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IMPORTANT FACTS FOR BIKTARVY®

This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY® and does not replace talking to your healthcare provider about your condition and your treatment.

MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT BIKTARVY

BIKTARVY may cause serious side e ects, including:

 Worsening of hepatitis B (HBV) infection. Your healthcare provider will test you for HBV. If you have both HIV-1 and HBV, your HBV may suddenly get worse if you stop taking BIKTARVY. Do not stop taking BIKTARVY without first talking to your healthcare provider, as they will need to check your health regularly for several months, and may give you HBV medicine.

ABOUT BIKTARVY

BIKTARVY is a complete, 1-pill, once-a-day prescription medicine used to treat HIV-1 in adults and children who weigh at least 55 pounds. It can either be used in people who have never taken HIV-1 medicines before, or people who are replacing their current HIV-1 medicines and whose healthcare provider determines they meet certain requirements.

BIKTARVY does not cure HIV-1 or AIDS. HIV-1 is the virus that causes AIDS.

Do NOT take BIKTARVY if you also take a medicine that contains:

 dofetilide

 rifampin

 any other medicines to treat HIV-1

BEFORE TAKING BIKTARVY

Tell your healthcare provider if you:

 Have or have had any kidney or liver problems, including hepatitis infection.

 Have any other health problems.

 Are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. Tell your healthcare provider if you become pregnant while taking BIKTARVY.

 Are breastfeeding (nursing) or plan to breastfeed. Talk to your healthcare provider about the risks of breastfeeding during treatment with BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider about all the medicines you take:

 Keep a list that includes all prescription and over-thecounter medicines, antacids, laxatives, vitamins, and herbal supplements, and show it to your healthcare provider and pharmacist.

 BIKTARVY and other medicines may a ect each other. Ask your healthcare provider and pharmacist about medicines that interact with BIKTARVY, and ask if it is safe to take BIKTARVY with all your other medicines.

POSSIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF BIKTARVY

BIKTARVY may cause serious side e ects, including:

 Those in the “Most Important Information About BIKTARVY” section.

 Changes in your immune system. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that may have been hidden in your body. Tell your healthcare provider if you have any new symptoms after you start taking BIKTARVY.

 Kidney problems, including kidney failure. Your healthcare provider should do blood and urine tests to check your kidneys. If you develop new or worse kidney problems, they may tell you to stop taking BIKTARVY.

 Too much lactic acid in your blood (lactic acidosis), which is a serious but rare medical emergency that can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: weakness or being more tired than usual, unusual muscle pain, being short of breath or fast breathing, stomach pain with nausea and vomiting, cold or blue hands and feet, feel dizzy or lightheaded, or a fast or abnormal heartbeat.

 Severe liver problems, which in rare cases can lead to death. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you get these symptoms: skin or the white part of your eyes turns yellow, dark “tea-colored” urine, light-colored stools, loss of appetite for several days or longer, nausea, or stomach-area pain.

 The most common side e ects of BIKTARVY in clinical studies were diarrhea (6%), nausea (6%), and headache (5%).

These are not all the possible side e ects of BIKTARVY. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any new symptoms while taking BIKTARVY. You are encouraged to report negative side e ects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.FDA.gov/medwatch or call 1-800-FDA-1088.

Your healthcare provider will need to do tests to monitor your health before and during treatment with BIKTARVY.

HOW TO TAKE BIKTARVY

Take BIKTARVY 1 time each day with or without food.

GET MORE INFORMATION

 This is only a brief summary of important information about BIKTARVY. Talk to your healthcare provider or pharmacist to learn more.

 Go to BIKTARVY.com or call 1-800-GILEAD-5.

 If you need help paying for your medicine, visit BIKTARVY.com for program information.

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HAPPY HOLIDAYS AND CHEERS TO 2025!

AS THE YEAR DRAWS TO A CLOSE, WE FIND OURSELVES REFLECTING ON THE JOURNEY WE’VE TAKEN TOGETHER. In a world that continues to change at lightning speed, we are so grateful to have you alongside us - whether you’ve been with METROSOURCE for years or are a recent addition to our magazine family.

This year, our team worked hard to bring you the stories, ideas, and voices that inspire, challenge, and entertain. From exploring the latest trends and innovations to celebrating the people and moments that make life special, it has been our privilege to curate content that resonates with you and highlights life through the LGBTQ lens.

In this holiday issue, we have curated products to help your skin sparkle, board games to bring the excitement, events to brighten your festivities, and our Holiday Gift Guide for 2024. Alongside these seasonal offerings, we have our exclusive interviews with cover feature Jesse Tyler Ferguson, the burlesque beauty Miss Tosh, and the critically acclaimed Cellovoci.

With the holidays being a time for reflection, connection, and gratitude, we would like to take a moment to thank you for your unwavering support. Your feedback, your engagement, and your passion for what we do continue to drive us to push the boundaries of creativity and excellence.You are the reason we do what we do, and we are so thankful for each and every one of you.

Looking ahead to the new year, we are excited for what’s to come… with fresh voices, new topics, and exciting stories in the works. We are committed to making 2025 even more inspiring, thought-provoking, and entertaining.

From all of us here at METROSOURCE, we wish you and your loved ones a joyful and peaceful holiday season. May this time bring you moments of rest, laughter, and connection with family and friends, and may the year ahead be filled with adventure and endless inspiration.

Thank you for being a part of our family. We look forward to sharing another amazing year with you.

With Gratitude,

EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Michael Westman

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December 2024 / January 2025 | VOLUME 35, NO. 6

CULTURE

7 THE SCOPE

Nai’s is embodying queerness in music. Colman Domingo starts in The Madness. The Guncle Abroad is the second in the series. Visit the Underground Speakeasy at the Mob Museum. Everybody’s had them, everybody can relate to them, and now Bad Dates is back.

HOLIDAYS

24 It’s Game Night!

These board games are your tickets to excitement this season

30 Holiday Pampering How to Pamper Yourself this Holiday Season 42 Holiday Gift Guide 2024

TRAVEL

46 IRELAND

Have a Royal Holiday in Ireland’s Historic Castles

4 EDITOR’S LETTER Happy Holidays and Cheers to 2025!

CURATED

BY

MICHAEL WESTMAN

THESCOPE

LISTEN

As If It Was You

WITH HEAD TURNING, SHOCKING VISUALS, AND RAW, EMOTIONAL COMPOSITIONS, NAI’A IS NOT JUST MAKING MUSIC, BUT ART. One of Music Forward’s recent LGBTQ+ Emerging Artist Award Winners, Nai’s is embodying queerness in music.

In 2020 Nai’a started to hone his skills as a self-produced artist through masterclasses with Grammy award winning producer Mike Mangini (The Jonas Brothers, AJR, Baha Men),

and platinum selling songwriter Coley O’Toole (We The Kings). That year Nai’a released his first works.

After posting a video at the piano in 2022, Nai’a’s “London” found its first audience. With over 100 thousand streams across platforms and nearly half a million plays on TikTok, “London” was his first big success. But Nai’a was just beginning. In his hometown, he cultivated his first live show at a local church. Quickly, Nai’a

went on to perform his original music internationally with shows in Las Vegas (AREA 15), and London, England (Breaking Sound). Now living in New York City, he has performed at almost every local music venue (Rockwood Music Hall, The Delancey, Berlin Under Ave A).

As If It Was You, Nai’a’s second album, was released on September 13th, and includes new intimate ballads that will make you melt. Listen on Spotify, Apple Music or Amazon Music.

WATCH

THE MADNESS

Starring Emmy® Award Winner Colman Domingo will premiere globally on Netflix on November 28, 2024.

IN THE MADNESS, MEDIA PUNDIT MUNCIE DANIELS (COLMAN DOMINGO) IS A POLITICAL CONSULTANT-TURNED-TV PUNDIT WHO MAY HAVE LOST HIS WAY IN LIFE. While on a work sabbatical in the Poconos to write the great American novel, Muncie finds himself the only witness to the murder of a well-known white supremacist, and now he’s being framed for the crime. Muncie is forced to go on the run in a desperate fight to clear his name and unravel a global conspiracy before time runs out. Along the way he’ll reconnect with his family, find unlikely allies, and fight against disinformation in a post-truth age. The cast includes Colman Domingo, Marsha Stephanie Blake, Gabrielle Graham, John Ortiz, Tamsin Topolski, and TJ Mixon.

READ THE GUNCLE ABROAD

By Steven Rowley

STEVEN ROWLEY IS THE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING AUTHOR OF FOUR NOVELS AND THE WINNER OF THE 22ND THURBER PRIZE FOR AMERICAN HUMOR. The Guncle Abroad is the second in the series.

Patrick O’Hara is back. It’s been five years since his summer as his niece Maisie and nephew Grant’s caretaker after their mother’s passing. The kids are back in Connecticut with their dad, and Patrick has relocated to New York to remain close by and relaunch his dormant acting career. After the run of his second successful sit-com comes to a close, Patrick feels on top of the world… professionally. But some things have had to take a back seat. Looking down both barrels at fifty, Patrick is single again after breaking things off with Emory. But at least he has a family to lean on. Until that family needs to again lean on him.

When Patrick’s brother, Greg, announces he’s getting remarried in Italy, Maisie and Grant are not thrilled. Patrick feels drawn to take the two back under his wing. As they travel through Europe on their way to the wedding, Patrick tries his best to help them understand love, much as he once helped them comprehend grief. But when they arrive in Italy, Patrick is overextended managing a groom with cold feet; his sister, Clara, flirting with guests left and right; a growing rivalry with the kids’ charming soon-to-be-launt (lesbian aunt), and two moody young teens trying to adjust to a new normal, all culminating in a disastrous rehearsal dinner.

Can Patrick save the day? Will teaching the kids about love help him repair his own love life? Can the change of scenery help Patrick come to terms with finally growing up? Gracing the page with his signature blend of humor and heart, Steven Rowley charms with a beloved story about the complicated bonds of family, love, and what it takes to rediscover yourself, even at the ripe age of fifty.

THE UNDERGROUND SPEAKEASY

The Mob Museum

300 Stewart Ave

Las Vegas, NV 89101

THE UNDERGROUND SPEAKEASY AND DISTILLERY AT THE MOB MUSEUM, THE NATIONAL MUSEUM OF ORGANIZED CRIME AND LAW ENFORCEMENT, IS RAISING A GLASS TO THE END OF PROHIBITION WITH ITS ANNUAL REPEAL DAY PARTY. Guests can look forward to enthralling entertainment all night long as well as limited-time specialty cocktails. The Underground’s seasonal, housedistilled Peppermint Moonshine also returns just in time for holiday gifting. Live music will continue throughout December, allowing guests to keep the celebration going all month long at Las Vegas’ premier speakeasy.

The Repeal Day Party is Thursday, December 5th at 8pm. Entry is free at the secret side door to visitors who know the password “1933”; current passwords are published daily on Instagram Stories @MobMuseum_Underground.

Guests 21 or older can step back in time inside The Underground speakeasy for a spirited celebration toasting to the end of Prohibition. Live jazz by Cheyenne Adams and The Dirty Business and a specially curated selection of craft cocktails awaits. Attendees are invited to dress in their finest era attire to experience a taste of history in Las Vegas’ most iconic speakeasy.

Raise a glass to Repeal Day with a delicious lineup of Prohibition-era-inspired cocktails –perfectly crafted to toast to the end of dry days in true speakeasy fashion. The lineup of cocktails available for a limited time includes the Blackberry Paloma (Tres Generaciones Blanco Tequila, Creme de Mure, lemon, vermouth and grapefruit soda), Goodbye Kiss (Basil Hayden Dark Rye, apricot liqueur, chartreuse and a dash of bitters), Tiki Time (Toki Japanese Whisky, coconut, pineapple amaro and orange), and Repeal Day Sour (the first known recipes for sour cocktails come from Jerry Thomas’ 1862 book the “Bartender’s Guide,” but this Repeal Day Sour goes beyond Prohibition’s classic Sidecar cocktail. Combining Roku Gin, fresh grapefruit, amaro and Aperol, The Underground has crafted this refreshing citrusy, sweet and jubilant sour.)

VISIT

BAD DATES

With Joel Kim Booster

EVERYBODY’S HAD THEM, EVERYBODY CAN RELATE TO THEM, AND NOW BAD DATES IS BACK FOR SEASON TWO WITH MORE OF THE WILDEST YOU’VE EVER HEARD! Join host Joel Kim Booster (Loot, Fire Island, Netflix) as he invites his favorite funny friends to share their most iconic dating fiascos. From the team behind the hit podcast SmartLess, BAD DATES will make you laugh a lot, cry a little, and cringe just enough. Because as we all know - the worst dates make the best stories. It’s a new host, but the same old mess! Listen anywhere you get podcasts.

SF SKETCHFEST

Various Venues

January 16 through February 2, 2025 sfsketchfest.com

THIS MULTI-DAY COMEDY FESTIVAL WILL HOST OVER 180 SHOWS, BRINGING MAJOR COMEDY STARS AND THE BEST UPAND-COMING COMEDIANS TOGETHER FOR OVER TWO WEEKS OF SKETCH, STAND-UP, ALTERNATIVE COMEDY, MUSIC, IMPROV, TRIBUTES, LIVE PODCASTS AND MORE. Now in its 22nd year, SF Sketchfest is an internationally recognized, eclectic, and critically acclaimed festival which features special

programming, never-before-seen events, and the rare opportunity for audiences to see favorite performers in intimate live settings.

