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Healthy Relationships
from Soul healer
In other words, you don’t have total control over the circumstances that will present themselves to you. However, you can decide how you will react to them. If you keep thinking about the past, you will only become depressed in the long run. However, when you choose to start over, you will generate positive energy from the optimism of forging ahead.
Healthy Relationships
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No one wants to be around people who keep complaining about their past. Such people are often grumpy and can spread negative emotions. So, don’t be surprised that people are avoiding you when you have a culture of reminding them about your past. They might sympathize with you initially. Nonetheless, they will start avoiding you when they realize that it is something you do a lot.
Besides, it can affect your new relationship when you keep talking about your previous partner. So, you need to learn to let go of the past and focus on the present to build healthy relationships. Only talk about your past when you want a person to learn something from it so that he or she will not make the same mistake you made.
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