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PEOPLE WE LOVE
AS WE EMBARK ON OUR 35TH ANNIVERSARY YEAR, WE ARE THRILLED TO CONTINUE TO HIGHLIGHT THE INCREDIBLE PEOPLE IN ENTERTAINMENT WHO INSPIRE AND SHAPE OUR WORLD. This month’s features center around People We Love and celebrating the diverse voices and brilliant talents that have not only left their mark on the entertainment industry but have also made significant contributions to the LGBTQ+ community.
In a world that’s constantly evolving, entertainment remains a powerful vehicle for storytelling, advocacy, and representation. From actors, musicians, comedians, writers, and directors, LGBTQ+ individuals are not only icons but trailblazers—paving the way for more inclusive, authentic portrayals of our community. But beyond the glitz and glamour, these individuals are People We Love for their strength, courage, and commitment to being unapologetically themselves.
One of the new administration’s first acts in office was to erase trans identities with the stroke of a pen. This barbaric executive order also removed many trans protections and health care options. We must unite to defend all LGBTQ+ rights, and specifically trans rights and equality, now more than ever! We will not be silenced. We will not go back into the shadows. We must stand united and proud!
In this issue, our exclusive cover story delves into the life and persona of Murray Hill, a transgender entertainer and comedian from New York City. Hill’s impact on the drag king and LGBTQ + community cannot be overstated. As a pioneer in the scene, he has paved the way for countless performers, challenging traditional gender norms and pushing boundaries. His larger-than-life personality makes him the self-proclaimed “hardest-working middle-aged man in show business.” Whether it’s through
his groundbreaking performances, advocacy work, or simply living out loud, Hill reminds us of the importance of visibility, authenticity, and community. We hope you’ll be as inspired by his story as much as we are.
Another important voice in both the Latinx and LGBTQ+ communities is José Rolón, leading advocacy and family discussion, while being a business role model to his kids as a top event and wedding planner. Rolón made queer history as the first gay father to be featured on the cover of Parents Latina Magazine and represents a real and true American family life.
Because entertainment has the power to shift perceptions and spark conversations, it’s essential that we continue to support artists and creators who amplify our voices. Metrosource strives to tell stories that are diverse, inclusive, and reflective of the world we live in.
We also seek out and spotlight global destinations that are welcoming for LGBTQ+ travelers, restaurants to indulge in, and shops to visit. The current attack on anti-discrimination policy, and DEIA initiatives represents a huge blow to progress made in those areas and it’s more important than ever to align ourselves with establishments that champion fairness and respect for all individuals. While we face challenges from roll backs of these hard-won protections, we can still make an impact by choosing where we spend our time and money. By supporting businesses that uphold the values of inclusion and equity, we send a strong message that we will not allow progress to be undone. Let’s continue to lift up the places that honor our identities and treat everyone with dignity and respect. Our collective commitment to this cause is more crucial than ever.
As always, thank you for being part of this journey with us. We are proud to share these stories with you, and we are grateful for the amazing people and places that make our world a more colorful and inclusive place.
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AUSTIN COVEN
THE HUMMINGBIRD CABIN
EMBEDDED IN THE REVOLUTIONARY SPIRIT OF HOUSE MUSIC BIRTHED BY LGBTQ+ DJ’S AS A MEANS OF DEMONSTRATING FREEDOM AND EQUALITY, AUSTIN COVEN AIMS TO CHANNEL THIS SAME RAW ENERGY LAID OUT BY HIS PREDECESSORS. By embracing the genre’s origins and aiming to shatter their limitations, the Long Island-based musician crafts sonic landscapes that are equal parts unpredictable as they are unforgettable. His debut album The Hummingbird Cabin releases in February 2025.
“Rubbing Alcohol”, a new single off the album, is a boisterous anthem focusing on the pangs of queer heartbreak that combines silky smooth vocals with lush, witch-house synths. Wrapped in the irresistible allure of electropop, “Rubbing Alcohol” casts vulnerability with empowerment, creating a sonic pleasure with its healing powers. “It’s a celebration of surviving the sting of love and emerging with a renewed sense of self,” says Coven. Listen on Spotify or Soundcloud.
QUEER EYE SEASON 9
STREAMING ON NETFLIX
YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY: IN VEGAS, WHAT HAPPENS HERE, STAYS QUEER. So, for their ninth season, Queer Eye’s Fab Five are making big things happen for a handful of heroes living in Sin City.
This time, however, the series gets a little makeover of its own. Interior designer Jeremiah Brent joins the cast alongside original hosts Jonathan Van Ness, Karamo Brown, Antoni Porowski, and Tan France. But their mission remains the same: transforming the lives of everyday people from the inside out.
If you have an eye for interior design, you’ve surely come across Jeremiah Brent’s work over the past decade. Based in New York City, Brent is the founder of his own full- service interior design firm, Jeremiah Brent Design, which launched in 2012 with locations in New York City and Los Angeles, as well as the lifestyle brand Atrio. With a finely honed intuition and sophisticated sensibility, Brent has worked his magic on countless properties across the world. But no matter the home, Brent begins each project by developing an in-depth familiarity with his clients’ emotional lives and personal journeys before personally installing each and every space — making him a natural fit for the Queer Eye family.
And family just so happens to be his driving source of inspiration. Brent is married to fellow interior designer Nate Berkus, with whom he shares two young children. The couple frequently collaborate on a host of high-profile projects, including the HGTV docuseries The Nate & Jeremiah Home Project. Brent has previously appeared in Netflix’s Say I Do, the Emmy-winning Home Made Simple, and The Rachel Zoe Project He’s also the author of his recently released debut book The Space That Keeps You, an emotional design book that explores what gives spaces meaning.
The Fab Five again assist a fresh crop of heroes with their finetuned expertise in style, grooming, interior design, culture, and food and drink. As we all know well by now, everybody who comes across the Fab Five leaves with lessons that they’ll take with them everywhere — guess what happens in Vegas doesn’t always stay in Vegas after all.
LOVE YOU MADLY, HOLLY WOODLAWN
A WALK ON THE WILD SIDE WITH ANDY WARHOL’S MOST FABULOUS SUPERSTAR
BY JEFF COPELAND
$22.95 AVAILABLE FOR PRE-ORDER AT FERALHOUSE.COM
A YOUNG, ASPIRING WRITER DESPERATE FOR A BREAK…and the legendary Andy Warhol superstar who gave him the story of a lifetime.
By the mid-1980s, Holly Woodlawn, once lauded by George Cukor for her performance in the 1970 Warhol production and Paul Morrissey directed Trash, was washed up. Over. Kaput. She was living in a squalid Hollywood apartment with her dog and bottles of Chardonnay. A chance meeting with starry-eyed corn-fed Missouri-born Jeff Copeland, who moved to Hollywood with dreams of ‘making it’ as a television writer, changed the course of BOTH of their lives forever.
Love You Madly, Holly Woodlawn is a story of how an unlikely friendship with a young gay writer and an, ahem, mature trans actress and performer created the bestselling autobiography of 1991, A Low Life in High Heels. This book about writing a book is a celebration of chutzpa and love as Holly, the embodiment of Auntie Mame, introduces Jeff to the glamorous (and sometimes larcenous) world of a Warhol Superstar. In turn, Jeff uses his writing (and typing) talent to give Holly the second chance at fame she craved.
In turns hilarious and heartwarming, Love You Madly, Holly Woodlawn is a portrait of the real Holly who loved deeply, laughed loudly, and left mayhem in her wake.
Features dozens of archival and personal photographs, including a full-color insert of rarely seen editorial fashion portraits—foreword by queer icon and author Simon Doonan.
For nearly 30 years, Jeff Copeland worked as a show biz hobo, hopping from one gravy train to the next. He was nominated for an Emmy (yay!) and lost (boo!), and has enjoyed working on fun, interesting, and exciting content for a variety of TV networks and film studios, including Discovery, Animal Planet, HGTV, ABC, FOX, and Sony Pictures Home Entertainment.
WINTER PARTY FESTIVAL 2025
VARIOUS VENUES
MIAMI BEACH, FL
THE NATIONAL LGBTQ TASK FORCE’S WINTER PARTY FESTIVAL 2025 MAKES A SPLASHY RETURN TO MIAMI BEACH FOR ITS 32ND ANNIVERSARY FROM FEBRUARY 26 - MARCH 4, 2025. Winter Party is an annual dance and music festival featuring a week-long series of events benefiting local and national LGBTQ+ organizations. This year’s “Dance is Revolution” themed celebration features an eclectic mix of music, community programming, and entertainment that embodies the mantra, “Live free. Play hard. Give back.”
“For those who’ve joined us before, you know this week-long symphony of music and movement is part of what unites us to celebrate, connect, and honor the joy that fuels our strength,” Kierra Johnson, President of the National LGBTQ Task Force, said in a statement. “We would be remiss not to highlight why the Winter Party Festival remains a thriving cornerstone of queer culture as one of the last remaining community owned circuit parties. Part of the answer lies in the very ground we gather upon. Florida — a state where hateful, anti-LGBTQ rhetoric is rampant and harmful policies are piloted — has become a testing ground for authoritarian strategies designed to suppress our existence. Historically, the policies that take root here are then exported to harm other communities.”
The Winter Party Festival attracts over 10,000 attendees from around the globe each year. This year, the festival will feature more than 12 exciting events spread across 10 world-class venues in iconic Miami and Miami Beach — renowned for their vibrant energy and celebration. Guests will be treated to electrifying performances by international DJs including Chus, Karsten Sollors, Tom Stephen and more. Winter Party Festival passes are now available at winterparty.com.
EXPERIENCE
YOUNG JOON KWAK: RESISTERHOOD
FEB 14, 2025 - JUL 27, 2025
LESLIE-LOHMAN MUSEUM OF ART 26 WOOSTER STREET, NEW YORK, NY 10013
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YOUNG JOON KWAK’S WORK BEGINS WITH TOUCH. MOLDS AND IMPRINTS OF BODIES - THE ARTIST’S OWN, AND THOSE OF FRIENDS, LOVED ONES, AND COLLABORATORS - ARE DIS- AND RE-ASSEMBLED, BURNISHED AND JEWELED. The resulting works bear intimate human traces and yet remain anonymous, moving in and out of recognition. They shimmer in their distortions and imperfections, presenting us with bodies both frozen in time and in perpetual transition: in the midst of youth, aging, gestation, or gender transformation.
RESISTERHOOD includes new commissions and works made over the past ten years, a series of neon sculptures for the Museum’s public window gallery, and a soundscape composed by Xina Xurner (Kwak and Marvin Astorga) with Johanna Hedva, Anna Luisa, and Dorian Wood. Taken together, these artworks are a mobilizing call for a new politics of queer and trans resistance: embracing a playful erotics, and celebrating imperfection, abjection, ambiguity, and uncategorizable ways of looking and being.
Young Joon Kwak (b. 1984, Queens, New York; lives and works in Los Angeles) received a BFA from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago in
2007, an MA from the University of Chicago in 2010, and an MFA from the University of Southern California in 2014. They are the founder of Mutant Salon, a queer-transfem-BIPOC collective beauty salon and collaborative art and performance platform. They are also the lead performer of the drag-electronic-dance-noise band Xina Xurner. Their work has been widely exhibited at galleries and museums internationally, including at the Hammer Museum’s biennial exhibition Made in L.A. 2023: Acts of Living. Their solo exhibition, Resistance Pleasure, was recently on view at the University of California, Berkeley Art Museum and Pacific Film Archive (2024). Kwak is a recipient of the Trellis Art Fund grant (2024); Artadia Los Angeles Award (2024), California Community Foundation Fellowship for Visual Artists (2022), Korean Arts Foundation of America Award (2020), Rema Hort Mann Foundation Emerging Artist Grant (2018), Artist Community Engagement Grant (2016), and Art Matters Foundation Grant (2016). Their work is in the collections of Crocker Art Museum, Sacramento; Dallas Museum of Art; MSU Broad Art Museum, East Lansing; and Speed Art Museum, Louisville.
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YOUNG JOON KWAK, UH, AS IF! (STILL), 2014. PHOTO COURTESY OF THE ARTIST
LAZY SUSAN
SHE’S NOT LAZY, SHE’S A WINNER, BABY!
BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ
SHE’S A SINGER, SHE’S A DANCER, SHE’S A PODCASTER, SHE’S A DRAG QUEEN, AND SHE’S A WINNER, BABY.
From the land that gave us the outlandish drag styles of Priscilla Queen of the Desert, hailing from Upwey, a suburb of Melbourne, comes the winner of Drag Race Down Under season 4, Lazy Susan. Lazy Susan is anything but lazy. She’s a consummate entertainer whose hustle has clearly paid off. Her distinct sense of humor and zany drag aesthetic instantly set her apart in the industry. With her colorful childhood beginnings, her drag journey was destined.