Some highlights include:

• Saturday Night Live alumn Ana Gasteyer joins The Groundlings 50th Anniversary Show which also includes Michael Hitchcock, Laraine Newman, Phil LaMarr, Oscar Nunez, Julia Sweeney and more; and Theme Park Improv alongside Kevin Pollak, Gary Anthony Williams, Rachel Dratch, and more.

• An Evening with “Mr. Throwback” features the creators, directors and stars of the hit show in a lively Q&A where all secrets will be divulged and all mysteries will be explained. With Adam Pally, Ayden Mayeri, David Caspe, Daniel Libman, Matthew Libman, David Wain, and more.

• Tim Curry (“The Rocky Horror Picture Show”) appearing in person for a very special tribute hosted by local drag legend Peaches Christ.

• Music and comedy with Bill Murray and His Blood Brothers band featuring Mike Zito and Albert Castiglia.

• 45th anniversary of the film “Airplane!” live read featuring co-creator David Zucker, original star Robert Hays and surprise guests

• Members of The State and The Kids in the Hall.

• Celebrity Autobiography with a cast including Pamela Adlon, Richard Kind, Ralph Macchio, Laraine Newman, Jennifer Tilly and Blair Underwood.

• Comedians Maria Bamford, Chris Fleming, Joel Kim Booster, Dulcé Sloan, Rhys Darby, Robby Hoffman, Punkie Johnson, Aparna Nancherla, The Sklar Brothers, Nore Davis, Josh Gondelman, Alison Leiby, Kate Willett, Hampton Yount, Nori Reed, Todd Barry, and Todd Glass, and many more!

Check out the SF Sketchfest 2025 lineup at sfsketchfest.com.

Stopping HIV Can Start Here

THE BEAUTY OF BURLESQUE MISS TOSH

THIS HOLIDAY SEASON, VOSS EVENTS, RESPONSIBLE FOR STAGE SHOWS LIKE RUPAUL’S DRAG RACE WERQ THE WORLD TOUR AND LOS ANGELES’ VAULT SPEAKEASY, TRANSFORMS 26,000 SQUARE FEET AT 548 WEST 22ND STREET IN NEW YORK CITY INTO A BURLESQUE HOLIDAY FANTASY, BOTH FANCIFUL AND SENSUAL, FOR ITS FOURTH ANNUAL SANTA’S SECRET. One of the show’s headliners is internationally acclaimed burlesque star, Miss Tosh, who returns to the show hot off the heels of a multishow run in Los Angeles. She is the queen of glitz and glamour who is challenging the norms of burlesque by promoting inclusivity and diversity. Known as the LGBTQ + Glambassador, she proudly promotes her queer style and sensibility, fighting stereotypes along the way. She also uses the art form and celebrates sexuality as a form of women empowerment.

Burlesque became prevalent in the United States in the late 1800s, first introduced in the 1860s by a British dance troupe. The women were seen as fearless and they turned the tables on the upper class using high glamour, singing, scandalous humor, and dancing to comment on the elite’s social behaviors. Miss Tosh comes from that culture, she didn’t just come into the art form, she was born into it. Entertainment runs in her veins.

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

I come from a rich lineage of burlesque and vaudeville performers on both my mother’s and father’s sides. My greatgreat-grandmother, Maisie Evans, was an acrobatic performer and burlesque dancer who toured the country during the 1800s and early 1900s with her big band and Acro partner, who would wear a striped swimsuit and handlebar mustache. She even graced the Globe Theater in Los Angeles where I produced my show “Beauty of Burlesque” for many years until the theater sadly shut down in February 2024.

On my mother’s side, my great-greataunt, Betty Healey, was married to Ted Healey, the founder of the Three Stooges. Bettie made a huge impact on American comedy through film, as well as the vaudeville, and Burlesque theaters. She was born to my great-great-grandmother Gracie St. Claire, who was a renowned vaudeville performer in the mid-1800s.

You could say that my family has been woven into the fabric of Los Angeles and Hollywood since the very beginning. I feel incredibly fortunate to carry on the traditions of vaudeville and Burlesque in today’s contemporary society.

Miss Tosh would begin her journey into the world of Burlesque, inspired by the artists around her, and by those artists who came before her.

My first exposure to Burlesque came through images of my relatives, but it truly transformed when my dance mentor, Debbie Allen, shared videos of Josephine Baker performing topless in Paris. It was the first time I witnessed a woman so liberated and celebrated for her sensual artistry, and I found it enchanting and beautiful. From that moment, I was hooked.

I was also captivated by photographs of Sally Rand, a legendary feather fan dancer. I feel incredibly fortunate to have performed in the same theaters where she graced the stage, and I’ve had the pleasure of becoming friends with her descendants. They’ve shared some fascinating stories about the remarkable Sally Rand, who was not just a performer but also a savvy businesswoman well ahead of her time, performing her famous fan dance well into her 80s.

When she was 18, Tosh moved to Chicago to attend the School of the Art Institute of Chicago. There she would hone her fashion skills as a fierce designer, earning scholarships and

awards, including a from Swarovski Crystals for her excellence in design & pattern making. It was also during that time that the burlesque bug would bite, courtesy of the queer community.

I became friends with the local drag scene, which played a pivotal role in my artistic journey. My dear friend, the late JoJo Baby, an incredible performance artist and dollmaker, along with my friend Sissy Spastik, took me under their wing and encouraged me to create my own act.

In the iconic queer bar Berlin, I created my very first burlesque performance, which remains one of my most famous acts called “Peeling.” In this act, I wear a tuxedo and dramatically remove a banana from my pants, peeling it and offering it to a special guest in the audience with a very suggestive champagne pop finale. It’s definitely one of my most beloved acts since I created it the year I came out. I’ve had the pleasure of performing it all around the world for 14 years now and enjoying every moment of it!

Burlesque is not just about the time on stage for Miss Tosh. The actual performance is a testament to her entire life as an artist. What you see onstage is a culmination of blood, sweat, and tears.

What I love about burlesque is that it’s a performance art form full of creative potential, where the possibilities are truly endless. On the surface, it appears glamorous, but beneath that veneer lies the hard work of real artists—building, sewing, and creating every element of the performance. This includes everything from creating music and choreographing routines to designing props and costumes, crafting stories and scripts, and infusing humor and structure into the acts. Burlesque is about transformation, entrepreneurship, branding, marketing, and even integrating technology into performance. It serves as a vessel for my creativity, allowing me to explore and express myself without being pigeonholed in any way. There’s also something quite human about Burlesque. I give the audience permission to relish their sensuality on a human level, which is an experience that connects us all. Through this relationship I have with the audience, I feel free to express myself, and I am incredibly fortunate to have this opportunity.

Having fought my way through the ups and downs of life to embrace my creativity, I am filled with gratitude every time I step on stage. It’s a privilege to share my art and

I COME FROM A RICH LINEAGE OF BURLESQUE AND VAUDEVILLE PERFORMERS ON BOTH MY MOTHER’S AND FATHER’S SIDES.”

connect with audiences in such a meaningful way.

Typically, burlesque is geared towards straight men, enticed by the tease and beauty of the female performers. As a queer artist, Miss Tosh challenges the norms of sexuality and gender. As an audience member, you are captivated and enticed, regardless of how you identify. But her journey as a Glambassador did not come without its bumps.

When I began performing Burlesque, there were hardly any openly gay Burlesque performers in the public eye. At that time, the most iconic queer stars were in TV talk shows. I admired their journey, but I couldn’t

quite relate to them, especially when it came to my version of femininity. I absolutely love and adore the feminine expression I found in burlesque—it’s glamorous yet strong, embodying a rebellious ownership of body and identity that truly inspired me.

I started my journey, blissfully unaware of how cruel people can be, especially those who wield fame and power. I quickly learned that who I am and the message I wanted to share felt like a threat to many heterosexual women and men in the industry. They seemed to have built their careers on seducing famous men, while I came in and challenged the purpose and meaning behind

building a career in burlesque. I have always committed to being myself and relying on my own hard work to build a career. I see now it gave queer people permission to own their expression, turning it into a form of liberation rather than just a way to attract the male gaze—especially for gay and queer performers and patrons.

Burlesque in the United States started to decline in the 1940s as the country was recovering from World War II and the Great Depression. But the art would remain part of the culture and because of younger generations fascinated with vintage styles and dance, it would never go away.

It has had a major reboot courtesy of pop culture (remember Cher’s movie?) and a desire to celebrate classic sexuality through dance.

Burlesque theaters have always been places both men and women could patronize, which is something very unique when you think of erotic art and how it is consumed historically. At the turn of the century women were just starting to leave their homes without suitors and making their own choices and a lot of these early liberated experiences happened within the Burlesque theaters. Yes, the shows were originally to entertain the male gaze, but I do think over time they turned in favor of

women in their feminine power.

But what I absolutely love about contemporary society today is the incredible creativity, diversity, and humanity being shared, not just within the Burlesque community but also among the audiences. Today you can find a Burlesque show in every major city around the globe! During my travels, I’m continually stunned and impressed that this art form has endured for hundreds of years, remaining a vital part of our entertainment history as humanity.

Sex, satire, and the expression of the body have always fascinated people, whether they’re watching or performing. I believe that now, more than ever, we need this kind of show to voice our truths, connect with audiences, break the fourth wall, and share glimmers of inspiration with one another.

Being openly queer isn’t just about making a statement for Miss Tosh. Her queer identity just adds a sensibility and texture to her acts, whether the audience knows it or not. Onstage, she also plays with gender roles, playing with the energies of personalities like Marilyn Monroe and Marlene Dietrich.

On the surface, I want people to be entertained, and I take immense pride in making my performances visually stunning. The showmanship, the costumes, and the props are all created with intention and skill. However, at the root of what I do, I aim to make social statements through my performance and storytelling, telling a queer narrative from my perspective. I always perform from a position of strength and queer power.

When I tell sapphic stories in my work, they are authentically reflective of how I live and love in my life. I’m not playing a character on stage; I am an amplified expression of my true essence as a woman who loves women. I feel like in history, queer stories have been far too few, and I hope that through my performance art, I can share my own with the world.

Humor and satire play a huge role in Burlesque and definitely in my work. There’s a sense of connection I create with the audience; even if they can’t fully relate to my story, they can connect with the warmth and invitation to participate in the fantasy I’m painting. Whether I’m drawing from my own fantasies or true-life stories,

I often wonder, “What if the old Hollywood starlet was a lesbian icon?” and in embracing that, I become the role model I never had, moving through the world in that way.

If you have had the honor of seeing her perform, you know there is a magnetic energy the minute the light hits her. Her acts are masterfully put together, and she takes the audience on a ride. What is her creative process in presenting a new performance?

Instead of glamorizing the victim, I reclaim the power, and, in turn, he falls victim and I reveal my nude body, knife in hand. It’s my revenge fantasy, reclaiming power for women who have historically been the targets and victims in famous films.

Then there’s my Christmas act, where I reimagine the song, “Santa Baby,” as a sapphic love story. Instead of wanting to be seduced by material gifts, I’d rather have Santa’s wife for Christmas! I love weaving these whimsical, weird, fun, and silly stories into my performances, which adds a layer of humor and creativity to the stage.

Her audiences are diverse. Gay, straight, in between, old, young, cis, trans, they all come together. By the end of an evening with Miss Tosh, everyone is united in laughter, applause, and a feeling of belonging. This is the future of Burlesque.

By definition, Burlesque means comedic satire, and I believe society needs more diverse voices when it comes to expressing how we feel about the world. It serves as a healthy way to make political, creative, and social statements, all of which resonate with the body. Burlesque is a beautiful creative outlet that allows people to share their stories, make impactful statements, and even rebel. We need to hear more stories from as many kinds of perspectives possible so we have a deeper understanding of the human experience.

In a scene out of a classic-turned-modern Hollywood movie, Miss Tosh was proposed to on stage by a fellow performer, Katrina Kemp. The two couldn’t be more in love. It’s a burlesque fantasy brought to life.

I can’t express how incredible it is to have Katrina in my life; it feels like I’ve opened a new chapter in a fairytale. Katrina and I have been best friends for 13 years, and for over a decade, we’ve both had a crush on

each other. We were never brave enough to share our feelings because we valued our friendship so much and didn’t want to risk rejection and losing one another.

I’ve faced significant trials in my life. However, all those experiences have made me deeply grateful for the joy, love, and kindness I now receive from my love. I feel incredibly lucky because this kind of love is truly rare, and I believe fate has brought us together.

Separately, they are consummate performers on their own, together, they are a veritable force. What has Miss Tosh learned the most from Katrina?

Katrina has taught me the true power of friendship. To really love someone, you must first be a genuine friend. That love stems from loyalty and that “ride or die” energy, being there for one another in every situation. She has always shown up for me and her loved ones, remaining consistent and kind.

Katrina has also taught me the importance of joy and the choice to embrace it. Her zest for life reminds me that while challenges will always come our way, it’s our willingness to face them that matters. We can come out on the other side, share a good laugh, and say, “Well, that was tough, but we made it!” She is truly my rock and my silver-lining.

