Omaha presents its 48th performance of Handel’s Messiah. One of the most popular works in all of choral literature, “Messiah” is unique among the oratorios of Handel in being the only one which deals with the Christian Faith. The music is so moving and the texts are so compelling, this oratorio deserves its place in our musical heritage and has proven to be a lasting masterpiece for the ages with a message for the human race. Performing with Voices of Omaha and the orchestra will be: Jamie Reimer, soprano; Janet Carlsen Campbell, mezzo-soprano; Paul Koenig, tenor; Kyle Sandall, bass-baritone. The concert will be conducted by artistic director Edward Hurd. FREE - no ticket required! 402-874-0649 | voicesofomaha.org/ 93

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NOVEmBER 20 2:00 PM BALLET NEBRASkA PRESENTS ThE NUTCRACkER Ballet Nebraska The Arts Center at Iowa Western 2700 College Rd | Council Bluffs Always fresh, lively, and thoroughly entertaining, Ballet Nebraska’s The Nutcracker returns with the visual splendor and charming story that make it a family favorite. Set to one of composer Piotr Tchaikovsky’s most famous works, it transports audiences to the enchanting Land of Snow and the opulent Kingdom of Sweets, featuring a uniquely breathtaking Waltz of the Flowers scene. The Nutcracker includes a cast of nearly 150 professional and student dancers and features lavish sets and more than 240 beautiful costumes. Single Tickets: $19-$45 Groups: $17- $41 http://balletnebraska.org

NOVEmBER 24 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - ThANkSGiViNG LiGhTiNG CEREmONY Holiday Lights Festival Gene Leahy Mall | 14th and Farnam | Omaha Nothing gets Omaha charged up for the holidays quite like the annual Lighting Ceremony held on Thanksgiving evening in the Gene Leahy Mall at 14th and Farnam. Enjoy a variety of musical performances, including local mother-daughter duo Belles and Whistles, beginning at 5:30 p.m. At 6 p.m., Mayor Jean Stothert will lead the crowd in a countdown to the dazzling 2016 lighting display. FREE holidaylightsfestival.org/

NOVEmBER 24 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM hOLidAY LiGhTS fESTiVAL - mAkiNG SPiRiTS BRiGhT hOLidAY CONCERT Holiday Lights Festival Holland Performing Arts Center | 13th and Douglas streets | Omaha The Making Spirits Bright Holiday Concert- free to the public- will be presented at the Holland Performing Arts Center located at 13th and Douglas streets. The concert features special guest vocalist Drew Duncan accompanied by the Nebraska Wind Symphony directed by Keith Davis. FREE holidaylightsfestival.org/

dECEmBER 1 7:30 PM ThE TEN TENORS: hOmE fOR ThE hOLidAYS Omaha Performing Arts Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and what better way to celebrate the holiday season than with international singing sensation The TEN Tenors? Home for the Holidays is a magical experience for the whole family that will dazzle, delight and captivate audiences. Join Australia’s rock stars of the opera as they amaze and enthrall with their unique selection of traditional and contemporary seasonal favorites. With soaring versions of “Joy to the World,”“Sleigh Ride,”“White Christmas,”“Amazing Grace” and many more, Home for the Holidays is the perfect way to celebrate the spirit of the season. Following 16 years of sell-out performances across the globe, including more than 2000 of their own headline concerts, The TEN Tenors have cemented their place as one of the worlds most loved classically based contemporary music groups. Starting at $20 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/the-ten-tenors

dECEmBER 2 8:00 PM JAzz AT LiNCOLN CENTER ORChESTRA wiTh wYNTON mARSALiS ANd SPECiAL GUEST CAThERiNE RUSSELL: BiG BANd hOLidAYS Omaha Performing Arts Holland Performing Arts Center | Omaha Jazz up your holiday celebration with legendary trumpeter and band leader Wynton Marsalis! The nine-time Grammy® Award-winner brings the Jazz at Lincoln Center Orchestra and incomparable jazz vocalist, Catherine Russell, to Omaha for Big Band Holidays. This magical evening of festive music blends classical, jazz and holiday favorites including Count Basie’s “Jingle Bells” to classics like “White Christmas” and “Zat You Santa Claus?” Starting at $20 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/jazz-at-lincoln-center-orchestra