I grew up in a house that was very theatrical, very camp. My dad is like the gayest straight man that ever existed. My mom was a big old dag (eccentric) and a massive theatre nerd. And then my sister is an improv comedy sort of gal. So, there was really no chance of not having at least a little bit of a sense of humor coming out of that environment.
This colorful environment paved the way for Lazy Susan to come into her own when realized she might not be like the other boys.
I was lucky enough to go to a very kind of progressive hippie school up in the Sherbrooke Forest. It was like Montessori - that style of school - but the cheap home brand version. So I was out at around 13. There were a lot of gays
at my school. We were all quoting Will & Grace mercilessly at each other. I was always like the other boys at my school because we were all massive flaming homosexuals and it was a great place to be out.
Despite her young age, Lazy Susan’s early drag influences come from classic sources. My first kind of drag exposure was the childhood ones, Some Like It Hot, Mrs. Doubtfire, and Tootsie. But the most significant early drag influence for me was the film Torch Song Trilogy with Harvey Fierstein, which is still to this day my favorite film. That has influenced so much of my outlook and everything that I take into drag. If you haven’t seen that film, seek it out because it’s amazing. Anne Bancroft,
Harvey Feirstein, need I say more?
Film in general has always been part of Lazy Susan’s life. From childhood to earning a BFA from film school, she has found her inspiration from cinematic personalities like Pedro Almodóvar, John Waters, and Todd Solondz ( Welcome to the Dollhouse and Happiness ), anyone who, according to her, is a twisted homosexual. These kinds of films have created Lazy Susan’s style. How to describe Lazy Susan’s looks? It’s hard to put down in words.
I like to dress like a woman who has just done a 12-hour shift at like a tall window, like that’s my dream aesthetic. I love uniforms and polyester suits and name tags. There usually has to be some element of dank in the drag.
As a citizen of Australia and the United States, she actually auditioned for Drag Race for both iterations. One of her audition tapes featured her parents. What was the winning factor for her last audition tape that got her cast for Down Under season 4? She simply puts it – “Desperation.”
Watching herself go through her season was eye-opening. What did she learn the most about herself?
Watching the show back, the thing I learned, and the thing that I think every Drag Race girly learns, is what you actually look like. It’s a traumatizing experience. So, I learned just to make my makeup bigger. How about that?
Now with so many iterations of Drag Race, there are a number of winners in the industry. How is Lazy Susan going to use her crown, what kind of legacy does she want to create?
I think the key to a good reign is bloodshed, like the most bloodshed. Going on the show is not about getting everyone to like you, it’s about finding the people that you are in sync with and then taking them off back to your weird little corner of the drag world. I’m eager to just find as many of the people that are into the sort of things that I’m into and then make content and ideas and things for them. That’s the thing about having so many winners now, not all of them need to be everything to every person. We now have a winner for every different type of queer out there. I hope to find sweaty, dank homosexuals to entertain.
Lazy Susan is the first queen to be crowned by Michelle Visage, who took the reigns over from RuPaul this season. For Lazy Susan, Visage’s presence wasn’t just about hosting a
show, it was about adding that mother energy to the show. The two also bonded over the loss of their mothers, adding a bit of glitter to grief.
She’s incredible. It’s amazing watching the season back and the meticulous care that she has for the contestants. She’s adaptive, she didn’t just do a one-size-fits-all all. She got to know our personalities and started to know how to receive us and what sort of advice and ideas to give to us. Like I think the way that both me and Max (another season 4 contestant) had conversations about the passing of our mothers was very different because Max and I have different feelings. I’m a real staunch atheist. When people say, “I think your mom’s looking down on you from heaven.” I’m like, “No, she’s not. She’s in a box in my sister’s living room.” Michelle even adapted that kind of conversation with me when I was in that sit down with her in the final episode, we were talking about the moms. “Yeah, my mom died,” and she says, “How about two mothers dying?” because obviously Michelle has lost both her biological and adoptive mother. That is specific, that is her being irreverent with a girl who talks in that kind of way and then offering a really different kind of softer care to someone who’s in a much more fragile state and has more of a feeling about God and heaven and those sorts of things. I really appreciated that in her.
Torch Song Trilogy was not just an early inspirational film for Lazy Susan but also was a source of comfort in working through her grief of losing her mother.
Going back to Torch Song Trilogy, there’s this great line in that film that definitely provided me a lot of solace, it is when Anne Bancroft talks about losing her husband and she says, “Uh, grief is like wearing a new pair of glasses. At first, it’s all you can think about, and it feels like it’s changed your entire life. And it’s not that it ever goes away, it’s just that you get used to it and it becomes part of your everyday life.” That’s how I think about grief. I feel it and live through it. You can’t try and obfuscate grief. It will come for you no matter what. You really have to live in it.
Dealing with death has also been tonguein-cheek for Lazy Susan. Her popular podcast is called Death to Everyone and is an outlandish look at pop culture and the Apocalypse. Would you expect anything tamer from the eccentric mind of this title-winning queen?
GOING ON THE SHOW IS NOT ABOUT GETTING EVERYONE TO LIKE YOU, IT’S ABOUT FINDING THE PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE IN SYNC WITH.”
The podcast is about two celestial goddesses, two drag icons, Zelda Moon and Lazy Susan, deciding what we’re going to put in our doomsday bunker from human culture. For example, which Spice Girl, which road sign, which drink, which thing from 7-11? So they all like going to the bunker while the rest goes into the apocalyptic wasteland. Living in the times that we’re living in, it’s kind of impossible not to think that we’re constantly on the brink of annihilation. So, we wanted to do something that at least made a bit of a joke out of it and had a bit of fun. We also just wanted a way to talk shit about everything that we could think about. What would Lazy Susan exile from her bunker for 2025?
Mr. Beast is, unfortunately, going to be fraying in the apocalyptic wasteland unless he does something really camp soon. We just left Monster Energy drink; they’re going out in the cold in favor of Red Bull. Red Bull is making it into the doomsday bunker because it’s much chicer and fem coated. So yeah, these are the kinds of important questions that we do tackle. Which puppet gets into the bunker is so important because how do we memorialize puppets at the end of days?
Barreling into 2025 with a Drag Race crown, Lazy Susan does not want to slow down and has her sights on a feature film for this year. And her poignant message to her fans?
Bow to my reign or expect death. It will be swift. [Laughs] ■
Follow Lazy Susan on IG: @MsLazySusan Death to Everyone is available wherever you listen to your podcasts
All episodes of Drag Race Down Under Season 4 are now available on WOW Presents Plus.
MURRAY HILL LEANING INTO LOVE
BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ
I DON’T WANT TO BE TREATED ANY DIFFERENTLY THAN ANYBODY ELSE. I WANT TO BE TREATED THE SAME. I WANT TO HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS AS YOU.”
MURRAY HILL IS LARGER THAN LIFE. HE’S GOT A BIG PERSONALITY, A POSITIVE OUTLOOK ON LIFE, AN INFECTIOUS STYLE OF BANTER, AND AN ENDEARING DEMEANOR. It is all presented in a colorful package, suit and all. But it is not just a persona. After chatting with him for just a few minutes, it is clear that he is the real deal. Talking to him is like talking to everyone’s favorite guy at the bar. He’s got stories, jokes, and opinions on life. He’s also got a lot of talent that has taken him from the New York club scene to the stage and screen. You never know where he is going to pop up, from cameos in films to burlesque, from opening for rock bands to performing at parties for Liza, from performing in his one-man show Murry Hill As Himself to co-starring in the hit HBO show Somebody Somewhere. He’s a throwback to classic Hollywood in the style of Benny Hill and Sammy Davis Jr. but with modern flair. He’s unapologetically queer and has moved our community forward in media representation, but without pomp and circumstance, just a lot of heart. There’s a joy to Murray, whether you are talking to him in person or seeing him on stage or screen, but his persona and outlook belie a challenging beginning.
I grew up in a conservative Catholic household and a conservative town. So, my home life was pretty rough. My public life, which when you’re that young is going to school and afterschool programs and sports and all that kind of stuff, is where I really blossomed. I had two very different lives, and I think that set me up quite nicely for the birth of the persona. As I got older, I think I used my humor as a way to disarm all my relationships with people in the town, at church, and my own family. My comedy was to disarm them so that we would all be on the same level. I say it in my show, “If you’re laughing, you can’t be hating at the same time.” It’s actually impossible. So I’ve always had a big personality. Murray looks like all my Italian uncles, and it came out of survival and a coping mechanism, and I’ve made a career out of it and I’m using the same tools that I created to survive then, 40 years later. I’m going to keep building bridges and disarming people so that everyone sees the humanity in the heart first.
Murray knew early on that he wasn’t like the other kids around him.
In first grade I was obsessed with femme teachers, but in a disproportionate way. When I got a couple of years older, I didn’t want to play with the girls, I was just enamored by them. So, I was doing my sports, playing with the guys, tomboy stuff. Then I remember, and this is ridiculous, in Dirty Dancing there’s that scene with Patrick Swayze at Jennifer Grey in the water. He lifts her up and she’s got that wet t-shirt, ahhh. That’s my first memory of consciously being attracted to a woman. And then as quickly as I realized that I was sitting with my brother, and he was like, “What are you talking about? That’s wrong!” Right away it was bad, wrong. So, I was always fighting repression and conservative ideologies and Catholicism and all that stuff. Any feeling I had for a girl or a teacher was bad, bad, bad. I didn’t come out until college. I was a little late bloomer.
Murray would shed his conservative life and find his home, and ultimately his persona, in the heart of the East Village in the mid1990s, becoming part of the queer club family that would pave the way for other LGBTQ personalities.
What I loved about the nightlife scene was it was all open arms. At that point, New York was a little bit affordable, and everyone went to New York to be accepted for who they were and to find themselves, and to not be judged and discriminated against. The thing about nightlife that was so beautiful, and that I slipped right into, is that it showed me by action, and by these wonderful people, all about chosen family. Back then in the East Village, there were clubs every single night with RuPaul, Mario Diaz, Jackie Beat, Justin Bond, Lady Bunny, Linda Simpson, all those folks. You could go out every single night and spend all this time with these people and you would never ask them about their time before New York. This is our family; this is our safe space. This is where we can be who we are at 2:00am on Avenue A. New York nightlife for me was like going home and understanding what family was. We had so much fun.
I met so many colorful people and that’s when I developed a persona and created an act. At The Cock (club) I sang “My Way” at 3:00am. Everybody was loaded on something. I was definitely on the booze train, and I was so drunk, I couldn’t remember the words! But it was like we were singing at a pub in Ireland. But that was the first time I didn’t know the words, so I just put the microphone out.
You have to understand, I’m on a tiny shoebox platform as the stage, clip lights on me, and 200 sweaty people loaded. I put the microphone towards them, and everybody sang out “Myyyyyy waaaaayyy!” I still do that in my act, 30 years later, I put the microphone out to the crowd, and they sing along.
For all the many projects Murray has been a part of, he’s always been referred to and labeled as the community he comes from. Media headlines refer to him as drag king, trans, or queer man Murray Hill. In Murray’s ideal world, those labels wouldn’t be a necessity.
I think there needs to be room for some nuance here because some people need to
THE BIGGEST THING THAT GOT ME TO WHERE I AM IS I DID NOT STOP IN THE FACE OF DEFEAT.”
identify themselves verbally, and that’s what they want to do. “I’m queer” or “I’m trans” or whatever it is, to declare an identity and take up that space and be empowered by it. My whole thing about how I was raised, part of a generational thing, is I don’t want to be treated any differently than anybody else. I want to be treated the same. I want to have the same rights as you. I want to be addressed by my name, I don’t need to have 40 things in front of it. My personal political stance is I am so much more than my sexual orientation and my gender identification. If you said in front of every man like “the male comedian Dave Chappelle,” it sounds weird, right? Because it
doesn’t happen. That’s where I come from, I just want to be addressed and seen as an equal.
Murray has been a trailblazer in the drag king world. This coming year, Murray will host King of Drag on Revry TV. It is the first ever televised drag king reality series. Having performed as a drag king since 1995, Murray is elated to be the hype man for the drag king community.
There’s been a lot of controversy over the years that drag kings want to get on RuPaul’s show. My whole motto in this has been, from the very beginning, “If you don’t see yourself represented, go out and represent yourself.” I’ve never wanted to be a contestant on Drag
Race, because I am not a drag queen. I would like to be a guest judge, but I don’t want to be a contestant because I want to showcase OUR community. We have to have our OWN show. And that’s not as a separation or a different silo, but this is a community that exists. And I was part of the early representation and now it’s all over the country, and it’s all over the world. And I think it’s important for me because I finally broke through some mainstream media with TV and film and now I’m in a position where I can bring everybody else up and get the spotlight on the kids and show everybody what this scene is. And it’s not just the opposite of drag queens and it’s not just drag kings being like Drag Race, it’s this whole community of people that don’t get the representation, they don’t get the bookings, they don’t get a chance to be on TV ever.