As a fashion designer maven, Miss Tosh of course has her own clothing line that celebrates

classic Hollywood with modern sass, with the release of new items for the holidays. With a thriving performing career, wedding plans to be made, and new fashions to design, what is most on her mind when looking towards 2025?

My New Year’s resolution is to take the time to truly live. So much happens within a year, and I often find myself moving from one thing to the next without pausing. In our fast-paced society, maintaining that energetic momentum is important, but I believe it’s equally vital to take the time to “touch grass” and absorb the beauty in simple moments.

I want to make a conscious effort to slow down and appreciate life, take walks, and soak in my surroundings. My goal is to be as present and alive as I can be, cherishing each experience along the way.

And her message to the queer community?

My message to the queer community this year is: I see you. We matter and we are valuable. We are irreplaceable, visible, strong, powerful, and influential. We are beautiful, and our lives matter. Despite the inevitable challenges that lie ahead, we are united as a community. Through our collective strength, we can create incomparable change. Together, we can truly make an impact on our queer future. ■

JESSE TYLER FERGUSON

AMERICA’S FAVORITE REDHEAD

BY STEVE GOTTFRIED

JESSE TYLER FERGUSON IS PERHAPS BEST KNOWN FOR HIS PORTRAYAL AS THE LOVABLE MITCHELL PRITCHETT IN THE GROUNDBREAKING SITCOM MODERN FAMILY WHICH FEATURED A SAME-SEX COUPLE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. While it took five seasons for them to officially tie the knot, their presence helped normalize and humanize what otherwise had been relegated to a hot-button political hot potato. Over the course of Modern Family’s 11 year run, Jesse was nominated for an Emmy five times, but mystifyingly never took home the gold. But more important than any piece of hardware, Jesse’s “Mitchell” found his way into our hearts, largely due to Jesse’s innate humanity infusing the character with qualities that made him lovable and relatable, leaving an indelible imprint on our cultural landscape. But there’s a whole other Jesse that exists apart from the character he played on Modern Family. I had a chance to talk at length with Jesse about his delectable podcast Dinner’s On Me, his Tony win for Take Me Out and the bullying he faced growing up in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He left home at the age of 17 moving to New York to pursue his dream of being an actor while taking on odd jobs to stay afloat, laying the foundation for a diverse career in theatre, film, television and most recently, the pod-o-sphere.

Talk to me about your childhood. What was little Jesse like?

Little Jesse was very shy, believe it or not. I grew up in Albuquerque, New Mexico, in the late 70s, early 80s. It was a difficult place to grow up as a closeted kid. It’s also a tough place to grow up as a redhead, being a desert. I had a hard time finding my people, and I think part of the reason was because I went to Catholic grade school and high school. As someone who feels “other” and different, and was questioning their sexuality, it’s hard to every day have the Bible sort of used as the main reference point. So, it was tough, and I learned to stay quiet, so that produced a very shy kid.

But when his mother took him to see his first live theatre show, it opened up a whole new world for him.

I remember my mom taking me to a theatre performance and I immediately fell in love with being in that space. They were full of such joy and creativity. And something sparked within me. I asked my mom, not only if we could come back and see another show, but if I could somehow figure out how to get on that stage and be on the other side of the footlights. So, she signed me up for the Albuquerque Children’s Theater, and that became my safe space. That became the place where I started to blossom as a person and figure out who I was. I kind of lived a double life. I had a life at school where I didn’t have any friends, and I had bullies. And I had this life at the community theatre where I had friends and people who respected me. Theater really did save me in so many ways. I don’t know what I would have done if I hadn’t found it.

You’ve described a pivotal moment during high school when you performed a monologue from Angels in America, the Pulitzer Prize winning play by Tony Kushner about the AIDS epidemic. Quite an ambitious undertaking for a high schooler, in Albuquerque no less.

I religiously watched the Tony Awards. It was in the era of the Tony Awards I wish they would bring back where they would include little clips from plays. And I remember the clip from Angels in America so vividly. It was Roy Cohn’s first big monologue. And I was like, what is this language? What is this play? It was unlike anything I had ever seen before. So, I ordered the play from a catalogue and I read it multiple times. I was 16 years old, and probably way too young

to understand a lot of it. I wasn’t actively part of the LGBTQ community in any meaningful way, but I was so deeply drawn to this play. We had a speech and debate program that I kind of started myself, because there was no Drama department. I really wanted to find an outlet where I could do this thing that I loved doing at community theater. I did a dramatic monologue from Angels in America and went all the way to Nationals with it. And when I came back to Albuquerque, my Theology teacher asked me if I would perform it for the class. It was

a very pivotal moment in my childhood. I was in one of those programs where you go from grade school to high school. I’d been with some of these people for 11 years of my life. And they were seeing me for the first time and seeing my talent. I remember several people coming up to me and saying, oh, man, you’re gonna be on Broadway one day, or you’re gonna win a Tony Award one day. These things seemed impossible to me at the time, but I was like, wow, it’s really cool that they see that in me.

It reminds me of that old adage that the best

revenge is success. Would you agree with that?

I HAD BEEN DOING A LOT OF THOSE AMBIGUOUS DINNERS WITH PEOPLE. LIKE, IS IT A DATE? IS IT NOT A DATE? IS IT ROMANTIC? IS IT NOT? I WANTED HIM TO KNOW THAT I WAS CONSIDERING THIS A DATE. I WAS VERY UPFRONT. AND I THINK THAT WAS VERY ATTRACTIVE TO HIM, THAT I WAS SO UPFRONT WITH MY INTENTIONS.

Oh, absolutely. I went to my 10-year reunion. But I wasn’t able to go to the last two and I really deeply wanted to try and make it work. Because I just felt like, oh, man, what a moment that would have been to walk in, having been on Broadway, having won a Tony Award, having been on TV with a huge hit comedy.

At the 2022 Tony Awards, Jesse took home the Tony for Best Actor in a Revival for Take Me Out, the Richard Greenberg play about baseball and homophobia in the sports world. Having seen

the play several times some 20 years before, Jesse would go on to play the role.

When I was in New York and I was a struggling actor, I just wanted to be as close to the theater community as possible. And it really didn’t matter in what capacity. I bartended at the Winter Garden Theater where Cats played. I worked at the Theater Circle gift shop which is right across the street from where Phantom of the Opera was playing. At the point when I saw Take Me Out, I had already made my Broadway debut in a very short-lived production of

WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND I WOULD RIDE THE SUBWAY, I WOULD LOVE SITTING DOWN NEXT TO SOMEONE AND STRIKING UP A CONVERSATION. AFTER MY ANONYMITY WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME BY THE SUCCESS OF MODERN FAMILY, I FELT LESS CONFIDENT DOING THAT.”

On the Town. I went to see Take Me Out at the Public Theater downtown and fell in love with the play and specifically with Dennis O’Hare’s performance who played Mason Marzak, the role I would eventually go on to play. It was surprising to me because I’m not a sports fan, but it spoke to me on such a deeper level. It taught me that theater can transcend, and it brings people together from all different walks of life. And then 20 something years later, when they’re reviving the play on Broadway and I was offered the chance to play this role, I immediately think back to that incredibly vivid performance that Dennis O’Hare gave, and thought to myself, I’m never going to be able to get that performance out of my head, and I’m never going to be able to make this role my own. It was really scary, but it was a play I loved too much to say no to. It felt serendipitous that I was being offered this part. But I took the challenge even though it scared the shit out of me, and I’m so glad I did it.

It is interesting because the subject matter is still so relevant. We’re still dealing with many of the same issues, including the fact that there’s still no openly gay player in Major League Baseball. Billy Bean, who became an advocate for diversity in sports, recently died. Bean was the second baseball player in Major League Baseball to publicly come out after he retired. He came to our rehearsal one day and spoke with us for a few hours, and we got a picture with him. And that was a very meaningful day for all of us.

Jesse had another full-circle moment on his wedding day. Jesse had performed in Angels in America as a high-schooler, and then, fast-forward to Jesse’s wedding (to Justin Mikita) more than 20 years later, and the playwright Tony Kushner is officiating at the wedding.

I got to meet Tony through George C Wolfe, who directed Angels in America on Broadway and also directed that short-lived production of On the Town that I did. And one year, he invited the “orphans” in New York to come to his house for Thanksgiving, and I sat across the table from Tony Kushner. That was the first time I met him. I was very nervous, but he immediately made me feel incredibly comfortable. And he was always just so kind to me every time I would bump into him. And then he asked me to do a reading of one of his plays which was such a wonderful experience. So, when it came time for Justin and I to talk about who we wanted to officiate at our wedding, he was at the top of my list, thinking I would never get him. I reached out to him, and he immediately said yes. It was a very full-circle moment for me, and he wrote an incredible ceremony for us.

Let’s talk about your podcast Dinner’s on Me, where you interview celebrities (many of whom are personal friends of yours) over dinner at a restaurant. I initially dipped my toes in, just to get a better sense of who you are. And the more I listened, the more I couldn’t stop. It’s not your typical celebrity interview because it’s in a relaxed setting at a restaurant over a meal and there’s often this whole backstory between you and your celebrity friend, sometimes dating back decades. So, it feels very conversational. And as a listener, you feel like you get to eavesdrop on this intimate conversation. When I was younger and I would ride the subway, I would love sitting down next to someone and striking up a conversation. After my anonymity was taken away from me by the success of Modern Family, I felt less confident doing that. I didn’t necessarily feel like people were always genuine around me when I was meeting them for the first time. And I missed that sense of connection. I feel like this podcast has given that to me again.

You’ve had a long list of famous guests including gay icons and allies like Sandra Bernhard, Kathy Griffin, Zachary Quinto, Sara Bareilles, Sarah Paulson, Ben Platt, Tyler Henry and Margaret Cho. Are there any dream guests that you’re still hoping to book?

It changes as the days go on. I’m currently listening to Ina Garten’s memoir, and I would love to have her on. I would love to have Quinta Brunson. And I would love to have Kamala Harris or Tim Walz or the Obamas. I got to have Chelsea Clinton on, who’s a friend of mine, and that was really interesting, and sort of a deviation from the normal Hollywood type.

Knowing Ferguson is a Streisand superfan, I couldn’t help asking if La Streisand is on his wish list. Oh my god, well, yes! I don’t know if I could do it. I might be too intimidated.

Let’s talk about your fascination with Streisand. When did you first discover her, and what is it about her that speaks to you?

Well, my parents listened to her albums. They had “The Way We Were” and so many others. Even the album covers themselves made a big impression on me. I was like, “Who is this glamorous woman?” Visually, she intrigued me. The first movie of hers that I saw was Funny Girl, which was her first film, and it’s such an incredible performance. From that point, I was absolutely hooked. And then I sort of consumed as much as I could about her. I read a lot of the unofficial

biographies which she has publicly disavowed. And of course, I listened to her new audiobook, all 48 hours. I love her resilience. I love her faith in herself. I love that she was also an outsider who forged her own path. I have met her twice. After reading her memoir, I feel like I have a much better understanding of how she operates in those situations, being who she is, and I have a lot of empathy and compassion for her. I feel like I had as great of a meeting with her as I possibly could have gotten. And I hope that I have more with her. I would love to see her again. I mean, listen, it’s my dream to become friends with her.

Let’s talk about your marriage and your kids. When you first met your husband, he was already seeing someone at the time. And when he suggested getting together as friends for a drink, you passed.

Yeah. He said, “I have a boyfriend right now, but we can definitely go out for a drink as friends.” And I told him, “I have enough friends.”

That’s a classic line.

Well, it’s true. I barely saw the people that I already had connections with. I was like, I’m not going to start casually hanging out with a cute boy who’s 10 years younger than me and unavailable. It just didn’t seem like it was a very good use of my time. So, I politely declined. And when he separated from his boyfriend, I swooped in and took him out. But I did clarify in advance, this is a date and I’m paying. I had been doing a lot of those ambiguous dinners with people. Like, is it a date? Is it not a date? Is it romantic? Is it not? I wanted him to know that I was considering this a date. I was very upfront. And I think that was very attractive to him, that I was so upfront with my intentions.

We’ve been married 11 years now and together for almost 14.

What would you say is the secret to the longevity that you’ve managed to have together?

I mean, it’s really cliché, but communication is key. I don’t think we were great at it at the beginning, but it’s okay to have a learning curve. Before I met Justin, I had been through relationships that went through rough patches, and then those rough patches were taken as a sign that this isn’t working. So, I think learning how to communicate and work through those times is really important. I’m still trying to trust that, because I hate times of discord,

especially with my husband. But we have always ended up stronger after them.

What have you learned from being a father to your two children, Beckett and Sullivan?

I have been thinking about that a lot, because I am different in the way I talk to my children than the way I talk to other people sometimes. When I’m frustrated with my kids, I talk to them in a way that is a lot more compassionate than I would talk to someone who’s my age. I’m trying to harness that compassion in other relationships as well. I think every parent tries to raise their children with the spirit that their parents raised them, but also differently. I mean, obviously, we all suffer trauma from the way we were raised. Even the best parents make mistakes. We try and correct those mistakes, and in turn make our own mistakes.

I thought it was interesting that you first met Joan Rivers when she invited you to one of her Passover dinners after you met her daughter Melissa. And how that led to a friendship with the comic icon before she passed unexpectedly in 2014. And you’ve also been to one of Kathy Griffin’s famous salon dinners where she invites a random assortment of her friends to dinner to bring back the art of conversation.

