Family Matters August 2011

FAMILY MATTERS August 2011—Volume 3, Issue 8

Back to School Events A Glimpse of History Employment Help for Military Spouses AUGUST 2011

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Director’s Column | Summer Fun

Family Matters August 2011 Diane Coffill State Family Program Director diane.coffill2@us.army.mil (919) 664-6324

Hello Everyone, This month, I’d like to highlight what I’m sure many of you are aware of and that’s the Joining Forces Initiative spearheaded by First Lady Michelle Obama and Dr. Jill Biden.

This initiative garners nationwide support for our Military Families across the Country.

SFC Ramona Scott Family Program NCOIC ramona.scott1@us.army.mil (919) 664-6000 ext. 47005

In reflecting on this, I want to take the opportunity to reacquaint you with the many programs, resources and community organizations we have available here in our State for our North Carolina National Guard Servicemembers and Families. If you know of organizations and/or individuals that are looking to support our Military Families, you can also visit www.carolinhelpingheroes.nc.gov. Family Assistance Centers and Family Readiness Group volunteers can also point you to various arenas.

SPC Carrie Stevens Family Program Assistant carolyn.stevens1@us.army.mil (919) 664-6000 ext. 46876 Lana Greer State FAC Coordinator lana.m.greer@us.army.mil (828) 271-5029 Kathleen Flaherty Airman & Family Readiness Program Mgr. kathleen.flaherty.ctr@ncchar.ang.af.mil

(704) 398-4949 Pamela Hughes State FRG Advisor pamela.hughes5@us.army.mil

And, also to remind you that we are a multi-component organization which means we not only support National Guard Families, we also serve another Military Family that needs our assistance and comes to us for help.

Please We have several Back to School events happening across North Carolina, and we hope that you’ll take advantage of those.

Sincerely, Diane Coffill State Family Program Director

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(919) 693-5016 ext. 11 Alice Dean State Youth Coordinator alice.dean@us.army.mil (919) 664-6000 ext. 16289

North Carolina National Guard Family Programs State Office 4105 Reedy Creek Road Raleigh, NC 27607-6410 (919) 664-6053 www.nc.ngb.army.mil

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About Family Matters Family Matters was created to provide Servicemembers and Families the most up to date information and services available. If you would like to contribute to future issues or if you have suggestions and comments please contact the NCNG Family Programs Marketing and Communications Department personnel, Angelena Dockery or Kathryn Jarvis at ncngfamilyprograms@gmail.com. E-Versions of Family Matters can be downloaded at the NCNG Family Programs webpage at www.nc.ngb.army.mil.

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Back to School | Community Cares

There

is no school dedicated to teaching children how to give and what it means. But for the Mlekush family the gift of giving is far better than receiving. For the past two years, their 3-year old daughter Ava, has celebrated her birthday with friends and family. It was party but the gifts brought by guests were not for her. John attendees of her birthday party to bring donations for a great cause in lieu of gifts. Following the party, we've delivered those donations along with our own -

3-year Old Ava sits in a wagon filled with toys she received for her birthday. Every year Ava receives gifts for local causes from her guests. Ava and her family donated the gifts she received this year to the NCNG military kids.

ceived gifts for the Greensboro Police Department Ted. E. Bear Project. The bears donated are given to children at crime scenes, accidents, domestic violence and neglect calls and other unfortunate incidents. On her second birthday guests brought food and supplies for animals at the local animal shelter.

This year Ava turned the big three. For her birthday Ava gave gifts to military children of the North Carolina National Guard. Guests brought an array of stuffed animals and toys, all of which Ava donated.

The Mlekush family is teaching their daughter Ava more than just the power of giving. They are teaching her that no matter how old or how small you are; everyone can make a difference.

Thank You Mlekush Family, and Happy Birthday Ava.

Make a Difference in Your Community

Join a NCNG Military Veterans Partnership meeting in your area.