I’ve pitched the show for decades. The response? “What’s a drag king? No one’s going to watch this, it’s too niche.” We could fill up your whole magazine with all the rejections. So, when I met Damian from Revry, I knew that he was not your typical streaming CEO gatekeeper. You have to make an effort to do this, you actually have to make an effort to be inclusive and to be intersectional. It takes action, you can’t just say it. So, when I was speaking to him, I realized that he knew what he was talking about in terms of intersectionality, and he knew this community, and he was in full agreement that it’s time for this community to have its own show and to be represented. The difference between talking to him and any other network executive that I’ve talked to in the last 20 years is that I didn’t have to start off my meeting explaining who I was and explaining who drag kings are. We were already past that and we were in agreement that this has to happen and we’re going to do it.
Regardless of the long list of queer descriptives that come with Murray’s celebrity status, he has managed to break through to mainstream media. He appeared with Amy Schumer in Hulu’s Life & Beth, alongside John Cena and Awkwafina in Paul Feig’s hit movie JACKPOT!, and co-starred with Bridget Everett in HBO’s Somebody Somewhere, and served as a special guest correspondent for ABC News and Hulu. How did he manage to bridge the gap between queer and mainstream work?
The biggest thing that got me to where I am is I did not stop in the face of defeat. As much rejection as I received from networks,
MURRAY IS THE MANIFESTATION OF SURVIVAL ON AN UNWAVERING MISSION TO REPRESENT THE GOOD AND THE COMPASSION AND EMPATHY FOR EVERYONE, AND TO REPRESENT THE QUEER COMMUNITY. ”
from theaters, from clubs, so much this whole 28 years I’ve been doing this, what’s kept me going is the audience. And it’s kind of what’s going on today. The loudest noises are the “no’s” and the “who are you?” niche. “Nobody wants to see this.” And then I’m playing in Alexandria, Virginia, making everybody laugh, being as edgy as I always am and there are all kinds of races, all kinds of ages, folks from the military, politicians… and they’re all coming together and laughing. So that’s what kept me going because I saw it, I saw that Murray isn’t something to be afraid of, it’s something to celebrate. I bring people together and that goes back to the early days of disarming folks. I believed in myself even though, and I’m not going to lie, I’ve been impacted by a lifetime of discrimination from my own family, to society, to the increased trolling on my Instagram page since the Presidential Inauguration. In the face of hate, I’ve kept going.
Even with Murray’s celebrity status, he still has to explain his identity from time to time.
In a Metrosource exclusive, Murray revealed that he recently filmed with Arnold Schwarzenegger for the upcoming film, Man With the Bag. Murray was blocking a scene that he was sharing with Arnold while dressed in a Santa suit. The director kept referring to Murray and Arnold was confused as to who the director was talking about, because the director kept saying “he” and “him.” Murray was unphased.
At that moment, I saw the bigger picture that I am with one of the biggest, most masculine, straightest action heroes in the history of show business. A big A-list star. I am Murray Hill with Arnold Schwarzenegger! Now am I going to sit there and be offended that he’s misgendering me and doesn’t know what the hell’s going on? Or am I going to use this opportunity to have empathy? Obviously, he wasn’t coming from a negative place. He just
didn’t know what was going on. It’s not part of his world. Or was I going to use my humor and compassion? This is a huge moment for me to be with him, for trans men, for drag kings. It just hasn’t happened before. So, I made it a warm, funny interaction and he looked at me and said, “I think I get it now.” And then action. And then he was patting my shoulder. And that was it. So, part of me being mainstream is I haven’t wavered who I am, which is a warm, open person who wants everybody to get along.
This February, Murray will embark on the West Coast tour of his one-man show, Murray Hill As Himself. The show is a throwback to the old Vegas-style shows (in fact, he will appear in Vegas) with a band with big opening and closing numbers, guest stars, and plenty of comedy. Think Don Rickles meets Belle Barth. Murray will make fun of everything that is going on in the world, not through anger but through camp. Through his comedy, he will hit some hard points, including the current political attack on the queer community. Proceeds from the show will benefit One Voice, a non-profit dedicated to providing goods, services, and opportunities to the underprivileged, including everything from crisis intervention to long-term programming that lifts families out of poverty, while providing avenues for the rest of the community to become involved in helping families in need. Currently, One Voice is helping the families and workers affected by the Los Angeles fires (onevoice-la.org). His stop in LA on February 20th will be at Lodge Room (lodgeroomhlp.com), and on February 22nd he will be at the Revolution Stage Company (revolutionstagecompany. com) in Palm Springs.
In addition to his touring show, Revry’s King of Drag, and other film projects, Murray will release his memoir Showbiz! My Life As a Middle-Aged Man through Simon & Schuster. Even with a star on the rise, he remains humble and down to earth. The loud suits, jokes, and big band numbers are not an act, they are elements of who Murray really is. How is Murray the person different than Murray the persona?
As long as I’ve been in show business, I’ve been in therapy. I don’t think all my show business gigs have covered the cost of my therapy, but that’s another story. Murray is the manifestation of survival on an unwavering mission to represent the good and the compassion and empathy for everyone, and to represent the queer community. I feel like I’m old school, looking out for everyone and
I think personally, I am the survivor. I know it’s a very subtle difference, but it’s like me, the person, had to go through all the shit from my own family, my own community, starting from day three up until two days ago with someone telling me I need to go to a mental hospital and find Jesus and go on Lithium. I take all that in and I survive that because I choose to use it in a positive way. We all have friends who are beaten down, suffer from depression, and who may have suicidal thoughts and are scared. I have all those things too, but I’ve managed to get through it and use it. Murray is my reward for survival. I got through my own life, I’m still standing, and now people can see my energy and my openness, and my desire for equal rights and anything I do. And now I get to do it on TV, people can pick that up. I go to Palm Springs where people can pick that up. So, Murray’s the reward for the struggle.
And Murray’s message to his fans?
Keep your chins up. My live shows are about being a fun, respite, safe place for people to laugh and to be who they are. No one’s going to get trolled or anything. And what I would say to people is to lean into these experiences and your community. In LA, you see everything that’s happening with the fires. But what is happening there is the community and people are taking care of each other. That’s beautiful. And that’s how we’re going to get through all this. So, what I would tell people is to lean towards the love, be present in your community, limit that social media, come to the show, and we’re going to be all right. ■
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REBECCA BLACK SWEET SALVATION
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ALMOST A DECADE AND A HALF AFTER HER CONTROVERSIAL TEENAGE DEBUT, QUEER MUSICIAN REBECCA BLACK STILL TURNS THE POP-WORLD UPSIDE DOWN WITH VIRAL MOMENTS AND IRRESISTIBLE EARWORMS. In her next project SALVATION, she presents what’s possible when utter selftrust prevails.
The internet is a fickle place. A fast-moving URL can turn a hopeful soul into an overnight phenomenon, and criticism can shift the narrative just as fast. Only the surest of themselves can ride the wave, gaining something akin to a superpower for their tenacity.
Rebecca Black’s got it. Whether navigating studio sessions for her forthcoming ‘SALVATION’ or dominating the decks at Boiler Room parties where she rips 140bpm techno with a signature hyperpop edge, the queer singer, songwriter, and DJ enlists passion (and a little hindsight) to fuel her limitless approach to music making.
Learning to trust herself took time, and Black admits that journey is far from over. But when Metrosource catches up with the independent pop disruptor on a video call from her Los Angeles home, she’s the picture of pure confidence.
“Originally, it wasn’t even supposed to be recorded,” she shares of her recent performance for the aforementioned club promoter. “I had said, ‘no, I’m just gonna go in, get my bearings, and do it.’ And as soon as I finished the set, I remember immediately going to my manager and being like, ‘Why was I so scared to do this?’” Luckily, the Boiler Room team captured the footage of her high-octane performance which hovers at some 1.2 million YouTube views at time of writing. “The energy in the room was truly crazy, especially being for the fact that it was 6pm in the boondocks of D.C.,” she recalls of the explosive set, which includes original edits alongside blistering reworks of hits by Björk, N*SYNC and Lana Del Rey. “You can see 20 minutes in, this adorable cutie next to me offers me poppers, and I literally was like, ‘Girl, it’s 6!’” she adds with a telltale smirk.
Black is quite used to instigating feral behavior, after attaining online fame in 2011 for decidedly varied reasons. Even with the more mature star peering back at us from our laptop screen, it’s still hard to believe that this viral Boiler Room moment arrives 14 years following her release of ‘Friday’ — a certified internet-breaker remembered for its scathing
jeers-turned-adoring cheers.
In the now legendary video, a then-teenage Black crunches cereal, rides shotgun and belts in tribute to the (undisputed) best day of the week. That almost four-minute work of art simultaneously launched her entertainment career and detonated her personal life. Black’s cautionary tale went on to stoke a broader conversation about the dangers of bullying, an area of activism where the songstress continues to pour her energy today. Since coming out as queer in 2020, she’s also partnered with a range of LGBTQ+ organizations like the AdCouncil, GLAAD and Best Buddies, noting that she’s felt a sense of solidarity and acceptance from the community since the very beginning. “With my story in particular, and it took me a long time to wrap my head around this, but there was a very clear resonance with feeling like an outcast and feeling misunderstood and immediately being written off as one thing,” Black divulges of her theory as to why queer audiences were among the first to champion her leftfield pop aesthetic. “And obviously there’s the conversation around camp and irony and nostalgia that I think queer people are always the first to tap into, because I think they’re always ahead of their time.” In
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other words, real sees real.
Overcoming adversity is key to living one’s truth, and even after being forced to switch high schools due to harassment, Black held her head high. “I fought my family on the right to continue doing what I did after my experience, because they thought I was absolutely crazy to continue in an industry that is as lethal and confusing as music,” Black reveals candidly. “There’s always been a gut feeling that this was just what I knew I was supposed to do.”
In the aftermath of ‘Friday’, she sought new ways to explore her passion on her own terms. A sweltering remix of the life changing tune emerged on its 10-year anniversary, this time featuring Black alongside rainbow icons Big Freedia and Dorian Electra. There is also plenty of poking fun in later catalogue selections and promotional content, too (the quirky teaser to her debut album ‘Let Her Burn’ in which a faceless figure opens Russian dolls to reveal Black’s transformation from ‘Friday’ innocent to “Edge Lord” is one such example.)
This tongue-in-cheek trend continues with her newest project ‘SALVATION’, which hit the airwaves on January 24. The music video for the lead single — an electro-house banger called ‘TRUST’ — spotlights a fashionably-fitted Black inside a drab courtroom, offering a cutting metaphor for the overexposed celebrity experience. “Being in the court of public opinion is kind of the thesis of what this project is,” Black explains of the core message. “I was at a point where I really had to learn to embrace exactly who I was, whether or not people understood it, and go exactly forth where I felt was right.”
Black succeeds in this mission — the seven-track collection is a bold celebration of self-acceptance. It also slays, kicking off with the pumping four-to-the-floor title track in which Black’s soaring voice regales a quest of saving herself. “I’ve written a lot of heartbreak stuff, and this album is pretty on the other side of that coin for me,” she says, noting that its themes and beats are built for the clubs. Overall, ‘SALVATION’ retains the thoughtful songwriting prevalent throughout 2021’s ‘Rebecca Black Was Here’ EP and the full-length 2023 follow-up ‘Let Her Burn’, but boasts more propulsive tempos, and rolls deep in dancefloor-driven basslines.
Fans of ‘Hollaback Girl’-era Gwen Stefani will get their kicks from ‘Sugar Water Cyanide’, another bouncy anthem that lays on the Y2K textures. “I couldn’t even tell you what exactly we were referencing on the day,” she says of the groove’s sweetly toxic title. “We immediately
THERE’S ALWAYS BEEN A GUT FEELING THAT THIS WAS JUST WHAT I KNEW I WAS SUPPOSED TO DO.”
got on this tip and started with this very baby vocal, and we left the room with the song pretty much completely finished. I remember playing it in a session the next day and being like, ‘How the f*** did we do this?’”
Despite what some listeners might assume, this thumper materialized pre-Boiler Room madness. “This music has been a part of my blood for way longer than that,” Black says, adding that formative artists like late producer SOPHIE also influenced its unbridled sonics. “The song is really about the relationship you have with someone that feels like a drug,” she shares of the playful lyrics that liken a passionate encounter to a sugar rush. She takes a sip from a red can and continues, “I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s like the relationship that I have with Coke Zero, because I love it so much.”