Both of those experiences are such vivid, wonderful moments in my life. I’ve actually been invited to two of Kathy’s salon dinners which are definitely cut from the same cloth of Joan’s Passover. Joan was just so lovely and warm and hilarious, and she embraced Justin and I so much. I take a page from her book when I try and connect with new people. I think Kathy had also been to some of Joan Rivers’ dinners before, and I think she has definitely embraced the spirit of Joan and has embodied it in such a great way. Kathy’s dinners are so lovely, and she has these ridiculous rules. Like we can’t get up and go to the bathroom without asking for permission. You have to dress up. If you’re late, she makes you eat in the car. There’s no cross-talking. Everyone has to listen to the person speaking. There are no phones allowed at the table. It sounds ridiculous at first, but it really does allow for a deeper connection and it’s something that we’ve really lost touch with – especially with all the social media – just having conversations with new people who you don’t know. So, I really value those dinners that Kathy has invited me to, and I treasure my friendship with both of these remarkable women. ■

IT’S GAME NIGHT! THESE BOARD GAMES ARE YOUR TICKET TO EXCITEMENT THIS SEASON

BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES

DURING THE COOLER WINTER MONTHS, THERE IS AN INCREASED NEED FOR INDOOR OPPORTUNITIES FOR FUN AND RECREATION. So, what better time to pick up a few board games and have them on hand to create a bit of extra amusement whenever you need it. Games inspired by movies and television are a prominent theme in our current roundup, with titles like Jaws, Back to the Future, and even The Queen’s Gambit becoming popular. And as a nod to nostalgia, order the new Blockbuster game. Tonight is “game night” y’all. Fire up that popcorn, open a bottle of wine, and clear the

BACK TO THE FUTURE: DICE THROUGH TIME (2020)

Ravensburger

Players: 2-4

Oh no! Biff stole the DeLorean and went on a joyride through time. Navigate through 1955 and 1985, as you team up with Doc and Marty to “repair the space time continuum before time paradoxes unravel the very fabric of the universe.” Get in the hot seat of the time machine in this fun new board game to complete events, return items, and help restore order by getting the DeLorean in the “Ready Zone” at 10:04 p.m. Is the future in your hands? There is only one way to tell. Back to the Future: Dice Through Time was designed by Ken Franklin, Chris Leder, Kevin Rodgers with artwork by Matt Taylor.

CARDS AGAINST HUMANITY (2009)

Cards Against Humanity LLC Players: 3+

Known as a party game “for horrible people,” Cards Against Humanity, could be considered a new classic game. Each round, one player asks a question from a black card, and everyone else answers with their funniest white card. Each pack comes with 500 white cards and 100 black cards as well as a booklet with game rules and some preposterous alternate rules. Looking to shake up your “CAH” playing? The Red Box offers a 300-card expansion and there are a wide variety of new expansion packs and decks including the Pride Pack, College Pack, an Ass Pack (you heard that right), and a Nasty Bundle featuring a collection of packs that’s “too nasty to sell in stores.”

BLOCKBUSTER (2019)

Spin Master Ltd., Big Potato Players: 4+

If the 2020, Netflix documentary The Last Blockbuster gave you nostalgia for blue polos, fresh popcorn, and the golden age of video rentals then we have a board game for you! Blockbuster is a new game for anyone that has ever seen a movie. Split up into two teams and go head-to-head in a quick-fire buzzer battle. Round two is basically ‘movie charades with a twist’ in which the player who won round one picks up six movie cards, gives the hardest three to their opponent and keeps the rest for themselves. The game features 200 classic movies and contains 60 category cards, and a replica of a Blockbuster parking lot. Wow! What a difference!

CATAN 3D EDITION (2021)

Asmodee

Players: 3-4

Catan first came out in 1995, and in the game, players are settlers on the island Catan. Each player competes to see who can build up their civilization faster. Your settlements grow up from fertile grain fields and your cities are tucked into the sides of majestic mountains. The Catan 3D Edition is based on terrain tiles hand-sculpted by the game designer Klaus Teuber himself. The terrain is hand-painted, and game pieces intricately designed and then antiqued to give them a historic feel. Catan 3D is a great buy for the Catan player in your life, or if you want to upgrade your worn-out set. Catan is best for 3-4 players, and it can take between 60-90 minutes to complete. If the $300 price tag is too steep, the regular version retails at $55 and it is widely available at local and online retail stores. There is an extension pack so you can play with 5-6 players, as well as the Catan Seafarers and Catan Cities & Knights Game Expansions.

ENCHANTED FOREST (1981)

Ravensburger

Players: 2-6

Ravensburger’s Enchanted Forest is a stunning game in which players go on a treasure hunt in the land of fairy tales. Theater queens might think of Sondheim’s Into the Woods a bit as they search through famous fables and stories for hidden treasure along the way. In 1997, the Wizard of Oz adopted a four-player board game, and this is essentially the same game through a different “enchanted forest.”The game, which won the 1982 Spiel des Jahres award, has been around for a while, but the updated design is just as elegant.

PANDEMIC (2008)

Z-Man Games

Players: 2-4

In Pandemic, players assume the role of skilled members of a disease-fighting team working together to keep the world safe from outbreaks and epidemics. A little on the nose? But here’s one way to proactively work together to find a cure. Matt Leacock designed the game, first published in 2007 with artwork by Josh Cappel, Christian Hanisch, Régis Moulun, Chris Quilliams, and Tom Thiel. Pandemic is the first game in a series, which includes Pandemic: On the Brink, Pandemic: In the Lab, Pandemic: State of Emergency, Pandemic: Hot Zone - North America, Pandemic: Fall of Rome, and more. It is only a matter of time before they launch Pandemic: Coronavirus, isn’t it? The fate of humanity is in all our hands, but why not save the day at game night with your friends?

Relive a cult classic with this suspenseful tabletop strategy game, designed by Prospero Hall. In Jaws, one player menaces the island of Amity as the infamous great white while the other players go on the hunt as Brody, Hooper, and Quint. If the players kill the Orca they win. On the other side, if the shark attack is successful Jaws is victorious. This game is perfect for not only any movie lover, but anyone looking for a fun way to entertain dinner party guests or have the neighbors over for good old-fashioned fun. It is always Shark Week somewhere!

THE QUEEN’S GAMBIT (2021)

Asmodee Players: 2-4

The Queen’s Gambit Netflix miniseries took the world by storm in 2020, and the Asmodee’ s fun board game gives players the opportunity to experience chess like the extraordinary Beth Harmon (without having to set foot in an orphanage). In the game, each player has their own gambit piece they move across the chessboard, with each turn planned three moves ahead. In the series, Beth’s ability to envision chess moves on her ceiling enabled her to clear her opponents’ pieces from the board and defeat them. In the game, you compete with other players to claim pieces and points from the board. Designers Rebecca Bleau and Nicholas Cravotta designed the game where in each turn, you can move your “Gambit” like a different chess piece. Channel Beth to outwit your opponents and win the game!

THE CASTLES OF BURGUNDY (2011)

Ravensburger Players: 2-4

Looking to go castle hopping? Step into the shoes of an influential 15th century French prince in the Loire Valley of High Medieval France and do whatever it takes to make your empire flourish. Choose your path wisely, and execute strategies for academic progress, agriculture, trading, and city development. If you are someone who likes strategy and are up for a challenge, this game for you! Stefan Feld designed this game, carefully executed by artists Julien Delval and Harald Lieske. It is gorgeous, and good fun to play.

TELL ME WITHOUT TELLING ME (2021)

Spin Master Ltd.

If you think Cards Against Humanity is tame, Tell Me Without Telling Me is the perfect option. You’ll need the right (or wrong) group of people to play this NSFW charades party game in which you split into two teams and alternate rolling the die and flipping on the timer to “show not tell” and let your team guess in categories such as people, traits, things, places, and NSFW. Don’t shy from the risqué or taboo in this game which is perfect for a Fire Island or Puerto Vallarta late night on a guy’s trip with your crew. If you know, you know, but do your friends?

TICKET TO RIDE (2004)

Days of Wonder Players: 2-5

Ticket to Ride is a popular cross-country train adventure game where players collect and play matching train cards connecting cities and claiming railway routes throughout North America. In the game, players gain points for each route, and the longer the routes, the more points earned. Each game contains one board map of North American train routes, 225 colored train cars, 144 illustrated cards, five wooden scoring markers, and a rules booklet. The game, designed by Alan R. Moon, created by artists Cyrille Daujean and Julien Delval, is part of the Days of Wonder portfolio, and takes about 30-60 minutes to play. The game won the 2004 Spiel des Jahres, the Origins Award for Best Board Game of 2004, as well as many other awards.

HOW TO PAMPER YOURSELF THIS HOLIDAY SEASON

BY JEFFREY JAMES KEYES

THE HOLIDAYS ARE UPON US, WITH FESTIVE GATHERINGS, SNOWY DAYS, AND THE JOYFUL HUSTLE AND BUSTLE. WHY NOT ADD SOME NEW SPARKLES TO YOUR GROOMING ROUTINE THIS SEASON? From screen-induced skin fatigue to winter dryness, these carefully curated grooming kits, gift sets, and self-care essentials have got you covered. Whether you’re seeking a new skincare ritual, treating yourself to a scented experience, or simply looking for stocking stuffers, this guide will help you find the ideal products to celebrate the season in style.

ATWATER

Hydration Station $49 atwaterskin.com

Need a little extra holiday hydration after a day in the cold? Chris Salgardo, the former President of Kiehl’s, is back with his new venture, ATWATER—a skincare line named after his dad’s hometown in Atwater, CA. Designed to keep things simple, ATWATER helps guys look fresh and confident without all the fuss. Get holidayready with their Heavy Armor Dry Skin Essentials kit, featuring a Cleansing Bar, Eye Armor Moisturizer, and Heavy Armor Moisturizer. Perfect for keeping your skin smooth and hydrated during those holiday photos and parties. As Salgardo puts it,“I need a routine that tackles sweat and oil without stripping my skin.” Stay shine-free and ready to rock the festivities!

BEAU DOMAINE

Brad’s Complete Routine $396 us.beau-domaine.com

Beau Domaine’s Brad’s Complete Routine, a collaboration between Brad Pitt and the Perrin family, offers a luxurious men’s skincare ritual inspired by Provence. This three-step routine starts with the Cleansing Emulsion, followed by The Serum— applied with smoothing, upward motions for absorption. Complete the ritual with either The Cream for normal to dry skin or the Fluid Cream for normal to combination skin. Packaged in eco-friendly bottles made from recycled glass and wine barrels, this routine features patented GSM10® and ProGR3® ingredients to combat aging. Perfect for a luxury escape to Provence—pair it with a bottle of Miraval Rosé for holiday indulgence.

BLUEME

4 Piece Ceramic Votive Set $75 fablerune.com

The Blueme 4-Piece Ceramic Votive Set offers a serene journey through scent with four signature candles: Calm, Balance, Nostalgia, and Focus. Each handcrafted ceramic votive contains a soy-wax blend, designed with layered notes like green tea, lotus flower, sandalwood, bergamot, and eucalyptus. Infused with science-based formulas, these fragrances aim to promote relaxation, clarity, and emotional balance. Blueme, founded by Mei Xu, focuses on creating functional fragrances that connect well-being with scent. The brand combines luxurious aromas with minimalist design and a commitment to quality, offering thoughtful products that enhance both mood and home. Go ahead, treat yourself to a winter wonderland atmosphere with calming scents after a busy day of holiday prep.

CELLCOSMET

The Massage Ritual Collection $785 cellcosmet.com

Cellcosmet, a Swiss brand, was inspired by the pioneering work of Professor Paul Niehans in cellular therapy. They’ve built on decades of research to develop the CellControl™ method, preserving the efficacy of bioengineered cellular extracts. The brand’s commitment to science-backed, luxury skincare is evident through their exacting standards and the work of their experts, including Dr. Jérémie Soeur, a leader in skincare science and innovation.

The Massage Ritual Collection is a luxury skincare set that launched in November 2024, designed to create a spa-like experience at home. It features the brand’s best selling Activator Gel, Ultra Intensive Elasto CollagenXT for firming and toning, a rich Ultra Vital cream for hydration and radiance, and a Cellular Eye Contour Cream to reduce fine lines. The set includes Cryo-stick massage tools, which provide a cooling sensation to

CLARINS

ClarinsMen Grooming Essentials Gift Set $75 clarinsusa.com

The ClarinsMen Grooming Essentials Gift Set ($75) from Clarins is a limited-edition, 6-piece holiday collection perfect for men’s daily grooming needs. The set includes essentials for face, body, beard, and hair, all in an ecofriendly ClarinsMen pouch. Inside, you’ll find the Super Moisture Balm, which provides intensive hydration to help skin recover from extreme sports, cold weather, and rough shaves. The Active Face Wash, a gentle foaming gel, cleanses, softens, and refreshes the skin. For a full-body cleanse, the 2-in-1 Shampoo and Shower Gel invigorates from head to toe. The Shave and Beard Oil conditions the skin and beard, making for easy razor glide and effortless styling. Also included is the award-winning Double Serum Light, formulated with 21 plant extracts to address visible signs of aging in a lightweight texture ideal for oily skin and humid climates.

