June 2023 Neapolitan Family

Wyatt Lammert, 6, is a rising first grader at Veterans Memorial Elementary in Naples. He is the son of Cynthia and Greg Lammert and the brother of Adeline, who appeared on our July 2022 cover. Wyatt loves to play flag football, golf, and basketball. His newest passion is fishing while kayaking. He rides his bike, skateboard, and dirt bike every day. Wyatt also is funny, kind, and an incredible dancer.

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13 The Importance of VPK. Learn more about voluntary prekindergarten and how it benefits our children.

by Melanie Stefanowicz, Early Learning Coalition of SWFL

14 Free Summer Fun. Our calendar this month includes only free (or really, really cheap) family events.

20 Where to Go When Your Kid Is Sick. How to know when you should take your sick or injured child to the ER, urgent care, or their pediatrician.

22 Destination: A Castle in France Immerse yourself in history.

by Karen T. Bartlett

24 Summer Bucket List. Find adventure without leaving Florida.

by Andrea Stetson

26 One Rad Dad. Meet Michael Shapiro, father and owner of Rad Dad Hibachi.

By Anna Snyder

28 Hurricane Preparation. Prepare your home and family now for hurricane season.

By Scott Hamblen, Sunshine Ace Hardware

Cover photo by Emily Brockelsby

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June 1st is the last day of school! While I leave the school day education of my children to the experts who are certified in their fields, I always have looked for opportunities that will provide my kids experiential learning in the summer through reading, camps, and travel, plus summer jobs and internships when they got older.

My favorite goal, which will be finally achieved this summer, is that each of my children will have experienced an educational trip to one or more countries other than their own. It is so enlightening to experience the history, art, and language they learned in a classroom in the places where it happened. I was fortunate to serve as a parent chaperone on educational trips to Europe with my daughters and one of their favorite high school teachers. My son, who missed this opportunity due to COVID, will be starting his study abroad program through the University of Florida in June.

Traveling abroad may seem out of reach for many, but through educational programs, payment plans, student fundraising, and scholarships, it can be a worthwhile and attainable long-term goal. Thanks to the Bright Futures Scholarship and our college savings plan, plus several summers of working, my son’s study abroad became a bit more affordable.

On page 22, our travel editor Karen T. Bartlett introduces us to a medieval castle in the southern France town of Carcassonne, where my daughter and I happened to visit last summer with her classmates. But, did you know you can experience European-style castles and world-class art right here in Florida? On page 24 Andrea Stetson takes us on a bucket list summer tour of Florida that can be reached by car in a matter of hours.

Your children can open up their minds to far off places through a variety of books and also win prizes, by joining the free reading program at the public library. And if you still need a to find a camp or two, head to our website camp directory to see what is still available.

Finally, June 1st is both my birthday and the start of hurricane season. I’m hoping this trip around the sun doesn’t include another hurricane landfall in SWFL, but please take advantage of the sales tax holiday and use the hurricane prep checklist provided by Sunshine Ace Hardware on page 28.

Happy Summer!

THIS MONTH It’s Summer!

from the publisher…

IRISH DANCE CAMP

Free Career Summer Camp for Students With IEP, 540 Plan

LeeAssociation for Remarkable Citizens is hosting career camps for students ages 14-21 this summer. Students must currently be enrolled in school and hold an Individualized Educational Plan or 504 plan.

“Many students are interested in jobs but don’t know where to start,” said Angela Katz, LARC’s executive director. “Participants will explore careers and gain transferable skills in high-demand industries. They will develop a resume, prepare for interviews, and more.”

ONLY $50 PER WEEK!

July 3-July 24, Mon.-Fri. 9 a.m. to 12 p.m. For beginners ages 5+

Naples School of Irish Dance

875 94th Ave. N., Naples FL 34108

Contact Robin Maki at 516-314-7404 or NaplesIrishDance@gmail.com

Camps will be held June 26-30, July 10-14, and July 24-28, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. at LARC’s headquarters at 2570 Hanson St., Fort Myers. Students must bring lunch, and snacks will be provided. Camp is free for qualifying participants.

Every student who successfully completes all five days of career camp will receive a $50 gift card, a certificate, and lunch on the last day of camp.

The program is an affiliate of the Florida Division of Vocational Rehabilitation. This camp is a part of pre-employment transition services, which include job exploration, workplace readiness, workbased learning (job shadow) with a local business, and post-secondary counseling and tour.

Interested individuals should contact their vocational rehabilitation counselor or their local VR office for a referral. Visit www.rehabworks.org/student-youth/student-youth.html or call 239-278-7150 for more information.

LARC is a training center for success for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. LARC serves more than 300 individuals annually, and participants range in age from 14 to 80.

Visit www.larcleecounty.org or contact Angela Katz at 239334-6285, ext. 210, or angelakatz@larcleecounty.org.

Help a Diabetic Child Receives $15,000 United Way Grant

Alocal nonprofit that helps local children and their families who are dealing with diabetes recently received a $15,000 grant from the United Way of Collier and the Keys.

Help a Diabetic Child will use the funds to provide life-saving insulin, diabetes medical supplies, and medical services to underserved children and young adults in Southwest Florida who have Type 1 diabetes.

Help A Diabetic Child was founded in Naples in 2010 by Tami Balavage after her 16-year-old son was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes. Balavage learned that there was a significant number of children who were unable to get adequate medical supplies for blood glucose testing and insulin injections.

Visit www.helpadiabeticchild.org.

Founders Fund Awards 27 Scholarships to Collier Students

The Founders Scholarship Fund recognized the achievements of 27 Collier County students by awarding $648,000 in college scholarships at the nonprofit’s annual scholarship reception.

The Founders Scholarship Fund is a nonprofit organization that awards renewable scholarships to local students who have shown determination, academic achievements, and financial need. Each student will receive $6,000 per year for four years, as long as students remain enrolled in college full time and maintain at least a B average.

At the celebration, students spoke about their college choices and future goals. Career aspirations ranged from nursing, research, and engineering to artificial intelligence and beyond.

The 2023 Founders Scholarship Fund Recipients: Barron Collier High School – Tina Tran; Club Pelican Bay (employees/ family) – Maria Cabrera; Golden Gate High School – Caleb Archelus, Maranica Cassy, Cedric Emmanuel, Ashley EstebanMazaba, Amanda Lugo, and Tanya Raphael; Gulf Coast High School – Peyton Davidson; Immokalee High School – Litzy Banda-Soto, Benchy Dutreuil, Fabian Estrada, Ashley Murillo, Heriberto Santos-Cruz, and Widme Victorin; Lely High School – Leila Antoine and Emily Gutierrez; Lorenzo Walker Technical High School – Maria Cano Gallardo, Lorena Cobos Chacon, Leyla Lahens, Johana Senatus, and Jenny Thassou; Naples High School – Alejandra Cuellar-Gutierrez, Betsy Doreus, and Nicholas Fredette; Palmetto Ridge High School – Ellie Carvajal; and St. John Neumann High School – Serene Aviles.

Since the organization was founded in 1991, FSF has awarded over $6 million in scholarships to more than 800 Collier County students. Scholarships are nonrestrictive and help students with college and post high-school educational expenses.