Raleigh NCMVP Meeting August 23, 9:30 a.m.窶年oon Central NC ARC (Building UP3) 4737 University Drive, Durham

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Back to School | Kindergarten

Kindergarten is a big step even for children who have already spent time in preschool or a group child care situation. It usually means learning new names and faces, a new building, a new classroom, and a new kind of schedule. Until new routines are up and running, and new faces are familiar ones, all of these experiences can make you and your child feel a little anxious or unsure at times. Your child should know that kindergarten is a special place where each child can participate in many enjoyable and exciting learning experiences. By planning ahead, you can make the adjustment as smooth and fun as possible.

Getting Ready For

Registration In most school systems, kindergarten registration takes place in mid-winter or early spring before the fall that kindergarten begins. The registration procedure varies from school system to school system. Many systems ask that you come in on a particular day to fill out forms, including medical and immunization history forms. Some systems want you to bring your child to the registration session; others don't. Some school systems send notices to parents announcing when registration will take place. Others put the notice in the local paper. Whether you've received a notice or not, it's a good idea to call your school superintendent's office and make sure you know what you need to do to register. When you call, also ask for information about the following:  Elementary school choices available in your community. Larger school districts often have a "base" school that your child will attend. School systems with alternative programs, such as magnets and specialized centers, may have a registration period that takes place months before the beginning of school. Go on the school's Web site to find more information about registration.  The kindergarten schedule. Some schools have half-day sessions; some switch children from morning to afternoon or afternoon to morning halfway through the year.  What you will need to bring to registration. This usually includes a social security card; proof of residence, such as a utility bill or a rental or housing contract; an official birth certificate; and an immunization record.

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Whether school officials will be talking to your child as part of the registration and, if so, how long this will take and what it will involve.

Any kindergarten orientation program.

Transportation, including bus schedules and bus stops.

Before- or after-school child care programs.

How the PTO or other parent-teacher group works.

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Single Soldier Retreat “How Not to Date a Jerk or Jerkette”

August 26-28, 2011 Hampton Inn Ocean Front Myrtle Beach, SC

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Asheville MFRC 7 Yorkshire St. Suite C Asheville, NC 28803 Office: (828) 274-8571 Cell: (919) 485-9567 E-mail: david.ponder@us.army.mil

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Military Spouse Employment Partnership The Military Spouse Employment Partnership (MSEP) is a targeted recruitment and employment solution for Spouses and companies that:  Partners Fortune 500 Plus companies with ALL Military Services  Provides human resource (HR) managers with recruitment solutions – military spouses  Prepares military spouses to become competitive, “job ready” applicants  Connects military spouses with employers seeking the essential 21st century workforce skills and attributes they possess Today’s Military Spouses are skilled, diverse, and motivated, with sound work values and a strong work ethic – characteristics highly valued by America’s top employers. Military Spouses are also young, tech-savvy, mobile, and more educated than their civilian counterparts.

Through MSEP:  America’s Fortune 500 Plus employers can gain direct access to Military Spouses seeking career opportunities  Military Spouses seeking employment in portable career fields can connect with participating MSEP employers who are posting job openings and actively recruiting Military Spouses Start your New Career Today! Visit www.msepjobs.com/ AUGUST 2011

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Pamela Hughes, Senior FRSA 105 West Spring St., Oxford, NC pamela.hughes5@us.army.mil Office: (919) 693-5016 ext. 11 Cell: (919) 485-9563

Family Readiness Support Assistants Charlotte: Nikkie Newsome nikkie.newsome@us.army.mil (704) 359-5707 Clinton: Sarah Strickland sarah.r.strickland@us.army.mil (910) 299-5466 Goldsboro: Greg Smith gregory.paul.smith@us.army.mil (919) 739-5319 Jacksonville: Judy Richardson judy.r.richardson@us.army.mil (910) 347-4352/line 15 Morrisville: Jim Roberson james.roberson@us.army.mil (919) 804-5300 ext. 16313

Family Readiness Groups | 10 Rules

What is a FRSA and What Do they do?

The purpose of the FRSA program is to provide support to commanders in their duty to deliver family programs and insure the readiness of soldiers and families within their units. FRSAs are full-time employees assigned as special Command Staff in select Army National Guard units throughout the United States. A force of over 100 FRSA are currently working in their areas of assignment.