DR. ROSSI DERM

Skin Refine $258 rossiderm.com

Dr. Rossi Derm’s Skin Refine Duo, priced at $258, combines the transformative powers of The Night Synthesis and The Catalyst to visibly reduce fine lines and wrinkles while calming skin irritation. Both formulas are infused with Dr. Rossi’s proprietary Bio-Theriac® complex, known for its clinically proven efficacy. The Night Synthesis is a rich night cream that promotes cellular repair while locking in moisture, making it ideal for all skin types. The Catalyst, a silky daily serum, works to even skin tone and boost firmness while address ing multiple skin concerns in one formula. Dr. Rossi, a pioneer in sensitive skincare, created these luxurious treatments after noticing that traditional products often aggravated his patients’ conditions. His mission is to provide effective, non-irritating solutions for all skin types, helping individuals achieve their healthiest skin without the use of harmful ingredients. Packaged in a fully recyclable luxury box, this duo not only supports skin health but also aligns with eco-friendly values.

FABLERUNE

The Queen Healer Intuitive Spa box $164 fablerune.com

The Queen Healer Intuitive Spa Box by FABLERUNE is a curated collection of luxurious, ritual-inspired products designed to bring inner peace and mindfulness. Packaged in a reusable wooden box, it includes a Ritual Essential Oil Candle, Seasonal Bath Soak, Rose Clay Facial Cleanser, Probiotic Marine Mask, and more, all paired with a booklet offering guided meditation and treatment flow. FABLERUNE’s brand draws on ancestral healing and traditions, using time-honored ingredients to support women’s evolving skincare needs. Founded by Jeriel in Oakland, CA, with co-owner Bobbie, FABLERUNE blends fables and runes to create a nourishing, holistic self-

KIEHL’S

Open for Advent-Ure Gift Set $148 kiehls.com

HERBIVORE

Bright & Bouncy Bestseller Serum Kit $24 herbivorebotanicals.com

Herbivore’s Bright & Bouncy Bestseller Serum Kit offers a trio of effective, plant-based serums to boost radiance, soften lines, and deeply hydrate. The set includes the Cloud Jelly Hydration Serum with moisture-locking mushrooms, NOVA Brightening Serum with turmeric and vitamin C, and Moon Fruit, a gentle retinol alternative for smoothing wrinkles. Herbivore was founded in 2011 by Alex Kummerow and Julia Wills in Seattle, with a mission to create clean, plant-based skincare. Inspired by their backgrounds in herbal medicine and cosmetic chemistry, the duo crafted smallbatch solutions that grew into a global brand known for effective, natural products designed for all skin types.

Kiehl’s Since 1851 celebrates the holidays with their 2024 Holiday Advent Calendar, featuring 24 iconic skin care products behind each door. Priced at $148 ($293 value), the set includes bestsellers like the Ultra Facial collection, Avocado Eye Cream, and Lip Balm #1. With festive designs by artist duo Public/Official, the calendar offers a daily skincare surprise, making it a perfect gift to give or keep. Kiehl’s, known for 171 years of effective, paraben-free skincare, continues its commitment to innovative formulas and sustainable packaging, honoring

KORRES

Spread Joy Advent Calendar 2024 $225 korres.com

The KORRES Spread Joy Advent Calendar 2024, priced at $225, brings the essence of Greek nature to the holiday season. Inspired by the rich biodiversity of Greece, this limited-edition calendar features 24 KORRES products packaged in beautifully designed boxes that come together to create four unique puzzles, each with its own story. The calendar’s aesthetic draws from apothecary traditions, and the design is symbolized by the iconic KORRES windmill, which spreads the secrets and scents of the Greek flora. The products are dermatologically tested, vegetarian-friendly, cruelty-free, and packaged in recyclable materials, reflecting KORRES’ commitment to ethical and sustainable practices. KORRES collaborates with local farmers, forming a network of over 10,000 people to source ingredients sustainably from Greece’s diverse landscapes, where over 6,000 plant species thrive. Founded in 1996 by pharmacist Georgios Korres, the brand honors traditional natural remedies while leveraging modern innovation to create high-quality skincare inspired by Greece’s rich botanical heritage.

BLUEME

4 Piece Ceramic Votive Set $75 fablerune.com

The Blueme 4-Piece Ceramic Votive Set offers a serene journey through scent with four signature candles: Calm, Balance, Nostalgia, and Focus. Each handcrafted ceramic votive contains a soy-wax blend, designed with layered notes like green tea, lotus flower, sandalwood, bergamot, and eucalyptus. Infused with science-based formulas, these fragrances aim to promote relaxation, clarity, and emotional balance. Blueme, founded by Mei Xu, focuses on creating functional fragrances that connect well-being with scent. The brand combines luxurious aromas with minimalist design and a commitment to quality, offering thoughtful products that enhance both mood and home. Go ahead, treat yourself to a winter wonderland atmosphere with calming scents after a busy day of holiday prep.

LA CHATELAINE

Oprah’s Favorite Things 2019 Luxury Soap Collection $73

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Oprah’s Favorite Things 2019 Luxury Soap Collection by La Chatelaine ($73) is a perfect gift, beautifully presented in a limited-edition Winter White tin with vibrant florals. Made in Provence with ethically sourced, natural in gredients, these triple-milled, vegetable-based soaps are enriched with shea butter, argan oil, and vitamin E for a luxurious, moisturizing lather. Scents include Gardenia, Coconut Milk, Lemon Verbena, Cherry Almond, Shea, and Wild Fig, crafted by perfumers in Grasse, France. La Chatelaine’s soaps are cruelty-free and free from colorants,

RAW SUGAR

RawStrength $10

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PROHIBITION

The Massage Candle $57 prohibitionwellness.com

Give the gift of warmth and relaxation this holiday season with The Massage Candle from Prohibition Wellness. This luxurious soy candle offers a comforting blend of wood sage and peony, filling any room with a cozy, inviting aroma. Once the wick is blown out, the candle’s rich mix of coconut and hemp seed oils melts into a warm, skin-softening massage oil. Ideal for solo self-care or sharing with a partner, it’s infused with essential nutrients to soothe and nourish the skin. Embrace the season of comfort and connection with a touch of luxury from Prohibition Wellness.

RawStrength by Raw Sugar offers a fresh, eco-friendly take on men’s grooming. This $9.99 set includes two invigorating body washes—Eucalyptus and Black Coconut—along with Strength and Invigorate 2-in-1 Shampoo & Conditioners. Raw Sugar believes in celebrating authenticity, self-care, and clean living. With a mission to inspire love from the outside in, they use organic extracts, follow strict EU fragrance guidelines, and stick to a crueltyfree, no-harm philosophy. Their signature packaging is made with 30% recycled plastic, aiming for 100% by 2030. RawStrength keeps things simple and refreshing, while staying kind to the planet.

RITUALS

Premium Advent Calendar $227 rituals.com

Rituals’ Premium Advent Calendar offers a delightful countdown to the holiday season with 24 luxurious surprises tucked inside its festive design. This year, the calendar features an enchanting Dutch heritage-inspired village, complete with miniature houses illuminated by string lights, creating a magical atmosphere for the season. Each window reveals a gift, including seven full-sized exclusive products, four Advent candles, and iconic bestsellers for body and home. Highlights include the Amsterdam Collection Body Mist, The Ritual of Mehr Body Cream, and Precious Amber Hand Wash. With a focus on cherishing meaningful moments amidst holiday festivities, this Premium Advent Calendar is not just a treat for the senses but a perfect way to embrace the spirit of giving and

VOESH

Limited Edition Peppermint Swirl Duo $20 voesh.com

SNOW FOX

Ceramide & EGF Treatment Orb $48 snowfoxskincare.com

The Ceramide & EGF Treatment Orb by Snow Fox Skincare is a potent solution designed to instantly hydrate, firm, and rejuvenate dry or stressed skin. Featuring a blend of five ceramides and vegan Epidermal Growth Factor (EGF), this innovative orb delivers over 12 active ingredients in a freeze-dried form, ensuring maximum purity and effectiveness. Ideal for post-laser treatments or sensitive, flaky skin, it enhances the effects of Snow Fox serums, promoting skin barrier recovery and long-lasting hydration. Founded by Phoebe Song, Snow Fox Skincare focuses on clean, natural ingredients, driven by her personal journey with inflammatory rosacea. The brand’s mission is to create effective, mindful beauty solutions for all skin types.

The VOESH Limited Edition Peppermint Swirl Duo is a must-have for anyone looking to pamper their feet this holiday season. Priced at $20, this duo includes the Solemate Heel Repair Balm, enriched with vegan squalene and botanical oil blends to nourish and protect dry, cracked heels, and a pair of moisturizing heel socks featuring a silicone gel liner infused with jojoba and olive oils for extra hydration. Since 2013, VOESH has focused on creating transparent, safe, and effective spa products that prioritize health and wellness, serv ing over 100,000 spas worldwide with a commitment to environmentally friendly practices. Get ready to treat

Mind Body Soul Gift Set $70

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Delight the zodiac lover in your life with Zodica Perfumery’s Mind Body Soul Gift Set, a luxurious trio designed for each star sign. This set is a sensory journey that brings the essence of the cosmos into everyday self-care. Each kit includes a TSA-approved mini-perfume, a multi-use hair perfume serum that doubles as a dry body oil, and a nourishing lotion infused with organic aloe vera. Accompanied by an intention card to set the mood, it’s perfect for tossing into your travel bag or freshening up after yoga. Founded by Kristi Moe, an industry veteran, Zodica Perfumery is dedicated to sustainable, artisanal creations that celebrate individuality with celestial-inspired fine fragrances, crafted over three years with the world’s finest ingredients. Each scent reflects the emotion and season of its sign, with notes like Aries’ cinnamon, amber, and vanilla, or Pisces’ neroli, water lotus, and cucumber. Wear the scents by sign, season, or attraction, and release intention into your day with an accompanying poem for each fragrance. Handcrafted in the USA, cruelty-free, vegan, and gluten-free, this set combines the romance of the stars with eco-conscious luxury. HERE’S TO

TWO PARTS VOICE, ONE PART CELLO CELLOVOCI

BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ

SEPARATELY, THEY ARE CRITICALLY ACCLAIMED ARTISTS IN THEIR OWN RIGHT. TOGETHER, THEY FORM CELLOVOCI, MUSIC’S LATEST POWERHOUSE HITTING THE SCENE HARD. Two parts voice, one part cello, add in some piano, Branden and James and Effie Passero mix classic and modern-day pop with style and sensuality that instantly sets them apart. In their early formation, they have already toured internationally, enjoyed a sold-out performance at Carnegie Hall, and released their debut album Happy Days With their individual credits, it is not surprising this merge of talents is flying out of the gate. Married couple Branden and James have been together for almost a decade. Singer Branden was a finalist on America’s Got Talent and cellist James has been featured with Olivia NewtonJohn, Bernadette Peters, and Idina Menzel, just to name a few. Singer-songwriter Effie Passero was a semi-finalist on American Idol and enjoyed multiple tours with Postmodern Jukebox, racking up millions of views on the group’s YouTube videos. Every one of CelloVoci’s songs is a journey. They often mashup music you never knew could go together, for example, “Bésame Mucho” and “Hotel California,” or “Chasing Cars” and “The Rose.” If you’ve seen them perform live, you know that in one moment the pathos of their music will bring you

to tears, and in the next, they will have you tapping your feet. At the end of their concert, you are emotionally exhausted after the beautiful journey they have taken you on.

They met by chance while waiting out Covid in Puerto Vallarta. They agreed to take part in a fundraiser for the staff of a local theater and instantly sparked chemistry with each other. They joined forces and performed together for a number of livestreams during the pandemic. Effie’s ability to sing everything from opera to rock to musical theatre to pop attracted Branden and James, who often incorporate those same elements in their work. Effie was taken with the couple’s personality and musical ability. The fact that the friendship just automatically added to the mix made it impossible for them not to make music together. The creative process has been a journey for them, challenging and complimenting each other to make the most of their skills. Touring, recording, and performing together, they have learned a lot from each other.

Effie: I learn from Branden and James every time we travel, each conversation, and especially each performance. The nuance they have, and the way they carry themselves not only as musicians but as people is very impressionable and

inspirational. No matter the circumstances they rise together. So, I’ve learned so much about what it means to be a team player, and how collaboration can be such a beautiful thing. I’m so used to protecting my craft and keeping it so close to my heart, but Branden and James have shown me the beauty in opening up to others and creating together.

Branden & James: Effie has this superpower to make herself so vulnerable onstage when you least expect it. You can hear it in her lyrics, the way she phrases vocal lines, and the utter pain and heartbreak that can show up in her vocal versatility. In life, Effie never really takes anything too seriously. Her personal code is that you can be nice to others, no matter how talented you are. We see this tremendous respect Effie has for humanity in her every day.

As queer artists, they are able to bring that texture and sensibility to their work. There is a sensitivity to and awareness of emotions and creativity that is heightened. Their audience and fan reach is far beyond the LGBTQ community. Their group, and as individuals, are not hindered by labels. Perhaps this is the formula we need to build bridges between the queer and conservative sides. They don’t feel the need to add pomp and circumstance to their queer identity, they let the music speak for itself.