For more information contact Stacy Lee-Williams at 239-5930124 or visit www.TheFoundersScholarshipFund.org.

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By Courtney L. Whitt, Ph.D., Director of Behavioral Health, Healthcare Network

Understanding the Link Between Mental and Physical Health

Even during the summer months, it’s important to not neglect or underestimate the power of mental health and well-being. In fact, unmanaged anxiety, for example, may impact sleep, activity level, and diet, all of which can diminish our immune system and our body’s ability to protect against illness.

Sometimes, chronic headaches, shoulder pain, nausea, chest tightness, or difficulties breathing have less to do with our physical health and more with our mental health.

As a result, staying in touch with one’s emotions, thinking patterns, and behavioral habits boosts resilience, can lower anxiety or depression, improve symptom management, and lead to better outcomes.

Everyone experiences stress, but we must be mindful and self-aware, recognizing when stress starts to cross over from the healthy, adaptive kind to more unhealthy or maladaptive stress. Generally, that happens when high levels of stress intensify, persist, or exceed our ability to effectively cope and function.

Ignoring physical and emotional sensations, particularly after they’ve been around for a while, can negatively affect the connection between one’s physical and mental health and lead to conditions such as anxiety or depression, which in turn can affect physical health leading to obesity, diabetes, or high blood pressure, to name a few.

The connection between physical and mental health is a vital one and often underestimated or poorly understood. You do not

need to wait to feel depressed or anxious, or have chronic pain or insomnia, to seek help. It is incredibly reassuring and validating to seek help from a mental health professional, where one could learn that a particular set of symptoms or feelings are quite normal under certain circumstances or that it is time to receive help, and more importantly, that help is available.

Healthcare Network’s integrated care model offers mental and behavioral health screening and consultation as part of comprehensive primary care. When additional mental and behavioral treatment is needed, our new Center for Psychology and Wellness at Nichols Community Health Center offers behavioral health services for children, adolescents, adults, and seniors in person or via telehealth and in English, Spanish, and Haitian Creole without a physician referral. It’s important to know when to reach out for help. Seeking behavioral health services does not mean something is wrong with you or a problem lies within you; sometimes the problem lies in life and the state of one’s current world. Behavioral health services are for anyone who needs help finding some new perspectives or strategies to cope and are important for overall wellness.

COURTNEY L. WHITT, Ph.D., is director of behavioral health at Healthcare Network, which treats all patients, regardless of insurance or job status. For an appointment call 239-658-3000 or visit www. healthcareswfl.org.

By Jennifer Kupiec

Former CCPS Student Appointed Superintendent

As a young girl attending Lake Park Elementary in Naples, Dr. Leslie Ricciardelli never could have imagined she would have the opportunity to serve as superintendent of the school district in which she grew up. But last month, that is exactly what happened when the school board appointed her the 20th superintendent in the 100-year history of Collier County Public Schools.

The superintendent search process began in July 2022. Initially, 45 applicants were brought to the school board for its consideration by a national search firm. The list was narrowed down to four semifinalists and then two finalists, with the board ultimately choosing Ricciardelli for the job.

“Throughout this process, I have heard from hundreds of people: old classmates, former co-workers, and current employees, and former and current students and parents, and I could not be more grateful for their support,” said Ricciardelli. “I’m extremely thankful for our school board members who saw beyond the politics by putting students and staff at the center of their decision. We now have the opportunity to move forward to inspire students to achieve academic excellence.”

Ricciardelli grew up in Naples from the age of 2 and has worked in education for more than 28 years. Most recently, she served as CCPS interim superintendent, releasing a 100-day report dated March 23, 2023, which may be found at www.collierschools. com under District Announcements. Before her appointment as interim superintendent, she served as CCPS deputy superintendent, where she was responsible for leading financial services, school leadership, and district operations, which include transportation, nutrition services, safety and security, facilities and maintenance, and other key areas of the district.

Early in her career, Ricciardelli worked in three other Florida counties – Broward, Orange, and Seminole – where she served as a teacher for students with disabilities. She returned to Collier County

and worked at Manatee Middle School as an inclusion teacher and Lely High School as an exceptional student education specialist and dean of students. Ricciardelli then worked at Palmetto Ridge High School for six years as assistant principal of attendance and discipline and returned to LHS as assistant principal of curriculum and instruction. She was later chosen to be principal at Golden Gate Middle School and returned, once again, to LHS to serve as principal before taking a position in the district office.

A day after her superintendent appointment Ricciardelli reflected, “This is not about me. This is about the principals, teachers, nutrition service workers, bus drivers, students, and the people in the district office. This is about all of them. They make Collier County Public Schools. I’m just fortunate enough to get to work with them and support them every day.”

One of the items Ricciardelli is most looking forward to next school year is a new phonics program for grades K-2. “What excites me the most is how excited the elementary teachers and administrators are about the new phonics program. When the kids are able to read and they are excited about it, and because it’s an action type of activity and they’re learning at the same time, it impacts them moving forward.”

Ricciardelli always has focused on doing the right thing for children. She lights up as soon as she starts telling stories of former students. “As stressful as the interview process was at times, the best thing that came out of it are the emails I received from kids I hadn’t heard from in 15 years, 20 years. If you give your time to a child, the rewards are exponential, and I am humbled, honored, and excited to continue our work.”

Above, left: New Collier County Public Schools Superintendent Dr. Leslie Ricciardelli sits with students at a Know Your County Government luncheon. Above, right: Dr. Ricciardelli as a third grader at Lake Park Elementary. Photos courtesy of CCPS.

11-Year-Old Maddox Mink Has Head for Business, Heart for Kids

I will probably donate to a food bank, and then, probably, for my last donation that I can think of, is going to some big city where there is a lot of poverty and help there.”

To raise more money, Maddox is expanding his menu beyond lemonade. At the portable stand that he sets up in his front yard, he sells coffee and snacks. He is also making chocolate to sell.

His mother is very proud of her son.

“He is just so business focused, almost so much that I have to remind him to be a kid,” Andrea Mink said. “He is already researching colleges for business. He has a great heart. And this is all his idea.”

Café Maddox is not your typical lemonade stand. It’s not just that there is much more than lemonade to purchase; it’s that the 11-year-old boy who runs the business has a kind heart that sparks him to donate all the money he earns to charity.

Maddox Mink launched his venture shortly after Hurricane Ian barreled into town in September 2022. He donated the $300 he earned with his makeshift café to his school, Lake Park Elementary, to aid families affected by the hurricane.

Now he’s on to his next goal. Maddox wants to raise $600 to give to Humane Society Naples. “I am trying to save up double of what I donated to the school,” he said. “After that I most likely will donate to the [Shelter for Abused Women & Children]. Then

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In the summer and early fall he sets up his stand every weekend and on Wednesdays. During the rest of the year, customers will find him sitting at Café Maddox on Sundays and Wednesdays. He fits his business in between school, where he just finished fifth grade at Lake Park Elementary, playing soccer, and going to his younger brother’s football games. His lemonade and food stand has a counter, a coffee maker, and a posted menu. The menu touts new Italian coffee flavors such as creamy, classic, and vigorous. Setting up this catchy menu is part of his business plan. He sells coffee for $3.50 each. His lemonade sells for $1 and so do his cookies. Snacks, such as chips, are listed for $2.