Much like her favorite drink, there’s an air of effervescent bravada throughout the pop collection which draws from genres across the electronic sphere. This energy is most palpable in ‘Twist the Knife’, a bold finale that harkens back to broadway epics like Chicago’s ‘Cell Block Tango’, and sends Black’s vision soaring to new heights of avant garde splendor. “What would be a perfect way to cap this off other than a song about me murdering a man for a woman, and creating this world of what that feels like in terms of self-freedom and being unleashed from the chains of yourself?” Black asked herself when searching for the record’s sinful climax. The result is a cinematic drum-and-bass scorcher, backed by some of the most expansive production elements we’ve heard behind Black to date.
It’s a triumphant ending to ‘SALVATION’, a project that shows a pop star embracing her power at a time when audiences need external reassurance. “As queer people, young people, and the people who would be the kinds to listen to me or Chappell [Roan] or Charli [XCX] or Sabrina [Carpenter], I think there is a need for something sweet amongst the depressive and something to continue to push the energy forward in a time where it feels like things are rushing back against us,” Black says, noting other fearless female pop stars who’ve pushed the envelope during this tumultuous era. “I do think there are some parallels to this time from when I was a middle schooler and just kind of figuring out how to be conscious in the universe for the first time.”
One difference is crystal clear, however. With life’s lessons in her bag, Black’s discovered that salvation starts inside herself, and she’s never looking back. ■
MAX EMERSON TIME FOR A FRESH START AFTER BREAKUPS, FIRES, AND TEARS
BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ
THE NEW YEAR STARTED OFF WITH THE WORLD WITNESSING HEADLINES ABOUT THE FIRES IN LOS ANGELES THAT HAVE DECIMATED OVER 50,000 ACRES AND KILLED AT LEAST 27 PEOPLE, BECOMING ONE OF THE WORST NATURAL DISASTERS IN THE STATE’S HISTORY. And, at the exact moment of this writing, the Hughes Fire broke out consuming over 9,200 acres in just a matter of hours. It is one thing to read the headlines, it is another thing entirely to be a direct victim of this tragedy, losing everything in a place you called home. Max Emerson, YouTuber, actor, author, director, and LGBTQ personality, received the news that the home that he and his fiancé Andrés restored and meant to grow their family in was burning to the ground. Max would lose more than just the house and its belongings, not even having been given the opportunity to evacuate properly. But surprisingly, he is moving forward and focusing on the future rather than his losses.
I experienced it entirely online. I still haven’t seen the house. I just got back to LA last night. I was flying from Switzerland to Utah for a job, and Andrés was coming up from Chile to meet me there. I had heard about the fires when leaving Switzerland, and by the time I was in Utah, the house was long gone. After that, it was just about picking up the pieces and putting things together. We had some neighbors that stayed behind and they managed to get footage of the house burning down. That gives me a huge sense of closure. I don’t think everybody has the experience of
watching their house in full inferno mode. For me, there’s something at work here with all of that. The most tragic part about our house burning down is that Andrés quit his job to become a visual artist and had four years’ worth of paintings in a closet downstairs. I could cry right now just thinking about it. He had just booked his first solo show, an international show in Chile, and was literally on the way back to the States to pick up the art to go to the show. Fortunately, he was able to photograph a lot of that stuff. I’m sure on some weird, deep, cosmic level, it is a lesson in
permanence, but this is the part of that lesson that just sucks. And that’s just what it is.
Max posted footage of his house burning down on Instagram. It is devastating. Mere days after the couple posted a moving video sharing that they were safe and stable, Max and Andrés made a loving statement, sharing that after nine years, they were separating. As they put it, they “still love each other fully, deeply, and unconditionally. That love doesn’t end; it evolves.”
The media went crazy sharing headlines of their breakup. Max has continued to post to his over 1 million followers on social media, showing that
he is returning to some semblance of normality. Single and without a home.
I’ve always just posted compulsively to social media. Even though social media has put a lot of pressure on my relationship, which is now on pause, I know that there are a lot of people invested and connected, and there are people who care about us, and me, who want to know that we’re okay. The fact of the matter is, we are okay. For me at least, there’s no point in sharing this big sad, sob story. Our house burned down. It’s sad, it sucks, but it is just stuff at the end of the day.
I THINK MY ARC WITH GRIEF HAS BEEN TO NOT JUST PLOW THROUGH, BUT ACTUALLY LET YOURSELF FEEL THE FEELINGS AND ALLOW YOURSELF TO NOT BE OKAY.”
Max didn’t have time to grieve. Work and the need to focus on the future of his solo career brought him to a branded two-week influencer stint in the heart of the Colorado mountains. Even while focusing on continuing to work, he is trying to give himself some grace to focus on his mental health.
That was not a response to my house burning down. Those were just jobs and things that I already had confirmed, and I could not think of a better place to be. As much as I wanted to be here for and with my community and help, I felt like I would just be in the way. I’m just one more displaced person to jack up the real estate market. I’m from Florida and have a lot of experience with hurricanes, but fires are really, really scary to me. I very much feel like I’m on the other side of the grief in a lot of ways. Of course, it comes in waves and is not linear, but for about the first week, I just had to budget an hour and a half a day to not be okay. And if I thought I was going to get away with it one day and be like, “Oh, I didn’t cry today!” No, it’d catch me. My body’s nice to me though, it gets it out of the way at times when it’s not inconvenient or embarrassing. Like I’ll just randomly wake up at three in the morning and start crying, and then I’m good. I feel like the endorphins from the crying kick in, and I look at all the love and opportunities that are just being hurled at me and then it’s all right. That being said, my social battery is about 50% of what it normally is.
Max has become a highlighted name in the queer community. His film projects like DipSpit, Earwig, and Hooked solidified his work as an actor, producer, writer, and director. His autobiography, Hot Sissy – Life Before Flashbulbs,
detailed his “redneck” teenage years growing up in Florida and was well received. On YouTube, he has become extremely popular for his diverse collection of videos that include unfiltered thoughts on life, thirst traps, and his ongoing series Stuff Every Queer Kid Should Know. On social media, he continues to gain followers because of his appreciation and promotion of the LGBTQ community and, let’s be honest, his shirtless and underwear pics. His relationship ended up being a big part of his social media. The two announced their relationship, would film content together, announced their engagement, talked about going through the adoption process, and posted their breakup on social media. Does Max have any regrets about sharing so much about his relationship with the public?
Absolutely not. There’s nothing about my relationship that I regret. Part of the issue with what was happening is that I became the spokesperson for the entity that is us. And that’s not fair to him. That’s too much responsibility for me and it was just causing problems. Right now, everything that’s happening to us is a sign that it’s time for a break. We had a failed adoption that failed for a reason. Our house literally burned to the ground. That happened for a reason. We’ve had a lot of communication issues in the last few months, and we’ve decided to just take some time apart. So having something like this, simplified things for us so we can just make a full, clean break early while we still like each other. That is huge.
There is a level of grief and maybe even embarrassment to admit online that your very public relationship isn’t working out. But I
think it’s also just a part of relationships. Not everyone wants to be around each other all the time. We have huge opportunities coming up for both of us, but they’re literally on different continents. I think the lesson for us right now, as a relationship, is to find ways to care about each other and love each other without the same sort of attachment that we were putting on ourselves, that we were having put on us by a bunch of strangers randomly weighing in on our relationship. After nine years, I think it’s time to reestablish ourselves as individuals because as fun as it is, doing happy couple content, there’s nothing more miserable than doing happy couple content when you’re fighting. It feels so inauthentic. When there’s just all these great offers and jobs and opportunities for us to go be a happy couple, we’re going to take them because it’s fun. But then that takes up the real estate and opportunity for me to be an actual filmmaker and for Andrés to be a visual artist. It’s everything in the universe that’s telling us to go be individuals and develop the lives and careers that we want independent of each other. It’s not to say that this may not work out in the future, but just definitely not right now.
Social media, especially in the queer community, can be smoke and mirrors with content creators always putting their best foot forward. With Max losing his house, the reality of his relationship being public news, and now having to start fresh, does he feel less pressure to present the glossy version of his life?
I am first and foremost a cheugy millennial. My job through college was a model during the toxic Abercrombie era. My first impulse is usually to make it look good before I put it out there. But I feel like that’s in anything I do, I always want something to be aesthetically pleasing, whether it’s how I’ve designed and laid out my home, or if I’m going to plate a dinner. I like things to have an aesthetic balance to them. But I actually don’t think that I was super successful with social media until I started learning how to be vulnerable.
My first large crowdsource project was for a film I wrote, a narrative about homeless youth called Hooked. It was a reaction to all the predatory behavior I’d been experiencing from people within our own community. One of the big arcs of that fundraising is that I had a whole fake relationship with Kyle Krieger. We fake dated for a month and we fake broke up. It’s all very meta and it’s all happening again. But through the course of that month
of fundraising, I had these celebrity cameos that functioned as mentors, helping me channel that vulnerability and authenticity and acknowledgment that not everything is awesome all of the time. So again, I think when it comes to regret and sharing your relationship on social media, yes, people need role models, as pretentious as that sounds, for how to go on vacation with your partner and not just fight in the hotel room the whole time. Yes, there needs to be examples of ways to celebrate your love and do it in a healthy capacity, but there also needs to be role models on how to break up and how to still care about each other. It’s not my first choice of a storyline, but that’s the truth right now.
Max is moving forward and taking his followers with him for the ride, bumps and all. He has some big international projects happening and hinted at a major project he can’t talk about right now. Even with everything he has
gone through in less than a month, he is oddly optimistic and does consider the fires a type of personal cleansing. That is not to say there is no grief. Many people, and many from the queer community, have lost everything in the Los Angeles fires. Some are moving to different states, some are staying and trying to rebuild their lives, and many are displaced with no actionable plan in sight. From his own dealing with grief, Max offers his advice.
I think my arc with grief has been to not just plow through, but actually let yourself feel the feelings and allow yourself to not be okay. Don’t run from those feelings. Feel them because you’re going to feel them whether you want to or not. And the harder you fight it, the more it’s going to hurt. So do that, feel those feelings, but then when you’re done, get to work, get off your ass, and keep going. ■ You
WE ARE JUST OUT THERE PUTTING OUT POSITIVITY, SAYING NO MATTER WHO YOU WANT TO BE, WHAT YOU WANT TO BE, NO MATTER WHAT KIND OF FAMILY DYNAMIC YOU WANT TO HAVE, IT’S ALL POSSIBLE.”
JOSÉ ROLÓN BLENDING LGBTQ AND LATINX
FAMILY VALUES
BY ALEXANDER RODRIGUEZ
IN A WORLD WHERE GAY SOCIAL MEDIA CONTENT CREATORS BECOME FAMOUS FOR STRIPPING DOWN, LIP-SYNCHING, OR DANCING TO THE LATEST TREND, JOSÉ ROLÓN HAS MADE A NAME FOR HIMSELF AND HIS THREE CHILDREN ACROSS THE PLATFORMS FOR BEING THEMSELVES, ENCOURAGING ACTIVISM, AND CELEBRATING FAMILY LIFE. At the heart of every one of their posts is unabashed unconditional love. Their social media perfectly captures family life while challenging the norms of what an American family looks like, especially as we head into a political administration determined to define what a normal family should be. While running the household as the single father to Avery, Lilah, and London, José has become an important voice in both the Latinx and LGBTQ communities, leading advocacy and family discussion, while being a business role model to his kids as a leading event and wedding planner. He has been featured on national media outlets that include MSNBC, The Today Show, and Good Morning America, and made queer history as the first gay father to be featured on the cover of Parents Latina Magazine. He represents a real and true American family life.
He is an East Coast native with a family from a Puerto Rican background. Family life growing up was the complete opposite of the environment Rolón established for his kids. While abuse and addiction were part of his household, he also had to deal with the expectations of being a Latin male while dealing with his sexuality.
I grew up in a Puerto Rican neighborhood and something that you learned very quickly growing up is at the time, certainly in the late eighties and early nineties, there were two things you didn’t talk about in the Latino community: AIDS and being gay. I knew that pretty early on in the sense that whatever it was I was feeling, it wasn’t the right way to feel.
I grew up in a very machismo household and it was all about being a man. It was all about not talking about your feelings. I was an only child, and I was very effeminate growing up. I remember my dad always saying things like, “Don’t stretch your S’s.” I didn’t even know what that meant. I was like, “I’m sssssssorry, what do you mean?” He would say things like, “Walk like a man.” I didn’t even know what that meant. A couple of times he did call me a little faggot. So, it was very ingrained that there was a certain way to be a male in a Latino community and a Latin household. And my father was a firefighter, he was a Marine. It doesn’t get any more
machismo than that.