Our core audience is mainstream, heterosexual baby boomers, which is the bulk demographic of the classical-crossover genre. Because we often play shows for this demographic in rather socially conservative areas, we’ve become accustomed to not sharing about our sexuality. At first, we felt that this was somehow hiding a part of who we are. We aren’t ashamed of our queerness at all, we are very open and public about it on social media. But, if our show doesn’t have a particular queer billing, we don’t think it’s always necessary to talk about our sexuality.

Their shows are hitting no matter where they go. In their opinion, what is it that audiences respond to the most?

When people come to classical crossover recitals/concerts, they are not expecting such free-flowing spirits on stage. The three of us together are so sibling-like and silly, it is apparent within the first five minutes just how much we love each other.

THE THREE OF US TOGETHER ARE SO SIBLING-LIKE AND SILLY, IT IS APPARENT WITHIN THE FIRST FIVE MINUTES JUST HOW MUCH WE LOVE EACH OTHER.”

Not only do people respond highly to our music, but they speak so highly of our love for each other and how rare that is to see on stage these days. Our genuine love and respect that we showcase for each other on stage is something people carry home with them. We would love to say we are inspiring others to act the same. Audiences also really love how we take a piece they grew up with and put a fresh spin on it. We are not dissecting a classic and making it “wrong”,

but breathing new life into a song maybe your mother sang to you growing up and bringing those memories back in full force. Audiences really appreciate that the most.

Their debut album, Happy Days is nothing short of stunning. It captures the emotion, the storytelling, and the musical prowess of their live shows. Keep the Kleenex box handy, it will move you to emotion. In a world of noise, electronic beats, and autotune, this is a fierce reminder of

the power of actual music. Their mashup of “You Are My Sunshine” with “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” melted our hearts. What were some of the group’s biggest challenges in bringing the show to an album?

The recording studio is like a vacuum - void of any energy exchange with an audience. The microphones aren’t forgiving at all, and every weakness is picked up and amplified. It can be a frustrating and disheartening process. But, unlike with live

performance, it is possible - with a lot of patience and perseverance - to listen and refine things until they are just right.

The love and affection between Branden and James is palpable. But even the best couple can be put to the test when creating music, traveling, and performing, while having to take care of all the other parts of being married. How do they maintain a healthy relationship while in such a creative working partnership?

Branden: James and I are very lucky. We are the dearest of friends. I always say that if we weren’t together, we’d probably be best mates who would still spend endless amounts of time together. I have a very strict rule in our relationship: we never go to bed with an unresolved argument. We are adults, and there is nothing we can’t resolve with some mature conversation. I maintain the same rules in our working relationship. If we ever have an artistic disagreement, we always resolve it before we go on stage. Audiences are much more perceptive than some give them credit for. If our energy is off, the audience knows. I never want to show that side of us to an audience that negates our mission of bringing people together and healing them with our music. This rule of resolution has served us very well over the past 10 years relationally, and nine years musically. We feel very blessed because we understand some groups have irreconcilable differences that ultimately lead to parting ways. If we stick to our formula, there will always be peace in our union, I think.

With all the performances under their belt, all of the places they’ve visited, and all the audiences they’ve learned from, how has their music changed the most from their early years?

James: It’s funny actually, because we still perform a lot of arrangements we made in our first years together. The likes of “Hotel California,”“Hallelujah,” and our medley of music from The Phantom of the Opera, have become fan favorites that we can’t seem to stop playing. In saying that, I think we’ve certainly developed as performers - maturing in our delivery and deepening our musical instincts with one another because we spend so much time together. I think what’s helped us to last as a couple is the fact that we are great friends who genuinely enjoy spending time with one another, and we’re committed to doing the hard work of maintaining a long-term personal and working relationship.

A lot of the couple’s music deals with love – the difficulties, the happiness, the heartbreak. How does being a couple shade those songs?

It makes it real. When you’re living the things that you’re singing about/expressing through music, it makes it much more honest and vulnerable because you’re able

to relate to what you’re performing. A lot of people comment on how much they love our connection on stage - it’s a comment we often get from people who have just seen us for the first time. I don’t think it is possible to fake that. People notice it because it’s real, and we tap into it (both consciously and subconsciously) when we’re on stage.

Effie is a complete chameleon. With punk rock hair, tattoos, and bold fashion, she challenges norms as she launches into a sweet soprano singing the hell out of opera. She can also rock it out, she can also transform songs like “Creep” into a heartbreaking ballad. Give her jazz or musical theatre? She’s got it. Watching her transform on stage is watching a master artist. She’s also very down to earth and remains humble. Her career and her life have had many iterations, with milestones like

American Idol and Postmodern Jukebox just pin posts amid her journey.

I’ve been singing since I was five. I’m incredibly lucky to say that with everything my little heart desired, my mom was there to make it happen. So, from musical theatre to opera, to songwriting- the evolution into American Idol and Postmodern Jukebox is a result of having a supportive parent. Obviously, there was a lot of demanding work and tears, and not everything was supportive all the time, but I am the person I am today because of all the different versions of me I got to meet. Each stage taught me resilience, and how to appreciate criticism instead of taking it so personally. Especially through American Idol and Postmodern Jukebox, I learned how to become a frontwoman and not depend so much on my

piano. My piano was always such a crutch for me! I was scared to be up front and center, and it definitely wasn’t natural for me when I first started. With the help of all my other musician friends, I became more confident in my capabilities and now really love being a lead singer! There is still so much more to learn and I’m excited to see what comes next.

Touring with Postmodern Jukebox globally not only showed her a different side of the world but also made her a viral video hit. From their filmed music videos to audience video captures of her performances, the views started racking up.

Postmodern Jukebox has been not just life-changing, but lifesaving. Like so many of us during the pandemic, I was very unsure of the future of music and live performance.

So, when I got that initial email to see if I was interested in joining their post-pandemic tour, of course, I cried and was so elated. I swore to never take another performance for granted ever again, regardless of the size of the audience. There are too many on-stage memories to share, but there was one recently that was very moving to me. I performed “Hallelujah” to an audience in Finland, and by the end, most everyone was standing and waving their hands in the air. Part of me always finds it funny because it is *not* the religious song so many people think it to be, but this particular night it seemed like that song weighed heavily on many people’s hearts. They were crying and shouting and made me feel like we were in some kind of revival. It was wild.

Her success has come at the cost of having to overcome life’s challenges. If you follow her on social media, you know she doesn’t hide behind smoke and mirrors. Emotional highs and lows, career lulls, heartbreak, and a tough childhood are just a part of who she is as her successes. Sharing this with her fans is not to create content, it is to tell her real story.

Like a lot of people, I didn’t have the most amazing childhood. I had my brothers, and we were each other’s rocks, but sharing feelings wasn’t really a thing until I was much older. Music became my way to share how I was feeling, and as I got older my songs became more relatable to other people. As I understood the responsibility we hold as artists to share our gifts, it also became apparent to me that not only do people want to celebrate our successes, but they appreciate and find comfort in our struggles. No one is alone, no matter how much it might feel to someone at that moment. So, a certain song, or a certain poem, no matter how Shakespearean or simple in its message- might save a life. Vulnerability is a strength, and being authentic is something more people should strive to be. So if I can inspire others to be that way, I will be proud of that.

With everything that she has accomplished and been through at an early age, and with a world of possibilities ahead of her, what is she most proud of looking back on?

Looking back on my life, I can say I am proud of many things. My musical accomplishments always surprise me when I

look back on them. You forget so much of what you do! Next year I am singing at the Sydney Opera House. If someone had mentioned that to little 13-year-old Effie, I would have laughed, but now it’s a reality. I am so proud of how far I have come, from that little weird black sheep in the middle of nowhere Californian agriculture town. But now, I am most proud to say that I am continuously striving to be better. As a woman,

as a friend, as a musician. I’m at the age where I would love to be remembered for my music, but I’d love most to be remembered as a good person. ■

For more information about their tour dates, album, and some behind-the-scenes fun, check them out on IG: @CelloVoci

HOLIDAY

GIFT GUIDE 2024

CURATED

BY

MICHAEL WESTMAN

FOR FIDO

Earth Rated has put together the ultimate gifts for dog owners this season. These bundles are designed to keep pups happy and entertained while making life easier for their pet parents. Perfect for gifting or stocking stuffers. Their wide range of products are designed to help the planet by reducing our impact by partnering with manufacturers committed to ethical sourcing, renewable energy, and fair working conditions. And they give back to rescue and community organizations along the way. Earth Rated Ultimate Holiday Bundle (unscented or lavender wipes)

• Deodorizing Refresh Mist (8 oz) – A triple-action spray that conditions, deodorizes, and detangles with a luxurious White Tea & Basil scent. Easy no-rinse formula, perfect for on-the-go freshness and the gentle formula is free from harsh chemicals like parabens, sulfates, and alcohol.

• Large Treat Toy – Designed to pair with your dog’s favorite dry treats or kibble to keep them busy, this wobbly, rolling shape provides interactive stimulation and keeps your pup engaged. Made from responsibly sourced natural rubber, this toy is top rack dishwasher and freezer safe.

• 100 Grooming Wipes – Ideal for quick clean-ups of paws, body, and bum, these hypoallergenic and dermatologist tested wipes are plant-based and gentle enough to use every day.

Earth Rated Toy Collection Bundle (for small or large dogs). Keep your dog entertained with this 5-toy set, perfect for hours of stimulating play:

• Fly Toy – A bright, water-floating frisbee with an easy grip for fun fetch sessions.

• Enrichment Toy – Fill with treats for engaging, interactive play. Dishwasher and freezer safe.

• Fetch Ball – Bounces unpredictably and floats for endless fetch fun.

• Treat Toy – Keeps your dog busy while rewarding them with treats. Easy to clean.

• Tug of War Toy – Ergonomic design for safe and fun tug-of-war play.

Visit earthrated.com or their store on amazon.com. Your pooch will thank you.

FOR ENTERTAINING

SFMOMA has you covered for holiday entertaining with some fun items - the Gems Champagne and Cocktail Glass: Jade. This set of four textured cocktail glasses with casual stems and fine walls, are painted by hand in an assortment of tonal jade greens. For serving prosecco, champagne or cocktails.

Designed by Monika Lubkowska-Jonas: Inspired by the potential of materials and conscious of provenance and craft, Monika works collaboratively with a team of designers, her vision giving clarity to LSA’s aesthetic. These glasses are designed in London and manufactured in Poland. Handwash in warm soapy water, and dry with a soft cloth.

The Tipsy Bottle Opener is a bar accessory that can be shown off! Tipsy Bottle Opener is both decorative and functional. A unique conversation starter, this bottle opener balances on its own balancing stand (Included) or on any edge surface. Tipsy is made of cast metal with a polished chrome finish, ensuring a high-quality bar accessory that will last. A perfect gift for any friend or loved one, this fun display piece features a unique sculptural shape and dual, interactive function. Designed by Evan Demczuk and Umbra Studio

Michelin-starred chef Rogelio Garcia brings you a collection of over 150 recipes for vibrant, contemporary Mexican food in the heart of California’s wine country. Convivir, which means “to live together,” celebrates the flavorful interweaving of traditional Mexican cuisine with the agricultural and artisanal abundance of California’s Napa Valley. Born in Mexico and raised in Northern California, Chef Garcia takes inspiration from the local farms, ranches, and sustainable fisheries, and showcases his gastronomical heritage with more than 150 delectable recipes.

Including techniques for making homemade tortillas and tamales, Convivir celebrates a modern take on traditional dishes such as tacos, tostadas, sopes, huaraches, tlacoyos, and tetelas. In addition to providing basic techniques, recipe variations, wine-pairing suggestions, and curated menus that focus on traditional Mexican holidays, Convivir invites you to come together in the sacred space of a shared table and delight in the rich culinary history of Mexico. (Hardcover, 288 pages, 2024.)

Iron Horse Vineyards is one of California’s iconic wine producers known for its elegant sparkling wines. They have been served at the White House for six consecutive Presidential Administrations. One of my favorites is the Gratitude 2019 Blanc de Noirs. The word gratitude is derived from the Latin word gratia, which means grace, graciousness and gratefulness (de pending on the context). This delicious, vintage Blanc de Noirs expresses all these meanings. A vibrant floral nose jumps out of the glass to announce that something truly special is here! The palate is full and deep with notes of early season strawberries and candied pineapple with a touch of clotted cream. The finish lingers beautifully and ends with a slight note of fennel on the front and bright red apples on the back. Perfect for festive meals or as a gift for those you appreciate the most. $5 for every bottle sold goes to The Redwood Empire Food Bank, providing critical food for those in need from Sonoma County to the Oregon border. This is a limited production so grab it while you can at ironhorsevineyards.com.

FOR YOU FOR CELEBRATING

Manscaped has your grooming essentials in The Performance Package 5.0 Ultra All-In-One Grooming Kit. Trim to aftercare, this all-inclusive kit has everything you need to feel clean-cut and confident. After you’re done taking care down there, head north to get rid of those pesky nose and ear hairs.

This Manscaped kit includes:

• The Lawn Mower® 5.0 Ultra Groin & Body Hair Trimmer

• Weed Whacker® 2.0 Ear & Nose Hair Trimmer

• Crop Soother™ Ball Aftershave Lotion

• Crop Preserver® Anti-Chafing Ball Deodorant

• Magic Mat® Disposable Shaving Mats

AND you get FREE GIFTS:

• A pair of Boxers 2.0 Midnight Bravo ($34.99 value)

• The Shed 2.0 Toiletry Bag ($39.99 value) You can view all the holiday deals and offers at manscaped.com.