When asked why he is choosing to donate his earnings instead of keeping the money for himself, Maddox said, “I am not big into toys. Either I donate it or I invest into my own business or a different business.”

“He is constantly wanting to buy for others, not himself,” his mother added.

Maddox hopes to do more than help charities; he wants to

“I really want to help out other kids and inspire them to be

Maddox Mink sells lemonade and snacks to passersby on his Naples street. He donates his earnings to local charities.

Photo by Andrea Stetson

EDUCATION By Melanie Stefanowicz, CEO, Early

take home. After the show, families will enjoy a 90-minute cruise. Saturday, Oct. 22, 10 a.m.

X OWL-O-WEEN

GORE NATURE CENTER EDUCATION CENTER

4261 40TH AVE. S.E., NAPLES

239-308-0281 • WWW.MYBRIDGETONATURE.COM

Stories, activities, costume contest, and nature hike. Saturday, Oct. 22, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.

Learning Coalition of Southwest Florida

Celebrate the season with a spooky dance party. We’ll sing and dance and then cool off with bubble time. Ages 2-5.

Thursday, Oct. 13, 10:30-11 a.m.

X WONDERWEEN THE WONDER GARDENS OF BONITA SPRINGS

27180 OLD 41 ROAD, BONITA SPRINGS

239-992-2591 • WWW.WONDERGARDENS.ORG

The Importance of Voluntary Prekindergarten for Your Child

Raffle prizes, Halloween-themed games, costume contest, raffle prizes, and more. Sunday, Oct. 30, 12-2 p.m.

Halloween games, stories, crafts, songs, and more. Don’t ay,

If your child is 4 years old on or before Sept. 1 of the current school year, they are eligible for the free program – and it’s not too late to enroll. Registration is currently underway for VPK’s school year program. The Early Learning Coalition of Southwest Florida has a dedicated team ready to help you enroll your child and answer any questions you may have.

Apply for a VPK voucher by visiting www.vpkswfl.org or calling 239-935-6100. You also can visit the Fort Myers office at 2675 Winkler Ave. from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Friday for assistance. The office provides free kiosks, and no appointments are needed.

Come for a Halloween train ride. See Lionel’s Harry Potter train. Watch the Orange Blossom Express arrive at the depot, and more. Admission (includes train ride): $8 for ages 13 and older, $4 for ages 3-13, free for ages 3 and younger. Friday, Oct. 29 & Saturday, Oct. 30, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

As a parent, you always want what’s best for your kids and to give your children every opportunity to succeed. That’s why it’s important that parents and guardians understand the value of voluntary prekindergarten, or VPK.

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MELANIE STEFANOWICZ is the incoming chief executive office for Early Learning Coalition of Southwest Florida, which provides access to high-quality early education services for children in Collier, Glades, Hendry, and Lee counties.

650 CENTRAL AVE., NAPLES

239-252-5135 • WWW.COLLIERLIBRARY.ORG

Hotel Transylvania 3, rated PG. Registration not required. Saturday, Oct. 1, 2-4 p.m.

X PRESCHOOL NOT-SO-SCARY HALLOWEEN PARTY

VPK is a state-funded program that offers quality early learning for children who are 4 years old and live in Florida. The program is designed to help prepare children for success in kindergarten and beyond. Studies have shown that children who participate in high-quality prekindergarten programs are more likely to succeed academically in the long-term and less likely to be held back a grade.

SOUTH COUNTY REGIONAL LIBRARY

21100 THREE OAKS PKWY., ESTERO

239-533-4400 • WWW.LEEGOV.COM/LIBRARY

Spooktacular stories, songs, and crafts. Wear your costume for a parade inside the library. Ages 3-5. Wednesday, Oct. 12, 10:30-11:30 a.m.

Parents can find VPK programs through public and private schools, as well as some childcare centers and faith-based organizations, and can choose which program is best for their child. The curriculum includes literacy, math, science, and social and emotional development. At VPK, children have the opportunity to learn through play and exploration, developing fundamental skills that will help them succeed in school and life.

X HALLOWEEN MAGIC WITH JOEY EVANS

SOUTH COUNTY REGIONAL LIBRARY

21100 THREE OAKS PKWY., ESTERO

239-533-4400 • WWW.LEEGOV.COM/LIBRARY

The benefits of this program extend far beyond just the child. By investing in early education, we also are investing in the future of our communities. Children who receive a high-quality early learning experience are more likely to graduate from high school, attend college, and contribute to the workforce.

Spooky magic, mystery, and fun. Ages 6-11. Registration is required. Saturday, Oct. 15, 10-11 a.m.

X PRE-READERS SPOOKY DANCE PARTY

BONITA SPRINGS PUBLIC LIBRARY

10560 REYNOLDS STREET, BONITA SPRINGS

239-533-4860 • WWW.LEEGOV.COM/LIBRARY

By making early education a priority, we can give our next generation the best possible start in life. As parents and caregivers, we must do our part to support our children’s academic growth. This means reading to them at home, encouraging their love of learning, and making sure they attend one of the many highquality VPK programs offered in Southwest Florida.

Free Summer Fun

The cost of just about everything is rising, but summer is here and we all want to get out of the house for some family fun. So we have put together a list of free (and a few really cheap) kid- and family-friendly events. Go make some memories!

ALL SUMMER

Summer Reading Program. All Together Now is the theme of the Collier County Public Library 2023 summer reading program From June 3 to July 29, kids, teens, and adults can read books, win prizes, and attend fun events. Several branches are hosting kickoff events for the program. For details, visit www.collierlibrary. org. For other free library events in June, check out the listings on the following pages.

Free Bowling. Bowland Beacon and Head Pinz Naples are participating in the Kids Bowl Free program this summer for ages 2-15. Once registered, children can bowl two free games a day through Aug. 31. Discounted family passes for adults are available, and children must either have or rent bowling shoes. To register, visit www.kidsbowlfree.com

Free Swimming. Enjoy free admission all year to the River Park Aquatic Center. From June 5 to Aug. 23, the facility is open 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Monday-Friday and 12-5 p.m. on Saturday. Check www.naplesgov.com/parksrec.

Summer Run for Fun. For ages 3-14. Every Monday at 5:15 p.m. at the Naples High School track June 5 to July 31 (except July 3), Gulf Coast Runners hosts a mock track meet, including field events. Visit www.gulfcoastrunners.wordpress.com/gcr-summer-run-for-fun.

Free Admission for Military Families. Through Sept. 4, free entry to active-duty military personnel and their families to IMAG History & Science Center, 2000 Cranford Ave., Fort Myers. Call 239-243-0043 or check www.theimag.org.

1 THURSDAY

2 p.m. Rock Decorating. Library staff will place your decorated rocks throughout Immokalee. If you find one of our kindness rocks, take a picture and share it on social media. All ages. Registration not required. Located at Immokalee Library, 417 N. First St., Immokalee. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7073.