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BALLET NEBRASkA PRESENTS ThE NUTCRACkER Ballet Nebraska Orpheum Theater | Omaha Always fresh, lively, and thoroughly entertaining, Ballet Nebraska’s The Nutcracker returns with the visual splendor and charming story that make it a family favorite. Set to one of composer Piotr Tchaikovsky’s most famous works, it transports audiences to the enchanting Land of Snow and the opulent Kingdom of Sweets, featuring a uniquely breathtaking Waltz of the Flowers scene. The Nutcracker includes a cast of nearly 150 professional and student dancers and features lavish sets and more than 240 beautiful costumes. Single Tickets: $25-$62; Groups: $23-$56 http://balletnebraska.org

dECEmBER 10 RUdOLPh ThE REd-NOSEd REiNdEER: ThE mUSiCAL Omaha Performing Arts Orpheum Theater | Omaha The beloved TV classic Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer soars off the screen and onto the stage this holiday season. Come see all of your favorite characters from the special including Santa and Mrs. Claus, Hermey the Elf, Bumble the Abominable Snow Monster, Clarice, Yukon Cornelius and, of course, Rudolph, as they come to life in Rudolph The Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical. It’s an adventure that teaches us that what makes you different can be what makes you special. Don’t miss this wonderful holiday tradition that speaks to the misfit in all of us. Based on the animated television special “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” and the stage production directed and conceived by Jeff Frank and First Stage. Script adaptation by Robert Penola. Arrangements and orchestrations by Timothy Splain. Starting at $21 402-345-0606 www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/rudolph-the-red-nosed-reindeer-the-musical

dECEmBER 15 7:00 PM LiGhTwiRE ThEATER: A VERY ELECTRiC ChRiSTmAS Omaha Performing Arts Orpheum Theater | Omaha Lightwire Theater’s A Very Electric Christmas is coming to the Orpheum Theater on December 15, 2016! Follow the story of a young bird named Max and his family, as they begin their journey south for the winter. When Max gets blown off course and ends up at the North Pole…his adventure begins! Dancing toy soldiers, caroling worms and performing poinsettias light up the stage. Audiences of all ages will treasure this magical and captivating tale of family, friendship and hope set to holiday hits, including Nat King Cole, Mariah Carey and Tchaikovsky. Lightwire Theater is internationally recognized for their electroluminescent artistry, poignant story telling and performs in complete darkness. Brighten your holidays this season with Lightwire Theater’s A Very Electric Christmas. Starting at $15 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/lightwire-theater

dECEmBER 17 8:00 PM ThE fAB fOUR: ThE ULTimATE TRiBUTE Omaha Performing Arts Orpheum Theater | Omaha The Fab Four is elevated far above every other Beatles tribute due to their precise attention to detail. With uncanny, note-for-note live renditions of Beatles’ songs, The Fab Four will make you think you are watching the real thing. This incredible stage show includes three costume changes representing every era of the Beatles’ ever-changing career. This loving tribute to the Beatles has amazed audiences all over the world, including Japan, Malaysia, Hong Kong, The United Kingdom, Germany, Mexico and Brazil. Hear record-perfect live performances of such classics as “Can’t Buy Me Love,”“Yesterday,”“A Day In The Life,”“Penny Lane,”“Here Comes The Sun,” and “Hey Jude.” Starting at $25 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/the-fab-four 94

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fEBRUARY 3 8:00 PM

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Orpheum Theater | Omaha The Ultimate Holiday Tradition! MANNHEIM STEAMROLLER CHRISTMAS by Chip Davis has been America’s favorite holiday tradition for the past 30 years. Experience the magic as the spirit of the season comes alive with the signature sound of Mannheim Steamroller. Their holiday CDs have become synonymous with Christmas and continue to occupy top spots on Billboard’s Seasonal Charts every year! Starting at $38.25 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/mannheim-steamroller_2016

Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha Distant Worlds returns to Omaha with an exciting new program, Distant Worlds: music from FINAL FANTASY! This international concert phenomenon features Nobuo Uematsu’s stirring music from one of the most popular video games of all time! Conducted by Grammy Award®-winner Arnie Roth. Starting at $30 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/distant-worlds-music-from-final-fantasy

fEBRUARY 7 8:00 PM whERE ThE wiLd ThiNGS LiVE wiTh PhOTOGRAPhER ViNCENT J. mUSi Omaha Performing Arts

JANUARY 20 8:00 PM JAmiSON ROSS Omaha Performing Arts Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha Rising star Jamison Ross delivers his hard-hitting, rhythmic jazz in Omaha for the first time! Comfortable drawing on classics while drifting toward urban beats, this gifted young drummer and vocalist won the 2012 Thelonious Monk International Jazz Competition and earned a 2016 Grammy® nod for his debut album, “Jamison.” $25 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/jamison-ross