Elevate Your Game with Scotch Porter’s Superior Beard Collection: Ultimate Beard Care Essentials. This clean, non-toxic beard collection helps build strength and promote healthy facial hair growth for a mane that’s going to turn heads; with natural ingredients that are proven to be effective like Biotin Liposomes to help build strength and promote healthy facial hair growth, White Willow Bark to help reduce redness and flakiness, and Nettle Leaf to help promote growth and make hair shinier. No sulfates, silicones or parabens; they are also vegan and never tested on animals.

Scotch Porter was founded by Calvin Quallis in 2015, and supplies clean, non-toxic, high-quality products that deliver top-shelf performance for the men who want it all without compromise. This kit will keep your beard looking good for 75-days. Visit scotchporter. com for the perfect holiday gift or stocking stuffer for YOU or the bearded man in your life.

FOR RELAXING

Stay warm and cozy with Tea Forté’s 12 Days of Cozy Teas - a different tea each day. This limited-edition Advent Calendar contains 12 cozy teas, each hidden behind a numbered door. Countdown to winter bliss with a curated collection of warming teas that evoke the comfort and rustic luxury of a snowy retreat. Great as a winter gift, or anytime you want to explore new blends. All teas in this collection are Kosher Certified.

FOR ENJOYING

Untitled Art’s non-alcoholic beers offer the authentic craft taste of traditional beer, achieved through state-of-the-art filtration—without the alcohol or hangover! These flavorful beverages make the perfect addition to any holiday get-together, allowing everyone to enjoy great taste with no regrets. Treat your loved ones to craft drinks they can savor, minus the alcohol, but full of flavor!

Untitled Art Highlights:

• Non-Alcoholic Beer: Enjoy authentic craft taste with zero alcohol, achieved through state-of-theart filtration.

• Vegan and Kosher Offerings: Florida Seltzers, CBD Sparkling Waters, Punch Out Vodka Smooth ies, and most beers are all vegan-friendly. Partner facility is now Kosher-certified.

• No Dairy or Lactose: Lactose and dairy have been eliminated from production, with the exception of Barrel-Aged Stouts.

• CBD Benefits: CBD Sparkling Waters contain Hemp Oil with naturally occurring CBD, helping me diate stress, reduce pain, and support a happier life.

• Gluten-Free Selections: Florida Seltzers, CBD Sparkling Waters, and Punch Out Vodka Smooth

Features & Measurements:

• Contains 12 assorted teas, one of each blend

• Each pyramid tea infuser steeps 8-12 ounces of tea

• Numbered doors are located on the front and back of box

• Measures 14.6.” H x 8.8”W

x 2.8” D

• Please note: Pyramid infusers are not microwave-safe

Visit teaforte.com for more relaxing holiday gifts.

FOR TRAVEL

ies are gluten-free.

• Calorie-Conscious: MOST products are low in calories, low in sugar, and low in carbs.

• Artistic Cans: Untitled Art collaborates with local artists to create unique can designs, turning each beverage into a masterpiece that reflects its fresh, innovative flavors.

If you want top-of-the-line luxury luggage, Tumi won’t disappoint with their Tumi 19 Degree Aluminum International Carry-on. Easy to pack thanks to plentiful internal organizational features, like the zippered compartments, compression straps, and a hanger bracket. Spacious enough for weekenders and chock full of useful details as well, like a card slot for an additional ID or an Apple AirTag.

With an aluminum shell and sturdy spinner wheels, this carry-on is sturdy and durable. It is a breeze to roll on two and four wheels, with evenly distributed weight and leather-wrapped handles that are easy to grip. We love the glossy, sleek design and sophisticated appearance. Available in black, silver, green, and blush, all with Tumi’s signature ridges.

22 x 14 x 9 inches | 31-liter capacity | 11.2 pounds | 4 dual spinner wheels | Aluminum | 5-year warranty. Fly over to tumi.com for this and other essential travel accessories.

Want to personalize your favorite Tumi travel bag while making them easy to spot? Add the Tumi Accent Kit for leather accents to highlight key touchpoints on your bag while the multipurpose pouch can carry extra accessories. Also available tumi.com

IRELAND’S HISTORIC CASTLES HAVE A ROYAL HOLIDAY IN

BY MARK A THOMPSON

LATELY, IT SEEMS WE’VE BEEN SUCKED INTO A ROYAL TIME WARP; WE’RE HAVING A MONARCHY MOMENT. Whether we’re tangled in the bedsheets with Red, White & Royal Blue, or caught up in the Regency bodice-ripping of Bridgerton, or the soapy seduction of The Crown, or the never-ending Game of Thrones sequels and prequels, it feels like we’re all pining for our very own Downton Abbey where barons and earls beckon with the promise of a regal life. In which case, why not join in the royal fantasy and frolic through some of Ireland’s more historic castles for the holidays.

Dromoland Castle Hotel exterior (photo courtesy of Dromoland Castle)

For more than 500 years, Dromoland Castle has been welcoming guests to its 500-acre estate located in the heart of County Clare, Ireland. After an overnight flight from the States, few welcomes are more magical than the castle’s Horse & Hound Welcome, complete with huntsmen on horseback, canines in formation, and a formal staff line-up along the front lawn à la Downton Abbey. Champagne, sir? Don’t mind if I do.

The 16th-century castle was once the ancestral home of the O’Brien family who were direct descendants of the last High King of Ireland Brian Ború. That was then, however, and the castle was rebuilt in the 19th century, and subsequently redesigned in the 1960s by the inimitable interior designer Dorothy Draper. The same Dorothy Draper who redecorated Manhattan’s Carlyle Hotel, and the Sherry-Netherland, and the Greenbrier. Think cabbage roses and resplendent reds. Throughout the castle, gilt-framed portraits of various illustrious residents include the intrepid women of Dromoland who married into the family and kept the castle afloat during times of economic turmoil.

Surrounded by a wooded demesne that includes a walled garden as well as a country club with golf course, Dromoland is an imposing limestone edifice with four castellated turrets and a Gothic porch. No matter where I wandered, the baronial castle lurked in my shadow, and yet, in the words of Marie Chawke, Director of Business Development at Dromoland, the resort prides itself on “lighthearted luxury.” As Chawke states,“Consider it like Sandringham, the country house where the Royals go to relax.”In which case, reach for your trusty Barbour jacket and a pair of wellies—and off we go.

Dromoland offers a variety of outdoor activities, which include boating, archery, clay pigeon shooting—as well as its celebrated falconry program where guests interact with various birds of prey. Once the falcon alights on my gloved fist (thanks to a smidgen of raw meat), I’m as smitten as the falconer. Despite the cute names (Owlvin, Pickles, Mac), these hawks, owls, and falcons are not lovebirds to be kissed so much as sleuths of the sky with killer instincts.

When the sun sets over Lough Dromoland in a brilliant display of pink and mauve, it’s a good time to retire to the castle’s Cocktail Bar which is situated in the octagonal room that once housed the family library. Draper’s design sensibility is readily apparent in the stacked Staffordshire pugs, one of which was a trysting signal when the lord was away and the lady ready to play. Bespoke cocktails are equally playful and designed

The Library chess at The Europe

Gardens & Courtyard courtesy Hayfield Manor Perrotts

around a tarot deck with its promises of fortune and favor. By the time I headed into dinner at the Earl of Thomond restaurant, I was fairly certain that I was “to the manor born,” a feeling that was amplified as I sipped champagne and dined on poached lobster.

Overlooking the shores of Lough Dromoland, the castle is located a short 15-minute drive from Shannon Airport, which offers direct flights from various airports in the States. Slightly further afield is the maritime city of Galway, easily accessible by car and driver (unless you’re comfortable driving on the left side of the road) in less than an hour from Dromoland Castle. Galway has been designated a European Region of Gastronomy, and one of the best ways to discover the city’s culinary bounty is with Galway Food Tours. Local guides lead you into award-winning restaurants and cafés where you feast upon artisanal chocolates, cheeses, and the best of Galway’s gastronomy such as squid toast with katsuobushi tuna flakes.

It’s very easy to feel completely sated and indulged at Dromoland, especially after a proper Irish breakfast, at which point, it might be a good time to consider the next stop on this royal promenade of Irish castles, all of which are members of the Legend Collection of Preferred Hotels & Resorts. Founded in 1968, Preferred is the world’s largest independent hotel brand, and the portfolio’s Legend Collection represents the highest standards of luxury for the discerning traveler.

Heading south into County Kerry, I arrived at The Europe Hotel & Resort, which sits on the shores of Lough Léin. Surrounded by 26,000 acres of national parkland amidst Ireland’s highest mountain range, The Europe is home to the acclaimed ESPA, a two-level, 50,000-square foot hydrotherapy wellness sanctuary complete with indoor/outdoor vitality pool, saltwater pool, ice fountain, and thermal suites.

As tempting as it is to remain at ESPA at The Europe, the resort is just across the lake from Ross Castle, a 15th-century tower fortress and castle keep that is open to the public with guided tours. Equally fascinating is Kate Kearney’s Cottage, a 170-year-old establishment at the entrance to the Gap of Dunloe where guests traverse the mountain pass by pony and carriage while serenaded with Celtic songs.

Lakefront suites at The Europe are as streamlined and elegant as staterooms on a classic Cunard cruise liner from the Art Deco era. The expansive balconies overlook the lake and the mountains with panoramic vistas of sunrise and sunset. The hotel offers various lounges and bars, as well as a private library and a majestic lobby,

all with lakefront views. The overall atmosphere at The Europe is akin to an Alpine retreat where royals luxuriate in blissful anonymity.

Driving across the Emerald Isle, heading east into County Cork, it was easy to see the world from Elphaba’s perspective: a viridescent empire in varying shades of green. Upon our arrival into Cork, the imposing iron and brick gates of Hayfield Manor opened into a verdant enclave. The five-star property is but a ten-minute stroll into the center of town where visitors flock to the English Market. One of Ireland’s most celebrated food halls, the English Market is equally well-known as the locale where Queen Elizabeth laughed in gay mirth with one of the fishmongers. For Irish whiskey aficionados, the Midleton Distillery Experience offers a two-hour guided tour with tastings of premium whiskey and a visit to the historic Distiller’s Cottage.

Originally owned by wealthy merchants of Cork, Hayfield Manor has been a five-star property since its opening in 1996. Flanked by University College Cork, the landscaped grounds include an aviary and courtyard, walled garden, as well as spa and indoor pool. The cocktail lounge Bloom is housed in a shimmering glass conservatory that overlooks the manor house’s back lawn and gardens. Dinner at Orchids is helmed by Chef Mark Staples whose mastery of Irish cuisine ensures that no guest ever questions the supremacy of Irish butter. In the morning, I slathered breakfast scones with more butter, all the better to hike the cliffs of Ballycotton along the eastern shores of Ireland.

Less than an hour’s drive from Cork, Castlemartyr is named for the 13th-century tower house built by the Knights Templar. Once owned by Sir Walter Raleigh, Castlemartyr Resort was originally an 18th-century country house. The 220-acre resort is surrounded by landscaped topiary gardens, meandering streams, and lush green fields. The 18-hole golf course features a club house and pro shop. An indoor pool overlooks the formal garden. Outdoor activities include kayaking, cycling, croquet—as well as the Irish national sport, hurling. With the help of semi-professional hurlers, I attempted the Gaelic game. I did as I was instructed; I practiced with the wood stick known as a hurley and the small ball—but in the end, I left the field to the pros and headed to dinner.

Housed in Castlemartyr’s original manor house, the two Michelin-starred Terre restaurant is helmed by Chef Vincent Crepel who oversees an exemplary dining experience that is as theatrical as it is visceral, and completely satisfying. The evening commences with an immersive garden tour,

The Europe Hotel and Resort at sunset (photo courtesy of The Europe)

courtesy Castlemartyr Resort

and continues with snacks in the open kitchen, before guests are escorted into the dining room for a multi-course tasting menu with wine pairing, which is then followed by post-prandial digestifs in the grand salon. At evening’s end, I felt a kind of giddy elation, as if I’d just completed an extraordinary gastronomic odyssey.

From Castlemartyr, we headed north into Country Kildare toward the outskirts of Dublin where The K Club awaited our arrival. Built on the grounds of the original 19th-century Barton estate in the style of a French château, The K Club opened as a five-star property in 1991. The 550-acre property boasts a pair of golf courses designed by Arnold Palmer which were host to the Ryder Cup in 2006. Bisected by a private milelong stretch of the River Liffey, The K Club also features a fishing lodge for fly fishing, as well as extensive woodland trails for hiking, cycling—or tours via Segway.

Under the watchful tutelage of our ghillie Robert, we chose archery for our afternoon pastime. As we aimed for the bullseye, we were observed by young members of The K Club’s Junior Einsteins Science Club. Such a strenuous physical workout merits Afternoon Tea, with plenty of clotted cream—and champagne, of course. Served in the Drawing Room of the original Straffan House wing of the hotel, The K Club’s tea service features a three-tiered étagère laden with sandwiches and scones that replicate the various artworks scattered around the grounds.