José’s father would eventually get into drugs and pass away from complications from AIDS after contracting the virus from a shared needle. His father died before José came out. While some Latin households find it hard to break a cycle of abuse and addiction, he made the decision to create a family life for his children that he did not have.
I would say the thing you do learn as you become a parent, you have a little bit more empathy for how your parents were. My parents had me at 17, so they were babies raising baby a baby. When you grow up in such a volatile household that’s filled with drugs and machismo and anger, you don’t know what the lesson is when you’re older and you carry resentment with you. But then when you become a parent, what becomes apparent is the lesson you get. You do the exact opposite. My mother was very kind and affectionate and loving and all that. But with my father, I just do the opposite. I’m super affectionate with my kids. I never heard my dad say, “I love
you,” not once. There’s not a day where I don’t say, “I love you” multiple times. We have this thing every single time we go to bed, or we leave each other: it’s “I love you.” One says, “I love you more.” And the other one says, “Impossible.” We are just a very touchy-feely family. Growing up in a machismo household, what’s important for me with my children is to make sure that they are being raised with a lot of empathy and compassion and to be able to stick up for other people that are around them who might feel less than, and to make sure we’re putting out as much positivity as we can, as opposed to keeping everything so locked up within four walls, which is how I grew up. José did finally come out in college, after a pivotal life moment where his two worlds collided. He was invited to his first-ever Latin night at a gay club. He tears up as he remembers walking into that club, at age 19, and seeing men dancing Salsa and Merengue with other men. José’s parents were salseros and would compete in dance competitions. This was the inspiration for him to live life authentically.
It was the first time in my life that I saw there was a possibility that those two worlds could exist together. And that’s sort of been part of my mission since I know that we are typically known as, not my words, but other people have said that we are bridging the gap between Latinx and the LGBTQ community while remaining relatable to all families. I hold that very proudly.
Being queer has helped shape José’s role as a father and break down Latinx familial stereotypes.
Being part of the LGBTQ community allows us to be more fluid and be more in touch with our feelings and our emotions. Generally, we’re pretty sensitive to begin with, and we’ve dealt with a lot of adversity, not only just being Latino, but now having to deal with discrimination against being a gay man or a gay boy. We know what it’s like to feel less than on so many levels that when we have the opportunity to come out of that on the other side and to be able to, in our desire to raise kids, make it easier for us to show them compassion and show them our feelings, because the last thing we would ever want them to feel is less than. So they’ve seen me cry. They’ve seen me cry because I’m happy, because I’m angry, because I’m feeling sensitive while watching a movie. I want them
to know that it’s okay to express their feelings because when they hold it in, like we probably witnessed growing up, it just comes out in such volatile ways. Being part of the LGBTQ community and then having the opportunity to raise children has allowed me to break a lot of those cycles for the next generation. Hopefully, machismo will just be something that the old ancestors used to be like.
Becoming a social media sensation was not part of José’s plan. As a leading New York City wedding planner, his work was at a standstill when Covid hit. He was stuck at home with three kids, having to take on multiple roles.
Anyone who was a parent was stuck with triple duty. We had to parent, we had to homeschool, and then if we had our own businesses, we had to try to make that survive. Having three kids and three different classes, it was just a lot of chaos in the house. And so, I needed a way to break up this craziness. The initial thought was, “Oh, I got this. I can put things in line and be organized.” I realized very quickly that it was more about making sure that my kids’ mental well-being was far more intact than what they were learning in school. What I started to do is just make a bunch of silly videos. We didn’t do it for people out there. We did it for ourselves. It was purely self-serving to
just do things that were entertaining and then post them. Some videos started to go viral, and I found that so interesting because I think we were just doing what we were doing. But that’s when I realized that for a lot of the families, it didn’t matter if we were Latinx or LGBTQ, our stuff just seemed relatable to so many people who were going through the same thing.
As the family’s social media started to take the spotlight, so did José’s personal story of how he became a single father. Seven years prior, his husband passed away unexpectedly. Rolón found himself alone with an eight-month-old son and with twins on the way. He announced the family’s pregnancy while giving his husband’s eulogy. His story of love, perseverance, and positivity became a much-needed headline during Covid. The media outlets started to reach out and he found himself sharing his story on The Today Show, Good Morning America, Ellen’s Game of Games, as well as making queer history as the cover of Parents Latina Magazine becoming the first gay father ever featured. He tears up once again as he remembers being chosen.
I remember when they called me, I just bawled my eyes out. I couldn’t believe it. There were a few pivotal moments for me, but that was a moment where it was like, wow, there’s something really bigger happening outside of our small world. We really are making an impact. To be able to be a gay man on the cover of a parents’ magazine that is geared towards the Latino community, which as we know, can be very homophobic. The fact that they took that risk and put us on the cover was amazing. Rolón and his family would appear on the magazine again in 2022 and 2023. With that came speaking engagements where he has been able to share his family story and promote LGBTQ representation in family life. What message would he give to straight, Latino parents?
I would say my message to other Latinos, straight Latino fathers, in particular, is two things. One, we’re just as exhausted as you are trying to get the kids out the door, lol. We’re still making sure we’re feeding our kids. We’re still trying to keep our culture intact. We might be a little bit more colorful than you guys, but we are not that different. We are still parenting. We are still doing the same things. Secondly, I would encourage them to allow their children to be their authentic selves. If their daughter wants to go out and play sports and be aggressive out on the field, let them do that. If you have a son who wants to be in the kitchen
because he loves the idea of cooking, let him do that. Let them be who they are. Because growing up, we weren’t allowed to do that. I very openly allow my children to do what they want, within reason, of course, as long as it’s all safe and wonderful.
Even with the positive messages his family’s social media puts out into the world, their platforms are not shielded from keyboard warriors. When Rolón and his children held a mock funeral for Goya, a Latin-owned food company whose CEO decided to support Trump, social media had a lot to say. His post was featured alongside Ivanka Trump’s and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez’s on Instagram. The discourse became so heated, that José received death threats.
I thought it was funny, but I also wanted to make a statement that we were no longer going to be in support of these products for the time being. It went viral. People were divided between the Latino community and the Trump supporters because the Latino community was upset because they felt like we were encouraging taking jobs from the Latino community, away from Goya. In my mind, I’m like, no, I just don’t think the person at the top should be in that position. And then, of course, I had all the Trump supporters come after us. This was pretty early on, and I was like, oh, there is something bigger outside of our bubble here, and I need to think a little bit more carefully about how my children are collaborating in these videos whenever it’s political. That was the one thing that was a bit of a shift. Now, do I allow my kids to get involved in political content? I do more now because they are older. We are five years in, they are 11 and 10, and they have a bigger understanding. But at the time, I definitely had to think a little bit more responsibly about protecting my children, because, of course, I didn’t want death threats.
Despite the continued success Rolón has with his social media, even in the face of Meta and TikTok changing its policies, he remains staunch in only creating content when the family wants to. He is not keeping to a concrete schedule or putting out content just for content’s sake. He refuses to be beholden to brand deals that don’t make sense or require the family to do what it doesn’t want to do.
We were in the public eye when they were five and six. It was organic, and it was just stuff that we started to share. There was no pressure anywhere. My kids loved doing them. They had fun being silly, during the pandemic, and they got to see me in a way they would’ve never seen
me otherwise. And they loved that. And then they got in on it. For them, it was just entertaining entertainment and just having fun with their dad. Now, as they’re older, they understand, they have zero pressure, so there’s no grooming or forcing them to be in the spotlight. You’ll see videos where they’re in and videos that they’re not. Our family is comfortable being on screen and we’re okay with that. When they turn of age, or even before that, if at some point they’re like, “Not only do we not want to do this anymore, but can we go through some of your videos and delete embarrassing ones?” I will absolutely, without question, do that.
The Rolón has expanded even further. No, not more kids but with the addition of José’s partner Thomas. The two just celebrated two years together. After some dating trials and errors, Thomas has made a welcome place with José and his children.
By the time I met Thomas, I realized the traits I needed to look for were someone who shows up with compassion, who has respect for your journey, and who is okay with me honoring who the children’s father was. Someone who’s going to be the calm to my storm, and someone who the children will love too. There was this nice balance of appreciating who he is as someone I would want to get to know, not only with my children, but when my children are far beyond the home. I think that’s a mistake that a lot of single parents make. They obsess over whether they will be perfect for my kids. It just so happens, Thomas is perfect for my kids, but that wasn’t my single focus. It’s really been magical. We did feel complete before he showed up but now there’s this wholeness that feels calm to all of us, and everything feels just right.
Being honest with his children is the foundation for his relationship with them. On a national scale, being open and honest about being queer and queer issues to youth is José’s mission and very necessary, especially when queer discussion is trying to be limited in classrooms.
What people don’t see on our social media feed is all the hundreds of messages we have gotten over the last five years from LGBTQ+ youth, and from mothers of LGBTQ+ children who are crying and saying, “I’m so happy we have you to show our son that this is possible. You make us as parents feel less scared for our children and the things that they’ll face.” So it’s good now that in 2025, we have made a lot of progress and that we are just a very small grain of sand where there’s some light for some people out there that come across our feed that will inspire them because visibility is important. And that’s not to say that our model is the way everyone should be. We are just out there putting out positivity, saying no matter who you want to be, what you want to be, no matter what kind of family dynamic you want to have, it’s all possible.
Away from the social media spotlight, what kind of legacy does José want to create for his family?
I think this might sound a bit cliche, but I want it to be very clear that the legacy I leave behind when I’m long gone, and my children look back that they see we were a million percent on the right side of history. We were proactive in being on the right side of history. We were at the White House three times for a pride event. We were part of Kamala Harris’s campaign. I want them to look back and say, we did that. We handed out hot apple cider, hot chocolate, and coffee to people who were standing in line to get their Covid test in the middle of January when it was freezing. Outside of the media, outside of the posts, we were out there doing good things for people. That’s what I want the legacy to be.
And his message to his family’s fans?
My message to my fans? That even feels uncomfortable to say. [Laughs] I would say just thank you for allowing us in your homes and allowing us to be a positive light in your world, no matter what you’re going through, in good times and in bad times. We aren’t going anywhere no matter what happens on any of the social media platforms. We’re here to stay and we hope they keep staying with us for the ride. ■
You can follow José and his family on IInstagram: @NYCGayDad
MODERNISM WEEK IT’S A VIBE!
BY MICHAEL WESTMAN
IF YOU WERE A CHILD OF THE 70S IN SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA, YOU WILL REMEMBER THE ANOINTED “Plumber to the Stars” – Jack Stephan – “Plumbing and heating problems? Your man is Jack Stephanski… Jack Stephanovich… Jack Stephanino... no It’s STEPHAN, JACK STEPHAN!”
Jack Stephan founded Jack Stephan Plumbing & Heating in 1946, and Adee Plumbing & Heating in 1949, and began advertising on television in 1965. “ADEE-DO!” The pop culture campy commercials certainly stuck in the minds and hearts of a generation, as Jack Stephan became a household name.
Fast forward to Palm Springs 1969, where Stephan bought and completely remodeled the now iconic Deepwell home, which he dubbed “Stephan’s Folly,” and lived until 2014. Stephan realized his One Thousand and One Nights–inspired fantasy, with the help of friends in the design and furniture industry. The comprehensive adornment of all surfaces speaks to the entrepreneur’s desire to stand out. “In keeping with his attention-grabbing advertising style,” the Los Angeles Times reported in his 2014 obituary, “Stephan drove Rolls-Royces and maintained a flashy wardrobe, including mega-carat diamonds and suits in his favorite color, red.”
This grand 3,250 square foot estate style home is a showcase of design and Palm Springs style. A fanciful blend of custom textures, patterns, and vibrant colors. From the many different types of crushed velvet wallpaper in fuchsia, pinks and oranges, to the deep shag carpeting, to the avocado green tiled sunken tubs, and the yellow appliance accented kitchen… the property holds a bold, flamboyant charm that you cannot help but love. Cozy, unique, and only in Palm Springs.
The property, designed by architect Robert Lewis and constructed in 1965, is rich in local history and celebrity stories. Every corner of this flamboyant residence tells a story of high-roller charm with former party attendees and neighbors such as Eva Gabor, Hugh Hefner, William Holden, Elizabeth Taylor, and Liberace. One can imagine celebrities gathering around the retrochic curved bar for a martini and cozied-up on the plush L-shaped sofa in front the massive fireplace for a round of Backgammon.
Everything in this incredible home has been painstakingly maintained and preserved as it was originally conceived in 1969. The property has had a few different owners since Stephan’s passing in 2014. The current owners, Kristy and Scott Parent, had been searching for a home in
“WE FELT A DISTINCTIVE ‘VIBE’ WITH THIS HOME, AND SO WE RENAMED IT ‘THE VIBE’.”