JANUARY 24 – 29 ThE SOUNd Of mUSiC Omaha Performing Arts Orpheum Theater | Omaha THE HILLS ARE ALIVE! A brand new production of THE SOUND OF MUSIC, directed by three-time Tony Award® winner Jack O’Brien, is coming to Omaha. 2015 marked the 50th anniversary of the film version, which continues to be the most successful movie musical in history. Starting at $30 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/the-sound-of-music

Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha A veteran photographer who has explored the connections between animals and humans, Vincent J. Musi has been spit at by a chimpanzee, screamed at by a prairie dog and charged by a pig — all in a day’s work. Starting at $10 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/where-the-wild-things-live

fEBRUARY 9 7:30 PM ThE fiVE iRiSh TENORS SALUTE TO iRELANd Omaha Performing Arts Holland Performing Arts Center | 1200 Douglas St | Omaha Following in the footsteps of the great Irish Tenor John McCormack, in a sensational program, The Five Irish Tenors fuse Irish wit and boisterous charm, with lyricism, dramatic flair and operatic style to bring you a unique Irish tenor concert experience. This concert project is the first tour ever in North America of Ireland’s most popular ensemble, and has been specially recreated from the major cities in Ireland for the United States and Canada. Starting at $15 402-345-0606 | www.ticketomaha.com/Productions/the-five-irish-tenors

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balance. If there’s anyone out there who can appreciate more than I can, the benefits of living in balance, I’d dearly love to meet them. For much of my life I’ve utterly qualified as “imbalanced”. My early childhood was “challenging”, and – without going into detail regarding the specific nature of those challenges (because it wouldn’t serve the focus of this message) – suffice it to say that as I developed and matured (more accurately, failed to mature) it became increasingly evident that I was a “casualty” – rather than a beneficiary – of my upbringing. I’m not here to articulate or debate what constitutes as childhood abuse, neglect, ineptitude, etc. or to imply that those responsible for my care in any way intended to do me harm, merely to acknowledge that harm ultimately was done. Few of us have emerged from our childhood and adolescence without scars, triggers, baggage and challenges to overcome. For most of us, inevitably, these “liabilities” prove to be essential components in our character development; in equipping us as “overcomers”. But for many of us the intensity, nature and level of what we experience growing up leaves us traumatized and fragmented, largely incapacitated, poorly equipped, and more excessively flawed than our fellows. We have a term for such people –“mentally ill”. I qualify. I was “certified” as mentally ill in my late twenties. Clearly something was severely “scrambled” and I was not a fully-functional person. For the next thirty-plus years I was engaged in a series of repeated – often conflicting – attempts to provide diagnoses, treatments and therapies, endeavoring to “unscramble” (or at least offer some form of symptomatic relief) for the “imbalance” I consistently displayed. The evidence of that instability manifested in various forms, and the causes remained a mystery which defied understanding or resolution, as year after year ticked off, and I lurched along doing whatever I could to “simulate” being a human being. With each passing year (then decade) my sense of frustration, guilt, shame, inferiority, inadequacy, and helplessness grew, adding momentum to the energies pushing me farther into imbalance. Again, I am not here to articulate the “hell” of what it was like to span those decades in search of (and denied any attainment of) any lasting form of hope, peace, clarity, normalcy or worth. Nor am I here to share how much of a wicked labyrinth life can be, for those of us who are denied – either through trauma, chemical imbalance, injury, or a combination of these things – our essential sense of “sanity,” and the resources most people take for granted. I share this prologue only to establish my prolonged and profound relationship with insanity, instability and imbalance. We all experience these things to one degree or another. None of us qualifies as perfectly or completely “sane”. No one is without arenas of imbalance or instability in our lives, it’s a fundamental aspect of being human. For those of us who have a more ongoing and intense experience of our “humanity,” we have the paperwork (and recovery-work) to document our status as mentally diseased. But there are many “normal” folks walking around who may not have the same paperwork, but are nevertheless still “sick” – displaying symptoms of their own persistent imbalance and instability, perhaps better disguised, or better managed, yet still not all that healthy or productive. Each of us – even those who do not qualify as mentally ill, operates (at least enough to create some form of ongoing distress or concern) in less than “the peak” of mental/emotional health and stability, exhibiting patterns of belief and behavior that also deny us the attainment of our own hope, peace, clarity, worth, and…balance. If my acknowledgment of being “designated” and “certified” as mentally ill disqualifies me in your mind; if it somehow makes anything I would say here seem more questionable, more irrelevant to you, I would encourage you to read on nevertheless. If I (admittedly more excessively retarded and damaged than you may have been) have been granted insights which have helped liberate me from my more persistent and pernicious instabilities and imbalances, might not those insights offer benefits for those who (though less “certifiable”) still seek a remedy for their own arenas of imbalance or “insanity”? Just as with cancer survivors who educate us about healthy eating habits, or heart attack survivors who share their cardiovascular health-maintenance routines, those of us who survive mental illness and discover our way back (however long or arduous the path) to a place of restoration and wholeness, may have something worth sharing with those who, though not as challenged as us, can still benefit from the disciplines we are compelled to master. Permit me, briefly then, to share how I have found lasting restoration and ease, as a remedy to my inherent imbalances and deficiencies.