Among many other things, FRSAs assist with the start up and maintenance of unit Family Readiness Groups (FRGs) which includes recruiting and training of volunteers, coordinating resource and space for FRG meeting and events, and tracking resolving issues that might occur within the FRG. FRSAs work closely with State Family Programs in these activities.

FRSAs are given the special task of preparing and executing the Commander’s Family Readiness Plan and the Unit’s Family Readiness Communication plan as means to fully support and reach out to families during all phases of the deployment cycle. FRSAs provide briefings, education resources to families during pre-deployment, deployment, and postdeployment phases to help soldiers and families become ready for the unique demands and challenges that are inherent to military life.

The FRSA team is also given the assignment of providing assistance to Rear Detachment Commanders in the identification and monitoring of family needs, problems, and emergencies, and developing a postdeployment reunion plan. This includes issues related to a Soldier’s employment, single returnee monitoring and follow-up, and assisting those on R/R leave, emergency leave, and medical hold.

Oxford: Norman Dean norman.dean@us.army.mil (919) 693-3651 ext. 27

Military Family Life Consultants You don’t have to stand alone.

We are here with you.

John Alleman Adult & Family Specialist (919) 745-9635 Betty Steelman Child & Family Specialist (919) 665-9178

Save the Date!

NCNG Family Programs 2011 State Volunteer & Youth Symposium August 19-21, 2011 Location: TBA

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Keep in mind, too, that because children often take cues about their own behavior from their parents, try to downplay any of your own anxieties about the start of school when you talk with your child.

WWW.ZERO TO THREE TODDLERS AND BABIES Get tips on caring for your military infant and toddlers ages 0 to 3 at www.zerotothree.org It’s never too early to start.

Getting Familiar with Kindergarten Simply receiving forms and other school communications in the mail can make some people feel tense. But many parents find that the activity of getting ready for kindergarten -- shopping for a schoolbag, writing your child's name on his belongings, or organizing a family bulletin board -- helps alleviate the stress and can be a fun way to spend time with your child.

As you get ready for kindergarten, your child will probably start to ask more questions about school. Simple, direct answers that emphasize what will be the same about kindergarten as the child's earlier experience work well to alleviate many children's anxieties. (If you haven't looked through a book about kindergarten with your child, now would be a good time to do it). If your child doesn't seem eager to start school, encourage her to talk or draw a picture about her feelings.

Your child may be starting to feel uncertain, and curious, too, about what lies ahead. No matter where your child is during the weeks before kindergarten begins -- at a child care program, at summer camp, or on a family vacation -- there are ways to make him, and you, feel better prepared for the start of kindergarten.  Arrange a play-date with another kindergartener. Some schools will provide you with names and phone numbers of families in your neighborhood whose children will be starting school at the same time as your child. If your school doesn't do this, ask your neighbors if they know of any children who will be starting kindergarten with your child.  Visit the school. If your school doesn't have an orientation program that includes a classroom visit for your child, call and ask when a good time would be for you to take your child to see the school building and the kindergarten classroom. While you're there, make sure your child has a chance to use the bathroom she'll be using, and knows where you will pick her up or drop her off or where the bus will be. You might ask an older child in your neighborhood to come with you and conduct the tour.  Arrange a potluck. Celebrate the start of school with a neighborhood potluck and mark the occasion by making a special cake or by buying the new kindergarteners something special, like a small box of crayons or an eraser in a fun shape. (continued on next page)

We are proud to salute the men and women of our armed forces and their families.

Throughout 2011, members of the military and as many as three direct dependents may enter SeaWorld, Busch Gardens or Sesame Place parks with a single-day complimentary admission. For your service and sacrifice, we thank you.

Visit www.herosalute.com/cavatx/index.html for details and/or to register.

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Have a practice lunch. If your child will be bringing a lunch to school for the first time, it's a good idea -- and fun, too -- to practice. This way you can make sure that he's able to take the lids off the containers and use the thermos if he's going to use one. If you have time, you can make this a real outdoor picnic and bring your own lunch. This would be a good time to have the child make some choices for lunch. Practice having him pay for a treat at a fast-food place if he is going to be buying lunch, even though most schools are run by tickets or numbers.