Palm Springs for a couple of years, and once entering Stephan’s Folly, they instantly fell in love with its unique history and charm. “While this wasn’t what we were initially searching for, we appreciated it the minute we first saw it, and knew we needed to continue the story,” says Kristy. “We felt a distinctive ‘vibe’ with this home, and so we renamed it ‘The Vibe’,” says Scott.
With its solid history and new name, The Vibe is participating in Modernism Week for the FIRST TIME, so you’ll get to tour and party at one of the coolest properties in the desert on February 20th from 6 to 8:30pm. You’ll enjoy full bar service featuring custom cocktail creations, tray-passed hors d’oeuvres, groovy music, go-go girls, and disco balls! Dress to impress at this one of kind event. For tickets, visit go.modtix. com/f/2025/vibe-house.
MODERNISM WEEK
And if you can’t make the Modernism Week party – I have even better news – you can now STAY in this groovy house through Natural Retreats at www.naturalretreats.com/property-detailpage?name=the-vibe-7349. The Natural Retreats collection of luxury vacation homes offers travelers a distinguished selection of properties in iconic destinations across the United States—from the granite peaks of the Rockies to the desert oasis of Palm Springs to the epic views of Big Sky to the luminous waters of the Emerald Coast. You can visit them at naturalretreats.com/destinations/palm-springs. It’s Cocktail Time!
For the 60s party at The Vibe house, visit go.modtix.com/f/2025/vibe-house and follow The Vibe on Instagram @thevibepalmsprings
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Modernism Week (February 13-23, 2025) is now celebrating 20 years of celebrating appreciation of midcentury architecture and design, as well as contemporary thinking in these fields, by encouraging education, preservation and sustainable modern living as represented in the greater Palm Springs area. The annual 11-day festival will feature more than 350 tours, programs and events, with a portion of ticket proceeds benefiting Modernism Week (a non-profit organization) and other local preservation, neighborhood, and community groups. The first Modernism Week event in February 2006, showcased the world-renowned midcentury modern architecture of Palm Springs. Among the members of the initial steering committee were representatives from the Modernism Show & Sale, Palm Springs Preservation Foundation, the Palm Springs Modern Committee, the Palm Springs Historical Society, and Palm Springs Art Museum. Today, more than 60 other non-profit organizations, businesses and neighborhood groups collaborate with Modernism Week to help produce Modernism Week tours and events.
For all 2025 tours, presentations, events, and experiences, visit modernismweek.com.
Photos by Natural Retreats
ESCAPE TO A CARIBBEAN PARADISE
SAILROCK’S GAY-FRIENDLY RETREAT IN
SOUTH CAICOS
BY MONTE MATHEWS
FOR GAY TRAVELERS, THE CARIBBEAN CAN BE A MIXED BAG. Some destinations open their arms wide to welcome the community, while others greet guests with a chilly reception. Fortunately, there are islands that embrace inclusivity, offering unforgettable escapes for gay couples, friends, or families looking to soak up the sun. Enter Turks and Caicos—an archipelago that offers breathtaking beauty, a warm atmosphere, and the exclusive Sailrock Resort, where paradise takes on a whole new meaning.
THE CARIBBEAN’S MOST WELCOMING ISLANDS
When you’re dreaming of a tropical getaway with crystal-clear waters, powdery beaches, and an atmosphere of acceptance, the Caribbean should top your list. Several islands in the region welcome LGBTQ travelers with open arms, offering vibrant Pride parades, beach parties, and world-class resorts. Turks and Caicos, in particular, stands out as a serene haven.
Though not overtly advertised as a gayfriendly destination, the people of Turks and Caicos are known for their warm, laid-back attitude, making it an ideal spot for visitors seeking tranquility. And for those who value privacy and luxury, Sailrock Resort on South Caicos is a gem that guarantees an unforgettable stay. Small wonder Sailrock was one of only four Gay-friendly hotels in TravelPulse’s list of the Caribbean’s Best Resorts for LGBTQ travelers.
WHERE LUXURY MEETS INTIMACY
Nestled on the pristine beaches of South Caicos, Sailrock South Caicos is an exclusive five-star boutique retreat, perfect for anyone looking to unwind in style. This paradise boasts a stunning location on its own peninsula, surrounded by the Atlantic Ocean on one side and the Caribbean Sea on the other. With just 1,200 residents on the entire island, South Caicos offers unparalleled peace and seclusion.
Sailrock caters to all travelers, singles, families, and groups, with accommodations that redefine luxury. Choose from Ridgetop Suites, featuring panoramic views and decadent touches like outdoor showers, or opt for spacious Beachfront Villas equipped with private pools and pathways leading to the shore. Whether it’s a romantic getaway or a friends’ retreat, Sailrock delivers an experience tailored to your needs.
UNPARALLELED EXPERIENCES
At Sailrock, every detail is crafted for your ultimate relaxation and adventure. The resort’s Great House serves as the heart of activity, offering an infinity pool, exquisite dining, and specialty cocktails. Be sure to try the Sailrock Martini, a signature creation from Food and Beverage Director Kubir Dhungana.
From The Great House Restaurant & Bar’s wrap-around terrace, you can enjoy sunrise and sunset views of the Atlantic Ocean and Caicos Bank and experience the ever-changing hues of the turquoise waters below. A rotating menu showcasing seasonal ingredients and the catch of the day. An ideal setting from which to relish Caribbean flavor and classics with new-age twists. Their signature Blue Margarita is always a good choice. But they have a wide range of exquisite mixology options, along with an extensive wine collection. The perfect spot for pre-dinner drinks or a relaxing nightcap.
The Cove Restaurant & Beach Bar on Sailrock Beach offers Caribbean cuisine with a creative twist. Breathtaking views of the Caicos Bank, a casual ambiance, and an innovative menu provide a delightful alternative to Great House, the resort’s main restaurant. Relax in a hammock, read in the shade of a beach umbrella, or take your seat at the bar.
You can even schedule a private chef for an in-villa, gastronomical theater experience, and watch as your customized menu is prepared before your very eyes.
For those seeking rejuvenation, the Na Spa provides Balinese-inspired treatments in open-air cabanas, where the soothing sea breeze enhances every massage and facial. Prefer a more active escape? Sailrock offers activities like kayaking, paddleboarding, and Hobie Cat sailing. Don’t miss a guided excursion with Activities Director Ben Zerin, who can take you fishing, snorkeling, or exploring uninhabited islands.
A TEAM THAT FEELS LIKE FAMILY
What truly sets Sailrock apart is its exceptional hospitality. From the moment you arrive, you’ll feel like a cherished guest among friends. Led by Managing Director André Boersma, Sailrock’s team represents a global tapestry of talent, bringing expertise and warmth to every interaction. Whether it’s your villa’s personal chef or the resort’s attentive spa therapists, every staff member is committed to making your stay extraordinary.
GETTING THERE
Reaching Sailrock is about to get even easier. While most visitors fly into Providenciales (home to Turks and Caicos’ international airport), starting February 2025, American Airlines will offer non-stop flights from Miami to South Caicos’ Norman B. Saunders Sr. International Airport—just minutes from the resort.
AWARD-WINNING EXCELLENCE
It’s no wonder Sailrock has been recognized as the Caribbean’s Leading Luxury Island Resort by the World Travel Awards for five consecutive years. With its blend of natural beauty, luxurious accommodations, and world-class service, Sailrock is a slice of heaven on Earth.
Ready to plan your getaway? Visit sailrocksouthcaicos.com for reservations
Whether you’re celebrating love, chasing adventure, or simply seeking peace, Sailrock welcomes you to create memories in paradise. ■
TRIO TASTE, STYLE, AND VISION
BY MICHAEL WESTMAN
TRIO HAS BEEN A FIXTURE IN THE PALM SPRINGS COMMUNITY SINCE 2009. But not wanting to rest on its laurels, it swung for excellence when owner Tony Marchese recently hired Executive Chef Gladis Lizarraga to bring her culinary expertise to the kitchen – boy did he hit a homerun! Chef Gladis has brought a new vigor to the dining experience at TRIO – with innovative dishes, fresh farm-to-table ingredients, and a presentation that is as beautiful as it is delicious.
With over 15 years of experience in the restaurant industry and a background in chemistry, Chef Gladis Lizarraga brings a unique blend of precision and creativity to the kitchen. Most recently, she served as Executive Chef at Wildest Restaurant & Bar in Palm Desert, where her leadership earned accolades including Palm Springs Life’s “Best of the Best 2022” and OpenTable’s 2022 Diners’ Choice Award.
Growing up on the Pacific Coast of Mazatlán, Mexico, surrounded by fresh seafood and bold flavors, Gladis developed a deep love for cooking at an early age. Inspired by her mother’s traditional Mexican recipes, she learned to appreciate the intricate balance of flavors that define exceptional cuisine.
“Enjoying delicious food and drinking a good wine go hand in hand with enjoying life. A great chef doesn’t just follow recipes—they bring their unique style and vision to every dish, making it truly special,” says Chef Gladis.
My husband and I had the pleasure of dining at TRIO after the new year and was truly impressed with the complete dining experience. We began our culinary adventure with three starters – Crab Croquettes, Hamachi Crudo, and Beet Tartare. The crispy Crab Croquettes were served with a fresh lemon aioli which complimented the delicious fresh crab meat. The Hamachi Crudo - Yuzu, Alice Oil, Lemon Radish, Fresno Chile - was bright, acidic, and colorful with the addition of Micro Flowers, for a harmonious flavor profile. But the award for the most unique starter was the Beet Tartare – Avocado Mouse, Vegan Horseradish Aioli, Toasted Faro, Micro-Greens – which actually looked like Ahi, but instead was the most amazing Beet dish I have ever experienced. This dish is also a great option for our Vegan/Vegetarian friends. Pair this with a crisp white wine and you’ve got a meal!
Don’t skip a pasta course. Chef Gladis prepares all the pasta from scratch daily and is well worth at least a share plate before moving on to mains. We opted for the Oxtail Ragu - Torchietto Pasta, Peppers, Braised Greens, Ricotta, Fresh Herbs. The smooth, silky texture and rich flavor of the oxtail was brought out by the use of the herbs and slow cooking, and the curves of the pasta soaked up the flavorful sauce. With Main Courses we went for a little surf and turf variant, beginning with the Diver Scallops. Scallops are always a favorite of mine, and these were heavenly on a bed of Roasted Fennel and Red Curry Squash, accompanied by a phenomenal Pistachio Pistou and Meyer Lemon Sauce. And for the turf, the Duroc Pork Chop with Yam Puree, Spiced Carrots, Spinach, Roasted Tomatillo Sauce, and a local Date Chutney/ Vinaigrette. This thick chop was incredibly tender and juicy, and full of luscious aromas and flavors. Duroc pork is often referred to as the “Black Angus of Pork,” due to its flavor profile that sets it apart from its counterparts. The marbling of this cut of meat not only enhances its tenderness but also infuses it with a luscious buttery texture that practically melts in your mouth. The Date Chutney/Vinaigrette was made from Coachella Valley dates and added a touch of sweetness to the dish.
Although we were thoroughly stuffed, Chef Gladis brought out one of her signature desserts, Dutch Apple Pie with Salted Caramel Gelato. Warm and delicious spiced apple strudel paired with creamy, salty and sweet gelato. This was a special treat to end the evening.
Whether you’re a local regular or a first-time visitor, TRIO promises an extraordinary dining experience is awaiting you. Cheers!
TRIO is located in the heart of Palm Springs at 707 N Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs, California. Open every day for dinner beginning at 4pm, plus brunch on Saturday and Sunday from 10am to 2pm. Visit triopalmsprings.com, opentable.com, or call 760-864-8746 to make a reservation. ■
WHAT CAN WE SAY, LOS ANGELES? WE’VE BEEN THROUGH A LOT
BY MEGAN VENZIN
AS WE CONTINUE TO RECOVER AND REBUILD FOLLOWING THE CITY’S WORST WILDFIRES ON RECORD, IT’S A TIME FOR TAKING STOCK OF WHAT MATTERS: OUR COMMUNITY. Metrosource’s annual People We Love issue provides an opportunity to celebrate those among us who make our lives a little brighter. Some deliver hard on laughs. Others lay down the DJ sets that provide us with a much-needed dance floor release. And then there are the others who create safe spaces where we’re free to be our truest selves. The events below, which take place across the SoCal region, are made possible by all those incredible people and the special talents they exercise to keep our lives exciting. In addition to these offerings, be sure to keep an eye out for recovery fundraisers held by amazing friends or consider donating to local chapters of service organizations like the Red Cross and the Humane Society as they work tirelessly to help the brave city of LA get back on its feet. This time, they’re the people we really love.