Embrace your Darkest Fears and Uncertainties. Choose to acknowledge and deepen your awareness and understanding of the things you most dread about yourself and your life challenges. Seek out counseling that will facilitate this as an ongoing process in your daily life. There’s gold in those caves! Acknowledge your Own “Mental Illness”.We still labor under such outdated, outmoded and archaic values regarding disorders of the mind & soul. We still carry so ROBERT P. KILLMER many cultural taboos and prejudices regarding this aspect of health (or lack thereof). If Editor@SpiritofOmaha.com someone breaks (suffers a traumatic break) of a leg, we absolutely urge them to seek medical attention! If someone exhibits symptoms of a physical malady, we would never suggest that they should “keep it to themselves” and simply “deal with it” privately. In fact, we would consider that abnormal! Yet our attitudes towards the mental/emotional maladies of others or (God forbid!) ourselves, remain steeped in shame. We all need professional, qualified help when attempting to make our lives work, regardless of the arena. Six of the most important words in managing our life and health are, “I think I may be sick.” Cultivate a Meditative Lifestyle. I just lost 50% of you. Listen, I’m not talking about being obligated to assume the lotus position for an hour (or even 10 minutes) every day, I’m talking about cultivating a practice of mindfulness, of self-awareness and other-awareness as a part of your moment-to-moment daily routine. I wrote in much more depth about this in my column on page 96 in our FEB/MAR/APR 2016 edition. It’s not the easiest practice to initiate at first, but it (like most disciplines) ceases to be a discipline after about three weeks, and becomes like breathing. (Which brings me to the next practice.) Remember to Breathe.The minute you feel yourself out-of-balance (you’ll get better at it with practice, see the paragraph above) just take a deep breath. The longer and slower the breath, the more likely you are to feel yourself re-centering. Center is the seat of your balance. I cannot tell you how many times simply taking a deep breath has made a huge difference in my ability to reset and more effectively manage the moments in my life. Try it, you’ll see. Slow Things Down.The more rushed the situation compels you to be, the more important it is to simply set a slower pace. We’ve all witnessed drivers on the highway that dart in and out of cars, tailgating and racing through traffic – placing their lives (and the rest of ours) at risk to gain, what – 90 yards farther down the road and 10 seconds (if that!) earlier to their destination? Every day life situations “drive” us to pace ourselves in this way. You’ll be gratified to discover how much more effectively you process through those situations by slowing them down. You don’t complete your priorities that much more quickly (and certainly not as efficiently) by racing through them. Try slowing down your movements, walk, talk, breathe…slower, not faster, when things speed up. Avoid the Seductiveness of Extremes. It’s probably self-evident that operating from a position of extremism is inherently “imbalanced”. We wouldn’t dream of attempting to navigate across a high-wire by holding onto to the extreme ends of the balancing rod, but we persistently embrace extremism in the way we navigate through life – holding onto extremist attitudes about ourselves and others. Think about it: how close to the middle is your grasp of your attitudes regarding any important issue of the day, or in your life and relationships? Friends, life is a high wire. Live beyond the Illusion of Attachments.There is a huge difference between Appreciation and Attachment, yet few of us are aware of the important distinctions between the two. We are nourished in the healthy appreciation of those who love us, yet we are drained by those who cling to us, feeding off of our life energy and essence. Sadly, most of us live from a “clingy,” expectation-based approach to virtually every area of our lives, including our relationships. We are utterly attached to achieving a predetermined set of results or outcomes regarding those things which we desire and seek out. This blinds us to all of the beautiful things we can encounter and experience along the way, including so many miracles we would never have sought out ourselves! Process is Everything. When we live unattached and appreciative, we rediscover our authentic center and our unique sense of balance and inner harmony. We can’t get there without embracing the disciplines outlined above, and more. But there are rewards. With Balance (as with so many things in life) the journey is the destination.

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