Practice walking to school if that's how your child will get there. If a child care provider or neighbor will be walking your child to school, arrange a practice walk with them, too.

Getting Ready for the Change in Routine As the first day of school approaches, you may want to start thinking about changing your family's summer routine to a school routine.  If your child will be waking up earlier for school, try to start this at least a couple of weeks ahead.  Decide on a school-night bedtime, and make every effort to stick to it.

School -- especially the early weeks -- can be very tiring.  Decide on a school-night TV schedule, too, and enforce it.

Clothing and Supplies Some parents like to buy their child a special outfit for the first day of school. If you plan to do this, try to make sure the outfit is comfortable, and try to avoid things like belts, buckles, and snaps if your child isn't used to them. Keep in mind that even though the first day is a special day, your child will probably also be using the bathroom, playing on the playground, and using art supplies. If you are buying new shoes, it's also important to make sure your child has had a chance to break them in before the first day of school. Write your child's name on all clothing, including shoes, with a waterproof marker.

Before the first day of kindergarten, some teachers mail a list of things that they would like your child to bring on the first day -- for instance, a bag or backpack with supplies like crayons in it. You will want to write your child's name on these, too. Some teachers provide a list of supplies parents can bring in for the class; these items are kept in a communal place to eliminate squabbles over things that are "mine" and to encourage sharing.

This article was found at Military One Source.Com “Getting Ready for Kindergarten” was Written with the help of Sally L. Flagler, Ph.D. Dr. Flagler is a licensed pediatric psychologist and a certified school psychologist with preschool and autistic programs in North Carolina. Her advanced training is in neuropsychology. She has written extensively about early childhood and autism and has taught both in regular education settings, and at the university and medical school levels. She is the coordinator of the National Association of School Psychologists' Early Childhood Interest Group.

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Homefront Force Then and Now Mary Hays McCauley, “Molly Pitcher,” was born on October 13, 1754 near Trenton, New Jersey. She fought beside her husband, John Casper Hays, who served with the First and Seventh Pennsylvania Regiments of the Continental Army against the British Redcoats.

She earned her nickname, “Molly Pitcher,” because she brought water to soldiers exhausted by battle and heat. On June 28, 1778, during the Battle of Monmouth, when her husband collapsed from the heat, Molly replaced him at his cannon and fought in his place for the rest of the battle.

Molly also swabbed cannon bores and loaded shot.

The General Assembly of Pennsylvania passed “An act for the relief of Molly M’Kolly” in 1822, honoring her services and providing her an annuity and cash grant of 40 dollars--a lifetime soldier's half-pay pension--and one suit of clothes or the equivalent in cash.

Monuments were erected at her gravesite in 1876 and 1916. Her likeness also appears on the monument commemorating the Battle of Monmouth.

Print: Courtesy Library of Congress Prints and Photographs Division, LC-USZ62-665

Families Today Keep the Homefront Going! Thank You NCNG Families.

Thank you to NCNG Families during the 1-252nd CAB Family Day this past July. HOOAH! Photos taken by Nealey Cagle and provided by NCNG FAC, David Butler.

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Medication If your child takes medication, you will need to arrange with the school for it to be given to your child. If you haven't received information from the school about the procedure they want you to follow, call and ask what to do. You will probably need to fill out a form for the school nurse, and bring the medicine to her. If your child is being treated for a chronic condition -- for example, asthma or diabetes -- it's a good idea to schedule a meeting before school starts with the school nurse and your child's teacher to discuss your concerns and your child's needs. If your child has allergies -- to bee stings or peanuts, for example -- make sure both the school nurse and your child's teacher are aware of this and know what steps to take if your child is exposed.

Completing the School's Forms You may be surprised at the number of forms the school will ask you to complete with medical and insurance information about your child, family members' addresses and phone numbers, and information about whom to call if there is an emergency and the school can't reach you. Be sure your emergency backup person knows ahead of time that he or she is listed on your form.

Family Days 230th BSB Family Day August 7, 2011 Camp Tuscarora Boy Scout Camp 1433 Scout Road, Four Oaks 60th TC Family Day August 6, 8 a.m.—2 p.m.