3 p.m. Avow Kids Carn-Avow. Carnival games, activities, face painting, firetruck, and much more. Located at Avow, Aunt Janet’s House, 1301 Whippoorwill Lane, Naples. Call 239-261-4404, email AvowKids@avowcares.org, or visit www.avowcares.org.

3 SATURDAY

9 a.m. Free Zoo Admission for Collier Residents. Present qualifying ID for free entry on the first Saturday of the month. Located at Naples Zoo, 1590 Goodlette-Frank Rd., Naples. Call 239-315-7626 or check www.napleszoo.org.

10 a.m. Free Kids’ Fishing. Fish on the back lake (catch and release). Located at Bass Pro Shop, 10040 Gulf Center Dr., Fort Myers. Call 239-461-7800 or check www.basspro.com.

12 p.m. Summer Kickoff Party. Food, games, music, and contests. $3. Located at Eagle Lakes Aquatic Facility, 11565 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples. Call 239-252-3527 or check www.collierparks.com.

4 SUNDAY

10 a.m. Free Wonder Gardens Admission. Free entry with Bonita Springs address on a photo ID on the first Sunday of the month. Located at Wonder Gardens, 27180 Old 41 Rd., Bonita Springs. Check www.wondergardens.org or call 239-992-2591.

10:30 a.m. Sensory Sundays. For guests with autism spectrum disorder, sensory sensitivities, or young children. Everyone is welcome. June’s show is DinoSOARS: Change Over Time. $5. Located at Calusa Nature Center, 3450 Ortiz Ave., Fort Myers. Check www.calusanature.org.

5 MONDAY

9:45 a.m. Ms. Jen’s Family Storytime. Ages 1-4. Stories and hands-on activities. Registration required. Located at Naples Regional Library, 650 Central Ave., Naples. Call 239-252-5135 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

7 WEDNESDAY

2 p.m. Turtles, Turtles, Turtles. Ages 5+. Learn how you can make a difference in a turtle’s life in this exciting program from

We buy & sell gently used kids stuff

• Clothing (newborn to size 16), toys, baby furniture, equipment, and more.

• We pay cash on the spot.

• No appointment necessary; clothes must be freshly laundered and brought in a plastic container.

13560 Tamiami Trail N. #4, Naples 239-596-6096

Also in: Fort Myers at 239-274-0039 Port Charlotte at 941-764-8121

www.onceuponachildnaples.com

When Jeremy Jacobs gets invited to join Braid Beard’s pirate crew, he thinks the pirate life is for him.

Get a Jump on Summer!

The Y has SO MANY exciting CAMP options to ensure everyone has FUN all summer long.

Rookery Bay. Registration required. Located at Marco Island Library, 210 S. Heathwood Dr., Marco Island. Call 239-252-7064 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

8 THURSDAY

2 p.m. Magic Show. An award-winning magician will amaze and delight with magic tricks and magical storytelling. All ages. Registration is required. Located at South Regional Library, 8065 Lely Cultural Pkwy., Naples. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7542.

2:30 p.m. Art for Kids. Learn art techniques and do a fun project. Registration required. Located at Golden Gate Library, 2432 Lucerne Rd., Naples. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239252-4549.

6:30 p.m. Evening on Fifth. Live musical performances up and down the sidewalks of Fifth Avenue South. Located at Fifth Avenue South, Naples. Check www.fifthavenuesouth.com.

10 SATURDAY

11 a.m. PrideFest. Come celebrate with us! $5 for adults; free for kids 12 and younger. Located at Cambier Park, 755 8th Ave. S., Naples. Check www.naplespride.org/pride-2023 or call 239304-9407.

3 p.m. Pups ‘n’ Books. Read to a dog or just pet one. All ages. Dogs are provided by Golden PAWS Assistance Dogs. Located at Vanderbilt Beach Library, 788 Vanderbilt Beach Rd., Naples. Call 239-252-7160 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

11 SUNDAY

12 p.m. Second Sundays. Enjoy trails, meet special guests, and explore the preserve. Free, donations appreciated. Located at Gore Nature Education Center, 4261 40th Ave. SE, Naples. Check www.cclandkeepers.com or call 239-308-0281.

13 TUESDAY

2 p.m. Ice Cream Social. Make and enjoy your own tasty ice cream. Grades K-2. Registration required. Located at South Regional Library, 8065 Lely Cultural Pkwy., Naples. Check www. collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7542.

3 p.m. Cooking for Kids. Learn how to make a healthy snack. Ages 7+. Located at Golden Gate Library, 2432 Lucerne Rd., Naples. Call 239-252-4549 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

3 p.m. Tween Activity: Father’s Day Crafts. Make a card, decorate a gift bag, or paint a rock gift. Registration required. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7350.

6 p.m. Adam’s Animal Encounters. Learn about wildlife management, rescue, and conservation from a wildlife biologist. Ages 12-17. Located at South County Library, 21100 Three Oaks Pkwy., Estero. Call 239-533-4400 or check www.leegov.com/ library.

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WEDNESDAY

6 p.m. Reeling With a Ranger. Second Wednesday of the month. Equipment and bait provided. Free. Located at Fred W. Coyle Freedom Park, 1515 Golden Gate Pkwy., Naples. Check www.collierparks.com or call 239-252-4000.

16 FRIDAY

9 a.m. Father’s Day Make and Take. All day. Create a craft while supplies last. Ages 3+. Located at Immokalee Library, 417 N. First St., Immokalee. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7073.

10 a.m. FGCU ROCK Reads: Kindness to Others. FGCU students lead activities, games, and art experiences. Ages 8-11. Located at South County Library, 21100 Three Oaks Pkwy., Estero. Call 239533-4400 or check www.leegov.com/library.

10 a.m. Pirate Day. Celebrate with treasures, games, and fun. Walk the plank and earn your pirate name. Located at Marco Island Historical Museum, 180 S. Heathwood Dr., Marco Island. Call 239-252-1440 or check www.colliermuseums.com.

17 SATURDAY

9 a.m. Autism Screening. Screenings are for children 1-3 years old and do not provide a diagnosis. Located at Autism Support Center, 734 SW Fourth St., Cape Coral. To register, call Family Initiative at 239-910-0712 or email info@fi-florida.org.

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10 a.m. Summer Kick Off Family Day. Beat the heat with crafts, games, and more. Reservations are not required. Located at Collier Museum at Government Center, 3331 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples. Call 239-252-8476 or visit www.colliermuseums.com.

10 a.m. Junior Storytime. Saturdays in the children’s section. Located at Barnes & Noble, 5377 Tamiami Tr., Naples. Visit www. barnesandnoble.com or call 239-598-5200.

18 SUNDAY Happy Father’s Day!

9 a.m. Cars and Coffee. Father’s Day edition. Featured car of the month is Mopar. Located at Mercato Shops, Naples. Visit www. experiencemercato.com or email info@carsandcoffee239.com.

10 a.m. The Kids’ Club. Parents and kids under 12 can join us for crafts, games, and fun. Located at Naples Pride Center, 2248 Airport Rd. S., Naples. Call 239-304-9407 or check www. naplespride.org.