CUBSCOUT
FEBRUARY 7 AND MARCH 7, 2025
EAGLE L.A. 4219 SANTA MONICA BLVD.
LOS ANGELES, CA 90029
Dust off your favorite leather accessories and head over to Santa Monica Blvd. for a rugged night out with the crew at CUBSCOUT, taking place the first Friday of every month at Eagle L.A. Featuring high-energy sets from local legends DJ Chris Bowen and DJ Victor Rodriguez (plus a lineup of special guests always in tow) this popular hang is always a place to blow off some steam and lean into good times. Whether you like your party routine rough or relatively chill, be sure to consult Eagle L.A. Hanky code and wear your favorite colors so your fellow revelers know your play preferences. As you explore new territory with this fun-loving bunch, you just might learn something new about yourself. Get your merit badge at eaglela.com.
DJ Victor
HORRIBLY FUNNY
Margaret Cho by Nick Spanos
W/ MARGARET CHO, TIFFANY HADDISH, ILIZA SHLESIGNER AND MORE
FEBRUARY 10, 2025
THE COMEDY STORE 8433 SUNSET BLVD. WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA 90069
Have you ever been in a situation that was just so horrible, you had to laugh? Something tells us that might be the case. Well, now you can take comfort in knowing you’re not alone! An all-star lineup is coming to The Comedy Store this February to tell it how it is in Horribly Funny. And after they’ve had a poke at current events, well, maybe you’ll find yourself chuckling just a little, too. This month’s show features icons of the stage and scene like Margaret Cho, Tiffany Haddish, Iliza Schlesinger, Anthony Jeselnik and Orny Adams among others. Crack up ‘til you cry, and really, don’t feel bad about it. Remember, you’re in just awful company. Laugh in spite of it all at thecomedystore.com.
ANDY SANTIAGO PRESENTS: OVER EASY DRAG BRUNCH
EVERY SUNDAY IN FEBRUARY AND MARCH, 2025
PRECINCT DTLA 357 S. BROADWAY
LOS ANGELES, CA 90013
Load up on savory benedicts, bubbly mimosas and fierce fits at Over Easy Drag Brunch, taking place weekly at Precinct Bar in DTLA district. Hosted by the always fabulous Andy Santiago, this midafternoon outing is sure to become the Sunday sermon that guides your week to come. Roll in around noon for a nosh and watch the queens take the stage at 1PM. Between your breakfast and their bravada, you’re sure to have an eggcellent time. And if you’re the type to sleep in on Sundays don’t fret, Precinct also hosts Gay Ass Bingo on Wednesdays and Gay Ass Trivia on Thursdays for those of you who treasure being a fountain full of useless knowledge. Order’s up at precinctdtla.com.
PAUL OAKENFOLD
FEBRUARY 15, 2025
TIME NIGHTCLUB
1875 NEWPORT BLVD., SUITE B245
(IN TRIANGLE SQUARE)
COSTA MESA, CA 92927
Before her passing, Queen Elizabeth cemented her love for producer Paul Oakenfold by awarding him as a “Pioneer for the nation” for his contributions to dance music in the UK, and beyond. With more than four decades of trance and house bangers under his belt, not to mention over 100 remixes for names like Britney Spears, Madonna, Massive Attack, Moby and countless others, Paul Oakenfold remains one of the industry’s most trailblazing names. To catch him in a small capacity space like TIME Nightclub is a rare occurrence and one that is not to be missed. TIME itself is also a forward-thinking venue, famously featuring a women’s only lounge for all our femme-identifying friends who need a little breather from the dancefloor. Embark on a beat-filled journey at timenightclub.com.
CRSSD
(SPRING EDITION)
MARCH 1-2, 2025
WATERFRONT PARK
1600 PACIFIC HIGHWAY
SAN DIEGO, 92101
YES MA’AM AND WHXREMONES PRESENT: STRIP! A TRANS STRIPTEASE COMPETITION
FEBRUARY 21, 2025
CANTIQLA
1571 SUNSET BLVD.
LOS ANGELES, CA 90026
Held within the tantalizing interiors of the community-beloved lingerie shop, cantiqLA, this trans-inclusive striptease competition is primed to get your skin-showing and blood pumping. If you identify as trans or nonbinary, this limited capacity event provides the perfect opportunity to show off that beautiful body of yours for a shot at a $500 cash prize, plus other fabulous giveaways. Presented by the NYborn, LA-based trans-centered events collective, @yesmaam. club, and the QTBIPOC dance party, @whxremones_la, this evening of sexy, sweaty performances offers five distinct categories in which to compete: Transfem, Transmasc/male, Nonbinary, Over 50 All Stars and Pole Pros. With DJ sets from local faves Meduusa and A$H, expect a high-octane night of flesh-fueled liberation. Fill out your application or snag a ticket — they’re bound to disappear as quickly as the garments you see before you. Get to disrobing at instagram. com/whxremones_la.
Lovers of techno, house and all things ravey have a slice of springtime paradise coming their way in the form of CRSSD. Since its inception in 2015 this multi-stage weekend music festival has become one of the scene’s most sought after events, thanks to its stunning, art-focused environment and world-class lineups. For its 10th anniversary, the cultural monolith keeps its tradition of excellence soaring high with names like iconic French duo Justice who will bring their esteemed Hyperdrama live show to the Ocean View stage, FEMME HOUSE founder and piano house queen, LP Giobbi at The Palms, and harder flavors ala Nicole Moudaber b2b Anfisa Letayago who will serve blistering bpms across the City Steps. That’s only scratching the surface of what promises to be a diverse offering of DJs and live acts — add that to a sunny Saturday and Sunday schedule and you’ll likely find yourself buying pre-sale tickets for the fall edition too. And if you want to keep the party going after the sunsets, CRSSD after dark will be sending it in the booming interiors of Rich’s, San Diego’s premier gay nightclub. Slather your sunblock and secure your weekend pass at crssdfest.com.
Paul Oakenfold
FEMME HOUSE: DANCE MUSIC & ACTIVISM
(VIRTUAL EVENT)
FEBRUARY 7 AND 21, 2025
ONLINE
Are you looking for new ways to blend your love for the dancefloor and your community? FEMME HOUSE, a nonprofit dedicated to providing resources, opportunity, and programming to promote gender parity in electronic music, is hosting a wide array of free virtual courses throughout the year, with offerings for musicians and the activists who love to groove. FEMME HOUSE co-founder HERMIXALOT joins house DJ Geexella for a virtual discussion on ways to interweave your passions for dance music and creating impact. In a period where human rights are constantly in question, these conversations aim to provide actionable ways to make your message clear, whether you’re creating music or simply spreading PLUR vibes in the club after dark. Of course, if you’re an aspiring DJ or producer there are plenty of courses to help you hone those aspects of your craft, too. Learn more about FEMME HOUSE’s mission, and find out when to see them in action at thisisfemmehouse.com.
MR. LEATHER DANCE PARTY
MARCH 28, 2025
SECRET LOCATION
DTLA, CA
This March, Los Angeles Leather Pride returns in a blaze of tactile glory, and its signature Mr. Leather Dance Party — the undisputed crown event of this annual week-long celebration — continues to build its naughty legacy in downtown LA. The dance and play party curators of Den LA are reviving this industrial outing, and they’re not skimping on the euphoria. Set in a sprawling warehouse venue, this year’s Mr. Leather Dance Party promises to be a spectacle of amazing lights and state-of-the-art sound where attendees can release some tension with the help of an open bar, on-site massage masters and full-kitted play spaces. However you choose to indulge, this one-night-only wonderland is designed to blow your mind and make your wildest fantasies come true. Get fitted at losangelesleatherpride.com.
GARDEN STATE: THE 20TH ANNIVERSARY
CONCERT
MARCH 29, 2025
THE GREEK THEATRE
2700 N. VERMONT AVE. (IN GRIFFITH PARK) LOS ANGELES, CA 90027
Revisit your angsty college days when you were too cool for everything,and only art house movies could calm your tortured soul when The Garden State 20th Anniversary Concert unfolds at LA’s iconic Greek theatre. This historic, one-night only engagement will benefit The Midnight Mission and feature all of the tunes that made you cry from the still-impeccable Grammy Award-winning soundtrack to the 2004 film Starring Natalie Portman and Zack Braff. And yes, I know what you’re thinking… did they really round up all of the original artists? YES, HONEY. Expect performances from The Shins, Iron & Wine, Frou Frou, Colin Hay, Thievery Corporation, Remy Zero, Cary Brothers, Bonnie Somerville, and Sophie Barker of Zero 7. And because we’ve been waiting two decades for such a holy reunion, you better believe there will be some special guests, too. Maybe Peter Sarsgard will want to grab a beer after. Anything is possible. Get nostalgic and “let go, let go” at lagreektheatre.com.
LOS ANGELES DIRECTORY
ACCOUNTING
Greg Cash TaxPlus
Cash, Gregory D , EA, MST
5150 E Pacific Coast Hwy, Ste 350
Long Beach 562 597-4300
www gregcash com
ATTORNEYS
Parker | Waichman LLP
6 Harbor Park Dr
Nationwide 800 JUST-CALL
www yourlawyer com
BAKERIES
Cake and Art
8709 Santa Monica Blvd
West Hollywood 310 657-8694
www cakeandart com
BANKS
US Bank
Toll Free 800 720-2265
www usbank com/checking
Wells Fargo
Toll Free 800 869-3557
www wellsfargo com/lgbt
BOOKS & BOOKSTORES
Book Soup Bookstore
8818 W Sunset Blvd
West Hollywood 310 659-3110
Crossroads Books
1196 E Walnut St
Pasedena 626 795-8772
COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY
Lotus Place Recovery
1111 Baker St Unit A Costa Mesa 800 951-0735
www lotusplacerecovery com
EMPLOYMENT
Los Angeles Fire Department (LAFD) 1700 Stadium Way LA 213 847-LAFD www joinlafd org
Los Angeles Police Department (LAPD)
700 E Temple St, B-38 LA 866 444-LAPD
www joinlapd com
FRAMING
Framing Gallery
8527 Santa Monica Blvd
West Hollywood 310 657-6904
FITNESS/GYMS/PERSONAL TRAINERS
Body Builders Gym
2516 Hyperion Ave
Silverlake 323 668-0802
Fired Up Athletics
8474 W 3rd St, Ste 208, LA 213 608-9425
www firedupathletics com
GUEST HOUSES/B&B’S
MisterBandB
www misterbandb com
HAIR SALONS
Blades 801 N Larrabee St, Ste #1
West Hollywood 310 659-6693
Shorty’s Barber Shop
755 N Fairfax Ave
West Hollywood 323 297-0554
www shortysbarbershop com
HOTELS
Opus Hotel Vancouver 322 Davie St Vancouver, BC Canada 604 642-6787
www opushotel com
Preferred Hotels & Resorts
www preferredpride com/metrosource
Ramada Plaza West Hollywood Hotel 8585 Santa Monica Blvd 800 845-8585
www ramadaweho com
Sunset Marquis
1200 Alta Loma Rd West Hollywood 800 858-9758
www sunsetmarquis com
INSURANCE
Marc Berton Insurance LA 323 872-0482 San Fernando Valley 818 365-9449 Toll Free 800 924-4459
www marcberton com
INTRODUCTION SERVICES
Bespoke Matchmaking LA 888 422-6464
www bespokematchmaking com
LEATHER
665 Leather & Fetish Co
8722 Santa Monica Blvd West Hollywood 310 854-7276
Rough Trade
3915 W Sunset Blvd, Silverlake 323 660-7956