Washington Armory, 399 Minuteman Lane For questions contact SSG Stephen McCullen at (252) 940-7406, stephen.mccullen@us.army.mil 1451st TC Family Day August 07, 2011 9 a.m.—2 p.m.

Lake James State Park 6883 NC HWY 126, Nebo

NCNG FAMILY RETREAT

Extraordinary Fun for Extraordinary Families

Afterschool Programs If your child will be in an afterschool program, try to take the time to learn what the transition from the regular school day to the program will be like. Will your child be expected to move into a structured activity?

Will she be allowed a time to rest? Will the program start with a snack, or is the snack time later on? This way you can prepare your child for the change from the kindergarten classroom to the afterschool program. You will probably feel better, too, if you have a good idea of what your child's entire day will be like.

If your child is used to a rest time in the afternoon, he will probably need some down time when he arrives at his afterschool program. He may need this just at the beginning of the school year or throughout the year. Be sure to discuss any concerns you might have with the afterschool program director.

Keep in mind that the transition to kindergarten continues until you and your family feel comfortable with your schedules, your child generally knows what to expect each day, and you get to know your child's teacher. This is the beginning of a wonderful adventure for children.

Your feelings will help influence how well it will go!

August 12-14, 2011 Park Vista, Gatlinburg, TN Sign up for the final 2011 Family Retreat at www.nc.ngb.army.mil/index.php/fp/strong-bonds/ AUGUST 2011

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Child & Youth Program Staff

Child & Youth Program | Resources for Families

Alice Dean State Child & Youth Coordinator (800) 621-4136 ext. 16289 (919) 664-6000 ext. 16289 alice.dean@us.army.mil Bridgette Carroll KOG Coordinator (919) 693-3651 ext. 21 bridgette.carroll@us.army.mil Kristi Wagner Youth Coordinator (919) 693-3651 ext. 23 kristi.wagner@us.army.mil

One Shot! Maybe Not! Quick Guide Provided by the NC DHHS

Vaccine

Diphtheria, tetanus and pertussis

#Doses Required Before School Entry* 5 doses*

Polio

4 doses*

Measles

2 doses*

Mumps

2 doses*

Rubella

1 dose*

Haemophilus Influenzae type B (Hib)

4 doses*

Hepatitis B (Hep B)

3 doses*

Varicella (chickenpox)

1 dose*

For complete details on shot description and requirements please go to www.immunizenc.com/schoolreq.htm

Operation Kids on Guard invites Military Children ages 5 and up for a free one-day adventure. July 30th at the Charlotte Armory, Kids will team up to master the game Minefield, test their aim with the new mobile archery program, explore the world of bionics and electricity and much, much more.

Register at the North Carolina National Guard website at www.nc.ngb.army.mil, Child and Youth Programs or call 919-693-3651 ext. 21 Day Drills July 30: Charlotte, Charlotte Armory 4240 West Blvd., Charlotte NC 28208 September 17: Durham, Durham Armory 801 Stadium Dr., Durham NC 27704 October 15: Wilmington, Northside Baptist Church2501 North College Rd., Wilmington NC 28405 Overnight Weekend Camp (Ages 8+) August 12-14: Stem, Camp Butner Training Facility 539 Roberts Chapel Rd., Stem NC 27581 Don’t forget our Kiddies on Guard Program. Program is held at a day drill in the morning for parent and child (age’s birth – 4). Expecting parents are also welcome!!!!

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Yellow Ribbon

YELLOW RIBBON TEAM 800-621-4136 EXT. 46054

Unit

Dates(s) of Events

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883rd EN CO 881EN CO

Aug 12-13

Koury Convention Center/3121 High Point Rd., Greensboro

Pre- Deployment

Don’t Forget to Write ...

Letters to home: Capt. Robert Hanes was a prominent business leader and former Forsyth County State and House Representative. In 1917, while working for Crystal Ice City Hanes was called into military service for WWI. Hanes served as a Captain in the 113th FA unit. Hanes was honorably discharged from service at the rank of Major. Below is one of several letters he wrote back home. More letters can be found at Documenting the American South website at http://docsouth.unc.edu/wwi/hanesletters/menu.html.