11 a.m. Father’s Day Car Show. Bring dad to check out the display of custom and classic cars presented by the Cool Cruisers of SWFL. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Estero. Check www.miromaroutlets.com or call 239948-3766.

19 MONDAY

4 p.m. Out of My Hands Juggling and Illusion Show. A high-energy family show that is innovative and interactive. Grades

K-5. Registration required. Located at Estates Library, 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples. Call 239-252-7109 or check www. collierlibrary.org

20 TUESDAY

8:30 p.m. Movies on the Lawn – Puss and Boots: The Last Wish. Free. Bring a lawn chair or blanket. Food and drink available for purchase. Located at Mercato Shops, Naples. Call 239-254-1080 or visit www.experiencemercato.com.

21 WEDNESDAY

10 a.m. Preschool Program: Shell-ebration Time. Ages 3-5. Explore the science of shells through crafts, activities, and a sea-themed story time. Located at Collier Museum at Government Center, 3331 Tamiami Tr. E., Naples. Visit www.colliermuseums. com or call 239-252-8476.

5 p.m. Women’s Self-Defense Class. Registration required. Ages 13+. Located at Miromar Outlets, 10801 Corkscrew Rd., Suite 190, Estero. For details or to register email glevine@sheriffleefl.org.

22 THURSDAY

11:30 a.m. Didgeridoo Concert. Take a musical journey to Australia and other distant lands. All ages. Registration required. Located at Headquarters Library, 2385 Orange Blossom Dr., Naples. Check www.collierlibrary.org or call 239-252-7371.

26 MONDAY

4 p.m. Tween/Teen Tree Making. Working as a team, we will create a tree to display in the library. Ages 11-17. Registration required. Located at Estates Library, 1266 Golden Gate Blvd. W., Naples. Call 239-252-7109 or check www.collierlibrary.org.

28 WEDNESDAY

3 p.m. Interactive Movie: High School Musical. Teens take part in the action with props, sound effects, or just sit back and enjoy the film. Ages 11-17. Space is limited. Pick up a ticket at the youth services desk. Located at Bonita Springs Library, 10560 Reynolds St., Bonita Springs. Call 239-533-4860 or check www.leegov.com/library.

6 p.m. Art After Hours. A fun evening of art and entertainment for audiences of all ages. Located at Artis-Naples, Baker Museum, 5833 Pelican Bay Blvd., Naples. Call 239-597-1900 or visit www.artisnaples.org.

HEALTH CARE By Deepa Ravi, MD, FAAP, South Florida Medical Director, After Hours Pediatrics Urgent Care

ER, Urgent Care, or Pediatrician?

You are with your daughter at a soccer game on a Sunday morning and she becomes short of breath with chest pain and nausea. Should you go to an urgent care or call 9-1-1?

It’s 7 p.m. on a Tuesday when your son is skateboarding and jumps a curb and rolls his ankle. Do you ice it and hope for the best or head to a nearby urgent care clinic?

It’s Wednesday at 10 a.m., and your toddler has been suffering with fever and vomiting for several days. Can this be ignored or should you call your doctor?

Sometimes when medical situations arise it’s hard to know whether to call your primary care physician, visit the nearest urgent care center, or head straight to the emergency room. But there are some basic guidelines that can help you discern when and where to go the next time you or someone in your care is dealing with a medical issue.

Emergency care

Emergency rooms are set up to provide 24/7 treatment of the most serious and/or severe symptoms. They have advanced imaging and lab resources onsite and quick access to providers in specialty areas. Some examples of conditions that warrant an immediate trip to the ER include:

• head injuries with loss of consciousness, drowsiness, vomiting, and/or confusion

• severe burns

• severe chest pain or pressure

• shortness of breath

• excessive or uncontrollable bleeding

• choking

• coughing or vomiting blood

• seizures

• open fractures

• sudden or severe headaches, paralysis, or weakness

• sudden changes in vision

• anaphylaxis (severe allergic reaction)

• electric shock

• possible ingestion of chemicals or overdose of medications

• dehydration

• severe lacerations

• fever in a newborn less than 28 days old

• fever over 101 for more than five days

• testicular injuries

• severe eye injuries

• signs or symptoms of appendicitis

How to Know

Where to Go When Your Child Needs Medical Attention

Emergency room visits are expensive and often time-consuming, but the ER is always the best option for life- or limb-threatening conditions. If you or someone in your care is experiencing difficulty breathing, signs of a stroke or heart attack, or a life-threatening injury, call 9-1-1 rather than driving to the nearest emergency room.

Urgent care

Urgent care centers have set hours that include evenings, weekends, and holidays, and most centers don’t require an appointment. They may offer X-ray and basic lab services. The purpose of urgent

care is to treat urgent but non-life-threatening medical conditions that arise during hours when your primary care provider is unavailable. Examples of conditions that are often treated in urgent care include:

• sprains and strains

• minor fractures

• rashes and skin irritations or infections

• minor cuts and abrasions

• mild to moderate asthma

• moderate back pain

• urinary tract infections

• ear infections

• sinus infections

• throat infections

• upper respiratory infections

• fever or suspected flu or COVID

• vomiting and diarrhea

• minor eye injuries

• foreign bodies in the nose, ear, eyes, or skin

• sexually transmitted infections testing

• fainting spells or syncope (brief loss of consciousness)

• allergic reactions

Urgent care centers are typically less expensive and quicker than visiting an emergency room. They may be staffed by physicians, nurse practitioners, or physician assistants. They provide a convenient and efficient option for after-hours illnesses and injuries or same-day appointments when your regular physician is unavailable. However, it’s

important to remember that urgent care is designed to supplement rather than to replace your primary care provider.

Primary care

Primary care providers are set up to function as the hub of your healthcare. They are typically open regular business hours and provide preventive as well as routine health care for you and your family. Their goal is to help patients by providing comprehensive care, disease prevention, and diagnosis of acute and chronic illnesses, medication management, and patient education. Your PCP partners with you on an ongoing basis as you navigate the health care system. If you can schedule an appointment and be seen by your PCP, they are the best choice of care for non-life-threatening conditions because they know you and your medical history.

Examples of primary care offerings:

• physicals and annual exams

• preventive care

• prescription management and refills

• vaccinations

• disease management (diabetes, asthma, heart disease, etc.)

• nutritional counseling

• referrals to specialists

• treatment of minor illnesses and injuries during open hours

Primary care, urgent care, and emergency care are designed to work in tandem with each other to ensure that you have access to appropriate, quality health care wherever and whenever you need it.

For more information visit www.afterhourspediatrics.com.

Miguel Argumosa, DMD, Erin M. Taylor, DMD, Nicole Eastham, DMD Sarah Vanderbosch, DMD

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Destination: Cité de Carcassonne

Areal medieval castle, a stone-walled fortress with watchtowers, ramparts, secret passages – and if the tales are true, the lingering ghosts of murderous invaders, crusaders, and courageous defenders: It’s all the stuff of a certain young boy’s fantasy. He’s dreamed of seeing such a place for just about forever, and this year he finally made it. It did take just about forever (half a century, in fact) but that grown-up boy finally got to climb to the top of those towers and walk those ramparts. And not just any castle, but an entire 12th century fortress, the most spectacular in all of Europe, still guarding the chateau within.