The history of The K Club is entwined with Barton & Guestier, the oldest winehouse in Bordeaux which was founded in 1725 by Thomas Barton. While it might be hard to imagine an Irishman in charge of a Bordeaux winery, a tasting held in the wine cellar with the Chief Sommelier leaves no doubt about the visionary excellence of the Barton winemaking dynasty and its legacy at The K Club.

Country Kildare is well-known throughout the world as an equestrian destination, notable for its exceptional thoroughbreds, and consequently, The K Club offers various equine activities and tours. After a hearty Irish breakfast served in The Barton Restaurant, we headed off to Jessica Harrington Racing for a tour of her 120-acre horse farm. With the Wicklow Mountains in the distance, we witnessed the thoroughbreds process through their morning workout with their trainers and jockeys. After visits to the paddocks and the training facilities, we headed to the Harrington family kitchen for morning tea and cakes—because who could refuse another scone with Irish butter?

From Shannon to Dublin, from the West

coast of Ireland to the East, or vice versa, there’s a string of Irish castles and historic manor houses that enable any visitor the ability to imagine life as a royal. All queens are welcome on the Emerald Isle where marriage equality was won by popular vote. Ireland is one of the more LGBTQ+-friendly places on the planet, having passed a Gender

Recognition Act, as well as a Children and Family Relationships Act. Throughout the year, various Pride parades and festivals celebrate LGBTQ+ solidarity, and in Dublin, the Pride Festival celebrated its 50th anniversary in 2024, with a 10-day festival. In short, there’s every reason to wear a crown and let your royal shine bright in Ireland. ■

The K Club exterior during holidays (photo courtesy of The K Club)

The K Club Drawing Room

The K Club in holiday finery

COUP D’ETAT MELDS DESIGN WITH ART AND SOUL

BY STEVE GOTTFRIED

LOCATED ALONG A TONY STRETCH OF ROBERTSON BOULEVARD, A STONE’S THROW FROM THE STORIED IVY RESTAURANT, COUP D’ETAT FEELS MORE LIKE AN ART GALLERY THAN YOUR TYPICAL DESIGN SHOWROOM AND IS GUARANTEED TO GET YOUR ARTISTIC SYNAPSES FIRING A walk through their showroom and you’re transported into another world where design and function commingle creating a dazzling display of mind-blowing proportions. Where else are you going to find an exquisite Italian hand-blown chandelier that could be found in a Venice piazza alongside hanging lamps designed in the form of pelicans using dried flowers, branches and yes, actual pelican skulls that have been partially metal plated and strung with jewelry chain. Their showroom is actively curated so there’s always some new acquisition to stimulate the senses. Granted, the prices are not for the faint-of-heart which helps explain why it’s not unusual for their pieces to turn up in celebrity homes featured in Architectural Digest. I had a chance to interview Coup’s founder Darin Geise who started the business 25 years ago and his husband Jay who transitioned from a career in mental health to join the team as Director of Operations. As Jay explains, Darin was working in retail at Neiman Marcus when he realized that his passion for collecting vintage furniture was outpacing his modest living space and his even more modest budget.

Darin Geise

Jay: Darin’s story is a story of love for design and really rolling up your sleeves and making it happen. He came to the design industry sort of accidentally. He had been a not-untypical gay who was constantly changing around his apartment. He was always buying pieces and mixing it up, and then putting them into storage. And he finally got to a point where he was like, I can’t keep doing this. I need to thin it out. So, he loaded up a van one weekend and went over to the Alameda Flea Market and set up his stall differently than most people. He “vignetted” it, so it really looked like a living space. And people were just obsessed with it.

Darin: I was very embarrassed, because people are going to think I’m broke. And I was. By 10am, I had sold everything. And as I was driving back across the bridge, I was trying to decide whether to pay off my credit card or use the money I earned to buy more stuff and come back again the next month. So that’s what I did.

It’s like winning in Vegas, and then putting it

all back on the table.

Darin: Exactly. And then I started doing that every month.

Jay: Darin started developing connections with people who were refurbishing furniture so that he could get something that really needed some love and turn it into something amazing.

Darin explains how he struck up a friendship with an attractive gay man named Carlos who he’d seen at the flea market. After seeing him taking a cigarette break outside one of San Francisco’s premiere antique stores where he refurbished furniture, Darin asked if he’d be willing to work on some of his vintage pieces on weekends.

Darin: Carlos would come over with his supplies on the weekend and he would just create these amazing finishes on (frankly) kind of crappy pieces of furniture. Carlos was so instrumental in helping me understand the process of restoring antiques and he still works with me today. I look back now, and I think, God, I worked so hard

for a really long time, but it was such a fun time in my life. If there was an auction in LA, I’d leave work on a Friday, party and twist in L.A. and get into trouble, go to the auction on Sunday, drive back Sunday night and then go back to work on Monday.

I was curious to find out how Darin came up with the name Coup d’Etat which is traditionally understood to be a sudden, violent seizure of power.

Darin: I think the first time I came across the word, I was reading a book when I was quite young, probably still in high school. And then I discovered what it meant, and it really resonated with me, growing up at that time, being the only gay kid in a small town in Nebraska where it was really challenging to just be yourself. And I thought, if I ever have a store, I’m going to name it that, because I’m going to be unconventional.

Coup d’Etat seems to occupy a unique space in terms of its design aesthetic. At one end of the spectrum, you have a store like Restoration Hardware, which is very high-end, but very

conventional. And Coup d’Etat is much more avant garde with original pieces, sometimes collaborations with independent artists. So I’m just curious, where you see yourselves in comparison to the others. Do you consider Coup the “wild stepchild”of the Design industry in some respect?

Darin: I think we kind of bridge the gap between a showroom model and a gallery model. I think that our reputation can be, as you say, “wild child” but I think there is something for people that are interested in forward-thinking design as well as classic vintage pieces that can anchor a room.

How do you cultivate the relationships with the artists you showcase in your stores?

Jay: We represent a lot of national and international artists. I feel like everyone that we work with, we’ve developed a personal relationship with. We’re constantly on the lookout for artists that inspire us and would be a good partnership for us. Not every artist or line is right for us, and we’re not right for every line either. It’s gotta work both ways.

One of your signature pieces at your West Hollywood showroom is the butterfly infinity mirror which, as its name suggests, is made with real butterfly wings.

Jay: Yes, we love that piece. Not only is it beautiful, it’s also very successful. It’s a collaboration that we do with an artist named Jocelyn Marsh who’s also based in Los Angeles. She likes to work with natural materials. Darin saw some pictures of her butterfly installations and made some suggestions on how to frame it. But she felt like the frame was too complicated to do it by herself, so we collaborated with her. We designed the frame and did all the electrical and she does the artwork inside. She uses real butterfly wings that are collected humanely. There are butterfly farms, mostly in Central America, and they’re basically these giant netted areas where the butterflies just live out their lives and do their thing. And as they pass away, someone goes around and collects the bodies, and you’re able to purchase the wings that way. So, she buys the wings, coats them in a resin so that they are preserved and then casts little bronze bodies for them. She then very painstakingly glues the wings to the bodies and strings them on a relatively invisible string so that they’re just floating inside this infinity box.

There’s something very ethereal and almost hypnotic that happens when you look at it.

Jay: I could look at it for hours, well maybe that’s a slight exaggeration. A lot of people are really confused by it when they first see it. We usually have it floating on a wall so that you can go to the other side. It’s kind of an optical illusion. Can you explain how it works?

Jay: There’s a one-way mirror on the front. And then on the back, there’s a regular mirror. It’s constantly bouncing the image back and forth so it has tons of depth. There’s so much depth to it because of the infinity effect. I feel like the technical parts of it are in the background so you can really be absorbed by the colors of the butterflies. Are there some other pieces that represent the Coup d’Etat ethos or aesthetic?

Jay: There’s an artist named Kelly Farley in the Napa area who creates these ceramic spheres. He links them on a chain and hangs them from the ceiling. You generally order it customized to fit the space where it’s being installed. It can be suspended down several stories, so it’s amazing visually. But then you learn about this very labor-intensive technique that goes into making it. The spheres are placed on oyster shells in this partially underground kiln and put through this ancient Japanese firing technique. He uses oyster shells because you can’t put any shelves in this kiln because it gets so hot that it melts and burns anything. They spend days opening and closing little vents, feeding logs of wood into the fire to keep it going. It’s a three to five-day process and it comes out with really unique random patterns. When we first met Kelly, we found his work so innovative, but he was a struggling artist from a financial standpoint. His pieces typically sell for about seventy thousand dollars, depending on the size. So it’s been very gratifying to know that we have provided him with the space to really make a living and get his art out there.

As our conversation drew to a close, Darin shared the common thread that unites his collection.

Darin: We have always thought of Coup D’Etat as being very soulful. That’s what attracts me to things: pieces or interiors that have a real soul to them. They’re kind of talking to me, or they’re representing something. The more layered and nuanced, the deeper their soul is, the more stories they have to tell.

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LA GAY & LESBIAN CENTER MacDonald/Wright Bldg 1625 North Schroder Los Angeles, CA 323 933-7400 www.angelfood.org

THE TREVOR PROJECT 9056 Santa Monica Blvd #100 West Hollywood, CA 90069 310 271-8845 www.thetrevorproject.org

THE VILLAGE AT ED GOULD PLAZA 1125 North McCadden Place Los Angeles, CA 90038 323 860-7328 prevention@laglc.org www.laglc.org

RELIGIOUS

ALL SAINTS PARISH 504 North Camden Dr West Hollywood, CA 90036 310 275-0123

BETH CHAYIM CHADASHIM 6000 West Pico Blvd Los Angeles, CA 90035 323 931-7023 www.bcc-la.org

GLORY TABERNACLE CHRISTIAN CENTER

3215 East Third St Long Beach, CA 90804 562 438-7758 www.glorytabernacle.com

OPEN DOOR MINISTRIES 4101 Willow St 562 925.3533 www.open-door-ministries.org

ST. JANE FRANCES CATHOLIC CHURCH G & L OUTREACH 12930 Hamlin St North Hollywood, CA 91606 818 985-8600

WEST HOLLYWOOD CHURCH 916 North Formosa Ave West Hollywood, CA 90069 323 656-2400

PALM SPRINGS DIRECTORY

ART

Mod City Gallery

737 E Twin Palms Dr

Palm Springs, CA 92266 760 567-6852

www modcitygallery com

The Shag Store

745 N Palm Canyon Dr

Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-3400

www shag com

Trevor Wayne Pop Art

386 N Palm Canyon Dr

Palm Springs, CA 92262 442 268-5498

www trevorwayne com

ATTRACTIONS

The Living Desert Zoo and Gardens

47900 Portola Ave

Palm Desert, CA 92260 760 346-5694

www livingdesert org

Palm Springs Air Museum

745 N Gene Autry Trail

Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 778-6262

www palmspringsairmuseum org

Palm Springs Art Museum

101 Museum Drive

Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-4800

www psmuseum org

Palm Springs Aerial Tramway

1 Tram Way

Palm Springs, CA 92262 888 515-8726

www pstramway com

BAKERY

Over the Rainbow Deserts

1775 E Palm Canyon Road, Suite 150 Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 322-2253

www romanblas com

Pastry Swan Bakery

70225 Highway 111 Suite A Rancho Mirage, CA 92270 760 202-1213

www pastryswan com

CANNABIS

PSA Organica

400 E Sunny Dunes Rd Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 778-1053

www iheartjane com

The Lighthouse Dispensary

395 N Palm Canyon Dr

Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 320-4420

www lighthousedispensary com

The Vault Dispensary and Lounge

35871 Date Palm Dr

Cathedral City, CA 92234 760 866-9660

www enjoythevault com

CASINO

Agua Caliente Casino

• 401 E Amado Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262 888 999-1995 www sparesortcasino com

• 32-250 Bob Hope Dr, Rancho Mirage, CA 92270

Fantasy Springs Resort Casino 84-245 Indio Springs Dr Indio, CA 92203 760 342-5000 www fantasyspringsresort com

Morongo Casino Resort & Spa 49500 Seminole Dr Cabazon, CA 92230 800 252-4499 www morongocasinoresort com

CLOTHING

GayMart

305 E Arenas Rd #6635 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 416-6436

Revivals

• 611 S. Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs, CA 760 318-6491

• 68401 Hwy 111, Cathedral City, CA 760 969-5747

FINANCIAL ADVISORS

Simon Hobbs

California Financial Partners Inc California 818 637-0180

simon@calfp com

GIFTS

Destination PSP

170 North Palm Canyon Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 354-9154 www destinationpsp com

Greetings Palm Springs

301 N Palm Canyon Dr # 102 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-5049 www greetingspalmsprings com

Just Fabulous 515 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 864-1300 www bjustfabulous com

Mischief Cards & Gifts

226 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-8555 www mischiefcardsandgifts com

Peepa’s

120 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 318-3553 www peepasps com

HAIR SALONS

Cut Barber

1109 N Palm Canyon Dr

Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-2999 www cutbarber com

Daddy’s Barbershop

192 S Indian Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 537-1311 www daddysbarbershop com

Palm Springs Fine Men’s Salon 750 E Tahquitz Canyon Way, Suite 3 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-904-0434 www psfinemenssalon com

PET SUPPLIES

Bones-N-Scones

633 S Palm Canyon Dr Suite #26 Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 864-1133

Cold Nose Warm Heart

187 South Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 424-2006 www pspetstore com