The Vanderbilt Hotel Thirty Fourth Street East at Park Avenue New York May, 1918 Darling, We are now on our first day out and are having the usual uneventful voyage of a "Peace Time" trip.

But for the fact that only soldiers are visible and, that we have to take our turns on watch there is no difference in this and any other trip. There is a great deal of routine work to be done in every organization that keeps you fairly busy when you aren't on watch. I haven't felt the least bit sea-sick so far and if the weather continues as calm as it now is I don't anticipate any trouble at all.

I received your letter with Mrs. Whitaker's card in it yesterday and also the handkerchiefs from Mary and Alex. Thank you so much for getting handkerchiefs, you couldn't have got anything I should have enjoyed more.

I enjoyed hearing from you so much darling. It seemed so long since I had seen you and the letter made me feel as if I had had a talk with you. You have the harder part of this war in staying at home, my precious, and I symphathize with you every day for the part you have to play. Don't worry about me at all, darling, I am all right all the time so don't let my safety bother you. It will be a long time yet before I shall see any fighting and in the mean time I am perfectly safe.

I was so sorry to hear that Grandpa Borden had gone. I know it is a hard blow to your father and family.

Give my dearest love to all of them.

I love and think of you every minute sweetheart.

Devotedly Rob My address is.

Capt. Robt. M. Hanes Battery A 113 F.A. Advanced School Detachment American Expeditionary Forces, Via New YK. AUGUST 2011

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Events | Upcoming Events

Marriage Enrichment Retreat August 26-28, 2011 Double Tree Biltmore Asheville, North Carolina “Laughing Your Way to a Better Marriage” Learn how laughter can lead to a happier marriage and better communication. Registration Forms are available at www.nc.ngb.army.mil/ index.php/fp/strong-bonds/marriageenrichment.

Contact PFC Stevens for questions: (800) 621-4136 ext. 46876 carolyn.stevens1@us.army.mil

Art in the Park Saturday, August 6, 2011 (3-9 p.m.)

Richlands Steed Park Pack up the family, lawn chairs and Rock to a variety of music featuring: Earl Jones' Music School and EarlyBirdz Record Label, Classic rock, country, beach, blues, and bluegrass. John Jones and Flatbed Dixie; YouTube Sensation Justin Rivenbark; CMT Video Star Sidney Cavenaugh; From Nashville TN Lucas Roberson; Shay Marshburn; The Lightning Bolts; Cowboy Earl and much more!

Food/Vendors/Inflatables MOVIE AT SUNSET Call (910) 347-5332 or visit www.onslowcountync.gov/parks

BLUEGRASS JAM 2nd Thursday of Every Month!

6:30 p.m. --9:30 p.m.

USO of NC-Jacksonville Center Auditorium 9 TALLMAN ST. , JACKSONVILLE, NC 28540 $1.00 PER PERSON KIDS UNDER 12 FREE OPEN TO THE PUBLIC OPEN TO BLUEGRASS MUSICIANS, NO ELECTRIC INSTRUMENTS EXCEPT BASS. OR JUST COME TO LISTEN AND ENJOY! For More Information: USO of NC (910) 455-3411 Musicians Interested: Robert Alvis (910) 353-0416 AUGUST 2011

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Events | Back to School

It’s that time of year, again, for many of our Military Kids across the State, and we’ve got lots of events to help you jumpstart the new school year.

National Guard Back To School Bash Friday, August 5, 2011 1:30 p.m.—4:30 p.m.

Greensboro SFAC 110 Franklin Blvd., Greensboro Please bring your child’s school supply list. Note: Three Hours Drop in Event. First Come, First Serve.

Call the Greensboro SFAC at (336) 691-7712 or (336) 691-7763 if you have any questions. We hope to see you there!

Raleigh NC National Guard MFRC BACK TO SCHOOL BLOW-OUT The Raleigh Military Resource Center has teamed up with community partners like John Deer and Triangle Baptist Church to lend a hand to help military families get ready for school. This year's Back-to-School Blow-Out arms our military children with some supplies that help prepare them for school.

August 20, 2011 10 a.m.—2:30 p.m.