The place is the medieval Cité de Carcassonne at the edge of the Pyrenees, where southwestern France meets the northeast border of Spain. There, for more than 2,000 years, knights prepared for battle and archers defended towering ramparts. A viscount battled it out with the King of France, and Prince Edward burned down La Bastide Saint-Louis in the lower town below. In the darkest years of the Spanish Inquisition, the Catholic Church massacred “heretics.” Before that – waaaay before that – Visigoths, Saracens, and Romans engaged in brutal wars in the name of religion, power, and greed. In peaceful times, walls were rebuilt and minstrels serenaded in the streets. After destruction, refortification, destruction, and refortification, what possibly could be left? Nothing less than the best movie set ever (think Kevin Costner as Robin Hood catapulting over the fortress wall), and a young boy’s dream come true.

The low seasons of spring and fall are wonderful times to explore the chateau and all its secrets. Summer is for families (and, therefore, crowds), but that’s when the most colorful medieval happenings take place within the Cité walls. Knights, jesters, jugglers, and troubadours roam around and lounge against the thick stone walls to entertain and enchant passersby. A little girl wearing a medieval jeweled headdress with flowing veil may have just graduated from the Headdress and Medieval Dances Workshop. In the Heraldic Workshop, families create personal coats of arms on wooden shields. In the Knight’s Journey Workshop, kids learn secrets of strength and valor in battle (yes, of course, there are swords) and are dubbed knights of the realm.

Lady Carcas

Visitors may observe the Saracen princess, Lady Carcas, in her medieval velvet gown, explaining how she singlehandedly saved the citadel from a six-year siege by Charlemagne. With her soldiers dying of disease and the villagers starving, she cleverly fattened up a skinny pig with the town’s last sheaf of wheat and tossed it from the highest tower. Charlemagne, assuming that with enough food to waste on a pig, the Cité could not be conquered, withdrew. Lady Carcas called for the sounding of all the church bells, leading to the phrase Carcas sonne! (“Carcas rings”), and the name stuck.

Charlemagne may or may not have sieged the castle, and Lady Carcas may or may not have existed. Nevertheless, her stone image still presides over the castle’s Narbonnaisse Gate.

Total immersion!

Put on your headset for the new adrenaline-pumping 360-degree virtual reality passage through the Cité’s 2,000-year history. With constant sieges and battles, it’s fraught with danger, so watch out – not just ahead or left and right, because an attack may come from above or behind. Arrows whiz by, and worse – a boulder may come right down on your head from the murder hole above. After this “heady” experience, you’ll be properly psyched to pass through the chateau gates with the eyes of an insider.

Carcassonne is an hour from Toulouse by train. There’s no admission to stroll the mile-long pathways between the fortifications and the twisty cobblestone alleys packed with souvenir shops, cafes, and tourist attractions. There’s a narrated horse and carriage tour, guided walking tours, and even an Inquisition museum. The centerpiece, though, is Chateau Comtal (Count’s Castle), where you can walk its parapets, look out for invaders through narrow arrowslits and murder holes, and ascend nine of the citadel’s 52 towers, including 200 stone steps to the highest one. The $10 admission is worth twice the price. That grown-up little boy with the 50-year fantasy decreed it so.

Stay in Toulouse: Family-friendly Pullman Toulouse Centre Ramblas is a 5-minute walk to the train station. Visit www.tourisme-carcassonne.fr.

Photos, facing page left: The view through an arrowslit from atop the parapets in Cité de Carcassonne. Photo by Karen T. Bartlett. Facing page right: Lady Carcas shares shocking castle secrets on a popular tour Photo by JuPhotography – OMT Carcassonne Top: Families create their personal coats of arms in the Heraldic Workshop. Photo courtesy of Office Municipal de Tourisme de Carcassonne. Center: Kids (and grown-ups) are wowed by the visitor center’s new virtual reality experience. Photo courtesy of Office Municipal de Tourisme de Carcassonne

Bottom: Stacy Nicolau (right), Neapolitan Family co-publisher, with daughter Julia at Carcassonne in 2022. Photo courtesy of Stacy Nicolau

It’s Bucket List Time!

Visit castles, wash elephants, horseback ride on the beach,snowboard, and more without leaving Florida

It’s the beginning of summer vacation and the long days in the heat seem to stretch endlessly before us. But it’s just nine weeks until the kids are back in school, and by then it is too late to say, “I should have done more this summer.” That’s why now is the time to make that bucket list and start checking off the items throughout the summer.

Want to head to the southern hemisphere and enjoy some cold weather or snow, or head to Europe and explore some castles? That may not be in the budget for everyone. But did you know that you can do those things right here in Florida?

Probably the most unusual thing you can add to your Florida summer bucket list is learning to ski. Head to Snowcat Ridge in Dade City or the WinterClub Indoor Ski and Snowboard facility in Winter Park to participate in a range of winter sports.

Solomon’s Castle

The castles of Europe are alluring (as proven by Travel Editor Karen T. Bartlett on pages 22-23), but so are the castles of Florida. Solomon’s Castle, tucked away in the woods near Ona, is made out of aluminum printing plates discarded by a local newspaper. The castle, created by sculptor Howard Solomon, has more than 80 interpretive stained glass windows and countless metal sculptures. In 1974, Solomon began building the 60-foot-

Decades before Solomon began building his castle, there was another eccentric man building one in Homestead. From 1923 to 1951 Edward Leedskalnin singlehandedly and secretly carved more than 1,100 tons of coral rock to create Coral Castle.

Elephants

If you head to Thailand or Vietnam you can interact and bathe the elephants. But you can also add it to your summer bucket list and never leave Florida. At the Myakka Elephant Ranch guests bathe the elephants and then give them their favorite treats.

Horses on the beach

The Ring of Kerry in Ireland is famous for its horseback riding on the beach. But you only have to head as far as Bradenton if you want to put that experience on your summer wish list. C Ponies provides guests with the opportunity to ride horses on the beach and even in the waters of Palma Sola Bay.

Cool off

The Gulf of Mexico is like a bathtub as water temperatures soar into the low to mid 90s. You might want to head north for a dip in a cool lake, but if your bucket list is curtailed to Florida, you can still get that shock of cooler water at many Florida springs where the yearround water temperature is 72-73 degrees. And while there is no white-water rafting, there is the slower, more relaxing version of tubing.

Float down the river at Ichetucknee Springs where you can bring your own tube or rent some at the park. You glide under a canopy of trees for about an hour before hopping on a tram or hiking back

to the parking lot. There also is tubing at Rainbow Springs in Dunnellon. Smaller tubing spots in Florida include Blue Springs State Park in Orange City, Madison Blue Springs State Park between Jacksonville and Tallahassee, Rock Springs Run at Kelly Park near Apopka, Ginnie Springs in High Springs near Gainesville, Gilchrist Blue Springs State Park near High Springs, and Blackwater River State Park near Holt in the Florida Panhandle.

The art world

Do you want to see work from artists around the world, but can’t afford the time or money to head to various countries? Then add Wynwood Walls to your bucket list and travel only as far as Miami, where 35,000 square feet of walls have been painted by 100 artists from 21 countries. These artists used more than 75,000 gallons of paint and 100,000 spray cans to create this unusual art attraction.