www roughtradegear com
MARKETING SERVICES
Brand2Fly San Jose 408 763-7924
www brand2fly com
GayVan com Travel Marketing
www gayvan com
NUTRITION & FITNESS
Power Zone
8578 Santa Monica Blvd
West Hollywood
www powerzoneonline com
PET SUPPLIES
Nulo Pet Foods nulo com/love
PHARMACIES/DRUGS
AHF Pharmacy
1400 S Grand Ave, Ste 801
Downtown LA
1300 North Vermont Ave
310 289-1125
213 741-5271
Hollywood 323 661-0643
www ahfpharmacy com
Cienega Pharmacy
99 N La Cienega Blvd, Ste 104
Beverly Hills 310 360-9969
www uniteddrugs com
PHYSICIANS
& MEDICAL SERVICES
Hollywood Sunset Free Clinic
Family Medicine & Mental Health
3324 W Sunset Blvd, LA 323 660-2400
www hsfreeclinic org
TATTOO
Body Electric Tattoo and Piercing
7274 1/2 Melrose Ave
LA
www bodyelectrictattoo com
THRIFT SHOPS
Berda Paradise Thrift Store
3506 W Sunset Blvd LA
VIDEO
323 954-0408
323 661-8246
Broadway Video 3401 E Broadway, Long Beach 562 433-1920
WEDDING SERVICES
Cake and Art
8709 Santa Monica Blvd
West Hollywood
www cakeandart com
310 657-8694
LOS ANGELES COMMUNITY RESOURCES
ATHLETIC
ARRIBA SKI & SNOWBOARD CLUB
PO Box 69611
West Hollywood, CA 90069
www.arribaski.org
CHEER LA 1223 Wilshire Blvd #1580
Santa Monica, CA 90404
www.cheerla.org
DIFFERENT SPOKES OF SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
P.O. Box 2466 Hollywood, CA 90078
www.differentspokes.com
GOLDEN STATE GAY RODEO ASSOC - GLAC
P.O Box 2407
Long Beach, CA 90801 562 498-1675
www.larodeo.com
GREATER LA GAY BOWLING www.igbo.org
LA BLADES ICE HOCKEY PO Box 4346 Laguna Beach, CA 92652 310 288-3632 www.bladeshockey.com
LA POOL LEAGUE PO Box 2227
Los Angeles, CA 90078 818 426-2171 www.lapl8ball.org
LA TENNIS ASSOC. (LATA) PO Box 481226 Los Angeles, CA 90048 www.lataweb.com
SHORELINE FRONTRUNNERS OF LONG BEACH
PO Box 90774 Long Beach, CA 90809 562 252-0218 www.shorelinefrontrunners.org
SURF & SUN SOFTBALL www.surfandsunsoftball.com
WEST HOLLYWOOD AQUATICS www.wh2o.org
CULTURAL,
SOCIAL
ASIAN PACIFIC
AIDS INTL TEAM
6501 West Olympic Blvd Ste 610 Los Angeles, CA 90015 213 553-1830 www.apaitonline.org
BEST FRIENDS ANIMAL SOCIETY
5001 Angel Canyon Rd Kanab, UT 84741 435 644-2001 www.bestfriends.org
BEST FRIENDS PET ADOPTION & SPAY/NEUTER
SERVICES 15321 Brand Blvd Mission Hills, CA 91345 818 643-3989 www.bestfriends.org/la
CHRISTOPHER STREET
WEST/GAY PRIDE
8235 Santa Monica Blvd West Hollywood, CA 90046 323 969-8302 www.lapride.org
GAY & LESBIAN ALLIANCE
AGAINST DEFAMATION (GLAAD) 5455 Wilshire Blvd, #1500 Los Angeles, CA 90036 323 933-2240 www.glaad.org
GAY MENS CHORUS OF LA 9056 Santa Monica Blvd, #300 West Hollywood, CA 90069 800 636-7464 www.gmcla.org
LA GAY & LESBIAN CENTER
The Village at Ed Gould Plaza 1125 N McCadden Place Los Angeles, CA 90038 323 860-7302 www.laglc.org
LA GAY & LESBIAN CENTER
McDonald/Wright Building 1625 North Schrader Blvd Los Angeles, CA 90028 323 993-7400 www.laglc.org
LA YOUTH
SUPPORTIVE SERVICES
8111 Beverly Blvd #306 Los Angeles, CA 90048 877 465-2977 www.la-youth.org
LONG BEACH
LESBIAN & GAY PRIDE PO Box 2050 Long Beach, CA 90802 562 987-9191 www.longbeachpride.com
OUTFEST THE LA GAY & LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL 3470 Wilshire Blvd #1022 Los Angeles, CA 90010 213 480-7088 www.outfest.org
PACIFIC PRIDE FOUNDATION
126 East Haley, Ste A-11 Santa Barbara, CA 93101
805 963-3636
www.pacificpridefoundation.org
THE POINT FOUNDATION
5757 Wilshire Blvd. Suite 370 Los Angeles, CA 90036
866 33-Point www.pointfoundation.org
VALLEY PERFORMING
ARTS CENTER
18111 Nordhoff St Northridge, CA 91330
818 677-2488
818 677-3000
valleyperformingartscenter.org
WORLD HARVEST
FOOD BANK
1014 Venice Blvd.
Los Angeles, CA 90015
213-746-2228
www.worldharvestfoodbank.org
HEALTH/ COUNSELING
AID FOR AIDS AFA
8235 Santa Monica Blvd #200 West Hollywood, CA 90046
323 656-1107 www.aidforaids.net
AIDS HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION/MENS WELLNESS CENTER
• 6255 W Sunset Blvd, 21st Fl Los Angeles, CA 90028
888 AIDS CARE
• 1300 N Vermont Ave, Ste 407 Los Angeles, CA 90027
866 339-2525
800 367-2437
www.inspotla.org
AIDS HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION PHARMACY
8212 Santa Monica Blvd
The David Geffen Center
West Hollywood, CA 90046 323 654-0907 www.ahfpharmacy.org
APLA HEALTH
Client & Community Services
The David Geffen Center
• 611 South Kingsley Drive Los Angeles, CA 90005
213.201.1600
213 201-WALK (9255)
• 3743 S. La Brea Avenue
Los Angeles, CA 90016
323.329.9900
• 5901 W. Olympic Blcd. #310
Los Angeles, CA 90036
• 1043 Elm Avenue #302
Long Beach, CA 90813
562.247.7740
www.apla.org
www.aidswalk.net
AIDS RESEARCH ALLIANCE
1400 S Grand Ave Ste 701
Los Angeles, CA 90015
310 358-2429
www.hopetakesaction.org
www.aidsresearch.org
AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY
3333 Wilshire Blvd #900
Los Angeles, CA 90010
800 227-2345
www.cancer.org
BEING ALIVE PEOPLE WITH HIV/AIDS ACTION COALITION
621 N San Vincente Blvd
West Hollywood, CA 90069
310 289-2551
www.beingalivela.org
GAY & LESBIAN CENTER
Orange County 1605 N Spurgeon St
Santa Ana, CA 92701 714 953-5428
www.thecenteroc.org
HOLY FAMILY SERVICES, ADOPTION & FOSTER CARE
840 Echo Park Ave
Los Angeles, CA 90026
213 202-3900 www.hfs.org
LA FREE CLINIC
• 5205 Melrose Ave
Los Angeles, CA 90038
323 653-1990 – appts
323 653-8622 – admin www.lafreeclinic.org
• 6043 Hollywood Blvd Los Angeles, CA 90028
• 8405 Beverly Blvd
Los Angeles, CA 90048
LA PUBLIC HEALTH
www.reallycheckyourself.org
OUT OF THE CLOSET
THRIFT SHOPS
• 8224 Santa Monica Blvd West Hollywood, CA 90046
323 848-9760
• 3500 East Pacific Coast Hwy Long Beach, CA 90804
562 494-0340
• 1726 East Colorado Blvd Pasadena, CA 91106
626 440-1719
• 360 North Fairfax Ave
Los Angeles, CA 90036
323 934-1956
PROJECT ANGEL FOOD
922 Vine St Los Angeles, CA 90038
323 845-1800 www.angelfood.org
THE TREVOR PROJECT 9056 Santa Monica Blvd #100 West Hollywood, CA 90069 310 271-8845 www.thetrevorproject.org
VALLEY COMMUNITY HEALTHCARE 6801 Coldwater Canyon Ave North Hollywood, CA 91605 818 301-6314 - HIV testing 818 301-6390 - Medical Services www.smarthealthla.com
LEGAL
LAMBDA LEGAL DEFENSE & EDUCATION FUND INC.
Western Regional Office 3325 Wilshire Blvd #1300 Los Angeles, CA 90010 213 382-7600 www.lambdalegal.org
NATIONAL G & L TASK FORCE 5455 Wilshire Blvd #1505 Los Angeles, CA 90036 323 954-9597 www.thetaskforce.org
LESBIANS
LESBIAN LAWYERS ASSOC OF LA PO Box 480318 Los Angeles, CA 90048 213 486-4443 www.lgla.net
POWER UP
419 North Larchmont Blvd, #283 Los Angeles, CA 90004 323 463-3154 www.power-up.net
WOMAN ON A ROLL PO Box 5112 Santa Monica, CA 90409 310 578-8888 www.womenonaroll.com
PROFESSIONAL
LOS ANGELES GAY AND LESBIAN CHAMBER OF COMMERCE 8424 Santa Monica Blvd. West Hollywood,CA 90069 424.209.2708 www.laglcc.org
REFERRALS/ SWITCHBOARDS
LA Gay & Lesbian center
Jeff Griffith Youth Center
7051 Santa Monica Blvd Los Angeles, CA 90038
TOLL FREE: 800 773-5540
LA GAY & LESBIAN CENTER MacDonald/Wright Bldg 1625 North Schroder Los Angeles, CA 323 933-7400 www.angelfood.org
THE TREVOR PROJECT 9056 Santa Monica Blvd #100 West Hollywood, CA 90069 310 271-8845 www.thetrevorproject.org
THE VILLAGE AT ED GOULD PLAZA 1125 North McCadden Place Los Angeles, CA 90038 323 860-7328 prevention@laglc.org www.laglc.org
RELIGIOUS
ALL SAINTS PARISH
504 North Camden Dr West Hollywood, CA 90036 310 275-0123
BETH CHAYIM CHADASHIM 6000 West Pico Blvd Los Angeles, CA 90035 323 931-7023 www.bcc-la.org
GLORY TABERNACLE CHRISTIAN CENTER
3215 East Third St Long Beach, CA 90804 562 438-7758 www.glorytabernacle.com
OPEN DOOR MINISTRIES 4101 Willow St 562 925.3533 www.open-door-ministries.org
ST. JANE
PALM SPRINGS DIRECTORY
ART
Mod City Gallery
737 E Twin Palms Dr
Palm Springs, CA 92266 760 567-6852
www modcitygallery com
The Shag Store
745 N Palm Canyon Dr
Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-3400
www shag com
Trevor Wayne Pop Art
386 N Palm Canyon Dr
Palm Springs, CA 92262 442 268-5498
www trevorwayne com
ATTRACTIONS
The Living Desert Zoo and Gardens
47900 Portola Ave
Palm Desert, CA 92260 760 346-5694
www livingdesert org
Palm Springs Air Museum
745 N Gene Autry Trail
Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 778-6262
www palmspringsairmuseum org
Palm Springs Art Museum
101 Museum Drive
Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-4800
www psmuseum org
Palm Springs Aerial Tramway
1 Tram Way
Palm Springs, CA 92262 888 515-8726
www pstramway com
BAKERY
Over the Rainbow Deserts
1775 E Palm Canyon Road, Suite 150 Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 322-2253
www romanblas com
Pastry Swan Bakery
70225 Highway 111 Suite A Rancho Mirage, CA 92270 760 202-1213
www pastryswan com
CANNABIS
PSA Organica
400 E Sunny Dunes Rd
Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 778-1053
www iheartjane com
The Lighthouse Dispensary
395 N Palm Canyon Dr
Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 320-4420
www lighthousedispensary com
The Vault Dispensary and Lounge
35871 Date Palm Dr
Cathedral City, CA 92234 760 866-9660
www enjoythevault com
CASINO
Agua Caliente Casino
• 401 E Amado Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262 888 999-1995 www sparesortcasino com
• 32-250 Bob Hope Dr, Rancho Mirage, CA 92270
Fantasy Springs Resort Casino 84-245 Indio Springs Dr Indio, CA 92203 760 342-5000
www fantasyspringsresort com
Morongo Casino Resort & Spa 49500 Seminole Dr Cabazon, CA 92230 800 252-4499 www morongocasinoresort com
CLOTHING
GayMart
305 E Arenas Rd #6635 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 416-6436
Revivals
• 611 S Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs, CA 760 318-6491
• 68401 Hwy 111, Cathedral City, CA 760 969-5747
FINANCIAL ADVISORS
Simon Hobbs
California Financial Partners Inc California 818 637-0180
simon@calfp com
GIFTS
Destination PSP
170 North Palm Canyon Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 354-9154 www destinationpsp com
Greetings Palm Springs
301 N Palm Canyon Dr # 102 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-5049
www greetingspalmsprings com
Just Fabulous
515 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 864-1300 www bjustfabulous com
Mischief Cards & Gifts
226 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-8555
www mischiefcardsandgifts com
Peepa’s
120 N Palm Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 318-3553 www peepasps com
HAIR SALONS
Cut Barber
1109 N Palm Canyon Dr
Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 322-2999 www cutbarber com
Daddy’s Barbershop
192 S Indian Canyon Dr Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 537-1311 www daddysbarbershop com
Palm Springs Fine Men’s Salon 750 E Tahquitz Canyon Way, Suite 3 Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-904-0434 www psfinemenssalon com
PET SUPPLIES
Bones-N-Scones
633 S Palm Canyon Dr Suite #26 Palm Springs, CA 92264 760 864-1133
Cold Nose Warm Heart
187 South Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92262 760 424-2006