Triangle Baptist Church 9713 Old Stage Road, Raleigh Limited quantities of backpacks donated are available. PreRegister by contacting Lisa Faison, Family Assistance Center Specialist at (919) 334-0196 or email lisa.faison@ng.army.mil.

Tutor.com is a live, online tutoring and career help service available in English and Spanish 24 hours a day, no matter where you live.

How it Works: Army affiliated students submit a one-time registration (at right) to obtain their passcode. Students can then use it to log in (at right) from home or any computer. They enter their grade level and the subject they need help in. They are then connected to the first available subject expert tutor in an online classroom. Students and tutors work together in an online classroom using controlled chat and an interactive white board.

Students can send computer files, such as essays, to the tutor for review and assistance. They can also share educational websites.  Educational support is available for Kindergarten – 12th grade and college prep.

 Subjects supported are all grade levels of math, science, English, and social studies.

 Preparations for career transitions, writing resumes and studying for exams are available for Adults.

Tutor.com can be accessed at www.myarmyonesource.com/cyss_tutor

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Events | August 2011

IN CASE OF AN EMERGENCY

Back To School Brigade August 5, 3 p.m.—6 p.m.

Location: Charlotte National Guard Armory, 4240 West BLVD. For questions, contact Charlotte FAC, Keneitha Delaney, at 704344-2352 ext. 14547. First 50 kids.

Military Kids learn what to do in an emergency. The American Red Cross Emergency Preparedness Training will teach military children ages 6-13 what to do in times of crisis. This training is free. There are limited spaces available.

August 6, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m.

Location: Lenoir SFAC, 1535 Beecher Anderson Drive. The event is for the first 100 children that are registered. For Questions Contact Lenoir FAC, Francis Johnson or Nancy Davis at (828)757-4365, ext 11242 August 6, 1 p.m.—4 p.m.

Location: Asheville National Guard Armory, 100 Minuteman Drive. There will be games, face painting and more. The event is for the first 100 children that are registered. For questions, contact Asheville FAC, Debra Collington, at 828274-8571.

August 13, 10 a.m.—2 p.m.

Location: Kannapolis Military Family Resource Center, 6001 Gateway Center Drive, Suite 109, Kannapolis. Refreshments are provided by the American Red Cross. For questions, contact Kannapolis FAC, Lynn White, at 704-788-4554. First 50 kids.

Parent(s) must: ~ Be rank E-1 to E-6, accompany their child(ren) to the event w/a military ID card. ~ Register online prior to the event at www.ohfnc.org.

Registration starts July 1, 2011.

August 2, 2011 National Night Out - Jacksonville Center Come on out for a night of family fun at The River Walk Park in Downtown Jacksonville. The event is a cooperative effort between the City of Jacksonville and the Jacksonville Police Department. The event will feature childrens' activities and educational displays for the adults. There will also be live on-stage entertainment and a gala fireworks display to cap off the evening. The USO-NC Mobile Unit will also be present with games, face painting and give-aways!

August 2, 2011 A Very Royal Tuesday Storytime - Jacksonville Center Miss NC 2011 and Miss Teen NC 2011 will be hosting this special Tuesday Storytime for military children. The USONC will be providing free books for the children and lunch will be served. This event is limited to the first 125 children. Reservations are required and will be taken between July 13 - July 29.

Saturday, August 13, 2011 9 a.m.—3 p.m.

Belmont Armory, 300 N Sixth St. Pre-registration is required.

To register or for more information contact : NCNG FRG Megan Williams at m.williamswithfrg@live.com or Charlotte Unit Family Contact Center FAC, Keneitha Delaney at keneitha.delaney1@us.army.mil

August 4, 2011—Smiles over Miles - Jacksonville Center: The First Thursday of each month family members of deployed service members can come in and activate a Smiles Over Miles video messaging account. Once the account has been activated, families will be able to send video, audio, and text messages to their deployed loved ones from any computer with a webcam! We also record DVD messages and ship them to the deployed service member. While you wait, we have a kids' room for all ages and FREE pizza is provided by our friends at Pizza Hut! Special unit-specific functions can be organized through your Family Readiness Program.