From A-Z

Bucket list items don’t have to be grand, and they don’t have to mean a long car or plane ride. There’s a lot to add right here in Southwest Florida. Kristen Anselmo has been doing an A-Z summer with her children since her first was a year old. Back then she did all the planning, but now her son is 11 and her twins are 8 so they help with the summer of fun. The family starts with the letter A and each day does an activity relating to a letter of the alphabet.

“So for A they got to hold an alligator,” Anselmo explained, at Wooten’s Airboat Tours.

One the family’s favorite letters was H, when they went horseback riding at M&H Stables. The kids also enjoyed the letter S, when they booked a hotel room on Fifth Avenue and had a sleepover with their cousins. “It was super cheap in the

in Bonita Springs and F for fiesta, a meal at Mr. Tequila, and I for ice cream at Royal Scoop. One year their bucket list had B for Naples Botanical Garden. The next year B meant a trip to the BMX track in Golden Gate. They also try to find some inexpensive things to put on their list such as P for pool. It was just $2 each for the pool at Eagle Lakes Park. P for playground at Cambier Park was free, as well as L for library. H for heron led them to bird watching at Freedom Park. The family explored Everglades City when they got to the letter E one year. For X day, every year the kids don the same XL shirts imprinted with their high school graduation year and take a group photo. The family ended last summer with Z for ziplining, at Big Corkscrew Island Regional Park where they concluded their alphabet summer.

Each year, Anselmo preserves these precious memories by making a photobook of the pictures she takes during the family’s A-Z summers.

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Photos, facing page left: Solomon’s Castle in Ona. Photo by Andrea Stetson Center: Kristen Anselmo’s children and their cousins enjoy an A-Z summer of fun in Collier County. Each day they find an activity that starts with the next letter of the alphabet. Pictured here is H for horseback riding in Golden Gate. Photo courtesy of Kristen Anselmo

Above: Coral Castle near Miami. Photo by Andrea Stetson.

Snyder

One Rad Dad

In honor of Father’s Day, we are introducing a short series of articles that will run during the summer months. Each story will introduce us to a Rad Dad (title stolen from Rad Dad Hibachi, who you will meet below). For June, writer Anna Snyder talked to Michael Shapiro, owner and chef at Rad Dad Hibachi, which provides affordable, in-home hibachi full-service catering experiences.

Tell us about your family and your background.

Michael Shapiro: My wife and I grew up in Boca Raton, and we lived 5 miles away from each other when we were growing up. When I was in my 30s, I developed a passion for cooking and food. I decided to take a leap of faith – I left a comfortable job, and I gave it my everything to make it into the restaurant industry as a prep cook. An Italian restaurant hired me, and everyone there made a bet that I wouldn’t last three weeks.

I worked at that restaurant for ten months before learning of a new Benihana Japanese Steakhouse opening a few miles away from my house. I applied and was hired on the spot for a position as a hibachi chef.

Describe your journey as a dad and its intersection with Rad Dad Hibachi. During my time at Benihana, I worked 60 hours a week. When my son was born, I cut back to 14 hours a week and essentially became a stay-at-home dad. My wife continued working as an air traffic controller,

and we eventually decided to move to Ave Maria. I knew work was likely going to be scarce and difficult. We bought a flat top grill and discussed how I could possibly make money on the side by cooking fried rice for the builders. We started dreaming about how I could offer the complete hibachi experience at people’s homes, and that is how Rad Dad was born.

What makes Rad Dad unique in the catering space?

I bring the complete hibachi experience to the comfort of people’s homes. When the pandemic started, people hesitated to go out to dinner and controlled, in-home dining experiences became even more popular. As a dad of two toddlers, I understand the struggle of going out to dinner with small children. I saw the opportunity in the marketplace of having a chef come to the comfort of families’ homes at an affordable, accessible price point.

How do you envision the future of Rad Dad Hibachi?

I want it to keep growing and expanding; I just want it to be successful. I originally viewed Rad Dad as a side project. To see how far it has come – to see my full calendar and the amount of clients I have – is such an amazing feeling.

What are some specific ways you balance your life as a dad with the demands of Rad Dad?

My kids and family have always been my number one priority, and my family has always come first. I’ve been a stay-at-

Michael Shapiro, owner of Rad Dad Hibachi, puts on a show at catering events across Southwest Florida. Photos courtesy of Michael Shapiro.

home dad for over four years now. My kids demand so much from me; parenting is a nonstop job. Bedtime is a moving target, so I usually get into a business mindset at some point between 8 and 10 p.m. – this is when I help my company grow, when I spend time building and perfecting it. It’s hard. I’m exhausted and burned out at times. I spend lots of time in the kitchen prepping for events. The food is the most important part of any dinner event, but I’m constantly in a mindset of how to prepare myself for the entertainment part of my job as well. Even if I provide an excellent meal, I’m nothing more than just a typical cook in a commercial kitchen without the entertainment hibachi meals offer. As I prepare for each individual party and balance the demands of being a dad and a husband, I try to always have a full charge ready for any moment.

In short, I have a system that I try to stick to with my family in order to accomplish what’s necessary for Rad Dad to work. It can be hard and exhausting at times, but the reward is greater than the challenges at any given moment.

What do you love most about Rad Dad Hibachi?

The thing I love most about my business is that it’s mine. My wife and I had the idea and created it together. There’s not one thing I don’t love about it, I have a profound passion for food, for cooking, and for serving others. As corny as it sounds, I like to make people happy with my food.

Tell us about your ideal Father’s Day.

I just want to spend the day without my kids – haha! I know other fathers of really young kids can relate! I love the ocean, and I love scuba diving, and I love any chance to get out on the water. My ideal day also includes cooking dinner at home.

Speaking of dinner at home, what’s your family’s favorite meal?

My wife and kids love pot roast along with braised vegetables and egg noodles. My wife always seems to be asking for fried rice.

Flat top hibachi-style grills are gaining popularity around the country. What guidance would you give to people looking to improve their skills?

It’s so important to season your food properly, or else it’s just bland with no flavor profile. To be great, food has to have lots of flavor.

What advice would you give to other

dads starting their own businesses?

Just go for it! If you can fail at something you don’t love, why not take risks with things you do love? My journey into the culinary world started by watching Gordon Ramsay and YouTube videos on how to do the most basic things. I started with nothing, learned from YouTube, and now, eight years later, I’m running a successful hibachi catering business. I’ve failed along the way, but I embrace my failures and use the emotions surrounding failures to push forward.

Is it challenging to enter into people’s homes in such an intimate, personal way?

I cooked at a party a few weeks ago, and the host commented on the deeply personal nature of going into strangers’ homes and both cooking for and entertaining them. I’m an extrovert at heart, and after so much experience as a hibachi chef, it has become easy to engage with strangers in a fun and inviting way. I still get butterflies occasionally.  But, I’ve also had a lot of fun and a lot of laughs – all thanks to every single client who has booked Rad Dad Hibachi!  Without them, Rad Dad Hibachi wouldn’t be what it is today; I am so grateful.