September 1, 2011 - Smiles over Miles - Jacksonville Center; The First Thursday of each month family members of deployed service members can come in and activate a Smiles Over Miles video messaging account. Once the account has been activated, families will be able to send video, audio, and text messages to their deployed loved ones from any computer with a webcam! We also record DVD messages and ship them to the deployed service member. While you wait, we have a kids' room for all ages and FREE pizza is provided by our friends at Pizza Hut! Special unit-specific functions can be organized through your Family Readiness Program.

For more information please click here.

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Asheville Military Family Resource Center (MFRC) 7 Yorkshire St. Suite 101, 28803 Fax: (828) 274-8572 Debra Collington, FAC Network Coordinator debra.a.collington.ctr@us.army.mil (828) 274-8571

FAMILY ASSISTANCE CENTERS

Charlotte Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 4240 West Blvd., 28208 Fax: n/a Keneitha Delaney, FAC Specialist keneitha.delaney@us.army.mil (704) 344-2352 Ext. 14548 Fayetteville Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 3555 Owen Dr., 28306 Fax: n/a Amy Wallace, FAC Specialist amy.wallace3@us.army.mil (910) 672-5125 Greensboro State Family Assistance Center (SFAC) 110 Franklin Blvd., 27401 Fax: (336) 691-7766 Katy Jones, FAC Network Coordinator katy.m.jones@us.army.mil, (336) 691-7712 Sandy Harrison, FAC Specialist sandy.harrison1@us.army.mil, (336) 691-7763 Greenville State Family Assistance Center (SFAC) 1401 N. Memorial Dr., 27834 Fax: (252) 551-6136 Dawn White, FAC Network Coordinator dawn.white@us.army.mil 1-800-621-4136 Ext. 11141 Kannapolis Military Family Resource Center (MFRC) 6001 Gateway Center Dr., Suite 109, 28081 Fax: (704) 788-0550 Lynn White, FAC Specialist lynn.white2@us.army.mil (704) 788-4554 Kinston Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 2875 Dobbs Farm Rd., 28504 Fax: (252) 526-2772 Gabrielle H. O’Flanagan, FAC Specialist gabrielle.h.oflanagan.ctr@us.army.mil 252-208-0255 Ext. 15817 Lenoir/Foothills Readiness Center (UFCC) 1535 Beecher Anderson Rd., Lenoir, 28645 Fax: (828) 757-4519 Frances Johnson, FAC Specialist frances.johnson3@us.army.mil 828)757-4365 Ext. 4 line 1 Morganton Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) Nancy Davis, FAC Network Coordinator Fax: (828) 437-2068 nancy.davis3@us.army.mil (828) 437-0746 Line 18

Family Assistance Center Representatives are trained specialists in Military Family issues. They can assist you in solving everyday challenges and/or point you in the right direction to reach a solution. You can call us , email us or visit one of our centers.

Raleigh Military Family Resource Center (MFRC) 130 Penmarc Dr. Suite 110, 27603 Fax: (919) 334-9971 Earlene Capps, FAC Specialist earlene.capps@us.army.mil (919) 334-0195 Lisa Faison, FAC Specialist lisa.faison@us.army.mil (919) 334-0196 Mark Woolbright, FAC Network Coordinator mark.woolbright@us.army.mil (919) 334-9966 Smithfield Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 406 Hospital Rd., 27577 Fax: (919) 934-2901 Abby Millsap, FAC Specialist abby.e.millsap@us.army.mil 919) 934-2013 Ext.16 Southern Pines Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 500 Morganton Rd., PO Box 1317, 28387 Fax: (910) 692-3659 David Butler, FAC Specialist david.earl.butler@us.army.mil 910) 692-8747 Wilmington Unit Family Contact Center (UFCC) 2412 Infantry Rd., 28405 Fax: (910) 251-7130 Jim Marley, FAC Specialist, james.marley@us.army.mil (910-) 251-7100 Ext. 16918 Wilmington Military Family Resource Center (MFRC) 3114 Randall Pkwy., 28403 Fax: (910) 343-6953 Judy Howard, FAC Network Coordinator judy.m.howard@us.army.mil (910) 343-1775 AUGUST 2011

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