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By Scott Hamblen, Chief Operating Officer, Sunshine Ace

Prepare Your Home and Family for Hurricane Season Now

Last year, Hurricane Ian caught many Southwest Floridians off guard. Truth be told, we had plenty of opportunities to prepare, starting in the spring when forecasters began releasing predictions calling for an above-average tropical season. Florida’s Disaster Preparedness Sales Tax Holiday gave us a chance to stock up on hurricane supplies. Then, the media used June 1, the start of hurricane season, to remind us about hurricane preparation.

When the National Hurricane Center issued its first five-day forecast cone in advance of Ian, Southwest Florida was directly in the center. The storm’s path fluctuated over the next few days, but we had our warning. Then, Ian unraveled and

brought unprecedented storm surge, torrential rain, and devastating winds.

“From Charley and Wilma to Irma and Ian, Southwest Florida seems to be a target for storms,” said Michael Wynn, president of Sunshine Ace Hardware, which operates locations across Southwest Florida that are stocked with hurricane supplies. “Although forecasters are calling for fewer hurricanes in 2023, last year proved it only takes one storm to change lives and change a community. That’s why it is so important to prepare for hurricane season, whether you’re a lifelong Neapolitan or new to Southwest Florida.”

Here is a guide to help prepare your home and family for hurricane season.

Preparing your home

• Cordless drill and drill bits. Hanging hurricane shutters with a screwdriver or hand tools is hard work and time consuming. Use a cordless drill to speed up the process. Remember to recharge batteries so your drill is ready to remove shutters once the storm passes.

• Wingnuts. Newer homes typically have hurricane shutter fasteners built into the structure. However, it’s easy to misplace the wingnuts used to lock shutters into place.

• Saw. Chainsaws made quick work of post-storm landscaping debris. Those not comfortable with such a powerful tool, though, can use a handsaw to cut fallen

limbs into manageable pieces and a rake to corral twigs and leaves.

• Generator. Most generators provide enough power for a portable A/C unit, refrigerator, and light, allowing a family to feel comfortable inside of a room when the power is out.

• Fuel . Purchase and fill multiple 5-gallon gas cans. You’ll need an ample supply of fuel to power a generator. If you have a gas grill, make sure the propane tank is full.

• Tarps. Roofs are built to withstand nature’s fury, but the combination of wind and rain during hurricanes can expose vulnerable areas of a roof structure. Duct tape and heavy items like bricks or tiles can keep tarps in place until a roofer arrives.

• Cleaning supplies . Wind-driven rain can push water through doors and windows that are not sealed and air-tight. Towels or paper towels, cleaning solutions, and a mop can expedite cleanup.

Preparing your family

• Grill. Use a gas or charcoal grill to cook meat and vegetables before they spoil. Make sure you have enough propane or charcoal in reserve.

• Food . Pack food with substance, like beef jerky, tuna, and granola bars, into sealable plastic containers. Make sure you have access to a traditional hand-cranked can opener. Restaurants and grocery stores might have limited service after a storm.

• Water. Buy a case or two of bottled water, along with gallon jugs. Fill up empty water bottles and containers with potable water.

• Cooler. Freezers and refrigerators will keep food cold only for a few hours after the power goes out. Invest in a premium brand of cooler, like Yeti, to protect your food supply.

• Light source . Lanterns can light up a room, while flashlights and candles offer enough light to see your way around the house. Have a wide selection of each.

• Power bank. Portable cell phone chargers are critical to keep you connected when the power fails. High-capacity chargers can power multiple devices at once.

• Battery-operated fan . Once the power fails, room temperatures heat quickly with no A/C. A portable fan keeps the breeze blowing and the body cool.

• Pet food. Keep at least a seven-day

Our Forecast: BE PREPARED

Our Forecast: BE PREPARED

❏ Ax, Hand Saw & Pruner

❏ Ax, Hand Saw & Pruner

❏ Batteries

❏ Batteries

❏ Bolts

❏ Bolts

❏ Brooms & Mops

❏ Brooms & Mops

❏ Caulking Gun / Caulk

❏ Caulking Gun / Caulk

❏ Chain Saw & Oil

❏ Chain Saw & Oil

❏ Cordless Drill & Battery Charger

❏ Cordless Drill & Battery Charger

❏ Corkscrew / Can Opener

❏ Corkscrew / Can Opener

❏ Disinfectants & Bleach

❏ Disinfectants & Bleach

❏ Duct Tape / Masking Tape

❏ Duct Tape / Masking Tape

❏ Fire Extinguisher

❏ Fire Extinguisher

❏ First Aid Kit

❏ First Aid Kit

❏ Flashlights

❏ Flashlights

❏ Full Propane Tanks

❏ Full Propane Tanks

❏ Generator & Oil

❏ Generator & Oil

❏ Gloves & Safety Goggles

❏ Gloves & Safety Goggles

❏ Grill or Camp Stove / Fuel / Lighter

❏ Grill or Camp Stove / Fuel / Lighter

❏ Heavy-Duty Extension Cords

❏ Heavy-Duty Extension Cords

❏ Heavy Tarps & Plastic

❏ Heavy Tarps & Plastic

❏ Ice & Cooler

❏ Ice & Cooler

❏ Lanterns & Fuel

❏ Lanterns & Fuel

❏ Pails & Buckets

❏ Pails & Buckets

❏ Paper Plates / Paper Towels

❏ Paper Plates / Paper Towels

❏ Pet Supplies (food, water, cage or carrier)

❏ Pet Supplies (food, water, cage or carrier)

❏ Radio / TV (battery-powered)

❏ Radio / TV (battery-powered)

❏ Rope

❏ Rope

❏ Shovels & Rakes

❏ Shovels & Rakes

❏ Storm Panels & Hardware

❏ Storm Panels & Hardware

❏ Tie-Downs & Bungee Cords

❏ Tie-Downs & Bungee Cords

❏ Extra Mooring & Dock Lines

❏ Extra Mooring & Dock Lines

❏ Trash Bags

❏ Trash Bags

❏ Water (at least 1 gallon for person for 3-7 days)

❏ Water (at least 1 gallon for person for 3-7 days)

❏ Water Storage Containers

❏ Water Storage Containers

❏ Wheelbarrow

❏ Wheelbarrow

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food supply for pets, and enough treats and toys to occupy stave off boredom. Fallen debris and standing water might interrupt their normal exercise routine. Waiting until Southwest Florida is within the forecast’s “cone of concern” is risky. Supplies may be limited, and lines may be long. Early preparation is the best way to guarantee your home and family will be prepared for the next storm.

Finally, pay attention to the local news as the storm nears. If an evacuation order is issued for your neighborhood, the safest thing for you and your family is to

leave until the storm has passed.

For more information, visit www. sunshineace.com.

Photo, facing page: Mother and daughter Elisa Olivares (pink shirt), 46, and Yoshe Garay, 15, comforted one another on Fort Myers Beach following the destruction wrought by Hurricane Ian. To view more photos by Lisette Morales McCabe that captured the despair and hope experienced by our community following the storm, visit https://neafamily.com, and click on Digital Issues for our November 2022 edition.